As a Betta Male, I can confirm that we are novice-maintenance (still require lots of care though), have a lifespan between 2 and 5 years (if kept healthy), are pretty, make good pets and swim around in a tank (in style).
As a nonbinary afab person my genitals keep screaming at me to have a 9 foot tall bf. My ovaries quake at the thought. But the gay agenda is causing me to only go after femboys! I feel so conflicted, I hate this. I wouldn't wish this on anyone 😢
Right? I really had to settle when I married my husband. I mean, he's one of the sweetest humans I've ever met and we have a mutual adoration and admiration thing going on, but I really wanted that 10' tall billionaire who exists only to give me what I want when I want it and otherwise disappears into a cupboard when I don't need him around. 😂
the guy that wants a domestic stay at home wife but also resents a woman who stays at home and doesn’t have a job.. 🤦🏼♂️ The lack of self awareness is staggering.
No, he wants a (step-)mommy for himself and the babies they're going to have. He wants to share the costs 50:50 but also only wants to do half as much as his wife-mommy does. Of course she also needs to be always pretty and be ready for naughties whenever he feels like it.
These guys don't quite understand what a traditional wife is, or even what a housewife is, by the sound of it. It also seems like these guys don't want to be traditional husbands either.
This is the first time I've ever seen a case where someone wants a stay-at-home partner who also goes to work. Because this hits so many contradicting stereotypes it makes it real hard for me to believe it's not fake. I feel it's more likely this was written by someone lampshading the whole dating-world thing. Like it's from the cheesiest soap opera, not real life.
@@TheRawrnstuffI think it is someone who has just gone WAAAAY too far down the red pill rabbit hole and are self sabotaging. The type of woman he wants is the 1940-60s TV housewife like I Dream of Genie. It isn't a reality and instead of critically looking at what is possible, demands that type of wife that also has a income. He isn't wealthy so can't provide that type of life financially, he projects the insecurity that he is only as good as his income. He doesn't want to put in the effort to a relationship outside of going to work and coming home, like he sees on old TV shows. He wants to have a fictional perfect life and since that is almost impossible, sabotages any possible relationships with his toxic negativity
The woman that got fired made my blood boil honestly. I had the same type of shitty boss that would say "but we're family here!", and then proceed to talk shit about every worker. Not to mention that after I got pregnant and started feeling ill, I took ONE DAY off and that snake boss called me and told me to come in person to talk, and she told me "I understand that you felt ill, but we were minus one worker, didn't you thought about us?". I was genuinely baffled and I still am that people like this can exist...
"We are family here!" all too often means "So we will be just as abusive and think we get away with it." Those people most times do come from toxic and abusive households.
I once got a 30 minute lecture and got threats to cut my hours all because I had a panic attack in the store and was getting lectured while I was still hyperventilating. I was freaking out and crying to the point where I just left for the day. F*cking jerks. At least the manager who did it eventually apologized.
I had a boss get mad at me once for taking a sick day off. So I came in sick the next time and threw up in front of him, then told a horrified customer, "oh, no, I can't go home sick. Boss will be mad." She complained to corporate. He never gave me shit again.
They know they're the thing that gives you money so they just get a narcissistic/self-centered power trip and treat you like even if you're having a child or dying of cancer they'll put themselves before your life
"i want a traditional woman who stays at home w the kids' 'so, that means you'll make enough money to support a family of 5 right?' and then they get all flustered because they suck at math and just assume shit works out automatically without them having to put as much effort into the traditional role as they expect the wife to lmao
i mean, is it tho? i guess if someone says they want to BE a traditional wife and cant cook/clean. but thats something you can learn. making enough money for a big family is a lot more luck based. still i think so many guys forget that being a traditional husband is more than sitting on your ass and telling people what to do- its a lifestyle you literally have to buy.@@hhj186
The guy who wanted a "traditional woman" but without the responsibility of funding the homemaking (that he wanted) didn't want a wife. He wanted to be parented by the same woman he's screwing.
It's basically "I work so hard I want someone to let me relax when I'm at home, but also I want them to work as hard as I do during the day and pay for everything as well" As if women have some infinite stamina cheat and the system isn't completely broken. Traditionally women could do all the housework because the man could bring home enough for them to not have to work. That's no longer true, so wash some dishes, learn to cook and then perhaps both you and your partner will have enough energy left over to protest the shit show the world has become.
@ViridianFlow Exactly. If they can't afford a traditional lifestyle, blame the system that made things that way, not the person you're trying to date. It's fine to want that strategy, but the economy is too garbage at the moment for that strategy to be practical for most. When I see people with 3 kids and no means to properly care for them, I look at them like they have two heads. "Why did you make the same mistake 3 times?" I know it likely has to do with severe lacks in sex-ed, and with barriers to birth control, as well as sociopolitical barriers and overbearing religious family. It just makes me mad to see kids being neglected because someone felt pressured into having them without fully knowing what parenting requires. Having kids these days is the financial equivalent of having a pet lion. You'd have to be insane, flamboyantly rich, or both to have one. Multiple? May the gods of prosperity have mercy on your irresponsible soul.
26:13 Dude. It took literal YEARS for my husband to be comfortable enough to finally be vulnerable with me. Years. The day he was and had a breakdown about something that was going on in his life, it was the most bittersweet day of my life. I was torn up that he was suffering, but he finally allowed himself to open up to me. He finally crossed that final threshold of trust and knocked down that final wall he had held onto for so long. And you better believe I was there for him and gave him everything I had to support him. He was so afraid for so long I would see him like this trash person did if he took off the armor, and I told him that I saw him no differently after the tears than I did before them. That I was honored to finally become a true safe space for him. He’s let the emotions flow freely ever since. He is my rock, but I am also his. ❤
I kinda made it about myself so if you don't like that type of reply don't worry, won't take it personal, you don't need to read this This is so wholesome. I wish I could also take my armour off with someone :( probably won't happen but it makes me feel better to know that there's happy people out there
It is best to find comfort in one's armour, for one has little hope in changing others. Be strong my buddy/friend/guy, for we near the ai revolution! There will be so many happy to have you take off your armour, between Microsoft, Google, not to mention various governments all around the world, The next generation of smartphones!... This does not seem very positive... Hmmm but if an ai companion robot was open source... A difficult proposition, but there is hope... Could a company sustainably be public? I wonder... But for now the armour should not be seen as armour, but instead a blanket, for it is within ones power to joyfully bear, growing and gaining knowledge within solace. no... I'm not edgy... if you think this is edgy you are simply too soft!!
I'm surprised at the number of people who don't realize that the "traditional family" they are talking about was ONE INCOME....of course you're going to be paying for it all!
I think many are playing dumb to excuse their unwillingness to contribute to the household labor, but others genuinely don't seem to recognize the fact that the increase in women in the workforce and the increase in men contributing to household labor are inextricably linked. They think "feminism taught women to neglect their families" but refuse to recognize they're the ones providing the least.
Tbh I never really thought about what a traditional household worked like because I had a single working mom, and with my dad's second marriage, they both worked. During one of my economic classes, the discussion on traditional households was brought up, and it was really eye-opening. I never really thought about how other households work because my mom was constantly promoting a self-reliance lifestyle. I honestly thought that was how every household worked like that, and it honestly made me feel icky on the idea of marrying someone and solely relying on his income. You do you if you want that kind of life, I wish you the best of luck, but personally, I prefer to earn my own income, not that home makers are moochers, they infact do have a job, obviously, its just not my cup of tea.
@@LilChuunosuke"I refuse to bring home enough for us to live on alone, but I also don't want to do anything so you need to work as hard as I do plus also do extra at home. You know, because men are totally the stronger sex even though I expect the woman to do way more work than me" Yeah, these morons are broken.
@@misscat6055 Home makers do have a job, but this job is dependent on the job of the other person. In a way it is protected by a government (through marriage), but incomparably to other jobs that use a written document exclusively about it with insurances and other protections. It also doesn't count as experience in any well-paying job. So you're right, home makers have a job, but that's just what is said to make them feel better or make people realize it takes effort.
Yeah, as much as guys like this love to rant about women not wanting to be stay at home moms anymore, they sure are doing everything they can to fight things like minimum wage which would make this a possibility again. Unless you're incredibly lucky, almost nobody can afford housing, even before all the groceries and phone bills, working full time. While it's not for everyone, I guaranty that if these men could actually afford to support a family on just their income, a lot more women would be interested in the life style they love to push. But paying livable wages is too radical for these people, so they're kind of playing themselves
The whole traditional woman/man conversation was absolute GOLD. The sheer hypocrisy of this dude! 😂 He's expecting his partner to keep the house tidy, raise kids, tend to his every whim AND have a full time job?? This dude is actually insane.
Ah yes, the calssic "I'm gonna pick and choose whatever benefits me from the feminist/anti-feminist movement without caring about what could benefit my potential partner"
Like If it were to be a "choice" why would one choose something which can potentially ruin their relationships with their conservative family get ridiculed by the society and is literally thought to be sinful by their faith? Not to mention many countries which has still not legalized same-sex marriages and can literally threaten their lives if found out.
Exactly. Then again I've been told I'm sinning for embracing my asexuality instead of changing it. But also that I'm not sinning for being asexual because I can't control that, but I'm sinning for not trying to change it. So yeah, apparently I'm sinning for not changing something that can't be changed.
@@strawberryshortcake4345 yep, then again I've also been told I'm sinning for "engaging in the gay lifestyle"...I'm not gay. Like it's not a lifestyle, but even if it was I'm not gay so huh?
(13:25) Feminism is about women having the choice to do what they want. If they want to work or be a housewife, or both. Not everyone has the opportunity. But the idea is that there shouldn't be gender based restriction or expectations. A woman choosing to be a homewife and a man looking for a homewife isn't anti-feminism. What is anti-feminism is to expect/require every woman to be a homewife.
The guy looking for a traditional woman is hilarious. You can see the rusty gears moving in his brain as he realizes what a traditional woman would look for in a man... and gets angry as a result😂😂😂
It's like with the modern women: "When women raise their standards, men don't meet them." (It's a quote, but I don't remember who said it. It was about feminism though)
@@zumazuma568 you're mostly right, that one would be more about the last bit of the video rather than about the trad relationship. But still, it *_is_* sort of similar in that both are about the consequences of having too specific standards... While not identical, they're similarly undesired.
"I need you to be dependant on me and have no real skillset outside of domestic tasks or qualities beyond physical attractiveness, but I also kind of want to be able to resent you for it."
The "shoe metaphor" made me lol: my dad's feet were smaller than my mum's. They were very similar in height (both around the 5'7-8" mark), but dad had a size 6 feet, and mum had a size 7-8. If mum bought a pair of shoes that were too small there was a good chance they fit my dad. For a good few years my dad's "best" shoes were a pair of women's black lace ups with a pattern on the tops. They had been too small for mum but for some reason they had been unable to return them, dad really liked them and they just looked like really fancy dress shoes 🤷. There are so many fragile men who would never have even tried those shoes on, he not only didn't give a shit, but when someone complimented the shoes he wasn't shy in telling the story. My dad was an army vet born in the 40s. He was a feminist, an LGBTQ ally (even in days when it was frowned on), and pragmatist. He worked permanent night shift after he left the army in order to earn enough to support the family and still did his share of household jobs & child care. Mum dealt with all the household finances because dad was terrible at that kind of thing, which meant she gave him "pocket money" out of what was left over...he never once complained that it wasn't enough, etc, he was just glad he didn't have to deal with the money side of things, he used to say that he just earned it, mum figured out how to use it best. So, the irony is, that in the fundies metaphor...mum's shoes (at least the ones that fit her) would probably have been too big for dad 😂 💀. No doubt those alpha grindset dudes would have called him a beta or some other attempt at an insult. I'm also sure he would have laughed in their faces...his family was priority, making sure everyone was taken care of, and he knew that some people in the family were better suited to some jobs than others! He had more "alpha" (the genuine kind not the bullshit these idiots try to push) in his little toe than Tate and his cronies can even dream of...they have no idea what a "real man" is.
notice there were NO women in that bible group who didn't have husbands. This is one of about 26,000 reasons I'm an atheist. Most religions do NOT make single women feel welcome.
The thing that really frustrates me about anti homeless architecture is that the people who implement it know it is cheaper to actually provide proper support for homeless people and they choose the cruel option instead
Know what's even crazier is that I see those signs every week and I don't see jack happening on the municipal level to help, just a bunch of unaffiliated nonprofits for the homeless community. Like, I know Dallas County's broke, and I know there are sustainable solutions within reach, but the city council doesn't have to advertise their impotence too. Absolute cringe.
The problem, from what I've been informed, is that addressing homelessness often comes with a positive feedback loop. If you provide proper support for the homeless *in highly desireable areas* then there is a very high probability of attracting _even more people_ to the region, eventually putting you right back where you started in terms of homelessness. A lack of supply is only half the problem. The bigger and oftentimes harder-to-address problem is too much demand.
@@korayven9255 if the demand is less than the supply, consistently (if you don't agree to that - "zoom out" of the picture until you do), but somehow it still does not work out, there must be something wrong with the system... just sayin
And its not like said architecture doesnt affect the non-homeless, its just stupid. I saw a tilted bench (I think it was a bus stop), where no one was able to sit, only kinda lean on it. Disabled and elderly people had commented below the pic how it was designed in hell, but gotta keep those who have nothing uncomfortable.. priorities, man.
@@korayven9255Ummm. In theory sure, as long as you ingore the fact that US cities are hundreds of miles apart and the people in question are homeless. And therefore cannot easily move. You also have to ingore the percentage who'll then go on to be productive and as long as thats 20% or better you will yeild a net postive to cashflow. I think more then 20% of people jusy in general want more then just food and shelter dont you? like any entertainment at all.
my biggest complaint about helping my kiddo with math homework is that you often run across those sorts of nonsensical/poorly written questions that end up being literally unsolvable by the logic being used/by the way they word the question. I understand that part of the point of these story problems is to see kids applying the rules they've learned and parsing information, but HOW IN THE HELL are they supposed to do that when you yourself can't write a coherent question? How are they supposed to logic something out when your question doesn't logic?
