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  • @greaterishe7197
    @greaterishe7197 2 роки тому +892

    1. Ask the Father to prepare a mate that matches your purpose/relates to your future.
    2. Ask the Father to give you revelation of every toxic standard you have set for a mate.
    3. Pray to become attractive to the mate you desire.
    4. Center yourself in faith for your mate.

  • @pelicandame
    @pelicandame 2 роки тому +949

    Years ago, I got mad at God, because I thought I was ready for a mate, and He reminded me that just because I am, doesn't mean my ordained mate is ready! Now happily married! And that's exactly what it was; my mate wasn't ready yet!

  • @dnewt3551
    @dnewt3551 2 роки тому +892

    I pray that God gives everyone the mate that he wants us to have.🙏🏽

    • @Cat-sx6ep
      @Cat-sx6ep 2 роки тому +25

      Not looking however great advice for the future. Made so many mistake and allowed misguided men into my life and my son just to see them take advantage of us ..Pure Toxic working on self worth !

    • @carmenjohnston3043
      @carmenjohnston3043 2 роки тому +6

      Amen. Thank you so much for your messages from God. God bless you and Lisa and family.

    • @sohoye5494
      @sohoye5494 2 роки тому +5

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @venettablack1757
      @venettablack1757 2 роки тому +4

      Amen 🙏

    • @BelieveInMiracles78
      @BelieveInMiracles78 2 роки тому +7

      Amen 🙏🏽
      GOD IS IN CONTROL

  • @chasidyjoy
    @chasidyjoy 2 роки тому +568

    Praying BUT while I’m waiting, I’m working on self and healing. Trying to be the best version of myself. Praying for all the ladies waiting on God’s blessings! Love to everyone! Much love to RC and Lisa Blakes. ❤️🙌🏾❤️

    • @moetolove
      @moetolove 2 роки тому +8

      Thank you Sister for your prayers as well I will be praying for you as well. All the best

    • @lilliepad2535
      @lilliepad2535 2 роки тому

      A

    • @karenelizabethpalmer4295
      @karenelizabethpalmer4295 2 роки тому +1

      True That!

    • @leeleeonthemove
      @leeleeonthemove 2 роки тому +3

      I’m right with you!! ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

    • @susiepowell3852
      @susiepowell3852 2 роки тому +5

      Thank God for the word I pray God answer my prayers for the right spouse in Jesus name amen

  • @sharhughes1086
    @sharhughes1086 2 роки тому +344

    I'm waiting on God! Because I always pick the wrong one, waiting patiently and praying 🙏 for what I prayed for! Amen!!

    • @bertaalvarez4637
      @bertaalvarez4637 2 роки тому +19

      You're not alone. I picked the wrong one too

    • @hawaglam540
      @hawaglam540 2 роки тому +18

      Same here!!! I have been left with mo choice but to surrender!🙏❤

    • @newseason4417
      @newseason4417 2 роки тому +7

      Same here

    • @jeanettebyrd8710
      @jeanettebyrd8710 2 роки тому +11

      Been waiting,but trying to get self better in fitness,& health!

    • @angelabetleja1910
      @angelabetleja1910 2 роки тому +6

      Me too!

  • @nikkimay78
    @nikkimay78 2 роки тому +144

    I’m in tears listening to this as I thought God has forgot about me ❤❤❤ but I now know Lord you are not only preparing me for my mate but preparing my mate for me. Thank you for this message 🙌🏾

    • @toniat7398
      @toniat7398 2 роки тому +5

      Remember, he never forget us. How can he forget the one he loved? Your time will come.

    • @robinfreeman5528
      @robinfreeman5528 Рік тому +1

      I love this teaching! God is good and will prepare the mate of my purpose in time.

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 8 місяців тому

      He hasn't forgotten sis. He desires us to include him in our choice of a mate.

  • @Jesuslovesherr
    @Jesuslovesherr 2 роки тому +67

    1. Pray for a mate who matches my purpose
    2. Pray for a revelation of every toxic standard and deliverance from them
    3. Pray to be attractive to the mate I would be attracted to
    4. Center myself in faith

  • @tinabutler7786
    @tinabutler7786 2 роки тому +179

    I've wrote my petition and I made it plain. The lord said that he would give me my heart desire.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @aprilsdavis4654
    @aprilsdavis4654 2 роки тому +93

    I am happy and healthy praise God! I am working on staying spiritually connected to God. I am praying for God to raise me a husband at 60! A man that loves me from the inside out!

  • @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262
    @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 2 роки тому +184

    I've already prayed and asked God to send me who He has my husband to be, because, I trust Him and His Word and He knows what's BEST for me✨♥️🥰!

