EP 6 JustKetso on being scammed by the Gentle Giant | not all that glitters is gold 😱😱💔💔

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  • @madams___speaker
    @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +20

    Here’s Gentle Giant’s episode that Just Ketso came to respond to: ua-cam.com/video/mP3Yk-UK_6U/v-deo.htmlsi=HfH4HBYwDxxSVrtF

  • @_South_Africa_is_beautiful
    @_South_Africa_is_beautiful 11 місяців тому +25

    Clearly there was a relationship here, the more she covers it up there more she exposes it

  • @Ntombi_Lusenga
    @Ntombi_Lusenga 11 місяців тому +39

    Can she please come through with the truth that she and him were an item and he swindled her. I would understand this whole episode. I need the 2 stories to marry eachother in order for it to make sense.

    • @sisonkesiwayi8537
      @sisonkesiwayi8537 11 місяців тому +2

      Ey Ntombi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 me, you, together.

  • @palesa_elisa
    @palesa_elisa 11 місяців тому +21

    Men know men better, so when he said most men don't like him 🚩 any human being with a smooth toungue🚩 he reminds me of Derrick Jaxon

  • @smallgirlBigGod-b8u
    @smallgirlBigGod-b8u 11 місяців тому +11

    Ketso thank you for sharing your story and warning us. Madam Speaker thank you for allowing her to vent. I could see her pain.

  • @mamacitapurple
    @mamacitapurple 11 місяців тому +42

    I knew he was too good to be true. All that sweet talk 😂😂😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +11

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣be a marshmallow tu 😩😩😩

    • @fuzuyisezamisa2553
      @fuzuyisezamisa2553 11 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

    • @entertainmentt.2435
      @entertainmentt.2435 11 місяців тому +5

      😂that's how he got the 10k

    • @randomlady
      @randomlady 11 місяців тому +5

      Hey wena...I stopped listening to that episode cos it was too kumbaya for me😅😅😂😂😂😅

    • @glamforte6944
      @glamforte6944 11 місяців тому +1

      Leyogenge angiyithathi serious😂

  • @SagwieRabs
    @SagwieRabs 11 місяців тому +33

    I walkway from men... Aowa let's work and travel and re tsweng mo banneng, uit uit 😏

    • @SizakeleTwal
      @SizakeleTwal 11 місяців тому +11

      True, I left that pandemic 5 yrs, ago, I'm now eating my money and I have so much peace in my life

    • @SagwieRabs
      @SagwieRabs 11 місяців тому

      @@SizakeleTwal yass girl... Tlabe ra swara ke BP

    • @molebohengtlale8256
      @molebohengtlale8256 11 місяців тому +6

      Me too,left mojolo for years and I'm happy

    • @bontlemadihlaba693
      @bontlemadihlaba693 10 місяців тому +1

      Ledula kae bathong, ke mo springs looking for friendship 😂😂😂 cos that scam ain't working

    • @SagwieRabs
      @SagwieRabs 10 місяців тому +1

      @@bontlemadihlaba693 ke Winchester nna💃😂

  • @fuzuyisezamisa2553
    @fuzuyisezamisa2553 11 місяців тому +47

    The Gentleman is a higher grade psycho emotional scammer with a snake tongue, but I could sense it in his speech, as black men we are trying very hard and learn everyday to be affectionate but yena he projected himself as a Professor of love.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +4

      The truth in this 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @Princess_Lehlohonolo
      @Princess_Lehlohonolo 11 місяців тому +6

      I dont mean to body shame. A true man who is intentional on change changes all aspects about what he sees in the mirror.for example
      You can not call yourself madam speaker when you havnt gone through the healing,facing the hurt most importantly you gotta learn to speak and to pronounce, also there is vocal training for irritating voices like this other ninja.
      You can not call yourself " bongi thaBooty" when you got a flat ass, you get me neh
      So manje lo bhuti ,saying his a gentleman gaint I was expecting to see a giant by length by presence bo buff nyana soh, then I saw those tiny hands resting on the pot belly white tshirt tucked in a skinny jean....I was like noh noh this January is entering too confidently. I did not even like that episode

    • @phomolosefala4341
      @phomolosefala4341 11 місяців тому +2

      🤣@@Princess_Lehlohonolo

    • @musie_mt867
      @musie_mt867 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Princess_Lehlohonolo Bongi thebooty😂😂😂

    • @tondim6944
      @tondim6944 11 місяців тому +1

      😂😂

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 11 місяців тому +18

    Love how you gave the lady the platform despite having interviewed the gentle giant.

