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My testosterone is good i take extra tes to make it higher it work good for sex drive too. I think no men would have a low libido if they were married to this beautiful doc 😉👍
Depression makes sense. I went a long time without being in a relationship and was suffering from depression. When I got into a relationship again I found that while I was happy to have sex, I didn't NEED to have it as my partner did. But the longer this relationship has gone on I've found my sex drive has increased as I've gotten happier in myself. :)
What would cause a male with good testosterone levels on no medication with no chronic illness and a healthy weight to view sex as pointless? I get nothing from sex except a tiny tingle during ejaculation. My view of it has shifted to it's for woman only. I get nothing out of it worth the time and energy I put in. If anything having to have sex causes me to be depressed knowing I get nothing from it.
And many women will say: He has changed from being a very physically active and attractive man to be a fat, non-caring male, more interested in pub visits
Another great video Dr. Bailey! Well organized and even better delivery! Thanks for your continued commitment to the health of our community. No surprise of your popularity.
oh wow your smile and positivity!!! I am definitely not low, mine is high when I am around women and as I grow me libido is definitely going up, just treat women nice and enjoy the energy, all will be fine.. and lastly relax...
Good afternoon Sam. What I loved most from this is the approach. You have adopted conversation and more smile than lecturing, which is soothing. Keep it up. A fan.
Amazing info. I'm 58 and a truck driver so it goes with out saying we can have issues. How ever stress and depression is mine. I now workout 6days a week and take only natural supplements. Stress and depression is reduced And managed. No more problems.
I workout 6 times a week too, but I do leg day 3 times a week. I suffer from depression after my wife left me. So I joined the gym. It’s helped alot. Also after leg day, your boner will be like the Eiffel Tower :)
It's all about caring and giving, not wanting and taking. If you truly love each other, then there should be no problem with libido. Loving is GIVING and RECEIVING not TAKING and REJECTING. IT'S SO HARD THESE DAYS TO FIND TWO PEOPLE WITH THAT ATTITUDE TOWARDS EACH OTHER.
Stay single and live alone, find a casual 'friend' who thinks likewise. Get together on a mutually agreeable basis. No commitment, responsibilities, nagging etc. If it goes sour, move on, or if libido needs eventually not met make two arrangements. Mega.
I watched this some time ago. I’ve made improvements to my diet and now I exercise regularly. I listen to, watch and follow anything that is uplifting, inspirational or motivational. There is a way out of depression, low libido and indifference. Hang in there.
The common saying is "you could read the phone book" (for good singers: sing the phone book) and I agree. I would listen to her speak about any topic lol. Lovely accent
I have found out that it depends on women too. A beautiful woman can increase libido well. But there are surely other reasons too like love between the two.
You've hit the nail on the head. Most here are blaming their wives but when you point the finger there are three fingers pointing back at you. Keep loving your wife because you made a commitment to her. They flourish on it.
I had no idea I was going through this. A blood test came back and my doctor was amazed at my low testosterone level at age 62. He tried some lotions that I rubbed on my shoulders and they didn't increase the testosterone levels. He referred me to a urologist and he started me on injections. In a few weeks I felt like a different person. Take advantage of everything they offer.
@@dana102083lol, nah they got lots that just go on your arms. I mean I hear that a lot, injections are better though because it can be calculated better, which is important for ppl who have to be carefull with thicker blood
Isn't that a paraphrase of a quote from Plato?, or one of those old philosophers. Mine's dropped as well, but I'd prefer high libido and inability to concentrate, lol.
Hey Sam, great video and have you ever been told you look slightly like Margot Robbie? Lads I will give you a list of things to help with this problem and help general sexual health/performance: 1. Cut out sugars (Increases Estrogen) 2. Cut out gluten (Causes bloating) 3. Exercise to decrease BMI ( To a healthy range) 4. Practice Kegels and testicular massage ( Increases Penis ligament strength and removes blockages) 5. Add more healthy dietary fats (A diet too low in fats kills your libido) 6. Meditate (Relaxation is good for everything especially lowering cortisol) 7. Cold Showers (Increase brown fat production, Increases testosterone and helps turn white fat to beige fat) 8. Research Tantric Sex (I love it and have had no complaints) Hope these help lads! Thanks Doc ;) X
Thanks Doc! My partner and I have been having issues with my libido. We’ve been on standby with getting it checked (because of the world today) but I’m glad you’ve provided that link! I’ll be using that link TODAY!
