Got dumped yesterday because she was bored of me. I only wish someday I’ll look back on this comment and edit it too I’m fine now and I’m not broken and the pain is gone. But for now I guess I’ll have to leave it here with all my pain.
@@haya6047 Where there is love, there is a pain💔. BTW your story could be better than it is right now.You should give one more try ,atleast you are well settled(Doctor).
It happens in relations when both sides love each other aswell. Happened to me twice & hopefully a third. You Noob (First was an ex-gf in old MSN) second was a temporary date in my city through Facebook. But now it's the love of my life. After an incredible Godly Miraculous Pray.
I've had genuine feelings for one person that never felt the same way towards me, it was the most devastating thing at the time. But in retrospect, I realised that those feelings were better off being given to someone more deserving, someone who saw me in the same way i saw them. It's not the end of the world, it's just the end of that chapter, and moving on is the bravest thing you can do.
@BrokenPortals thanks for the advice. I'm literally thinking of every moment I spent with her with love but she did not feel the same way towards me. I'm trying to move on. It's been 4 years. Just can't seem to forget her.
Sometimes you think you are not loved, sometimes you think you will never be loved... I hope we encounter people in our lives who can say such loving words.
And I hope that I’ll have the courage to tell someone how I feel when it matters the most. I completely failed at that in my last relationship and not a day goes by where I don’t regret it
2 years since I have seen him, but I still think about him everyday. This wasn't a breakup. We just fell in love at a time when we couldn't be together for long. I loved being around him. He always felt like home. And no matter what, I believe we will find our way back to each other. I miss him. Not a day goes by when I don't imagine meeting him again. I feel like he does too. I feel bound to him, and all I want is to be with him! He's the only one I can see myself spending my whole life with! I love you smarty.💚
You SHOULD try to reach out and say your feelings clearly, so much clear that you can touch his heart, just go, don't think to much, just reach him, Love is the grace of GOD, please go reach out plz
""You are the best thing ever happen to me"" The most beautiful words to listen from some one. But these words become worst, when you got dumped by that person.
I totally agree but I also feel like it’s so beautiful to even be able to feel that way about another person. So even when it does fall apart you know that you’re capable of loving someone so much and so it will happen again:)
to the people who are currently going through heartbreak, i promise it gets better. just allow yourself to move on and heal, self love is the best thing you can do. my first heartbreak got me sick both physically and mentally, id wake up and go to sleep anxious, i didnt want to talk to anyone and i didnt have joy in doing anything. i did the worst thing i could have done in that situation, i isolated myself. please surround yourself with people who make you happy and want the best for you ❤️
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
I feel exactly this for somebody. I'm living in another country now and my god, just thinking I wouldn't be able to see that laugh, that beautiful face again, killing me inside. Love, that's a heavenly and hellish feeling at the same time. A single hi will make you feel fly over the moon and then the reality will torture you if it's impossible or one sided love
To all the people who are feeling broken i want to say….Whatever that you felt and experienced with her/him, that can happen again may be better than this. So think it as a part of your life and move on. Its not the end of your story lot of things are yet to happen
Well it personally hasn't happened for me in the same way or in a better way, and I'm not holding my breath for anyone anymore. I've been with plenty of guys, but I honestly never felt that "thing" again. I don't think that's my fault. Ain't gonna lie to myself. Ain't looking for love anymore. Love has to find me if it wants me. I will not be looking for it.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do due to them being the same gender as each other. I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
@@icysnow57cold64 i don’t think men and women are very different at all. There are so many things that are so raw and human that they can be seen in nearly anyone: the search for meaning, the desire for happiness, and the need for companion. And I think these provide more than enough to bond with
@@filipeoliveira7001 Same-sex couples experience an emotional equality and understanding beyond that attainable between heterosexuals. Generally speaking, LGBTQ people are honest with who they are. They have less masks to wear and are thus more open to their partner. I've seen many hetero relationships where they fraught with deception and lots of masks. It was hard for them to be open with each other when they aren't being their true self. The same-sex relationships I've seen tend to be way better and open. There seems to be a lot more respect and a lot less judgments between same-sex couples than there is between heterosexual couples.
It's been a year and half since we stopped talking and everything still reminds me of her. I love her so much still that it still hurts, there's so many strings attached to the feelings of her. We never went on a proper date because of covid but her energy helped me through some tough times. She left me when I felt down. She was everything I ever wanted and still is. I can still hear her laugh and sweet tone of voice. 😢
You will not know this real feeling until you feel it for real. And when it hurts, it hurts a lot that you can't even explain to anyone. Actually, in this pain, no one is worthy of sharing it
As a girl. I did this to someone very special to me. I told him everything, why I can't do anything without him. nothing makes sense without him.. But yet He just gave up on me because I was just caring and loving too much. I gave my all to him. so just a reminder for yall.. there are many Dbags out there just be careful, don't trust too easily. For all the people blaming yourself from people leaving you.. It's not your fault.
The facts that you glorify yourself and shit on him speaks volume about how toxic you are. You also probably picked the wrong guy, which is painfully frequent with women
So......she thought doinking someone else would improve her situation. Wow, some logic. In 10 years, she can accuse her "one true love" of sexual assault and win a million.
I may forget her but God knows I will never forget how I went through all the pain and suffering for loving her tooooo much. I thought I was gonna die.
I thought real love never leaves no matter what.... Wasn't prepared mentally...and all of a sudden he just left me...left me nowhere....i lost everything with him...one thing i learnt that nothing is permanent in this world 🙂
Sorry,,,that might be real..but not a love of 2 souls ...love of 2 physical bodies for a certain time That's the fact. Only death could separate two souls loving each other. Except death ,, anything that separate is totally a drama & excuse...nothing more.
I was writing my story and as I went through it one more time I sounded pathetic like the person I was two years ago. Be strong, life is hard but it is so worth the pain that you get through in order to feel those minutes of happiness which I truly believe all of you will have. You deserve someone that cares for you as much as he/she does for her/him self.
@Joe snuffy Or they leave you because you’re an idiot and didn’t realize what you had ‘til it was gone and were weak and they no longer want anything to do with you. Guess which one I am.
@@yasminemounaim9047 I wish it was true too. I think there really is a soul that matches someone else’s for most people in life but that our choices in life can either bring us together or cause us to still screw it up.
I thought I got better but the moment i played this video i cried remembering him. He was the best thing that happened to me. My first love or my unrequited love of 5 years , he was my everything. Its been 3 years since i moved away from the country but looks like i still miss him and his presence in my life. Been 3 years , still haven't moved on, my friends say im obsessed but i still can't let go of my feelings or love anyone else. Looks like i gave my first love all my love that i don't have left anymore love to give to someone else. Thought it would be better with time but as the 3 years passed i grew to miss him even more.... Hope i get better because im going crazy with this loneliness even if im surrounded by people.
Omg is it ?😢 been 5 months after he rejected me And still can’t get over it!!im scared I’ll never be able to love someone again oh godd don’t let that happen😢
This is the only thing I wanted and still kind of want to hear from the person that's left me for reasons unknown. So much time and effort was made to be with the one I considered my true love. I know I'm not the problem, but not having the closure is what's killing me on the inside.
I feel that - you just think to yourself, “Don’t/didn’t you know that no matter what happened i am always there for you? That nothing is a good enough reason to stop talking with each other? To stop being with each other? Why would you give away something like this that is once in a lifetime? Someone you cares for you despite having every reason not to?”
