HOW TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK AFTER A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
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- Опубліковано 22 лис 2024
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In this session we are discussing HOW TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK AFTER A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes
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Sometimes the toxic person in the relationship is you, because you keep trying to keep together or continue to go back to a relationship that is evidently not meant to be .
Whew that hit different!!! So true!!
Sometimes we have to see it in black and white to admit and accept what we already know. THANK YOU for the reality check!
You are so right. Being in a toxic relationship can make you a toxic person as well. I can so relate.
😳🤯😭😭😭
Very true, so what makes the relationship toxic? You bring out the worst in each other. Healthy relationships bring out your best. @@Candy-hi9on
🍁In a world full of anxieties, remember this verse tonight, “I will both lie down in peace, and sleep; For You alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.” Psalms 4:8
God bless you for this important encouragement from Our Father’s Holy word. Thank you!
I say that verse nightly!!!
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen🙏🏿
Yes, He does! Hallelujah and AMEN 🙌🏼✝️👆🏼💜
My dad use to say, dress in a way that people (men & women, young and old) will rush to open the door for you!!! Respectfully!!! That has always been my guidelines for my attire.
@@enatihaok3594 ❤️
A little four year old boy saw me coming and ran to open the door for me. LOL lol. I thought that was so cute! Even at a young age he was appreciating the nice dress I had on with the matching shoes, purse, and hat.
@@missjackie7983 He recognized a beautiful lady!! Someone is teaching him well!
My parents taught me that too.
@@jessica70122able they most certainly are! And thank you sister for your kind words!
"Stop obsessing over the toxic nostalgia." That's me. I try to forgive the bad acts, and focus on the good things he did or the good times we had. But that's not the full picture.
Same💔
I am blown away!!!! I had no idea what was happening to me! It’s been 16 years and it was financial circumstances that I couldn’t get out of my relationship I had to get a loan just to get out to move out and it was trying to keep my family together they are paying that feeling of failure of all these negative thoughts but I did it and now I’m on my healing journey I am so forever grateful thank you Pastor ❤️
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Facts
That hit me too
Getting back to myself is like reparenting myself after a toxic relationship. Showing myself the love that I’ve never gave myself .
Setting boundaries , being gentle with myself and, choosing to honor myself like never before .
Absolutely! We are in a 'like never before' state. I am also working on getting ME back. We will be better than ever before. We can do this! 🥳
That’s beautiful sis!
@@jeanenelatique Sure can!
Amen
How do I do that? How do I get myself back after all Ive been in was toxic relationships and now to the point where I feel like I've become the toxic person and portray toxic traits.
I was with a narcissist and my hair began to thin from the stress of it all. I’ve been in a healing journey and my hair has grown back! It’s better than before. Such a synchronicity 😇
Same! My hair literally fell out.. I'm slowly getting myself back again. *
Wow ladies ! I thought it was from other things ? Now you have me questioning….. is it the toxicity of my relationship
Makes my skin crawl now 😢
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1. Stop BLAMING yourself. No one is perfect we all make some mistakes bt dont let ur past continue to destroy ur self worth. Take charge of ur self worth
2.Stop BELITTLING yourself for being human. Don't sabotage urself for coming in this relationship and doubt ur decision making capacity just coz something in life didn't work out well. Criticising self will feed ur subconscious negatively to attract same things again.
3.Stop holding on to the TOXIC NOSTALGIA. Dont ignore the horror movie just bcoz it had a happy beginning. Obsessing over the happy moments and forgetting that u were stabbed and shot down later on is stupid and portrays how broken u are. Once u recognize a denom don't let them walk back in!!!
4. IMMEDIATELY have a relationship LOCKDOWN. Go on fasting from relationship. Don't come into one until u r ready emotionally and mentally. Coz if u r damaged and not yet healed u won't be good even to a healthy happy man.
5. Become ur BEST physical version. Gain back ur self confidence. Don't sit all day and gain weight. And do it only and only for ur own self NOT to attract or impress anyone.
6. Know ur psyche. Trace ur patterns of thoughts.. Observe the traits or common traits of ur earlier partners and work on yourself and ur beliefs.