  • @anitatumeka1466
    @anitatumeka1466 11 місяців тому +31

    The time he said his ex wife didn't know love, I cringed.

    • @Ntombi_Lusenga
      @Ntombi_Lusenga 11 місяців тому +11

      I also cringed....He gave narcissist tendencies. That's offensive

    • @kgolo_K
      @kgolo_K 11 місяців тому +12

      Thank you, i thought there was something wrong with me since everyone else in the comments didn't say anything about this. And also mentioning the fact that they ex wife wasnt raised by both parents thats why she cant receive love , it gave me an impression that he thinks he's better than his ex wife.

    • @anitatumeka1466
      @anitatumeka1466 11 місяців тому +9

      I listen very carefully, he would like us to think he took accountability but turn swiftly around gaslight the other party cz wow he is this perfect God...

    • @Globwlone12
      @Globwlone12 11 місяців тому +9

      He even said its because she grew up without a father, as if every father present in the home loves the children.
      There are plenty of people who have childhood traumas caused by their father's who were present but useless.

    • @khumbudzoramukosi8200
      @khumbudzoramukosi8200 11 місяців тому

      ​@@Globwlone12nna I was so shocked like hello what is he saying vele? 😮

  • @bongythwala9840
    @bongythwala9840 11 місяців тому +6

    An Empty vessel make a lot of noise, that's Gentle giant . Ngazi from ekuqaleni asalandisa ngaye ngivele ngabona ukuthi MXm labakhuluma so mmm

  • @keletsomashile3549
    @keletsomashile3549 11 місяців тому +20

    Ai.. I could not even finish the gentle giant episode! Stru! He sounded too good to be true...

  • @PhindieVicky
    @PhindieVicky 11 місяців тому +13

    When someone said men put themselves first,i had to listen. Ankere he said he's off market (he's taken) hope he's doing the right thing, that charmy...cheeseboy behaviour 🤔, i had to re-read about the narcissist behaviour

  • @lebohangmotsoeneng5343
    @lebohangmotsoeneng5343 11 місяців тому +19

    It's how composed madam Speaker is, I love this lady.... The interview is all over the place but she's just there so calm 😂😂😂.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had a blast recording this

    • @NCarterMed
      @NCarterMed 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @QueenZan
    @QueenZan 11 місяців тому +14

    People like to borrow 💰 and when they are supposed to pay they 🚫 .
    Imagine helping a person at the end they make a fool out of you.

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 11 місяців тому +2

      I borrowed a friend who was in dire straits, an amount of R7K, before the lock down, up to today I am still waiting for it! Maybe someone may say it is small money, but it's my small money and she abused my kindness! All her promises have not been fulfilled 😢

  • @tshililomurovhi9323
    @tshililomurovhi9323 11 місяців тому +46

    As a sangoma you should have seen further that he wasn’t faithful 🤣😳

    • @nelzg5819
      @nelzg5819 11 місяців тому +8

      That gender will swindle even the wifi gang

    • @Leylaswisdom
      @Leylaswisdom 11 місяців тому +11

      😂don't you find it funny how they don't sense the critical stuff but expect us to believe their uncestors opinions on how we should live our lives

    • @sazi7128
      @sazi7128 11 місяців тому +3

      Then, we are expected to believe what they say to us.

    • @lesegomaodii
      @lesegomaodii 11 місяців тому +1

      lmfao 😂😂😂

    • @ameytheistZadkiel
      @ameytheistZadkiel 10 місяців тому

      ​@@lesegomaodiio sele🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😝🤣🤣🤣🤣I am not laughing

  • @LibusengMokoena
    @LibusengMokoena 11 місяців тому +27

    I knew that something was off with the gentle giant.He ticked all the boxes that women liked!!!

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +2

      And you didn’t warn us 😑😑🫠🫠

    • @ameliasmommyshazi7585
      @ameliasmommyshazi7585 11 місяців тому +4

      Same Yaz I couldn't even finish the podcast

    • @sibongiledarling1922
      @sibongiledarling1922 11 місяців тому +3

      It was too good to be true, really.

