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  • @TheClick
    @TheClick  8 місяців тому +573

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  • @maironelfstone896
    @maironelfstone896 8 місяців тому +4240

    It's actually disgusting that women who SA young boys don't get the same jail time as men who SA young girls (or anyone, for that matter). Assault is assault, no matter who does it. Period.

    • @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake
      @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake 8 місяців тому +332

      Say it louder for the people in the back

    • @user-se9wx6hx1x
      @user-se9wx6hx1x 8 місяців тому +394

      Equal rights, equal punishment.

    • @thewickeddevilofthewest
      @thewickeddevilofthewest 8 місяців тому +432

      And the men don't get enough time either... So it's just worse when young boys get assaulted.
      Life in prison. Assaulting minors is never ok

    • @galaxygorl
      @galaxygorl 8 місяців тому +152

      bUt MeN dOnT eXpErIeNcE tRaUmA!!!!!!

    • @emmabemmaboo
      @emmabemmaboo 8 місяців тому +218

      In addition, for men proven to have committed such acts, they're beaten near/to death. Whereas, women who've been proven to have done the same are given a slap on the wrist at worst with certain men claiming to wish they were SA'd by the woman. Drives me insane

  • @jeggredbaenre2191
    @jeggredbaenre2191 8 місяців тому +6799

    I once got banned from a discord server for using sophisticated language. Obviously, the word "homogenous" is hate speech.

    • @gnommg
      @gnommg 8 місяців тому +919

      Honestly, if you start talking about enforcing homogenous societies that can quickly become hate speech. Context is everything. Sophisticated language is often used to cloak horrifying ideas.

    • @LGBTQLegend
      @LGBTQLegend 8 місяців тому +714

      Depends on the context. I know conservatives who use that word to try to cloak white supremacy.

    • @tatiana4050
      @tatiana4050 8 місяців тому +366

      ​@@LGBTQLegend they like to talk about homogeneity when praising Sweden and Japan

    • @davidlionheart2438
      @davidlionheart2438 8 місяців тому +26

      @@LGBTQLegend 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @davidlionheart2438
      @davidlionheart2438 8 місяців тому +17

      @@gnommg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MrGreensweightHist
    @MrGreensweightHist 8 місяців тому +875

    American Conservatives: Kids don't need to be learning about sex in middle school.
    Also American Conservatives: I lost my virginity in middle school.

    • @Bunny_Bill
      @Bunny_Bill 7 місяців тому +24

      Foul 💀

    • @sarabeara9198
      @sarabeara9198 7 місяців тому

      but only the boys. girls are pure until marriage. and also being gay is bad 🤔 the math is not mathing

    • @fantym1633
      @fantym1633 7 місяців тому

      American Conservatives don't want kids leaning about s3x in middle school coz they're afraid that they'd then be able to identify things going on either @ home, @ church, or both

    • @_Definitely_Not_A_RobloxFan
      @_Definitely_Not_A_RobloxFan 7 місяців тому +31

      lmao like im 12 and they act like we innocent but its so far from the truth we are jsut innocent around them

    • @MrGreensweightHist
      @MrGreensweightHist 7 місяців тому +58

      @@_Definitely_Not_A_RobloxFan I taught middle school and high school.
      I know better, but parents don't want to hear it.
      Don't think your teachers don't know what is going on though.
      We don't look at your with the "not my baby" blinders parents have.
      We just care more about what goes into your heads.

  • @starlightlion8603
    @starlightlion8603 8 місяців тому +517

    I don't have respect for others *because* I was smacked as a child, I have respect for others DESPITE being smacked as a child

    • @captaincaspian42
      @captaincaspian42 7 місяців тому +23

      Based pfp

    • @christinesizemore3
      @christinesizemore3 6 місяців тому +46

      fear is not respect - it's self preservation

    • @BarbieDreamDungeon
      @BarbieDreamDungeon 4 місяці тому +10

      Hell yeah sylveon profile pic 🏳️‍⚧️

    • @sairus3239
      @sairus3239 4 місяці тому +4

      When i was throwing a really bad tantrum and demonstratively hit the wardrobe wit my head my grandfather (Rest in peace, gramps) said "why so weak?" And hit it again wit my head so hard,so my mom gasped and i was stunned for a few seconds. I never threw a tantrum again, understanding why i was punished. I was like 8-9 at the time.
      The problem is not the punishment, but if the punished understands why they're punished. For the context i was rarely punished, especially with physical punishment. So i knew that if i was then i did something really wrong. If you violently punish kids for every single thing, then yes, its bad. Giving a spanking to a badly behaved kid is not.
      Most kids don't listen to the words and allowing them to do whatever they want is making them into entitled irresponsible adults.
      So i am for the existence of physical punishments, but not the excessive ones.

    • @charadreamuur7229
      @charadreamuur7229 2 місяці тому +1

      @@sairus3239 my experience and why I don’t believe spanking is reasonable:
      I was an undiagnosed,but still autistic child, my dad refused to get me tested even though I had more than 10 therapists between the ages of six and eight, Who told him I needed to be tested, I was just an insolent child to them.
      To them I was beyond reason even though they constantly bragged on me for getting high grades, I was in the quietness of our own house,a criminal, I would end up hitting my own head or clacking my wrist together,even though what I was having were autistic meltdowns.
      I was special-needs but, because the adults in my life we’re also mentally ill,I was also forced to be the adult in the room these adults would be having actual full on tantrum throwing shit, and screaming like banshees, and doing other clinically insane shit.
      Our neighbor Miss Marsha used to leave her kids at my Nanas door and when my Nana got sick I had to be responsible for them because no other adult in the house my dad and my Papa Billy were going to be responsible for them,as the adults. I was throwing these kids jackets in The dryer because it had rained, I watched them from the porch to make sure no one got hurt, if they did I provided first aid,I made them lunch sometimes dinner, admittedly it was usually easy Mac,and PB&J‘s for lunch or bologna sandwiches they always got a choice, For lunch or dinner.
      I grew up around drug addicts who used this type of logistical fallacy to justify,all they ever did to me.
      Spanking is bad. Because it is almost never a responsive form of punishment, it is reactive, it is you being frustrated with a child, and it’s not a reasonable punishment, no child is ever going to understand why you’re striking them, because when they’re young they don’t understand reason,and if they are old enough to understand reason, then reason with them.
      Children understand more than you can ever think they will, they have reasoning, and speaking literally, what for you could literally just be a random Tuesday could be an impactful moment of their life. The tiny humans are logical there is a method to the madness,even if that method is different than another child’s.
      Speaking of someone who was both spanked and beaten randomly sometimes twice for the same punishment, double Jeopardy was my childhood,as in being punished twice for the same “crime”, if the powers that be ever blessed me with children I will never hit them, I will pull their hands away for example if they were reaching for a hot pot on the stove or just reaching for the hot stove in general,I will be firm, but I will be kind.
      Blessed be, have a nice time zone, take care.
      And if you’ve read this far,thank you,it means a lot.

  • @TheTinyTyranid
    @TheTinyTyranid 8 місяців тому +1209

    "we must protect our kids"
    PROCEEDS TO SIMP OVER A 16 YEAR OLD AS A ADULT

    • @TheHoliestCow
      @TheHoliestCow 8 місяців тому +91

      She is 14 not 16 so it's worse
      Edit: Do you research before jumping to conclusions everybody cause I was wrong

    • @Meowssero
      @Meowssero 8 місяців тому +51

      Proceeds* Plus we need to protect our kids from pedos like that person

    • @kempolar9768
      @kempolar9768 8 місяців тому +75

      @@TheHoliestCow 2007, she is 16. It's absolutely horrendous but let's not make numbers even worse than they are, that's how mobs start.

    • @stormerkromy988
      @stormerkromy988 8 місяців тому

      *Farquaad pointing meme*
      The Conservative has become the one sexualizing the child!

    • @wayworner
      @wayworner 8 місяців тому +29

      @@kempolar9768exactyl. I was gonna say, I have the same birthday, and it would not be 14

  • @__TK___
    @__TK___ 8 місяців тому +834

    1:19 this basically translates to: „We fucked up the economy so bad that we ruined the lives of our children and grandchildren. Lmao get bent.“

    • @WestGarbage6
      @WestGarbage6 8 місяців тому +94

      Honestly, I was so annoyed by this post because of the fact that no boomer would ever be able to buy a house in this economy either, they got theirs, plus a couple more for like $20, and jacked up the price 350x over.

    • @nio804
      @nio804 8 місяців тому +48

      I actually managed to buy an apartment and not bankrupt myself, but I looked at its original sale price on the record, in 1989. It was like, maybe 10k in today's money 💀

    • @foogod4237
      @foogod4237 8 місяців тому +32

      Yeah, it strikes me as being sorta like saying:
      "Ok, boomer."
      "Yeah, whatever. I raped your sister."
      Like, that's really not the comeback you think it is...

    • @vincesaenz2760
      @vincesaenz2760 8 місяців тому +3

      Honestly, I thought the comeback was pretty funny because it acknowledges that it is harder for us to buy a house.

    • @riverstein7251
      @riverstein7251 8 місяців тому

      It’s only a victory if you lack empathy, self-awareness, critical thinking, foresight…you know, all the traits and skills that distinguish a decent human from a literal chimpanzee.

  • @TheTrueMr.Chicken
    @TheTrueMr.Chicken 7 місяців тому +461

    I will never understand how target selling a pride t shirt is "grooming kids at their most impressionable stage", but forcing your kid to go to church and sunday School, say prayers/blessings, etc. is somehow different.

    • @ettaetta439
      @ettaetta439 6 місяців тому +57

      But nooooo, religion can't be indoctrination! Respect people's beliefs even if those beliefs are utterly harmful, and you're not allowed to critique the way they raise their children.

    • @lilharm
      @lilharm 5 місяців тому +74

      “showing a gay relationship isn’t age appropriate!”
      *shows a straight relationship to their toddler*

    • @ettaetta439
      @ettaetta439 5 місяців тому +55

      @@lilharm The way they think of it is that gay relationships are inherently sexual. Because any time they think of queer people, they think about how their sex is or their bodies look like. So they assume that their toddler child will be groomed by gay relationships.
      Meanwhile they're the only ones who are thinking that, and their toddlers don't care. I grew up not even knowing what the word gay was and only ever watching hetero relationships, but I'd obsessively ship girl characters together in my kids' movies. I didn't think about them having sex, I thought about them kissing or holding hands or hugging.

    • @ThePopo543
      @ThePopo543 4 місяці тому

      Or teaching young girls to be "good obedient christian tradwives to their future husbands" if that ain't gr** ming then idk what it is.

