It blows my mind how on International Mens day the majority of comments about it are how "Men don't deserve a day" "Every day is men's day." Etc. Not only this, but people outright denying that misandry is a thing. It blows my mind. What I can say to my fellow Kings is be your best self, for your own sake. Find people you can trust. Find friends you can lean on for support. A real brother will be happy to listen to you. Don't suffer by yourself just because the world expects you to. You are not a machine.
Completely agree I hate how much people just hate that men don't struggle and it sucks because we all struggle and men deserve everything and then some.
It's because "international mens day" is just a dumb idea. Men have not been systemically oppressed. What we need is "men's mental health awareness" day. I say this as a man, what we need is to be told that we can show emotion. That it doesn't make you weak, gay or a woman to cry.
@@PenguinProvincial-c2v why do we need to be oppressed to get a day? everyone should get a day where their problems and contributions are highlighted, no matter what you are. thats REAL equality
The thing that the video you’re reacting to doesn’t address is the rampant, blatant, and open contempt there is for men in society. Men are openly demonized, mocked, and belittled in society today. Like I’ve said in other comments, why should I work to prop up a society that wishes for me to suffer ? Why should I sacrifice myself for people who revel in my misery? Why should I work to pay for people who wish me to die painfully or become a permanent indentured servant for no benefit for myself?
We see this problem the most in so many social spaces, especially online. Most of it due to them running rampant with or downright being run BY the very people who perpetuate this contempt for men. And this is on top of the rampant censorship that pervades so many platforms. It'll probably a miracle if this reply even shows up at all! Take this into account, then you can add another vital question men are asking to what you already said: Why should my efforts support those who don't can't even bear a fraction of what I have to put up with?
*My best friend and I are minimalist. We pay our bills and don’t buy anything we don’t really need. It’s how we’re actually making it.* *The worst we splurge on is video games.*
Life's been difficult from the start as a homeless teenager. Decades of working and dating later,im unemployed and dying of cancer. I'm about to move and thus be single again for awhile. But its too expensive where i live and not enough work. Im dying and im not giving up yet,cancer is back and spreading and the latest chemotherapy is making me bleed from the inside. I still want a relationship but i haven't been able to build a good enough one with my current one. Still want to work for the money to enjoy the rest of my life. But i am getting worse it is spreading
You know, sometimes I think about the things in my life that haven't gone so well, and then I'll occasionally be reminded that there are plenty of people who have it worse than I do. Godspeed friend, I hope you find what you're looking for soon and have a long healthy life.
I was told by multiple people including my own mother that nobody would care about my feelings and crying made me weak and I heard that up til highschool. Eventually I just stopped feeling, why bother if you're just going to get shit on?
At this point, I've checked out, almost, entirely. I got the whole "suck it up," "men don't cry," and all those other talking points. It wasn't just that though. Years of being treated as low functioning by the education system (literally, just because I wasn't as organized as the other kids) and being run through the Symptom Treatment system (Canada doesn't have Healthcare, it's a lie) and even falsely charged and convicted by the legal system when I was a teen. Hell, I could have died after a trip to the hospital last year. Went in, was misdiagnosed and sent home with a prescription for something I am *_severely_* allergic too, despite being very specific about it on in take. Was back in the hospital less than 24H later with RSV and not the "minor chest issue" I was first released with. Yes, that's what they officially diagnosed me with that first time. "Minor chest issue." I do not begrudge others, men or women, who check out for less and a lot sooner. Even when it's something they have a small measure of control over. A little "I'm 14 and this is deep," but the world broke a long time ago. It's just happening in slowmo to the rest of us. We're an adaptable species, so it's not that surprising. Were this rate to keep up, though, we're going to, as the kids say, crash out.
@EnraiChannel The entire world is not a 1:1 to Rome. There are similarities in pockets of the world, but no. But, sure. We'll go with what you said, since it's the actual "I'm 14 and this is deep," thing here.
Birthrates in the West are cratering. In fact, birthrates in the "developed world" are cratering. Extinction is on the way but not due to a nuclear war or anything like that. More akin to the mouse utopia experiment. Personally I am over it.
I don't think so much that "suck it up" is bad advice, I think it’s actually good, but it's more so the juice isn't worth the squeeze. So many people went/are going to college that you need a degree in order to get a basic job Dating just feels like a numbers game rather than a genuine connection (think of situationships, the term "settling," hookup culture, etc. Also, you can't be "average" anymore as a man, to find someone, you have to excel in any given field) The loss of social connections because of authoritarian policies during covid, the loss of religious communities, and the loss of younger people in society (the average age in America is around 32) I'm only able to keep my head above water because I have a family that cares for me that I can live with. I can't imagine someone in debt, without family, and no friends.
Suck it up really is just poorly explaining that the world isn’t fair and it will not give you leeway if you were born with pork and beans. It’s giving a fair warning, but it’s also ignoring that having an outlet is necessary. Generations past had golf, men’s clubs, the Boy Scouts etc, but now that every space has been invaded, finding a proper outlet is very difficult
The paradox of choice: Picking one means not picking the rest and giving up on potential energy. Thus having more choices puts a greater burden on the "picker" and is in fact a curse, not a blessing.
Your groceries deff not double because the minimum wage went up LOL it's very specifically and agreed by many economists like that because corporations increase the prices and people keep paying it and they will continue to do this while blaming reasons. A McDonalds flipper making slightly more money shouldn't effect your purchase power on eggs that makes 0 sense.
I watched the entire video from start to end, thinking about the life advices you gave and I have to say that you are right with a lot of things. Also, your voice is so calm and soothing you cured my headaches in the meantime.
Life is pain. Last night I dreamed that I went back to my childhood home, and my mom was there sleeping at her computer like usual. She woke up and excitedly told me that she was dreaming of me. It's been just shy of 9 years since she passed, and now I'm tearing up in the backroom at work.
This very much reminded me of an old poem about a similar feeling of being lost and impotent before the state of things, defeated from the very first moment and unable to flee from it but ultimately finding solace in accepting, 'the tobacco shop' by Álvaro de Campos, heteronim of Pessoa, quoting another of his poems by a different heteronim 'and finds happiness in accepting, the sublime and scientific fact of accepting the natural and inevitable'. The way i see it, it is not worth bothering with the course of things that are above one's head, better living apart from all of it, trying things out of that bubble if possible.
I think the worst thing is that you can try and try and try, but sometimes you can only ever slightly increase your situation best case scenario. That said, sometimes thats enough and you just gotta make the best of what you got
its so over. i feel like a genetic failure. when you get constantly rejected from jobs, women ... all kinds of people then you start accepting the fact that you're just low value trash. i disconnected from society and just focus on my hobbies that i do alone by myself
@@topy706 I am in that rut right now. I graduated this year. There was maybe 10 ish jobs. No's all over. Tried different jobs adjacent to my career. Nothing. My hope is next year when hopefully companies start hiring.
The craziest part is is that giving men the bare bones basic level of attention and compassion is viewed as "coddling" them. I've seen it many times, when someone suggests that maybe a man just needs to be shown a little bit of empathy and cut just a little slack and then a woman says "So what you're saying is we should just coddle him, women have it harder and no one cares." And it gets worse when you realize the women who say that probably have themselves been coddled their whole life.
