I thank God for you Bishop Blakes and your wife That truly has the shepherds heart . Bishop Blakes you are one of my spiritual father and I'm looking forward to visiting fellowshiping . I have been sharing your platform. 💜
Thank You so Much Bishop for taking your Precious time to share with us. You Truly are a Man after God’s own Heart. May God Bless you and Lisa and your Family Abundantly God Bless you Bishop This Message was Amazing I’m going to watch over and Over so it can really help me so it can really Sink in my Brain and get to my Heart. You Definitely let God use you tonight. Love you ❤❤❤❤️🙏🏽✌🏽
When in solitude: 1. It is an opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth. 2. You're able to nurture your independence. 3. You’re able to find the freedom for self-care. 4. You’re able to cultivate meaningful relationships. 5. You’re able to pursue divine passions. 6. You’re able to rediscover your inner strength. 7. You’re able to embrace your personal freedom.
While alone...write your book, read self improvement books, get in the best shape mentally/emotionally/physically, go see people you haven't seen in a while, take yourself to dinner and to a movie...live your BEST life! If you live your BEST life while you are alone, you will be more inclined to live your BEST life with your mate.
I am grateful for my time alone. I am enjoying my own company. I was married for 31 years, and I have been divorced for 3 years. I didn’t think I could do it. This summer I went to Greece. It allowed me to see life totally different. I am embracing this time until God moves me into a relationship. 😊
Hope the best for you. I am wondering how you will continue going forward if God does NOT move you into a new relationship. I don't mean to be a Debbie Downer, but that could happen. What if you are still alone 5, 10, 15 years from now?
@@Areutherehello then I will continue to live, I didn’t say I need a man to survive. If God sees fit that I remain single, so be it. I have so much joy and peace now, I believe I will be just fine. Thank you for your concern.
My husband of 22 years left me when I was going through breast cancer treatment. A few years later, I married an abusive narcissist who tracked me via gps, strangulated me, drug me down cement stairs when I tried to leave…no man again ever. I’ve been through therapy to heal and understand my part. But, in my mind, I have no other option than to enjoy being alone.
This message is right on time for me. After being in a 19 Year emotional unavailable marriage 4 son’s. I’m currently in the middle of an divorce. Thank you Holy Spirit and Thank you spiritual Father 😢😮
There is life after divorce! When you get in tune with yourself, you will find so much peace, love and self respect that you will ask yourself, Why did I tolerate this unhealthy marriage so long! ❤🙏🏻
I love being by myself. It's peaceful. I can pray and reflect on learning about my likes and dislikes, I can see people for who they are clearer, I can meditate and work on being a better version of myself. Thank you RC blakes for your blessed messages🙏
I am now learning a lot while staying in solitude and celibate . I am getting clarity and also learning to love myself and forgive myself of past mistakes ❤
I am not alone, I am to myself in this season of healing and growth. Never again settling for LESS THAN my worth. I am no longer afraid. I have a life and I will live it-long!
Being alone has increase my discernment...its allowed me to become focused on me. Thank you Father God for removing me out of the darkness into the Light. Praise the Lord.
I'm in solitude, both my parents are passed. No friends or family around, have to deal with a toxic individual daily. When alone with out loving support it's very hard. But I'm trying. Thank you so much Pastor Blakes.❤
I never experienced God’s peace and His will until I accepted the season of solitude He put me in. It has been the best thing I ever experienced! Thank you Lord!
I'm so blessed to know what solitude is. my mind is so clear and focus on my father Jesus Christ my peace is the holy spirit Im so thankful for his divine love .
Great words of wisdom; I am to myself, my season of solitude!! Divorced since 2001, I have learned to focus on me, my immediate family and my dearest friends. I enjoy walking in faith, each and every day!! I am 70 years old and I still have goals and things to do on a daily basis. I love makeup, wigs and different hair styles, smelling good and looking cute! Four years ago I bought my house by myself and I still work part-time. My favorite thing to do is cooking and creating different recipes!! I thank God for showing me the way. Life is good and I no longer fear what's ahead; faith is the way!!!
Isaiah 54:5 says “For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is His name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth He is called.”
I am also 70 and I love being to and with myself. It is truly the most fulfilling part of my life aside from when I had my son. God has truly blessed me as I stepped out in faith to be in partnership with him .
The Value of Solitude 1. It is an opportunity for self discovery and personal growth 2. You get a chance to nurture your independence 3. You Find the Freedom for Self Care 4. Opportunity to Cultivate meaningful relationships 5. Opportunity to Pursue divine passions 6. Time to Rediscover your inner strength 7. Allows you to embrace your personal freedoms…do you boo 😜
I’ve been praying about acceptance of being single. I’ve been divorced 2 years and realize I was still struggling with this new reality. It’s been a distraction that’s kept me from my purpose and goals. Even in creating friendships that really weren’t authentic. I’m really going to commit to embracing my season of solitude 🙏🏾❤
Our story is the same. I too have been divorced for the last two years and this new journey is filled with ups, downs, and adversaries but I am pushing through and you will too. Embrace this time. For this is our growth time. Keep pouring into you and watch how much you will grow through this. Have a blessed day my sister and know you are not alone ❤🥰
This is my story too. Separated for two years and in the middle of a divorce. Really struggling and get really down sometimes. I thank God for RC Blakesley, he has really helped me in this season.