    • @Infinitejules
      @Infinitejules 3 місяці тому

      Neither do the people who say it. It's just slander

  • @gothcsm
    @gothcsm 8 місяців тому +445

    I hate, hate, HATE, when other men shame and belittle male sexual assault / harassment victims! Men will NEVER be weak for not wanting to be touched or talked to in a sexual way without prior consent. Those are completely normal things to want and expect from other people.
    Men like that one dude replying to the tweet about the drunk dental assistant girl are the reason why male victims never want to speak out. Like why are they seemingly incapable of feeling sympathy for one of their fellow men who just had to go through something absolutely horrifying and life altering?
    Almost all of us women will ALWAYS support other women if they go through that, and almost all of us also give our full support to men who have had to go through that. Mainly because, unfortunately, we have most likely had to go through that as well since the percentage of women who have been sexually assaulted in one way or another is very high.
    But to any male victims who might be reading this, you are valid, you are strong, and you deserve to be supported and validated for what you had to endure, whether it be by the hands of a man or a woman. Please stay strong, and just know that even if everyone else is against you, I will be standing with you. Which I know probably doesn’t mean much since I’m a random UA-cam commenter, but I hope it can at least comfort you a bit knowing that at least one person in the world will always support you 🫶

    • @sugoish9461
      @sugoish9461 8 місяців тому +41

      Agreeing with all of this! I'm a woman but I know what it's like when literally 0 sources mention your sort of situation, even when spreading awareness about the same type of abuse. It can feel so isolating, and can make you feel like what you went through doesn't really matter, or isn't "real" enough to be considered, but what you went through _was_ real. It's okay to feel however you feel about it. You are not weak for feeling emotional pain.
      I'd honestly even claim that living with pain and still not hurting others, is the strongest thing a person can be forced to do. But letting those around you know what happened is not the same as burdening them or hurting them, and you do not need to carry it alone. You are no less of a man/woman/person for what someone else did to you, and you did not deserve it.
      // Writing this as someone who experienced girl-on-girl COCSA, so yeah, I've never seen any general source mention this type of abuse, or even COCSA-inclusive wording in general (it's always mentioning an adult taking advantage of a child, or adult-on-adult, sigh).

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss 8 місяців тому +50

      Let's also remember that _men cannot get erect at will_ … it's all involuntary nerves. So he can be into you, want you, _and_ DtF, but _still_ not get hard - a situation that's far more common than you'd believe. The converse, therefore, is also true: it's possible for a guy to get hard withouth wanting to have s3x. Yet there is this assumption that "hard-on==consent." It doesn't.
      Which means that a guy _can also_ be r@p3d while not being penetrated.
      Now, that form of sexual assault on a man isn't going to be anywhere near as frequent or commonplace as sexual assault on women. But like you said, 'frequency of occurrence," and who the victim is doesn't make it "okay" or "not _really_ assault._ If there's no explicit verbal consent, there is not consent, and it is therefore nonconsentual. Sad that we need to say, "To be clear: water is wet," but this is the timeline we're living on…

    • @shanerasmussen5225
      @shanerasmussen5225 6 місяців тому +34

      When I was 15 my best friend's mom (37 at the time) began SAing me. It continued for most of a year before she tried to stab her son for telling her to leave me alone. He went to my parents at that point and the police were called. This was in the mid 90s before the passage of several laws, and after she was found "psychologically unfit to stand trial" she was just released back out into the world. Meanwhile I was being berated by my uncle for "not admitting she didn't SA me because I liked it".
      So thank you for your comment.

    • @lennonmays5758
      @lennonmays5758 6 місяців тому +10

      This means a lot, thank you

    • @wolfiegirl83
      @wolfiegirl83 6 місяців тому +11

      @@sugoish9461
      I apologize if this bothers you to answer but what does COCSA mean? I'm unfamiliar with the term. 😅

  • @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith
    @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith 8 місяців тому +1646

    Confirmation, Cliccy IS a furry!
    "My Paws are getting sweaty"

    • @Myder_Dragon
      @Myder_Dragon 8 місяців тому +144

      this has been well known and we are happy to have him

    • @mromg8282
      @mromg8282 8 місяців тому +128

      Ladies and gentelmen. We got him.

    • @Matthew.211
      @Matthew.211 8 місяців тому +120

      Best part is this isn't even the first time he referred to hands as paws!

    • @mromg8282
      @mromg8282 8 місяців тому +82

      @@Matthew.211 But this time it wasn't intentional.

    • @NyxThePuppy
      @NyxThePuppy 8 місяців тому +43

      ONE OF US

  • @serenity1378
    @serenity1378 8 місяців тому +441

    "Whenever they call you a boomer, make sure to remind them of the evil things we did as a generation that made them upset in the first place. That's definitely a victory and not proving their point."

    • @aidynchristiansen4947
      @aidynchristiansen4947 8 місяців тому +57

      “Ok boomer”
      “REMEMBER CLIMATE CHANGE!”

    • @Jzombi301
      @Jzombi301 7 місяців тому +38

      @@aidynchristiansen4947 "ha! good luck with that, zoomer! i'll be dead and buried by the time it's too late!"

    • @runed0s86
      @runed0s86 7 місяців тому +33

      @@Jzombi301 Just take away their AC in the nursing home! Same thing :D

  • @kyuutakitsune7163
    @kyuutakitsune7163 8 місяців тому +121

    Gotta respect the "ok renter" Comeback, but if anyone ever uses it on you just tell them you're waiting for the parasites that ruined the house market to die off while looking them in the eyes

    • @saqdi4665
      @saqdi4665 3 місяці тому +15

      If a boomer used that on me, I'd just say, "ok economy destroyer" or "ok wealth inheritor"

    • @ItRemindMeOfHome
      @ItRemindMeOfHome 3 місяці тому +14

      "I'll be able to afford a home when you finally die"

  • @1.Elliott.Draws.1
    @1.Elliott.Draws.1 8 місяців тому +159

    25:35
    As someone who's almost 13 and has adhd and anxiety, I would probably try to game over too. The fact people think that because a kid was so traumatized by being assulted means that he's "weak" is absolutely disgusting. I'm glad that there are many people who have common sense and would agree with me, but the amount of people who disagree is scary. It makes me not want to leave my house.

    • @user-wo6gi6vs46
      @user-wo6gi6vs46 5 місяців тому +6

      I can relate, don’t worry your not alone asking for help is not weakness.

    • @Jacqueline_Thijsen
      @Jacqueline_Thijsen 4 місяці тому +7

      Something similar happened to a 17 year old boy in the Netherlands when delivering for a food service. Two drunk ladies in underwear opened the door and tried to get him to come in to "party" and were also being seriously inappropriately touching him. He left traumatized and his employer immediately called the cops on those ladies. And they were in fact sentenced for SA while proclaiming loudly that they didn't understand why that literal child didn't like what they were doing.

  • @autisticnation7140
    @autisticnation7140 8 місяців тому +750

    I'm really annoyed at what those warnings I sent out about the national test turned into. A group of abuse victim advocates spread the word "Hey the national emergency alert will go off no matter your settings. Be sure if you're hiding a phone from your abuser you turn it off for your safety." And somehow antivaxers took those warnings and turned it into nonsense

    • @Alexander_Luv1
      @Alexander_Luv1 8 місяців тому +92

      yea that was really shitty. Ironically the only place i saw the good warnings were twitter lmao

    • @BulbasaurLeaves
      @BulbasaurLeaves 8 місяців тому +133

      It also would have been helpful for people who have noise sensitivity and panic disorders to have known that the alert blasts at maximum volume even if you keep the sound low on your phone.

    • @autisticnation7140
      @autisticnation7140 8 місяців тому +56

      @@Alexander_Luv1 ironically the good warnings were mainly on Tumblr.

    • @autisticnation7140
      @autisticnation7140 8 місяців тому

      @@Alexander_Luv1 Also there were warnings to friends like "Hey. Since your family is suspectable to conspiracy theories be careful of this upcoming alert as it could cause a mental health episode from stress if they believe the conspiracy theories around this one like they do with ivermectin and those fish antibiotics."

    • @pinkymii072
      @pinkymii072 8 місяців тому

      ​@@autisticnation7140Tumblr has become the only trustworthy social media site by virtue of survival

  • @widowkeeper4739
    @widowkeeper4739 8 місяців тому +701

    Someone should make a movie with people acting like they did during the pandemic.
    "Mavis! You can't bring Gertrude to this thing, she's a zombie!"
    "No she's not! She's just had a cold and that's why her voice is raspy!"
    "Her jaw fell off two weeks ago!"
    "So what's the problem then? She's got no jaw, she can't bite you!"

    • @AberrantChibi
      @AberrantChibi 8 місяців тому +125

      Considering this is always the part that appears to be missing in *every* zombie pandemic movie out there, I would really want to see it. For scientific reasons.

    • @yourpsychicfriendfredbear
      @yourpsychicfriendfredbear 7 місяців тому +33

      This is where we need the zeitgeist to go

    • @discordiacreates6669
      @discordiacreates6669 7 місяців тому +42

      Honestly this sounds like a perfect parody movie and something I would do... If I took more then one semester of Drama class as an elective in highschool a few years ago. Wish I had the talent though

    • @lolalo6344
      @lolalo6344 7 місяців тому +21

      So... pride, prejudice and zombies?

    • @RitardandoTheMailman
      @RitardandoTheMailman 7 місяців тому +5

      Rec

  • @paiget6200
    @paiget6200 8 місяців тому +52

    Can confirm sexual assault has affected and destroyed my life, EVERY SINGLE DAY. I have to have constant distractions so it's not quiet for too long. It has caused panic attacks and so much worse

    • @db_524
      @db_524 6 місяців тому +6

      Same, as a fellow survivor of SA and SH, I can confirm this as well.

    • @introvert357
      @introvert357 Місяць тому +3

      My perpetrator is in my class. The only reason I'm even able to attend school is because I went to therapy and school was willing to schedule us into different groups so we'll share minimal amount of classes. I made a report months ago but police haven't even contacted me. The nightmares and intrusive thoughts are probably the worst part because the second they come they force themselves to stay so you just suffer until it's gone and you sit somewhere, staring off to space, not comprehending anything.

  • @beyedoc
    @beyedoc 8 місяців тому +65

    I live in Texas and my first introduction to The Civil War was my fifth grade teacher telling us it happened "for economic reasons" and not to free the slaves. I believed the teacher until maybe high school when I learned more and understood the entire economy of the South was run by slaves. I think about that a lot now that I'm in my 30s, educated with a doctorate, not racist or a bigot, but surrounded by them. 😞

  • @chandranelson2772
    @chandranelson2772 8 місяців тому +797

    My wife used to run Camp Born This Way for trans kids and their parents. One of the dads was shocked that the camp counselors wouldn’t talk his kid out of being trans. All of the paperwork needed to attend said that this camp was a chance for trans kids to be around trans people.

    • @dmgroberts5471
      @dmgroberts5471 8 місяців тому +159

      Well, at least the kid got a break from him, however brief.

    • @shadowwolf7880
      @shadowwolf7880 8 місяців тому +114

      Your wife is a hero, I hope she is aware of that

    • @chandranelson2772
      @chandranelson2772 8 місяців тому +69

      @@shadowwolf7880 , She really doesn’t. People have told her though.

    • @shadowwolf7880
      @shadowwolf7880 8 місяців тому +66

      @@chandranelson2772 That's good they told her. She should know ^^

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss 8 місяців тому +46

      @@chandranelson2772 Internet Uncle-Gay🏳‍🌈 says she's a hero and is doing lifesaving work.

  • @raelogan
    @raelogan 8 місяців тому +840

    "It's a real soft spot for Millennials because they know they will never own thier own home."
    AND WHO'S FAULT IS THAT, KAREN??? I DON'T RECALL BEING A PART OF THE ECONOMY CRISIS WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL.