It has been about 1 year 1,5 years since she left me, her mother did not approve of me solely because of my skin color, this is going to sound like one of those cliches "Do not be racist and treat everyone fairly" we are all starting to get tired of but this was something I had never experienced before. I am a stand-up lad but getting into that relationship with her was selfish, it did not start off as a relationship where I loved the person I was with but it started off as a way to make myself feel better. I guess reading everyone down here in the comments talking about how they lost a loved one or got dumped inspired me to finally open up about this, and sometimes it takes a total stranger to open up to. Even though it was her mother who finally cut us off in the end it was bound to happen along the road, I was not ready for anything serious I just wanted to be loved. When you get into a relationship it is no longer about you, it is about the both of you and I had yet to realize that simple fact. Did I love her? Yes, I did, in the end, it hurt more like anything I could have imagined and more, took a time to get over a relationship that honestly was not even that long (Maybe 3 months) but she was the person my world revolved around for a long time and so it was the other way around, but we were both too young and I was certainly not ready for something serious. Niss if you are reading this (which I highly doubt) I want you to know that I do not blame you for anything that happened and that I do not blame you for going through with your mothers request to cut me off. I was scared of the attachment and scared of where it might have taken me. As for your mother, I'm sure she was only doing what she thought was right for you. I also would like you to know that I am well and I hope you are too. I wish you a fulfilling partner and someone better than I was to you. As they (used to?) say in Scotland, Lang mey yer lum reek
Good for you for opening up dude, that’s very mature of you to realise all of this. And I’m sorry about the mother that must have felt awful to not be approved of for the colour of your skin. I wish you the best of luck in future relationships :)
@@agtv_media Pretty impressive to know for someone who knows nothing about her, or who she is. Matter of fact, you don't know me one bit so how about you keep your condescending "opinions" for yourself and leave me be
@@waffles658 'preciate it, it was hypocritical in a sense too for a reason I won't get in to but yeah it did not feel great. I appreciate your kind words and I wish the same to you!
I got ghosted in December 2019 then dumped in January 2020 after being 3 years into a relationship. The sudden rush of overwhelming emotions of pain, anger, sadness left deep scar in me. When I try to move forward, I'm scared to get rejected and experience those horrible emotions again so I've confineded myself into a state where I grief in solitude as happiness is a luxury that has a string of sadness attached to it that I cannot afford.
No matter how much they say they love you, or how happy you make them even if you’re “the best thing that’s ever happened to them” … In the end chances are they’ll still leave. That’s just how things are sadly. Maybe one day they’ll be different.
This pain is so real, Its been over 10 months since i was replaced by another, they gave up on me when i was trying my best to be better. I've questioned everything a thousand times, replayed every scene in my head a thousand times, Wished i could go back and be better, change into what would have suited them better. To me, there has been no worse pain then being given up on while your begging for them to keep fighting. I still feel the pain, not as much, but its still there, I have much more respect for myself now, I try to laugh and smile. We are broken, but please never give up
Yesterday I asked her "Don't u ever see us together again?" She said "Honestly I don't " One day I may come back and see this comment and wonder about it over again
@@senz7339 it took me 1yr to recover from relationship stuffs... Suddenly my best friend (15fucking years) left me for no reason.. I mean, i was shocked . Events were like one after another. So, I got the double shot . It was extremely painful.. Now, it doesn't matter whether someone leaves me Or not. . 😂. Time heals everything. When Human can deal with parent's death and recover from it then these things are nothing.. God bless you.. Now, I really laugh at people when they cry for their love. .
If someone is will to let you go…. then unfortunately you must let them. It hurts to know that another doesn’t value you the same as you value them. However, all you can do is accept this and wish them well. There isn’t an easy way to let go of feelings but there is a certain level of peace in knowing some decisions aren’t ours to make. While you can’t always control the cause, you can eventually manage the effect. Endings are common, painful, and necessary steps on our path. I’ve been there too and it’s always helped me in knowing many relationships aren’t meant to last forever. Wish her well, my friend. Move forward in knowing it’s the only path offered.
I believe being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship and that relationship could of any kind like family, friends or your partner. For a healthy life you need to be around people who acknowledge you, love you and guide you to the best they can.
Fell in love with a girl when I was in class VI and got badly humiliated and rejected on the last day of class X. I was devastated. After that I shifted to another school for finishing high school and met a girl, who I thought would help me to move on. I used to talk to her everyday and even shared my feelings about her. The next two years were quite good but every night I used to think about the first love of my life. Then comes the last day of my school life. Our school threw a party for us. Later that day I was remembering all the memorable moments of my school life and decided to propose the 2nd love of my life. I did and what she said just broke my heart, again. She said we can't be together cause she loves someone else. Why? Why would she tell me about that on the last day? It has 1 year since that day. It really hurts when you love someone deeply and the person doesn't care about your feelings. It hurts. Sorry for this long essay,I just wanted to put it all out
Nothing could’ve prepared my heart for when she told me that she kissed another man..after all we’d been through. She’s not mine anymore, but I still think about her often. And I still pray for her future regardless the circumstances
Yesterday i lost someone and i said the exact same things in this video. She didn't say a word and i ended up leaving. I still love her. I hope in any way i could see her again someday.
I fell in love with him when I met him 3 years ago. Can’t get over it still and being far away from him hurts so much. He’s leaving again soon and this time it might be permanent. I just wish he loved me enough to stay.
If he doesn't love you enough to stay, love yourself enough to let him stay gone, holding on to this guy is preventing you from meeting your most epic love. When they leave, let them leave
I'll never put my heart out there again until someone expresses their love for me like that ...and I'll love them in a way my mind isn't capable of imagining ...I swear on it... But for the time being I've learnt that love is not something you find if you want it to last...it's something that finds you
Hehehe, haa mdhara chimboitai zvekutsvaga mari first, mabhebhi anozouya ega waane bag. Ita mari uone kuti hauwane mabhebhi anouya ega kuzoita madeclaration of love akadai here or not.
Are we all just crying here man? My whole mousepad is soaked. Before I met her, I was always described as emotionless. But in reality, I just kept all my feeling in a shell, so when she came along I opened that damn shell, and out came my heart. I gave it to her with such genuine honesty, and loved her with everything I had. Unfortunately, one day I just received an unexplained breakup text, and I never saw her again.
@arjunjs48 Thank you for asking I completely forgot about this comment I made. Basically, I've really improved in all aspects of my life. I've read lots of motivational books, got into the best shape of my life, learned to play guitar, started tutoring math, learned a new language (well am still learning it) got into a second martial art, made some money, and so on. I don't know what pushed me to keep going, maybe it was anger, or some twisted sense of vengefulness, trying to be better for her, but without her... I dunno man, now 1 year later I rewatched this video and I didn't feel a thing, except pride that I overcame my demons. I see that no matter how hard it may seem in the moment, whovever you are out there, you will get through whatever you're going through. Sadness is a great fuel, so use it until it is all gone and you are left to bear fruit of the new heights it has propelled you to.
This video just popped up , I watched this made me realise I have to tell someone that I have feelings for him ..so I texted all my things to him . Finally there is no regret left in my heart and it feels so free😌
Words and good intention mean nothing when they're not backed by true good actions. And no, we're not special, you might find someone better or who just better suits you provided that you're working on becoming a better and more understanding version of yourself. Good luck to all.
I know the feeling. Exactly. Sometimes the timing isn't there. When one is ready the other one is a mess and cant commit and viceversa. It sucks cause she is indeed the best thing that ever happened to me.
Broke up without any arguement,issue or hatred towards your ex was more heartbreaking than when you broke up with a heck of problems,because you can't find the reason to move on because you both were fine,when you think about them you just wanna be back with them And that was what happened to me,because i got no hate to my ex,sometimes i call her asking how is she doing although her reaction is often so cold,but i still love her regardless
I fell in love with my best friend and now we are strangers even tho he promised to never leave, he acts like I don't exit ignores my messages I'm just a distant memory to him but for me he is the closest and best memory I have
This moment is not permanent. Believe in your fate. One day one person will come to your life. He will make your life more happy and meaningfull. So just move on....
