so tired of hearing the "well back in the old days girls could get married and have babies young". Historians have talked about this and how it's untrue, and was in fact looked down upon when someone DID take a young teenage wife; and often when that did happen, it was generally a royal wedding and the husband was expected to wait until the girl was older before they consummated the marriage. Like just... stop dudes. Stop sexualizing kids? Damn and they say us queer folks are "sexualizing the youth" by making them aware that we simply exist pfft
In cowboy time a angry parent would chase you down with a shotgun if you even looked at their daughter in a shreksual way those podcasters would not last in historical times 😂
@@lord_xylozdoomsday959 I know a few of the cowboy folk and they still carry old "well were we in the Wild West they'd have been meeting up on Boot Hill after they found out how highly strung they were".
Fun story about Encanto: Disney execs also didn’t think Luisa was cool or pretty and got kinda blindsided by the high demand for Luisa merch. They expected little girls to like Isabela way more (which they didn’t, because she was kinda prickly for a big part of the movie). The animators also had to fight to keep Luisa’s body type, because she was not deemed conventionally pretty enough. Instead she turned out to be one of the most beloved characters on the cast. That dude couldn’t be more wrong, actually :D
I honestly thought when they were talking about Luisa being fat, I was like "but she's not fat, she is strong and muscular?" Then the picture showed MIRABEL?! I was in genuine shock 😭
At some point we need a "Lock-up, straight to jail" spot on the card, a great example was the guy talking about 12/13 girls hitting puberty and concluding they're ready for pregnancy
A core part of my childhood was remembering walking alone on the sidewalk at like 6 pm. i dont remember the context. I was like 10(i got my period) and hearing some people talking like that. My mom already talked to me about pedos and stuff, so when i tell you i ran, i mean, i ran faster than light itself. Remember to always have safety talks with your kids Bc i was NOT bouta be in the same space as people like that at such a young age
7:10 "Average woman has sex with 1000 men before 30" factoid actually statistical error. Average woman has sex with 10 men before 30. Aphrodite, goddess of love who has sex with men constantly and does not age, is a statistical outlier and should not have been counted.
Cats at least bring home food, keep vermin down, will care for you when you're sick and their affection is genuine with free massages, they'll also come home at a decent hour and be glad to see you. Never had that with a man personally.
When Encanto came out, Disney merchandising thought all the little girls would want to be Isabella because she was the most beautiful, graceful and girly of the cast. Who did the majority of the little girls actually want a doll of? Luisa.
@@kademelien9363 Elsa's pretty, no doubt about it. But also a strongly independent woman who happens to have superpowers. She's not the stereotypical Disney Princess.
It's disgusting how "I have a boyfriend" is more effective than "Leave me alone you sick pervert". Guys will respect a man they've never met more than the woman in front of them.
As a man myself, I absolutely agree - it is disgusting and totally reprehensible! Gives the rest of us who don't act like creeps/jackasses a bad name/rep. I feel so sorry for anyone who gets sexually harassed, abused, assaulted, etc, and anytime I hear of such a thing happening it infuriates me. Anyway, that's more than enough of me standing on a soapbox to shout my opinion, but I felt it needed to be said. You have a great day/night, wherever you are. Edited to correct one misspelled word.
"blablabla when a girl has her first period she's a mature woman ready to have babies." I was nine. No, louder for the people in the back: I was *_nine. years. old._* when I got my first period. If you genuinely believe that a first period means a girl "is mature now" stay the everlasting hell away from them
The world's youngest mother was five years old. She apparently started getting her period when she was a toddler but no one figured out that's what it was. The photo of her at seven months pregnant is literally so sad, her belly is almost as big as she is... Her son had to be delivered by c section because her poor little body wasn't developed enough to deliver safely... (Also iirc the father was never discovered. They thought it was her father who abused her, but I think they didn't find any evidence to support that)
Yeah that poster is a creep. When you hit puberty, you are not a fully developed adult you stop developing at around 20-30. You should not have kids as a teen because it affects the mother’s brain development cause their body is also developing the baby.
@@Rob_Lucci_ it wasn't an option for her because: 1 it wasn't legal, 2 her family was Catholic, 3 it wasn't discovered until she was seven months along (they thought it was a tumour and they had to travel a great deal before they could find a doctor who could have helped her with even that much)
@@Rob_Lucci_ Or maybe let people make their own decisions about their lives and their bodies and mind your own business? If you don't want one, great don't get one, but anyone else is fair game.
As a woman, I can confirm that when I have a hospital worthy emergency, I always put on makeup before i go. what's wrong with wanting my eyeshadow to match the giant wound on my arm?
This reminds me of the early 2000s when so many women got called fat even if they had a average/slim body Or Mirabel's older sister got called trans because some grown men didn't believe a woman could be a muscle mommy
Maybe they were thinking about the older sister Luisa. And from what I heard... dolls of Luisa were selling very very well... so those kids totally loved her. I mean, she's super strong but also very kind. What's not to love here =)
Like when people say that Taylor Swift is too skinny but if someone has an unnamed outline of her body the person is complimented for having an average person drawing.
WAIT THERE WAS CHILDREN'S CLOTHES THERE? That's it, Roomba, bring me the knife. And the gun. And the backup gun. And the spellbook. And- You know what? Bring the skeleton army.
Regarding the exhibit of clothes worn by victims of sexual violence… the single most disturbing thing to me is the sheer number of children’s cloths in that exhibit. It incites a special kind of violent rage in me.
The uncountable amount of children's and sometimes baby clothes is disgusting, also notable the dominance of plain t-shirts and jeans, and multiple outfits for one person.
I've tried that and it doesn't always work. The individuals in question tried to spin their response to the likeness of, "Well it wouldn't matter to me because I'm bigger/stronger/more-intelligent/god-given-right to ignore them or overpower them." Some people just think they are ordained to be the king of everything regardless of logic.
logically, this should work, but unfortunately they don’t actually think about themselves in the situation and rather believe that they’d just “ignore it”
I don't think I could restrain myself from walking into the "Bla" bathroom instead of the "Blablahblablah" one. If any single soul tried to stop me, it'd be met with, "Sorry I thought it was for introverts vs extroverts." Proceeds to use the introvert bathroom anyway.
09:35 In case anyone is curious The reason why the age of consent is lower in most countries is because they don't want teenagers to be punished by the law for having relationships with others teens It DOESN'T mean they are supposed to have relationships with adults, those countries have their own laws around this and, more likely, expect parents/legal guardians to protect their children from this type of situation
Precisely. Where I’m at it’s like this: 1. Age of consent is 16 *unless* the older person is in a position of authority (teacher, camp leader etc). 2. People below the age of 16 can legally have relations with other people if the age difference is 3 years or less!
In England the age of consent is 16. There are exceptions to this rule. It is illegal for anyone in a position of trust to have sexual contact with anyone aged 17 or under who is in their care. Sexting with anyone under the age of 18 is also illegal.
Yup, where I'm from, if you're 12-13, its a two year difference (both parties would be under 16), and if you're 14-15, its a max 5 year year difference (the oldest would be no older than 19-20) and 16-17 year olds can't consent to someone who is in a position of trust over them
Mirabel Madrigal is adorable and how dare they. Also, I’ve heard that Luisa is the most popular character in terms of merchandise, and she doesn’t exactly look like a typical Disney princess.
Also the body shaming in calling a girl of average build fat. For one, even if she was overweight, who cares? It’s a real body type, and real children will be happy to feel seen. Plus, treating obesity as somehow immoral has never helped anyone. For two, telling a girl who isn’t overweight that she is can only have negative consequences
It’s so funny when some men use the term “alpha male” because the guy who coined the term for wolves found the the rank system for wolves was a family system. The “alpha male” they are talking about is just a dad with a really big family. The guy who made the term spent the rest of his life trying to fix it and if he seen it used this was he would be rolling in his grave.
Age of consent is 16 where I live, too. Doesn't mean I would EVER do the deed with a 16 year old. Eating poop is legal too yet you don't see most people doing it. Jeez.
Where I live, many people have misconceptions on what age of consent actually means. 16 is the age of consent but the other person cannot be more than 3 years older than they are, unless they are married. If they aren't married and the person is more than 3 years older and the parents want to press charges, they could end up on the sex offender registry list.
Yeah, here the age of consent is also 16, it also has a stipulation if the person has any sort of authority over the younger party it's bumped up to 18
@@dragonfliesnh4204 You are confusing close in age laws with age of consent. Close in age laws exist most places but if the age of consent is 16 that generally means someone 16 can be with any age 2-4 years younger(close in age laws) or any age above theirs. Where I live it was very common for girls when I was around that age to date people who were 18-25(never saw anyone date older than that though). The only stipulation that is universal is they aren’t allowed to take and/or share explicit photos until 18.
The close in age laws only exist to protect people underage from becoming rso’s eg. A 12yo and a 14yo or any age below age of consent. Things get really complicated if they start sharing images though.
Fun fact it has never been normal to have s3x with children. The age of menstruation has gone down significantly since the advent of factory farming/hormones in food/genetic factors. In the 1800s menarche began on average at 16. The average age of marriage through recorded times was 19-21 with men being 3-5 years older. In fact you can see in the oft-cited Romeo and Juliet characters in the play keep telling them they are too young. Sometimes nobility would “marry” as children but that was more of a betrothal to cement a political alliance - average people didn’t get married until they were able to live independently, and biologically the best time for a woman to have children is her 20s (intersection of fertility and bodily strength.). Teenagers have worse outcomes for pregnancy medically for both mother and baby. So this p3do apologist behavior pretending that little girls are supposed to be having kids can f right off.
You’re not going back far enough, and you’re only looking at Christian Europe. Stuff was BAD in some places. There’s a bunch of 1700 year old Jewish legal text (I think it might be on my shelf? I have it digitally) with horrifying laws and bad women’s anatomy. The Bible itself has some pretty iffy marriage stuff, and was used as a guide for life by many people for thousands of years. Stuff was BAD. Things have changed, but yeah.
That women can’t get their period before 12, but can’t give being safely until 13, so your wife is allowed to use birth control at 12. That’s when I noped out of Ketubot. 400CE. Men writing laws for women when they don’t understand anything about them. The Talmud does acknowledge 8 different genders and the concept of souls of one gender ending up in the body of another, but it also has a bunch of weird crap, because it’s old as hell.
32:11 imagine if you have cancer and someone says: "have you ever thought you're the problem" like? You get robbed, and someone says: "did you try not having money" it is no ones fault if they get R worded. even if they were dressed "inappropriate". you are not responsible for other peoples actions, and what you do or wear will not change that fact that them not being able to control themselves is not the persons fault for being R or SA.❤
My mom is in a situation where she *wants* to be the homemaker, stay at home mom, "obedient perfect" wife thing, but she *cant* because every single man she's gone out with since her divorce who's also wanted that has just been a disrespectful, gross human being, so she's forced to be the breadwinner, adulting, financially responsible single mom. So... how's that, incels? Even the women who want your same "perfect wife" fantasies have a sense of self respect 🤯🤯
Obedient, perfect-wife thing 🙄 It's simply harder to find responsible adults since there's too many rights but ppl forget about responsabilities. Ur coming off as someone with a chip on their shoulder with that faulty correlation yikes
I'm a housewife, and I literally have other women and men go on 30 minute long rants in the most random places irl because "it's disrespectful to her man if she isn't working" and my husband "needs to train her like a dog, because women need help knowing what you expect of them." Just- bro, WHAT????? A random worker lady literally said that to him in a government building. There is no winning
@@x_rd6268 Fr!! Can't people just... do whatever they want for once? You wanna work? Great! Do that! You wanna be a stay-at-home spouse? Great! Do that!
Joke's on that dudebro because a man in the medieval period was considered to be a grown adult fit to marry and have kids around 30 and no earlier because they had to have learned a trade and be able to provide for their family. And the myth that people were considered boinkable at 13 is because nobles tended to arrange marriages when the kids were young but there was no actual wedding and consummation until MUCH LATER. But it was not the norm (royals and nobles were not the norm). Heck, the reason why Juliet is 13 in the play is precisely to show how fucked up it is that her father decides to marry her off in a fit of the Father Tantrum.
Gotta say, I skipped an entire volume of daf hayomi (wiki it for a cursory description) because it was all about how marriage age should be (very small number) and women only have one year where they could have a problematic pregnancy (I think they said 11?) All kinds of other gross laws of married life. 400CE. Being considered “a man” at 13 and “a woman” at 12 in Jewish culture stems from that being the age where one would be capable of fulfilling all the commandments. Such as fasting, working marriage, siring and birthing children… Yeah, people have been stupid and gross for thousands of years.
The thing about these theories is that it's all conjecture based on other stats. There isn't a document that just says "we let people boink at X age". People need to understand age of consent was not a law in the ancient or medieval world. It was all cultural.
@@AIHumanEquality Mostly it comes from church records. Across Europe, they were pretty good at recording births, marriages and deaths. This left behind a pretty good sample size to determine lifestyle statistics. The average person married between 21-25. They died around 75-80, barring death at birth or war. The whole "died at 30" came from averages being pulled down due to a huge number of infant deaths. The "married at 13" came from it being common to BETROTH children and adolescents, even though those marriages rarely took place or were consummated. They were less about the couple and more a symbol that the two families were united in whatever treaty or business deal it was sealing.
@@ramsfan515 What? Where did you get that the church recorded any of those things? The church never has and still doesn't record births or deaths or marriages. All of that was done by census which surprisingly did exist in many cultures in those days. Look up some of the census done in old cultures. It's quite interesting.
@@AIHumanEquality Uh the church very very definitely recorded ALL of that all the time, they're kind of famous for it. And still does for parishioners.
Fun story! Was talking to my friend from Bulgaria and he said “The way American men treat America’s women is kinda funny because if they tried that where I'm from, they'd be beat on the street and paraded as an example” and I was like “…” speechless.