    • @SiffrinISAT
      @SiffrinISAT 8 місяців тому

      For real, like oh yeah your generation fucked up the economy so badly it will take a system change to recuperate, but go off I guess

    • @riverstein7251
      @riverstein7251 8 місяців тому +65

      According to the Karen, still somehow our fault. Karen was never the empathetic and self-aware type, Karen just believes what’s she’s told.

    • @weirdwithaname9282
      @weirdwithaname9282 8 місяців тому +41

      ​@@riverstein7251unless it goes against Karen's current beliefs

    • @davidvanhorn3340
      @davidvanhorn3340 8 місяців тому +3

      It's our fault for not aborting your whole generation in the womb. A 20 yea hiatus on births would not have been catastrophic for the species.

    • @raelogan
      @raelogan 8 місяців тому

      @@davidvanhorn3340 Wow, that's a pretty fancy way to say how much you hate your family.
      Millennials don't owe Gen X and Boomers anything just for getting birthed into this world, if thier parents didn't do anything to earn the respect.
      If we're such failures, then whose fault is it for not preparing us with important life skills and GETTING RID OF THE CLASSES IN SCHOOL THAT WE NEEDED TO LEARN ACTUAL LIFE SKILLS?? I would have loved to learn how to cook as a kid or how to fix a seam instead of having to stumble through it after graduation, but I'm pretty sure Home Ec was deemed useless in favor of longer math and history classes.
      Y'all threw us in the ocean and laughed when we got caught in a riptide, talking about how you guys were so much tougher than us because no one apparently helped you, while we were actively drowning. Godforbid we have a disability that YOU caused by being so dense and selfish.
      Whatever, at least I know my Boomer grandmother appreciates me, enough that she adopted me as her daughter, and we both share a nice rural home together and I pay my part of the rent and keep things clean because she has some mobility issues but she can enjoy herself without doing heavy lifting, and I didn't have to leave home like my brothers did, but yeah, sure, try to take that away from her because you want to condemn an entire group of people who are your fault.

  • @CleanChimp08
    @CleanChimp08 8 місяців тому +87

    As a bullying victim, i can confirm that bullying still exist

  • @Elizabeth-ud8su
    @Elizabeth-ud8su 8 місяців тому +186

    As a dominatrix, I'd like to point out that all of my clients were spanked as children.

    • @mastermarkus5307
      @mastermarkus5307 7 місяців тому +43

      I'm at the end of the spectrum of age for Millennials and for me "spanking" was more of a sexual thing that a "punish children" thing in my mind from a surprisingly young age, so clearly things have changed.
      Doesn't mean the kink is gone though!

    • @shortea7892
      @shortea7892 7 місяців тому +36

      Yeah, every kinkster I've met (including myself) has been through some shit. I'm glad the community exists. It really helps and is such a kind thing.

    • @christinesizemore3
      @christinesizemore3 6 місяців тому +25

      congrats on them for reframing it!

    • @yelhsaviolet1692
      @yelhsaviolet1692 5 місяців тому +11

      never thought i would read "as a dominatrix" outside of a book.

    • @theotakux5959
      @theotakux5959 3 місяці тому +4

      I'll never understand that. I was spanked as a kid,and that's something I'd never want to do with a partner, giving or recieving. It just seems like an absolute mood killer.

  • @ladykoiwolfe
    @ladykoiwolfe 8 місяців тому +657

    I watched that video with the sober kid they arrested for driving impaired. They put his place on the varsity football team at risk for absolutely nothing. They said he seemed impaired after having him stand in the pouring rain in a T-shirt for nearly 15 minutes. It was cold and raining. They put his health and future at risk for a power trip. They deserve to be sued.

    • @mikes5637
      @mikes5637 8 місяців тому +57

      But they're suing him for calling them out.

    • @CircusFoxxo
      @CircusFoxxo 8 місяців тому +3

      Wait are you one of those weirdos that believe being cold and rained on will make you sici

    • @jppt24
      @jppt24 8 місяців тому

      ​@@CircusFoxxoIt will weaken your immune system

    • @faustina9328
      @faustina9328 8 місяців тому

      Hypothermia is a thing@@CircusFoxxo

    • @oakenshadow6763
      @oakenshadow6763 8 місяців тому +111

      ​​​​@@CircusFoxxoEver heard of pneumonia? And your body temp dropping too much puts you at risk because it compromised your health.

  • @Creshosk
    @Creshosk 8 місяців тому +387

    "Why is it always the same people?"
    Because they think calling it sexualizing makes it sound more morally superior to get more people on their side and it sounds better to to "Don't make the children gay, then it'll be harder for me to frick them."
    Seriously that's the big concern is people take away the objects of their desire. They don't actually care about the children as you'll find the same sort of people are also against supporting and taking care of them. "That's socialism!"

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 8 місяців тому +76

      Also because accusing others draws the attention away from themselves. In the US during all the conservative outrage over "groomers" there has been complete radio silence about the ongoing church abuse scandals, the numerous Republican officials caught preying on minors, the states that fought to preserve child labor and child marriage, and the anti-trans bills that allow for the inspection of children's bodies.

    • @teutonicsniper2502
      @teutonicsniper2502 8 місяців тому +16

      ​@@FrozEnbyWolf150Interesting...

  • @arcxjo
    @arcxjo 8 місяців тому +67

    To be fair, in the police-suing-the-kid example, the law regarding defamation in the United States DOES recognize truth of the alleged defamatory accusations as an absolute defense. The real issue is that you can file a lawsuit against anyone regardless of merit, and then they have to pay a lawyer to defend themselves, while the police have infinite YOUR money to spend on theirs. They're not hoping to win in court, they're hoping to grind him down OUTSIDE until he can't go on and then they either extort a settlement or win a default judgment.

    • @christinesizemore3
      @christinesizemore3 6 місяців тому +9

      I'd aim for immediate dismissal of the suit and/or try to get it transferred to another district, plus countersue.

    • @thelichking202
      @thelichking202 Місяць тому +1

      The thing is, the defamation suit is because the kid put the cop on blast for having domestic violence charges and still being allowed to be a cop LMAO

  • @mariie98nugget
    @mariie98nugget 8 місяців тому +55

    28:28 As someone who was bullied and SA'ed as a kid, I can tell you that bullying didn't help me at all, it did not stop me from wanting to unalive myself 😂

    • @sugoish9461
      @sugoish9461 8 місяців тому +10

      I'm so sorry for what you had to go through, and can relate :( I hope you have found a supportive environment since then

    • @mariie98nugget
      @mariie98nugget 8 місяців тому +10

      @sugoish9461 thank you, I hope you did as well :)
      I'm ok, I guess :)

    • @christinesizemore3
      @christinesizemore3 6 місяців тому +8

      glad you've successfully fought off that feeling so far. keep going! ❤

  • @othrwrldlysystm
    @othrwrldlysystm 8 місяців тому +361

    spoiler alert! that "psychological disorder known as respecting others" is actually most likely fawning! it's a trauma response, in the same vein as fight, flight, and freeze. it's when the victim appeases to others to extreme extents, sacrificing their own safety and comfort in order to meet their standards, or even ones the victim has set themselves. these self set standards are usually incredibly extreme as well, and being unable to meet these standards often causes severe psychological distress.

    • @awkwardukulele6077
      @awkwardukulele6077 8 місяців тому +103

      Oh boy, the ol’ “I turned out fine! See?!” *does something fucked up and psychologically unhealthy*

    • @naolucillerandom5280
      @naolucillerandom5280 8 місяців тому +79

      @@awkwardukulele6077 "I'm completely fine, they don't know what they're talking about!" -the person who lives in a constant state of extreme stress and always chooses fight.

    • @LykaFoxbriar
      @LykaFoxbriar 8 місяців тому +73

      Up there with "Kids bounce back fine!!!" as we look into a sea of folks who need SO much therapy. like u sure m8 r u sure

    • @Llortnerof
      @Llortnerof 8 місяців тому +49

      So technically, it'd be better described as "not respecting yourself".

    • @Llortnerof
      @Llortnerof 8 місяців тому +1

      @@naolucillerandom5280 Boo.

  • @sagesaria
    @sagesaria 8 місяців тому +396

    This isn't the first time I've seen "kids need to be bullied to be toughened up" as a take, and it horrifies me every time. Just. How can people literally say this and not hear themselves?!

    • @katieknighton
      @katieknighton 8 місяців тому +73

      I think they were bullies when they were younger and they have no regrets and they hate that they're being called out. So those assholes are like "Noooooooooooo they're telling me I was wrong it's NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!" And just throwing a temper tantrum just like a spoiled toddler. That's all I can come up with.

    • @sagesaria
      @sagesaria 8 місяців тому +41

      @@katieknighton That or generational trauma and projecting boomer views of "toughen up and face the problem yourself cause we're not gonna do jack diddly squat" onto the new generation. Neither of which is okay.

    • @katieknighton
      @katieknighton 8 місяців тому +24

      @sagesaria Yeah I never understood why they would do that to their kids or think that "facing problems by yourself cause we ain't gonna help you." is really a good thing to do to their kids cause all that's gonna teach them is that they can't trust anybody.

    • @spiritmuse
      @spiritmuse 8 місяців тому +31

      @@katieknightonExactly. Or being an asshole to your child and treating them unfairly "because the world outside is unfair too". Good job, you didn't teach your child confidence, you taught them fear and uncertainty and anxiety for the rest of their life because you never gave them a place where they could be safe so they never learned what safety feels like.

    • @katieknighton
      @katieknighton 8 місяців тому +19

      @spiritmuse I know right. Those Karens didn't teach their kids anything about the outside world all they taught was that the world is just an evil place and that can't reach out to anybody. Way to go Karen you just caused your kid depression and anxiety. (Sarcasm.)

  • @terryenby2304
    @terryenby2304 8 місяців тому +45

    25:29 I really hope that poor kid gets so much support and care. What an awful situation and then the reactions on top 🤢
    I don’t care what gender is involved, a child is a child. The should ALWAYS be protected from abuse and harm.
    I’m a survivor of SA too. It’s still way too common, and the recidivism and under-reporting is NOT ok.

    • @04phanthanhbinhjake9
      @04phanthanhbinhjake9 8 місяців тому

      Damn lucky you, i live in a country where it's normal so yay

    • @t.g1917
      @t.g1917 7 місяців тому +4

      ​@@04phanthanhbinhjake9where the heck do you live!?

    • @04phanthanhbinhjake9
      @04phanthanhbinhjake9 7 місяців тому +2

      @@t.g1917 asia specifically vietnam
      It wasn't exactly like this but damn if it's traumatizing

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan 7 місяців тому +3

      It's actually awful, lots of countries (like the UK) consider R and SA less severe if the victim is male and perpetrator is female

  • @majaholmvard3101
    @majaholmvard3101 8 місяців тому +19

    34:52 as a survivor. I don't know how old I was the first time it happened, all I know is I was still in a diaper, I remember it all, I remember ge did it every day for months. I have struggled with several mental illnesses, ptsd, anxiety, depression, BPD, ocd and anorexia for most of my life (all of this is diagnosed by a professional) now I can't say all of it is his fault, but I can say the second man that abused me was only a couple of years ago, has scarred me, even now that I'm happily engaged to an amazing man, whenever he hugs me from behind my heart stops for a second, kissing my neck when I'm not prepared I get so scared for a quick second until I remember I'm safe. This shit is not just a quick bad thing that happens, this is life changing

  • @JustAnotherBuckyLover
    @JustAnotherBuckyLover 8 місяців тому +398

    The blood-brain barrier is actually a thing. It's a protective mechanism, effectively, but it means that certain substances, medications etc cannot cross from the bloodstream into the cells of the brain, because the lining of the blood vessels in the brain differs from that in the blood vessels in the rest of the body. As a result, it acts like a filter, keeping out most viruses, bacteria, other pathogens and toxins, and many medications.

