I have been married to my wife for 32 years.Iam 60 she is 71, i don't even think about the age difference .We had a child when she was 41, she had not been married before or had any children.And she is amazing so glad i met such a fantastic lady when i was a young man.And to this day she looks 50 years old she is fantastic.When she came into life she took my breath away.
I really want to be with older women it's what I want but in my country is difficult for me because the people here don't appreciate real love and what it's about, any way I hope I can find the one who I deserve I really want to be with older women because with here I feel much better than the young girl, wish me luck 😊
I've almost married an older woman, and I have the confidence to say that it's not all about sex. There are at times older women who didn't settle down with a man and when they meet a younger man, they can actually have a lot in common and be with the younger men in a full-fledged relationship. I don't know why, but I am again courting another older woman and I don't feel ashamed and I am aware of the insecurities on her part but as a relationship and a dating coach and former Deacon of my father's church. I am doing what I need to do to show her that she can depend on me and it's not all about what I can do for her but we can be compatible in a respectful and loving way.
This is a fresh, honest perspective. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, insight and feelings. I am debating this idea for my personal experience and discovered something wonderful due to your message. I appreciate you. Thank you.
Truthfully. At my age (23) I find it much easier to hold a conversation with more mature women, they're very well grounded and attentive to their surroundings, in life overall. It's much more pleasant having adventures with someone who has done it before and there's a much deeper connection in my opinion
Omg, this woman is so intelligent. I really felt intimidated by the first older woman I was with. She owned a home, had a Masters, travelled the world, was in her 40s and looked stunning. She had done so much. Meanwhile I was 24 all I had was a bachelor's and a good physique. I was amazed when she actually wanted to date me.
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Im a 28 year old guy and women/girls close to my age and younger just spell trouble to me. They play games, they cheat or make you feel that they would, they aspire to what their peers and parents will be impressed with. They want kids , marriage, careers, university and dont expect to be financially independent from me. I have to gain acceptance from her friends and family. An older woman I feel is going to be happy with me for being me, doesnt care what her peers think, is happy to be financially independent, has mature conversation capability and more refined tastes not based on current trends. I want to travel to interesting parts of the world, not just places that other young people go. An older woman is more likely to tell me what she wants and what she thinks. Not give me weird guess work that I am bound to get wrong.
i feel you on that. im more of a spiritual person and look deeper than that. only reason i disliked is that i disagree with the fact they are all trouble. but you have to be able to see it before you get played. so it shows you what you actually want. if she wants you , then it shouldnt matter what her family friends say :)
Woman I was with played mind games. Validation seeker. Always seeking her dad's approval even at 61. Not a woman a little girl with daddy issues. Seek validation from her kids as well. Once she gets validation from a man it's on to the next
I'm 45 and would never be with a younger woman. Older women know their bodies and men's bodies. They are smart, goal oriented and have achieved goals. Younger women I find are generally un interesting, they may look good but nothing of substance.
I'm attracted to older women because they're easier to talk to and just have more to say. These younger women just turn up to be entertained, then leave and wonder why they didn't get hit on.
Exaclty!! This younger guy I had a thing with assumed I was more experienced...lol...I was married and with the same guy for 23 years prior so no, I wasn't around much at all.
The older women that I’ve dated, even when they weren’t the most attractive in terms of looks, but it was they’re energy that would always draw me over to them. Upbeat, intelligent, able to carry a conversation, and have a lot to offer. I met a beautiful woman at a mixer a couple of weeks ago, and what drew me to her was not only she has plus looks, but a plus personality as well. For me, the whole time I was talking to her, I was really turned on. The energy she brought was magnetic. I was sexually and mentally aroused by her. And that’s not easy to find. Her looks brought me to the table, but her personality was what made me stay. If she knows how to keep a conversation, don’t be hesitant in trying to connect with her. Intelligence and energy are very attractive qualities. And if she can sing, I’ve hit the lottery.
I'm a 31 year old male dating a 52 year old woman. As individuals, every woman is going to have their own opinion, but in your experience, what do you most often hear women around your age say they want from younger men? I love my middle aged lover so much! I know this is terrible, but the age Gap really turns me on. I love how sophisticated and well spoken she is
As a man in his mid 20's I found this to be very insightful. Although there are many videos on UA-cam which discuss relationship dynamics, there are limited discussions of romance between older women & younger men. This is why I am very thankful to have discovered your channel. I don't normally comment on videos but I feel compelled to express my gratitude for the sharing of your wisdom. In watching your videos I have a deeper understanding in how communicating the message of certainty and directness takes attractiveness to the next level; not just in intimate relationships but in business as well. Thanks again!
I'm 39, what I don't like in a young man is that he is constantly seeing me as a coach for his life and business. I don't mind talking about all these things, but not only that stuff. I want to be cherished, have fun, discover new things.
I've found older women to have better communication and relationship skills, and since I value the relationship and the communication, it worked well for me. Even when she broke up with me I said "Damn! That was the best breakup ever!" and we just parted ways. To guys: be yourself but not your immature self. Women have needs, know what they are and meet her needs. Also women reach their sexual peak, on average, about age 40. Make sure she can communicate her needs consistently. And don't make it all about sex.
How curious is it when a message from one of your favourite mentors pops up at the exact moment you're deliberating engaging with a younger man who is pursuing you and you're troubled as to whether the value is worth the end result. A huge thank you for this enlightenment Susan. It has helped to clarify my hopes and doubts. Blessings x
I'm 33 and just started dating a 51-year-old grandmother who works two jobs to support her daughter and granddaughter; I'm a divorced father without custody, her daughter is about as close to my age as she is but it m insanely attracted to her and not just because she is physically beautiful but because she is fun and nice and makes me feel like a little kid on his first date. I'm not sure what she's looking for exactly but I'll be there for her; I'm not going anywhere.
Another common mistake is when younger men think we're loaded with money from the divorce or from job promotions, to where we are looking to be a sugar momma. No thanks. I can and will spend on you, but it goes both ways.
delreydavid You missed the point of my argument. It works BOTH ways. And stop generalizing December May relationships, which consist of more that just sex.
