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General rule, if you don't know someone and they walk up to you friendly, offering a hand, or something like that, first thing you do is back up and make it clear you don't want to be touched. In society there are unspoken rules about personal space. If someone is trying to invade it, regardless of demeanor, you can't rule out that they are doing so with malicious intent.
Damn, the best combat advice I have ever seen. 10 years in the security industry working in all different fields, we had three sayings: 1. There is always someone better, faster, stronger than you. So don't go starting anything. 2. You're dead if you're inside 20 feet. Distance is critical. If you're standing toe to toe with someone the fact is that you can not protect yourself at all whatsoever. 3. If you have any doubt, then there is no doubt. In any confrontation, assume the worst case scenario. Never ever assume you're gonna win thats for damned sure. Our rule of thumb was that we just wanted to go home at the end of the night with no blood or beer on our shirts. The single greatest tool at your disposal is your brain, closely followed by your mouth. The only time I ever got knocked down in ten years work was the one time I stopped thinking and didn't follow these rules.
Poor baby shocked after the first knockout!it's not not going knocked out the point, but to learn by mistakes. Great fighters before getting unbeatable got knocked out several times
This is a really useful and informative video for the most part. Some more common mistakes from my own experience / knowledge are: 1. *Not punching with a correct fist.* There should be absolutely no air in your hand when you throw a punch. I'm from the UK and know from a senior student who worked as a nurse in A&E that the most common injury from street fights (in England at least) is the breaking of bones in the hand, because the combatants are often untrained and don't make a correct fist. 2. *Not running away if you are not held at direct blade / gunpoint.* There is _absolutely no point_ in risking yourself any injury if you can help it. Unless there is no possibility of escape without risking critical injury (i.e. being stabbed or shot), the absolute best defence is to run away as fast as possible, and scream for help as loud as you can. There is _no shame in retreat_ when your safety is on the line; as they say, you get to fight another day. 3. *Passing the knife directly to a training partner.* So this one isn't technically about a street fight, nor is it truly critical. It is, however, my observation that Dan casually passes the training knife seen in the video directly to one of his training partners. Though this may seem like a harmless act, I have _always_ been taught that one should *never* do this. *Here's the reason:* When we practice knife-disarming in training, my instructor (6th degree black belt) often recounts a true story about two British police officers (partners), who trained together in the disarming of an attacker with a knife. They would take turns as playing the aggressor and the defender - once one had performed a successful disarming technique on the other, he would pass the training knife straight to his partner and their roles would be reversed (i.e. the aggressor was now defending and disarming, and the defender was now attacking with the knife, etc.). The disarming technique would be repeated, the two officers would switch roles, and all the while they handed the training knife directly back and forth to each other. This seemingly-harmless behaviour later had disastrous and tragic consequences. One evening, one of the two police officers was on patrol when he was accosted by a mugger armed with a knife. When threatened, the officer performed a successful disarming technique, just as he had always practiced with his partner. But then, out of habit, *he handed the knife straight back to the mugger he had just disarmed* . The mugger promptly stabbed the officer and ran away, while the critically-wounded officer (also a husband and father), bled out on the street and died. And _that_ is why we _always_ put the training knife *on the floor* (for the other student to pick up) when we wish to transfer control of the training knife. Wow, sorry for the long-ass comment, but those were some points that I just felt I _had_ to raise. The source of my information is that I am a 1st degree black belt in taekwondo and have been training for 12 years (so I'm just getting started!). If you made it to the end of this mini-essay, thank you for reading! God bless, be water, and I wish you a happy and fulfilled life till the end of your days :)
God bless you too. Tho I am not sure I should mention "being water", in reply to your comment. Especially seeing as no-one else has. I will presume it is an allusion to Being as pliant as a willow that bends in the storm... or as adaptable and overcoming all , as water does !
Those are the kinds of stories that might actually help someone in the future just because it’s out of the box and makes you realize shit can go totally sideways instantly.
Each delivery should be force going through the joints to break the JOINING bones, wrist, throat, neck, knees, etc, BREAK, BREAK, BREAK, if your LIFE is in JEOPARDY and just KNOW he might be heavily armed, so assume you must make your reaction intent WELL KNOW-BREAK, i refer to this technique as the SMASH x 3 ..your strength MUST be VIOLENT and five to ten times stronger than his! Show MERCY and WELCOME to the after life!
"Explode from nothingness" ... Best comment I've heard in a very long time. My version of that (for decades) has been "instantaneous devastation". Good video.
good advice, i used to practice my start position was a relaxed stance with my arms at sides, no signal, well except i'd smile sometimes, 99% of the time they'd see i'm not intimidated and back off, it's that 1% you have to watch. one thing i'd say is never step into someone trying to pick a fight, instead smile just a bit and take a step back instead of forward while watching his body language, if he steps in again, break a nose, or something it's easy he'll be leading with his face trying to get you to do same, fight over. reason i say step back then strike if he steps in again is they will usually misread your move as being intimidated, instead of prepping, and too eagerly step in again not expecting a strike. lastly be aware of your surroundings but never, never take your eyes completely off that guy in front of you, the second you turn away they will ambush you and strike. also, that is also my reason to step back and make room rather than forward, being too close gives you no time to assess and react, only distance will give you the time to protect yourself when the other person takes action. in my youth i won 99% of my fights before they even started simply by not showing emotion, or being fazed because they would back off. off course, a slight smile at the right time goes far in your favor because it tends to get them thinking. they look for people who are scared, intimidated, an easy mark. always train for that 1% because that is the group you will have to protect yourself from, not the rest. a few things i picked up watching bruce lee as a kid.
Are you a martial Artist???... Well sed....7 years of Aikido and lately Krav Maga....learning that the green zone or closer IS safe!....(gun/knife)...you back up/ push them away ...your dune!...they pull a gun....your thoughts??
Over 30 years ago, as I was walking out of a bar, was befriended by two guys leaving same time, we were all sharing our opinion on a hockey game on the bars TV. As we're talking on the way to the parking lot, those two guys behind me changed the conversation to informing me they had knives on them. I looked back at them, smiled and said, "No kidding, so do I". They gave each other a nervous look, turned around and walked away. If you don't have a weapon and nothing else is handy, no where to run, bluffing sometimes works, it saved my skin.
I have experience in several martial arts over many years and I can say that what this guy says is the best advice I've ever come across on the subject of self-defence in a real 'street-fight / threat' situation. The only thing I would add is to always have in your mind the possibility of questions being asked after the event. The word 'reasonable' figures large in all legal situations and so, especially in a one-on-one situation, always bear this in mind.
I'm 62 years old, I did a street fighting course because London where I lived was becoming too violent. I moved to a rural area of my childhood but there is a junkies hostel next door to where I moved to. I have had three fights with junkies (half my age) on my property. This is typically the sort of situation one will be faced with aggression. Not by a trained fighter but by a drunk or junkie. What I was taught was not to react and show aggression. Perhaps put your hands up in the 'I surrender pose' because this is basically a boxing stance and you have a good chance of fending off a strike. When they come within hitting distance go for the tip of the nose the throat or the chin. Whilst they are in shock keep hitting them or trip them and throw them to the ground. I'm not a fighter, just a surviver of circumstance. There are no rules in a street fight. Hit first, hit hard, hit fast. And run.
Have you seen any Brazilian jujitsu street fighting advice vids on UA-cam? the guy that came up with Brazilian jujitsu has the best advice. I think the techniques are very effective especially for a small guy against a big one. They give the exact same advice as this guy, as far as staying calm, not showing emotions on your face, you know, just holding your cards close to your vest, etc. until you decide to engage, or if it’s been decided for you. THIS video is very Good, lots of great advice from this guy, too! You can’t watch too many technique videos about protecting yourself!!!
If you are absolutely certain there will be a fight, best to hit first. If you have distance but no where to run, pick up gravel, rocks or sticks. This hand to hand only is BS. Defend yourself!
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I watched this video after seeing it a few months ago. There is a lesson somewhere here about watching something for the second time. What struck me most blatantly is that these three fundamental lessons were extremely focused and condensed tips that are of extreme high quality. The overall theme (self protection and not expecting someone to fight you "fairly"). Let that sink in. Let it sink in because it's reality. What Dan is trying to tell you is that you have to prepare for the worst case scenario. Expect to be conned ( I thought that was brilliant...the guy that pretends to be nice and then suckers you). This is the theme of his video. It could save your life. Then he illustrates the science of physical distance and understanding how that works to your advantage if you are aware of it.The concept of not "signalling" that you are ready to fight or protect yourself. That's pure psychology. Getting into a street fight is extremely dangerous.People die in those situations or are permanently disabled all the time. There are "no rules" as Dan pointed out. The very best option is to avoid that kind of situation. If it begins to happen, don't let your ego or macho bravado escalate things. Always attempt to diffuse or de escalate a confrontation. But sometimes your attacker isn't interested in that.
Agreed! The guy who wants to jump you isn't going to warn you beforehand. A lot of the time he'll come at you from the side or behind. Or come at you from around a corner. That's why I always walk on the part of the sidewalk closest to the street. Gives me more time to observe side paths or areas someone might be hidden. I also make sure to glance behind me to keep an eye on who's behind me and to keep a minimum distance between me and the person behind me. They start closing the gap I pick up the pace. They start moving faster I immediately turn and face them and prep myself for a potential conflict. I treat everyone I meet as a potential enemy. If someone asks me for change I keep the distance between us so far that we both have to reach out as far as possible for them to get it.
I'm 70 years old. I came across this video looking for Bruce Lee vids for my son who's keen on MMA. What Dan Lok says is absolutely spot on. I'm not a fighter, an old hippie really! But there's been a few occasions in my travels round the world when I've needed to defend myself or others. The only thing I'd add to Dan's methods is if you know (and you will) it's going to turn ugly, get in quick, get in hard. And if there's more than one, take out the biggest guy first because that may be the only chance you get while he's still thinking. And his comment about the 'quiet one'... So fucking true. One time (very early on) confronted with a couple of guys, i ignored the 'quiet' guy at the back. Big mistake.
If your son is serious about martial arts, don't send him to MMA. If he seeks a disciplined method of defending himself, take him to a kung fu, karate, ju-jitsu, ITF taekwondo or jeet kune do school. MMA is about learning how to beat an opponent. A _true_ martial art is about learning how to defend yourself.
I'm an ex pro boxer done years on doors in rough pubs and night clubs , thousands of street fights and attempts on my life 100% true I'm still here and there's lots of men bearing missing bits and scars as a result of attacking me, This guy talks sense I've laughed at most other self Deffense vids this guy knows his stuff.
I rarely comment videos but I had to comment this one. First of all, there is no useless information, no useless talking and general principles instead of far fetched techniques. Secondly and imho, this is one of the best videos on self-defence out there: what Dan Lok says matches my direct experience "word by word". Hats off.
I'm a retired U.S. Combat Infantry Sergeant. Having lived a career of violence I am no longer interested in conflict, but one day I would love to share a cup of tea with you in your penthouse and discus the philosophies of our combat arts. The view is AWSOME. Just discussion as since I am now disabled due to my injuries from my final deployment to Iraq during Operation Iraqi Freedom 2008-2009.
As Bruce Lee said ‘I have no fear of an opponent in front of me. I am very self-sufficient, they do not bother me. I make up my mind, “that’s it, baby, you’d better kill me before I get you”.’