Girl same!!! you are not alone in that my best friend or so I thought is now my ex and he looks right through me. He is so focused on school and a future that does not involve me I feel like I should have seen the signs sooner that he was not as serious about me as I was about him. I feel your pain chica.
But then I also have to remind myself that yeah, he is missing out cuz Im great, and he does not know what he is walking away from. So Im choosing to be more loyal now to people who are loyal and emotionally available also to me in return.
After 5 years of unconditional love and care and lot of memories together.. She left me for a guy she met for 10 days.. And all those promises,dreams,memories didn't mattered at all
@@johnboyes3844 Holy crap I thought I was the only who did this. I’ve never been able to properly describe it but I know it’s not healthy and negatively impacted my mental and social being. I don’t know what to do though. I want to find someone but I can’t stand me, so who will you know? Idk I’m probably going to grow out of this.
My ex broke up with me because he was too comfortable. It makes you insecure about new people. But it will be ok. Now I'm with someone who makes me cry tears of joy instead of pain.
@@VITALPCHISOM Now I really feel like his reasoning may have been that he didn't blamed me for where he was in his life. Because for the majority of it. I was always the breadwinner even after I lost my job. Rather than take accountability for himself not being where he wanted to be he instead said I made him too comfortable.
@@VITALPCHISOM Also I'd like to add I NEVER used that against him in arguments. Yet within two weeks of me losing my job he threw that in my face. While being in my car that he never once asked to help me pay gas once for. He knew I'd never been in a relationship and whenever I asked for assurance would say " you've never been in a relationship " or " like you'd even know ".
we all are cursed with love. it's hell, it's painful, but it's life. Don't give up. One day it will stop hurting. But when, When it will stop hurting, only when you stop scratching your wounds again and again.
What she says hits different when she says it after she cheated on him Many people in this world are struggling with themselves and are in some kind of autodestructive self-sabotage adventure. She might really feel that, but cant stop sabotaging herself and hurting others aswell in the process
I hope the girl I love will feel same for me as the girl in video and if it happens I never ever leave her until my last breath and I make her smile because I love to see her when she is happy it just makes my day
This is from the movie Father and Daughter. She lost her father when she was very small and it caused her afraid of attachment so she made herself a who're to avoid commitment until she met him. Then slowly she became too scared of really wanting him not to ever be gone like her father (I believe) and she fucked another dude in the bar and let her bf know immediately. He left her of course. The song her dad lived went on display and remind her of her dad and why she's so fucked up and then this scene happened. She confessed why and then they got back together at the end. Her aunt was also the reason why she's fucked up because her aunt tried to steal her from her dad and caused his death then they took her in as their daughter and raised her in such horrible mental health condition (but they're wealthy).
So this guy was the loser who settled for used and damaged goods. I bet getting back with her was the beginning of his life falling apart. Such women destroy not only themselves but everyone around them.
I've been rejected by someone whom I really like last week. She told me that she can never reciprocate the feelings that I have for her. And that really sucks. It makes me feel ugly and depressed. But I know most of the time the people that we like don't like us back. I do hope someday she'll be happy with someone whom she admires and loves.
I literally cried for months, for her it's been about 4 months now and I still can't move on, we seperated because of her family problems and all, but now here I am in agony and ruin, I have destroyed my life at such a young age too, I really love her so much❤ I said I will wait too for her but she gave up It's not her fault or not I don't know but I was always there waiting for her I told her not to give up and let's make it through together, we have been together for 4 years surviving but she gave up this year' and I can't move on from her, her memories our memories , it hurts so bad. There are time where I will just get tears falling down my eyes often when I think about her it's just so difficult to forget someone u love so much.... I Hope no one goes through this kind of problems in relationship and guys I will advice you love at early age is hard and it doesn't make it sometime, but Yess doesn't mean u will give up try and try to make it happen ❤
Take care buddy 🌸 There is light at the end of the tunnel and you will get there soon. Trust the process and trust yourself and most importantly forgive yourself and allow yourself to adapt to changes. It's hard but not impossible :)
Cant relate, this video just reminds me of how lonely I am and my lack of meaningful relationships. I sure as hell don't expect anyone to say that to me and its nobody's fault but mine. Makes me fill like a waste of oxygen. But anyways we soldier on and hope for the best
For anyone going through this; realize the best thing you have is you. 8 years for me and it disappeared in a moment. I was away she was living in the city. She had everything and I gave her it but she chose the opposite. I was away where I could either wake up one day alive or the next dead. I left her. I still will always love her. I’m not going to allow her to approach me anymore. Sometimes being alone and being YOU is all YOU need.
What a love we had. I’m just glad you weren’t it because we were so naive. Barely out of high school and the world at our feet. I hope you are well. You’re mother still messages me. Be safe.
It's been 3 years that she left me, I am broken and deeply depressed that I lost the love of my life and at the same time I am happy and blessed because there's something so strong happened that made me feel that bad.
@@vaibhavhadfadkar4065 Step 1: Only thinking about her in the past tense; no closure or no being friend's with her. Step 2 is using that heart break pain in the stew, easy character development right in-front of you man, Heart break pain can fuel a platinum album. Use it to motivate yourself to be better, Go to the Gym or find other things that you love. Step 3: Time is really the only proven solution, for now pretend like you don't care, everything's gonna look a little duller for awhile but don't let it hold you back, talk to other Girls' and try to find someone else!
I had a girl I was with that I opened my heart to her like that. I didn’t regret letting my heart speak openly but realized that I could never let myself be that open to anyone again. I used to be a caring and compassionate person, now that has changed years ago. It takes one person to ruin your look at life. To this day I never let my real emotions shown and hold back on opening up to anyone.
@@Sammy-mm3wp That is stupid, even if the person changed. That person CHEATED on you, why would you cheat with someone you love? Never give a cheater second chances.
Something similar happened to me exactly 7 months before, she left me for no reason and got engaged with someone else. I hurt like hell, it still does in a way. But, it lifted me in ways I never imagined. I think we should not loose faith in love itself, sometimes we are with wrong person at wrong time. Hold on to yourself, you will be all okay. Believe it👊👊
@@babasakib2311 Thank you for the kind words, but it would take time processing before I can move on... It wasn't something as simple as him leaving. It was much more painful than that.
Pain makes us realize their importance for us isn't it... . . . . . . . . . . . But actually Pain makes us realize the worth of feelings we had for them, which then never deserved, still we gave them.
Sometimes you meet people who you think are the best thing that happened to you and they mean the world to you but at the end, things don't work out the way you wanted them to and they leave. They vanish into thin air. That might be the worst phase of your life, you won't be able to control yourself, you'll be in an emotional roller coaster for a long time. Here comes the best thing, after a period of time, you start realising your worth, you slowly realise you can live without them and be happy without them, you realise that you had wrongly attached your happiness with someone else and you won't do that again ever in your life, you will work on yourself and make the best version of yourself. Every rejection is a redirection towards better future. Everything happens for a reason. All the best :)
I wasn't easy to handle as a bf. I never communicate well with my ex, I always blame myself for her leaving me, for everything that has happened. We were both toxic but breaking up with her is not what I planned and wanted. She found someone much better than me, someone who can communicate with her when things are bad. She was the best thing that happened to me. I wanted to change but she ended it. She gave me so many chances to change but I never did. I realized in our last fight that I can now change but it's too late.
you are not going to get anything from self blamming.Its just that you are feeling so lonely right now thats why you are thinking all happened bcz of your fault but in reality it may not be always true. I know its hard even i was having this kind of regret and shits for 2 months after breakup while she get into relationship 2 3 weeks after breakup.