    • @Quinnaka
      @Quinnaka 8 місяців тому +34

      So a gate/barrier that allows good stuff in bad stuff out.

    • @hyenaedits3460
      @hyenaedits3460 8 місяців тому +93

      Yep, and WiFi does nothing to it. I hate when people learn a science thing and immediately make it part of their conspiracy theory.

    • @JustAnotherBuckyLover
      @JustAnotherBuckyLover 8 місяців тому +57

      @@Quinnaka Mostly. It's more like a filter that reduces the chance of big things getting in. But yeah, that's the intention, anyway, it's to more tightly control the balance of things in the brain because the function is so vital.

    • @JustAnotherBuckyLover
      @JustAnotherBuckyLover 8 місяців тому +53

      @@hyenaedits3460 Absolutely. I trained as a medical microbiologist and the amount of fuckwittery that I've seen - especially over the last 3.5 years - has been absolutely painful to see.

    • @RAHelllord
      @RAHelllord 8 місяців тому +41

      To add to that, there's also a gut-blood barrier that does the same from contents of the stomach towards the circulatory system, however that one is much less selective. Though if that one gets broken, say by an infection, bad things will still happen like expected.

  • @medchan5810
    @medchan5810 8 місяців тому +746

    What makes it even more hilarious is that Iowa is a 1 party consent state. That means that he was well within his rights to record them, on top of his First Amendment rights in regards to free speech. Even if he was talking about them in a negative light, defamation is incredibly hard to prove, as it requires proving the INTENT behind the act, as well. It's both hilarious and sad that they think they have a case.

    • @papercraftcynder5430
      @papercraftcynder5430 8 місяців тому +71

      Something like that could be considered a SLAPP suit, but even without a legitimate case, they could still pile legal bills on the poor kid, which more often than not would result in the cops getting what they want out of a settlement or the kid's finances slowly being bled dry as the case drags on, and that's regardless of who wins.

    • @stischer47
      @stischer47 8 місяців тому +23

      @@papercraftcynder5430 There are groups that will support him

    • @derekstein6193
      @derekstein6193 8 місяців тому +52

      Even worse, the local police union will use their influence and legal resources to back those cops, even when they are clearly in the wrong. And even if the case is dismissed, the union will make sure that no meaningful consequences will come to the patrolmen, reinforcing the erroneous idea that police are above the law.

    • @GrumpyOldFart2
      @GrumpyOldFart2 8 місяців тому +34

      @@stischer47It wouldn’t surprise me if there were lawyers who would take his case pro bono just because of the stupidity. And they would gain publicity as well. Unfortunately, Ohio is one the states that does not have any anti-SLAPP laws.

    • @theindigollama
      @theindigollama 8 місяців тому +11

      The feathers are heavier. You have to deal with the guilt of what you did to those poor birds.

  • @jaymevosburgh3660
    @jaymevosburgh3660 6 місяців тому +19

    I was a young boy and was subjected to SA by my much older babysitter (I was six and she was 17 when it started).
    And the few people I told when it happened called me a liar (she wouldn't do that, stop being sick), told me how cool/manly I was (nice, was she hot?), or outright called a pervert and told I was probably just fantasizing over her.
    I suffered years of identity issues and frustration over my own sexuality because of what she did to me. Plus I spiraled into addiction for a few years, and that was so hard. Depression will make people do crazy things, and su*cide is the scariest feeling to think acceptable for an outcome.
    I've been wearing makeup and skirts since I was 12, and I wanted to be a lesbian until around the age of 16/17. Couldn't have any meaningful relationships with girls since most girls are not into feminine goth boys that are into weird kinky stuff (it wasn't as acceptable in the 90's for straight boys to wear eyeliner and a lacy short skirt with spiked leather boots and stuff).
    And I am still a huge weirdo! I still love makeup, I wear it more than my partner.
    But therapy did help.
    I just wish more of the adults in my life cared enough to listen when I was crying for help.
    I would have turned out very different, to be sure!

  • @ghoulboy6678
    @ghoulboy6678 7 місяців тому +26

    as someone who just turned 14 a month ago and also has adhd, I feel so bad for the 13 year old boy with adhd that got sexually harassed/assaulted I wanna give him a hug :(

  • @GGP_Iben
    @GGP_Iben 8 місяців тому +192

    Fellas, is it gay to, *checks notes* not want to be groped?

    • @Gloomdrake
      @Gloomdrake 8 місяців тому +34

      At this point I have no idea what being straight is

    • @deadheat1635
      @deadheat1635 8 місяців тому +29

      @@Gloomdrake At this point “being straight” doesn’t exist anymore.

    • @blizzardgaming7070
      @blizzardgaming7070 8 місяців тому

      That excuse for a woman is what? A PEDOPHILE. What do those things deserve? THE MEAT GRINDER. Not creeps trying to justify it.

    • @AnonimusQualquer
      @AnonimusQualquer 8 місяців тому

      At this point being straight is gay too.

    • @jamie1602
      @jamie1602 8 місяців тому +15

      Guess I'm a home of sexual then, sheeet.
      Haha JK I'm very, very bi. Or pan. IDK whatever your definition is to make you feel better but yes.

  • @SolaireHighwind
    @SolaireHighwind 8 місяців тому +222

    In the American legal system, lawsuits are often used to intimidate people and drain them of funds; even if you're in the right, legal defense can get expensive, so some people, particularly those with money/influence, just use the law against people who don't have the time or money to deal with it.

    • @jimwormmaster
      @jimwormmaster 8 місяців тому +17

      Yep, SLAPP suits are terrible.

    • @LGBTQLegend
      @LGBTQLegend 8 місяців тому +14

      Yeah John Oliver has a good segment on SLAPP suits.

    • @jimwormmaster
      @jimwormmaster 8 місяців тому +14

      @@LGBTQLegend I think LegalEagle did a video on that as well, and quoted the John Oliver segment at least once

    • @rolfs2165
      @rolfs2165 8 місяців тому +6

      Police in Germany will regularly counter-sue you, too, when you register a complaint or sue them (because the complaint did nothing) for messing up and treating you illegally.

    • @SoulReaper2345
      @SoulReaper2345 8 місяців тому

      true fuck SLAPP suits

  • @_Boy_Kuromi_Kin_
    @_Boy_Kuromi_Kin_ 5 місяців тому +9

    The story abt the thirteen year old boy being assaulted is legit so sad. It makes me have much less faith in humanity. The fact that people would say sh!t against the victim for not enjoying it is horrific. I’m thirteen and have had horrible things done to me as a kid and if someone said that sh!t to me I would lose it. I hope that kid is doing well now.

  • @NavaSDMB
    @NavaSDMB 8 місяців тому +14

    I'm always amazed by people who choose a high-maintenance person then complain they're high-maintenance, or a party-goer then complain they're always partying, etc. etc.

  • @j.apenrose7896
    @j.apenrose7896 8 місяців тому +338

    Regarding assault not being as bad as other crimes (35:15) as a survivor, I spent years wishing I wasn't and trying to stop surviving. Furthermore, I would honestly prefer to be murdered outright than to have that happen again.
    People, don't downplay the trauma of being abused like this.

    • @arielruby13
      @arielruby13 8 місяців тому +40

      sadly i know how that feels, it made me suicidal for a long time. i still have flashes and it still messes me up a lot. it has left a big scar for me

    • @j.apenrose7896
      @j.apenrose7896 8 місяців тому +33

      @@arielruby13 I'm sorry you had to go through that too. I wish I could say it all gets better, but the feelings don't always go away. Keep trying to surround yourself with good people, and know that people do care about you--even us randoms on the internet.

    • @gaildahlas
      @gaildahlas 8 місяців тому +19

      Similar experience. I'm a few years out and have made some steps towards healing, but even just making friends is so much more complicated than it used to be and I hate what the whole experience has done to me.
      Even now that I'm in an actually healthy relationship I still have my bad days, and navigating it all is a hell of a lot of work. Wish I could just switch the part of my brain that goes into survival mode off sometimes.

    • @collinbeal
      @collinbeal 8 місяців тому +18

      Thank you for sharing your story to raise awareness.

    • @polinanikulina
      @polinanikulina 8 місяців тому +16

      It's horrible how being traumatized can expose you to more trauma... I hope you're doing better! You still deserve to live well, no matter what you've had to survive and endure.

  • @suprafraction
    @suprafraction 8 місяців тому +197

    The blood brain barrier is actually a thing. It‘s there to separate the blood stream from the brain in order to prevent infection. This to reduce the need for inflammation, which could lead to swelling. And despite what click often tells us, a voluptuous brain will only incur brain damage. The actual face palm was that anything would dissolve it, which is improbable at least. Oh and it would mean instant death.

    • @anitacrumbly
      @anitacrumbly 7 місяців тому

      that means wifi can't dissolve your blood brain barrier nope not even vaccines, 5g towers or the water that turns the frogs gay lmao

    • @Veestar88
      @Veestar88 5 місяців тому +17

      Thank you! I have MS and the reason you get brain lesions is bc your immune system is able to cross the blood-brain barrier and starts attacking your brain/spine

  • @depressedscribbledot7000
    @depressedscribbledot7000 8 місяців тому +16

    i briefly mentioned to my friend once that i wasn't a virgin anymore and she went "wait what?". people who try to sell their romantic and sex life are really the least convincing people

  • @aliceinwonderland8314
    @aliceinwonderland8314 8 місяців тому +12

    Fun fact: there are certain frequencies of sound outside human hearing that can have noticeable effect on the human body, but they can't really be made by phone microphones.
    A human eyeballs' resonant frequency is somewhere around 18-19 Hz (too low for human hearing). If you have something in the environment like a large fan generating waves in the range, your eyes might start vibrating and therefore see stuff that isn't there.

  • @DOOFydoo
    @DOOFydoo 8 місяців тому +161

    Whenever someone tries to tell me the Civil War was about States' Rights I'm like "Yeah, the states' rights to own slaves aka it's about slavery!"

    • @sarahr8311
      @sarahr8311 8 місяців тому +18

      This. Although it could be argued that the war was in part for economic reasons and a more accurate summary would be
      South- We're leaving because you can't take away our right to own people
      North-Oh crap, you guys produce so many raw goods. You can't leave! Also we're telling all your people they're free now because it will really mess up your economy.
      Like, the South definitely didn't have the moral high ground, but the North wasn't exactly pure of heart and noble either.

    • @CasualDandyAkaSqwrty
      @CasualDandyAkaSqwrty 7 місяців тому

      @sarahr8311, I agree with your post.
      I don't think it was as cut-and-dried as either side makes it seem. I'm sure there were moral warriors trying to dismantle slavery, but the story that's being drowned is that the Fed Gov made multiple states do what the Fed Gov decided, for tax purposes. With the Fed Gov going to war for profit (proxy or not) and sticking its nose into issues that can make criminals out of otherwise law-abiding people (unproven vaccines, 1st-Amendment tyranny, 420 still being schedule-1 nationwide, etc.)... These are the reasons that someone in the unaffiliated center, like myself, could see there being nuance to the Civil War without just saying, "Duh, Southerners were ALL racist enough to fight for unpaid workers."
      Yes, there was propaganda on both sides, as there is now. I'd simply encourage people to suspend their belief in either side presented (in whatever public story) until you have information that proves something concrete. I am a person who enjoys conspiracy stuff, but doesn't commit to anything unproven. What has been proven is that people in power will do stuff for more power or to keep power. Remember that the strongest broadcast of information typically has to go through the checkpoints made by people in power.