  • @denisefrank164
    @denisefrank164 2 роки тому +18

    Attraction is for sure more than the physical. Your attractiveness comes from the inside out. The physical package, pleasing to the eye, is icing on the cake.

  • @jacquelinej5755
    @jacquelinej5755 2 роки тому +74

    I was iron connected to plastic … a man with no Discipline and no vision. He talked a a great game and was connected to my drive, but only wanted me to make the moves that world secure our future, God finally opened my eyes 👀 so I could end an engagement that would have been a marriage full of arguments like our engagement. Thank you for reminding to remove biases but also allowing me to focus and discern peoples true actions. I’ll continue to wait for God to align me to my Boaz. I’m disciplined, healthy mentally and physically and will not rush for a mate . Thanks Again Unc for this valuable lesion. 43 and fine with my single self 👌🏾

    • @tarlmabe
      @tarlmabe 2 роки тому

      Praise God you did not marry. I pray God gives you your heart desire in righteousness

  • @TheRevealingOfKatiaJ
    @TheRevealingOfKatiaJ 2 роки тому +35

    Yyyyes… I was in a toxic relationship fir 8 years. When I finally chose to ask God to strip my life of everything & anybody that want of him, my life opened up. I got a chance to find ME. Once I was focused on God & myself, he blessed me with a wonderful man. He wasn’t my type physically but he treats me like a queen & is my balance.

  • @Lisa-yy7ov
    @Lisa-yy7ov 2 роки тому +64

    This is confirmation cause after church yesterday the holy Spirit told me to go read Psalms 51. Cleanse my heart oh GOD and renew within me a right spirit. It immediately made me cry and realize how my choice have been toxic and how I've allowed men to break me because I didn't know my value

    • @toniat7398
      @toniat7398 2 роки тому +1

      The blood of Jesus’ cleanse is daily. Ps 51:7

  • @biblequeen4sure823
    @biblequeen4sure823 2 роки тому +81

    I'm waiting on God, not in a rush. God's going to send me a man to restore.

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  2 роки тому +95

    WELCOME! Please SHARE the link and LIKE

    • @TrimatizeBeauty
      @TrimatizeBeauty 2 роки тому

      That prayer brought me to tears...so powerful..💯💯

  • @BeautifulOnes876
    @BeautifulOnes876 Рік тому +4

    The recommendation to ask God to show the toxic standards that need to be addressed is excellent. There are many people who don’t even realize they can talk to God about these things! 😮

  • @bridgettemontford6409
    @bridgettemontford6409 2 роки тому +34

    I’ll continually wait on God to send me a God fearing man that loves him. And then he’ll know how to love me as his Queen and respect me at the same time

  • @vaclinciapounds8859
    @vaclinciapounds8859 2 роки тому +83

    I have prayed to God for the man whom He has meant for me to be my husband. Waiting on God. I made sure I was specific in my prayer. 🙏🏽 ❤️

  • @spokenpoet5074
    @spokenpoet5074 2 роки тому +152

    Once again Pastor you nailed it. Loved the Word and all the commentary. I've been celibate and single for years and I'm 57 and I know there's a mate in God's time.

    • @greaterishe7197
      @greaterishe7197 2 роки тому +12

      I agree with you.

    • @thegrace-basedstudent5701
      @thegrace-basedstudent5701 2 роки тому +12

      Girl, yes! I'm 50,' and God has a great husband for me, too. 😄

    • @andromedamaxima1543
      @andromedamaxima1543 2 роки тому +3

      Amen! God’s timing and God’s will.

    • @TS-fj2lo
      @TS-fj2lo Рік тому +3

      I’m 55 and God has a man of God for me. In the meantime, working on me.

    • @AngelInk-Poetess
      @AngelInk-Poetess Рік тому +5

      Yes- I’m 57 and believing God to raise up and being the man that relates to my future, and I to his. Praise God for Pastor Blakes!! 🙏♥️🙌

  • @charlottekendrickheard8058
    @charlottekendrickheard8058 2 роки тому +169

    I am praying and trusting GOD as HE is preparing me during this process. In JESUS NAME AMEN

  • @cpresley45
    @cpresley45 2 роки тому +8

    After reading the comments, I find that some of you are angry with pastor blakes...why?. He addressed women because women are always complaining about not finding a man. But his topic is geared toward both. The topic says how to pray for a mate. It didn't say who. How many men do you find complaining about not finding a wife/woman?🤔 women ask for the truth but, when we get it, we get angry and shoot the messenger. Someone commented that he's boasting about his relationship..why shouldn't he? Anyone should boast about how God made a change in their life and blessed them. Everything he said is spot on. I think back to the men I turned down because they didn't fit 'my type' and what I thought was 'my type' wasn't anybody's type. I married 'my type' ..now divorced. I was in a relationship with 'my type' for 15 years and he left me and married an older woman whose money was longer than mine. I'm angry with me because I wasted my best years on 'my type.' And to the one who said prayer has nothing to do with it, I beg to differ. Prayer is the key to all things that are good. Bless you pastor and keep doing what you do. There will always be satan in the mix..like u said 'satan is a liar.'