I am recently in the preliminarys of dating a woman twice my age and I really do think she is exactly what I need in my life right now. So far so good, I'm just the well rounded type and decided to look up tips for dating an old woman so that I can give it my best go. I found this to be very helpful and feel it has given me the ground to put my best foot forward. Thank you, truly.
Love your videos Susan, absolutely spot on. The other thing is if they have kids people automatically assume that they are baggage which is totally false. Or if the woman is taller than the guy. Ive loved older women ever since I was little..lol honestly ever since I was in primary school I was always fascinated with older women... Ive ended up always dating an older woman it just happens . Im 35 and I have just met a beautiful 48 year old woman who I met in a bar, I was sitting down and felt uncomfortable so I took my top off to show my muscles and she just came over started caressing me, no nonsense like the other younger girls. She is so sexy, I love taller women, and shes 3 inches taller than me when she wears heels. We went out last night to the same bar and this other younger girl who was quite chubby got so jealous she had to make a comment to my woman that IM too short, I couldnt stop laughing When my woman turned around and said "Honey his my VIP" lol That girl got burnt badly and she walked off Its not healthy to be a terrible and bitter person.. it was so funny. I couldnt care because I know what I have to offer and alot of girls were looking at me last night... because I was with a 48 year old babe. honestly I love it I really do. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND YOU TO SUSAN GREAT VIDEO.
Every couple (no matter the age) would profit from a discovery session. Discover their spirit, their mind/thoughts and bodies. Discover each other's goals and aspirations, as well as preferences.. as a couple and as individuals. What's important and what's neutral. Fun and easy.. not rigid. Embrace and accept who they are TODAY.. not who you want them to be TOMORROW. It's not necessary to investigate the past (unless the person wants to share). Have fun creating a dream board. Again as a couple and as indiv. Embrace the potentials of future. Enjoy the journey. No matter the age.. MAKE life exciting! Btw.. you might realize a friendship is best.. and that's ok too. 🦋
This is so spot on! So true for me regarding the intimate experiences. But as we get older kindness and respect become ever so desirable. And of course we just aren't willing to be treated badly. We've been through stuff and hopefully know how to take care of and value ourselves.
from what i've learned about them is that it's an emotional and intellectual connection. The right older woman will have a lot to say so the interest level is always high.
Of course, regardless of what the media tell you, the most successful relations, in terms of longevity are between a man 5 years older than the woman. Eventually you'll be dumped - same goes for silver foxes.
Paul Murray Like regular couples have a better chance with that current 50% divorce rate. Regardless of the match we all at the end of the day have only a 50% success chance meaning it either works or it doesn't regardless of gender, orientation or age.
Sorry to burst the bubble, but the divorce rates for first time married couples who are close to the 4-5 year gap is about 20%. The rate for 2nd & 3rd time marriages is higher. The rate for couples with an age gap significantly greater than the 4/5 year gap is higher. If you are just after some fun, then hey do what you like, but don't kid yourself that there is much chance of it lasting. Its a myth. Certainly think long and hard about marrying someone who is already divorced or is much younger or older than you. Sure, there are exceptions, but for something as important as your significant relationships ( and the possible financial consequences of a breakup ), bear the statistics in mind. Personally, I don't think I can beat the odds, so I'm strictly dating close to the 'sweet spot'. Its the same for older men and older women, they are kidding themselves if they think they won't be dumped at some point.
ya it's totally true...last thing i want is another man who only loves his job...i want someone who is still excited about life! i want an partner not a project.
This is pretty useful and practical approach advice for men. It's much more useful than a lot of the BS dating 'tips' etc that you get on the internet.
wow. your second point really hit home with me. I have been attracted to older women my whole adult life and the reason I shied away from them is because I automatically assume they wouldn't be interested because of a) societal norms b) success gap c) they think that I would just want sex. thanks for your point of view.
I've always been into older women. We just connect well, and I am physically more attracted to them than women my own age. Now I'm in my 30's and definitely would like to meet a woman 40+.
Thank you Susan this was very informative Some women let society or friends , family dictate their lives and we become afraid to explore better and/ or other options
She is completely right on both answers. 1. I have had only have 2 partners. One very short lived and then a long marriage. The sex started dwindling in the marriage to the point of non existence. I would have to say I probably have had much less experience as well as much less exploration since my partner had an addiction so we just didn't keep growing as a couple. I'd probably be playing catch up with a new partner when I start dating. 2. After my divorce it was younger men who made me feel there was hope of finding good men in the world. These were not men I dated but men I was around in social meetup situations. They treated me with respect and kindness and didn't throw me under the bus because of my age. It helped me get used to interacting with men again after being married for so long. Even a few showed some interest but I sort of let it fade away. Personally I need a relationship not a fling so I wouldn't start something that wouldn't have more substance to it especially if the man is on a different path than mine like he hasn't had a marriage and kids he wants.
I'm 39 & I've been dating a 60 year old woman. She thinks the businesses I own a great. She teaches me patience. Cause I can actually wait on her cause we are both busy. I write comics & I work security
I wish I could display our chats..he wasn’t 31 he was 26 and graduated with my son.. too close for comfort 🤣.. he talked marriage and honestly I think I’ll pass .. I stopped talking to him.. I truly do not want to date younger than 40
Thank you so much for sharing that and actually the younger people who don't know that and actually are intimidated and full of assumptions and stereotypes. I ended up marrying my 25 years older girlfriend and she's amazing and now my wife !! Beautiful on the outside and inside just like a girl full of love and waiting for someone to explore that beautiful personality of hers and full of life !!
i've went on this date with this older woman last weekend. I see her as highly attractive, she is 30 years older than me. we met up and had drinks and dinner then got me to her apartment. we drank some more. even though we had good communication, i feel like i might have not seen the signs and that i was clueless. i didnt got to do my game on her cuz she seemed closed off or shy as well and just wanted me to initiate it or something.
