HOW A WOMAN MAY EMBRACE BEING ALONE by RC Blakes

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    HOW A WOMAN MAY EMBRACE BEING ALONE by RC Blakes
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Рік тому +544

    PLEASE PUSH THIS ONE BY LIKING AND SHARING MY FAMILY.

    • @markesabowers1567
      @markesabowers1567 Рік тому +8

      I thank God for you Bishop Blakes and your wife That truly has the shepherds heart . Bishop Blakes you are one of my spiritual father and I'm looking forward to visiting fellowshiping . I have been sharing your platform. 💜

    • @Cherie_Amour60
      @Cherie_Amour60 Рік тому +5

      Thank You so Much Bishop for taking your Precious time to share with us. You Truly are a Man after God’s own Heart. May God Bless you and Lisa and your Family Abundantly God Bless you Bishop This Message was Amazing I’m going to watch over and Over so it can really help me so it can really Sink in my Brain and get to my Heart. You Definitely let God use you tonight. Love you ❤❤❤❤️🙏🏽✌🏽

    • @RommanysWorld
      @RommanysWorld Рік тому +5

      Done ✅ 🤗

    • @LaRochePosayStyist
      @LaRochePosayStyist 11 місяців тому +3

      ❤ Will do

    • @YollyB
      @YollyB 11 місяців тому +4

      God Bless you for sharing this🙏🏽

  • @mitz1919
    @mitz1919 Рік тому +798

    ‘Being alone allows u to truly experience relying on God!’👏🏽🙏🏽

    • @eeestabuuuni7790
      @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +19

      I RECEIVE IT!!!🙋🏾‍♀️⛲️🎁🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @stefblanco3887
      @stefblanco3887 11 місяців тому +6

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💯🙏🏽

    • @sandysimpson4785
      @sandysimpson4785 11 місяців тому +8

      Amen!!!❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @highlyfevad
      @highlyfevad 11 місяців тому +2

      Amen🙌

    • @maiangellove8949
      @maiangellove8949 11 місяців тому +4

      It gets old at times. But, it’s good to have a best friend, a spiritual being that never waivers. I love the Lord💕

  • @TheAmazinBlazian
    @TheAmazinBlazian 11 місяців тому +476

    When in solitude:
    1. It is an opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth.
    2. You're able to nurture your independence.
    3. You’re able to find the freedom for self-care.
    4. You’re able to cultivate meaningful relationships.
    5. You’re able to pursue divine passions.
    6. You’re able to rediscover your inner strength.
    7. You’re able to embrace your personal freedom.

  • @kristalc.2809
    @kristalc.2809 11 місяців тому +99

    "When there's too many people and too much noise, I find it difficult to deal with me." As an introvert, I felt that.

  • @verojohn8700
    @verojohn8700 11 місяців тому +144

    I ‘M NOT BY MYSELF. I’m TO MYSELF. 👍🏾🙏🏾💜
    Amen!! 🙏🏾💜

  • @montricec8795
    @montricec8795 11 місяців тому +122

    While alone...write your book, read self improvement books, get in the best shape mentally/emotionally/physically, go see people you haven't seen in a while, take yourself to dinner and to a movie...live your BEST life! If you live your BEST life while you are alone, you will be more inclined to live your BEST life with your mate.

  • @clarissahoward1901
    @clarissahoward1901 11 місяців тому +202

    I am grateful for my time alone. I am enjoying my own company. I was married for 31 years, and I have been divorced for 3 years. I didn’t think I could do it. This summer I went to Greece. It allowed me to see life totally different. I am embracing this time until God moves me into a relationship. 😊

    • @mildredweatherless2618
      @mildredweatherless2618 11 місяців тому +4

    • @maguiedossantos2925
      @maguiedossantos2925 11 місяців тому +9

      LOVE THIS FOR YOU SIS🥰🥰👏👏👏👏👏

    • @lynettep7015
      @lynettep7015 10 місяців тому +4

      Much joy and peace to you, be blessed in your walk with The Lord.

    • @georgettewilliamsvids9345
      @georgettewilliamsvids9345 10 місяців тому +4

      What did you do to overcome

    • @Areutherehello
      @Areutherehello 9 місяців тому +3

      Hope the best for you. I am wondering how you will continue going forward if God does NOT move you into a new relationship.
      I don't mean to be a Debbie Downer, but that could happen. What if you are still alone 5, 10, 15 years from now?

