Why Are You Stressing About Her
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- Опубліковано 2 сер 2022
- Why are you stressing about her? Stress kills, fellas. We gotta improve our mindset and mentality.
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About time and all mate!!! I will definitely make use of this service
ANY TIME KING I BEEN THERE BRO MAKE IT SO BAD THIS BITCH WAS MARRIED WITH 5 KIDS LOW PAYING JOB AND FOUND OUT SHE WAS A PILL POPPER MAN DID I WAKE UP AND LEVEL UP
This is the dad talk, we never got.
I recently got out of a relationship, where my ex literally told me how good I was to her and how I made her “feel like a princess everyday” yet she still got up and left. A month later, shes found some dude that all her friends say I’m better than. I was stuck on her for like 2 months. but it would have been longer if it wasn’t for this channel. Appreciate it
We all have had to deal with that female fuckery to some extent. Glad you found my channel bro ✊🏼 keep improving and focus on your goals in life
@@ShaunZachary yeah bro for real. It was a really weird situation where I was the only one that wanted to talk about and fix our problems. It was always “can we talk about it another time” with her. So instead of talking about shit like adults the first time I mentioned it, I was bringing up shit time and time again and it just put stress on the relationship. I see now that if she truly valued what we had. She would of made the effort to talk about and find a solution to our issues. She just a memory now.
It's so sad am watching or reading this when my girlfriend started cheating after 1year of relationship
I got over the withdrawal effects of a 10 year relationship in 30 days. The hangover was awful, but i'm better now. I'm focus on my purpose and goals now. No mo stress
@@dyonbakker4630 GOD praying to GOD asking for forgiveness for allowing satan to drain me of my energy for years sometimes you loose yourself in toxic relationships trying to please a bad spirit and you don't realize that you're under a spell.I know it's hard fam GOD bless you and it's power in prayer. Stay focused on yourself and watch how those people with those bad spirits get irritated cause you are winning. A virtuous woman will notice you and want be in your life. Pray about it 🙏 much LOVE
I dated a girl for 6 months, got Oneitis. She dumped me and I have been thinking about her for 5 months non STOP. I am going nuts and is not even worth it.
Oneitis is a terrible disease for sure. Gotta retrain your mind bro, you can do it. Self care over everything
You gotta get up and stop dwelling on it . Hit the gym do all the things that you love to do in your life.. Surround yourself around good friends and positivity. Don’t sleep with nobody else consecrate yourself by meditating praying to the MOST HIGH. Sounds like you have a soul tie you have this chicks energy and spirit and you’re trying to shake her. Pray and fasting is the only way to get rid of that. This is a spiritual battle bro.
"Stress was a natural part of life, but suffering because of stress, that is a choice" , real talk bro
Stoic Philosophy is the right path in the modern world.
To the person reading this. Even tho I don’t know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer.
Anytime I begin having anxiety about a woman I’m seeing, I come back to this video and it makes me feel strong immediately.
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fr man, I got so worried she would find someone better but it's out of my control, need to focus on me and be the best I can be
Had to learn the hard way… moral of the story just let women have freedom and do what they want and if they want to come through cool and if not that’s cool too… like this man said we got so many other things to establish other than cuffing something that’s for the streets.
Exactly, gotta let them be free. Plus, she’s gonna do what she does regardless. Gotta have enough game to influence her to do what you want, but not be stressing bout it
@@ng9047 Never chase women
I chased my ex gf for 3 weeks and more... I learned now and stopped guess what? once you get up stand tall and focus on you. You will realise she was nothing and she will chase you back even and regret losing you the less you are available the more value you have this is what I am doing
If you're stressing about a woman you need to level up. It's that simple.
“She’s an afterthought.”
I see what you did there.
Real love and confidence of self gives you thick skin as a Rhinosarus . Plus knowing you're valuable where women want you.
Facts
Bro, you don’t understand how important this video was. So much guilt and shame came up knowing my past actions have been of a scarcity and simp mindset! I just seen your service come up, we gotta link up for sure!!! Thanks again for all your hard work my bro, not just a low-key national treasure, but being that I’m from the UK an international treasure bro, for real for real!!! 🇺🇸 🇬🇧✊🏿
No doubt fam- I always appreciate your support and positive mindset ✊🏼✊🏼
My wife recently left me after nearly 10 years together during my last year of residency as a new doctor. I’ve spent too much time stalking her on IG and caring about what she thinks and putting her on that pedestal. Your videos are helping me see that I am the prize and give me motivation to focus on myself. Thank you, Shaun!
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Why doesn't content like this blow up!? This man is helping men out and maintaining not only their livelihood, but also our mental health, which is extremely important.
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Man I wish I had this knowledge 30 years ago. I struggled so bad with the ladies and let them walk all over me. My good friend told me "why you always gotta fall in love". I'm glad you're helping out the youngsters so they dont look back and kick themselves like I do.
This channel be saving lives, man, I can't thank you enough.
