Old Gays Look Back At Their Past Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • "I loved being in love with being in love."
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 5 тис.

  • @igorpinheiro86
    @igorpinheiro86 5 років тому +8434

    " i rather not talk about it "
    Bill: lots of personal questions
    I just love them

  • @HeartRixu
    @HeartRixu 5 років тому +15763

    My heart breaks at every implication of their partners passing around the 80s-90s...

    • @Koshrocreations
      @Koshrocreations 5 років тому +1205

      AIDS decade before treatment was discovered. Such a pity.

    • @unapologeticallyme19
      @unapologeticallyme19 5 років тому +259

      I know really sad

    • @MegaHotdiggity
      @MegaHotdiggity 5 років тому +107

      Absolutely

    • @goob6934
      @goob6934 5 років тому +641

      The AIDs epidemic might be the reason because of their partners dying since the 80s to the early 90s was the time where AIDs were killing a lot of LGBTQ+ people and people in general. It was a really bad time for the LGBTQ+ community. There was even quilts made to honor the people who died during that time. I think the quilts are in Washington D.C. but I don’t know. It wasn’t a long time ago but it’s not well known.

    • @elissamarcus
      @elissamarcus 5 років тому +21

      I know 😥😥😥

  • @shanoriya
    @shanoriya 4 роки тому +14245

    I love Bill! He seems like THE sweetest sweetheart ever! 22 years alone😭 somebody love this man already

    •  4 роки тому +266

      I lost my last 20 year "husband" in 2012...I'm ready to not be alone. I'd take Billy in a heartbeat, sweet man.

    • @nichotto
      @nichotto 4 роки тому +197

      22 years really isn't that long. I've been alone my whole life, 62 now, apart from a brief 'thing' in my early twenties - so basically 40 years.

    • @stephaniebaker6001
      @stephaniebaker6001 4 роки тому +81

      I know! He's SO sweet and I bet if he got on a social networking site for older gay men, he just might find a special someone! 💜

    • @elkstrooper4651
      @elkstrooper4651 4 роки тому +7

      nichotto hey

    • @peachygirl2374
      @peachygirl2374 4 роки тому +28

      I love him , in a platonic way 😂😂

  • @marckid93
    @marckid93 3 роки тому +8822

    Jessey lived through both racism and homophobia, now that’s a king for real for real 😍✊🏾

    • @oliviahern5775
      @oliviahern5775 3 роки тому +52

      Yessssssss

    • @matthewcase6641
      @matthewcase6641 3 роки тому +281

      Too bad both of those things still exist... but obviously not as bad.

    • @marckid93
      @marckid93 3 роки тому +85

      @@matthewcase6641 I beg to differ.

    • @matthewcase6641
      @matthewcase6641 3 роки тому +87

      @@marckid93 depends where you live 🤷‍♂️

    • @calikilala
      @calikilala 3 роки тому +67

      Matthew Case it's everywhere.

  • @smileyface702
    @smileyface702 5 років тому +24713

    The first guy's relationship ending because of class difference got me - that shit is real

    • @misscanada1066
      @misscanada1066 5 років тому +296

      smileyface702 hell ya it’s real

    • @benababas
      @benababas 5 років тому +220

      totally related to it

    • @gp1567
      @gp1567 5 років тому +850

      Being there a couple of times. Most rich guys want one thing only from you: sex! No matter how well he treats you, it usually doesn't survive the 3rd date when he starts to send you messages about why it's time to stop seeing you. And after a couple of months, you hear he's in a serious relationship with someone of the same social class. At least I had some fun enjoying all the pampering.

    • @chimeradarkoverlordrosanna1846
      @chimeradarkoverlordrosanna1846 5 років тому +82

      WHewww DO I GOT SOME EXPERIENCE IN THAT REALM

    • @benababas
      @benababas 5 років тому +20

      @@chimeradarkoverlordrosanna1846 share your story ;3

  • @KJH17777
    @KJH17777 5 років тому +4566

    “I loved being in love with being in love” BILL’S SO ADORABLE 👑👑👑

    • @thenatureways
      @thenatureways 5 років тому +8

      That's me😍😍

    • @sexobscura
      @sexobscura 5 років тому

      'I love being in love with hate" I AM SO OBNOXIOUS

    • @Vdub481
      @Vdub481 5 років тому

      I wud like that one day but when he stated that I felt that
      😍😔

    • @griffith7267
      @griffith7267 5 років тому

      OMG MICHEAL!!

    • @krsn222
      @krsn222 5 років тому +1

      LIBRA VIBES

  • @courtneymorris3244
    @courtneymorris3244 5 років тому +20583

    “i’ve been all alone in the world now for 22 years”
    yooo old gays where are you at!! why you doing bill dirty?!

    • @mateusz1578
      @mateusz1578 5 років тому +601

      y old tho? there are people in their 20s that would find Bill attractive.

    • @courtneymorris3244
      @courtneymorris3244 5 років тому +369

      Matviey Goldstein maybe i was hasty when considering an age apologies

    • @courtneymorris3244
      @courtneymorris3244 5 років тому +83

      below.average ABSOLUTELY!!

    • @Immerghensi
      @Immerghensi 5 років тому +158

      Bill support squad 🔥🔥🔥

    • @Scarletsongs346
      @Scarletsongs346 5 років тому +152

      True watching these Bill is a wonderful person. He needs love too! Someone get Bill a man!

  • @lillelinne63
    @lillelinne63 4 роки тому +2803

    Jessay hasn't aged a day I swear, he even looks younger now

    •  4 роки тому +34

      Good black don't crack, sista.

    • @jorgeguzmanm99
      @jorgeguzmanm99 3 роки тому +94

      You know what they say, black don't crack

    • @oliviahern5775
      @oliviahern5775 3 роки тому +50

      Black really don’t crack

    • @deliawoo462
      @deliawoo462 3 роки тому +7

      I swearrrrr🗣🗣

    • @blueangeloftheseas
      @blueangeloftheseas 3 роки тому +21

      Especially with the beard, loving it.

  • @kayka26
    @kayka26 5 років тому +4963

    I'm simple. I see old gays in the title and I click.

  • @manuelsaldivar01
    @manuelsaldivar01 4 роки тому +11288

    This guys lived during the 80’s HIV epidemic, I would like to hear them talk about those times. The new generations need to know what the gay community went through back then so they can appreciate what they have now!

