Brené Brown Clarifies the Difference Between Jealousy and Envy

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  • Опубліковано 20 січ 2025

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  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ 3 роки тому +54

    Brene Brown is ineffable. The knowledge she shares is truly life changing. One of the best human being I've ever stumbled upon

  • @bethscott4330
    @bethscott4330 3 роки тому +27

    What I love about Brene’ here is that she didn’t turn her back on Ellen. In Atlas of the Heart she says “Nothing that celebrates the humiliation or pain of another person builds lasting connection”. You can see that there is a genuine connection between Ellen & Brene’ that’s beautiful. Life is hard enough…don’t hold onto negative emotion such as anger and resentment. It will darken your soul. 🌸

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ 3 роки тому +49

    Brene Brown is one of the best human beings I have ever come across 😭❤️
    Phenomenal woman 🙌

    • @peggygibbons479
      @peggygibbons479 3 роки тому +4

      Truth! She is on a whole 'nother level! She did an interview with Russell Brand that was life changing for me. It's on UA-cam & it's like an hour long but SO worth it!!

  • @GadgetsGearCoffee
    @GadgetsGearCoffee 3 роки тому +13

    Love Brene, and her husband's comment about the script is amazing! What a great sense of humour

  • @iamcurtisbryant
    @iamcurtisbryant 3 роки тому +16

    I love that she mentioned the correlation between anxiousness and excitement. As a child, I would become so excited for things that I would make myself sick. So for a long time excitement became a negative thing for me. Because I associated it with making myself ill.

  • @cali-tm1ec
    @cali-tm1ec 3 роки тому +18

    Brene Brown is so informative. I've read some of her books and learn so much

  • @Msampnola
    @Msampnola 6 місяців тому +1

    20 years in the making
    Thank you I appreciate that

  • @treegreen941
    @treegreen941 3 роки тому +8

    My take on envy vs jealousy is that envy is wishing you also had something that someone else has, whereas jealousy is wishing that person didn't have whatever you covet.

    • @hwilcox
      @hwilcox 2 роки тому +6

      in her series she talks about jealousy as loosing something when another gets what you perceive as yours.
      like your dog preferring someone else
      like your best friend not having time for you bc she is seeing a new guy
      envy is more covetting

  • @jodiramberg707
    @jodiramberg707 3 роки тому +9

    When your favorite author gets interviewed by your favorite daytime television host!!! 😊💛😊💛

  • @uhlsome2784
    @uhlsome2784 3 роки тому +6

    In Spanish jealous (celoso) and envious (envidioso) are already used in this way. Something somebody else has that you want "te da envidia" (gives you envy). But a jealous person is afraid of losing something (usually a person). A mom can be jealous of her son's girlfriend, not because she has inappropriate feelings for her son, but because she fears he will be taken away...

    • @hwilcox
      @hwilcox 2 роки тому +1

      that's what I got from her show, agree

  • @Denis-89
    @Denis-89 3 роки тому +9

    Never heard of her but it was informative to watch, gave new perspectives

  • @romarlawrence6408
    @romarlawrence6408 3 роки тому +103

    To the person reading this: Even tho I dont know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer🌠👁💗

  • @kiingkiiwii5223
    @kiingkiiwii5223 2 роки тому +5

    6:17 when she starts talking about jealousy and envy

    • @yimszy4588
      @yimszy4588 2 роки тому

      helped me w my psychology class lol

    • @anointedone1995
      @anointedone1995 9 місяців тому

      Thank you for this comment!

  • @justagirljean1111
    @justagirljean1111 3 роки тому +1

    Brene and Ellen. Can’t get much better than this!

  • @martulec
    @martulec 3 роки тому +3

    Brené 😍😍😍 the best guest you could invite ❤❤❤

  • @sravanidoniv9257
    @sravanidoniv9257 3 роки тому +5

    I randomly watched your video but now I became your fan love you Ellen love from india

    • @wolfepackfun
      @wolfepackfun 3 роки тому

      Got a favorite Indian video to share?

