"The most important advice I have is about family dynamics. I have 8 sisters who were troubling my wife with hurtful words. I stood by my wife's side and protected her throughout, despite knowing about my sisters' behaviour. It's crucial to stop protecting your family and focus on fixing your marriage. Your family might not support your marriage, especially if you are the main provider at home; they may try to alienate your wife. It's time to realize the reality of the situation."
@user-ok9kw9kk4r Yes, they create stories and lies, and if you are a provider, you need to stand your ground. I stood by her until they all made peace with it. Now we are one happy family
This guy is protecting is family. For as long as he does this, he will never have a wife. Not this one and no one else ever. Because he is their lotto, abamthandi.
Let’s be honest to each other guys Porsche ha a kgaogane le ntlo ela and focus on the other assets that her husband has. That house does not form part of her joint estate with her husband. If she bought furniture and she has slips or bank statements to prove it she can claim them but she should leave the house issue.
Your next girlfriend must not see this interview. “You can’t allow your wife to come between you and your family”? Some mothers hates their sons😢they make sure that they don’t marry.
Tlang ke le botjeng hle they are bith right in their own way 😮 Sadly their marriage involved lots of unnecessary people. Guys marriage is for 2people hle. ❤🎉Marriage is beautiful🎉❤
How right because the man has proof that the house was built b4 they got married. He also mentioned that porch was not working from 2016 if not 2015. Come with proof MoGirl to show that you are working and bought all what you claim.
Mina what I've learnt in life is that if you're falsely accused just keep quite, somehow the person making noise about you will be exposed. But if you try defending yourself, even if you're right you become questionable. But then that's just me.
My advise to Promise: Allow the guest to explain his side, then ask. The probing is is slightly linear to the one you 'potentially' believe, removing the mutual stance you'd like to have in such a scenario. Apart from that, Well done sisi, you are doing so well. Will keep watching
I believe Portia has been through psychological trauma, she needs to get help, heal and let it go. Husband loved her, but a lot happened including third parties and that led to the end of their marriage. Life happened
I applaud the man for coming and saying his side of story. We turn to support women more than man without hearing their side of story. Men endure pain and abuse as much as we do.
@@lucyteffomooi.theres no need to choose he needs them both just like us women we need both family and partners we dnt have to choose they can co-exist
Exactly ...women always put their family and children before their men ..but when men do it its an issue for them .....i think he is right ..no relationship should break down family bonds ..and if thats what women want..then its completely wrong ....learn to co..exist ...@zandiletshehla2877
True, she even said she is challenged. By what exactly, long answers while he contradict himself?eg, He says he never cheated he was flirting with the gal along the way says he cheated and so what🤣🤣
Nna ke Shap banna ba Mapedi, these men literally live for Bomma mxm. This touched me because somehow it reminded of my ex family in law treatment of me. And having a husband this weak will make you have a mental breakdown.
Arg xem Mmatswale le dikgaetsedi ba mo apeetse ka meetse a di panty tsa bona, he contributed a lot to Posh's behaviour. She made her feel like an outsider ko ga bo. If you marry her then you must be ready to protect her. Otla mo kgala lele 2 in ur room nd not infront of ur family
Give Portia what’s rightfully hers, I don’t think I’ll even finish watching this podcast cause I’m sure this guy was forcefully sent by his family to come and clear their family name.
We need to be honest about our fellow sister she was not an angel in this relationship she needs to be accountable and stop playing a victim and blaming other people she also contributed to this toxicity🚮
I am with you, when she told her story I did not hear her say what her mistakes were. I am married and I would never let my husband cause a rift between me and my family same way I would never let them do the same it’s my job to manage both
@@Mamaofthree792exactly all she did was to blame and accuse other people but not owning up to her flaws this guy is owning up to his mistakes, i am married too and i will never allow my partner to get between me and my family if they dnt like each other its okay they can co-exist but tht does not mean i have to choose, when he says something about 1 of my family member i must believe him coz we are couple.