That’s a proper mentality. Told a Marine friend of mine the next fight I get into where I’m taken to the ground, I’m gonna ball up and take the beating (cause I’m an old dude). He looked at me with that stern Marine look on his face and said “You don’t give up..at all”. Way he said it sunk in. If you think your gonna lose, you will. Bruce Lee,of course, knew what he was talking about.
"Seek not beauty in battle. Seek not beauty in death. Consider not your own life. If you wish to protect that which must be protected, then strike while your opponent's back is turned."
Dan, I enjoyed your video. I was a student of Dan Inosanto, and I understand the importance of knowing these three points to be aware of, but it’s always a good thing to be reminded of the basics tactics.
Spot on. The reaction time demonstration is something I have never seen before. Not tipping off the opponent but just going. Impressive, real world instruction.
This was a refreshing watch. It's incredibly hard to find trainers who give actually useful and applicable advice for fight or flight situations. Appreciate the knowledge you share. SUBBED.
Dan, totally impressed with your skills and confidence. Thanks for taking your time to share with others your passion. I'm a retired police officer from San Bernardino California, I wish I could have connected up with you when I was still working, I could have cut some of my fights down to a fraction of the time and improve my officer safety skills in the process. Thanks so much again, greetings from Riverside California.
Hi Dan Lok. I am very inspired that u gaved this demonstration.A real Master of the art. Im glad u knew Bruce Lee. There are so many fake masters who are only there for there monopoly. You happen to teach real stuff. I like how u describe words in action. Your very talented. My name is Josuee. I am originally from Long Beach California. I been punked allot. I am a noble man. I am humble. But people take advantage and took advantage. When I was only doing good. I been a big fan of Bruce less since I was a kid. I am 39 now. I been watching his movies since the 80s. My father use to rent movies at an Asian movie rental. Original VHS. Use to be on Cherry and Walnut. Good times. I am not a new kid like You tube. I go back when video rentals were popular. Now it's lost its value. I would like to join your school. But it probably be a fortune. More like a waiting line to join. Maybe impossible. Favorite Bruce movie was fist of fury. The one we're he works in the whare house and breaks an ice. To cut it short. Don't wanna overwhelm a brief message. Take care. Much respect. Adios Hermano
"Learn to fight from nothingness." He is talking about "Fighting without fighting." It takes decades to learn to fight without ego. To be in the moment, calm, no negative vibration, no attachment, to only see the truth of the moment. To be above your physical desires. When you reach this point you will not even attract a negative encounter. Light attracts light and darkness attracts darkness. Professor Kufferath who taught Bruce Lee, never got into a fight because he was also present and avoided altercations even arguments. The masters avoid fighting altogether. The masters have no openings to attack. Because fighting is self-Defense. In the beginning martial arts is a physical training, and later it becomes a part of your being. You need to incorporate a spiritual training. Because martial arts is a physical and mental training. Bruce Lee incorporated spiritual training along with his martial arts training.
Yes!!!! Ive never been robbed, hit or lost any fights and no choice but to be in. I walk in peace and love. GOD protects me and those who mean harm find themselves helping me. Later saying I hated you but now I love u...my greatest enemies became my greatest friends...its amazing you get all that training but its never really to use it...
I'm not even on the first level of that, I physically have not lived long enough to have practiced that, being 17. I'll need another 5 years at least to master it, maybe I can cheat with my acting from drama class, but I can't possibly let go of emotion completely,
I have been in 1 too many street fights sifu and one of the common things that I see is when people start swinging and throwing punches like windmills. I’ve had it happen with me and all I do is let them keep swinging until they get tired then BAM. One or 2 hits and they’re out
kamy ahmed , that's wht I do bro cuz I knw wht I have I never talk about me being this n that like many punks that get out of prison that beat on normal ppl cuz they think their bad, I hate that big time.
also, the problem with your strategy, is that it assumes you have enough training and skill, to be able to dodge, block, or otherwise avoid all these windmill punches being hurled your way. so someone like myself for example, who has very little training and has only been in a couple real life physical altercations, could wind up in some serious trouble, because if the guy connects one time with one of those windmill shots - i'm fucked. the key to your strategy is lasting long enough for the other guy to get tired without being hit.... that's a big problem for skinny, out of shape, cigarette smoking, bong hitting average joe's like myself.
that's why you must learn to keep them at a distance. there's no shame in retreating a few steps to keep a distance between you. also, learn his timing, and strike in between. jkd=way of the intercepting fist is based on(more or less) intercepting your opponents strike, with a strike of your own. in Bruce lee's movie "return of the dragon" he perfectly demonstrates this when he fights the Japanese guy before he faces chuck Norris. a little practice goes a long way. also, you need to decide if you want to be a martial artist, or not. as Mr. miyagi(I'm sure I misspelled it) said, "either you do karate yes, or karate no. you do karate guess so. get squished. just like grape"
Extremely practical advice. My favorite tip you gave is staying relaxed and showing no emotion on your face. This works. I was once in a confrontation with a bully and all I did was stare him in the eyes without any emotion. Somehow this unnerved him so much that he walked away and never bothered me again. The worst thing you can do is show anger or fear. Either of those emotions makes you vulnerable. When you’re angry you’re not thinking clearly, which gives your opponent an edge. When you’re fearful you’re empowering your opponent and weakening yourself. The key is to be calm and relaxed while simultaneously getting ready to explode. The other great tip you gave was to be suspicious of anyone asking you for money in a friendly way, since he may be disarming you while reaching for a knife. I think the key here is if someone asks you for money and continues walking closer to you, you need to go into action BEFORE he closes the distance, either by running away or kicking him as soon as he is within striking distance. Because if you wait until he pulls out his knife, you’re too late. Last year I was on the street in New York City when I was approached by someone asking me for money. I was carrying an umbrella. I shook my head to let him know I’m not giving him any money. If he continued walking toward me in spite of knowing I’m not giving him money, that’s already an aggressive act, so I watched him carefully, covertly getting myself ready to strike him with the umbrella, which had a sharp metal point on it. Fortunately for him, he kept his distance. The key is, as you said, to be proactive. No matter what the situation, if you act proactively you improve your chances of survival.
I have been fighting for 30+ years and you have shown me things I never was taught or learned. I have all the greatest respect for JKD Bruce Lee and now Dan Lok. Thank you sir!!!
southtxguitarist A movie is not real, you know. For example there is no real IronMan. Of course than choreography is something normal. It cant be real, you dont wanna hurt. Movie =/= Reality
The first rule of fighting is there are no rules, the only thing that matter is safe distance and if that's not possible then the only rule becomes win by shutting down the fight as fast as possible.
Most of the times, people only argue and we wouldn’t know if the other person really wants to fight or he’s just posturing. If we go for a preemptive strike, doesn’t that mean that we might have started a fight when there’s no need at all. It’s just a doubt. Sorry if I’m wrong
Your right but to sweet in situations, but I understand you compleetly you hope is to argue and walk away. My tip walk away dont argue is a win. Or start right away and dont stop is a win.
Sir, I have studied Martial Arts for a long time. But I am not a fighter or a badass in any way! WOW, Your video just made sense to me. Thank you! R.I.P Mr. Bruce Lee!
Urarettin -D- Lexxar in life you find out there are those with jaws of stone or those with jaws of glass, you’ll always remember the ones who can take a shot, unless they give you a concussion.
It takes at least 2 so you'll be the other one making the decision of whether to fight or not ..most times you can decide to stay on the defensive if you're smart and wanna avoid getting convicted yourself etc.
Hmm. Actually, if you hit first then you cannot really claim self-defense. If you face criminal charges, then it still might be worth being brutal to survive. But, if you face capital charges, then you really aren't saving yourself, are you?
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar If no one witnesses how it got started then you could be looking at a murder charge, or at least manslaughter. Impair his ability to pursue, and make good your exit.
Just spot on brother! very very well explained and very practical advice.. Ive been in many streetfights when i was young so i can attest to the validity of this advice..There are many other factors that create the conditions for streetfights to begin...not everything can be addressed in one vid...the vib that a person gives off, how they carry themselves and the experience that they may or may not have all factor in...The experience aspect cannot be faked, this is something you either have or you dont and it affects your body language and how you carry urself...its not something "you do" or try to do... But when its there, it has alot to to with whether somone will approach you for such a confrontation or pass you by and not even think abt it....its not a guarantee , its just a factor ...People who dont train, or have never trained to fight or had any fights for real, tend to give an unconscious signal to attackers that they are easy prey..this is sad, but true...most attackers Look for people who Wont be able to give them a challenge and choose accordingly...But as you stated in ur video, a gun or knife levels the playing field against even a very skilled person..its important to read the person who is confronting you and the best defense skill is to be able to diffuse and deescalate such an event Before it happens..That is the Ultimate self defense..
I'm barely halfway through this video and I can tell you this is one of the best self defense type videos on the entire internet this dude makes so much sense and everything is saying is absolutely true great video
This video randomly popped up on my play list, and after 20seconds, I had the impression of a fat guy (my apologies) trying to use Bruce Lee's fame to get some clicks and likes. I was so wrong. The points were simple yet presented clearly. Much learnt. Thank you!!!
Funny. At first, I had a similar vibe. But I watched the whole video and he was very spot on. I attribute the initial feeling to a slight language barrier (although Dan's English is very good). All said, great video and great points!
I had a similar feeling, specially with him introducing himself as a millionaire I thought o just another rich guy trying to make a youtube channel, I was so wrong I'm glad I stayed this is awesome content.
This where JKD differs with Karate (and its katas). You visualize the fight in Karate. I guess there are guys who plan quickly in a fight and those who react quickly also.
I love my initial instructor because he taught to go for every weak point of every enemy. I've been learning these techniques since I was about 4. 20 years of practice later and I still seek more practice and I look forward to learning a bunch of what I don't know.
SIFU, I’ve watched and have from you over the years; thank you. Many of us, walking around, taking too much for granted! Not paying attention to our surroundings. Only too be victimized. That is key in life; STOP TAKING LIFE FOR GRANTED!
The thing you mention at the beginning of the video (1:26), Dan, happened to me last Saturday night here in São Paulo City, Brazil, as I was stopped at a traffic light. The window was open, I'd seen a guy crossing the street coming more or less towards my car, then I lost sight of him, as he came from the back, only heard him, heard his soft, friendly voice, 'Hey "uncle", I know you are a policeman, but...' I'm not a policeman and his soft voice put me on the alert, I sensed danger, I immediately drove off, jumped the red light, I heard him say "No, stop," in the same polite tone. I sure was going to be held up, my instinct saved me. So this is very useful advice you're giving here, very very useful. Congratulations!
Dan thank you for these basic but very effective defense and survival techniques. I train Taekwondo and I see my guys always wanting to be informed of an attack before you attack them. I tell them not to be so sport-like and predictable in training. Streets don't have rules and you are open to attack at anytime. You have got to be ready at all times. In the street no one waits for you to get ready for a fight. Great advice!!
There are too many videos on UA-cam teaching people how to become a statistic in under 10 seconds. I realize that most of these so called trainers mean well, but they don't have the real world experience needed to video train newcomers on proper defense, never mind offense. Mr. Lok, It seems that you have, not only the experience, but a way to successfully get your point across in a clear and concise manner that most, if not every viewer can comprehend. Of course haters gonna hate. Those that think they are better than everybody, can, like you said; "FUCK OFF" Negativity is an obstruction towards a peaceful mind. Not that I can say I do not have negative thoughts or comments when it comes to people that are purposely ignorant, hateful or lying.. Thank You for providing a channel worth subscribing to.
Great video! I have trained in Shorin-Ryu karate for about 14 years, I still train at 64yrs old. It's been good but, I wish now I had dedicated time to learn Jeet Kun Do, very dynamic!