Do you know why I like mature women? I tell you beautiful lady. When I was a child, I had two problems in my family although my parents are good people. First, I was punished physically so hard and most of the time by my mother. Second, I didn’t have mentally support from my family ever. On the other hand when I argued with someone else, my family always gave the other side right verbally or did It by their silence. My parents always told me the positive points of other guys who were in my age and blamed me because I didn’t behave like them. When I became 18 years old I understood something in my mind that I’m fascinated so much by mature women and this feeling remained with me until present. I can’t say It exactly if this feeling is a disorder one or normal feeling in response to my past. Actually I don’t want to think about It.
The only advantage of dating an older woman, and this is the one reason is alone enough to date an older woman, is that she is upfront and straight forward about life. Younger women play too much mind games and you'll be exhausted if you try to win their games. I read this book called mode one. It helped me deal with mind games played by women. Older women are more practical, they don't giggle out of nervousness. Their humor is sharp, they can make you laugh actually. The only disadvantage older women have is they assume everything about you as a person as they've been through your phase of life before you. Most of their assumptions could be true but it feels difficult and painful as your entire life is just a small prediction for this person.
Yes, very true, Susan. There is such situation in every culture. But every one must consider the fact that love is looking from the inside. And recognition is very important. Sometimes, love at first site is not very accurate, but to prolong the communication is a must and may result in right way. Thank you, Susan. I am 60 and I am also wondering, why younger men are getting my attention? But it makes me feel young, you know! Thanks.....
i am almost 48. My first boyfriend as a teenager was black (I am white). This was socially unacceptable at that time. I had the courage to love who i loved. Thank God, times have changed. I hope and pray this all changes as well
Currently dating an older woman. Not a huge age gap , I’m 26 shes 33. But the maturity , her demeanor , achievements is mind blowing . Talking to her blows my mind till Even after a few months of dating . I will admit it’s very confident killing that I’m not as successful yet and not much to offer her yet but I’m grateful she’s understanding and doesn’t care for that . I tell her everyday she’s literally perfect or the closest thing to it . I will admit that it’s been a while since I’ve dated and this is my first 30+ year old I’ve dated so it’s quiet an adjustment. On my end i have to be better . As far as my minor insecurities that i still suffer from due to past experiences unfortunately. She’s amazing though and I’ll do whatever it takes to make it work
Hi susan im dating a younger guy and like u said they really havent been or done everything that ive done he might know alot more about other things but we love each others we talk about each others i feel his responsible he wants to look after me i have no objections life isnt perfect yes we have our ups and downs but we get thru them its all good
A much younger man is interested. We have much in common. And he was not afraid to ask for what he wanted. I appreciated that more than you know. FYI the age difference is 50 years.
I didn't date any girl in my age or less actually I will never do that . I'm in love with an older woman and she is amazing funny respective . Young women's sorryyy for your acting
Literally Susan Everything you are explaining and telling is a reality and I have observed and I had went through this situation many a times as I also have same feeling of attraction to older women. I had started watching your videos today itself and it's the second one and I have already subscribed to your channel. Fabulous. Thanks
1' don't see them as older woman , just see them as a woman , 2' don't assume anything let things happen , 3' although this is saying that they are not sexually voracious , I've been blessed with women who try'd to kill me in the bedroom and i loved every moment of it and mentally they were always stimulating and fun
I really like my professor and I think she's 40 and I am only 20...im so afraid to tell her my feelings..I literally keep thinking about her I want her so bad
Im 30 too and met a lady I think was maybe 50 (cute & rare) and we had a nice little conversation and I was taken back...now I'm thinking about her and watching these videos lol
Andres Rodriguez I’m 28 and this woman is 50 but she looks really good for her age. It’s weird cause we get along well. Idk she’s invited me out for some drinks and wants me to go fishing with her out on her boat at the lake this weekend..
I dated a guy 14 years younger than me and we had an amazing chemistry and attraction towards each other but he wanted a family and advice him to look elsewhere (36-50) so one fine day he ghosted on me then I called him and said wanted space- off he went to try maybe younger gal- he got so attached to me that still after 6 months he started sending texts and calling to find out how is my life how am I? I think he isn’t over me completely- I miss him but I’m not trying to get him back.. he will decide by himself and if I’m still available I may consider the reconciliation but to be honest , I don’t think I will date another younger guy in my life - I prefer guys my age .. love is blind ! I’m 50 but I look like I’m 43 I take care of myself and all natural, I’m independent/smart and pretty /a fulfilling amazing profession I adore 🥰 so I’m really happy in my life but sometimes I miss a companionship.. not so much for sex but in general , I got a lot to offer still - and I want same in return so ..
@@angienichols1248 Married young and were faithful? thats very situational and highly unlikely and "Hookup culture"? the only difference between then and now is that everything is documented and easier to access bc of social media 😂 best believe these women been getting ran through for a few generations now
this has been so enlightening a affirming! got a date in two weeks with a woamn I have always beamed at.. cant wait but also quite nervous.. looking forward to watching more of your material! love from UK
good day Susan, i agree that the young man offer different that will lead for long ang lasting Love as you knowim 51 n my honey is 34 were too far frm each other im in morocco n his in india we meet, we explore we do the Pledge to God , to God n. Godess as we both respect for what we do Believe as a couple, He manage fenancial n prepare for my retairey The Trust, Love n Repect is always there he alaways make me smile n giving. confort everytime i needed i thank you as you help me a lot, as you remember before i got in to this Relationship you boost me 😊😊😊
question for you. what do you mean by saying use a younger man? a young woman dated this older guy. he turned out to be a night mare .she was abused by his hand .never ever use any younger man or woman . for your own gain how would you feel if some younger man .use you for every thing you got.then kick you to the curve mam please don't treat any body in any ways. that you would not want to be treated .no offence. 😭😭😭
I see all that you said to be true. One thing to mention is for the younger guy to stop thinking he has to play games to get her in bed or play games to keep her interested. All he has to do is keep being himself genuine. The younger guy I was talking to seemed to become all frazzled is the way I describe it after we admitted to liking each other for more than friends. His behavior changed. He withdrew, seemed to be playing phone games. I'm really disappointed after the 3 years of friendship we had I would think it would be easier. But maybe he just wanted sex and it wasn't going in that direction fast enough so he spit. I don't know but I'm a little sad about it but ok still. I'm glad I rode it out and spoke my truth anyway. I feel stronger because of it.
luulips I've experienced this as well thought I would give it a good shot , however now we are not speaking it's my phone having problems game, so I backed off and moving into another direction!
luulips Hate them phone games men love to play all ages, didn't get your message, battery died (again)! And waiting hours to txt you back. It sounds like if you slept with him he would have ghosted you so good you didn't.
