Full Episode: • Mafia Associate On Sur... Former Mob Bookie, David "Chicky" Cecchetelli, talks about way the Mob deals with infidelity and how to tell.
@@angelmarauder5647 Sleazy or not, the wife would be the one at fault in that scenario. If you leave meat out in the open, it'll attract flies. You can hardly blame the flies.
@@theclockworkcadaver7025 "If you leave meat out in the open [...]" Sooo... 1) women, and especially wives, are meat. How kind... 2)leavine them in the open? So the opposite, which would be to be done, would be to lock them up? Scratch that, mate. That's taleban shite.
Wrong. He's not cheating on you. He's not broken the contract you made with your wife. She is cheating on you. Not him. It confuses me that men would be mad at the guy.
Old school manners were designed to prevent the temptation from occurring: not entering a man’s house when he isn’t home is good manners, and it prevents even rumors from starting.
And nowadays people gaslight themselves about saying "what's wrong with a man just visiting a women's house" people don't have self respect and lack proper common sense.
Rumors can cause hella damage to a relationship and both parties professional life. I mean are you going to promote someone that you will need to depend on when you know they are about to go through a dramatic divorce? Many a small business has folded over that, hell even major brand names have had their bottom line kneekapped by a distracted employee who was off of their game due to divorce.
LOL simply because they have a huge pool of peeps in their pocket compared to a local dive bar for options in the past. Thats all it is. Is it right? I dunno its just magnified the existing situation of peeps and sex.
Imagine being a member of the fucking Mafia, sleeping with the boss’s wife, GETTING OFF WITH A FUCKING WARNING… and then doing it again anyway. Never mind the lack of common decency. That’s a Darwin Award.
It was probably not the boss who warned him. Could have been someone else who was close to them that knew and told the guy to stop because he will get caught. Or maybe the boss caught him hanging around the cookie jar and seen crumbs on the counter but couldn't prove he did had any.
I remember hearing a story from a guy i knew who was in a MCC, and he said if he went to another members house and the guy wasn't there and the wife was to invite him in, he'd give two answer's. a no thank you i'll come back later, or he'd wait outside on the front porch for the guy.. And he told me one time he waited outside for a couple hours for this guy to come home. And when the guy showed up, and asked him what he was doing outside, and why he didn't just wait for him inside the house, he explained it like, this is your house, your wife is inside, and i don't want to give you any idea's that i'm messing around with your wife. And the guy simply said thank you
You can't be a Christian and a criminal, once a criminal always a criminal. That's like saying, As both a tall guy and a short guy........Also being a "Christian" isn't some achievement like an Eagle Scout or something, freakin religious nutjobs think they're special.
How many bosses, 75 years olds dudes, and 30 year old girls are in the USA? those are nonspecific details. dates , locations, names, etc are specific details
Macaroni or kitty, he's not turning down neither especially when it's from the same source....Franky Knuckles ain't coming home til 2030 he won't find out.
So i would have failed the changing of the tire test because i was taught to not talk/brag/seek a reward for helping people in need, but the way he's explaining it i can see how it looks shady. Wow. So i wonder how many people i pissed off by doing a different version of honor. Very insightful
Yeah, I was raised the same way. However, I would think that if you're involved with that particular organization, you probably inherently know to let a guy know that you helped his wife out, because he may take it wrong if you don't. That has more to do with survival, than manners, I guess.
Same. As well as in regular society most guys aren't going to be turbo-paranoid that their friends/business associates are trying to bang their wives. It happens, but not to the point where you're going to get your wife involved in an elaborate test of something you think might indicate that a dude would be inclined to.
What you do and say needs to be an open book when done in front of open doors. What you do behind closed doors stays quiet. I think that’s what he is getting at.
So right about social media… my relationship, or whatever it is, is the perfect example of it. My “lady” looked elsewhere and social media was part of it
I remember being a teen and by to "see my guy about a thing" and he wasn't home from work yet ...but his wife was. She tried to get me to come in, sit down, have a beer etc 3 or 4x... And I kept my @$$ planted on the porch until he walked in his door. He knew what was up, I knew what was up, and he knew I was a good kid who respected my friends. Me and him had a great working relationship moving forward.
@@Zick-ThingS-Col LOL look at you thinking you're gonna find loyalty from a woman. It's not gonna happen. They're all like this. Best to just understand and treat them like the irresponsible children they want to be treated as. They don't like it, they can start acting like women before we stop treating them like the disposable holes they are. The resource to be collected that they are. I don't get mad at money for being disloyal to me just because someone else is holding some of it.
If a guy is horsing my wife I'm not going to do anything to the guy besides thank him for revealing my wife for who she really is and then divorce her. It's that simple.
True.. but if it's your family or people supposed to be close to you .. they should respect you enough to not be in your home with your wife when you aren't there
Any female is going to be subject to temptation, just like you are. If you leave guys alone with your wife your setting her up for failure. At the very least, your putting her in awkward, uncomfortable situations. It's not fair on her.
He ain't saying he's a saint or trying to be self righteous. Just how it's handled. And he's definitely right about the how sexual stuff has changed a lot. Social media stuff all right too.
in jail ppl DIE over not being courteous and having ethics; it can be the smallest thing too! even some cartel guys said they seen others die over not shaking the bosses hand because the boss felt disrespected. in the real world most ppl just make a mental note or feel like they dont like someone so its actually better to learn from criminals cuz they die over those things and can break down why..
I've helped a lot of wives/girlfriends/sisters/etc without mentioning it to their guys because I felt that mentioning it would look like I was looking for some kind of "reimbursement".
Was thinking the same thing. Especially if the guy is a mafia boss. Seems like it would be perceived as trying to get the boss's gratitude/favor. The wife likely already told the boss, so if he wants to bring it up, he can.
That's why you don't frame it that way. Just like "Hey, just to let you know, but I helped [lady's name] out the other day with a flat tire. I don't want anything in return, just wanna let you know on the up-and-up it was a thing in case she didn't tell you." Just for the sake of transparency and nobody gets the wrong idea. I think anybody would understand that.
The reason the guy never mentioned that he helped your wife is 1. He's scared of you. 2. He doesn't want you to think you owe him. 3. You get more suspicious if he mentions that he was near your wife without you being there.
