living alone diaries: just get up and do something for yourself
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- here's to those low functioning days where you're not sure how to pull yourself out of it. honestly? just get up. move. allow one foot to lead the other. and one more thing. when life gives you lemons, make matcha lemonade 😙
i hope your week is going amazing! take care all ways, always. enjoy! xo ❣️
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#motivation #livingalone #matcha
I have been struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts for years, mainly because of loneliness. I neglect to take care of myself and my home. Today, I came across one of your videos, I was inspired, and I managed to do my laundry. I am so proud of myself. Thank you. You're an inspiration
Honey that hair is giving everything it needs to give !!!!! I LOVE this look on you !
I've recently moved across country to the south from the west coast, and being far away from everyone and everything I know. I've practiced romanticizing my life for a while, just enjoying every moment, but there is something about living alone, decorating my own space, it's just a wonderful feeling. This series of yours is so satisfying to watch. I love it, don't stop anytime soon
I'm so confused by the doctors in the USA. The symptoms you described are consistent with endometriosis. It's a condition in which the inner lining of the womb (the part that sheds and is passed out as blood during our period) grows on areas outside the womb. It can grow on the intestines, the ovaries and some people even find endometrial tissue growing on their heart and lungs. So when your period occurs, those areas also bleed and shed but there's no place for them to exit through so they can form scar tissue and adhesions which adds to the pain, and depending on where the tissue grows, can hinder fertility (this isn't common though).
However, endo cannot be diagnosed via ultrasound, the only method of diagnosis is a laparoscopy (a minor abdominal surgery done where they make small cuts and insert cameras to see what's going on inside). The tissue can then be removed surgically, depending on the degree of infiltration and the skill of the surgeon. But they can grow back, and it's not known what actually causes endo. I'm a doctor in a third world country and I suffer from endometriosis. But it seems like in the USA, doctors are reluctant to entertain that diagnosis for some reason. I always see women complaining about taking years to receive diagnosis and treatment despite enduring chronic, life-altering pain. It's so odd bc y'all are supposed to have one of the most advanced health care systems in the WORLD.
Ps- the symptoms can also be attributed to hormonal imbalance, so if you haven't already, you should get your hormone levels checked!
So true. What Amani describes sounds like it could very well be endo. Ultrasound scans won't see it. I suffered with horrible pain due to endometriosis for nearly a decade. I had an endoscopy, colonoscopy, MRI, ultrasounds and countless other lab work done. It wasn't until I sought out a Black woman gynecologist earlier this year that I finally got a diagnosis. I told many doctors before that I thought it was endo but they all tried to convince me that painful periods were normal, despite all of the other symptoms. It's a shame that our pain is not taken seriously and that there isn't more research done on endo. So many women are suffering in silence.
My doctor found some endo tissue during my laparoscopic myomectomy. I had that and 8 fibroids removed. No more scented body washes or scented lotions for me. Fragrance free has been a game changer.
@@starrjohnson1327can you recommend fragrance free soaps/body wash & lotion?
@@starrjohnson1327do scented things cause endometriosis?
You are a whole atmosphere! And it feels so good to watch your lifestyle. Thanks for sharing you !!! I pray for your hearts desire.❤
New subscriber here. I love your aesthetic, I like the ding when the settings change😂 I just love it all and I’m here to stay!
Everything about you I really like. Your style, your hair, your decor, your glassware and your taste buds 😊. Really enjoyed this Sunday upload. Take care see you next Sunday.
Right 🔥
Your videos make me feel so peaceful.
Amaniiii ur hair is actually beautiful. Girl from the wet curls to the actual blowout? Hair goals!!
The thing I love about your channel is how realistic these videos are. Some of these UA-camrs are too Commercialize, it’s Obvious it’s staged. I feel like we are best friends when I watch your videos 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Whew this title was needed for me. As someone who still lives at home with my parents as the now eldest in the house I feel like I lways out everyone's needs above my own. Trying to make sure I still help out alot but I'm putting myself on the back burner.
A great way to start my Sunday morning 👍🏾. Have a blessed day.
i hope you have an amazing sunday!!! 💗
Girl the wand curls and glasses combo is giving Oprah Winfrey 😂❤
girrrrrlll the DOOOOR 🚪🤣 don’t play with me 🤣🤣🤣
@@AmaniRakeia lmaoooo
😂😂 lol
Uh uh! Nawl! Not Oprah!
Oprah has beautiful hair
We sound so similar. I had the same issues, cut out the added sugar and dairy if you consume. Use pure monk fruit for your matcha to sweeten and start taking a probiotic daily. These few things were a game changer. Also get a squatty potty. My cycle and bowel has been normal since 2018, thank me later. I use to buy all the teas and pills trying to find a solution but what I needed was to cut things out.
Probiotic and removing sugar will help 👍🏽
We all should love our selves every day do the work listening to some Charlie Parker yessss!!!!
