Listen Poki, ain't no mountain high Ain't no valley low, ain't no river wide enough Poki If you need me call me no matter where you are No matter how far, don't worry Poki Just call my name I'll be there in a hurry You don't have to worry
I did not even catch that during the question and answers. That is hilarious! It just goes to show maybe you should watch Jun and Rachel’s videos more than one time!
What the poster meant was whether cats needed to be 'microchipped' in Japan. While not compulsory, it's very recommended to keep your cats microchipped because they can be found more easily in case they ever get lost.
It was pretty heartbreaking to hear how Rachel was treated (I hadn't heard the story about the surprise gift until now). She shouldn't have been put into a position where she had to explain things at all.
Yeah... like OMG... when Rachel was talking about how much she cried after she felt like she ruined Jun's video... I vaguely remember seeing loads of people say that she seems ungrateful, I'm actually so sad I didn't speak up and say something now. Of course we can't speak for others and I didn't know about her mental health issues, but still, damn... even if she didn't like the surprise or didn't LOOK like she liked it, I wouldn't have had a problem with her not being overtly ecstatic over presents, some people are just kind of stoic like that even if they are super happy.
yea i had no idea, and i never judged her reaction in the first place, but does go to show how ignorant people can be on the internet. rachel didn’t owe us an explanation at all. its messed up, but with “fame” everyones always got something bad to say. it was literally a cooking video and people found something to criticize them about.
This was so upsetting. I remember that video and at the time I thought she just didn't feel well (like health wise). Her energy was just kinda low compared to her usual bubbly personality. I had no idea people were so mean to her about it!! Jeez. Being judged for a few out of context seconds of video?? Folks need to calm down.
This is real life. I'm glad she's able to put it in words and keep everyone in check. Because us as viewers we dont see behind the scenes or the cost that comes with making beautiful videos. Financial emotional and the time. 😁🥰🥰🥰🥰
Imagine people being upset that they have sponsorships. Like the content is free and they have bills, if you want content they need to make a living somehow. Much love guys keep doing what ur doing!
They having been said, I like how they're not just money-grabbing any random thing thrown their way. Mad respect that they look into the companies for sponsorship and for merch.
Rachel talking about her depression and anxiety was really eye opening and an important reminder to people that you never know what is going on behind the scenes. People being angry at her for her reaction to jun's surprise must have been so awful for her. From our perspective Rachel & Jun seem to have this perfect idealic life and relationship but the fact that Rachel was feeling like theres no point to existence at some point, just goes to show you can never understand what someone is going through from just seeing their public personas. She also isn't obligated to tell everyone what she is personally going through but was brave enough to give us a little insight here. So please remember that you don't know what people are going through and be patient & kind
Seconded. Rachel, thank you for sharing (and for your support, Jun). I almost started crying when you were talking about your downward spiral (which is amazing because my own brand of depression leaves me emotionally numb). And to all the negative Nancies in the comments, I understand that sometimes we get upset on someone else's behalf. That's okay, because empathy leads to compassion, right? You were feeling hurt for Jun. However, as stated above...we really don't know what goes on behind-the-scenes. That said, rather than using the comment section to vent negative feelings and thoughts based on incomplete knowledge, let's try to lift one another up instead, yeah?
Well...everyone is weird. What is normal? People cope with their emotions differently. And actions aren't always a true reflection of emotions. Anyway, that's subjective. What is a true reflection of emotion? Your truth might be different from another's truth since we learn those reflections as we grow. Maybe Jun's actions aren't how some would have reacted, but I recognise this type reaction. Also his actions on-camera might/probably aren't the same as they would be off-.
@@strongerthaneverph I don’t think you meant it in a horrible way but calling his actions weird comes across a bit tone deaf considering the main comment here is talking about not judging someone for a fraction of their behaviour that you see online.
@@hauwley I don't understand what's so hard about saying you don't want kids though. It's a simple question, people ask it because generally everyone does want kids, so it's a departure from the norm to not have them. It's not like people asking are saying there's anything wrong with them not having kids. Rachel went on a tangent about women only being for childbearing but the comment didn't say anything about that.
@@toperishtwice The comment was rude, it did say having too many cats was sad. We never know what other people are going through and don't want to talk about. Maybe they want kids some day, maybe they don't, maybe they have fertility issues, who knows. It's normal to wonder but some people are too pushy and rude.
Imagine having the audacity to ask complete strangers about their family planning while simultaneously insinuating that having pets is weird in any way? The nerve of some people.
Story of my life really. I've just entered my thirties and I still have no husband(or boyfriend no less) and people are worried about that. Like...first of all, my lifestyle is none of you business. Secondly, I'm ace and have no inkling for romance or sex. And lastly, as long as I can take care of myself, I need no man to do it for me and no kids to make me feel accomplished. But if others want that, that's cool. I'm just happy being single and a proud cat mama uwu
Honestly! Like would you are someone directly about their uterus or testicles and what they want to do with them cause that's pretty much what you're doing and it's awkward as hell.
"We're going to accept more sponsporships." YES. DO IT. We'll understand your saving up for important things! I'll help by just letting every ad play on your vids
@Kook no, don't do that, it actually hurts their ability to get recommended and get on top of search results if a lot of people did not watch a lot of the video
Same...as long as it's not like 30-58 mins long ads (yep saw one of those once and I was like thank god for the skip button because it's not like I didn't come on here to watch something for 20 mins or so just to watch something that's longer and I'm not interested in).
Rachel: *is enjoying married life doing all the things she's ever wanted, doesn't need children to fill a "void"* Comments: YOU ARE USING CATS TO FILL YOUR BARREN WOMB YOU CHILDLESS WENCH Rachel: nono- Jun: *smooshes face into cat* mmmmm cat
@@rachelrecycles369 that's kinda cruel, but understandable. Some people just need to learn to mind their own business 🤷♀️ they gotta understand being a woman doesn't mean you have to want a child
Damn, my perspective on some of the R&J fans changed a lot after watching this video. C'mon now guys, we can be better than this. Learn to be mindful on what you say as it really comes off the wrong way. Some comments are also blatantly disrespectful.
@@tjl4688 I doubt the people telling them this live in Japan or are actually thinking of Japan’s population crisis. In fact, most are probably not thinking much of it as they pressure strangers to adhere to their envisioned lifestyle.
@@tjl4688 No it's not... Not at all. In fact, Japan has one of the lowest birthrates because no one wants to have kids over there. A lot of younger people/families just want to focus on careers.
Agreed. Loving someone isn’t ONLY skinship. You can have deep conversations, rely on one another and simply just enjoy each others company in expressing your love. I feel that definition of being married or dating has become completely distorted this generation.
I read it as they talk about it between themselves, "I'll just let her share her feelings to everyone else in her own words uninterrupted." - and in that setting, cuddle with the cats
I hope the fact that she brought it up in a FAQ and then dramatically didn't answer the question would send the hint to these people that they know some people are curious but they want to keep this part of their private lives private..... but somehow I doubt it.
I honestly think some fans are pickme bitches who are thirsty for Jun, because it seems like the negative and rude comments are always people trying to undermine Rachel's confidence or question her position as a wife. They are jealous.
I love how some people's comments are so rudely thrown out there and Rachel and Jun are just so chill answering respectfully. That talks a LOT about who you are. :)
I think the “owning too many cats replacing children/become sad” comment is bit offensive, there are people who prefer not to have children, which should be okay.
I agree that it's rude, and it's extremely none of their business. No one owes anyone an explanation for why they do or don't have kids or how pets may factor into that.
Some people dont want kids, but there are many people that would like to have them but cant. When you dont earn enough its not possible. I know that there are parents out there that think "even though we dont earn much it is gonna work." No, its not!
It’s also incredibly insensitive. What if they have been trying for years and it just hasn’t happened? Regardless, it’s very hurtful and shouldn’t be brought up.
Yeah. I was listening to this in the background and multiple times I had to pause the video and rewind it because surely I didn’t hear that right. Especially the cat and child question! I found that one extremely rude!! I feel bad that they have to deal with this sometimes.
It’s funny because as a natural redhead myself, my eyebrows are quite a bit darker than my hair color so I felt that look. My hair is an auburn red and my eyebrows are straight up dark brown. No idea why but that’s always been the case!
Jun speaks English beautifully, pronounces words correctly, and appears comfortable in front of the camera. That doesn't mean that Rachel is "stealing his thunder", she is naturally more bubbly in general when she isn't having a tough day. Jun is perfectly eloquent, but so is Rachel.
It's that old "Women should just be quiet," misogynist trope. My husband is quiet too- he's an introvert. We function just fine together. He talks when he feels like it. He likes my stories. I like his, too. I talk more in public situations. He talks more in private, when he feels like opening up.
I think Rachel overtalks most of the time. I wish she had given more floor to Jun. As much as I like their videos, I have seen Rachel being very disrespectful and unappreciative towards Jun. My Japanese friend says that Rachel is passive aggressive and yes, I can see that.
rachel is talking about how people missjudged her based on a small reaction an a youtube video, meanwhile people in this comment section judging jun for his reaction to her talking about this.... lmao just enjoy their videos and stop assuming things
People don't understand that this couple are real people who can't always be at their 100%, just because they usually try to show their best sides for the camera. They probably expected Jun to be more supportive and engaged instead of turning away from the topic to play with cats, but you could tell he was doing that specifically because it was hard for him to listen to his wife describe her ordeal and was trying not to be upset on camera as he probably relived some of those dark moments. You would think people would have picked up on that especially after how they talked about how this video is basically improv, and at one point he seems to wipe away a tear. People are just terrible.
I was surprised to hear people reacted poorly to her reaction on that video. They probably don't know Rachel (maybe they only watch Jun's channel) but that's still no excuse to hate on someone. When I heard her say, "what is it?" in Jun's video, I laughed because I would've reacted the same way, especially knowing now that Jun told her that it was food. Like even without knowing the situation, they could've thought "oh, maybe she's awkward in front of the camera" or "she showed her appreciation off camera". Why people just jumped to bashing her is so upsetting and baffling.