    •  4 роки тому +581

      I could talk...diagnoses in 1987, buried my first lover from HIV after 14 years in '93 then buried my second lover after 20 years in 2012. Everything in between was surreal. People shunned us. Tying to get home health care for my first husband was not easy, they went screaming as soon as they knew what he had as though it were leprosy. Then trying to get medical care at that time in NH the doctors would not accept us because they claimed they were "family" practices. All the while dealing with homophobia at work, lost me two jobs at a time when suing someone for that would never have flown. These men have history...and we were the forefront of the Stonewall revolution which is why now gay men and women can now go to a gay bar LEGALLY and not have raided by cops 'cause you were dancing with another man.

    • @taffymackem2596
      @taffymackem2596 4 роки тому +191

      @ wow...sorry to hear you went through all that. Im straight but a brothers a brother.

    • @taffymackem2596
      @taffymackem2596 4 роки тому +114

      @straight jacket did anyone say its gone??

    • @boomer4977
      @boomer4977 4 роки тому +79

      the comment broke my heart. those were harsh times for homosexuality and I hope I can say its changed

    • @logangarcia
      @logangarcia 4 роки тому

      David Harlem 🤎

  • @rosalinafire6889
    @rosalinafire6889 5 років тому +7391

    "couldn't you read?"
    im crying why is that so funny

    • @VWWNN
      @VWWNN 5 років тому +9

      @Dylan You read my mind

    • @zaige11
      @zaige11 5 років тому

      rosalina fire lol

    • @aprilgao
      @aprilgao 5 років тому +8

      I let out such an ugly laugh

    • @froggy5953
      @froggy5953 5 років тому +1

      rosalina fire 😂😂😂

    • @reecepiranha
      @reecepiranha 5 років тому +12

      Right! The first two on the left kept throwing subtle shade. 😂

  • @theoneandonlydrowlf819
    @theoneandonlydrowlf819 3 роки тому +2534

    Bill: Were you with him when he passed?
    Jessay: Yes
    Bill: Did that traumatize you?
    Me: wHaT dO yOu ThInK?!

    • @amtul6926
      @amtul6926 3 роки тому +18

      Haha same

    • @simonespes1434
      @simonespes1434 3 роки тому +7

      Savage

    • @rukhsarshaikh3942
      @rukhsarshaikh3942 3 роки тому +93

      Yeah but idk i think he is just kind and empathetic fellow 😭

    • @OP-1000
      @OP-1000 2 роки тому

      Why would that automatically traumatize you?

    • @hawkblood_art
      @hawkblood_art Рік тому +2

      ​@@OP-1000because watching someone die, even if it's peacefully, causes a heavy stress response to your body

  • @warmfuzzy1
    @warmfuzzy1 5 років тому +21494

    I really wish you'd give the Golden Gays their own channel. They bring such joy to my life.

    • @ellece65
      @ellece65 5 років тому +428

      Golden Gays! Oh how I love this so much more than calling these adorable guys "Old"!

    • @aikanedelahay7143
      @aikanedelahay7143 5 років тому +50

      Would like to ask them questions too.

    • @sstvms2023
      @sstvms2023 5 років тому +17

      Yes!!!!!

    • @sandyg.8318
      @sandyg.8318 5 років тому +129

      And the channel should be named just that “The Golden Gays” ✨

    • @justchillokay7138
      @justchillokay7138 5 років тому +10

      that would be perfect. They make me happy♥♥♥♥

  • @keektang6207
    @keektang6207 5 років тому +4455

    "What are your thoughts on romantic relationships?"
    "Oh I think they're wonderful if you can get one."
    Best way to start off the video

  • @Tuindwergje
    @Tuindwergje 5 років тому +7667

    So sad to hear how many of them died before they could reach an old age. We as a community have lost so many strong men and great stories to AIDS, it's truly a shame what could have been and how many rolemodels we still would have left.

    • @rubencohen2936
      @rubencohen2936 5 років тому +200

      I lived it and I tell the love of my life I love him everyday. Even though he's in heaven now and I can feel the connection and bond. ❤

    • @brentduanefoster
      @brentduanefoster 5 років тому +70

      Stripties You have NEVER lied! I lost my Uncle Steven during the epidemic. I often wonder what he could’ve taught me in my experience.

    • @nope9745
      @nope9745 5 років тому +39

      Brent Foster that’s so crazy, my uncle who was also named Steve lost his life due to AIDs. I didn’t get to know him since he died when I was a toddler but I was always drawn to his stuff. My family kept a lot of his furniture and his chess set! Everything of his I always felt a deep connection to. Now that I’m much older and out of the closet it’s nice knowing how he helped me grow with being comfortable with myself even in death

    • @rubencohen2936
      @rubencohen2936 5 років тому +10

      @@nope9745 Do you ever feel the presence of a helpful spirit that can't be explained ? It may be your uncle Steve on the other side. 🏳️‍🌈

    • @rockeyrocket1224
      @rockeyrocket1224 5 років тому +45

      I was still a kid when my theater director died of what they were calling "gay cancer" at the time. I was so dumb I commented on his new hairdoo when looking back it was obviously a wig because he lost all his hair. He was a sweet man and didn't deserve to die so young.

  • @johnoakes4143
    @johnoakes4143 4 роки тому +1714

    I had three great loves in my life, first one I was 15. I went on to marry the mother of my children divorced 1983.., met Chris we were together till 2001 when he passed. I am now 78 my first love came back into my life, 63yrs since we last met. We had both thought about the other. Result we are now engaged and intend to marry soon.

    • @anopinion1349
      @anopinion1349 3 роки тому +101

      I wish y'all a happy rest of ur life, it's amazing you guys found eachother again 💕

    • @tofer2152
      @tofer2152 3 роки тому +49

      That's so beautiful! Congratulations!

    • @YfJeanne
      @YfJeanne 3 роки тому +32

      That's beautiful 💕 may God keep blessing you all 💕

    • @lauraska95
      @lauraska95 3 роки тому +17

      Love this ❤️❤️ hope you guys are happy ✨✨

    • @chocaren4602
      @chocaren4602 3 роки тому +15

      ❤ congratulations

  • @userbjork9932
    @userbjork9932 5 років тому +4657

    it really breaks my heart to hear that their former partners passed in the 80s-90s.

    • @joeheller7581
      @joeheller7581 5 років тому +6

      Ishmael Moh really??!!?!!

    • @VoyageOne1
      @VoyageOne1 5 років тому +3

      @@ishmaelm1932 Thank you Captain Obvious

    • @cassie7959
      @cassie7959 5 років тому +3

      Ishmael Moh wow great observation 👏🙄

    • @cleogarcia7220
      @cleogarcia7220 5 років тому +1

      @@cassie7959 outstanding observation*

    • @markk8248
      @markk8248 5 років тому +104

      Ishmael Moh
      Any sex can bring aids. Gay, straight, asshole, vagina, blowjobs. Don’t be so fucking dense.

