Eddie Mojela ON his wife's cheating , Violence and Fighting for his moms house

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  • @chicomateus2051
    @chicomateus2051 17 днів тому +152

    "The most important advice I have is about family dynamics. I have 8 sisters who were troubling my wife with hurtful words. I stood by my wife's side and protected her throughout, despite knowing about my sisters' behaviour. It's crucial to stop protecting your family and focus on fixing your marriage. Your family might not support your marriage, especially if you are the main provider at home; they may try to alienate your wife. It's time to realize the reality of the situation."

    • @user-ok9kw9kk4r
      @user-ok9kw9kk4r 17 днів тому +9

      They can even lie ijo, men like you are so scarce.

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 17 днів тому +8

      @user-ok9kw9kk4r Yes, they create stories and lies, and if you are a provider, you need to stand your ground. I stood by her until they all made peace with it. Now we are one happy family

    • @rnk236
      @rnk236 17 днів тому +2

      @chicomateus2051 Hmm…🥃 God bless you and your wife.

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 16 днів тому

      @@rnk236 I'm blessed to have her in my life

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 16 днів тому

      @@rnk236 I'm blessed to have her in my life

  • @patricianwandule5798
    @patricianwandule5798 17 днів тому +101

    May this kind of man never locate me ...God refuse ka naa please😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @SM-mh1kq
      @SM-mh1kq 15 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wena stoutu...ene ba tla o locater 😅😅😅😅....I'm joking...May God give you humble, Godly man

    • @ntombidayimani8178
      @ntombidayimani8178 13 днів тому

      Me and you both 😢😢😢

    • @kamogelokoloane5182
      @kamogelokoloane5182 2 дні тому

      Amen.. Amen...Amen

  • @PulengTshabalala-n3k
    @PulengTshabalala-n3k 17 днів тому +196

    May this kind of man never locate me😢modimo hana kanna

  • @thattswanagirl5615
    @thattswanagirl5615 17 днів тому +138

    The use of “that lady” says a lot about this guy’s character. That lady referred to him as husband throughout her interview.

    • @KaraboKalauba
      @KaraboKalauba 17 днів тому +6

      And Portia kept on saying my husband through out the interview

    • @Deli.N
      @Deli.N 17 днів тому +8

      Remember she said he initiated the divorce so I think he's so over her that's why he refers to her as that lady

    • @CharmaineKgatla
      @CharmaineKgatla 17 днів тому +18

      Mean he moved on long time ago, this guy must just go n marry his mom n siblings ​@Deli.N

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 17 днів тому +15

      @@thattswanagirl5615
      He didn't listen to the whole podcast
      His family told him about it

    • @blackwoman_015
      @blackwoman_015 17 днів тому

      I said it !!!

  • @PemmyTshikovhele
    @PemmyTshikovhele 17 днів тому +166

    He came here to say nothing n confirm portia story 😊

  • @silindilenxumalo9541
    @silindilenxumalo9541 17 днів тому +69

    This guy is protecting is family. For as long as he does this, he will never have a wife. Not this one and no one else ever. Because he is their lotto, abamthandi.

  • @tinayoung3630
    @tinayoung3630 17 днів тому +34

    This man is full of lies and he keeps running away from answering questions properly coz he knows he is lying, 🚮

  • @chloebadass9526
    @chloebadass9526 17 днів тому +30

    Your next girlfriend must not see this interview. “You can’t allow your wife to come between you and your family”? Some mothers hates their sons😢they make sure that they don’t marry.

  • @lekgatlanehellenmoshidi62
    @lekgatlanehellenmoshidi62 17 днів тому +64

    he confirmed everything Porche mentioned,he is just worried about his family reputation.

    • @murielmoyahabo6078
      @murielmoyahabo6078 День тому

      Yeyi confirmed without confirming. Guy is a real definition of a narcissist

  • @kms708
    @kms708 17 днів тому +52

    I was ready to find out how Portia lied only for this guy to Prove her right😂.

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 17 днів тому +3

      Nna I saw it from the word go...

    • @malidirbth7100
      @malidirbth7100 17 днів тому +4

      How right because the man has proof that the house was built b4 they got married. He also mentioned that porch was not working from 2016 if not 2015.
      Come with proof MoGirl to show that you are working and bought all what you claim.

    • @mariaduduzile3576
      @mariaduduzile3576 8 днів тому +1

      ​@@malidirbth7100 I remember her saying gore they built the house while they were still dating before getting married.

