It's so crazy how some of them go nuts over the men they know have more options and will leave but might not treat them well over the guy who treats them well.
They want something to complain about. If the guy is too nice it gets boring. You can't win. But he is right you can't be too precious about any woman. Or they will defo lose respect for you. Take that from a 61 year old man who has seen it ALL.
@@Tom-cp6yj Yes never take it personally its their nature. When I was obese. Not a single woman wanted me. Not even 4s who were obese themselves. Being bald since 29 was already a major strike against me. And that was the mid 90s. But then I got jacked. In top shape. And those same overweight 4s now wanted to know. But now I had better looking women interested too. But I never lose sight of their nature. You've heard the one about them waiting at the finish line to bang what they consider the winners in men. That's who they are. If you are going to have anything to do with them. Always know they can switch on you at anytime. Even if you are a top 10% guy. Nobody is safe.
Wife of 4 years... Threatens to leave almost weekly and then gives me silent treatment until I make first move and try to keep her around. It's miserable...
Facts bro!! A woman’s effort should be equal or greater than yours! Stop reaching out first to all these women fellas and watch how many of them you’ll never hear from again.
Agreed w everything. Also, just remember, she not gonna give a sht anyway ...bc if ur weak, she knows she can get you whenever she wants so walking away should be for the man himself trust they ain't lonely they gettin hella motion on they phone and in real life
I just found your channel last week, i watched half of your videos. Your answers are straightforward and straight to the point. Thanks for the quality content and helping us 👏
A chick I had thing with months ago, gaslighted me over me flirting with other women like we were dating or something… the blasphemy of her is insane. When she was the one who cut things off with me LMAO I told her to never contact me again. Ever since then, my energy has been way more positive. Don’t put up with these gaslighting women. Simply remove yourself with urgency and act accordingly. Women like her usually come back around when their desperate for attention or when they’ve been screwed over by someone else. Don’t fall for it if they try and come back.
Appreciate you bro! I myself am a gym rat and I'll also work 80 hours a week and take care of my kids but I find myself whenever I'm emotionally invested in a woman that s*** slows down in videos like these remind me of who I need to be, way better as a bachelor keep it up
I made a horrendous error this summer after I asked this girl who i was dating/f*cking for two months to be my gf. Her attraction dropped after this and it ended a couple of weeks later. I got way too attached.
Why do we oftentimes as people want the people who are into us, but we tend to not like the people who truly like us? Why do we oftentimes, for lack of a better description, tend to: "Love those who hate us and hate those that love us?" And I think that often happens for both men and women, and I have never understood that type of mindset.
I traveled to Kazakhstan 4 times over the summer. I dated a lot of girls, but one girl actually put a lot of time in with me. Her presence was so calmingm she cried in the cab on the way to the airport me and cried all the next day. I never thought I would end up with a non Black woman...but as you say, we go for the girls who want us.
Hi, Shaun Zachary, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your UA-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend 💯👍💯👍💯!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
@@ShaunZachary hey Shaun I subscribed to your channel couple months ago just want to say it was meant for me to discover your videos because in America it's a big pool of entitled aggressive females who want to dominate men and create controlled environments towards guys but when your woke you easily can identify these situations before being baited 👏
I've realized it's actually way, waaay deeper than just self respect. You can have self-respect and the discipline to exercise it, but if you are brought up in this world to believe what you are always told by both teachers and the women in your life too, that you should always go after what you want without compromise, your faith in chasing what you KNOW you want can lead you to a dark place, if it's PEOPLE you are chasing. Sometimes it's not about a lack of self-respect but more about wanting what you can't take freely, and we are taught by society (and even women) to keep chasing what you want - and apply this to our love lives when we meet somebody that makes that fire burn within us Does this sound familiar: "I like a man who is confodent, and knows what he wants and goes after it." ....That shit is a trap and no one realizes it, LOL What that actually means, is that women want men they find attractive all ready to come after them. If you're a man, who is in his feelings, and you're chasing a woman who is becoming distant or is all ready distant, you may not realize it but what you've been taught to believe is luring you into a mindset of objectivication - and even the women are encouraging you to behave this way. We have to disconnect ourselves from the idea that these two ideas, going after what we want and the women we want, are not compatable with each other - which is difficult to learn, because no one on the internet is pointing out the difference and these dating advice videos are tricking us into thinking that we have to treat dating like we are trying to win some sort of prize for ourselves by using all these strategies. But no one ever points out the real Devil in the details. Turns out, the part of us that is chasing is our shadow that we have not conquered - the selfish part of us that wants to take, not give.
From all my years of dealing with these 🐩’s out here I find that whenever you’re “Chasing” a MF it usually means they’re running away anyway… LET THEM!!! What’s for you will be still to receive & reciprocate!💯🫡
Women appreciate your presence only in your absence.
Choose women who choose you 💯💪🏾
It's so crazy how some of them go nuts over the men they know have more options and will leave but might not treat them well over the guy who treats them well.
They want something to complain about. If the guy is too nice it gets boring. You can't win. But he is right you can't be too precious about any woman. Or they will defo lose respect for you. Take that from a 61 year old man who has seen it ALL.
@@stevemann1299 💯🎯
@stevemann1299 ya, I've been rejected because being with me would've been too easy!
@@Tom-cp6yj
Yes never take it personally its their nature. When I was obese. Not a single woman wanted me. Not even 4s who were obese themselves. Being bald since 29 was already a major strike against me. And that was the mid 90s. But then I got jacked. In top shape. And those same overweight 4s now wanted to know. But now I had better looking women interested too. But I never lose sight of their nature. You've heard the one about them waiting at the finish line to bang what they consider the winners in men. That's who they are. If you are going to have anything to do with them. Always know they can switch on you at anytime. Even if you are a top 10% guy. Nobody is safe.