  • @Harleylover14
    @Harleylover14 5 років тому +4869

    "I've been all alone in the world 22 years now." Same, born in '97...

    • @thaaung3849
      @thaaung3849 5 років тому +11

      Harleylover14 hahahahahahaha

    • @aryrios154
      @aryrios154 5 років тому +25

      Lol the future of most of us millennials. Is harder to find a partner today than back then.

    • @shafirudin58
      @shafirudin58 5 років тому +33

      Huhhhh..... Tell me about it 23 years.... lol they keep saying that theres a alot of fish in the sea but damn that's such a lie. Not even one fish bother looking at you 😣

    • @an_ge_lo
      @an_ge_lo 5 років тому +2

      SAME

    • @autobug2
      @autobug2 5 років тому +7

      10 years for me, and I'm done with partners. Had one for 25 years; we parted ways on our 25th anniversary. I never realized how happy I could be, being alone. For once my heart has stopped breaking.

  • @klerb342
    @klerb342 5 років тому +14912

    black really dont crack omg that man hasn't aged in 30 years

  • @liunknownil2072
    @liunknownil2072 3 роки тому +760

    Bill is just so adorable, Jessay is so sassy and funny I love it, Robert is so sweet and soft spoken and Mick is chill and a forever mood. They make the perfect group and I just love them all

    • @amaraland1
      @amaraland1 3 роки тому +5

      I know! And this pandemic has halted their interviews! I want to live with them and their interviews for many years to come. Too many long intervals not good.

    • @janiceharris5475
      @janiceharris5475 3 роки тому +3

      It's like the Golden Gay Guys. They're awesome.

    • @Celaeno725
      @Celaeno725 3 роки тому +1

      Robert is a fReAk

  • @tacobell7679
    @tacobell7679 5 років тому +1840

    When Robert found out that Bill has been alone for 22 years..ugh Robert is so pure and sweet. They all are.

    • @ethanfields3853
      @ethanfields3853 5 років тому +15

      I know he was my favorite....

    • @hereforthe2479
      @hereforthe2479 5 років тому +2

      @@ethanfields3853 wdym by was!!

    • @ethanfields3853
      @ethanfields3853 5 років тому +2

      @@hereforthe2479 is my favorite! I didn't realize these were a series

    • @AD-jq7ow
      @AD-jq7ow 4 роки тому +2

      Hold my beer i've be alone for 30 years...never ever had a relationship

    • @keelansquire
      @keelansquire 4 роки тому +1

      @@AD-jq7ow sounds like you need to go to The Cauldron

  • @cheeseytacotime9380
    @cheeseytacotime9380 5 років тому +4312

    **Mick talking about his past relationship**
    **Bill and Jessay dying of laughter**

    • @user-uo2ho6xp9f
      @user-uo2ho6xp9f 5 років тому +154

      CheeseyTaco Time they’re the two friends who laugh and snicker when you’re telling a story 😅

    • @cheeseytacotime9380
      @cheeseytacotime9380 5 років тому +7

      エイジャ true

    • @larryy3133
      @larryy3133 5 років тому +86

      The way mick was so honest in his delivery and something's weren't said I was laughing too. Not at him.

    • @CorinneOliv
      @CorinneOliv 4 роки тому +2

      CheeseyTaco Time they were dead! 😂😂

    • @omadjourney
      @omadjourney 4 роки тому +18

      He had very interesting tastes in what he liked to do and I let him do it to me 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

  • @Merassh
    @Merassh 5 років тому +3587

    Mick: "So he tied up the entire football team and got suspended"
    Everyone else is literally dying of laughter
    Mick: "Anyway"

    • @byalfoster
      @byalfoster 4 роки тому +28

      What's does "tied up" exactly mean???

    • @hi_flops
      @hi_flops 4 роки тому +102

      @@byalfoster sweet summer child, he literally tied them up. Look up shibari.

    • @-ZiIver-
      @-ZiIver- 4 роки тому +37

      I NEED TO KNOW THE WHOLE STORY!

    • @dalgona4819
      @dalgona4819 4 роки тому +23

      This kind of deserves a written short story or book tbh

    • @jul2447
      @jul2447 4 роки тому +2

      @@hi_flops but....how?!😂

  • @peggydvj_
    @peggydvj_ 3 роки тому +277

    It’s so lovely when Bill looks at and focuses his attention on whoever’s speaking. He’s such a sweetheart. I’m sad that he’s been alone for 22yrs but glad that he has his 3 friends with him.❤️

    • @LuaBarbosa01
      @LuaBarbosa01 3 роки тому

      He doesnt use cellphones :)

    • @illumindonnaughty
      @illumindonnaughty 3 роки тому +1

      @@LuaBarbosa01 That didn't even cross my mind but wow yes your probably right!

  • @ana.medina
    @ana.medina 5 років тому +9181

    “id rather not say”
    “WAS IT ANOTHER *MAN?* “

    • @lhdollbaby
      @lhdollbaby 5 років тому +138

      Or another woman, maybe he liked both

    • @fernydyke
      @fernydyke 5 років тому +870

      Old people don’t give a fuck 💀💀

    • @ParadiseIsStupidAndsoAmI
      @ParadiseIsStupidAndsoAmI 5 років тому +160

      Littraly me when my friends are sad

    • @Jolovideos123
      @Jolovideos123 5 років тому +548

      mAya SquAw lmao girllll you’re embarrassing yourself

    • @feyrol42
      @feyrol42 5 років тому +283

      mAya SquAw actually there are women who don’t mind getting with bi men

  • @shaebranch
    @shaebranch 4 роки тому +7572

    Title: “Old Gays”
    Jessay: Looks like he’s in his early 40’s

    • @cynthiaisako
      @cynthiaisako 4 роки тому +47

      Right !!!

    • @shaterriasimpson7451
      @shaterriasimpson7451 4 роки тому +194

      Draculaaa he’s 65 girl. Can’t even tell

    • @carolinacadiz6027
      @carolinacadiz6027 4 роки тому +60

      He looks younger than my parents, they're 48..

    • @jockjupiter8326
      @jockjupiter8326 4 роки тому +77

      40~50 years old in gay years is pretty old considering the 80s nearly wiped away a whole generation of gays

    • @ponyoponyo576
      @ponyoponyo576 4 роки тому +12

      HeY JESSAAAAAYYYY

  • @fever_spike
    @fever_spike 5 років тому +1001

    My sincerest condolences to all the former partners mentioned/shown who have sadly passed on...rest easy, sweet angels.

    • @goldcd
      @goldcd 5 років тому +1

      Indeed.
      Bittersweet that was the end of most of the stories - but I'd hope they'd appreciate the "in memoriam shout-out" they just got.