Being rejected a lot, never having a relationship, family pressure, social pressure, anxiety, shyness and past years of depression did no wonders to my libido...
I lost a lot of sexual desire. But I have great endurance. I just feel that I have a greater understanding and appreciation for the need for the proper connection with the right companion. In other words, sex is just sex without the connect it just isn't "correct." Thanks you, bye.
My ex-wife had endometriosis surgery that cause her a lot of pain, especially in her bladder. Intercourse always caused me issues because I was always worried about her. She complained about things at times, but I couldn't help it. Subconsciously I always worried about causing her pain. Before the surgery everything was fine, but once I knew she hurt a lot it got to my head...big one and little one.
You are a great positive communicator also you are a tonic in yourself! In these strange times New Zealand must be one of the best places to be on the planet!
Definitelly first in the list! They ussually have unlimited number of pass sexual partnerss...you are always gessing if they are really honest with you or acting in order to get their agenda done...very scary
Low libido in men can be cured by watching Dr. Bailey videos! (It may work for some women too). Seriously, the difference in opinions of what it really means is quite a gap. Approaching 50 for me I obviously don't feel the burning urges I did at 25 or 35, but that slowing down has helped my life in many other ways. Thinking with the "proper head" has its benefits!
Good advice. A few others that may be behavioural? Lack of cuddling/affection/stroking/naughty flashing of each other; lack of showing cleavage when alone together; lack of fragrance by man and or woman; lack of sleeping naked by either or both partners; a lack of time just together.
Craftykez; can I ask you a question? Are a little bit older? Because most mature women start to have a higher sex drive due to biological need. It's now or never. Besides when it comes to intercourse men tend to do most of the strenuous activity, which as you well know makes him tired. Your jogging and he's running. I don't the age difference between you and your partners.
Wow, I went keto, then carnivore two years ago, when I discovered I was pre diabetic. I'm 73 and things had been going south for years. About four months in, I noticed things were looking up. Morning wood has now returned. I was curious, so I had my T checked along with my other blood work. Last reading was 521, a good number for a guy half my age. Down forty pounds so far, looking slim again. :):)
Sam, I noted that "LetsGetChecked" is in Euros, is this service available in Australia. PS, I love your videos and admire your courage to speak out in our current "silence the truth" environment.
Good day, This may have been slightly awkward doing a video like this. It takes a great deal of courage and conviction, as well as loving your occupation, Which is quite obvious! Thank you for caring enough about humankind. Keep up the great work. Have a beautiful day. Jim
I was abused by my first gf at 16 and ive been terrified about the thought of being intimate since then. in my 30s now and its only got worse and not better
That's awful to hear. Have you thought about trying counselling? If it's been affecting you for 14 years, it's not likely to improve without trying to address the cause of your fears.
@@DrSamBailey I have tried various forms of counselling and therapy over the years. Nothing works and I'm probably too far gone now. I hope someday to have an asexual relationship with a woman. Sex is something I've missed out on but I still want closeness and intimacy. Just with clothes on
@@geologyisntarealscience4059 you're talking like you're 80, give yourself a quick uppercut and come back to reality. People are always gunna be there who could possibly fuck you up, if you see those behaviors set up the boundary they don't come past that line unless their behaviour has changed, get it? You're in control. But get this: there's plenty of cool chicks out there you don't have to even wait for anyone to change. Be discerning. When a decent one comes along put the work into her, but don't think she's the only one and it's do die IT IS NOT. It doesn't work out big deal, keep at. You'll see pretty quick chicks cannot resist a bloke with an abundance mindset who is in total control of his boundaries and simply does not give a fuck about what people say and if the world's fucked. Let me know how you go. Sidenote: do you have decent game?? Obviously that's important too, to meeting and dating enough of a sample. Let me know. Fucking do not wallow one more day over what that person did to you. You've paid enough. Time to love yourself.
@@chriskalifornia7333 thanks a lot for the time you put into that. That one comment is more helpful than some professional therapists I've seen. I've always viewed myself as the problem so the opportunity to set boundaries never really occurred as I was too focused on what I view as an inevitable bad outcome. The thought of being in control and saying, actually I should be wary of this person showing toxic signs and maybe I don't need to deal with that, is quite empowering Unfortunately I have no game. I have no self esteem and the thought of sex often causes panic attacks
Ivermectin, all we need to know about it please. I try to watch all yourvideos and as a senior, really appreciate how well you explain everything I also want to tell you that you re a beautiful person inside and out. Thank-you fromCanada
Thankyou Doc for clearing the fact that libido is subjective, though it gives a grt relief.your way of explanation is Impressive, as you smile ,looks good .
