I was lucky that the day I suddenly opened the radio for your show and boooom I heard your callers telling of what I was going through and that's how it stopped. I approached him and he was very angry that I disrespect his ancestors. I escaped through your show, thank you King 👑
I am so glad the male expert is here. If she was alone, most of her story would have been dismissed as stupidity. So his presence helps with the theoretical and psychological knowledge, understanding and expertise behind how ANYONE could fall for this. Im not saying I didn't believe her, i believed her from Owamie's podcast. Im saying this based on how I've seen how the public are quick to assume that they are smarter and wouldn't fall for scams.
Siyabonga Sisi for raising awareness. We are learning a lot, ignore the haters!! People can be nasty but they too have very embarrassing stories that they are hiding. I must say, some may say I'm xenophobic but I don't even give a chance for a foreign man to start a conversation coz it seems like they have magic to get u hooked.
Yoh Bra Dave and team are highly skilled, the ability to take a story and turn it into a 1.5 hour interview while asking important questions that relate to law and personal perspectives needs a collection of skills. Oh in that he does not mess up the storyline with questioning
I love Jabile's spirit.She is an epitome of her name. I suppose your destiny is taking you where you need to be, where you heal broken hearts, rebuilt destroyed spirits and restore happiness to our nation. May the Creator and your ancestors guide you, bless you and restore love and trust in your heart again. The enemy must not win. Keep on smiling ❤🎉
Haibo is this Jabu? Shes looking so radiant 🤩 jabu bandla you look stunning, im happy to see you so beautiful. I saw you on Owami's channel, your story broke my heart, thank you for your bravery.
This interview was so emotionally taxing, the only mitigating factor was how bold and free Jabu was. I'm relieved that she seems to be healing. As always, thanks for the amazing work David. You make watching your show a worthy exercise 👌👌👌
Grootman just said “open source intelligence, True caller, Due Diligence exercise, AI, collective effort scam, call centre ladies who are fluent in English….good advise there from Bra Calvin - He is a top cop. 👌🏿
I watched her episode on Boldly Owamie and you know what, im going to watch it again. Im so glad she is smiling, has accepted and things seem better and are looking up for her🥰 You are strong, amazing and beautiful Jabulile. Always remember that. Thank you for sharing your story and Thanks to King David Studio for the insightful interview
Mdeva the King, you really bring life to light with your interviews. Sis JN, you've won it, I'm glad to hear that you took all that to another level. I may say, this is your God sent purpose/assignment. Run with it my sis.
@nompumelelomazibuko5112 babe, they even know Rands. Mina "my ancestor" told me they need 2 meters of elephant skin and each meter of skin costs R5000 and they will also need an ancestral cloth that'll cost R5000 and he proceeded to say in his words "all in all this will be R15000" 🤣🤣🤣
Its easy to say how could you, why did she, but until it happens to you........ You are a strong woman and thank you for opening up and telling your story. May God bless you and keep you and your family safe.
King David did an amazing and stellar job on this one. His focus and his ability to keep the golden thread of the story is impeccable 👌. It was like a conversation with friends yet there's awareness, the right questions and the appropriate amount of empathy - brilliant.
Thank you King David, I'm so glad that you have this gentleman with you , there is so much cruelty in the world and he is exposing it , I've seen a podcast of this lady but this interview was much more thorough and informative
"I have seen people date for 3 months & get married." The mentality of 'That could also be me' will kill my gender because another persons blessing can't be mine 🤔 Another enabler of this thinking is Disney with the princess stories that created the fairy tale dream/mindset so vele kusatoba rough! This raises the reasons why in our Afrikan traditions/Culture my gender was not made to date like in modern times because the elders knew how we women are & some had arranged marriage to protect us from ourselves ngoba hhayi! There is a reason why the old saying rings true even today that 'women fall inlove with what they hear & men with what they see.' Or the other 'If it feels too good to be true, it probably is.'
@@vicmabiya5884 you’ve never heard of those who gave away their hard earned cars and houses to the men of god, just coz god through the Holy Spirit told them to do so? Ungazoba dizzy wena apha 😏.
In as much as there are parts of the story that are funny (and I laughed😂)I'm glad that Sis' Jabu is raising awareness. This can honestly happen to anyone, if not love they'll find another way. I hope men who get scammed can at least find the courage to talk to her. Suicide amongst black men is problem.
It's really sad and scary. I've watched romance scams aka Yahoo Boys, who target Australian, American, Canadian women but this is an extreme case. Yoh Jabu, strength to you and thank you for sharing your story.
You and me. Once the voice came through the speaker I played along and agreed to everything. As soon as I left his place I told the guy shit and blocked him. That time I had no idea about the scam going around
Compared to Owamie, he has decades of experience so yes, his expertise will definitely show. But for me, Owamie still did her best because we still gor valuable information from her as a beginner in the Podcast field
The story is exactly what happened to my former colleague who was scammed of his all pension fund money nearly 2million😢. He also saw a kist full of money and those criminals disappeared.