I don't know why but I finally had an epiphany. When 2 people are happily walking in their purpose, it allows them to be everything they need to be to and for each other without even trying. Because they are truly happy! I don't know what he said to make me realize it. But I needed that epiphany! You can't make someone be something they aren't within themselves.
I'm going on year 4 of being alone. No dates or anything. I focus on my job, school and family. I was in an abusive Marriage. I wished for these moments of loneliness while going through that. The ability and freedom to go and get coffee without checking in. The ability to stop at target without asking for permission.
I am alone but not alone. Every room that I spend time in has a radio on my total Christian, no commercial network. So, my connection with my Heavenly Father is strong. We talk, laugh, cry like a real human is there. You cannot believe the things He has taught me. A never ending relationship.
“Your fears are prophetic” Pastor Blake’s , that hit me like no other . Thank you for sharing this message! Thank you for using your platform to promote, encourage and support women’s healthiness !
I love being alone. It truly has helped me to love myself and become closer to God. I have great friends and family. BUT. I. LOVE. MY. SOLITUDE.❤ Thank you, Bishop!❤❤❤😊
I've just made a decision a few minutes ago to walk away from a toxic relationship...and when I saw this post...I cried out Hallelujah. It was confirmation for me. Thank You Lord Jesus🙌👏🙏
49 and single for 6 years now. Working on self and in solitude. I have let go of everything that does not serve my higher self and man is it a powerful feeling. Be patient and don't let anyone make you feel fear of being alone. I am finding the beauty in being alone and rediscoving what I really need in a partner. ❤
I wish more men of God had this understanding. I've been alone about 7 years now and am mocked and called a lesbian or it's said I have a man living with me. I always let it be known that God, my Father keeps my record. I know that this comes from carnal people and pray for them in Jesus name. Glory to God, I love being to myself. I've learned a lot about me in these 7 years. I even like and love myself whereas I've never felt like this about me. Thank you Jesus!
😂well !..im going to be called A lasebien too..im tired of people. I SHOW THEM MY TRUE SELF ,AND THEY DO NOT BELIEVE ME.. I FEEL LIKE AN ALIEN ON THIS EARTH FOR HAVING MORALS ,EMPATHY, AND COMPASSION ^..PEOPLE FEAR WHAT THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND
This is the truth. I took my time to do everything he said. Even to redoing my style and getting a whole new wardrobe piece by piece. As I did this I just got so excited about who would be the lucky man to get a whole man with identity from Christ I didn’t want to date the same and my standard became Gods standard.
I was just complaining to myself that I can’t seem to find more time alone. I really love, I mean love my solitude. It’s like I find my strength, creativity, peace, power and so much more inside my own self.
I remember 4 years ago, the guy I was dating said he didn’t want to continue to date anymore. I then discovered your channel while sobbing and trying to pull myself back together. He came back, and we got into a relationship despite all the red flags, fast forward to now we are broken up. It was clear we weren’t truly for each other from the start and I should have listened then. So here I am back again lol But this time im actually ready to receive and listen! Thankyou for these videos and sharing your wisdom, they are helping me a lot!😊🙏🏽
You say things to me that no one has ever said before that clarify my value, encourage me, inform me and me a brand new perspective on womanhood. God is going to continue to bless you and prosper you in Jesus name.
As I always tell my soon to be ex husband after 32 years of marriage: the key to your happiness is in your hands not mines I hardly learned to respect myself take time for me, leave the house for 1 night by myself go to restaurant spa movie by myself Go to bed if I feel tired and stop being a slave to the entire household I believe A LINCOLN abolished slavery centenaries ago Gratitude ❤ What RC is teaching here is very important we women do so much in silence we suffer so much and willing to do anything hoping someone will love us No no its the reverse you get love and respect when you pour into yourself Gratitude ❤
I was in the best place in my life physically and spiritually in my early twenties. The man that I met and dated during that time was a narcissist who I spent the next four years trying to escape. This is why I don’t believe “you attract who you are” Or “be your best self and you’ll attract that” actually you could attract the opposite and just get taken advantage of and be left with less than you came in with😒
I totally agree with you Pastor. I have been single for many years and been able to study and learn many new things. I am currently singing and learning to successfully play several instruments and to learn a foreign language. I believe the right man will come and I will have much to offer when that happens. I thank God the time God has given me time to develop and grow. Thank God. 😊
GOD KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT WE NEED ANS AND WHEN TO GIVE IT. THANK YOU FATHER. YOU ARE AWESOME IN ALL OF YOUR WAYS. I AM ETERNALLY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR LOVE & MERCY.