Let’s not take sides guys all relationships has problems 😢problem ya bona they gave up too quick and bringing it on social media Where else it could be fixed both of them are wrong period Ge taba ele so just move on and learn from your mistakes
Marriage isn't pap &vleis guys. That's why it's important to attend pre marital counseling. Love, sex and attraction don't build up a strong relationship. But good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A marriage certificate doesn't guarantee anything, build a solid foundation from the beginning. My wife and I have been through all such challenges and we've conquered All. We've just celebrated our 18th anniversary. Life is a journey not a destination. Forgiveness, tolerance, love, understanding, long suffering are but a few keys to a strong marriage. We're not perfect 👌🏿
She did say that she is CURRENTLY unemployed but not that she's been unemployed since the early stages of the relationship. I think that's why Promise is ''shocked''.
1:00:12 now i understand why Portia said her in-laws were saying to their son let's leave the house Portia o tlo go bolaya if you stay behind. Yoh hai go hlakahlakane makgowa
@@Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd ka nnete people are just protecting her cause ke mosadi, she says she built the house for Mamazala yet Google proves the house was built 2 years before she was married. People will just take sides because they can.
Same- when he said that, I knew that Portia was telling the truth. Because he's basically saying that he'd protect his family over his wife. Even when Promise asked him gore but you're the one who bought her into the family
This guy o weak weak weak. Let him marry again the girl stated she wasn't working in marriage. The lady should go to court. She is in denial about their separation, the man cheatered she can't stay with .we waiting for new makoti round 2.the ladies gave each other senyama thats why she smell. They are both wrong but his family enkga lefotha
😂😂😂😂 elders who lie for no reason 😂😂😂 while we are waiting for important issues...wa bora this guy but the is some truth to his story the lady can't be completely innocent they must just grow up nje..
Portia could be toxic but what led to her being like that i dont knw. She only mentioned all the bad things about this guy and his family coz she wants to play victim. The guy has his weaknesses but how do you deal a person who burns your clothes and sleeps with a knife
Yhoo Promise this interview you seem disorganised and didn't have enough time to plan...so many red flags about what this guy said but you didn't dig deeper..
I feel like they should have listened to Portias story before interviewing da husband to comprehend everything she said. Looks like she was misquoted on what she said.
Joint estate is everything they have, if she had 0 and he had 2 then you add zero plus 2 and get 2 then the equally to the couple he is being fair it’s how it works whether she worked or jot
If your intentions was to improve your family sir nkabe o sanka o nyala ngwana wa batho because that monster in-laws they will always demand on you and hate your wife for the whole life.Ga o na back bone Eddie
@@Bee-zl2gqeven if you are in the wrong he must defend you? A true wife knows to shut it and fight her battles quietly in the battle field. Portia lied too from what I picked up
Promise I like your podcast but I feel like you’re not asking relevant questions or do research on such situations so that you can ask better questions that aligns with the story ,the house could have been built in preparation to the wedding because some people don’t want to get married while the house is not in a good condition.I am not taking sides but that’s just my view 😅
He answered the question why he built the house he said he wanted to better his family situation i think thts why he built before marrying coz he knew its gonna cause a rift if he starts building after marriage
I tend to believe this man bcos I have seen this happening in a family. Women can be mad...both of them are toxic to each other Why did she come to social media?
It takes two to tango. One can blame in laws but at the end it only takes two tango. besides in laws involvement, Both two couples were hurt and they continued to hurt each other. Social media is not a good platform to solve marriage issues. There is reason on wedding day we sing taba ke tsa babedi wa bo 3 No, no. So now this marriage it has lot of people now and all issues are now on social media. How many men are suffering in silence when woman tend to abuse them? At least this guy went to get a protection order against the wife unlike keeping quite. At least he also came here and spoke his side. Soo i applaud him because many men are dying in silence we are not ready to talk about we hurt women can be toxod and abusive simply because we are struggling to forgive the wrongs of our loved ones. Anger and Unforgiveness can turn a sweet woman into a monster.