I think that sucks a lot for guys is that I know a lot of people who feel they will be shunned and shamed for expressing problems with their mental health and etc and I hate seeing them being drag down and the way they cope with such is not reaching out but to drink to themself to forget. I had a friend like that. Lucky he is a lot better and he required a lot my help to stop him from becoming a alcholic, He used to drink daily.
ive watched a few female vtubers talk about this topic and its sad that they always derail a topic talking about men to "its not just men, women are suffering also" yeah we know theyre suffering also but this is supposed to be a video/space where men are discussed without the "what about the women tho".
@@Ryan-li8qc what we are being fed by the media isn't the truth. its just a mouthpiece for the rich and influential , who want to keep us in our place by fear mongering. and your paranoia about 'losing your freedom' is one of the talking points they use.
Kids these days gotta hit the ground running to get out of the doomscrolling haze, and even then they see their success as not a win but as a defense they must maintain forever. That was for adults to learn, but now you gotta learn it or lose when you're twelve at the latest. We failed these kids, so did our parents. Support 'em where you can.
societies try to extract more from the sacrificial class while giving them nothing. They give the false promise of salvation while making an environment that drives that want for "salvation". When they find an alternative source for salvation it becomes a social heresy and blasphemy. This breeds apathy and depression. People have poured their hearts and souls in their path to salvation and they are not strong enough to let go when people tell them their is none to be found. The choice is to live to achieve salvation or be self driven
Hey Savii. Didn't know you had a YT channel. I've been following you on Twitch for awhile. Guess YT decided to make a good recommendation. About the topic of the video. As a man, you can't talk about any struggles you're having with dating/relationships 90% of the time. Talking about my experiences has gotten me called things I can't post on YT without my comment getting yeeted. Even though I haven't hurt anyone. I've had several women (try to) use me for money and had one cheat on me. I know women are not all the same and I know my own actions play a part in me being single. I don't feel like I'm entitled to anything. I'm just tired of feeling like I'm wasting time and money with nothing good to show for it, and I'd rather be alone than in a parasitic relationship.
lovely to see you on YT. Your not wrong theres alot I cant talk about but there are alot of observations that can lead to one to the other but very true honestly I like being alone as well parasocial is not my thing
Imma be real, it’s hard say how i feel. One time i was driving with my friend. And just started telling him personal shit. And how i was frustrated about it. He said, “what do you want me to say.” And i was like shit. Why did I share my feelings with him. It was an awkward drive home. I guess i just wanted to get that off my chest or something. 🤦 conversations are difficult sometimes
What I have given up on specifically is finding someone to be with. I still plan to write and publish my book, but I will be alone, and I have accepted that.
Personal take. If you need help, ask for it. Its fine. Nothing wrong with that. He who shames you, is basically filtering him/herself from your life. If you dont need help. Its also fine. Dont let anyone tell you you cant take it, if you can and are good at it.
One thing about the filtering part. People who shame you for asking for help, sure, filter them, but you have to be careful not to filter everyone who criticises you. If you ask for help and someone asks if you've been doing what you're supposed to do (taking responsibility for your actions, taking care of yourself via proper diet and exercise, etc.) you shouldn't filter them. It might hurt in that moment, but those are the people who really want the best for you.
At the start of the video, Im a man, older than her, my life was kinda the same as her's, didnt know I needed to hear the stuff that men deserve to be loved more, but kinda glad I did.
The working class cant afford to live realistically a riot is eventually going to happen we just have to make sure its truly impactful like how the french did it and not some dumbass shit like interlocked workers blocking the i635 expressway
53:39 I wouldn't say it's a lack of energy. It's simply a question of, what's the point? I give up things I enjoy for maybe a few years extra life? A relationship that is doomed to failure if I slip back?
I believe that a reason why the economy is this way is because you can have companies buy a bunch of houses for more than they're worth and rent them out for way too much. This turns th whole country into company towns where everyone works for Blackrock, and everyone rents from Blackrock, and everyone buys from Blackrock. Seriously look up company towns. That's the economy we're in right now. Savi, an in-cel is an involuntary celibate; a person who, not of their free will, cannot go out and get laid. That's the actual definition. However, what you say in the video is what the word in-cel has turned into. In-cel, just like any other word used to put people down on the internet, has become so broadly used that it might as well not have a definition in the first place. *This has been your daily rant with Drach.
I've basically been saying that it's feudalism all over and the aristocrats just got renamed to oligarchs and every. single. day. That same sentiment makes more and more sense. At this point no one will even make fun of me for saying that.
There may not be an intent to shit on people, but damn I feel the shit coming. Finding your tribe is the hardest step, but everything takes 1000 tries? It doesn't feel worth it
You think im saying that my problems are more important than yours. It's that you act like my problems don't exist, and they don't matter to you or anyone. ps. been unemployed for 3 months and have no hopes for the future. done with people telling me im not good enough. Why should I have faith in anything when everyone turns there back on me? Why should I try really? RIP Josh Tripp - September 3, 2013
My girlfriend is in Japanese prison. She’s the only woman who has tried to think from my perspective about what my interests going forward would be and then put what she thought my interests were before hers. She could have killed a man and I’d figure something out to make it work.
Had to move back in with my parents just to be able to afford to live again. Trying to get back on my feet and move to a mid-size city and put these blue-collar hands back to doing something I enjoy doing and getting paid well. Want to go back into fire protection again, either for service tech or as a pipefitter again.
When it comes to psychology and men, I always feel like adding a few tips. First, a majority of men's minecrafting happens to men who sought out professional help. Second, if you care about the issues that affect men and boys. Look up Dr. Warren Farrell.
Didn't finish college. been holding the shovel and digging dirt for the family for as long as I can remember .. im not earning anything... And this types of videos are what keeps me going because everyone is dealing with something. so basically yeah just suck it up.
Guys are valued by what they can provide to other people according to the old "patriarchy". The lack of workers has been expected since the 80s, especially in jobs like power linemen stuck out in bad weather reconnecting downed power lines and similar. Probably still need a few around.
Few years back the city of Seattle passed a mandatory $15 an hour minimum wage law for only the city of Seattle. The city had a lot of smaller businesses throughout that couldn’t maintain their supply chain with the higher wages, specifically restauraunts, cafes, and coffee shops, where tips would make up the difference and get the wages up higher than the previous minimum wage. Majority of those smaller restaurants and cafes had to shut down, so all those employees who benefited from the new minimum wage law suddenly found themselves without a job and having to look outside the city and add a commute and more gas expenditure to their budget, all because the city, in its infinite wisdom, decided the minimum wage needed to be raised. Couple that with laws regarding the homeless and restricting police intervention in theft, trespassing, and some property related charges, many local businesses shut down or left the city, leaving only national chains and the most successful local businesses left in the city. It’s been a shit show the last few years
Congrats on the retirement 👍 just ETSed after 8 years myself 9:42 They have a term for it in German: Die Qual der Wahl (literally, "the torment of choice")
1:10:07 I don't buy that this is a rampant issue. The more likely reality is the woman just doesn't like how he does the chores, so she does them again after he does, and then claims he doesn't do anything.
Honestly if things fall through I'll just live in my car on welfare. I objectively believe looking at statistics that we're at the end of modern society as we know it. It's legit not worth the effort. Inflation makes things worse, but that is the primary method the fed are paying for their debt. Like living in a car/van you have a cell phone you can browse the internet and play games, food stamps pay for food. Like spending $2000 between a mortgage, property taxes and house insurance, it's not worth it owning a house you can live at 1/3rd the price.
I have never had a male boss working for over 15 years. Mother ran the household while also does the least amount of actual work. Top 1% of men who are the big CEOs is because women don't want the accountability and realistically you have to be literally insane to want be a CEO of a mega corporation, people just want the money associated with it.