That one about the guy wanting a Traditional Woman, and when he finally found one he didn't like it, made me realize something. All of these guys who say that they want a "Traditional Woman", don't actually want one. What they want is a Second Mother. Someone who can take care of them and clean up after their mistakes, but also do all the actual heavy lifting. Like a mother would their child. That's a more accurate description of the kind of relationship they're looking for. I've always had a personal theory that a lot of those types of guys tend to idolize the only relationships with a woman they've ever known, which is usually the one they have with their mom.
It's exactly that. They want someone to do twice the work they do while also being considered the 'submissive' half of their relationship. They want a mom they can f***.
Just wanted to share something exciting that is happening in my life: I am a trans woman. I've been out for years and at the end of July this year, I'm getting SRS (sex reassignment surgery) I'm really excited and also super anxious as I got a lot to do before that day. I know that while I'm in recovery, I'm going to be binge watching all of your videos again
Oh the cop(s) crashing into the bar story is so much worse. The owner was arrested because they were questioning the police officer about the incident. There is camera footage showing the cop running a red light and then just plowing into the bar (from a couple different cameras/angles). On top of that, the other cops who showed up didn't breathalyze the driver because "he didn't seem impaired". The owners' lawyer is having a field day with it. If you're in the St. Louis area, they have reopened the bar and both of the owners are fine and the one was released, but lawyers also cost money, so heading down to get a drink or two might be a nice way to help out.
Fun fact: rainbows are actually perfect circles, it's just that at regular human heights above the ground it'll almost always "clip into" the ground since obviously rain can't be under the ground either. Rainbows viewed at much higher altitudes, or even from a plane are perfect circles as there you can actually have rain below you reflect the light back at you.
Also additional not-so-fun fact: Antivaxxers and flat earthers are an off-shoot of the more radical evangelical christian branches in the US, if you can make someone believe that the vaccinations are bad or that the government is lying about the earth being round it makes it much easier to con people into other BS like believing into a god that loves you if you just give the church all your money. And of course a bunch of pastors are more than happy to abuse that for personal gain, a lot of the religiously motivated persecution has ties back to those movements purely because those people are easy to control via fear and the alienation they have endured from the rest of society. It's a shit show and most of those people are victims.
Oh yeah, you can find photos taken from skyscrapers online, where it shows that. And wow, they are so perfect and beautiful bubbles of light, just amazing!
It shouldn't be but sadly it is accurate for quite a few families. The great thing is that you can always go out and create your own. To quote Bobby Singer (Supernatural) "Family don't end with blood."
Yup, wildly accurate. My entire family does not speak to me anymore because my parents hit me and they saw it as an unnecessary hassle that I moved out & cut contact with my parents?? They kept my parents in their lives but not me because my parents were willing to continue to pretend our home life was healthy and stable but I wouldn't. And I've been ostracized and cut off by many other people after starting my life over for standing by this mindset.
@alex_snow "A wise man once told me, "Family don't end in blood." But it doesn't start there, either. Family cares about you, not what you can do for them. Family's there through the good, the bad-all of it. They got your back, even when it hurts. That's family." I found that what Dean said to Crowley was way better.
Thank you Click. I was kicked out of my home yesterday for being trans...I've had a lot of emotions to process and my emotional support demon has been so wonderful to hold on to and cry on ❤
Running a household is not a job, it's being an adult. But being a stay-at-home parent absolutely is a full time job. In fact, it's arguably more than just a full time job, because your only off-hours are when you sleep. And even then you're basically on standby mode. The sheer amount of sacrifices I see people make for a family just confirms that's definitely not something I'd ever want for myself. The difference is that you're running a household for multiple people, essentially by yourself. Even from a safe distance it looks extremely taxing. I honestly love the single life. The daily chores around the house are light enough to leave room for free time. Usually every day. I do not envy stay-at-home parents. They do not get that luxury.
This. As for running a household, when you are single it is just you so it is being an adult. Add another person or more to that and it is exponentially more difficult. I'd say the mental load is a part time job in itself. Housework is full or part time depending on the other members of the family. You have to teach kids how to clean and to actually do it, find ways to motivate them until it becomes a habit. Training them is a part time job right there! I've absolutely spent 8 hours trying to clean and organize while my kids were at daycare. By the time it was bed time, I realized I should have just relaxed the entire day because it looked like I had done nothing! 100% it is at least 1.5 full time jobs with far more emotional effort than most other jobs. Can be 2+full time jobs if you are doing it solo (single married parents do exist). I think it is a responsible decision to not have kids or even a relationship if you aren't willing to do that amount of work. It isn't lazy or immature. It takes a high level of maturity to look at all the effort and nope out BEFORE having kids.
People really are just completely out of touch of what domestic labour traditionally looked like. The model of the spouse as domestic labourer emerged in the context of cooking a meal requiring starting and managing a wood fire, where laundry was a dawn to dusk affair of continual hard labour, and where everything had to be done manually. Never mind it also traditionally included things like sewing and mending clothing, tending a garden (read: for food, not ornamentation), raising livestock, preserving food for the off-season, maybe involved brewing beer and the like, etc. And that's all aside from the kids part, which not that long ago there was a good shot you'd lose along the way, and don't forget traditionally breast feeding lasted several years.
The people saying the baby isn’t vegan by drinking breast milk are probably just trying to pull a “gotcha” on the mother. It’s incredibly exhausting to interact with people like that. Especially when you’re just minding your own business and living your life.
@@therealfriday13th If youre one of that very vocal minority of them then maybe. Most vegan people arent like that though. If anything I usually see more people complaining about those annoying types of people existing than I do actually annoying vegans. No regular vegan would condemn anyone for breastfeeding and those that do are not just missing the point but also potentially trolls lets be real here.
Yeah, 100% it was supposed to be a "gotcha you aren't fallowing your morals! See you're a hypocrite, vegans are dumb and don't work" take. I've seen people try that exact take multiple times before in an attempt to say veganism is stupid/bad, they don't like vegans and don't understand how anything works, so they think your human child drinking the breast milk of a human made for human babies somehow goes against veganism.
Tell them that it's fine because you know you're not suffering from being used for food by your baby. Which is not something you can say about any other specimen of any other animal species. 💁♂️
Sooooo, what exactly does the Traditional Guy at 17:30 think he's offering? Because I'm not seeing what he's bringing to the table here. She can already work full time and do 100% of the household tasks and child-raising WITHOUT him.
Works both ways, right? All these ladies that want "traditional" men... should "sure as hell" be ready to play the traditional wife role, right? Right?
@@wyzer9Sure! I don't think I've ever, in all my life, come across someone wanting a "traditional husband," though, and I see "tradwife" things all the time.
@@cheddarcheezit2647 Hold up. There are PLENTY of women who want a man that: proposes, pays for the marriage, pays all the bills, does all (or most) of the yard work and other manual labor, protects them physically, plays "mean parent" to the kids, acts "manly", etc. To what extent are you defining "traditional"?
"walk a mile in someone else's shoes" isn't a literal metaphor and frankly I'm upset on its behalf that it was taken as such for such a terrible example as 'women can't do ~mens' work~' no, linda, you're just not a size 13 wide in boots, maybe try a size 8 and get back to us on this.
Also, the whole idea was comical, "let's support our husbands by stealing there work shoes for a few hours!" I am hoping that most of them did ask, but still
No, it's actually just a story about making sure you have properly fitting footwear. All these metaphorical interpretations are just people looking for something that isn't there.
The "women are talking too much" is actually very strange since studies have shown that (in classrooms specifically) the girls usually speak less than 20% of the time. If the girls speak around 30% or more, they're, by both men and women (read themselves), seen as talking too much. But they're not even talking half of the time yet, which is crazy. We need to empower girls to take more space and talk more.
I'd hope that in a classroom, a big portion of speaking time is attributed to the teacher, not just the students. Classrooms are also a bad example for such a study because talking "out of turn" is nearly always "too much". And giving a short, precise answer vs talking around the topic because you didn't pay attention will also affect the amount of "allowed" talking done by different students. Depending on the age of the students I wouldn't find it unlikely (at least it seemed like that in my schooltime), that the short, precise answers would come predominantly from the girls, whereas many of the boys would not pay attention and talk a lot of nonsense. I imagine doing such a study in an environment where people can talk freely and ideally with (fully formed, post-puberty) adults (since the original statement was about women, not teenage girls) would produce much more reliable and trustworthy results.
Yep. I'm non-binary but frequently mistaken for a woman, and I once had a man accuse me of hogging the entire conversation...halfway through my first sentence in a 15 minute "conversation". He'd been monologuing for 15 minutes, but me answering his question was apparently unacceptable.
@waffles3629 I went on a date once. Should have guessed how it was going to go after he refused to pick a different place because "I like the food," even though I told him I literally can't eat anything there. He talked for 30 minutes, I couldn't get a word in edge wise. Once I finally got a chance to talk, maybe 2 minutes later I noticed his face. He was done eating at that point. I asked he if was ok. He said "yeah, you haven't said a single word this entire time. I think I'm ready to go." He paid the bill. I only had water, so it was all his food he paid for. And we left. A week later he messaged me "I had a really great time, want to hang again soon?"
@@lukasr5867 The point of the study wan't "who talked the most" but the fact that it was experienced that they talked TOO MUCH, when they weren't talking even half of the time yet. That was the thing. It's also a harder thing to test in a non-controlled environment. But the thing here is the experience of what is too much. How can less than half of the talking space be too much? And where does this come from?
20:23 this story only gets worse. The 10 year old boy only urinated next to his mom’s car because the law office he and his mom were visiting told him he couldn’t use their bathroom. So the law was literally working overtime on this poor little guy in the worse way possible
Why are some people so anal about who can use their bathroom? Like restaurants who only let customers use their bathroom to keep homeless people away. Let the kid take a freaking leak, take that inflated self-importance and shove it.
I can kinda relate to the part at the 9:39 mark because a few of my friends didn't know that me and my boyfriend and I were dating, and they said stuff like, "I think [my boyfriend's name] likes you," which helped me with my insecurities of people not staying and thinking that no one could love me romantically from my past, but still had to awkwardly explain that "I would God hope so we've been together for quite awhile."
Because men who have traditional values tend to be selfish, sexist, lazy. They want a traditional "wife" without the traditional life as that means getting a job and paying the bills.
I'd like the ones that claimed Earth can't be round because of the unrealistic hot temperatures of the inner layers to explain where they think magma comes from and why we have mountains and earthquakes.
In top of hypocrisy, Andrew Tate wanting to visit his mom is intresting after the horrible way she talks about and behaves towards her. If he is even partly like that irl, mom may be better without him.
@@alienboy1322 I think she is since Andrew takes his behavior after his father. However to Andrews benefit I must say that money wise he has taken care of his mother.
I bet some fans will take this as an argument how he doesn't hate women at all because how he treats his mother. While being a momma's boy and possibly raised like a little prince who can't do nothing wrong is surprisingly often the background of such men. They often expect the same behavior from other women later on in life or they're just some "westernized b*tches" with no real value to them.
How does the guy at 15:00 expect a trad-wife to contribute financially? Is he gonna let her start an OnlyFans or something? Because he sure AF doesn't want her having a career outside the house.
Men like that: I want a traditional wife that takes care of the house and kids full time because I don't want a random nanny or teenage babysitter raising my kids. Women: Ok but I need your money to buy stuff for the kids, groceries, and chores since I don't have the time to get a job because I'm doing all the things you asked me to do. Men like that: :O >:( GOLD DIGGER, YOU ONLY WANT ME FOR MY INCOME
Nah, he just wants her to do all the work he's doing AND take care of the home and kids, on top of that. Basically, he wants to contribute nothing to the relationship and be doted on.
He wants a woman to be totally financially dependent on him, but doesn’t want to be at all responsible for her needs (or the needs of their children, most likely). And yet he thinks women are selfish and greedy for expecting a breadwinner husband to keep up his side of the bargain after he demanded they stay home. The double standard is so obvious you could see it from orbit.
Also worth noting that, even ignoring the labour inherent in childrearing and housekeeping, the conflation of “traditional wife” and “stay-at-home mother with no job” is very much ignorant of historical gender roles. Throughout most of human history, most women were expected to chip in for tasks like farming, and during the Industrial Revolution, countless lower-class women were working in factories and sweatshops just like men. Up until the mid-20th century, the only women who could reliably afford /not/ to work were part of the upper crust, the wives and daughters of aristocrats and business moguls. So the “traditional” gender roles that are being gestured at by men like this were actually the exception, not the norm, up until the last 100 years or so. But because social conservatism requires a deep ignorance of what the past was actually like, the social norms of 1950s middle-class America get projected backwards and treated like ancient customs that have always existed.
The leg hair death threats is just expectations taking the most horrifying turn. It also reminded me of a guy who told me that women can't have hair on their chest. I look at him dead in the eye and replied "I wasn't aware women was a different breed of homo sapiens than men. I guess I learned something new today." Smh, I realise now I should have known cross-breeding was the most common way to make babies.
The thing about not hiring you bully thing happened to my grandpa. We're Jewish and a guy once shouted slurs at him, but then he interviewed for a job at my grandpa's business and my grandpa asked his opinion on (the slur he used)!and the guy recognised him and just walked out. Beautiful
Hey Click, I just wanted to say that you make me feel accepted as a trans woman; ty for being an ally Edit: Thanks for all the love and support, (also ty for hearting my comment)
19:39 I see this stuff and I think “Wrongful Termination Lawsuit, very profitable” idk if it’s because I grew up surrounded by lawyers or something but I swear the financial potential here is making my spidy senses go off 😂
29:45 Funny thing is, coffee shops charge more for plant-based milk because _plant-based milks _*_cost more_*_ than dairy._ It's simple economics. If yak-milk lattes suddenly became all the rage, Starbucks would charge more for them, too, not because they're, "fining people who don't like cow milk," but because yak milk is harder to come by.
From what I know plant-based milks actually do cost less to produce than dairy, dairy is only cheaper because the government subsidizes it to drive down the price, so maybe that’s what they mean? But if so it’s pretty misguided to protest at Starbucks rather than protest to the government, seeing as it’s not Starbucks that’s subsidizing the dairy industry.