Why?i feel you judging this man, actually i feel this man is telling the truth, ladies and being biased by the other ladies, something is fishy with that lady, either entitlement is her issue or she did not think she will lose all this luxury , she is depressed
Truth or not, well articulated. This guy has a solid head on his shoulders.. It’s refreshing to listen to an intelligent person on this platform once in a while
As women I think we must just fight for ourselves. Waiting for your husband to fight for you it’s like you are coming between the husband and his siblings according to most of families. If they say something you are not confortable talk to them immediately regardless of the outcome nje
Is not all the time where you stand for shit,, am a wife and I will put my husband in a awkward situation just because I feel he owes me loyalty, y’all should be fair to your husbands and do the right thing,, don’t marry someone who don’t or will never respect
This guy disrespect Promise in her own podcast,,,imagine what was he doing to that poor lady in private....we have lot of women in mental institutions because of such guy then they come forth and Claim that women are crazy mnx😢😢😢😢sthuphethu lesi
The moment he said to Promise “listen to me, listen to what I am saying” nahhh 🤮 even if everything Portia said is a lie, as in all of it, I still stand with her because the other option isn’t up for consideration yuk!!!
"The most important advice I have is about family dynamics. I have 8 sisters who were troubling my wife with hurtful words. I stood by my wife's side and protected her throughout, despite knowing about my sisters' behaviour. It's crucial to stop protecting your family and focus on fixing your marriage. Your family might not support your marriage, especially if you are the main provider at home; they may try to alienate your wife. It's time to realize the reality of the situation."
They can even lie ijo, men like you are so scarce.
@user-ok9kw9kk4r Yes, they create stories and lies, and if you are a provider, you need to stand your ground. I stood by her until they all made peace with it. Now we are one happy family
@chicomateus2051 Hmm…🥃 God bless you and your wife.
@@RnK236 I'm blessed to have her in my life
@@RnK236 I'm blessed to have her in my life
This guy is protecting is family. For as long as he does this, he will never have a wife. Not this one and no one else ever. Because he is their lotto, abamthandi.
U Bua nnete
Being a breadwinner is hectic.
He must marry one of his sisters
Truth@@Vv-fl2rmtruth....they must also make lots of babies since mma wants the kids😊
Thank you, truth be told
He came here to say nothing n confirm portia story 😊
Comprehension is very important. Apply logic not emotions.
And prove that he's a mama's boy 😅
@@PemmyTshikovhele stru🤞
Danki sesi..@@Thembi-jb5br
Yhooo the 1st 8 minutes😩😩😩 Kante why go senyiwa nako.
May this kind of man never locate me😢modimo hana kanna
In the name of Jesus
In the name of Jesus
😂😂❤
Same😂 yho he said I can't let my wife get between me & my family 😮😭
😂😂😂
The use of “that lady” says a lot about this guy’s character. That lady referred to him as husband throughout her interview.
And Portia kept on saying my husband through out the interview
Remember she said he initiated the divorce so I think he's so over her that's why he refers to her as that lady
Mean he moved on long time ago, this guy must just go n marry his mom n siblings @Deli.N
@@thattswanagirl5615
He didn't listen to the whole podcast
His family told him about it
I said it !!!
Let’s be honest to each other guys Porsche ha a kgaogane le ntlo ela and focus on the other assets that her husband has. That house does not form part of her joint estate with her husband. If she bought furniture and she has slips or bank statements to prove it she can claim them but she should leave the house issue.
She’s basically wasting her time with the house
N DE guy is not refusing to share 50/50 on whatever is in His name hle. Divorce e bohloko.
@@BabyHope-js5gx too much shame it’s painful
She's fulling herself.....the house she's not goner get
@@BabyHope-js5gxPorch seems like she likes show off..she should just accept that the guy he's not refusing with 50%
May this kind of man never locate me ...God refuse ka naa please😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wena stoutu...ene ba tla o locater 😅😅😅😅....I'm joking...May God give you humble, Godly man
Me and you both 😢😢😢
Amen.. Amen...Amen
This one is useless yeer.
Stupid yeer...