Dear Sifu Dan Lok, Excellent presentation of the three common mistakes, without methodology beginners, which should be instructed in the reverse order. You also admit that distance usually save lives, so this is recommended to a n utter beginner. And if caught at a shorter distance there is nothing left but to maken use of so called personal weapons like your suitcase, handbag or anything to be placed inbetween you and the attacker. A beginner, in my opinion, is unable to effectively hit, just grab the opponents limbs and divertthem and again run away. The shorter the distance the highelr level of proficciency is required to successfully face an opponent. Best wishes and happy new year. Paul, 66, retired instructor of Goju-ryu Karate.
Usually when people ask me for change, I take a subtle few steps away from the person in question so they won't be so close to me. Another is if a person comes up from behind me while I'm in mid-step, I'll turn while still moving forward but stop once facing them thus putting a few feet of distance between myself and the person in question. Or if I see the person in question ahead of me before they see me, I usually would walk to the side just out of ear shot, or wait for a few people to walk a head of me and I just slightly match their pace and discreetly get by
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I like this guy 😂 I’m a traditional Wing Chun guy but I love the focus on practical application in real street fights. More than technique he’s talking about awareness, mentality, simplicity. And the knife fighting point is right on. A close friend who served 15 years in prison taught me that exact technique (except, if you can, snatch off your jacket or any material and wrap your forearm with it. Takes only a second or two if you have good footwork to avoid incoming strikes).
DAN LOK ; Hello I am not a student of any Martial Art. I'm 66 yrs. old. Army" AIRBORNE " veteran I've survived a few conflicts. Like you I never show an opponent I'm on the offensive. I've been whipped, can't watch 3 sometimes 2 pissed blood for days. Still I'm alive and kicking. Keep up your message and good work.
Absolutely agree except on one small point. Given the nature of some people, not all aggression ends in violence and when it does, preemptive-Which is that strike when they break no mans land you spoke of, will if recorded by witnesses or cctv etc, potentially see YOU jailed. Admittedly you MIGHT make a defense based on intimidation, unfortunately if you are a trained martial artist you would as easily see a prosecution argument make you out to be superman capable of defending without severity. As such i employ that middle ground of raised open hands and the stance which you spoke of. Of course however you are right in the point on stance, it is a good thing to have correct positioning but also to practice striking from, and being attacked from, no defense, no preparedness as many situations can begin this way, be it mistaken identity, a drunken random attack etc. But, the reason i prefer the raised open palm start is simply from a legal defense point and a self defense point. It is quite easy to suggest preemptive attack once a boundary is broken but that requires ones focus to firmly be on the single assailant, if it is not, then having no defense up means they can take advantage of that and if they are fast, break that distance and get to you. As such i prefer to be conciliatory and palms out hands raised above waist height, and arms fully extended, back down, practice using verbal means of diffusion. I have talked my way out of fights more than had fights. Not simply by apology, sometimes being ultra aggressive, sometimes seeming afraid, sometimes merely apologetic or assuring them i have no desire for a confrontation. However if they have become insistent, pushing against my hands i do not back off but keep them at arms length. This allows me a chance to assess who is nearby and to any observers be they people or digital devices, i am appearing to decline combat and to pacify, once they push onto my outstretched hands, this is a clear and unequivocal gesture of aggression. This is the stage i define as safe for me to begin attacking them, though if they keep verbally attacking i will attempt to back up or move aside maintaining that distance, if they lunge or punch, there is where i have the chance to react as opposed to the typical alphas bumping chests and sudden swipe, i move forwards arms come up from already being 60% or more of the way there. Posibly it is not the best idea but it does permit me a legal defense and does permit me to not have to give cause to others saying i initiated something.
I see both points. The question is "should my mommy cry or he's". My mommy always told me "don't ever come home crying". I am 51 years old, and I punched first and did not stoped until I knew the danger is out, I ran fast and hard when I had too, and I used (anything) as a weapon. In between, I took martial arts and that thought me a lot of discipline WHEN and HOW to use it. Now I have a concealed (permit) weapon and stays chambered (bullet in the pipe). Seconds matters on every situation. I pray God to never have to deploy my weapon. Because of the awareness and discipline, I learned to avoid many situations that could end up in hospital or grave. Thank Jesus for all
The open hand creates more options. Several times I've slapped them once leaving my hand print on their face for a few days. Shocks them, makes them close their eyes and scares them to be losing to a 'slap'. On video its defensive as well. If its not.... enough close and kill. Lastly - size em up fast. Dont box a boxer, dont wrestle a wrestler, dont kung fu a kung fu guy and if they pull a weapon use it on em.
Better to be judged by a panel of 12 than be carried out in a box by 6...too many polite people get their heads smashed in. Shoot first , ask questions later.
I agree that you can't count on your opponent(s) to follow any rules, but I would add the following: - If you can figure out what your opponent is up to and what he expects you to do, you can use that against him by violating his expectations. - There is only one rule you should absolutely follow: do anything and everything you need to ensure you go home healthy and happy when the encounter is over, even if it means giving up your monetary or material possessions. No matter what you may have lost, any day that doesn't end with you six feet under is a good day!
I live in a gun free country and since I got 2 Dobermans everybody is nice to me and gets out my way, even groups walk away. I couldn't be more relaxed on the streets. I walk around like I own the place.
Dan Lok, your statement about being relaxed with no expression is correct. Respectfully, I 'd like to say that we could do without the profanity / curse words. And, on another note, I have avoided getting hit in a real confrontation by having my hands up with my palms directed partially toward the person confronting me. And on another occasion, the person decided not to fight me after seeing me raise my hands like that and indicate that I wasn't trying to fight him. So, I'd say that it depends on the person. But the calm demeanor with no aggressive response to the person has really helped me, except when I asked a huge aggressive guy in his late teens or early twenties to excuse me three times when I tried to pass him in a subway car and he had his back to me and was had on headphone. On the third time, he turned let me pass on the crowded train so I could be closer to the door but while standing near me he said "I heard you the first time." and then said "Say something else." I was on my way to work and told him calmly not to let my glasses or tie fool him. I'm not saying this works all of the time either, but fortunately, it worked for me.
Another common mistake is thinking everything has to be a power/ knockout punch. Haymakers, big right or left crosses, over hands. And also thinking they have to always be the aggressor in the fight. Sometimes it's ok to let the fight come to you. Aggressive fighters leave themselves open to more mistakes
okay , they may leave themselves open to more mistakes , but it won't matter because that aggressive fighter might knock you out with one of the 10 punches that he's rapidly swinging at your head, before you have a chance to do anything . usually , if the fight comes to you then you won't have time to let the fight come to you, you won't expect it. stay alert and stay aggressive
This is not a school yard fight where the teachers will blame the person throwing the first punch. If you know you need to fight, go nuts and then run. Will these people call the police on you? Who knows. But if they get more info about you like where you live they could do harm. I am not looking for a police report, I am looking to get out unscathed.
Loved video! Video was probably one of the best videos to watch before any other videos on fighting. Most likely, if you are aware of these 3 mistakes, you will never get into a fight to begin with, but if you do... you at least have a chance to protect yourself with whatever one knows about fighting.
I miss studying JKD. I trained under Sifu Michael Gonzalez in Dallas TX in the early 90's. Sifu Ted Wong was his instructor and would visit our school once or twice a year. Awesome training!
He is soooooo right.. I can tell he knows how it feels for the real situation and attackers posible positon to attack you.. The other hand on guard pushing you while the other hand is stubing you.. You won't stand a chance againts that position.. So the best self defense againts that is to RUN
Thank for sharing your insight and very realistic and effective street techniques! It is very true that we tend to think we are better and more proficient than our opponent; that is usually comes with lack of humility. Growing up in The Bronx, in NYC you learn really quickly to have situational awareness and be humble, otherwise you might end up learning a very bad painful or possibly deadly manner!
I liked your advice regarding fighting for the throat or eyes. You’re totally right, you can’t lift weights with your throat or eyes. I also agree with what you said about a street fight not being fair, they really aren’t. The only rule is keeping yourself safe.
With eyes - no, but you can train your neck and throat with weights and other techniques. Check some of the brutal training shaolin monks go through when they train their throats by hanging on it and punching/hitting it with a stick repeatedly. Granted it is unlikely you will ever face a shaolin monk in a fight, it is possible for bodybuilders and wright lifters to train their necks. The difference is that big muscles do not really protect you against punches/pain e.g. a light weight boxer will most likely knock out a massive bodybuilder who has never conditioned his body against pain with ease while at the same time being able to take several hits from the bodybuilder without much damage to himself.
Wrestlers and some other grappling style fighters will strengthen their necks. In wrestling we do neck workouts for at least 10 min during practice so we can hold our weight plus out opponents if they somehow turn us to our backs
Won't lie.. point number 2 .. don't let them know you're planning on attacking .. I agree with .. in the streets .. do not act hostile or aggressive.. even if you plan on attacking.. act as helpless and submissive as you can.. the idea is you want your attacker to lower their guard and think that you're an easy target .. therefore he slacks and let's his guard down with you.. especially if its a crowd situation... if his focus isn't on you and he doesn't think you're going to attack.. he will move his focus on to someone or something else.. your friend.. the person next to you in the grocery store .. the teller behind the desk.. your wallet or phone.. hide your intention .. and then strike in the most vicious incapacitating way .. dropping his guard or turning his attention off from you makes any reaction from him towards you just that tiny bit more delayed giving you the advantage
Totally disagree. Most bullies are cowards and prey on those who they feel to be weaker. If you show you're not a weaker target, most will back right off.
I think it depends. For myself, I am large and strong looking man. Most people avoid me if I even look like I'm annoyed. No one will ever believe the scared act. Passive, yes, but not scared. I worked with one woman whobwas tiny, damn near pocket sized. She could sell the defenseless act so well that even when we were working together on the mat, it was hard to remember that she is far from helpless. Big mistake by the way. Ever tried to fight an angry spider monkey?
Shannon Argyle Fisher, I don't know how old you are, where you live, or what your demeanor is, but looking or acting "helpless and submissive" is not always a good idea...unless you're always looking to get into a fight. And if you have a life, or things to do, places to go, people to see, you may not necessarily want to get into a situation that may prevent you from getting there on time without blood on you or injuries. I live in New York City, have had many altercations while growing up and some in my 20s. But I'm older and wiser now, and have things to do other than waste time fighting, trying to show how tough I am, or feed my ego. But I'm in agreement with TheRoyalFlush guy's reply. Each situation is different; however, in my situations I have remained calm but let the person who looks like he wants fight that "this is not a good idea." It's also a good idea to keep your hands mid-level with palms facing the individual indicating that I don't want any problems, but I'm not going to get sucker punched or be a push-over either.
The passive yes had it happen everyone else in the tank knew me & my cousin was on opposite corners & put a big mad drunk Indian in that wanted to fight. We told him about it when he woke & he shouk both our hands & said thanks for not fucking him up. If you're going to get someone that way. Be the hammer he don't see when steps over the line.