@@dragoned7685 Okay. So it's not production cost but subsidies that keep the price of dairy low. The rest of my post still stands: if it costs more and it's not what the majority of the customers are buying, then the added cost gets passed on to the consumer. Starbucks can pass on the cost in one of two ways: (1) Charge a bit more for drinks using the more expensive milks or milk alternatives; (2) Increase the price of all of their drinks, effectively forcing the majority of their customers to subsidize the ones who want non-dairy substitutes. That casts these protesters in a different light, doesn't it? Not only are they protesting the wrong place, their effectively demanding that everyone else subside _their_ dietary lifestyle choice. I have said it before. I will say it again. The problem isn't _what_ we eat, it's _how_ we eat it and how we produce it.
The protesters should also realize that Starbucks, like any corporation, exists to make profits. If dairy milk is cheaper than plant based milk alternatives, and a majority of customers buy dairy milk drinks, naturally the more expensive milk alternatives are going to be more expensive to the consumer to justify the cost of supply.
@@dragoned7685 Actually one of the ways the government supports the dairy industry is they set a national mandatory minimum price for milk, to prevent dairies from undercutting each other into bankruptcy. So arguably the government is the primary reason the price of milk is so *high*. If the fed did remove all support for dairy, it's hard to say where the price would shake out after the industry collapsed and rebuilt itself. I expect skim milk would still be extremely affordable, since 19 gallons of skim milk are created as a byproduct for each 1 gallon of cream - and cream is used a lot in cooking and other food prep, as it's the base ingredient of butter, sour cream, cottage cheese, real ice cream, the nicer cheeses, etc. So I think even with a significantly reduced, post-subsidy dairy industry, the price of skim milk (and by extension skim milk cheeses like low-fat mozzarella) would still be pretty low. Higher-percent milkfat milks would cost more for each percent to compensate for the opportunity cost of leaving that cream in the milk.
Does bible wife group shoe thing actually seemed really fun. Imagine a bunch of dudes bringing their wives' high heels and just rolling on the floor trying to walk around. Sounds like a fricking riot! Too bad they had to bring in some stupid agenda
They've been doing this in church for at least 50 years to put women in their place. I remember walking into my mother's Sunday school class when I was like 7 and they were doing this shoe thing. It's literally in the lesson plan.
This is kind of like a reverse on the joke where a husband makes his wife put on his pants and when they keep slipping off he makes a smug rant about being the man of the household and everything he says goes. Then she makes him put on her pants and when he complains he can't get into them, she answers "that's right, and you aren't ever going to until you change your attitude."
I wear both men's and women's shoes, depending on the occasion. Of course, I'm also nonbinary, and couldn't care less for gender hierarchies, religious or otherwise.
"being emotionally stable is an inherently female trait" Lol bro just accidentally roasted himself, and from the way he reacted, I'd say it's an accurate self-roast. Edit: I found that dating preference calculator, and it's legit called "the female delusion calculator" lol. The guy who made it only based it on the US, and the race preferences are only Black, White, and Asian like they're the only races that exist in America or something. Fail. Like srsly, how am I gonna find out how many men in America fit the description of Jetstream Sam now?!!!
38:35 i mean, my dad called me "the conversation stopper" as an infant because i would smile and all conversation would stop and they'd coo over me. That story is always told by my father. He very clearly thinks my siblings and I were the most adorable babies to ever exist. But my dad's also not die-hard toxic, so.
13:45 so "real men™" have to be emotionally unstable, not take care of themselves and bad around children? Dude doesn't even realize how much he's hurting himself by his own beliefs! 🤣🤣🤣
Me and my wife started out both working. Eventually she hated the work atmosphere. Started getting depressed and just wanted to stay home but I couldn’t support both of us. So I found a job where I could support us both and let her quit and stay home if she wanted to. Now I’m out working and she stays home ( except when she helps a friend at her thrift store). She keeps the house clean and on the weekends I try and get out in the yard to clean and if she ever gets tired of being at home all the time and wants to do something she can. I don’t make her stay home and I also don’t make her work. This is just how our relationship naturally grew. She wants to be stay at home (most of the time) and I have the want/drive to provide for whatever she or I need and do whatever it takes to see that we are comfortable.
Being someone who is pansexual and grew up in a religious cult can tell you that I 100% believed I had 'given up my same-sex attraction for God' until later when I met the right woman that made me realize that never changed I just was also attracted to men so wasn't always at conflict with that brainwashing.
Ayyyyyyyyy, another pansexual. I’m aro, though, so I won't find anyone special until I actually find someone who fits me. Anyway, have a good day/night.
@@The-Dark-Bat my partner is Demisexual and it took a while for that to blossom. Who knows what'll happen. Regardless, hearts don't need romance to beat. You are valid.
@@KristianKumpula I prefer to give the benefit of the doubt. If someone tries to deceive me, that is on them. Edit: I refuse to let what could be a message of support go un said because I want to snap judge them. We all live on the internet and know nothing about one another and will likely never speak again. Why does it matter in the end?
The "wrong math" teacher is a symptom of no experience politicians, school boards, and administrators driving good teachers out the classroom. Schools sometimes have to hire anybody willing to take the job, including the abuse and low pay.
My first husband and I went to relationship counseling because of some issues we were having. I was working in social services, which pays horribly. I worked 60 hour weeks for under $25,000 a year. My husband was an accountant and made more than double my salary for only 40 hours a week. The therapist (male) actually suggested I do more of the housework to make up for the fact that I made less money, even though I worked much longer hours. How is that fair???
How terrible of the therapist to tell you bullsh*t like that. I hope you were able to switch therapists, your situation sounds difficult enough without a person that's supposed to be safe and constructive trying to make you feel guilty for these circumstances. Too often housework is not appreciated as the constant, draining and exhausting thing it is, especially by men of older generations who have never tried it themselves (only in my experience, though). Housework can drain you and unequal/unfair distribution of housework can break relationships.
26:27 in America, we learn that the statue of liberty is a gift from the french in elementary school if not shortly after (depends on the school system)... it's literally history that a 10 year old should know here.
@@minestar2247Mate, dudes want a "traditional wife" not a "traditional life". Men who want a traditional woman want a girl that will do the chores and sleep them while they play video games and drink beer all day. Never seen a dude say he wants a traditional life and can't wait to get an office job one day.
@@ClownHoundII I know that, that's what I also tried to convey, that you can't have one half because both sides need to fill in the needed tasks for stuff to work, and if she takes the "traditional wife", he has to take the "traditional husband"
@@minestar2247that's the problem with the tradwife bs. It's not a superior relationship for most women. In most cases it's bad for women even when the man is traditional. So no it's not a more complete relationship it's just a way to do it no better than equal relationships.
28:34 as someone who has a heart condition that has greatly affected my life it’s crazy what people say on both ends of this spectrum lol. People often over and under react to events but I don’t think someone should be scared to request medical help if they think something is wrong . Don’t shame them into thinking they’re weak for wanting to make sure they’re okay when it could very well be they’re not. It’s better to be safe than sorry 👍
I remember once during my grade 11 exams I got a bio essay topic that was about anti-vaxxers and there was a bunch of propaganda as sources to support it and I nearly cried I was so happy cause I’ve watched all your videos and I knew exactly what to say to disprove the arguments. Thank you for being who you are, you’re a gem ❤
Some people choose to believe in vaccines, other people choose not to believe in vaccines. What's the problem? The problem would be you wanting everyone to agree with you.
@@SuperMichelleDJUh, if wanting everyone to agree that vaccines don’t cause autism and that vaccinating everyone reduces or eliminates diseases, then yea, I would pick that option.
Honestly that's disgustingly petty on so many levels. Like the woman had surgery and saved her boss's life, and the boss takes that generosity and sh*ts on it.
I'm Polish and 2 years ago me and my friends met a group of Czechs on a hiking trip and we all talked in our first languages and completely understood eachother
13:00 that's what confuses me the most, they want someone to take care of the kids and house but then get upset when their part is to provide finacially? Like I'm so confused as to wtf they thought their place was gonna be? Its always about what the other is doing, not what they can provide. They want someone who doesn't work a job but they get upset when you dont have one? Like you're looking for the person you're insulting? this is sexism, it's expecting women to just do all these "feminine things" by existing then calling them lazy for not doing more on top.
The funny thing about the classroom picture is… that ALL AMERICANS ARE FREAKING IMMIGRANTS (except for indigenous folks obviously). This is not just racist af its also such a double standard.
As an American, I find it extremely amusing when I hear people complain about immigrants. I'm white, from the Midwest so I usually hear it from white people. I'm like Ma'am/sir, what is your ethnicity? "(European country names)." Do you see the irony there? "Well, my family came legally." AFTER the native populations were removed and illegal immigrants didn't exist! Your ancestors just survived a very long ship ride!
I would say at least most of them have immigration background/family history but you're right it's just racist. It's like saying we have normal citizens and then we have the non-anglo-saxon rest, which pretty much describes the worldview of such people. I heard ones the view of whiteness is less of a "who is white" and more of a "who's not" thing of mindset and I agree.
The American people are not immigrants they where born in the States the are the people. Whether one generation or ten they are still American. You would not turn to someone who was born in America but whose parents where mexican and say"your an immigrant". Heck if someone moves to my country pays tax and works hard I consider them one of us.
11:14 There are a whole lot of men who would love to go on at least a first date with this particular "gold digger", to find out if she matches with what we want in a partner.
I dunno. The things he finds on the net make me wonder how we even survive as a species. But I just can't stop watching it. But then I realize he's actually representing the sane version of humanity, and the people here do too. And I feel better.
33:40 I heard a really interesting podcast about fetuses, and that what is actually going on is the fact that the mother’s body and the baby’s fetus is in a death struggle, trying to kill each other, mom, trying to get rid of this parasite, and this heat is trying to suck out all of the blood and life of the mom. Hence a lot of reasons why miscarriages, and deaths at birth happen. Everybody is fighting to the death before they’re born!
25:50 this one makes me so angry. Men already struggle to open up because of peer pressure by other men, no need for us to add to that. I'm scared that the dudes who saw this Tiktok will now be too terrified to ever open up to their gf, even if most women would never behave like that
If men don't open up to their girlfriends because of what some stranger on tictoc said, it should be a wake-up call: either their girlfriend is toxic, or they need to do some healing. And probably work on their communication skills as well. Opening up to people is a wonderful thing. But it's not something men learned to do at all when growing up. Nor have us women learned how to open up with people who haven't learned to open up (exactly like us). So working on communication skills together, trying to find ways both can feel safe and comfortable and connected, is really important for our generation. Otherwise the next one is still going to have to fight with those same struggles.
13:30 Its not anti feminist to want to be a house wife or want to have that sort of slightly more 'traditional' relationship. Not inherently so any way However. You should be a traditional husband if thats what you want. Provide so that way your wife can be a trad wife. To think and expect otherwise is just hypocritical
Actually the question do have some merit (even if the follow up was stupid as hell). Considering only monolingual people all three languages (italian, spanish and french) are Romance languages which means they all originate from latin so there are a lot of similarities which means they would likely be able to communicate, however accent and speed of speaking can make things easier or more difficult Using myself as example (brazillian so Portugues as main language) I can understand the general meaning of texts in spanish and italian most of the time (although losing specific word meaning and subtleties like a double meaning or pun). As spoke languages I only experienced spanish and I had some easy with people from Argentina however a lot more difficulty to understand with people from Venezuela (however asking to speak slowly do helps) - it is however more difficult than text. As for french, even tho its also a Romance Language the few text I saw were not as comprehensible to me as italian or spanish ones, but people originally from those languages (or even Portuguese people as their accent and grammar is very different from ours) may have a easier time
The argument about the vegan baby is not coming from the vegan mom but from others who want to "crack" her. I am vegan and I have a cat... People (omnivores) have said to me that I am not vegan because I give regular cat food to my cat. As if if they can prove that you are not "perfectly vegan" it gave them the upper hand. Ridiculous.
@@hippydisnerd I know! I am always speechless... That kind of comments always come from non-vegan, a kind of gotcha! Guess next time I'm going to get a rabbit? lol Or the comment when I am eating candies "You know that gelatin contains porc..." super proud to catch me eating something that I "shouldn't". Yeah, I've been vegan for 20+ years, I know the ingredients that I want to eat or not and how to read labels. *sigh* It's trendy to make fun of vegans nowadays, even Click have too much fun telling stories sometimes, but you have wayyyy more BBQ warriors commenting on vegan page with 'mmmmm bacon' or 'nice salad, I'll take a fat juicy steak with that' than the other way around. Except for a really few extremist, we are a peaceful gang :-)
You are vegan. Your cat is not. How is it hard for people to understand that you are not eating the same food as your cat? The pellets we buy for our hens would be illegal to give to our cows, and that's fine because we're not giving them to our cows. It's almost like different species of animals have different dietary requirements.
36:30 that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard! And I bet ya that same guy also LOVES to complain about too high taxes because of the "welfare state"! 🤦♂️🤣
39:35 Does she really not realise that the reason why she couldn't handle that stress is mainly or entirely because she doesn't subject herself to that stress? During my first days hauling stuff in construction sites I sometimes got so tired I had to find a discreet spot to lay down for a while, but some months later the new people I was carrying stuff with had to take breaks when I wanted to keep going.
3:00 Fun fact, if you attempt to measure the distance to a rainbow via parallax, you get NEGATIVE ~150 billion meters, the distance to the sun, which is behind you.
A better explanation for the flood is that people did not get around much so their small space flooding was 'the whole world'. Also, the arch of a rainbow is a half circle. A dome would be half a sphere. And rainbows are full circles when seen from the air. These people are beyond nuts
@@marjoriejohnston4905 And older than the with Noah. Actually there are several flood stores from that part of the world that are older than the Noah version. It's almost like people took existing stories and modified them to fit their religion.
10:23 that reminds me of the story of that one physicist. She was at a conference and her name tag was somewhat hidden behind her long hair. This dude talked on and on how she didn't fully grasp the context of what they were discussing and told her she should read a paper by author XYZ (he was referring to said paper a lot). It was her paper, dude was citing her.
The "mansplaining" (sometimes women mansplains to mind you) is very common in a gym setting.....like the last time I went to a commercial gym and this dude started to explain benchpress technique to improve my PB to me....and I just went "ok!" and then went about my business....a while later I found him standing just gauking at me as i hauled up 110kg. My gym freind then told the guy what I usually do for fun (I'm into strongman-stuff).