I been lonely for a while and hate being alone , it's not anout a man.I was a caregiver for my mom and she passed a year and 3 months ago.Pray for me !
Thank You 🙏🏽 I have been serving “The Lord” Alone 4 Many years…He has given me Wisdom Strength Knowledge Self Sacrifice Teachings Compassion Faith & Healing ❤️🩹 Seen & Unseen Gifts‼️ The Lord will Always First ☝🏽 In My Life‼️ ALL PRAISE HONOR & GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH‼️❤️🔥❤️
Thank you RC, this podcast was so timely. My husband recently left me, being back in this world alone has not been an easy transition, but after listening to you this evening, I'm feeling extremely encouraged and excited about the beginning of a new chapter in my life.
I live with my sisters and I’m single but I rather be in solitude because I was in relationships with the wrong men and I chose the wrong men and now I have to truly work on myself 🙏🏾
Those who are listening to you don't have a problem with your "long talking" Pastor...we love and appreciate you and all that God is saying to us through you. This message is confirmation for me that I'm right where I should be as a single and content woman; I just want to be closer and closer to God and to follow his directions for my life. I started listening to you about two years ago. Back then, I was in a relationship that I shouldn't be in but thank God for using you and this platform: that relationship is no longer and I'm just enjoying me and God and the work he's leading me to do. Thank you and Lisa so very much for all that you do...its changing lives for God's glory and for the spiritual health and wealth of those who are applying your teaching...not to mention, the lives that we will positively affect, starting with those nearest to us...we're breaking the cycle of broken families when our children can have Godly examples to emulate. I can go on and on. ...much love ❤ 💗 💓 ❤ Blessings on you and yours.
LISTEN, I really like Pastor Rc & Lisa Blakes, a-lot of women these days need to hear this. They don’t have this guidance in their life. This is why I’m grateful, When I got hurt. They changed the trajectory of my life & I’m sure a lot of other women can say the same. Grateful for you and your wife ❤️
WOW! Hearing about the loss of your church and Lisa's strength in that time was profound! Thank you for sharing. I am sorry for your loss. God always gives back what you have lost!
I have been in solitude mode most of the year and I dont know how much more self love and discovery there is. I pray God gives me patience and diligence to gracefully embrace this season as long as it needs.
I’ve been in solitude for two years now & being an introvert I find it peaceful although I am waiting for GOD to deliver my husband. I’ve grown so much by blocking everyone out. It’s given me focus and so many ideas for self sustainability since i chose to detach from people.
I absolutely cherish my peace and solitude. I’ve been a widow for over 10 years and in this time I have grown emotionally and spiritually. I’ve gotten reacquainted with me, the bright side and the shadow side. I have improved my financial forecast, I work out regularly and I just really genuinely enjoy my own company!!! I am so grateful for this season in my life. I look forward and work toward greater expansion, higher spiritual ascension and deeper connections with The Most High, my Self, people, nature and the Universe all around me during this gift of solitude💖
God bless you and your wife Pastor Blakes. I’ve been bingeing on your lessons and taking notes going on 2 weeks now. Like most I wish I had this kind of teaching growing up and a true father figure to look up to. Blessings ❤
Praise God I found beauty in my solitude about a year or two ago. I understood alone allowed me to prepare myself for what I really wanted. Ever since those things that I want is attracted to me.
I love the moment when you laughed after you said you're ok without any human interaction outside of LiLi. Its like another level of transparency.. that was such a genuine statement straight from the heart❤. The proclamation can NOT be denied🥰🥰 GOD I dont want a copy of this man because he has already been spoken for. However, I pray you send me one of his stature. Laying it down by your feet and walking away because I BELIEVE it is DONE! AMEN.
I’m a 41, divorce, mom of Two and I am learning to truly enjoy Solitude in Christ. I’m learning so much. It’s extremely peaceful. The moment I truly surrendered to Christ, he finally got me to this place now where he always wanted me to be. He’s preparing me for something great, and Solitude is teaching me to fully Trust him. When you get to experience spending time with God, the Holy Spirit overwhelms you in such a warming, loving, caring way that if he takes it up 1 notch, you will burst. Solitude prepares you for Christ’s Showers of Blessing!!! 🙏🏽🔥
I feel so good alone. It’s a rediscovery of my real self… I do boxing classes, yoga, Pilates… I do the gym. I go out with my daughter. I pursue things I deeply desire to experience. I let go and realized my own error, my choices and self worth.
@@kilab2243yes. Of course I miss make companionship, but it’s not the end be all. In the meanwhile, I enjoy myself, my own company. It hasn’t always been easy, but I broke through my own limited perceptions and choices. I wish everyone health and love.
This must be confirmation from God because I've been feeling like I've been alone and I was depressed. But hearing this has made me thankful that God has called me to this phase in my life!! 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Bishop I have been widowed now five years. I have been really discovering who I am, and I have done that in solitude. I really like me and have taken years of trauma off my life. I would never have seen what toil it took on me if I did not set myself aside for just God and I and some great therapists and channels like yours to be able to experience this freedom. I desire even more areas in my life healed. Thank you for this healing ministry. I wish everyone would find your channel.