7. REVIVE UR SPIRIT. Give time to yourself to heal. Let those wounds repair. Practice spirituality (any higher power u believe in). Let the higher energy pass u wisdom and strength.
Thank u so much sir. For this knowledge and guidance. Deeply grateful to u. 😌
Love from India 💓
Amen
As I was listening to this video and feeling sad about my husband and his lack of concern for me and feeling like I want to reach back out even if it's just for crumbs.... you mentioned the part about finding what's broken within myself that I would allow someone to treat me this way..and I began to remember all the times he has physically hurt me. One specific incident where he pushed me down on the gravel and kicked me in the stomach and called me horrible names popped into my mind and I got this strength from within to realise that the man I'm missing and wishing would love me does NOT exist. I am letting go...even if it means I have to be righteously angry at how he abused and treated me..I am breaking that bond. Please pray for me and my children
Ohh please I pray u r strong..u have stood strong. Something I am learning is my children will b victims of this behavior. They will view this as a normal n is not. A generational chain will clink to them all due to us not cutting it by walking away from behavior that is not normal.
So if we can for our selfs let's do it for sake of our children n how they deserve to learn what is healthy for there tomorrow.
Prayers for you and your children 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💜💜💜💜💜
Praying for you, sister. You are dearly loved and you are strong beyond measure.
Oh I’m not feeling too good about narcissism right now mad as hell
Yesss! Immediately!!!! Cannot forget that part.
Relationship lockdown - Jesus is ALL you need in the healing process. As a high value person, satan will send many to keep you down, NONE are there to elevate you. Be strong. Rest in the strength of God. Be your own Oak tree of strength. Every time I've left a narcissist, there was another pretty one to step in his place, with the exact opposite personality, but always just the other side of the same coin. I am so sick of fostering grown men until they find their forever home. For my 2nd husband, the lawyer, his forever home turned out to be prison! Please, people, don't fall for the temptation of the devil! I'm praying for all of us!!
Amen
Thank you. We appreciate your prayers.
Fostering grown men. Is where you had me. Let me add broken to that which is what I’ve run into in terms of dating. I realize hurt people do hurt people. Great point you stated. 👏😊
Uh?
God made us to be interdependent not independent.
I can definitely relate as a senior citizen. Two failed Marriages have sent me back to school working on myself. Yes it takes two and both spouses left the marriage but did not want to divorce. Just wanted to string me along and not Man up. I gave in way too often out of traditional relationship dysfunctional behaviors. Women are taught to be long suffering and submissive and yet it's not taught for the man as well. So short story. I am better now. I am loving every day the Lord gives me. Thank you Pastor RC Blakes.
Geri, thank you for sharing. May God’s wisdom, favor, grace, understanding ,discernment and shalom rest upon you .
I agree one failed marriage was enough to show and teach me to be all that I need and that I am enough by myself! I will only accept Gods best for my life. No more excuses and accepting red flags!
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Yes this is my story. I stayed during his mistakes and he left me in mine. But I’m no longer going to wish for things that have failed. I’m taking my power back in the authority of Jesus.
This is exactly what I'm going thru now. Married 14yrs, he left to get high & have a baby w a 26yr old prostitute. Chose her over me but refuses to sign the divorce papers. Always texting or calling to tell me he loves & misses me, but of course his actions never line up w those words. Theres something about making those vows before God, it sure does make it hard to detach, especially when ur spouse is in a horribly toxic lifestyle & u know ur the only one praying for him. It is just so hard to figure out whats the right thing to do?! What should I even be praying for? For God to help save my marriage? Or for strength to move on?? It's absolutely horrible day to day, I'm so glad you've risen above it all Sis.
Can’t wait to watch this!! I refuse to allow my ex to keep me down the rest of my life. God will fight my battles and give me rest.
If I had never got myself involved with my narcissistic ex, I'd never have realised and worked on overcoming my lack of self love, my low self esteem, my people pleasing and lack of boundaries. I'm at the TOP now!