  • @lithabrown529
    @lithabrown529 2 роки тому +40

    There is no shortage in God! What an awesome teaching!!🔥🔥

  • @Rozallthingsfeminine
    @Rozallthingsfeminine 2 роки тому +68

    Smooches everyone💋, I posted this earlier and decided to delete it, but I think I'm going to post it again.... I did a 90-day prayer challenge starting December 23rd, 2021 and it ended March 22 2022 in prayer for my future husband. Today I am still single. Still hopeful. Still having fun and still praying. And still preparing.

    • @pamelaheald4622
      @pamelaheald4622 2 роки тому +4

      God heard your prayer and he will give you your heart’s desires.🙏🏽❤️

    • @hlulanimongwe3584
      @hlulanimongwe3584 2 роки тому

      I can't wait to read your testimony❤😊🥺

    • @Rozallthingsfeminine
      @Rozallthingsfeminine 2 роки тому +3

      @@hlulanimongwe3584 chil'd you and me both🤣🤣🤣. And as of today July 4th one of my girlfriends is seeing somebody, now I am the last one in the group. God saves the best for last. Smooches💋

    • @hlulanimongwe3584
      @hlulanimongwe3584 2 роки тому

      @@Rozallthingsfeminine surely it feels awful right?😩🥺But girl mind your own business 😂😂😂💋

  • @jamiashute4260
    @jamiashute4260 2 роки тому +95

    Lawd preach pastor Blakes. This was a word, lately when i find myself about to pray about a man something tells me , hold up! Pray for yourself , pray to reach your highest potential and create the version of myself to be ready for a relationship.

    • @MS-kg8jr
      @MS-kg8jr 2 роки тому +3

      This is my prayer as well. Becoming what I seek. God Bless!

    • @maxinefisher178
      @maxinefisher178 2 роки тому +2

      Please don’t use the word Lawd. It’s disrespectful to our Lord Jesus Christ. There are many Christians who use the Lords name in vain. Thank you!

  • @denisefrank164
    @denisefrank164 2 роки тому +22

    I tell women this all the time and they get irritated w/me. I’ve turned men down because of knowing they don’t match my purpose. They prove me right when they lash back disrespectfully. I will remain single and continue working on myself until God sends the man who matches my purpose. Not getting in my own way again.

  • @melissaj.corbin7675
    @melissaj.corbin7675 2 роки тому +16

    “When you are in your proper place, then I can bring a man into your life. “ No truer words from God through your loving teaching words Pastor Blakes. Thank you for this encouragement today. 🥰☺️

  • @mandiij6
    @mandiij6 2 роки тому +84

    I’ve been praying non-stop , it gets hard waiting and watching but I’m still going to pray when things are good and when things don’t go my way.

    • @mandlenkosihlazo977
      @mandlenkosihlazo977 Рік тому +4

      Activate your faith. eg Start planning for your wedding eg Choose your wedding dress/venue etc.. Write him love letters that you will give him on your wedding day ,on your 1st annivesary and other milestones..You should also seed for it..eg Bless someone's wedding/marriage,preferably someone not related to you.

    • @WomanOfGod79
      @WomanOfGod79 Рік тому

      @@mandlenkosihlazo977 such a great idea.

    • @dolsaidacampbell6730
      @dolsaidacampbell6730 11 місяців тому

      Bless us with our soul mates Father God

    • @dolsaidacampbell6730
      @dolsaidacampbell6730 11 місяців тому

      God bless you Bishop

    • @isabelhowes4688
      @isabelhowes4688 11 місяців тому

      @@mandlenkosihlazo977 i actually scripted my engagement night lol..I thought l was crazy... I even made a vision board included my wedding dress.. Theme.. House.. How our relationship will be like.. It's elevates Faith.. I look at it every night n l believe God will bless me soon

  • @connievelez5478
    @connievelez5478 2 роки тому +48

    I may be a widow three times but I always married for Kingdom purposes and so did they. They all finished their assignments and went home.
    As a Proverbs 31 woman, you must have your own purpose and destiny to fulfill.
    I so agree with your teaching. I continue to walk on my Kingdom path with purpose.