    • @cynthiaseanego3607
      @cynthiaseanego3607 8 днів тому

      @@mariaduduzile3576yep I also heard her

  • @gilliannkomi406
    @gilliannkomi406 17 днів тому +43

    Ge osa protect your wife obviously ur siblings batlo mo namela bamo fologa.. "protect your wife with all cost"

    • @nthabelengmohlala3175
      @nthabelengmohlala3175 17 днів тому +2

      Exactly! Yena he's point is that he can't be a referee meaning he doesn't have the natural instinct to protect mosadi wa gagwe

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 17 днів тому

      Exactly

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata871 17 днів тому +39

    Tlang ke le botjeng hle they are bith right in their own way 😮
    Sadly their marriage involved lots of unnecessary people. Guys marriage is for 2people hle.
    ❤🎉Marriage is beautiful🎉❤

    • @marciamohale6720
      @marciamohale6720 17 днів тому

      Too many passangers in the merriage

    • @pheladitau6762
      @pheladitau6762 16 днів тому +1

      If this can reach the inlaws....if ur son is getting married.. plzzzzzzz he is marrying for himself not for mamazala....

  • @lebogangkutu-c2g
    @lebogangkutu-c2g 17 днів тому +40

    I feel so for the next victim 😢. Portia thank God you are out, wishing you healing.

  • @phutimaifo9635
    @phutimaifo9635 17 днів тому +39

    She is not working she is a business woman she is self employed

    • @user-bs4pu8vg1u
      @user-bs4pu8vg1u 17 днів тому

      Stupid lier says Potia is not working so stupid 🙄 Potia works because she is self employed

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 17 днів тому +57

    Go to fix your marriage there is no issue here excluding 3rd person

    • @katlegomonyamane9653
      @katlegomonyamane9653 17 днів тому +10

      That's true,the only problems is the in-law and Portia need to see therapy to deal with stress of not having baby

    • @ladyb5843
      @ladyb5843 17 днів тому

      Nnete fela

    • @marciamohale6720
      @marciamohale6720 17 днів тому

      Yazi

    • @lucyteffomooi.
      @lucyteffomooi. 17 днів тому +6

      True,he didnt even need to come here,i feel like he is lying he didnt even try to bring them together en ask what is what

    • @ramolokoanemakhafola1284
      @ramolokoanemakhafola1284 17 днів тому +9

      ​@@lucyteffomooi.I stand with you. This guy o bolela maaka. O yemella family ya gabo

  • @poppymatshidiso7292
    @poppymatshidiso7292 17 днів тому +109

    Promise mama , what a waste of your time and ours Yoh .
    Typical bomma , narcissist of note.
    ‘I cheated with reasons’ what a joke sana 😂

    • @nthabelengmohlala3175
      @nthabelengmohlala3175 17 днів тому

      Typical Pedi man😂 can't protect/ defend his wife. His family was/is overly involved in their marriage

    • @lumkamsingizana7360
      @lumkamsingizana7360 17 днів тому +1

      Rha this guy! 🚮

    • @user-bs4pu8vg1u
      @user-bs4pu8vg1u 17 днів тому +5

      😂gal am so pissed,,,,real narcissist 😢

    • @kgaogelomarakalala-jz6vh
      @kgaogelomarakalala-jz6vh 17 днів тому +1

      Imagine sies😂😂😂😂😢😢

    • @thembikgwebu7873
      @thembikgwebu7873 16 днів тому

      I'm just as pissed..I've been waiting to hear his side of the story but nah he was here to defend his family

  • @menniekumalo3276
    @menniekumalo3276 16 днів тому +12

    This man is what we call isiyoyoyo, that lady dodged a bullet. Men like this should remain unmarried or marry his mother or sister.

  • @leratomamabolo
    @leratomamabolo 17 днів тому +46

    Let’s be honest to each other guys Porsche ha a kgaogane le ntlo ela and focus on the other assets that her husband has. That house does not form part of her joint estate with her husband. If she bought furniture and she has slips or bank statements to prove it she can claim them but she should leave the house issue.

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo 17 днів тому +5

      She’s basically wasting her time with the house

    • @BabyHope-js5gx
      @BabyHope-js5gx 17 днів тому +6

      N DE guy is not refusing to share 50/50 on whatever is in His name hle. Divorce e bohloko.

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo 17 днів тому +2

      @@BabyHope-js5gx too much shame it’s painful

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 17 днів тому +4

      She's fulling herself.....the house she's not goner get

    • @hildamashilo5037
      @hildamashilo5037 10 днів тому

      ​@@BabyHope-js5gxPorch seems like she likes show off..she should just accept that the guy he's not refusing with 50%

  • @vikeliwendlovu
    @vikeliwendlovu 17 днів тому +26

    He shouldn't have come here 😅😆 we were not born yesterday

    • @sharonmaluleke4618
      @sharonmaluleke4618 16 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂He shoukd have stayed wherever he was, Yhoooo he's a narcissist

  • @MaMwelaseMvelase
    @MaMwelaseMvelase 17 днів тому +23

    Mina what I've learnt in life is that if you're falsely accused just keep quite, somehow the person making noise about you will be exposed. But if you try defending yourself, even if you're right you become questionable. But then that's just me.