Bishop, thank you so much for your teachings! As a 25 year old woman who got out of a toxic relationship a year ago, your teachings has helped me tremendously spiritually, mentally, & physically! I was that one woman who would be in sweatpants all the time, never did my makeup, hair all messed up.. I had to stop feeling sorry for myself & picked the pieces up one by one by the grace of God. It wasn’t easy but it was worth the journey! I’m still learning new things about myself everyday & thank God for the experience & wisdom I gained from the heartache! God bless you & your family!
thank you wonderful message God bless you today and always
God bless you and your family!
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And your profile makes you look so beautiful what a lost for him !
Thank you for sharing this!
Women can't say it because they don't wanna say that sex is THAT important to them. But the majority of women that can't seem to leave a toxic situation 9 times out of 10 it's because the guy is good in bed.
This message just saved my life literally! Without your messages, I would be six feet under by now.Just kicked serial cheater husband out tonight after 23 years. 💛🙏💯👍
How are you doing today?
This was definitely a good lesson tonite ..after leaving a toxic narrcissistic relationship..i been FREE an single an i love it..it feels good to think an focus on me now..🙏🙏❤
Blessings to you keep moving forward. Happy for you 🙏🙏😊
So noted and Amen!!!!
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I am Proud of you.
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Amen! Happy for you! Stay joyous! 😊
I believe the most important part of releasing toxicity and overcoming any relationship is personal accountability. When you spend time reflecting on where you went wrong in a relationship you tend not to repeat the cycle. When you blame everyone else for a failed relationship, you go into the next relationship with the same "choices" and thinking, dooming it for yet another failure.
What I believe he is speaking more on is self esteem. Your self esteem should not be determined by the failure or success of a relationship.
That part 💯
Accountability is what I am focusing on right now 😪
Self esteem plays a role in why this would happen to you though!
I disagree, trauma is the most contributing factor
Bishop said it perfectly, “stop blaming yourself as you have been involved with a narcissist, has narcissistic tendencies…..” I have been thru his toxicity ….since marrying him at 18. He was diagnosed narcissistic with paranoia + alzheimers 7 yrs ago. He is now in Assisted Living being cared for (he takes his meds & eats without question to the Staff there). I thank God every day for giving me peace and quiet to heal in post 53 yrs of marriage.
"You left Freddy Krueger and the same day you shift it over to Jason, You just live that Halloween kind of life." The way you pass the message is so funny and so serious at the same time. Thank you
Lord have mercy so true
Man I laughed at this part but so true!
Too true ❤️
Yes. “Living that Halloween kind of life”. I had to laugh because it’s so true.
I hollered out loud.. so sad that’s me
I have been out of a TOXIC relationship/marraige for 3 years. I have been through the stages of blame, shame and depression. I was deceived, gaslight and emotionally abused for years. I have taken the time to rebuild myself and with God I know have stopped blaming myself and have stopped the what ifs!! I saw myself in this lesson. God is forever faithful. Thank you
Blessings I pray I get there one day. Healing 🙌🏽 🙏🏼🦋
And there a lot of others that are with you. We have to Cut our Losses. Its not easy But if we have SHUT It DOWN we Won and we are truly BLESSED.
I don't understand why people want to be the same, you will be better, once your eyes are open you can not NOT see anymore!
You learned the lesson!
Use it!
The result of me leaving that toxic relationship was a result of Unexpected Depression and panic attacks for me! But i am slowly regaining my sanity back. By praying and praying all day long. And speaking out loud that " i will not be depressed.. I will get over this "and so can you Ladies. Thank u Pastor Blakes! You are telling my story
Yes AMEN Thank You All! In The Name Of Jesus 💞🌷💪🙏💯🙏
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I feel you✨it took me monhts to recover and i‘m still healing✨
You are the Father figure I never had. You have blessed me with the knowledge God has given you!!! You address things no other Pastor has ever spoken so openly about. Thank you!! You and Lisa have blessed us with your ministry!!! Love and peace.