I assumed she was very tired when she asked, "What is it?" I didn't assume the worse and didn't bash. I wish people weren't so judgemental or would stop and think before posting harsh comments.
why the hell do people assume *you're* "not letting" Jun talk? Wth lol he's a grown adult and you're not holding a knife to his throat... you're not even interrupting him 🤦
people are so rude and condescending. Rachel and Jun are literally the most unproblematic couple there is, just have some respect. stop asking ridiculous questions about babies or Jun is just quieter.
@@Kattzal yes, all of them are great! Who are your fav couple you'd want me to check? My recent find is nic &cheese, they're not unproblematic, but so fun! If anyone want to suggest me, i'm open to all kinds of couple as long as in english/ has english subtitle, thanks!
Probably to comfort/distract the cats? They're pretty sensitive to the change in their owner's moods so Jun was trying to keep Haku and Poki calm so Rachel didn't feel bad about talking about her experiences.
"Owning that many cats must be sad after a while" Me: looks at my five year plan Five year plan: GET 30 CATS AND MAKE THEIR NAMES RHIME... and maybe a dog AND 30 CATS! (Really this is my dream)
Beware of the parable of Ishkabibble. Never name your cat anything you would be embarrassed to have your neighbors hear you screaming at 3am after your cat decided to escape to explore the great outdoors.
I'm so glad that Rachel has been prioritising her health first, and that's been the reason why the main channel has been quieter. Let's be real: this year has been a b*tch, and depression just compounds all of what's going on in the world to make things worse. Massive love to you both; we'll see you when we see you.
Just a small reminder to some who don't seem to remember, but like all youtubers, Rachel and Jun are real people! They deserve your respect and have the same right to privacy that everyone does.
What’s funny is that Poki’s meow also sounds like a ‘No...’ and was said a bit earlier than Rachel but it sounded almost like they said it at the same time
"yOuR eYeBrOwS aRe ToO dArK" Rachel: *comes back with eyebrows twice as dark and a just a little thicker, and then wears them the rest of the video* I loved it! lol but I really wish that she had thought to gradually add more and more eyebrow makeup until they were both so thick that they could be moustaches.
My heart broke hearing about Rachel's anxiety and depression during the "Presents for my wife's birthday" video. We all need to make an effort to judge less and appreciate more. Thank you Rachel for sharing ❤️
It’s like really people, aside from the “just don’t be a jerk” clause that should exist in your existence as a human package, The heck? UA-cam wasn’t a thing for most of us growing up, it wasn’t around when they were kids for sure! You are getting free entertainment from good people who care a hecking lot about you and the quality of the things they are advertising to their viewers. I mean Heck! Rachel took like 15 minutes to display every function of the merch shirts they made! Bleh... gonna say it because of what she said about fans being friends. Odds of me ever being in Japan are pretty slim but it’s safe to say many of us feel a kinship to you both, so it’s personally insulting that they be rude to you, cause you don’t get to be rude to my (pseudo internet) friends! XD (also have depression, also loves cooking, also enjoys fashion, and spending time outside... my red hair isn’t as natural as hers though haha) So yeah, you guys have friends here, we will try to bury the haters in hairballs
I don't want to psycho-analyze Jun so I will talk from personal experience: I usually try to distract myself whenever a person close to me talk about her mental hardship while I am near, due to it being taxing for my own emotions and I do not want to show weakness in front of her in those situations. But yeah, he also really seem to adore his cats, so there might be absolutely nothing to it.
@@Angel-rh2lo @Ziirf I know that he is very supportive of her but he also loves the bois. I wasn't trying to say there was anything wrong with that (if that is what y'all were thinking, if not disregard this) And Ziirf I can relate to that, my mom talks to me about some of her mental struggles, and sometimes I'll cry because I feel the pain in some way, so I try to distract myself in some way, but also still listen.
I find the whole pressure people to have kids otherwise they’ll be miserable is pretty awful. Like children aren’t something you have if you don’t want them or are indifferent to. I feel like they should be a hell yes (sure one can have doubts) or a no. Having and raising a child isn’t something you can screw up. That’s gonna be an actually living person and if you or your partner (if you have one) don’t feel onboard to have a child or you’re not mentally or physically ready for any reason you can wait until you feel in a better place or even never have kids at all. Heck you don’t even have to have a reason to not have kids, if it’s not something you want people should respect that.
Meanwhile, I have a shitty co-worker popping them out left and right and she loses custody of every single one (currently pregnant again as I type this, and the state is advising for her to abort it - this is hearsay but yeah), while here I am trying to have even one child with my husband and am struggling. Sorry, just venting and am salty.
i think it was the same with eat your kimchi? they didn't want kids and needed to take time off from their channel for health reasons and people had to come to grips with them being real people with a real life that could possibly be more important than youtube
Yess! It's better to have no kids at all rather than having kids when you're not ready to have kids. I find there's always this war of "you NEED to have kids" vs "kids are HORRIBLE crotch gremlins" and i really don't like that. People need to learn to accept others opinions and to be humble about their own opinion.
Being childfree myself, I feel like the people that attack me the most are the ones that regret having children themselves. Somehow I never get flak from parents who seem genuinely happy with their own life. Maybe it's a "If I'm suffering then so must you" kind of thing?
Okay but why aren’t we talking about how Rachel helped Jun finish his video right after a panic attack and ended up getting hate for her reaction? Rachel didn’t deserve that and she’s so strong for doing what she could :(( It’s awful to hear that she went through that, thank you for everything Rachel!!
I looked back in that video, I just assumed when I first watched it she had just got back from work and was really tired, she has a right to be grumpy, she has a right to feel depressed,. I dare anyone to say that they’ve never felt the cold, tight grip of depression at least once in their life!
It's because people never consider what goes on behind the scenes, behind the camera. When I watched the video I didn't find her reaction something to be upset about. I mean, he lied about it being food, I would've been lowkey unimpressed with being lied to LOL. That aside, she had a panic attack that we didn't know about until now :(
The gift he made was the oil and chapsticks if I remember correctly, it’s understandable why you had such a muted reaction at first if you weren’t feeling good before it even happened. However, after that, when Jun told you he made it by hand, you did sound appreciative, Rachel, so I don’t know why the comments were still getting mad at the start..
@@kendalljennings3417 LOL nah like I'm super negative alot of the time, but these people are just plain old stinky bitter a**holes. How can they hate on such a beautiful couple smh..
The story about people getting mad at you over the Jun's Kitchen video has my blood BOILING, oh my god. Rachel, I am so, so sorry that people thought they could treat you that way. This is what we mean when we say "you have no idea what kind of battles other people are fighting." The people who get so angry at strangers for not seeming happy enough don't know or care about the circumstances surrounding a situation, they only see a small fraction and think they have the full picture, and it frustrates me to no end. Your struggles with depression really resonated with me and I don't know how much comfort it comes as, but I'm proud of you for putting your mental health first and I only wish the best for you. Here's hoping the next Q&A session has people acting a little more polite and a little less entitled to your time and energy. Much love from me and my kitty Willow!
I couldn’t tell if Rachel was about to have a panic attack or break down from being forced go back and relive the experience she wanted to forget. It’s not sad how they as a couple have three cats and Rachel isn’t popping babies out because she’s a woman. It’s not even sad how they’re choosing to live their married life. It’s sad that as human beings, people can say this to the poor woman because they’re protected behind a screen. Jun and Rachel are arguably the most approachable, loving and sweet natured couple, and I admire jun and Rachel for being the bad bitches they are. YALL ARE THE CUTEST COUPLE IVE EVER SEEN AND YOU DONT NEED TO FOLLOW SOCIETIES COMMON BELIEFS AND RULES. like literally go buy another cat to shove it in their face ✨❤️
Some karen: Oh how terrible, you don't have boyfriend at age 15! Teenagers should be searching for mates! Having kids should be your goal! Me: I have a boyfriend and I have a yandere child, a dense child, and 2 kawaii childern. **Gestures towards my Standardbred gelding and 3 sheep.** I see no problem here.
You two are so cute. Yes life sucks sometimes. You are both so strong. I guess UA-cam requires such a thick skin. You do a fantastic job and It's great that you determine a schedule that's right for you. 💓😷😊
Adding my small voice to the sea to tell you: you don't owe any one of us on the internet your person, least of all the viewers who only like you when you're happy.
The when I saw that video was really concerned, at first upset by her tone, but then I noticed her eyes looked teary, sad and tired. It makes sense her tone was like that, it's hard to be happy during/after a panic attack, I've had plenty enough to know, it's hard to put on a smile afterwards unless I have UA-cam, horses, or Minecraft there. But even those can cause panic attacks I've nearly fainted on my horse before due to having flashback of being thrown off by him. I usually am a shy tsundere, but during times my Anxiety is at its peak, I become a aggressive tsundere, anger fits, bitey comments, rude attitude, etc. Or I'll become a shaking clumsy nervous wreck who nearly faints and cries all the time. The side effects of my Anxiety arent pretty either, I throw up when under pressure and have certain foods in my stomach. I hope Rachel gets better spiritually, as she recovers from self isolation issues. Id recommend lots of cat and Jun cuddles if she likes hugs. These times have been rough on us all.
also, get more sponsorship, and use cats for the sponsor part of the video, because why not? Maybe the sponsor will be okay because people already bought their merch which only has cats printed on (very cute three of course, not trying to downplay how amazing the materials are and how detailed Rachel on picking it. It is an amazing shirt that I'd want to wear too).
Humans first instinct is to react the way we are used to according to how our lives have typically been. I hope in the future we learn to actually look deeper before we speak.
All these questions are so weirdly accusatory and judgemental. I guess it just speaks to the parasocial relationship... people get a wee glimpse into your life and suddenly think they have the right to ask invasive questions. Granted it was a Q&A but even so, most of these were just needlessly hostile.
Not just that, but Jun is an adult. If he wanted to speak, he can. Rachel doesn't threaten him into silence. I've heard Japanese people tend to be quieter (usually) anyways than us westerners. Besides, that frees him up to play with the cats, lol.