Yeah, sheesh, I was doing better than the average person these days when I was doing fast food at the mall back in '05 for I think $5.16hr though that was bumped to $6 a few months later. Though I did do overtime out of need & often convince the other teens to give me their shifts since... Forgive me for saying this, but uh, since I enjoyed manual labor. Yeah, I know, why? Right? Loved unloading the trucks & such. I'd honestly give up so much to be able to work like that again. I am disabled now, rare diseases such as polymyositis (autoimmune, destroys all muscle tissue without ceasing), nerve damage, paralysis that goes on off due to the location of the cord injury, seizures when stressed, having only 2 friends i have known for 17 years (one from youth group in our teens, the other from an mmorpg) that i would trust with my life. Injuries unrelated to the fact that i did all the heavy lifting since i was typically the only male on shift (my male co-workers kept quitting). Perfect recollection of any dreams & nightmares... Terrible. Migraines. Tinnitus currently going RRRRRHEEEEE in my left ear, draining sanity. No money. Losing the ability to urinate without catheters "FUUUUUUUN" y just age 22 my illnesses took away all hope of being able to work again. Medicaid is ass, too, so I live with my mother at age 36 (she's 70) with her bringing me my meds, food, etc... I'm constantly in fear over what Medicaid will stop covering or become more expensive. like I'm on 13 meds (I know, nutty) 1 is fentanyl patches and this month they doubled in price... If I can't get them I'm actually in serious danger. It's really hard for men when they lose the ability to work. We have an obvious built-in sense of being providers, so when we can't anymore, well, it REALLY gets to you. Even if I had money I'd still want to work. Crazy thing to say, but if I'm anything, it's not a liar. Now I can no longer help my mother out like I once did since she barely made enough to keep us fed. I just wake up, watch youtube, play games (I have them provided, legally btw, though I can't afford them) & such in a constant battle to keep my mind from going into a super depressed, worthless feeling, paranoid, OCD loop because if I ever stop doing things to distract myself? It gets bad, like I mean really, really bad, plus panic attacks which GEEZ they're awful. I haven't dated since I was 20 in 2008. I've been forced to become a pseudo hermit by my health. I have one heck of a time not automatically assuming that the worst current possible outcome regarding anything WILL be what happens. My 20/300 sight prevents me from driving even if I somehow had a car. No car, no money, no health, no IRL friends (can't meet any for reasons too), no relationship, no job, no future since I'll be killed by several severe illnesses I have before I'm 50-60, so nothing to look forward to. It freaking sucks. It's dang hard to cry but then quickly stop crying before my family sees anything or any signs. I'm terrified when I can't catch my breath after doing such massive exertion like... Sitting up after a while laying down, my resting heart rate of120 flying to 150-160. It is dang tough. There are those who go through more, though, so I pray for those people. My mother can't work anymore either, so we're very fortunate my uncle took us in on his country property. Without him I have no doubt we'd have ended up on the street, starving, me in withdrawal from all my meds, dying as a result, my mother was left alone on the street. Sooo yeah... thank God my uncle is here. He's very flawed, very, very flawed, but he does genuinely care about us. Wish he'd shut up sometimes, but still... I'm thankful
I see. Great video. I can see why you said that we need to struggle to develop ourselves. But I just have curious question here. What if that struggle becomes difficult to manage in regards to a person's develop? It's okay if you don't see this down here. Just had to get this off out of my head here. :) Anyways. Peace. ✌️ Edit: I f-ing hate that "you'll own nothing and you'll be happy about it" quote. Feel like this quote is said by bad individuals that know what their doing towards civilians.
9:22 Choice paralysis? Regardless, it's not even true. Dating isn't available to every man at a swipe. Nor are delivery services available to everyone because they're expensive as heck, especially with America's tip culture.
Thanks for sharing such valuable information! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
You said right about the company manager choosing the pretty faces to their jobs. Because, in female nature, looks is biggest reason people will feel about us. That's main reason females see males as "uglier" than opposite.
Probably one of the very few millennials that dont do drugs or alcohol or weed. I just lack good close friends my only bestie rn is my ex girlfriend. I work and i do volunteer work on the side.
Never give up lads we still got shit to do in our lives and you shouldnt allow this world to say otherwise. (Savii vr avater so realistic just wanted to say)
58:22 I've also been diagnosed with very low testosterone levels. I have to be on TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) in order to function and feel normal. Without it or without adequate treatment, I have such low energy that I can get exhausted walking around for 10-15 minutes. I would be breathing heavily like I just ran a mile. I feel like I can't get enough sleep. I'll sleep for 8, 10, 12+ hours, still wake up feeling groggy, and feel like I need a nap 5-6 hours later. My "love life" was nonexistent and still is, so I can't speak much on that other than testosterone does a heck of a lot more than affect your "performance". I went through multiple doctors before I was finally diagnosed. There was nothing I could do on my own. Normal levels in adult males usually runs anywhere from 400-1000. Some men will start experiencing symptoms when it gets below 400 and doctors usually recommend at least trying treatment. 300 is the bare minimum to be considered healthy. Anything below that is pretty much guaranteed to cause immediate symptoms and long-term health risks like osteoporosis and heart problems. My levels were barely above 200 when I was diagnosed. If that wasn't bad enough, most insurance coverage doesn't cover most forms of treatment. Even though mine were so low that treatment was deemed a medical necessity, my insurance company was like "Sorry. We don't cover that because.....reasons." I've had to try multiple treatments to find one that's effective, consistent, and safe. I managed to find one, but it's costing me $800 every 5 months. Still better than no treatment.
savii from one statesperson to another or citicen of any nato member to another thank you for your service, my hat is off to you. (I'm gambling that you live in nato)
Being in the navy fucking sucks but if I never joined I would be just like one of these guys who lives @ home unemployed thanks for your service by the way we usually say that as a joke since we’re already in ourselves but i genuinely mean that
Honestly, being told to suck it up is a good thing. It lets you withstand hardship better and keeps your vulnerabilities from being weaponized against you.
@ not really. Every time I or someone else cried openly, it was immediately weaponized. And I’m in my 30’s, so don’t call me kid unless you’re like 40+
Trust me when I say I dont mean suck it up I wish things were different but life sucks sometimes and I really wish the world would change for the better men need the time and the love as well.
@@savisenpaii It’s just the way the world is right now. If it sounded accusatory towards you specifically, that wasn’t my intention. Just saying how bad things are.
@ no I like your comment there are a few things I need to word better but yes life sucks I am a positive person but I try to be real and want everyone to do the best they can
I like the way you talk ma'am got a sub from me. And yeah the man thing is pretty messed up. Just one of the many reasons I don't interact with people .
Yeah, we don't see that too often with streamers, even less tubers. Me, I retired 2 years ago. 26 years in the service was enough. The moment my unit had a new girl that enlisted to my shop that was not even born when 9-11 happened was the moment I realized I been in too long.😅
Honestly more men should look up Terrance Popp he is retired Marine who so much now tells men the truth with added comedy. The message respnates more when men tell it usually.