    • @dumisanindlovu4396
      @dumisanindlovu4396 16 днів тому +3

      This is so true...people always say two sides of a story...it's rare in these kind of situation for the man to be equally heard😢

  • @pertuniamosa4773
    @pertuniamosa4773 17 днів тому +15

    Arg xem Mmatswale le dikgaetsedi ba mo apeetse ka meetse a di panty tsa bona, he contributed a lot to Posh's behaviour. She made her feel like an outsider ko ga bo. If you marry her then you must be ready to protect her. Otla mo kgala lele 2 in ur room nd not infront of ur family

  • @Vhushavhelo
    @Vhushavhelo 17 днів тому +83

    She might have lied but man, this man came and said nothing 😟😟

  • @isurviveditrixongile
    @isurviveditrixongile 17 днів тому +19

    My advise to Promise: Allow the guest to explain his side, then ask. The probing is is slightly linear to the one you 'potentially' believe, removing the mutual stance you'd like to have in such a scenario. Apart from that, Well done sisi, you are doing so well. Will keep watching

  • @wespeakthetruthhere7413
    @wespeakthetruthhere7413 17 днів тому +22

    Not him calling her “that lady” 😭

  • @reneilwekgatle8988
    @reneilwekgatle8988 15 днів тому +7

    This guy is not a man, he just confirmed everything his wife said, he needs to be able to stand up to his family

  • @MidyMcD
    @MidyMcD 17 днів тому +14

    Narcissists are reserved...

  • @katlegokgolane182
    @katlegokgolane182 17 днів тому +93

    Lord protect me from this mentally of bringing my personal issues in social media😢😢, this is insane

  • @rachelshabangu4253
    @rachelshabangu4253 17 днів тому +52

    He's scared of his family this one, ladies stay away from this kind, Bomma😮

  • @MogashoaLesetja
    @MogashoaLesetja 17 днів тому +31

    Wena rao shiya ko Mans conference, 😂Eddy weee, man up leave ur mom n Siblings

  • @lifeisbetterwithjesuschris9161
    @lifeisbetterwithjesuschris9161 17 днів тому +75

    I applaud the man for coming and saying his side of story. We turn to support women more than man without hearing their side of story. Men endure pain and abuse as much as we do.

    • @lucyteffomooi.
      @lucyteffomooi. 17 днів тому +3

      One thing about men,can be on the side of their family or side of the wife,never between,they hate being between they choose side

    • @silindilenxumalo9541
      @silindilenxumalo9541 17 днів тому +18

      I'm not saying the wife was perfect, but judging from the way he speaks,he sided with his family.

    • @sulezinyembezigqeba
      @sulezinyembezigqeba 17 днів тому

      💯

    • @zandiletshehla2877
      @zandiletshehla2877 17 днів тому +9

      @@lucyteffomooi.theres no need to choose he needs them both just like us women we need both family and partners we dnt have to choose they can co-exist

    • @MalefaMadihlaba
      @MalefaMadihlaba 17 днів тому

      Exactly ...women always put their family and children before their men ..but when men do it its an issue for them .....i think he is right ..no relationship should break down family bonds ..and if thats what women want..then its completely wrong ....learn to co..exist ...​@zandiletshehla2877

  • @Maps_Machaba
    @Maps_Machaba 17 днів тому +12

    Its just heartbreaking seeing marriages falling apart 🙆‍♂️. May God intervene 💔💔💔

  • @KeituForever
    @KeituForever 17 днів тому +12

    Promise bo menemene mara??? Portia told you that she is currently unemployed, why are you acting brand new?

    • @nhlanhlathwala3282
      @nhlanhlathwala3282 15 днів тому +4

      She did say that she is CURRENTLY unemployed but not that she's been unemployed since the early stages of the relationship. I think that's why Promise is ''shocked''.

  • @katlehokoote8066
    @katlehokoote8066 17 днів тому +9

    24 minutes in and this man has said absolutely NOTHING… ho ntso thweng mara mo!!!??

  • @KaraboKalauba
    @KaraboKalauba 17 днів тому +45

    I feel like sesi promised also failed with this interview. She didnt put pressure on relevant questions

    • @sibongilenkwana8835
      @sibongilenkwana8835 15 днів тому +2

      I think he is a lost case this guy. He can't even get to the point

    • @user-qc4pl7sk1j
      @user-qc4pl7sk1j 15 днів тому +3

      Same, I feel like she wanted him to believe she's on his side.