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Im 20 years old. I like older women because they are more respectful, real, and they look better then most younger women around my age. And I also have an old soul so I know alot about their childhood shows, music, artists, and history and thats one bond I have with older women born in the early 90s or 80s and I guess the 70s to because some women in their 40s, 50s be looking good
Calling her older? That puts me off. I am more than my age. Samantha Jones is a sitcom archetype aka the man-eater. The male equivalent archetype is a womanizer. They are funny, but not typical women. I know more Charlotte's and Miranda's.
I love older woman with a beautiful personality and respect his mother all the times.. Older woman is a beautiful person with a great sense of humor.. My mother is a beautiful person too.. My mother always told me treating yourself right and treating others well respect too. My mother raised me from old school manner and manner too..
I'm 24 and I was dating a 38 year woman and she had a very high sex drive to the point where as I usually wanted have sex regularly toe only wanting it occasionally because because I was fatigued from it all . Also thing's didn't work between me and her because she always accused me of cheating on her with a younger women or that she thought I'd leave her for a younger woman and eventually I got tired of it and broke it off
Older women are matured mentally and physically that's what attracts young men
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but they are on their way out of the sexual market and no guarantee and more way chance of emotional baggage
That's what you think! Old women can be just as immature as young girlies.
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bob rew yep, nothing but the truth
I like older women because they usually have a lot more recipes
BAHAHAHA 😂 GOLD.
Funny
Can i have cakes?
And money
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I know I’m 17 but damn Susan can get it. Older woman be looking the best 🤤
No cap bro😂
noooo cap
warrenc50 was that short for I get get none?
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@@warrenc50 Nope!
Older women are mature and they know how to hold a conversation
And they are experienced. They can play the games better than ya
Yeah after they're expired/wrinkled and single moms but back then they were stuck up/conceited. You get the leftovers.
Based on what?
They bring wisdom to the table, and knowledge is always attractive
I like older women because they’re more real.
Reezy_Bad I don’t see how those two things could possibly be connected.
@@Ahch_not_op_of_Judah you mean mommy issues dude..
They real tired...
@@Ahch_not_op_of_Judah Why you so mad bro?
These older women put these young girl's to shame
Cuz young girls don’t understand them selves
lol not
They really do
@@DylanMac95 Older women are mature
@@jameswatts6878 Very mature and very pretty ladies. They take such good care of themselves too
I have been married to my wife for 32 years.Iam 60 she is 71, i don't even think about the age difference .We had a child when she was 41, she had not been married before or had any children.And she is amazing so glad i met such a fantastic lady when i was a young man.And to this day she looks 50 years old she is fantastic.When she came into life she took my breath away.
I'm in love with my boyfriend who is 25 and I'm 39 and we are amazing together,I'd be lost without him,I love him and he loves me
Be happy
Mrs DillonTheVillian hello . Wanna talking to you about some advice. Cuz I'm exactly same in this situation
Don't let him know you'll be lost without him. Never
I really want to be with older women it's what I want but in my country is difficult for me because the people here don't appreciate real love and what it's about, any way I hope I can find the one who I deserve I really want to be with older women because with here I feel much better than the young girl, wish me luck 😊
Agh goals
I've almost married an older woman, and I have the confidence to say that it's not all about sex. There are at times older women who didn't settle down with a man and when they meet a younger man, they can actually have a lot in common and be with the younger men in a full-fledged relationship. I don't know why, but I am again courting another older woman and I don't feel ashamed and I am aware of the insecurities on her part but as a relationship and a dating coach and former Deacon of my father's church. I am doing what I need to do to show her that she can depend on me and it's not all about what I can do for her but we can be compatible in a respectful and loving way.
This is a fresh, honest perspective. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, insight and feelings. I am debating this idea for my personal experience and discovered something wonderful due to your message.
I appreciate you. Thank you.
Truthfully. At my age (23) I find it much easier to hold a conversation with more mature women, they're very well grounded and attentive to their surroundings, in life overall. It's much more pleasant having adventures with someone who has done it before and there's a much deeper connection in my opinion
Omg, this woman is so intelligent. I really felt intimidated by the first older woman I was with. She owned a home, had a Masters, travelled the world, was in her 40s and looked stunning. She had done so much. Meanwhile I was 24 all I had was a bachelor's and a good physique. I was amazed when she actually wanted to date me.
Good job !
Still pretty good I'm 28 and all I earned was an associates
Scary right?
I gotta say a woman i got in contact with it is intimadating feeling soo young that you wont match up
There is an Italain saying,"Older hens make very good soup.".
Em Portugues means! Uma galinha velha faz um bom caldo.
theres an old greek saying "eating out a granny is like drinking milk thats been left out in the sun for 2 years"
@@mojok7070 , Was She Into Fitness ?
@@Matt-cw1mv , Depends on The Granny's Hygiene.
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Im a 28 year old guy and women/girls close to my age and younger just spell trouble to me. They play games, they cheat or make you feel that they would, they aspire to what their peers and parents will be impressed with. They want kids , marriage, careers, university and dont expect to be financially independent from me. I have to gain acceptance from her friends and family.
An older woman I feel is going to be happy with me for being me, doesnt care what her peers think, is happy to be financially independent, has mature conversation capability and more refined tastes not based on current trends.