TheRoyalFlush or they have an inferiority/superiority complex. They feel inferior so they have to act superior. Tell them what they want to hear and try to neutralize their aggression
I respect everything you have just shown me.. I was a bouncer/doorman at several clubs in and around Toronto, Canada, with a certain degree of martial arts training, brown belt in Taekwondo, I've also taken some judoka training as I feel grappling is also very helpful in that line of work, I've encountered many "idiots" who think they are Bruce Lee, but have absolutely no idea what they are doing, sometimes it's fun to watch these goofballs try using what they think is karate, judo, or some form of martial arts, especially after they've had a few drinks. Unfortunately, when using my training, I gained a bit of a reputation as a "TOUGH GUY" and was challenged many times, more than I care to admit, I never tried to be a bully, as a matter of fact, quite the opposite, I tried to teach a philosophical approach to engaging people who provoke and intimidate others. I think that is what martial arts is about, not being a rough and tough kind of person, but more like being calm and restrained. Thanks for the video, I look forward to seeing more of them.
I still like having the arms up, angled, trying to defuse, yet ready for strikes or defense against sucker punch or hidden knife. Plus for witnesses and cameras it shows you are not the aggressor. If the calming words don’t work you are more ready while being a bit nonchalant.
Matthias633 I was thinking about that: for me, having the hands up in some way seems important. I haven’t done this effectively yet myself in a real situation, but I’ve seen trainings where the arms can be up or the body angled without it seeming aggressive. An example is the body angled like you’re trying to walk away. Or the face a little down and a hand rubbing your chin, like you’re listening, but you’re really protecting the throat and chest. It isn’t perfect coverage, but better than nothing.
You are missing the point. What he is saying is the same I teach my boys. You don't want to project a fight is going to happen but you want to strike first. That's what he is saying so you recognize when the opponent has gone too far and deserves a beating then you do not project you keep distance and when the opponent enters the strike zone you strike with no warning. So there's no Need to have hands up he didn't say it but he should have said it plainly which is strike first and strike hard! I teach my boys this to recognize when a knucklehead wants to fight and you just act normal and calm and strike first. It is element of surprise. You cannot have the element of surprise while showing a defensive position. Ofcourse after it starts feel free to put your hands up!
Matthias633... I've actually witnessed an aggressor using the hands up method, while their buddy streams the fight. They won alot of court battles to go on to win lawsuits against victims. I agree with you on preference, but if your hands are down your argument in court holds more weight about you not being the aggressor, wether witnessed or video taken.
Man!! Thank u very much.... I just realized everything I knew was wrong. Once again thanks a lot for taking your time and teaching something very simple but yet crucial.
I love you Dan Lok. You have changed my life over the years through your free content. As soon as my finances get in order I'm going to spend money with you. I would like to take your head ticket closer program.
It’s odd. I just watched a Mike Coup video earlier today with many of the same lessons. No assumptions. Be prepared. Fights aren’t fair. Do what’s necessary. All truth. Thanks!!!
I am 5"2" and very slim, a few weeks ago a blind robber tried to mug me, i just told him i was 7"8" and a mma champion and he backed off, it just goes to show you should always try lying first. P.s i tried this a week ago with a mugger who had great eyesight and im now in Intensive Care.
I'm 5'10", and a fairly-in-shape nearly 50 year old at 175Lb... my son is 6'4" and 210 lbs. He's wary of me because I trained him... to be devastating. That's what I taught him - don't go until you have to, but when you do, be devastating. Be a wrecking-ball force of nature. Ruin your opponent.
I agree...I've just started learning Urban Combatives.....The biggest mistake i think people make is not enough attitude and aggression....You have to train like you are going to end your opponents blood line but have the self control not to kill them....The biggest weakness is not being animal enough...Growl and snarl with every strike.
7Earthsky I agree with your statement but I somewhat disagree with the part about how you should have enough control not to kill them. When you're in a street fight, are you really thinking about whether or not you actually kill someone or not? Killing someone is terrible. I understand. But sometimes, when your life is in danger (especially when your attacker is armed with more than enough tools to kill you in a matter of seconds), killing someone is inevitable. It sucks, but it's a necessary evil one has to commit to stay alive. Although when your skills are able to incapacitate someone and not kill them, you should end it there and carry on with your life.
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar Well yeah. If it's not possible to escape then that's a different story. What do you mean, "You can not"? Are you saying it's never possible? You should always engage and fight till the death? I'd say more times than not, you can probably run away.
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar Nowhere in my original post did I say "you will always get away just like that." You saying, "you can not" implies "you never can." If you want people to understand you, write more coherently.
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar Whatever dude, regardless of you being confusing (or confused), I still think he should have said more about trying to avoid street fights. The only time he mentioned running away is if you think the other guy is a badass. Trying to escape or avoid should be the default mind state, and he barely talked about it. Anyway, I’m done trying to explain this to you.
OMG !!!! THANK YOU SOOOOO VERY MUCH DAN. THIS IS EXCELLENT ADVISE! I am a woman who used to train Hapkido. I am exhausted fo these videos that push unrealistic advise to people especially women and giving a false sense of security. THESE SRE EXCELLENT TIPS. THANK YOU SOOOO VERY MUCH. MOST IMPORTANTLY IT'S CRUCIAL FOR EVERYONE. WE MUST STEP OUT OF OUR EGOs. We never know who we are dealing with. Creating distance and an extreme awareness is crucial . THHHHAAAANNNNKKK YYYOOOOOUUUU. I love your straight forward teaching style. I also love that your curse. Buddha Be Blessed!!!!
I was told this by an instructor one time. You first try to give up your wallet or whatever but once you have decided that you will fight back you are COMMITTED to ending that fight and protecting yourself at any cost! There is no “winning” or talking it out past that point. You either win or you die.
Lots of fights on the street go easy. If you are able to easily end the fight there is no need to purposely cripple the guy. Even if the try and stab or club you if your able to calmly disarm and take out the guy there is no need to start stomping on him or them. Lots of time that person will have friends or family members in the crowd who will tolerate you ending the situation and will even smooth things out afterwords but they will attack you if you use excess force. This is true with gang bangers and marauding neighborhood thugs and college wrestling team mates as well. In my experience watching people stabbing another person out of the blue, it always is for a reason that occurred long before the actual attack. If all someone wants is a wallet that's why you should carry two. Load up a wallet with a 10 a 5 and a few ones and leave a couple debit cards and an old id with an old address. Look forward to freely handing a robber that wallet and getting on with your day. Carry a knife and a can of pepper spray. A small fixed blade neck knife and the understanding you use a full can of pepper spray per encounter you don't try and save some for later. Your car is your sword and suit of armour. The proper use of even a tiny low horsepower economy car is bread and butter. Have fun with it and stay lose and realize inflicting unessadary injury to an opponent can trigger both short term and long term problems best avoided.
david cottrell Very good point. I think in most cases the best thing to do would not be showing off your martial arts skills but to try to resolve the situation in some sort of way. I feel if a person is dead set on hurting you or someone close to you (maybe drugs are involved) then you shouldn’t hesitate to go for the eyes or throat... There are a lot of legal issues involved but your life comes first. And it can be over with a simple punch to the chest at the right time... But I agree, if the person is obviously incapacitated then there is no reason for some sort of wild revenge.
Good video, you are spot on. Not that this has anything to do with your video but people's worst nightmare could be fighting someone who is an unorthodox fighter with a killer mindset. Not having that killer mindset could be your demise in a street fight and it doesn't matter how much you have trained and sparred in the gym.
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1. No rules in the street so never think of a fair fight
2. Never give verbal or physical warning (signal)
3. Never rely on reaction so be proactive
Great analysis
General rule, if you don't know someone and they walk up to you friendly, offering a hand, or something like that, first thing you do is back up and make it clear you don't want to be touched. In society there are unspoken rules about personal space. If someone is trying to invade it, regardless of demeanor, you can't rule out that they are doing so with malicious intent.
so the video was as useless as I thought lol. Obvious from the "I run a multi-million dollar company" line that was also pointless.
@@kajekage9410 agreed
@@kajekage9410 in what way was it useless?
Damn, the best combat advice I have ever seen. 10 years in the security industry working in all different fields, we had three sayings:
1. There is always someone better, faster, stronger than you. So don't go starting anything.
2. You're dead if you're inside 20 feet. Distance is critical. If you're standing toe to toe with someone the fact is that you can not protect yourself at all whatsoever.
3. If you have any doubt, then there is no doubt.
In any confrontation, assume the worst case scenario. Never ever assume you're gonna win thats for damned sure.
Our rule of thumb was that we just wanted to go home at the end of the night with no blood or beer on our shirts. The single greatest tool at your disposal is your brain, closely followed by your mouth.
The only time I ever got knocked down in ten years work was the one time I stopped thinking and didn't follow these rules.
Did you intend to type "2 feet" instead of "20 feet" there?
@@julealgon From other view:
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This is why distance needed
Thanks for sharing man. Great stuff.
on point
Poor baby shocked after the first knockout!it's not not going knocked out the point, but to learn by mistakes. Great fighters before getting unbeatable got knocked out several times
This is a really useful and informative video for the most part. Some more common mistakes from my own experience / knowledge are:
1. *Not punching with a correct fist.* There should be absolutely no air in your hand when you throw a punch. I'm from the UK and know from a senior student who worked as a nurse in A&E that the most common injury from street fights (in England at least) is the breaking of bones in the hand, because the combatants are often untrained and don't make a correct fist.
2. *Not running away if you are not held at direct blade / gunpoint.* There is _absolutely no point_ in risking yourself any injury if you can help it. Unless there is no possibility of escape without risking critical injury (i.e. being stabbed or shot), the absolute best defence is to run away as fast as possible, and scream for help as loud as you can. There is _no shame in retreat_ when your safety is on the line; as they say, you get to fight another day.
3. *Passing the knife directly to a training partner.* So this one isn't technically about a street fight, nor is it truly critical. It is, however, my observation that Dan casually passes the training knife seen in the video directly to one of his training partners. Though this may seem like a harmless act, I have _always_ been taught that one should *never* do this. *Here's the reason:*
When we practice knife-disarming in training, my instructor (6th degree black belt) often recounts a true story about two British police officers (partners), who trained together in the disarming of an attacker with a knife. They would take turns as playing the aggressor and the defender - once one had performed a successful disarming technique on the other, he would pass the training knife straight to his partner and their roles would be reversed (i.e. the aggressor was now defending and disarming, and the defender was now attacking with the knife, etc.). The disarming technique would be repeated, the two officers would switch roles, and all the while they handed the training knife directly back and forth to each other.
This seemingly-harmless behaviour later had disastrous and tragic consequences. One evening, one of the two police officers was on patrol when he was accosted by a mugger armed with a knife. When threatened, the officer performed a successful disarming technique, just as he had always practiced with his partner. But then, out of habit, *he handed the knife straight back to the mugger he had just disarmed* . The mugger promptly stabbed the officer and ran away, while the critically-wounded officer (also a husband and father), bled out on the street and died.
And _that_ is why we _always_ put the training knife *on the floor* (for the other student to pick up) when we wish to transfer control of the training knife.
Wow, sorry for the long-ass comment, but those were some points that I just felt I _had_ to raise. The source of my information is that I am a 1st degree black belt in taekwondo and have been training for 12 years (so I'm just getting started!). If you made it to the end of this mini-essay, thank you for reading! God bless, be water, and I wish you a happy and fulfilled life till the end of your days :)
fairly important point, interesting but sad story.
That's a strong point.
Good addition to the video
God bless you too.
Tho I am not sure I should mention "being water", in reply to your comment. Especially seeing as no-one else has. I will presume it is an allusion to Being as pliant as a willow that bends in the storm... or as adaptable and overcoming all , as water does !
Those are the kinds of stories that might actually help someone in the future just because it’s out of the box and makes you realize shit can go totally sideways instantly.