    • @toniat7398
      @toniat7398 2 роки тому +4

      Some people haven’t been married one time. You should write a book

  • @KAAT2239
    @KAAT2239 2 роки тому +31

    I’m definitely praying for God to raise up my husband… like wise I am asking Him to prepare me for my mate ♥️ right on time Bishop!! Your love story is an inspiration to us all!!!

  • @sebclay1526
    @sebclay1526 Рік тому +2

    Iron sharpens iron. You preaching better than we're shouting

  • @anncharles210
    @anncharles210 2 роки тому +36

    Yes sir, I tell my daughter as well as my sons the best relationship is with God then he will order your spouses. I thank God for being apart of their lives daily. Remember your personal relationship with God will surely order your steps.
    Remember to pray for our kids to stay focused on Jesus.
    My eldest son is taking Greek and Hebrew in school and the professor ask him to tutor the other students. Please family keep him in prayer as well as my daughter who will graduate in elementary education in December. I know they both will need a little break but they're young and the sky is the limit. I tell them all the time stay focused.

  • @tanjapersona9123
    @tanjapersona9123 2 роки тому +25

    Make the chandeliers shake 😂. Besides being a wonderful teacher, you're also hilarious. I'm a content marketeer and the way you use words and how you express yourself,
    You're a gem of words 😇. God bless you.

  • @cheshahale
    @cheshahale Рік тому +5

    This is a kick in the gut! A good one though!! It’s checking me. I feel a LOT of guilt and shame because I wasted 20 years of my life with relationships that were not purpose and haphazardly living life. Now in my in mid 40s looking like “what happened the last 20 years?” As hard as this message hits. I needed this NASTY medicine 😭😭😭😭☹️☹️

  • @Thequeenbakess
    @Thequeenbakess 2 роки тому +13

    I've been praying for a husband 🙏🏾 and at the same time focusing on becoming a better woman, mother, friend, stranger, etc... the husband will come but I don't want to look up and my husband is in my face and I'm still not ready.

  • @tyoung3509
    @tyoung3509 2 роки тому +26

    As always, love this message! “God can still do it!” I truly belief this. I’m 40 and never been married. I refuse to believe the things some people in society may say. I am mindful of who I listen to. Honestly, I only watch Bishop Blakes. The world 🌎 is too big to think there are no good men left. My mate may be in Australia or working overseas for all I know. I pray for my husband and will meet him one day. Patiently waiting and will ensure I am becoming that which I desire #3.

    • @mztymtaylormadequeen7127
      @mztymtaylormadequeen7127 2 роки тому +5

      Facts I'm 58 never been married .engaged but never married. Amen church

    • @nomfundomolefe5881
      @nomfundomolefe5881 2 роки тому +7

      There is no rush believe me, if he ain't the man ordained for you... It's a waste of time.. I am divorced.. Trust God

    • @MarloShaVonne
      @MarloShaVonne 2 роки тому +1

      @@nomfundomolefe5881 Preach.

    • @poweidethompson7256
      @poweidethompson7256 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly

  • @ChaChanowyall123
    @ChaChanowyall123 2 роки тому +78

    “Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us. Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus through out all ages, world without end. Amen.”
    Ephesians 3:20-21.
    Sometimes we have to be reminded that God is able to do all things.

    • @sohoye5494
      @sohoye5494 2 роки тому +3

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @Patricia-FSH_p379
      @Patricia-FSH_p379 2 роки тому +1

      Yes...the Word the Word the Word is so powerful sharper than any two hedged sword. God can do anything ❤️👏🏾🙏🏽

    • @ngondjodindilipunye5956
      @ngondjodindilipunye5956 2 роки тому

      🙏

    • @bonnygoldberg5852
      @bonnygoldberg5852 2 роки тому

      This talk was so beautiful and meaningfully
      Thank you Pastor Blakes

    • @sharonbrown4978
      @sharonbrown4978 2 роки тому

      Beautifully said,well done sir🙏❤️

  • @marcelladouglas5516
    @marcelladouglas5516 2 роки тому +4

    People say wait on God but for those people who got your mate early in life and you are growing old with your mate and you did not have to wait it is easy for you to say wait on God now if you had to wait a long time for your mate and you got your mate I would rather hear from you than someone that never really had to too much on anything God just bless them yes I know God is in control but please be a little sympathetic to those of us who are still waiting especially women that have passed the child bearing age please have a little heart💖

    • @candrawilliams6825
      @candrawilliams6825 Місяць тому

      God is still control and of course it not easy but worth it. Always talk to God during the process and ask to renew your mind and heart.