    • @o-mangaming5042
      @o-mangaming5042 5 місяців тому +3

      They're the same thing. Name one case of "States' Rights" that wasn't a specific State's right to take rights away from specific citizens. The only times I've seen the subject come up so far have been fights against the 14th amendment, which tells local governments to treat everyone the same, no matter their race or sex.

    • @ethribin4188
      @ethribin4188 4 місяці тому +2

      Correct.
      If you go into detail,its much more complex then just "slavery should be legal/illegal"
      But all those details ultimatly boil down to if slavery should be legal/illegal.

    • @CasualDandyAkaSqwrty
      @CasualDandyAkaSqwrty 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ethribin4188 That's so reductionist I doubt you read anything above. When you don't have time to think further than surface level, understand that is fine. Don't confuse that for having an opinion worth sharing.

  • @Mhaigalodon
    @Mhaigalodon 8 місяців тому +396

    “States’ rights” is correct!! …specifically the states’ rights to allow slavery. 🤦‍♀️

    • @M_M_ODonnell
      @M_M_ODonnell 8 місяців тому

      The Confederacy thought it was very important to take away states' right to not allow slavery. No matter how badly we think Confederate apologists fail history, they're always somehow even worse.

    • @xyex
      @xyex 8 місяців тому +3

      No. It was states rights in general. That was the war. Slavery was just the battleground. It could have been any hot button issue that triggered it, it just happened that slavery was the big one at the time.

    • @commandercorl1544
      @commandercorl1544 8 місяців тому

      @@xyex Shut up, reb. We won. It was about slavery.

    • @A-ds1mt
      @A-ds1mt 8 місяців тому +48

      @@xyex No. No issue was even remotely close to being as 'hot button' as slavery. All of the South's demands trace back to their insistence on owning humans. The Confederacy even demanded that individual States not be allowed to ban slavery, so 'State's Rights' is revisionist B.S. The Civil War was about slavery.

    • @Carlthefish3959
      @Carlthefish3959 8 місяців тому

      @@xyex Ah, yes. Just a coincidence that an agrarian society built off of slave labor was fighting for states' rights to own and exploit people for money. Definitely a coincidence that the South's use of slave labor specifically had been causing tensions between the North and the South for decades before the Civil War. Could have been anything, really. This isn't an excuse to make the Confederates seem reasonable and in the right for looking after their own interest to own people and make them work for free in inhumane conditions. Not to mention the torture!

  • @Cruznick06
    @Cruznick06 8 місяців тому +20

    The Lauren Bobert sign is a reference to her and a male friend being belligerent and also VERY handsy at a musical recently. It was so bad she got kicked out.

  • @flaurasaurus
    @flaurasaurus 6 місяців тому +6

    14:38 It turned out not to be the teenager, it was some older guy who was angry he’d been evicted from a local farm. He was a professional tree feller too, I think, so why he took it out on this beautiful old tree is a mystery.

  • @awkwardukulele6077
    @awkwardukulele6077 8 місяців тому +133

    Why is it ALWAYS the people saying “protect the kids” who end up being creeps? Like, godammit, I know it wouldn’t be _good_ to have otherwise normal people lying about us either, but do they have to be a danger to LGBT people AND children?
    We live in a dark-ass timeline.

    • @Bunny_Bill
      @Bunny_Bill 7 місяців тому +2

      People are more likely to be a hypocrite than a "Saint"

    • @gratitudegaming4992
      @gratitudegaming4992 7 місяців тому +10

      Because children without enough information are easier prey than children who are fully informed.

    • @o-mangaming5042
      @o-mangaming5042 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Bunny_Bill Hypocrites ARE saints. Saints weren't good people, they were horrible people who turned "good" after becoming Christian. That was the entire damn point. Saint Augustine was in love with a f*cking 6 year old and lamented about it in his writings.

  • @OdinsSage
    @OdinsSage 8 місяців тому +461

    As a vegan of 7+ years I can say, yeah, the messages get really weird when they include their weird, often sexual, art depictions with it. But as someone who worked in marketing for a while I will also say, I get what they're TRYING to do, they're just not doing it successfully. Those images only work for people who ALREADY agree with their stance. Bad marketing.

    • @RBMDragon
      @RBMDragon 8 місяців тому +58

      I think the most wholesome way would be to share the most delicious vegan recipes.

    • @branbroken
      @branbroken 8 місяців тому +6

      I think many more people would consider it weirder if you start your morning putting breast milk over your cereals or in your coffee. Which would be the conclusion of their comments of not using cows' milk unless you're a baby cow.

    • @catsmom129
      @catsmom129 8 місяців тому +21

      @@branbrokenobjectively, using human milk is no weirder than using cows milk 🐄 🥛
      It’s just a matter of what we’re used to

    • @janemiettinen5176
      @janemiettinen5176 8 місяців тому +19

      Im not lactose intolerant (like most Nordics, we are weird milk drinkers), so I guess Im baby cow then. Ive been called lot of things, but calf is certainly a new one! Facepalm within the original facepalm, definitely.

    • @RannonSi
      @RannonSi 8 місяців тому +3

      @@RBMDragon I wouldn't be opposed to that, as I'm too lazy to look for them myself.

  • @ViraIshnia
    @ViraIshnia 5 місяців тому +6

    The microwave one reminded me of something funny my dad's wife believed (and probably still does) about microwaves. She refuses to own a microwave because the radiation can cause cancer. I got curious about the different types of radiation and Googled microwave radiation. I learned that the mesh on the window of the microwave is to keep the radiation inside the machine and that the waves are too weak to penetrate our skin (or something like that, this was seven years ago). I told her all this and she asked "well, what about if you have a cut?" I gave up after that question. I also learned that day that improperly shielded microwaves can interfere with your wifi signal

  • @Lillyluvsanime
    @Lillyluvsanime 5 місяців тому +5

    40:22
    "My parents had no respect for me as a person and used physical violence to train to fear speaking up for myself or choose my actions based on how I will be punished and not based on how it will affect others involved."
    If your idea of, "respect," is based in, "if I don't treat people a certain way I'll get the shit beat out of me," instead of, "if I donxt treat people a certain way then it probably affects that peraon negatively and makes me an asshole," then that's not, "respect for others," that's a trauma response.

  • @Ri_F
    @Ri_F 8 місяців тому +96

    1 kg of feathers is heavier than 1 kg of steel because you'll have to live with the weight of what you've done to those birds.

    • @krasistefanovlol
      @krasistefanovlol 8 місяців тому +2

      those poor, poor birds

    • @ZK-ib2wp
      @ZK-ib2wp 7 місяців тому +7

      Yeah, how dare you go into their coop and pick their shed feathers up off the ground

    • @christinesizemore3
      @christinesizemore3 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@ZK-ib2wpthat's a fucking lot of feathers to be picking up off the ground individually by hand. I think your body would revolt first.

    • @ZK-ib2wp
      @ZK-ib2wp 6 місяців тому +4

      @@christinesizemore3 twas a joke

    • @user-wo6gi6vs46
      @user-wo6gi6vs46 5 місяців тому +1

      I have a clear conscious

  • @chaoscat1446
    @chaoscat1446 8 місяців тому +222

    34:35 not only is this disgusting, it also minimizes other kinds of trauma. Getting shot only lasts for a brief moment but you would definitely be traumatised by that, wouldn't you?

    • @RF11081994
      @RF11081994 8 місяців тому +71

      "What do you MEAN you're still paralyzed?? That car accident lasted like three seconds and it happened years ago! Stop being dramatic and start walking. You need to get over it."

  • @katesclabassi3857
    @katesclabassi3857 8 місяців тому +21

    Honestly, for the traffic stop, he was probably recording it for his own safety. It's so sad that this is what we've come to in America.

    • @o-mangaming5042
      @o-mangaming5042 5 місяців тому

      "Come to?" We started waaaaaaay worse than this. Things have gotten BETTER over the years, not worse.

  • @Nuxi-v
    @Nuxi-v 8 місяців тому +12

    37:37 yeah that made me a little furious. And you really hit the nail on the head with your response. I watched my active and healthy dad waste away in the span of 8 months. Just saying that cancer is "god deciding it's your time :)" is a kick in the face to anyone whose lost a loved one.

  • @BuiHieuDong
    @BuiHieuDong 8 місяців тому +807

    Mr. Facepalm reviewing r/FacePalm is something truly poetic, i just hope that he can be featured in more videos in the future.

    • @robertnett9793
      @robertnett9793 8 місяців тому +14

      Now... I wonder what will happen if the Click EVER stumbles upon this new (and completely unknown) r/FurryIRL subreddit...

    • @abcdefghijkImnopqrstuvwxyz.
      @abcdefghijkImnopqrstuvwxyz. 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@robertnett9793Hmm, I wonder....

    • @Lei_Cat
      @Lei_Cat 8 місяців тому

      *Mr. Facepaw, see 7:38
      /j

  • @riccardolanni9973
    @riccardolanni9973 8 місяців тому +138

    25:53 To be fair, kids who have girlfriends at 13 definitely do exist, and good for them if that's what they want. But it's quite astonishing that a (presumably) grown man can't tell the difference between a normal human interaction and the sexual harrassment of a kid.

    • @naolucillerandom5280
      @naolucillerandom5280 8 місяців тому +30

      And if he's telling the truth, those girls were most probably actually GIRLS, their age or younger, and not random full grown women.

    • @sugoish9461
      @sugoish9461 8 місяців тому +19

      Also, I don't know how it is elsewhere, but with social media being used by younger and younger kids... Kids can _think_ they want sexual stuff at that age, and can think it sounds exciting and cool. But they are still kids, and it's *_not_* okay to put that sort of situation on them by force. It's gruesomely overwhelming and scary and _confusing_ and traumatizing, and when faced with it _not_ something one wants.
      I do remember some boys when we were all about 11-13yo, who got to be with some of the older girls at school (14-16yo) who basically just humored them because it was fun how adoring they were. I'm sort of hoping that's the sort of situation he meant for himself when he mentioned being with women, if so, because at least if one party was only slightly older, it might not have been a situation of one party taking advantage of the other... In my classmates' case, the boys basically got to kiss those girls on the cheek and then giggled happily for days and thought they were the coolest ever.
      Not to even go into the whole tragedy of COCSA that can and does happen sometimes, though :( Basically, even if as an adult one recalls dreaming about it at a young age, that does _not_ mean that it actually would have been okay, even for them.

  • @fingerboxes
    @fingerboxes 6 місяців тому +8

    I had a neighbor who traded s3x for drugs but told each guy their relationship was exclusive. The fights were SO predictable that when the last one started, I waited the exact right amount of time to call the cops knowing when she would pull the gun and how long it would take the cops to arrive. Long story short it looked to all the world that she pulled the gun on the cops because she started waving it at the stairs just as they got to the top of the staircase. She got arrested and evicted.