I also dealt with bad period pain. I gave up diary and i limit meat as i get closer to my cycle. I drink red raspberry tea during and leading up to my period. This has made a huge difference for me.
Sounds like endometriosis. The endo diet helps me
Definitely heard that works
I always try to eat as many raw fruits and veggies before my period (ideally the week before) absolutely no meat or dairy. Thank me later 🥰✨
i love your hair soo muchyyy . Natural beauty . You look cute and adorable
Hey Amani, flaxseed,powder that you put on the yogurt really made a difference for me, less gluten, pasta, bread, rice. Higher on brocolis. Tumeric, carrot, ginger juice several times a week too
yea i think i just found my new favorite youtuber! you’re a matcha lover like myself & your vibes are immaculatee 🍵🌟🦋
Hey honey bunches hi 👋🏽 it’s been my pleasure to always come back and be a part of the video. I’m extremely proud of you for keep pushing through give us all something to get through life. Thank you for sharing another beautiful home alone diaries always, Linda💙♍️.👩🏽🏡👍🏾❤️😍pushin through as well your honey bunches to 😊😊
I had a long weekend off, so I booked a bus trip to Nairobi this weekend. I was there for 4 days. Nairobi was fabulous and YES, we must make time for ourselves everyday. Even if its just taking a walk or turning on your music and dance in the shower befor your day starts.
I love the music in your videos guuuurlll… your attitude and style like wow!!! Could you please do a vid regarding your work (what are your daily tasks , how much earns someone working independently like you)? Luv from Sweden ❤
Amani giiiiiirl!!! Your vlog is amazing!!! ❤😊 beautifully shot and edited. I love how you are self aware you are and actually 'picking yourself up',very proud of you.
I just found your channel and Im so happy! ❤
I love this editing style. Subscribed!
let me just say I love your hair like this! Definitely gives SZA vibes 😍🩷
I needed this. I’ve been feeling down a little lately so this is motivation for me
You have beautiful hair. thanks for the video. You are inspiring.
Another great video for the soul. You are my favorite on UA-cam. Have a wonderful Sunday!!!!❤️🙏🔐
Your vlog was set up so beautifully.
Your music choice is 🔥 I need the playlist sis! The mashups and all
Ya ya my Sunday is lit and complete 🎉
we uppp baby girrrrrl!!!
Right 🔥
It could be the hair causing the acne from rubbing on your face. My locs would sometimes do that to me.
I’ve been having the same breakouts and realized it’s from my gel/edge control. The acne is right around the skin along my hairline. I tried changing out skin care products, make up etc. All along it was my curly hair gel like products. 😑 I workout a lot and I think the sweat was moving the products onto my face and clogging my pores. Might be something to consider!
Good day, logging in from the Caribbean where are you girl I miss you, come on girl lets do this thing, need the vlogs ☺☺☺☺☺
Your home is so beautiful and serene. Makes me miss having my own!
Yes girl keep us posted on how that works for your menstrual cycle. I hope you get a lot of relief.
Love your hair by the way.
How’s the NYC Apt hunt going? Chile the rent out here in nyc is crazy.
Girl I have been here waiting for an upload from you for a month. Going through my subscriptions like a mad women come to find out UA-cam isn’t showing me your new uploads 😮. I’m annoyed but yet so excited to binge! 😂🤪🙌🏾. Love the content sis 🫶🏾
Girl, your hair is on 10!!!! You're super brave to do that style in this southern heat & humidity!
I also have a Nama J2 I bought in 2022 and yes, it's been a game changer! I work in a middle school and drink 8 oz of juice most mornings. I did not get one iota of sickness all year--for the first time in my 20 years of being an educator!
I've never juiced lemon peels. I'm going to try that with my next batch.
Thanks for another great, well-edited video!
The hair came out fabulous!
Just came across your channel today and let me say I just love your content! Keep up the great work!!
Hey Amani. Love your videos. You have such a great eye for detail that keeps me coming back every time.
📢Unsolicited advice coming through 📢
when washing your hair with shampoo, section your hair and put it in twists so that it is easier to access your scalp since shampoo is meant for the scalp only. It helped me so much when I started to do this
I mentioned this b4....I know its ol skool but pleaseeeee try taking 2 tablespoons of Milk of Magnesia BEFORE bed will help immediately. No cramps, pain etc. It will start to regulate ur movements and bye bye tummy bloating. 🤗 The wand curls are 🔥.
Agreed….Also amazing to matte ur t zone and get rid of acne.
So love the wand curls & no ma’am natural hair care isn’t for the weak. ❤❤❤
I had HORRIBLE menstrual cycles too with all that you described except for losing consciousness. It ended up being endometriosis which can not be picked up via scans, only via laparoscopic surgery. It's an outpatient surgery with mild recovery. Endo suchs but now i can properly treat what I have. Maybe bring this up to your GYN.