  • @moyetri2235
    @moyetri2235 11 місяців тому +149

    "Solitude isn't the absence of company but the moment when our soul is free to talk to us & decide what to do with us " amazing🙏

  • @rolivhuwasadiki4397
    @rolivhuwasadiki4397 11 місяців тому +25

    "Many women are relying on men to be to them what only God can be"🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kelz130
    @kelz130 11 місяців тому +46

    “And when she loved herself , she found she was Invincible “❤❤❤

  • @jessicawinder3602
    @jessicawinder3602 11 місяців тому +87

    I love being by myself. It's peaceful. I can pray and reflect on learning about my likes and dislikes, I can see people for who they are clearer, I can meditate and work on being a better version of myself. Thank you RC blakes for your blessed messages🙏

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 10 місяців тому

      In total agreement sis🙌🏿💯💯💯💯👋🏾👋🏾💯💯💯

  • @myeshadapisces
    @myeshadapisces 11 місяців тому +71

    I am a 45 year old woman that has been single for 5+ years with a 18 year old son . This was a breath of fresh air to hear. 🙏🏾

  • @lovinlife1899
    @lovinlife1899 Рік тому +129

    My husband of 22 years left me when I was going through breast cancer treatment. A few years later, I married an abusive narcissist who tracked me via gps, strangulated me, drug me down cement stairs when I tried to leave…no man again ever. I’ve been through therapy to heal and understand my part. But, in my mind, I have no other option than to enjoy being alone.

    • @EarthangelRemix
      @EarthangelRemix Рік тому +23

      It's ok to love you, whom the Creator has made🕊️

    • @Pacifica74
      @Pacifica74 11 місяців тому +56

      That's horrendous. You not only survived breast cancer; you survived men. May God bless you the rest of your days.

    • @sweetcheeks4EVER
      @sweetcheeks4EVER 11 місяців тому +26

      Sorry you went through all that... hugs

    • @lhu6971
      @lhu6971 11 місяців тому +14

      Aww sooo sorry that happened to you. May the Good Lord bless you. Better things ahead💝😊

    • @0ceanemks472
      @0ceanemks472 11 місяців тому +7

      Sorry that happened to you. You went trough traumatizing battle! You are brave

  • @Summerdayareahead
    @Summerdayareahead Рік тому +291

    This message is right on time for me. After being in a 19 Year emotional unavailable marriage 4 son’s. I’m currently in the middle of an divorce. Thank you Holy Spirit and Thank you spiritual Father 😢😮

    • @eeestabuuuni7790
      @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +8

      YESSS & AMEN... FATHER HAVE YOUR WAY.

    • @tukessahousen4983
      @tukessahousen4983 Рік тому +16

      You can do it ! Time for you, new plans, goals , and overall self love ! 🙏❤️

    • @agnesvs9263
      @agnesvs9263 Рік тому +15

      I’ll Pray for your family. For peace and restoration😇🙏

    • @kathyjudson6754
      @kathyjudson6754 Рік тому

      @@agnesvs9263I am joining you for praying for growth in God and restoration

    • @williamsshelia3778
      @williamsshelia3778 Рік тому +27

      There is life after divorce! When you get in tune with yourself, you will find so much peace, love and self respect that you will ask yourself, Why did I tolerate this unhealthy marriage so long! ❤🙏🏻

  • @sacredpaw
    @sacredpaw Рік тому +159

    I'm in solitude, both my parents are passed. No friends or family around, have to deal with a toxic individual daily. When alone with out loving support it's very hard. But I'm trying.
    Thank you so much Pastor Blakes.❤

    • @nettiemarie2556
      @nettiemarie2556 Рік тому +18

      Im in the same boat. Hugs, love and prayers 🙏❣️🙏

    • @samanthapharialdaniel
      @samanthapharialdaniel Рік тому +9

      Just makes us stronger ..Im trusting on Gods word .
      Greater plans for us instore 💓

    • @sacredpaw
      @sacredpaw Рік тому

      @@nettiemarie2556 🙏❤️

    • @sacredpaw
      @sacredpaw Рік тому

      @@samanthapharialdaniel 🙏❤️

    • @sacredpaw
      @sacredpaw Рік тому

      @miag2004 🙏❤️

  • @sukithemoon
    @sukithemoon 11 місяців тому +30

    “It’s not necessarily that I’m BY myself, it’s that I’m TO myself” 🏆🏆🏆

  • @esthyanaz3086
    @esthyanaz3086 11 місяців тому +52

    I am now learning a lot while staying in solitude and celibate . I am getting clarity and also learning to love myself and forgive myself of past mistakes ❤