  • @MichaelBCharlotte
    @MichaelBCharlotte 3 роки тому +373

    Love seeing gay men being positive/polite/friendly/complimentary with each other. Not being bitchy, throwing shade, pettiness, and all the other toxic behavior. Thanks for showcasing this.

    • @garywilliamchristopherhugo5208
      @garywilliamchristopherhugo5208 2 роки тому

      Michael B, AND, we are the majority! whattaya know! It's the Me/My/Mine Generation and their "the Past Is The Past" bullsh*t who are forever lost in FOMO, where everything is temporary and disposable. I'm 59 years old, and I've had two great "Loves Of My Life." I believe we all get three cards to play, but that is just my belief. I have no intention of turning 81 after decades alone, but if you want to make the gods laugh, tell them your big plans.

    • @shakypam
      @shakypam 2 роки тому +13

      ah there's plenty of bitchiness there, but all deserved, but delivered lightly and all rightly not taken to heart

    • @touwaxsdr8998
      @touwaxsdr8998 2 роки тому

      are you from Brazil?

  • @lilpineapple3489
    @lilpineapple3489 5 років тому +6025

    Shows presumably old black and white pic*
    Interviewer: how did you guys meet?
    Jessay: online.
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @aderiusscott2220
      @aderiusscott2220 5 років тому +37

      💀

    • @giboi03
      @giboi03 5 років тому +48

      @Goose Bumps Maybe it was the camera they used. You could still be using inconvenient but functional old cameras that have monochrome colors, like playing an og Gameboy in this day and age.

    • @giboi03
      @giboi03 5 років тому

      @Goose Bumps Oh, I think I didn't catch that on my first read, sorry

    • @SiSi-xg1hk
      @SiSi-xg1hk 5 років тому +3

      Jessay, "you know, the internet's been around for a while" 😂

    • @kain5689
      @kain5689 4 роки тому

      Even if it's a black and white picture we can see it's not so old, probably around late 90's-early 2000's.

  • @ifuckedyourmomshesalesbian4849
    @ifuckedyourmomshesalesbian4849 4 роки тому +6845

    No I’m sorry this is so sad that their lovers died

    • @jenniferhergert4447
      @jenniferhergert4447 4 роки тому +441

      Working with the elderly, I come in contact with these types of stories often. I find it beautiful, because the alternative is to separate or die alone. this will be a part of many people's love life's. It's sad, but we should embrace it. We do not live forever, neither will our partner

    • @haveanicedaythanks1570
      @haveanicedaythanks1570 4 роки тому +48

      @@jenniferhergert4447 omg 😭

    • @heyyy7290
      @heyyy7290 3 роки тому +117

      IM SORRY BUT UR USERNAME

    • @Indkids2024
      @Indkids2024 3 роки тому +12

      @@heyyy7290 lmao 😂

    • @chloebrown9106
      @chloebrown9106 3 роки тому +15

      @@jenniferhergert4447 damn i'd cry all the time hearing those stories

  • @ASKSer79
    @ASKSer79 5 років тому +1903

    “He taught me I was a good person”, oh Jessay that one of the most powerful and precious things! ❤️

  • @terzelrasmus-williams2530
    @terzelrasmus-williams2530 3 роки тому +227

    Bill: "He looks very uninhibited"
    Jessay: "He looks drunk."
    Jessay hitting the nail on the head.

  • @oddly5197
    @oddly5197 5 років тому +1836

    Seeing all these old gays videos makes me feel like I have a future. Some times I think media focuses on the coming out story, not the aging stories. I really feel inspired by them all

    • @findon2467
      @findon2467 5 років тому +16

      Yeah I love these stories following their love lives and not focusing on the coming out 💖

    • @NotAnotherKuromi
      @NotAnotherKuromi 5 років тому +31

      I wish more films & TV series had gay people who are already out & even better in an established relationship that people accept.

    • @sexobscura
      @sexobscura 5 років тому +4

      everyone NOT dead has a future

    • @CBForsen
      @CBForsen 5 років тому +2

      David Sedaris is my favourite old gay. You should check him out. He's hilarious and he's in a long term, loving relationship

    • @oddly5197
      @oddly5197 5 років тому

      @@CBForsen thanks!

  • @The_torero
    @The_torero 5 років тому +4621

    I suspect several of them lost their former partners to AIDS judging by the time frame of when they died. It must have been so scary at that time.

    • @Mike-df1ye
      @Mike-df1ye 5 років тому +203

      More than anyone who wasn't there will ever know.

    • @sirandrelefaedelinoge
      @sirandrelefaedelinoge 5 років тому +190

      It was a dreadful time for all involved... terrible... terrible... terrible...

    • @catsuperior
      @catsuperior 5 років тому +490

      @@yakigesher-zion7289 I think it shows more about the unwillingness of society at large to be compassionate towards a group of "different" individuals who, though they were of course different, were also human--and dying. One of humanity's greatest crimes is how the American government and health system reacted towards the AIDs crisis. Restricting sex had nothing to do with it; homophobia had everything to do with it.

    • @yakigesher-zion7289
      @yakigesher-zion7289 5 років тому +70

      A Superior Cat the AIDS crisis was handled very poorly, no doubt about that, but my point is that it serves as a reminder that unrestricted hedonism, gay or straight (many straight people were affected too) has severe consequences.
      We can’t just get away with doing whatever we want whenever we want, there will be consequences. If we put our hands on a burning stove, we will burn our hand.

    • @catsuperior
      @catsuperior 5 років тому +172

      @@yakigesher-zion7289 Hedonism? Lol who the fuck cares how much sex others are having? What a silly thing to say; sounds kinda fundamentalist. The AIDs crisis didn't happen due to too much sex. It happened because a) AIDs is transmitted more easily via anal sex (and the versatile nature of roles in gay sex) and b) the administration was homophobic. That's it.

  • @SirRizzalot
    @SirRizzalot 4 роки тому +7508

    As a straight guy i don’t know why im watching this but im glad i did.

    • @catherinepadilla2079
      @catherinepadilla2079 4 роки тому +640

      Gerbo Smizzy you don’t need a certain sexuality to enjoy human stories!

    • @SirRizzalot
      @SirRizzalot 4 роки тому +58

      Catherine Padilla i mean who said it doesn’t make straight guys uncomfortable? You do need a sexuality to enjoy certain stories.

    • @36epc
      @36epc 4 роки тому +95

      When you coming out

    • @SirRizzalot
      @SirRizzalot 4 роки тому +87

      36epc idk lets ask your mom

    • @okeAnous
      @okeAnous 4 роки тому +239

      The same reason why we've been watching heteros talking about their lives, loves, hates, divorces, problems, so on..