Ge osa protect your wife obviously ur siblings batlo mo namela bamo fologa.. "protect your wife with all cost"
Exactly! Yena he's point is that he can't be a referee meaning he doesn't have the natural instinct to protect mosadi wa gagwe
Exactly
Your next girlfriend must not see this interview. “You can’t allow your wife to come between you and your family”? Some mothers hates their sons😢they make sure that they don’t marry.
he confirmed everything Porche mentioned,he is just worried about his family reputation.
Yeyi confirmed without confirming. Guy is a real definition of a narcissist
@@murielmoyahabo6078true they sent him to clear their name
Promise mama , what a waste of your time and ours Yoh .
Typical bomma , narcissist of note.
‘I cheated with reasons’ what a joke sana 😂
Typical Pedi man😂 can't protect/ defend his wife. His family was/is overly involved in their marriage
Rha this guy! 🚮
😂gal am so pissed,,,,real narcissist 😢
Imagine sies😂😂😂😂😢😢
I'm just as pissed..I've been waiting to hear his side of the story but nah he was here to defend his family
Tlang ke le botjeng hle they are bith right in their own way 😮
Sadly their marriage involved lots of unnecessary people. Guys marriage is for 2people hle.
❤🎉Marriage is beautiful🎉❤
Too many passangers in the merriage
If this can reach the inlaws....if ur son is getting married.. plzzzzzzz he is marrying for himself not for mamazala....
My mother warned me me against banna baga malebogo 😂😂😂tats all i can say
I feel so for the next victim 😢. Portia thank God you are out, wishing you healing.
I was ready to find out how Portia lied only for this guy to Prove her right😂.
Nna I saw it from the word go...
How right because the man has proof that the house was built b4 they got married. He also mentioned that porch was not working from 2016 if not 2015.
Come with proof MoGirl to show that you are working and bought all what you claim.
@@malidirbth7100 I remember her saying gore they built the house while they were still dating before getting married.
@@mariaduduzile3576yep I also heard her
Mina what I've learnt in life is that if you're falsely accused just keep quite, somehow the person making noise about you will be exposed. But if you try defending yourself, even if you're right you become questionable. But then that's just me.
This is so true...people always say two sides of a story...it's rare in these kind of situation for the man to be equally heard😢
My advise to Promise: Allow the guest to explain his side, then ask. The probing is is slightly linear to the one you 'potentially' believe, removing the mutual stance you'd like to have in such a scenario. Apart from that, Well done sisi, you are doing so well. Will keep watching
This man is full of lies and he keeps running away from answering questions properly coz he knows he is lying, 🚮
This guy is not a man, he just confirmed everything his wife said, he needs to be able to stand up to his family
Being married to a breadwinner its a problem especially with sisters with kids and not married..otlo bona mathata stru
I believe Portia has been through psychological trauma, she needs to get help, heal and let it go. Husband loved her, but a lot happened including third parties and that led to the end of their marriage. Life happened
She is not working she is a business woman she is self employed
Stupid lier says Potia is not working so stupid 🙄 Potia works because she is self employed
I applaud the man for coming and saying his side of story. We turn to support women more than man without hearing their side of story. Men endure pain and abuse as much as we do.
One thing about men,can be on the side of their family or side of the wife,never between,they hate being between they choose side
I'm not saying the wife was perfect, but judging from the way he speaks,he sided with his family.
💯
@@lucyteffomooi.theres no need to choose he needs them both just like us women we need both family and partners we dnt have to choose they can co-exist
Exactly ...women always put their family and children before their men ..but when men do it its an issue for them .....i think he is right ..no relationship should break down family bonds ..and if thats what women want..then its completely wrong ....learn to co..exist ...@zandiletshehla2877
I feel like sesi promised also failed with this interview. She didnt put pressure on relevant questions
I think he is a lost case this guy. He can't even get to the point
Same, I feel like she wanted him to believe she's on his side.