  • @wordsofwisdomwithnaomi5153
    @wordsofwisdomwithnaomi5153 2 роки тому +3

    I’m Ready but not Desperate and waiting and praying patiently on God. Praying for the man I fit and he fits me in this life.

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed4422 2 роки тому +9

    I love the point about hitting your personal goals. I have 3 different goals right now: I am writing a book about Hope, I am working on my financial security, and I am working in more service to God. As an older woman, I was married for 22 years. He passed away 6 years ago. God told me don’t chase a man, let him find you and in the meantime serve me! That’s what I did and still doing. I thank God for life and I am looking forward to the next chapter of my life regardless if a mate in included. If not, I love me! Psalms 34:5: “Those that look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed’. Powerful message. Musician Bob Marley said it well: “love you with a sense of purpose”. A wonderful line that works today in relationships as well.

  • @turner2952
    @turner2952 2 роки тому +25

    God gives us just what we need, not what we want. Sometimes, we don't even know what we want or need. Only God knows everything about us. We just have to have the patience to wait on Him to work in our lives.
    Outstanding message. Thank you so much for your great words of wisdom, Pastor Blakes. God bless you and your family and your ministry!

  • @ms.forever9282
    @ms.forever9282 2 роки тому +6

    Godsend me a man that matches my purpose. I'm prepared for my purpose and I pray that God raises up a man to build up, harmonize and relate to my future. I believe with all of my heart that God will give me a complete revelation of this and He will deliver. He will cleanse my heart, mind, body, and spirit of all these toxic desires. I will no longer be my own worst enemy when it comes down to men. He will help me appreciate and recognize a man that's husband material. I will be on the level of the person I desire and I will be attractive to the soulmate that God chooses for me. I'm faithful and very patient. Praying for your good health, long life, and more blessings to come your way. Thank you so much. More power and peace to you and your family, our living Legend, the man of love and power with a very big heart. You're Godsend to us, Bishop RC Blakes. You are truly An Icon! We truly love and appreciate you for coming into our lives. ❤❤❤ To God Be The Glory. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Passiion_Fruiit
    @Passiion_Fruiit 2 роки тому +10

    I’ll be 30 next year and I pray I’ll connect with my mate when we’re both ready ❤️.

  • @terrybogard6542
    @terrybogard6542 2 роки тому +22

    And to remove anyone that is not of him out of my life someone that matches and merges with what the Almighty creator of heaven and Earth wants for my life wow this resonates with my spirit I am going to continue to wait patiently for God to do what he does in my life he knows what is for me and I now know what's for me is for me no man can ever take it away

  • @tracyforrest1257
    @tracyforrest1257 2 роки тому +13

    I prayed that God send me my husband that he has for me. He knows better than I do. Amen

  • @steeenab2306
    @steeenab2306 Рік тому +8

    I married and have had relationships where I’ve been the breadwinner. Moneys not an issue for me. But at this point in my life I do want a leader. Amen. God bless y’all. ❤

  • @blessedbrand
    @blessedbrand 2 роки тому +21

    This message couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Thank you, Bishop RC Blakes.

  • @berniemcbgood7674
    @berniemcbgood7674 2 роки тому +8

    To meet a God-fearing sista, who has a "die to self" attitude, so the LORD can do great exploits thur us (Daniel 11: 32b)

  • @amor9905
    @amor9905 2 роки тому +3

    This message made me delete all those dating apps and instead focus my energy on working on myself and trusting God. I will never be discouraged and take a day at a time.

  • @shannaq.4896
    @shannaq.4896 2 роки тому +14

    Powerful message! A lot of gems dropped in this video. Lord I trust you in sending my mate that I have been praying for in Jesus name.. Amen 🙏🙏

  • @annwamuyu8560
    @annwamuyu8560 Рік тому +1

    This is so me, am waiting patiently for a mate from God. Was dating a pastor 3 years who ended up to be a con. I was heartbroken and mad at God. You know when a man of God cons you millions then mishandled you, you feel like its God Himself mishandling you. I was able to forgive 'God' myself and my ex and am now healed and at a better place to date n get married.
    Much love from kenya RC Blakes, waa introducted to you recently by my therapist and I owe her a lot for this. Youre such a blessing in my life

  • @lynette6356
    @lynette6356 2 роки тому +2

    God knows how to bring people together. Crazy making ways.
    Just stay positive. Seek God first. Remember He is the head. I keep looking towards God to get me ready for who He is readying for me so together we can serve His purpose. I never realized what it truly meant when it states let no man take apart what God put together in a marriage. God picks our mates not us picking them. We have free will. But when we place our will at the feet of God surrendering our will to the will of God He knows the condition of the hearts of men. He sees deeper than we can see, allowing God to place who is our mate into our lives.
    This is what I have been taught by listening to you Pastor Blakes. I’m so blessed to have come across you videos. Thank you. I’m at peace now. I trust God. May God continue to bless you and your ministry with His divine word and purpose so you may also pour out His word among people that are in need of His divine direction for their lives…
    for people like me.