Dear Dr Sam Bailey, Hope you are well. I was born out of wedlock and don't know who my real father is. My point is I always had a high libido and sex is always on my mind 24 hours. I'm Muslim married man and a father and always been with my wife and no one else during our marriage. My faith is strong and right now I am fasting. Even when fasting sex is always on my mind. I do not watch adult stuff at all however always have urges for sex more than my wife. I got the feeling due to my real father tendency it has passed down to me. I need help to reduce my libido please.. Kindy help me please, thank you !
If you genuinely want to be physically intimate with your partner, and you always want her 24 hours a day, and she essentially rejects you almost all of the time, how is this marriage going to be happy? A physical desire for your partner is much more complicated than just a libido issue. And if your doctor attempts to cut your sexual urges that will not necessarily address your emotional urges to be physically close to her if you genuinely love her. My doctor succeeded in getting my testosterone level down to almost zero, and it had virtually no effect on my desire to make love to her and touch her all the time..... because I was totally in love with her and never fell out of love with her.
Funny ladies aren't commenting but blames go to women being unattractive 'n fat etc.but men should also learn to put us in mood don't nag in the bed room.
Dr.Sam Bailey thanks a lot for this educational video. I enjoyed it which sounds very fascinating as accent is so pleasant to listen. I am your subscriber. Adivse me for I am diabetic and had low libido earlier, now ED. Is there any helpful medication?
Dr Sam, if you still plan on presenting a video on vitamin D, can you also address how vitamin deficiencies can contribute to low libido? (the lack of presence relating to depression, and how they participate in testosterone synthesis). Also on a similar topic, I have a friend who recently struggled with issues related to lack of emotional fortitude, loss of desire and decreased biological drive - after finding a highly intelligent, extremely attractive, and exceedingly generous online personality who shares her medical insights with the world, some of these issues seem to subside. He wonders if he should share this data with her? Asking for a friend. . .😏
I find that watching the video of a pretty woman doctor from New Zealand does wonders for me. Could someone tell me why over 300 people gave this video a thumbs down?
The amount of blame in this comment section is crazy. Be responsible for yourself and your relationship. If you're not happy, change something. Talking as though you have no responsibility in a partnership makes you look like a fool.
A serious accident, in which I assisted, involving a young woman was the reason for me. Her entrails were visible. Where I lived there was no therapy. It lasted about two years before normal feminine charms overlaid the PTSD. I don't know how you doctors manage a libido at all! (Since then I have two sons and enjoy life to the full.) (Patient support from your partner is a key ingredient)
Hi Dr.Bailey, thanks again for wonderful video. I wanted to get your opinion on few things if you get a chance - 1. It appears to me that most factors you mentioned ultimately lead to low testosterone causing libido loss (sleep apnea, stress etc.). So, looks like testosterone is the root cause. But what is the effect of levels of estrogen? how do they influence libido in men? What are the roles of other things like SHBG, Progesterone etc.. 2. Is all testosterone the same? As in if someone raises their testosterone through TRT or clomid, does it have the same effect as natural testosterone? 3. Are there other psychological or neurological issues that can affect libido like say repeated consumption of porn or masturbation etc? Thank you!
Lucky me Finally I have a woman that is loving And takes care of everything else! Thanks Doc UR informative. I’m a first responder with Ski Patrol and love to learn.
Besides loving your accent, your information and presentation are wonderful. A video on fitness as we get older would be welcomed. What is being physically fit at age 40 and up? How is it measured? Thanks.
The lack of insulin resistance. Get your insulin, hgaic, hdl and triglycerides checked. That will show how youre doing. Generally having a good quality of life and able to do the things you enjoy with lack of disease are the measurements. Good muscle mass.
I think a lower libido for men isn't so bad. A low libido for long term singles is also pretty good actually. Men's libido is more of a curse these days and you should be thankful to have a low one. Most of the times it's caused by bad things but I wish a low libido could easily be achieved while you live a healthy life.