    • @Andtherewaslight427
      @Andtherewaslight427 10 місяців тому +5

      I didn't bother finishing the episode as well. He is a man who has a script for gullible women. His extremely dangerous because broken women will defend him. I picked it up the moment he said his ex-wife didn't know love. Guys, come on, Romantic love and gestures don't mean you don't know love. And if you listen to him, he uses things like flowers and good morning texts as if they're the pinnacles of love. Come on...siphi?

    • @basetsanamokoka5462
      @basetsanamokoka5462 6 місяців тому

      I thought i was the only one who couldn't finish the episode.​@@Andtherewaslight427

  • @phindileshozi6138
    @phindileshozi6138 10 місяців тому +2

    He refused to come answer for himself, It was gonna be a relief, so now we don't know who is right, only them know. Thanks for the show Madam speaker

  • @khomotsomatsaung9619
    @khomotsomatsaung9619 11 місяців тому +9

    I am scared to comment because of the underground gang. But…. Sesi Ketso, your story does not add up. This guy was just a stranger you met online and trusted him with your money. Along your storyline, you knew his family and his wife🫣 it does not make sense. I cannot finish this story. Thank you Madam Speaker to having your guest🙌🏾

  • @malimalesela8068
    @malimalesela8068 11 місяців тому +23

    I feel like there was an affair here... Mjolo ne ole teng mo

    • @PalesaMabandla
      @PalesaMabandla 11 місяців тому

      💯💯💯

    • @Ntombi_Lusenga
      @Ntombi_Lusenga 11 місяців тому +1

      Yes, because how else it this relevant to what that guy was saying in his interview?

    • @NCarterMed
      @NCarterMed 9 місяців тому

      💯💯💯

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 7 місяців тому

      Even if there was a mjolo, the fact is he should pay back and not make noise, period.

  • @sebongilehlahatse1820
    @sebongilehlahatse1820 11 місяців тому +13

    I feel there was a relationship here

  • @thembingozo5812
    @thembingozo5812 11 місяців тому +12

    but the lady seem to be inlove with the guy but now she want to make it as if it was a borrowing thing issue,,,,,aaaaaai ketso

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +13

      The issue is him blocking her without paying her back. We all love the Gentle Giant but debts must be paid and an awareness must be raised 😢

    • @Andtherewaslight427
      @Andtherewaslight427 10 місяців тому

      ​@@madams___speakeryabona ke Ntombi, you have just gained a subscriber. We cannot just ignore the most important part, sticking to his word and paying back the money. Women are so vulnerable and gullible most of the time, they need to be protected from themselves. Because this comment wants to downplay his scammy way and just concentrate on those fake romantic gestures. Be a smart marshmallow.

    • @asaveladaniso3801
      @asaveladaniso3801 7 місяців тому

      SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO O TO X-REPO LOL

    • @nozukojoseph2214
      @nozukojoseph2214 7 місяців тому

      Even if they were involved, no matter what the nature of their relationship was, he was supposed to payback the money borrowed to him. Klaar!!!

  • @sulezinyembezigqeba
    @sulezinyembezigqeba 11 місяців тому +5

    Sana the relationship/friendship is not make sure but Sana amatyala mawabhatalwe (debts must be paid). Multiple things apply in one this episode has proven that.I'll still take GG's love advice from the previous episode but we now know things about him he should have prevented by paying his debts on time.

  • @AM-yk1vt
    @AM-yk1vt 11 місяців тому +25

    So let us be clear. This lady borrowed a man she had never met in real life R 10 000. And then was surprised that the stranger did not want to repay her. People like this derseve everything they get because there is no excuses for this level of stupidity. Its funny how she thinks the man needs help when he was able to convince her to give up her money.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +12

      She’s not the only one. He has convinced many. He’s obviously good at what he does. 😢😢

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 11 місяців тому +4

      Is she a mashonisa or like she said she was lending him money because she felt for him? It was a business transaction, it wasn't a business transaction? What's what here?
      Mara le ena GG, what a wow.

    • @Phumie.90
      @Phumie.90 11 місяців тому +3

      ​@@sulezinyembezigqebayour comment reminds me of something this bishop who was brought on this podcast said, he said when there's issues between a man and a woman madam speaker will always take the side of the lady.

    • @AM-yk1vt
      @AM-yk1vt 11 місяців тому +5

      ​@@madams___speaker The stupid and the weak will always be taken advantage of. My issue is that we do not call them out. If you go around borrowing strangers you met online money then that says more about you than the person trying to "scam" you. Why do we treat woman like children like they are just the victims of life.