I'd be happy for that commenter to sponsor me to test their theory! I wonder how many cats one needs before one becomes sad. Happy to be sponsored to carry out this valuable research. 😊
Seeing you guys talking about sponsorships and ad revenue makes me sad tbh. I have been watching you both and your cats for so many years now and I have never seen any ads on your videos. You guys put so effort and time into filming and editing these videos, you two deserve that ad revenue because of all the hard work you put, please don’t feel guilty about it. I will comment this on literally every video hoping you’ll see this. You two and your cats deserve the world. ♥️
"I am planning to live in that house for the rest of my life so I don't CARE!" Exactly!!! That's what I said to my dad when he criticized the plan my fiancé and I have for our home that we want to build (It has an entryway/interior courtyard that is completely enclosed by house. We call it the catyard.)
It's Americans pushing their American ideas on Japan. A lot of people care about their "property value" even though it doesn't even matter in Japan. Especially the stupid question about why is your house so cat orientated. Maybe because Japan just loves cats. It's not like they have a whole island dedicated to stray cats.
People keep talking about my house being so nice because it'll appreciate but dude idgaf because I don't plan on leaving. I have so many grand plans for cat shelving and I always get the 'you'll have a lot of repair to do once you sell so you can get a profit' I LIVE HERE AND DON'T WANT TO LEAVE. The only benefit I get out of appreciation is property tax creep 😭
My heart goes out to Rachel. Depression and anxiety can be terribly crippling. Being a drop dead gorgeous red head married to a great guy with two decent cats doesn't always make for an ideal life. Both can be helped. Never let it go without help before it becomes crushing. So many people think you can just "think happy thoughts" and all will be ok. Its brain chemistry. You just can't fix it that way. It can also be extremely hard on the spouse trying to deal with the ups and downs. My hats off to Jun.
Idk he sounds like a Japanese person speaking English (like me and my dad (who is also Japanese) do when speaking English). Maybe we can tell it's not someone's native language because we sound like them :p
@Tiger King wowww someone's mad for no reason. No need for you to be angry when I asked a simple question that wasn't even derogatory. You've answered it either way though, Jun doesn't have any kind of an American accent, he speaks English well but anyone who speaks it natively would ever doubt that
@Tiger King yes dude I'm American and even if I wasn't why wouldn't I be able to know? It doesn't sound anything like an American accent you don't hear a difference between him and Rachel?
I didn't even know there was "scandal" for you guys. You're one of the coolest UA-cam couples in my humble opinion. I hope you continue to feel better, Rachel, and always remember to keep building that ladder! And Jun, your English is near perfect, better than a lot of people who speak English as a native language. I also loved seeing a Pichi in the top left corner, so thank you for the really smart camera angle!
Buying a house just because of resell value literally makes no sense. You buy/build a house to live in it for the rest of your life without worrying about rent! To feel safe and completely independent!
Because the commenters are Americans who don't understand how other people live in other countries. Most of the time you build a house and sell it to the highest bidder and hope that your "property value" doesn't go down. Capitalism in a nutshell
I've got a friend with five kids. They have moved a few times as their family grew. And when the kids move out, they will probably sell and move somewhere smaller. If they lost a hundred grand on every house they had, they wouldn't have been able to afford the house they have now. It depends on your goals. To break it down by country is ridiculousness.
Relying on the housing market to get your money back is just not a smart "investment" move. It really only makes sense to consider a house an investment if you are making income from renting it out.
@@kaedatiger I disagree. Blindly hoping your house doesn't lose value is a bad idea. Buying a popular style home in a good location with the intent on only living there for a short amount of time can be a good investment. There is no reason you can't make your home part of an investment strategy.
People can be so rude :( Lol at pre-emptive response about Jun not talking. I have to do that all the time because people will be like "shut up and let your husband talk". I will give him so much time to speak but he prefers it if I talk because of course, not his native language. He also spends all his time at work talking, sometimes he wants to just chill. Even when couples have a baby, you immediately get asked "wHeN aRe YoU hAvInG a SeCoNd BaBy?!" Even when we shared our infertility issues and the whole journey of IVF.... apparently we should be popping out more babies!
Well, about the not having children but only cats: my mother told me more than ones that people like that are egocentric....I have 4 cats and no children (by choice) so after a few times I told her that her comments are hurtfull to me. I think those remarks are pure stupidity. And for you guys having to answer more ‘stupid’ questions: well done. You guys are great. 😃
@@ali_tafa006 Sadly they're still people thinking, because UA-camrs or others share some part of their life, its a right to comment everything they (the viewers) want. They didn't even think about it anymore.
Don't mind them. If they don't understand your struggle then that's on them. If you want more kids then have them. The youtube audience can't dictate your lif efor you. I'll pray for you. P.s you guys just got a new subscriber👍
Man, as someone with dysthymia, your tmi section really resonated with me. So many people can't believe me when I tell them I have depression because to them I look happy. Stay well/get better!
I don't have dysthymia but sometimes when I'm dealing with bouts of depression some people don't realize because from the outside I look happy. It's a coping mechanism mostly because if I look sad or upset people will ask me what's wrong and it's hard to answer when I don't even know myself so I put on a facade to avoid the questions. I hope you feel better!
eeeeyyyy....we can be dysthymia buddies! xD Seriously though, I'm glad Rachel's doing what's best for her and not forcing herself to go on camera when she's not up to it. I'd rather have a handful of fun videos over the course of a year instead of forcing her to make a bunch and be miserable the entire time. (and this year has been bad across the board so)- take care of each other, Rachel & Jun! And you too Meital. :)
eyyy same! it's one of my main problems when interacting with people face to face if I'm doing a good job showing emotions because its either the convo turns awkward or they get concerned about me and it still turns awkward orz
Some of the questions were really rude :( but thank you for being open about your mental health, it's reassuring to have influencers with such a big following who are still normal people
Ok guys, Basically if you want MORE Jun videos, make sure Rachel is happy and appreciated!! I personally don't mind seeing Rachel happy cuz they are happy with their life. Happy Wife = Happy Jun.
Haha, it's true there's some modesty on Jun's part but as they were saying throughout, people (as a whole) will brutally judge any weakness on the internet and expect perfection... So I can kinda see where he might be coming from
@@korncobb8808 absolutely agree. Just because his English sounds nearly perfect when he prepared for a video doesn't mean that it is easy to speak spontaneously.
@@korncobb8808 For real!! I speak multiple languages to varying degrees, and even in the one I'm most comfortable in other than English (ASL) I still feel nervous in front of people - let alone if I were reaching a potential audience of millions. His English is really good though, even compared to how it was when they first started making videos that weren't mainly in Japanese. I wish my Japanese were as good as his English!
People criticized you for your reaction on Jun's gift?! When I saw it, I thought 'aww she was being shy!' I knew you loved them because it was a gift from your husband.
My husband, from next to me on the sofa: "We love you, Rachel! F the haters!" 💜 Me, a person with years of experience struggling with depression: "We love you, Rachel! F the haters!" 💜
As someone contemplating getting a cat and very tired of being asked if I want kids, Rachel's black-and-white dramatic "barren" moment was amazing and very relatable.
I’ve been owned by cats since I was 21. I knew I didn’t want children when I was 12. I’m now 40, am still owned by cats and still don’t have or want human children. I got rid of the “when are you having children?” question when I started telling people my personal boundaries didn’t allow them to ask me that, the same I’d never ask them how they wipe their arses, for example. Problem solved!
Why so many rude comment? I mean even they are kinda public figures but they still need some privacy. Some ppl are so nosy nowadays. Why can’t we just come to see Jun and Rachel and sleepy Haku or noisy Poki or something else happily?
The kid question ughhh... I am 25 and my aunts always ask about that, by now it has become so annoying. I literally get a lecture whenever I say "I am not having kids" and they respond with "give it 2 years." I am perfectly happy as I am and would rather go traveling and enjoy myself and my youth. I don't plan on having kids or getting married why is that so wrong, it is my life and my body, plus I would be a bad mother since I have no maternal instinct whatsoever. They still call me selfish it's so dumb like I am depriving them of something...
I think it’s wonderful that you take charge of what happens to your body, not to mention, you are also thinking of what’s best for the non existent child, you don’t what the child to grow up in a household where the mother doesn’t feel a connection with them, that’s a sign of being responsible, good for you!!.
I agree so much. Our generation finally has the chance to be perfectly happy as you describe it, and not having to give in about this topic is so important for me, too. Never let people take away your freedom and your inner peace because they think you should or shouldn't do something!
The kid question was disrespectful, it’s not that people are “too shy to ask” it’s no ones business. There are many reasons why people choose to or not to have children, then theres people who want children but can’t or really struggle having them, miscarry, are infertile, you never know. Mind your own business.
I can see why Rachel is hesitant to do more videos. Women always get criticized for everything they do and say and every expression on their face is hyper interpreted almost always to be negative. They get criticized for their looks -- not enough makeup and you're "not trying" . .too much and you're 'trying too hard' or 'eyebrows too dark', their clothes, their style or lack thereof. If they have kids they receive every criticism under the sun for the way they interact with their baby, feed, clothe, sleep schedule, EVERYTHING and then also criticized for not looking like a supermodel immediately after birth and then every day thereafter (see also: looks comments). , if they don't they are coldhearted weird cat ladies, or going against nature or whatever. It is so much easier to be a dude on social media -- you can wear what you want with simple hair and no makeup and not have your looks hyper criticized and if you have a baby and change 1 diaper you're the world's greatest hero, if you don't have kids you're just a dude living free, etc.
common sense train coming through: - asking women/couples about their plans for children can easily be a very invasive thing to do. there are a bunch of reasons why this can be a sensitive topic and not everyone wants to talk about it in public. Also, assuming that women want kids is enhancing stereotypes and puts pressure and expectations on us. Whether someone wants children or not is not a question of gender. Woman does not equal mother. Be considerate. - depression does hit hard and it hits even worse during a pandemic. rachel & jun are not obligated to be entertaining to you, just because they have a youtube channel. bad days come and sometimes they don't go for a while, but we should always be aware that behind someone's behavior, there is a bigger picture. Thank you rachel for being so open about your mental health and I wish you all the best. I'm sure you will be better again. Very inspiring to see you putting your mental health first :)
Also, to add on, I am in a non-hetero relationship. I get asked a lot “When will you have children?” “Don’t you think it would legitimize your marriage if you had kids?” I love the idea of having children but people are so pushy about it.