I have found the Video very Informative.I myself is a Diabetic Type 1,I smoke,I have Peronies Disease,I have Stress and Anxiety. Well that’s my Story in a Nutshell.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
Dr. Sam is so pretty and I love the fact she's always smiling. Can someone tell me where she works in New Zealand? I'll visit her to say I love her videos XD
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Remember, your testosterone level directly affects libido.
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Hi,Dr. Sam B, are there any kind of fruits we could eat that could give us a boost and what kind of diet you would recommend. Thanks
My testosterone is good i take extra tes to make it higher it work good for sex drive too. I think no men would have a low libido if they were married to this beautiful doc 😉👍
Dr. Sam Bailey Do you know about phimosis doctor? What treatment is there?😼
If I could spend just a 5mins with you my test would be high as cromags!
My testosterone low level is effected by low cash level in my Malayan Bank account .pls pray for me...😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Depression makes sense. I went a long time without being in a relationship and was suffering from depression. When I got into a relationship again I found that while I was happy to have sex, I didn't NEED to have it as my partner did. But the longer this relationship has gone on I've found my sex drive has increased as I've gotten happier in myself. :)
Nagging, controlling, narcissistic, women is the main reason for me.
Don't forget obesity.
they don't make 'em any other way. MGTOW
Phew past the 69
💟💟💟I needed that helpfull words..tqsm🙏🏼💟💟💟
HaHaHa'aaa ... don't forget the manipulative type too ...
1. Low testosterone
2. Medications
3. Depression
4. Chronic illness
5. (too heavy) exercise
6. stress & anxiety
Age
What would cause a male with good testosterone levels on no medication with no chronic illness and a healthy weight to view sex as pointless? I get nothing from sex except a tiny tingle during ejaculation. My view of it has shifted to it's for woman only. I get nothing out of it worth the time and energy I put in. If anything having to have sex causes me to be depressed knowing I get nothing from it.
Can you please explain more on number 5 please
I find the simple act of watching Dr. Sam Bailey's videos raises my libido among other things.
I decided I wanted to focus on my business and instantly felt my libido decrease. It's crazy how connected the mind and body is
Me too. i am building a business and it seems i fliped a switch. How are you now?
Many men will tell you the same: She has changed from being open, attractive and happy to be a grumpy, controlling and nagging person.
Bitterness. Book: The Five Love Languages.
and they change their name to Karen
And many women will say: He has changed from being a very physically active and attractive man to be a fat, non-caring male, more interested in pub visits
Agreed
@@JohnSmith-hk1lx Agreed Too Fat and level of health!! Too much drinking.
So pleasant to listen too. Your smile is electric. Thank you so much.
I can just watch you comment on any topic because you have such an amazing smile, face, voice and teeth.
Another great video Dr. Bailey! Well organized and even better delivery! Thanks for your continued commitment to the health of our community. No surprise of your popularity.
Probably your greatest positive impact in terms of helping men recover from this problem is to continue to make videos (on any subject, really)
oh wow your smile and positivity!!! I am definitely not low, mine is high when I am around women and as I grow me libido is definitely going up, just treat women nice and enjoy the energy, all will be fine.. and lastly relax...
Good afternoon Sam. What I loved most from this is the approach. You have adopted conversation and more smile than lecturing, which is soothing. Keep it up. A fan.
Wow, thank you!
Amazing info. I'm 58 and a truck driver so it goes with out saying we can have issues. How ever stress and depression is mine. I now workout 6days a week and take only natural supplements. Stress and depression is reduced And managed. No more problems.
are you saying you still have a libido at 58 years old?
I workout 6 times a week too, but I do leg day 3 times a week. I suffer from depression after my wife left me. So I joined the gym. It’s helped alot. Also after leg day, your boner will be like the Eiffel Tower :)
It's all about caring and giving, not wanting and taking. If you truly love each other, then there should be no problem with libido. Loving is GIVING and RECEIVING not TAKING and REJECTING. IT'S SO HARD THESE DAYS TO FIND TWO PEOPLE WITH THAT ATTITUDE TOWARDS EACH OTHER.
🤭 😂
Stay single and live alone, find a casual 'friend' who thinks likewise.
Get together on a mutually agreeable basis. No commitment, responsibilities, nagging etc.
If it goes sour, move on, or if libido needs eventually not met make two arrangements. Mega.