    • @Lebo_Mathibela
      @Lebo_Mathibela 14 днів тому

      True, she even said she is challenged. By what exactly, long answers while he contradict himself?eg, He says he never cheated he was flirting with the gal along the way says he cheated and so what🤣🤣

    • @kgomotsogaosenkwe335
      @kgomotsogaosenkwe335 4 дні тому

      ​@@user-qc4pl7sk1jVery True

  • @shokimasha2389
    @shokimasha2389 16 днів тому +4

    Nna ke Shap banna ba Mapedi, these men literally live for Bomma mxm. This touched me because somehow it reminded of my ex family in law treatment of me. And having a husband this weak will make you have a mental breakdown.

  • @kagisoEskaYy-no9jt
    @kagisoEskaYy-no9jt 17 днів тому +8

    He's now blaming his mamazala but doesn't want his mother to be blamed

    • @nhlanhlathwala3282
      @nhlanhlathwala3282 15 днів тому +1

      But it honestly raises eyebrows on the Mamazala..why would she hide all this? Unless she knew ukuthi her child was in the wrong.

  • @michelmabuza4087
    @michelmabuza4087 17 днів тому +22

    This guy o tshwara kua le kua, his side of the story is not adding

    • @masegohlaabye7551
      @masegohlaabye7551 17 днів тому +3

      Hai gape ga go kopane 😅

    • @michelmabuza4087
      @michelmabuza4087 17 днів тому

      @@masegohlaabye7551Yoh he’s badmouthing the mother in law and protecting his

    • @zandiletshehla2877
      @zandiletshehla2877 17 днів тому +2

      Men cnt express themselves well like us women

    • @mokgadiboshomane2146
      @mokgadiboshomane2146 17 днів тому

      Ke di fill in the missing words type of questions 😂😂😂🤣🥲

    • @lebogangmariba4388
      @lebogangmariba4388 17 днів тому

      😂😂😂nna ker okwa Kenna fela one maaka

  • @matekedigojane571
    @matekedigojane571 16 днів тому +8

    He came well prepared and listened to her podcast and attacked her according to it... Moghal had her flaws but the arrogance is too much 😢

  • @keorapetsemotau5318
    @keorapetsemotau5318 17 днів тому +35

    Its so hard to listen to him because he is so defensive, Portia was so clear in her explanation and addressed him with respect.

    • @user-bs4pu8vg1u
      @user-bs4pu8vg1u 17 днів тому

      He can't be clear because he is a lier and manipulater

    • @evansmangena121
      @evansmangena121 17 днів тому +1

      Problems with this guy he not good storie tell

    • @friedajason8678
      @friedajason8678 16 днів тому +1

      Portia was only accommodating South Africans, us Namibians understood nothing. We feel left out.

    • @Siba_Vee
      @Siba_Vee 16 днів тому

      Not everyone is a good story teller, and that doesn't mean that they are lying

  • @lungilenjokweni
    @lungilenjokweni 15 днів тому +4

    Marriage isn't pap &vleis guys. That's why it's important to attend pre marital counseling. Love, sex and attraction don't build up a strong relationship. But good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A marriage certificate doesn't guarantee anything, build a solid foundation from the beginning. My wife and I have been through all such challenges and we've conquered All. We've just celebrated our 18th anniversary. Life is a journey not a destination. Forgiveness, tolerance, love, understanding, long suffering are but a few keys to a strong marriage. We're not perfect 👌🏿

  • @anastheciasebela6460
    @anastheciasebela6460 17 днів тому +59

    Indoda that cant stand up for his wife ⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳

    • @kgaogeloleseka7941
      @kgaogeloleseka7941 17 днів тому +1

      "You must never let your wife to come in-between you and your family"!!!!😮😮😮😮

    • @anastheciasebela6460
      @anastheciasebela6460 17 днів тому

      ​@@kgaogeloleseka7941 Imagine 😂😂

    • @cindyrambau4476
      @cindyrambau4476 17 днів тому +2

      Is not all the time where you stand for shit,, am a wife and I will put my husband in a awkward situation just because I feel he owes me loyalty, y’all should be fair to your husbands and do the right thing,, don’t marry someone who don’t or will never respect

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 17 днів тому +1

      You want him to stand for someone like Portia, who can threaten a men with the knife and here we are watching them, you can't be serious

    • @emelymoleko3205
      @emelymoleko3205 16 днів тому

      That's the main problem....he has forgotten his position as a husband

  • @Mloko_M27
    @Mloko_M27 17 днів тому +53

    Bare Kena le monna Bara Edward Mojela. Nka ipolaya struu😢😢😢

    • @anastheciasebela6460
      @anastheciasebela6460 17 днів тому +1

      😂❤

    • @mmakgollaphoshoko4042
      @mmakgollaphoshoko4042 17 днів тому +7

      Why?i feel you judging this man, actually i feel this man is telling the truth, ladies and being biased by the other ladies, something is fishy with that lady, either entitlement is her issue or she did not think she will lose all this luxury , she is depressed