  • @lindarobinson1980
    @lindarobinson1980 Рік тому +59

    Great words of wisdom; I am to myself, my season of solitude!! Divorced since 2001, I have learned to focus on me, my immediate family and my dearest friends. I enjoy walking in faith, each and every day!! I am 70 years old and I still have goals and things to do on a daily basis. I love makeup, wigs and different hair styles, smelling good and looking cute! Four years ago I bought my house by myself and I still work part-time. My favorite thing to do is cooking and creating different recipes!! I thank God for showing me the way. Life is good and I no longer fear what's ahead; faith is the way!!!

    • @connievelez5478
      @connievelez5478 Рік тому +6

      Amen👏👏👏👏

    • @lifeyunique
      @lifeyunique 11 місяців тому +7

      Isaiah 54:5 says “For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is His name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth He is called.”

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 11 місяців тому +7

      ​@@lifeyuniqueAmen. God is the best husband. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @cakesinthecity
      @cakesinthecity 9 місяців тому +2

      God bless you!

    • @NancyStinger-ll6wt
      @NancyStinger-ll6wt 7 місяців тому +2

      I am also 70 and I love being to and with myself. It is truly the most fulfilling part of my life aside from when I had my son. God has truly blessed me as I stepped out in faith to be in partnership with him .

  • @scheherazadewherry1410
    @scheherazadewherry1410 11 місяців тому +32

    Being alone has increase my discernment...its allowed me to become focused on me. Thank you Father God for removing me out of the darkness into the Light. Praise the Lord.

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +98

    I AM LEARNING AND LIVING IN SOLITUDE. PASTOR I FEEL THIS IS WHERE GOD HAS ME IN THIS SEASON. I AM TRULY CONTENT.

  • @lovingmynaturalhair
    @lovingmynaturalhair Рік тому +81

    I never experienced God’s peace and His will until I accepted the season of solitude He put me in. It has been the best thing I ever experienced! Thank you Lord!

    • @bunnzini
      @bunnzini 11 місяців тому +3

      ❤❤ i understand

    • @hiwathabroaden7783
      @hiwathabroaden7783 11 місяців тому +4

      I'm so blessed to know what solitude is. my mind is so clear and focus on my father Jesus Christ my peace is the holy spirit Im so thankful for his divine love .

    • @simplysinqo
      @simplysinqo 10 місяців тому +1

      Same here 🥹🫶🏾

  • @ummhabeebah8812
    @ummhabeebah8812 11 місяців тому +56

    The Value of Solitude
    1. It is an opportunity for self discovery and personal growth
    2. You get a chance to nurture your independence
    3. You Find the Freedom for Self Care
    4. Opportunity to Cultivate meaningful relationships
    5. Opportunity to Pursue divine passions
    6. Time to Rediscover your inner strength
    7. Allows you to embrace your personal freedoms…do you boo 😜

  • @Icylyn
    @Icylyn Рік тому +63

    I am living alone physically but not spiritual Jesus is with me this words I embrace very profound words❤🎉

  • @lindam.7709
    @lindam.7709 Рік тому +54

    Let us not confuse being alone with ourselves vs. being “lonely”. I know Bishop will break it down for us . . .

    • @LadiJadi72
      @LadiJadi72 9 місяців тому +1

      Cuz you can be lonely in a whole relationship.

  • @rachellsalley1723
    @rachellsalley1723 Рік тому +60

    The Holy Spirit sent this message to me thank you Jesus!