I believe that these scammers, besides persuasion and trickery, they use muti or substances they put in food and drinks to put the victim in some kind of a hypnotic state. It happened to my mother. Tge hook was not a love scam but Competition. My mother is intelligent and very strict with her money but if I told you it was shocking how she took instructions from scammers who are complete strangers and went to the bank to withdraw large sums of money, handing over to the scammers. Even I as her child she would never willy nilly go to the bank and withdraw money to give me! So it is not just greed or naivety or ignorance.
A psychologist should have been invited,to explain the psychology that happens in the emotions and minds of strong independent woman, single or divorced and government workers (targets) since their most vulnerable place is love and that's where the scammers see the niche.
2:01:49 (i haven't listened beyond this point) but her saying she got admitted into a psych ward makes soo much sense with regard to how she is showing up. Im an advocate of mental health intervention. People take it as weakness but it actually helps you nagivate trauma better equipped to survive it
I would've never believed this in a million years if I didn't go through it myself....And yes we are desperate for Love as woman....The voice in the dark told me I won 10 million. They showed me two baskets that was supposedly my money...😂😂😂 Guys I've seen it all shame... every week I was running up and down trying to get more money to send the sangoma. We are gullible and desperate and it's sad really. I was very embarrassed to even talk about this to ANYONE
Such stories are rife here in Botswana, too. If it's not fake pastors scamming women, it's traditional healers, or crooked lovers! High profile women are the target of the latter... but they'll never report such for fear that they'll be trolled or ridiculed.
@@dot510Too many Pensioners in Soweto are victims of these scammers. They target pensioners who were previous professionals and had provident funds and pension funds. They know that they're sitting with large sums of money in Investment accounts
Thank you Jabu for sharing your story.May you go from strength to strength.I think this has happened to you so that you can bring awareness about this scam.I don’t think anyone who has listened to your story will fall victim of this scam.Enkosi kakhulu sisi ungadinwa nangomso.I know God will lay a table in the presence of your enemies( scammers and those who are laughing at you)
Oh nooo, my friend past away in 2012, she left her only daughter a beautiful house. Then about 2 years ago she was scammed by a man and woman from congo, they convinced her to sell her home and withdraw all the money from the bank while they were waiting for her outside the bank. She is still very depressed and left SA to work international.
I think the police need to do awareness campaigns about these scams. This need to include the example stories of the victims but hiding their identities of cos.
Jabulile I pray that the Lord uplifts you, may you seek Him to know Him in a greater capacity like never before. Only He can truly bring you to a place of peace.
This lady is a strong person. 🎖. I know she is going to heal and move on. Sometimes God calls certain people do certain things. I thank you the panel and the lady for this informative discussion.
I like the lady's smile and laughter she narrates the story as if the incident happened to someone she knew not that it was something that actually happened to her
My ex-girlfriend is also a victim of a scammer. Most unfortunately, I manage to help her 3 months down the line after her being aware that she's being scammed..
I think people think by him not eating he might not want to pay a lot of money for the 2 of them. Ladies want to be loved there is nothing wrong in seeking love. These people know how to treat and charm women. It feels so good when a person pays attention to you that you get lost in the whole thing
😂😂The hut that speaks. This sounds like my story, except mine, wasn't a love scam. I accompanied a friend to Pretoria CBD on Bloed street, just before you get to the petrol station on Prinsloo. We went into a herbal shop to get something to help with remembering dreams and to cleanse after losing a loved one. Worst day of this year because a R100 consultation turned into a R10000 loss that we can't even tell our loved ones about. Ali the magician even wanted a further 15k from me after he perfomed some "miracles" to draw out the tikoloshi I've been living with for years. They burn so much mphepho in the store that you become confused and gullible. I hope he enjoyed my money and heels from whatever compels him to swindle people who need help.
These people are having a field day there in Pretoria 😢. I cannot help but laugh at the narration but also sympathize at the loss of that much moola. Yho, mna they took my phone similarly to the story Calvin told about a cop and a sangoma, that time I have never known anything about Sangomas, Prophets and such 😂, I laughed at myself for a whole week.
I really think they use substances to hypnotise people. I have people close to me that have been scammed. They are intelligent and always careful with how they use their money but with these scammers your brain becomes liquid🫠
@@iluma-nathimntase3037 Pretoria CBD is their play ground. WE have so much power to deal with these ppl but our division is killing us one by one. My niece was scammed of her laptop, cellphone and money walking to the UP campus... I wonder what Muthi they are using that will make someone to leave their property with them. To make it worse, they scheme with locals so that the victims wont suspect anything is wrong... ..