Yes, Im not from Bulgaria but from Hungary and we have a different kinda sexism here, where people DO belive women are made to be wives and mothers, but those proffessions are seen as respectable and difficult, while I get the impression that in the US sexists see women as bumbling idiots that are "only" good to be wives an mothers and they should be doing those things not because they are better at it than men, but because those are tiresome timewasting activities men are to valuable for. So people do respect women and mothers in that way here and if you badmouth women men tend to take it personally and it won't reflect on you favorably.
Okay listen I’m a midi to maxi skirt girl myself. H O W E V E R. I can confirm two things. 1. I’m not doing it so some guys parents will like me, I’m doing it to look like a forest witch and keep my lizard-like body warm because I’m constantly cold. 2. Those long bitches are NOT easy to walk in. Dafuq? They’re FUN to walk in (skirt go swish! Drags behind me when I walk down the stairs like I’m a princess!) and they’re not usually overly difficult to walk in, but they are in no way easier to walk in than a shorter skirt or any kind of bifurcated garment.
Yes, exactly! I currently have a broken wrist, which I broke by tripping over my costume for my drama production, a long dress. (Which was mainly stupidity on my part by the way. Disclaimer: doing a high kick in a floor-length dress is not a good idea.)
It's actually a lot more common than people realize for women to be unable to climax from penetration. It's neither the size of the boat or the motion of the ocean. It's sometimes a mental/emotional issue, but most times it's physiological. And women absolutely should not fake it to make their man feel better about themselves. Make it clear what you do and don't enjoy. If his ego shatters over it, all the better for you to go find someone more secure in themselves.
Was about to comment that! It's very common. Could also be that she can but the man climaxes before she can get there anyway, very common too. That why "fore"play shouldn't be named like that, it's real sex, it doesn't have to be accessory.
Yeah, all four of the women I have been with, I felt like I couldn't pleasure them because they wouldn't tell me what they liked, they were too busy telling me that I was doing unrealistically good the whole time. I couldn't even gauge their response because they were covering it up with a fake one to boost my ego even when I was actively asking for the opposite.
I'm 15 and I've been SA before and in my court case he said " she was 13 but she looked 18 she was extremely developed and had a very mature face and body" he got 3 years of probation
Misogynists are really gonna look at a single mother who lost her husband and goes to work just to be able to take care of her children and say "look at her being distant and neglectful just because her husband died"
Yeah, I feel bad for my mom. She is now a single mother because she is a widow. It seems like people just see a woman by herself and get pissed when they really shouldn’t.
Also... I would totally understand the mother being distant? She lost what was probably a lifelong partner and the FATHER of her child, the toll it must take...
@@baiaku. They don't get it though because the reality is they don't gaf about women so wouldn't care about their hypothetical wife in that situation so they don't get why she would
The only reason they don’t consider that is because they’ll look like an asshole (and the butt of the joke) the moment they consider the possibility that the single parent was either out of a toxic relationship or they lost that loved one anyway.
Coming from a 13 yo girl who's gotten consecutively SAd at the age 3 through 5 and have had multiple experiences with creepy men from the ages 7 to LITERALLY last saturday at a corner store, some of these are absolutely WILD☠ "when a girl menstruates she's ready and mature to have a child" BRUV THE YOUNGEST FEMALE TO EVER MENSTRUATE WAS 18 MONTHS OLD 💀💀 AND I WAS 8 WHAT IS BRO GETTING AT 💀 the only point he was making was that he needs to be locked up💀😭🙏🏼 Also this dude is really attractive ngl. I love his accent, it's charming. And I also love how he switches his voices. It's so cute and silly imo😭
@@kyuki1806 No he's the kind of guy I'd feel safe in a crowded bar with if he was just within my sight, man. It's so easy to achieve safe alone- literally just don't be a creep He's achieved safe even when unsafe: He is so endearing, charming, calm, and kind I'm pretty sure I'd be just fine wherever we were.
The "God's design for birth" one confuses me... It literally says in the Bible that God cursed women to have painful childbirths. Why have none of these "Christian" influencers ever actually read their book? How is it that atheists know the Bible better than the people who actually believe it?
I think that punishment is super cruel, too. God is said to be all-knowing. He put the garden with the apple tree there knowing Eve would be tricked into eating it. Why did he still punish her like that?
@@SpamEggSausagenot an atheist, but i 100% agree with you. I knew it from a very young age because the man that married my mom made me listen to it as a bed time story. He didn't pull the punches and every night it was "that's why people go to burn in hell forever! Good night sweetie, I love you!" A lot of nightmares.
The guy is 1.) Telling on himself in more ways then one 2.) He was approaching the issue from the completely wrong angle. He wanted it all his way even after she stated her preferences. The way the post sounds is that the two aren't very compatible physically and the fact that there was no intention on compromise for their interests just made the dumpster fire inevitable
At first i was confused, i thought it was about butt stuff which i would find a little odd for the girl to prefer and kinda understanding for the guy not to want it, setting boundaries, but insulting her is not ok. But then i realised that is was about penetration and clitoris stimulation, which both are part of typical heterosexual sex acts, he is definitely the insane one, most women can't finish with penetration only, i also think clock did a bad job with the censorship, he got me so confused.
It’s not incorrect that discomfort during penetration can be caused by medical or psychological issues but the way he frames it as « she broke up with me because she doesn’t understand sex » is completely missing the mark. Also even if it were true that she had medical issues preventing her from enjoying penetration, those kinds of issues are usually not resolved after one appointment. They can take a long time, sometimes years, to overcome, so he would still have to be okay with exploring other ways to enjoy intimacy together outside of penetration for as long as it would take her to want to try it again.
Around 10:58 it's actually not only kinda false but scary when you consider that a lot of girls get their period when younger than 12 too, I myself got my period around 10-11ish and a lot of other people I've met on the internet got their even younger, so not even the double digits...
as a 13 year old gal, I was so disgusted when one of the first people talked about romanticising 12 year olds and getting them pregnant. No? No CHILD is ready for that kind of thing, it’s revolting 🤢
Stick with those instincts. Having babies that young can do permanent damage to a child’s body and that’s not even getting into the psychological ramifications. Being a kid is an important part of human development
9:44 grosses me out so much. it reminds me of a experience where a girl was SA'ed from age four until she was ten by a overaged man, and after years, around age twelve, came out to her father about it, and he said something along the lines of, "That's what girls are made for. For men. It's normal, deal with it." She couldn't see herself the same after that. The idea of being seen as only an object of use and desire, pleasure and produce, tore her. My heart bleeds for her. Trust me, love, I listened, and I hadn't forgot. Hope you're safe
I'm 5'3" and weigh about 140 lbs. I also have a six-pack and 26" waist - no one looking at me would ever say I was overweight, let alone obese. Even BMI puts me at a "normal weight".
I have three cats and it’s true. I have a black and white tripod named turbo who just loves to eat packing peanuts so I gotta make sure he doesn’t get to them. He also likes to steal your food.
oh, its not just cats. Had to stop chicks from trying to eat their own poop. Lambs chewing on electric fence. The small beings of multiple species just seem to like putting shit that doesn't belong in their mouth, in their mouth. Keeping them alive can be a real task sometimes.
The only reason ANYONE should be concerned about someone's "body count" are 1. If that person is a suspected mass murderer or serial killer, and 2. A kill count while playing competitively in a FPS-style game against other people playing the same game. Edit: wow guys, some of you all remind me of that Robot Chicken sketch where Franklin D. Roosevelt made his famous "the only thing that we have to fear is fear itself" speech and the audience started saying "and spiders", "and snakes", and "don't forget werewolves." Lol 😂
Eh it depends for me depending on how high it is, id say if its below like 6 ish thats fine but after that id be concerned due to posibility of STIs and such yk?
@@CryptidEXP then that's on you and your partner to both have a very honest discussion and determine if a "high body count" on either "side" or both is going to be a deal breaker
@@CryptidEXPit only takes one time to contract an STI though so that really doesn’t make sense, it’s common to ask people if they’ve gotten a recent test if you’re actually concerned about STIs but I have a hunch that’s not the real reason you care about body count
My ace brain only assumes body count means kill count, like just ask how many people they slept with? It's confusing. Unless it's both and your date is a siren that sleeps with people before killing them, then be afraid
If anybody says if you got your period your ready to have children, no your not. Ive seen people get their period at ages 16-18. I got mine at 10. But saying periods don't hurt is absolutely disgusting. Period cramps is where the interal femal part sheds its lining, which can and cause triggers if you have a phobia of blood. Many people have extremely bad period cramps including me, my grandma has it where its extremely painful, my mom has it undiagnosed, and im pretty sure i have it too. Men are disgusting if they act like this and the reason i perfer women over men.
Not an average straight woman. As a gay man who came out in the late 70s, living in a big city. Having sex once a week (going out to a bar or bathhouse) is 52 people a year. From 18 to 30 is 12 years. So, 624 by the age of 30. If you have sex twice a week, that's 1248. And to pre-empt the people who equate promiscuity with AIDS; I knew people who had sex more than once a day who used condoms - therefore didn't get venereal diseases. I knew people who were monogamous (including a hetereosexual Orthodox Jewish Grandmother whose husband got HIV through a transfusion) who got AIDS. HIV is a virus not a divine judgement.
When you put it into numbers like that, it... doesn't actually seem that crazy. Wild to someone who isn't interested in one-night-stands, sure, but that's essentially one new guy each weekend or one on a weekend and one to blow off some steam mid-week, with the occasional week off or with one of the previous guys instead of a brand new one. Absolutely infeasible for someone in the countryside but in a major metropolitan area, it shouldn't be that difficult to manage, especially with dating apps that allow you to specify that you're only looking for flings. ...Twice weekly is literally how often my partner attends D&D sessions, and less time commitment 🤣
@@blaireshoe8738 We live longer than we realize. A month is a long time. A year is an era so long we don't even remember most of what happened during that time. Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to live for thousands or millions of years and I think I'd get lost in the middle somewhere and forget the vast majority of my past leading up to it. But then I realize I'm already there.
I finally got a cat, at 43 years old. Here's hoping the creeps of the world finally see me as a "crazy cat lady", become afraid of me, and never speak to me again.
Only one? You need more cats. Our two are brothers and watching them grow up together as kittens was adorable. They still have a gorgeous relationship and when we have to take them in the car we put them in one big carrier instead of two separate carriers because they're less stressed when they're in together like that.
@@tealkerberus748that reminds me of my old cat. Felt sad about her being a single cat. Turned out she disagreed. Strongly. She did not tolerate any other cat (or dog) in her territory. She even made her displease clear whenever I petted other cats. So I listened and she stayed a single cat. She passed away and I'm hoping to get a pair of cats in the future
Was talking with my husband about the guy who's gf broke up with him because he thought she was broken for not enjoying p*netrative s*x, and we got on the topic of s*x ed, not knowing womens anatomy, etc. Anyway, he had a very eloquent way of summing up what I ranted about lol: "It's OK to have not been taught, it's not ok to refuse to learn." And I think thats a lovely way to put it. In that instance, not knowing that not all women climax vaginally is ok, but it's NOT ok to tell her she's broken because of that and assume you're the one who's correct when she's telling you otherwise. Also, "and by juicy, I mean that liquid that gathers at the bottom of the trash" is my new favorite line 😂
yeah finally someone else that thinks similarly, I've never had an issue with just not knowing something, as I'm autistic and i have a hard time understanding these unwritten social stuff or instructions that aren't like, VERY specific and yeah it's okay not to know, as long as you're respectful and willing to listen
The story didn't mention anything about her telling him otherwise, other than that horribly unhelpful "it's a personal choice" line. And he didn't insist that she was broken (according to the story _as told),_ but suggested that there may be a medical issue and that she should go have it checked. Both partners were really bad at communicating in that story, pinning the blame solely on the BF is unreasonable. (Unless the telling of the story is heavily skewed and leaves out important details, but how can we _know_ that without having heard both sides?)
The fact that People will say that gay people are “Sexualizing kids” even if they know that's not even what LGBTQ+ is about, But then those people go and say in this video that Girls 12-14 Should get married and have multiple kids, Like… They’re the ones sexualizing kids! It's disgusting…
I mean wishing a happy future and being fertile isn't really disturbing imo,people have told me that before and I take it as a nice thing to say I'm still a teen and I hope I can get married and have kids it's really a rare sight in today's world
The purse one with ALL OF THE CONTENTS is actually because women have no damn pockets in their clothes. I recently had the delightful discovery about how men's clothing used to be chock full of pockets in literally ANY SEAM POSSIBLE including the tails of tailcoats! Doesn't matter how inconvenient the pocket location is - if a pocket fits, it goes in. And then guys would be carrying all sorts of random stuff in their jackets; pocketknives, toothbrushes, stone collections, eggs, cakes, drinks, kerchiefs, etc etc. So the purse is just the "female" equivalent but guys literally do the exact same thing throughout history XD
The males DID carry even their horses in their pockets, now we are limited and women still have their bags full of all the shit we can no longer carry in our pockets... it's just envy talking, don't take them too seriously... they just want a pocket/bag where they can carry their "cool stick" collection in. 😂
We got backpacks and briefcases. Granted, my mom needed a purse because there was no way a billfold the size of the one she had would ever fit in one of my pockets.
Sounds like alpha behavior to me. Alpha: tries to control everyone, demands loyalty from everyone, highly jealous and always suspicious Beta: stays to the sidelines to avoid conflict, wants a monogamous connection with one special person, easily jealous when presented with slight evidence of unfaithfulness Gamma: social outcast, prefers not to play the pecking order game, often a target of bullying but also does not suffer from jealousy problems This is based on my study of ape behavior, primarily that of humans and chimps.
The “should mothers work” one made me die laughing. Whoever that was clearly never had a working mom and will struggle to find a partner. The one about shyness pisses me off as a formerly shy person.
I never understood how women are hated for having cats, especially since cats are seen as the more "feminine" animal than dogs. Like with that logic and theme, having more cats should make you more feminine. Not less.