"In a combo, every attack must be delivered with the intent to kill"
-Deep Sea King
saitama: *consecutive normal punches.....*
Each delivery should be force going through the joints to break the JOINING bones, wrist, throat, neck, knees, etc, BREAK, BREAK, BREAK, if your LIFE is in JEOPARDY and just KNOW he might be heavily armed, so assume you must make your reaction intent WELL KNOW-BREAK, i refer to this technique as the SMASH x 3 ..your strength MUST be VIOLENT and five to ten times stronger than his! Show MERCY and WELCOME to the after life!
Just shoot them.
Damn I just thought that doctor strange could use the ring thingy to teleport deep sea king to a desert then mumen rider can beat up sea king again
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Mistake #1: never let him know you are a millionaire
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Yeah that's asking to get robbed I live in Atlanta if people saw this video and saw him well....hope he's got a gun lol
I fell off the couch by loughing man😂😂
fact.
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Suddenly Dan Lok became one of my favorite UA-camrs.
I agree mate!
Dan Loc great advise...I see tai chi as exercise..I ever take it seriously
Thats like Bruce Lees jkd grandson!
No man land. Great.
"Explode from nothingness" ... Best comment I've heard in a very long time.
My version of that (for decades) has been "instantaneous devastation". Good video.
thats very much like something bruce lee would say and its very good advice..
That was one of Bruce Lee's techniques. Non-telegraphing any moves. Not moving, to strike with no obvious preparation.
Yeah ,getting ready at any time is a higher lvl.
Is the same back in the 60s we use to call it crazy dragon
My bi-polar ex-wife mastered that move early on in our marriage
"im sorry do you have some change?"
-sun tzu, art of war
"Hey brok, why did that guy over there call your Momma a ratty B*?"
~Sun Tzu, Art of War
good advice, i used to practice my start position was a relaxed stance with my arms at sides, no signal, well except i'd smile sometimes, 99% of the time they'd see i'm not intimidated and back off, it's that 1% you have to watch. one thing i'd say is never step into someone trying to pick a fight, instead smile just a bit and take a step back instead of forward while watching his body language, if he steps in again, break a nose, or something it's easy he'll be leading with his face trying to get you to do same, fight over. reason i say step back then strike if he steps in again is they will usually misread your move as being intimidated, instead of prepping, and too eagerly step in again not expecting a strike. lastly be aware of your surroundings but never, never take your eyes completely off that guy in front of you, the second you turn away they will ambush you and strike. also, that is also my reason to step back and make room rather than forward, being too close gives you no time to assess and react, only distance will give you the time to protect yourself when the other person takes action. in my youth i won 99% of my fights before they even started simply by not showing emotion, or being fazed because they would back off. off course, a slight smile at the right time goes far in your favor because it tends to get them thinking. they look for people who are scared, intimidated, an easy mark. always train for that 1% because that is the group you will have to protect yourself from, not the rest. a few things i picked up watching bruce lee as a kid.
Ronald Treitner bruce Lee always said never clinch your fist till impact...☯️
Fuhh ur really smart ur making hella alot of sense and yes distance helps lol
Good advice bro
Are you a martial Artist???... Well sed....7 years of Aikido and lately Krav Maga....learning that the green zone or closer IS safe!....(gun/knife)...you back up/ push them away ...your dune!...they pull a gun....your thoughts??
Liam Worthington if they have gun then why would they try to get closer in the first place
Over 30 years ago, as I was walking out of a bar, was befriended by two guys leaving same time, we were all sharing our opinion on a hockey game on the bars TV. As we're talking on the way to the parking lot, those two guys behind me changed the conversation to informing me they had knives on them. I looked back at them, smiled and said, "No kidding, so do I". They gave each other a nervous look, turned around and walked away. If you don't have a weapon and nothing else is handy, no where to run, bluffing sometimes works, it saved my skin.
chris hoff best comment I've ever seen, good advice
Warfare exists on different levels including psychological. Your brain is the ultimate best weapon you will ever have. Good story.
chris hoff thank you for sharing and glad you are safe.
chris hoff simple language can be self defense, this post is a good reminder
Many animals only have bluffing as their only defense strategy. Seems to have brought them through evolution too.
You can tell, Dan Lok knows what he's talking about. Real world advice.
I have experience in several martial arts over many years and I can say that what this guy says is the best advice I've ever come across on the subject of self-defence in a real 'street-fight / threat' situation. The only thing I would add is to always have in your mind the possibility of questions being asked after the event. The word 'reasonable' figures large in all legal situations and so, especially in a one-on-one situation, always bear this in mind.
I disagree. Thinking past saving your life…. is losing your life
Your advice is technically correct but will never apply in a real fight. Do'nt think or you are already injured !
I'm 62 years old, I did a street fighting course because London where I lived was becoming too violent. I moved to a rural area of my childhood but there is a junkies hostel next door to where I moved to. I have had three fights with junkies (half my age) on my property. This is typically the sort of situation one will be faced with aggression. Not by a trained fighter but by a drunk or junkie. What I was taught was not to react and show aggression. Perhaps put your hands up in the 'I surrender pose' because this is basically a boxing stance and you have a good chance of fending off a strike. When they come within hitting distance go for the tip of the nose the throat or the chin. Whilst they are in shock keep hitting them or trip them and throw them to the ground. I'm not a fighter, just a surviver of circumstance. There are no rules in a street fight. Hit first, hit hard, hit fast. And run.
Have you seen any Brazilian jujitsu street fighting advice vids on UA-cam? the guy that came up with Brazilian jujitsu has the best advice. I think the techniques are very effective especially for a small guy against a big one. They give the exact same advice as this guy, as far as staying calm, not showing emotions on your face, you know, just holding your cards close to your vest, etc. until you decide to engage, or if it’s been decided for you. THIS video is very Good, lots of great advice from this guy, too! You can’t watch too many technique videos about protecting yourself!!!
If you are absolutely certain there will be a fight, best to hit first. If you have distance but no where to run, pick up gravel, rocks or sticks. This hand to hand only is BS. Defend yourself!
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There certainly is a rule - don't become a killer.
I watched this video after seeing it a few months ago. There is a lesson somewhere here about watching something for the second time. What struck me most blatantly is that these three fundamental lessons were extremely focused and condensed tips that are of extreme high quality. The overall theme (self protection and not expecting someone to fight you "fairly"). Let that sink in. Let it sink in because it's reality. What Dan is trying to tell you is that you have to prepare for the worst case scenario. Expect to be conned ( I thought that was brilliant...the guy that pretends to be nice and then suckers you). This is the theme of his video. It could save your life. Then he illustrates the science of physical distance and understanding how that works to your advantage if you are aware of it.The concept of not "signalling" that you are ready to fight or protect yourself. That's pure psychology. Getting into a street fight is extremely dangerous.People die in those situations or are permanently disabled all the time. There are "no rules" as Dan pointed out. The very best option is to avoid that kind of situation. If it begins to happen, don't let your ego or macho bravado escalate things. Always attempt to diffuse or de escalate a confrontation. But sometimes your attacker isn't interested in that.
well said
Agreed! The guy who wants to jump you isn't going to warn you beforehand. A lot of the time he'll come at you from the side or behind. Or come at you from around a corner. That's why I always walk on the part of the sidewalk closest to the street. Gives me more time to observe side paths or areas someone might be hidden. I also make sure to glance behind me to keep an eye on who's behind me and to keep a minimum distance between me and the person behind me. They start closing the gap I pick up the pace. They start moving faster I immediately turn and face them and prep myself for a potential conflict. I treat everyone I meet as a potential enemy. If someone asks me for change I keep the distance between us so far that we both have to reach out as far as possible for them to get it.
I'm 70 years old. I came across this video looking for Bruce Lee vids for my son who's keen on MMA.
What Dan Lok says is absolutely spot on. I'm not a fighter, an old hippie really! But there's been a few occasions in my travels round the world when I've needed to defend myself or others. The only thing I'd add to Dan's methods is if you know (and you will) it's going to turn ugly, get in quick, get in hard. And if there's more than one, take out the biggest guy first because that may be the only chance you get while he's still thinking.
And his comment about the 'quiet one'... So fucking true. One time (very early on) confronted with a couple of guys, i ignored the 'quiet' guy at the back. Big mistake.
cheyne15 just buy a gun ol hippie and pray
@@ankitkampani9302 the conquest between man and steer is uncertain.
I like the idea I always look calm in a fight hez....
When I am 70, I plan to run the bad folks over with my truck. Oh sorry....
If your son is serious about martial arts, don't send him to MMA. If he seeks a disciplined method of defending himself, take him to a kung fu, karate, ju-jitsu, ITF taekwondo or jeet kune do school. MMA is about learning how to beat an opponent. A _true_ martial art is about learning how to defend yourself.
Because I very- much know “street fighting”, this dude makes these scenarios 100% correct/accurately .
I'm an ex pro boxer done years on doors in rough pubs and night clubs , thousands of street fights and attempts on my life 100% true I'm still here and there's lots of men bearing missing bits and scars as a result of attacking me,
This guy talks sense I've laughed at most other self Deffense vids this guy knows his stuff.
You're right, all the best.
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I rarely comment videos but I had to comment this one. First of all, there is no useless information, no useless talking and general principles instead of far fetched techniques. Secondly and imho, this is one of the best videos on self-defence out there: what Dan Lok says matches my direct experience "word by word". Hats off.
Thanks Antal.
I'm a retired U.S. Combat Infantry Sergeant. Having lived a career of violence I am no longer interested in conflict, but one day I would love to share a cup of tea with you in your penthouse and discus the philosophies of our combat arts. The view is AWSOME. Just discussion as since I am now disabled due to my injuries from my final deployment to Iraq during Operation Iraqi Freedom 2008-2009.
Jose Santiahgo thank you for your service.
Thank you for your service sir.
Thank you sir, for your service.
11B or 03?? If 11, why is the sky blue?? Because god loves the infantry!
thank you for your service sir! God Bless
Stabbing that dude with a real knife gave me anxiety
If you're about to get stabbed first thing you do is to RUN
What?!
Dan Lok is not a real fighter he's just an entrepreneur!!!!!
@Expeditiously unraveling I don't think so bruh
@Expeditiously unraveling u want combat training? Let's sign up for kickboxing match what do you think?
"You cannot lift weights with your eyeball and throat." HAHA. Funny but true.
The Rock has defeated many opponents with his eye alone. So id say he has a pretty strong eye lol
Some Shaolin monks actually train their throats though. (Throwing themselves against wood very roughly and often.)
can't lift weights with your penis unless you're trying to enlarge it
May be he doesn't know about shaolin monks. They do exercises to their throat too.
Or your scrotum, aorta, jugular, femoral, etc..
As Bruce Lee said ‘I have no fear of an opponent in front of me. I am very self-sufficient, they do not bother me. I make up my mind, “that’s it, baby, you’d better kill me before I get you”.’
That’s a proper mentality. Told a Marine friend of mine the next fight I get into where I’m taken to the ground, I’m gonna ball up and take the beating (cause I’m an old dude). He looked at me with that stern Marine look on his face and said “You don’t give up..at all”. Way he said it sunk in. If you think your gonna lose, you will. Bruce Lee,of course, knew what he was talking about.
why did he have to flex on us like that lol
confidence is an essential part of defending yourself... but not being too cocky
@joshua henderson i own many multi million dollar companies 🤣
Idk
Just walk up to him with toothpaste
It's called overcompensating.
"Seek not beauty in battle. Seek not beauty in death. Consider not your own life. If you wish to protect that which must be protected, then strike while your opponent's back is turned."