This subject is confirmation...😮I'm embracing my solitude time. It's ok and I'm learning me more and feeling closer to myself so I can spend time with God. Being a single senior you continue to grow more wisdom.
Father God, please keep using Pastor Blakes in heavy ways. Advance him even more in all he is called to do. Hide him in the shadow of Your wings along with his wife Lisa, their families, ministries etc.❤
I'm an introvert as well. I can sit indoors by myself for days, I have to force myself to get out and go to the store, try to interact with others. My job, I have to be an extrovert, I have a very taxing job, people pull from you that's probably why I enjoy my solitude.
This is the season of “to myself” !!!!!! Yes 🙌🏾 Enjoying it because I’m enjoying me!!! Total contentment thanks be to GOD!! ❤A relationship should be tonic not toxic🙌🏾 ❤Moving away from the fear of being alone and become grateful for being present🙌🏾 Definitely love this!!! This is a golden episode!! So so good and blessed me surely ❤
I am an introvert by nature as well. I get so much done that way. I can be extroverted when I need to be. I know God is with me all the time so being alone doesn’t bother me.
PLEASE PUSH THIS ONE BY LIKING AND SHARING MY FAMILY.
I thank God for you Bishop Blakes and your wife That truly has the shepherds heart . Bishop Blakes you are one of my spiritual father and I'm looking forward to visiting fellowshiping . I have been sharing your platform. 💜
Thank You so Much Bishop for taking your Precious time to share with us. You Truly are a Man after God’s own Heart. May God Bless you and Lisa and your Family Abundantly God Bless you Bishop This Message was Amazing I’m going to watch over and Over so it can really help me so it can really Sink in my Brain and get to my Heart. You Definitely let God use you tonight. Love you ❤❤❤❤️🙏🏽✌🏽
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God Bless you for sharing this🙏🏽
‘Being alone allows u to truly experience relying on God!’👏🏽🙏🏽
I RECEIVE IT!!!🙋🏾♀️⛲️🎁🙏🏾🙌🏾
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Amen!!!❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Amen🙌
It gets old at times. But, it’s good to have a best friend, a spiritual being that never waivers. I love the Lord💕
When in solitude:
1. It is an opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth.
2. You're able to nurture your independence.
3. You’re able to find the freedom for self-care.
4. You’re able to cultivate meaningful relationships.
5. You’re able to pursue divine passions.
6. You’re able to rediscover your inner strength.
7. You’re able to embrace your personal freedom.
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Thank you for taking the time to list the points.❤
Thank you!
"When there's too many people and too much noise, I find it difficult to deal with me." As an introvert, I felt that.
I resonate with what you have written.
l am an empath too.
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I think this comes with maturity. I don't like much noise since entering my 30s.
While alone...write your book, read self improvement books, get in the best shape mentally/emotionally/physically, go see people you haven't seen in a while, take yourself to dinner and to a movie...live your BEST life! If you live your BEST life while you are alone, you will be more inclined to live your BEST life with your mate.
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I ‘M NOT BY MYSELF. I’m TO MYSELF. 👍🏾🙏🏾💜
Amen!! 🙏🏾💜
AMEN❤❤❤!!!!!
@@janellamurphy5665 Amen! 🙏🏾
"Solitude isn't the absence of company but the moment when our soul is free to talk to us & decide what to do with us " amazing🙏
I am grateful for my time alone. I am enjoying my own company. I was married for 31 years, and I have been divorced for 3 years. I didn’t think I could do it. This summer I went to Greece. It allowed me to see life totally different. I am embracing this time until God moves me into a relationship. 😊
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LOVE THIS FOR YOU SIS🥰🥰👏👏👏👏👏
Much joy and peace to you, be blessed in your walk with The Lord.
Hope the best for you. I am wondering how you will continue going forward if God does NOT move you into a new relationship.
I don't mean to be a Debbie Downer, but that could happen. What if you are still alone 5, 10, 15 years from now?
@@Areutherehello then I will continue to live, I didn’t say I need a man to survive. If God sees fit that I remain single, so be it. I have so much joy and peace now, I believe I will be just fine. Thank you for your concern.
"Many women are relying on men to be to them what only God can be"🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
My husband of 22 years left me when I was going through breast cancer treatment. A few years later, I married an abusive narcissist who tracked me via gps, strangulated me, drug me down cement stairs when I tried to leave…no man again ever. I’ve been through therapy to heal and understand my part. But, in my mind, I have no other option than to enjoy being alone.