No the reason he never brought it up is because he’s a snake. No real friend would be scared of you because you helped out their wife lmao. No real one would except a favour back either it’s just standard to help your brothers out, excepting nothing in return. You’re just describing fake people
It seems insane to me that you would articulate that no one would ever want ..... Even though the guy spells out rules to stop temptation.... If you can imagine it some person has done it
@@KahzulaFeeling the need to mention the fact you did the right thing tells me you really weren't in it to do the right thing, but rather doing it only to brag about it later. I'd have to say friend B assumed friend A already heard what happened and thought nothing more needed to be said on the matter.
There's no friendships here. This is all business. We get along to conduct business but we're not really friends. If you're a stand up guy, we get along. The situation here is, 1. If your not scared of me, scared of what I would do if you betrayed me, then how can I trust you. 2. I don't want to owe anyone anything. Everybody owes somebody at one time or another, but if I feel that I owe you every time I see you, eventually it's gonna end bad. Call your marker so we can clear it up and we can work together. 3. If you're not suspicious then you're complacent. That's a good way to disappear
@@simpleplan100687 wtf are you smoking I want some? Did you not watch the video.. has the point already gone over your head. Telling someone you helped their wife isn’t bragging about it man. Not telling him is more sketchy but also it might not be that deep. Don’t forget the life these guys lived is nothing like yours.
Hell, I thought that was just plain being respectful, if you run into someone you bring it up to your friend, and never be alone with another man's wife or girlfriend....even if nothing is going on.
Exactly and that goes for the work place for sure. Some would like to argue that having friends while in committed relationships are ok even with the opposite sex, I view a dude who is ok befriending my wife as someone who is disrespecting me directly.
These women and men now in days lost all morals. Women hanging out with men that are married drinking and vice versa. You would expect more from them from how they carry themselves Guess not it's just a front
na, they would be too overly-grateful for it -- it's expected. they are more concerned potentially keeping secrets between each other, even seemingly innocuous ones.
its a bad situation,. if you help a wife and go up to the husbnand it can see as bad since you are just using the wife to get to the guy, if youdon't go up you want the wifer, if the husband doesnt go up to you its bad :D bro next time better just move on and let the wife handle her shit
@@joshsheler7036@joshsheler7036 it would be 100%. I'm saying it's expected to fix the tire and tell the guy -- it it's nothing special to help the community in need, double over for one of them or their family.
It's wild to me that literal mafia members have better morals than normal people; I used to live next to a Hell's Angel with my ex fiancee, the dude made sure I knew when some people short cutted through my yard and that he made sure they wouldn't do it again for me and my girl. I've NEVER had a bad experience with people tied to organized crime, show them respect and stay on their good side and you have nothing to worry about; I've had many MANY more bad experiences with the average joe on the street.
Turns out the "organized" part of organized crime is really crucial. They do have a code. It's a brutal code, but it's there. Mobsters know how they're supposed to behave
I had the same experience as a missionary in New Zealand. Street punks would give us problems, but the hardcore gangs? They actually would look out for us. They’d even get us food.
@@deltacharlieecho4732 I never said it was a benefit of any type. I grew up around them. Rode bicycles down the same street their clubhouse is still on to this day and I’m 62, I have family members who are members, friends I grew up with members. But i personally live in a nice town village 30 minutes away.
Or him saying "social media ruined society" as if organized crime hasn't absolutely obliterated American rights and has allowed federal government to intrude on people's lives and regulate everything from firearms to fruit imports
in general yeah, but I'm not trying to refuse peoples' hospitality. I'm not trying to hang out, but I'll accept hospitality. Gentlemen are GENTLE and aren't a threat.
I remember when I was 18 (nieve) and a friend invited me over. I get there and he isn’t there yet. I called him and asked where he was and he said a half hour out but to go inside. I did because it was cold. His wife was cool at 1st, then she asked to come to the kitchen while I was waiting in the living room. She had stood at the door way with a nighty on that she wasn’t wearing when she answered the door. I immediately got up and left. I never told my friend because I didn’t think that he would’ve believed me. Needless to say I never went there again. Lessened learned.
Facts. Any friend who tries to be friends with your girl ain’t your friend anymore. Drop him, he stands for nothing. Men and women can’t be friends. There will always be one side of the equation trying to balance the other out
LOL sounds like you had a bad experience or are around degens. Men and women are definitely friends in many cases, sorry you can't experience that without issues xD
@@OArchivesX never had an issue with homies doing anything like that. just know how a dude mind works. I get being cordial and what not at parties but as far as a homie going out to lunch with my girl? nope. complicates things for no reason. Instincts are instincts.
Men can absolutely be friends with women. It just looks different. Now if my guy friend is TRYING to be friends with the wife, that is weird. If they become friends organically over shared interests, cool, but again, it looks very different than a guy friendship, and the boundaries are different. The dudes I know keep a lot of space, are transparent, and are basically family friends. It really helps to be in a crowd of holy believers who believe intimacy is between man and wife.
Great advice, I had a neighbor that would go talk to my man every time he took the trash out until I called her out on it, she would also talk to my mom and never mention it, people have weird intentions, I also avoid social media.
I probably wouldn't even stop and fix the tire. I'd just drive by and pretend I didn't see her. Don't even put yourself in that situation. Some guys wouldn't see that as a kind gesture
Even thinking defensively, you would not want to be in the boss's house with his wife without him being there because even if you were not doing anything ANYBODY can make it seem like you were !
I agree with all of it except the very first example. You are fixing a tire on the side of the road. you aren't going into a house or whatever. I think if you mention it to the husband it's like you're looking for praise. Worst yet, maybe insinuating that he isn't doing enough for his family. As if the tire should never have gone flat if he kept the car properly maintained. No, do a good deed and shut up about it after. BUT, if the guy brings it up or asks directly about that time and place, then don't go hiding anything either.
This guy is 100% correct......I come from an Italian family...My ancestors came on boat...No joke...A boat then to Ellis island. What this gentleman described is exactly how you conduct yourself when dealing with married women. This was how I was taught. "You never scold you tongue on another mans soup" .........EVER
Funny this made me flashback to helping an ex boyfriend move and when he took one of several trips to the new location his brother showed up and I insisted on waiting outside until my ex returned. Do not put yourself in a situation where "why were you two alone together?" can be a valid concern or insecurity which then leads to unnecessary drama.😊
Hmm, I'd get it if it were a random guy friend maybe, but his brother? A bit sad if his mind instantly jumps to "My brother helped my girlfriend move? They must be sleeping with each other!" That's one scumbag brother in that case. I guess those exist, but I'd like to think they're so common that it's a regular concern.
this is fucking stupid lmao, reading these comments has taught me just how insecure people can be. He wouldn't go in the same room as you as he would think that would raise suspicion... Why the fuck are you even with each other if you have no trust at all. And man he must really hate his brother lmao.