I love my dad but he was always busy working trying to provide for us my dad did his best but i needed him more as a teen girl he was always out of town working. Pastor RC feels like a dad to me also
Thank you R.C this just snapped me out of a mood !!!!! I'm getting out of this toxic situation. Idk why nor how I stayed this long but God! I know he allowed it but now God is ushering me out. The Holy Spirit is walking me through the door to my freedom! I receive it In Jesus Name, I am free 🙌🏽
Monkey bags? That's a new and eye opener
Thank you for being an inspiration, I hope you're doing well.
I have found, as a Christian, it is DEVASTATING to be taught to never allow the word “divorce” to be part of your vocabulary, or to be an option, but then it becomes a very real possibility. It is devastating.
Oh for sure! The man or women we are with can make us look really bad in front of others when we have grown as a child of God yet we are looked at as something totally not who we are, energy and power taken stolen... Leave emotionally ask God to help you.
By God's grace, he pulled me out of a toxic relationship! He also placed me where I need to be and brought me to messages I needed hear.. Thank you for this tonight. I honestly don't even know if I asked him with my mouth, or my heart but he did it, he delivered me.
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes! I have my teenage son watching your videos with me so he can know how to treat ladies the way God intended and how to look out for toxic women too! You have changed his perspective and life and we both just love you!
That's amazing Mama! 👏🙏
Thank you bishop God bless you
What an amazing mother. Much better than the enabling mothers who condone narcissistic behavior with their actions❤️
Personal connection to ELOHIM and Yeshua Hamashiach has been key for me! Truth is, I could feel my mind wanting to slip into a dark place while in the very unhealthy relationship! But through, Fasting, studying and prayer I Got a break-through and am now healing!!! HalleluYah!!! 👏🙏💯
The opportunity will continue to present itself until you learn from it!!!
This is great teaching! Fasting from relationships spoke volumes to me. God knows that I do not want to repeat the same cycle again. I'm learning to love myself again after a toxic 14 yr marriage with a narcissist🥴🥴. I'm looking at my true self and allowing the presence and word of God to heal me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤
I started my dream business and purchased investment property, these are good distractions!
YES, IT HAS BEEN HARD. BUT I KNOW THAT I DID MY PART PLUS... CONTINUE TO PRAY!!! THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG WHEN YOUR NOT LOOKING.
One of the most important keys is do not give them a platform. Fall off the face of the earth... Trust, it will get better
Thank you Bishop. Watched it twice and this talk made a difference . I healed more in the last 24 hours than I was able to do in the last 2 1/2 years behind a narcissist that had went thru my life twice ...30 years apart and got a total of about 4 years of my life with his lies. There is only one man who has emotionally crippled me twice and no man has ever done as much damage as he did. He is a narcissist and an alcoholic but I am free at last.Thank you Jesus...and Bishop. May God bless you and yours. This gal is good. God has always had me but God is holding me tight now. Whatever a person's earthly Kryponite is is nothing to overcome when you got Jesus on your side.
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❤🙏🏽❤. Narcissist and alcoholic is the worst. I can relate
Amen, amen
I'm going through this right now. I'm not sure I can do this on my own. You do give me hope. Thank you!
I've been going through this for 3 years and I'm done. Focusing on myself and doing things to make me happy.
I will always remember "immediately 10× initiates relationship lockdown".... I've been in lockdown after 12 years in abusive marriage. Society teaches it's bad to be single but I say it's a big LIE. I got my power back and I can feel God using this situation to give me a chance never to reduce my standard again!!
I am so grateful and appreciative for this topic .I have experience all of the above you mentioned,but thank God my purpose was discovered and now I am serving God in Spirit and in Truth.May God bless your ministry as you touch hearts all over the world
thank you, for sharing this informative information on how to restore self after a toxic relationship. I have found myself in another unhealthy relationship/marriage. I have already began a few steps that you gave in your message. I will follow all seven and begin to heal and move forward to repair my heart, mind and body
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Society also teaches that women should settle & accept a man philandering. I’d rather be single with my power & happy than to be with a piece of shit who doesn’t respect me. This is why I have MY OWN MIND.