I want to travel to interesting parts of the world, not just places that other young people go. An older woman is more likely to tell me what she wants and what she thinks. Not give me weird guess work that I am bound to get wrong.
i feel you on that. im more of a spiritual person and look deeper than that. only reason i disliked is that i disagree with the fact they are all trouble. but you have to be able to see it before you get played. so it shows you what you actually want. if she wants you , then it shouldnt matter what her family friends say :)
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Woman I was with played mind games. Validation seeker. Always seeking her dad's approval even at 61. Not a woman a little girl with daddy issues. Seek validation from her kids as well. Once she gets validation from a man it's on to the next
Everything you said was so true nothing but fax
I agree
I'm 45 and would never be with a younger woman. Older women know their bodies and men's bodies. They are smart, goal oriented and have achieved goals. Younger women I find are generally un interesting, they may look good but nothing of substance.
I read a quote once that said.When your young all shines on surfaces but is absolutely nothing inside.
Same with young boys
@@lazarcatalina1176 hi lazar we can know each other?
*Nailed it*
A 45 year old woman has a body count in the hundreds. No thanks.
I'm attracted to older women because they're easier to talk to and just have more to say. These younger women just turn up to be entertained, then leave and wonder why they didn't get hit on.
Yes so so true an older woman does not always have more experience because she is older it is really a missunderstanding!
Exaclty!! This younger guy I had a thing with assumed I was more experienced...lol...I was married and with the same guy for 23 years prior so no, I wasn't around much at all.
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I am married to a younger man that is why I was interested in this video.
I love this topic, older women with younger men. Thank you!
melissamel333 so refreshing ❤️
Wow thank u
I like you so much
I love older women's 1000 time's better younger women's beacuse of respect and they're mind and love honesty .
Older women are incredible.
The older women that I’ve dated, even when they weren’t the most attractive in terms of looks, but it was they’re energy that would always draw me over to them. Upbeat, intelligent, able to carry a conversation, and have a lot to offer. I met a beautiful woman at a mixer a couple of weeks ago, and what drew me to her was not only she has plus looks, but a plus personality as well. For me, the whole time I was talking to her, I was really turned on. The energy she brought was magnetic. I was sexually and mentally aroused by her. And that’s not easy to find. Her looks brought me to the table, but her personality was what made me stay. If she knows how to keep a conversation, don’t be hesitant in trying to connect with her. Intelligence and energy are very attractive qualities. And if she can sing, I’ve hit the lottery.
I'm a 31 year old male dating a 52 year old woman. As individuals, every woman is going to have their own opinion, but in your experience, what do you most often hear women around your age say they want from younger men?
I love my middle aged lover so much! I know this is terrible, but the age Gap really turns me on. I love how sophisticated and well spoken she is
Curious how long you’ve been together?
Ew lol
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I had to check your pic and make sure you weren't mine lol I'm 52 (turned 53 last week) and he is 31
As a man in his mid 20's I found this to be very insightful. Although there are many videos on UA-cam which discuss relationship dynamics, there are limited discussions of romance between older women & younger men. This is why I am very thankful to have discovered your channel. I don't normally comment on videos but I feel compelled to express my gratitude for the sharing of your wisdom. In watching your videos I have a deeper understanding in how communicating the message of certainty and directness takes attractiveness to the next level; not just in intimate relationships but in business as well. Thanks again!
I'm 39, what I don't like in a young man is that he is constantly seeing me as a coach for his life and business.
I don't mind talking about all these things, but not only that stuff.
I want to be cherished, have fun, discover new things.
I can be that man for you 🙏🤭❤
I can be that man for you 🙏🤭❤
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I've found older women to have better communication and relationship skills, and since I value the relationship and the communication, it worked well for me. Even when she broke up with me I said "Damn! That was the best breakup ever!" and we just parted ways. To guys: be yourself but not your immature self. Women have needs, know what they are and meet her needs. Also women reach their sexual peak, on average, about age 40. Make sure she can communicate her needs consistently. And don't make it all about sex.
That is an emotional intelligence. Great advise!
How curious is it when a message from one of your favourite mentors pops up at the exact moment you're deliberating engaging with a younger man who is pursuing you and you're troubled as to whether the value is worth the end result.
A huge thank you for this enlightenment Susan.
It has helped to clarify my hopes and doubts. Blessings x
I'm 43 and starting to fall for a friend who's 25. Seems more mature than men my age
Hi Denise, have you gone out with him yet? What made you attracted to him?
I'm 33 and just started dating a 51-year-old grandmother who works two jobs to support her daughter and granddaughter; I'm a divorced father without custody, her daughter is about as close to my age as she is but it m insanely attracted to her and not just because she is physically beautiful but because she is fun and nice and makes me feel like a little kid on his first date. I'm not sure what she's looking for exactly but I'll be there for her; I'm not going anywhere.
Another common mistake is when younger men think we're loaded with money from the divorce or from job promotions, to where we are looking to be a sugar momma. No thanks. I can and will spend on you, but it goes both ways.
Jolie Frijole I understand where you’re coming from.
delreydavid You missed the point of my argument. It works BOTH ways. And stop generalizing December May relationships, which consist of more that just sex.
Gold digger.
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delreydavid Women divorce rape guys and still want the next dude to pay for dinner?? What the??
older women are a blessing, I've always dated older women and always will. ☺ Thank you for the video!
I am recently in the preliminarys of dating a woman twice my age and I really do think she is exactly what I need in my life right now. So far so good, I'm just the well rounded type and decided to look up tips for dating an old woman so that I can give it my best go. I found this to be very helpful and feel it has given me the ground to put my best foot forward. Thank you, truly.