Ugh I'm totally for mental health awareness. But it's so hard and awkward to talk about my own battle. Maybe I'm still working up to it. But its super encouraging to see others working through it
Also!!! Not every woman has a uterus and not every person who has a uterus is a woman! Plus with this in mind, some people's uteri just don't work properly. I'm a nonbinary person with family history of reproductive system issues and I really don't want kids.
I'm a hetero woman who never wanted kids. Even when I was a child, I had zero interest in playing with doll babies. I went straight to stuffed animals and Barbies. I love the way Rachel and Jun just didn't answer the question. It's their business, not ours.
@@sweetmouse6277 So you understand her depression much more than the HUSBAND of the person with the depression and can immediately draw this conclusion with no knowledge of whatever he did in the background to nurse her back from her depression?
@@sweetmouse6277 it might be difficult to show empathy for a partner on camera when you know these issues of theirs already? we can't be very indicting of his responses
Thank you for being so open about mental health, Rachel. It's a really important to talk about. I think a lot of people that suffer from anxiety and depression took a big hit this year.
I think people who normally don't have anxiety or depression also took a big hit this year. I wonder if part of the pushback in the US on continuing lockdowns and closures are because many people began to discover things that they had hidden by keeping too busy during the day to think about the things. Now with time to reflect at home, the facade has broken, and issues have appeared.
It's got to be hard to be an "ideal" public figure online, let alone a woman online. I'm a stranger who doesn't know you at all, but still sending love to you guys for making videos that feel like a warm hug. Thank you!
You guys are just the best! I feel SO BAD that people attacked Rachel over that Juns cooking video. I have some anxiety issues and can totally imagine that whole scene playing out. Sometimes you just can’t turn it on.
"Why put effort into making videos when you can just sit here and let your wife do all the work?" Rachel, you should have stayed married to Poki. He's a rugged outlaw from the mountain. Jun just cooks stuff.
Rachel: Poki are you a illegal cat
Jun: he is from the mountain ⛰
Listen Poki, ain't no mountain high
Ain't no valley low, ain't no river wide enough Poki
If you need me call me no matter where you are
No matter how far, don't worry Poki
Just call my name I'll be there in a hurry
You don't have to worry
He looked so cute they she carried him >.
I did not even catch that during the question and answers. That is hilarious!
It just goes to show maybe you should watch Jun and Rachel’s videos more than one time!
What the poster meant was whether cats needed to be 'microchipped' in Japan. While not compulsory, it's very recommended to keep your cats microchipped because they can be found more easily in case they ever get lost.
Poki the Mountain God slumming at Jun & Rachel's home, "FEED ME, HUMAN!!!"
It was pretty heartbreaking to hear how Rachel was treated (I hadn't heard the story about the surprise gift until now). She shouldn't have been put into a position where she had to explain things at all.
Yeah... like OMG... when Rachel was talking about how much she cried after she felt like she ruined Jun's video... I vaguely remember seeing loads of people say that she seems ungrateful, I'm actually so sad I didn't speak up and say something now. Of course we can't speak for others and I didn't know about her mental health issues, but still, damn... even if she didn't like the surprise or didn't LOOK like she liked it, I wouldn't have had a problem with her not being overtly ecstatic over presents, some people are just kind of stoic like that even if they are super happy.
yea i had no idea, and i never judged her reaction in the first place, but does go to show how ignorant people can be on the internet. rachel didn’t owe us an explanation at all.
its messed up, but with “fame” everyones always got something bad to say. it was literally a cooking video and people found something to criticize them about.
This was so upsetting. I remember that video and at the time I thought she just didn't feel well (like health wise). Her energy was just kinda low compared to her usual bubbly personality. I had no idea people were so mean to her about it!! Jeez. Being judged for a few out of context seconds of video?? Folks need to calm down.
@@Kitty_Sakura omg same
This is real life. I'm glad she's able to put it in words and keep everyone in check. Because us as viewers we dont see behind the scenes or the cost that comes with making beautiful videos. Financial emotional and the time. 😁🥰🥰🥰🥰
Imagine people being upset that they have sponsorships. Like the content is free and they have bills, if you want content they need to make a living somehow. Much love guys keep doing what ur doing!
For sure!!!! I’m just glad after all these years they are actually going to take a real crack at this. Get sponsors!
They having been said, I like how they're not just money-grabbing any random thing thrown their way. Mad respect that they look into the companies for sponsorship and for merch.
Sponsorships are fine as long as they're not scammy or harmful, like diet pills or "detox teas".
Completely agree with all of y'all!
Today has been sponsored by raid shadow legends-
Rachel talking about her depression and anxiety was really eye opening and an important reminder to people that you never know what is going on behind the scenes. People being angry at her for her reaction to jun's surprise must have been so awful for her.
From our perspective Rachel & Jun seem to have this perfect idealic life and relationship but the fact that Rachel was feeling like theres no point to existence at some point, just goes to show you can never understand what someone is going through from just seeing their public personas. She also isn't obligated to tell everyone what she is personally going through but was brave enough to give us a little insight here. So please remember that you don't know what people are going through and be patient & kind
Seconded.
Rachel, thank you for sharing (and for your support, Jun). I almost started crying when you were talking about your downward spiral (which is amazing because my own brand of depression leaves me emotionally numb). And to all the negative Nancies in the comments, I understand that sometimes we get upset on someone else's behalf. That's okay, because empathy leads to compassion, right? You were feeling hurt for Jun. However, as stated above...we really don't know what goes on behind-the-scenes. That said, rather than using the comment section to vent negative feelings and thoughts based on incomplete knowledge, let's try to lift one another up instead, yeah?
Well...everyone is weird. What is normal? People cope with their emotions differently. And actions aren't always a true reflection of emotions. Anyway, that's subjective. What is a true reflection of emotion? Your truth might be different from another's truth since we learn those reflections as we grow. Maybe Jun's actions aren't how some would have reacted, but I recognise this type reaction. Also his actions on-camera might/probably aren't the same as they would be off-.
@@strongerthaneverph I don’t think you meant it in a horrible way but calling his actions weird comes across a bit tone deaf considering the main comment here is talking about not judging someone for a fraction of their behaviour that you see online.
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I have been depressed too since around the same time as her. Its just i am a nobody. Nobody cares if i am depressed or not
At this point I’ve just followed all your channels and I just watch whatever video pops up wherever kinda like
whack-a-mole lmao
Same here!
I also do this ! I'm always very excited to see what videos come out
LOL. What an amusing way of putting it.
I feel bad that people pressure you about kids. You shouldn't be pressured about that. =(
Bruh what the hell is people's problem tho. Not every one wants kids leave other people be.
They'd make cute kids... When/if they're ready to!
@@hauwley I don't understand what's so hard about saying you don't want kids though. It's a simple question, people ask it because generally everyone does want kids, so it's a departure from the norm to not have them.
It's not like people asking are saying there's anything wrong with them not having kids. Rachel went on a tangent about women only being for childbearing but the comment didn't say anything about that.
IKR people need to mind their own business. I can’t stand it when people tell me I need to have kids
@@toperishtwice The comment was rude, it did say having too many cats was sad. We never know what other people are going through and don't want to talk about. Maybe they want kids some day, maybe they don't, maybe they have fertility issues, who knows. It's normal to wonder but some people are too pushy and rude.
Imagine having the audacity to ask complete strangers about their family planning while simultaneously insinuating that having pets is weird in any way? The nerve of some people.
Story of my life really. I've just entered my thirties and I still have no husband(or boyfriend no less) and people are worried about that.
Like...first of all, my lifestyle is none of you business. Secondly, I'm ace and have no inkling for romance or sex. And lastly, as long as I can take care of myself, I need no man to do it for me and no kids to make me feel accomplished.
But if others want that, that's cool. I'm just happy being single and a proud cat mama uwu
Right?! I feel like most of the comments they answered were really rude or straight up mean...
It's like... you can tell they would never do it(say it) in real life
@@otoshithekid2957 unfortunately people do say this shit in real life. Even if it’s the first time you’ve met them. 😒
Honestly! Like would you are someone directly about their uterus or testicles and what they want to do with them cause that's pretty much what you're doing and it's awkward as hell.
Poki meows -
3:42 - "meoooow"
5:11 - "mmmeow?"
5:42 - "MMRREEOow"
5:48 - "MREEOow"
5:52 - "mreeow"
6:12 - "MREAAAw"
7:39 - "mrooooowh"
Poki is content with scratches from jun so no meows after 8m
@Kellan You are the best.
HELL YEAH!
Quality comment
This is my all time favourite comment!!
Thannks for transcribing
"We're going to accept more sponsporships." YES. DO IT. We'll understand your saving up for important things! I'll help by just letting every ad play on your vids
Like, yes girl! Make capitalization work for you!!
@Kook no, don't do that, it actually hurts their ability to get recommended and get on top of search results if a lot of people did not watch a lot of the video
@@doc8125 i think they meant the ads not the vids
@@mellowmallow3138 yeah, I definitely misread there, my mistake
Same...as long as it's not like 30-58 mins long ads (yep saw one of those once and I was like thank god for the skip button because it's not like I didn't come on here to watch something for 20 mins or so just to watch something that's longer and I'm not interested in).
"owning that many cats must be sad after a while"
Dude clearly has never had a cat
Or met children
Or lived.
Or existed.
Or know the meaning of happiness
What is love?
Rachel: *is enjoying married life doing all the things she's ever wanted, doesn't need children to fill a "void"*
Comments: YOU ARE USING CATS TO FILL YOUR BARREN WOMB YOU CHILDLESS WENCH
Rachel: nono-
Jun: *smooshes face into cat* mmmmm cat
Its suuuuper fun to say 'actually I've had 5 miscarriages'and just watch their face go to O.O
@@rachelrecycles369 that's kinda cruel, but understandable. Some people just need to learn to mind their own business 🤷♀️ they gotta understand being a woman doesn't mean you have to want a child
@@zombiepika3118 exactly, maybe it'll prevent them from saying it to someone who suffers with infertility issues.
Completely agree, preach luv!!!