  • @Ressa9
    @Ressa9 Рік тому +73

    I’ve been praying about acceptance of being single. I’ve been divorced 2 years and realize I was still struggling with this new reality. It’s been a distraction that’s kept me from my purpose and goals. Even in creating friendships that really weren’t authentic. I’m really going to commit to embracing my season of solitude 🙏🏾❤

    • @kandicedinkins8618
      @kandicedinkins8618 11 місяців тому +7

      Our story is the same. I too have been divorced for the last two years and this new journey is filled with ups, downs, and adversaries but I am pushing through and you will too. Embrace this time. For this is our growth time. Keep pouring into you and watch how much you will grow through this. Have a blessed day my sister and know you are not alone ❤🥰

    • @her8923
      @her8923 11 місяців тому +2

      You only need one good friend, test them before opening your door

    • @georgettewilliamsvids9345
      @georgettewilliamsvids9345 10 місяців тому

      I would love someone in my corner

    • @freewoman
      @freewoman 9 місяців тому +1

      This is my story too. Separated for two years and in the middle of a divorce. Really struggling and get really down sometimes. I thank God for RC Blakesley, he has really helped me in this season.

  • @FashWelch
    @FashWelch Рік тому +69

    YOU ARE IN MY SEASON PASTOR BLAKES! I am living alone after a break up and I still want to be open and wise to love ordained by God. Thank You!

  • @justliss1827
    @justliss1827 11 місяців тому +17

    I have LOVED my life since my divorce. I'm enjoying this time with God! He truly takes care of me.❤🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @akpenguin1859
    @akpenguin1859 Рік тому +12

    I was in the best place in my life physically and spiritually in my early twenties. The man that I met and dated during that time was a narcissist who I spent the next four years trying to escape. This is why I don’t believe “you attract who you are”
    Or “be your best self and you’ll attract that” actually you could attract the opposite and just get taken advantage of and be left with less than you came in with😒

  • @ngum9953
    @ngum9953 11 місяців тому +16

    Last night I was asking God why I always feel like I need someone to make me feel better. Today I opened my phone and saw this 🙏🏾

    • @Eastpointe
      @Eastpointe 10 місяців тому +3

      Yes, because you haven’t learned to love and discover yourself In Christ. And I pray you get there because it’s an amazing place in life to be.

  • @shanellraquel
    @shanellraquel Рік тому +68

    “Your fears are prophetic”
    Pastor Blake’s , that hit me like no other .
    Thank you for sharing this message!
    Thank you for using your platform to promote, encourage and support women’s healthiness !

    • @jussjess2829
      @jussjess2829 11 місяців тому +2

      That one sent me as well whew .

  • @heavenlee4126
    @heavenlee4126 11 місяців тому +5

    I'm going on year 4 of being alone. No dates or anything. I focus on my job, school and family.
    I was in an abusive Marriage. I wished for these moments of loneliness while going through that. The ability and freedom to go and get coffee without checking in. The ability to stop at target without asking for permission.

  • @OG_Genesis216
    @OG_Genesis216 11 місяців тому +9

    I don't know why but I finally had an epiphany. When 2 people are happily walking in their purpose, it allows them to be everything they need to be to and for each other without even trying. Because they are truly happy!
    I don't know what he said to make me realize it. But I needed that epiphany! You can't make someone be something they aren't within themselves.

  • @darlindahairston199
    @darlindahairston199 11 місяців тому +7

    I am alone but not alone. Every room that I spend time in has a radio on my total Christian, no commercial network. So, my connection with my Heavenly Father is strong. We talk, laugh, cry like a real human is there. You cannot believe the things He has taught me. A never ending relationship.

  • @walterineellis
    @walterineellis 11 місяців тому +17

    I wish more men of God had this understanding. I've been alone about 7 years now and am mocked and called a lesbian or it's said I have a man living with me. I always let it be known that God, my Father keeps my record. I know that this comes from carnal people and pray for them in Jesus name. Glory to God, I love being to myself. I've learned a lot about me in these 7 years. I even like and love myself whereas I've never felt like this about me. Thank you Jesus!

  • @ElishaLoweRN
    @ElishaLoweRN 11 місяців тому +11

    You are truly doing God's work on this channel and undoing a great deal of damage done to and by countless women. Thank you.

  • @angelawhite7418
    @angelawhite7418 11 місяців тому +27

    I love being alone.
    It truly has helped me to love myself and become closer to God. I have great friends and family. BUT. I. LOVE. MY. SOLITUDE.❤
    Thank you, Bishop!❤❤❤😊

  • @jussjess2829
    @jussjess2829 11 місяців тому +18

    There is something so authentic about RC. I just love and respect his ministry. This message came right on time.. Amen.! Thank you pastor

  • @averialfitzpatrick9160
    @averialfitzpatrick9160 Рік тому +10

    I been lonely for a while and hate being alone , it's not anout a man.I was a caregiver for my mom and she passed a year and 3 months ago.Pray for me !