Love your videos Susan, absolutely spot on. The other thing is if they have kids people automatically assume that they are baggage which is totally false. Or if the woman is taller than the guy. Ive loved older women ever since I was little..lol honestly ever since I was in primary school I was always fascinated with older women... Ive ended up always dating an older woman it just happens . Im 35 and I have just met a beautiful 48 year old woman who I met in a bar, I was sitting down and felt uncomfortable so I took my top off to show my muscles and she just came over started caressing me, no nonsense like the other younger girls. She is so sexy, I love taller women, and shes 3 inches taller than me when she wears heels. We went out last night to the same bar and this other younger girl who was quite chubby got so jealous she had to make a comment to my woman that IM too short, I couldnt stop laughing When my woman turned around and said "Honey his my VIP" lol That girl got burnt badly and she walked off Its not healthy to be a terrible and bitter person.. it was so funny. I couldnt care because I know what I have to offer and alot of girls were looking at me last night... because I was with a 48 year old babe. honestly I love it I really do. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND YOU TO SUSAN GREAT VIDEO.
Every couple (no matter the age) would profit from a discovery session. Discover their spirit, their mind/thoughts and bodies. Discover each other's goals and aspirations, as well as preferences.. as a couple and as individuals. What's important and what's neutral. Fun and easy.. not rigid. Embrace and accept who they are TODAY.. not who you want them to be TOMORROW. It's not necessary to investigate the past (unless the person wants to share). Have fun creating a dream board. Again as a couple and as indiv. Embrace the potentials of future. Enjoy the journey. No matter the age.. MAKE life exciting! Btw.. you might realize a friendship is best.. and that's ok too. 🦋
Mimi, this is brilliant. Thank you!
Mimi Mendez This is a great overview. And spot on. Thank you
This is so spot on! So true for me regarding the intimate experiences. But as we get older kindness and respect become ever so desirable. And of course we just aren't willing to be treated badly. We've been through stuff and hopefully know how to take care of and value ourselves.
Absolutely on point. Respect and confidence counts 100%
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Caroline Da Rocha hi🌷
Caroline Da Rocha are u single
Hi Caroline Da Rocha,hope you are doing fine long time I haven't had from you on utube,,,hope you are great back there
So my question is you more older woman wont mind if a younger guy hits on u? Lol 😂
from what i've learned about them is that it's an emotional and intellectual connection. The right older woman will have a lot to say so the interest level is always high.
Totally relate to your teachings, as a woman. And I don't feel weird anymore after your video. Thank you Susan
Treat her with respect.
And always be honest no matter what
And sex
I dated a guy 15 years younger than me. He became insecure of what I've accomplished in life. He left me for a woman same his age the end..
He wasn't the right younger man. But how cool that you both gave it a shot.
Of course, regardless of what the media tell you, the most successful relations, in terms of longevity are between a man 5 years older than the woman. Eventually you'll be dumped - same goes for silver foxes.
Paul Murray Like regular couples have a better chance with that current 50% divorce rate. Regardless of the match we all at the end of the day have only a 50% success chance meaning it either works or it doesn't regardless of gender, orientation or age.
Sorry there's younger ones out there that don't mind
Sorry to burst the bubble, but the divorce rates for first time married couples who are close to the 4-5 year gap is about 20%. The rate for 2nd & 3rd time marriages is higher. The rate for couples with an age gap significantly greater than the 4/5 year gap is higher.
If you are just after some fun, then hey do what you like, but don't kid yourself that there is much chance of it lasting. Its a myth. Certainly think long and hard about marrying someone who is already divorced or is much younger or older than you.
Sure, there are exceptions, but for something as important as your significant relationships ( and the possible financial consequences of a breakup ), bear the statistics in mind. Personally, I don't think I can beat the odds, so I'm strictly dating close to the 'sweet spot'.
Its the same for older men and older women, they are kidding themselves if they think they won't be dumped at some point.
ya it's totally true...last thing i want is another man who only loves his job...i want someone who is still excited about life! i want an partner not a project.
She struck the right chord in my heart at 6:31 because that resonates with me. I know relationships not hook-ups
Older women rock. I can’t get enough of them!
All my best friends and the people i get along the most are older women ☺
I literally got exam in like 2 days, and I didn't even study..and why am I watching this.. pray for me I got good score in my exam 🙏
Well, how did it go?
@@ewanprunty2268 idk yet, this Monday probably I shall get the results.. pray for me doe 😭😭 i did it badd
@@ewanprunty2268 I'm back and the results are i pass the exam so yey 👊😎😱😂😭😭
I loved older woman since I was young but never got into relationship with any, now Im closing to my 40s and finally get them :D :D :D
What?!!! Really? Wow, no wonder for long time. Dang I understand you wow.
Same thinking
Beautifully said as always. Thank you so much Susan. Wishing you and all the viewers all the best.💗
The common mistake is not meeting them sooner! It's not always about the pursuit. It's about showing appreciation and pleasing her without motives.
This is pretty useful and practical approach advice for men. It's much more useful than a lot of the BS dating 'tips' etc that you get on the internet.
wow. your second point really hit home with me. I have been attracted to older women my whole adult life and the reason I shied away from them is because I automatically assume they wouldn't be interested because of a) societal norms b) success gap c) they think that I would just want sex. thanks for your point of view.
I've always been into older women. We just connect well, and I am physically more attracted to them than women my own age. Now I'm in my 30's and definitely would like to meet a woman 40+.
Thank you Susan this was very informative Some women let society or friends , family dictate their lives and we become afraid to explore better and/ or other options
She is completely right on both answers.
1. I have had only have 2 partners. One very short lived and then a long marriage. The sex started dwindling in the marriage to the point of non existence. I would have to say I probably have had much less experience as well as much less exploration since my partner had an addiction so we just didn't keep growing as a couple. I'd probably be playing catch up with a new partner when I start dating.
2. After my divorce it was younger men who made me feel there was hope of finding good men in the world. These were not men I dated but men I was around in social meetup situations. They treated me with respect and kindness and didn't throw me under the bus because of my age. It helped me get used to interacting with men again after being married for so long. Even a few showed some interest but I sort of let it fade away.
Personally I need a relationship not a fling so I wouldn't start something that wouldn't have more substance to it especially if the man is on a different path than mine like he hasn't had a marriage and kids he wants.