@@anandu6284 I didn't spoke to her well for about a week and didn't actually talk to her for 3-4 days because I'm having problems with her and with myself so I run away... I don't want to do that but I eventually did that's why I don't blame her for leaving me. I was too toxic, but I wish I could go back and fix it. We got the same situation though, technically 4 days after our breakup she told me she love someone...
@JaiHindVandeMatram that makes sense, I didn't see the movie but this is how I'd picture my ex trying to get back with me, she devalued me so much during the relationship even though I loved her with everything I had, I found my way out and left, she's tried contacting me since but I can't answer. I kind of feel like a lot of these movies promote toxic relationships
Love happens multiple times in life but you just love everyone differently. Thinking love only happens once will keep you hung up on that one person for a very long time and you will start to lose your mind because you are not feeling the relief. I hope the best for you and you find someone new that you will love more.
@@samia6888 thanks for your wishes btw it was not said in my perspective, i haven't faced anything like that. i just said what i thought about it. your opinion is also nice. but a man carrying the thought that love will happen multiple time, will probably never love anyone truly. again it's just my thoughts 😃
After 11 years of love life, ups and downs we went through…she left me marooned. I wanted to marry and have kids...she was one of the best thing happened to me but now I'm devastated and with my heart in millions of pieces. I hope best for her (=.. Will edit this comment if I recover from this aching heart and God bless me with someone who can understand me. =\
Take it easy .There will be someone who is truly loving uh wait for them.nd I wish u recieves good one .Good things take tym so be stong n be happy .All is well..
Any... one sided lover ?? It's most painful feeling in the World....But I still love her... God please give me strength to bear this pain....these sleepless nights are driving me crazy....
I wish someday someone tell me that I'm the best thing that happened to them, I think I would cry instantly
You are best thing happened to me juani
@@vineethviny8616 😢❤
😟😢😭
U r best
Yeah..
Got dumped yesterday because she was bored of me. I only wish someday I’ll look back on this comment and edit it too I’m fine now and I’m not broken and the pain is gone. But for now I guess I’ll have to leave it here with all my pain.
More power to you
Same
I feel your pain. I understand how hard a breakup can be
@@haya6047 Where there is love, there is a pain💔. BTW your story could be better than it is right now.You should give one more try ,atleast you are well settled(Doctor).
I wish somebody reminds you✌
This scene is what every one sided lover wants in their life💖
It happens in relations when both sides love each other aswell. Happened to me twice & hopefully a third. You Noob (First was an ex-gf in old MSN) second was a temporary date in my city through Facebook. But now it's the love of my life. After an incredible Godly Miraculous Pray.
agree lol
But not the scene that lead to this 💀
@@Chris23loverso.. You have three hearts?
@@izas5768Don't you know? Hearts grow back after every break up :)
You know its not good when you've ended up watching this type of videos.
@MrGriff305 Fathers and Daughters. It's a movie.
Stop being cringe.
You are f.cked up to be precise😢
It's not good, the tension between me and the floor of the street of my condo is unbearable
@@Stephanthecuteblondie2567 The floor of the street?
I've had genuine feelings for one person that never felt the same way towards me, it was the most devastating thing at the time. But in retrospect, I realised that those feelings were better off being given to someone more deserving, someone who saw me in the same way i saw them. It's not the end of the world, it's just the end of that chapter, and moving on is the bravest thing you can do.
@BrokenPortals thanks for the advice. I'm literally thinking of every moment I spent with her with love but she did not feel the same way towards me. I'm trying to move on. It's been 4 years. Just can't seem to forget her.
I’ve experienced the same and realised it’s for the best.
@@Aliraza-fb5jx Takes a lot of effort and self-love. Best of luck to you.
I thought I loved someone but they said racist stuff after one beer and I stopped
If moving on would have been so easy then the whole world won't be suffering this way. Pain shows us the value of our feelings.😌
For those asking and have not received an answer, the movie is called Fathers and Daughters
Thank you
Thank u
Oh thank you
Your a good one
Thank you so much
Can we just take a moment to appreciate Amanda's acting? Jeez, she's an amazing actress👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
What is the movie name?
@@salimhunter6973 fathers and daughters
Jessi Pinkman is the more amazing 😆😂🤣
What a brilliant actress! This scene is so heartbreaking. Her acting is so incredible and intense! And she looks so beautiful even when she cries.
@Frankenstein Z
I think your comment is bully , actually I pity the guys who bully the others , for me I think she is beautiful
Sometimes you think you are not loved, sometimes you think you will never be loved... I hope we encounter people in our lives who can say such loving words.
And I hope that I’ll have the courage to tell someone how I feel when it matters the most. I completely failed at that in my last relationship and not a day goes by where I don’t regret it
@@hummingbird4934We hate that for you. However. We know you'll get it right next time.
2 years since I have seen him, but I still think about him everyday. This wasn't a breakup. We just fell in love at a time when we couldn't be together for long. I loved being around him. He always felt like home. And no matter what, I believe we will find our way back to each other. I miss him. Not a day goes by when I don't imagine meeting him again. I feel like he does too. I feel bound to him, and all I want is to be with him! He's the only one I can see myself spending my whole life with! I love you smarty.💚
Same here but it just happened recently
You SHOULD try to reach out and say your feelings clearly, so much clear that you can touch his heart, just go, don't think to much, just reach him, Love is the grace of GOD, please go reach out plz
Movie name?
@@saikatahmed3029 Father's and daughters
Imagine that he is reading your comment
""You are the best thing ever happen to me""
The most beautiful words to listen from some one.
But these words become worst, when you got dumped by that person.
I totally agree but I also feel like it’s so beautiful to even be able to feel that way about another person. So even when it does fall apart you know that you’re capable of loving someone so much and so it will happen again:)
Which movie?
@@TheCineCuts
Father's and Daughters
@@sanjanatatikonda9156 why don't you just call yourself sanjana taekwondo
I totally agree with you. Those beautiful words become meaningless when that person ditches you
Was expecting her to say: "JESSE, WE NEED TO COOK"
Dude... xD
lmaoo
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"Yeah Mistah White science"
😂😂😂
to the people who are currently going through heartbreak, i promise it gets better. just allow yourself to move on and heal, self love is the best thing you can do. my first heartbreak got me sick both physically and mentally, id wake up and go to sleep anxious, i didnt want to talk to anyone and i didnt have joy in doing anything. i did the worst thing i could have done in that situation, i isolated myself. please surround yourself with people who make you happy and want the best for you ❤️
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
when does it get better
I don't have any friends. She was all I had. Now I just work and sleep
Terribly sad. My once man has dumped me again. Heart is broken in a million pieces.
Yeah, my appetite's almost gone.
To be desired is the closest thing you can get to being immortal.
That’s deep. I will save this quote and make a poster. 🌄
To be -desired- *loved* is the closest thing you can get to being immortal.
FTFY!
Thats a wonderful line.
It's the most bullshit I have ever heard
@@agamersdiary1622 you need a hug
I feel exactly this for somebody. I'm living in another country now and my god, just thinking I wouldn't be able to see that laugh, that beautiful face again, killing me inside. Love, that's a heavenly and hellish feeling at the same time. A single hi will make you feel fly over the moon and then the reality will torture you if it's impossible or one sided love
Damn this is so on point
Beautifully said
Bro u got contact with her again?
@@freefirehighlights5306 it's complicated. Lol
@@hasanulbanna1198 definitely love is simple but people are complex
To all the people who are feeling broken i want to say….Whatever that you felt and experienced with her/him, that can happen again may be better than this. So think it as a part of your life and move on. Its not the end of your story lot of things are yet to happen
@Hairy Titties & The Moist Clitoria what is cringe in it?
@Hairy Titties & The Moist Clitoria your name shows what are you🤣
@Hairy Titties & The Moist Clitoria darn tootin
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Well it personally hasn't happened for me in the same way or in a better way, and I'm not holding my breath for anyone anymore. I've been with plenty of guys, but I honestly never felt that "thing" again. I don't think that's my fault. Ain't gonna lie to myself. Ain't looking for love anymore. Love has to find me if it wants me. I will not be looking for it.