And that's the word your standard
When you respect and love yourself you will uphold your standards
It took me til my 50th birthday to LEARN that 💪🏾👏🏾💋
YOU ARE SPEAKING "TRUTH" .....THE BEGGING/STALKING FOR YEARS, I REFUSED....TO TAKE him BACK.....Not in This LIFE TIME! 🗣 RUN...🏃♀️💨💨💨😜
It’s my birthday today and last year I was straddling a man to love me but not anymore.... I’m on to better by loving myself 🥰
Happy birthday ma'am ❤️
Happy Birthday, sis.
Happy Birthday Janaye! Onward and upward sis💕
@@BrittaniMeShay awww thnx ❤️
Yes❤️👌
“Toxic nostalgia.” Wow. Powerful. Absolutely love how you hit just right!!! 💖
Very true teaching I blamed myself I truly loved him all this what you saying 10 years of future faking he mentally broke me 16 months free as a woman over 60 im healing now by God's grace
Living a Halloween kind of life. 🥴🤣🤣🤣I felt that in my soul. I’m done with Michael Myers and Jason. Im fasting from relationships and embracing God. I will raise the children from both of those relationships to be wonderful human beings
Amen
AMEN
It also applies to all types of relationships: family, friends, work, church, etc. Thank you for this 🙌
God is already using you as a to bring a lot of people out of wherever they're in and I thank you for it
That toxic nostalgia will cause you to do something you'll regret!
This really spoke to me back in March i got myself out of a toxic relationship of long 7 years he was a narcissist i was broken to my core emotionally and mentally but that relationship after leaving has made me turn inside to start healing myself to becoming free and feeling good leaving him made me take my power back! This whole message brought tears to my eyes remembering what i went through once upon a time thank you for this informative video Bishop 🙏
I understand completely. I was absolutely devastated after getting out of my toxic situation. I cant blame all of it on him . I made choices even knowing the Red flags were all in my face. ..the secretive life he led..never introducing me to his family...always wanting to look at my phone if I didnt pick up. If I ever questioned him it was I am working and why you mess up our momentum. I learned to keep silent and pretend all was GOING to be ok even after the abuse. Once I literally lost myself spiraling in a dark hole not even knowing who I was anymore I turned to God. Got in the Word and left this situationship and learning to live all over again..literally. Live in love..loving myself . 🍁🌼🌻🌸🌷🌺
@@kristinakellogg1732 Amen to that and that's all we can do is alot of self loving and God is with us always 🙏❤🌻⚘
@@lolachlih3136 Amen . Absolutely !! Love you.!! God is with you and me and we are walking in our freedom of love 🌻🌼🌸🌷🌺💕🍁
@@kristinakellogg1732 love you too ⚘💞 we definitely are and God will keep lifting us and keeping his hands of protection on us❤🙏
This definitely goes into my list of one of the most powerful videos I can draw encouragement from. So many jewels to be taken from this. One that stood out is “You teach the world how to treat you by the way you treat yourself.” I’m going to watch this many more times with the thought of absorbing a new jewel each time. Thank you 🙏🏾
I totally agree with you
Great one
Thank you 🙏 for this God given message. I’ve been abandoned my whole life, except by my Jesus. Thank you Lord for loving all of us, no matter how broken we are. Worst of all, I abandoned myself, belittled myself and dishonored myself, but through it all Jesus saw me, he loved me and saved me. I pray the same for others like me.
I feel a lot of anxiety and rage and sorrow. Thanks for this. 😭🙏🏻❤️
I’ve never felt so called out in my life!! Sitting here in sweat pants with the blinds closed! Thank you Holy Spirit!! Thanks you Mr. Blake’s ❤️❤️
Me too!! Sleeping in sweatpants. Not even caring🥲
Me currently
Wisdom is too high for a fool… thank you Pastor! This sermon was my turn around❤️
Say it again ❤
Hi pastor God bless you sir, Men do watch you as well, just want you to know that.
I got out of a toxic relationship with extremely heavy losses… this video is spiritual gold for men and women alike, all your content is!
Forgiveness, (for them and self), learn from the lesson, heal, endure the process….