I'm 39 & I've been dating a 60 year old woman. She thinks the businesses I own a great. She teaches me patience. Cause I can actually wait on her cause we are both busy. I write comics & I work security
I’m 52 and a guy decided to take a risk and ask me out, he’s 31..we are going out tomorrow! I want that beauty!!
Update?
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I wish I could display our chats..he wasn’t 31 he was 26 and graduated with my son.. too close for comfort 🤣.. he talked marriage and honestly I think I’ll pass .. I stopped talking to him.. I truly do not want to date younger than 40
Thank you so much for sharing that and actually the younger people who don't know that and actually are intimidated and full of assumptions and stereotypes. I ended up marrying my 25 years older girlfriend and she's amazing and now my wife !! Beautiful on the outside and inside just like a girl full of love and waiting for someone to explore that beautiful personality of hers and full of life !!
i've went on this date with this older woman last weekend. I see her as highly attractive, she is 30 years older than me.
we met up and had drinks and dinner then got me to her apartment. we drank some more.
even though we had good communication, i feel like i might have not seen the signs and that i was clueless.
i didnt got to do my game on her cuz she seemed closed off or shy as well and just wanted me to initiate it or something.
I'm 25 and this video connected with me. This advice is spot on🙌🏾
Do you know why I like mature women?
I tell you beautiful lady. When I was a child, I had two problems in my family although my parents are good people.
First, I was punished physically so hard and most of the time by my mother. Second, I didn’t have mentally support from my family ever. On the other hand when I argued with someone else, my family always gave the other side right verbally or did It by their silence. My parents always told me the positive points of other guys who were in my age and blamed me because I didn’t behave like them.
When I became 18 years old I understood something in my mind that I’m fascinated so much by mature women and this feeling remained with me until present. I can’t say It exactly if this feeling is a disorder one or normal feeling in response to my past. Actually I don’t want to think about It.
I want a best friend.
A lover
Kind hearted. Gentle.. Holy.. I found him. ...
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The only advantage of dating an older woman, and this is the one reason is alone enough to date an older woman, is that she is upfront and straight forward about life. Younger women play too much mind games and you'll be exhausted if you try to win their games. I read this book called mode one. It helped me deal with mind games played by women.
Older women are more practical, they don't giggle out of nervousness. Their humor is sharp, they can make you laugh actually.
The only disadvantage older women have is they assume everything about you as a person as they've been through your phase of life before you. Most of their assumptions could be true but it feels difficult and painful as your entire life is just a small prediction for this person.
Yes, very true, Susan. There is such situation in every culture. But every one must consider the fact that love is looking from the inside. And recognition is very important. Sometimes, love at first site is not very accurate, but to prolong the communication is a must and may result in right way. Thank you, Susan. I am 60 and I am also wondering, why younger men are getting my attention? But it makes me feel young, you know! Thanks.....
i am almost 48. My first boyfriend as a teenager was black (I am white). This was socially unacceptable at that time. I had the courage to love who i loved. Thank God, times have changed. I hope and pray this all changes as well
To each it's own!
I only date white female..
Currently dating an older woman. Not a huge age gap , I’m 26 shes 33. But the maturity , her demeanor , achievements is mind blowing . Talking to her blows my mind till Even after a few months of dating . I will admit it’s very confident killing that I’m not as successful yet and not much to offer her yet but I’m grateful she’s understanding and doesn’t care for that . I tell her everyday she’s literally perfect or the closest thing to it . I will admit that it’s been a while since I’ve dated and this is my first 30+ year old I’ve dated so it’s quiet an adjustment. On my end i have to be better . As far as my minor insecurities that i still suffer from due to past experiences unfortunately. She’s amazing though and I’ll do whatever it takes to make it work
How did the relationship go??
Hi susan im dating a younger guy and like u said they really havent been or done everything that ive done he might know alot more about other things but we love each others we talk about each others i feel his responsible he wants to look after me i have no objections life isnt perfect yes we have our ups and downs but we get thru them its all good
How is it going?
Dear Susan, Very insightful advice. It cleared some of my worries. Thank you .
Sharath
Ladies I’m 33 in great shape, have a great job, and I Love Older Women!!!
But where do you live ?
@@vixter28 Nashville, how about yourself?
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Im 33, been dating a lovely 42 yr old Indonesian woman for the past 6 months it is great
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A much younger man is interested. We have much in common. And he was not afraid to ask for what he wanted. I appreciated that more than you know. FYI the age difference is 50 years.
how did this go? im curious.
I didn't date any girl in my age or less actually I will never do that . I'm in love with an older woman and she is amazing funny respective . Young women's sorryyy for your acting
Literally Susan
Everything you are explaining and telling is a reality and I have observed and I had went through this situation many a times as I also have same feeling of attraction to older women.
I had started watching your videos today itself and it's the second one and I have already subscribed to your channel.
Fabulous.
Thanks
I love my woman. We have a huge years of age gap (really huge), but that doesn't bother me nor her.
Older women are very experienced and responsible and respected.they have learned much more than younger people
Im currently with a older women 12 years older and i do have some worries about myself but your videos are very informative ill subscribe
1' don't see them as older woman , just see them as a woman , 2' don't assume anything let things happen , 3' although this is saying that they are not sexually voracious , I've been blessed with women who try'd to kill me in the bedroom and i loved every moment of it and mentally they were always stimulating and fun
I really like my professor and I think she's 40 and I am only 20...im so afraid to tell her my feelings..I literally keep thinking about her I want her so bad
Did you ever tell her?
Another great video of the day!
Well Researched!
Well Spoken!
Great video presentation!
I’m here for tips(I had mommy issues when growing up...my mom refused breast feeding)
Excellent video, straight to the point and factual...no fantasy talk of what could be.