@@jabunxumalo2111Please contact Sergeant Mabunda from the Olifantsfontein Police Station in Gauteng. He was lead detective in the Rosemary Ndlovu case (funeral insurance scam), he was in the Showmax documentary and he should have the details of the producers.
This is a lesson that we both man and woman need to learn from without judging Jabu... If you have no positive thoughts to share, it's better to keep quiet. Big up to you sis Jabu, u r a brave lady.
i once met a lady at covid vacsination in que, shes a SA and was very friendly asked me to exchange numbers. suddenly she told me about Nigerian boyfriend who has black money an needed 500k to buy chemical to wash money. to me that was a red flag because she asid she works for SABC but she looked very broke. i asked people i know who works there and they did not know her. i knew womwthing was off with this woman cause i was askingher a lot of questions. next thing her number was no longer available whatspp profile pic not there anymore. i know now that i dodged the bullet there.
Oh no!!!!!! This means I'm also scammed. 🙃😭😱. I'm still hoping I will get my money back, and it's been a year now. Who can assist me. Where can I go as I know where this guys are. I speak to them over on the phones and they promise they will sort me out. One of the guys has left SA n now is claiming to be stucked back at Uganda n ask for money to come back so that they give me my money back. The how is a long story but I need to bring him ba k to SA to give me money if not they must be arrested. I took over R500k loans n Irefused to cash in my pension or resign bcos I started to smell a rat. Pls pls can I get help
I thank God for restoring you sisi. Until it happens to u, u will always criticize. I feel your pain as i know exactly what you went through. May God continue to strengthen you.
Yhooo this Love Scamming should ge exposed to the highest level... Men from South Sudan,Ghana,Kenya are into this...and they freely doing this in South Africa.
You know its hard to feel sorry for someone who looks down at a petrol attended...... nobody deserves what shes been through but there's a lesson here to be learned here women who have high standards in particular
I was targeted so many times,I was so lucky it didn't work.Women need to be disciplined in relationship ,take time and I know it is difficult. Jabulile sorry for what happened.
My friends mother who was a teacher was scammed of her pension money( early withdrawal) and the guy made her sell her house aswell. He made her resign from work. They were left homeless and my friend had to take her to her flat with her little sister.😢
tjo dear i asked as well He said hes from my fathers side and he is THEMBA i knew from that time im being scammed lucky i never took the loan that same night i met the ancestors i came across OWAMIES CHANEL 🤭🤭😂
Scammers are everywhere, with me it was a friend, who was after my pension after after retrenchment, she got a fraction, pushed for more at this time, on requests i would notify another friend who said no, when the tap closed all of a sudden she has a calling and heedih the call, the matter is currently woth lawyers.
The first thing for me is how you believe you can talk to ancestors through a speaker? Even if you love someone, but sometimes things are just there to see
It just proves how most Afrikans don't know their traditions, culture & clan rituals & rites of passage due to our modern lives. In my culture only a new wife is introduced to the ancestors and not umjolo 🤦♀️ another point is that no wife is supposed to go to sangoma alone without her husband. Eish! Indeed lack of knowledge will continue to be our downfall 🤞
@@janetjohnston1702 so your ancestors talk? Tradition and culture are not homogeneous, just because someone believes that africans should do this and that, does not mean it is other person's culture, thats your culture
@@pointa2b388 Did you even read to understand what I wrote? Typical keyboard warrior behavior 🙄 I used my culture as an example after I made a statement & I was even specific since I said 'In my culture' this is simple English. It's no wonder you didn't get my point and for your information you just made a dodo out of yourself because you spoke of belief & culture in the same sentence which further proves how less knowledge you are since traditions, culture, clan rituals & practices don't care about what you believe but it is a way of life that operates in the laws of nature & beyond. Please educate yourself and learn to read to understand in order to be able to engage in a proper discussion without misunderstandings or just ask if you don't understand rather than assume/misinterpret my statement.
Esssh painful "but honestly no one ever gave their ancestors that much while they where alive""how on Earth someone convinces you to give them 500k while they are in the grave😢
Lack of knowledge about our roots causes such ignorance phela ancestors walk with their descendants & they never guide their own to ruin. If you read Afrikan history most ancestors guide their clan to fix issues that lead or will lead to the fall of the clan this then means that money comes into the clan not out. If it goes out it still needs to benefit the descendants/clan either by taking a wife, paying inhlawulo, etc. In my culture only a new wife is introduced to husband's family not umjolo, if she knew such, she would of questioned why bf was insisting such since in Afrikan culture women are not supposed to go to a sangoma alone both single or married.
I think to some extent the victims are hypnotised with substances also. The stories do not make sense especially most of them are Born again Christians and even refuse to do rituals with their own families.