  • @MsLatorieaQ
    @MsLatorieaQ 4 роки тому +577

    "He tied them up and didn't do anything with them?"
    😂😂😂 Get the rope!

  • @ifuckedyourmomshesalesbian4849
    @ifuckedyourmomshesalesbian4849 4 роки тому +3812

    Bill makes me want to cry because he’s just such an adorable sweetheart omg

  • @sidlynn95
    @sidlynn95 5 років тому +2701

    Pops on the far left was WILD “was your partners death traumatic for you?” -DUDE lmao

    • @adrien8516
      @adrien8516 5 років тому +6

      Sid 😭😭😭

    • @alexdm4868
      @alexdm4868 5 років тому +97

      "no, it was fine..."

    • @jauxro
      @jauxro 5 років тому +33

      "Yes :')"

    • @tiredandhungry4797
      @tiredandhungry4797 5 років тому +225

      "I would rather not talk about it..."
      "Was it another MAYN?"

    • @lis1519
      @lis1519 5 років тому +1

      Savage

  • @amandapowell3331
    @amandapowell3331 5 років тому +5514

    "We went to a place called " The Cauldron"
    Everyone else: "ohhhhhhhhhhh"
    Me: wtf the cauldron was probably lit

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 5 років тому +197

      ....yeeeessss, it was.....; )

    • @collagecult
      @collagecult 5 років тому +244

      Sounds like a lot of urine, so i don’t know about that

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 5 років тому +27

      @@collagecult ...ummmm, more like....Crisco....tee hee.... ; )

    • @Ryoko48
      @Ryoko48 5 років тому +140

      Guess what I did first thing after this video? Googled that shit. Wiki can confirm the bathtub urination.

    • @magnuskuhlmann8024
      @magnuskuhlmann8024 5 років тому +27

      Urin and drugs

  • @kcielynkcielyn8993
    @kcielynkcielyn8993 4 роки тому +519

    "You couldn't read?"
    I cackled so hard I woke my cat

  • @thesmileshow9651
    @thesmileshow9651 5 років тому +1353

    "No unfortunately he died."
    well that escalated quickly.

    • @aimeeahearne6898
      @aimeeahearne6898 5 років тому +29

      LifeonCrack the way you framed that sounds a bit insensitive

  • @rosca_21
    @rosca_21 4 роки тому +3753

    Robert: we went to a placed called The Cauldron
    Bill and Mick: OOOOOH

  • @ForTheLoveOfNuggs
    @ForTheLoveOfNuggs 4 роки тому +8660

    Bill: "I loved being in love with being in love"
    Me: *In fetal position, tears streaming down my cheeks* "Mmmmhmm..."
    In conclusion: Bill can be my grandad because I have none..

    • @smurfeverything308
      @smurfeverything308 4 роки тому +37

      T-thats........thats deep bro.....

    • @murodoom4632
      @murodoom4632 4 роки тому +19

      Sorry to hear about your grandad

    • @ForTheLoveOfNuggs
      @ForTheLoveOfNuggs 4 роки тому +14

      @@murodoom4632 Thanks, it's been 2 years but it feels like yesterday 😟

    • @fulsman230
      @fulsman230 4 роки тому +3

      Bill's story made me cry :(

    • @tessiesmith3926
      @tessiesmith3926 3 роки тому +2

      Me too *hands tissue to both of us*

  • @bitchesaqueen971
    @bitchesaqueen971 4 роки тому +301

    BILL and JESSAY reaction to the whole rope story and relating it to other events and details makes me laugh my ass out.

  • @musa-kyan5368
    @musa-kyan5368 5 років тому +2835

    He wasn’t even gonna pay for the dinner he was just gonna say “I’ll loan you the money”

    • @SuperDannyrulez
      @SuperDannyrulez 5 років тому +188

      penguino that’s probably why he was wealthy. Didn’t do anything for anybody.

    • @musa-kyan5368
      @musa-kyan5368 5 років тому +4

      lolol true

    • @misslady5645
      @misslady5645 5 років тому +63

      Probably tired of always being the one paying for things. I been their and it’s not fun

    • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
      @AFFTFOMSICHTS 5 років тому +67

      Miss Lady for real. It gets old fast. Ppl get used to it and become entitled. You indirectly and unintentionally create monsters, I used to pay for friends & exes often, not anymore.

    • @misslady5645
      @misslady5645 5 років тому +12

      Amber FFTFOMSICHTS Forreal and they get mad at you for not wanting to do it anymore they call you “funny acting” I’ll be funny acting then

  • @ruffey1748
    @ruffey1748 5 років тому +2376

    "Do you ever look back at your past relationships?"
    Everyone: "Oh yeah, sure"
    Robert: *shakes head* "Not really."
    He's over it before the video has even started.

  • @thesheerwoodcrow5465
    @thesheerwoodcrow5465 5 років тому +2043

    “It was not uncommon to find someone at the bar completely naked.” Okay wasn’t expecting that.

    • @papitoquerido7827
      @papitoquerido7827 5 років тому +55

      Katie Fluke it was the 70’s in gay discos 😂😂😂

    • @davidb5205
      @davidb5205 5 років тому +26

      In the 70's everyone was doing cocaine and Quaaludes. Uppers, downers and everything in between!

    • @juddpalmer5445
      @juddpalmer5445 5 років тому +5

      David Bouchard that sounds like my bachelor party.

    • @ThewOrldIssqUare
      @ThewOrldIssqUare 5 років тому +3

      San Francisco, baby. Check it out someday.

    • @readstoomuch2070
      @readstoomuch2070 5 років тому +1

      @@juddpalmer5445 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @terzelrasmus-williams2530
    @terzelrasmus-williams2530 3 роки тому +138

    Mick and his partner were the OG of Fifty shades.

    • @themaggattack
      @themaggattack 3 роки тому +17

      Mick and his partner were the REAL BDSMers. 50 shades ain't it.

    • @MissBoxxx
      @MissBoxxx 3 роки тому +10

      No, because the relationship between Mick and his partner wasn't abusive.

    • @JimmyBoy9878
      @JimmyBoy9878 3 роки тому +6

      @@MissBoxxx And they're way cooler.

    • @MissBoxxx
      @MissBoxxx 3 роки тому +1

      @@JimmyBoy9878 you can say that again

    • @ray25lee
      @ray25lee 2 роки тому

      @@themaggattack Preach

  • @mikes8014
    @mikes8014 5 років тому +2736

    "I really liked his rope series"
    "Apparently so did the football team"
    LMFAOOO

  • @mthsarchives507
    @mthsarchives507 5 років тому +1792

    "you look different from today."
    "yeah, it's called love.”
    AHHHHHH

  • @aaqukdhejhejibd
    @aaqukdhejhejibd 4 роки тому +3423

    "Daddy Zeus is against cruelty to animals." I'm laughing so hard. However, he is correct. BDSM should be safe, sane and consensual while animal testing is not.