True, she even said she is challenged. By what exactly, long answers while he contradict himself?eg, He says he never cheated he was flirting with the gal along the way says he cheated and so what🤣🤣
@@DataService-e6oVery True
Nna ke Shap banna ba Mapedi, these men literally live for Bomma mxm. This touched me because somehow it reminded of my ex family in law treatment of me. And having a husband this weak will make you have a mental breakdown.
Lord protect me from this mentally of bringing my personal issues in social media😢😢, this is insane
Nnete fela
Amen
so thina what must we watch?
ngwana o sa lleng o swela tharing 😭
@@ledwabakayg7369 ppl are dancing watch Dem🤣🤣
She might have lied but man, this man came and said nothing 😟😟
💯
I mean what a waste of resources 😢
@@NxavoMukwevho
Protecting his family
Ay...in glad I'm not the only one.....except for the joling
Nothing at all
Arg xem Mmatswale le dikgaetsedi ba mo apeetse ka meetse a di panty tsa bona, he contributed a lot to Posh's behaviour. She made her feel like an outsider ko ga bo. If you marry her then you must be ready to protect her. Otla mo kgala lele 2 in ur room nd not infront of ur family
Give Portia what’s rightfully hers, I don’t think I’ll even finish watching this podcast cause I’m sure this guy was forcefully sent by his family to come and clear their family name.
We need to be honest about our fellow sister she was not an angel in this relationship she needs to be accountable and stop playing a victim and blaming other people she also contributed to this toxicity🚮
True heyyy
I am with you, when she told her story I did not hear her say what her mistakes were. I am married and I would never let my husband cause a rift between me and my family same way I would never let them do the same it’s my job to manage both
@@Mamaofthree792exactly all she did was to blame and accuse other people but not owning up to her flaws this guy is owning up to his mistakes, i am married too and i will never allow my partner to get between me and my family if they dnt like each other its okay they can co-exist but tht does not mean i have to choose, when he says something about 1 of my family member i must believe him coz we are couple.
@@zandiletshehla2877 Amen ..True .
Danki
Let’s not take sides guys all relationships has problems 😢problem ya bona they gave up too quick and bringing it on social media Where else it could be fixed both of them are wrong period
Ge taba ele so just move on and learn from your mistakes
Narcissists are reserved...
He's scared of his family this one, ladies stay away from this kind, Bomma😮
We are going through a lot ka bomma💔😭
His family come first obviously I hope Portia knew this
😂😂😂😂😂
They use him this 1
Its just heartbreaking seeing marriages falling apart 🙆♂️. May God intervene 💔💔💔
I’m actually tired. 😢the devil is after marriages yoh.
Shame sesi Promise surely haofetsa interview ee orile kapelong "ive just wasted my time" huuu abuti oo haona ntwe abuileng niks ..
He came well prepared and listened to her podcast and attacked her according to it... Moghal had her flaws but the arrogance is too much 😢
Marriage isn't pap &vleis guys. That's why it's important to attend pre marital counseling. Love, sex and attraction don't build up a strong relationship. But good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A marriage certificate doesn't guarantee anything, build a solid foundation from the beginning. My wife and I have been through all such challenges and we've conquered All. We've just celebrated our 18th anniversary. Life is a journey not a destination. Forgiveness, tolerance, love, understanding, long suffering are but a few keys to a strong marriage. We're not perfect 👌🏿
Promise bo menemene mara??? Portia told you that she is currently unemployed, why are you acting brand new?
She did say that she is CURRENTLY unemployed but not that she's been unemployed since the early stages of the relationship. I think that's why Promise is ''shocked''.
1:00:12 now i understand why Portia said her in-laws were saying to their son let's leave the house Portia o tlo go bolaya if you stay behind. Yoh hai go hlakahlakane makgowa
Go to fix your marriage there is no issue here excluding 3rd person
That's true,the only problems is the in-law and Portia need to see therapy to deal with stress of not having baby
Nnete fela
Yazi
True,he didnt even need to come here,i feel like he is lying he didnt even try to bring them together en ask what is what
@@lucyteffomooi.I stand with you. This guy o bolela maaka. O yemella family ya gabo
This interview is pure testimony that interviewing someone is a skill which needs to be fully and carefully developed l
Felt that way too.