That vulnerability brings down all clothes of ego and pride and makes one nakedly divine
can't agree more
One day I want to experience the kind of love they write in books, the wonderful good kind is that too much to ask🥺🚶
Yes
Nope, it's not! We all deserve love ... the type of love we read in books, watch in movies... we do deserve that! ❤️
I think it doesn't exist
@@saramelle3001 I have no choice but to make it exist just
@@saramelle3001 it does exist, but is always one sided,
She truly is a one of kind woman. I'll never meet someone like her again. She was the 3rd, the one that came out of nowhere. The one captured me.
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I’m sorry to hear that, what happened? (I want to learn from experienced people’s mistakes/experiences)
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do due to them being the same gender as each other.
I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
@@icysnow57cold64 i don’t think men and women are very different at all. There are so many things that are so raw and human that they can be seen in nearly anyone: the search for meaning, the desire for happiness, and the need for companion. And I think these provide more than enough to bond with
@@filipeoliveira7001 Same-sex couples experience an emotional equality and understanding beyond that attainable between heterosexuals.
Generally speaking, LGBTQ people are honest with who they are. They have less masks to wear and are thus more open to their partner.
I've seen many hetero relationships where they fraught with deception and lots of masks. It was hard for them to be open with each other when they aren't being their true self.
The same-sex relationships I've seen tend to be way better and open. There seems to be a lot more respect and a lot less judgments between same-sex couples than there is between heterosexual couples.
Its sucks but it's also a relief to know a lot of us loved someone to the point of feeling like we were dying when they gave up on us
what's the movie/series name?
@@avneet.7320 the name of the movie is Father's and Daughters
You need to have a better self love and not give up on yourself
Yup....
É dói mesmo parece que tiram pedaço do coração ❤️
It's been a year and half since we stopped talking and everything still reminds me of her. I love her so much still that it still hurts, there's so many strings attached to the feelings of her. We never went on a proper date because of covid but her energy helped me through some tough times. She left me when I felt down. She was everything I ever wanted and still is. I can still hear her laugh and sweet tone of voice. 😢
You will not know this real feeling until you feel it for real. And when it hurts, it hurts a lot that you can't even explain to anyone. Actually, in this pain, no one is worthy of sharing it
😂😂😂😂
God this just hits right in the feels man.
i feel you
She is the one who knocks
Its been 5 year i can't forget her
movie name?
Name of the movie please
Heartbreak is the loneliest most isolating feeling in the world.
As a girl. I did this to someone very special to me. I told him everything, why I can't do anything without him. nothing makes sense without him.. But yet He just gave up on me because I was just caring and loving too much. I gave my all to him. so just a reminder for yall.. there are many Dbags out there just be careful, don't trust too easily. For all the people blaming yourself from people leaving you.. It's not your fault.
You'll find somebody else who appreciates you, somebody who thinks you're very special. Then you won't care anymore what he thinks about you.
The facts that you glorify yourself and shit on him speaks volume about how toxic you are.
You also probably picked the wrong guy, which is painfully frequent with women
How are you doing 9 months later?
Sounds like typical narcissistic and charismatic 'bad boy' the girls fall so much for.
@@jimmyneutron4329Said another way, just plain annoying. But, you believe whatever helps you to rationalize it….
"I was so afraid of you leaving me"
"I don't wanna live without you"
Those really hit🥺😭
She probably is suffering from a borderline personality disorder…
So......she thought doinking someone else would improve her situation. Wow, some logic. In 10 years, she can accuse her "one true love" of sexual assault and win a million.
I may forget her but God knows I will never forget how I went through all the pain and suffering for loving her tooooo much. I thought I was gonna die.
Ohoo morom de💔😭
😭😭😭 feel you bro
After 3 years i saw her pic last week idk why from that day it stuck in my head again 24/7... I don't wanna go through twice...
I feel you!
yes it does feel like that.
I thought real love never leaves no matter what.... Wasn't prepared mentally...and all of a sudden he just left me...left me nowhere....i lost everything with him...one thing i learnt that nothing is permanent in this world 🙂
Sorry,,,that might be real..but not a love of 2 souls ...love of 2 physical bodies for a certain time
That's the fact.
Only death could separate two souls loving each other. Except death ,, anything that separate is totally a drama & excuse...nothing more.
Omg . How beautiful she's??? Her beauty out of this world 😍
I was writing my story and as I went through it one more time I sounded pathetic like the person I was two years ago. Be strong, life is hard but it is so worth the pain that you get through in order to feel those minutes of happiness which I truly believe all of you will have. You deserve someone that cares for you as much as he/she does for her/him self.
So true..
Soul mates exist. Because I’ll never get over her.
@Joe snuffy Or they leave you because you’re an idiot and didn’t realize what you had ‘til it was gone and were weak and they no longer want anything to do with you. Guess which one I am.
Same brother
@@yasminemounaim9047 I wish it was true too. I think there really is a soul that matches someone else’s for most people in life but that our choices in life can either bring us together or cause us to still screw it up.
I thought I got better but the moment i played this video i cried remembering him. He was the best thing that happened to me. My first love or my unrequited love of 5 years , he was my everything. Its been 3 years since i moved away from the country but looks like i still miss him and his presence in my life. Been 3 years , still haven't moved on, my friends say im obsessed but i still can't let go of my feelings or love anyone else.
Looks like i gave my first love all my love that i don't have left anymore love to give to someone else.
Thought it would be better with time but as the 3 years passed i grew to miss him even more....
Hope i get better because im going crazy with this loneliness even if im surrounded by people.
Gotta move on yo
@@jairajsingh1850 wish it was easy
@@kritikapandey4726 it is
Omg is it ?😢 been 5 months after he rejected me
And still can’t get over it!!im scared I’ll never be able to love someone again oh godd don’t let that happen😢
@@sanidhyadixit9323 all better now 💪😉thanks for concern tho
He said "this is enough" ,, he always let my emotions go like flowing water... And never understood them🥺🥀
How can someone love somebody else after giving all the love to there first love
@because all there left to share is love.
Agreed that's why stay away from girls if u get emotionally attached to persons and crave for care/attention. It's like a cancer.
I feel you bro
What's the movie name?
Please can you give me the name of this program ? It seems interesting
This is the only thing I wanted and still kind of want to hear from the person that's left me for reasons unknown. So much time and effort was made to be with the one I considered my true love. I know I'm not the problem, but not having the closure is what's killing me on the inside.
Sometimes silence is the answer
I feel that - you just think to yourself, “Don’t/didn’t you know that no matter what happened i am always there for you? That nothing is a good enough reason to stop talking with each other? To stop being with each other? Why would you give away something like this that is once in a lifetime? Someone you cares for you despite having every reason not to?”
I hope you get it.
I feel this.
It has been about 1 year 1,5 years since she left me, her mother did not approve of me solely because of my skin color, this is going to sound like one of those cliches "Do not be racist and treat everyone fairly" we are all starting to get tired of but this was something I had never experienced before. I am a stand-up lad but getting into that relationship with her was selfish, it did not start off as a relationship where I loved the person I was with but it started off as a way to make myself feel better.
I guess reading everyone down here in the comments talking about how they lost a loved one or got dumped inspired me to finally open up about this, and sometimes it takes a total stranger to open up to.
Even though it was her mother who finally cut us off in the end it was bound to happen along the road, I was not ready for anything serious I just wanted to be loved. When you get into a relationship it is no longer about you, it is about the both of you and I had yet to realize that simple fact. Did I love her? Yes, I did, in the end, it hurt more like anything I could have imagined and more, took a time to get over a relationship that honestly was not even that long (Maybe 3 months) but she was the person my world revolved around for a long time and so it was the other way around, but we were both too young and I was certainly not ready for something serious.