It's ok to love you, whom the Creator has made🕊️
Sorry you went through all that... hugs
Aww sooo sorry that happened to you. May the Good Lord bless you. Better things ahead💝😊
Sorry that happened to you. You went trough traumatizing battle! You are brave
I'm so sorry 😞
“And when she loved herself , she found she was Invincible “❤❤❤
I am a 45 year old woman that has been single for 5+ years with a 18 year old son . This was a breath of fresh air to hear. 🙏🏾
This message is right on time for me. After being in a 19 Year emotional unavailable marriage 4 son’s. I’m currently in the middle of an divorce. Thank you Holy Spirit and Thank you spiritual Father 😢😮
YESSS & AMEN... FATHER HAVE YOUR WAY.
You can do it ! Time for you, new plans, goals , and overall self love ! 🙏❤️
I’ll Pray for your family. For peace and restoration😇🙏
@@agnesvs9263I am joining you for praying for growth in God and restoration
There is life after divorce! When you get in tune with yourself, you will find so much peace, love and self respect that you will ask yourself, Why did I tolerate this unhealthy marriage so long! ❤🙏🏻
I love being by myself. It's peaceful. I can pray and reflect on learning about my likes and dislikes, I can see people for who they are clearer, I can meditate and work on being a better version of myself. Thank you RC blakes for your blessed messages🙏
In total agreement sis🙌🏿💯💯💯💯👋🏾👋🏾💯💯💯
“It’s not necessarily that I’m BY myself, it’s that I’m TO myself” 🏆🏆🏆
I am now learning a lot while staying in solitude and celibate . I am getting clarity and also learning to love myself and forgive myself of past mistakes ❤
I am not alone, I am to myself in this season of healing and growth. Never again settling for LESS THAN my worth. I am no longer afraid. I have a life and I will live it-long!
Being alone has increase my discernment...its allowed me to become focused on me. Thank you Father God for removing me out of the darkness into the Light. Praise the Lord.
I'm in solitude, both my parents are passed. No friends or family around, have to deal with a toxic individual daily. When alone with out loving support it's very hard. But I'm trying.
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes.❤
Im in the same boat. Hugs, love and prayers 🙏❣️🙏
Just makes us stronger ..Im trusting on Gods word .
Greater plans for us instore 💓
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I never experienced God’s peace and His will until I accepted the season of solitude He put me in. It has been the best thing I ever experienced! Thank you Lord!
❤❤ i understand
I'm so blessed to know what solitude is. my mind is so clear and focus on my father Jesus Christ my peace is the holy spirit Im so thankful for his divine love .
Same here 🥹🫶🏾
Great words of wisdom; I am to myself, my season of solitude!! Divorced since 2001, I have learned to focus on me, my immediate family and my dearest friends. I enjoy walking in faith, each and every day!! I am 70 years old and I still have goals and things to do on a daily basis. I love makeup, wigs and different hair styles, smelling good and looking cute! Four years ago I bought my house by myself and I still work part-time. My favorite thing to do is cooking and creating different recipes!! I thank God for showing me the way. Life is good and I no longer fear what's ahead; faith is the way!!!
Amen👏👏👏👏
Isaiah 54:5 says “For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is His name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth He is called.”
@@lifeyuniqueAmen. God is the best husband. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
God bless you!
I am also 70 and I love being to and with myself. It is truly the most fulfilling part of my life aside from when I had my son. God has truly blessed me as I stepped out in faith to be in partnership with him .
The Value of Solitude
1. It is an opportunity for self discovery and personal growth
2. You get a chance to nurture your independence
3. You Find the Freedom for Self Care
4. Opportunity to Cultivate meaningful relationships
5. Opportunity to Pursue divine passions
6. Time to Rediscover your inner strength
7. Allows you to embrace your personal freedoms…do you boo 😜
I AM LEARNING AND LIVING IN SOLITUDE. PASTOR I FEEL THIS IS WHERE GOD HAS ME IN THIS SEASON. I AM TRULY CONTENT.
I feel the same way too
Me too!
Me three ❤
I have LOVED my life since my divorce. I'm enjoying this time with God! He truly takes care of me.❤🙌🏾🙏🏾
I am living alone physically but not spiritual Jesus is with me this words I embrace very profound words❤🎉
Last night I was asking God why I always feel like I need someone to make me feel better. Today I opened my phone and saw this 🙏🏾
Yes, because you haven’t learned to love and discover yourself In Christ. And I pray you get there because it’s an amazing place in life to be.
The Holy Spirit sent this message to me thank you Jesus!
I’ve been praying about acceptance of being single. I’ve been divorced 2 years and realize I was still struggling with this new reality. It’s been a distraction that’s kept me from my purpose and goals. Even in creating friendships that really weren’t authentic. I’m really going to commit to embracing my season of solitude 🙏🏾❤
Our story is the same. I too have been divorced for the last two years and this new journey is filled with ups, downs, and adversaries but I am pushing through and you will too. Embrace this time. For this is our growth time. Keep pouring into you and watch how much you will grow through this. Have a blessed day my sister and know you are not alone ❤🥰
You only need one good friend, test them before opening your door
This is my story too. Separated for two years and in the middle of a divorce. Really struggling and get really down sometimes. I thank God for RC Blakesley, he has really helped me in this season.