Dan, I enjoyed your video. I was a student of Dan Inosanto, and I understand the importance of knowing these three points to be aware of, but it’s always a good thing to be reminded of the basics tactics.
Spot on. The reaction time demonstration is something I have never seen before. Not tipping off the opponent but just going.
Impressive, real world instruction.
Very realistic! Being a ex-soldier and martial artist, I thought this was spot on!!!
This was a refreshing watch. It's incredibly hard to find trainers who give actually useful and applicable advice for fight or flight situations. Appreciate the knowledge you share. SUBBED.
Dan, totally impressed with your skills and confidence. Thanks for taking your time to share with others your passion. I'm a retired police officer from San Bernardino California, I wish I could have connected up with you when I was still working, I could have cut some of my fights down to a fraction of the time and improve my officer safety skills in the process. Thanks so much again, greetings from Riverside California.
6:57 his assistant could not hide it...that was a hard, surprising hit.
LOL
Lol he's not wearing that 8 pack suit in the video for nothing lmao
I wondered of anyone else noticed that. Lol
I do his same karate techniques theyre mostly about power/devastation like the mindset if you mess with me i will destroy you
I searched the comments to see if anyone else seen that haha. He was like ugh god that kinda hurt then tried to play it off real quick.
Reality right here. I agree 100%
Peppa
Hi Dan Lok. I am very inspired that u gaved this demonstration.A real Master of the art. Im glad u knew Bruce Lee. There are so many fake masters who are only there for there monopoly. You happen to teach real stuff. I like how u describe words in action. Your very talented. My name is Josuee. I am originally from Long Beach California. I been punked allot. I am a noble man. I am humble. But people take advantage and took advantage. When I was only doing good. I been a big fan of Bruce less since I was a kid. I am 39 now. I been watching his movies since the 80s. My father use to rent movies at an Asian movie rental. Original VHS. Use to be on Cherry and Walnut. Good times. I am not a new kid like You tube. I go back when video rentals were popular. Now it's lost its value. I would like to join your school. But it probably be a fortune. More like a waiting line to join. Maybe impossible. Favorite Bruce movie was fist of fury. The one we're he works in the whare house and breaks an ice. To cut it short. Don't wanna overwhelm a brief message. Take care. Much respect. Adios Hermano
"Learn to fight from nothingness." He is talking about "Fighting without fighting." It takes decades to learn to fight without ego. To be in the moment, calm, no negative vibration, no attachment, to only see the truth of the moment. To be above your physical desires. When you reach this point you will not even attract a negative encounter. Light attracts light and darkness attracts darkness. Professor Kufferath who taught Bruce Lee, never got into a fight because he was also present and avoided altercations even arguments. The masters avoid fighting altogether. The masters have no openings to attack. Because fighting is self-Defense. In the beginning martial arts is a physical training, and later it becomes a part of your being. You need to incorporate a spiritual training. Because martial arts is a physical and mental training. Bruce Lee incorporated spiritual training along with his martial arts training.
well said
Lovely comment.
Yes!!!! Ive never been robbed, hit or lost any fights and no choice but to be in. I walk in peace and love. GOD protects me and those who mean harm find themselves helping me. Later saying I hated you but now I love u...my greatest enemies became my greatest friends...its amazing you get all that training but its never really to use it...
If u don't need to fight , why would you even lear a martial art? I disagree with you. Beside , martial arts don't even work ( some of them )
I'm not even on the first level of that, I physically have not lived long enough to have practiced that, being 17. I'll need another 5 years at least to master it, maybe I can cheat with my acting from drama class, but I can't possibly let go of emotion completely,
I have been in 1 too many street fights sifu and one of the common things that I see is when people start swinging and throwing punches like windmills. I’ve had it happen with me and all I do is let them keep swinging until they get tired then BAM. One or 2 hits and they’re out
kamy ahmed , that's wht I do bro cuz I knw wht I have I never talk about me being this n that like many punks that get out of prison that beat on normal ppl cuz they think their bad, I hate that big time.
Thats a very good question Kamy.
also, the problem with your strategy, is that it assumes you have enough training and skill, to be able to dodge, block, or otherwise avoid all these windmill punches being hurled your way. so someone like myself for example, who has very little training and has only been in a couple real life physical altercations, could wind up in some serious trouble, because if the guy connects one time with one of those windmill shots - i'm fucked. the key to your strategy is lasting long enough for the other guy to get tired without being hit.... that's a big problem for skinny, out of shape, cigarette smoking, bong hitting average joe's like myself.
that's why you must learn to keep them at a distance. there's no shame in retreating a few steps to keep a distance between you. also, learn his timing, and strike in between. jkd=way of the intercepting fist is based on(more or less) intercepting your opponents strike, with a strike of your own. in Bruce lee's movie "return of the dragon" he perfectly demonstrates this when he fights the Japanese guy before he faces chuck Norris. a little practice goes a long way. also, you need to decide if you want to be a martial artist, or not. as Mr. miyagi(I'm sure I misspelled it) said, "either you do karate yes, or karate no. you do karate guess so. get squished. just like grape"
Kamy lan na maar yaara
Lol
As a former police officer, I know you are totaly right. Thanks for sharing......
Extremely practical advice. My favorite tip you gave is staying relaxed and showing no emotion on your face. This works. I was once in a confrontation with a bully and all I did was stare him in the eyes without any emotion. Somehow this unnerved him so much that he walked away and never bothered me again. The worst thing you can do is show anger or fear. Either of those emotions makes you vulnerable. When you’re angry you’re not thinking clearly, which gives your opponent an edge. When you’re fearful you’re empowering your opponent and weakening yourself. The key is to be calm and relaxed while simultaneously getting ready to explode. The other great tip you gave was to be suspicious of anyone asking you for money in a friendly way, since he may be disarming you while reaching for a knife. I think the key here is if someone asks you for money and continues walking closer to you, you need to go into action BEFORE he closes the distance, either by running away or kicking him as soon as he is within striking distance. Because if you wait until he pulls out his knife, you’re too late. Last year I was on the street in New York City when I was approached by someone asking me for money. I was carrying an umbrella. I shook my head to let him know I’m not giving him any money. If he continued walking toward me in spite of knowing I’m not giving him money, that’s already an aggressive act, so I watched him carefully, covertly getting myself ready to strike him with the umbrella, which had a sharp metal point on it. Fortunately for him, he kept his distance. The key is, as you said, to be proactive. No matter what the situation, if you act proactively you improve your chances of survival.
I have been fighting for 30+ years and you have shown me things I never was taught or learned. I have all the greatest respect for JKD Bruce Lee and now Dan Lok. Thank you sir!!!
What made JKD genius was it was realistic, real world instead of movie and tv environment , like choreography, version of fight
Of course. That’s why Bruce Lee was in the movies choreographing fights. ;-)
southtxguitarist
A movie is not real, you know.
For example there is no real IronMan. Of course than choreography is something normal. It cant be real, you dont wanna hurt.
Movie =/= Reality
Iron Man is real, dammit!
@@southtxguitarist so if bruce lee in the choreography movie fights.. it means jkd not real?
Hilarious.
The first rule of fighting is there are no rules, the only thing that matter is safe distance and if that's not possible then the only rule becomes win by shutting down the fight as fast as possible.
Finally an instructor that's not teaching ballet kicks,but real fighting knowledge,how to think
Most of the times, people only argue and we wouldn’t know if the other person really wants to fight or he’s just posturing. If we go for a preemptive strike, doesn’t that mean that we might have started a fight when there’s no need at all. It’s just a doubt. Sorry if I’m wrong
Your right but to sweet in situations, but I understand you compleetly you hope is to argue and walk away. My tip walk away dont argue is a win. Or start right away and dont stop is a win.
Sir, I have studied Martial Arts for a long time. But I am not a fighter or a badass in any way! WOW, Your video just made sense to me. Thank you! R.I.P Mr. Bruce Lee!
This video reminds me of what an elderly Irish guy once told me. "If it looks like you are going to fight always hit first".
Yea that's the number one rule , i think hitting first will grant you a much higher chance
Urarettin -D- Lexxar in life you find out there are those with jaws of stone or those with jaws of glass, you’ll always remember the ones who can take a shot, unless they give you a concussion.
It takes at least 2 so you'll be the other one making the decision of whether to fight or not ..most times you can decide to stay on the defensive if you're smart and wanna avoid getting convicted yourself etc.
Hmm. Actually, if you hit first then you cannot really claim self-defense. If you face criminal charges, then it still might be worth being brutal to survive. But, if you face capital charges, then you really aren't saving yourself, are you?
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar
If no one witnesses how it got started then you could be looking at a murder charge, or at least manslaughter. Impair his ability to pursue, and make good your exit.
Dan Lok
Successful businessman
Successful speaker
Successful martial artist
Hats off😍😍
Great simple common sense advice.
Thanks for the ego intro.....glad I was randomly sent here..lol IM A BUSINESS MAN.
Just spot on brother! very very well explained and very practical advice.. Ive been in many streetfights when i was young so i can attest to the validity of this advice..There are many other factors that create the conditions for streetfights to begin...not everything can be addressed in one vid...the vib that a person gives off, how they carry themselves and the experience that they may or may not have all factor in...The experience aspect cannot be faked, this is something you either have or you dont and it affects your body language and how you carry urself...its not something "you do" or try to do... But when its there, it has alot to to with whether somone will approach you for such a confrontation or pass you by and not even think abt it....its not a guarantee , its just a factor ...People who dont train, or have never trained to fight or had any fights for real, tend to give an unconscious signal to attackers that they are easy prey..this is sad, but true...most attackers Look for people who Wont be able to give them a challenge and choose accordingly...But as you stated in ur video, a gun or knife levels the playing field against even a very skilled person..its important to read the person who is confronting you and the best defense skill is to be able to diffuse and deescalate such an event Before it happens..That is the Ultimate self defense..
I'm barely halfway through this video and I can tell you this is one of the best self defense type videos on the entire internet this dude makes so much sense and everything is saying is absolutely true great video
Bruce Lee a true legend! R.I.P.
So...! The right defense is to using aikido...to take the right way and solutions...!
Michael Jai White would've whipped Bruce Lee. Im sure Bruce would admit it if he were alive today.
This video randomly popped up on my play list, and after 20seconds, I had the impression of a fat guy (my apologies) trying to use Bruce Lee's fame to get some clicks and likes. I was so wrong.
The points were simple yet presented clearly. Much learnt. Thank you!!!
Welcome, Ronald.
Funny. At first, I had a similar vibe. But I watched the whole video and he was very spot on. I attribute the initial feeling to a slight language barrier (although Dan's English is very good). All said, great video and great points!
I had a similar feeling, specially with him introducing himself as a millionaire I thought o just another rich guy trying to make a youtube channel, I was so wrong I'm glad I stayed this is awesome content.
Never visualize the outcome of a fight. -- Bruce Lee
ReverenXero hardest thing to not do
This where JKD differs with Karate (and its katas). You visualize the fight in Karate. I guess there are guys who plan quickly in a fight and those who react quickly also.
Said the actor Bruce Lee
I love my initial instructor because he taught to go for every weak point of every enemy. I've been learning these techniques since I was about 4. 20 years of practice later and I still seek more practice and I look forward to learning a bunch of what I don't know.
SIFU, I’ve watched and have from you over the years; thank you. Many of us, walking around, taking too much for granted! Not paying attention to our surroundings. Only too be victimized. That is key in life; STOP TAKING LIFE FOR GRANTED!
I AM SIFU!!!!