The one thing I'll say is that the guy who fixed his wife's car and doesn't mention it may avoid mentioning it because he assumes that the wife already told him and he doesn't want to bring it up because it would seem as if he was trying to suck up to the boss. "Oh, I helped you wife. Aren't I great?" He could be leaving it to the boss to bring it up or not bring it up.
@@alaron5698 That was my thinking as well. If I helped my friend's wife, I'm not going to go and tell him about it unless he asks, because then it comes off as me rubbing it in his face and essentially telling him "hey, you owe me one". When you do someone a favor, you simply don't mention it and that's basic etiquette. Of course, people on social media are easily fooled by this sociopath into believing what "morally right" looks like lmao
I guess when you're committing all these crimes, your paranoia levels are up to a million, which would make sense why you couldn't trust anyone including you own wife. Sad life to live.
Many men have gotten into trouble for doing a nice thing and another man thinking too much about it. If you told me a guy got shot because he helped another man's wife with something and when the guy told the husband he got mad instead of thanking him, I wouldn't be surprised. You never know how the other guy is going to react even to simple stuff like that, specially a guy you 100% know is a criminal so he is already at a higher paranoid state of mind than most people. That kid didn't need to mention what he did so he didn't.
Yeah plus it’s weird to be asking for thanks, basically over such a small thing. Like implying your boss owes you one because you fixed his wife’s tire.
@@bradkindley Except when you didn't ask the guy to do something and now he's asking for payment for something you didn't ask him to do. Something that now he feels he can hold over your head. "Let me do this 'nice thing' so now he owes me". If you don't think people do this kind of shit, you don't take self-defense seriously. Fine. But don't demand I be a victim too just to make you feel better about yourself. Some of us are resistant to manipulation. We see this shit all the time when someone "politely" opens the door for you but then takes issue with some microscopic part of how you thanked him or didnt thank him or whatever. People do this type of shit for power. I'm sorry you still think you live in a high-trust society. You don't.
@@screwgoogle4993 So, you come across your buddies wife in the side of the road with a flat tire, and you are just gonna leave her there? Sure wouldn't want you as a friend. Not talking about "society" or some random...the example is your buddies wife. My buddy at least owes me a beer and a thanks. If you are "friends" with losers and scammers, that is 100% on you dude. There are plenty of decent people in the world, but they do tend to stick with other decent people. Maybe you aren't decent enough to know these kinds of people. I am truly sorry for you. Keep working on yourself and maybe you too can have a real friend one day.
@@screwgoogle4993 wtf u on about??? "self-defence" You are defending yourself from what? The feeling of owning someone for something as innocuous as having the door held open for you? That's internal bro.
The better question is why's your wife inviting men into your house? Like why is it the guy who's the sole accountable party when she's LITERALLY inviting him INSIDE?
There are many reasons a woman would invite her husbands friends inside the house. 1. Weather outside 2. She’s being courteous to her husband’s colleague’s and friends. 3. She may be a little naive. Just because you’re invited in doesn’t always mean she’s interested in your braciola!
@@windtalker4191 All it shows is an utter lack of confidence in both your friend and your wife. That level of distrust says nothing about them. It says everything about you.
@@windtalker4191 The guy who fixed his wife's car and doesn't mention it may avoid mentioning it because he assumes that the wife already told him and he doesn't want to bring it up because it would seem as if he was trying to win the favor/gain the gratitude of with the boss. "Oh, I helped you wife. Aren't I great?" He could be leaving it to the boss to bring it up if he decides it's worth a "thank you," and if not, he just leaves it be.
I'll tell ya a secret, social media didn't change anything. People just got caught easier through it. Nothing has changed in the world everyone has always done everything going on now in the past.
No, there's been a shift. With social media, now you can have people all over the world justify your piss poor decisions, encourage you in your detrimental behavior, and generally be a bad influence. It makes the wisdom of those close to you easier to ignore.
You are 100% right social media ruins (destroys) relationships I’ve been with my wife going on 7 years no Facebook no nothing and we are very happy but yes temptation is a mf
If she puts her face on profile and post daily or weekly selfies of herself then yes chances are very high that many men will try to befriend and try to talk to her...If she is a loyal type you really have nothing to worry about. IF your profile is just scenery, plant you won't attract attention or males. I know this cause I have tested it and even pretended to be a woman. 😂 But Social media is useful for connecting with family members, friends and both can set a boundary line not to interact. Most social media now have options to block, filter messages from unknown strangers.. but it is cool and to each their own. I respect and its good to see there are true loyal and loving married couples out there!!
Man, this guy has so much integrity and character. He is a real friend if you have him for one. Guys like this are the ones that if you can fill up one hand with friends like this, you are a wealthy man. I was raised this way by my father. His friends had a code just like this, you never, ever touched a friend's wife. If they had a main girl outside of their marriage, she was off limits too. Those friends I met as a child and know the ones that time didn't take to this day. Gentlemen, have character and be somebody that is respectable. Draw people to you like that and you'll be a rich man, regardless of your income.
Just showed my girl this. Literally just told her men think with their under armor. Not their brain, and it’s going to cost their life. They’ll learn the hard way…
The black community is like this. Its taboo to even talk to your friends girl. We go years not even knowing his married. When we talk, we don't acknowledge shes there. Not everyone, but most of us understand this rule.
That’s been a rule since back before the days of Gotti. You never go anywhere alone with a members wife or gf. You need to have a couple people there with you. Perceived intentions often have dire consequences.
I will never enter my friend's house if he is not home plenty of times my buddy has said hey bro go inside my girls there I'll be there in 15 minutes I said hell no I wait outside.... Common courtesy
@@athmaid You just don’t understand because the stupidity of calling traditional values and roles evil is popular, asking to speak to the head of the house is very much the old ways and very respectful.
@@athmaid Like I said liberals and feminists make the old ways look bad because you do not understand them. When you grow up or start thinking for yourself you might begin to understand.