Niss if you are reading this (which I highly doubt) I want you to know that I do not blame you for anything that happened and that I do not blame you for going through with your mothers request to cut me off. I was scared of the attachment and scared of where it might have taken me. As for your mother, I'm sure she was only doing what she thought was right for you. I also would like you to know that I am well and I hope you are too.
I wish you a fulfilling partner and someone better than I was to you. As they (used to?) say in Scotland, Lang mey yer lum reek
Good for you for opening up dude, that’s very mature of you to realise all of this. And I’m sorry about the mother that must have felt awful to not be approved of for the colour of your skin. I wish you the best of luck in future relationships :)
She’s not worried about you blaming her
@@agtv_media Pretty impressive to know for someone who knows nothing about her, or who she is. Matter of fact, you don't know me one bit so how about you keep your condescending "opinions" for yourself and leave me be
@@waffles658 'preciate it, it was hypocritical in a sense too for a reason I won't get in to but yeah it did not feel great. I appreciate your kind words and I wish the same to you!
You'll find a right partner brother.. God will help you for that.. Take care & alwayz be kind as you are now...
I got ghosted in December 2019 then dumped in January 2020 after being 3 years into a relationship. The sudden rush of overwhelming emotions of pain, anger, sadness left deep scar in me. When I try to move forward, I'm scared to get rejected and experience those horrible emotions again so I've confineded myself into a state where I grief in solitude as happiness is a luxury that has a string of sadness attached to it that I cannot afford.
Its crazy how love and romance make us lose our sanity
Because loves takes us to God. Makes us feel beyond what we're normally feeling. So to lose someone who helped bring that out... it's devastating
@@jakerojas4756 Amen
Thats both beautiful part of it
She can never hurt you, when you value yourself. She can have darkness within her even if she’s not a dark person.
U know guys break girls hearts too u know
There are heartbroken souls including me here who never cheated but loved geniunely and authentically then too going through this pain and loneliness.
No matter how much they say they love you, or how happy you make them even if you’re “the best thing that’s ever happened to them” … In the end chances are they’ll still leave. That’s just how things are sadly. Maybe one day they’ll be different.
ya but just cuz they leave or u leave doesnt mean it didnt matter
This pain is so real, Its been over 10 months since i was replaced by another, they gave up on me when i was trying my best to be better. I've questioned everything a thousand times, replayed every scene in my head a thousand times, Wished i could go back and be better, change into what would have suited them better. To me, there has been no worse pain then being given up on while your begging for them to keep fighting. I still feel the pain, not as much, but its still there, I have much more respect for myself now, I try to laugh and smile. We are broken, but please never give up
You don't need to be better -- you need to FIND better.
It was them, not you.
@@arthurchadwell9267 Wow, that's toxic.
Sometimes people do need to be better. Toxicity and dysfunctionalities in relationships aren't good.
Yesterday I asked her
"Don't u ever see us together again?"
She said "Honestly I don't "
One day I may come back and see this comment and wonder about it over again
U got pinned
U will recover and get a person who appreciate ur effort and emotions! 👍
@@alameluvairavan4654 Guess so
I've given everything
Ive got nothing more to give
Thanks for the love ❤️
@@senz7339 it took me 1yr to recover from relationship stuffs... Suddenly my best friend (15fucking years) left me for no reason.. I mean, i was shocked . Events were like one after another. So, I got the double shot . It was extremely painful.. Now, it doesn't matter whether someone leaves me Or not. . 😂. Time heals everything. When Human can deal with parent's death and recover from it then these things are nothing.. God bless you.. Now, I really laugh at people when they cry for their love. .
If someone is will to let you go…. then unfortunately you must let them. It hurts to know that another doesn’t value you the same as you value them. However, all you can do is accept this and wish them well. There isn’t an easy way to let go of feelings but there is a certain level of peace in knowing some decisions aren’t ours to make. While you can’t always control the cause, you can eventually manage the effect. Endings are common, painful, and necessary steps on our path. I’ve been there too and it’s always helped me in knowing many relationships aren’t meant to last forever. Wish her well, my friend. Move forward in knowing it’s the only path offered.
I believe being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship and that relationship could of any kind like family, friends or your partner. For a healthy life you need to be around people who acknowledge you, love you and guide you to the best they can.
Fell in love with a girl when I was in class VI and got badly humiliated and rejected on the last day of class X. I was devastated. After that I shifted to another school for finishing high school and met a girl, who I thought would help me to move on. I used to talk to her everyday and even shared my feelings about her. The next two years were quite good but every night I used to think about the first love of my life. Then comes the last day of my school life. Our school threw a party for us. Later that day I was remembering all the memorable moments of my school life and decided to propose the 2nd love of my life. I did and what she said just broke my heart, again. She said we can't be together cause she loves someone else. Why? Why would she tell me about that on the last day? It has 1 year since that day.
It really hurts when you love someone deeply and the person doesn't care about your feelings. It hurts. Sorry for this long essay,I just wanted to put it all out
Don't worry...you'll get through it soon...just indulge in some activity buddy...
aww thats sad but dont worry bud, you'll find someone better:)
Com certeza dói mesmo mas fica guardado no pedacinho do coração ❤️ ❤️
Nothing could’ve prepared my heart for when she told me that she kissed another man..after all we’d been through. She’s not mine anymore, but I still think about her often. And I still pray for her future regardless the circumstances
If only I had a forgiving heart like you 👏🏻
You have a kind heart and that's your power in this degenerate world. Don't let anyone take that away from you. God bless
Simp
If she confessed she kissed another dude
I can guarantee you that's not the only thing she did
@@By.daniieel - And would readily do.
Yesterday i lost someone and i said the exact same things in this video. She didn't say a word and i ended up leaving. I still love her. I hope in any way i could see her again someday.
If a girl ever said that to you once in your life, God sure must love you
That’s my biggest dream… having a woman saying “I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to her”
I fell in love with him when I met him 3 years ago. Can’t get over it still and being far away from him hurts so much. He’s leaving again soon and this time it might be permanent. I just wish he loved me enough to stay.
If he doesn't love you enough to stay, love yourself enough to let him stay gone, holding on to this guy is preventing you from meeting your most epic love. When they leave, let them leave
@@allisonharranmua8193 what you said touched my broken heart. Thank you.
I'll never put my heart out there again until someone expresses their love for me like that ...and I'll love them in a way my mind isn't capable of imagining ...I swear on it... But for the time being I've learnt that love is not something you find if you want it to last...it's something that finds you
stay safe king
yes. You said it right. I've been to 13 relationships that didn't last. Now tbh I'm waiting for someone like her to love again.
The funny thing about life is that you can never find someone like that who can truly express themselves with you showing them love in return
This resonates with me too✨🧡
Hehehe, haa mdhara chimboitai zvekutsvaga mari first, mabhebhi anozouya ega waane bag. Ita mari uone kuti hauwane mabhebhi anouya ega kuzoita madeclaration of love akadai here or not.
Are we all just crying here man? My whole mousepad is soaked.
Before I met her, I was always described as emotionless. But in reality, I just kept all my feeling in a shell, so when she came along I opened that damn shell, and out came my heart. I gave it to her with such genuine honesty, and loved her with everything I had. Unfortunately, one day I just received an unexplained breakup text, and I never saw her again.
i'm so sorry
what's the current status of your story?
@arjunjs48 Thank you for asking I completely forgot about this comment I made. Basically, I've really improved in all aspects of my life. I've read lots of motivational books, got into the best shape of my life, learned to play guitar, started tutoring math, learned a new language (well am still learning it) got into a second martial art, made some money, and so on. I don't know what pushed me to keep going, maybe it was anger, or some twisted sense of vengefulness, trying to be better for her, but without her...