    • @crystalcarpenter4983
      @crystalcarpenter4983 3 роки тому +70

      I also just have to laugh about the (assumedly unintended) pun of him being suspended for rope mischief. xD Bahahahahahaha

    • @Itsunclegabby
      @Itsunclegabby 3 роки тому +18

      Thank you. I never came across a cow asking to be turned into a burger.

  • @Marbel247
    @Marbel247 4 роки тому +377

    imaging asking to go out on a date those days, that's courage.

    • @nagibkanaan2464
      @nagibkanaan2464 3 роки тому +5

      That's not courage it's pure live

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 2 роки тому +2

      I assume the average person would see them as just friends hanging out

  • @someoneidk5673
    @someoneidk5673 5 років тому +2034

    Mick: He had really interesting tastes and so I let him do IT to me.
    Bill: *snicker*

    • @moniqueb8545
      @moniqueb8545 5 років тому +48

      That was my favourite part. Bill is hilarious.

    • @hattiesmith5782
      @hattiesmith5782 4 роки тому +7

      I read this comment as it happened in the video😱😂

    • @angelarballo4478
      @angelarballo4478 4 роки тому +2

      I wish I could double like this.

  • @davidb5205
    @davidb5205 5 років тому +2367

    BLACK TRULY DOES NOT CRACK!!
    I'm just in complete disbelief at how little Jessay aged. 😮

    • @carloscastellani4253
      @carloscastellani4253 5 років тому +17

      I was thinking the same thing!!!!

    • @marinabolla6266
      @marinabolla6266 5 років тому +52

      Same look, different facial hair. The power of moisturizer.

    • @OfficialMickeyJSabb
      @OfficialMickeyJSabb 5 років тому +17

      Yeeesss and he’s so damn handsome

    • @marinabolla6266
      @marinabolla6266 5 років тому +10

      @@OfficialMickeyJSabb Finer than a barrel of old wine.

    • @davidb5205
      @davidb5205 5 років тому +35

      @@marksuckinbgber It's not that deep, Mimi.

  • @likedmyowncomment3547
    @likedmyowncomment3547 5 років тому +1772

    "why he tied them up and not do anything with them?" This man 😂😂

  • @francescamartucci2718
    @francescamartucci2718 4 роки тому +58

    They're cute, sensitive and genuine people with no fear of talking about their true feelings or emotions, a beautiful example of non-toxic masculinity, the world needs more people like you guys ❤

  • @kaycancelled1475
    @kaycancelled1475 5 років тому +995

    "He had very interesting taste in what he liked to do , so i let him do it to me " 😁😂 iconic

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 5 років тому +19

      Not to mention he NEVER said no! Not even once! That's crazy! Mick is a super freak and we didn't even know it.

    • @blythe9631
      @blythe9631 5 років тому +9

      Cancelledkay
      I had the strangest internal experience as I realized Mick essentially had a Daddy Dom

    • @mejackson9740
      @mejackson9740 5 років тому +1

      😧 I just got the joke 😭😂😂

  • @carmelguinev
    @carmelguinev 4 роки тому +4239

    "COULDNT U READ?" ABAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BILL OMG

  • @casey2979
    @casey2979 5 років тому +1435

    omg Jessay hasn't aged a day in his life

    • @christianfowler2639
      @christianfowler2639 5 років тому +152

      Black don’t crack

    • @kalopsias
      @kalopsias 5 років тому +3

      @momo bb dd true

    • @kyla2476
      @kyla2476 5 років тому +9

      Casey yes he’s very handsome ❤️

    • @emiliawilson4378
      @emiliawilson4378 5 років тому +6

      True, he's beautiful 😍 and such a lovely heart too 💕❤

    • @lhdollbaby
      @lhdollbaby 5 років тому +4

      Yeah jessie looks great with no hair

  • @vayermenoviko0linixD
    @vayermenoviko0linixD 3 роки тому +189

    Damn Robert and Mick look nice and quiet but every time they open their mouths to talk about their past and their experiences I die. These guys were WILD for sure, they only give us the tiniest bits of their stories. I'm sure they've seen and done all sorts of stuff. Ah wish I were as lucky...

  • @crispybaconbits8663
    @crispybaconbits8663 5 років тому +984

    It's so sad hearing that most of their past relationships have died
    :( that hit me right in the feels

    • @ocieltorres4148
      @ocieltorres4148 5 років тому +52

      CrispyBaconBits AIDS was a dark part of the lgbt community

    • @gabb5
      @gabb5 5 років тому +2

      @@ocieltorres4148 yup..

  • @Eltoca21
    @Eltoca21 5 років тому +406

    "Someone who believes in you even when you don't believe in yourself. He was the type of person who could turn you around and give you confidence". That right there is what it is all about folks.

    • @rubencohen2936
      @rubencohen2936 5 років тому +10

      In those days hardly anybody would give us self confidence for being gay. Parents, family, friends, & coworkers would condemn us for our sexuality, they thought it was a choice. Our community had low self-esteem and all kinds of challenges. Young gay men today have it a lot easier.

    • @songsforsale427
      @songsforsale427 5 років тому

      Nobody does that now. Rudest most unsupportive people ever

    • @shysensei2348
      @shysensei2348 5 років тому +1

      It's hard to find such a partner even now.. I believe people have become more insensitive these days.

  • @kalebh3419
    @kalebh3419 5 років тому +507

    It actually makes me tear up when they mention partners dying between 1989-1999

    • @SaintElmo8
      @SaintElmo8 5 років тому +12

      Yeah that was my thoughts too, the era was a scary time. Sad

    • @richardarsenault1471
      @richardarsenault1471 5 років тому

      Im guessing AIDS

    • @rubencohen2936
      @rubencohen2936 5 років тому

      @@richardarsenault1471 Yes we were there to see it from a small virus called AIDS. 🏳️‍🌈

    • @arianacabrera9443
      @arianacabrera9443 5 років тому +1

      Kaleb H frr do you know how long i will be crying when they announce their death one day??!

    • @deadinsidebutstillhorny1340
      @deadinsidebutstillhorny1340 5 років тому

      Ohh AIDS right? I hadn’t realised that, how sad

  • @dominiquejenkins5495
    @dominiquejenkins5495 3 роки тому +197

    They are the worst just laughing at each other like teens.. lol 😆

  • @JacobSnell1998
    @JacobSnell1998 5 років тому +1718

    They all lost relationships. It hit me like a train on the tracks to really stop and think about how many gay men perished in the 1980s and 90s. As someone who has only been diagnosed relatively recently with HIV, it makes me both bitterly sad for those who lost lived ones during this time, but also immensely grateful that I live in a day where because of incredibly effective Antiretroviral therapy, I will live a normal and full life.

