My Coming Out Story Part 1
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- My coming out Story.. Sorry for it being so long but i had alot to say. And sorry for talking kind of slow im a REALLY shy person and this is the first time i have ever talked in front of a camera:)
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I am sorry to hear that you went through all of that. Some people just can't accept that sexuality is not a choice. They would rather people pretend and hide to make their religious belief seem valid or they want you to not own it because they can't own their own sexuality. I hope you've learned to love yourself unconditionally. The saddest thing is that even though they couldn't accept you unconditionally, you are accepting of them unconditionally because you sacrificed staying in your unbearable pain because you thought of the pain that it would cause them by committing suicide. That was an unselfish act for people who acted so selfishly towards you! It's so ironic. May the real God continue to protect and guide you!
It was extremely pleasing to see a young fully informed man' expressing the realitys of life.
I must say that being gay is not as bad as what we think.
Just having the ability to love and care for another of the same sex, is certainly the way forward. Wether your straight or gay, life is life and you only have One chance in life to live it to the fullest.
Peace and Love is the way forward for us all.
Fabulous young man!
Well done.💋 👊
Many parents fail their gay kids because they are thinking only of THEMSELVES. Life isn't fair. You've been through a lot but you come across as a smart guy who knows what's going on and you know you are entirely normal. I hope you have a really good life.
That is so true; when I came out, my mom made it all about her. "How could I do that to her".
OMG! your story really hit home for me, i totally understand how you were feeling and i'm so happy that you overcame all that depression. i really wish the best for you in life because you seem like a great person. much love from england.
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
Young man remember that God loves you and so do i..
Wow! that is some story. You are a survivor for sure and you can certainly be proud of that! You made it and I'm sure life will get better. stay strong brother and be true to yourself and you will go far. Thanks for posting this inspirational story!
I like the way you tell your story and how you worked on dealing with the rejection.
i cant get over the "i'm 16" part. you look more 26.
Not a very polite thing to say
If this is how you look at 16 what are you gonna look like at 32?
Y'all gonna shut up. He was a child /minor. How fuckin dare you, like mind your own fuckin business, if you ain't gonna lift our teens, given what they go through. The nerve of these qweens 😠😩😠😩.
He does look mature for 16 back then.
@Blactor EXACTLY!!
I'm a straight black male, and I see what you're talking about!! The black Christian community would rather have you "fake the funk," meaning go ahead, get married to a woman, and repress your gay feelings and desires. Then they wanna get mad at YOU if you cheat on her with every guy in sight....
But yeah, be who you are and live in your own skin...
You did a great job. Thanks for sharing your story.
Your message was very insightful for other gay teens and the many lives you will touch from this inspirational message.Stand in the truth of yourself always.Truth is freedom it will attract positive authentic people around you. We attract what we are so continue to love yourself unconditionally and unconditional love is what you'll receive.You are love and you are loveable blessings strong one.
That sounds so much like how my mom reacted. Great video, Quincy and glad things got better.
great story, thanks for sharing, man :)
IM GLAD you got through it ALL my brother, pls TAKE care OF yourself and BE ok STRONG @ GOD bless
Glad to hear in part 1 things were going in the right direction for you...best of luck
Quincy, by age I could be your father. The good news is that every parent on this Earth should be very proud of a son like you. The sad news is that probably most of them don't even understand why they should. Stay awesome as you are.
I don't agree with homosexuaity...but i like you on a personal level because you are a very kind and sincere person. I respect you and as a straight man if ever i would have a gay person as a friend it would be someone like you.
I love your vids man
@phantomsuccour I thought that myself b4 I came out.. I thought everyone was going to hate me.. When I came out I was supposed that no one hated me and if they did I had a support system on UA-cam were I knew people would be there for me.. Find that support someone where trust me it will change your life
Thanks for the story. Love the bro and keep the videos coming.
ohhh ok gotcha. I'm 20 but high school was a great experience to find the truth who you are & can learn life lession to get an idea what is like in the real world.
Your such a awesome guy!! God bless you! I wish you all the best in the world and beyond!
good story bro i went throug the same thing in life.stay strong and love your self.
never hate yourself man
thanks for sharing your story it was a eye opener for me thanks. :)
you were super brave dude. thanks for sharing. wish u the best
inspiring man.... I wish I had half the courage you do.
I remember you when I came out it wasn't really a coming out tho cause my parents said they knew since I was kid but they said they still love me and always will
bless you my brother....
Your story touched me. I think you're beautiful
Was very brave of you to come out like that..very proud bro...
Omg my heart pours out to you. My story is almost just like that minus the gay cousin and suicide. I smoked, partied and all that to take away from the pain and stress. I'm gay and I've told my mom and my mom made me tell my dad which she said she would never do. But I don't have my phone and can't talk to my best friends who I trust and who have been there for me threw this hard experience
wow ur so sweet and cute and your story was well explained well done xxxx hope all goes well xxx
Thanks for sharing this. The black community (particularly the black CHRISTIAN community) is, unfortunately, rife with hatred, bigotry, and ignorance regarding homosexuality.