Problem, they make you to feminin of n the wrong way, the only Thing a woman should BE dedicated to IS of cause her man and His children!!! If she Had Cats, thats kinda lesbianism since Cats have feminine godess Energy . . . . Some BS Like that. Just how Gays cant Like manly man or feminine women
Its cause of that whole "crazy cat lady with like 15 cats and drives everyone away by being insane", but since people mess up funny movie tropes and bring them into the real world in completely scuffed ways, now people just equate it to "if you are woman and have a cat, you are clinically insane and should be avoided" :')
Ah, but these people hate women and femininity in general. A woman being maximally feminine irks them just as much as being minimally feminine; it's all excuses of the moment for knocking on women.
Another fun fact about Encanto: a 9-year-old British girl wrote to Disney to ask them to make a princess/heroine who wore glasses, so she could see someone like herself in films. So they created Mirabel, and took the girl to the BAFTA awards ceremony. So no, not every little girls thinks the same
Real men don't care if their gf has male friends because he's confident in their relationship. My fiancé even invited one of my best friends to move in with us years ago (the invitation still stands if he ever gets a job in this area). He's also responsible for us getting our cat. She's adorable
Also is it even possible to be Alpha without the possibility of competition around? Can't call yourself an Alpha if you're so insecure about anything, especially relationships. The whole Alpha syndrome just pretty much reeks of toxicity.
Seriously how do these "alphas" not realize that bemoaning everything is the least alpha thing you can do And also since it's based off alpha wolf theory it's literally been debunked and anyone id-ing as an alpha is just identifying as a potentially incestuous father figure and not actually a leader based off merit but purely because they are (mentally) archaic
It’s a green flag for someone to have friends of the opposite gender, meaning they are actually decent people where their friends feel comfortable with them
My comment abt how un-alpha it is to behave like this didn't post right😭😭 I hate how shit this platform has gotten. it's more bug than feature at this point
30:37 as someone who has gone shopping with my parents before I can say this is very inaccurate. My mom just zips through the store getting what we need while my dad goes all over the place finding random stuff that we never knew we needed. Of course it swaps sometimes but still.
every time i hear the “well you shouldn’t wear X if you don’t want to be harassed” argument my blood boils a teeny tiny bit. i was catcalled (and threatened with SA) WAY more often back when i had to wear a school uniform (ages 12-16) than when i was wearing any other type of clothing as an adult 🥰
Its Even More Disgusting When you realize Even some Kids At the Age of FIVE get Harrassed, and The Clothing Arguement is stupid, Because They think we are "asking for it" IT WHAT WORLD DO THEY THINK A 5 YEAR OLD OR CHILD IS ASKING FOR IT!
The clothing argument is just victim blaming and misogyny and it just makes me angry. It ignores the fact that Male victims exist and the fact it happens to children, to infants. You wouldn't tell a baby that "you shouldn't be wearing that if you don't want to be harrassed" when they cant even talk or walk, and the fact that the museum has *diapers* is proof enough that clothes don't matter.
The irony is that If anything "sexy" clothing actually protects you from "grape" If anything. Not only does it signal confidence which is a red flag for perpetrators, its also way harder to quickly remove in struggle. It will always be harder to get out tight fitting clothes than loose fitting ones.
@@atinybruhthat’s also incorrect, the bump shows up more in different women, what you’re saying is that all womens’ hormones are the same and others are just a little “fluffier” than others. While in truth, our bodies are just differently built and handle different amounts of estrogen differently. Not calling anyone fat, nor implying that skinnier women have no uterus ❤ and the other person’s comment was also pretty much true, because cats also have that protective layer or whatever you call on their underside. 😊
I remember a video a while back of a woman doing an experiment where she would wear a variety of different outfits when walking down the street and passing male construction workers. She wore from every day office wear, to evening out dress, to big oversized hoodies and messy buns and no makeup. Every time, the men always cat called and wolf whistled and made obscene comments. The ‘it’s because they dressed like they asked for it’ thing has got to stop being a lame excuse for why women can’t go anywhere or dress anyhow without being objectified.
As a historian it is one of my biggest pet peeves that people think that throughout history girls were considered adult women when they started their periods. Child marriage did unfortunately hapoen, mostly among elites who were unethically picky about bloodlines. But in general, over all, throughout history and around the world, marrying or having inter course with a girl under 16 or generally more than 5 to 10 years younger than you was looked down on and often heavily ridiculed. It wasn't like is today, but people act like it was totally normal and accepted in society when it definitely wasnt. There are stories about entire villages running men out of town for wanting to marry teenage girls. I'm talking 16th century englan, ancient Egypt, golden age China, and colonial america.
The whole "why don't they just hold it" about periods is ridiculous. Like we would choose to have them, especially as young children!! I was 8 when mine started, and it was god awful. And the embarrassment of being the only one with a period in my class, and having to not go to swimming lessons with school and telling the teacher why. Not being able to go to pool parties. Having cramps and mood swings. Leaking through a pad and having to get help in the middle of class at 9 years old is horrific. By the time they did classes for us, I'd been having my period for over 2 years!! We do not choose to have periods, especially not as young children. If we could prevent them and/or control when we bled, we would be doing so!! Absolutely ludicrous
I completely understand you. I was eleven and I remember the disgust I have had in my body. I wish I couldn't have any period still as it doesn't serve me in any meaningful way! Idgaf about this being healthy. I'd rather have hormone pills for rest of my life than having this irregular pain in my butt for 20 or so more years
If we could choose, I think most people would choose never to have them at all. I can't speak for everyone (we all have different experiences) but if I could choose to never have to deal with having to pay for menstruation products, cramps, bleeding, and other problems ever again, I would do it in a literal heartbeat.
Honestly pictuters of the "What were you wearing" exhibitions are always haunting. Because they have everything. From a babys Pyjama, to party dresses, Wedding dresses, army uniforms and just plain everyday clothes. It just gives you a horrible feeling
"rests while her children nap" do they know how being a stay at home mom works??? there is never a break in the day, theyre usually exhausted 90% of the time ESPECIALLY if they have a husband who doesnt help out. man people be wildin these days
Literally like the whole "being exhausted after work, resting while the kids nap" thing can be applied to both😭❓️ The funny thing is they act like raising kids while also taking care of the household and cooking all at the same time is effortless, but they've probably never tried doing it themselves
FRR, its almost laughable how blind they are to how much work goes into taking care of an entire house, kids, being the 'moral support', still having to take their kids to sports or friends houses, cook all the meals, AND still be sexually active lmfao@@AnissaM-lj1yh
REAL, I’m an aunt and whenever I babysit my nieces and nephews I don’t take naps, even if they’re napping, like huh??? And obviously they all don’t nap at the same time so you’re bound to stay awake regardless of whether they nap or not 🥲🥲🥲
I also find it funny how men who say "what was she wearing" to grape victims wouldn't say that to male grape victim or even believe that male grape victims exists. It such a double standard, its crazy!
Grapeing goes both ways and it's a topic my bf and I talk about a lot seeing as he was graped and I as almost on a couple occasions it's a sad reality because while people blame me for it almost happening his family said it's impossible for him to have happened because the girl really wanted him and he was probably in a wrong mindset even saying he had to have consented he was terrified of that girl she had hurt herself putting his name on her arm and stalked him the police didn't believe when he files the report
@@shadowedpokefan331 I just read this and wow I have a set of original characters in one of my stories where this is basically the case. Also yeah, I hate the double standards that no one ever believes that men can be assaulted too. I had a friend who admitted to me after a very long time of being friends what happened to him because he trusted me. I hope one day the double standards will end (on both sides) People need to understand that men can get SA. People need to understand that the clothing a woman wears does not matter when it comes to SA
lol, my mom, single mom of 2, worked full time then came home and made dinner, took care of the house, the kids, AND her elderly parents. She got up and did her hair and makeup and wore stylish outfits and heels to work EVERY single day. We had days long games of monopoly and risk, played videogames together, she read constantly, and she took us to the beach and amusement parks all the time in summer. She did all that and worked full time AND had a social life. It was probably hard, but I'll be damned if she didn't do a good job at being a mom. I'm in my 30s and my mom is still my favorite person in the world.
I recall a while ago I got a "Do you like BIG PINGUS?" DM, and I went "No.I find them quite useless to be honest. Especially as most seem to think it makes up for lack of personality.", and INSTANTLY got a jörking off video and a "U LIEK?" and I went "No. WHAT made you think I WOULD like it?" and he just "... wamen like big pingu?". And I feel that sums up their literacy and braining level.
I agree with you but this is because most men follow the stereotype that all women want is a big pingus there is a similar stereotype that all men want is a girl with a big butt but neither is true those are only the freaks - some random gay guy
@@DonManuelConLeonsJacket That's the thing though: In like, 98 % of cases: They *are* just revtrads. Period. It's like a reverse dunning kruger adjacent.
A comment that stuck with me forever was, “if I get mugged, is that my fault?” When being taught a lesson in “accountability”. I was told “yes, because you never pay attention to your surroundings”.
LOL at 40:16 "rests while children nap"= Obviously that person either has no kids or is never home to see the truth. Stay-at-home parent (or sitter) does NOT nap while the kids are sleeping. That is PRIME time to clean up while they are not underfoot. If you are not picking up toys, then there's laundry, dishes, vacuuming, ect... Of course one could nap with the kids, but then this idiot would whine "why is the house a mess?"
Exactly! Lmao.. I have 3 kids, and naptime was a whirlwind of chores, assignments when I went back to school, paperwork from work, cooking, a quick shower if I was lucky, and _maybe_ a nap if I was sick.. Whoever made that has no idea what it's like to be a stay at home parent!
To defend NASA's tampon blunder, they're nerds. I work in a male dominated engineering field and 100% they went, "Well a period lasts 5-7 days and tampons need to be changed every 4-8 hours... let's say 8 days and every 4 hours as a worst case, that's 48 tampons. Double it for redundancy, so... is 100 enough?" Well-meaning nerds.
Yep, and at least they made sure she had tampons. Also, nobody had ever had a period in space before so they wouldn't have known if it effected the flow at all, and if any of the tampons had somehow ended up being unusable for whatever reason they couldn't have gotten any more. Better safe than sorry.
Age of consent in the UK is 16, but its illegal for someone over 18 to have sex with someone under 18. People always mix up the two and it's annoying af
No man, it is legal. No one mixing up anything. That’s the whole thing about age of consent duh Otherwise it makes no sense. In the UK the age of consent is 16, which means it's legal for adults of any age to have consensual sex with a 16-year-old - provided they are not in a position of trust, such as their teacher. The age of consent is the age at which a person is considered to be legally competent to consent to sexual acts. If one person is 16, it doesn’t matter how older the other person is, it’s still legal. So yeah, no offense, but you really should learn laws and definitions before saying anything. It is quite annoying when people do so without doing a minimum research. I honestly don’t know where or when some ppl for some reason began to say that the age of consent is only for those who under 18, but this is just false. You’re spreading misinformation
@@malkuusha"Currently, the age of consent for penetrative sex, oral sex and mutual masturbation in the United Kingdom is 16 years. This means that if any individual 18 or older has sex with someone 15 or less, then they may be charged with a criminal offence and may receive a 14-year prison sentence. The law also applies to those under 18 but above 15 with a maximum sentence of 5 years in prison." Please do your research. It took 30 seconds to search on Wikipedia, then copy and paste. Please do not spread misinformation.
@@karasu543 lol what it has to do with anything I said? Are you okay? We were talking about the situation where one person is 16 and the other is over 18, which is legal. We weren’t talking about situations where anyone is under 16. Idk maybe you should’ve read my comment and the comment of a person who I was replying to before commenting anything else I mean sorry but it’s kinda pathetic
@@malkuusha You clearly didn't read the entire thing, "The law also applies to those under 18 but above 15 with a maximum sentence of 5 years in prison" it only lessens the prison sentence, not makes it legal.
@@ryryo2423 I’ve read it just fine thank you. Again, what does it have to do with anything we were talking about? We weren’t talking about the cases when one person is under 18 but above 15 and the other person is under 16. We weren’t talking about the cases when one person is under 16 and the other is over 18. We were talking only about the cases when one person is above 16 but under 18 and the other person is above 18, which is, yet again, legal. It’s honestly getting funny, it’s like I’m talking about the sky and you’re talking about the ground. UPD: You even made me doubt myself a little so I googled it again and searched through many different sites and everywhere it says it’s legal. Which is quite predictable, since this what “age of consent” is about, an age when you can give your consent to whoever 🤷🏼♀️
Reminds me of the time my manager fired me for explaining that a woman's period isn't Ike a faucet or a light switch, and that periods aren't something that can be controlled. She fired me for that, so I reported her for labor violations, as our county requires employers to provide access to tampons in the women's restroom, and my job was to maintain and repair that machine whenever it needed refilling.
@@spiker.ortmann unfortunately there are some women with periods so light and infrequent that someone with heavier, regular periods is a completely foreign concept. And they just don't understand how periods could even be a problem in any way.
@spiker.ortmann yes, she. As in the opposite of he. Now, admittedly, I've never been a woman, trans or otherwise. However, based on my limited knowledge of women's anatomy and how women work, periods simply aren't optional.
@@spiker.ortmann unfortunately it is pretty common for afab people to have no idea how their bodies work. I've had cis women tell me menstrual cramps are a myth.
Yeah, the creepy age stuff and silencer comment clearly points to a "women are objects and property for me to use". If they were poly, it'd be a gross one dick policy arrangement for sure.
It basically says women are sex toys - a friend would let you try his girl if you asked? Completely disregarding what said "girl" thinks, and making the friend be in charge of her body.
Okay but even if u ignore the unrealistic bodystandards/bodyshaming, Jasmine is Arabic, and the characters in Encanto are hispanic. Just because they both have "brown skin" doesnt mean they represent literally everyone who isnt white
Yup Also the fact of different body shapes and types as well. It's always unfair when people call a different body type from what they expect "overweight" or "fat" Usually these people are actually healthy weights for their body type
@@AIHumanEquality I legit thought Aladdin actually had to do with India (given I never actually saw the movie very much, just played kingdom hearts) But still Shows how dumb about things I am XD
Yeah, I spent decades in different aspects of health care, and that's exactly where I went. EMT: Not transporting this woman to the hospital just because the guy who called wants her hornier. Lab tech: They want blood work to check her for WHAT? Wilderness Search and Rescue: Naw, Honey, just stay under that log. I won't tell anyone you're here, and he'll never find you. Just ... just ... aaaaaahhhhhh ...