Also Jun is literally me, smushing your face into a cat's soft belly is THE BEST!!😻
@@rachelrecycles369 I'm so so sorry, thank you for using your experiences to shut those kinds of people up. I hope that you're doing okay
Damn, my perspective on some of the R&J fans changed a lot after watching this video. C'mon now guys, we can be better than this. Learn to be mindful on what you say as it really comes off the wrong way. Some comments are also blatantly disrespectful.
Respectfully, they also live in Japan. Having children is a major societal expectation.
@@tjl4688 I doubt the people telling them this live in Japan or are actually thinking of Japan’s population crisis. In fact, most are probably not thinking much of it as they pressure strangers to adhere to their envisioned lifestyle.
@@tjl4688 and?
@@tjl4688 No it's not... Not at all. In fact, Japan has one of the lowest birthrates because no one wants to have kids over there. A lot of younger people/families just want to focus on careers.
@@tjl4688 ooooh no it is not XD
Rachel darkening her eyebrows out of spite is just *chef's kiss* beautiful. Love you both, honestly happy to see you happy. :)
*I hope the chef doesn't kiss my food before serving it to me*
jk
I laughed really hard at it, but by the end of the video I actually thought it looked kinda nice
when did she said that?
Who dares comment on your eyebrows!
My daughter and I loved that as well. 😉
why are all these questions so condescending? rachel and jun are literally so unproblematic and lovely
Really, who says "You have a uterus, USE IT".
They aren't f*cki!ing Sims.
Seriously!
Dude this was what I was thinking. Some of these comments are crazy and rude!
Agreed. Loving someone isn’t ONLY skinship. You can have deep conversations, rely on one another and simply just enjoy each others company in expressing your love. I feel that definition of being married or dating has become completely distorted this generation.
I know! I was so shocked by the type of questions asked. Who say such a thing to such a lovely couple!
Sometimes a family just consists of you, your partner, and your pets. And that's enough. The love is still there. :)
“i have one cooking channel, juns kitchen. that guys a dick.”
seriously the funniest thing jun has ever said
Ikr 😆. That was hilarious
Rachel: serious talk about mental health
Jun: faceplant into a cat
Both relatable, really ❤️
Burying your face in a cat is the best kind of coping with serious topics tbh
I think he was crying a little
My heart is breaking for her. These two put themselves out there for our enjoyment and people can just be really awful for no reason.
I read it as they talk about it between themselves, "I'll just let her share her feelings to everyone else in her own words uninterrupted." - and in that setting, cuddle with the cats
"Let me ask the question that people are too shy to ask"
Uh, no, that's just you, you breathtakingly rude person. Please don't share.
This exactly! It's not that people are "too shy" it's that they realise it's a bloody rude question.
I hope the fact that she brought it up in a FAQ and then dramatically didn't answer the question would send the hint to these people that they know some people are curious but they want to keep this part of their private lives private..... but somehow I doubt it.
I am curious about it, but if they don't want to answer that's ok. My curiosity can take a backseat. Even if hurts to restrain it I will.
@@rhiannon9673 Jun did answer it though, they just like cats.
I honestly think some fans are pickme bitches who are thirsty for Jun, because it seems like the negative and rude comments are always people trying to undermine Rachel's confidence or question her position as a wife. They are jealous.
I love how some people's comments are so rudely thrown out there and Rachel and Jun are just so chill answering respectfully. That talks a LOT about who you are. :)
100000% I love them
Why did you call him yun hahahahaha... That was his name when they made a parody
@@canned_can_chan4590 Misspelled it, sorry! Haha!
“What if someone buys your house who hates cats?!” Well that sounds like a them problem for buying said house lmao.
I think the “owning too many cats replacing children/become sad” comment is bit offensive, there are people who prefer not to have children, which should be okay.
some people... smh... it's like they wanna force other people to go along with the mold... sheesh
I agree that it's rude, and it's extremely none of their business. No one owes anyone an explanation for why they do or don't have kids or how pets may factor into that.
Some people dont want kids, but there are many people that would like to have them but cant. When you dont earn enough its not possible. I know that there are parents out there that think "even though we dont earn much it is gonna work." No, its not!
It’s also incredibly insensitive. What if they have been trying for years and it just hasn’t happened? Regardless, it’s very hurtful and shouldn’t be brought up.
@Top Silver but why is it sad though???? wtf
So many of these questions were so rude/invasive... im sorry that yall have to deal with these types of people :((
@@carrydaddy6432 I dont think you know what that word means, bro
@@tiaroybal9333 he is little confused
Yeah. I was listening to this in the background and multiple times I had to pause the video and rewind it because surely I didn’t hear that right. Especially the cat and child question! I found that one extremely rude!! I feel bad that they have to deal with this sometimes.
Yes!! I honestly can’t believe the nerve of some people, they’re so rude
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I love that Rachel kept the intense eyebrows lmaoo
by the end of the video it started looking intentional to me lmao, makes me feel better about my eyebrows
Honestly it works.
Rachel became too intense for me because her eyebrows look like an emoji from Facebook x'D
Lol yeah towards the end of the video I forgot about it
It’s funny because as a natural redhead myself, my eyebrows are quite a bit darker than my hair color so I felt that look. My hair is an auburn red and my eyebrows are straight up dark brown. No idea why but that’s always been the case!
Jun speaks English beautifully, pronounces words correctly, and appears comfortable in front of the camera. That doesn't mean that Rachel is "stealing his thunder", she is naturally more bubbly in general when she isn't having a tough day. Jun is perfectly eloquent, but so is Rachel.
Yup, I see Jun as the laid back, quite guy and Rachel as the more bubbly, outgoing girl
I select a worship song with lyrics on you tube in the early morning and it really, really heals my woes.
It's that old "Women should just be quiet," misogynist trope. My husband is quiet too- he's an introvert. We function just fine together. He talks when he feels like it. He likes my stories. I like his, too. I talk more in public situations. He talks more in private, when he feels like opening up.
I think Rachel overtalks most of the time. I wish she had given more floor to Jun. As much as I like their videos, I have seen Rachel being very disrespectful and unappreciative towards Jun. My Japanese friend says that Rachel is passive aggressive and yes, I can see that.
@@goldenheart2667 how on earth is that the case?
I really can't believe the rude questions some people made...
You guys don't deserve being treated like this.
rachel is talking about how people missjudged her based on a small reaction an a youtube video, meanwhile people in this comment section judging jun for his reaction to her talking about this.... lmao just enjoy their videos and stop assuming things
People don't understand that this couple are real people who can't always be at their 100%, just because they usually try to show their best sides for the camera. They probably expected Jun to be more supportive and engaged instead of turning away from the topic to play with cats, but you could tell he was doing that specifically because it was hard for him to listen to his wife describe her ordeal and was trying not to be upset on camera as he probably relived some of those dark moments. You would think people would have picked up on that especially after how they talked about how this video is basically improv, and at one point he seems to wipe away a tear. People are just terrible.
I was surprised to hear people reacted poorly to her reaction on that video. They probably don't know Rachel (maybe they only watch Jun's channel) but that's still no excuse to hate on someone. When I heard her say, "what is it?" in Jun's video, I laughed because I would've reacted the same way, especially knowing now that Jun told her that it was food. Like even without knowing the situation, they could've thought "oh, maybe she's awkward in front of the camera" or "she showed her appreciation off camera". Why people just jumped to bashing her is so upsetting and baffling.
Best statement!!!
I assumed she was very tired when she asked, "What is it?" I didn't assume the worse and didn't bash. I wish people weren't so judgemental or would stop and think before posting harsh comments.
I feel like a horrible human being cause Rachel is pouring her heart out about her experience and all I can look at are her *strong* eyebrows 👌👌🙏🤧
why the hell do people assume *you're* "not letting" Jun talk? Wth lol he's a grown adult and you're not holding a knife to his throat... you're not even interrupting him 🤦
Memento Mori, friend.
Memento Mori!
Memento mori
Rachel: giving self-called tmi
Jun: chilling, petting his cats, not making any indication of wanting to say something
Ikr, he's just naturally reserved, and Rachel is naturally outgoing, so the contrast is quite striking.
people are so rude and condescending. Rachel and Jun are literally the most unproblematic couple there is, just have some respect. stop asking ridiculous questions about babies or Jun is just quieter.
Evan & katelyn, smaller channel tho
@@Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik don’t make this a competition :) There’s no need for us to compare two lovely couples because they’re both great
@@Kattzal yes, all of them are great! Who are your fav couple you'd want me to check? My recent find is nic &cheese, they're not unproblematic, but so fun!
If anyone want to suggest me, i'm open to all kinds of couple as long as in english/ has english subtitle, thanks!
simon and martina, oops RIP
The really nice youtubers such as this couple, you gotta hope the startlingly bizarre comments and questions they get do not effect them.
Rachel: *talking about something super serious*
Jun: *face-first into a cat's stomach*
Such a tough discussion/explanation to participate in, even in second hand. I feel for both Rachel and Jun.
I read this comment just as it happened
Probably to comfort/distract the cats? They're pretty sensitive to the change in their owner's moods so Jun was trying to keep Haku and Poki calm so Rachel didn't feel bad about talking about her experiences.
Probably hiding some of his own response too, I'm sure he also felt bad about it at the time
@@yumeniai agree
"Owning that many cats must be sad after a while"
Me: looks at my five year plan
Five year plan: GET 30 CATS AND MAKE THEIR NAMES RHIME... and maybe a dog AND 30 CATS!
(Really this is my dream)
lol my boyfriend and I will sometimes chant 'SIX CATS SIX CATS" whenever we talk about our future. For now we just have two. *sigh* one day..
If you want them all to rhyme, make it funny
Maybe instead of having 30 cats, work at a cat shelter? That way kitties still get lovins without jepordizing your ability to find a place to live.
Same! I really want some!!
Beware of the parable of Ishkabibble. Never name your cat anything you would be embarrassed to have your neighbors hear you screaming at 3am after your cat decided to escape to explore the great outdoors.
"What is a woman without a womb?!!!"
God, I love Rachel... and Jun.
But like, Rachel is really really funny 😂
ah yes. wombman. lmao
A woman without a womb is a human, why would anyone ask?