11:20 or so: self proclaimed traditional men be wanting traditional gender roles until they realize they gotta be the sole provider/breadwinner while the wife is at home looking after the kids lol
@@TrueLimeyhoney Based on my own experience, they do love their kids and enjoy them as people but don't want to put in any effort into raising them. My husband is always sleeping or working. He gets so frustrated with our toddler, who acts a lot like him. He has poor communication skills so when there are issues, he just gives up within minutes. He either just leaves or gives them whatever they want. He is always telling me how amazed he is about how sweet, kind, curious, and smart our older child is. She is soooo helpful. Where did she learn all of those qualities? Me. She learned them from me. She is literally my mini me in personality 😂
Here are some "fun" facts about the gay bar that the police guy drove a car into. There were two claims by the officer, that he was swerving away from a dog and then one about to avoid another car. The cop ran a red light just before this. The street cam footage shows neither was true. The first owner who came down saw the guy, and the cop immediately asked what he was doing there and for his ID before trying to put him in handcuffs. It was the backup officers who tried to fight and arrest the second owner. Second owner is being charged by police with assaulting an officer and resisting arrest...and as you may expect, the cop who drove into a building was not breathalyzed or ordered to immediately give a blood test for drugs or alcohol
I remember my grandmother always saying "A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is still putting on its shoes". I think it was from a quote, but totally true!
Old saying/proverb, attributed to Mark Twain, Winston Churchill, the Chinese... And common enough that it's found its way into Jonathan Swift's and Terry Pratchett's works. Quoteinvestigator has a segment from 2014 about it and about digging into these details. :-)
As a vegan with 2 cats and who volunteers at a cat rescue, one thing that irks me is feeding a cat vegetables isn't even vegan. That is plant-based. A vegan diet for cats is a diet made up of meat, because the definition of veganism is a philosophy and way of living which seeks to exclude-as far as is possible and practicable-all forms of exploitation of, and cruelty to, animals for food, clothing or any other purpose. The keywords being possible and practicable. A plant based diet for cats is not possible. Feeding a cat meat is avoiding animal cruelty as far as possible for their needs. These fucking vegans claim to feed their cat vegan when they don't, they're just abusing these poor animals who will suffer from their choices.
@@m.h.4144 Yeah, I know. That's why we resent him a lot. He was a national hero. People trusted him. And as soon as he had the power, he surrendered and decided to work with the enemy while we could still fight. A lot of innocent civil lives where lost. Lives of people who trusted him to protect them, arrested by his police in their homes and sent to the most horrible fate. Children he ordered to be arrested too while it was not even requested by the nazis. The youngest child to be sent to Auschwitz was only few weeks old. He was born in the Drancy prison camp and never made it to the end of the travel. Some things can't be forgiven.
As an uninvolved outsider, I love how Swedes and Danes can never, under no circumstances, pass up an opportunity to shit on each other. Also, I’m German and speak a bit of Swedish and I agree that Danish sounds very odd. I’d guess maybe for Swedish or Norwegian speakers Danish is similar to how Dutch sounds like drunk German to us Germans where you can almost understand what they’re saying but not quite, which makes it a lot weirder than if you didn’t understand anything at all
As a half German, half Australian I can absolutely agree that Dutch is so confusing for my brain. Like it's English but not? And then there's also German but not really?? The 'drunk German' made me giggle tho ngl
Norwegian here! I understand both Danish and Swedish quite well, but might have to ask a Dane from towns close to the German border to slow down a bit xD The three Scandinavian countries joke about the others all the time to the point of there being a dedicated type of joke for it:) I can still remember my Swedish physics teacher introducing each problem with something like "So it's the last minute of the hockey game, and Sweden is leading 15-2..." xD
@@JustAnzia Same although my step dad who was born on Zealand understand Swedish better than Norwegian. Also I saw a video where an American said Danish sounded more English than the rest of the Nordic languages. In any case I think that if anyone wanna learn one of the Scandinavian languages they should start out with Norwegian.
38:30 i don’t like babies. At all. However, that does not mean that all people of a certain sex must agree because of what I think. You don’t get to determine what other people can like or dislike.
The interesting thing about meteor craters is that they are circular. Most people, if they're asked to make a guess, would say that meteors going straight down = circle crater, meteors going in at angle = stretched elliptical crater. That's not so, though, and you can see people testing it or try for yourself by firing ball bearings at high velocity into deep flour or sand at various angles.
Do it, the breeze on your bare skin feels SO NICE. Plus, when they get prickly, theyre really useful for scratching when your legs get itchy at night and you dont wanna reach down with your hand and scratch them.😊
As a former homohophobic, it was definitely because of the denial. Like, « I want to date this girl but i’m not gay cuz it’s disgusting, right ? Right ? »
Mine was wanting to save myself and my friends from Hell. Honestly I was just a terrified child who cried myself to the point of puking because of what would happen to everyone on judgement day
It takes a lot of courage to face yourself after being wrong or being in denial so I am proud of you for the work you have put in to realize where the homophobia was coming from, so many too many people don't because they are scared of what they will find even if it isn't being lgbtq it could be other things they have suppressed about themselves for fear of being ostracized. Other times it does just come down to the hate and fear instilled into them via religion or culture about lgbtq people and/or mysogny or honestly a combination of all these things more than not. Self awareness leads to being a better human being so keep up the work :) Great job!
@@anitacrumbly Thanks ! It is specially because of friends that slowly educated me and made me understand that it was okay, I owe them a lot. They really were a great support in this important moment of my life (homophobic -> maybe i like girls too -> wait actually i don't like men)
32:38 honestly, as a vegan parent who has breastfed his kids (I'm a trans man btw), this just reads as some anti vegans trying to use it as a gotcha, even though the whole point of veganism is to not consume anything from creatures that cannot consent to being used in that way. It's really annoying, and honestly, I think it's best not to even engage in that conversation. To say "I do not want to talk about veganism with you" and walking away when they continue.
(39:50) Imagine defining your responsibilities based on shoes. 20-29: being taken care of 30-39: taking care of home, children 40-49: working hard job with high income
21:35 Right now I'm trying to learn Portuguese, Italian and Spanish at the same time (for different reasons) and it can be a nightmare remembering the differences
19:11 If you are physically sick and your boss demands you to work anyway, you should intentionally throw up in the most inconvenient locations. Into the register, in major walkways, on the printer, on the control panel. They can't blame you for being forced to work in that condition, and now it's everyone else's problem, especially if it actually IS contagious.
Even worse, it sounds like this was in food service. Barf on the grill, in the takeout bags... And watch while the health inspectors rip the boss a new one
Tbh the traditional girl is goals for that kinda life. I'm open to both working too but if a guy expects me to take care of the house and children on my pwn he can't expect me to have a job as well. And I'd always insist on him having at least am active role in the kids' lives, I ain't playing single mom just because he works. It's great to see more and more traditional women are realising that they can and should pick carefully too
Yeah. I don't know if I can see myself having a family anytime soon, but if I ever do I love the idea of both parents working part-time, and spending the rest of our time doing stuff like gardening, raising animals, building and crafting stuff -- maybe even starting a side hustle out of the house -- and hanging out with each other and the kids. Learn oodles of fun skills, pass them on to the next generation, have plenty of time to spend with each other. Having one parent basically absent while the other runs the house full-time just sounds sad and boring, tbh.
As a Betta Male, I can confirm that we are novice-maintenance (still require lots of care though), have a lifespan between 2 and 5 years (if kept healthy), are pretty, make good pets and swim around in a tank (in style).
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sounds like a vibe tbh
This is the best comment. It took me a moment 😂
as a woman i hate it when men arent 9 feet tall make 1.9 billion dollars a week, pamper me, while also letting me cheat on them
This is what incels think women want
As a nonbinary afab person my genitals keep screaming at me to have a 9 foot tall bf. My ovaries quake at the thought. But the gay agenda is causing me to only go after femboys! I feel so conflicted, I hate this. I wouldn't wish this on anyone 😢
I knew it! Andrew Tate was right all along!!!
*furiously chomps down on red pills i found on the floor*
Right, if he can fit in a vehicle, he’s too short
Right? I really had to settle when I married my husband. I mean, he's one of the sweetest humans I've ever met and we have a mutual adoration and admiration thing going on, but I really wanted that 10' tall billionaire who exists only to give me what I want when I want it and otherwise disappears into a cupboard when I don't need him around. 😂
A fetus being a vampire actually makes sense. At least now I understand why later they're called ankle biters.
They yearn for more.
Funny enough a fetus actually meets the definition of a parasite.
So. Technically. Milk is filtered blood. So babies are kinda like vampires for a year or so.
AND, we baptise them in holy water (if that's you religion), so we heal their vampirism!
Ankle biters is what you call small dogs
the guy that wants a domestic stay at home wife but also resents a woman who stays at home and doesn’t have a job.. 🤦🏼♂️ The lack of self awareness is staggering.
Yeah like if you want a stay-at-home wife you Gitta accept that you are the sole money bringer
"I want a stay at home wife without her being a stay at home wife!"
@@Sly-Mooseremember, those kind of bois are the one with low standards.
No, he wants a (step-)mommy for himself and the babies they're going to have. He wants to share the costs 50:50 but also only wants to do half as much as his wife-mommy does. Of course she also needs to be always pretty and be ready for naughties whenever he feels like it.
@@JazzySnaky Weird. You misspelled "low respect for women"
Woman confirms she is exactly what the guy is looking for and he instantly starts accusing her of being a gold digger. r/FacePalm indeed.
I mean, there's a reason people like Andrew Tate literally have to pay women to be around them. Or kidnap them, I guess.
If he wants a traditional stay at home wife he's going to have to give her an allowance.
These guys don't quite understand what a traditional wife is, or even what a housewife is, by the sound of it. It also seems like these guys don't want to be traditional husbands either.
This is the first time I've ever seen a case where someone wants a stay-at-home partner who also goes to work.
Because this hits so many contradicting stereotypes it makes it real hard for me to believe it's not fake. I feel it's more likely this was written by someone lampshading the whole dating-world thing. Like it's from the cheesiest soap opera, not real life.
@@TheRawrnstuffI think it is someone who has just gone WAAAAY too far down the red pill rabbit hole and are self sabotaging.
The type of woman he wants is the 1940-60s TV housewife like I Dream of Genie. It isn't a reality and instead of critically looking at what is possible, demands that type of wife that also has a income.
He isn't wealthy so can't provide that type of life financially, he projects the insecurity that he is only as good as his income.
He doesn't want to put in the effort to a relationship outside of going to work and coming home, like he sees on old TV shows. He wants to have a fictional perfect life and since that is almost impossible, sabotages any possible relationships with his toxic negativity
The woman that got fired made my blood boil honestly. I had the same type of shitty boss that would say "but we're family here!", and then proceed to talk shit about every worker. Not to mention that after I got pregnant and started feeling ill, I took ONE DAY off and that snake boss called me and told me to come in person to talk, and she told me "I understand that you felt ill, but we were minus one worker, didn't you thought about us?". I was genuinely baffled and I still am that people like this can exist...
"We are family here!" all too often means "So we will be just as abusive and think we get away with it." Those people most times do come from toxic and abusive households.
"We're all family here. Unfortunately for you, I hate my family."
I once got a 30 minute lecture and got threats to cut my hours all because I had a panic attack in the store and was getting lectured while I was still hyperventilating. I was freaking out and crying to the point where I just left for the day. F*cking jerks. At least the manager who did it eventually apologized.
I had a boss get mad at me once for taking a sick day off. So I came in sick the next time and threw up in front of him, then told a horrified customer, "oh, no, I can't go home sick. Boss will be mad." She complained to corporate. He never gave me shit again.
They know they're the thing that gives you money so they just get a narcissistic/self-centered power trip and treat you like even if you're having a child or dying of cancer they'll put themselves before your life
"i want a traditional woman who stays at home w the kids' 'so, that means you'll make enough money to support a family of 5 right?' and then they get all flustered because they suck at math and just assume shit works out automatically without them having to put as much effort into the traditional role as they expect the wife to lmao
Honestly this goes both ways. Not really a gender specific thing
That dude has no idea how traditional relationships work. 😂
i mean, is it tho? i guess if someone says they want to BE a traditional wife and cant cook/clean. but thats something you can learn. making enough money for a big family is a lot more luck based. still i think so many guys forget that being a traditional husband is more than sitting on your ass and telling people what to do- its a lifestyle you literally have to buy.@@hhj186
@@hhj186yeah it really does
Pretty sure that guy wants to marry a paradox tbh 😂
The guy who wanted a "traditional woman" but without the responsibility of funding the homemaking (that he wanted) didn't want a wife. He wanted to be parented by the same woman he's screwing.
Which is kinda disgusting when thinking about it. Bro is a drone
My prediction is that he is from Alabama or Kentucky.
It's basically "I work so hard I want someone to let me relax when I'm at home, but also I want them to work as hard as I do during the day and pay for everything as well"
As if women have some infinite stamina cheat and the system isn't completely broken. Traditionally women could do all the housework because the man could bring home enough for them to not have to work. That's no longer true, so wash some dishes, learn to cook and then perhaps both you and your partner will have enough energy left over to protest the shit show the world has become.
@@murpl1462I'm betting they're from Reddit and Tate University.
@ViridianFlow Exactly. If they can't afford a traditional lifestyle, blame the system that made things that way, not the person you're trying to date.
It's fine to want that strategy, but the economy is too garbage at the moment for that strategy to be practical for most.
When I see people with 3 kids and no means to properly care for them, I look at them like they have two heads. "Why did you make the same mistake 3 times?"
I know it likely has to do with severe lacks in sex-ed, and with barriers to birth control, as well as sociopolitical barriers and overbearing religious family.
It just makes me mad to see kids being neglected because someone felt pressured into having them without fully knowing what parenting requires.
Having kids these days is the financial equivalent of having a pet lion. You'd have to be insane, flamboyantly rich, or both to have one. Multiple? May the gods of prosperity have mercy on your irresponsible soul.