YOU ARE IN MY SEASON PASTOR BLAKES! I am living alone after a break up and I still want to be open and wise to love ordained by God. Thank You!
I just walked away from being the side chick. Ur father energy is giving me peace. Thank you
Let us not confuse being alone with ourselves vs. being “lonely”. I know Bishop will break it down for us . . .
Cuz you can be lonely in a whole relationship.
I don't know why but I finally had an epiphany. When 2 people are happily walking in their purpose, it allows them to be everything they need to be to and for each other without even trying. Because they are truly happy!
I don't know what he said to make me realize it. But I needed that epiphany! You can't make someone be something they aren't within themselves.
The most spiritual and personal growth I experienced in my 40+ years of life happened during my years of solitude.. This is so true! 😊
I'm going on year 4 of being alone. No dates or anything. I focus on my job, school and family.
I was in an abusive Marriage. I wished for these moments of loneliness while going through that. The ability and freedom to go and get coffee without checking in. The ability to stop at target without asking for permission.
I am alone but not alone. Every room that I spend time in has a radio on my total Christian, no commercial network. So, my connection with my Heavenly Father is strong. We talk, laugh, cry like a real human is there. You cannot believe the things He has taught me. A never ending relationship.
“Your fears are prophetic”
Pastor Blake’s , that hit me like no other .
Thank you for sharing this message!
Thank you for using your platform to promote, encourage and support women’s healthiness !
That one sent me as well whew .
I love being alone.
It truly has helped me to love myself and become closer to God. I have great friends and family. BUT. I. LOVE. MY. SOLITUDE.❤
Thank you, Bishop!❤❤❤😊
I've just made a decision a few minutes ago to walk away from a toxic relationship...and when I saw this post...I cried out Hallelujah. It was confirmation for me. Thank You Lord Jesus🙌👏🙏
There is something so authentic about RC. I just love and respect his ministry. This message came right on time.. Amen.! Thank you pastor
You are truly doing God's work on this channel and undoing a great deal of damage done to and by countless women. Thank you.
49 and single for 6 years now. Working on self and in solitude. I have let go of everything that does not serve my higher self and man is it a powerful feeling. Be patient and don't let anyone make you feel fear of being alone. I am finding the beauty in being alone and rediscoving what I really need in a partner. ❤
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We do need love.
Many of us do without love.
It is the truth.
I wish more men of God had this understanding. I've been alone about 7 years now and am mocked and called a lesbian or it's said I have a man living with me. I always let it be known that God, my Father keeps my record. I know that this comes from carnal people and pray for them in Jesus name. Glory to God, I love being to myself. I've learned a lot about me in these 7 years. I even like and love myself whereas I've never felt like this about me. Thank you Jesus!
That's wonderful.
😂well !..im going to be called A lasebien too..im tired of people. I SHOW THEM MY TRUE SELF ,AND THEY DO NOT BELIEVE ME.. I FEEL LIKE AN ALIEN ON THIS EARTH FOR HAVING MORALS ,EMPATHY, AND COMPASSION ^..PEOPLE FEAR WHAT THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND
This is the truth. I took my time to do everything he said. Even to redoing my style and getting a whole new wardrobe piece by piece. As I did this I just got so excited about who would be the lucky man to get a whole man with identity from Christ I didn’t want to date the same and my standard became Gods standard.
Just praise the Lord for keeping you away from toxic relationships while He sets you in solitude. See it as a protection and not as an isolation.
I was just complaining to myself that I can’t seem to find more time alone. I really love, I mean love my solitude. It’s like I find my strength, creativity, peace, power and so much more inside my own self.
I remember 4 years ago, the guy I was dating said he didn’t want to continue to date anymore. I then discovered your channel while sobbing and trying to pull myself back together. He came back, and we got into a relationship despite all the red flags, fast forward to now we are broken up. It was clear we weren’t truly for each other from the start and I should have listened then. So here I am back again lol But this time im actually ready to receive and listen! Thankyou for these videos and sharing your wisdom, they are helping me a lot!😊🙏🏽
Yes girl I had to spin the block on rc too! Praise God we’re now finally delivered sister
You say things to me that no one has ever said before that clarify my value, encourage me, inform me and me a brand new perspective on womanhood. God is going to continue to bless you and prosper you in Jesus name.