Respect ✊🏼 my G
You're doing your fellow man a favor with these videos. I'm sick of society devaluing men, we have to be here for each other as brothers.
Thanks fam 🙏🏻
Daniel Adams totally agree with you brother !! AMEN !!
This conversation was like a big brother coaching his little brother through his first break up…thankful for this content…keep up the good work👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
This dude has the best advice! His words should be a required course in high-school for young men, It could change the world for greatness
6:01 legendary moment🤣
You don’t know how bad I needed this video. Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago and since then I was told she’s been on dating apps almost immediately after we broke up. I went NC and focused on myself and eventually got a pretty nice new car a month in and started at the gym. Low and behold she came back after seeing that and started to be all friendly and gaslight me with wanting to date again.
Ever since then I’ve been losing my composure and putting her and want she’s doing above my purpose and what I need to get done. I’ve confessed my feeling multiple times about wanting her only for her to reject me and basically want to continue “dating” other guys to see what else is out there.
I made a vow to get back on purpose and focus on myself once again yesterday. I am listening to this video after just getting out of the gym with a whole new mindset and focus. This video is the nail in the coffin for me, I know what I must do and how to go about it. I now know what needs to be my new mindset and drive for becoming a better me and not stressing out over her. Thank you Shaun I really needed this brother.
Let’s get it bro ✊🏼✊🏼
Thanks again Shaun, this is just what I needed right now. It’s terrible wasting so many years with a woman that you love so deeply, I’m clinging in to our memories, but I have to move on and stay strong. Thanks for helping me with that strength.
I get it bro- but don’t look at them as “wasted” years. They are your life experience and your journey. It’s a beautiful thing, you’ll recover and be better off if you continue to have the right mindset and put the work in.
Thank you for this video bro,Had a 2years long distance relationship(we did meet in between) that got broken at the moment I suppose to move to her country and fulfill all we have planned,she started ghosting me after a small argue and i got panic, never even got the chance to have a proper "end of relationship" call with her,for a month I was chasing her to give the minimum respect to have a decent conversation to end this like two grown ups,I woke up one morning and recorded to her a voice message that I deserve a woman who will truly love me and respect me,she replied that she is not the woman to give me that,just like this,more then 2 years of preparation and planning and talking on daily basis and sharing all our life together ended with her just dumping it like it was nothing,got my heart broken like never before,now I'm focusing on myself, going to the gym, learning new skills,and preparing to move to that country without her.
Stay strong y'all guys, eventually we will make it.
No doubt bro. Long distance relationships are a waste of time. Can’t take them serious unfortunately
You and Darius M are literally saving men’s lives… Much respect! ✊🏼
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i love marcus aurelius too, you should check out Seneca. he’s my personal favorite philosopher, “letters from a stoic” is some of the most practical and useful philosophy i’ve ever read.
I dated my girl for a full year before going exclusive. Truth be told I could have gone another year. Live and learn
This video really helped me a lot. I've had attachment issues ever since I started dating. It's sad but I can get attached to a girl in a matter of days. It's really hard for me to detach even when things are looking good I'm always wondering what she thinks about me. I strive to improve my mindset.
Same bro
I think what you are experiencing is more common than not. I think most Men just want a steady, loyal, supportive woman to build with, and grow. The problem is these western girls are mostly thots, on dating sites, running around, over- inflated egos, women empowerment brainwashing, etc.. so when things look good in the beginning, we have hope, and want to believe that this broad is wanting a monogamous relationship. It just is not possible for these broads to do that, nor do they want to. Just broke up with my GF of over a year. Always told me she loved me everyday, and I found out she cheated twice. I have given up on getting serious, or caring about these broads. I am going to try my hardest to not love another broad, nor get too attached. It is sad to have to be that way. They have forced it upon us Men. Stay strong, and go easy now.
Yesterday I caught her bruh I’m glad that I found your channel it’s really helpful to remember My priorities and goals it’s hard but I’m a man there is no b*** that will make me weak or quit for focusing on myself, greatly appreciated brother
Crazy how youre answering my problems
Thanks man . You have awaken the sleeping me . I have been a slave to a woman who doesn't give the equal energy to our relationship and from this moment that I have watched this video am going to give all my energy to my purpose in life to make my tomorrow great but not to pasue someone who is not working for our relationship.
Big Facts! Learned awhile back to stop allowing women to stress my black ass out. I got other stuff i rather be doing than entertaining someone trying to suck away my energy. Love your vids bruv
Thx Bro i needed This
Perfect timing again 🤜🏽
Cheers for this right on point
love you bro👍
Great video right here I think we all needed to hear this
Love you! Your videos are really helpful!
Huge value in this video. Thank you!
Facts!
The He'll with these Heffas 💯💥
Thank you soo much man, you just opened my eyes. ♡
Thanks mate. Great video 🙏
Great video.......hit some major points...educated man
I appreciate you dropping gems in this video. Blessings...🙏🏻
Good word
Very well spoken! Thank you
This was much needed...I really needed this
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Thank you boss for making this video 🙏🏻 I needed to hear this right now as I’m going through a break up
Good video.