Wonder if I’m still considered young just turned 30🙃 but yup I do fantasize about an older 45-65 yr old women. They be lookin mighty fine af. 🥵
Late 20s and early 30s is more the same thing
Im 30 too and met a lady I think was maybe 50 (cute & rare) and we had a nice little conversation and I was taken back...now I'm thinking about her and watching these videos lol
Andres Rodriguez I’m 28 and this woman is 50 but she looks really good for her age. It’s weird cause we get along well. Idk she’s invited me out for some drinks and wants me to go fishing with her out on her boat at the lake this weekend..
im in the age group and feel like a 20 yr old .. 30 is mad young still
She is so right in this. Young guys pls listen to Susan and put away those might not be real assumptions for older girls.
I’m in my 20s and I would LOVE an older woman.
The company matters the most in my opinion, sex is secondary
I thought it was something wrong with me for loving older women
I dated a guy 14 years younger than me and we had an amazing chemistry and attraction towards each other but he wanted a family and advice him to look elsewhere (36-50) so one fine day he ghosted on me then I called him and said wanted space- off he went to try maybe younger gal- he got so attached to me that still after 6 months he started sending texts and calling to find out how is my life how am I? I think he isn’t over me completely- I miss him but I’m not trying to get him back.. he will decide by himself and if I’m still available I may consider the reconciliation but to be honest , I don’t think I will date another younger guy in my life - I prefer guys my age .. love is blind ! I’m 50 but I look like I’m 43 I take care of myself and all natural, I’m independent/smart and pretty /a fulfilling amazing profession I adore 🥰 so I’m really happy in my life but sometimes I miss a companionship.. not so much for sex but in general , I got a lot to offer still - and I want same in return so ..
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Did she say that young men have more sexual partners than older women 😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😭😭 I can't
Right I'm like "why she always lyyyinnnn'?" 😆
Older women been ran through more times than a college football end zone.
Not if you married young and were faithful. Older women are not from the hookup generation...so it is very possible...😁
@@angienichols1248 Married young and were faithful? thats very situational and highly unlikely and "Hookup culture"? the only difference between then and now is that everything is documented and easier to access bc of social media 😂 best believe these women been getting ran through for a few generations now
this has been so enlightening a affirming! got a date in two weeks with a woamn I have always beamed at.. cant wait but also quite nervous.. looking forward to watching more of your material! love from UK
good day Susan, i agree that the young man offer different that will lead for long ang lasting Love
as you knowim 51 n my honey is 34 were too far frm each other im in morocco n his in india
we meet, we explore we do the Pledge to God , to God n. Godess as we both respect for what we do Believe
as a couple, He manage fenancial n prepare for my retairey
The Trust, Love n Repect is always there
he alaways make me smile n giving. confort everytime i needed
i thank you as you help me a lot, as you remember before i got in to this Relationship
you boost me 😊😊😊
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I am looking forward to the older women. I will bring you wherever you are
I'm 45 and could use a younger man... yes, please!
Hi Julie am 38 r u single can we go forward
question for you. what do you mean by saying use a younger man? a young woman dated this older guy. he turned out to be a night mare .she was abused by his hand .never ever use any younger man or woman . for your own gain
how would you feel if some younger man .use you for every thing you got.then kick you to the curve mam please don't treat any body in any ways. that you would not want to be treated .no offence. 😭😭😭
My first time watching this lady. She is very expressive and on point. Good content. Thank you.
I see all that you said to be true. One thing to mention is for the younger guy to stop thinking he has to play games to get her in bed or play games to keep her interested. All he has to do is keep being himself genuine. The younger guy I was talking to seemed to become all frazzled is the way I describe it after we admitted to liking each other for more than friends. His behavior changed. He withdrew, seemed to be playing phone games. I'm really disappointed after the 3 years of friendship we had I would think it would be easier. But maybe he just wanted sex and it wasn't going in that direction fast enough so he spit. I don't know but I'm a little sad about it but ok still. I'm glad I rode it out and spoke my truth anyway. I feel stronger because of it.
luulips I've experienced this as well thought I would give it a good shot , however now we are not speaking it's my phone having problems game, so I backed off and moving into another direction!
luulips Hate them phone games men love to play all ages, didn't get your message, battery died (again)! And waiting hours to txt you back. It sounds like if you slept with him he would have ghosted you so good you didn't.
luulips so you left this guy hanging for 3 years ?
I hear ya!! I'm tired of the games. Too old and too tired.
luulips single want do business?
This is awesome! You are great for all of us women that date younger men. This was so on point!
Excellent advice.
Thank you!!
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Susan Winter you're a interesting lady!
Thanks for the compliment
You need to have experience you can't just date an older women. I been dating matures since age 20 n now I'm 33 my gf is 59 n going good.
Exactly
Im 20 years old. I like older women because they are more respectful, real, and they look better then most younger women around my age. And I also have an old soul so I know alot about their childhood shows, music, artists, and history and thats one bond I have with older women born in the early 90s or 80s and I guess the 70s to because some women in their 40s, 50s be looking good
Calling her older? That puts me off. I am more than my age. Samantha Jones is a sitcom archetype aka the man-eater. The male equivalent archetype is a womanizer. They are funny, but not typical women. I know more Charlotte's and Miranda's.
I love older woman with a beautiful personality and respect his mother all the times.. Older woman is a beautiful person with a great sense of humor.. My mother is a beautiful person too.. My mother always told me treating yourself right and treating others well respect too. My mother raised me from old school manner and manner too..
Thanks Susan. This really helped, I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 58. I would love to talk more about this subject.
That’s way too much
@@boy-xu3sv i mean hes old enough why not ?
@@boy-xu3sv lol I’m 26 and my girl is 50 and?
Dear Susan, This is the first time seeing you. My compliments. I am very impressed, I am 69.
I'm 24 and I was dating a 38 year woman and she had a very high sex drive to the point where as I usually wanted have sex regularly toe only wanting it occasionally because because I was fatigued from it all . Also thing's didn't work between me and her because she always accused me of cheating on her with a younger women or that she thought I'd leave her for a younger woman and eventually I got tired of it and broke it off
fatigue happens.
Wow!! Wow! And wow..
I love hearing you Susan and this just hit the spot..I ran into this video.. lol and my oh my 👌🏽👍🏽