My neighbor who was a 52 year old teacher that time was scammed by them. she doesnt have kids, and was desperate to have one, The guy promised to help her and pretended to love her. took her to the so called ancestors and they gave her stuff to supposedly help her fall pregnant. that stuff made her so sick, then he convinced her to retire and take her money. after the money was paid out and he got his hands on it, he lefts. gone with almost 2mil. So I think their target is mostly government workers or women who have pension fund and investments, like property ect.
I am so glad other channels are also picking these stories up❤ when I interviewed her i was shocked but i am glad jabu is doing better 😇
You paved a way Queen ❤
she is Jabu WOW she looks so beautiful now with so much complexion
@@NitroMandyyttrue...Owamie paved the way
O Lord Jabu looks so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
@owami you should continue interviewing those women, I mean your method of interviewing is not the same
The Investigative Officer, is a good listener and he is very Patient.
He holds himself for a very long time, before he gets his chance to speak
I also noticed. He's meant for this job.
Right!! He really waits for his chance and interjects only when it’s absolutely necessary!
King David’s ability to go back to the exact same point after the interruption is special
It is amazing,his memory is so great.
It's so priceless.
True
Hey, I tell u. He is too damn good. Just wow wow 👌
He's too good
Big ups to this investigating officer he gives off such intelligent vibes🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ntate Rafadi has good analytical and listening skills. 💯💯💯💯🔥🔥
The interviewer is asking all the right question.
King David is the best.
I was lucky that the day I suddenly opened the radio for your show and boooom I heard your callers telling of what I was going through and that's how it stopped. I approached him and he was very angry that I disrespect his ancestors. I escaped through your show, thank you King 👑
Thank God sesi Kibg David was an angel
So glad you didn't fall prey to such. That's wonderful news.
@@rudzanikharivhe6294❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You were lucky, ❤
@lindiwemasike, where was he from?
I am so glad the male expert is here. If she was alone, most of her story would have been dismissed as stupidity. So his presence helps with the theoretical and psychological knowledge, understanding and expertise behind how ANYONE could fall for this.
Im not saying I didn't believe her, i believed her from Owamie's podcast. Im saying this based on how I've seen how the public are quick to assume that they are smarter and wouldn't fall for scams.
True Sisi, I would have been called all sorts of names. But no name calling can silence me.
@jabunxumalo2111 im truly proud of you ❤ May your journey in helping othera be greatly blessed 🙏🏾
@@jabunxumalo2111 you are so pretty
Jabu is so gorgeous❤❤
Thank you for having me, King David!
My pleasure Mme, your story is really fascinating. I’m glad you are doing better than before.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are one selfless and brave lady and I love you for that ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Stay strong. Thank you for telling your story 🎉
Siyabonga Sisi for raising awareness. We are learning a lot, ignore the haters!! People can be nasty but they too have very embarrassing stories that they are hiding.
I must say, some may say I'm xenophobic but I don't even give a chance for a foreign man to start a conversation coz it seems like they have magic to get u hooked.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are saving lives.❤
The brilliant questioning style of King David just shows what a good listener and analyst he is. 👌
King David, your interviews are so relaxed yet so in depth. Your 2 hour plus podcast is so enjoyable I don’t feel the time.
🙌
foreigners are wrong people to trust with your money to begin with... I hope you heal and recover from this my sister. God bless
Let alone relationships.
Yoh Bra Dave and team are highly skilled, the ability to take a story and turn it into a 1.5 hour interview while asking important questions that relate to law and personal perspectives needs a collection of skills. Oh in that he does not mess up the storyline with questioning
King David, thank you for dedicating 3 hours to this issue. Ntate David, thank you for your input too ❤
I love Jabile's spirit.She is an epitome of her name. I suppose your destiny is taking you where you need to be, where you heal broken hearts, rebuilt destroyed spirits and restore happiness to our nation. May the Creator and your ancestors guide you, bless you and restore love and trust in your heart again. The enemy must not win. Keep on smiling ❤🎉
This is so sweet, blushing for days ❤
Haibo is this Jabu? Shes looking so radiant 🤩 jabu bandla you look stunning, im happy to see you so beautiful. I saw you on Owami's channel, your story broke my heart, thank you for your bravery.
Alive and kicking, God has been good to me!❤
@@jabunxumalo2111❤
I love that she has started an organisation, it will save many lives
Sis Jabu , big ups to you hey ❤
So amazing and you look so gorgeous and radiant from the last time I saw you on Owamies channel
@@jabunxumalo2111❤❤❤❤❤
The investigation officer knows full of uniqueness wisdom and a great experience big up to him 😊
This interview was so emotionally taxing, the only mitigating factor was how bold and free Jabu was. I'm relieved that she seems to be healing.