    • @nickymthelebofu
      @nickymthelebofu 17 днів тому +8

      ​@@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 Lol are u the sister of Monna wo😃

    • @mmakgollaphoshoko4042
      @mmakgollaphoshoko4042 17 днів тому +3

      @@nickymthelebofu m not the sister nor related,but blv u me, there's some truth there

    • @nickymthelebofu
      @nickymthelebofu 17 днів тому +1

      @@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 yes there is, but this man is Bomma man

  • @Lebogang-dy3zx
    @Lebogang-dy3zx 17 днів тому +42

    Red flag number 1,he failed to protect his wife, weak man 🚩

    • @noxologeralds7591
      @noxologeralds7591 17 днів тому

      Very true a husband should protect his wife.

    • @Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd
      @Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd 17 днів тому +1

      Lea mo nyela ngwana batho😂😂😂
      Portia is a liar

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 17 днів тому +1

      You viewing it from distance, be in his boots and let's see if you will still say that

    • @elvismagongoa4175
      @elvismagongoa4175 16 днів тому

      @@Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd ka nnete people are just protecting her cause ke mosadi, she says she built the house for Mamazala yet Google proves the house was built 2 years before she was married. People will just take sides because they can.

  • @uuka652
    @uuka652 17 днів тому +16

    Didn't she say she was building the house while dating than got married officially 2018.

    • @chloebadass9526
      @chloebadass9526 17 днів тому +5

      They don’t want to touch that part...

    • @mokgohloentsoane7607
      @mokgohloentsoane7607 13 днів тому +2

      Mara logically speaking how does build a house ko bo boyfriend? Why nasa nyake stand a aga ? That to me doesn't make sense

  • @pulengmoatshe9985
    @pulengmoatshe9985 17 днів тому +11

    He said a bunch of nothing.what a waste of time

  • @matshidisomofokeng2997
    @matshidisomofokeng2997 17 днів тому +12

    Bible e la tjho yare o tla siya Mmao ha o nyala u will never last in any marriage with this mentality abuti

  • @boipeloboipy4106
    @boipeloboipy4106 17 днів тому +13

    Yoh Promise, lets talk about your hair and how beautiful you look.. Because ha e le interview e yona. Ga ke tlhaloganye why we here, struu..

  • @mokgadimamabolo7859
    @mokgadimamabolo7859 17 днів тому +10

    Yhoo Promise this interview you seem disorganised and didn't have enough time to plan...so many red flags about what this guy said but you didn't dig deeper..

    • @Namunana89
      @Namunana89 17 днів тому +2

      I feel like they should have listened to Portias story before interviewing da husband to comprehend everything she said. Looks like she was misquoted on what she said.

  • @Sticks......................
    @Sticks...................... 16 днів тому +7

    This interview is pure testimony that interviewing someone is a skill which needs to be fully and carefully developed l

  • @Bee-zl2gq
    @Bee-zl2gq 17 днів тому +58

    He lost me in the 1st 15 minutes…” you can never allow a woman to get in between you and your family “

    • @nthabelengmohlala3175
      @nthabelengmohlala3175 17 днів тому +6

      Same- when he said that, I knew that Portia was telling the truth. Because he's basically saying that he'd protect his family over his wife. Even when Promise asked him gore but you're the one who bought her into the family

    • @meisiezazaskosana6667
      @meisiezazaskosana6667 17 днів тому +4

      Right there. I knew that girl was right.. Yhooo angeke

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 17 днів тому +1

      Very true

    • @kedifentsetaljaart5222
      @kedifentsetaljaart5222 17 днів тому +1

      He said “you must not allow your wife to come between you and your family or your family to come between you and your wife”

    • @esthersambo6119
      @esthersambo6119 16 днів тому

      Imagine 😢bomma

  • @princessskosana1372
    @princessskosana1372 17 днів тому +8

    Give Portia what’s rightfully hers, I don’t think I’ll even finish watching this podcast cause I’m sure this guy was forcefully sent by his family to come and clear their family name.

  • @Mloko_M27
    @Mloko_M27 17 днів тому +38

    This guy o ntlatsa pelo yho. Okare nka mmetha ka mpama

  • @user-dj8ow5uo9c
    @user-dj8ow5uo9c 17 днів тому +10

    So he can't even say my ex wife or Portia,he just say this lady

    • @mokgohloentsoane7607
      @mokgohloentsoane7607 13 днів тому

      But he has been saying my wife then jumps to addressing her as that lady.