As I always tell my soon to be ex husband after 32 years of marriage: the key to your happiness is in your hands not mines
I hardly learned to respect myself take time for me, leave the house for 1 night by myself go to restaurant spa movie by myself
Go to bed if I feel tired and stop being a slave to the entire household
I believe A LINCOLN abolished slavery centenaries ago
Gratitude ❤
What RC is teaching here is very important we women do so much in silence we suffer so much and willing to do anything hoping someone will love us
No no its the reverse you get love and respect when you pour into yourself
Gratitude ❤
That's riiiiight 👏🏽 💯...I felt that in my soul...🙌🏽
I was in the best place in my life physically and spiritually in my early twenties. The man that I met and dated during that time was a narcissist who I spent the next four years trying to escape. This is why I don’t believe “you attract who you are”
Or “be your best self and you’ll attract that” actually you could attract the opposite and just get taken advantage of and be left with less than you came in with😒
I totally agree with you Pastor. I have been single for many years and been able to study and learn many new things. I am currently singing and learning to successfully play several instruments and to learn a foreign language. I believe the right man will come and I will have much to offer when that happens. I thank God the time God has given me time to develop and grow. Thank God. 😊
A healthy mind is always capable of finding the positive instead of the negative in EVERY situation. Preach 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️
GOD KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT WE NEED ANS AND WHEN TO GIVE IT. THANK YOU FATHER. YOU ARE AWESOME IN ALL OF YOUR WAYS. I AM ETERNALLY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR LOVE & MERCY.
Amen~
I been lonely for a while and hate being alone , it's not anout a man.I was a caregiver for my mom and she passed a year and 3 months ago.Pray for me !
God is blessing you, right now.
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Thank you all
May God gives you the strenght to go throught this grief.
Praying for you sister 🫶🏾
Thank You 🙏🏽
I have been serving “The Lord” Alone 4 Many years…He has given me Wisdom Strength Knowledge
Self Sacrifice
Teachings
Compassion
Faith & Healing ❤️🩹 Seen &
Unseen Gifts‼️
The Lord will Always First ☝🏽
In My Life‼️
ALL PRAISE HONOR & GLORY TO THE
MOST HIGH‼️❤️🔥❤️
I AM COMFORTABLE BEING TO MYSELF 💜⛲️🎁🙏🏾
I'm alone now, so uncomfortable but I'm trusting God to get me through this season, I hope sooner than later
You will get thru it,just hold on
It's good to look over your life and reflect and figure out what u need for yourself but to want to be alone is weird
Thank you RC, this podcast was so timely. My husband recently left me, being back in this world alone has not been an easy transition, but after listening to you this evening, I'm feeling extremely encouraged and excited about the beginning of a new chapter in my life.
I hv been alone in a narcissistic abusive relationship 4 almost 20 yrs,now im set free,im in solitude,healing and soaking up the peace.
Being alone on purpose is weird no one should want this l don't wanna be with no one who doesn't need anyone!
I live with my sisters and I’m single but I rather be in solitude because I was in relationships with the wrong men and I chose the wrong men and now I have to truly work on myself 🙏🏾
I. CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME🙏🏾🎁⛲️💜🙋🏾♀️
I have traveled alone for a long long time.
Those who are listening to you don't have a problem with your "long talking" Pastor...we love and appreciate you and all that God is saying to us through you. This message is confirmation for me that I'm right where I should be as a single and content woman; I just want to be closer and closer to God and to follow his directions for my life. I started listening to you about two years ago. Back then, I was in a relationship that I shouldn't be in but thank God for using you and this platform: that relationship is no longer and I'm just enjoying me and God and the work he's leading me to do. Thank you and Lisa so very much for all that you do...its changing lives for God's glory and for the spiritual health and wealth of those who are applying your teaching...not to mention, the lives that we will positively affect, starting with those nearest to us...we're breaking the cycle of broken families when our children can have Godly examples to emulate. I can go on and on.
...much love ❤ 💗 💓 ❤ Blessings on you and yours.
Wow. Very well said my sister. This ministry has impacted me also so very much.
LISTEN, I really like Pastor Rc & Lisa Blakes, a-lot of women these days need to hear this. They don’t have this guidance in their life. This is why I’m grateful, When I got hurt. They changed the trajectory of my life & I’m sure a lot of other women can say the same. Grateful for you and your wife ❤️
WOW! Hearing about the loss of your church and Lisa's strength in that time was profound! Thank you for sharing. I am sorry for your loss. God always gives back what you have lost!
“Relationships SHOULD NOT be toxic but TONIC.” Amen and Absolutely 🙏🏾🙌🏽💯
There is nothing wrong with being alone, besides don't you like yourself...
I like what you said 😊
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😂😂😂 I love myself so much sometimes to selfiness of sharing myself. I love that I can face myself and tell myself off if I'm not on the right track 😅
“ relationships should not be toxic, they should be a tonic” 😇
Thank you for this Bishop. I've been alone for the past four years now and just loving it. Just re-diiscovering me and finding my Joy.
Same here 5 yrs and counting. Discovering what it is to truly live and love.
Thank you so much for this. I’m 45 and feel the lies of the world so much! ♥️♥️ I have to keep relying on Christ 🙏♥️
7 yrs single, now ready to do what says the Most High whether relationship or single ministry
I have been in solitude mode most of the year and I dont know how much more self love and discovery there is. I pray God gives me patience and diligence to gracefully embrace this season as long as it needs.