I took my problem to my doctor. He told me I had to stop masturbating. I asked him why. "So I can examine you" he replied.
So, how are you now?
and what happened then are u getting treatment
I watched this some time ago. I’ve made improvements to my diet and now I exercise regularly. I listen to, watch and follow anything that is uplifting, inspirational or motivational. There is a way out of depression, low libido and indifference. Hang in there.
You could read the shipping forecast, and I’d listen. Love your accent.
What accent is it? Where from?
The common saying is "you could read the phone book" (for good singers: sing the phone book) and I agree. I would listen to her speak about any topic lol. Lovely accent
@@WojciechPrzyborowski New Zealand. I know because I'm from Australia!
@@fateswar19 I knew she was from somewhere down under, and I guessed New Zealan because she referred to NZ during her talk.
Amen to that! The topic doesn't even matter,lol.
I have found out that it depends on women too. A beautiful woman can increase libido well. But there are surely other reasons too like love between the two.
You've hit the nail on the head. Most here are blaming their wives but when you point the finger there are three fingers pointing back at you. Keep loving your wife because you made a commitment to her. They flourish on it.
@@Rayblondie Agreed
I had no idea I was going through this. A blood test came back and my doctor was amazed at my low testosterone level at age 62. He tried some lotions that I rubbed on my shoulders and they didn't increase the testosterone levels. He referred me to a urologist and he started me on injections. In a few weeks I felt like a different person. Take advantage of everything they offer.
Usually the creams are for the testicles themselves.. Interesting.
@@dana102083lol, nah they got lots that just go on your arms. I mean I hear that a lot, injections are better though because it can be calculated better, which is important for ppl who have to be carefull with thicker blood
For me it’s
1.. reduce stress
2. Fix insulin resistance
3. Supplement with vitamin d, zinc, magnesium
4. Avoid xenoestrogens
5. HIT
I wish people understood what fasting and a ketogenic diet can do. They'd rather blame their unsexy girlfriend or fat wife it seems..
Im glad my libido dropped. I can finally concentrate now lol
Isn't that a paraphrase of a quote from Plato?, or one of those old philosophers. Mine's dropped as well, but I'd prefer high libido and inability to concentrate, lol.
Yes, bad drug,
@@kenm7179 Somewhere in the middle would be optimum. Or if I could just turn it on when it’s needed
@@kenm7179 it came back?
Hey Sam, great video and have you ever been told you look slightly like Margot Robbie?
Lads I will give you a list of things to help with this problem and help general sexual health/performance:
1. Cut out sugars (Increases Estrogen)
2. Cut out gluten (Causes bloating)
3. Exercise to decrease BMI ( To a healthy range)
4. Practice Kegels and testicular massage ( Increases Penis ligament strength and removes blockages)
5. Add more healthy dietary fats (A diet too low in fats kills your libido)
6. Meditate (Relaxation is good for everything especially lowering cortisol)
7. Cold Showers (Increase brown fat production, Increases testosterone and helps turn white fat to beige fat)
8. Research Tantric Sex (I love it and have had no complaints)
Hope these help lads!
Thanks Doc ;) X
Thanks - you have great advice!!
Thanks Doc! My partner and I have been having issues with my libido. We’ve been on standby with getting it checked (because of the world today) but I’m glad you’ve provided that link! I’ll be using that link TODAY!
Being rejected a lot, never having a relationship, family pressure, social pressure, anxiety, shyness and past years of depression did no wonders to my libido...
Snap buddy. Snap to all of that you say
I lost a lot of sexual desire. But I have great endurance. I just feel that I have a greater understanding and appreciation for the need for the proper connection with the right companion. In other words, sex is just sex without the connect it just isn't "correct." Thanks you, bye.
Dr Sam.....knowledge flows out of you.
You are a born teacher and doctor.
Congrats
My life is horrible at the moment, I'm struggling to just survive never mind have a libido!
Same
I hope things got better for you.
Sex just feels like luxury these days
Once again, Doctor Sam, you are a completely wonderful woman.
We are SOOOOOOOO lucky to be blessed with your life and your work xoxoxoxo
Mine was low but after watching this beautiful Dr, it increased immediately.
😂
😂
I’m always stressed anxious and depressed I’ve been told I’m too self aware
Me too,always stressed out,
Thanks again for this informative video, Dr. Sam. I wish you were my doctor.