At 21:05 to 23:56 (please read the whole thing, do not skim, it’s important to get the context of why the world is where it’s at) The only way this makes sense, is if you are ignorant on politics as a whole. The basics is understood, but after, it’s being told to you how it is, and it’s only being taught the surface level. But that’s not just a you thing, this is what the past many years has been, way back since George w bush. There’s no other choice but to get into politics, so apologies in advance. Let’s start with sexy regulations. Regulations, seems to be forgotten due to rhetoric of our leaders, and the lack of promotions from those who fight for it. You like your days off? You can thank regulations. You like over time pay? Regulations. You like your kids to be kids and not be in a factory working? Thank regulations. These rules are there to help the working class from becoming indentured servants to the powerful. The minimum wage is low, because regulations has been voted to be stagnant and deregulated. You wanna know why there are microplastics in our fish and water? Why there’s an E-coli outbreak at McDonald’s or why there’s a disease that’s killing millions of chickens? It’s the lack of regulations. Our meats have been deregulated by Donald Trump in his first term, and we just voted him back in. Regulations are supposed to keep the rich in line, to protect us. We as a society deserve what is coming, until we can learn from our mistakes. China and India are perfect examples of no regulations. Go and read up on the smog problems it is causing for the 2 countries. Now let’s talk about conflicts. We are in world war 3, whether you realize it or not. As of now, there are currently between, 110-150 wars happening right now, today. The main trade route Panama, or the Red Sea, is being blockaded, and the bread basket of Europe, is being sieged. Just these 2 things are causing major problems for the entire world. Why? Because we like cheap things, so we outsourced many of our jobs to sweat shops and child labor, where regulations have prohibited here in the west. The nation we live in thrives on slave labor, like the company Nestle or Hershey’s. Understand that, our nation used to be self reliant and able to self produce our goods. And it was high quality at that, hence why we get so many immigrants trying to reach the U.S., because we did represent the gold standard and the envy of the world. We lost this. And because of our lost stature, the word is in chaos. Europe relies on us for its defense, we have over 300 bases around the world and 9 fleets. We dictate who is considered a terrorist, and who is an ally. Who gets to decide on who can trade with the mighty dollar. The wars happening today, can be traced back to the U.S. as the sole reason why it’s happening. I can get into much more detail, but there is so much to talk about that it isn’t a one singular issue. So next up is climate change that people seem to continue to ignore, due to the invention of AC. We as a people, can ignore it for a while longer because we have regulated our houses that keep us cool or warm. What we forget, is the animals and plants outside. Chocolate is about to go instinct, because cocoa beans are having a hard time growing in this new heat. The ice caps of the North Pole is getting extremely smaller, which is causing the planet to not be able to regulate the earth’s temperature, which causes more severe storms that used to happen once every 100 years. And the one trash that people also forget, that isn’t the plastic patch in the ocean, is space trash. All those satellites and rocket boosters just floating all around us, is damn near trapping us on this earth. Every time the world launch’s a flight into space, we leave more debris. Go look up a trash map of space. If we don’t get our act up and start fixing our climate problem, there will be nowhere to go. Just laying down and taking it, is not the answer. Need a blank check and tons of red tape to get a hold on our climate crisis. So, why are things so expensive? It isn’t because of people wanting to get paid more. Tax havens, deregulations, climate change, wars, money laundering, capitalism as a whole, had got us to consume and forget. We accept low wages because we use the world as slave labor for our needs. This is what the problem is. Do not blame the wages. It’s what the rich and corrupted want you to think.
Most of these issues have been a problem in some way, shape or form for several decades before Trump even first took office. Why y'all have to constantly blame him for everything is beyond me. I'm not the biggest fan of him either but give the Trump Derangement Syndrome a break.
@@siervodedios5952 because he, like Reagan, did nothing to slow it down but accelerate it. And now he is going to be in charge, with awful cabinet picks, so stop pretending Like this Trump Derangement Syndrome is some valid counter or deflection. Useless
you have an absurd amount of wealth inequality these days especially in the US so talking about the stock market going up diesnt matter because the richer you get the more money you have in company assests but its only the few top % in america that are wealthy so for 95% of everyday people it has gotten worse
I'll be honest with you, there are some of your takes on disability that are downright problematic. I know it doesn't come from a bad place but you are not realist about the capacity of a lot of people to get out of the things that afflict them. Wellfare for people like that is already hard enough, they don't need people playing cheerleader when they are already trying their best just to stay alive every day. Some disabilities are permanent. Autism as an example can be (not always) one of those disabling conditions. It can make you so anxious just living that the life expectency drops under 40 for that whole demographic. It's that bad. A lot of people who end up on wellfare have underlying conditions that have simply not been detected yet. Shaming people more doesn't help them. It's just adding an extra layer on a shit sandwitch.
The people I am referring to are people who take advantage of the system not actual disabled I have many friends who are disabled and this system helps if I didn't clarify that good enough that's on me.
"The Left failed men"...I guess by Signified B Sides covers a similar topic while referencing Shoe0nhead's video of the same name. I advise you to check it out, as it can provide you with a perspective not just saying how the world treats men, but Also how such men form their views, actions which paths they pick and why.
It blows my mind how on International Mens day the majority of comments about it are how "Men don't deserve a day" "Every day is men's day." Etc. Not only this, but people outright denying that misandry is a thing. It blows my mind.
What I can say to my fellow Kings is be your best self, for your own sake. Find people you can trust. Find friends you can lean on for support. A real brother will be happy to listen to you. Don't suffer by yourself just because the world expects you to. You are not a machine.
Completely agree I hate how much people just hate that men don't struggle and it sucks because we all struggle and men deserve everything and then some.
We have a Mens day?
It's because "international mens day" is just a dumb idea. Men have not been systemically oppressed. What we need is "men's mental health awareness" day. I say this as a man, what we need is to be told that we can show emotion. That it doesn't make you weak, gay or a woman to cry.
@@PenguinProvincial-c2v why do we need to be oppressed to get a day? everyone should get a day where their problems and contributions are highlighted, no matter what you are. thats REAL equality
@@thekingofmoncow2268 imma be real. I didn’t know either, as a man. I just thought my day was paycheck day
Truth is . . . the game was rigged from the start.
Fax brother spit your shit!
Faxs
the answer isn't to give up lol, the answer is to understand that and push through
The thing that the video you’re reacting to doesn’t address is the rampant, blatant, and open contempt there is for men in society. Men are openly demonized, mocked, and belittled in society today. Like I’ve said in other comments, why should I work to prop up a society that wishes for me to suffer ? Why should I sacrifice myself for people who revel in my misery? Why should I work to pay for people who wish me to die painfully or become a permanent indentured servant for no benefit for myself?
We see this problem the most in so many social spaces, especially online. Most of it due to them running rampant with or downright being run BY the very people who perpetuate this contempt for men. And this is on top of the rampant censorship that pervades so many platforms. It'll probably a miracle if this reply even shows up at all! Take this into account, then you can add another vital question men are asking to what you already said: Why should my efforts support those who don't can't even bear a fraction of what I have to put up with?
@ well, for what it’s worth, it did show up for me.
I feel this way all the time.
It is a man's lot to suffer in silence.
*My best friend and I are minimalist. We pay our bills and don’t buy anything we don’t really need. It’s how we’re actually making it.*
*The worst we splurge on is video games.*
Based!😂
this is the way o7
Gj on geting 0 🐱 u want a medal or somthing for being a biological failure
Living like a true Gacha Player.
This is the way.
Men only give up when we arent wanted or feel needed, then we seek our own peace with hobbies that give us a sense of purpose and joy.
Can't say "it's over" when it never even began.
Life's been difficult from the start as a homeless teenager.
Decades of working and dating later,im unemployed and dying of cancer.
I'm about to move and thus be single again for awhile. But its too expensive where i live and not enough work.
Im dying and im not giving up yet,cancer is back and spreading and the latest chemotherapy is making me bleed from the inside. I still want a relationship but i haven't been able to build a good enough one with my current one. Still want to work for the money to enjoy the rest of my life.