I'm so glad that Rachel has been prioritising her health first, and that's been the reason why the main channel has been quieter. Let's be real: this year has been a b*tch, and depression just compounds all of what's going on in the world to make things worse.
Massive love to you both; we'll see you when we see you.
Especially all due to an extremely over exaggerated "pandemic".
@@salan3507 its not exaggerated
@@almeriaalien You're right. It's not exaggerated. Its EXTREMELY exaggerated.
@@salan3507 dayum no wonder theres so many cases
@@salan3507 over exaggerated? Wait till you get on life support. Don't cry for your life that time.
Just a small reminder to some who don't seem to remember, but like all youtubers, Rachel and Jun are real people! They deserve your respect and have the same right to privacy that everyone does.
The level of sass in this video is awesome! “Are you guys married?” “Are we?” “No!”
What’s funny is that Poki’s meow also sounds like a ‘No...’ and was said a bit earlier than Rachel but it sounded almost like they said it at the same time
Something tells me that they like _like_ each other.
@@tropicalsadness2407 I thought so too.
@@blazingly8336 It did!
Rachel talking about her depression and anxiety had me remembering about my own and I wanted to give her hug 🥺🥺
Virtual hugs to you!
@@ussnjbb62 *hugs back*
Yeah it has been a rough year. Hugs to all.
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Let’s all send virtual hugs! Or just positive energy whichever she loves more 😊😊😊
"yOuR eYeBrOwS aRe ToO dArK"
Rachel: *comes back with eyebrows twice as dark and a just a little thicker, and then wears them the rest of the video*
I loved it! lol but I really wish that she had thought to gradually add more and more eyebrow makeup until they were both so thick that they could be moustaches.
@CateyZuko Yayy, GO RACHEL!
darker actually suits her
I'm so sorry for all the rude comments you've gotten. And I feel you about the depression and panic attacks... Please, stay safe, all of you
My heart broke hearing about Rachel's anxiety and depression during the "Presents for my wife's birthday" video. We all need to make an effort to judge less and appreciate more. Thank you Rachel for sharing ❤️
It’s like really people, aside from the “just don’t be a jerk” clause that should exist in your existence as a human package,
The heck? UA-cam wasn’t a thing for most of us growing up, it wasn’t around when they were kids for sure! You are getting free entertainment from good people who care a hecking lot about you and the quality of the things they are advertising to their viewers. I mean Heck! Rachel took like 15 minutes to display every function of the merch shirts they made!
Bleh... gonna say it because of what she said about fans being friends. Odds of me ever being in Japan are pretty slim but it’s safe to say many of us feel a kinship to you both, so it’s personally insulting that they be rude to you, cause you don’t get to be rude to my (pseudo internet) friends! XD (also have depression, also loves cooking, also enjoys fashion, and spending time outside... my red hair isn’t as natural as hers though haha)
So yeah, you guys have friends here, we will try to bury the haters in hairballs
Rachel: talking about a serious topic
Jun: *C a t.*
I don't want to psycho-analyze Jun so I will talk from personal experience: I usually try to distract myself whenever a person close to me talk about her mental hardship while I am near, due to it being taxing for my own emotions and I do not want to show weakness in front of her in those situations.
But yeah, he also really seem to adore his cats, so there might be absolutely nothing to it.
I'm sure he's very supportive to her. they seem to understand each other very well.
15:15 i love this mans hahaha
@@Angel-rh2lo @Ziirf I know that he is very supportive of her but he also loves the bois. I wasn't trying to say there was anything wrong with that (if that is what y'all were thinking, if not disregard this)
And Ziirf I can relate to that, my mom talks to me about some of her mental struggles, and sometimes I'll cry because I feel the pain in some way, so I try to distract myself in some way, but also still listen.
@@itsraymond2295 I know you meant nothing ill of it, no need to defend your comment :)
I find the whole pressure people to have kids otherwise they’ll be miserable is pretty awful. Like children aren’t something you have if you don’t want them or are indifferent to. I feel like they should be a hell yes (sure one can have doubts) or a no. Having and raising a child isn’t something you can screw up. That’s gonna be an actually living person and if you or your partner (if you have one) don’t feel onboard to have a child or you’re not mentally or physically ready for any reason you can wait until you feel in a better place or even never have kids at all. Heck you don’t even have to have a reason to not have kids, if it’s not something you want people should respect that.
Meanwhile, I have a shitty co-worker popping them out left and right and she loses custody of every single one (currently pregnant again as I type this, and the state is advising for her to abort it - this is hearsay but yeah), while here I am trying to have even one child with my husband and am struggling. Sorry, just venting and am salty.
i think it was the same with eat your kimchi? they didn't want kids and needed to take time off from their channel for health reasons and people had to come to grips with them being real people with a real life that could possibly be more important than youtube
Yess! It's better to have no kids at all rather than having kids when you're not ready to have kids. I find there's always this war of "you NEED to have kids" vs "kids are HORRIBLE crotch gremlins" and i really don't like that. People need to learn to accept others opinions and to be humble about their own opinion.
@@Rezzmari I mean there’s always adoption, which is better for everyone
Being childfree myself, I feel like the people that attack me the most are the ones that regret having children themselves. Somehow I never get flak from parents who seem genuinely happy with their own life. Maybe it's a "If I'm suffering then so must you" kind of thing?
I’m childless and catless >< why do I even exist?! Haha
How did you even make it this far
@@RachelandJunAdventures Pure stubbornness~
I wanna own cats with my bf next time 🥺
Okay but why aren’t we talking about how Rachel helped Jun finish his video right after a panic attack and ended up getting hate for her reaction? Rachel didn’t deserve that and she’s so strong for doing what she could :(( It’s awful to hear that she went through that, thank you for everything Rachel!!
I looked back in that video, I just assumed when I first watched it she had just got back from work and was really tired, she has a right to be grumpy, she has a right to feel depressed,. I dare anyone to say that they’ve never felt the cold, tight grip of depression at least once in their life!
What video is this?
@@dragon-mw5ru "Cooking birthday presents for my wife!", it was about 2 years ago.
It's because people never consider what goes on behind the scenes, behind the camera. When I watched the video I didn't find her reaction something to be upset about. I mean, he lied about it being food, I would've been lowkey unimpressed with being lied to LOL. That aside, she had a panic attack that we didn't know about until now :(
@OtakuMegane ohhhh
Jun's answer "Seriously though? We just like cats."
The gift he made was the oil and chapsticks if I remember correctly, it’s understandable why you had such a muted reaction at first if you weren’t feeling good before it even happened.
However, after that, when Jun told you he made it by hand, you did sound appreciative, Rachel, so I don’t know why the comments were still getting mad at the start..
A cat room could easily be converted into anything. A wine cellar, a gaming room, a small office. Why are people being so closedminded?
Some people automatically see the negative in a situation, not the possibilities and solutions
@@kendalljennings3417 LOL nah like I'm super negative alot of the time, but these people are just plain old stinky bitter a**holes. How can they hate on such a beautiful couple smh..
BronzeBellaBria surely you mean "closet minded"? ;-P
@@gudrunorca maybe a better word would be unimaginative, a cat room can really be made into just about anything
I would totally pay extra for a cat room
The story about people getting mad at you over the Jun's Kitchen video has my blood BOILING, oh my god. Rachel, I am so, so sorry that people thought they could treat you that way. This is what we mean when we say "you have no idea what kind of battles other people are fighting." The people who get so angry at strangers for not seeming happy enough don't know or care about the circumstances surrounding a situation, they only see a small fraction and think they have the full picture, and it frustrates me to no end. Your struggles with depression really resonated with me and I don't know how much comfort it comes as, but I'm proud of you for putting your mental health first and I only wish the best for you. Here's hoping the next Q&A session has people acting a little more polite and a little less entitled to your time and energy. Much love from me and my kitty Willow!
As someone with straight black hair, I can't tell you how pretty your hair is, it looks like autumn and a warm cup of tea very lovely and cosy
Just, Rachel is aesthetics
I couldn’t tell if Rachel was about to have a panic attack or break down from being forced go back and relive the experience she wanted to forget. It’s not sad how they as a couple have three cats and Rachel isn’t popping babies out because she’s a woman. It’s not even sad how they’re choosing to live their married life. It’s sad that as human beings, people can say this to the poor woman because they’re protected behind a screen. Jun and Rachel are arguably the most approachable, loving and sweet natured couple, and I admire jun and Rachel for being the bad bitches they are. YALL ARE THE CUTEST COUPLE IVE EVER SEEN AND YOU DONT NEED TO FOLLOW SOCIETIES COMMON BELIEFS AND RULES. like literally go buy another cat to shove it in their face ✨❤️
You mean anxiety attack
"Seriously tho..? We just like cats."
Yeah, I was expecting that answer 😄 and it's totally legit.
Some karen: Oh how terrible, you don't have boyfriend at age 15! Teenagers should be searching for mates! Having kids should be your goal!
Me: I have a boyfriend and I have a yandere child, a dense child, and 2 kawaii childern. **Gestures towards my Standardbred gelding and 3 sheep.** I see no problem here.
Cats > Kids
That square footage isn't enough room for 5 cats. Glad they are moving to a larger place.
why would you give birth to a child when you can just adopt cats
@@Jessie-wd3yo 100% true that!
rachel: talking about her hardships and depression
jun: 😊✋🐈
wowowowo
You two are so cute. Yes life sucks sometimes. You are both so strong. I guess UA-cam requires such a thick skin. You do a fantastic job and It's great that you determine a schedule that's right for you. 💓😷😊
I think he might've felt awkward and guilty for forcing her to be in the video that got her so many hate and that's why he was so avoidant.
i'd have felt bad and sad to reminice of this so i empathize with Jun 100%
Adding my small voice to the sea to tell you: you don't owe any one of us on the internet your person, least of all the viewers who only like you when you're happy.