  • @Ladydee510
    @Ladydee510 17 днів тому +25

    I believe Portia has been through psychological trauma, she needs to get help, heal and let it go. Husband loved her, but a lot happened including third parties and that led to the end of their marriage. Life happened

  • @SammyMqwati
    @SammyMqwati 17 днів тому +19

    Shame sesi Promise surely haofetsa interview ee orile kapelong "ive just wasted my time" huuu abuti oo haona ntwe abuileng niks ..

  • @nompulal
    @nompulal 13 днів тому +2

    It's 5 minutes in the PodCast and I don't trust this guy. He doesn't answer questions. Wajikajika mani

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 17 днів тому +13

    This guy o weak weak weak. Let him marry again the girl stated she wasn't working in marriage. The lady should go to court. She is in denial about their separation, the man cheatered she can't stay with .we waiting for new makoti round 2.the ladies gave each other senyama thats why she smell. They are both wrong but his family enkga lefotha

  • @siba92
    @siba92 17 днів тому +5

    His family probably forced him to come for damage control but unfortunately it didn't work. What a narcissistic man

    • @nicolamailola8391
      @nicolamailola8391 16 днів тому

      He is defending himself

    • @siba92
      @siba92 16 днів тому

      @@nicolamailola8391 it's actually not working.
      WE BELIEVE HER . 🙂

  • @KatlegoYaBatswadi
    @KatlegoYaBatswadi 17 днів тому +6

    Monna O Lena Is Denying Everything And Trying To Play Mind Games Nna Gake Motshepe Motho

  • @refentsemakwetja15
    @refentsemakwetja15 3 дні тому

    I was married to a man like this one. Their lies are so believable to a point that you doubt your own experiences. In the last family meeting before our separation all I did was cry, while he was confidently lying to the elders. He was mentioning things that happened in my previous relationship that I told him in confidence, my parents didn't even know about. A very sweet guy if you meet him on the street, but behind the closed doors, a monster. Most of our problems included his mom, but you wouldn't dare mention her in the meeting, she was protected by all means.

  • @kgaogeloleseka7941
    @kgaogeloleseka7941 17 днів тому +15

    Yooh man who doesn't defend you , especially to his family,ke nonsonso

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 17 днів тому

      Trauma 😢

    • @Bee-zl2gq
      @Bee-zl2gq 17 днів тому

      A re he needs to know whether your telling the truth😂

    • @nkosazanaleseka4261
      @nkosazanaleseka4261 17 днів тому

      Imagine!!! ​@@Bee-zl2gq

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 17 днів тому +1

      @@Bee-zl2gqeven if you are in the wrong he must defend you? A true wife knows to shut it and fight her battles quietly in the battle field. Portia lied too from what I picked up

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata871 17 днів тому +30

    Number ine stupidity is "never let your wife to come between you and your family"
    By the way this guy is a married man.😮

    • @JoyceMabote
      @JoyceMabote 17 днів тому

      That comment, i shifted on the chair were i was sitting...ibfekt cold.

    • @kananelomolosioa6404
      @kananelomolosioa6404 17 днів тому

      This happens when you get conflicted between your family and extended family

  • @SelekaKgoale
    @SelekaKgoale 14 днів тому +2

    Being married to a breadwinner its a problem especially with sisters with kids and not married..otlo bona mathata stru

  • @zandiletshehla2877
    @zandiletshehla2877 17 днів тому +43

    We need to be honest about our fellow sister she was not an angel in this relationship she needs to be accountable and stop playing a victim and blaming other people she also contributed to this toxicity🚮

    • @portiawarroomreshoketswe3028
      @portiawarroomreshoketswe3028 17 днів тому

      True heyyy

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 17 днів тому +4

      I am with you, when she told her story I did not hear her say what her mistakes were. I am married and I would never let my husband cause a rift between me and my family same way I would never let them do the same it’s my job to manage both

    • @zandiletshehla2877
      @zandiletshehla2877 17 днів тому +2

      @@Mamaofthree792exactly all she did was to blame and accuse other people but not owning up to her flaws this guy is owning up to his mistakes, i am married too and i will never allow my partner to get between me and my family if they dnt like each other its okay they can co-exist but tht does not mean i have to choose, when he says something about 1 of my family member i must believe him coz we are couple.

    • @TebogoRahab
      @TebogoRahab 17 днів тому

      @@zandiletshehla2877 Amen ..True .