26:13 Dude. It took literal YEARS for my husband to be comfortable enough to finally be vulnerable with me. Years. The day he was and had a breakdown about something that was going on in his life, it was the most bittersweet day of my life. I was torn up that he was suffering, but he finally allowed himself to open up to me. He finally crossed that final threshold of trust and knocked down that final wall he had held onto for so long. And you better believe I was there for him and gave him everything I had to support him. He was so afraid for so long I would see him like this trash person did if he took off the armor, and I told him that I saw him no differently after the tears than I did before them. That I was honored to finally become a true safe space for him. He’s let the emotions flow freely ever since. He is my rock, but I am also his. ❤
You're a good spouse!
I kinda made it about myself so if you don't like that type of reply don't worry, won't take it personal, you don't need to read this
This is so wholesome. I wish I could also take my armour off with someone :( probably won't happen but it makes me feel better to know that there's happy people out there
hmm.. I'd love to hit the like-button on that reply, but the number sits perfectly at 69 and I don't wanna ruin it (yes, I am a man-child, I know)
@@ichbrauchmehrkaffee5785 shi same :'), but this original comment was really sweet tho, love to see it♥wishing the best for u all
It is best to find comfort in one's armour, for one has little hope in changing others. Be strong my buddy/friend/guy, for we near the ai revolution! There will be so many happy to have you take off your armour, between Microsoft, Google, not to mention various governments all around the world, The next generation of smartphones!... This does not seem very positive... Hmmm but if an ai companion robot was open source... A difficult proposition, but there is hope... Could a company sustainably be public? I wonder... But for now the armour should not be seen as armour, but instead a blanket, for it is within ones power to joyfully bear, growing and gaining knowledge within solace.
no... I'm not edgy... if you think this is edgy you are simply too soft!!
I'm surprised at the number of people who don't realize that the "traditional family" they are talking about was ONE INCOME....of course you're going to be paying for it all!
I think many are playing dumb to excuse their unwillingness to contribute to the household labor, but others genuinely don't seem to recognize the fact that the increase in women in the workforce and the increase in men contributing to household labor are inextricably linked. They think "feminism taught women to neglect their families" but refuse to recognize they're the ones providing the least.
Tbh I never really thought about what a traditional household worked like because I had a single working mom, and with my dad's second marriage, they both worked. During one of my economic classes, the discussion on traditional households was brought up, and it was really eye-opening. I never really thought about how other households work because my mom was constantly promoting a self-reliance lifestyle. I honestly thought that was how every household worked like that, and it honestly made me feel icky on the idea of marrying someone and solely relying on his income. You do you if you want that kind of life, I wish you the best of luck, but personally, I prefer to earn my own income, not that home makers are moochers, they infact do have a job, obviously, its just not my cup of tea.
@@LilChuunosuke"I refuse to bring home enough for us to live on alone, but I also don't want to do anything so you need to work as hard as I do plus also do extra at home. You know, because men are totally the stronger sex even though I expect the woman to do way more work than me"
Yeah, these morons are broken.
@@misscat6055 Home makers do have a job, but this job is dependent on the job of the other person. In a way it is protected by a government (through marriage), but incomparably to other jobs that use a written document exclusively about it with insurances and other protections. It also doesn't count as experience in any well-paying job. So you're right, home makers have a job, but that's just what is said to make them feel better or make people realize it takes effort.
Yeah, as much as guys like this love to rant about women not wanting to be stay at home moms anymore, they sure are doing everything they can to fight things like minimum wage which would make this a possibility again. Unless you're incredibly lucky, almost nobody can afford housing, even before all the groceries and phone bills, working full time. While it's not for everyone, I guaranty that if these men could actually afford to support a family on just their income, a lot more women would be interested in the life style they love to push. But paying livable wages is too radical for these people, so they're kind of playing themselves
The whole traditional woman/man conversation was absolute GOLD. The sheer hypocrisy of this dude! 😂 He's expecting his partner to keep the house tidy, raise kids, tend to his every whim AND have a full time job?? This dude is actually insane.
He wants a mom, not a partner 😂
A nanny, a maid, a chef, an earner, a sexual partner & a romantic partner.
But women have these naturally 🤡
Well according to him mental stability is a feminine trait 🤷🏻
@@Genderanarchy So is wearing glasses and showing emotion. And having good hygiene and smooth skin. Being a good person is feminine, apparently.
That was so baffling to me 😭She's literally EXACTLY what so many of these guys want and he STILL expected more from her??? Insane.
Ah yes, the calssic "I'm gonna pick and choose whatever benefits me from the feminist/anti-feminist movement without caring about what could benefit my potential partner"
I never understood the "being gay is a choice" argument. Even if it was, why whould it be wrong to choose to be gay?
Yeah, not all of us are bi or pan!
Like If it were to be a "choice" why would one choose something which can potentially ruin their relationships with their conservative family get ridiculed by the society and is literally thought to be sinful by their faith? Not to mention many countries which has still not legalized same-sex marriages and can literally threaten their lives if found out.
Exactly. Then again I've been told I'm sinning for embracing my asexuality instead of changing it. But also that I'm not sinning for being asexual because I can't control that, but I'm sinning for not trying to change it.
So yeah, apparently I'm sinning for not changing something that can't be changed.
@@waffles3629 conservatives will treat sex as the biggest taboo topic then proceed to call those from the asexual spectrum sinful.
@@strawberryshortcake4345 yep, then again I've also been told I'm sinning for "engaging in the gay lifestyle"...I'm not gay. Like it's not a lifestyle, but even if it was I'm not gay so huh?
Fun Fact: Rainbows are actually full circles! An observer in a plane can see the entire rainbow.
when it's sunny you can do that outside with a garden hose
Wait. If theyre full circles does that mean.......
The earth...... Is not flat after all.........?!
SM64 was onto something 😮
I knew they were circles but i didnt know you can see them from planes, i just googled for footage and IT LOOKS SO FREAKING COOL THANK YOU! 🖤🌈
@@nettalie4435well, the earth is round, but rainbows being circles is because rain droplets are round, not flat
(13:25) Feminism is about women having the choice to do what they want. If they want to work or be a housewife, or both. Not everyone has the opportunity. But the idea is that there shouldn't be gender based restriction or expectations.
A woman choosing to be a homewife and a man looking for a homewife isn't anti-feminism. What is anti-feminism is to expect/require every woman to be a homewife.
Literally, what I was about to say bro😂
Or require a woman to do 125% of the work (like this one was...)
@@morganablackwater2017 oh yeah, that guy was anti-feminism, but not for the reason he though
The guy looking for a traditional woman is hilarious. You can see the rusty gears moving in his brain as he realizes what a traditional woman would look for in a man... and gets angry as a result😂😂😂
It's like with the modern women: "When women raise their standards, men don't meet them." (It's a quote, but I don't remember who said it. It was about feminism though)
@@AmarisFrede i don't really see how that's similar...
@@zumazuma568 you're mostly right, that one would be more about the last bit of the video rather than about the trad relationship. But still, it *_is_* sort of similar in that both are about the consequences of having too specific standards... While not identical, they're similarly undesired.
Lol, she Uno Reversed him.
"I need you to be dependant on me and have no real skillset outside of domestic tasks or qualities beyond physical attractiveness, but I also kind of want to be able to resent you for it."
The "shoe metaphor" made me lol: my dad's feet were smaller than my mum's. They were very similar in height (both around the 5'7-8" mark), but dad had a size 6 feet, and mum had a size 7-8. If mum bought a pair of shoes that were too small there was a good chance they fit my dad. For a good few years my dad's "best" shoes were a pair of women's black lace ups with a pattern on the tops. They had been too small for mum but for some reason they had been unable to return them, dad really liked them and they just looked like really fancy dress shoes 🤷. There are so many fragile men who would never have even tried those shoes on, he not only didn't give a shit, but when someone complimented the shoes he wasn't shy in telling the story. My dad was an army vet born in the 40s. He was a feminist, an LGBTQ ally (even in days when it was frowned on), and pragmatist. He worked permanent night shift after he left the army in order to earn enough to support the family and still did his share of household jobs & child care. Mum dealt with all the household finances because dad was terrible at that kind of thing, which meant she gave him "pocket money" out of what was left over...he never once complained that it wasn't enough, etc, he was just glad he didn't have to deal with the money side of things, he used to say that he just earned it, mum figured out how to use it best.
So, the irony is, that in the fundies metaphor...mum's shoes (at least the ones that fit her) would probably have been too big for dad 😂 💀. No doubt those alpha grindset dudes would have called him a beta or some other attempt at an insult. I'm also sure he would have laughed in their faces...his family was priority, making sure everyone was taken care of, and he knew that some people in the family were better suited to some jobs than others! He had more "alpha" (the genuine kind not the bullshit these idiots try to push) in his little toe than Tate and his cronies can even dream of...they have no idea what a "real man" is.
Your dad sounds cool
You family sounds wonderful
notice there were NO women in that bible group who didn't have husbands. This is one of about 26,000 reasons I'm an atheist. Most religions do NOT make single women feel welcome.
Your dad is goals! Such an Inspiration
Your dad sounds real cool. and definately has his priorities right
usually dudes who are stressed about “gold diggers” currently have no gold
Yes 😆 Also "woman benefits a lot from a divorce" dude you have rental apartments, fart smelling couch and 5k bucks what are you talking about
@@erviatangerine5108 hey, leave my fart smelling couch out of this....
@@erviatangerine5108Kinda true though. A lot of divorce courts are very biased.
The thing that really frustrates me about anti homeless architecture is that the people who implement it know it is cheaper to actually provide proper support for homeless people and they choose the cruel option instead
Know what's even crazier is that I see those signs every week and I don't see jack happening on the municipal level to help, just a bunch of unaffiliated nonprofits for the homeless community. Like, I know Dallas County's broke, and I know there are sustainable solutions within reach, but the city council doesn't have to advertise their impotence too. Absolute cringe.
The problem, from what I've been informed, is that addressing homelessness often comes with a positive feedback loop. If you provide proper support for the homeless *in highly desireable areas* then there is a very high probability of attracting _even more people_ to the region, eventually putting you right back where you started in terms of homelessness. A lack of supply is only half the problem. The bigger and oftentimes harder-to-address problem is too much demand.
@@korayven9255 if the demand is less than the supply, consistently (if you don't agree to that - "zoom out" of the picture until you do), but somehow it still does not work out, there must be something wrong with the system... just sayin
And its not like said architecture doesnt affect the non-homeless, its just stupid. I saw a tilted bench (I think it was a bus stop), where no one was able to sit, only kinda lean on it. Disabled and elderly people had commented below the pic how it was designed in hell, but gotta keep those who have nothing uncomfortable.. priorities, man.
@@korayven9255Ummm. In theory sure, as long as you ingore the fact that US cities are hundreds of miles apart and the people in question are homeless. And therefore cannot easily move.
You also have to ingore the percentage who'll then go on to be productive and as long as thats 20% or better you will yeild a net postive to cashflow. I think more then 20% of people jusy in general want more then just food and shelter dont you? like any entertainment at all.
the amount of real science i’ve learned from click is wild. he’s really out here teaching us science stuff in a fun way
haha just don't take me as an 100% source, I mostly ad lib stuff I remember from engineering
but happy to hear it's fun learning
he smort
I'm just here to say i love your username lmao 😂
@@TheClickmake a "cliccypedia" with clips of all your click academy clips :D
What’s sad to me is that 10 seconds on Google would fix the problem entirely. So sad.
my biggest complaint about helping my kiddo with math homework is that you often run across those sorts of nonsensical/poorly written questions that end up being literally unsolvable by the logic being used/by the way they word the question. I understand that part of the point of these story problems is to see kids applying the rules they've learned and parsing information, but HOW IN THE HELL are they supposed to do that when you yourself can't write a coherent question? How are they supposed to logic something out when your question doesn't logic?
That one about the guy wanting a Traditional Woman, and when he finally found one he didn't like it, made me realize something. All of these guys who say that they want a "Traditional Woman", don't actually want one. What they want is a Second Mother. Someone who can take care of them and clean up after their mistakes, but also do all the actual heavy lifting. Like a mother would their child. That's a more accurate description of the kind of relationship they're looking for. I've always had a personal theory that a lot of those types of guys tend to idolize the only relationships with a woman they've ever known, which is usually the one they have with their mom.
Ok Freud
Mom with benefits
They want a mom they can frick 🤮
It's exactly that. They want someone to do twice the work they do while also being considered the 'submissive' half of their relationship. They want a mom they can f***.
@@phoenixfire8978 r/angryupvote
Just wanted to share something exciting that is happening in my life:
I am a trans woman. I've been out for years and at the end of July this year, I'm getting SRS (sex reassignment surgery) I'm really excited and also super anxious as I got a lot to do before that day.
I know that while I'm in recovery, I'm going to be binge watching all of your videos again
Good luck! It's gonna go amazing :)
OMG CONGRATS AND GOOD LUCK ♡︎♡︎♡︎
Good luck! That sounds a great achievement! :)
I wish you the best of luck!
Oh shoot, good luck (gender neutral version for next word) dude! Hell yeah!
Oh the cop(s) crashing into the bar story is so much worse. The owner was arrested because they were questioning the police officer about the incident. There is camera footage showing the cop running a red light and then just plowing into the bar (from a couple different cameras/angles). On top of that, the other cops who showed up didn't breathalyze the driver because "he didn't seem impaired". The owners' lawyer is having a field day with it. If you're in the St. Louis area, they have reopened the bar and both of the owners are fine and the one was released, but lawyers also cost money, so heading down to get a drink or two might be a nice way to help out.
Fun fact: rainbows are actually perfect circles, it's just that at regular human heights above the ground it'll almost always "clip into" the ground since obviously rain can't be under the ground either.
Rainbows viewed at much higher altitudes, or even from a plane are perfect circles as there you can actually have rain below you reflect the light back at you.
Also additional not-so-fun fact: Antivaxxers and flat earthers are an off-shoot of the more radical evangelical christian branches in the US, if you can make someone believe that the vaccinations are bad or that the government is lying about the earth being round it makes it much easier to con people into other BS like believing into a god that loves you if you just give the church all your money. And of course a bunch of pastors are more than happy to abuse that for personal gain, a lot of the religiously motivated persecution has ties back to those movements purely because those people are easy to control via fear and the alienation they have endured from the rest of society.