I am just coming out of a toxic relationship, I feel lost and drained from the yrs of lies and manipulation. I am completely broken. I have been watching your videos and really paying attention to your message Bishop and so I thank you from the bottom of my heart for talking to me and giving hope that I am going to be okay. Sending you love and blessings! 💗🙌🏾
I so appreciate you, Bishop!!! You help me get out of a bad relationship with a narc... Boy, what a difference a year make..
You are Def a blessing.
Bishop I have been living with this marriage I kinda lose myself. Every time we will fight he'll tell me to pack my bags 🎒and leave.married for 35 years.
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@@susansookdeo1465 OMG I Feel You Must Leave This Because He Packed My Things I had Been on A Business Trip But I’m Bless With PEACE
Practical biblical direction given in a straightforward, humorous and knowledgeable way. Bravo! 👏🏽
Thank you pastor 🙌just in time ,as from this Friday , I'm looking forwards to my new life, after 9 years of toxic marriage with a narcissist! Yesterday was one of my happiest days of my life, after winning in the court 🙌❤
Hi what techniques are you using to recover? I believe someone who is a narcissist just broke up with me in a cruel way and it's been difficult to comprehend and accept.
Learn about self indulgence. Once you embrace your singlehood for HEALING, GROWTH, MATURITY, and the BLESSINGS YOU DESERVE....PLEASE you will run from relationships because you enjoy your PEACE OF MIND, HAPPINESS, & SANITY
Bishop You and T. Gaskins have been a God-send for me! You helped reform my thinking during and after my divorce! I’m so grateful for you!!!!! ♥️
Yes so true!
chile...I go from one to the other and then throw in the Potters House on Sundays!!!! I had to teach myself these things but I love coming here to stay sharp in this world.
Yep for me two. I love them both
Yessss!! 💖
Yes!!! RC Blakes, Tony Gaskins and Stephan LaBoussier. I thank God for these beautiful souls.
I lived out of the Law and Truth from the Bible . Being in relationships with men unmarried. Being a child of Christ. I learnt alot out of being with a Narcissistic man. You also form soul ties... The First step is repentance.. Remove from why me. ...Follow The order off How Christ wants us to live . Healing came.. To God be The Glory for RC Blake's
Note to self: Stop taking over the abuser's past job! Tough one but possible
In all honesty I don't even remember much about my past relationships because its been so long it's like it never happened. I don't even have any contact with these people. I believe God gives a peace once you move away from all of that mess and it's almost as if these people don't exist anymore. I'm speaking for myself but I see it that way. By renewing our minds and thoughts it makes such a difference. Wonderful video as always😊❤🙏
Protecting your peace just like I am. I rather be by myself I'm used to it and it's quite comforting
@@missjackie7983 Yes absolutely true!
@@kaleema1987 Your not wrong.... God has removed the sting and the poison that I don't even remembered it happened!
@@desreenjackson7638 Isn't it amazing how God smooths everything out
"Stop holding on to that toxic nostalgia" Oh it's so on point Pastor! I'm washing dishes while listening and decided to stop cos I don't wanna be distracted and miss every single word of your guidance. God bless you Pastor Blakes!
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God sent me this video today. I have been so depressed over this breakup for the last 3 months
How do I feel like you are always speaking directly to me? Every one of your videos, every single one. Do you know how much you are truly making a difference for people/women, specifically? ❤️
🤗🤗. His videos.... his videos changed my life 3 years ago....I'm addicted I can't let go.🤗 I watched many I've seen over and over again.
I remember one time I asked GOD to help me. The wind almost nock me over. Before I got help out of my mouth. GOD was there. It took GOD maybe in my mind a tenth of a second. To get from the Kingdom to Albany New York. Wow!
Bishop is right analyze your psychic….take time to think about self and spend time daily talking with God.
This is confirmation that I've been through the stages of recovery. I just wish I could have gotten there years ago. But I know God is always on time, and He allowed me to stumble across one of your videos on purpose. And now, countless videos later, I am no doubt an empowered woman. God bless you and Lady Lisa, Bishop!
I have watched you for almost 6 mths. I wish I had you 8 years ago. I so wish. I learn everyday something new. Thank you for sharing all of your knowledge with us. You.and your wife are.such a blessing.