    • @deku976
      @deku976 3 місяці тому

      Big brain move

  • @Tekdruid
    @Tekdruid 8 місяців тому +38

    16:10 You _are_ aware that drug trafficking is a capital offense in Thailand, right? As in you can get the death penalty for it.

    • @emmadrew3911
      @emmadrew3911 7 місяців тому +4

      Omfg wow

    • @Al___
      @Al___ 4 місяці тому +2

      Isn't Thailand the same place where making fun of a certain royalty can get you in prison

  • @vipperblaze8923
    @vipperblaze8923 8 місяців тому +106

    my opinion on cheating is that the person your partner is using to cheat on you with is always innocent *unless* they're aware your partner is already in a relationship and still go through with it anyway

    • @katelijnesommen
      @katelijnesommen 8 місяців тому +16

      I agree getting with someone who you know is in a committed relationship isn't innocent, but even in that situation the person who is in the relationship bears more of the responsibility. It's a dick move to have sex with someone you know is cheating, but cheating itself is more than a dick move, it's knowingly hurting someone you're supposed to care about deeply, and breaking trust and agreed-upon rules that you discussed with someone who is meant to be one of the closest relationships in your life. Both are bad but one is a lot worse.

    • @vipperblaze8923
      @vipperblaze8923 8 місяців тому +18

      @@katelijnesommen the amount of responsibility the person being used to cheat with depends on how well you know them as a person
      if your partner cheats on you with your sibling or your closest friend then I'd say they both share an equal amount of responsibility, they both betrayed your trust and now you've not only lost one trusted friend but two trusted friends
      if it was your coworker then it would be awkward and difficult to try and get anything done with them at work, potentially making it harder for you to do your own work and could end up getting in trouble with a boss who doesn't care about your personal issues
      if it were a complete stranger then that's nowhere near as bad as the others as most likely you'll never see them again

    • @90sHONEY
      @90sHONEY 7 місяців тому +3

      This is how I see it: If two people break into a bank to rob it, and one is putting the bank notes in the bag while the other one looks out if anybody's watching them, they will still both be arrested and blamed. Did the lookout practically rob the bank? No. But they are equally as guilty.

    • @katelijnesommen
      @katelijnesommen 7 місяців тому +2

      @@vipperblaze8923 sure, I agree with that.

    • @katelijnesommen
      @katelijnesommen 7 місяців тому +8

      @@90sHONEY not exactly a great analogy to start with, but even within this bad comparison the two people in your example would be getting different sentences if brought before a court, implying that they are not equally guilty.

  • @misfits9294
    @misfits9294 8 місяців тому +242

    The craziest thing about the Civil War argument is...ok, so, it was about state rights. What right were they defending? Slavery. Even by your own argument you're wrong and disproven.
    Edit: Looked it up, Lil Tay was born in 2007. So, yeah uh...who's the one who's grooming kids?

    • @Gloomdrake
      @Gloomdrake 8 місяців тому +35

      I have yet to see evidence that their accusations aren’t confessions

    • @galaxychill9578
      @galaxychill9578 8 місяців тому +8

      she's 14 if my math is right?

    • @Gloomdrake
      @Gloomdrake 8 місяців тому +25

      @@galaxychill9578 14 would be in the 2021-22 range. Depending on when her birthday is, she’s either 15 or 16

    • @kempolar9768
      @kempolar9768 8 місяців тому +17

      I hadn't even thought that those were projections before, but considering the types of people who make those accusations I'm not surprised.

    • @GrumpyOldFart2
      @GrumpyOldFart2 8 місяців тому +7

      Okay, I admit I’m lost. Who is Lil Tay? Oops, sorry. I asked that question before seeing the Lil Tay facepalm.

  • @KingRoyal98
    @KingRoyal98 3 місяці тому +5

    20:51 fun fact the microwave rays being bad is a real thing BUT The mesh of microwave oven doors is designed with this in mind. Microwaves can’t fit through the pin-prick holes, so they bounce off the door and back into the box

  • @LeadrynMcKrotch
    @LeadrynMcKrotch 8 місяців тому +8

    Had to have a deep conversation about someone who honestly thinks children should be beaten. Like they truly think fear is the same as respect. And truly think such high anxiety you get ulcers is just natural and not simply the reality in which we are forced to live. Not the same things at all.

  • @gabeangel8104
    @gabeangel8104 8 місяців тому +168

    15:36 quick reminder that jokes and pranks are not supposed to harm or traumatise anyone. If they do then that is called an attack/abuse not a prank.
    It absolutely boggles my mind that there are grown adults (assuming the people in his post were adults as they are apparently old enough to travel to Thailand without adult supervision) who really need to be told this!

    • @MoodyMickey
      @MoodyMickey 8 місяців тому +8

      If they wanted to do something similar then they could have just filled a ziplock bag with Tylenol or allergy pills or something. It'd still look like drugs, but it'd clearly be medicine. Pills have little numbers or codes stamped in them, so if someone checked them they would be able to tell what the pills are. But it probably still would have been better to not prank their friend at all

    • @collinbeal
      @collinbeal 8 місяців тому +17

      ​@@MoodyMickeyyeah a better thing to do would be to not use the threat of authority on someone for any reason. A prank that involves authorities and enforcers of laws or regulations is not a prank at all, as all you're doing is giving those officers ammunition with which to abuse their authority to harass and demean or even detain or assault the victim of your unscrupulous asininity.

    • @puchuchan8020
      @puchuchan8020 7 місяців тому +4

      The fact that they did it specifically in Thailand also boggles my mind, as they're - at least the last time I checked - kinda well-known for having some pretty strict drug laws and a police force that isn't exactly gentle when it comes to enforcing them.
      It's a shitty thing to do anywhere in the world, but it's even shittier in certain countries (Japan, and probably also a lot of the middle east are other examples where this could literally fuck up your life, or worse).

  • @PixelOverload
    @PixelOverload 8 місяців тому +150

    32:24 what's frustrating is that they're _so_ close to understanding the actual mechanisms at play. The _actual_ reason you may be lactose intolerant is because you aren't a _baby_ , whether human, cow, or just about any mammalian species, and you haven't inherited a genetic mutation that allows you to continue production of lactase enzymes past infancy. A lactose intolerant adult human won't tolerate human milk much if any better than cow milk, any more than an adult cow can tolerate cow milk. 🤦

    • @thomasdjonesn
      @thomasdjonesn 8 місяців тому +21

      I'm quite happy with my mutation, though.

    • @sugoish9461
      @sugoish9461 8 місяців тому +8

      @@thomasdjonesn Can I haz? /hj
      I wish I didn't grow lactose intolerant :( But yeah I see why it happens. Milk is just so tasty though...

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan 8 місяців тому +7

      Pretty sure I just scared my body away with the sheer amounts of dairy I consume. We know I'd be dead if I was intolerant

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss 8 місяців тому

      Humans started consuming dairy as a way to supplement their diets and to, y'know, _not starve?_

    • @rac1equalsbestgame853
      @rac1equalsbestgame853 5 місяців тому +2

      I am lactose intolerant too lol

  • @denimator05
    @denimator05 4 місяці тому +4

    31:20 I love how the article's language is clearly on the side of the school too, by saying that the father "rages" (to make it seem like less rational anger) and puts "brainwash" in quotes to make it seem ridiculous lmao

  • @Alyssa_M513
    @Alyssa_M513 8 місяців тому +189

    The craziest part about the 19yo who is being sued by the cops for defamation is that the 19yo probably wouldn't be able to sue the cops because of qualified immunity. I don't think the lawsuit will go anywhere because all he did was post videos as proof of what happened. No defamation there.

    • @MissCandyTattoo
      @MissCandyTattoo 8 місяців тому +33

      He can sue the department for wrongful arrest

    • @gothcsm
      @gothcsm 8 місяців тому +16

      @@MissCandyTattoo Yea technically, but judges usually do not give a crap in those cases because most of them think that police officers “can do no wrong”, mainly since officers and judges both work for the justice system, and both sides are often corrupt.

    • @NicknotNak
      @NicknotNak 8 місяців тому +5

      Hes allowed to counter-sue for the distress the lawsuite causes and expenses, but probably not for the actual arrest which is crazy.

    • @veranohall3008
      @veranohall3008 8 місяців тому +1

      I believe qualified immunity only applies to criminal charges. You can still be sued civilly for money damages.

  • @xXluluchanelXx
    @xXluluchanelXx 8 місяців тому +144

    I remember when I got in trouble at like 14 years old and it had been a few years since I had been in big enough trouble to get punished in any way. My dad came to me and was like "you're too old for a spanking, right??" and I was like "uhh.. yeah :/" I think he had realized you can't spank the ADHD out of a kid and was relieved the boomer experiment had finally failed so he had an excuse to stop. do not hit your kids; if they are old enough to reason why they are being hit they are old enough to reason with about what they are doing wrong. if you can't reason with them, you have other issues that violence will not solve.

    • @kriscynical
      @kriscynical 8 місяців тому +16

      I never understand the people who say "I was spanked and I turned out fine!" It's like... you think it's okay to hit children, Chadley. You're obviously NOT fine.
      I'm glad your dad finally stopped doing that to you, though. Hitting a kid is only going to teach them to be afraid of you and get really good at hiding what they're doing.

    • @PaniPunia
      @PaniPunia 8 місяців тому +12

      ​@@kriscynicalor will build resentment, or sparkle rebelion, or teach the child that violence is the way to achieve your goals, or it is a way to show love, or teach how to stiffle emotions....The list goes on and on. "Yes Steve, you are fine, you are not In jail, have a job and family, but your kids visit you only when they have to, you don't talk to your wife if it doesn't concern anything more important than dinner and you punched a whole In the Wall. Go you".

    • @kriscynical
      @kriscynical 8 місяців тому +11

      @@PaniPunia Yep, yep, yep, and... (checks notes) yep.
      It's amazing how many people are productive members of society with healthy respect and compassion/empathy for other people WITHOUT being hit by their parents! You'd think that's impossible by listening to the doorstops who swear by corporal punishment.

    • @diarmuidkuhle8181
      @diarmuidkuhle8181 8 місяців тому +1

      People talk as though one slap when a kid's being a total brat on purpose trying to see how far they can push the boundaries is in the same order as your father taking a belt to you on the regular for no reason.

    • @litpanda7547
      @litpanda7547 8 місяців тому +1

      I saw an episode of criminal minds once, where the mother of the murderer refused to admit that her child would kill anyone, and the FBI guys chalked it up to her "Southern Pride." I'm a Wisconsinite, but I can definitely say my parents (especially my dad) suffer from southern pride syndrome. I have (uncomfirmed) adhd and it is extremely difficult to get things done sometimes. I have screamed at my dad that I hate him because of a fight that was caused by me being distracted from chores by a loose shoelace (no shoe attached). So yeah, I totally feel you when it comes to "spanking out the ADHD".

  • @Randoinyourwalls423
    @Randoinyourwalls423 8 місяців тому +25

    12:18 No. The feathers are heavier because you have to carry the weight of what you did to those birds.

  • @John_Weiss
    @John_Weiss 8 місяців тому +7

    23:57 I live in the US, Click, and _I struggle_ to tell what is parody and what is real when listening to the news anymore.
    The satirical literally-fake-newspaper, "The Onion," has started to look believable. Issues of "The Onion" that I read back in the early 1990s look like they could be real now. I really hate this timeline.