It's a shit show and most of those people are victims.
I've known this for a while but it's pretty interesting and cool
Oh yeah, you can find photos taken from skyscrapers online, where it shows that. And wow, they are so perfect and beautiful bubbles of light, just amazing!
Under certain conditions you can also see rainbows or halos around the sun or moon. Ice crystals can produce even more such visual effects.
"you're a family member for as long as you're not a hassle" is crazy accurate, not just in work, but in actual families. it's wild.
I'm sorry for the way your family has treated you. I hope you find or have found people that treat you well.
😢
It shouldn't be but sadly it is accurate for quite a few families. The great thing is that you can always go out and create your own. To quote Bobby Singer (Supernatural) "Family don't end with blood."
Yup, wildly accurate. My entire family does not speak to me anymore because my parents hit me and they saw it as an unnecessary hassle that I moved out & cut contact with my parents?? They kept my parents in their lives but not me because my parents were willing to continue to pretend our home life was healthy and stable but I wouldn't.
And I've been ostracized and cut off by many other people after starting my life over for standing by this mindset.
@alex_snow "A wise man once told me, "Family don't end in blood." But it doesn't start there, either. Family cares about you, not what you can do for them. Family's there through the good, the bad-all of it. They got your back, even when it hurts. That's family."
I found that what Dean said to Crowley was way better.
Thank you Click. I was kicked out of my home yesterday for being trans...I've had a lot of emotions to process and my emotional support demon has been so wonderful to hold on to and cry on ❤
I really hope you have some sort of support system outside of home and find stable housing. You are loved and deserve better.
@@joyautio3910 Grandma's letting me stay at her place while I find work and my own place to stay. Thank you for your kind words, stranger 💖
I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad your grandma is supportive, and I hope it gets better and safer
That's awful. I'm glad your demon is keeping you comfortable
I'm so sorry. I hope you're safe! 💚🏳️⚧️
Running a household is not a job, it's being an adult. But being a stay-at-home parent absolutely is a full time job. In fact, it's arguably more than just a full time job, because your only off-hours are when you sleep. And even then you're basically on standby mode. The sheer amount of sacrifices I see people make for a family just confirms that's definitely not something I'd ever want for myself. The difference is that you're running a household for multiple people, essentially by yourself. Even from a safe distance it looks extremely taxing.
I honestly love the single life. The daily chores around the house are light enough to leave room for free time. Usually every day. I do not envy stay-at-home parents. They do not get that luxury.
This. As for running a household, when you are single it is just you so it is being an adult. Add another person or more to that and it is exponentially more difficult.
I'd say the mental load is a part time job in itself. Housework is full or part time depending on the other members of the family. You have to teach kids how to clean and to actually do it, find ways to motivate them until it becomes a habit. Training them is a part time job right there!
I've absolutely spent 8 hours trying to clean and organize while my kids were at daycare. By the time it was bed time, I realized I should have just relaxed the entire day because it looked like I had done nothing!
100% it is at least 1.5 full time jobs with far more emotional effort than most other jobs. Can be 2+full time jobs if you are doing it solo (single married parents do exist).
I think it is a responsible decision to not have kids or even a relationship if you aren't willing to do that amount of work. It isn't lazy or immature. It takes a high level of maturity to look at all the effort and nope out BEFORE having kids.
This is the reason why the only way I would see myself being a stay at home partner would be with no kids, just pets.
Thank you. I feel seen.
Idk running with a house is absolutely a job houses can be very heavy /j
People really are just completely out of touch of what domestic labour traditionally looked like.
The model of the spouse as domestic labourer emerged in the context of cooking a meal requiring starting and managing a wood fire, where laundry was a dawn to dusk affair of continual hard labour, and where everything had to be done manually. Never mind it also traditionally included things like sewing and mending clothing, tending a garden (read: for food, not ornamentation), raising livestock, preserving food for the off-season, maybe involved brewing beer and the like, etc.
And that's all aside from the kids part, which not that long ago there was a good shot you'd lose along the way, and don't forget traditionally breast feeding lasted several years.
The people saying the baby isn’t vegan by drinking breast milk are probably just trying to pull a “gotcha” on the mother. It’s incredibly exhausting to interact with people like that. Especially when you’re just minding your own business and living your life.
If you're a vegan, you probably aren't minding your own business. Just sayin'.
@@therealfriday13th If youre one of that very vocal minority of them then maybe.
Most vegan people arent like that though. If anything I usually see more people complaining about those annoying types of people existing than I do actually annoying vegans.
No regular vegan would condemn anyone for breastfeeding and those that do are not just missing the point but also potentially trolls lets be real here.
Yeah, 100% it was supposed to be a "gotcha you aren't fallowing your morals! See you're a hypocrite, vegans are dumb and don't work" take. I've seen people try that exact take multiple times before in an attempt to say veganism is stupid/bad, they don't like vegans and don't understand how anything works, so they think your human child drinking the breast milk of a human made for human babies somehow goes against veganism.
Tell them that it's fine because you know you're not suffering from being used for food by your baby. Which is not something you can say about any other specimen of any other animal species. 💁♂️
@@therealfriday13th Nobody could ever be as annoying as anti-vegan people.
At least vegans care about animals, what's your excuse?
Sooooo, what exactly does the Traditional Guy at 17:30 think he's offering? Because I'm not seeing what he's bringing to the table here. She can already work full time and do 100% of the household tasks and child-raising WITHOUT him.
Oh, but every woman NEEDS a man! So him just condescending to be slaved for must make her happy!
That's just it. He himself is not a traditional guy yet expects a traditional wife. Guess they gonna be homeless then.
If you want a "traditional" wife then you sure as hell better be able to fill the traditional husband role!
Well, if the tasks of the traditional wife are already done, you kinda need to do the rest to not be utterly useless
aren't we expected to do that anyways
Works both ways, right? All these ladies that want "traditional" men... should "sure as hell" be ready to play the traditional wife role, right? Right?
@@wyzer9Sure! I don't think I've ever, in all my life, come across someone wanting a "traditional husband," though, and I see "tradwife" things all the time.
@@cheddarcheezit2647 Hold up. There are PLENTY of women who want a man that: proposes, pays for the marriage, pays all the bills, does all (or most) of the yard work and other manual labor, protects them physically, plays "mean parent" to the kids, acts "manly", etc. To what extent are you defining "traditional"?
"walk a mile in someone else's shoes" isn't a literal metaphor and frankly I'm upset on its behalf that it was taken as such for such a terrible example as 'women can't do ~mens' work~'
no, linda, you're just not a size 13 wide in boots, maybe try a size 8 and get back to us on this.
I extra lol-ed at that because my partner and I have the same size feet so can easily share shoes 😂🤣
Also, the whole idea was comical, "let's support our husbands by stealing there work shoes for a few hours!" I am hoping that most of them did ask, but still
It felt like so much copium to be honest
EXACTLY. Like, you only chose from a sample size of a singular guy, maybe the gender isn't the issue here.
No, it's actually just a story about making sure you have properly fitting footwear. All these metaphorical interpretations are just people looking for something that isn't there.
The "women are talking too much" is actually very strange since studies have shown that (in classrooms specifically) the girls usually speak less than 20% of the time. If the girls speak around 30% or more, they're, by both men and women (read themselves), seen as talking too much. But they're not even talking half of the time yet, which is crazy. We need to empower girls to take more space and talk more.
I'd hope that in a classroom, a big portion of speaking time is attributed to the teacher, not just the students. Classrooms are also a bad example for such a study because talking "out of turn" is nearly always "too much". And giving a short, precise answer vs talking around the topic because you didn't pay attention will also affect the amount of "allowed" talking done by different students. Depending on the age of the students I wouldn't find it unlikely (at least it seemed like that in my schooltime), that the short, precise answers would come predominantly from the girls, whereas many of the boys would not pay attention and talk a lot of nonsense.
I imagine doing such a study in an environment where people can talk freely and ideally with (fully formed, post-puberty) adults (since the original statement was about women, not teenage girls) would produce much more reliable and trustworthy results.
Yep. I'm non-binary but frequently mistaken for a woman, and I once had a man accuse me of hogging the entire conversation...halfway through my first sentence in a 15 minute "conversation". He'd been monologuing for 15 minutes, but me answering his question was apparently unacceptable.
@waffles3629 I went on a date once. Should have guessed how it was going to go after he refused to pick a different place because "I like the food," even though I told him I literally can't eat anything there. He talked for 30 minutes, I couldn't get a word in edge wise. Once I finally got a chance to talk, maybe 2 minutes later I noticed his face. He was done eating at that point. I asked he if was ok. He said "yeah, you haven't said a single word this entire time. I think I'm ready to go." He paid the bill. I only had water, so it was all his food he paid for. And we left. A week later he messaged me "I had a really great time, want to hang again soon?"
@@kittykaatletteful wow, that's....impressive. Lemme guess, he had no idea why you didn't want to hang out?
@@lukasr5867 The point of the study wan't "who talked the most" but the fact that it was experienced that they talked TOO MUCH, when they weren't talking even half of the time yet. That was the thing. It's also a harder thing to test in a non-controlled environment. But the thing here is the experience of what is too much. How can less than half of the talking space be too much? And where does this come from?
14:30 men: "i want a traditional wife to care for my kids and house"
Women: "okay, you're paying and supporting me"
Men: 😠
I want an unconventional wife; she should be quadrupedal, and have psychic powers.
20:23 this story only gets worse. The 10 year old boy only urinated next to his mom’s car because the law office he and his mom were visiting told him he couldn’t use their bathroom. So the law was literally working overtime on this poor little guy in the worse way possible
That's so stupid. What the hell
How malicious of them
sounds about right
American justice system moment.
Why are some people so anal about who can use their bathroom? Like restaurants who only let customers use their bathroom to keep homeless people away. Let the kid take a freaking leak, take that inflated self-importance and shove it.
I can kinda relate to the part at the 9:39 mark because a few of my friends didn't know that me and my boyfriend and I were dating, and they said stuff like, "I think [my boyfriend's name] likes you," which helped me with my insecurities of people not staying and thinking that no one could love me romantically from my past, but still had to awkwardly explain that "I would God hope so we've been together for quite awhile."
How was bro expecting to get a girlfriend that wants “traditional gender roles” if he doesn’t want a girlfriend that wants traditional gender roles?💀
He's like those weeks who want a waifu
he wants a mom he can fu*k while he slacks off
Because men who have traditional values tend to be selfish, sexist, lazy. They want a traditional "wife" without the traditional life as that means getting a job and paying the bills.
Bro wants someone to work, pay for stuff, keep the house tidy, care for kids, and care for him? Sir, that's an exhausted single mom.
Congratulations the Flat Earthers have graduated from flat to a dome. Hopefully they figure out there’s another half to that dome soon 😂
I'd like the ones that claimed Earth can't be round because of the unrealistic hot temperatures of the inner layers to explain where they think magma comes from and why we have mountains and earthquakes.
Or they might seriously regress to a hotdog shape.
@@mssunnylunarain7 I wouldn't even be mad.
Just a thought. If flat earth folks think the earth is flat and under a dome … that means they think the earth is a cake under a cake cover. 😂
@@emilygrimm5222Quick! Hide the Earth from those "is it cake?" channels! (The ones where they chop stuff in half to reveal it's cake)
12:40 men want a traditional woman until they have to pay for a traditional wife and life
In top of hypocrisy, Andrew Tate wanting to visit his mom is intresting after the horrible way she talks about and behaves towards her. If he is even partly like that irl, mom may be better without him.
I wonder if Momma Tate is aware what Andrew is doing.
@@alienboy1322 I think she is since Andrew takes his behavior after his father. However to Andrews benefit I must say that money wise he has taken care of his mother.
I bet some fans will take this as an argument how he doesn't hate women at all because how he treats his mother. While being a momma's boy and possibly raised like a little prince who can't do nothing wrong is surprisingly often the background of such men. They often expect the same behavior from other women later on in life or they're just some "westernized b*tches" with no real value to them.
@@gustavedore1073Yes with the money he gets from exploiting young women he traffics and financially abuses
How does the guy at 15:00 expect a trad-wife to contribute financially? Is he gonna let her start an OnlyFans or something? Because he sure AF doesn't want her having a career outside the house.
Men like that: I want a traditional wife that takes care of the house and kids full time because I don't want a random nanny or teenage babysitter raising my kids.
Women: Ok but I need your money to buy stuff for the kids, groceries, and chores since I don't have the time to get a job because I'm doing all the things you asked me to do.
Men like that: :O >:( GOLD DIGGER, YOU ONLY WANT ME FOR MY INCOME
"I want a traditional wife without her being a traditional wife!"
Nah, he just wants her to do all the work he's doing AND take care of the home and kids, on top of that. Basically, he wants to contribute nothing to the relationship and be doted on.
He wants a woman to be totally financially dependent on him, but doesn’t want to be at all responsible for her needs (or the needs of their children, most likely). And yet he thinks women are selfish and greedy for expecting a breadwinner husband to keep up his side of the bargain after he demanded they stay home. The double standard is so obvious you could see it from orbit.
Also worth noting that, even ignoring the labour inherent in childrearing and housekeeping, the conflation of “traditional wife” and “stay-at-home mother with no job” is very much ignorant of historical gender roles.
Throughout most of human history, most women were expected to chip in for tasks like farming, and during the Industrial Revolution, countless lower-class women were working in factories and sweatshops just like men. Up until the mid-20th century, the only women who could reliably afford /not/ to work were part of the upper crust, the wives and daughters of aristocrats and business moguls.
So the “traditional” gender roles that are being gestured at by men like this were actually the exception, not the norm, up until the last 100 years or so. But because social conservatism requires a deep ignorance of what the past was actually like, the social norms of 1950s middle-class America get projected backwards and treated like ancient customs that have always existed.
The leg hair death threats is just expectations taking the most horrifying turn. It also reminded me of a guy who told me that women can't have hair on their chest. I look at him dead in the eye and replied "I wasn't aware women was a different breed of homo sapiens than men. I guess I learned something new today." Smh, I realise now I should have known cross-breeding was the most common way to make babies.
??? Does dude think men without hairy chests are secretly women too?
@@seigeengine I mean, it would seem to be on-brand, wouldn't it?