As always, thanks for the amazing work David. You make watching your show a worthy exercise 👌👌👌
Grootman just said “open source intelligence, True caller, Due Diligence exercise, AI, collective effort scam, call centre ladies who are fluent in English….good advise there from Bra Calvin - He is a top cop. 👌🏿
I watched her episode on Boldly Owamie and you know what, im going to watch it again. Im so glad she is smiling, has accepted and things seem better and are looking up for her🥰 You are strong, amazing and beautiful Jabulile. Always remember that. Thank you for sharing your story and Thanks to King David Studio for the insightful interview
Azonigila amakwerekwere
@@HabileMkholo le wena
I can't believe this is her, she's GORGEOUS! I'm happy to see her again
Thank you sisi❤
@@Lungelo911 She really is
Mdeva the King, you really bring life to light with your interviews. Sis JN, you've won it, I'm glad to hear that you took all that to another level. I may say, this is your God sent purpose/assignment. Run with it my sis.
I love that the lady is also taking responsibility for part she played!!Growth
It’s soo funny how these Ancestors know the names of Malls and banks😢😢
😂
Yey! you can say that again
@nompumelelomazibuko5112 babe, they even know Rands. Mina "my ancestor" told me they need 2 meters of elephant skin and each meter of skin costs R5000 and they will also need an ancestral cloth that'll cost R5000 and he proceeded to say in his words "all in all this will be R15000" 🤣🤣🤣
@@kholofelodibakwane1064 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The power of fake 14million in a kist
Its easy to say how could you, why did she, but until it happens to you........ You are a strong woman and thank you for opening up and telling your story. May God bless you and keep you and your family safe.
King David did an amazing and stellar job on this one. His focus and his ability to keep the golden thread of the story is impeccable 👌. It was like a conversation with friends yet there's awareness, the right questions and the appropriate amount of empathy - brilliant.
Absolutely brilliant
Thank you King David, I'm so glad that you have this gentleman with you , there is so much cruelty in the world and he is exposing it , I've seen a podcast of this lady but this interview was much more thorough and informative
"I have seen people date for 3 months & get married."
The mentality of 'That could also be me' will kill my gender because another persons blessing can't be mine 🤔 Another enabler of this thinking is Disney with the princess stories that created the fairy tale dream/mindset so vele kusatoba rough!
This raises the reasons why in our Afrikan traditions/Culture my gender was not made to date like in modern times because the elders knew how we women are & some had arranged marriage to protect us from ourselves ngoba hhayi!
There is a reason why the old saying rings true even today that 'women fall inlove with what they hear & men with what they see.' Or the other 'If it feels too good to be true, it probably is.'
I watched other podcasts about these kind of scams and I must say,David knows how to ask relevant questions
Anyone who believes that ancestors can talk to them is a perfect candidate for being scammed
You don't need to believe, these are great manipulators. I'm sure they studied psychology.
They are playing with your mind to trick you into believing the unbelievable.
@@Sthembiso2020 same way anyone who believes god can talk to them is a perfect candidate for being scammed 👏🏾👏🏾.
@@ThobileMacaws God will ask you to take a loan?
@@vicmabiya5884 you’ve never heard of those who gave away their hard earned cars and houses to the men of god, just coz god through the Holy Spirit told them to do so? Ungazoba dizzy wena apha 😏.
In as much as there are parts of the story that are funny (and I laughed😂)I'm glad that Sis' Jabu is raising awareness. This can honestly happen to anyone, if not love they'll find another way. I hope men who get scammed can at least find the courage to talk to her. Suicide amongst black men is problem.
It's my prayer that they open up
Why do educational podcasts have less than 1k Likes?😢Thank you Bra David
That’s why people are still getting scammed…
This officer sound well trained and intelligent, he's got knowledge and information about this modus operandi
Thank you for sharing your story. Sorry for being a victim. This is a lesson for all of us. May God be with you and protect you.
Top notch interviewing skills from Bra Dave. I felt like watching a movie and a documentary at the same time.
It's really sad and scary. I've watched romance scams aka Yahoo Boys, who target Australian, American, Canadian women but this is an extreme case. Yoh Jabu, strength to you and thank you for sharing your story.
Why would women give men money, though? That's the biggest ick for me. If I gave a man money, that's instant friend-zone. You have a vagina now
I was nearly a victim but maybe God protected me because I told the guy to go to hell.
U nt alone😢
Nihlanganisani namaForeigners vele???????
Me too ,The ancestor said i must transfer my pension fund from my other bank account to my FNB account which i opened because of them....jer
You and me. Once the voice came through the speaker I played along and agreed to everything. As soon as I left his place I told the guy shit and blocked him. That time I had no idea about the scam going around
Akunamadoda emzansi uyabona nawe nje@@Yandisa75000
Now we understand why South Africa was grey listed! Our banks are very loose! How heavy is R500k roughly?