In india,wearing ankle bracelts is a tradition and a lot of people wear them,specially in small towns and villages and elders..just imagine this dude coming to india and calling ecry person who wears an ankle bracelet a lesbian...😂
The menstruating one is absolutely disgusting. As a woman who got her period at age nine and started developing early, saying that a girl is good to marry as soon as she is menstruating is very fucking predatory. And it's very disturbing and gross that you'd even want to marry a child regardless how old they are when they start menstruating!
As a straight woman who's had 5 partners by the ripe age of 33, I have no clue how could anyone possibly go over a body count of like a hundred or so. This isn't sustainable
What amazes me is that it would have to be neighbors, collegues, etc. All of them in an orgy, in several towns... Otherwise I don't see how it's even possible, because all in the same town that woman would get such a reputation no one would touch her! I'm perplex by how they got this number and how they thought it even made sense!
I've been with a lot of folks by the now age of 24 but under 30 folks at most, I can see how it could happen but like you'd have to be really REALLY set on doing so
@@AnikMonettefrankly speaking, there's a lot of things and events that go on with kink communities, but even then it's both an atypical interest and still would be exceedingly rare to have so many partners, not that having that be the case is truly a bad thing to begin with
Yes, a girl can have a period at age four (it’s called precocious puberty) it doesn’t mean they’re ready for motherhood. We’re (mostly) all born with legs but we don’t walk right outta the womb. Just cuz it’s there doesn’t mean it’s usable
“If she’s old enough to bleed she’s old enough to breed” 1)fun fact! female babies actually have a mini period (a false period) a few days after birth because of the mom’s hormones so……. 2) by that logic boys should spawn babies when they’re old enough to produce sperm…? (Haha never mind about being physically and mentally ready cuz if he’s old enough to show signs of puberty he must be ready to go through the act and consequences of producing children) I really want to know who the fuck came up with this phrase cuz it’s disgusting as hell.
As someone who is an AFAB demigirl, can confirm that that is indeed what the contents of a purse is. Sometimes I even have a bag inside the bag that’s inside the bag! The only thing in my bag that wasn’t there was large amounts of art supplies and loose pencil shavings.
The interesting part about life expectancy is 25 was the average life expectancy for men. The average life expectancy for women was about 20 years more. Men have skewed the numbers
@@AIHumanEqualitythe average life expectancy has been that low, but that’s because child mortality used to be extremely high and that skewed the numbers down
@@wilyriley_Ya, after about 20 (give or take) you were probably going to live until around 50. But the thing is tons of young kids died from all sorts of stuff.
Fun thing about the 100 tampons: they were planning for worst case scenario. If something goes wrong and she's stuck there for months, it's best to have more. Plus the common style of taking worst case scenario and multiplying that by 10
For real! Better to have them and not need them, than need them and not have them!!😢 I probably would have smuggled a few more of my own on, to be honest! 😄
That exhibition is heartbreaking. There are children's clothes... It doesn't matter what you wear and what age you are, it can still happen and its not your fault that it happened
32:12 when I was r*ped, I literally wore an oversized hoodie, baggie jeans, long socks and even fingerless gloves. I'm glad Click brought attention to this exhibition, it is,,, eye opening in a way
I know what you mean - I was in a pink t-shirt, joggers/sweats, and some Skechers tennis shoes and was a 7th grader. People who wanna do that are gonna do it regardless of how you're dressed. Anyone who says how one was dressed plays a part in it has no idea what they're talking about about.
It's eye opening and tragic, but a good way to shut down the "What were you wearing" argument. That argument is a myth to blame victims. I can't exactly remember because I've had multiple incidents involving SA (not always with the same person, different guys), alot I've repressed because I was younger (3rd grade is one time I distinctly remember) The types of outfits I remember showing up the most are pajamas, t-shirts (long or short), pants, shorts, hoodies or sweaters, jeans, and sneakers The most recent period started when I was 17, despite not physically touching me, my older brother will stare at me with his hands being in very suspicious places, I've called him out but he doesn't listen. Mom wonders why I don't get along with him, this is why, she doesn't believe me though.
it always astounds me how some guys will go after a woman, have her repeatedly reject his advances and come to the conclusion: "SLUT" Wouldn't rejecting advances completely disprove this before he even comes to that conclusion??
They just wanna throw random insults at her to hurt her feelings cuz he's a literal man-child who can't act his age or handle rejection in a mature manner, no matter how illogical the insult
to be honest, as a woman, i dont think "NASA overestimating how many tampons a woman needs for a period" is that big of a deal. 100 tampons is like 3 boxes of tampons. better to be overstocked than understocked in space, right? even if you were to just bring the exact amount of tampons youd normally use every period, id feel more secure having 5 times the amount just in case, and 3 boxes of tampons doesnt seem that huge of an overestimate
For real! Plus, what if there's an emergency, and the astronaut got stuck in space longer than planned? I think they were preparing for this contingency, too?
so tired of hearing the "well back in the old days girls could get married and have babies young". Historians have talked about this and how it's untrue, and was in fact looked down upon when someone DID take a young teenage wife; and often when that did happen, it was generally a royal wedding and the husband was expected to wait until the girl was older before they consummated the marriage. Like just... stop dudes. Stop sexualizing kids? Damn and they say us queer folks are "sexualizing the youth" by making them aware that we simply exist pfft
In cowboy time a angry parent would chase you down with a shotgun if you even looked at their daughter in a shreksual way those podcasters would not last in historical times 😂
@@lord_xylozdoomsday959 I know a few of the cowboy folk and they still carry old "well were we in the Wild West they'd have been meeting up on Boot Hill after they found out how highly strung they were".
There are 1700 year old Jewish contradicting texts contradicting this.
Things really were that crappy.
Their accusations are actually confessions...
It's true in a sense but that's because what you often see is the ones who survived. Pregnancy death back in the day was MUCH higher than it is now.
Fun story about Encanto: Disney execs also didn’t think Luisa was cool or pretty and got kinda blindsided by the high demand for Luisa merch. They expected little girls to like Isabela way more (which they didn’t, because she was kinda prickly for a big part of the movie). The animators also had to fight to keep Luisa’s body type, because she was not deemed conventionally pretty enough. Instead she turned out to be one of the most beloved characters on the cast. That dude couldn’t be more wrong, actually :D
I honestly thought when they were talking about Luisa being fat, I was like "but she's not fat, she is strong and muscular?" Then the picture showed MIRABEL?! I was in genuine shock 😭
This is a perfect example of how people working in marketing have next to no connection with real people. 🤔
Luisa is the best part of that movie. 😁
I never skip Surface Pressure when it comes up on my Spotify, I love Luisa so much
Luisa's song is also the best song from Encanto, this is the hill I'm willing to die on.
Everyone have a favorite song of a movie mine in we don’t talk about Bruno
If you want a girl who weighs only 60 lbs, just date 10 chihuahuas. Their combined weight is the same as that one CHILD you want.
Or about 10-20 cats, depending on weight
I feel like that's a risk for the little puppies.
They should date a doll. Dolls also don't talk back or run away. Perfect couple.
A child, or a severely anoretic woman. In either case not very ethical to have that as a criteria..
@@durabelle or an amputee. Legs weigh a lot.
I look like christian bale as the machinist but somehow people call me too skinny but i weigh so few suddenly its not a good thing 😂
At some point we need a "Lock-up, straight to jail" spot on the card, a great example was the guy talking about 12/13 girls hitting puberty and concluding they're ready for pregnancy
Definitely!
"Straight to jail." Will always be one of my favorite quotes
A core part of my childhood was remembering walking alone on the sidewalk at like 6 pm. i dont remember the context. I was like 10(i got my period) and hearing some people talking like that. My mom already talked to me about pedos and stuff, so when i tell you i ran, i mean, i ran faster than light itself. Remember to always have safety talks with your kids
Bc i was NOT bouta be in the same space as people like that at such a young age
"Age is just a number" Jail is just a place. 911 is just a number. A mental hospital is also just a place.
REAL ASFFD 🙁
7:10 "Average woman has sex with 1000 men before 30" factoid actually statistical error. Average woman has sex with 10 men before 30. Aphrodite, goddess of love who has sex with men constantly and does not age, is a statistical outlier and should not have been counted.
Spiders georg more like partners Aphrodite
The *median* woman has sex with 10 men, the *mean* woman has sex with 1000, because Aphrodite. She just makes up for the rest of us.
This joke and its variation don't get old lol.
XD fun fact, I am in my twenties and I haven't done it fucking once!
@@jadeshadowwolf717you’re supposed to get ‘em all at 29.
Lmao men really shame women for getting cats instead of a husband. Like lol she chose a cat over you. Pointing it out is an insult to you not to her.
They might be jealous of the cat
Well cats are cute soft clean cuddely are not capable of turning a fight into wwe and they are living heating systems during the winter
Even more of an insult if the cat is also a complete jerk lol.
cats are clean, cute, and leave me alone that’s already better than you
Cats at least bring home food, keep vermin down, will care for you when you're sick and their affection is genuine with free massages, they'll also come home at a decent hour and be glad to see you.
Never had that with a man personally.
When Encanto came out, Disney merchandising thought all the little girls would want to be Isabella because she was the most beautiful, graceful and girly of the cast.
Who did the majority of the little girls actually want a doll of?
Luisa.
That's pretty cool to know! Girls just want power. I just assume now that's also why Elsa is so popular.
@@kademelien9363 Elsa's pretty, no doubt about it. But also a strongly independent woman who happens to have superpowers. She's not the stereotypical Disney Princess.
@@girl1213 Elsa is proof that girls don't want to settle for being princesses, they want to be queens. 😎
@@girl1213She also was the true hero of her movie and Frozen didn’t follow the stereotype of a male solving her problems
@@KattoTang You got it! 😎😎
"A relationship isn't going to fill a hole" especially not the ones in your wall
well,,,, maybe for some people it does.
@@DrJr. Me when I date a door salesman
Dangit Kyle.
i mean... if shes a mason...
"The averege woman has had 1000 partners before 30" - Stacy the unchaste was a statistical outlier and should not have been counted
Snort
The new Spiders George
*adn
partners georg
New d&d bard skin unlocked. Yay? "Oh no, it's almost been 4 days!!"
It's disgusting how "I have a boyfriend" is more effective than "Leave me alone you sick pervert". Guys will respect a man they've never met more than the woman in front of them.
They don’t do it out of respect for the boyfriend, they see the woman as undesirable if she isn’t single.
"My brother is the bartender"
He wasn't, but it worked anyway because the guy was convinced he would stop getting his drinks. 😑
To be "fair", I'd guess it's also fear of possible physical confrontation, because they could never actually deal with someone their own size.
@@girl1213 sorry you had to deal with that
As a man myself, I absolutely agree - it is disgusting and totally reprehensible! Gives the rest of us who don't act like creeps/jackasses a bad name/rep.
I feel so sorry for anyone who gets sexually harassed, abused, assaulted, etc, and anytime I hear of such a thing happening it infuriates me.
Anyway, that's more than enough of me standing on a soapbox to shout my opinion, but I felt it needed to be said.
You have a great day/night, wherever you are.
Edited to correct one misspelled word.
"blablabla when a girl has her first period she's a mature woman ready to have babies."
I was nine. No, louder for the people in the back: I was *_nine. years. old._* when I got my first period. If you genuinely believe that a first period means a girl "is mature now" stay the everlasting hell away from them
The world's youngest mother was five years old. She apparently started getting her period when she was a toddler but no one figured out that's what it was.
The photo of her at seven months pregnant is literally so sad, her belly is almost as big as she is... Her son had to be delivered by c section because her poor little body wasn't developed enough to deliver safely... (Also iirc the father was never discovered. They thought it was her father who abused her, but I think they didn't find any evidence to support that)
Stay in the hell made away from them.
Yeah that poster is a creep. When you hit puberty, you are not a fully developed adult you stop developing at around 20-30. You should not have kids as a teen because it affects the mother’s brain development cause their body is also developing the baby.
@@Rob_Lucci_ it wasn't an option for her because: 1 it wasn't legal, 2 her family was Catholic, 3 it wasn't discovered until she was seven months along (they thought it was a tumour and they had to travel a great deal before they could find a doctor who could have helped her with even that much)
@@Rob_Lucci_ Or maybe let people make their own decisions about their lives and their bodies and mind your own business? If you don't want one, great don't get one, but anyone else is fair game.
As a woman, I can confirm that when I have a hospital worthy emergency, I always put on makeup before i go. what's wrong with wanting my eyeshadow to match the giant wound on my arm?
obsessed with how mirabel from encanto is considered "fat". her body is perfectly average.
This reminds me of the early 2000s when so many women got called fat even if they had a average/slim body
Or Mirabel's older sister got called trans because some grown men didn't believe a woman could be a muscle mommy
Even if she was "fat" shaming people for weight is a big yikes.
Exactly! I might be a bit gay but THE WOMEN IN ENCANTO ARE GORGEOUS
Maybe they were thinking about the older sister Luisa. And from what I heard... dolls of Luisa were selling very very well... so those kids totally loved her.
I mean, she's super strong but also very kind. What's not to love here =)
Like when people say that Taylor Swift is too skinny but if someone has an unnamed outline of her body the person is complimented for having an average person drawing.
"it's so nice of straight men to let lesbians have all the beautiful girls" is 100% true
And bi women! 🩷💜💙
@@SarahAbramova 1000%, loving woman club rocks
I doubt all of them are in Lesbos
Yea well the straighties people assume all men are like are all pusses
as a guy, i find this hilarious
32:00 Remember, kids: R-wordists don't R-word because they think you're hot. They R-word because they want to have power over you.
Most unsetling thing in that picture of the expo is the little girl dress. Breaks my heart.