21 yrs of dealing with this. Your words are speaking my story exactly! Glad I found your videos. I have been feeling sorry for him. Your videos are helping me heal. Thank you thank thank you.
I finally got the NARC to leave my home. I was tied financially as well. Thank you Pastor for your strength to fight this beast. I have reached out to council already to work on myself and healing. I have been preparing and praying every night for years for the Lord to save me. Thank you so much Pastor. ❤️❤️
your videos have been a major part of my healing and understanding of life after my toxic relationship. i am on my way to a total healing. and my mind is just way better than it was. i am now woke n have a since of discernment and i've never felt the holy spirit so strong.
This message is for me. I actually was depressed after my toxic relationship, my hair started falling out. Your message about Samson in the Bible made me cry 😢. This was truly God speaking to me. Thank you Pastor. May God continue to Bless your messages and may they reach all that need these messages 🙏
You are anointed by the Lord . I am learning so much from you. May GOD continue to bless you and your beautiful wife . True follower here !
6/29/2023 the day this came to me and help me adding this to my healing journey & i will note .. ❤❤
You left Freddy Krueger and ended up with Jason. Lol 😂... I can relate unfortunately but thank God after my relationship lockdown... now I can laugh.
“Immediately enforce Relationship lockdown! …Recover. Relationship Fast. Allow God to do his work… Be still…Get your power back. Be the best physical version of yourself for yourself. All about encouraging yourself. 💪🏽💖✨ ❤️🩹 healing ✨ awesome message 😎☕️
Bishop, this came at the perfect time, I just got out of a toxic relationship, everything you said was true, I thought my feelings were isolated, but you should me it’s normal, and it’s not me. The devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy, bishop this stood me up and put me back on my feet, and I thank you for helping me to move forward. Amen
Thank you Bishop, again your message is spot on. A lifetime of unrelenting disappointment ….girlfriends, family, the narcissistic men in my life have left me heart sick and broken spirited. I have accepted my part in this , now it’s up to me to ask God for his help I know it is the only answer …thank you again for reminding me of the path I must put my myself on to heal! Bless you.
Hey look at you GIRL, Shinning like a New Dime. Boom Baby.
Thank you for your compassion towards us who have been in hard relationships. You saying that I have to not blame myself, and understand that i'm just human and that it's not my fault - has helped me so much tonight.
It amazes me that everything I'm naturally on these past couple seasons he speaks about. I almost wonder if all women thought deeply about their healing and relationship with God does this all come naturally because I have been doing ALL of this! I promise it works. I'm literally someone's wife in the making.. I feel it. I'm on alignment!
Come on Pastor!!!! Yes Jesus!!! What a WORD!!! Immediately lock down all ties! Healthy boundaries guards the ❤! Analyze your psychy, to discover the leaks in your life. Ou we!!! God bless you man of God! So thankful for you!🙏🏾
The accuracy in leaving “Freddy Krueger for Jason just living that Halloween type of life…” hit my soul & tickled my spirit at the same time! “You don’t know that you are BROKEN?!”
Powerful message 🔥
These are the type of teachings the Holy Spirit personally leads us into, regardless of if we heed to it or not. While it’s important to know God for ourselves, sometimes it takes someone willing to be Gods earthly mouthpiece and spread his Word, to spark something in someone’s spirit and lead them to God and/or back to God 🙌🏾♥️
Absolutely
Amen !
I can't believe how broken these men are and they really be trying to break you.. it's so sad to me I'm glad that part of my life is over I sowed some good seeds ground was not good
Remember: You were in the newspaper 📰😂😂😂 Pastor is hilarious! Thank you for this word 🙏🏾
His sense of humor is out of this world he got me laughing too 😅
That's a good hair analogy. Power. I wish it were true. Hair grows very slowly.
I blame myself for chosing that path with them. I put up with the deception. I was trapped in the toxicity. I trusted my brothers. There is no next time, there's not enough time. Im old and tired and btoken.