The when I saw that video was really concerned, at first upset by her tone, but then I noticed her eyes looked teary, sad and tired. It makes sense her tone was like that, it's hard to be happy during/after a panic attack, I've had plenty enough to know, it's hard to put on a smile afterwards unless I have UA-cam, horses, or Minecraft there. But even those can cause panic attacks I've nearly fainted on my horse before due to having flashback of being thrown off by him. I usually am a shy tsundere, but during times my Anxiety is at its peak, I become a aggressive tsundere, anger fits, bitey comments, rude attitude, etc. Or I'll become a shaking clumsy nervous wreck who nearly faints and cries all the time. The side effects of my Anxiety arent pretty either, I throw up when under pressure and have certain foods in my stomach. I hope Rachel gets better spiritually, as she recovers from self isolation issues. Id recommend lots of cat and Jun cuddles if she likes hugs. These times have been rough on us all.
also, get more sponsorship, and use cats for the sponsor part of the video, because why not? Maybe the sponsor will be okay because people already bought their merch which only has cats printed on (very cute three of course, not trying to downplay how amazing the materials are and how detailed Rachel on picking it. It is an amazing shirt that I'd want to wear too).
I agree
Humans first instinct is to react the way we are used to according to how our lives have typically been. I hope in the future we learn to actually look deeper before we speak.
All these questions are so weirdly accusatory and judgemental. I guess it just speaks to the parasocial relationship... people get a wee glimpse into your life and suddenly think they have the right to ask invasive questions. Granted it was a Q&A but even so, most of these were just needlessly hostile.
Even when jun didn't speak much, his existence by Rachel's side gave me warm feelings. Having a prtner just be by ur side sometimes is all we need.
Not just that, but Jun is an adult. If he wanted to speak, he can. Rachel doesn't threaten him into silence. I've heard Japanese people tend to be quieter (usually) anyways than us westerners. Besides, that frees him up to play with the cats, lol.
@@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley well that too🤣😂
I love how Rachel made her eyebrows black, perfect response.
I'm sorry people are so mean to you, Rachel, I appreciate everything you do!
“Owning that many cats must be sad after a while.”
Me, to my boyfriend: “In the future, we’ll have cats! Cats. Plural.”
What really got me was that they only have 3 and a long term foster and there is no chance of kittens. Ugh.
I'd be happy for that commenter to sponsor me to test their theory! I wonder how many cats one needs before one becomes sad. Happy to be sponsored to carry out this valuable research. 😊
@@aesaphyr I think if you have as many as the cat lady in the Simpsons it is enough to look sad :)
People are so jealous to other cat happiness
I have 3 kitties as well!!!!!! and I'm the happiest person in the world haha
Seeing you guys talking about sponsorships and ad revenue makes me sad tbh. I have been watching you both and your cats for so many years now and I have never seen any ads on your videos. You guys put so effort and time into filming and editing these videos, you two deserve that ad revenue because of all the hard work you put, please don’t feel guilty about it.
I will comment this on literally every video hoping you’ll see this. You two and your cats deserve the world. ♥️
I love how Poki is just Meowing out loud and the question was "any tips for training a very vocal cat into being quitter?" LMAO 😂❤️
I also got an ad called "The Cats That Rule the World" right after.... XD
Perfect comedic timing
I miss having cats. If I had any, I would totally have a house built for them.
Jun: *buries face in furrball Haku*
Me: "You've made the right choice"
"I am planning to live in that house for the rest of my life so I don't CARE!"
Exactly!!! That's what I said to my dad when he criticized the plan my fiancé and I have for our home that we want to build (It has an entryway/interior courtyard that is completely enclosed by house. We call it the catyard.)
That sounds awesome!!
It's Americans pushing their American ideas on Japan. A lot of people care about their "property value" even though it doesn't even matter in Japan. Especially the stupid question about why is your house so cat orientated. Maybe because Japan just loves cats. It's not like they have a whole island dedicated to stray cats.
If I ever was in a position to buy a house here in Canada, and there was one built for cats, I would totally buy it. Sounds like a dream come true
That's sound al cool!
People keep talking about my house being so nice because it'll appreciate but dude idgaf because I don't plan on leaving. I have so many grand plans for cat shelving and I always get the 'you'll have a lot of repair to do once you sell so you can get a profit' I LIVE HERE AND DON'T WANT TO LEAVE. The only benefit I get out of appreciation is property tax creep 😭
So many insensitive questions.. You two answered them very tactfully
Yeah there were SO MANY INVASIVE ONES like the "can I be your friend if I move?, What about the ReSelL vaLue and the children one.."
Poki: *"MIAAOW"*
Rachel: _reading_ "Also, any tips for training a very vocal cat into being quieter?"
THE COMEDIC TIMING OF THIS COMMENT LOL
Additionally: I love how ridiculous the comment about "replacing having actual children with owning cats" is
He is a trained professional :P xx
@@Dundereshock Seriously people who don't own cats ask the dumbest questions
Poki the vocal mountain cat. Heehee
I feel people have children to fill the void of not having a cat!
Exactly
That's true because I can't have cats😭
😎
Yeah I don’t get upset about not having a grandchild! I just bought a kitten.
I have a baby and 4 cats
Never would have realized how many toxic comments there were until this Q&A. Thank god for top comments
Ditto.
Wouldn't have guessed either ;-; they're so wholesome you wouldn't think someone would dare be rude to them
My heart goes out to Rachel. Depression and anxiety can be terribly crippling. Being a drop dead gorgeous red head married to a great guy with two decent cats doesn't always make for an ideal life. Both can be helped. Never let it go without help before it becomes crushing. So many people think you can just "think happy thoughts" and all will be ok. Its brain chemistry. You just can't fix it that way. It can also be extremely hard on the spouse trying to deal with the ups and downs. My hats off to Jun.
No one's gonna say anything about Pichi being comfortable enough to just be in the room with them? (She was up on one of the bed on the cupboard)
You are right! I had to go through the video again, she is in the cave, but you can see her moving, nice!
I was wondering if that was her!! Yayyyyyy!!
@@jts2561 Timestamp?
Fan Antics
2:20
@@Lov3lyDay Thanks.
Love how once she became Dark Eyebrows Rachel she was ready to clap back at all the invasive shady comments. XD
The eyebrows help her channel her immense power.
I forget that English isn't Jun's native language, his pronunciation is spot on:)
He has such a clear and nice accent! And a relaxing voice to listen to also ☺️
Idk he sounds like a Japanese person speaking English (like me and my dad (who is also Japanese) do when speaking English). Maybe we can tell it's not someone's native language because we sound like them :p
@Tiger King are you american?
@Tiger King wowww someone's mad for no reason. No need for you to be angry when I asked a simple question that wasn't even derogatory. You've answered it either way though, Jun doesn't have any kind of an American accent, he speaks English well but anyone who speaks it natively would ever doubt that
@Tiger King yes dude I'm American and even if I wasn't why wouldn't I be able to know? It doesn't sound anything like an American accent you don't hear a difference between him and Rachel?
I didn't even know there was "scandal" for you guys. You're one of the coolest UA-cam couples in my humble opinion. I hope you continue to feel better, Rachel, and always remember to keep building that ladder! And Jun, your English is near perfect, better than a lot of people who speak English as a native language. I also loved seeing a Pichi in the top left corner, so thank you for the really smart camera angle!
Buying a house just because of resell value literally makes no sense. You buy/build a house to live in it for the rest of your life without worrying about rent! To feel safe and completely independent!
Because the commenters are Americans who don't understand how other people live in other countries. Most of the time you build a house and sell it to the highest bidder and hope that your "property value" doesn't go down. Capitalism in a nutshell
I've got a friend with five kids. They have moved a few times as their family grew. And when the kids move out, they will probably sell and move somewhere smaller.
If they lost a hundred grand on every house they had, they wouldn't have been able to afford the house they have now. It depends on your goals. To break it down by country is ridiculousness.
Relying on the housing market to get your money back is just not a smart "investment" move. It really only makes sense to consider a house an investment if you are making income from renting it out.
It's really none of your business why people decide to buy a house. I don't think you get to determine what are legitimate reasons to buy a house.
@@kaedatiger I disagree. Blindly hoping your house doesn't lose value is a bad idea. Buying a popular style home in a good location with the intent on only living there for a short amount of time can be a good investment.
There is no reason you can't make your home part of an investment strategy.
People can be so rude :(
Lol at pre-emptive response about Jun not talking. I have to do that all the time because people will be like "shut up and let your husband talk". I will give him so much time to speak but he prefers it if I talk because of course, not his native language. He also spends all his time at work talking, sometimes he wants to just chill.
Even when couples have a baby, you immediately get asked "wHeN aRe YoU hAvInG a SeCoNd BaBy?!"
Even when we shared our infertility issues and the whole journey of IVF.... apparently we should be popping out more babies!
Typical ungrateful people just ignore and smile. We don't know their first intention to be funny or pure rude
Well, about the not having children but only cats: my mother told me more than ones that people like that are egocentric....I have 4 cats and no children (by choice) so after a few times I told her that her comments are hurtfull to me. I think those remarks are pure stupidity. And for you guys having to answer more ‘stupid’ questions: well done. You guys are great. 😃
@@ali_tafa006 Sadly they're still people thinking, because UA-camrs or others share some part of their life, its a right to comment everything they (the viewers) want. They didn't even think about it anymore.
Jun is too busy petting and playing with the cats to talk more. It's hard work, but somebody has to do it.
Don't mind them. If they don't understand your struggle then that's on them. If you want more kids then have them. The youtube audience can't dictate your lif efor you. I'll pray for you. P.s you guys just got a new subscriber👍
Man, as someone with dysthymia, your tmi section really resonated with me. So many people can't believe me when I tell them I have depression because to them I look happy. Stay well/get better!
I don't have dysthymia but sometimes when I'm dealing with bouts of depression some people don't realize because from the outside I look happy. It's a coping mechanism mostly because if I look sad or upset people will ask me what's wrong and it's hard to answer when I don't even know myself so I put on a facade to avoid the questions. I hope you feel better!
eeeeyyyy....we can be dysthymia buddies! xD Seriously though, I'm glad Rachel's doing what's best for her and not forcing herself to go on camera when she's not up to it. I'd rather have a handful of fun videos over the course of a year instead of forcing her to make a bunch and be miserable the entire time. (and this year has been bad across the board so)- take care of each other, Rachel & Jun! And you too Meital. :)
Yay for dysthymia
eyyy same! it's one of my main problems when interacting with people face to face if I'm doing a good job showing emotions because its either the convo turns awkward or they get concerned about me and it still turns awkward orz
Its so infuriating when someone goes « stop over reacting! You aren’t depressed! You are just ungrateful!!! »
Oh lmao I didn’t realize Jun still had Rachel’s ring on until the end when he gave it back to her 🤣
Rachel: I was having a panic attack.