My man kicked the facts. That’s real triple OG. A real pup will listen and soak in. Kids today won’t listen and be scrolling not listening to wisdom!!! 😮😂
@@CCSI322 I don’t speak from a place of ignorance these people destroy everything they ever touched and worked for the devil nothing to glorify fuck the godfather movies
It's a simple standard. You avoid situations that can be potentially misinterpreted. Not because you're going to do something, but because you should avoid even the opportunity to do something.
Peter Griffiano
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Underrated😂👌🏼
Nailed it
Bruh 😂
If someone is sleeping with my wife, if the guy knows she's married, they are both at fault. If he doesn't, she's at fault.
You’ve never boned a married chick?!?
How could you not know. That takes a real sleaze to sleep with them regularly and not know their life.
@@angelmarauder5647 Sleazy or not, the wife would be the one at fault in that scenario. If you leave meat out in the open, it'll attract flies. You can hardly blame the flies.
@@theclockworkcadaver7025
"If you leave meat out in the open [...]"
Sooo...
1) women, and especially wives, are meat. How kind...
2)leavine them in the open? So the opposite, which would be to be done, would be to lock them up? Scratch that, mate. That's taleban shite.
Wrong. He's not cheating on you. He's not broken the contract you made with your wife.
She is cheating on you. Not him. It confuses me that men would be mad at the guy.
Old school manners were designed to prevent the temptation from occurring: not entering a man’s house when he isn’t home is good manners, and it prevents even rumors from starting.
And nowadays people gaslight themselves about saying "what's wrong with a man just visiting a women's house" people don't have self respect and lack proper common sense.
Big facts man people lost
Rumours? If you pay too puch attention to it, you let others dictate your every move.
Rumors can cause hella damage to a relationship and both parties professional life. I mean are you going to promote someone that you will need to depend on when you know they are about to go through a dramatic divorce? Many a small business has folded over that, hell even major brand names have had their bottom line kneekapped by a distracted employee who was off of their game due to divorce.
Yep 👍 glad to know it, that's the ruling as per Sharia law too not to enter homes when men aren't present
Social media has gassed up the 4's and 5's into thinking they're 9's and 10's.
And the 1s/2a thinking they are 6-7
Are we talking about instagram thots or tate fans?
@@andrewhooper7603ig thots, obviously. Tate talks about getting money and what you want from others not hyping up ugly people 😂
@@andrewhooper7603 defo tate fans
LOL simply because they have a huge pool of peeps in their pocket compared to a local dive bar for options in the past. Thats all it is. Is it right? I dunno its just magnified the existing situation of peeps and sex.
Imagine being a member of the fucking Mafia, sleeping with the boss’s wife, GETTING OFF WITH A FUCKING WARNING… and then doing it again anyway. Never mind the lack of common decency. That’s a Darwin Award.
Sons of anarchy ass move.
It was probably not the boss who warned him. Could have been someone else who was close to them that knew and told the guy to stop because he will get caught. Or maybe the boss caught him hanging around the cookie jar and seen crumbs on the counter but couldn't prove he did had any.
@@justicewalking IDK if those guys care a whole lot about proof.
Pussy is that damn powerful. God and the Mafia spared him and he still finessed himself out of life.
@@stewartplays They do. But it's not the same level of scrutiny that the legal system has.
Made or not… that’s how a respectable man should treat a situation with another man’s wife. Period.
He's in a Mafia. He can't be that honorable.
@@stevenmarecle5502you do realize honor is subjective, right? what’s honorable to you isn’t necessarily honorable to everybody else
@@Syv_ that's on you if you consider murders to be honorable.
@@stevenmarecle5502it's one hell of a absolute at least 😂
I lived with a couple of my friends and I was at his house all the time with his wife when he wasnt home.
I remember hearing a story from a guy i knew who was in a MCC, and he said if he went to another members house and the guy wasn't there and the wife was to invite him in, he'd give two answer's. a no thank you i'll come back later, or he'd wait outside on the front porch for the guy.. And he told me one time he waited outside for a couple hours for this guy to come home. And when the guy showed up, and asked him what he was doing outside, and why he didn't just wait for him inside the house, he explained it like, this is your house, your wife is inside, and i don't want to give you any idea's that i'm messing around with your wife. And the guy simply said thank you
Pathetic.
If you can’t trust your friend or your wife you’re a shit judge of character.
Mine craft club?
@@SteveDFM😂😂
Are most men really this insecure? 😂
@@Matt-ll1hd it’s not insecurity, it’s respecting someone’s marriage
If even the mobsters know social media is destroying relationships and monogamy. Then perhaps we should give it a second thought
Social media is the largest uncontrolled study in the history of man kind
@@bhatch5680 What's an uncontrolled study?
he means likely public experiment
You could’ve spent time looking it up instead asking me 😉
They should know. They have the receipts
"You dont mow another guy's lawn."
Roy Munson
U can mow my lawn
Unless you are mexican
My landscapers would be broke if that were true
Awesome quote
SB Mowing
This is what I imagine Tim Dillon’s dad looks like
lmao. Underrated comment.
LOL!
Damn it, you beat me to a Tim Dillon joke lol I said this is Tim’s uncle
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As both a Christian and an ex criminal I never give anyone any reason to believe I've got the wrong intentions. There's a code that men should live by
You can't be a Christian and a criminal, once a criminal always a criminal. That's like saying, As both a tall guy and a short guy........Also being a "Christian" isn't some achievement like an Eagle Scout or something, freakin religious nutjobs think they're special.
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@@thatdude3977"that dude" that doesn't get it, hence the imbecile laughs
Avoid the appearance of all evil.
And that’s how you’re able to deceive them.
“I won’t get into any details”
* HE WAS A BOSS AND WAS 75 AND SHE WAS 30*
😂
Age gaps don't don't matter to gold diggers
And the gahuxtagogen was framed by the ramistan
@@OffGridInvestorthat’s not the point , he pretty much described the people involved u dummy
How many bosses, 75 years olds dudes, and 30 year old girls are in the USA? those are nonspecific details. dates , locations, names, etc are specific details
Not gonna lie; this guy doesn't look like the type of guy to ever say, "No thanks..." When someone offers him macaroni.
Macaroni or kitty, he's not turning down neither especially when it's from the same source....Franky Knuckles ain't coming home til 2030 he won't find out.