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@madams___speaker wait what... other women reached out with the same issue about him?😮

  • @thevillagegist
    @thevillagegist 11 місяців тому +18

    "trauma le financial abuse "😂😂 Madam Speaker you are breaking my heart also , I had my reservations too but to each their own.. We cannot be marshmallows all the time, these men will finish us 😂😂😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣even my own heart is broken my sister

  • @HerDangLife
    @HerDangLife 11 місяців тому +5

    26:00 she listed all those abuse and their relations were only about money.. Bambi Bambi

  • @beverleym5149
    @beverleym5149 11 місяців тому +18

    Did she not mention that she never met him physically, but she knows the family, or did I miss some parts of the interview

  • @thapelolengana
    @thapelolengana 11 місяців тому +9

    You know people who borrow money, are so huble when they need. When they now have to pay, you would swear you forced them to give you money.

  • @SnehN
    @SnehN 11 місяців тому +3

    Madam speaker wethu! Doing the lords work, kunini ngithi yhoo! Ay G e n t l e G i a n t mara!

  • @Amanda-fz5vt
    @Amanda-fz5vt 11 місяців тому +5

    Tjooh how l quickly share his video with my partner 😮, when I watch this one l started laughing 😂😂😂 none stop, yhoooo hayi,ngiyesaba man.his dangerous.

  • @ntombizodwasimakuhle
    @ntombizodwasimakuhle 11 місяців тому +7

    I like this topic. I borrow someone R27000 in 2022. She doesn't want to pay me. I even went to her work place they hide her. Now she blocked me. She is working at Nelson Mandela University in Port Elizabeth as a professor. Im not working im a widow with 2kids. Please help guys.

  • @ThandiKhalaki
    @ThandiKhalaki 11 місяців тому +84

    Lies detected here. The nature of relationship was more. It can’t be that wena you borrow a man money you met online money. You guys were flirting and there was more. 🤔🤔🤔

    • @PalesaMabandla
      @PalesaMabandla 11 місяців тому +5

      True maybe they even dated too or more

    • @lydiakhang7237
      @lydiakhang7237 11 місяців тому +1

      True

    • @sueeland5675
      @sueeland5675 11 місяців тому

      Exactly they scammed each other.there is more to this story.kkkkkkk what gentle giant was saying exist in movie or true love magazine

    • @whatzupmzansi5973
      @whatzupmzansi5973 11 місяців тому

      Too many gaps

    • @khanyisagaladla4759
      @khanyisagaladla4759 11 місяців тому +1

      Too many gaps indeed.She is not being true

  • @oneseipato6485
    @oneseipato6485 11 місяців тому +6

    My love for you Madam speaker 👏🇧🇼

  • @ThandiKhalaki
    @ThandiKhalaki 11 місяців тому +22

    Gentle Giant should be given the right to respond

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +15

      He turned down the offer to come Join Ketso. I extended the invite.

    • @thebigdeal6671
      @thebigdeal6671 11 місяців тому +4

      The he knows his ways …case closed …he wanted to read comments first and ask for a right to reply …

    • @nelzg5819
      @nelzg5819 11 місяців тому

      ​@@madams___speakerits giving BS madam speaker. But trust u to expose them without doing it deliberately in fact😂 The truth contacted u😂

    • @asaveladaniso3801
      @asaveladaniso3801 7 місяців тому

      @@madams___speaker ABAFANA SHAME, HOPE KETSO LEARNED A WAY

    • @asaveladaniso3801
      @asaveladaniso3801 7 місяців тому

      STOP SOCIAL MEDIA GUYS AND FOCUS TO REALLIFE

  • @Winterflowers1
    @Winterflowers1 11 місяців тому +10

    I saw the red flags I even commented on his video

    • @Dklady
      @Dklady 11 місяців тому +1

      You two look good together.
      I feel sometimes we hide behind the word "accountability" to show
      responsibility while blaming the other person.
      That was my comment and I was right about the second line

  • @gifthschauke2275
    @gifthschauke2275 11 місяців тому +7

    Lol madam speaker don't be a marshmallow 😂 I refuse on your behalf .😂😂😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +2