  • @tiabanks5585
    @tiabanks5585 2 роки тому +19

    We also must keep ourselves in shape to Sir, keep our hearts healthy as well! Im doing the work inside and out! Thank you for the teaching Sir!

  • @truthseeker5289
    @truthseeker5289 2 роки тому +7

    I hear a lot when a woman gets to a certain age, have a certain amount of money, and have children have no value.
    Not sure if you have touched on this already but there is a group of men that’s gotten together to devalue women with children.

    • @redfox4929
      @redfox4929 2 роки тому

      Yep, Kevin Samuel's keeps on hating single mothers and women over 30. Hateful, bitter man child.

  • @lovingmma25
    @lovingmma25 2 роки тому +3

    I’m not religious. I do appreciate your teachings. I believe in God and God is definitely using you and I am thankful for you.

  • @ingenesiapopiitjiurutue9891
    @ingenesiapopiitjiurutue9891 2 роки тому +5

    I am listening from Namibia-Africa. You are speaking the heart of the Father. I am pausing continually as I am doing self reflection and asking the Father to reveal more

  • @valeriaallen1083
    @valeriaallen1083 2 роки тому +6

    Thats an awesome analysis...you cant get on a flight with a ticket (your attraction) going to a different destination. Thank you Jesus for that revelation!

  • @theadvocate3006
    @theadvocate3006 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you for this message! Praying that the LORD lifts up standards against the imposters in my daughter's relationships too!

  • @diana5253
    @diana5253 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for this message Pastor. After my last relationship, I focused on emotional healing as well as mental healing but have unfortunately neglected my physical appearance. I have not felt good about it as it has always been an insecurity of mine. This message hit close to home and I know that it is God speaking to me through you. I need to take better care of myself so that I can attract the man God has for me.

  • @aprilhiggins5197
    @aprilhiggins5197 2 роки тому +20

    Pastor Blakes, I can say many things but as I have listened to the words you have spoken all I can say is "Thank you" for allowing God to use you to speak to men and women to rise up and be the best we can be! May God continue to give you words to edify "we" His people!

  • @anncharles210
    @anncharles210 2 роки тому +7

    Not only did I hit the like button but I hit share at least 10 times. BE BLESSED FAMILY

  • @VauveAnais
    @VauveAnais 2 роки тому +6

    He is hilarious. 🤣Talking about these feet and bellies. He always shoots straight from the hip. lol

  • @BeautifulOnes876
    @BeautifulOnes876 Рік тому +1

    What Blake’s is saying is correct in the sense that a woman should not settle for a male who is bad for her in desperation of having someone. However, the hard fact remains that human beings are physiologically, and psychologically designed to pair. For believers, we know that God created man and woman to be together. This bottomline is so strong it is undeniably an essential part of LIFE, whether an atheist or God believer. Life literally cease to exist if the male and female components stop coming together. Purpose is key in living a life that is whole and aligned with God Almighty, and is key in being paired with the right mate. The solution is education such as what Blake’s is teaching here. I’ll say till the day I die that “Relationship” should be a mandatory class in schools, just like reading, writing, math, etc. God needs to be brought back in schools, “Finances” should be a mandatory class. Our schools fail to offer important keys to LIVING A TRULY SUCCESSFUL LIFE. Parents can’t teach children everything, it takes a village (especially when the parents don’t know any better than they may). Most of people went to school from kindergarten on up like a full time job, yet are severely undereducated in subjects mandatory in LIFE.

  • @tishaadams2366
    @tishaadams2366 Рік тому +1

    Wow. This is powerful. If anyone listened to what he actually said. God told him she was for him and he told her the same. They confirmed what God put together. Thank you Lord 💯🙏

  • @VauveAnais
    @VauveAnais 2 роки тому +18

    I look forward to sharing my testimony one day. I will definitely credit your videos with helping me in my development process. Thank you.