Forget about it!
@@mattolivier1835fuhgettaboutit
What about peppers and eggs?
😂😂😂 *never
The fact grown men don’t understand this
It's a sad world we live in, I was taught never be alone with a woman you don't trust and never enter another man's house when his wife is alone
@@hockingangler1334from where I'm from if you even text a married woman lonely you were dead meat let alone have sex with them
They understand.... They just don't respect you enough to care
Hardly any men left in the world.
Theyre listening to the women that call them "insecure".
So i would have failed the changing of the tire test because i was taught to not talk/brag/seek a reward for helping people in need, but the way he's explaining it i can see how it looks shady. Wow. So i wonder how many people i pissed off by doing a different version of honor. Very insightful
Yeah, I was raised the same way.
However, I would think that if you're involved with that particular organization, you probably inherently know to let a guy know that you helped his wife out, because he may take it wrong if you don't. That has more to do with survival, than manners, I guess.
Same. As well as in regular society most guys aren't going to be turbo-paranoid that their friends/business associates are trying to bang their wives. It happens, but not to the point where you're going to get your wife involved in an elaborate test of something you think might indicate that a dude would be inclined to.
Same. It would seem like bragging and ass kissing to bring up
I still don't get it though - not bringing it up when u see the guy multiple times makes it look even more suspicious no?
What you do and say needs to be an open book when done in front of open doors. What you do behind closed doors stays quiet. I think that’s what he is getting at.
“I won’t get into it”…proceeds to get into it 😂
Forget about it
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@@DemetriusJackson-yb4lk 🎉😂
I think he meant nothing so specific that anyone could be identified from it, but yeah....
@@samppakoivula9977 Speaking to much logic, a airplane over alot of heads.
He’s 1000 percent rite, the life changed for the worse,there’s nothing but scumbags out there now…….
You (ironically) spelt “right” wrong 😂
@@AO_Rourke Scumbags aren't new to this world.
Cause the real mob is unseen. These are pretenders.
@@AO_Rourke It'sRightNotRite. I need some help out here man.
So right about social media… my relationship, or whatever it is, is the perfect example of it. My “lady” looked elsewhere and social media was part of it
Yeah social media is just a menu for hooking up for some people. People suck man.
Man...I said you did all this because of an app on a phone sheesh 😂
"Never mow another mans lawn!"
-Roy Munson
I remember being a teen and by to "see my guy about a thing" and he wasn't home from work yet ...but his wife was.
She tried to get me to come in, sit down, have a beer etc 3 or 4x...
And I kept my @$$ planted on the porch until he walked in his door.
He knew what was up, I knew what was up, and he knew I was a good kid who respected my friends.
Me and him had a great working relationship moving forward.
And he left her right?... right?
@@Zick-ThingS-Col LOL look at you thinking you're gonna find loyalty from a woman. It's not gonna happen. They're all like this. Best to just understand and treat them like the irresponsible children they want to be treated as. They don't like it, they can start acting like women before we stop treating them like the disposable holes they are. The resource to be collected that they are. I don't get mad at money for being disloyal to me just because someone else is holding some of it.
Someone’s adult wife tried to get with you as a teenager? Jail 😭
If a guy is horsing my wife I'm not going to do anything to the guy besides thank him for revealing my wife for who she really is and then divorce her. It's that simple.
Can I have your address? Let's test her.
True.. but if it's your family or people supposed to be close to you .. they should respect you enough to not be in your home with your wife when you aren't there
@@deadwolf2263 true. Screw um both then.
Yeaaa ur looking at it different than these guys do
Any female is going to be subject to temptation, just like you are.
If you leave guys alone with your wife your setting her up for failure.
At the very least, your putting her in awkward, uncomfortable situations.
It's not fair on her.
I like it when criminals lecture on ethics 😆
It's only inter-gang ethics, though.
He ain't saying he's a saint or trying to be self righteous. Just how it's handled. And he's definitely right about the how sexual stuff has changed a lot. Social media stuff all right too.
in jail ppl DIE over not being courteous and having ethics; it can be the smallest thing too!
even some cartel guys said they seen others die over not shaking the bosses hand because the boss felt disrespected. in the real world most ppl just make a mental note or feel like they dont like someone so its actually better to learn from criminals cuz they die over those things and can break down why..
@@sumgi1537 - yes males make hierarchies of honor and shame, in the harsher Darwinian conditions, the harsher the code…..
Shut up you don't even know what a criminal is
Thank you for this video. I finally seen the level of disrespect my own brothers and cousins showed me. Real friends are the ones that count.
Sorry to hear that man. You cant choose family but ya can choose friends.
I've helped a lot of wives/girlfriends/sisters/etc without mentioning it to their guys because I felt that mentioning it would look like I was looking for some kind of "reimbursement".
Was thinking the same thing. Especially if the guy is a mafia boss. Seems like it would be perceived as trying to get the boss's gratitude/favor. The wife likely already told the boss, so if he wants to bring it up, he can.
Same, but remember how paranoid this world is
@@loosegoose2466 That' an excellent point.
That's why you don't frame it that way. Just like "Hey, just to let you know, but I helped [lady's name] out the other day with a flat tire. I don't want anything in return, just wanna let you know on the up-and-up it was a thing in case she didn't tell you." Just for the sake of transparency and nobody gets the wrong idea. I think anybody would understand that.
@@tearstoneactual9773 At least one guy: "What, YOU THINK YOU'RE BETTER THAN ME!?" lol
All people can benefit from this type of wisdom, regardless of age, gender or politics.
The reason the guy never mentioned that he helped your wife is 1. He's scared of you. 2. He doesn't want you to think you owe him. 3. You get more suspicious if he mentions that he was near your wife without you being there.
No the reason he never brought it up is because he’s a snake. No real friend would be scared of you because you helped out their wife lmao. No real one would except a favour back either it’s just standard to help your brothers out, excepting nothing in return. You’re just describing fake people
It seems insane to me that you would articulate that no one would ever want ..... Even though the guy spells out rules to stop temptation....
If you can imagine it some person has done it
@@KahzulaFeeling the need to mention the fact you did the right thing tells me you really weren't in it to do the right thing, but rather doing it only to brag about it later. I'd have to say friend B assumed friend A already heard what happened and thought nothing more needed to be said on the matter.