      You seeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😩😩😩

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 11 місяців тому +13

    I thought they interviewing you 😂😂😂 switch please

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +3

      Askies I’ll never switch positions again. I usually ask the guest to pick a seat first

  • @Princess_Lehlohonolo
    @Princess_Lehlohonolo 11 місяців тому +8

    Haiboooo guys were just ARRIVEEEDDDDDDD heyey😮 dj Tira witchcraft, merilyn and kids , and nou our national husband

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +1

      It’s getting kuningier 😂😂😂😂

    • @_molebogeng6281
      @_molebogeng6281 11 місяців тому

      Yoh bathong we just woke up, we just entered 2024 😂

    • @mrsspringbok
      @mrsspringbok 11 місяців тому

      Yoh I’m lost who is merilyn and the kids

    • @mrsspringbok
      @mrsspringbok 11 місяців тому +2

      Made the dress, haibo😂😂😂 this dress is sold in soo many shops. But it’s lovely 🥰

    • @Child_of_God.971
      @Child_of_God.971 11 місяців тому

      @@mrsspringbok😅

  • @matlalampho4304
    @matlalampho4304 11 місяців тому +6

    “Softness ya hae ska ba soft mo di bank account tsa rona”

  • @nkosiyaphamazibuko89
    @nkosiyaphamazibuko89 11 місяців тому +4

    problem start when you decide you want to be a provider as a woman, m sure somewhere the Gentle giant is/was the provider that he is supposed to be

  • @NCarterMed
    @NCarterMed 9 місяців тому +1

    That's why I NEVER lend anything I'm not willing to lose. You can come to me saying "I will pay you back". In my mind, I am giving it to you. If you pay it back, then good! If not, I'm still okay. You will pay it forward.

  • @Nunec
    @Nunec 11 місяців тому +14

    Madam Speaker the correct grammar is you lend someone money not borrow them money. To lend/loan is to give, to borrow is to ask. May u lend me some money? May I borrow some money. The whole SA gets it wrong to the exent that everyone thinks it is correct. I come in peace

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +15

      I’m also one of those ignorant South Africans who are not going to correct this anytime soon. But thanks for the education 😊❤

    • @AnittaM_Diaries
      @AnittaM_Diaries 11 місяців тому +1

      @@madams___speaker😂😂😂

    • @yollotreats
      @yollotreats 11 місяців тому +1

      THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @_hangwi
      @_hangwi 11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the correction , I personally appreciate it 🙏🏽

    • @NCarterMed
      @NCarterMed 9 місяців тому +5

      Thank you so much for highlighting this!! Yoh!
      The word narcissist, also does my head in, coz it's overused and in the wrong context! This is a personality disorder and we can't just go around attaching it to people just because we disagree with their behaviour! People who are not qualified to make this diagnosis use this word loosely!

  • @bongythwala9840
    @bongythwala9840 11 місяців тому +4

    I love your voice madam speaker .

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 10 місяців тому +2

    Ng ng this lady’s story is not make sure there is just too many gaps neh 😂😂😂😂 anyway to each their own

  • @Jacquelinemahlatse
    @Jacquelinemahlatse 11 місяців тому +20

    I knew something was wrong with him when he said he is not afraid to fall in love over and over.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +4

      Haaahh 😮😮😮 why didn’t you tell us

    • @sibongilentshangase4398
      @sibongilentshangase4398 11 місяців тому +8

      Mina I stopped watching that interview there an then 😂😂😂. We can't comment because we will be crucified by people who "believe in love". Let the people believe what they want to believe.😂😂

    • @marciamohale6720
      @marciamohale6720 11 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mundialishebo2981
      @mundialishebo2981 11 місяців тому +1

      Haaaaa

    • @molebohengmaphepha80
      @molebohengmaphepha80 10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

  • @AnnaTshabalala-c8p
    @AnnaTshabalala-c8p 2 місяці тому

    I think im gonna love this one ☝️👀👂👂👀

  • @tshegofatsoaphane175
    @tshegofatsoaphane175 11 місяців тому +14

    There is a difference between what he came here for on Madam Speaker and what is being discussed here. That does not make him a scammer. He may have made certain mistakes with you and doesn't make him a scammer.