This interview neh..... I enjoy Kond David style of interviewing his guests.
Compared to Owamie, he has decades of experience so yes, his expertise will definitely show.
But for me, Owamie still did her best because we still gor valuable information from her as a beginner in the Podcast field
David you are so good and blessed with this role you are playing in society
Thank you guys for exposing these criminals. I shared this story in all my social media pages. Im so sorry to the lady.
The story is exactly what happened to my former colleague who was scammed of his all pension fund money nearly 2million😢.
He also saw a kist full of money and those criminals disappeared.
I hope psychologists can unpack this subject; the possible state of mind of the victims
This other guy guest is doing exactly that on a holistic level.
I believe that these scammers, besides persuasion and trickery, they use muti or substances they put in food and drinks to put the victim in some kind of a hypnotic state. It happened to my mother. Tge hook was not a love scam but Competition. My mother is intelligent and very strict with her money but if I told you it was shocking how she took instructions from scammers who are complete strangers and went to the bank to withdraw large sums of money, handing over to the scammers. Even I as her child she would never willy nilly go to the bank and withdraw money to give me! So it is not just greed or naivety or ignorance.
I am so proud of you to come out and help other woman who can easily fall in this kind of a trap, thank you so much.
I died at the ancestors singing along 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😅
FNB has done painful things to people..
No!
It has actually and I'm not gonna include love scams into this as to why I say so FNB and Capitac yoh hai@@iluma-nathimntase3037
@@iluma-nathimntase3037 it has actually and I'm not saying this because of love scams that one I'm excluding it but it has
FNB is just painful
This is accurate ✅✅✅
A psychologist should have been invited,to explain the psychology that happens in the emotions and minds of strong independent woman, single or divorced and government workers (targets) since their most vulnerable place is love and that's where the scammers see the niche.
Simple, gullible, and naivety.
These scammers go for people who are gullible.
2:01:49 (i haven't listened beyond this point) but her saying she got admitted into a psych ward makes soo much sense with regard to how she is showing up. Im an advocate of mental health intervention. People take it as weakness but it actually helps you nagivate trauma better equipped to survive it
I would've never believed this in a million years if I didn't go through it myself....And yes we are desperate for Love as woman....The voice in the dark told me I won 10 million. They showed me two baskets that was supposedly my money...😂😂😂
Guys I've seen it all shame... every week I was running up and down trying to get more money to send the sangoma.
We are gullible and desperate and it's sad really.
I was very embarrassed to even talk about this to ANYONE
Such stories are rife here in Botswana, too. If it's not fake pastors scamming women, it's traditional healers, or crooked lovers! High profile women are the target of the latter... but they'll never report such for fear that they'll be trolled or ridiculed.
Maybe we can expand our organisation to Botswana, scammed victims need as much support as they can.
@@boitumelomaswabi1561 It's in other parts of the world too.In Australia it's women and pensioners both men and women.
@@dot510Too many Pensioners in Soweto are victims of these scammers. They target pensioners who were previous professionals and had provident funds and pension funds. They know that they're sitting with large sums of money in Investment accounts
@@jabunxumalo2111 please do, I can help with that...
@@jabunxumalo2111 definitely
All our ancestors are resting in tranquility
Thank you Jabu for sharing your story.May you go from strength to strength.I think this has happened to you so that you can bring awareness about this scam.I don’t think anyone who has listened to your story will fall victim of this scam.Enkosi kakhulu sisi ungadinwa nangomso.I know God will lay a table in the presence of your enemies( scammers and those who are laughing at you)
Oh nooo, my friend past away in 2012, she left her only daughter a beautiful house. Then about 2 years ago she was scammed by a man and woman from congo, they convinced her to sell her home and withdraw all the money from the bank while they were waiting for her outside the bank. She is still very depressed and left SA to work international.
💔💔💔💔 izinja yazi! I wish we do enough awareness so they can all be arrested.
@@Lungelo911 She only told me afterwards you know, and ke yena she believed she was heard and seen everywhere by an old man
I think the police need to do awareness campaigns about these scams. This need to include the example stories of the victims but hiding their identities of cos.
So true, our radio stations should have slots to warn people like they do with other important things
@@nhlamulomuhlari3920 yes it's true
They must criminalize scamming
Jabulile I pray that the Lord uplifts you, may you seek Him to know Him in a greater capacity like never before. Only He can truly bring you to a place of peace.
This lady is a strong person. 🎖. I know she is going to heal and move on. Sometimes God calls certain people do certain things. I thank you the panel and the lady for this informative discussion.
I like the lady's smile and laughter she narrates the story as if the incident happened to someone she knew not that it was something that actually happened to her
Jabulile you are a very strong woman. I hope that you get all that you eandavour. Things happen for a reason
My ex-girlfriend is also a victim of a scammer. Most unfortunately, I manage to help her 3 months down the line after her being aware that she's being scammed..