There's no friendships here. This is all business. We get along to conduct business but we're not really friends. If you're a stand up guy, we get along.
The situation here is, 1. If your not scared of me, scared of what I would do if you betrayed me, then how can I trust you. 2. I don't want to owe anyone anything. Everybody owes somebody at one time or another, but if I feel that I owe you every time I see you, eventually it's gonna end bad. Call your marker so we can clear it up and we can work together. 3. If you're not suspicious then you're complacent. That's a good way to disappear
@@simpleplan100687 wtf are you smoking I want some? Did you not watch the video.. has the point already gone over your head. Telling someone you helped their wife isn’t bragging about it man. Not telling him is more sketchy but also it might not be that deep. Don’t forget the life these guys lived is nothing like yours.
Hell, I thought that was just plain being respectful, if you run into someone you bring it up to your friend, and never be alone with another man's wife or girlfriend....even if nothing is going on.
The world we live in is full of immoral people
Ngl, that's insecure af. Coming from somebody who's Italian grandpa was a mobster.
Exactly and that goes for the work place for sure. Some would like to argue that having friends while in committed relationships are ok even with the opposite sex, I view a dude who is ok befriending my wife as someone who is disrespecting me directly.
These women and men now in days lost all morals. Women hanging out with men that are married drinking and vice versa. You would expect more from them from how they carry themselves Guess not it's just a front
@@beyondrealm38amen
If someone helped your wife, it's YOUR job to come up to that person and thank them.
na, they would be too overly-grateful for it -- it's expected. they are more concerned potentially keeping secrets between each other, even seemingly innocuous ones.
@@nightknghtunderstandable, but would it not be worse if you saw your friends wife in trouble and intentionally left them there?
its a bad situation,. if you help a wife and go up to the husbnand it can see as bad since you are just using the wife to get to the guy, if youdon't go up you want the wifer, if the husband doesnt go up to you its bad :D bro next time better just move on and let the wife handle her shit
best thing to do, you see the wife in trouble, you call the husband tell him to tell the wife you will come to help
@@joshsheler7036@joshsheler7036 it would be 100%. I'm saying it's expected to fix the tire and tell the guy -- it it's nothing special to help the community in need, double over for one of them or their family.
It's wild to me that literal mafia members have better morals than normal people; I used to live next to a Hell's Angel with my ex fiancee, the dude made sure I knew when some people short cutted through my yard and that he made sure they wouldn't do it again for me and my girl. I've NEVER had a bad experience with people tied to organized crime, show them respect and stay on their good side and you have nothing to worry about; I've had many MANY more bad experiences with the average joe on the street.
Turns out the "organized" part of organized crime is really crucial. They do have a code. It's a brutal code, but it's there. Mobsters know how they're supposed to behave
I had the same experience as a missionary in New Zealand. Street punks would give us problems, but the hardcore gangs? They actually would look out for us. They’d even get us food.
The Angels live by the same code. You never mess with a members old lady.. as they are labeled…
@@Turfsurfer62 I’ve never lived in an area where an angel’s presence wasn’t a net benefit.
@@deltacharlieecho4732 I never said it was a benefit of any type. I grew up around them. Rode bicycles down the same street their clubhouse is still on to this day and I’m 62, I have family members who are members, friends I grew up with members. But i personally live in a nice town village 30 minutes away.
The irony of a mobster calling someone else a scumbag.
You have to be one to know one
Or him saying "social media ruined society" as if organized crime hasn't absolutely obliterated American rights and has allowed federal government to intrude on people's lives and regulate everything from firearms to fruit imports
Sounds like he struck a nerve in regards to you lol.
bingo 3 minutes in and he's already spitting chips
He’s LITERALLY retired GOODFELLA
If you're in the Mafia there's no such thing as retirement
"pffff... forget about it... " Classic
I’m old school… i would never be friends on social media with anyone’s wife, girlfriend or daughter . It just doesn’t happen …
It’s not just the mob it’s a gentleman thing!
I wouldn’t go inside the bro house if he is not at home!
Just wouldn’t do it
Bro’s b4 Hauls
in general yeah, but I'm not trying to refuse peoples' hospitality. I'm not trying to hang out, but I'll accept hospitality. Gentlemen are GENTLE and aren't a threat.
i agree with the social media things 😂
You don’t agree with him saying it’s wrong to go into a married woman’s home when the husband isn’t around?
I remember when I was 18 (nieve) and a friend invited me over. I get there and he isn’t there yet. I called him and asked where he was and he said a half hour out but to go inside. I did because it was cold. His wife was cool at 1st, then she asked to come to the kitchen while I was waiting in the living room. She had stood at the door way with a nighty on that she wasn’t wearing when she answered the door. I immediately got up and left. I never told my friend because I didn’t think that he would’ve believed me. Needless to say I never went there again. Lessened learned.
If your wife is 30-40 years younger than you that says a lot a bout you as a couple.
Facts. Any friend who tries to be friends with your girl ain’t your friend anymore. Drop him, he stands for nothing. Men and women can’t be friends. There will always be one side of the equation trying to balance the other out
LOL sounds like you had a bad experience or are around degens. Men and women are definitely friends in many cases, sorry you can't experience that without issues xD
@@OArchivesX never had an issue with homies doing anything like that. just know how a dude mind works. I get being cordial and what not at parties but as far as a homie going out to lunch with my girl? nope. complicates things for no reason. Instincts are instincts.
Men can absolutely be friends with women. It just looks different.
Now if my guy friend is TRYING to be friends with the wife, that is weird. If they become friends organically over shared interests, cool, but again, it looks very different than a guy friendship, and the boundaries are different. The dudes I know keep a lot of space, are transparent, and are basically family friends. It really helps to be in a crowd of holy believers who believe intimacy is between man and wife.
@@OArchivesX youre very delusional.
@@OArchivesXNo, you're just in denial about facts. The only women a man can be platonic with are his mom, aunt, grandma, sister, and his own kid.
He's so eloquent. Wtf did he even say!? Fuggedaboutit.
Social media destroys a lot of relationships
Great advice, I had a neighbor that would go talk to my man every time he took the trash out until I called her out on it, she would also talk to my mom and never mention it, people have weird intentions, I also avoid social media.
