What's the difference between jealousy and envy?

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • University of Manitoba grad student Darren Neufeld describes the difference between the similar but different emotions of jealousy and envy.

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  • @yogiperogy
    @yogiperogy 12 років тому +41

    A very articulate, intelligent young man who makes his points clearly.

  • @johnmeye
    @johnmeye 4 роки тому +28

    Watched 8 UA-cams to figure out the difference; you’re the One who nailed it

  • @MahmoudAlzaibaqCC
    @MahmoudAlzaibaqCC 14 років тому +23

    we need more short and informative videos like this one, now I learned what envy means. thank you

  • @brianlaforge9872
    @brianlaforge9872 2 роки тому +7

    I applaud this gentleman. Very articulate, enlightening and explicit.. I guess this just wonderful

  • @alexishill3342
    @alexishill3342 Рік тому +2

    This is the best explanation I've heard. You've made it so clear. Thank you!

  • @tamasmihaly1
    @tamasmihaly1 2 роки тому +12

    One small caveat. Jealousy involves two people plus another person, place, or thing; not necessarily a third person. Lots of spouses, for instance, are jealous of their partner being apparently more invested in a hobby than they are with them. I think it's rooted in possessiveness and a need to be seen as being of paramount importance to the jealous party.

    • @terrancemcclendon456
      @terrancemcclendon456 Рік тому +3

      Right its fear of lost of what you have or had

    • @salsabilahmedshrestho960
      @salsabilahmedshrestho960 Рік тому

      sounds like someone has personal issues

    • @natalyawoop4263
      @natalyawoop4263 Рік тому +2

      It doesn't sound like a personal issue, it sounds like they were fleshing out the definition

    • @nnm7761
      @nnm7761 6 місяців тому

      @@salsabilahmedshrestho960 lol sounds like a b o n e r

  • @Theprodigykid
    @Theprodigykid 4 місяці тому

    Very well explained, I understood that very well thank you

  • @skurinski
    @skurinski 11 років тому +3

    Perfect. Finally someone gets it right

  • @michaellaw5801
    @michaellaw5801 3 роки тому +2

    Perfectly put!

  • @asapGooby
    @asapGooby 5 років тому +2

    Excellently put!

  • @chaesare
    @chaesare Рік тому

    Brilliant. Thank you!

  • @tryanything5473
    @tryanything5473 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you very much

  • @n0426
    @n0426 Рік тому +1

    I think jealousy stems from a good intent of wanting to be better and level up in life. Envy is an evil way of wanting what others have only to yourself at the expense of the other person losing it. It’s like a sport player if you are jealous you have good sportsmanship if you are operating from the spirit of envy towards others you are a toxic loser who doesn’t accept defeat in order to progress and get better in life you have to fail and fall many times but it’s up to you if you want to rise up and try again.
    Not with a narcissist through because their games is not fair.

  • @Hell_Kell
    @Hell_Kell 8 років тому +2

    Very well said!

  • @masonstanford
    @masonstanford 11 років тому +2

    Love this. Thank you!

  • @ednaevans2025
    @ednaevans2025 2 роки тому

    Love those Words....

  • @yujiminz
    @yujiminz 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @gavinmusafwa76
    @gavinmusafwa76 2 роки тому

    I love this 👏👏

  • @f.prince6642
    @f.prince6642 Рік тому

    Thank you for helping me with an argument 😂

  • @EverybodyLovesDBZ
    @EverybodyLovesDBZ 11 років тому +3

    I envy your intelligence.

  • @frency5671
    @frency5671 Рік тому +1

    A lot of people use jealousy instead of envy, and when I tell them, I even get insulted. XD well, they can keep being ignorant and prsumptuous.

  • @topmetalrockbandsfullmetal1073

    See I thought the difference between jealousy and envy was positive and negative emotions and thoughts .. i thought envy was positive and jealousy was negative.. So what would be envying somebody in a positive way as in you look up to them they inspire you they're motivating you to set goals to reach that level of hierarchy or work harder to get what other said person has that
    they desired

  • @rafaelcisneros562
    @rafaelcisneros562 Рік тому +1

    Jealousy is a good thing, Envy is a sin

  • @blackvikingthrone
    @blackvikingthrone 4 роки тому +1

    Reminds me of an ex or 2.

  • @anulan18
    @anulan18 8 років тому +1

    I will give an example of situation, - my friends are on holiday in beautiful place, can I send a message to them " I'm jealous " or better would be " I'm envious"?

    • @skurinski
      @skurinski 6 років тому +1

      envious of course. You cant be jealous of something, just someone

    • @JollyOliW
      @JollyOliW 3 роки тому

      @@skurinski you can't be jealous of something you don't have

    • @Yestopeace365
      @Yestopeace365 2 роки тому

      Neither, it’s your friend, be happy for them 😀

    • @natalyawoop4263
      @natalyawoop4263 Рік тому

      Better to tell them you're inspired by them.