  • @FwooshEye
    @FwooshEye 8 місяців тому +214

    The sad thing about the emergency alarm testings though is that they have probably exposed people who had secret phones hidden from abusive partners or family members. I saw a lot of posts circulating the weeks before the UK and the US testings that encouraged people to try and find places where they could hide the phones where they couldn't be heard (eg a friend's house) -- especially the second round for the ones in the US, since there were rumors that shutting the phone off failed for a lot of people on the UK and the phones turned back on for the alarm. I'm not technical enough to know how that would work, but before smartphones I had a phone that I had turned off, but it still set off the morning alarm, so I would not be surprised if there's still some feature in modern phones that prevents from a "total" shut off. I hope people found solutions in time so they could stay safe...

    • @rebny7801
      @rebny7801 8 місяців тому +21

      NOKIA3410, THE BEST PHONE THAT EVER EXISTED! I still have mine, it's just not able to connect anymore because 2G antenas are gone in my country. But I can still play Snake2! LOL!

    • @gabef.218
      @gabef.218 8 місяців тому +31

      If you are able to, take out the battery. If not, try making it lose all charge, by repeatedly turning the phone back on when it dies until it refuses to turn on.
      That's the best alternative I got

    • @FwooshEye
      @FwooshEye 8 місяців тому +14

      @@gabef.218 Now when you mention it I think when i reblogged a post about it during the second wave I did mention something similar might be an option if possible. I do know I lamented that one cannot remove the battery on modern phones

    • @AceoftheVoid
      @AceoftheVoid 8 місяців тому +11

      Yeah, most smartphones don't fully turn off ever these days, and I think it's been a thing since flip phones, it's basically an emergency feature to make sure alarms (including emergency alarms) still work, while the phone being "off" conserves energy (this is also why a phone will lose charge while it sits off at a faster rate then if the battery were outside of the phone)

    • @naonao9528
      @naonao9528 8 місяців тому +2

      I had my phone on do not disturb and the alarm didn't make any noise only the messages about the test showed up on my screen.

  • @Griggle25652
    @Griggle25652 8 місяців тому +264

    Fun fact, there is actually a way a pound doesnt equal a pound. Precious metals are weighed using the troy system, which has heavier ounces but only 12 ounces to a pound, so a troy pound is less than a regular pound. Hence assuming the pound of gold is referring to a troy pound, a pound of feathers indeed weighs more than a pound of gold.

    • @SiffrinISAT
      @SiffrinISAT 8 місяців тому +25

      Another would be a pound as price since the weight could be any other unit (or even more/less pounds [as in weight])

    • @Griggle25652
      @Griggle25652 8 місяців тому +6

      @@SiffrinISAT I believe the comparison is operating under the assumption being you comparing weight specifically though.

    • @KitsuneSoup
      @KitsuneSoup 8 місяців тому +5

      Um, aKtUalLy, troy weight is heavier, not the other way around. The gold is heavier when you move to metric. Troy is 31 grams, and avoirdupois is 28.

    • @Llortnerof
      @Llortnerof 8 місяців тому +4

      @@Griggle25652 Which also comes into play here, though. If you don't specify, it will be assumed you're using the same unit each time. And troy pound is not the same unit as avoirdupois pound.

    • @phantom_paladin1848
      @phantom_paladin1848 8 місяців тому +11

      For me, a pound of feathers will always weigh more, simply because you now have to carry the weight of what you did to those poor, defenseless bird, you monster

  • @JadianRadiator
    @JadianRadiator 5 місяців тому +3

    19:58
    "What is a blood brain barrier?"
    It's the thing that stops stuff that isn't supposed to get into your brain from getting into your brain from your blood.

  • @polk-e-dot8177
    @polk-e-dot8177 8 місяців тому +9

    28:33 remember everyonye, a childs innocence only matters if they're a girl. Jail wouldnt even be a question if a male dentist or dental assistant groped a 13yr old girl.

  • @user-cf6uf1ko4y
    @user-cf6uf1ko4y 8 місяців тому +78

    24:09 Pharmacy Technician here. The reason this happened is when we type prescriptions certain codes populate long directions faster using medical notation. The medical notation for "ear" is the letter A and the medical notation for "left" is S because Latin. Thus AS is "in the left ear" and since "as" is an English word, for example in "as needed" pharmacy systems not coded optimally will change "as needed" to "in left ear needed"

    • @persooniemand8346
      @persooniemand8346 8 місяців тому +4

      Interesting, thanks for sharing random commenter

    • @discordiacreates6669
      @discordiacreates6669 7 місяців тому +2

      That is actually a hilarious system error, thank you

    • @christinesizemore3
      @christinesizemore3 6 місяців тому +5

      ah, another victim to the indiscriminate search and replace method.

  • @purgatoryproductions310
    @purgatoryproductions310 8 місяців тому +117

    it’s always so weird to me how mad people get when a grown adult they have no control over says a swear word. i remember people getting mad at thomas sanders for saying the word “fuck” in a video (he was singing a song from heathers, a show that isn’t family friendly to begin with). why does it concern these folks?

    • @gabef.218
      @gabef.218 8 місяців тому +3

      The cotton candy goddess speaks nothing but truth

    • @solomonverrico
      @solomonverrico 8 місяців тому +14

      They also insist swearing is the mark of a limited mind, but actual psychological study says the opposite. Swearing can be an indicator of higher intelligence. It's also an exceptional form of stress relief.

    • @foxinabox5103
      @foxinabox5103 8 місяців тому +2

      ​@@solomonverricoyou're goddamn right

    • @purgatoryproductions310
      @purgatoryproductions310 8 місяців тому +3

      @@solomonverricoso THAT explains why i swear so much in therapy!

    • @krasistefanovlol
      @krasistefanovlol 8 місяців тому +2

      @@solomonverrico the stress relief part is true

  • @crystalgoddess4085
    @crystalgoddess4085 8 місяців тому +6

    It's always the one who are "into" kids that are the ones who accuse others of it, almost like they know it's wrong. It's not just projection, they try to justify their own twisted fantasy by lumping other unrelated things in with it.
    As for the frequency thing, some frequencies *_can_* make you sick, but that is only symptoms like nausea and headache, not actual diseases. Some frequencies can actually kill you too.

    • @TransgamerFemboy
      @TransgamerFemboy 4 місяці тому

      I had someone call me the T slur on Twitter once
      They also said that little girls are "hotter"

    • @JoshSweetvale
      @JoshSweetvale 2 місяці тому +1

      Nah. Those aren't frequencies, that's volume.

    • @crystalgoddess4085
      @crystalgoddess4085 2 місяці тому +1

      @@JoshSweetvale No, it's frequencies, ultrasonic frequencies can have negative effects on your heart.

  • @Ares_V
    @Ares_V 7 місяців тому +13

    35:45 in some Spanish speaking places Joe's last name is a euphemism for "pussy" but he's upset over the word f*cking? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sylvanfreckles557
    @sylvanfreckles557 8 місяців тому +61

    I was spanked as a child and I turned out alright, except for the avoidant personality disorder and emotional deregulation.

    • @J-Amadaeus
      @J-Amadaeus 8 місяців тому +2

      I relate to the first part, not sure what the second part means though.

    • @bigawesomewatermelon9511
      @bigawesomewatermelon9511 8 місяців тому +13

      ​@@J-Amadaeusyour severe brain damage from the childhood assault is showing.

    • @awkwardukulele6077
      @awkwardukulele6077 8 місяців тому

      @@J-Amadaeus”not sure what the other part means though.”
      Damn, your parents beat you so hard you forgot how to read?

    • @FederalBurroOfInvestigation
      @FederalBurroOfInvestigation 8 місяців тому +18

      I turned out all right, except for the homicidal fantasies that started at 10, having a giant black hole memory wise of things that happened with that person was around for the most part, and yeah, emotional regulation problems... fun

    • @sad_doggo2504
      @sad_doggo2504 8 місяців тому +8

      My parents spanked me as a child. As a result, I now suffer from not being able to function as an adult.

  • @samanthamorgan2188
    @samanthamorgan2188 8 місяців тому +49

    As someone who is legally blind, i was thinking the braille thing was really nice, what click said. Then I realized two things- 1. Braille dots on a stove probably would not be the best idea and 2. I may not be very bright lol

  • @schanulsiboi0837
    @schanulsiboi0837 8 місяців тому +11

    30:46 everybody knows, if the baby comes out coloured, you just have a dope ass baby

  • @gearsmoke
    @gearsmoke 8 місяців тому +8

    I think the real value of having reasonable, rational, intelligent people do react videos to this type of reddit topic is that what we're seeing is the opinions and ideas of the average person, rather than celebrities or politicians, and that they present a more accurate representation of our culture - we can see how common certain bad ideas and misinformation are among various social groups, and discuss the problem and how to react when we encounter it.

  • @DarkKnightofIT
    @DarkKnightofIT 8 місяців тому +56

    35:20 by that logic, being stabbed is hardly a traumatic event, it barely takes any time to be stabbed with a knife, these people need to stop complaining about "bleeding" and "pain" and "death"...

  • @LadyPenumbra
    @LadyPenumbra 8 місяців тому +67

    I was in the hospital (foot injury) when the emergency alert went off. And you could hear it from every phone and internet device all up and down the ward. Must have been over a hundred devices going off all at once. In just my ward. Dozens of wards per floor, 15 stories up, how did I get out alive? How did so much exposure to "the frequency" not just melt all of our guts into puddles?

  • @marioruiz9493
    @marioruiz9493 8 місяців тому +10

    41:02 I used to be a member of the LDS. They continuosly tell you that masturbation is bad and you must remain chaste, because masturbation is "imaginative fornication with your heart". And I was like wut. I thought the brain was the one with the imagination capabilities.

    • @YourGirlTyra
      @YourGirlTyra 8 місяців тому +2

      Hey I found another exmo!

    • @marioruiz9493
      @marioruiz9493 8 місяців тому +2

      how do you do fellow ex lds
      @@YourGirlTyra

    • @YourGirlTyra
      @YourGirlTyra 8 місяців тому +1

      @@marioruiz9493 Awesome! How about you?

  • @andistansbury4366
    @andistansbury4366 4 місяці тому +3

    I remember during the pandemic, someone told me that they didn't have to wear a mask because they tested negative. That's like saying "well, I haven't died yet, so therefore I'm immortal.".

  • @Juzokinnie
    @Juzokinnie 8 місяців тому +126

    1:15 I like how this old person thinks it's a "gotchya" moment but in reality they're actually insulting themself because they're pointing out a housing crisis that their generation caused.
    I feel so sorry for that poor 13 year old boy who is being mocked for being s*xu*lly assaulted by a grown woman. He's not "lucky" for being groped and he's not weak for being traumatized, he's not ready for that contact with anyone in general. Just because it's not a little girl doesn't mean that the victims are weak. Male victims deserve to be heard, comforted, and to see justice brought to those who did them wrong. This is a huge thing I advocate for. Male s*xual ab*se victims need to be heard just as much as female victims need to be heard.