24 minutes in and this man has said absolutely NOTHING… ho ntso thweng mara mo!!!??
Didn't she say she was building the house while dating than got married officially 2018.
They don’t want to touch that part...
Mara logically speaking how does build a house ko bo boyfriend? Why nasa nyake stand a aga ? That to me doesn't make sense
Yoh Promise, lets talk about your hair and how beautiful you look.. Because ha e le interview e yona. Ga ke tlhaloganye why we here, struu..
😅😅😅😅😅oooh Boi I laughed
Hahaha 😂😂 mara wena
Red flag number 1,he failed to protect his wife, weak man 🚩
Very true a husband should protect his wife.
Lea mo nyela ngwana batho😂😂😂
Portia is a liar
You viewing it from distance, be in his boots and let's see if you will still say that
@@Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd ka nnete people are just protecting her cause ke mosadi, she says she built the house for Mamazala yet Google proves the house was built 2 years before she was married. People will just take sides because they can.
He shouldn't have come here 😅😆 we were not born yesterday
😂😂😂😂He shoukd have stayed wherever he was, Yhoooo he's a narcissist
Its so hard to listen to him because he is so defensive, Portia was so clear in her explanation and addressed him with respect.
He can't be clear because he is a lier and manipulater
Problems with this guy he not good storie tell
Portia was only accommodating South Africans, us Namibians understood nothing. We feel left out.
Not everyone is a good story teller, and that doesn't mean that they are lying
Nfanaka bann, very loyal,loving guy. He is telling the truth
He lost me in the 1st 15 minutes…” you can never allow a woman to get in between you and your family “
Same- when he said that, I knew that Portia was telling the truth. Because he's basically saying that he'd protect his family over his wife. Even when Promise asked him gore but you're the one who bought her into the family
Right there. I knew that girl was right.. Yhooo angeke
Very true
He said “you must not allow your wife to come between you and your family or your family to come between you and your wife”
Imagine 😢bomma
Not him calling her “that lady” 😭
Heyyyy
Wena rao shiya ko Mans conference, 😂Eddy weee, man up leave ur mom n Siblings
Nnete fela
Mosiyeng o useless
Mmusetseng banneng😂😂
Klaar😏
There is no way someone can take a knife on you and you are saying you don't know what was the argument about. This woman doesn't look crazy,never
He's now blaming his mamazala but doesn't want his mother to be blamed
But it honestly raises eyebrows on the Mamazala..why would she hide all this? Unless she knew ukuthi her child was in the wrong.
This guy o weak weak weak. Let him marry again the girl stated she wasn't working in marriage. The lady should go to court. She is in denial about their separation, the man cheatered she can't stay with .we waiting for new makoti round 2.the ladies gave each other senyama thats why she smell. They are both wrong but his family enkga lefotha
Guys STI causes a smell.
hawu mara Promise we were waiting for part 2 ya the girl from the rehabilitation not batho babakgolo banali maka
I came here for part 2
Ke next week
😂😂😂😂😂😂
We made an announcement that its airing next Wednesday 17 July at 1pm
😂😂😂😂 elders who lie for no reason 😂😂😂 while we are waiting for important issues...wa bora this guy but the is some truth to his story the lady can't be completely innocent they must just grow up nje..
Man was asked “why did you cheat” and he flipped the conversation to how Porsche he was suspecting Porsche of cheating 😭
Portia could be toxic but what led to her being like that i dont knw. She only mentioned all the bad things about this guy and his family coz she wants to play victim. The guy has his weaknesses but how do you deal a person who burns your clothes and sleeps with a knife
Exactlly!!
The fact that he came to defend his family,confirms everything that portia said.this man fail his wife
This man is what we call isiyoyoyo, that lady dodged a bullet. Men like this should remain unmarried or marry his mother or sister.
😂😂 true I can't stand Mummys boys
Am still saying iyoh
Yhoo Promise this interview you seem disorganised and didn't have enough time to plan...so many red flags about what this guy said but you didn't dig deeper..