    • @pearltebogo2708
      @pearltebogo2708 17 днів тому

      Danki

  • @kgaogeloleseka7941
    @kgaogeloleseka7941 17 днів тому +16

    Ke joint estate ya eng if the "lady never worked"???!! This guy is talking rubbish

    • @GomolemoKgokong-tf5nv
      @GomolemoKgokong-tf5nv 17 днів тому +1

      This guy o bua rubbish fela

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 17 днів тому +3

      Joint estate is everything they have, if she had 0 and he had 2 then you add zero plus 2 and get 2 then the equally to the couple he is being fair it’s how it works whether she worked or jot

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 17 днів тому +3

      Joint means her zero and his 3

    • @user-bs4pu8vg1u
      @user-bs4pu8vg1u 17 днів тому

      This guy is just full of nonsense 🙄 😢he makes me angry ga a tsebe le hore o tlile for eng mona

    • @murielmoyahabo6078
      @murielmoyahabo6078 День тому

      😂😂😂😂Chesa wena Teacber. Akere a tsebe basic maths mothushe​@@Mamaofthree792

  • @nkosazanankosi5760
    @nkosazanankosi5760 17 днів тому +14

    hawu mara Promise we were waiting for part 2 ya the girl from the rehabilitation not batho babakgolo banali maka

    • @Sadrama-w6t
      @Sadrama-w6t 17 днів тому +2

      I came here for part 2

    • @suzanorefile170
      @suzanorefile170 17 днів тому

      Ke next week

    • @mathomesamuel801
      @mathomesamuel801 17 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Ownnarrativepodcast
      @Ownnarrativepodcast  17 днів тому +2

      We made an announcement that its airing next Wednesday 17 July at 1pm

    • @Me20243
      @Me20243 17 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂 elders who lie for no reason 😂😂😂 while we are waiting for important issues...wa bora this guy but the is some truth to his story the lady can't be completely innocent they must just grow up nje..

  • @selinabatlhaodi612
    @selinabatlhaodi612 17 днів тому +7

    This marriage was toxic nje,too much detactives n they should just devorce in peace.the lady should just accept what's given to her n move on.

  • @keitumetseledingoane8458
    @keitumetseledingoane8458 17 днів тому +6

    Die bra onale mokgwa…Porche is the one that got away and I love that for her ❤

  • @KatlegoYaBatswadi
    @KatlegoYaBatswadi 17 днів тому +66

    😢😢This Guy Is Protecting His Family

    • @LebogangMoabelo
      @LebogangMoabelo 17 днів тому +11

      Too much 😭yooh may this kind of man never locate me 😩

    • @lucyteffomooi.
      @lucyteffomooi. 17 днів тому +2

      ​@@LebogangMoabelotoo much tog yho he irritates me

    • @busisiwequeen670
      @busisiwequeen670 17 днів тому +1

      They are like that even my baby daddy! His family comes before his own daughter!

    • @openmindedfairy9691
      @openmindedfairy9691 17 днів тому +2

      Skaya bochum by all it mean😂​@@LebogangMoabelo

    • @meisiezazaskosana6667
      @meisiezazaskosana6667 17 днів тому

      I lost it when he said bring them together.... Nagana his fam against me 😢I need my father in that meeting too

  • @pearlmmaleetle9178
    @pearlmmaleetle9178 17 днів тому +4

    Men are going through alot, why is it difficult to just sign divorce ge motho asago nyake...now kedi ip and down😢

  • @tshwarelomontjane5738
    @tshwarelomontjane5738 14 днів тому +2

    Let’s not take sides guys all relationships has problems 😢problem ya bona they gave up too quick and bringing it on social media Where else it could be fixed both of them are wrong period
    Ge taba ele so just move on and learn from your mistakes

  • @kgaogelozulu9422
    @kgaogelozulu9422 17 днів тому +9

    Portia could be toxic but what led to her being like that i dont knw. She only mentioned all the bad things about this guy and his family coz she wants to play victim. The guy has his weaknesses but how do you deal a person who burns your clothes and sleeps with a knife

  • @patricianwandule5798
    @patricianwandule5798 17 днів тому +5

    He is protecting his family ..and yet he act innocent

  • @gilliannkomi406
    @gilliannkomi406 17 днів тому +28

    Protect your wife with all cost ... no matter what kere protect ur wife

  • @mitchell_nkonimodjadji430
    @mitchell_nkonimodjadji430 16 днів тому +2

    Him explaining that whole cheating thing? What a bunch of nothings! May this kind of man never locate me in the name of the Lord!!!

  • @Thembi-jb5br
    @Thembi-jb5br 17 днів тому +5

    They both have contributed to this .but what im realizing is that the lady has depression and having it difficult to accept the separation.

  • @nthabisengmoshana8589
    @nthabisengmoshana8589 17 днів тому +5

    The way Promise went out of her way to accommodate this guy? Giving him a platform to share his side and even moving her episodes around to air his first and he’s being so rude to her? He’s so arrogant! Men for you! Promise leyena was being too accommodating

  • @user-ci4dz9uk6i
    @user-ci4dz9uk6i 17 днів тому +4

    Bhuti,,,you got married with wrong facts,,the Bible says you will leave you family and be in one flesh with your wife...wena you say Mosadi asago aroganya with your sisters ,,,you demand respect that time you are so disrespectful.