  • @meditation3333
    @meditation3333 3 роки тому +4

    "Life is short thing"
    "Girl and Boy friend is nothing"
    "Mother and father God things"
    "Support to everything"💚

  • @gintaremaksimovaite2955
    @gintaremaksimovaite2955 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so so much dear Brené Brown for your wisdom and knowledge which has helped me so much. Please, do not think that i compete or i want to play with people. I am a simple woman, i really do not care about politics. Thank you so much for the right to look and listen to such huge personalities as Oprah Winfrey and Brené Brown.

  • @MSylviaLin
    @MSylviaLin 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Brene for all the amazing work you do!

  • @LadakhiIntrovert
    @LadakhiIntrovert 3 роки тому +4

    Ellen is true a vibe 🌸💫

  • @reginaldthomas1257
    @reginaldthomas1257 3 роки тому +2

    I Love ❤ Brene's books 📚 and Ellen is Super Cool 😎 and a Fun-Loving, Kind person. Can't wait to meet them. 😊🙏🏾😌

  • @BinhNguyen-mx8pr
    @BinhNguyen-mx8pr 3 роки тому +4

    I want the book too!

  • @judythompson5031
    @judythompson5031 3 роки тому +1

    I miss Ellen so much.....pandemic has been so sad for many.....we need her

  • @norinetheafricangal4318
    @norinetheafricangal4318 3 роки тому +3

    much love from uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 3 роки тому +2

    I loved it. Thank you.

  • @wolfepackfun
    @wolfepackfun 3 роки тому +1

    Praying we create a more nurturing world that focuses on learning this linguistic nuance 0-9, and then allows 10+ to course their education/training.

  • @peggygibbons479
    @peggygibbons479 3 роки тому +7

    Brene is The GOAT!! I WISH everyone else in the world would read or listen to everything she's ever written or spoken! Then MY life would be so much better!! (I'm kidding) :)

  • @anniewatonnie8186
    @anniewatonnie8186 3 роки тому +2

    I'm Ellen number one super fan from Uganda

  • @azucarweber2456
    @azucarweber2456 3 роки тому +1

    I got her new book at costco! atlas of the heart!

  • @gintaremaksimovaite2955
    @gintaremaksimovaite2955 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you UA-cam ❤️

  • @maneeshpalackalunni23
    @maneeshpalackalunni23 3 роки тому +2

    Brené ❤

  • @modoudianetoubamarchemamed2805
    @modoudianetoubamarchemamed2805 3 роки тому +3

    I love Ellen very much ❤💞❤💞❤💞❤💞❤💞❤💞❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💞💞💞💞💞💞❤💘

  • @tinakeegstra5603
    @tinakeegstra5603 3 роки тому +1

    Love Brene❤️❤️❤️

  • @nattywho
    @nattywho 3 роки тому +3

    Sounds like a good read!

  • @elsha3era88
    @elsha3era88 3 роки тому +1

    I am your biggest fan Send my greetings from Egypt

  • @rodolfocoronel487
    @rodolfocoronel487 3 роки тому +1

    Watch the Envy video that contrapoints made a couple of months ago

  • @btardoja0117
    @btardoja0117 3 роки тому +1

    I love you Ellen...

  • @adamsan2370
    @adamsan2370 3 роки тому +1

    I am having an excitement attack! lol

    • @bartwilson2513
      @bartwilson2513 3 роки тому +2

      lol. Pretty sure she acknowledges there is a difference between anxiety (the feeling) and anxiety attack (the medical condition). But that's funny.

  • @anndreastembridge367
    @anndreastembridge367 3 роки тому

    Touch and gree! 🥰

  • @helaineberman9221
    @helaineberman9221 3 роки тому

    Love Brene

  • @jpjelpaisano766
    @jpjelpaisano766 3 роки тому

    So true…

  • @VastiaPascale
    @VastiaPascale 3 роки тому +4

    I’m envious of the people in the audience. Ellen, let’s change that. I’m manifesting to go from your comment section to in your audience or opposite you. 🥰

  • @jimthomas777
    @jimthomas777 3 роки тому +2

    I'm jealous with envy

  • @debbiecurrlin335
    @debbiecurrlin335 2 роки тому

    Two of the most fabulous women on the planet!!