Blessing everyone. God is intentional and always on time. He gives us just what we need and when we need it family. ❤
I'm 52 years young and never had a earthly father so I thank you very much
I’ve been in solitude for two years now & being an introvert I find it peaceful although I am waiting for GOD to deliver my husband.
I’ve grown so much by blocking everyone out. It’s given me focus and so many ideas for self sustainability since i chose to detach from people.
I absolutely cherish my peace and solitude. I’ve been a widow for over 10 years and in this time I have grown emotionally and spiritually. I’ve gotten reacquainted with me, the bright side and the shadow side. I have improved my financial forecast, I work out regularly and I just really genuinely enjoy my own company!!! I am so grateful for this season in my life. I look forward and work toward greater expansion, higher spiritual ascension and deeper connections with The Most High, my Self, people, nature and the Universe all around me during this gift of solitude💖
God bless you and your wife Pastor Blakes. I’ve been bingeing on your lessons and taking notes going on 2 weeks now. Like most I wish I had this kind of teaching growing up and a true father figure to look up to. Blessings ❤
Praise God I found beauty in my solitude about a year or two ago. I understood alone allowed me to prepare myself for what I really wanted. Ever since those things that I want is attracted to me.
I love the moment when you laughed after you said you're ok without any human interaction outside of LiLi. Its like another level of transparency.. that was such a genuine statement straight from the heart❤. The proclamation can NOT be denied🥰🥰
GOD I dont want a copy of this man because he has already been spoken for. However, I pray you send me one of his stature.
Laying it down by your feet and walking away because I BELIEVE it is DONE! AMEN.
I’m a 41, divorce, mom of Two and I am learning to truly enjoy Solitude in Christ. I’m learning so much. It’s extremely peaceful. The moment I truly surrendered to Christ, he finally got me to this place now where he always wanted me to be. He’s preparing me for something great, and Solitude is teaching me to fully Trust him. When you get to experience spending time with God, the Holy Spirit overwhelms you in such a warming, loving, caring way that if he takes it up 1 notch, you will burst. Solitude prepares you for Christ’s Showers of Blessing!!! 🙏🏽🔥
Embracing my season of solitude!! This message blessed my soul..❤ 58:11
“I’m not by myself…I’m to myself.”
THIS IS THE MESSAGE MY SOUL TRULY DESIRE. GOD GIVES US THE DESIRE OF OUR HEART 🙏🏾🎁⛲️💜
I feel so good alone. It’s a rediscovery of my real self… I do boxing classes, yoga, Pilates… I do the gym. I go out with my daughter. I pursue things I deeply desire to experience. I let go and realized my own error, my choices and self worth.
I love this!
@@kilab2243yes. Of course I miss make companionship, but it’s not the end be all. In the meanwhile, I enjoy myself, my own company. It hasn’t always been easy, but I broke through my own limited perceptions and choices. I wish everyone health and love.
This must be confirmation from God because I've been feeling like I've been alone and I was depressed. But hearing this has made me thankful that God has called me to this phase in my life!! 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Bishop
I have been widowed now five years. I have been really discovering who I am, and I have done that in solitude.
I really like me and have taken years of trauma off my life. I would never have seen what toil it took on me if I did not set myself aside for just God and I and some great therapists and channels like yours to be able to experience this freedom. I desire even more areas in my life healed. Thank you for this healing ministry. I wish everyone would find your channel.
This came right on time!! Thank you Father God!!!
Thank you Pastor R.C.Blake's Jr.
I thank God for my solitude my peace and blessings for my life I have learned to grow spiritual growth and focus on my life
This subject is confirmation...😮I'm embracing my solitude time. It's ok and I'm learning me more and feeling closer to myself so I can spend time with God. Being a single senior you continue to grow more wisdom.
You're not by yourself you to yourself love it!🙌
Father God, please keep using Pastor Blakes in heavy ways. Advance him even more in all he is called to do. Hide him in the shadow of Your wings along with his wife Lisa, their families, ministries etc.❤
I like that . In solitude teaches me to rely on God🙏🏽💯
I'm an introvert as well. I can sit indoors by myself for days, I have to force myself to get out and go to the store, try to interact with others. My job, I have to be an extrovert, I have a very taxing job, people pull from you that's probably why I enjoy my solitude.
This is the season of “to myself” !!!!!! Yes 🙌🏾 Enjoying it because I’m enjoying me!!! Total contentment thanks be to GOD!!
❤A relationship should be tonic not toxic🙌🏾
❤Moving away from the fear of being alone and become grateful for being present🙌🏾
Definitely love this!!!
This is a golden episode!! So so good and blessed me surely ❤
I'm not necessary by myself, I'm to myself- Solitude.. Best Version of me= Self discovery :) Thank you, @RCBlakesJr.
I love this message!! Especially when you said, “I’m not by myself, I’m TO myself.”💯💯💯
I am an introvert by nature as well. I get so much done that way. I can be extroverted when I need to be. I know God is with me all the time so being alone doesn’t bother me.