  • @rachelshabangu4253
    @rachelshabangu4253 17 днів тому +9

    Working or not she's entitled to half of everything.

    • @AliceNkosi-l9b
      @AliceNkosi-l9b 17 днів тому +1

      But the guy is not denying that mos........ But specifically everything under his name

  • @msngema1380
    @msngema1380 17 днів тому +4

    What if this lady started contributing to the house when they were dating? Did I miss that?
    This man is not make sure…he cheated shem lol

  • @zanelehlengwa8067
    @zanelehlengwa8067 14 днів тому +4

    When he says ohk trying to sound smart kanti yi dododo

  • @tinnylesetja8330
    @tinnylesetja8330 17 днів тому +17

    If your intentions was to improve your family sir nkabe o sanka o nyala ngwana wa batho because that monster in-laws they will always demand on you and hate your wife for the whole life.Ga o na back bone Eddie

  • @katlegokgolane182
    @katlegokgolane182 17 днів тому +7

    Theres no enough reason in cheating, if ur cheated on then leave

  • @thandomtembu7193
    @thandomtembu7193 17 днів тому +2

    Dude just confirmed Porsche koloi ya go tura's story....we thank him for vilifying her whilst trying to defend the indefensible!

  • @user-ci4dz9uk6i
    @user-ci4dz9uk6i 17 днів тому +4

    This guy disrespect Promise in her own podcast,,,imagine what was he doing to that poor lady in private....we have lot of women in mental institutions because of such guy then they come forth and Claim that women are crazy mnx😢😢😢😢sthuphethu lesi

  • @phindileskhosana3989
    @phindileskhosana3989 17 днів тому +7

    Nah I believe the wife obviously this man will advocate, justify, and defend him self man can can change the story as always remember man can lie

  • @zandilevinjwa3659
    @zandilevinjwa3659 17 днів тому +8

    I think Porsche should’ve asked for divorce spousal support

  • @karensehlola4485
    @karensehlola4485 15 днів тому +2

    Nna nekere boelanang. You cannot push someone beyond their limits and be surprised when they lose it. Sit down with her and fix your issues. Nibadala

  • @sibongilenkwana8835
    @sibongilenkwana8835 15 днів тому +3

    I hate the way he addresses Promise.
    Listen!!!
    Ke tsebela kae?

  • @ThatoMatsetse
    @ThatoMatsetse 17 днів тому +4

    1:00:12 now i understand why Portia said her in-laws were saying to their son let's leave the house Portia o tlo go bolaya if you stay behind. Yoh hai go hlakahlakane makgowa

  • @EbusMb
    @EbusMb 17 днів тому +4

    Lets not turn a blind on the fact that portia was physically abusive

  • @MabathoPama
    @MabathoPama 17 днів тому +2

    The mixture is not mixing here Promise ona le khotlelelo ngwana batho bt o ira mmereko o pila lots of love

  • @ramolokoanemakhafola1284
    @ramolokoanemakhafola1284 17 днів тому +2

    Gabotse this guy o tlo diang mo because ga ana story all he does ke go gana dilo tse mosadi wa gage a di boletseng😂😂

  • @letushilaalina
    @letushilaalina 17 днів тому +3

    The moment he said to Promise “listen to me, listen to what I am saying” nahhh 🤮 even if everything Portia said is a lie, as in all of it, I still stand with her because the other option isn’t up for consideration yuk!!!

  • @silindilenxumalo9541
    @silindilenxumalo9541 17 днів тому +3

    There is no way someone can take a knife on you and you are saying you don't know what was the argument about. This woman doesn't look crazy,never

  • @marykubayi8202
    @marykubayi8202 6 днів тому +2

    O sele this guy ,he came here just to confuse Promise 😢

  • @user-qc4pl7sk1j
    @user-qc4pl7sk1j 15 днів тому +3

    I know a liar when I see one, and this man is a liar. He's really talking a bunch of lies. I'm sorry sir but I believe your wife even more now

  • @annahmanone9565
    @annahmanone9565 16 днів тому +2

    This guy is protecting his family qhaaa mxm ga ana nnete nna i trust Portia shame.

  • @BopheloConny-jv8kc
    @BopheloConny-jv8kc 16 днів тому +2

    Can this kind of Man never locate me hle Morena waka lena 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @mokgohloentsoane7607
    @mokgohloentsoane7607 13 днів тому +2

    50% of which pensions if she isn't working bathong? So you allow your lawyer to draft a plea claim for something that doesnt exist or she was just adding