  • @rachel2404
    @rachel2404 3 роки тому +2

    I thought envy was a step beyond jealousy. I thought it was wanting to take what belongs to someone else. Whereas jealous was merely the desire to have what someone else has. Maybe both definitions are correct?

    • @akcoop
      @akcoop 2 роки тому +2

      Kinda the other way around

    • @tiffanysbeautyhouse755
      @tiffanysbeautyhouse755 2 роки тому +1

      Other way around, I would be envious of someone If I wanted what they had.. I may be jealous of someone if I’m worried they are gonna take what I have like friends etc..

  • @jeanneratterman4174
    @jeanneratterman4174 2 роки тому +1

    Laughing! If Brene decided to ‘race’ me in the pool, I’d just take my time and watch her go! Zoom! :-D Go, Girl!

  • @madgirl_yaddie9606
    @madgirl_yaddie9606 3 роки тому +2

    Hi

  • @ArtyCandy4U
    @ArtyCandy4U 3 роки тому

    Being lonely, losing your ideals from your childhood. Not knowing where and how to start

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 3 роки тому +3

    People can have standards while in relationships. That’s not your expectation to control others.

  • @petekdemircioglu
    @petekdemircioglu 3 роки тому +1

    💚💜💚💜💚

  • @saffsuff
    @saffsuff 3 роки тому +1

    I appreciate Brene being relatable but come on am not a psychologist and English is not my first language BUT jealousy and envy are easy to differentiate

    • @HM-jl8pr
      @HM-jl8pr 2 роки тому +1

      A lot of people believe they are same and use them synonymously.

  • @petekdemircioglu
    @petekdemircioglu 3 роки тому

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @helentart1980
    @helentart1980 3 місяці тому

    My therapist telling me to watch Brene. Cause I don’t do anything cause I’m embarrassed and look dumb when I do.

  • @AuthenticAna
    @AuthenticAna 3 роки тому +2

    Lucky, to be in d audience ... 😏

  • @hwilcox
    @hwilcox 2 роки тому

    to me jealousy is like the song Jolene and envy like the song Jessie's girl

  • @jaquelinedossantosfirminof5412
    @jaquelinedossantosfirminof5412 3 роки тому +1

    👏🌎🍀🌈⭐🌝🌛🍀❣️🙏

  • @gerrimarchion4734
    @gerrimarchion4734 3 роки тому +1

    Sorry Berne, I misspelled your name.

  • @-H4mburger-
    @-H4mburger- 3 роки тому

    How about every emotions are there for a purpose? How about there is no only group of chosen emotions, which is fits to human beings....
    This is a religion.

  • @MsQueenBR
    @MsQueenBR 3 роки тому

    The things she just said is already known by anyone who done therapy

    • @bree-arnaharris2437
      @bree-arnaharris2437 3 роки тому

      Really?! Where do you think those therapists might have learned that from?

  • @susisiebert6664
    @susisiebert6664 3 роки тому +1

    I seen Ellen get downright angry if she loses

  • @9Risky
    @9Risky 3 роки тому +1

    “Congrats to Everyone who is early and found this comment”!

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 3 роки тому

    The book is really controlling

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 3 роки тому +1

    She’s not supportive at all

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 3 роки тому

    She’s not supportive

  • @LesleyPB
    @LesleyPB 3 роки тому

    Jealousy is wanting something someone else has, that you will never be able to have. Like if someone has a child that is really clever. It’s not your child. So you get jealous about that child’s achievements. She’s so wrong.

    • @bree-arnaharris2437
      @bree-arnaharris2437 3 роки тому +3

      No your envious because someone else has a child that's intelligent and you don't, your jealous if that somehow will impact you negatively like preferential treatment or higher in esteem that you perceive As a negative

  • @andrinafriberg7098
    @andrinafriberg7098 3 роки тому +1

    Hi