@@cepahreinholt8710 And the Hello Kitty childrens pajamas...
WAIT THERE WAS CHILDREN'S CLOTHES THERE? That's it, Roomba, bring me the knife. And the gun. And the backup gun. And the spellbook. And- You know what? Bring the skeleton army.
@@CR1MSONACESomeone get the spine remover
@@august6760 Should we also get the Chaos Emeralds and Dragon Balls or is it overkill by that point?
I once dyed my hair red. 18 years later I got divorced. I’m sure there was a correlation.
The only channel where saying "Sexism bingo!! my favorite!!" is actually a bit wholesome
honestly though XDD i almost yelled this in public then realized how misconstrued it could be XDD even though I am just excited for clicky wicky
@@FaeroraRave it's unwise to yell almost ANYTHING that is said on theese videos out of context, results may vary XD
@@Ferrari255GTO XDD FRRR!!!
I love sexism bingo
Well, I mean, it doesn't imply that you're being sexist, but that you're calling out others for being sexist.
Regarding the exhibit of clothes worn by victims of sexual violence… the single most disturbing thing to me is the sheer number of children’s cloths in that exhibit. It incites a special kind of violent rage in me.
What an incredible exhibition though. I hope it travels to every gallery in the world
The uncountable amount of children's and sometimes baby clothes is disgusting, also notable the dominance of plain t-shirts and jeans, and multiple outfits for one person.
Seen a image of it and there was a small pink dress, some people are really fucked up...
@@YourQueerGreatAuntie I agree. It’s a powerful statement against victim blaming that puts how awful what happened to these individuals really is.
When I saw it I was heartbroken about how many other kids went through that, it's fucked up.
Every sexist argument can be shut down with “how would you feel if it was done to you?” like how you’d talk to a damn child.
I've tried that and it doesn't always work. The individuals in question tried to spin their response to the likeness of, "Well it wouldn't matter to me because I'm bigger/stronger/more-intelligent/god-given-right to ignore them or overpower them." Some people just think they are ordained to be the king of everything regardless of logic.
Fr. Gotta teach them the kindergarten golden rule 😭
logically, this should work, but unfortunately they don’t actually think about themselves in the situation and rather believe that they’d just “ignore it”
You're not taking in account how many people are simply hypocritical
Tried that and dude got really angry. He thought I was calling him a woman. It was scary.
I don't think I could restrain myself from walking into the "Bla" bathroom instead of the "Blablahblablah" one. If any single soul tried to stop me, it'd be met with, "Sorry I thought it was for introverts vs extroverts." Proceeds to use the introvert bathroom anyway.
Or the "I thought one room was for gossip and one room was for doing your business..... And I need a shit🤷"
Something men need to understand is if we could choose to have periods WE WOULD STOP HAVING PERIODS 😭
Thank you! That needed to be said.
Truth!!
That is so true 😂
Petition for god to allow girls to choose to stop having periods
Y E S!
09:35
In case anyone is curious
The reason why the age of consent is lower in most countries is because they don't want teenagers to be punished by the law for having relationships with others teens
It DOESN'T mean they are supposed to have relationships with adults, those countries have their own laws around this and, more likely, expect parents/legal guardians to protect their children from this type of situation
Exactly
Besides... In England the age of consent is 16 lmao. There was so much factually wrong in this!
Precisely. Where I’m at it’s like this:
1. Age of consent is 16 *unless* the older person is in a position of authority (teacher, camp leader etc).
2. People below the age of 16 can legally have relations with other people if the age difference is 3 years or less!
In England the age of consent is 16. There are exceptions to this rule. It is illegal for anyone in a position of trust to have sexual contact with anyone aged 17 or under who is in their care.
Sexting with anyone under the age of 18 is also illegal.
Yup, where I'm from,
if you're 12-13, its a two year difference (both parties would be under 16), and if you're 14-15, its a max 5 year year difference (the oldest would be no older than 19-20)
and 16-17 year olds can't consent to someone who is in a position of trust over them
Mirabel Madrigal is adorable and how dare they.
Also, I’ve heard that Luisa is the most popular character in terms of merchandise, and she doesn’t exactly look like a typical Disney princess.
Also the body shaming in calling a girl of average build fat.
For one, even if she was overweight, who cares? It’s a real body type, and real children will be happy to feel seen. Plus, treating obesity as somehow immoral has never helped anyone.
For two, telling a girl who isn’t overweight that she is can only have negative consequences
Luisa is a buff queen
The misogynists thought no one liked buff women.
Turns out everyone likes buff women.
Right??? That blew my mind. People are just making up crap to get mad about
because Luisa is really relatable, sweet, kind and strong. And is having the best song in that movie! She is just cool.
It’s so funny when some men use the term “alpha male” because the guy who coined the term for wolves found the the rank system for wolves was a family system. The “alpha male” they are talking about is just a dad with a really big family. The guy who made the term spent the rest of his life trying to fix it and if he seen it used this was he would be rolling in his grave.
And the system is not even valid 🤦
it's actually a mum iirc
Every Twitter alpha male should be force fed the Omegaverse
"Who has it easier: Men or Women?"
There is only one correct answer: The Rich.
Eat the rich moment? 👀
@@electro2888 Eat the rich lifetime member.
@@electro2888 Fetch me their souls
@@electro2888 Eat the rich lifetime.
EAT THE RICH!
Side note: I love how everyone in the replies is thinking the same thing.
Age of consent is 16 where I live, too. Doesn't mean I would EVER do the deed with a 16 year old.
Eating poop is legal too yet you don't see most people doing it. Jeez.
It's more that I'm pretty sure that it would be statutory r@$& if the guy/gal was going out with a 16 years old teen and they were 40...😮
Where I live, many people have misconceptions on what age of consent actually means. 16 is the age of consent but the other person cannot be more than 3 years older than they are, unless they are married. If they aren't married and the person is more than 3 years older and the parents want to press charges, they could end up on the sex offender registry list.
Yeah, here the age of consent is also 16, it also has a stipulation if the person has any sort of authority over the younger party it's bumped up to 18
@@dragonfliesnh4204 You are confusing close in age laws with age of consent. Close in age laws exist most places but if the age of consent is 16 that generally means someone 16 can be with any age 2-4 years younger(close in age laws) or any age above theirs. Where I live it was very common for girls when I was around that age to date people who were 18-25(never saw anyone date older than that though). The only stipulation that is universal is they aren’t allowed to take and/or share explicit photos until 18.
The close in age laws only exist to protect people underage from becoming rso’s eg. A 12yo and a 14yo or any age below age of consent. Things get really complicated if they start sharing images though.
Fun fact it has never been normal to have s3x with children. The age of menstruation has gone down significantly since the advent of factory farming/hormones in food/genetic factors. In the 1800s menarche began on average at 16. The average age of marriage through recorded times was 19-21 with men being 3-5 years older. In fact you can see in the oft-cited Romeo and Juliet characters in the play keep telling them they are too young. Sometimes nobility would “marry” as children but that was more of a betrothal to cement a political alliance - average people didn’t get married until they were able to live independently, and biologically the best time for a woman to have children is her 20s (intersection of fertility and bodily strength.). Teenagers have worse outcomes for pregnancy medically for both mother and baby. So this p3do apologist behavior pretending that little girls are supposed to be having kids can f right off.
You’re not going back far enough, and you’re only looking at Christian Europe.
Stuff was BAD in some places.
There’s a bunch of 1700 year old Jewish legal text (I think it might be on my shelf? I have it digitally) with horrifying laws and bad women’s anatomy.
The Bible itself has some pretty iffy marriage stuff, and was used as a guide for life by many people for thousands of years.
Stuff was BAD. Things have changed, but yeah.
What does it say in the jewish text?@@GretchZ
It’s not pedo apologist behavior: they’re just pedos
That women can’t get their period before 12, but can’t give being safely until 13, so your wife is allowed to use birth control at 12.
That’s when I noped out of Ketubot.
400CE. Men writing laws for women when they don’t understand anything about them.
The Talmud does acknowledge 8 different genders and the concept of souls of one gender ending up in the body of another, but it also has a bunch of weird crap, because it’s old as hell.
Normal isn't the word I would use. It's never been a good or positive thing.
32:11 imagine if you have cancer and someone says: "have you ever thought you're the problem" like? You get robbed, and someone says: "did you try not having money" it is no ones fault if they get R worded. even if they were dressed "inappropriate". you are not responsible for other peoples actions, and what you do or wear will not change that fact that them not being able to control themselves is not the persons fault for being R or SA.❤
My mom is in a situation where she *wants* to be the homemaker, stay at home mom, "obedient perfect" wife thing, but she *cant* because every single man she's gone out with since her divorce who's also wanted that has just been a disrespectful, gross human being, so she's forced to be the breadwinner, adulting, financially responsible single mom. So... how's that, incels? Even the women who want your same "perfect wife" fantasies have a sense of self respect 🤯🤯
Normally I would say that this is a stereotype or what not but I don’t know how to respond this is honestly funny -some gay guy
Obedient, perfect-wife thing 🙄 It's simply harder to find responsible adults since there's too many rights but ppl forget about responsabilities. Ur coming off as someone with a chip on their shoulder with that faulty correlation yikes
I'm a housewife, and I literally have other women and men go on 30 minute long rants in the most random places irl because "it's disrespectful to her man if she isn't working" and my husband "needs to train her like a dog, because women need help knowing what you expect of them." Just- bro, WHAT????? A random worker lady literally said that to him in a government building. There is no winning
@@x_rd6268 Fr!! Can't people just... do whatever they want for once? You wanna work? Great! Do that! You wanna be a stay-at-home spouse? Great! Do that!
well if shes the breadwinner then obv they didnt want a housewife? i cant believe you use the word incel
Joke's on that dudebro because a man in the medieval period was considered to be a grown adult fit to marry and have kids around 30 and no earlier because they had to have learned a trade and be able to provide for their family.
And the myth that people were considered boinkable at 13 is because nobles tended to arrange marriages when the kids were young but there was no actual wedding and consummation until MUCH LATER. But it was not the norm (royals and nobles were not the norm). Heck, the reason why Juliet is 13 in the play is precisely to show how fucked up it is that her father decides to marry her off in a fit of the Father Tantrum.
Gotta say, I skipped an entire volume of daf hayomi (wiki it for a cursory description) because it was all about how marriage age should be (very small number) and women only have one year where they could have a problematic pregnancy (I think they said 11?)
All kinds of other gross laws of married life.
400CE.
Being considered “a man” at 13 and “a woman” at 12 in Jewish culture stems from that being the age where one would be capable of fulfilling all the commandments.
Such as fasting, working marriage, siring and birthing children…
Yeah, people have been stupid and gross for thousands of years.
The thing about these theories is that it's all conjecture based on other stats. There isn't a document that just says "we let people boink at X age". People need to understand age of consent was not a law in the ancient or medieval world. It was all cultural.
@@AIHumanEquality Mostly it comes from church records. Across Europe, they were pretty good at recording births, marriages and deaths. This left behind a pretty good sample size to determine lifestyle statistics. The average person married between 21-25. They died around 75-80, barring death at birth or war. The whole "died at 30" came from averages being pulled down due to a huge number of infant deaths. The "married at 13" came from it being common to BETROTH children and adolescents, even though those marriages rarely took place or were consummated. They were less about the couple and more a symbol that the two families were united in whatever treaty or business deal it was sealing.
@@ramsfan515 What? Where did you get that the church recorded any of those things? The church never has and still doesn't record births or deaths or marriages. All of that was done by census which surprisingly did exist in many cultures in those days.
Look up some of the census done in old cultures. It's quite interesting.
@@AIHumanEquality Uh the church very very definitely recorded ALL of that all the time, they're kind of famous for it. And still does for parishioners.
Fun story! Was talking to my friend from Bulgaria and he said “The way American men treat America’s women is kinda funny because if they tried that where I'm from, they'd be beat on the street and paraded as an example” and I was like “…” speechless.
Well, I know where I’m going for vacation
Ummm.... Bulgaria can have a ✨
@@RhodeCasawayI'll add in my own ✨
W for Bulgaria
Yes, Im not from Bulgaria but from Hungary and we have a different kinda sexism here, where people DO belive women are made to be wives and mothers, but those proffessions are seen as respectable and difficult, while I get the impression that in the US sexists see women as bumbling idiots that are "only" good to be wives an mothers and they should be doing those things not because they are better at it than men, but because those are tiresome timewasting activities men are to valuable for. So people do respect women and mothers in that way here and if you badmouth women men tend to take it personally and it won't reflect on you favorably.
Okay listen I’m a midi to maxi skirt girl myself. H O W E V E R. I can confirm two things.
1. I’m not doing it so some guys parents will like me, I’m doing it to look like a forest witch and keep my lizard-like body warm because I’m constantly cold.
2. Those long bitches are NOT easy to walk in. Dafuq? They’re FUN to walk in (skirt go swish! Drags behind me when I walk down the stairs like I’m a princess!) and they’re not usually overly difficult to walk in, but they are in no way easier to walk in than a shorter skirt or any kind of bifurcated garment.
Yes, exactly! I currently have a broken wrist, which I broke by tripping over my costume for my drama production, a long dress. (Which was mainly stupidity on my part by the way. Disclaimer: doing a high kick in a floor-length dress is not a good idea.)
Forest witch hype! 🗣🎺
@@blakksheep736 Real!
a forest witch! i couldnt said it better
It's actually a lot more common than people realize for women to be unable to climax from penetration. It's neither the size of the boat or the motion of the ocean. It's sometimes a mental/emotional issue, but most times it's physiological. And women absolutely should not fake it to make their man feel better about themselves. Make it clear what you do and don't enjoy. If his ego shatters over it, all the better for you to go find someone more secure in themselves.
Yup, sometimes they just don't understand foreplay or how to find the button even though it's on the outside. 🙃
Yup. It's only happened for me once in my entire life.
Was about to comment that! It's very common.
Could also be that she can but the man climaxes before she can get there anyway, very common too.