Test. went up,once Barbarella started speaking with that Kiwi accent.
Is there a way to decrease it?
My ex-wife had endometriosis surgery that cause her a lot of pain, especially in her bladder. Intercourse always caused me issues because I was always worried about her. She complained about things at times, but I couldn't help it. Subconsciously I always worried about causing her pain. Before the surgery everything was fine, but once I knew she hurt a lot it got to my head...big one and little one.
You are a great positive communicator also you are a tonic in yourself! In these strange times New Zealand must be one of the best places to be on the planet!
Rheumatism, Depression, Diabetes, Anxiaty,.....
Number 1 should be American females.
American only?
....also known as radical feminism.
??
Definitelly first in the list!
They ussually have unlimited number of pass sexual partnerss...you are always gessing if they are really honest with you or acting in order to get their agenda done...very scary
Try living in Toronto 🤦🏻♂️
Your accent only raises back my libido 😊
It's part of the therapy - she is a doctor, after all.
I clicked in anticipation of great comments and I'm happy to report a better than expected outcome! Spot on and hilarious guys!
Low libido in men can be cured by watching Dr. Bailey videos! (It may work for some women too). Seriously, the difference in opinions of what it really means is quite a gap. Approaching 50 for me I obviously don't feel the burning urges I did at 25 or 35, but that slowing down has helped my life in many other ways. Thinking with the "proper head" has its benefits!
@upside downdog - haha! I love it, I think you are right about the "proper head" 😍
I see Dr. Sam regularly and she hasn’t charged me a dime. What a doctor! She even notifies me when it’s time for a visit.
Extremely high libido during covid19 while quarantined alone. No bueno :(
Time for mastery over thy self, young grasshopper. Or, at least, with thy self.
Male. After having COVID-19 One month ago my libido has not recovered. :’(
I hope that I get better soon.
Good advice. A few others that may be behavioural? Lack of cuddling/affection/stroking/naughty flashing of each other; lack of showing cleavage when alone together; lack of fragrance by man and or woman; lack of sleeping naked by either or both partners; a lack of time just together.
Ptsd from being targeted by horrendous women
Get counseling to get rid of your baggage. That is what is attracting them.
I struggle with a high libido. Always significantly higher than my male partners.
Can you do a video on high libido in women please
Yes she should do videos on high libedo in both men and woman.
Gross
@@agag4866 let me guess. Religion?
@@roberttelford745
I'd wager that most religous people love sex. They just love it with who they're in a committed marriage with.
Craftykez; can I ask you a question? Are a little bit older? Because most mature women start to have a higher sex drive due to biological need. It's now or never. Besides when it comes to intercourse men tend to do most of the strenuous activity, which as you well know makes him tired. Your jogging and he's running. I don't the age difference between you and your partners.
I said to my doctor, "I have terrible wind."
He gave me a kite.
What a great straightforward video. Thank you Dr!
Wow, I went keto, then carnivore two years ago, when I discovered I was pre diabetic. I'm 73 and things had been going south for years. About four months in, I noticed things were looking up. Morning wood has now returned. I was curious, so I had my T checked along with my other blood work. Last reading was 521, a good number for a guy half my age. Down forty pounds so far, looking slim again. :):)
Well done! That's fantastic news, I'm pleased you made the decision to change your life. Keep up the good work :)
Sam, I noted that "LetsGetChecked" is in Euros, is this service available in Australia.
PS, I love your videos and admire your courage to speak out in our current "silence the truth" environment.
Good day, This may have been slightly awkward doing a video like this. It takes a great deal of courage and conviction, as well as loving your occupation, Which is quite obvious! Thank you for caring enough about humankind. Keep up the great work. Have a beautiful day. Jim
Yоu are so charming! I come here to look for a medical perspective on subjects! Thank you!
Thank you @Love Worthy 😀
I have no need of any medication I am naturally strong real man like horse but I have no women to cool me
She's knowledgeable and cool!! Luv the Barbarella in the background!! Great similarity there!! 😘
I was abused by my first gf at 16 and ive been terrified about the thought of being intimate since then. in my 30s now and its only got worse and not better
That's awful to hear. Have you thought about trying counselling? If it's been affecting you for 14 years, it's not likely to improve without trying to address the cause of your fears.