But i am getting worse it is spreading
I am so sorry to hear this seriously I hope everything you want in life happens.
You know, sometimes I think about the things in my life that haven't gone so well, and then I'll occasionally be reminded that there are plenty of people who have it worse than I do.
Godspeed friend, I hope you find what you're looking for soon and have a long healthy life.
I was told by multiple people including my own mother that nobody would care about my feelings and crying made me weak and I heard that up til highschool. Eventually I just stopped feeling, why bother if you're just going to get shit on?
Exactly describes me. I feel like emotionless and feelingless husk stuck in hell.
@unnamed3810 like I'm rotting from the inside out.
@@kingmric same. If im not already rotten beyond repair.
@unnamed3810 it's like being a broken human machine full of insecurities vulnerability that runs until it becomes obsolete
Crying and breaking down does make us weak, we just have to find that time to express it to ourselves.
I came here for the topic in the title but found this video to be much more than that. Thank you for your uplifting and compelling words.
That’s awesome to hear! Glad it resonated with you.
At this point, I've checked out, almost, entirely. I got the whole "suck it up," "men don't cry," and all those other talking points. It wasn't just that though. Years of being treated as low functioning by the education system (literally, just because I wasn't as organized as the other kids) and being run through the Symptom Treatment system (Canada doesn't have Healthcare, it's a lie) and even falsely charged and convicted by the legal system when I was a teen.
Hell, I could have died after a trip to the hospital last year. Went in, was misdiagnosed and sent home with a prescription for something I am *_severely_* allergic too, despite being very specific about it on in take. Was back in the hospital less than 24H later with RSV and not the "minor chest issue" I was first released with. Yes, that's what they officially diagnosed me with that first time. "Minor chest issue."
I do not begrudge others, men or women, who check out for less and a lot sooner. Even when it's something they have a small measure of control over. A little "I'm 14 and this is deep," but the world broke a long time ago. It's just happening in slowmo to the rest of us. We're an adaptable species, so it's not that surprising. Were this rate to keep up, though, we're going to, as the kids say, crash out.
Societies don't collapse in a flash. Just look up how long it took for Roman empire. So no, your last point isn't "I'm 14 and this is deep", bro.
@EnraiChannel The entire world is not a 1:1 to Rome. There are similarities in pockets of the world, but no. But, sure. We'll go with what you said, since it's the actual "I'm 14 and this is deep," thing here.
Birthrates in the West are cratering. In fact, birthrates in the "developed world" are cratering. Extinction is on the way but not due to a nuclear war or anything like that. More akin to the mouse utopia experiment. Personally I am over it.
I don't think so much that "suck it up" is bad advice, I think it’s actually good, but it's more so the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
So many people went/are going to college that you need a degree in order to get a basic job
Dating just feels like a numbers game rather than a genuine connection
(think of situationships, the term "settling," hookup culture, etc. Also, you can't be "average" anymore as a man, to find someone, you have to excel in any given field)
The loss of social connections because of authoritarian policies during covid, the loss of religious communities, and the loss of younger people in society
(the average age in America is around 32)
I'm only able to keep my head above water because I have a family that cares for me that I can live with. I can't imagine someone in debt, without family, and no friends.
Suck it up really is just poorly explaining that the world isn’t fair and it will not give you leeway if you were born with pork and beans. It’s giving a fair warning, but it’s also ignoring that having an outlet is necessary. Generations past had golf, men’s clubs, the Boy Scouts etc, but now that every space has been invaded, finding a proper outlet is very difficult
Savi copes
But Savi is full of hope
And should keep the hope up for everyone.
We root for Savi
I try my best even when the world wants to bring us all down
Trust me as a 27 years old still living with his uncle and just trying to save money but this economy is kicking my ass
20 and I have barely any expenses, Its still very hard. Pushing the rock up the mountain only to look ahead and see the mountain growing.
Yes it fucking sucks trying my best with two jobs and praying for the best
From where you’re sitting kid, this must look like a 45 gold plated carrot of bad luck, but the truth is the game was rigged from the start!
The paradox of choice: Picking one means not picking the rest and giving up on potential energy. Thus having more choices puts a greater burden on the "picker" and is in fact a curse, not a blessing.
Your groceries deff not double because the minimum wage went up LOL it's very specifically and agreed by many economists like that because corporations increase the prices and people keep paying it and they will continue to do this while blaming reasons. A McDonalds flipper making slightly more money shouldn't effect your purchase power on eggs that makes 0 sense.
I watched the entire video from start to end, thinking about the life advices you gave and I have to say that you are right with a lot of things.
Also, your voice is so calm and soothing you cured my headaches in the meantime.
I try my best to be positive but fair I really am trying my best you all deserve the best
Life is pain. Last night I dreamed that I went back to my childhood home, and my mom was there sleeping at her computer like usual. She woke up and excitedly told me that she was dreaming of me. It's been just shy of 9 years since she passed, and now I'm tearing up in the backroom at work.
This very much reminded me of an old poem about a similar feeling of being lost and impotent before the state of things, defeated from the very first moment and unable to flee from it but ultimately finding solace in accepting, 'the tobacco shop' by Álvaro de Campos, heteronim of Pessoa, quoting another of his poems by a different heteronim 'and finds happiness in accepting, the sublime and scientific fact of accepting the natural and inevitable'. The way i see it, it is not worth bothering with the course of things that are above one's head, better living apart from all of it, trying things out of that bubble if possible.
I think the worst thing is that you can try and try and try, but sometimes you can only ever slightly increase your situation best case scenario.
That said, sometimes thats enough and you just gotta make the best of what you got
The difficulty is supposed to be in the 5-7/10 range, but it feels like it's cranked to about 40
its so over. i feel like a genetic failure. when you get constantly rejected from jobs, women ... all kinds of people then you start accepting the fact that you're just low value trash. i disconnected from society and just focus on my hobbies that i do alone by myself
@@topy706 I am in that rut right now. I graduated this year. There was maybe 10 ish jobs. No's all over. Tried different jobs adjacent to my career. Nothing. My hope is next year when hopefully companies start hiring.
@Jd-zl7mn its probably over for you. You are sub 5 on your profile which means people generally see you as lesser
The craziest part is is that giving men the bare bones basic level of attention and compassion is viewed as "coddling" them. I've seen it many times, when someone suggests that maybe a man just needs to be shown a little bit of empathy and cut just a little slack and then a woman says "So what you're saying is we should just coddle him, women have it harder and no one cares." And it gets worse when you realize the women who say that probably have themselves been coddled their whole life.
I think that sucks a lot for guys is that I know a lot of people who feel they will be shunned and shamed for expressing problems with their mental health and etc and I hate seeing them being drag down and the way they cope with such is not reaching out but to drink to themself to forget.
I had a friend like that. Lucky he is a lot better and he required a lot my help to stop him from becoming a alcholic, He used to drink daily.
ive watched a few female vtubers talk about this topic and its sad that they always derail a topic talking about men to "its not just men, women are suffering also" yeah we know theyre suffering also but this is supposed to be a video/space where men are discussed without the "what about the women tho".
i haven't watched the news for more than ten years.
You should pay attention more, freedom is a generation away from death at all times, and its up to us to stay vigilant to protect it.
@@Ryan-li8qc what we are being fed by the media isn't the truth. its just a mouthpiece for the rich and influential , who want to keep us in our place by fear mongering. and your paranoia about 'losing your freedom' is one of the talking points they use.