I've studied martial arts since the age of 17 , I am now 43. I respect your video.
The thing you mention at the beginning of the video (1:26), Dan, happened to me last Saturday night here in São Paulo City, Brazil, as I was stopped at a traffic light. The window was open, I'd seen a guy crossing the street coming more or less towards my car, then I lost sight of him, as he came from the back, only heard him, heard his soft, friendly voice, 'Hey "uncle", I know you are a policeman, but...' I'm not a policeman and his soft voice put me on the alert, I sensed danger, I immediately drove off, jumped the red light, I heard him say "No, stop," in the same polite tone. I sure was going to be held up, my instinct saved me. So this is very useful advice you're giving here, very very useful. Congratulations!
The guy certainly had a gun.
Probably the best way to avoid a street fight -- run! After all, martial arts should be the last resort, not the first resort.
John Gabriel what if he was actually in trouble
@@rankalucard3960 prob, but ur own safety comes 1st
Frankie Gee you can't take that chance. Anyway it's not up to us to be heroes. We have to take care of ourselves first.
Thanks!
Dan thank you for these basic but very effective defense and survival techniques. I train Taekwondo and I see my guys always wanting to be informed of an attack before you attack them.
I tell them not to be so sport-like and predictable in training. Streets don't have rules and you are open to attack at anytime. You have got to be ready at all times. In the street no one waits for you to get ready for a fight. Great advice!!
There are too many videos on UA-cam teaching people how to become a statistic in under 10 seconds.
I realize that most of these so called trainers mean well, but they don't have the real world experience needed to video train newcomers on proper defense, never mind offense.
Mr. Lok, It seems that you have, not only the experience, but a way to successfully get your point across in a clear and concise manner that most, if not every viewer can comprehend.
Of course haters gonna hate. Those that think they are better than everybody, can, like you said; "FUCK OFF"
Negativity is an obstruction towards a peaceful mind.
Not that I can say I do not have negative thoughts or comments when it comes to people that are purposely ignorant, hateful or lying..
Thank You for providing a channel worth subscribing to.
Great video! I have trained in Shorin-Ryu karate for about 14 years, I still train at 64yrs old. It's been good but, I wish now I had dedicated time to learn Jeet Kun Do, very dynamic!
It's not which system we use, it's how well we use those systems.
Dear Sifu Dan Lok, Excellent presentation of the three common mistakes, without methodology beginners, which should be instructed in the reverse order. You also admit that distance usually save lives, so this is recommended to a n utter beginner. And if caught at a shorter distance there is nothing left but to maken use of so called personal weapons like your suitcase, handbag or anything to be placed inbetween you and the attacker. A beginner, in my opinion, is unable to effectively hit, just grab the opponents limbs and divertthem and again run away.
The shorter the distance the highelr level of proficciency is required to successfully face an opponent. Best wishes and happy new year. Paul, 66, retired instructor of Goju-ryu Karate.
Usually when people ask me for change, I take a subtle few steps away from the person in question so they won't be so close to me. Another is if a person comes up from behind me while I'm in mid-step, I'll turn while still moving forward but stop once facing them thus putting a few feet of distance between myself and the person in question. Or if I see the person in question ahead of me before they see me, I usually would walk to the side just out of ear shot, or wait for a few people to walk a head of me and I just slightly match their pace and discreetly get by
From what I read you just seem hella paranoid but I also understand why you do that 😂
you seem fearful
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I like this guy 😂 I’m a traditional Wing Chun guy but I love the focus on practical application in real street fights. More than technique he’s talking about awareness, mentality, simplicity. And the knife fighting point is right on. A close friend who served 15 years in prison taught me that exact technique (except, if you can, snatch off your jacket or any material and wrap your forearm with it. Takes only a second or two if you have good footwork to avoid incoming strikes).
DAN LOK ; Hello I am not a student of any Martial Art. I'm 66 yrs. old. Army" AIRBORNE " veteran I've survived a few conflicts. Like you I never show an opponent I'm on the offensive. I've been whipped, can't watch 3 sometimes 2 pissed blood for days. Still I'm alive and kicking. Keep up your message and good work.
Absolutely agree except on one small point. Given the nature of some people, not all aggression ends in violence and when it does, preemptive-Which is that strike when they break no mans land you spoke of, will if recorded by witnesses or cctv etc, potentially see YOU jailed.
Admittedly you MIGHT make a defense based on intimidation, unfortunately if you are a trained martial artist you would as easily see a prosecution argument make you out to be superman capable of defending without severity.
As such i employ that middle ground of raised open hands and the stance which you spoke of. Of course however you are right in the point on stance, it is a good thing to have correct positioning but also to practice striking from, and being attacked from, no defense, no preparedness as many situations can begin this way, be it mistaken identity, a drunken random attack etc.
But, the reason i prefer the raised open palm start is simply from a legal defense point and a self defense point. It is quite easy to suggest preemptive attack once a boundary is broken but that requires ones focus to firmly be on the single assailant, if it is not, then having no defense up means they can take advantage of that and if they are fast, break that distance and get to you.
As such i prefer to be conciliatory and palms out hands raised above waist height, and arms fully extended, back down, practice using verbal means of diffusion.
I have talked my way out of fights more than had fights. Not simply by apology, sometimes being ultra aggressive, sometimes seeming afraid, sometimes merely apologetic or assuring them i have no desire for a confrontation.
However if they have become insistent, pushing against my hands i do not back off but keep them at arms length. This allows me a chance to assess who is nearby and to any observers be they people or digital devices, i am appearing to decline combat and to pacify, once they push onto my outstretched hands, this is a clear and unequivocal gesture of aggression.
This is the stage i define as safe for me to begin attacking them, though if they keep verbally attacking i will attempt to back up or move aside maintaining that distance, if they lunge or punch, there is where i have the chance to react as opposed to the typical alphas bumping chests and sudden swipe, i move forwards arms come up from already being 60% or more of the way there.
Posibly it is not the best idea but it does permit me a legal defense and does permit me to not have to give cause to others saying i initiated something.
Thank you for sharing Barry
Barry Mead
Yes that is all well and good. But I would rather take a charge,than a blade.
I see both points. The question is "should my mommy cry or he's". My mommy always told me "don't ever come home crying". I am 51 years old, and I punched first and did not stoped until I knew the danger is out, I ran fast and hard when I had too, and I used (anything) as a weapon. In between, I took martial arts and that thought me a lot of discipline WHEN and HOW to use it. Now I have a concealed (permit) weapon and stays chambered (bullet in the pipe). Seconds matters on every situation. I pray God to never have to deploy my weapon. Because of the awareness and discipline, I learned to avoid many situations that could end up in hospital or grave. Thank Jesus for all
The open hand creates more options. Several times I've slapped them once leaving my hand print on their face for a few days. Shocks them, makes them close their eyes and scares them to be losing to a 'slap'. On video its defensive as well. If its not.... enough close and kill. Lastly - size em up fast. Dont box a boxer, dont wrestle a wrestler, dont kung fu a kung fu guy and if they pull a weapon use it on em.
Better to be judged by a panel of 12 than be carried out in a box by 6...too many polite people get their heads smashed in. Shoot first , ask questions later.
All makes sense BUT, you start the fight, you win the fight, and then you do the time for starting it.
street fight has no rule. it's the struggle for life.
Ask a street fighter, he makes all the rules......lol
Defense against lowlives most the time..any weapon is better than being unarmed if you dont have strength and or skills..
applies to 1% of people watching this vid. Probably even less.
I agree that you can't count on your opponent(s) to follow any rules, but I would add the following:
- If you can figure out what your opponent is up to and what he expects you to do, you can use that against him by violating his expectations.
- There is only one rule you should absolutely follow: do anything and everything you need to ensure you go home healthy and happy when the encounter is over, even if it means giving up your monetary or material possessions. No matter what you may have lost, any day that doesn't end with you six feet under is a good day!
I live in a gun free country and since I got 2 Dobermans everybody is nice to me and gets out my way, even groups walk away. I couldn't be more relaxed on the streets. I walk around like I own the place.
Dan Lok, your statement about being relaxed with no expression is correct. Respectfully, I 'd like to say that we could do without the profanity / curse words. And, on another note, I have avoided getting hit in a real confrontation by having my hands up with my palms directed partially toward the person confronting me. And on another occasion, the person decided not to fight me after seeing me raise my hands like that and indicate that I wasn't trying to fight him. So, I'd say that it depends on the person. But the calm demeanor with no aggressive response to the person has really helped me, except when I asked a huge aggressive guy in his late teens or early twenties to excuse me three times when I tried to pass him in a subway car and he had his back to me and was had on headphone. On the third time, he turned let me pass on the crowded train so I could be closer to the door but while standing near me he said "I heard you the first time." and then said "Say something else." I was on my way to work and told him calmly not to let my glasses or tie fool him. I'm not saying this works all of the time either, but fortunately, it worked for me.
From his simple movements I can tell Dan knows what he’s doing - impressive video
Another common mistake is thinking everything has to be a power/ knockout punch. Haymakers, big right or left crosses, over hands.
And also thinking they have to always be the aggressor in the fight. Sometimes it's ok to let the fight come to you. Aggressive fighters leave themselves open to more mistakes
okay , they may leave themselves open to more mistakes , but it won't matter because that aggressive fighter might knock you out with one of the 10 punches that he's rapidly swinging at your head, before you have a chance to do anything . usually , if the fight comes to you then you won't have time to let the fight come to you, you won't expect it. stay alert and stay aggressive
This is not a school yard fight where the teachers will blame the person throwing the first punch.
If you know you need to fight, go nuts and then run. Will these people call the police on you? Who knows. But if they get more info about you like where you live they could do harm. I am not looking for a police report, I am looking to get out unscathed.
Loved video! Video was probably one of the best videos to watch before any other videos on fighting. Most likely, if you are aware of these 3 mistakes, you will never get into a fight to begin with, but if you do... you at least have a chance to protect yourself with whatever one knows about fighting.
This is probably the most honest video on UA-cam! Awesome! Sifu Lee would definitely Thumb up this!
I love this guy. 100 % real down to earth human being.
I miss studying JKD. I trained under Sifu Michael Gonzalez in Dallas TX in the early 90's. Sifu Ted Wong was his instructor and would visit our school once or twice a year. Awesome training!
The police have a saying amongst themselves, "If it's a fair fight, then you came unprepared."
A great tutorial. And all true. Yes. “Be like water, my friend.”
He is soooooo right.. I can tell he knows how it feels for the real situation and attackers posible positon to attack you.. The other hand on guard pushing you while the other hand is stubing you.. You won't stand a chance againts that position.. So the best self defense againts that is to RUN
This guy is funny without even meaning to lol
But not haha funny...kind of weird funny.
Yup i thought the same exact thing
Go0d Muzik 😂
That’s what I thought too ... 3:10 “sharpened toothpaste” in prison? That cracked me up man!
At 7:00 to 7:04. The dude wasn't ready for that hit, can see from his expression XD that crack me
Thank for sharing your insight and very realistic and effective street techniques! It is very true that we tend to think we are better and more proficient than our opponent; that is usually comes with lack of humility. Growing up in The Bronx, in NYC you learn really quickly to have situational awareness and be humble, otherwise you might end up learning a very bad painful or possibly deadly manner!
This guy is a crazy good teacher!
I liked your advice regarding fighting for the throat or eyes. You’re totally right, you can’t lift weights with your throat or eyes. I also agree with what you said about a street fight not being fair, they really aren’t. The only rule is keeping yourself safe.