I dunno man, now 1 year later I rewatched this video and I didn't feel a thing, except pride that I overcame my demons. I see that no matter how hard it may seem in the moment, whovever you are out there, you will get through whatever you're going through.
Sadness is a great fuel, so use it until it is all gone and you are left to bear fruit of the new heights it has propelled you to.
Same here I always thought i couldn't love sb but when i finally did he kinda wants to break up)but reading ur reply gave me closure thank u
I'm a man with a huge heart all I ever wanted was this
This video just popped up , I watched this made me realise I have to tell someone that I have feelings for him ..so I texted all my things to him . Finally there is no regret left in my heart and it feels so free😌
@Anirban Anii if u want to say anything to her just say and finish this chapter because sometimes unsaid words don't let us move on ..
@Anirban Anii more power to you buddy right person will appreciate you for everything ..and never let any chances to hurt you..
How did it go? I'm so curious now
Words and good intention mean nothing when they're not backed by true good actions. And no, we're not special, you might find someone better or who just better suits you provided that you're working on becoming a better and more understanding version of yourself. Good luck to all.
Everyone in the comment section: sharing their breakup story
Me : who just want to know which movie/ series
Fathers and Daughters
☺️
Me too dear 😂😂
Hhhhhh
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Even I can share my break up story , but currently I want series/movie name only 😂😂
10 years later and the pain is still deep it gets better folks ! God I miss her what could’ve been
"I can't live without you"
Walks away instantly 😂
Ikr cringy shit as always...
🌚🌚🌚
This is so me
Lol that was funny.
there was someone at his place in the movie lol
This breaks my heart once again.💔 Not a day passed without that feeling of anxiety and fear of getting unloved since that night.
I know the feeling. Exactly. Sometimes the timing isn't there. When one is ready the other one is a mess and cant commit and viceversa. It sucks cause she is indeed the best thing that ever happened to me.
Broke up without any arguement,issue or hatred towards your ex was more heartbreaking than when you broke up with a heck of problems,because you can't find the reason to move on because you both were fine,when you think about them you just wanna be back with them
And that was what happened to me,because i got no hate to my ex,sometimes i call her asking how is she doing although her reaction is often so cold,but i still love her regardless
I know how feels, it's like people fall in love to get hurt. She left and right now nothing makes sense, and death seems to be taking forever...
I actually miss....the feeling of caring for someone deeply.
Me too bruh but l did all my life noone did for me
I knew this wasn’t hope she seemed too sweet, love that she can play all the parts
We know we truly loved when they're no longer there and a part of us dies inside. Love can be both the deepest pain and the greatest joy.
I fell in love with my best friend and now we are strangers even tho he promised to never leave, he acts like I don't exit ignores my messages I'm just a distant memory to him but for me he is the closest and best memory I have
He doesn't realise what he's missing
I know the Feeling
This moment is not permanent. Believe in your fate. One day one person will come to your life. He will make your life more happy and meaningfull. So just move on....
Girl same!!! you are not alone in that my best friend or so I thought is now my ex and he looks right through me. He is so focused on school and a future that does not involve me I feel like I should have seen the signs sooner that he was not as serious about me as I was about him. I feel your pain chica.
But then I also have to remind myself that yeah, he is missing out cuz Im great, and he does not know what he is walking away from. So Im choosing to be more loyal now to people who are loyal and emotionally available also to me in return.
After 5 years of unconditional love and care and lot of memories together.. She left me for a guy she met for 10 days.. And all those promises,dreams,memories didn't mattered at all
He's gotta be much better looking than you
@@darkman3252 he looks like a Chinese monk
stan blsstan brutal bro
Because you were too beta for her. So obviously it was not unconditional if she dumped you. She cheated during the 5 years, believe it.
@@2ndborn186what a pathetic excuse for a human being
Sometimes we sabotage the best things in our lives only because people in the past made us feel like we were not worthy of it.
So true but for some it becomes an ingrained and destructive life-long curse. I know, I've been there done it and have numerous tee-shirts. Sad.
@@johnboyes3844 Holy crap I thought I was the only who did this. I’ve never been able to properly describe it but I know it’s not healthy and negatively impacted my mental and social being. I don’t know what to do though. I want to find someone but I can’t stand me, so who will you know? Idk I’m probably going to grow out of this.
Fuck what they think
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Person should Understand & Support in such case;
It is rare to find such people!
My ex broke up with me because he was too comfortable. It makes you insecure about new people. But it will be ok. Now I'm with someone who makes me cry tears of joy instead of pain.
How, pls explain to me 🥺🥺
@@VITALPCHISOM Now I really feel like his reasoning may have been that he didn't blamed me for where he was in his life. Because for the majority of it. I was always the breadwinner even after I lost my job. Rather than take accountability for himself not being where he wanted to be he instead said I made him too comfortable.
@@VITALPCHISOM " he blamed me for where he was".
@@VITALPCHISOM Also I'd like to add I NEVER used that against him in arguments. Yet within two weeks of me losing my job he threw that in my face. While being in my car that he never once asked to help me pay gas once for. He knew I'd never been in a relationship and whenever I asked for assurance would say " you've never been in a relationship " or " like you'd even know ".
we all are cursed with love. it's hell, it's painful, but it's life. Don't give up. One day it will stop hurting.
But when, When it will stop hurting, only when you stop scratching your wounds again and again.
The name of the song played at the last part is from Finding hope - "Without you". Thank me later:)
Then movies name???
Thanks you :D Searching that comment for a while ahah
Thank you my friend 🎉
What she says hits different when she says it after she cheated on him
Many people in this world are struggling with themselves and are in some kind of autodestructive self-sabotage adventure. She might really feel that, but cant stop sabotaging herself and hurting others aswell in the process
"I dont wanna live without you " hopefully i will hear this someday
Movie: Fathers and Daughters
Thanks
Thank you
Hey thanks .
Tnq ❤️
And what's the song name playing in the end?
I hope the girl I love will feel same for me as the girl in video and if it happens I never ever leave her until my last breath and I make her smile because I love to see her when she is happy it just makes my day
This is from the movie Father and Daughter. She lost her father when she was very small and it caused her afraid of attachment so she made herself a who're to avoid commitment until she met him. Then slowly she became too scared of really wanting him not to ever be gone like her father (I believe) and she fucked another dude in the bar and let her bf know immediately. He left her of course. The song her dad lived went on display and remind her of her dad and why she's so fucked up and then this scene happened. She confessed why and then they got back together at the end. Her aunt was also the reason why she's fucked up because her aunt tried to steal her from her dad and caused his death then they took her in as their daughter and raised her in such horrible mental health condition (but they're wealthy).
thank you so much ma'am i was really interested to know the story but dont have enough time to watch the movie, thanks a lot ma'am😊😊
If she cheated, than she for the streets. Women like that deserve to stay single and miserable.
I would take her back but she will have to promise to never fck another dude again. Period
So this guy was the loser who settled for used and damaged goods. I bet getting back with her was the beginning of his life falling apart. Such women destroy not only themselves but everyone around them.
@@anandmehta2323 yeah he found the used condom wrapper or she wouldn't have told him
I've been rejected by someone whom I really like last week. She told me that she can never reciprocate the feelings that I have for her. And that really sucks. It makes me feel ugly and depressed. But I know most of the time the people that we like don't like us back. I do hope someday she'll be happy with someone whom she admires and loves.
She took the tears out of me.
I feel blessed that I don’t love or trust anyone in this world except my parents
Dont waste your time looking back. You're not going that way.