Yesss to the natural herb store 🔥🔥
Your videos do so much for me ugghhh, thank you gorgeous ❤️
Just what I needed to lift my spirits❤
awww this made me smile 🥹💗
You have a beautiful head of hair!!I love it!❤❤❤
loving the curls 😍😍 missed them on you & also the QUALITY is givinnngg
9:07 You girls were so funny. That car was acting like he was ridin’ dirty 😂
Love the natural hair style. Im laughing over here because blow drying your hair is alot of work, 😂, Love the fact that you are trying new healthy things, it makes a difference, in every area of tour life. Stay stong💜💜
For facial health try carrot juice and make a mask of mango fruit. Use the meat of the mango and rub the remainder of the fruit in your hair for conditioner. Try to get organic mango.
Just what I needed! have a great Sunday beautiful🫶🏾🤎
i hope you enjoy my girl!!! have an amaziiiing sunday!! 💗💗
Hello Beautiful Lady Amani 👑 Love your hair and your drinks. So enjoyed the video/vlog. Take care & God's Blessings to you. 💖
Amani,,, Amani,,, you’re a vibe! I really appreciate every moment of your videos. You’re inspiring! Thank you for sharing your journey 🌹
Hope you feel better soon and find the solution to your cycle. I put those Justin chocolate cups in my grocery cart. I love that drink! I really like matcha and would like to drink it regularly. If you can post details on that and the lavender honey, please!🙏🏽🤍
Yes definitely enjoy your content, please keep us updated on the womb detox!!!
Heyyy Girl Hey❤ Happy Sunday tuned in. I must try that Matcha lavender, lemonade, drink, pronto😊
This was sooo nice to watch ! I love this era for you thank you for sharing !
8:30 not the bestie mocking you 😅. She has obviously heard this spill one too many times 😁
I drink half gallon of water with lemon slices. Also taking hair, skin, nails supplement. I know you don’t need help with your hair but it works for skin acne.
The key is drinking at least 8 glasses of water.
Lemon is the perfect detox and it’s known to clear any skin issues.
Minimize sugar intake it irritates acne
Hun you got an Ol girl Loving some Jazz in the mornings .. it truly helps me have a clear mind ..dear dear Amani...✨✨🙌🏾🙌🏾💕
The wand curls look great on you!
Love your vlogs!! 🥰
Liking before i watch,all the way in South Africa
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I agree. Love my Nama. Have a white one too. And your hair is nice. Love that look.
Solange - Cranes in the Sky is my cry music ❤
Heyyy Amani
Hooray 😄🙌🏾
Happy Sunday 😊
How was your week?
So happy you posted 🥰👏🏾
Love you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
happy sunday!! i'm currently spending time with family and it's been the perfect reset that i needed! my week has been great!! 💗💗
I just stopped by to say I really miss you and I hope that you are well. Its been a minute
I really enjoyed this video todayyyy ☺️... it was cute, fun and all the lil vibes I needed. Side note: Might try this matcha drink but all them lemon peels had me like 😮😩 😅😂
Baaaaaaby your curl pattern is everything
i’m so in love with the content! keep it up mamas!!
I love brooke miccio!
Loved your wand curls!! How do you preserve them overnight??
Thank you for sharing. Looks lovely. Stay blessed.
You’re so beautiful and hella inspiring. Thanks for sharing.💕
Love the transparency in your videos ❤
Senna definitely works every time. Just make sure you’re not going anywhere so night time may be better. 😅.
I love you pictures that are behind your bed! Where did you get them from?
Hi Amani! Loved the vlog. I hope your seeing results and feeling better. 🫶🏾
You are so beautiful 😍 love the luxurious life
yeah girl u gotta heal your gut
Yes, I been waiting for the Sunday upload ❤
we baaaaaaaaackkkkk!! 🫶🏾
Can you please start listening the music you put in your videos? I love it
Hi gurrrl❤looking cute nd fresh as always..just dropping by to pour some loveee 😊😊
I love your hair. You dhould wear it out more often. ❤ where did you buy the cashew butter cups from? They look so good .
from whole foods!! ❤
Love your content and aesthetic! Wish you spoke more to the camera vs the mirror in ur intro tho ❤️
Hey Amani, what were the results from the drink for your cramps ? Thanks
The quality 👌 I enjoyed the vlog ❤❤
I love your videos classy lady🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾no to the sage burning.
Do you have the link for the tea?
Can you please tag the name of the menstrual liquid that you bought ? Thank you ❤
Just what I needed to push me to LOVE on myself today...💚🙏🏾💛🫶🏾🩷
Real ass comment ❤
As you try the health remedies, for intestinal issues, lets pray for good health. 😊
Hi lovely!! What is the name of the song playing while you’re doing your hair?? I love it!
I enjoyed the full video.😁
Just what I needed 🎉
this makes me so happy to hear!! i hope you enjoy 💗
My fav UA-camr❤❤ I love you cuz you always remind me to love on myself
Never miss a Amani Rakeia Video!!!!!
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I see u working the hands. ❤