I dont
Smart man
Kids these days gotta hit the ground running to get out of the doomscrolling haze, and even then they see their success as not a win but as a defense they must maintain forever. That was for adults to learn, but now you gotta learn it or lose when you're twelve at the latest. We failed these kids, so did our parents. Support 'em where you can.
societies try to extract more from the sacrificial class while giving them nothing. They give the false promise of salvation while making an environment that drives that want for "salvation". When they find an alternative source for salvation it becomes a social heresy and blasphemy. This breeds apathy and depression. People have poured their hearts and souls in their path to salvation and they are not strong enough to let go when people tell them their is none to be found. The choice is to live to achieve salvation or be self driven
31:50
In my personal experience having exactly that happen. It's good to have friends and family you can count on to help you out
Hey Savii. Didn't know you had a YT channel. I've been following you on Twitch for awhile. Guess YT decided to make a good recommendation.
About the topic of the video.
As a man, you can't talk about any struggles you're having with dating/relationships 90% of the time. Talking about my experiences has gotten me called things I can't post on YT without my comment getting yeeted. Even though I haven't hurt anyone. I've had several women (try to) use me for money and had one cheat on me. I know women are not all the same and I know my own actions play a part in me being single. I don't feel like I'm entitled to anything. I'm just tired of feeling like I'm wasting time and money with nothing good to show for it, and I'd rather be alone than in a parasitic relationship.
lovely to see you on YT. Your not wrong theres alot I cant talk about but there are alot of observations that can lead to one to the other but very true honestly I like being alone as well parasocial is not my thing
Imma be real, it’s hard say how i feel. One time i was driving with my friend. And just started telling him personal shit. And how i was frustrated about it. He said, “what do you want me to say.” And i was like shit. Why did I share my feelings with him. It was an awkward drive home. I guess i just wanted to get that off my chest or something. 🤦 conversations are difficult sometimes
Found you couple weeks ago and binged your vids while working. When there was nothing left, it started feeling like you haven't uploaded in years lmao
I am trying my best to add more and more I will do better
I love how self aware you are
What I have given up on specifically is finding someone to be with.
I still plan to write and publish my book, but I will be alone, and I have accepted that.
Personal take.
If you need help, ask for it. Its fine. Nothing wrong with that. He who shames you, is basically filtering him/herself from your life.
If you dont need help. Its also fine. Dont let anyone tell you you cant take it, if you can and are good at it.
Agreed
One thing about the filtering part. People who shame you for asking for help, sure, filter them, but you have to be careful not to filter everyone who criticises you. If you ask for help and someone asks if you've been doing what you're supposed to do (taking responsibility for your actions, taking care of yourself via proper diet and exercise, etc.) you shouldn't filter them. It might hurt in that moment, but those are the people who really want the best for you.
You voice is lovely, like Kaa fron The Jungle Book
Thank you!
At the start of the video, Im a man, older than her, my life was kinda the same as her's, didnt know I needed to hear the stuff that men deserve to be loved more, but kinda glad I did.
The working class cant afford to live realistically a riot is eventually going to happen we just have to make sure its truly impactful like how the french did it and not some dumbass shit like interlocked workers blocking the i635 expressway
53:39
I wouldn't say it's a lack of energy. It's simply a question of, what's the point? I give up things I enjoy for maybe a few years extra life? A relationship that is doomed to failure if I slip back?
Great guidance from great people is better than struggling. Struggling can be crippling when you're weak. Which most of us start off as.
I believe that a reason why the economy is this way is because you can have companies buy a bunch of houses for more than they're worth and rent them out for way too much. This turns th whole country into company towns where everyone works for Blackrock, and everyone rents from Blackrock, and everyone buys from Blackrock. Seriously look up company towns. That's the economy we're in right now.
Savi, an in-cel is an involuntary celibate; a person who, not of their free will, cannot go out and get laid. That's the actual definition. However, what you say in the video is what the word in-cel has turned into. In-cel, just like any other word used to put people down on the internet, has become so broadly used that it might as well not have a definition in the first place.
*This has been your daily rant with Drach.
3:38 In my experience it’s usually never from family.
I've basically been saying that it's feudalism all over and the aristocrats just got renamed to oligarchs and every. single. day. That same sentiment makes more and more sense. At this point no one will even make fun of me for saying that.
i mean yeah we are sucking it up and dealing with it ourselves why do you think we are pulling outa society?
Not exactly what I mean I feel men are doing there best and I support you all to the extreme
There may not be an intent to shit on people, but damn I feel the shit coming. Finding your tribe is the hardest step, but everything takes 1000 tries? It doesn't feel worth it
You think im saying that my problems are more important than yours. It's that you act like my problems don't exist, and they don't matter to you or anyone.
ps. been unemployed for 3 months and have no hopes for the future. done with people telling me im not good enough.
Why should I have faith in anything when everyone turns there back on me? Why should I try really?
RIP Josh Tripp - September 3, 2013
My girlfriend is in Japanese prison. She’s the only woman who has tried to think from my perspective about what my interests going forward would be and then put what she thought my interests were before hers. She could have killed a man and I’d figure something out to make it work.
Don't vibe in a lazy way, live life for you while completing goals.
True and real
Had to move back in with my parents just to be able to afford to live again. Trying to get back on my feet and move to a mid-size city and put these blue-collar hands back to doing something I enjoy doing and getting paid well. Want to go back into fire protection again, either for service tech or as a pipefitter again.
When it comes to psychology and men, I always feel like adding a few tips.
First, a majority of men's minecrafting happens to men who sought out professional help.
Second, if you care about the issues that affect men and boys. Look up Dr. Warren Farrell.
Didn't finish college. been holding the shovel and digging dirt for the family for as long as I can remember .. im not earning anything...
And this types of videos are what keeps me going because everyone is dealing with something. so basically yeah just suck it up.
Guys are valued by what they can provide to other people according to the old "patriarchy". The lack of workers has been expected since the 80s, especially in jobs like power linemen stuck out in bad weather reconnecting downed power lines and similar. Probably still need a few around.
Few years back the city of Seattle passed a mandatory $15 an hour minimum wage law for only the city of Seattle. The city had a lot of smaller businesses throughout that couldn’t maintain their supply chain with the higher wages, specifically restauraunts, cafes, and coffee shops, where tips would make up the difference and get the wages up higher than the previous minimum wage. Majority of those smaller restaurants and cafes had to shut down, so all those employees who benefited from the new minimum wage law suddenly found themselves without a job and having to look outside the city and add a commute and more gas expenditure to their budget, all because the city, in its infinite wisdom, decided the minimum wage needed to be raised. Couple that with laws regarding the homeless and restricting police intervention in theft, trespassing, and some property related charges, many local businesses shut down or left the city, leaving only national chains and the most successful local businesses left in the city. It’s been a shit show the last few years
They *used* to play us like a damn fiddle
I can’t get over the hands
So happy you like them
Never did I think you’d see that one ngl, lmak
54:44 This is true especially if it's a position where you interact with clients. That's just the way it is.
Such a Savicore Video. Wholesome, based and it took her 90min to watch a 20min Video 🥰
great Video
❤️❤️
I’d rather not play. Those 124gr JHPs are looking more and more appetizing by the day.
Congrats on the retirement 👍 just ETSed after 8 years myself
9:42 They have a term for it in German: Die Qual der Wahl (literally, "the torment of choice")
Thank you and omg nice 8 years is alot
1:10:07
I don't buy that this is a rampant issue. The more likely reality is the woman just doesn't like how he does the chores, so she does them again after he does, and then claims he doesn't do anything.