This was amazing! I needed this. Been in the process of divorce for a year and a half. It's been hard to pick up the pieces and put myself back together. The depth of the verbal and emotional abuse have taken a toll, bu I am fighting through it with God. This was a very practical and tangible way for me to continue to get there Thank you Bishop, for recognizing all that comes with removing yoursekf from a toxic relationship.
The Lord set me free after a 33year
Toxic marriage. Divorce finalized
12-7-2021, praise the Lord !! This was my 2nd marriage. And for sure,quoted by Pastor Blake ,Jason
left and Freddy Kruger showed up
3 yrs later, With 8 more demons .
My health, finances, self esteem,
relationships with God,career, joy,
peace, were attacked. Only by
crying out to God,and recommitting
my life to the Lord, was I delivered.
I'm seeking God & His will, the last
things i need is a man. Im learning to
Love ,know, grow , value and respect myself. Learning to give myself the
love I've sought from other. Learning
to love, trust God with all my heart .
Knowing that God has good plans
For my life. Feels great to be free !
I’ve been searching for a legitimate source to help me heal from to toxic narcissistic relationship I was discarded from…this gave me a little clarity and was spot on. I tried to remain in this person’s life despite me knowing that this wasn’t where God would want me to be, but still trying to be me still loving and giving…just wanted them to change
Yes Pastor 💯🙏🏿. I’m on the road to recovery over this toxic Narc
God is so faithful. He will take you all the way sis. I’m in a place I didn’t think I could be again. Bless you!
@@pdoll96 thank u sis…. I believe so. This video helped me so much. ❤️🙏🏿
Hilarious, truth and sadness rolled up all in one. #3 got me.Toxic Nostalgia-You've been shot, in the newspaper, etc. don't let that demon back in!
Amen pastor. Your messages are changing lives including mines one day at a time. God bless you, Lisa, AND YOUR WORK. I watch and work on my mind weekly.💜
Bishop, this message was one of the greatest that the Lord God has entrusted to you. And you delivered it with such humor in places, balancing out the seriousness of the topic, in such a warm, inviting presentation style. All of these things, in my opinion, matter. God is using you to disarm crushed souls who would just as soon go into defense mode than to hear from another man who might ravage them further. Thank you for giving us things that reflect the heart of God to meditate on throughout the work day. I listen while I’m at work.
Hallelujah!!! God is in control, meeting our every need. Thank you for being His disciple ❤️
That statement, “You’re on TOP and you’re going HIGHER”!
is everything to me! Thank you !
God bless ! 🤗💚
Bishop I just want to thank you for allowing God to use you for the platform for the children of God thank you you are a blessing from the Lord
You have no idea how much I needed this message I have had the negative self talk mad at myself
You really have helped me throughout this last year of finding myself and getting closer to GOD.. Thank You so much
That type statement hit the bullseye 🎯
I agree 💯💯💯
We sometimes become broken in order to learn a lesson that is vital to our soul's evolution.
Thank you Pastor Blakes. It took me long to realise that for decades, I was in a toxic relationship but it's never too late. God bless you and Pastor Lisa for these wonderful teachings that have since liberated me.
Hi pastor Blake am saving my money now for myself … for one of your courses … for my healing … I appreciate you so much …. Thank u thank u … am rereading the books 📚 I bought from u … self care a must … ♥️
Thank you Bishop for your teachings.. They have healed me day by day. Today's message is what I so needed as I have been in toxic relationships all my life. Thank you for blessing us with your time. Much love
I purchased Father daughter talk, because I’ve never been given the opportunity to meet my biological father. I haven’t started reading yet! But very soon! Godbless you
I admire yall comments we are in this together ❤ stay healing and keep shining, with love 💘
Toxic nostalgia made you forget that you were in the newspaper shake my head laugh out loud!!! That was too funny and so sad at the same time. 🙂🙁God bless you Bishop! What an awesome and much needed word!
It truly was funny 😄 even with the weightiness of the topic being handled with card and consideration .
Bishop I wonder have you truly grasped how much your words have helped and even changed the course of lives! I thank god everyday he brought you into my life! I NEEDED THIS! THANK YOU.
Thank you for the information.I have this happen to women in my family.I pray every day for their deliverance.