    • @msm3668
      @msm3668 Рік тому

      God is blessing you, right now.

    • @sunnydayz6493
      @sunnydayz6493 11 місяців тому

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @averialfitzpatrick9160
      @averialfitzpatrick9160 11 місяців тому

      Thank you all

    • @973shero9
      @973shero9 11 місяців тому

      May God gives you the strenght to go throught this grief.

    • @MrsMosha
      @MrsMosha 5 місяців тому

      Praying for you sister 🫶🏾

  • @louisemcdougall9389
    @louisemcdougall9389 Місяць тому +2

    I just walked away from being the side chick. Ur father energy is giving me peace. Thank you

  • @Breakthrough9
    @Breakthrough9 11 місяців тому +8

    49 and single for 6 years now. Working on self and in solitude. I have let go of everything that does not serve my higher self and man is it a powerful feeling. Be patient and don't let anyone make you feel fear of being alone. I am finding the beauty in being alone and rediscoving what I really need in a partner. ❤

  • @betsycampbell6127
    @betsycampbell6127 Рік тому +56

    There is nothing wrong with being alone, besides don't you like yourself...

    • @sandiespeaks4236
      @sandiespeaks4236 Рік тому +6

      I like what you said 😊

    • @TheWindingRoad1991
      @TheWindingRoad1991 Рік тому +4

      💯

    • @busisiwemfusi7914
      @busisiwemfusi7914 Рік тому +3

      😂😂😂 I love myself so much sometimes to selfiness of sharing myself. I love that I can face myself and tell myself off if I'm not on the right track 😅

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +12

    I. CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME🙏🏾🎁⛲️💜🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @MsFitVegan
    @MsFitVegan 11 місяців тому +7

    A healthy mind is always capable of finding the positive instead of the negative in EVERY situation. Preach 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +14

    I AM COMFORTABLE BEING TO MYSELF 💜⛲️🎁🙏🏾

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +30

    GOD KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT WE NEED ANS AND WHEN TO GIVE IT. THANK YOU FATHER. YOU ARE AWESOME IN ALL OF YOUR WAYS. I AM ETERNALLY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR LOVE & MERCY.

  • @lindasmith6668
    @lindasmith6668 9 місяців тому +5

    I totally agree with you Pastor. I have been single for many years and been able to study and learn many new things. I am currently singing and learning to successfully play several instruments and to learn a foreign language. I believe the right man will come and I will have much to offer when that happens. I thank God the time God has given me time to develop and grow. Thank God. 😊

  • @Convofloist
    @Convofloist 11 місяців тому +7

    I'm not by myself, I'm to myself... Powerful!!!

  • @virginiediaw6668
    @virginiediaw6668 Рік тому +9

    As I always tell my soon to be ex husband after 32 years of marriage: the key to your happiness is in your hands not mines
    I hardly learned to respect myself take time for me, leave the house for 1 night by myself go to restaurant spa movie by myself
    Go to bed if I feel tired and stop being a slave to the entire household
    I believe A LINCOLN abolished slavery centenaries ago
    Gratitude ❤
    What RC is teaching here is very important we women do so much in silence we suffer so much and willing to do anything hoping someone will love us
    No no its the reverse you get love and respect when you pour into yourself
    Gratitude ❤

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 2 місяці тому

      That's riiiiight 👏🏽 💯...I felt that in my soul...🙌🏽

  • @ayelove1838
    @ayelove1838 11 місяців тому +6

    I was just complaining to myself that I can’t seem to find more time alone. I really love, I mean love my solitude. It’s like I find my strength, creativity, peace, power and so much more inside my own self.

  • @dianagentile7636
    @dianagentile7636 Рік тому +9

    Thank You 🙏🏽
    I have been serving “The Lord” Alone 4 Many years…He has given me Wisdom Strength Knowledge
    Self Sacrifice
    Teachings
    Compassion
    Faith & Healing ❤️‍🩹 Seen &
    Unseen Gifts‼️
    The Lord will Always First ☝🏽
    In My Life‼️
    ALL PRAISE HONOR & GLORY TO THE
    MOST HIGH‼️❤️🔥❤️

  • @j.a.mfitness13
    @j.a.mfitness13 5 місяців тому +2

    “ relationships should not be toxic, they should be a tonic” 😇

  • @brittanybutler-lamar6450
    @brittanybutler-lamar6450 11 місяців тому +14

    This must be confirmation from God because I've been feeling like I've been alone and I was depressed. But hearing this has made me thankful that God has called me to this phase in my life!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @toniwilliams9817
    @toniwilliams9817 7 місяців тому +2

    I have much more peace when I'm in solitude. People can really drain you.