  • @bobbijokramm1976
    @bobbijokramm1976 2 роки тому +10

    Nothing like these anointed messages from u Bishop 🙏....as u know u are the father I NEVER had as I am one of MANY. Ur a necessary blessing and I thank the Divine for u often‼️💯👉🤍🙏💪👑

  • @rita4missions
    @rita4missions 2 роки тому +1

    I sm asking the Lord to heal me of the wounds of the past. 28 yrs of marriage ending in an ugly divorce. i had some many marriage's proposals and refused them all. 20 yrs single now and I think that it must be something wrong with me. Now, I am going to start praying for a man that matches my purpose and my future. I desire to have someone to work together in the Kingdom of God. I cannot just sit on the couch watching TV, I have to continue on with my calling. I have so much to offer and I don't want anymore one way street. God send me a man that matches my purpose, I trust you. Raise up the man designed for my purpose and related to my future. Thank you Lord and thank you for loving me.

  • @KatrelleAbrams
    @KatrelleAbrams 2 роки тому +4

    There are no words to express how thankful I am for you, Bishop Blakes! So grateful for your ministry!!! YOU ARE APPRECIATED SIR!!!!!!!!!!

  • @dozzyheart
    @dozzyheart 2 роки тому +5

    Currently courting at this time and this was well needed! You had me dying laughing when you said “stomach looking like Santa’s 🎅🏾 toy sack” 😂😂 but this was well needed! I have a good head on my shoulders and I feel my partner does as well! May God bless you for giving such wisdom to those that are seeking 🙏🏽🤞🏽🫶🏽🤴🏾

  • @catherinemartinez8319
    @catherinemartinez8319 2 роки тому +10

    I really love that music and reminds me of my first husband when we were married in Michigan yeah wonderful music I didn't know you had that type of music

  • @judygilbert6919
    @judygilbert6919 2 роки тому +6

    This is what I need. Praying less stress and anxiety about this.

  • @karenraines1738
    @karenraines1738 2 роки тому +3

    You have to be…what you desire. Reverend…you Preachhh!

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 2 роки тому +8

    Sometimes God takes a very long time to completely heal you. 40 years. I've finally realized I must accept that the answer might be no. I don't want to remain unmarried but I don't know what His purpose is for waiting so long. Other than my healing. Just sayin..... We must break our pride and let Him have our life.

    • @HS-xl7pc
      @HS-xl7pc 2 роки тому +1

      Amen. God will grant you your heart desire. This is where faith and trust comes in trust the process.

  • @miranda2216
    @miranda2216 2 роки тому +4

    You are the best teacher hands down!!!! The biblical truth and real life connections is amazing! Definitely transforming my life!!!!

  • @sherylegarrett8364
    @sherylegarrett8364 2 роки тому +32

    Good teacher everybody in this whole wide world should of had heard this--- very helpful Thanks alot

  • @deborahsteele7427
    @deborahsteele7427 2 роки тому +8

    "Pastor RC Blake's, you've done it once more again!" ... " Its truly remarkable, just the other day, during my quite prayer time, I was just thinking about these very same topics, in regards to putting our complete trust in the Lord's guidance, in regards to both dating & the marriage relationship, for just as you mentioned, this present generation, is completely " Out of Order", in trying to do things " their way", which is leading many to complete " destruction & discontentment ", all because they have not taken a real good & deep " heart search", of who they are, and many have not "prepared themselves", for marriage, and just like you said, and I am in total agreement with you; that it "first starts with you", and yes, I also agree that we must first be the true example; of what we desire first, before we should consider either dating & getting married!" ... " Just like you said; " Iron sharpens Iron ", and the two individuals can be a " Complimentary Strength", towards each other! " ... " Yes, I am extremely confident in knowing that our heavenly Father above, always, knows what is " Best" for us; and in " due season, & in time" he will order our pathways to meet the person that we have been created for, and there will be a true sense of "divine ones ness", and true inner peace, that cannot be mistaken!!!" ... " Thank you ", for another great teaching, as always!" .. (smiles) .. Blessings always, your heart friend, & Sister in Christ, Ms. Deborah J. Steele - 5/03/22 & 6/11/22

  • @pdoll96
    @pdoll96 2 роки тому +8

    This is where the Lord has me now and this message is so confirming.
    All I ever wanted was to be a wife and that desire had become an idol and I didn’t realize it.
    Now I realize my sense of value and worth needs to come from my Father and who He made me FIRST. I need to love myself properly before I can properly love another and properly receive love.

  • @pamsholar4532
    @pamsholar4532 2 роки тому +5

    God bless you Bishop and 1st Lady Blakes Jr. Thank you

  • @karenelizabethpalmer4295
    @karenelizabethpalmer4295 2 роки тому +26

    This hits right on Target.Pray is the key&Faith unlocks the door.Consistentcy,being true to yourself&Not wanting it so Bad.Thanks so much Pastor Blake's & Lisa Blake's for your consistent, diligence & Faithfulness to all the Family.