    • @ClaireDeLuna09
      @ClaireDeLuna09 5 років тому +38

      Bless you. 💖

    • @jovan628
      @jovan628 5 років тому +33

      Yes you will Jacob! 👏🏾🙏🏾 ❤

    • @JacobSnell1998
      @JacobSnell1998 5 років тому +5

      @@ClaireDeLuna09 thank you

    • @JacobSnell1998
      @JacobSnell1998 5 років тому +5

      @@jovan628 ❤❤

    • @karakul4806
      @karakul4806 5 років тому +2

      Excuse my question but how did you catched it? And how are you after hearing this, that surely must have been a shock!

  • @GrimesTheOG
    @GrimesTheOG 5 років тому +543

    3:05 Bill was doing the absolute most to make him cry lol

    • @MOLLYDOLLIGHT
      @MOLLYDOLLIGHT 5 років тому +54

      Grimes right?! “Was that traumatic for you?” “Yes. Very.”

    • @ClayMastah344
      @ClayMastah344 5 років тому +41

      Grimes bill wanna know them deep fckn answers lol

  • @uriPirateKing
    @uriPirateKing 5 років тому +821

    "Why did he tie'em up with he didnt do anything with'em" has me dead

    • @sexobscura
      @sexobscura 5 років тому +6

      He saw the film 'Rope'

    • @jasmines72
      @jasmines72 5 років тому

      🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sofiabelieberkas
    @sofiabelieberkas 3 роки тому +49

    How freaking sweet are they. Literally all 4 of them. People with no taboos, open minded with great opinions about relationships and love. I’m 25 but I would love to hang out with them than anyone else in my age. These people aren’t old the tile is wrong their spirit is 20 years old.

  • @ArgieGrit
    @ArgieGrit 4 роки тому +1132

    "We went to a place called The Cauldron"
    Everyone else: OOOOHHHHHHHHHH

    • @cynicismpiee
      @cynicismpiee 4 роки тому +3

      69th like ;)

    • @cemreozcan8343
      @cemreozcan8343 4 роки тому +3

      4:03

    • @newwavepop
      @newwavepop 4 роки тому +19

      i dont know what the cauldron is, but i want to see a doc about it now LOL

  • @lovelyMissInna
    @lovelyMissInna 5 років тому +934

    This made me cry SO ugly. I love listening to their stories. Every single one of them is just teeming with love & light.

  • @lounielouna7556
    @lounielouna7556 5 років тому +626

    The others laughing while Mick was explaining his story is the kind of friendship I aspire to have

  • @Futurebeefcake
    @Futurebeefcake 3 роки тому +41

    It’s sad hearing how most of these guys relationships aren’t currently together due to their partner dying. Makes me realize they have seen it all and been through a lot. Makes me feel young.

  • @soucriant3035
    @soucriant3035 5 років тому +628

    Bill´s story was pretty tragic, I want to hug him and let him know he's loved by a lot of people. ❤️

  • @angie-xv4fx
    @angie-xv4fx 4 роки тому +515

    My heart litearlly broke when they spoke about their partners passing. Ive fallen in love with them all and ive only watched two videos :( these men need to be protected at all costs.

  • @remmyx4012
    @remmyx4012 5 років тому +861

    - what are your thoughts on romantic relationships?
    + I think they are wonderful if you can get one
    Jessay is such a mood.

    • @blackempress7302
      @blackempress7302 5 років тому

      Hard work very hard but at first there's nothing like it especially in the beginning it's like being on top of the world and being able to do anything. That's my favourite part.

  • @MeganAlbright
    @MeganAlbright 3 роки тому +146

    Producer: what are your thoughts on a romantic relationship
    My guy: “I think they’re wonderful if you can get one”
    😂😂I’m dead

    • @themaggattack
      @themaggattack 3 роки тому +1

      Same!

    • @aaronying4989
      @aaronying4989 3 роки тому +3

      Well that’s true, better to not be in one then be in a toxic or difficult relationship.

    • @rellman85
      @rellman85 3 роки тому +2

      The great thing about the truth is that it’s simple 😅

  • @Niki-the-Diary
    @Niki-the-Diary 4 роки тому +642

    l love how the first guy is asking questions and really listens. he cares😍

  • @jessicawalker4233
    @jessicawalker4233 5 років тому +494

    now y'all need to do old lesbians look back at their past relationships

    • @darthsinniious1989
      @darthsinniious1989 4 роки тому +9

      Sure they do, it would be nice to see old lesbians talking about their past relationships. #LGBTQ+ 🏳️‍🌈

    • @zoraidacastro5403
      @zoraidacastro5403 4 роки тому +11

      Lesbians usually are together way longer

    • @cassiewinters331
      @cassiewinters331 4 роки тому +4

      Most of us are still in love with our exes, or at least I am

    • @zoraidacastro5403
      @zoraidacastro5403 4 роки тому

      I have love for him. I am not in love with him.

    • @TheNatashakinski
      @TheNatashakinski 4 роки тому +1

      I wanna hear those angry lesbian story.

  • @jellomonster531
    @jellomonster531 5 років тому +442

    “We used to go to a place called the cauldron”
    Everyone: *ohhhhhhhh* 😂

  • @James-nj9kn
    @James-nj9kn 3 роки тому +19

    The first guy looks like he’s still in love with that boy. How his eyes sparkle while talking about him-🥺

  • @joycechahinepiano
    @joycechahinepiano 5 років тому +312

    “We went to a place called The Cauldron”
    *ohhhhhhhhh*

  • @oxerhuan
    @oxerhuan 5 років тому +2713

    Where's the old lesbians? I miss those cute bishes :(

    • @merlinarthur4072
      @merlinarthur4072 5 років тому +138

      still busy fingering

    • @donbrown1284
      @donbrown1284 5 років тому +20

      They're boring as shit --ANGRY AND NO SENSE OF HUMOR.

    • @shavinmccrotch9435
      @shavinmccrotch9435 5 років тому +18

      They must be too busy playing softball, getting in jealous bar fights, and hating men to make videos.