I feel like they should have listened to Portias story before interviewing da husband to comprehend everything she said. Looks like she was misquoted on what she said.
This marriage was toxic nje,too much detactives n they should just devorce in peace.the lady should just accept what's given to her n move on.
Die bra onale mokgwa…Porche is the one that got away and I love that for her ❤
They both have contributed to this .but what im realizing is that the lady has depression and having it difficult to accept the separation.
Nna nekere boelanang. You cannot push someone beyond their limits and be surprised when they lose it. Sit down with her and fix your issues. Nibadala
Nah I believe the wife obviously this man will advocate, justify, and defend him self man can can change the story as always remember man can lie
Him explaining that whole cheating thing? What a bunch of nothings! May this kind of man never locate me in the name of the Lord!!!
Ke joint estate ya eng if the "lady never worked"???!! This guy is talking rubbish
This guy o bua rubbish fela
Joint estate is everything they have, if she had 0 and he had 2 then you add zero plus 2 and get 2 then the equally to the couple he is being fair it’s how it works whether she worked or jot
Joint means her zero and his 3
This guy is just full of nonsense 🙄 😢he makes me angry ga a tsebe le hore o tlile for eng mona
😂😂😂😂Chesa wena Teacber. Akere a tsebe basic maths mothushe@@Mamaofthree792
If your intentions was to improve your family sir nkabe o sanka o nyala ngwana wa batho because that monster in-laws they will always demand on you and hate your wife for the whole life.Ga o na back bone Eddie
Hence why he built before marrying her
@@zandiletshehla2877 exactly
@@zandiletshehla2877Do u want this man Sisi??? U sim 2 be interested in him😂😂😂
Maybe ke sesiage 😂@@tlangelanipatriciashingang5789
The lady mentioned they started building the house while she was girlfriend
I hate the way he addresses Promise.
Listen!!!
Ke tsebela kae?
Yooh man who doesn't defend you , especially to his family,ke nonsonso
Trauma 😢
A re he needs to know whether your telling the truth😂
Imagine!!! @@Bee-zl2gq
@@Bee-zl2gqeven if you are in the wrong he must defend you? A true wife knows to shut it and fight her battles quietly in the battle field. Portia lied too from what I picked up
Promise re kopa the lady o Eddie na flertta Leena, the friend wa Portia, le the KFC guy, before we make our decision 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
His family probably forced him to come for damage control but unfortunately it didn't work. What a narcissistic man
He is defending himself
@@nicolamailola8391 it's actually not working.
WE BELIEVE HER . 🙂
It's very good to listen to both sides of the story, there's a lot here..I think the guy have taken a good move to respond..
Promise I like your podcast but I feel like you’re not asking relevant questions or do research on such situations so that you can ask better questions that aligns with the story ,the house could have been built in preparation to the wedding because some people don’t want to get married while the house is not in a good condition.I am not taking sides but that’s just my view 😅
I am trying to get yo previous Porshe story because i feel like they build before they got married. I stand to be corrected
He answered the question why he built the house he said he wanted to better his family situation i think thts why he built before marrying coz he knew its gonna cause a rift if he starts building after marriage
Men are going through alot, why is it difficult to just sign divorce ge motho asago nyake...now kedi ip and down😢
I tend to believe this man bcos I have seen this happening in a family.
Women can be mad...both of them are toxic to each other
Why did she come to social media?
It takes two to tango. One can blame in laws but at the end it only takes two tango.
besides in laws involvement, Both two couples were hurt and they continued to hurt each other. Social media is not a good platform to solve marriage issues. There is reason on wedding day we sing taba ke tsa babedi wa bo 3 No, no. So now this marriage it has lot of people now and all issues are now on social media. How many men are suffering in silence when woman tend to abuse them? At least this guy went to get a protection order against the wife unlike keeping quite. At least he also came here and spoke his side. Soo i applaud him because many men are dying in silence we are not ready to talk about we hurt women can be toxod and abusive simply because we are struggling to forgive the wrongs of our loved ones. Anger and Unforgiveness can turn a sweet woman into a monster.