I Appreciate you. Listening to you is like listening btg Brother. You are simply the best Brother. Thank you so much. I need to hear it like that. I'm going through a divorce. She left me and she's Narcissist.
Stay solid bro
That man spittin them facts 🎉
All facts bro 😎
Taking notes 📝
For Real.... Why shud I
Bigup Shaun
Thank you so much for your videos bro! You’ve woken me up
🙏🏻 no doubt bro
Very encouraging. Thank you sir.
No problem, happy you found value in the video my man ✊🏼
exactly what i needed to hear !! i can't thank you enough for your videos ! keep up the good work !
You’re a gent. Thank you.
Excellent stoic commentary
I'm following you and listening to everything you are saying, I am putting everything into practice and everything seems to be working thank. However it's really interesting to me at this, to elevate and move forward...
Great Knowledge brotha I’m new to the channel and Subscribe I’m listening too you while trucking appreciate you taking time to give us the push to being better
Welcome my guy 🙏🏻
New subscriber my master!✊
Awesome real talk . No point in stressing over something r someone
Hey Shaun, thanks for the content. It's a great daily reminder to keep on my game. I'm dealing with an "elusive" alpha female right now. You have inspired me to become and act like the man that she will pursue, cause I'm her best option. 🙍
Not but Love to you brother you said it right!!!
I love you Shaun. You've helped me get out of that shit hole my brother.
Glad I could help you my brother. Stay up ⬆️
I do this all the time 😢
Your content is bangin🙏🏽💥🙌🏽 Keep producing mind awareness and us men will be successful with the ladies 🚺 worldwide
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Everything that you said I can apply all of this wisdom and all these scenarios to a guy who I got too clingy with this channel is Brilliant advice for men and women
Thank you! I know I got a few good women out there who follow me and use my advice to their advantage (even tho my message is geared towards the fellas, many things can be applied to anyone’s situation)
Amen ♥️
You rock bruv, go on & chock our infantile mindset until we repent.... Peace!
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Awesome
Good video
when I seen this video for one week every day I watched this video since now I remember first day when I watched this video I really excited and my power back please make more video about why we are stress what you saying here everything is true God bless you
love ya man although i listen to your channel from a week ago🙂
CONTROL WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL 💯
I watched your first vid today and guess what... I almost watched all of your vids within 1 day.... this is the greatest channel ever bro
🙏🏻 ✊🏼 appreciate it fam
My gut talk that talk ❤
That’s how I was before. But I’m good now man when i realized not once did I get a birthday gift, any love or any well wishes from her. I had to quickly snap myself out of it. I’m good now just working on moving out of this small town and move on to bigger things
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Damn, you're calling it as it really is, dude. I was "simping" for a chick I knew for many years. She got up and walked out. I wasted time "mourning" the end of that unhealthy relationship. Not anymore. Thank you for this channel and its content. Stay up fellas.
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Very interesting like it
Thanks a lot 😞 she accused me its a hell and detach herself with me
🤣🤣🤣 8.16 that's me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 FFS I can't help myself.....
Shaun telling it like it is, no bullshit deal with what you can control that's it. plenty of fish in the sea so the old saying goes. It doesn't matter what you want all that matters is what is. I always think there's plenty of women I don't want and it would be a waste of their time trying to change my attitude towards them, it goes both ways have some respect for yourself.
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Something I hate is that I'm so obsessed whether or not the girl I'm dating is good looking enough.. I can't seem to stop stressing about whether or not I can get a more attractive girl, even if I love their personality.. What should I do?
You should always be with a woman you are highly attracted to IMO
@@ShaunZachary Thanks for the quick reply, my man!! You're awesome!
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Its nature
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WAKE UP CALL GENTLEMAN
Jea I'm sad over a girl right now tryna get back up
You lose a loved one after 8 years of relationship and you can’t turn off the depression and anxiety by choice. Maybe some girl from the club you can turn away from by choice but not true love. That shit takes time and work.
Can you do a vid on what to do if she did everything right, proved herself over 2+ years, but you took her for granted and never committed so she left? I know it’s over and I won’t try to get her back but I just wanna know if you can relate. It just feels like I let a quality woman go.
Did the same thing sucks to think of good they were. It's alright just focus on you and don't look for looks as much as her character.
Have to be abundant in the mind! My ex can go suck out! Ha ha
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Do u treat it the same if it’s ur wife and u got two kids with her ?
I wouldn’t take any BS from my lady regardless of if we had kids together. I’d rather co-parent from a distance than be with a woman who is not on the same page as me or causing me stress. Life is too short for the BS
@@ShaunZachary respect , I like ur videos bud , straight up truth
@@ShaunZachary Golden words
after first date, are we together?😂
Dude....you are the David Goggings of dating :))))