Honestly if things fall through I'll just live in my car on welfare. I objectively believe looking at statistics that we're at the end of modern society as we know it. It's legit not worth the effort. Inflation makes things worse, but that is the primary method the fed are paying for their debt. Like living in a car/van you have a cell phone you can browse the internet and play games, food stamps pay for food. Like spending $2000 between a mortgage, property taxes and house insurance, it's not worth it owning a house you can live at 1/3rd the price.
We live in a matriarchy.
Any man who stays in the game deserves what he gets at this point.
I have never had a male boss working for over 15 years. Mother ran the household while also does the least amount of actual work. Top 1% of men who are the big CEOs is because women don't want the accountability and realistically you have to be literally insane to want be a CEO of a mega corporation, people just want the money associated with it.
she turned a 17 minute video into an hour and a half. this is a level of yapping that should be studied. this is insane
At best, I’m a machine to be discarded once I’ve served my purpose. On a good day. I just want to be a person with a life outside work again.
Yeah, sheesh, I was doing better than the average person these days when I was doing fast food at the mall back in '05 for I think $5.16hr though that was bumped to $6 a few months later. Though I did do overtime out of need & often convince the other teens to give me their shifts since... Forgive me for saying this, but uh, since I enjoyed manual labor. Yeah, I know, why? Right? Loved unloading the trucks & such. I'd honestly give up so much to be able to work like that again. I am disabled now, rare diseases such as polymyositis (autoimmune, destroys all muscle tissue without ceasing), nerve damage, paralysis that goes on off due to the location of the cord injury, seizures when stressed, having only 2 friends i have known for 17 years (one from youth group in our teens, the other from an mmorpg) that i would trust with my life. Injuries unrelated to the fact that i did all the heavy lifting since i was typically the only male on shift (my male co-workers kept quitting). Perfect recollection of any dreams & nightmares... Terrible. Migraines. Tinnitus currently going RRRRRHEEEEE in my left ear, draining sanity. No money. Losing the ability to urinate without catheters "FUUUUUUUN"
y just age 22 my illnesses took away all hope of being able to work again. Medicaid is ass, too, so I live with my mother at age 36 (she's 70) with her bringing me my meds, food, etc... I'm constantly in fear over what Medicaid will stop covering or become more expensive. like I'm on 13 meds (I know, nutty) 1 is fentanyl patches and this month they doubled in price... If I can't get them I'm actually in serious danger.
It's really hard for men when they lose the ability to work. We have an obvious built-in sense of being providers, so when we can't anymore, well, it REALLY gets to you. Even if I had money I'd still want to work. Crazy thing to say, but if I'm anything, it's not a liar.
Now I can no longer help my mother out like I once did since she barely made enough to keep us fed. I just wake up, watch youtube, play games (I have them provided, legally btw, though I can't afford them) & such in a constant battle to keep my mind from going into a super depressed, worthless feeling, paranoid, OCD loop because if I ever stop doing things to distract myself? It gets bad, like I mean really, really bad, plus panic attacks which GEEZ they're awful.
I haven't dated since I was 20 in 2008. I've been forced to become a pseudo hermit by my health. I have one heck of a time not automatically assuming that the worst current possible outcome regarding anything WILL be what happens. My 20/300 sight prevents me from driving even if I somehow had a car. No car, no money, no health, no IRL friends (can't meet any for reasons too), no relationship, no job, no future since I'll be killed by several severe illnesses I have before I'm 50-60, so nothing to look forward to. It freaking sucks. It's dang hard to cry but then quickly stop crying before my family sees anything or any signs.
I'm terrified when I can't catch my breath after doing such massive exertion like... Sitting up after a while laying down, my resting heart rate of120 flying to 150-160. It is dang tough.
There are those who go through more, though, so I pray for those people.
My mother can't work anymore either, so we're very fortunate my uncle took us in on his country property. Without him I have no doubt we'd have ended up on the street, starving, me in withdrawal from all my meds, dying as a result, my mother was left alone on the street. Sooo yeah... thank God my uncle is here. He's very flawed, very, very flawed, but he does genuinely care about us.
Wish he'd shut up sometimes, but still... I'm thankful
I see.
Great video.
I can see why you said that we need to struggle to develop ourselves.
But I just have curious question here.
What if that struggle becomes difficult to manage in regards to a person's develop?
It's okay if you don't see this down here. Just had to get this off out of my head here. :)
Anyways. Peace. ✌️
Edit: I f-ing hate that "you'll own nothing and you'll be happy about it" quote. Feel like this quote is said by bad individuals that know what their doing towards civilians.
Everything we deal with most definetly will be hard but it will help your growth and everyone around you ❤️
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Choice paralysis? Regardless, it's not even true. Dating isn't available to every man at a swipe. Nor are delivery services available to everyone because they're expensive as heck, especially with America's tip culture.
holy yappin here take my sub so i can listen to your calming vocie some more
Thanks for sharing such valuable information! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
I can't give up hope, it's the only thing I have left.
You got this! Seriously there are many that want to see you fall but a strong few want you to be your best self ❤
You said right about the company manager choosing the pretty faces to their jobs. Because, in female nature, looks is biggest reason people will feel about us. That's main reason females see males as "uglier" than opposite.
Probably one of the very few millennials that dont do drugs or alcohol or weed. I just lack good close friends my only bestie rn is my ex girlfriend. I work and i do volunteer work on the side.
Never give up lads we still got shit to do in our lives and you shouldnt allow this world to say otherwise.
(Savii vr avater so realistic just wanted to say)
Based
58:22 I've also been diagnosed with very low testosterone levels. I have to be on TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) in order to function and feel normal. Without it or without adequate treatment, I have such low energy that I can get exhausted walking around for 10-15 minutes. I would be breathing heavily like I just ran a mile. I feel like I can't get enough sleep. I'll sleep for 8, 10, 12+ hours, still wake up feeling groggy, and feel like I need a nap 5-6 hours later. My "love life" was nonexistent and still is, so I can't speak much on that other than testosterone does a heck of a lot more than affect your "performance". I went through multiple doctors before I was finally diagnosed. There was nothing I could do on my own. Normal levels in adult males usually runs anywhere from 400-1000. Some men will start experiencing symptoms when it gets below 400 and doctors usually recommend at least trying treatment. 300 is the bare minimum to be considered healthy. Anything below that is pretty much guaranteed to cause immediate symptoms and long-term health risks like osteoporosis and heart problems. My levels were barely above 200 when I was diagnosed. If that wasn't bad enough, most insurance coverage doesn't cover most forms of treatment. Even though mine were so low that treatment was deemed a medical necessity, my insurance company was like "Sorry. We don't cover that because.....reasons." I've had to try multiple treatments to find one that's effective, consistent, and safe. I managed to find one, but it's costing me $800 every 5 months. Still better than no treatment.
savii from one statesperson to another or citicen of any nato member to another thank you for your service, my hat is off to you. (I'm gambling that you live in nato)
1:13:58
Nope, I don't have that kind of ego. I may be better in some ways, but I'm certainly not that much better than the average.
Being in the navy fucking sucks but if I never joined I would be just like one of these guys who lives @ home unemployed thanks for your service by the way we usually say that as a joke since we’re already in ourselves but i genuinely mean that
Honestly, being told to suck it up is a good thing. It lets you withstand hardship better and keeps your vulnerabilities from being weaponized against you.