The thing about not hiring you bully thing happened to my grandpa. We're Jewish and a guy once shouted slurs at him, but then he interviewed for a job at my grandpa's business and my grandpa asked his opinion on (the slur he used)!and the guy recognised him and just walked out. Beautiful
Hey Click, I just wanted to say that you make me feel accepted as a trans woman; ty for being an ally
Edit: Thanks for all the love and support, (also ty for hearting my comment)
i read that as click being trans bc im blind and said "wait what."
@@fourthmatchflame lmao. Relatable.
@@Kiyoox3 whoa 37 seconds ago
I accept you too. You're wonderful.
@@Meggzilla
19:39 I see this stuff and I think “Wrongful Termination Lawsuit, very profitable” idk if it’s because I grew up surrounded by lawyers or something but I swear the financial potential here is making my spidy senses go off 😂
29:45 Funny thing is, coffee shops charge more for plant-based milk because _plant-based milks _*_cost more_*_ than dairy._ It's simple economics.
If yak-milk lattes suddenly became all the rage, Starbucks would charge more for them, too, not because they're, "fining people who don't like cow milk," but because yak milk is harder to come by.
From what I know plant-based milks actually do cost less to produce than dairy, dairy is only cheaper because the government subsidizes it to drive down the price, so maybe that’s what they mean? But if so it’s pretty misguided to protest at Starbucks rather than protest to the government, seeing as it’s not Starbucks that’s subsidizing the dairy industry.
@@dragoned7685 Okay. So it's not production cost but subsidies that keep the price of dairy low.
The rest of my post still stands: if it costs more and it's not what the majority of the customers are buying, then the added cost gets passed on to the consumer.
Starbucks can pass on the cost in one of two ways: (1) Charge a bit more for drinks using the more expensive milks or milk alternatives; (2) Increase the price of all of their drinks, effectively forcing the majority of their customers to subsidize the ones who want non-dairy substitutes.
That casts these protesters in a different light, doesn't it? Not only are they protesting the wrong place, their effectively demanding that everyone else subside _their_ dietary lifestyle choice.
I have said it before. I will say it again. The problem isn't _what_ we eat, it's _how_ we eat it and how we produce it.
The protesters should also realize that Starbucks, like any corporation, exists to make profits. If dairy milk is cheaper than plant based milk alternatives, and a majority of customers buy dairy milk drinks, naturally the more expensive milk alternatives are going to be more expensive to the consumer to justify the cost of supply.
@@dragoned7685 Actually one of the ways the government supports the dairy industry is they set a national mandatory minimum price for milk, to prevent dairies from undercutting each other into bankruptcy. So arguably the government is the primary reason the price of milk is so *high*.
If the fed did remove all support for dairy, it's hard to say where the price would shake out after the industry collapsed and rebuilt itself. I expect skim milk would still be extremely affordable, since 19 gallons of skim milk are created as a byproduct for each 1 gallon of cream - and cream is used a lot in cooking and other food prep, as it's the base ingredient of butter, sour cream, cottage cheese, real ice cream, the nicer cheeses, etc. So I think even with a significantly reduced, post-subsidy dairy industry, the price of skim milk (and by extension skim milk cheeses like low-fat mozzarella) would still be pretty low. Higher-percent milkfat milks would cost more for each percent to compensate for the opportunity cost of leaving that cream in the milk.
Charge more for dairy, there, now its fair
Does bible wife group shoe thing actually seemed really fun. Imagine a bunch of dudes bringing their wives' high heels and just rolling on the floor trying to walk around. Sounds like a fricking riot! Too bad they had to bring in some stupid agenda
They've been doing this in church for at least 50 years to put women in their place. I remember walking into my mother's Sunday school class when I was like 7 and they were doing this shoe thing. It's literally in the lesson plan.
@@elaexplorer eww
This is kind of like a reverse on the joke where a husband makes his wife put on his pants and when they keep slipping off he makes a smug rant about being the man of the household and everything he says goes. Then she makes him put on her pants and when he complains he can't get into them, she answers "that's right, and you aren't ever going to until you change your attitude."
Funny thing is, me and my boyfriend wear basically the same shoe size. It's off by like half a size. We try on each other's shoes all the time 😂
I wear both men's and women's shoes, depending on the occasion. Of course, I'm also nonbinary, and couldn't care less for gender hierarchies, religious or otherwise.
"being emotionally stable is an inherently female trait"
Lol bro just accidentally roasted himself, and from the way he reacted, I'd say it's an accurate self-roast.
Edit: I found that dating preference calculator, and it's legit called "the female delusion calculator" lol. The guy who made it only based it on the US, and the race preferences are only Black, White, and Asian like they're the only races that exist in America or something. Fail.
Like srsly, how am I gonna find out how many men in America fit the description of Jetstream Sam now?!!!
38:35 i mean, my dad called me "the conversation stopper" as an infant because i would smile and all conversation would stop and they'd coo over me. That story is always told by my father. He very clearly thinks my siblings and I were the most adorable babies to ever exist.
But my dad's also not die-hard toxic, so.
13:45 so "real men™" have to be emotionally unstable, not take care of themselves and bad around children?
Dude doesn't even realize how much he's hurting himself by his own beliefs! 🤣🤣🤣
For real, though! 😂
Me and my wife started out both working. Eventually she hated the work atmosphere. Started getting depressed and just wanted to stay home but I couldn’t support both of us. So I found a job where I could support us both and let her quit and stay home if she wanted to. Now I’m out working and she stays home ( except when she helps a friend at her thrift store). She keeps the house clean and on the weekends I try and get out in the yard to clean and if she ever gets tired of being at home all the time and wants to do something she can. I don’t make her stay home and I also don’t make her work. This is just how our relationship naturally grew. She wants to be stay at home (most of the time) and I have the want/drive to provide for whatever she or I need and do whatever it takes to see that we are comfortable.
This is the most funky fresh comment on this video. Super happy for you guys.
"please don't judge me"
_"this is a judge free zone"_
"ok but you wanting someone to take care of you is so bad, you're basically a gold digger lmao"
Being someone who is pansexual and grew up in a religious cult can tell you that I 100% believed I had 'given up my same-sex attraction for God' until later when I met the right woman that made me realize that never changed I just was also attracted to men so wasn't always at conflict with that brainwashing.
Ayyyyyyyyy, another pansexual. I’m aro, though, so I won't find anyone special until I actually find someone who fits me. Anyway, have a good day/night.
@@The-Dark-Bat my partner is Demisexual and it took a while for that to blossom. Who knows what'll happen. Regardless, hearts don't need romance to beat. You are valid.
@@beks1887 How would you know? That person could actually be an invalid.
@@KristianKumpula I prefer to give the benefit of the doubt. If someone tries to deceive me, that is on them.
Edit: I refuse to let what could be a message of support go un said because I want to snap judge them. We all live on the internet and know nothing about one another and will likely never speak again. Why does it matter in the end?
@@beks1887 I've heard of demisexual. I don't know if I'm one or if I'm just aromantic. Although, I don't really care about relationships right now.
The "wrong math" teacher is a symptom of no experience politicians, school boards, and administrators driving good teachers out the classroom. Schools sometimes have to hire anybody willing to take the job, including the abuse and low pay.
My first husband and I went to relationship counseling because of some issues we were having. I was working in social services, which pays horribly. I worked 60 hour weeks for under $25,000 a year. My husband was an accountant and made more than double my salary for only 40 hours a week. The therapist (male) actually suggested I do more of the housework to make up for the fact that I made less money, even though I worked much longer hours. How is that fair???
You deserve better. Hope you're in a better place now.
How terrible of the therapist to tell you bullsh*t like that. I hope you were able to switch therapists, your situation sounds difficult enough without a person that's supposed to be safe and constructive trying to make you feel guilty for these circumstances. Too often housework is not appreciated as the constant, draining and exhausting thing it is, especially by men of older generations who have never tried it themselves (only in my experience, though). Housework can drain you and unequal/unfair distribution of housework can break relationships.
the therapist is right…
@@PresidentEvillmao how's it there fault their job pays less??
By that logic teachers should do community service for free too
@@PresidentEvil Nice to out yourself as a lazy man.
26:27 in America, we learn that the statue of liberty is a gift from the french in elementary school if not shortly after (depends on the school system)... it's literally history that a 10 year old should know here.
I like how that shoe metaphor was so bad that Click just instinctively called it shit before he could switch to a more polite term
A trad wife should always be paired with a trad husbando. You can't have one without being the other. It generally works better like that.
That's .... the point, the two of them benefit from the other in a more complete way because of the specialisation of work
@@minestar2247Mate, dudes want a "traditional wife" not a "traditional life". Men who want a traditional woman want a girl that will do the chores and sleep them while they play video games and drink beer all day. Never seen a dude say he wants a traditional life and can't wait to get an office job one day.
@@ClownHoundII I know that, that's what I also tried to convey, that you can't have one half because both sides need to fill in the needed tasks for stuff to work, and if she takes the "traditional wife", he has to take the "traditional husband"
@@minestar2247that's the problem with the tradwife bs. It's not a superior relationship for most women. In most cases it's bad for women even when the man is traditional. So no it's not a more complete relationship it's just a way to do it no better than equal relationships.
@@amberinthemist7912 true, that's why in the modern world you can separate the tasks differently, they just have to be done Well
My sister is, in my platonic gay male opinion, pretty good looking for a woman. I fucking hope my father doesn't have fantasies about her.
28:34 as someone who has a heart condition that has greatly affected my life it’s crazy what people say on both ends of this spectrum lol. People often over and under react to events but I don’t think someone should be scared to request medical help if they think something is wrong . Don’t shame them into thinking they’re weak for wanting to make sure they’re okay when it could very well be they’re not. It’s better to be safe than sorry 👍
I remember once during my grade 11 exams I got a bio essay topic that was about anti-vaxxers and there was a bunch of propaganda as sources to support it and I nearly cried I was so happy cause I’ve watched all your videos and I knew exactly what to say to disprove the arguments. Thank you for being who you are, you’re a gem ❤
Exactly! Click has helped me multiple times to find the correct arguments when educating someone about trans or gay people. I love it.
This is so wholesome. Click should open Click Academy and teach through memes
Do you remember their reaction?
Some people choose to believe in vaccines, other people choose not to believe in vaccines. What's the problem? The problem would be you wanting everyone to agree with you.
@@SuperMichelleDJUh, if wanting everyone to agree that vaccines don’t cause autism and that vaccinating everyone reduces or eliminates diseases, then yea, I would pick that option.
The lady that donate her kidney and was wrongfully fired, shoulda sued for her kidney back.
Honestly that's disgustingly petty on so many levels. Like the woman had surgery and saved her boss's life, and the boss takes that generosity and sh*ts on it.
@@ferretqueen2908 Example of assholes taking people for granted
I'm Polish and 2 years ago me and my friends met a group of Czechs on a hiking trip and we all talked in our first languages and completely understood eachother
That's so cool. I didn't think those 2 were that similar.
I'm Polish too, yet I can't understand Czech at all 😅😅😅
13:00 that's what confuses me the most, they want someone to take care of the kids and house but then get upset when their part is to provide finacially? Like I'm so confused as to wtf they thought their place was gonna be? Its always about what the other is doing, not what they can provide.
They want someone who doesn't work a job but they get upset when you dont have one? Like you're looking for the person you're insulting?
this is sexism, it's expecting women to just do all these "feminine things" by existing then calling them lazy for not doing more on top.
As a man, I ain't claiming him. If you expect a traditional wife, you should act as a traditional man. Simple as
The funny thing about the classroom picture is… that ALL AMERICANS ARE FREAKING IMMIGRANTS (except for indigenous folks obviously). This is not just racist af its also such a double standard.
As an American, I find it extremely amusing when I hear people complain about immigrants. I'm white, from the Midwest so I usually hear it from white people.
I'm like Ma'am/sir, what is your ethnicity? "(European country names)." Do you see the irony there? "Well, my family came legally." AFTER the native populations were removed and illegal immigrants didn't exist! Your ancestors just survived a very long ship ride!
I would say at least most of them have immigration background/family history but you're right it's just racist. It's like saying we have normal citizens and then we have the non-anglo-saxon rest, which pretty much describes the worldview of such people. I heard ones the view of whiteness is less of a "who is white" and more of a "who's not" thing of mindset and I agree.
And that wasn't even an American classroom,It was a British one
The American people are not immigrants they where born in the States the are the people. Whether one generation or ten they are still American.
You would not turn to someone who was born in America but whose parents where mexican and say"your an immigrant".
Heck if someone moves to my country pays tax and works hard I consider them one of us.
@@zackcook5123r/whoosh
11:14 There are a whole lot of men who would love to go on at least a first date with this particular "gold digger", to find out if she matches with what we want in a partner.
You know it’s gonna be a good day when Click posts, always cheers me up with his general chaos.
You stole my comment 😢
Sry, I just commented almost as soon as I clicked on the video, had no idea I stole your comment.
@@TundrikkI checked you most recent comments on clicks channel, and yours wasn’t even that similar bruh
@@elliesowell1118 Pffffft it’s fine :)
I dunno. The things he finds on the net make me wonder how we even survive as a species.
But I just can't stop watching it.
But then I realize he's actually representing the sane version of humanity, and the people here do too. And I feel better.
18:10 that guy doesn't want a wife, he wants a copy of his mother
Ew
33:40 I heard a really interesting podcast about fetuses, and that what is actually going on is the fact that the mother’s body and the baby’s fetus is in a death struggle, trying to kill each other, mom, trying to get rid of this parasite, and this heat is trying to suck out all of the blood and life of the mom. Hence a lot of reasons why miscarriages, and deaths at birth happen. Everybody is fighting to the death before they’re born!
25:50 this one makes me so angry. Men already struggle to open up because of peer pressure by other men, no need for us to add to that. I'm scared that the dudes who saw this Tiktok will now be too terrified to ever open up to their gf, even if most women would never behave like that
If men don't open up to their girlfriends because of what some stranger on tictoc said, it should be a wake-up call: either their girlfriend is toxic, or they need to do some healing. And probably work on their communication skills as well.