I think people think by him not eating he might not want to pay a lot of money for the 2 of them. Ladies want to be loved there is nothing wrong in seeking love. These people know how to treat and charm women. It feels so good when a person pays attention to you that you get lost in the whole thing
😂😂The hut that speaks. This sounds like my story, except mine, wasn't a love scam. I accompanied a friend to Pretoria CBD on Bloed street, just before you get to the petrol station on Prinsloo. We went into a herbal shop to get something to help with remembering dreams and to cleanse after losing a loved one. Worst day of this year because a R100 consultation turned into a R10000 loss that we can't even tell our loved ones about. Ali the magician even wanted a further 15k from me after he perfomed some "miracles" to draw out the tikoloshi I've been living with for years. They burn so much mphepho in the store that you become confused and gullible. I hope he enjoyed my money and heels from whatever compels him to swindle people who need help.
😂😂😂 the way you narrate sounds funny 😂
These people are having a field day there in Pretoria 😢. I cannot help but laugh at the narration but also sympathize at the loss of that much moola. Yho, mna they took my phone similarly to the story Calvin told about a cop and a sangoma, that time I have never known anything about Sangomas, Prophets and such 😂, I laughed at myself for a whole week.
I really think they use substances to hypnotise people. I have people close to me that have been scammed. They are intelligent and always careful with how they use their money but with these scammers your brain becomes liquid🫠
@@iluma-nathimntase3037 Pretoria CBD is their play ground. WE have so much power to deal with these ppl but our division is killing us one by one. My niece was scammed of her laptop, cellphone and money walking to the UP campus... I wonder what Muthi they are using that will make someone to leave their property with them. To make it worse, they scheme with locals so that the victims wont suspect anything is wrong...
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Thank you for your strength cc,it was really eye opening for most of us.
We need this guy alone wealth of info
Amazing story bra David, super strong woman. Lets hope she gets assisted and her money returned
These stories supposed to be on Showmax
Link me with one of producers
@@jabunxumalo2111Please contact Sergeant Mabunda from the Olifantsfontein Police Station in Gauteng. He was lead detective in the Rosemary Ndlovu case (funeral insurance scam), he was in the Showmax documentary and he should have the details of the producers.
This is a lesson that we both man and woman need to learn from without judging Jabu... If you have no positive thoughts to share, it's better to keep quiet. Big up to you sis Jabu, u r a brave lady.
They actually rent out high market places so that they appear rich to women ...lol
I wish every one can watch this, this is so informative.
Why is she giving scammers 500k? Sorry but aren't women taught no to give any man money? And if it goes up a threshold the bank gets involved?
@@suzygirl1843oooheeee....OMA giver giver....did you listen to the whole podcast?
This is very eye-opening😥
i once met a lady at covid vacsination in que, shes a SA and was very friendly asked me to exchange numbers. suddenly she told me about Nigerian boyfriend who has black money an needed 500k to buy chemical to wash money. to me that was a red flag because she asid she works for SABC but she looked very broke. i asked people i know who works there and they did not know her. i knew womwthing was off with this woman cause i was askingher a lot of questions. next thing her number was no longer available whatspp profile pic not there anymore. i know now that i dodged the bullet there.
Oh no!!!!!! This means I'm also scammed. 🙃😭😱. I'm still hoping I will get my money back, and it's been a year now. Who can assist me. Where can I go as I know where this guys are. I speak to them over on the phones and they promise they will sort me out. One of the guys has left SA n now is claiming to be stucked back at Uganda n ask for money to come back so that they give me my money back. The how is a long story but I need to bring him ba k to SA to give me money if not they must be arrested. I took over R500k loans n Irefused to cash in my pension or resign bcos I started to smell a rat. Pls pls can I get help
Yho that ntate is seriously a good looking man ❤❤ And David yena is brilliant he asks every question that viewers have in their minds
Sad world we live in, I wish they can get all this scammers lock them up through the keys...shame on them 😢
Strength to u Sis❤❤❤
Big up to you Ntate Mashabela. O Senganga ✊✊
Owamie has opened our eyes with to Hell n back, Thank You so much Owamie n KingDavid❤
I thank God for restoring you sisi. Until it happens to u, u will always criticize. I feel your pain as i know exactly what you went through. May God continue to strengthen you.
Yhooo this Love Scamming should ge exposed to the highest level...
Men from South Sudan,Ghana,Kenya are into this...and they freely doing this in South Africa.
You know its hard to feel sorry for someone who looks down at a petrol attended...... nobody deserves what shes been through but there's a lesson here to be learned here women who have high standards in particular
Bhut’David! You’re a great broadcaster!
I was targeted so many times,I was so lucky it didn't work.Women need to be disciplined in relationship ,take time and I know it is difficult. Jabulile sorry for what happened.