@@DrSamBailey I have tried various forms of counselling and therapy over the years. Nothing works and I'm probably too far gone now. I hope someday to have an asexual relationship with a woman. Sex is something I've missed out on but I still want closeness and intimacy. Just with clothes on
@@geologyisntarealscience4059 you're talking like you're 80, give yourself a quick uppercut and come back to reality. People are always gunna be there who could possibly fuck you up, if you see those behaviors set up the boundary they don't come past that line unless their behaviour has changed, get it? You're in control. But get this: there's plenty of cool chicks out there you don't have to even wait for anyone to change. Be discerning. When a decent one comes along put the work into her, but don't think she's the only one and it's do die IT IS NOT. It doesn't work out big deal, keep at. You'll see pretty quick chicks cannot resist a bloke with an abundance mindset who is in total control of his boundaries and simply does not give a fuck about what people say and if the world's fucked. Let me know how you go. Sidenote: do you have decent game?? Obviously that's important too, to meeting and dating enough of a sample. Let me know. Fucking do not wallow one more day over what that person did to you. You've paid enough.
Time to love yourself.
@@chriskalifornia7333 thanks a lot for the time you put into that. That one comment is more helpful than some professional therapists I've seen. I've always viewed myself as the problem so the opportunity to set boundaries never really occurred as I was too focused on what I view as an inevitable bad outcome. The thought of being in control and saying, actually I should be wary of this person showing toxic signs and maybe I don't need to deal with that, is quite empowering
Unfortunately I have no game. I have no self esteem and the thought of sex often causes panic attacks
Cut down on the wanking.
Ivermectin, all we need to know about it please. I try to watch all yourvideos and as a senior, really appreciate how well you explain everything
I also want to tell you that you re a beautiful person inside and out.
Thank-you fromCanada
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Thankyou Doc for clearing the fact that libido is subjective, though it gives a grt relief.your way of explanation is Impressive, as you smile ,looks good .
15 seconds in and I’m all sorted. Keep up the good work sure you’ll keep people interested 😉
Dear Dr Sam Bailey,
Hope you are well. I was born out of wedlock and don't know who my real father is. My point is I always had a high libido and sex is always on my mind 24 hours.
I'm Muslim married man and a father and always been with my wife and no one else during our marriage. My faith is strong and right now I am fasting. Even when fasting sex is always on my mind. I do not watch adult stuff at all however always have urges for sex more than my wife. I got the feeling due to my real father tendency it has passed down to me.
I need help to reduce my libido please..
Kindy help me please, thank you !
If you genuinely want to be physically intimate with your partner, and you always want her 24 hours a day, and she essentially rejects you almost all of the time, how is this marriage going to be happy? A physical desire for your partner is much more complicated than just a libido issue. And if your doctor attempts to cut your sexual urges that will not necessarily address your emotional urges to be physically close to her if you genuinely love her.
My doctor succeeded in getting my testosterone level down to almost zero, and it had virtually no effect on my desire to make love to her and touch her all the time..... because I was totally in love with her and never fell out of love with her.
For the first time saw such a sweet lady with femine shyness and natural beauty
If only there were more like her
Funny ladies aren't commenting but blames go to women being unattractive 'n fat etc.but men should also learn to put us in mood don't nag in the bed room.
Prostate cancer, low testosterone and sleep apnoea ruined it for me. 5 years in and still trying to recover.
I think your accent is increasing my libido....nix that. It ABSOLUTELY is increasing my libido.
Love you Dr Sam thank you for what you do. You are the new health guru. Truth resonates!
with a beautiful smile like her's she has helped my libido
Dr.Sam Bailey thanks a lot for this educational video. I enjoyed it which sounds very fascinating as accent is so pleasant to listen. I am your subscriber. Adivse me for I am diabetic and had low libido earlier, now ED. Is there any helpful medication?
Dr Sam, if you still plan on presenting a video on vitamin D, can you also address how vitamin deficiencies can contribute to low libido? (the lack of presence relating to depression, and how they participate in testosterone synthesis). Also on a similar topic, I have a friend who recently struggled with issues related to lack of emotional fortitude, loss of desire and decreased biological drive - after finding a highly intelligent, extremely attractive, and exceedingly generous online personality who shares her medical insights with the world, some of these issues seem to subside. He wonders if he should share this data with her? Asking for a friend. . .😏
I will try to cover this too Miguel - hopefully it won't be too long
Is there a way to lower it . I don't need mines
I find that watching the video of a pretty woman doctor from New Zealand does wonders for me. Could someone tell me why over 300 people gave this video a thumbs down?