Opening up to people is a wonderful thing. But it's not something men learned to do at all when growing up. Nor have us women learned how to open up with people who haven't learned to open up (exactly like us). So working on communication skills together, trying to find ways both can feel safe and comfortable and connected, is really important for our generation. Otherwise the next one is still going to have to fight with those same struggles.
13:30
Its not anti feminist to want to be a house wife or want to have that sort of slightly more 'traditional' relationship. Not inherently so any way
However. You should be a traditional husband if thats what you want. Provide so that way your wife can be a trad wife. To think and expect otherwise is just hypocritical
"can an italian, Spanish and French understand each other?"
Depends what language they speak. If they all speak a language they understand, sure.
Actually the question do have some merit (even if the follow up was stupid as hell). Considering only monolingual people all three languages (italian, spanish and french) are Romance languages which means they all originate from latin so there are a lot of similarities which means they would likely be able to communicate, however accent and speed of speaking can make things easier or more difficult
Using myself as example (brazillian so Portugues as main language) I can understand the general meaning of texts in spanish and italian most of the time (although losing specific word meaning and subtleties like a double meaning or pun). As spoke languages I only experienced spanish and I had some easy with people from Argentina however a lot more difficulty to understand with people from Venezuela (however asking to speak slowly do helps) - it is however more difficult than text. As for french, even tho its also a Romance Language the few text I saw were not as comprehensible to me as italian or spanish ones, but people originally from those languages (or even Portuguese people as their accent and grammar is very different from ours) may have a easier time
@@marpj6138 may I offer you some punctuation in this trying time?
"Do you really understand Australians, though?" As an Aussie, this had me laughing so loud! 🤣
Lol
Same! My mum told me to shut up lmao
The argument about the vegan baby is not coming from the vegan mom but from others who want to "crack" her.
I am vegan and I have a cat... People (omnivores) have said to me that I am not vegan because I give regular cat food to my cat. As if if they can prove that you are not "perfectly vegan" it gave them the upper hand. Ridiculous.
So by NOT abusing your pet you’re not vegan? Like make it make sense lmao.
That's as nutty and ignorant as the people who claim animals learned eating each other from humans
@@hippydisnerd I know! I am always speechless... That kind of comments always come from non-vegan, a kind of gotcha! Guess next time I'm going to get a rabbit? lol Or the comment when I am eating candies "You know that gelatin contains porc..." super proud to catch me eating something that I "shouldn't". Yeah, I've been vegan for 20+ years, I know the ingredients that I want to eat or not and how to read labels. *sigh* It's trendy to make fun of vegans nowadays, even Click have too much fun telling stories sometimes, but you have wayyyy more BBQ warriors commenting on vegan page with 'mmmmm bacon' or 'nice salad, I'll take a fat juicy steak with that' than the other way around. Except for a really few extremist, we are a peaceful gang :-)
You are vegan. Your cat is not. How is it hard for people to understand that you are not eating the same food as your cat?
The pellets we buy for our hens would be illegal to give to our cows, and that's fine because we're not giving them to our cows. It's almost like different species of animals have different dietary requirements.
@@mamasimmerplays4702 I know right lol
36:30 that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard! And I bet ya that same guy also LOVES to complain about too high taxes because of the "welfare state"! 🤦♂️🤣
39:35 Does she really not realise that the reason why she couldn't handle that stress is mainly or entirely because she doesn't subject herself to that stress? During my first days hauling stuff in construction sites I sometimes got so tired I had to find a discreet spot to lay down for a while, but some months later the new people I was carrying stuff with had to take breaks when I wanted to keep going.
"You gold digger! You only want a man for his money!" -Men with no gold or money.
3:00 Fun fact, if you attempt to measure the distance to a rainbow via parallax, you get NEGATIVE ~150 billion meters, the distance to the sun, which is behind you.
A better explanation for the flood is that people did not get around much so their small space flooding was 'the whole world'. Also, the arch of a rainbow is a half circle. A dome would be half a sphere. And rainbows are full circles when seen from the air. These people are beyond nuts
This is also why every ancient culture has a flood myth of their own that happened at a different time.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 exactly. And at least the Greek one is extemely similar to Noah
Ancient societies probably mostly set themselves up near large water sources as well.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150Hawaiians didn't. But they didn't have any rivers and storms that caused flooding were rare.
@@marjoriejohnston4905 And older than the with Noah. Actually there are several flood stores from that part of the world that are older than the Noah version. It's almost like people took existing stories and modified them to fit their religion.
10:23 that reminds me of the story of that one physicist. She was at a conference and her name tag was somewhat hidden behind her long hair.
This dude talked on and on how she didn't fully grasp the context of what they were discussing and told her she should read a paper by author XYZ (he was referring to said paper a lot). It was her paper, dude was citing her.
That would be the very definition of mansplaining.
It happens, sadly, all the time to women in the sciences.
@@John_WeissDon't really need to put a gender on a word to make it sound bad tbh
@@holahola-ym1xv It's in the OED. Get over it.
The "mansplaining" (sometimes women mansplains to mind you) is very common in a gym setting.....like the last time I went to a commercial gym and this dude started to explain benchpress technique to improve my PB to me....and I just went "ok!" and then went about my business....a while later I found him standing just gauking at me as i hauled up 110kg.
My gym freind then told the guy what I usually do for fun (I'm into strongman-stuff).
11:20 or so: self proclaimed traditional men be wanting traditional gender roles until they realize they gotta be the sole provider/breadwinner while the wife is at home looking after the kids lol
I don’t understand why guys would want to have a family if they don’t like kids so much they’d rather have their partner do all the child rearing.
@@TrueLimeyhoney Based on my own experience, they do love their kids and enjoy them as people but don't want to put in any effort into raising them.
My husband is always sleeping or working. He gets so frustrated with our toddler, who acts a lot like him. He has poor communication skills so when there are issues, he just gives up within minutes. He either just leaves or gives them whatever they want.
He is always telling me how amazed he is about how sweet, kind, curious, and smart our older child is. She is soooo helpful. Where did she learn all of those qualities?
Me. She learned them from me. She is literally my mini me in personality 😂
Here are some "fun" facts about the gay bar that the police guy drove a car into. There were two claims by the officer, that he was swerving away from a dog and then one about to avoid another car. The cop ran a red light just before this. The street cam footage shows neither was true. The first owner who came down saw the guy, and the cop immediately asked what he was doing there and for his ID before trying to put him in handcuffs. It was the backup officers who tried to fight and arrest the second owner. Second owner is being charged by police with assaulting an officer and resisting arrest...and as you may expect, the cop who drove into a building was not breathalyzed or ordered to immediately give a blood test for drugs or alcohol
I remember my grandmother always saying "A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is still putting on its shoes". I think it was from a quote, but totally true!
Old saying/proverb, attributed to Mark Twain, Winston Churchill, the Chinese... And common enough that it's found its way into Jonathan Swift's and Terry Pratchett's works. Quoteinvestigator has a segment from 2014 about it and about digging into these details. :-)
Forcing cats to be vegan isn't veganism, it's Petaism.
As a vegan with 2 cats and who volunteers at a cat rescue, one thing that irks me is feeding a cat vegetables isn't even vegan. That is plant-based. A vegan diet for cats is a diet made up of meat, because the definition of veganism is a philosophy and way of living which seeks to exclude-as far as is possible and practicable-all forms of exploitation of, and cruelty to, animals for food, clothing or any other purpose. The keywords being possible and practicable. A plant based diet for cats is not possible.
Feeding a cat meat is avoiding animal cruelty as far as possible for their needs. These fucking vegans claim to feed their cat vegan when they don't, they're just abusing these poor animals who will suffer from their choices.
Said like this it sound a lot like Petain, a French dictator during ww2. It made me laugh even more 😂
If you have a healthy "vegan" cat, the cat's not vegan; they're supplementing the incomplete diet with live prey
@@orelliaorellia142He was also one of the most important Generals or Field Marshals in the 1st World War securing the city of Verdun for example.
@@m.h.4144 Yeah, I know. That's why we resent him a lot. He was a national hero. People trusted him. And as soon as he had the power, he surrendered and decided to work with the enemy while we could still fight. A lot of innocent civil lives where lost. Lives of people who trusted him to protect them, arrested by his police in their homes and sent to the most horrible fate. Children he ordered to be arrested too while it was not even requested by the nazis. The youngest child to be sent to Auschwitz was only few weeks old. He was born in the Drancy prison camp and never made it to the end of the travel. Some things can't be forgiven.
As an uninvolved outsider, I love how Swedes and Danes can never, under no circumstances, pass up an opportunity to shit on each other.
Also, I’m German and speak a bit of Swedish and I agree that Danish sounds very odd. I’d guess maybe for Swedish or Norwegian speakers Danish is similar to how Dutch sounds like drunk German to us Germans where you can almost understand what they’re saying but not quite, which makes it a lot weirder than if you didn’t understand anything at all
As a half German, half Australian I can absolutely agree that Dutch is so confusing for my brain. Like it's English but not? And then there's also German but not really?? The 'drunk German' made me giggle tho ngl
danish here swedish and german is something that is lost on me, but i understand dutch and norweigan fine
Drunk German LMAO Pretty sure my gf has said the same about me learning Dutch
Norwegian here! I understand both Danish and Swedish quite well, but might have to ask a Dane from towns close to the German border to slow down a bit xD
The three Scandinavian countries joke about the others all the time to the point of there being a dedicated type of joke for it:)
I can still remember my Swedish physics teacher introducing each problem with something like "So it's the last minute of the hockey game, and Sweden is leading 15-2..." xD
@@JustAnzia Same although my step dad who was born on Zealand understand Swedish better than Norwegian. Also I saw a video where an American said Danish sounded more English than the rest of the Nordic languages.
In any case I think that if anyone wanna learn one of the Scandinavian languages they should start out with Norwegian.
38:30 i don’t like babies. At all. However, that does not mean that all people of a certain sex must agree because of what I think. You don’t get to determine what other people can like or dislike.
The interesting thing about meteor craters is that they are circular. Most people, if they're asked to make a guess, would say that meteors going straight down = circle crater, meteors going in at angle = stretched elliptical crater. That's not so, though, and you can see people testing it or try for yourself by firing ball bearings at high velocity into deep flour or sand at various angles.
I thought this! But didn't know if I was right. Thanks!
Love it when someone says you're a gold digger when they have zero gold. Broke AF.
12:48 how else would a stay at home mom make money or have anything???
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Wait, people aren't allowed hairy legs? Welp guess i ought to start shaving my legs, i'm a guy, but y'know, equality
Lol damn
Im a guy but I shave my legs, because cyclist..
Also gay
One of us, one of us, one of us!
Do it, the breeze on your bare skin feels SO NICE.
Plus, when they get prickly, theyre really useful for scratching when your legs get itchy at night and you dont wanna reach down with your hand and scratch them.😊
@@Wellalrightthen. Water on them feels strange. it feels like I have some hydrophobic spray on or something that stops water sticking to my legs xD
As a former homohophobic, it was definitely because of the denial. Like, « I want to date this girl but i’m not gay cuz it’s disgusting, right ? Right ? »
Mine was wanting to save myself and my friends from Hell. Honestly I was just a terrified child who cried myself to the point of puking because of what would happen to everyone on judgement day
It takes a lot of courage to face yourself after being wrong or being in denial so I am proud of you for the work you have put in to realize where the homophobia was coming from, so many too many people don't because they are scared of what they will find even if it isn't being lgbtq it could be other things they have suppressed about themselves for fear of being ostracized. Other times it does just come down to the hate and fear instilled into them via religion or culture about lgbtq people and/or mysogny or honestly a combination of all these things more than not. Self awareness leads to being a better human being so keep up the work :) Great job!
I was the same but with being bi and trans.
@@PrincessNinja007 And they say LGBTQ+ is a cult, when religion does this to a child.
@@anitacrumbly Thanks ! It is specially because of friends that slowly educated me and made me understand that it was okay, I owe them a lot. They really were a great support in this important moment of my life (homophobic -> maybe i like girls too -> wait actually i don't like men)
32:38 honestly, as a vegan parent who has breastfed his kids (I'm a trans man btw), this just reads as some anti vegans trying to use it as a gotcha, even though the whole point of veganism is to not consume anything from creatures that cannot consent to being used in that way.
It's really annoying, and honestly, I think it's best not to even engage in that conversation. To say "I do not want to talk about veganism with you" and walking away when they continue.
That’s what I have been saying - men who want a tradwife are not willing or able to be a tradhusband. It’s hypocritical AF.
(39:50) Imagine defining your responsibilities based on shoes.
20-29: being taken care of
30-39: taking care of home, children
40-49: working hard job with high income
18:45 no, no, no, no, and NO! How disgusting! Says a lot about the person who said that. I feel sick now.
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But… complete rainbows are actually full circles and not domes…
21:35 Right now I'm trying to learn Portuguese, Italian and Spanish at the same time (for different reasons) and it can be a nightmare remembering the differences
omg good luck, Italian and Portuguese both look so hard to me! I'm learning Latin, French and Spanish lol
19:11 If you are physically sick and your boss demands you to work anyway, you should intentionally throw up in the most inconvenient locations. Into the register, in major walkways, on the printer, on the control panel. They can't blame you for being forced to work in that condition, and now it's everyone else's problem, especially if it actually IS contagious.
Even worse, it sounds like this was in food service. Barf on the grill, in the takeout bags... And watch while the health inspectors rip the boss a new one
Tbh the traditional girl is goals for that kinda life. I'm open to both working too but if a guy expects me to take care of the house and children on my pwn he can't expect me to have a job as well. And I'd always insist on him having at least am active role in the kids' lives, I ain't playing single mom just because he works. It's great to see more and more traditional women are realising that they can and should pick carefully too
Yes! Exactly! Feminism isn't just for women who are business owners and stuff! XD
Yeah. I don't know if I can see myself having a family anytime soon, but if I ever do I love the idea of both parents working part-time, and spending the rest of our time doing stuff like gardening, raising animals, building and crafting stuff -- maybe even starting a side hustle out of the house -- and hanging out with each other and the kids. Learn oodles of fun skills, pass them on to the next generation, have plenty of time to spend with each other. Having one parent basically absent while the other runs the house full-time just sounds sad and boring, tbh.
@@eyesofthecervino3366 I love this idea.