Thank you King David for bringing Jabulile.
My friend also experienced the same thing yoooo R200 000 gone ...same story
My friends mother who was a teacher was scammed of her pension money( early withdrawal) and the guy made her sell her house aswell. He made her resign from work. They were left homeless and my friend had to take her to her flat with her little sister.😢
I luv u all guys, u are all very intelligent and its interesting...Well done...from Botswana...
Minister of finance must intervene the banks have to play their role and make stricter laws 💔 💔
This is so sad may god give you strength and the support group should continue to make awareness campaign to stop their hunting grounds
I was nearly scammed. I asked the ancestor for our clan names...an ancestor called Thabo😂 what nonsense
tjo dear i asked as well He said hes from my fathers side and he is THEMBA i knew from that time im being scammed lucky i never took the loan that same night i met the ancestors i came across OWAMIES CHANEL 🤭🤭😂
Yoh😂😂😂😂😂
Yhooo haekhona, sis J thanks for telling your story but man, i laughed...those "ancestors" in that room are funny😂😂😂
I love how she is moimoizing, strength to her.
The investigation officer knows very unique wisdom experience in the even some are acting like pastors etc
The part where she's explaining the police issue... It's sad that's how goes, especially black police officers.
Scammers are everywhere, with me it was a friend, who was after my pension after after retrenchment, she got a fraction, pushed for more at this time, on requests i would notify another friend who said no, when the tap closed all of a sudden she has a calling and heedih the call, the matter is currently woth lawyers.
Mina I was told I have isinyama and kumele ngigeze ngamageu 😂😂😂😂! Ngadla phansi
The first thing for me is how you believe you can talk to ancestors through a speaker? Even if you love someone, but sometimes things are just there to see
It just proves how most Afrikans don't know their traditions, culture & clan rituals & rites of passage due to our modern lives. In my culture only a new wife is introduced to the ancestors and not umjolo 🤦♀️ another point is that no wife is supposed to go to sangoma alone without her husband. Eish! Indeed lack of knowledge will continue to be our downfall 🤞
@@janetjohnston1702 so your ancestors talk? Tradition and culture are not homogeneous, just because someone believes that africans should do this and that, does not mean it is other person's culture, thats your culture
@@pointa2b388 Did you even read to understand what I wrote? Typical keyboard warrior behavior 🙄 I used my culture as an example after I made a statement & I was even specific since I said 'In my culture' this is simple English. It's no wonder you didn't get my point and for your information you just made a dodo out of yourself because you spoke of belief & culture in the same sentence which further proves how less knowledge you are since traditions, culture, clan rituals & practices don't care about what you believe but it is a way of life that operates in the laws of nature & beyond. Please educate yourself and learn to read to understand in order to be able to engage in a proper discussion without misunderstandings or just ask if you don't understand rather than assume/misinterpret my statement.
She did say they give you food and water, clearly from there you're no longer normal 😮
We need the male guest for an individual interview.
I'm also a victim. Same everything
Esssh painful "but honestly no one ever gave their ancestors that much while they where alive""how on Earth someone convinces you to give them 500k while they are in the grave😢
Lack of knowledge about our roots causes such ignorance phela ancestors walk with their descendants & they never guide their own to ruin. If you read Afrikan history most ancestors guide their clan to fix issues that lead or will lead to the fall of the clan this then means that money comes into the clan not out. If it goes out it still needs to benefit the descendants/clan either by taking a wife, paying inhlawulo, etc. In my culture only a new wife is introduced to husband's family not umjolo, if she knew such, she would of questioned why bf was insisting such since in Afrikan culture women are not supposed to go to a sangoma alone both single or married.
She was not giving ancestors money they were" mixing the money"
I think to some extent the victims are hypnotised with substances also. The stories do not make sense especially most of them are Born again Christians and even refuse to do rituals with their own families.
Jabulile you are gorgeous we thank God that you came out of this situation alive. God will restore what you lost.
I stepped back when I was about to enter the so called room to talk to my ancestors😢😢😢bloody scammers
With me l entered the first time, when I was summoned for the second time I refused,l was asked for the years of service at my work danm bustards 😂😂😂
My neighbor who was a 52 year old teacher that time was scammed by them. she doesnt have kids, and was desperate to have one, The guy promised to help her and pretended to love her. took her to the so called ancestors and they gave her stuff to supposedly help her fall pregnant. that stuff made her so sick, then he convinced her to retire and take her money. after the money was paid out and he got his hands on it, he lefts. gone with almost 2mil. So I think their target is mostly government workers or women who have pension fund and investments, like property ect.
😭😭😭 yoh how is the woman doing?
i was once scammed too by those people and they from Germiston, and i was also scammed in Limpopo again in Edgars by some guys.