I honestly like this man, he’s standing on the truth,,
Only few understand him
Bare Kena le monna Bara Edward Mojela. Nka ipolaya struu😢😢😢
😂❤
Why?i feel you judging this man, actually i feel this man is telling the truth, ladies and being biased by the other ladies, something is fishy with that lady, either entitlement is her issue or she did not think she will lose all this luxury , she is depressed
@@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 Lol are u the sister of Monna wo😃
@@nickymthelebofu m not the sister nor related,but blv u me, there's some truth there
@@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 yes there is, but this man is Bomma man
Truth or not, well articulated. This guy has a solid head on his shoulders.. It’s refreshing to listen to an intelligent person on this platform once in a while
True
Can this kind of Man never locate me hle Morena waka lena 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Number ine stupidity is "never let your wife to come between you and your family"
By the way this guy is a married man.😮
That comment, i shifted on the chair were i was sitting...ibfekt cold.
This happens when you get conflicted between your family and extended family
As women I think we must just fight for ourselves. Waiting for your husband to fight for you it’s like you are coming between the husband and his siblings according to most of families. If they say something you are not confortable talk to them immediately regardless of the outcome nje
So he can't even say my ex wife or Portia,he just say this lady
But he has been saying my wife then jumps to addressing her as that lady.
Dude just confirmed Porsche koloi ya go tura's story....we thank him for vilifying her whilst trying to defend the indefensible!
Indoda that cant stand up for his wife ⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳
"You must never let your wife to come in-between you and your family"!!!!😮😮😮😮
@@kgaogeloleseka7941 Imagine 😂😂
Is not all the time where you stand for shit,, am a wife and I will put my husband in a awkward situation just because I feel he owes me loyalty, y’all should be fair to your husbands and do the right thing,, don’t marry someone who don’t or will never respect
You want him to stand for someone like Portia, who can threaten a men with the knife and here we are watching them, you can't be serious
That's the main problem....he has forgotten his position as a husband
Protect your wife with all cost ... no matter what kere protect ur wife
Haibo even if she is wrong musani ukudlala ngamadoda
Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽
But wives can be wrong ...
He said a bunch of nothing.what a waste of time
What if this lady started contributing to the house when they were dating? Did I miss that?
This man is not make sure…he cheated shem lol
Lets not turn a blind on the fact that portia was physically abusive
Society doesn’t blv men
He is protecting his family ..and yet he act innocent
This guy disrespect Promise in her own podcast,,,imagine what was he doing to that poor lady in private....we have lot of women in mental institutions because of such guy then they come forth and Claim that women are crazy mnx😢😢😢😢sthuphethu lesi
Bible e la tjho yare o tla siya Mmao ha o nyala u will never last in any marriage with this mentality abuti
He will never shame
I believe Portia.
😢😢This Guy Is Protecting His Family
Too much 😭yooh may this kind of man never locate me 😩
@@LebogangMoabelotoo much tog yho he irritates me
They are like that even my baby daddy! His family comes before his own daughter!
Skaya bochum by all it mean😂@@LebogangMoabelo
I lost it when he said bring them together.... Nagana his fam against me 😢I need my father in that meeting too
The moment he said to Promise “listen to me, listen to what I am saying” nahhh 🤮 even if everything Portia said is a lie, as in all of it, I still stand with her because the other option isn’t up for consideration yuk!!!
These 2 should just cut their losses...this guys family will always be a factor in their marriage
This guy o tshwara kua le kua, his side of the story is not adding
Hai gape ga go kopane 😅
@@masegohlaabye7551Yoh he’s badmouthing the mother in law and protecting his
Men cnt express themselves well like us women
Ke di fill in the missing words type of questions 😂😂😂🤣🥲
😂😂😂nna ker okwa Kenna fela one maaka
I can see your PR background playing a good role with your interviews. You handled it very well
Monna O Lena Is Denying Everything And Trying To Play Mind Games Nna Gake Motshepe Motho