Wife of 4 years...
Threatens to leave almost weekly and then gives me silent treatment until I make first move and try to keep her around. It's miserable...
Mirror her behaviour. Be calm, stoic. If she keeps disrespecting you, leave. For good.
Respectfully this man is right. 🌸
As a lady, I will say that, the right woman appreciates the guy who respect his self enough that no woman is allowed to reach towards him easily.
Facts bro!! A woman’s effort should be equal or greater than yours! Stop reaching out first to all these women fellas and watch how many of them you’ll never hear from again.
Sometimes a video really comes at the perfect time. This one did for me. Thank you very much, Shaun.
Agreed w everything. Also, just remember, she not gonna give a sht anyway ...bc if ur weak, she knows she can get you whenever she wants so walking away should be for the man himself trust they ain't lonely they gettin hella motion on they phone and in real life
Elevation, self prioritization and self preservation all require separation.
I just found your channel last week, i watched half of your videos. Your answers are straightforward and straight to the point. Thanks for the quality content and helping us 👏
Exactly right in this video. Another 💯 Shaun. I've been thru it, you know it. I had to walk away found one that wanted me couldn't be happier.
A chick I had thing with months ago, gaslighted me over me flirting with other women like we were dating or something… the blasphemy of her is insane. When she was the one who cut things off with me LMAO
I told her to never contact me again. Ever since then, my energy has been way more positive. Don’t put up with these gaslighting women. Simply remove yourself with urgency and act accordingly.
Women like her usually come back around when their desperate for attention or when they’ve been screwed over by someone else. Don’t fall for it if they try and come back.
Lmaooo blasphemy
Fantastic wisdom as always Coach Zachary!
Appreciate it brother!
Appreciate you bro! I myself am a gym rat and I'll also work 80 hours a week and take care of my kids but I find myself whenever I'm emotionally invested in a woman that s*** slows down in videos like these remind me of who I need to be, way better as a bachelor keep it up
Not gonna lie I’m
Glad I find your channel ,I love your perspective bro
I made a horrendous error this summer after I asked this girl who i was dating/f*cking for two months to be my gf. Her attraction dropped after this and it ended a couple of weeks later.
I got way too attached.
You life and you learn brother. Done it many times. The right one will stick around.
Needed this. Same 4aydeez toooo! Thanks, Zach! ❤
Why do we oftentimes as people want the people who are into us, but we tend to not like the people who truly like us?
Why do we oftentimes, for lack of a better description, tend to: "Love those who hate us and hate those that love us?"
And I think that often happens for both men and women, and I have never understood that type of mindset.
I've been watching this for the 10th time thanks shaun
I traveled to Kazakhstan 4 times over the summer. I dated a lot of girls, but one girl actually put a lot of time in with me. Her presence was so calmingm she cried in the cab on the way to the airport me and cried all the next day. I never thought I would end up with a non Black woman...but as you say, we go for the girls who want us.
just wait till you bring her to the States and see how Westernized she becomes lol
Let's gooooooo 🔥 hey preach brother 🙌🏿
Love the Cubs shirt bro! 🙌🏾
Hi, Shaun Zachary, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your UA-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend 💯👍💯👍💯!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
Got you bro thanks for watching 🙏🏼
@@ShaunZachary hey Shaun I subscribed to your channel couple months ago just want to say it was meant for me to discover your videos because in America it's a big pool of entitled aggressive females who want to dominate men and create controlled environments towards guys but when your woke you easily can identify these situations before being baited 👏
Shout out from what Sean to another from the other side of the pond, Shaun! Pure wisdom bro 👊🏽🏴
I've realized it's actually way, waaay deeper than just self respect.
You can have self-respect and the discipline to exercise it, but if you are brought up in this world to believe what you are always told by both teachers and the women in your life too, that you should always go after what you want without compromise, your faith in chasing what you KNOW you want can lead you to a dark place, if it's PEOPLE you are chasing.
Sometimes it's not about a lack of self-respect but more about wanting what you can't take freely, and we are taught by society (and even women) to keep chasing what you want - and apply this to our love lives when we meet somebody that makes that fire burn within us
Does this sound familiar:
"I like a man who is confodent, and knows what he wants and goes after it."
....That shit is a trap and no one realizes it, LOL
What that actually means, is that women want men they find attractive all ready to come after them.
If you're a man, who is in his feelings, and you're chasing a woman who is becoming distant or is all ready distant, you may not realize it but what you've been taught to believe is luring you into a mindset of objectivication - and even the women are encouraging you to behave this way. We have to disconnect ourselves from the idea that these two ideas, going after what we want and the women we want, are not compatable with each other - which is difficult to learn, because no one on the internet is pointing out the difference and these dating advice videos are tricking us into thinking that we have to treat dating like we are trying to win some sort of prize for ourselves by using all these strategies.
But no one ever points out the real Devil in the details. Turns out, the part of us that is chasing is our shadow that we have not conquered - the selfish part of us that wants to take, not give.
If you let yourself in to a heart broken situation, you don’t have a compassion for yourself. TBH
Word 💯
Like just for the beard
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Shaun, if you were the one that broke things off do you keep her on social media or just remove them?
@shaunzachary
Remove her.
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What if we don't want a relationship but I just want to be her sugar daddy
thats called a Simp. Good Luck lol
@shawnkay5462 Let the guy be a sugar daddy in peace as long as he gets some 😺 lol
You are a fool then. Everything is fine until Daddy wants some sugar.
From all my years of dealing with these 🐩’s out here I find that whenever you’re “Chasing” a MF it usually means they’re running away anyway… LET THEM!!! What’s for you will be still to receive & reciprocate!💯🫡