That why "fore"play shouldn't be named like that, it's real sex, it doesn't have to be accessory.
Yeah, all four of the women I have been with, I felt like I couldn't pleasure them because they wouldn't tell me what they liked, they were too busy telling me that I was doing unrealistically good the whole time. I couldn't even gauge their response because they were covering it up with a fake one to boost my ego even when I was actively asking for the opposite.
Blended Os are the only way for me and it's fairly common. Wish that I had learned this way earlier than I did
I'm 15 and I've been SA before and in my court case he said " she was 13 but she looked 18 she was extremely developed and had a very mature face and body" he got 3 years of probation
That’s terrible!
im so sorry that happened to you :(
Did he say that he didn't know you were underage?
@@darthutah6649 no but form the message that we had I said multiple times I was under aged
@@CuzWhyn0t-ff5dt Then there was no point in him claiming that you looked older than you were.
Misogynists are really gonna look at a single mother who lost her husband and goes to work just to be able to take care of her children and say "look at her being distant and neglectful just because her husband died"
Yeah, I feel bad for my mom. She is now a single mother because she is a widow. It seems like people just see a woman by herself and get pissed when they really shouldn’t.
Also... I would totally understand the mother being distant? She lost what was probably a lifelong partner and the FATHER of her child, the toll it must take...
@@baiaku. They don't get it though because the reality is they don't gaf about women so wouldn't care about their hypothetical wife in that situation so they don't get why she would
Misogynysts would think the single mom should have prevent death. They would blame her for what happened anyway
The only reason they don’t consider that is because they’ll look like an asshole (and the butt of the joke) the moment they consider the possibility that the single parent was either out of a toxic relationship or they lost that loved one anyway.
Coming from a 13 yo girl who's gotten consecutively SAd at the age 3 through 5 and have had multiple experiences with creepy men from the ages 7 to LITERALLY last saturday at a corner store, some of these are absolutely WILD☠ "when a girl menstruates she's ready and mature to have a child" BRUV THE YOUNGEST FEMALE TO EVER MENSTRUATE WAS 18 MONTHS OLD 💀💀 AND I WAS 8 WHAT IS BRO GETTING AT 💀 the only point he was making was that he needs to be locked up💀😭🙏🏼
Also this dude is really attractive ngl. I love his accent, it's charming. And I also love how he switches his voices. It's so cute and silly imo😭
What is your opinion on men?
Do you think they're worse than women
(Coming from a 11 y.o)
he's the kinda guy you'd feel safe with alone in a room i love this guy
@@kyuki1806 No he's the kind of guy I'd feel safe in a crowded bar with if he was just within my sight, man.
It's so easy to achieve safe alone- literally just don't be a creep
He's achieved safe even when unsafe: He is so endearing, charming, calm, and kind I'm pretty sure I'd be just fine wherever we were.
@ exactly.. i fear its not hard to respect boundaries and more dudes shiuld b like him
The "God's design for birth" one confuses me...
It literally says in the Bible that God cursed women to have painful childbirths. Why have none of these "Christian" influencers ever actually read their book? How is it that atheists know the Bible better than the people who actually believe it?
I'm an atheist BECAUSE of what's in the bible
Because atheists have actually read the book.
Because when christians reads their bible properly, they usually become an atheist.
I think that punishment is super cruel, too. God is said to be all-knowing. He put the garden with the apple tree there knowing Eve would be tricked into eating it. Why did he still punish her like that?
@@SpamEggSausagenot an atheist, but i 100% agree with you. I knew it from a very young age because the man that married my mom made me listen to it as a bed time story. He didn't pull the punches and every night it was "that's why people go to burn in hell forever! Good night sweetie, I love you!" A lot of nightmares.
Ofc for international Women’s day!
🎂yay holiday
i was just about to say😂
IT'S INTERNATIONAL ME DA- I MEAN WOMEN'S DAY?!?
I live under a rock
Same @@Svp3rN0va-xoxo
@@Svp3rN0va-xoxoDitto. It's WHAT?!
That first one actually made me so mad. Claiming a woman isn't physically or mentally okay just because he is bad at sexy time is bloody insane
The guy is
1.) Telling on himself in more ways then one
2.) He was approaching the issue from the completely wrong angle.
He wanted it all his way even after she stated her preferences. The way the post sounds is that the two aren't very compatible physically and the fact that there was no intention on compromise for their interests just made the dumpster fire inevitable
At first i was confused, i thought it was about butt stuff which i would find a little odd for the girl to prefer and kinda understanding for the guy not to want it, setting boundaries, but insulting her is not ok. But then i realised that is was about penetration and clitoris stimulation, which both are part of typical heterosexual sex acts, he is definitely the insane one, most women can't finish with penetration only, i also think clock did a bad job with the censorship, he got me so confused.
It’s not incorrect that discomfort during penetration can be caused by medical or psychological issues but the way he frames it as « she broke up with me because she doesn’t understand sex » is completely missing the mark. Also even if it were true that she had medical issues preventing her from enjoying penetration, those kinds of issues are usually not resolved after one appointment. They can take a long time, sometimes years, to overcome, so he would still have to be okay with exploring other ways to enjoy intimacy together outside of penetration for as long as it would take her to want to try it again.
@@videovidesvidemus yeah he doesn't actually care about her wellbeing he was probably trying to use her
That's an incorrect factoid. Check it. And it's also made artificially more prominent by circumcision and by condoms being too tight for 70% of men
Around 10:58 it's actually not only kinda false but scary when you consider that a lot of girls get their period when younger than 12 too, I myself got my period around 10-11ish and a lot of other people I've met on the internet got their even younger, so not even the double digits...
I got it at 10,my sis? 8
as a 13 year old gal, I was so disgusted when one of the first people talked about romanticising 12 year olds and getting them pregnant. No? No CHILD is ready for that kind of thing, it’s revolting 🤢
People like that make me nauseous 🤮
@@urlocalautisticsame
dont say your ageon the internet pls am just protectinu pls edit out just say ur minor but not ur age🤗
Stick with those instincts. Having babies that young can do permanent damage to a child’s body and that’s not even getting into the psychological ramifications. Being a kid is an important part of human development
@@laurafrakinroslinyup yup yup
9:44 grosses me out so much. it reminds me of a experience where a girl was SA'ed from age four until she was ten by a overaged man, and after years, around age twelve, came out to her father about it, and he said something along the lines of, "That's what girls are made for. For men. It's normal, deal with it."
She couldn't see herself the same after that. The idea of being seen as only an object of use and desire, pleasure and produce, tore her. My heart bleeds for her.
Trust me, love, I listened, and I hadn't forgot. Hope you're safe
That is actually vile. My dad would murder someone if I told him about this if it happened to me. Heart goes out to the girl.
I hope she’s ok :( my heart goes out to her, hope that dad is locked up
thats so wrong. she needs my good luck unicorn plush
that's actually terrible i don't even have words
@@PaimonTheSlay Yes you are living up to your username
31:42 Honestly, the chin filter doesn't scream "I'm an alpha chad" as much as it screams "I'm Habsburg-levels of inbred."
Nothing more attractive than the Habsburg Jaw smh
That's why it always looks so familiar!
It reminds me of the elephantnose fish
@@feuerling at least the fish looks a bit cuter
I love this 😂💀
I'm 5'3" and weigh about 140 lbs. I also have a six-pack and 26" waist - no one looking at me would ever say I was overweight, let alone obese. Even BMI puts me at a "normal weight".
"get therapy" needs to be a bingo card square at some point
Would get ticked every 2 posts
That's the free square
It would be SO red
@@tntgirl7820 would look content aware scaled by the end lol
you would never see that square without at least one circle
Sure, cats are easier to deal with than kids, but there's a point where "please stop chewing on that" is a universal phrase between the two factions.
Whether a human or cat, parents will be pulling plastic out of their baby’s mouths lol
And both will look you in the eye and chew even faster when you say it.
I have three cats and it’s true. I have a black and white tripod named turbo who just loves to eat packing peanuts so I gotta make sure he doesn’t get to them. He also likes to steal your food.
LOVE the use of the word "factions"
oh, its not just cats. Had to stop chicks from trying to eat their own poop. Lambs chewing on electric fence. The small beings of multiple species just seem to like putting shit that doesn't belong in their mouth, in their mouth. Keeping them alive can be a real task sometimes.
The only reason ANYONE should be concerned about someone's "body count" are
1. If that person is a suspected mass murderer or serial killer, and
2. A kill count while playing competitively in a FPS-style game against other people playing the same game.
Edit: wow guys, some of you all remind me of that Robot Chicken sketch where Franklin D. Roosevelt made his famous "the only thing that we have to fear is fear itself" speech and the audience started saying "and spiders", "and snakes", and "don't forget werewolves." Lol 😂
Eh it depends for me depending on how high it is, id say if its below like 6 ish thats fine but after that id be concerned due to posibility of STIs and such yk?
@@CryptidEXP then that's on you and your partner to both have a very honest discussion and determine if a "high body count" on either "side" or both is going to be a deal breaker
@@CryptidEXPit only takes one time to contract an STI though so that really doesn’t make sense, it’s common to ask people if they’ve gotten a recent test if you’re actually concerned about STIs but I have a hunch that’s not the real reason you care about body count
My ace brain only assumes body count means kill count, like just ask how many people they slept with? It's confusing.
Unless it's both and your date is a siren that sleeps with people before killing them, then be afraid
@cryptidexp1238 That's reasonable
If anybody says if you got your period your ready to have children, no your not. Ive seen people get their period at ages 16-18. I got mine at 10. But saying periods don't hurt is absolutely disgusting. Period cramps is where the interal femal part sheds its lining, which can and cause triggers if you have a phobia of blood. Many people have extremely bad period cramps including me, my grandma has it where its extremely painful, my mom has it undiagnosed, and im pretty sure i have it too. Men are disgusting if they act like this and the reason i perfer women over men.
Not an average straight woman.
As a gay man who came out in the late 70s, living in a big city. Having sex once a week (going out to a bar or bathhouse) is 52 people a year. From 18 to 30 is 12 years. So, 624 by the age of 30. If you have sex twice a week, that's 1248.
And to pre-empt the people who equate promiscuity with AIDS; I knew people who had sex more than once a day who used condoms - therefore didn't get venereal diseases. I knew people who were monogamous (including a hetereosexual Orthodox Jewish Grandmother whose husband got HIV through a transfusion) who got AIDS. HIV is a virus not a divine judgement.
Even a "pure" virg1n can get HIV if they use dirty needles
And if it was a divine judgment, the message sure as Hell doesn't seem to be "don't wear condoms"!!
When you put it into numbers like that, it... doesn't actually seem that crazy. Wild to someone who isn't interested in one-night-stands, sure, but that's essentially one new guy each weekend or one on a weekend and one to blow off some steam mid-week, with the occasional week off or with one of the previous guys instead of a brand new one. Absolutely infeasible for someone in the countryside but in a major metropolitan area, it shouldn't be that difficult to manage, especially with dating apps that allow you to specify that you're only looking for flings.
...Twice weekly is literally how often my partner attends D&D sessions, and less time commitment 🤣
@@blaireshoe8738 We live longer than we realize. A month is a long time. A year is an era so long we don't even remember most of what happened during that time. Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to live for thousands or millions of years and I think I'd get lost in the middle somewhere and forget the vast majority of my past leading up to it. But then I realize I'm already there.
Those numbers though.
"Sounds like an average straight woman to me"😂💅
I finally got a cat, at 43 years old. Here's hoping the creeps of the world finally see me as a "crazy cat lady", become afraid of me, and never speak to me again.
There was a old lady that trained her cats to steal from her neighborhood
54. You will love the peaceful life with your pet cat 🐈.
Turning 40 has been a relief, I'm too old to be desirable to any of these men.
Only one? You need more cats.
Our two are brothers and watching them grow up together as kittens was adorable. They still have a gorgeous relationship and when we have to take them in the car we put them in one big carrier instead of two separate carriers because they're less stressed when they're in together like that.
@@tealkerberus748that reminds me of my old cat. Felt sad about her being a single cat. Turned out she disagreed. Strongly. She did not tolerate any other cat (or dog) in her territory. She even made her displease clear whenever I petted other cats. So I listened and she stayed a single cat. She passed away and I'm hoping to get a pair of cats in the future
Was talking with my husband about the guy who's gf broke up with him because he thought she was broken for not enjoying p*netrative s*x, and we got on the topic of s*x ed, not knowing womens anatomy, etc. Anyway, he had a very eloquent way of summing up what I ranted about lol: "It's OK to have not been taught, it's not ok to refuse to learn." And I think thats a lovely way to put it. In that instance, not knowing that not all women climax vaginally is ok, but it's NOT ok to tell her she's broken because of that and assume you're the one who's correct when she's telling you otherwise.
Also, "and by juicy, I mean that liquid that gathers at the bottom of the trash" is my new favorite line 😂
The difference between ignorance and stupidity
I'm definitely filing that one away for later. 😆
yeah finally someone else that thinks similarly, I've never had an issue with just not knowing something, as I'm autistic and i have a hard time understanding these unwritten social stuff or instructions that aren't like, VERY specific
and yeah it's okay not to know, as long as you're respectful and willing to listen
The story didn't mention anything about her telling him otherwise, other than that horribly unhelpful "it's a personal choice" line. And he didn't insist that she was broken (according to the story _as told),_ but suggested that there may be a medical issue and that she should go have it checked. Both partners were really bad at communicating in that story, pinning the blame solely on the BF is unreasonable. (Unless the telling of the story is heavily skewed and leaves out important details, but how can we _know_ that without having heard both sides?)
It’s seriously scares me that some dudes think sexually abt LITERAL CHILDREN LIKE WTF ARE YOUR FANTASIES, it makes me want to puke
FR MAKE UP ANYTHING ELSE
The fact that People will say that gay people are “Sexualizing kids” even if they know that's not even what LGBTQ+ is about, But then those people go and say in this video that Girls 12-14 Should get married and have multiple kids, Like… They’re the ones sexualizing kids! It's disgusting…
Yeah it's always been like this 😂 way more pedos in a Catholic or Christian church than there ever is at a drag show
Yeah-
"Gay people sexualize kids!"