  • @christineempressone9197
    @christineempressone9197 2 роки тому +3

    Words cannot express how helpful and NEEDED this word is for Us all and All women especially! Wether or not the woman hearing this is single or married! This is a WAKEUP ☎️ call and I am forever thankful for this message. Thank you RC Blake’s Jr.😇

  • @vernitadavis4115
    @vernitadavis4115 2 роки тому +4

    This video was perfect timing for me. I am presently praying for the Right mate. I am being patient this time and waiting on God. Tired of clowns in crowns.

  • @pharvey2473
    @pharvey2473 2 роки тому +6

    Thankyou Bishop Blake, & Mrs Lisa Blake, will be sending this to my daughter who is dating with marriage goals

  • @ThePosh777
    @ThePosh777 Рік тому +1

    This is so beautiful and coming up in church I'm all about this message, I'm attracted to holiness and purity because of Christ but then there's days when I think of a virgin that died a virgin praying for a spouse and had a phenomenal life caring for orphans but still never experienced spousal love and I know we all have our journeys but...pray for me...church is also a good place to meet narcissists 😅sorry...anyway pray for me.

  • @germaineprien7691
    @germaineprien7691 2 роки тому +7

    I love this message, and SOoo agree with it, in every way. Its hard to overcome depression in the midst of preparing for a mate God wants for me.

  • @lizjackson3269
    @lizjackson3269 2 роки тому +11

    I’m so encouraged by this. Thank you SO much!

  • @missychosenjohnson161
    @missychosenjohnson161 2 роки тому +8

    Pastor I appreciate your voice of wisdom and the godly paternal male covering role you are fulfilling.

  • @antonianavarro1
    @antonianavarro1 11 днів тому

    Thank you RC Blakes no man has ever talked to me like this. You healed apart of my heart. You’ve prayed for me and us. Today I pray for you and your wife thank you I thank god for you two. I wish and bless love, protection, peace, happiness amen 🙏🏽 ❤️ -don’t know how to pray good yet but I try🙏🏽❤️😂 thank you so much

  • @shonabee53
    @shonabee53 2 роки тому +6

    Pray for understanding knowledge and wisdom. Sometimes we miss that someone because they are not who we would choose

  • @sparkle9482
    @sparkle9482 2 роки тому +7

    GREAT MESSAGE❤ Work on yourself and God will send you the RIGHT man when he's ready🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kimhobbs678
    @kimhobbs678 2 роки тому +6

    God bless you Pastor Blakes🙌🏾this conversation is much needed! Thank you for shining the light in the darkness 💯

  • @user-eb6ri2sf4d
    @user-eb6ri2sf4d 8 місяців тому

    Came across your video after I was so heartbroken 💔 and betrayed by my partner living with for three years . I’m so thankful to you your teachings, advice prayers. I have watched all your videos it really helped me.I got through it for nothing is impossible with God.Hallelujah all praise to God. I’m yrs moved on by the mercy of grace of God. Praying and waiting 35:55 for the right person. Thank you Pastor.

  • @berniemcbgood7674
    @berniemcbgood7674 2 роки тому +6

    Bishop "Sir" you are hitting good points on all levels

    • @worthbeingology187
      @worthbeingology187 3 місяці тому +1

      Replay! Yes Bernie Bishop always speak truth. I enjoy his teaching.

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 2 роки тому +12

    Love how Pastor Blakes says that the Creator of the Universe desires to be a part of your relational process and help you!!! Really spoke to me!

  • @mitz1919
    @mitz1919 Рік тому +3

    Preach🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I feel this message in my spirit! I’m about to listen to this every morning!

  • @wachukas
    @wachukas 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you RC Blakes. Very timely content. Please do one on how to pray for an existing mate.

  • @carolynporter5357
    @carolynporter5357 2 роки тому +4

    Great message! Praying for my mate.

  • @preciousstone2782
    @preciousstone2782 2 роки тому +7

    THE IS ABSOLUTELY TREND WORTHY, THANK YOU, DR. BLAKES

  • @angelahubbard3331
    @angelahubbard3331 2 роки тому +6

    This was so good I just stumbled on it tonight!! Thank you Jesus

  • @Sunshine-wn4eg
    @Sunshine-wn4eg 2 роки тому +2

    Yasss thanks for playing the vocals Dave Hollister voice is unmatched 🙌🏽

  • @RachelCharles789
    @RachelCharles789 2 роки тому +4

    This was incredible! Thank you!