My Coming Out Story

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  • Опубліковано 13 бер 2012
  • This my coming out story. I have been openly homosexual since August 2009, and proud of it. I am also encouraging other LGBT people to embrace who they are and let their rainbows shine as bright as God's love.
    Peace and Love

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  • @Joeyarhino1
    @Joeyarhino1 6 років тому +25

    those lips, that nose, those eyes. hella cute

    • @clintcallas6513
      @clintcallas6513 4 роки тому +2

      Dam u snatched the words right outa my mouth bra...lmao

  • @Pilgrim812
    @Pilgrim812 10 років тому +14

    We are coming into a better more accepting world. When I graduated high school
    in 1969 gay intimacy was illegal in every state except Illinois and we were labeled
    by the mental health system as mentally ill. What an environment! You're
    world will be much different than the one I knew in my youth. Many have
    worked for this time in history and it has the potential to change the world
    for the better. God bless you.

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @yahyah9184
    @yahyah9184 5 років тому +1

    Andres you are amazing, phenomenal being .To stand in the truth of who you are authenticly is powerful.God is unconditional love and made your uniqueness for your purposeful work on earth .To restore acceptance, harmony, balance, unconditional love, among earth , emissary of light. Blessings on your great works so proud of the healing energies works your providing to this world.🤗 Blessings light one

  • @jimster586
    @jimster586 6 років тому +5

    Listening to your story made me want to reach through my screen and give you a big hug.

  • @amirroyall3150
    @amirroyall3150 9 років тому

    Thanks for sharing your story. It was a good one to hear and I'm happy that your life improved through it all. I appreciate your message on togetherness. Thanks again.

  • @Timoofthee
    @Timoofthee 3 роки тому

    You had me at “I want you to know me”. I suffered the same indignities as you with bullying and no feeling of self-worth. You WILL prevail. Just stay true to your inner feelings. Your relationship with your dad is precious. Bless you.

  • @waitin4you2cum
    @waitin4you2cum 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your coming out story. It was articulate, interesting, emotional and inspiring! Also, thank you for being the 1st subscriber to my channel even though I don't have any content...LOL. Anyway, hope that you come back and share more videos about your life! Hope all is well with you...

  • @landocalrisian2014
    @landocalrisian2014 5 років тому +1

    I enjoyed your story and your positive spirit. God Bless!!

  • @vebirim
    @vebirim 4 роки тому +1

    I can't just stop watching him, he is so likable.

  • @AndresHolmes
    @AndresHolmes  12 років тому +8

    Thank you so much, it took a lot for me to get all of that out in one session.

  • @w.g.forever4398
    @w.g.forever4398 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for your coming out story...And giving advice to these who are afraid of coming out to the world

  • @ethangordon4258
    @ethangordon4258 9 років тому +8

    I've watched this so many times you are awesome and so very fine. I'm loving this, all the best :)

  • @pointpleasant6708
    @pointpleasant6708 Рік тому

    An amazing 18 year old. His parents must be very proud of him and his commitment to truth and honesty. Very courageous.

  • @marlonsmith7911
    @marlonsmith7911 9 років тому +2

    You Are Loved Andres. Be The Best You, You Can Be.❤

  • @jamesgonzales7994
    @jamesgonzales7994 5 років тому +2

    So Beautiful! Thank you God bless you!

  • @sydneyreid7401
    @sydneyreid7401 10 років тому +1

    Your story is a lot like mine... I came out when I was 16... And u are an awesome person fir telling your story.

  • @Eddie061469
    @Eddie061469 Рік тому

    Very well said young man! by the way you are very handsome, cute and absolutely adorable. I just want to give you a hug

  • @benswann9444
    @benswann9444 Рік тому

    BRILLIANT story ..be the BEST VERSION OF who YOU are ..and surround yourself with genuine positive people.....

  • @ROBFATHERX
    @ROBFATHERX 4 роки тому +2

    I have always appreciated and respected any and all “coming out” stories. I simply see the telling - or rather, the sharing of each story, as a reflection of the storyteller’s personal inner strength; that person’s very bold, brave, shameless move in which that person tells the world that he, she, or them is willing to unapologetically live their truth and live IN their truth.
    CHECK IT: Always live your truth and live IN your truth.
    Bravo, Andrés, bravo! And as a fellow human being, as a bisexual person of color, and as a member of the LGBTQ community, I thank you for bravely sharing your story. All my best to you, to your future endeavors, and to each and every day of your wonderful and beautiful life. #LGBTQareLegion

    • @AndresHolmes
      @AndresHolmes  4 роки тому +1

      Such a beautiful and sincere statement. Thank you much for your support and kind words of truth and encouragement, handsome 🧡🏳️‍🌈

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @TheJds1993
    @TheJds1993 10 років тому +3

    AMEN bro be who you are.

  • @plancaster14
    @plancaster14 6 років тому

    What's good bro? I'm from Philadelphia. Great story!!!!!