*points at half the videos here*
"Yes but it's their fault for existing!"
PREACH ‼️
I mean wishing a happy future and being fertile isn't really disturbing imo,people have told me that before and I take it as a nice thing to say I'm still a teen and I hope I can get married and have kids it's really a rare sight in today's world
The purse one with ALL OF THE CONTENTS is actually because women have no damn pockets in their clothes. I recently had the delightful discovery about how men's clothing used to be chock full of pockets in literally ANY SEAM POSSIBLE including the tails of tailcoats! Doesn't matter how inconvenient the pocket location is - if a pocket fits, it goes in. And then guys would be carrying all sorts of random stuff in their jackets; pocketknives, toothbrushes, stone collections, eggs, cakes, drinks, kerchiefs, etc etc. So the purse is just the "female" equivalent but guys literally do the exact same thing throughout history XD
You watched the video Nicole Rudolph made, didn't you? 👀
It was cool tho, I also want a shit ton of pockets in my clothes too 😂
The males DID carry even their horses in their pockets, now we are limited and women still have their bags full of all the shit we can no longer carry in our pockets... it's just envy talking, don't take them too seriously... they just want a pocket/bag where they can carry their "cool stick" collection in. 😂
We got backpacks and briefcases.
Granted, my mom needed a purse because there was no way a billfold the size of the one she had would ever fit in one of my pockets.
My husband compares my purse to a Bag of Holding in D&D 😅
@@spiker.ortmann ah, the horse pocket. Viva la dirt league!
Man claims to be an alpha despite being too insecure to let a potential gf talk to other men.
Sounds like alpha behavior to me.
Alpha: tries to control everyone, demands loyalty from everyone, highly jealous and always suspicious
Beta: stays to the sidelines to avoid conflict, wants a monogamous connection with one special person, easily jealous when presented with slight evidence of unfaithfulness
Gamma: social outcast, prefers not to play the pecking order game, often a target of bullying but also does not suffer from jealousy problems
This is based on my study of ape behavior, primarily that of humans and chimps.
@@TheReaverOfDarkness
Alpha: knots, beta: normal human, omega: slick. If you know you know
the only legitimate alphas are the ones with diabetes.
The “should mothers work” one made me die laughing. Whoever that was clearly never had a working mom and will struggle to find a partner.
The one about shyness pisses me off as a formerly shy person.
I never understood how women are hated for having cats, especially since cats are seen as the more "feminine" animal than dogs.
Like with that logic and theme, having more cats should make you more feminine. Not less.
Problem, they make you to feminin of n the wrong way, the only Thing a woman should BE dedicated to IS of cause her man and His children!!! If she Had Cats, thats kinda lesbianism since Cats have feminine godess Energy . . . .
Some BS Like that. Just how Gays cant Like manly man or feminine women
Cats are for witches, not good godly wives.
Its cause of that whole "crazy cat lady with like 15 cats and drives everyone away by being insane", but since people mess up funny movie tropes and bring them into the real world in completely scuffed ways, now people just equate it to "if you are woman and have a cat, you are clinically insane and should be avoided" :')
Ah, but these people hate women and femininity in general. A woman being maximally feminine irks them just as much as being minimally feminine; it's all excuses of the moment for knocking on women.
@@LycanKai14 Why would being with a cat imply you being alone? Isn't that kind of a paradox in having a pet?
Another fun fact about Encanto: a 9-year-old British girl wrote to Disney to ask them to make a princess/heroine who wore glasses, so she could see someone like herself in films. So they created Mirabel, and took the girl to the BAFTA awards ceremony. So no, not every little girls thinks the same
Real men don't care if their gf has male friends because he's confident in their relationship. My fiancé even invited one of my best friends to move in with us years ago (the invitation still stands if he ever gets a job in this area). He's also responsible for us getting our cat. She's adorable
Also is it even possible to be Alpha without the possibility of competition around? Can't call yourself an Alpha if you're so insecure about anything, especially relationships. The whole Alpha syndrome just pretty much reeks of toxicity.
Seriously how do these "alphas" not realize that bemoaning everything is the least alpha thing you can do
And also since it's based off alpha wolf theory it's literally been debunked and anyone id-ing as an alpha is just identifying as a potentially incestuous father figure and not actually a leader based off merit but purely because they are (mentally) archaic
It’s a green flag for someone to have friends of the opposite gender, meaning they are actually decent people where their friends feel comfortable with them
My comment abt how un-alpha it is to behave like this didn't post right😭😭
I hate how shit this platform has gotten. it's more bug than feature at this point
@@meh2510 you're an Alpha when you're confident enough that you don't feel threatened by other people
30:37 as someone who has gone shopping with my parents before I can say this is very inaccurate. My mom just zips through the store getting what we need while my dad goes all over the place finding random stuff that we never knew we needed. Of course it swaps sometimes but still.
every time i hear the “well you shouldn’t wear X if you don’t want to be harassed” argument my blood boils a teeny tiny bit. i was catcalled (and threatened with SA) WAY more often back when i had to wear a school uniform (ages 12-16) than when i was wearing any other type of clothing as an adult 🥰
Its Even More Disgusting When you realize Even some Kids At the Age of FIVE get Harrassed, and The Clothing Arguement is stupid, Because They think we are "asking for it" IT WHAT WORLD DO THEY THINK A 5 YEAR OLD OR CHILD IS ASKING FOR IT!
The clothing argument is just victim blaming and misogyny and it just makes me angry. It ignores the fact that Male victims exist and the fact it happens to children, to infants.
You wouldn't tell a baby that "you shouldn't be wearing that if you don't want to be harrassed" when they cant even talk or walk, and the fact that the museum has *diapers* is proof enough that clothes don't matter.
The irony is that If anything "sexy" clothing actually protects you from "grape" If anything. Not only does it signal confidence which is a red flag for perpetrators, its also way harder to quickly remove in struggle. It will always be harder to get out tight fitting clothes than loose fitting ones.
"we hate the little bump when you wear dresses" ill try not being born with a uterus next time sorry
You're not allowed to be trans either tho - there's always a catch
@@innominativecompany4231 estrogen also makes the bump show up since it's just the hormones storing fat for protection
There's no escaping The Bump
Thats not uterus tho, its just belly fat, this implies that skinny women have no uterus
@@atinybruhthat’s also incorrect, the bump shows up more in different women, what you’re saying is that all womens’ hormones are the same and others are just a little “fluffier” than others. While in truth, our bodies are just differently built and handle different amounts of estrogen differently. Not calling anyone fat, nor implying that skinnier women have no uterus ❤ and the other person’s comment was also pretty much true, because cats also have that protective layer or whatever you call on their underside. 😊
@@atinybruhoh hey hyunjin
I remember a video a while back of a woman doing an experiment where she would wear a variety of different outfits when walking down the street and passing male construction workers. She wore from every day office wear, to evening out dress, to big oversized hoodies and messy buns and no makeup. Every time, the men always cat called and wolf whistled and made obscene comments. The ‘it’s because they dressed like they asked for it’ thing has got to stop being a lame excuse for why women can’t go anywhere or dress anyhow without being objectified.
As a historian it is one of my biggest pet peeves that people think that throughout history girls were considered adult women when they started their periods. Child marriage did unfortunately hapoen, mostly among elites who were unethically picky about bloodlines. But in general, over all, throughout history and around the world, marrying or having inter course with a girl under 16 or generally more than 5 to 10 years younger than you was looked down on and often heavily ridiculed. It wasn't like is today, but people act like it was totally normal and accepted in society when it definitely wasnt. There are stories about entire villages running men out of town for wanting to marry teenage girls. I'm talking 16th century englan, ancient Egypt, golden age China, and colonial america.
Fernando is the name of our farm's alpaca, the thought of click flirting with an alpaca feels on point
Awoo
He'd love looking at r/furry_irl then!
What's that subreddit? Never seen it before.@@ChaoticJester
@@GustavoOliveira-yi7pj it's a furry related subreddit
@@cybercheetahr/whoosh
The whole "why don't they just hold it" about periods is ridiculous. Like we would choose to have them, especially as young children!! I was 8 when mine started, and it was god awful. And the embarrassment of being the only one with a period in my class, and having to not go to swimming lessons with school and telling the teacher why. Not being able to go to pool parties. Having cramps and mood swings. Leaking through a pad and having to get help in the middle of class at 9 years old is horrific. By the time they did classes for us, I'd been having my period for over 2 years!! We do not choose to have periods, especially not as young children. If we could prevent them and/or control when we bled, we would be doing so!! Absolutely ludicrous
I completely understand you. I was eleven and I remember the disgust I have had in my body. I wish I couldn't have any period still as it doesn't serve me in any meaningful way! Idgaf about this being healthy. I'd rather have hormone pills for rest of my life than having this irregular pain in my butt for 20 or so more years
If we could choose, I think most people would choose never to have them at all. I can't speak for everyone (we all have different experiences) but if I could choose to never have to deal with having to pay for menstruation products, cramps, bleeding, and other problems ever again, I would do it in a literal heartbeat.
@@midnight_blue_moon LOL! Trust me girl, menopause is a godsend! All those problems go away. (If they don't, check with a doctor.)
Ikr,Trust me if i could hold it,I will hold it
This is why historectomies should be standard procedures like getting wisdom teeth out or tonsils removed. Nobody needs this shit!
Honestly pictuters of the "What were you wearing" exhibitions are always haunting. Because they have everything. From a babys Pyjama, to party dresses, Wedding dresses, army uniforms and just plain everyday clothes. It just gives you a horrible feeling
41:49 this is literally me- I get pissed and then my friends just throw food at me and I'm at peace again- so I can't even get mad at that one
“I’m on my period”
“Again??”
😭😭 honestly same, dude
"rests while her children nap" do they know how being a stay at home mom works??? there is never a break in the day, theyre usually exhausted 90% of the time ESPECIALLY if they have a husband who doesnt help out. man people be wildin these days
Literally like the whole "being exhausted after work, resting while the kids nap" thing can be applied to both😭❓️ The funny thing is they act like raising kids while also taking care of the household and cooking all at the same time is effortless, but they've probably never tried doing it themselves
FRR, its almost laughable how blind they are to how much work goes into taking care of an entire house, kids, being the 'moral support', still having to take their kids to sports or friends houses, cook all the meals, AND still be sexually active lmfao@@AnissaM-lj1yh
REAL, I’m an aunt and whenever I babysit my nieces and nephews I don’t take naps, even if they’re napping, like huh??? And obviously they all don’t nap at the same time so you’re bound to stay awake regardless of whether they nap or not 🥲🥲🥲
Nap time is when you get the chores done!
I also find it funny how men who say "what was she wearing" to grape victims wouldn't say that to male grape victim or even believe that male grape victims exists. It such a double standard, its crazy!
They would say something like "If I was in his place, I'd be enjoying a hell outta her, hwehwehwehwehwehwe!!!"
When a man tells them he's been graped (Especially if it's a woman who did it), these mfs would go "Lucky." or "It's just s3x you should enjoy it".
fr one time i saw i guy sharing the fact that he was SA and someone called him a PICK-ME???? i was so mad
Grapeing goes both ways and it's a topic my bf and I talk about a lot seeing as he was graped and I as almost on a couple occasions it's a sad reality because while people blame me for it almost happening his family said it's impossible for him to have happened because the girl really wanted him and he was probably in a wrong mindset even saying he had to have consented he was terrified of that girl she had hurt herself putting his name on her arm and stalked him the police didn't believe when he files the report
@@shadowedpokefan331
I just read this and wow
I have a set of original characters in one of my stories where this is basically the case.
Also yeah, I hate the double standards that no one ever believes that men can be assaulted too.
I had a friend who admitted to me after a very long time of being friends what happened to him because he trusted me.
I hope one day the double standards will end (on both sides)
People need to understand that men can get SA.
People need to understand that the clothing a woman wears does not matter when it comes to SA
lol, my mom, single mom of 2, worked full time then came home and made dinner, took care of the house, the kids, AND her elderly parents. She got up and did her hair and makeup and wore stylish outfits and heels to work EVERY single day. We had days long games of monopoly and risk, played videogames together, she read constantly, and she took us to the beach and amusement parks all the time in summer. She did all that and worked full time AND had a social life. It was probably hard, but I'll be damned if she didn't do a good job at being a mom. I'm in my 30s and my mom is still my favorite person in the world.
I recall a while ago I got a "Do you like BIG PINGUS?" DM, and I went "No.I find them quite useless to be honest. Especially as most seem to think it makes up for lack of personality.", and INSTANTLY got a jörking off video and a "U LIEK?" and I went "No. WHAT made you think I WOULD like it?" and he just "... wamen like big pingu?".
And I feel that sums up their literacy and braining level.
You meet the digital equivalent of three goblins dressed in a trenche coat trying to act like a human
I agree with you but this is because most men follow the stereotype that all women want is a big pingus there is a similar stereotype that all men want is a girl with a big butt but neither is true those are only the freaks - some random gay guy
😂😭 This is so funny.
You got trolled. So you're not so clever yourself.
@@DonManuelConLeonsJacket That's the thing though: In like, 98 % of cases: They *are* just revtrads. Period. It's like a reverse dunning kruger adjacent.
"Women over 30 have slept with over 1000 men". Bro, I can barely get my neighbor's cat to like me.
😢 aw not the kitty. I feel that 😞
That girl trying to teach the guy to not change for her is a literal saint
I am considered as a "chill person" by many people but even I would get mad pretty quickly by this dude
bro sounds like a broken chatbot
@@crypticlol”Last chance!” Good God.🤦🏼♀️
He wanted her to change from him though...
A comment that stuck with me forever was, “if I get mugged, is that my fault?” When being taught a lesson in “accountability”. I was told “yes, because you never pay attention to your surroundings”.