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +12

    I'VE RE-DISCOVERED MY STRENGTH IN MY SOLITUDE.💜⛲️🎁🙏🏾

  • @yolondagoode9656
    @yolondagoode9656 4 місяці тому +1

    I hv been alone in a narcissistic abusive relationship 4 almost 20 yrs,now im set free,im in solitude,healing and soaking up the peace.

  • @ariellemonet9515
    @ariellemonet9515 Рік тому +15

    Everyone like the video here for the live 🙏🏾so we can help Bishop RC Blake's! ☺️ I am so blessed to have found the father figure I never had 💙 Even if he is only on lives and UA-cam 😂 I'm blessed to have found him. I'm in my 30s but I'm still holding out hope to meet my husband/soulmate ♥️ one day 🤗🙏🏾💪🏾😎

  • @DeaconKid236
    @DeaconKid236 11 місяців тому +2

    “I’m not by myself…I’m to myself.”

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +11

    THIS IS THE MESSAGE MY SOUL TRULY DESIRE. GOD GIVES US THE DESIRE OF OUR HEART 🙏🏾🎁⛲️💜

  • @gwenettemoore9553
    @gwenettemoore9553 20 днів тому +1

    I’m alone, but not lonely. I truly enjoy my singleness. The peace is ‘priceless’…was lonely when I was married.

  • @kimberlyhardy7080
    @kimberlyhardy7080 Рік тому +14

    Blessing everyone. God is intentional and always on time. He gives us just what we need and when we need it family. ❤

  • @jent9398
    @jent9398 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. Amazing preaching. I'm 54 embracing singleness. and blessed.

  • @danii2661
    @danii2661 Рік тому +6

    WOW! Hearing about the loss of your church and Lisa's strength in that time was profound! Thank you for sharing. I am sorry for your loss. God always gives back what you have lost!

  • @dtanner70
    @dtanner70 Рік тому +5

    No chips means she still cares about having you around ❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +8

    I'VE LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT ME, IN MY SOLITUDE 🙏🏾🎁⛲️

  • @frances4773
    @frances4773 11 місяців тому +2

    Could it be men without god expect women to trust them as there god…I need to exercise my independence in my season of solitude to wait for a man who can lead knowing god is the only true leader ❤

  • @narvelacook8672
    @narvelacook8672 Рік тому +10

    Thank you RC, this podcast was so timely. My husband recently left me, being back in this world alone has not been an easy transition, but after listening to you this evening, I'm feeling extremely encouraged and excited about the beginning of a new chapter in my life.

  • @JayJay-ow3hk
    @JayJay-ow3hk Рік тому +15

    Thank you for this Bishop. I've been alone for the past four years now and just loving it. Just re-diiscovering me and finding my Joy.

    • @candacesmith5572
      @candacesmith5572 Рік тому

      Same here 5 yrs and counting. Discovering what it is to truly live and love.

  • @yiyamarie8249
    @yiyamarie8249 Рік тому +15

    LISTEN, I really like Pastor Rc & Lisa Blakes, a-lot of women these days need to hear this. They don’t have this guidance in their life. This is why I’m grateful, When I got hurt. They changed the trajectory of my life & I’m sure a lot of other women can say the same. Grateful for you and your wife ❤️

  • @natural3362
    @natural3362 Місяць тому +1

    It's the opportunity of healing and to clear people energy out of my body, to have clarity and to have my true feelings without clouded thinking because of people energy

  • @healthinsuranceagent8921
    @healthinsuranceagent8921 11 місяців тому +3

    Those who are listening to you don't have a problem with your "long talking" Pastor...we love and appreciate you and all that God is saying to us through you. This message is confirmation for me that I'm right where I should be as a single and content woman; I just want to be closer and closer to God and to follow his directions for my life. I started listening to you about two years ago. Back then, I was in a relationship that I shouldn't be in but thank God for using you and this platform: that relationship is no longer and I'm just enjoying me and God and the work he's leading me to do. Thank you and Lisa so very much for all that you do...its changing lives for God's glory and for the spiritual health and wealth of those who are applying your teaching...not to mention, the lives that we will positively affect, starting with those nearest to us...we're breaking the cycle of broken families when our children can have Godly examples to emulate. I can go on and on.
    ...much love ❤ 💗 💓 ❤ Blessings on you and yours.