  • @paulmiller6647
    @paulmiller6647 2 роки тому

    Thanks very much for the upload.

  • @blackamericanlesbianprofes4357
    @blackamericanlesbianprofes4357 9 років тому +4

    Awesome to see more visibility for the Brown skin/Black LGB and T community! Thank you for sharing. :)

  • @brucebutler5215
    @brucebutler5215 3 роки тому

    Hi, I loved your story be strong and as you said God love you. Very nice looking too,, be happy and always be yourself !

  • @andrehambri6821
    @andrehambri6821 3 роки тому

    I'm so proud of you l got your back be who you are people will come around and get over it love is no matter who you with go Job people can Shirley Learn for you a role model to others thank you so much

  • @CarlyleTheLance219Sealy
    @CarlyleTheLance219Sealy 10 років тому +3

    Andres Holmes , you are an exceptional. I am the same way, but different. I was trying to be straight to my family, even my mother. I have come out to My mother at 27 or 28 to the late now. At first she questions me as to why I did not telling early in my teenage years. Now she has accepted it out of love.

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @danielfrisoni1359
    @danielfrisoni1359 2 роки тому

    Hi !
    I am Daniel from France
    I just came across your story !
    Beautiful moment !
    Thank you for sharing.
    I wish I could give you à big friendly hug.
    I d love to know what become of you

  • @rmronalda57
    @rmronalda57 5 років тому +1

    UR GONNA BE ALRIGHT. U R A GOOD MAN . KEEP UR HEAD AND BE STRONG. UR GONNA BLOSSOM INTO THE ADULT WORLD. KEEP SMILIN GOOD LOOKIN

  • @MTheChequeGuy
    @MTheChequeGuy 2 роки тому

    At my watching of your video now in later 2021, your video is 9 years old and would love to hear an update on your life and your story. 😊

  • @joeltbrown1867
    @joeltbrown1867 3 роки тому

    Mr. Lamar i'm very pround of you for coming out . I know it waas hard to do as a young black Jehovah Witness man, I know that's very to deal witg tgat as a child. As long you know you hav a family in friends who love & care about you that's all you need to weary about. Much love in respect in love. Onelove in be bless.

  • @liviotfleur7065
    @liviotfleur7065 Рік тому

    So beautiful brother bless

  • @snowyowl7042
    @snowyowl7042 3 роки тому

    Wow, you are a handsome man. Hopefully things have gotten easier, be happy, stay healthy 🤗🤗🤗

  • @albertoldschool6950
    @albertoldschool6950 4 роки тому +1

    Proud of you! You should be also.

  • @heresjerry
    @heresjerry 4 роки тому

    Hello Andrés. I'm very proud that you came out a few years ago. When I was 16 years old, I came out to my brothers and I was very proud of myself. LGBTQ+ people are very beautiful and strong people. We are all the same people because we unite not divide. Love conquers hate😄👬🌈😁💯

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @jetrael
    @jetrael 12 років тому +1

    good answer. and not only cute but brave too...

  • @blainebill39
    @blainebill39 12 років тому

    @VersBruh2
    That you and so many in your amazing generation defiantly get the whole "Be Yourself" thing is positively stunning! It all makes those fearful days of old, when Bobby Griffith and I were trying to love one another, as two "Out Boys", seem like several lifetimes ago! Bless ya "Babe", and please do consider joining the "GIVE EM' HOPE" Campaign, your voice would prove quite an asset!
    Con L'Amour e Molti Baci! (Lots a Love n' Kisses)
    Zio Blaine

  • @williammorrissey444
    @williammorrissey444 5 років тому

    Hi Andres, you are beautiful and well spoken.

  • @atefurshambaelijah2250
    @atefurshambaelijah2250 3 роки тому

    SHAASHA-RESPECT. To you

  • @tmxomb
    @tmxomb 11 років тому

    your adorable!!
    Be you, Be true!!!
    xox

  • @frcgfd107
    @frcgfd107 5 років тому

    You're a cool dude! I liked your video.

  • @rmronalda57
    @rmronalda57 4 роки тому

    I ADNIRE UR SPIRIT AND I WISH U NOTHIN BUT THA BEST. AND I WILL WATCH MORE OF U LATER

  • @Polex12345
    @Polex12345 4 роки тому

    Nice one.......👍👍👍👍✋✋✋✋
    Greetings from Africa precisely Ghana.......

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому +1

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @EricHammond01
    @EricHammond01 Рік тому

    I love your vids

  • @elmervorlicek7038
    @elmervorlicek7038 6 років тому

    I support you

  • @thetopwave6437
    @thetopwave6437 4 роки тому

    Can we get a update please

  • @AndresHolmes
    @AndresHolmes  12 років тому +1

    @blainebill39 Thank you soooo much Blaine, that means so much to me honestly!! :) be yourself, always and forever!!

  • @adrina911
    @adrina911 10 років тому +4

    Your cute!