L kid
@ not really. Every time I or someone else cried openly, it was immediately weaponized. And I’m in my 30’s, so don’t call me kid unless you’re like 40+
Trust me when I say I dont mean suck it up I wish things were different but life sucks sometimes and I really wish the world would change for the better men need the time and the love as well.
@@savisenpaii It’s just the way the world is right now. If it sounded accusatory towards you specifically, that wasn’t my intention. Just saying how bad things are.
@ no I like your comment there are a few things I need to word better but yes life sucks I am a positive person but I try to be real and want everyone to do the best they can
I did 4 and had my fill with that, how does retiring at 12 work though?
She right guys! I can totally be another statistic if i try!
I feel that
Stopped at about 30min because your opinions are too close to mine and i know all the topics of the video. BUT therefore you get high praises from me
Happy we think alike 😌
Ill make you proud mama savii
oh shit new suave savii video
"Game over men. game over." Bitching time for new game plus.
I literally made a comment on you're most recent short complaining about no uploads😂😂😂. I refuse to make a twitch account 😐
You will now have UA-cam streams and everything should be up to date and chat this Tuesday
I like the way you talk ma'am got a sub from me. And yeah the man thing is pretty messed up. Just one of the many reasons I don't interact with people .
Your so sweet thank you!
@@savisenpaii aww thank you heh. your very welcome 🐈🤍
Savii's a veteran too?! Oh hell!
Yeah, we don't see that too often with streamers, even less tubers.
Me, I retired 2 years ago. 26 years in the service was enough. The moment my unit had a new girl that enlisted to my shop that was not even born when 9-11 happened was the moment I realized I been in too long.😅
Yes 12 years just retired!
@@savisenpaii I'm crossing my fingers.
My Inactive Ready Reserve status ends December 2nd at 2359.
As of midnight December 3rd, I'm a free man!
Honestly more men should look up Terrance Popp he is retired Marine who so much now tells men the truth with added comedy. The message respnates more when men tell it usually.
I gotta check them out
Thanks for your service.
THANK YOU!
1:01:38 same
it was the same game the episode.
At 21:05 to 23:56 (please read the whole thing, do not skim, it’s important to get the context of why the world is where it’s at)
The only way this makes sense, is if you are ignorant on politics as a whole. The basics is understood, but after, it’s being told to you how it is, and it’s only being taught the surface level. But that’s not just a you thing, this is what the past many years has been, way back since George w bush. There’s no other choice but to get into politics, so apologies in advance.
Let’s start with sexy regulations. Regulations, seems to be forgotten due to rhetoric of our leaders, and the lack of promotions from those who fight for it. You like your days off? You can thank regulations. You like over time pay? Regulations. You like your kids to be kids and not be in a factory working? Thank regulations. These rules are there to help the working class from becoming indentured servants to the powerful. The minimum wage is low, because regulations has been voted to be stagnant and deregulated. You wanna know why there are microplastics in our fish and water? Why there’s an E-coli outbreak at McDonald’s or why there’s a disease that’s killing millions of chickens? It’s the lack of regulations. Our meats have been deregulated by Donald Trump in his first term, and we just voted him back in. Regulations are supposed to keep the rich in line, to protect us. We as a society deserve what is coming, until we can learn from our mistakes. China and India are perfect examples of no regulations. Go and read up on the smog problems it is causing for the 2 countries.
Now let’s talk about conflicts. We are in world war 3, whether you realize it or not. As of now, there are currently between, 110-150 wars happening right now, today. The main trade route Panama, or the Red Sea, is being blockaded, and the bread basket of Europe, is being sieged. Just these 2 things are causing major problems for the entire world. Why? Because we like cheap things, so we outsourced many of our jobs to sweat shops and child labor, where regulations have prohibited here in the west. The nation we live in thrives on slave labor, like the company Nestle or Hershey’s. Understand that, our nation used to be self reliant and able to self produce our goods. And it was high quality at that, hence why we get so many immigrants trying to reach the U.S., because we did represent the gold standard and the envy of the world. We lost this. And because of our lost stature, the word is in chaos. Europe relies on us for its defense, we have over 300 bases around the world and 9 fleets. We dictate who is considered a terrorist, and who is an ally. Who gets to decide on who can trade with the mighty dollar. The wars happening today, can be traced back to the U.S. as the sole reason why it’s happening.
I can get into much more detail, but there is so much to talk about that it isn’t a one singular issue. So next up is climate change that people seem to continue to ignore, due to the invention of AC. We as a people, can ignore it for a while longer because we have regulated our houses that keep us cool or warm. What we forget, is the animals and plants outside. Chocolate is about to go instinct, because cocoa beans are having a hard time growing in this new heat. The ice caps of the North Pole is getting extremely smaller, which is causing the planet to not be able to regulate the earth’s temperature, which causes more severe storms that used to happen once every 100 years. And the one trash that people also forget, that isn’t the plastic patch in the ocean, is space trash. All those satellites and rocket boosters just floating all around us, is damn near trapping us on this earth. Every time the world launch’s a flight into space, we leave more debris. Go look up a trash map of space. If we don’t get our act up and start fixing our climate problem, there will be nowhere to go. Just laying down and taking it, is not the answer. Need a blank check and tons of red tape to get a hold on our climate crisis.
So, why are things so expensive? It isn’t because of people wanting to get paid more. Tax havens, deregulations, climate change, wars, money laundering, capitalism as a whole, had got us to consume and forget. We accept low wages because we use the world as slave labor for our needs. This is what the problem is. Do not blame the wages. It’s what the rich and corrupted want you to think.
Well said. Unfortunately in this little community you're probably preaching to the choir. But hopefully someone who needs to read it does.
One problem doe beit the corrupt ain't fully where you think it is
Ah Trump derangement syndrome is at it again. All the bad things in the world are clearly the bad orange man's fault.
Most of these issues have been a problem in some way, shape or form for several decades before Trump even first took office. Why y'all have to constantly blame him for everything is beyond me. I'm not the biggest fan of him either but give the Trump Derangement Syndrome a break.
@@siervodedios5952 because he, like Reagan, did nothing to slow it down but accelerate it.
And now he is going to be in charge, with awful cabinet picks, so stop pretending Like this Trump Derangement Syndrome is some valid counter or deflection.
Useless
you have an absurd amount of wealth inequality these days especially in the US so talking about the stock market going up diesnt matter because the richer you get the more money you have in company assests but its only the few top % in america that are wealthy so for 95% of everyday people it has gotten worse
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I'll be honest with you, there are some of your takes on disability that are downright problematic. I know it doesn't come from a bad place but you are not realist about the capacity of a lot of people to get out of the things that afflict them. Wellfare for people like that is already hard enough, they don't need people playing cheerleader when they are already trying their best just to stay alive every day. Some disabilities are permanent. Autism as an example can be (not always) one of those disabling conditions. It can make you so anxious just living that the life expectency drops under 40 for that whole demographic. It's that bad. A lot of people who end up on wellfare have underlying conditions that have simply not been detected yet. Shaming people more doesn't help them. It's just adding an extra layer on a shit sandwitch.
The people I am referring to are people who take advantage of the system not actual disabled I have many friends who are disabled and this system helps if I didn't clarify that good enough that's on me.
@@savisenpaii you say that as people use your talking points are used to deny help for people who are actually disabled.
"The Left failed men"...I guess by Signified B Sides covers a similar topic while referencing Shoe0nhead's video of the same name.
I advise you to check it out, as it can provide you with a perspective not just saying how the world treats men, but Also how such men form their views, actions which paths they pick and why.
Filian, savii, buffpup, marimari_en.
Are you asking for a collab?