Jun: faceplants into cat
Best cure to panic attacks 😼
must smush face into cat
Some of the questions were really rude :( but thank you for being open about your mental health, it's reassuring to have influencers with such a big following who are still normal people
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I personally wouldnt mind AT ALL if u did a sponsoship spot at ste start of every of your videos. You deserve to make money and have a good life!
y e s
Sadly I'm sure some people will negative comment them as soon as they do because people are stupidly jealous like that.
Yes
Ok guys, Basically if you want MORE Jun videos, make sure Rachel is happy and appreciated!!
I personally don't mind seeing Rachel happy cuz they are happy with their life.
Happy Wife = Happy Jun.
main message: don't judge. be kind. please don't be the reason someone's mental health gets worse.
Why are people so judgmental about their life and cats. My god it’s their life so let them live it how they live it
Jun using the excuse "I don't speak english well" to get out of doing things lol His english is near perfect
Haha, it's true there's some modesty on Jun's part but as they were saying throughout, people (as a whole) will brutally judge any weakness on the internet and expect perfection... So I can kinda see where he might be coming from
I swear sometimes I think he’s really American and pretends he’s from Japan. His English is that good. 😂
Do you speak a second language? Even if it seems like he speaks it well it still doesn't make it any less daunting to attempt in front of an audience
@@korncobb8808 absolutely agree. Just because his English sounds nearly perfect when he prepared for a video doesn't mean that it is easy to speak spontaneously.
@@korncobb8808 For real!! I speak multiple languages to varying degrees, and even in the one I'm most comfortable in other than English (ASL) I still feel nervous in front of people - let alone if I were reaching a potential audience of millions. His English is really good though, even compared to how it was when they first started making videos that weren't mainly in Japanese. I wish my Japanese were as good as his English!
People criticized you for your reaction on Jun's gift?! When I saw it, I thought 'aww she was being shy!' I knew you loved them because it was a gift from your husband.
My husband, from next to me on the sofa: "We love you, Rachel! F the haters!" 💜
Me, a person with years of experience struggling with depression: "We love you, Rachel! F the haters!" 💜
Yeah!! We love you Rachel!!! F the haters!
*This*
Wholesome (*´ω｀*)
As someone contemplating getting a cat and very tired of being asked if I want kids, Rachel's black-and-white dramatic "barren" moment was amazing and very relatable.
100000%
"A Wooommmmaaann without a wwooooommmmbbbb!" LOL had to replay it two or three times :D
I don’t want kids or pets. I just want a motorbike. Brum Brum
I’ve been owned by cats since I was 21. I knew I didn’t want children when I was 12. I’m now 40, am still owned by cats and still don’t have or want human children.
I got rid of the “when are you having children?” question when I started telling people my personal boundaries didn’t allow them to ask me that, the same I’d never ask them how they wipe their arses, for example. Problem solved!
@@eleanor.shadow Excellent response! I'm going to borrow that, if you don't mind. I always knew I didn't want kids too. I still get asked at 50!
Why so many rude comment? I mean even they are kinda public figures but they still need some privacy.
Some ppl are so nosy nowadays. Why can’t we just come to see Jun and Rachel and sleepy Haku or noisy Poki or something else happily?
Is this the "Let's judge Rachel and Jun-Show"? Seriously, what is it with some of these comments...
Fr, people are overly judgmental because they’re not happy with themselves.
The fact that you only make videos when you feel like it means it's an extra special treat when you upload, and makes me appreciate it all the more 🥰
Sorry to hear about your depression, the pandemic is affecting everyone and you are not alone! You guys are the best with or without videos ♡
The kid question ughhh... I am 25 and my aunts always ask about that, by now it has become so annoying. I literally get a lecture whenever I say "I am not having kids" and they respond with "give it 2 years." I am perfectly happy as I am and would rather go traveling and enjoy myself and my youth. I don't plan on having kids or getting married why is that so wrong, it is my life and my body, plus I would be a bad mother since I have no maternal instinct whatsoever. They still call me selfish it's so dumb like I am depriving them of something...
I think it’s wonderful that you take charge of what happens to your body, not to mention, you are also thinking of what’s best for the non existent child, you don’t what the child to grow up in a household where the mother doesn’t feel a connection with them, that’s a sign of being responsible, good for you!!.
"I think you should have an abortion"
"WTF no! I told you I want kids!"
"Give it two months"
@@thaliacrafts407 I'd love to hear that for a change.
Just ask ur aunts if they are willing to provide free babysitting service or sponsor the cost. That'll shut them up😜
I agree so much. Our generation finally has the chance to be perfectly happy as you describe it, and not having to give in about this topic is so important for me, too. Never let people take away your freedom and your inner peace because they think you should or shouldn't do something!
Stop with the Rachel scrutiny, people. Just be nice and enjoy a great channel.
The kid question was disrespectful, it’s not that people are “too shy to ask” it’s no ones business. There are many reasons why people choose to or not to have children, then theres people who want children but can’t or really struggle having them, miscarry, are infertile, you never know. Mind your own business.
Exactly my thoughts
I can see why Rachel is hesitant to do more videos. Women always get criticized for everything they do and say and every expression on their face is hyper interpreted almost always to be negative. They get criticized for their looks -- not enough makeup and you're "not trying" . .too much and you're 'trying too hard' or 'eyebrows too dark', their clothes, their style or lack thereof. If they have kids they receive every criticism under the sun for the way they interact with their baby, feed, clothe, sleep schedule, EVERYTHING and then also criticized for not looking like a supermodel immediately after birth and then every day thereafter (see also: looks comments). , if they don't they are coldhearted weird cat ladies, or going against nature or whatever. It is so much easier to be a dude on social media -- you can wear what you want with simple hair and no makeup and not have your looks hyper criticized and if you have a baby and change 1 diaper you're the world's greatest hero, if you don't have kids you're just a dude living free, etc.
Ditto. That question was so rude. It's nobody else's business but theirs.
@@koolaidman6251 I really appreciate your comment in support of Rachel and women in general
yeah and like not everyone wants or is fit to be one for example, ffs. it’s none of your business.
common sense train coming through:
- asking women/couples about their plans for children can easily be a very invasive thing to do. there are a bunch of reasons why this can be a sensitive topic and not everyone wants to talk about it in public. Also, assuming that women want kids is enhancing stereotypes and puts pressure and expectations on us. Whether someone wants children or not is not a question of gender. Woman does not equal mother. Be considerate.
- depression does hit hard and it hits even worse during a pandemic. rachel & jun are not obligated to be entertaining to you, just because they have a youtube channel. bad days come and sometimes they don't go for a while, but we should always be aware that behind someone's behavior, there is a bigger picture. Thank you rachel for being so open about your mental health and I wish you all the best. I'm sure you will be better again. Very inspiring to see you putting your mental health first :)
Also, to add on, I am in a non-hetero relationship. I get asked a lot “When will you have children?” “Don’t you think it would legitimize your marriage if you had kids?”
I love the idea of having children but people are so pushy about it.
Ugh I'm totally for mental health awareness. But it's so hard and awkward to talk about my own battle. Maybe I'm still working up to it. But its super encouraging to see others working through it
Also!!! Not every woman has a uterus and not every person who has a uterus is a woman! Plus with this in mind, some people's uteri just don't work properly. I'm a nonbinary person with family history of reproductive system issues and I really don't want kids.
PREACH! Not everyone is ready or wants to have children. Sometimes people are better off without having kids.
I'm a hetero woman who never wanted kids. Even when I was a child, I had zero interest in playing with doll babies. I went straight to stuffed animals and Barbies. I love the way Rachel and Jun just didn't answer the question. It's their business, not ours.
I’m so sorry you went through that Rachel. Take care.
Rachel: talking about her mental health
Jun: I must sniff the cat
Jun is the best
I agree with Jun, emotions are hard but better with kitty belly.
That is what cat is for🐈
@@sweetmouse6277 I think he was just trying to hold it in... Asians tend to control their emotions... or at least try to...
@@sweetmouse6277 So you understand her depression much more than the HUSBAND of the person with the depression and can immediately draw this conclusion with no knowledge of whatever he did in the background to nurse her back from her depression?
@@sweetmouse6277 it might be difficult to show empathy for a partner on camera when you know these issues of theirs already? we can't be very indicting of his responses
Thank you for being so open about mental health, Rachel. It's a really important to talk about. I think a lot of people that suffer from anxiety and depression took a big hit this year.
I think people who normally don't have anxiety or depression also took a big hit this year. I wonder if part of the pushback in the US on continuing lockdowns and closures are because many people began to discover things that they had hidden by keeping too busy during the day to think about the things. Now with time to reflect at home, the facade has broken, and issues have appeared.
Rachel: Poki, are you a illegal cat?
Jun: He's from the mountain.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
It's got to be hard to be an "ideal" public figure online, let alone a woman online. I'm a stranger who doesn't know you at all, but still sending love to you guys for making videos that feel like a warm hug. Thank you!
Jun smiling giving back her the ring is cute
I often don't see healthy relationships so I enjoy seeing small interactions between the two of you
*Pokis my new husband now*
😏
:O
*"Look at me! LOOK! AT! ME! I am the husband now!"* - Poki 2020
That One Buzzkill I don’t see why not
Anonymity makes it easy for people to be awful.
I'm so sorry you had to read all those comments.
Sending love from India❤️❤️❤️
You guys are just the best!
I feel SO BAD that people attacked Rachel over that Juns cooking video. I have some anxiety issues and can totally imagine that whole scene playing out. Sometimes you just can’t turn it on.
"Why put effort into making videos when you can just sit here and let your wife do all the work?" Rachel, you should have stayed married to Poki. He's a rugged outlaw from the mountain. Jun just cooks stuff.