  • @blainebill39
    @blainebill39 12 років тому

    @VersBruh2
    Buongiorno!
    You are most Welcome Andreas "Ragazzo Molto Bello e Dolce" (Sweet Beautiful Boy)! And I call you that with nothing but the purest of love, affection and respect in my heart! I've already forwarded this to a great friend of mine, and very soon to be one of yours as well, "Allen"(comingoutnowtogether)!

  • @damienj5378
    @damienj5378 5 років тому

    Respect

  • @derrickhypolite3250
    @derrickhypolite3250 Рік тому

    Brother you are love please love your life be happy and you are handsome looking back Brother your video is so beautiful God loves his children you are love and blessed my friend.💞💙💞💙🙏💙💙💞🌈☀🌈🌻☀🌻☀🌻☀🌻💛💙💚💖

  • @liviotfleur7065
    @liviotfleur7065 Рік тому

    You nice, brother

  • @mr.ceecee8886
    @mr.ceecee8886 10 років тому +1

    Hi! Andres my name is Clyde I am Frm Greenville, Ms. I really can say u taken back to when I was coming up as a child my mom didn't raise me my great aunt did and I was also brought up in church and I always new I was different as well also tryed to hide who I was by dating girl I even talked about in school but when I came back to stay with my mom I had 3 sister's and 1 brother they use to talk bout me a lot I had fight with them and people on the street and school but my life didn't end there after graduation I meet someone who I married at the age of 20 and was 19 still haven't told my parents that I was gay still scared of how everyone would look at me then a baby comes alone everything was going good but good thing never last. But to make it short I came out to my mom she say she already new just was waiting on me and that she would never let me got married but my Dad on the other hand was not for a minute lol but he came around God rest his soul be for he died we became close so to see I didn't go through this life style alone it's good to no there are others have been through it to so be bless and telling your story......

    • @virginiawilliams4431
      @virginiawilliams4431 6 років тому

      Mr CEE CEE I live in greenville Mississippi to

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @theoryg
    @theoryg 8 років тому +3

    As you get older your mannerisms may change. It often depends on environment. It takes time but certain guys can change that. Surprisingly the mannerisms aren't often welcome in the gay life of being with men often sexually.

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @AndresHolmes
    @AndresHolmes  12 років тому +1

    Lol why, thanks you :) and I'm glad you enjoyed it

  • @chantalbacco3945
    @chantalbacco3945 5 років тому +1

    Andres damn so cute

  • @trevonsaddler1304
    @trevonsaddler1304 4 роки тому +1

    So how are u doing

  • @welforddabney925
    @welforddabney925 2 роки тому

    Nice! 12

  • @productorbrand8455
    @productorbrand8455 4 роки тому

    Some people have to be careful coming out because it can be dangerous, it's not as easy as you make it sound. Everyones situation is different.

    • @AndresHolmes
      @AndresHolmes  4 роки тому +1

      True, that's why I mentioned that I was one of the fortunate ones. My heart goes out to all of those whose families heartlessly rejected them.

    • @productorbrand8455
      @productorbrand8455 4 роки тому +1

      Oh wow I'm surprised you responded seeing how long you've been gone from your channel. Thanks for the quick reply. Now when are you coming back to do vlogs ? I hope you answer that one.

    • @AndresHolmes
      @AndresHolmes  4 роки тому +1

      @@productorbrand8455 I have been wanting to start recording again, a lot have definitely happened since this last video! Thank you for showing my humble lil channel some love and sharing some very real insight!

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @traviswilliams9294
    @traviswilliams9294 4 роки тому

    Hi

  • @WilliamMcSpirit
    @WilliamMcSpirit 12 років тому

    Delicious

  • @MarkJohnson-gf9nv
    @MarkJohnson-gf9nv Рік тому

    I really wish I could meet with you and talk.

  • @OneNU2009
    @OneNU2009 6 років тому +1

    Damn, he is fine.

  • @christianstylezinc9224
    @christianstylezinc9224 8 років тому

    i just DM U

  • @theodorecruz5173
    @theodorecruz5173 4 роки тому

    ⚫ true right bruh GOD does not hate but m a n does♠ and often ◼

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 4 роки тому

      Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

  • @reggied1811
    @reggied1811 4 роки тому

    The football player actually liked you

  • @dawgeral333
    @dawgeral333 4 роки тому

    You're entirely too beautiful. Stop it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

  • @christianstylezinc9224
    @christianstylezinc9224 8 років тому

    hmu so I can ask U something

  • @christianstylezinc9224
    @christianstylezinc9224 8 років тому

    do U have a kik?

    • @AndresHolmes
      @AndresHolmes  8 років тому

      no but you can find me on Instagram @caramelpapito or my facebook Andrés Holmes.

  • @kelltonwatts2075
    @kelltonwatts2075 9 років тому

    boring! boring is good(trust me)

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 Рік тому

    I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @thetopwave6437
    @thetopwave6437 4 роки тому

    Can we get a update please