    • @pansieisawesome
      @pansieisawesome 5 років тому +172

      @@shavinmccrotch9435 Wtfs wrong with you dude

    • @shavinmccrotch9435
      @shavinmccrotch9435 5 років тому +3

      cara c I’m fine, thanks. 😚

  • @anunfortunatememe
    @anunfortunatememe 5 років тому +418

    “It wasn’t on camera”
    “Good”
    Lmfaooo the shade

    • @demikpre
      @demikpre 5 років тому +14

      LOL, Mick was trying to moonwalk over him having a sugardaddy lol they all picked up on that

  • @stanguy4491
    @stanguy4491 3 роки тому +48

    These men are a hoot. Haven't laughed so much for ages. My favourite man is the African American. He has had to deal with racism and homophobia. None of these, guys, speak with any bitterness towards their ex-partners, in which I find enlightening and refreshing. Please! These guys are Elders, not old. Let's give all LGBT Elders the respect that they deserve.

  • @anidatequila7352
    @anidatequila7352 5 років тому +655

    He said "he taught me". I thought he said "he topped me" 😂

  • @keysmashingnerd
    @keysmashingnerd 5 років тому +217

    “he used to read the LA Times to me every sunday morning”
    “couldn’t you read?”
    HAHAHAHA

    • @jasmines72
      @jasmines72 5 років тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @classycassie1118
    @classycassie1118 5 років тому +550

    The guy in the checkered shirt has been alone for 23 years wow. I want to give him a hug

  • @corey75952
    @corey75952 3 роки тому +16

    I could see Jessay’s selectivity with his words. You know he’s had a tremendous amount of life experience and still thinks about it to this day, good and bad. I adore him 💕

  • @ANA-bf8ln
    @ANA-bf8ln 5 років тому +1886

    “We went to a place called the Cauldron”
    Everyone: “oOoOoOoOoOoOoO”
    What are they, 6 😂😂😂😂

    • @UNION_JACK_THE_RIPPER
      @UNION_JACK_THE_RIPPER 5 років тому +298

      The cauldron was a famous gay cruising club. Where people would go just to fuck and stuff like that. So them going ooooooo is prob valid lol

    • @jessiana297
      @jessiana297 5 років тому +38

      We're all 6 on the inside 😂

    • @SiSi-xg1hk
      @SiSi-xg1hk 5 років тому +43

      When he just recalled the bathtubs & people peeing on each other all nonchalant 😄

    • @virg0_lem0nade
      @virg0_lem0nade 4 роки тому +28

      lmao no honey, they all reacted like that because they all knew exactly what The Cauldron was and some of them have probably also been there 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @davidcattin7006
      @davidcattin7006 4 роки тому +3

      Sounds like the Mineshaft in New York.

  • @abbiiON
    @abbiiON 4 роки тому +735

    Bill is so cute, he laughed like a teen when the last guy was talking about his sex life.

  • @kllido9427
    @kllido9427 5 років тому +872

    I can't stop smiling I just love them so much!

  • @ik7968
    @ik7968 3 роки тому +15

    Jesus, I am melting. These guys are so thoughtful and nice to each other at the same time they are so fun and quick with these clap backs. Just wonderful. I wish the best to them.

  • @guardianjuan
    @guardianjuan 5 років тому +328

    this makes me wonder if after i die someone will keep thinking about how much of an impact i left in their life.

    • @MrCassett
      @MrCassett 5 років тому +4

      That's deep!

    • @BobbyManford
      @BobbyManford 5 років тому +4

      That's a very self absorbed statement,

    • @Christopher-cq6bz
      @Christopher-cq6bz 5 років тому +7

      @@BobbyManford ... It is but there's nothing wrong with that.

    • @snickerdoodlesandalmondmil1002
      @snickerdoodlesandalmondmil1002 5 років тому +3

      @@BobbyManford , it's more so an insecure statement. plenty of people don't realize the positive impact they've had on others, and wonder if they'll be forgotten in death.

    • @twilightfades_7
      @twilightfades_7 5 років тому +6

      Booby Manfanny Don't see how. We all want someone to remember us because then we'd know that our lives really meant something. That means we touched them. Life is only about what we leave behind. Where is the vanity and selfishness in that?

  • @ooGAUoo
    @ooGAUoo 5 років тому +352

    “i’ve been all alone in the world now for 22 years” I volunteer as Tribute!

    • @rubencohen2936
      @rubencohen2936 5 років тому +22

      Young gay men never see themselves aging and getting older. When you're young and gay you run the roads and live life fast. My former partner that died of AIDS 20 years ago told me, " so many men, so little time ".

    • @rubencohen2936
      @rubencohen2936 5 років тому +6

      @Lana Joy I am and do, thanks. What about you ?

    • @ajs187-v5o
      @ajs187-v5o 5 років тому +5

      @@rubencohen2936 Sorry to hear that. Sending love your way x

  • @denadyt.9064
    @denadyt.9064 5 років тому +1189

    Mick got a better sex life than me in my entire life.

    • @freshlove7926
      @freshlove7926 5 років тому

      Denady T. - hey baby

    • @PHSDM104
      @PHSDM104 5 років тому +14

      Well, he was in porn.

    • @ClayMastah344
      @ClayMastah344 5 років тому +1

      Denady T. That’s why he’s so mega chill

    • @denadyt.9064
      @denadyt.9064 5 років тому +1

      the only straight I am is a straight up bitch damn boy, what did you type? 👀

    • @menacingevilbacterium
      @menacingevilbacterium 5 років тому +3

      @the only straight I am is a straight up bitch yo what? His tapes are online?

  • @tvvistedwayz
    @tvvistedwayz 3 роки тому +30

    I just think it’s crazy how literally everything we think we know will possibly become but a memory. Very melancholic to me but it’s more reason to live your best life imo..

  • @karmamelk9
    @karmamelk9 5 років тому +252

    "Of course! Don't you tie up your friends?" 5:22 LOL
    Bill's reactions cracked me up! He seems so sweet and innocent, and has a fun sense of humor. Wish I had a friend like him.

  • @anetal3823
    @anetal3823 5 років тому +534

    ,,Why did you break up?"
    ,,I would rather not answer that question."
    ,,Got it."
    ,,Another man?"
    jfjfodjrjjdj 😂😂😂

    • @Emy-fv5ny
      @Emy-fv5ny 4 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bananawifey
    @bananawifey 5 років тому +377

    WHY is no one talking about THE CAULDRON,,,, that's wild y'all wild

    • @ClueSign
      @ClueSign 5 років тому +25

      SF in the 70s was W I L D

    • @cassidyho939
      @cassidyho939 5 років тому +84

      I love how they all went "OHHHHH" when the Cauldron was mentioned XD

    • @MM-dq2pi
      @MM-dq2pi 5 років тому +6

      I'm sure Freddie Mercury went there

  • @zhongyinadmissions5440
    @zhongyinadmissions5440 4 роки тому +166

    Bill: Where were you?
    Jassey:In the backyard
    Bill:ahmmm..
    Jassey:Ahh..In Los Angeles 😂