With eyes - no, but you can train your neck and throat with weights and other techniques. Check some of the brutal training shaolin monks go through when they train their throats by hanging on it and punching/hitting it with a stick repeatedly. Granted it is unlikely you will ever face a shaolin monk in a fight, it is possible for bodybuilders and wright lifters to train their necks. The difference is that big muscles do not really protect you against punches/pain e.g. a light weight boxer will most likely knock out a massive bodybuilder who has never conditioned his body against pain with ease while at the same time being able to take several hits from the bodybuilder without much damage to himself.
Wrestlers and some other grappling style fighters will strengthen their necks. In wrestling we do neck workouts for at least 10 min during practice so we can hold our weight plus out opponents if they somehow turn us to our backs
Won't lie.. point number 2 .. don't let them know you're planning on attacking .. I agree with .. in the streets .. do not act hostile or aggressive.. even if you plan on attacking.. act as helpless and submissive as you can.. the idea is you want your attacker to lower their guard and think that you're an easy target .. therefore he slacks and let's his guard down with you.. especially if its a crowd situation... if his focus isn't on you and he doesn't think you're going to attack.. he will move his focus on to someone or something else.. your friend.. the person next to you in the grocery store .. the teller behind the desk.. your wallet or phone.. hide your intention .. and then strike in the most vicious incapacitating way .. dropping his guard or turning his attention off from you makes any reaction from him towards you just that tiny bit more delayed giving you the advantage
Totally disagree. Most bullies are cowards and prey on those who they feel to be weaker. If you show you're not a weaker target, most will back right off.
I think it depends. For myself, I am large and strong looking man. Most people avoid me if I even look like I'm annoyed. No one will ever believe the scared act. Passive, yes, but not scared. I worked with one woman whobwas tiny, damn near pocket sized. She could sell the defenseless act so well that even when we were working together on the mat, it was hard to remember that she is far from helpless. Big mistake by the way. Ever tried to fight an angry spider monkey?
Shannon Argyle Fisher, I don't know how old you are, where you live, or what your demeanor is, but looking or acting "helpless and submissive" is not always a good idea...unless you're always looking to get into a fight. And if you have a life, or things to do, places to go, people to see, you may not necessarily want to get into a situation that may prevent you from getting there on time without blood on you or injuries. I live in New York City, have had many altercations while growing up and some in my 20s. But I'm older and wiser now, and have things to do other than waste time fighting, trying to show how tough I am, or feed my ego. But I'm in agreement with TheRoyalFlush guy's reply. Each situation is different; however, in my situations I have remained calm but let the person who looks like he wants fight that "this is not a good idea." It's also a good idea to keep your hands mid-level with palms facing the individual indicating that I don't want any problems, but I'm not going to get sucker punched or be a push-over either.
The passive yes had it happen everyone else in the tank knew me & my cousin was on opposite corners & put a big mad drunk Indian in that wanted to fight. We told him about it when he woke & he shouk both our hands & said thanks for not fucking him up. If you're going to get someone that way. Be the hammer he don't see when steps over the line.
TheRoyalFlush or they have an inferiority/superiority complex. They feel inferior so they have to act superior. Tell them what they want to hear and try to neutralize their aggression
I respect everything you have just shown me.. I was a bouncer/doorman at several clubs in and around Toronto, Canada, with a certain degree of martial arts training, brown belt in Taekwondo, I've also taken some judoka training as I feel grappling is also very helpful in that line of work, I've encountered many "idiots" who think they are Bruce Lee, but have absolutely no idea what they are doing, sometimes it's fun to watch these goofballs try using what they think is karate, judo, or some form of martial arts, especially after they've had a few drinks. Unfortunately, when using my training, I gained a bit of a reputation as a "TOUGH GUY" and was challenged many times, more than I care to admit, I never tried to be a bully, as a matter of fact, quite the opposite, I tried to teach a philosophical approach to engaging people who provoke and intimidate others. I think that is what martial arts is about, not being a rough and tough kind of person, but more like being calm and restrained. Thanks for the video, I look forward to seeing more of them.
Know yourself and know your enemy and in a 1000 battles you’ll never be in danger. -The Art Of War
I still like having the arms up, angled, trying to defuse, yet ready for strikes or defense against sucker punch or hidden knife. Plus for witnesses and cameras it shows you are not the aggressor. If the calming words don’t work you are more ready while being a bit nonchalant.
Matthias633 I was thinking about that: for me, having the hands up in some way seems important. I haven’t done this effectively yet myself in a real situation, but I’ve seen trainings where the arms can be up or the body angled without it seeming aggressive. An example is the body angled like you’re trying to walk away. Or the face a little down and a hand rubbing your chin, like you’re listening, but you’re really protecting the throat and chest. It isn’t perfect coverage, but better than nothing.
ahau oxlahun Yes, thank you. Good advice. Seems like a flexible neutral position, and as you said, not aggressive.
You are missing the point. What he is saying is the same I teach my boys. You don't want to project a fight is going to happen but you want to strike first. That's what he is saying so you recognize when the opponent has gone too far and deserves a beating then you do not project you keep distance and when the opponent enters the strike zone you strike with no warning.
So there's no
Need to have hands up he didn't say it but he should have said it plainly which is strike first and strike hard! I teach my boys this to recognize when a knucklehead wants to fight and you just act normal and calm and strike first. It is element of surprise. You cannot have the element of surprise while showing a defensive position.
Ofcourse after it starts feel free to put your hands up!
What if he slices with the knife and not stick it? What if he is wearing brass knucks?
Matthias633... I've actually witnessed an aggressor using the hands up method, while their buddy streams the fight. They won alot of court battles to go on to win lawsuits against victims.
I agree with you on preference, but if your hands are down your argument in court holds more weight about you not being the aggressor, wether witnessed or video taken.
Man!! Thank u very much.... I just realized everything I knew was wrong. Once again thanks a lot for taking your time and teaching something very simple but yet crucial.
I love you Dan Lok. You have changed my life over the years through your free content. As soon as my finances get in order I'm going to spend money with you. I would like to take your head ticket closer program.
It’s odd. I just watched a Mike Coup video earlier today with many of the same lessons.
No assumptions.
Be prepared.
Fights aren’t fair.
Do what’s necessary.
All truth. Thanks!!!
I am 5"2" and very slim, a few weeks ago a blind robber tried to mug me, i just told him i was 7"8" and a mma champion and he backed off, it just goes to show you should always try lying first. P.s i tried this a week ago with a mugger who had great eyesight and im now in Intensive Care.
had to read that twice
i still don't get it
That which we persist in doing....
Lmao
Lol
I'm 5'10", and a fairly-in-shape nearly 50 year old at 175Lb... my son is 6'4" and 210 lbs. He's wary of me because I trained him... to be devastating. That's what I taught him - don't go until you have to, but when you do, be devastating. Be a wrecking-ball force of nature. Ruin your opponent.
That's right. Well done.
I agree...I've just started learning Urban Combatives.....The biggest mistake i think people make is not enough attitude and aggression....You have to train like you are going to end your opponents blood line but have the self control not to kill them....The biggest weakness is not being animal enough...Growl and snarl with every strike.
7Earthsky I agree with your statement but I somewhat disagree with the part about how you should have enough control not to kill them. When you're in a street fight, are you really thinking about whether or not you actually kill someone or not? Killing someone is terrible. I understand. But sometimes, when your life is in danger (especially when your attacker is armed with more than enough tools to kill you in a matter of seconds), killing someone is inevitable. It sucks, but it's a necessary evil one has to commit to stay alive. Although when your skills are able to incapacitate someone and not kill them, you should end it there and carry on with your life.
Love this demonstration Dan. It keeps it realistic and survivable.
Very educational and based on real life situations. I benefited from this. Really.
Thanks Mr. Dan Lok
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The magic words on this 13:16 video were “never under estimate your opponent”. Great video thank you.
The Germans hung their collective Hats on that philosophy in WW2..
I feel you should emphasize the importance of avoiding a street fight at all costs. Best way to win.
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar Well yeah. If it's not possible to escape then that's a different story. What do you mean, "You can not"? Are you saying it's never possible? You should always engage and fight till the death? I'd say more times than not, you can probably run away.
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar Nowhere in my original post did I say "you will always get away just like that." You saying, "you can not" implies "you never can." If you want people to understand you, write more coherently.
@Urarettin -D- Lexxar Whatever dude, regardless of you being confusing (or confused), I still think he should have said more about trying to avoid street fights. The only time he mentioned running away is if you think the other guy is a badass. Trying to escape or avoid should be the default mind state, and he barely talked about it. Anyway, I’m done trying to explain this to you.
OMG !!!! THANK YOU SOOOOO VERY MUCH DAN. THIS IS EXCELLENT ADVISE! I am a woman who used to train Hapkido. I am exhausted fo these videos that push unrealistic advise to people especially women and giving a false sense of security. THESE SRE EXCELLENT TIPS. THANK YOU SOOOO VERY MUCH. MOST IMPORTANTLY IT'S CRUCIAL FOR EVERYONE. WE MUST STEP OUT OF OUR EGOs. We never know who we are dealing with. Creating distance and an extreme awareness is crucial . THHHHAAAANNNNKKK YYYOOOOOUUUU. I love your straight forward teaching style. I also love that your curse. Buddha Be Blessed!!!!
Everything you said is 100% correct.
I would love to train under you. Master Lee is smiling down on you. Great job.
Linda might say up at you
I was told this by an instructor one time. You first try to give up your wallet or whatever but once you have decided that you will fight back you are COMMITTED to ending that fight and protecting yourself at any cost! There is no “winning” or talking it out past that point. You either win or you die.
Lots of fights on the street go easy. If you are able to easily end the fight there is no need to purposely cripple the guy. Even if the try and stab or club you if your able to calmly disarm and take out the guy there is no need to start stomping on him or them. Lots of time that person will have friends or family members in the crowd who will tolerate you ending the situation and will even smooth things out afterwords but they will attack you if you use excess force. This is true with gang bangers and marauding neighborhood thugs and college wrestling team mates as well. In my experience watching people stabbing another person out of the blue, it always is for a reason that occurred long before the actual attack. If all someone wants is a wallet that's why you should carry two. Load up a wallet with a 10 a 5 and a few ones and leave a couple debit cards and an old id with an old address. Look forward to freely handing a robber that wallet and getting on with your day. Carry a knife and a can of pepper spray. A small fixed blade neck knife and the understanding you use a full can of pepper spray per encounter you don't try and save some for later. Your car is your sword and suit of armour. The proper use of even a tiny low horsepower economy car is bread and butter. Have fun with it and stay lose and realize inflicting unessadary injury to an opponent can trigger both short term and long term problems best avoided.
david cottrell Very good point. I think in most cases the best thing to do would not be showing off your martial arts skills but to try to resolve the situation in some sort of way. I feel if a person is dead set on hurting you or someone close to you (maybe drugs are involved) then you shouldn’t hesitate to go for the eyes or throat...
There are a lot of legal issues involved but your life comes first. And it can be over with a simple punch to the chest at the right time...
But I agree, if the person is obviously incapacitated then there is no reason for some sort of wild revenge.
david cottrell I like the double wallet idea. That might come in handy to keep inside a purse or book bag.
"You cannot lift weights with your eyeballs" line had me laughing. Great Vid!
Good video, you are spot on. Not that this has anything to do with your video but people's worst nightmare could be fighting someone who is an unorthodox fighter with a killer mindset. Not having that killer mindset could be your demise in a street fight and it doesn't matter how much you have trained and sparred in the gym.