    • @suzannegendron9504
      @suzannegendron9504 11 місяців тому

      Wow. Very well said my sister. This ministry has impacted me also so very much.

  • @johnniegriffin8373
    @johnniegriffin8373 Рік тому +11

    Embracing my season of solitude!! This message blessed my soul..❤ 58:11

  • @queencrissy5980
    @queencrissy5980 11 місяців тому +7

    Praise God I found beauty in my solitude about a year or two ago. I understood alone allowed me to prepare myself for what I really wanted. Ever since those things that I want is attracted to me.

  • @geek5908
    @geek5908 13 днів тому +1

    I'm alone now, so uncomfortable but I'm trusting God to get me through this season, I hope sooner than later

  • @lynnlamont8942
    @lynnlamont8942 Рік тому +4

    I like that . In solitude teaches me to rely on God🙏🏽💯

  • @AnaReyes-yg7ry
    @AnaReyes-yg7ry 9 місяців тому +2

    The most spiritual and personal growth I experienced in my 40+ years of life happened during my years of solitude.. This is so true! 😊

  • @jacquelinejackson5559
    @jacquelinejackson5559 Рік тому +15

    This came right on time!! Thank you Father God!!!

  • @ivycooper7224
    @ivycooper7224 10 місяців тому +2

    I live with my sisters and I’m single but I rather be in solitude because I was in relationships with the wrong men and I chose the wrong men and now I have to truly work on myself 🙏🏾

  • @CPRMoralLeadershipCoaching
    @CPRMoralLeadershipCoaching Рік тому +3

    7 yrs single, now ready to do what says the Most High whether relationship or single ministry

  • @horgline
    @horgline 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m a 41, divorce, mom of Two and I am learning to truly enjoy Solitude in Christ. I’m learning so much. It’s extremely peaceful. The moment I truly surrendered to Christ, he finally got me to this place now where he always wanted me to be. He’s preparing me for something great, and Solitude is teaching me to fully Trust him. When you get to experience spending time with God, the Holy Spirit overwhelms you in such a warming, loving, caring way that if he takes it up 1 notch, you will burst. Solitude prepares you for Christ’s Showers of Blessing!!! 🙏🏽🔥

  • @suaneterilyn
    @suaneterilyn Місяць тому +3

    I remember 4 years ago, the guy I was dating said he didn’t want to continue to date anymore. I then discovered your channel while sobbing and trying to pull myself back together. He came back, and we got into a relationship despite all the red flags, fast forward to now we are broken up. It was clear we weren’t truly for each other from the start and I should have listened then. So here I am back again lol But this time im actually ready to receive and listen! Thankyou for these videos and sharing your wisdom, they are helping me a lot!😊🙏🏽

    • @christinaaustin7080
      @christinaaustin7080 7 днів тому

      Yes girl I had to spin the block on rc too! Praise God we’re now finally delivered sister

  • @nosiphiwonkowanethu2657
    @nosiphiwonkowanethu2657 11 місяців тому +2

    I have been in solitude mode most of the year and I dont know how much more self love and discovery there is. I pray God gives me patience and diligence to gracefully embrace this season as long as it needs.

  • @connievelez5478
    @connievelez5478 Рік тому +8

    Thank you, Bishop
    I have been widowed now five years. I have been really discovering who I am, and I have done that in solitude.
    I really like me and have taken years of trauma off my life. I would never have seen what toil it took on me if I did not set myself aside for just God and I and some great therapists and channels like yours to be able to experience this freedom. I desire even more areas in my life healed. Thank you for this healing ministry. I wish everyone would find your channel.

  • @amyt7378
    @amyt7378 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this. I’m 45 and feel the lies of the world so much! ♥️♥️ I have to keep relying on Christ 🙏♥️

  • @damiagraham2353
    @damiagraham2353 11 місяців тому +3

    I’m not by myself, I am to myself ❤

  • @BikiniBanana
    @BikiniBanana 11 місяців тому +2

    Just praise the Lord for keeping you away from toxic relationships while He sets you in solitude. See it as a protection and not as an isolation.