-Ragnar Lothbrok (Vikings)
I literally cried for months, for her it's been about 4 months now and I still can't move on, we seperated because of her family problems and all, but now here I am in agony and ruin, I have destroyed my life at such a young age too, I really love her so much❤ I said I will wait too for her but she gave up
It's not her fault or not I don't know but I was always there waiting for her I told her not to give up and let's make it through together, we have been together for 4 years surviving but she gave up this year' and I can't move on from her, her memories our memories , it hurts so bad.
There are time where I will just get tears falling down my eyes often when I think about her it's just so difficult to forget someone u love so much....
I Hope no one goes through this kind of problems in relationship and guys I will advice you love at early age is hard and it doesn't make it sometime, but Yess doesn't mean u will give up try and try to make it happen ❤
Take care buddy 🌸 There is light at the end of the tunnel and you will get there soon. Trust the process and trust yourself and most importantly forgive yourself and allow yourself to adapt to changes. It's hard but not impossible :)
What a great actress. I don’t even know the story and I cried
Amanda is a legendary actress
Movie or series name please 😅
@@Gre3k isn't that Lindsay?
@@alfredjoejoseph5933 Movie: Father's and daughters
@@ashlinjimmi6410 nope, that is Amanda Seyfried
Cant relate, this video just reminds me of how lonely I am and my lack of meaningful relationships. I sure as hell don't expect anyone to say that to me and its nobody's fault but mine.
Makes me fill like a waste of oxygen.
But anyways we soldier on and hope for the best
For anyone going through this; realize the best thing you have is you. 8 years for me and it disappeared in a moment. I was away she was living in the city. She had everything and I gave her it but she chose the opposite. I was away where I could either wake up one day alive or the next dead. I left her. I still will always love her. I’m not going to allow her to approach me anymore. Sometimes being alone and being YOU is all YOU need.
What a love we had.
I’m just glad you weren’t it because we were so naive. Barely out of high school and the world at our feet.
I hope you are well.
You’re mother still messages me.
Be safe.
It's been 3 years that she left me, I am broken and deeply depressed that I lost the love of my life and at the same time I am happy and blessed because there's something so strong happened that made me feel that bad.
I went through a similar experience but not moving on will only lead you to experiencing more pain.
@@once7966 How to move on?
@@vaibhavhadfadkar4065 Step 1: Only thinking about her in the past tense; no closure or no being friend's with her.
Step 2 is using that heart break pain in the stew, easy character development right in-front of you man, Heart break pain can fuel a platinum album.
Use it to motivate yourself to be better, Go to the Gym or find other things that you love.
Step 3: Time is really the only proven solution, for now pretend like you don't care, everything's gonna look a little duller for awhile but don't let it hold you back, talk to other Girls' and try to find someone else!
Got rejected/friendzoned by every girl I cared for. I understand love & pain more than anyone else.💔🥺
@arun mohan 😞
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I had a girl I was with that I opened my heart to her like that. I didn’t regret letting my heart speak openly but realized that I could never let myself be that open to anyone again. I used to be a caring and compassionate person, now that has changed years ago. It takes one person to ruin your look at life. To this day I never let my real emotions shown and hold back on opening up to anyone.
Gentlemen, in the movie he took her back. NEVER, Ever! Take back a cheater
What is the movie called?
@@WeNeedMorePositivityInTheWorld Father's and daughters
@@jonathanwildemann3403 thanks
I don’t believe in that, people can and do change. It’s not always black and white
@@Sammy-mm3wp That is stupid, even if the person changed. That person CHEATED on you, why would you cheat with someone you love? Never give a cheater second chances.
He broke me, and now when something as nice seems like it could be, I start doubting if it's real.
Something similar happened to me exactly 7 months before, she left me for no reason and got engaged with someone else. I hurt like hell, it still does in a way. But, it lifted me in ways I never imagined. I think we should not loose faith in love itself, sometimes we are with wrong person at wrong time. Hold on to yourself, you will be all okay. Believe it👊👊
@@babasakib2311 Thank you for the kind words, but it would take time processing before I can move on... It wasn't something as simple as him leaving. It was much more painful than that.
Pain makes us realize their importance for us isn't it...
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But actually Pain makes us realize the worth of feelings we had for them, which then never deserved, still we gave them.
Sometimes you meet people who you think are the best thing that happened to you and they mean the world to you but at the end, things don't work out the way you wanted them to and they leave. They vanish into thin air. That might be the worst phase of your life, you won't be able to control yourself, you'll be in an emotional roller coaster for a long time.
Here comes the best thing, after a period of time, you start realising your worth, you slowly realise you can live without them and be happy without them, you realise that you had wrongly attached your happiness with someone else and you won't do that again ever in your life, you will work on yourself and make the best version of yourself.
Every rejection is a redirection towards better future.
Everything happens for a reason.
All the best :)
Emotional pain is 100 times more painful than physical pain.
Eats you from the inside out
I probably have to disagree when thinking about what physical pain a person can go through that leaves a person a gibbering mess for life
I truly believe people who died impaled or burned at the stake in the Dark Ages disagree
That can't be said because they're both on separate spectra
Nah
I wasn't easy to handle as a bf. I never communicate well with my ex, I always blame myself for her leaving me, for everything that has happened. We were both toxic but breaking up with her is not what I planned and wanted. She found someone much better than me, someone who can communicate with her when things are bad. She was the best thing that happened to me. I wanted to change but she ended it. She gave me so many chances to change but I never did. I realized in our last fight that I can now change but it's too late.
Deep
I feel it, we're both are quite similar..
you are not going to get anything from self blamming.Its just that you are feeling so lonely right now thats why you are thinking all happened bcz of your fault but in reality it may not be always true. I know its hard even i was having this kind of regret and shits for 2 months after breakup while she get into relationship 2 3 weeks after breakup.
@@anandu6284 I didn't spoke to her well for about a week and didn't actually talk to her for 3-4 days because I'm having problems with her and with myself so I run away... I don't want to do that but I eventually did that's why I don't blame her for leaving me. I was too toxic, but I wish I could go back and fix it. We got the same situation though, technically 4 days after our breakup she told me she love someone...
I'll keep her in my heart forever.
Same. But I know it was toxic
Amen.
Love is too complicated, unexpected, unpredictable, and yet beautiful.
This is where even real men got emotional
and we come to know how single we are and everyone deserves something like her
She cheated on him in the film
@JaiHindVandeMatram that makes sense, I didn't see the movie but this is how I'd picture my ex trying to get back with me, she devalued me so much during the relationship even though I loved her with everything I had, I found my way out and left, she's tried contacting me since but I can't answer. I kind of feel like a lot of these movies promote toxic relationships
love happens only once in whole life. i guess everyone once loved someone limitlessly. everyone had someone who they can die for.
Love happens multiple times in life but you just love everyone differently. Thinking love only happens once will keep you hung up on that one person for a very long time and you will start to lose your mind because you are not feeling the relief. I hope the best for you and you find someone new that you will love more.
@@samia6888 thanks for your wishes btw it was not said in my perspective, i haven't faced anything like that.
i just said what i thought about it.
your opinion is also nice. but a man carrying the thought that love will happen multiple time, will probably never love anyone truly. again it's just my thoughts 😃
After 11 years of love life, ups and downs we went through…she left me marooned. I wanted to marry and have kids...she was one of the best thing happened to me but now I'm devastated and with my heart in millions of pieces. I hope best for her (=.. Will edit this comment if I recover from this aching heart and God bless me with someone who can understand me. =\
Take it easy .There will be someone who is truly loving uh wait for them.nd I wish u recieves good one .Good things take tym so be stong n be happy .All is well..
Any... one sided lover ??
It's most painful feeling in the World....But I still love her...
God please give me strength to bear this pain....these sleepless nights are driving me crazy....
We forget that she is acting & don't actually have those emotions. This is a lesson that girls are very good actors. They can easily fake crying.
Facts