    • @christinesizemore3
      @christinesizemore3 6 місяців тому +7

      "ok, boomer"
      "ok, renter"
      "ok, hoarder of wealth and property"

  • @mindlessperson
    @mindlessperson 8 місяців тому +164

    My hands were my best friends when I was a kid, ironically. They were twins both named Evi and all I remember is that the left one was evil most of the time 😂

    • @laurelelasselin
      @laurelelasselin 8 місяців тому

      The name Evi is giving me flashbacks to Oathbringer (if you haven't read the Stormlight Archive, I highly recommend it by the way)

    • @raysofmariehere6441
      @raysofmariehere6441 8 місяців тому +10

      OK ME TOO i had a whole drama going on with my fingers, thumb finger always bullied pinkie and ring finger was the pretty older sister, middle was the dad and pointy finger was the mom.

    • @sundalosketch4769
      @sundalosketch4769 8 місяців тому +3

      This, when I was bored I'd just have my hands put on a play of whatever my ears were listening to. My right hand has become the most expressive but also the most angry twat of my body. It is teaching my left how to use chopsticks though like a good sibling should.

    • @raysofmariehere6441
      @raysofmariehere6441 8 місяців тому +1

      @@sundalosketch4769 humans are hilarious

    • @itsthealaskanbullworm
      @itsthealaskanbullworm 8 місяців тому

      So EviL and EviR?

  • @anitanielsen1061
    @anitanielsen1061 8 місяців тому +7

    7:18 This one actually reminds me of the time my ex-friend came out as a homophobe on my birthday, said she was gonna block me and yadda yadda but still kept texting. I was like "no, I can't help you with your prank, it isn't working, and it's my birthday party rn, so plz stop texting me" but she still kept blowing up my phone anyway. Even reached the point where she threatened to call the cops (luckily, nothing actually happened), and then I blocked her, and then she continued to harass me on Insta before I blocked her there. Some ppl just can't take "I love you, but you're not my entire life" as an answer 😿

  • @joshuah4952
    @joshuah4952 8 місяців тому +9

    10:23 You are correct, spreading true information is not defamation, so the cops would lose in this case, but winning isn't the point. It is a SLAPP (Strategic Lawsuit Against Public Participation), that is, using the court system to punish and harass someone for speaking out.

  • @pffffggg
    @pffffggg 8 місяців тому +72

    my childhood abuser died today... I was needing this, I cannot keep thinking about everything she did to me: thank you, Click, you are really helpful

    • @sugoish9461
      @sugoish9461 8 місяців тому +9

      I'm late, but sending you the warmth of being swathed in a comfortable blanket and given a hug and a cup of tea/hot chocolate.

    • @pffffggg
      @pffffggg 8 місяців тому +6

      @@sugoish9461 u made me smile... thank you. I'm still in bad shape... but I know I will be the worst I will be from now on and that gives me hope

    • @sugoish9461
      @sugoish9461 8 місяців тому +5

      @@pffffggg I'm glad I could give you a smile! It's okay to not feel okay (although I know how horrible it feels, you have nothing to be guilty for about experiencing suffering), and you're right. Things will only grow better, after something like this. There can be so much suffering... but even when you're really scared that you might never feel better, just know that with time comes constant change in different ways, and so eventually the change necessary to _help_ you will come, too.
      Just something I found comforting, when I was going through a very rough time, and knew that it would be better but only in a couple of years from then (in my case).
      I really really really wish for you that you get to enjoy many moments of calmness, peace, serenity, and comforting things like blankets, favorite shows, and hugs. The world has many soft and nice things that can be comforting to surround yourself with when everything feels particularly rough.

  • @renfcook
    @renfcook 8 місяців тому +113

    Blood-brain barrier is a thing (I’m a biology student and it was mentioned in a lecture I had today about parasites)

    • @frankname8674
      @frankname8674 8 місяців тому +14

      I remember my mother talking about how her lab was using tularemia as a base mRNA delivery vector for brain cancer treatment because it was good at passing the blood-brain barrier. also good news she was fired from her position as head of safety in the lab because everyone complained how much she would enforce lab safety rules "too strictly". Like it was her job or something.

    • @renfcook
      @renfcook 8 місяців тому +4

      @@frankname8674what?! 😅

    • @SiffrinISAT
      @SiffrinISAT 8 місяців тому +4

      @@frankname8674 seems like they got some more stuff going thru their brain than blood

    • @frankname8674
      @frankname8674 8 місяців тому

      @@renfcook O shoot my bad tularemia was what the other lab in her building was researching. Her lab was using modified herpes. Lol Image using one of the highest fatality rate diseases for that kind of study. Nah though the other lab did manage to make a modified variant of tularemia that is 150 times more virulent in spread from cell to cell in the name of designing effective late stage treatments for it.

    • @frankname8674
      @frankname8674 8 місяців тому +3

      Or maybe your worried about the safety rules she was "too stricted" about in the shared lab space with the tularemia research. Just things like not using a fume hood when mixing reagents that generate fumes. No properly utilizing or disposing of rubber gloves. Not washing hands when leaving one lab room and going to another (this is the one people complained about most) to prevent cross contamination. Not cleaning up your work station at the end of the day in again what is a shared lab space. And a few other basic lab safety things you think would only needed to be told to high school students there first time running through chemistry class.

  • @Tekdruid
    @Tekdruid 8 місяців тому +14

    32:30 PETA ads are just plain furry pr0n in disguise.

  • @elisabethheiman2104
    @elisabethheiman2104 8 місяців тому +9

    The guy who planted the fake drugs in his friend’s bag reminded me of Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason, though it was worse in her case, as it was real drugs that she was unintentionally smuggling in and she did go to prison. Of course, that was just a movie (and a book though I haven’t read it) and she was eventually released thanks to her hot lawyer boyfriend, but getting stopped by Thai police for smuggling drugs, real or not, is no joke and he’s a shitty person for pulling that prank on his friend if the story wasn’t a troll.

  • @NaturalFireWave
    @NaturalFireWave 8 місяців тому +103

    The pound of fat vs pound of muscle reminds me of a question on a test that I got asking if a pound of rocks or a pound of feathers was heavier.

    • @Time_Lord_in_a_Tardis
      @Time_Lord_in_a_Tardis 8 місяців тому +6

      I have seen this question before somewhere. You don't know how long it took me to realize. Too long.

    • @LGBTQLegend
      @LGBTQLegend 8 місяців тому +8

      In the UK a pound of rocks is heavier than a pound of feathers.

    • @NaturalFireWave
      @NaturalFireWave 8 місяців тому +2

      @prettypsychoqueen how though? They both weigh a pound. A pound in this situation is a unite of weight, not how much something costs.

    • @LGBTQLegend
      @LGBTQLegend 8 місяців тому +10

      @@NaturalFireWave They use kilos as weight in the UK not pounds. That's the joke.

    • @NaturalFireWave
      @NaturalFireWave 8 місяців тому +5

      @@LGBTQLegend ah. That makes sense. Might have just been my autism preventing me from getting it as a joke.

  • @saltysis8
    @saltysis8 8 місяців тому +37

    Bullying still happens all over the world. It gets pretty dangerous and has killed or almost killed people. The guy is so wrong on too many levels. 🤮

  • @Scrinwaipwr
    @Scrinwaipwr 7 місяців тому +6

    31:11 ban faith schools, seriously, ban them.

  • @ProfessorDoctorC
    @ProfessorDoctorC 8 місяців тому +4

    I find that picture at 39:23 so funny 'cause Jesus looks so annoyed to be there. Like, he's going to have a serious discussion with trump about dragging him along to these things

  • @elizaberhim
    @elizaberhim 8 місяців тому +477

    Watching Cliccy to stave off losing my battle with depression for another 42 minutes. It's the small victories, right?

    • @zemorph42
      @zemorph42 8 місяців тому +19

      Mood.

    • @VTimmoni
      @VTimmoni 8 місяців тому +37

      Sometimes a momentary victory is all you need to get through things. Hang in there. I suffer from Depression as well.

    • @Chaotic_noodle
      @Chaotic_noodle 8 місяців тому +10

      Yeah

    • @katbairwell
      @katbairwell 8 місяців тому +22

      A victory is a victory, sending love

    • @jlessien3826
      @jlessien3826 8 місяців тому +14

      I know. Here another one battling, and offen losing, depression.

  • @nathannash7136
    @nathannash7136 8 місяців тому +174

    Being a citizen of the U.S. and a supporter of free speech, I'm all for people being able to say what they want, even if I don't like what they say. However, some people should learn that not everything that comes to mind needs to be communicated. For instance, that campaign billboard.

    • @AmyEugene
      @AmyEugene 8 місяців тому +16

      I'm pretty sure that sign was created by people who are not fans of Boebert, but even so, some things should just not be written down. Especially in public. I pulled into a spot in a parking lot yesterday and the car next to me had a sticker that said "Gas, Grass, or A$$, nobody rides free" with pictures of a gas can, pot leaf and a woman's behind wearing a thong. Sure, I get the humor in the campaign sign and I know some people who would think the car sticker was hilarious, but I feel sorry for people with really young kids that are starting to read; they're just trying to get through their errands when they have to answer a question from their 7 y.o. about what a woman's behind has to do with getting a ride and figure out a truthful, but age appropriate answer on the fly. I swear I'm not an old lady even though I sound like it and I know we just have to accept that some people choose to prominently display adult jokes in public, but it would be really nice if they chose not to.

    • @kriscynical
      @kriscynical 8 місяців тому +17

      I'm pretty sure that billboard is in reference to her openly groping her date at that theater a few weeks ago and letting him grope her in return. On a first date at a musical that's family friendly so there were kids everywhere in the audience.

    • @functionatthejunction
      @functionatthejunction 8 місяців тому +3

      @@AmyEugene lol ok Karen.

    • @hoshyro
      @hoshyro 8 місяців тому +8

      That's why other countries will have freedom of _expression_ rather than of speech, it's essentially the same, but it forbids people from deliberately insulting or verbally abusing others simply because they want to, which I find a better solution overall, to be honest

  • @Quasita
    @Quasita 8 місяців тому +7

    The thing with the Iowa cops... Personally, I live across the river in Nebraska but just this morning even, I was pulled over while driving DoorDash deliveries by cops right on the border and they certainly had an interesting approach lol
    But regarding those defamation suits and the curiosity as to why they would file them when there's such clear evidence of otherwise, they essentially are using them like slap suits if you ask me, as they are expecting that a teenager that was wrongfully detained for a crime they didn't commit would be unable to gather the kind of monetary backing necessary to see the lawsuit to its final judgment so they're banking on coming to a settlement agreement where the video gets taken down and nobody talks about it again...
    But the thing that I have found very interesting about living in the United States when it comes to this particular avenue of reform or whatever you might want to call it is just how often civilians are finding their way into that funding whether it be through advocacy organizations or practicing attorneys that choose to take up pro bono cases in order to hold the police department accountable. They may still end up in a settlement, but as time goes by, the police officers that do that sort of thing are becoming less and less able to intimidate the civilian population out of holding them accountable for their mistakes in this manner. Old world tactics fail in the face of modern technology in my opinion..

  • @me-myself-i787
    @me-myself-i787 8 місяців тому +4

    13:20 Generally, the harmful frequencies are the ones you can't hear (or can barely hear).
    Suoer high pitched sound will be irritating and can annoy people, whilst super low-pitched sound can create a sense of dread.

    • @teashortie9268
      @teashortie9268 6 місяців тому

      There was also a whole thing with the original lavender town theme (not the creepypasta) where peoples where getting headaches from it or something