This man is real wise. Thank you sir
I probably wouldn't even stop and fix the tire. I'd just drive by and pretend I didn't see her. Don't even put yourself in that situation. Some guys wouldn't see that as a kind gesture
Yeah concrete boots that one
Smart man
😂😅😂 lmao
That would be viewed even worse
@@dacinrodney7024
Viewed??
In everybody's world.
Even thinking defensively, you would not want to be in the boss's house with his wife without him being there because even if you were not doing anything ANYBODY can make it seem like you were !
I agree with all of it except the very first example. You are fixing a tire on the side of the road. you aren't going into a house or whatever.
I think if you mention it to the husband it's like you're looking for praise. Worst yet, maybe insinuating that he isn't doing enough for his family. As if the tire should never have gone flat if he kept the car properly maintained. No, do a good deed and shut up about it after. BUT, if the guy brings it up or asks directly about that time and place, then don't go hiding anything either.
Don't get near them are you crazy if it's not your wife sister mother grandma don't get near then don't help them don't look at them
Yeah the story was dumb asf. But then again mobsters aren't known for being smart. They are in that life for a reason.
bringing it up sounds to me like someone is preemptively establishing a cover story
where im from your a weakling if you dont help those around you... and if its someone youre acquitented withs wife then you share stories..
This guy is 100% correct......I come from an Italian family...My ancestors came on boat...No joke...A boat
then to Ellis island.
What this gentleman described is exactly how you conduct yourself when dealing with married women.
This was how I was taught.
"You never scold you tongue on another mans soup" .........EVER
He actually said “forget about it” that’s hilarious 😂
Funny this made me flashback to helping an ex boyfriend move and when he took one of several trips to the new location his brother showed up and I insisted on waiting outside until my ex returned. Do not put yourself in a situation where "why were you two alone together?" can be a valid concern or insecurity which then leads to unnecessary drama.😊
I am trying to understand your story but can't.
Hmm, I'd get it if it were a random guy friend maybe, but his brother? A bit sad if his mind instantly jumps to "My brother helped my girlfriend move? They must be sleeping with each other!" That's one scumbag brother in that case. I guess those exist, but I'd like to think they're so common that it's a regular concern.
this is fucking stupid lmao, reading these comments has taught me just how insecure people can be. He wouldn't go in the same room as you as he would think that would raise suspicion... Why the fuck are you even with each other if you have no trust at all. And man he must really hate his brother lmao.
Did a mobster just say, “In this day and age?”. 🤣🤣🤣
This is 100% how I roll. I would NEVER go into another man’s house. Period.
Looking the way you look, no one would let you into their house
@@Brianharveyprice oh yeah. Good job. 👏
That’s how all real men think it’s not mobster lol
Exactly.
The one thing I'll say is that the guy who fixed his wife's car and doesn't mention it may avoid mentioning it because he assumes that the wife already told him and he doesn't want to bring it up because it would seem as if he was trying to suck up to the boss. "Oh, I helped you wife. Aren't I great?" He could be leaving it to the boss to bring it up or not bring it up.
@@alaron5698 That was my thinking as well. If I helped my friend's wife, I'm not going to go and tell him about it unless he asks, because then it comes off as me rubbing it in his face and essentially telling him "hey, you owe me one". When you do someone a favor, you simply don't mention it and that's basic etiquette. Of course, people on social media are easily fooled by this sociopath into believing what "morally right" looks like lmao
I guess when you're committing all these crimes, your paranoia levels are up to a million, which would make sense why you couldn't trust anyone including you own wife. Sad life to live.
That’s not street mind set. This is already common sense in the real world.
Well *now* its common sense in the real world everywhere
Many men have gotten into trouble for doing a nice thing and another man thinking too much about it. If you told me a guy got shot because he helped another man's wife with something and when the guy told the husband he got mad instead of thanking him, I wouldn't be surprised. You never know how the other guy is going to react even to simple stuff like that, specially a guy you 100% know is a criminal so he is already at a higher paranoid state of mind than most people. That kid didn't need to mention what he did so he didn't.
Yeah plus it’s weird to be asking for thanks, basically over such a small thing. Like implying your boss owes you one because you fixed his wife’s tire.
@@TP-pq9xxEven among normal people, your boss or your buddy DOES owe you one if you fixed his wifes tire. It's called reciprocating.
@@bradkindley Except when you didn't ask the guy to do something and now he's asking for payment for something you didn't ask him to do. Something that now he feels he can hold over your head. "Let me do this 'nice thing' so now he owes me". If you don't think people do this kind of shit, you don't take self-defense seriously. Fine. But don't demand I be a victim too just to make you feel better about yourself. Some of us are resistant to manipulation. We see this shit all the time when someone "politely" opens the door for you but then takes issue with some microscopic part of how you thanked him or didnt thank him or whatever. People do this type of shit for power. I'm sorry you still think you live in a high-trust society. You don't.
@@screwgoogle4993 So, you come across your buddies wife in the side of the road with a flat tire, and you are just gonna leave her there? Sure wouldn't want you as a friend. Not talking about "society" or some random...the example is your buddies wife. My buddy at least owes me a beer and a thanks. If you are "friends" with losers and scammers, that is 100% on you dude.
There are plenty of decent people in the world, but they do tend to stick with other decent people. Maybe you aren't decent enough to know these kinds of people. I am truly sorry for you. Keep working on yourself and maybe you too can have a real friend one day.
@@screwgoogle4993 wtf u on about??? "self-defence" You are defending yourself from what? The feeling of owning someone for something as innocuous as having the door held open for you? That's internal bro.
The better question is why's your wife inviting men into your house?
Like why is it the guy who's the sole accountable party when she's LITERALLY inviting him INSIDE?
There are many reasons a woman would invite her husbands friends inside the house. 1. Weather outside 2. She’s being courteous to her husband’s colleague’s and friends. 3. She may be a little naive. Just because you’re invited in doesn’t always mean she’s interested in your braciola!
@@brown_eyed_girl All of these are great explanations for how she was trying to do the "right thing" then got "taken advantage of"
@@Vitriol-Divergent and then there’s that too 😊
Excuses
We're now convinced that males in the mafia and 13 year old female vollyball players have identical drama tactics.
I just came here to hear him say "fugget about it." Was not disappointed.
A stand up guy would ring the guy who helped his Mrs and thank him..None of this head f@#k stuff..
It's a test to determine whether a friend is truly a friend. Many men try to use helping females as a way to get closer to them.