LOL at 40:16 "rests while children nap"= Obviously that person either has no kids or is never home to see the truth. Stay-at-home parent (or sitter) does NOT nap while the kids are sleeping. That is PRIME time to clean up while they are not underfoot.
If you are not picking up toys, then there's laundry, dishes, vacuuming, ect...
Of course one could nap with the kids, but then this idiot would whine "why is the house a mess?"
Exactly! Lmao..
I have 3 kids, and naptime was a whirlwind of chores, assignments when I went back to school, paperwork from work, cooking, a quick shower if I was lucky, and _maybe_ a nap if I was sick..
Whoever made that has no idea what it's like to be a stay at home parent!
I will never forgive the "nice guys" for ruining the public perception of classic, fashionable hats
To defend NASA's tampon blunder, they're nerds. I work in a male dominated engineering field and 100% they went, "Well a period lasts 5-7 days and tampons need to be changed every 4-8 hours... let's say 8 days and every 4 hours as a worst case, that's 48 tampons. Double it for redundancy, so... is 100 enough?"
Well-meaning nerds.
Yep, and at least they made sure she had tampons. Also, nobody had ever had a period in space before so they wouldn't have known if it effected the flow at all, and if any of the tampons had somehow ended up being unusable for whatever reason they couldn't have gotten any more. Better safe than sorry.
I mean I find this pretty wholesome
It didn’t occur to those geniuses to just ask a woman what was typical
@@vsm6847 Who needs to ask women when you have statistics?
@@Amaturebbut do u realize where that statistics are from? from asking and checking the status of the situation
35:40 “My hair color has nothing to do with my psychological problems.”
Age of consent in the UK is 16, but its illegal for someone over 18 to have sex with someone under 18. People always mix up the two and it's annoying af
No man, it is legal. No one mixing up anything. That’s the whole thing about age of consent duh Otherwise it makes no sense.
In the UK the age of consent is 16, which means it's legal for adults of any age to have consensual sex with a 16-year-old - provided they are not in a position of trust, such as their teacher.
The age of consent is the age at which a person is considered to be legally competent to consent to sexual acts. If one person is 16, it doesn’t matter how older the other person is, it’s still legal.
So yeah, no offense, but you really should learn laws and definitions before saying anything. It is quite annoying when people do so without doing a minimum research. I honestly don’t know where or when some ppl for some reason began to say that the age of consent is only for those who under 18, but this is just false. You’re spreading misinformation
@@malkuusha"Currently, the age of consent for penetrative sex, oral sex and mutual masturbation in the United Kingdom is 16 years. This means that if any individual 18 or older has sex with someone 15 or less, then they may be charged with a criminal offence and may receive a 14-year prison sentence. The law also applies to those under 18 but above 15 with a maximum sentence of 5 years in prison." Please do your research. It took 30 seconds to search on Wikipedia, then copy and paste. Please do not spread misinformation.
@@karasu543 lol what it has to do with anything I said? Are you okay? We were talking about the situation where one person is 16 and the other is over 18, which is legal. We weren’t talking about situations where anyone is under 16. Idk maybe you should’ve read my comment and the comment of a person who I was replying to before commenting anything else I mean sorry but it’s kinda pathetic
@@malkuusha You clearly didn't read the entire thing, "The law also applies to those under 18 but above 15 with a maximum sentence of 5 years in prison" it only lessens the prison sentence, not makes it legal.
@@ryryo2423 I’ve read it just fine thank you. Again, what does it have to do with anything we were talking about? We weren’t talking about the cases when one person is under 18 but above 15 and the other person is under 16. We weren’t talking about the cases when one person is under 16 and the other is over 18. We were talking only about the cases when one person is above 16 but under 18 and the other person is above 18, which is, yet again, legal. It’s honestly getting funny, it’s like I’m talking about the sky and you’re talking about the ground.
UPD: You even made me doubt myself a little so I googled it again and searched through many different sites and everywhere it says it’s legal. Which is quite predictable, since this what “age of consent” is about, an age when you can give your consent to whoever 🤷🏼♀️
Reminds me of the time my manager fired me for explaining that a woman's period isn't Ike a faucet or a light switch, and that periods aren't something that can be controlled.
She fired me for that, so I reported her for labor violations, as our county requires employers to provide access to tampons in the women's restroom, and my job was to maintain and repair that machine whenever it needed refilling.
Wait! SHE fired you for saying periods aren't like faucets? Damn, I was expecting a He there...
@@spiker.ortmann unfortunately there are some women with periods so light and infrequent that someone with heavier, regular periods is a completely foreign concept. And they just don't understand how periods could even be a problem in any way.
SHE fired you! 🤯
@spiker.ortmann yes, she. As in the opposite of he. Now, admittedly, I've never been a woman, trans or otherwise. However, based on my limited knowledge of women's anatomy and how women work, periods simply aren't optional.
@@spiker.ortmann unfortunately it is pretty common for afab people to have no idea how their bodies work. I've had cis women tell me menstrual cramps are a myth.
Nah Click, 25:40 ain't polyamory, that's just straight up misogyny and thinking men should be allowed to cheat.
I think that's someone who would be polyamorous in an equal society, who became this because of the patriarchy.
Somebody has watched one too many harem animes or spent a bit too much time on the Hub, I’m guessing
Yeah, the creepy age stuff and silencer comment clearly points to a "women are objects and property for me to use". If they were poly, it'd be a gross one dick policy arrangement for sure.
It basically says women are sex toys - a friend would let you try his girl if you asked? Completely disregarding what said "girl" thinks, and making the friend be in charge of her body.
@@Acide950 yep, it's really gross.
9:42 it grosses me out that a person that is most likely a grown man talks about little girls like this. Its so disgusting...
Okay but even if u ignore the unrealistic bodystandards/bodyshaming, Jasmine is Arabic, and the characters in Encanto are hispanic. Just because they both have "brown skin" doesnt mean they represent literally everyone who isnt white
Yup
Also the fact of different body shapes and types as well.
It's always unfair when people call a different body type from what they expect "overweight" or "fat"
Usually these people are actually healthy weights for their body type
Also also, isnt Jasmine in her twenties, while Mirabel is like, sixteen?
@@guggelguggel7491no, Jasmine was supposed to be a teenager as well
Arabic but somehow in a place that looks like Persia not Arab countries lol. Also the palace in Aladdin is shaped like the Taj Mahal, which is Indian.
@@AIHumanEquality I legit thought Aladdin actually had to do with India (given I never actually saw the movie very much, just played kingdom hearts)
But still
Shows how dumb about things I am XD
"She must be completely broken. Oh yes indeed, Mr doctor, can you please fix her so she actually enjoys being with me."
Why did I see this at the ex act time he said it lmao
Yeah, I spent decades in different aspects of health care, and that's exactly where I went. EMT: Not transporting this woman to the hospital just because the guy who called wants her hornier. Lab tech: They want blood work to check her for WHAT? Wilderness Search and Rescue: Naw, Honey, just stay under that log. I won't tell anyone you're here, and he'll never find you.
Just ... just ... aaaaaahhhhhh ...
In india,wearing ankle bracelts is a tradition and a lot of people wear them,specially in small towns and villages and elders..just imagine this dude coming to india and calling ecry person who wears an ankle bracelet a lesbian...😂
Or an old man just going about his life a prostitute 😂
Sees a man wearing ankle bracelet
"Ooh, certainly a lesbian >:("
Ys I also wear an ankle bracelet and I almost died of cringe when I saw that post😂😂😂
As an Indian girl who wore an ankle bracelet during the time I thought I was a lesbian, I honestly cackled at that. (Am bisexual now)
Btw what is the meaning of both I have very little knowledge on sexuality @HorseChild
The menstruating one is absolutely disgusting. As a woman who got her period at age nine and started developing early, saying that a girl is good to marry as soon as she is menstruating is very fucking predatory. And it's very disturbing and gross that you'd even want to marry a child regardless how old they are when they start menstruating!
As a straight woman who's had 5 partners by the ripe age of 33, I have no clue how could anyone possibly go over a body count of like a hundred or so. This isn't sustainable
What amazes me is that it would have to be neighbors, collegues, etc. All of them in an orgy, in several towns... Otherwise I don't see how it's even possible, because all in the same town that woman would get such a reputation no one would touch her!
I'm perplex by how they got this number and how they thought it even made sense!
Mine is considered high and it's only over 30 and I'm 32. Although I dated women cause gay.
@@AnikMonette an orgy :D
Good point
I've been with a lot of folks by the now age of 24 but under 30 folks at most, I can see how it could happen but like you'd have to be really REALLY set on doing so
@@AnikMonettefrankly speaking, there's a lot of things and events that go on with kink communities, but even then it's both an atypical interest and still would be exceedingly rare to have so many partners, not that having that be the case is truly a bad thing to begin with
The average woman sleeps with 1000 men by the time she turns 30 and he doesn't put it under "Made up stats". Boo!
lol, it wouldn't be the first time I've yelled at the screen commenting "You've got a category for that!"
Honestly that shouldn’t even be dignified with fake stats…
Yes, a girl can have a period at age four (it’s called precocious puberty) it doesn’t mean they’re ready for motherhood.
We’re (mostly) all born with legs but we don’t walk right outta the womb. Just cuz it’s there doesn’t mean it’s usable
Or it should be
great analogy
“If she’s old enough to bleed she’s old enough to breed”
1)fun fact! female babies actually have a mini period (a false period) a few days after birth because of the mom’s hormones so…….
2) by that logic boys should spawn babies when they’re old enough to produce sperm…? (Haha never mind about being physically and mentally ready cuz if he’s old enough to show signs of puberty he must be ready to go through the act and consequences of producing children)
I really want to know who the fuck came up with this phrase cuz it’s disgusting as hell.
You didn’t? I ran out of the womb. Doctors had to catch me. I ran a marathon the following morning.
@@teathesilkwing7616 crazy
As someone who is an AFAB demigirl, can confirm that that is indeed what the contents of a purse is. Sometimes I even have a bag inside the bag that’s inside the bag! The only thing in my bag that wasn’t there was large amounts of art supplies and loose pencil shavings.
"I don't like boys, generally"
"How do you know unless you've tried me?"
"Ok, upgraded to 'I don't like you, personally.'"
Yes, Girls and Boys *were* considered adults at ages 12-16.
They also died of the common cold at the age of 25.
The interesting part about life expectancy is 25 was the average life expectancy for men. The average life expectancy for women was about 20 years more. Men have skewed the numbers
@@bridgetbenson6291I don't think the average lifespan was ever literally 25 in recorded history. I think they were just exaggerating.
@@AIHumanEqualitythe average life expectancy has been that low, but that’s because child mortality used to be extremely high and that skewed the numbers down
@@wilyriley_Ya, after about 20 (give or take) you were probably going to live until around 50. But the thing is tons of young kids died from all sorts of stuff.
LMAOOOO
Fun thing about the 100 tampons: they were planning for worst case scenario. If something goes wrong and she's stuck there for months, it's best to have more. Plus the common style of taking worst case scenario and multiplying that by 10
Real. Taking way more than you need is better than taking too little. 100 wouldn't be a problem, most likely
Tampons are small as well, imagine if it was something bigger
For real! Better to have them and not need them, than need them and not have them!!😢 I probably would have smuggled a few more of my own on, to be honest! 😄
That exhibition is heartbreaking. There are children's clothes... It doesn't matter what you wear and what age you are, it can still happen and its not your fault that it happened
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when I was r*ped, I literally wore an oversized hoodie, baggie jeans, long socks and even fingerless gloves.
I'm glad Click brought attention to this exhibition, it is,,, eye opening in a way
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. But I'm so damn proud cause you're still standing after that. You're so empowering! Don't forget it!❤️❤️❤️
That's horrible, one of the worst traumas possible and you've survived it! Hope you heal you're stronger than you realise. Always 💜
I know what you mean - I was in a pink t-shirt, joggers/sweats, and some Skechers tennis shoes and was a 7th grader. People who wanna do that are gonna do it regardless of how you're dressed. Anyone who says how one was dressed plays a part in it has no idea what they're talking about about.
It's eye opening and tragic, but a good way to shut down the "What were you wearing" argument. That argument is a myth to blame victims.
I can't exactly remember because I've had multiple incidents involving SA (not always with the same person, different guys), alot I've repressed because I was younger (3rd grade is one time I distinctly remember)
The types of outfits I remember showing up the most are pajamas, t-shirts (long or short), pants, shorts, hoodies or sweaters, jeans, and sneakers
The most recent period started when I was 17, despite not physically touching me, my older brother will stare at me with his hands being in very suspicious places, I've called him out but he doesn't listen.
Mom wonders why I don't get along with him, this is why, she doesn't believe me though.
I first read "Sloot shaming" as "Sloot slamming", and I was so confused.
I read it as "snoot slotting"
@@NotControlledByMillipedesIs that when you shove a dime up someone's nose or something?😂
I mean that's what makes you slooty, too much slamming. /J
@@NotControlledByMillipedeshow
it always astounds me how some guys will go after a woman, have her repeatedly reject his advances and come to the conclusion: "SLUT"
Wouldn't rejecting advances completely disprove this before he even comes to that conclusion??
They just wanna throw random insults at her to hurt her feelings cuz he's a literal man-child who can't act his age or handle rejection in a mature manner, no matter how illogical the insult
Ah, but you see the definition of 'slut' is "A woman who sleeps with people other than me!" Everyone knows that! /s
Similar to men who say they can't stand gold diggers so they'll target women from a poor country instead.
You would think... 🤦♀️
assholes logic:
do you want me?
if the answer is yes, he will call her a slut.
if the answer is no, he will call her a slut.
to be honest, as a woman, i dont think "NASA overestimating how many tampons a woman needs for a period" is that big of a deal. 100 tampons is like 3 boxes of tampons. better to be overstocked than understocked in space, right? even if you were to just bring the exact amount of tampons youd normally use every period, id feel more secure having 5 times the amount just in case, and 3 boxes of tampons doesnt seem that huge of an overestimate
For real! Plus, what if there's an emergency, and the astronaut got stuck in space longer than planned? I think they were preparing for this contingency, too?