Low lobito is the best thing that happened to me
You're helping my low libido🙂
The amount of blame in this comment section is crazy. Be responsible for yourself and your relationship. If you're not happy, change something. Talking as though you have no responsibility in a partnership makes you look like a fool.
"The amount of blame in this comment section"
I don't see any blame at all... only "reason" !
Pretty lady.
A bit creepy but what you say is true nonetheless. 👀
Who watched this video and cured their libido problems as this beautiful Doctor explains?
My husband waits for me to call the shots. So annoying, wondering if he has low libido! I’m here dying for him to be assertive.
Tell him to manhandle you then.
Libido....Hmmmm....I can see your smile and hear you talk in my sleep....great Job Doctor! Your working!
I wish my doctor looked and sounded like this.... I would also like to win the lottery.
YOU ARE REALLY PLEASANT AND YOUR EXPRESSIONS ARE MAGNETIC DOCTOR
I take 800 mg test blend a week and 30 mg trenbolone twice a week. Testosterone is King.
A serious accident, in which I assisted, involving a young woman was the reason for me. Her entrails were visible. Where I lived there was no therapy. It lasted about two years before normal feminine charms overlaid the PTSD. I don't know how you doctors manage a libido at all! (Since then I have two sons and enjoy life to the full.) (Patient support from your partner is a key ingredient)
A younger lady always helps. Nagging and being grumpy is a sure thing also.
Looking at her smile I'm healed😍💙
Hi Dr.Bailey, thanks again for wonderful video. I wanted to get your opinion on few things if you get a chance -
1. It appears to me that most factors you mentioned ultimately lead to low testosterone causing libido loss (sleep apnea, stress etc.). So, looks like testosterone is the root cause. But what is the effect of levels of estrogen? how do they influence libido in men? What are the roles of other things like SHBG, Progesterone etc..
2. Is all testosterone the same? As in if someone raises their testosterone through TRT or clomid, does it have the same effect as natural testosterone?
3. Are there other psychological or neurological issues that can affect libido like say repeated consumption of porn or masturbation etc?
Thank you!
Lucky me Finally I have a woman that is loving And takes care of everything else! Thanks Doc UR informative. I’m a first responder with Ski Patrol and love to learn.
Thanks for the nice informative video. I love you for this ❤️
Thank you for your excellent advice and even your cheerful talks as SHAKESPEARE said a cheerful woman is a joy of life.
#7 When ladies are much smarter
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Mine dropped in the middle of my 50s for loosing faith in love. Without true emotions, it is low life, animal act.
Awesome video, thanks so much Sam. 💜💜
Besides loving your accent, your information and presentation are wonderful. A video on fitness as we get older would be welcomed. What is being physically fit at age 40 and up? How is it measured? Thanks.
The lack of insulin resistance. Get your insulin, hgaic, hdl and triglycerides checked. That will show how youre doing. Generally having a good quality of life and able to do the things you enjoy with lack of disease are the measurements. Good muscle mass.
Thanks drs bailey.....it's useful.
Funny how everyone in the comments is blaming women. That’s gross.
It isn’t wrong
I think a lower libido for men isn't so bad.
A low libido for long term singles is also pretty good actually.
Men's libido is more of a curse these days and you should be thankful to have a low one.
Most of the times it's caused by bad things but I wish a low libido could easily be achieved while you live a healthy life.
Low libido is a blessing
Fallen in love with the girl at the first look. So warm, enticing, impressive! That's High libido?
I have found the Video very Informative.I myself is a
Diabetic Type 1,I smoke,I have Peronies Disease,I
have Stress and Anxiety.
Well that’s my Story in a Nutshell.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
Stress. or nagging wives. Most of my clients are married men.
8 year toxic marriage... Finally split.. All good.. Zero libido after that experience. Word.
Hi doctor I am 40 years and my natural timing is 20 to 40 minutes is this ok or not?
Couldn’t agree more
Hahaha
Any video you post cures me instantly....
Dr. Sam is so pretty and I love the fact she's always smiling. Can someone tell me where she works in New Zealand? I'll visit her to say I love her videos XD
Very interesting accent....Love your tips. Thanks.
Man needs the sweet talk girl like you doctor.