@@windtalker4191 All it shows is an utter lack of confidence in both your friend and your wife. That level of distrust says nothing about them. It says everything about you.
@@windtalker4191 The guy who fixed his wife's car and doesn't mention it may avoid mentioning it because he assumes that the wife already told him and he doesn't want to bring it up because it would seem as if he was trying to win the favor/gain the gratitude of with the boss. "Oh, I helped you wife. Aren't I great?" He could be leaving it to the boss to bring it up if he decides it's worth a "thank you," and if not, he just leaves it be.
This dude is like the one episode of Family Guy when Peter becomes a mob boss... 😅
He even has those mafia sunglasses.
Cant imagine living with so much distrust, must be exhausting.
Real brothers would never hold an illicit carnal relationship with a brothers wife, mother, or daughter. Real brothers. Real family.
The woman should know better as well.
Niqqa just said “FUGGETTT ABOOOUTTT ITTTTT” 😂
I'll tell ya a secret, social media didn't change anything. People just got caught easier through it. Nothing has changed in the world everyone has always done everything going on now in the past.
No, there's been a shift. With social media, now you can have people all over the world justify your piss poor decisions, encourage you in your detrimental behavior, and generally be a bad influence. It makes the wisdom of those close to you easier to ignore.
You are 100% right social media ruins (destroys) relationships
I’ve been with my wife going on 7 years no Facebook no nothing and we are very happy but yes temptation is a mf
If she puts her face on profile and post daily or weekly selfies of herself then yes chances are very high that many men will try to befriend and try to talk to her...If she is a loyal type you really have nothing to worry about. IF your profile is just scenery, plant you won't attract attention or males. I know this cause I have tested it and even pretended to be a woman. 😂
But Social media is useful for connecting with family members, friends and both can set a boundary line not to interact. Most social media now have options to block, filter messages from unknown strangers.. but it is cool and to each their own. I respect and its good to see there are true loyal and loving married couples out there!!
Back when loyalty meant something. So few og’s left who live by a code and will die living by what they stand for.
When a mobster says social media is ruining relationships, you know social media really sucks.
Man, this guy has so much integrity and character. He is a real friend if you have him for one. Guys like this are the ones that if you can fill up one hand with friends like this, you are a wealthy man. I was raised this way by my father. His friends had a code just like this, you never, ever touched a friend's wife. If they had a main girl outside of their marriage, she was off limits too. Those friends I met as a child and know the ones that time didn't take to this day. Gentlemen, have character and be somebody that is respectable. Draw people to you like that and you'll be a rich man, regardless of your income.
Just showed my girl this. Literally just told her men think with their under armor. Not their brain, and it’s going to cost their life. They’ll learn the hard way…
So basically, help her and just say you helped the next time you meet up to smoke cigars. Not complicated.
You know he’s made when he’s making eye contact and watching the door at the same time
I’m getting Jonah Hill wardogs vibes 😂
Yo but what sunglasses is this dude wearing they clean af
This is how it needs to be out in the world and when the rules don't get followed people need to get corrected the same way.
Chicky is just tellin' it like it is. Likeable guy.
I recall a shower thought that hit me about 20 yrs ago that went something like, "What if it turns out the mob is the good guys?".
The black community is like this. Its taboo to even talk to your friends girl. We go years not even knowing his married. When we talk, we don't acknowledge shes there. Not everyone, but most of us understand this rule.
@cortezconquistadorok, do you want a f*cking cookie or something 🤡?
@cortezconquistador Well that makes YOU the problem, NOT black men. You're more concerned with stereotypes.
@cortezconquistador what?
It’s crazy how everyone is amazing at simple integrity. Wife or property, same rules apply.
It’s true. Some “friends of mine” told me my girlfriend was cheating on me. They followed her to his house, took video and showed me.
Then what?
That’s been a rule since back before the days of Gotti.
You never go anywhere alone with a members wife or gf.
You need to have a couple people there with you.
Perceived intentions often have dire consequences.
They really have more morals and brains when it comes to friendship than 75% of the people in the comments lmaoooo
He’s right, keep it cordial and keep it moving.
“Sucks they had to grow up without a father but I mean whadya gonna do 🤷♂️” LOL
Or maybe the guy doesn't need constant credit for doing a good deed?
It should come up in conversation with someone you’re close too. Nobody’s looking for a pat on the back for changing a tire.
I swear that’s Tim Dillon
I don’t think John Gotti ever got that memo.
everything he says is 100% correct. it's time to remove every last right from women.
"I'm not going into a specific story"
*Goes into a specific story*
Tell the ppl how yall work with the police 😂😂😂
Mostly all rats now
shouldn't you be looting ⚫️
I will never enter my friend's house if he is not home plenty of times my buddy has said hey bro go inside my girls there I'll be there in 15 minutes I said hell no I wait outside.... Common courtesy
My pop taught me to never address the wife first when the husband is home, you ask to speak to the husband.
Usually one asks “may I speak to the man of the house”.
I bet women love being treated like air, really respectful
@@athmaid You just don’t understand because the stupidity of calling traditional values and roles evil is popular, asking to speak to the head of the house is very much the old ways and very respectful.
@@offworlder1 it's regressive is what it is. Old doesn't mean sensical
@@athmaid Like I said liberals and feminists make the old ways look bad because you do not understand them. When you grow up or start thinking for yourself you might begin to understand.
My man kicked the facts. That’s real triple OG. A real pup will listen and soak in. Kids today won’t listen and be scrolling not listening to wisdom!!! 😮😂
When a mobster makes references to Inboxes and Fire Emojis.
Surreal.
Mob guys are worms in wolfs clothing
more like a bear of hippos clothing
@@popeyedoyle6360 I was there i saw the worm put on the wolf outfit and called himself my father
@@bingflosby😮 damn man
@@CCSI322 I don’t speak from a place of ignorance these people destroy everything they ever touched and worked for the devil nothing to glorify fuck the godfather movies
I need friends like this
No you don’t.
@@Trumpisgod says the guy with " trump is God" as a username
It's a simple standard. You avoid situations that can be potentially misinterpreted. Not because you're going to do something, but because you should avoid even the opportunity to do something.
I never knew i wanted mobsters to teach social media etiquette.
I love this, it's not just a way the mob worked it's how all good men should work. Respect. I liked this video and subscribed keep them coming