  • @Ctyt23
    @Ctyt23 11 місяців тому +4

    I’ve been in solitude for two years now & being an introvert I find it peaceful although I am waiting for GOD to deliver my husband.
    I’ve grown so much by blocking everyone out. It’s given me focus and so many ideas for self sustainability since i chose to detach from people.

  • @tonya6947
    @tonya6947 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm not necessary by myself, I'm to myself- Solitude.. Best Version of me= Self discovery :) Thank you, @RCBlakesJr.

  • @avisyarbrough5627
    @avisyarbrough5627 Рік тому +23

    God bless you and your wife Pastor Blakes. I’ve been bingeing on your lessons and taking notes going on 2 weeks now. Like most I wish I had this kind of teaching growing up and a true father figure to look up to. Blessings ❤

  • @serethasanders4572
    @serethasanders4572 11 місяців тому +2

    This subject is confirmation...😮I'm embracing my solitude time. It's ok and I'm learning me more and feeling closer to myself so I can spend time with God. Being a single senior you continue to grow more wisdom.

  • @sabrinasmith933
    @sabrinasmith933 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this sermon pastor. Women are still constantly being combated by fear. That one day we will get raped, kidnapped, taken advantage of, challenged, shot, get sick, be in destitute. These excuses constantly hit us in society and we have to look over our shoulders constantly. May we bring balance to our world again, because when this fear is officially uplifted from the world (or at least a good amount of it) then we can do a whole lot more good, I assure you most of us women are waiting for that patiently as we continue to take action, solitude or in community.

  • @kitaevans8686
    @kitaevans8686 Рік тому +3

    You're not by yourself you to yourself love it!🙌

  • @violam.robertson610
    @violam.robertson610 Рік тому +15

    Thank you Lord this message is surely on time . To myself not lonely not singleness but solitude ❤🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @zonebajones867
    @zonebajones867 11 місяців тому +1

    I feel so good alone. It’s a rediscovery of my real self… I do boxing classes, yoga, Pilates… I do the gym. I go out with my daughter. I pursue things I deeply desire to experience. I let go and realized my own error, my choices and self worth.

    • @kilab2243
      @kilab2243 11 місяців тому +1

      I love this!

    • @zonebajones867
      @zonebajones867 11 місяців тому

      @@kilab2243yes. Of course I miss make companionship, but it’s not the end be all. In the meanwhile, I enjoy myself, my own company. It hasn’t always been easy, but I broke through my own limited perceptions and choices. I wish everyone health and love.

  • @magneticfavor9500
    @magneticfavor9500 Рік тому +9

    I truly appreciate this word 🧘🏽‍♀️ I'm not by myself, I'm to myself 🧘🏽‍♀️🙌🏽

  • @msm3668
    @msm3668 Рік тому +2

    Solitude; "It doesn't mean you're BY yourself; it means you're TO yourself." This is GOOD, Bishop, and very relatable.
    I'm also an 'extrovert' by necessity; very active in my church interacting with others in several capacities. However, I am an 'introvert' by nature having chosen to be single for many years until my Boaz found me.
    During the long period I had the pleasure of growing myself, I learned to wait on the Lord, love on and educate myself in becoming the best version of myself, and to be content in whatever state life presents itself to ME.
    My mind is healthy and beautiful. This is who I am...a 'Love Goddess' within my own mind.
    I attracted my Boaz being what became 'The Natural ME' having 'rediscovered my inner strength in my season of solitude.'
    This was so confirming that 'I DID ME' the RIGHT way. 😊 Thanks, Bishop!
    Hahaha! Bishop, I loved: "The cup is empty."

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 Рік тому +13

    Good evening Bishop, First Lady Lisa, and family. A pleasant evening to all of you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @schlindaflynn8854
    @schlindaflynn8854 11 місяців тому +1

    I'm 52 years young and never had a earthly father so I thank you very much

  • @hiwathabroaden7783
    @hiwathabroaden7783 11 місяців тому +3

    I thank God for my solitude my peace and blessings for my life I have learned to grow spiritual growth and focus on my life

  • @spiritualwordstoencouragea7953

    Father God, please keep using Pastor Blakes in heavy ways. Advance him even more in all he is called to do. Hide him in the shadow of Your wings along with his wife Lisa, their families, ministries etc.❤