One would think that people that are routinely discriminated against would be able to identity with and relate to others who are rejected in the same superficial way, especially if those "others" are actually US.
Again, thanks for sharing...hopefully you'll inspire other young black men to embrace themselves fully.
You seem heavily matured in some respects. I would notice you as formidable vs. young had I seen you routinely passing. The thing about the gay lifestyle is for many its probably a phase not a final destination. I think for males the gay life has a lot to offer in terms of growing into a fuller maleness. What people don't watch out about is mysteries of desire and the real soul mate. I think every male ends up with a female regardless of if their with a male still. Relationships are too confining, coded and threatening when its probably much simpler. I think when males finally satisfy the oddest sex fantasy they are then able to move on but the gay life is slow and dependent on a number of variables often. It keeps males wanting males as a result or confined to it.
Omg. the part where you mom told you you will start liking girls was just like mine.
My friend God loves you and he loves his children you are great have Faith and hope in God you are Love a beautiful video please Love your life be happy and love your life with joy and happiness in your heart don't give up you are Love by god my Brother.💞💙💞💙💞🌈☀🌈🙏💕🙏💕🌻💙🌻
I HOPE BY YOU MAKING THESE VIDEOS
YOU BECOME A STRONGER PERSON & YES IT DOES GET BETTER, BUT NEVER
KEEP YA' FEELINGS BOTTLED UP INSIDE, GO OUT & FIND A SUPPORT GROUP
THREW FRIENDS
& PS. TRY TO REACH OUT TO YA' GAY COUSIN ANYWAY U CAN, DONT
PRE OCCUPY YOURSELF BY WHAT YA' MOM MIGHT SAY OR THINK.
U HAVE YA OWN LIFE TO LIFE & I KNOW YOUR MOM MAY LOVE U IN HER OWN WAY, BUT SHE CANT EVER LIVE YA LIFE 4 YOU. LIKE OPRAH WINFRY SAYS
ONLY U CAN BE THE BEST U, THAT U CAN BE, LIVE BY YA OWN TRUTH.
Thank you for sharing.
Young man, don’t rely on God because there is no God out there pick up a third grade science book and you’ll find out how the earth was involved and how human beings evolved. Most importantly find people to talk to find peers find counseling and embrace all the goodness in life.
Hey man I know what you are going throw I did the same thing you did and that I am gay myself and I love your video ok and if you need a friend I am here for you bro
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
@1ramises Of course u can add me on FaceBook:)
My mom TOO didn't like me talking to the gay EXAMPLES
Stay Strong
nice
What's up Fred? I'm from H-Town
wow, what a story
im 18 now:P
You're beautiful!
@Malakai Naduvu Of course you can add me on FB just look up Quincey McKee and u should find me
that's a grown ass man
Well, my side of the family doesnt really care if Im gay but my Dad's side Idk about them likeeeeee foreal foreal Im dead ass serious
Don't pay any tension 2 people don't like you you been yoyr self
You beating 16 bad
what's your name on face book
Quincey McKee:D
You're beautiful
That's a grown up 16 yr/o
@Damp2 im 18 now:P
Did you fast and pray, read your Bible and go to church?
did you?
Damn i'm on marijuana right lmaoooo
Discrimination for been Black and Gay ? That's for stupid people. sorry but a just see a cute and strong boy.
I DON'T UNDERSTAND Y GGIRLS ALWALYS SAY THAT
can i add you as my FB friend...aight man....wats you FB username
wud love 2 add u as a fb friend anyway let me know and be happy and safe xx
wow not gonna lie Americans look so much older than their age!!
16. 16. 16. Are you for real. 16. No. No. Nooooooo. Check your birth certificate. Your story is very iffy
SEE U UN WHENT & TURN TO DRUGS & IF GOD FORBID YOU O.D.
IT WILL BE HER FAULT 4 NOT SUPPORT YOU BY LETTIN U COMMUNICATE & CONFIDE
WITH YA' GAY COUSIN.
SHE WORRIED BOUT' YOU EXPERIMENTING WITH HIM, GIVE AH' BREAK !!
@afrolatinadamien: Maybe if you brushed up on your English you would learn how to apply things in their proper context. I have disagreed with my mom many times but that has not stopped me from loving her or wanting her to be my mom. Grow a brain and stop being the first to respond to other peoples comments....this clearly is not your calling in life. My original comment was intended as a compliment.
16 wow to youny buut I will have u when u 24
Damn you only 16 you pretty cute & to young for me lol
WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW THIS IS CRAZY UR 16 AND GAY BOY U NEED HELP AND U NEED IT FAST U HAD A GIRL FRIEND AND WHY U BRAKE UP WITH HER FOR WHAT , LORD HELP US WITH THESE PEOPLE.
yulonda lambert leave him alone yulonda let him be who he is cause he not worried about you OK girl bye