    • @Dklady
      @Dklady 11 місяців тому +3

      I felt the same way he came here to speak about love and she came here to talk about someone she was not even romantically involved with

    • @nelzg5819
      @nelzg5819 11 місяців тому +1

      Welele😂

    • @Lungelo911
      @Lungelo911 11 місяців тому +2

      The host says there's many other women who he did the same to. It's not a mistake. He's intentional. He's a scammer

    • @helloworldrio
      @helloworldrio 11 місяців тому

      Webhatata 😂

    • @tshegofatsoaphane175
      @tshegofatsoaphane175 11 місяців тому

      @@Lungelo911 I saw that in her post.
      And I still say, he is not a scammer.
      Whats the meaning of a lot.
      Again, he came here to talk about love. I'm 100% that few that said got scammed had nothing to do with Love.

  • @Drip3657
    @Drip3657 11 місяців тому +1

    The marshmellow and jub jub part made my day😂😂😂😂😂...women ur level of humour 😂😂😂😂😂❤

  • @Lirrah_Lee
    @Lirrah_Lee 11 місяців тому +2

    I've gotten myself into a tiktok influencer rabbit hole! 😂😂😂

    • @NCarterMed
      @NCarterMed 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sibongilengini4623
    @sibongilengini4623 12 днів тому

    She is 100 percent right about meeting people on social media. But I fully understand and agree with everything she said. People have different sides according to what they want to achieve at that point in time and they will approach you for their own agenda. She comes across very tough but really sweet shame it's the curse of being gifted, they attract troubled people to be problem solvers. Some would say in your line of belief, you attract people who need help and you will always expose their shadow side.

  • @PriscaChauke
    @PriscaChauke 11 місяців тому

    My first time seeing Ketso but I love her..... looking beautiful ladies much love

  • @bridgebee3914
    @bridgebee3914 11 місяців тому +2

    Do you remember when he spoke about not protecting his wife. How can he then protect or care for anybody. Gentle what?. Run girls, run from that gentle 👅

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +2

      We heard him but we didn’t listen 😩😩😩

  • @godsfavouritedaughter3476
    @godsfavouritedaughter3476 10 місяців тому +2

    This guy presented himself as a perfectionist. I didn't like it when he bashed his wife, claiming she failed to receive his love because she grew up without a father figure. Just because he is from a good family he is supposed to know all about love. Yet he says we all have different love languages. So much contradiction. He is a smooth operator.

  • @DayleMathabatha
    @DayleMathabatha 11 місяців тому +5

    The nature of their relationship to me it was not clear honestly @ the beginning it sounds like she borrowed a man she never met money. But of course debts must be paid.

  • @carolncube5775
    @carolncube5775 11 місяців тому +2

    I love this topic, I borrowed Agreement Ndebele 10k since 2021 and till to date she still refuses to pay me. She is the reason why I have trust issues and why I refuse to have friends moving forward. Agreement Ndebele I still want my money, a whole metro police. How do you sleep knowing that you have taken money from someone that's unemployed and a single parent. I hate you shem.

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 6 місяців тому +1

    I will listen to the gentle giant episode just now, but the way Ketso is so worked up, sounds like they did more than just borrow each other cash... ngathi he is a scorned woman

  • @tembezelanilubatapela3116
    @tembezelanilubatapela3116 10 місяців тому +1

    Ohooooo spiritual eye my foot,

  • @asiphileni8949
    @asiphileni8949 11 місяців тому +1

    Yoooooh what a turn. I wonder

  • @lesley_lezley
    @lesley_lezley 11 місяців тому +3

    Madam Speaker wawususa umsindo 😂😂😂❤

  • @sinovuyosoji8116
    @sinovuyosoji8116 11 місяців тому +15

    I watched the Gentle Giant's episode and I am trying to understand how borrowing money from the lady and not paying it back correlates with what he said about Love.
    I think I would understand if the person who came out to the podcast was someone he mistreated in a relationship or something then it would mean he is not practicing what he is preaching and that would be unacceptable.
    But this one I am struggling to understand the point of it.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +12

      1. Ketso was blocked for 2 years by someone who can’t hurt a fly.
      2. Many independent women came forth and said they were manipulated for financial gain using the language of love.
      3. Many more women who watched that episode were sold meaning I put him on a pedestal so that more women can be his potential victims.
      Therefore this episode alerts anyone who will fall for the smooth talks of the gentle giant in future so they know that the ultimate goal is for him to get money from you. As authentic and transparent as I am, I don’t need anyone using the episode I had gentle giant as the reference of how they fell for the same trap that many other women fell into 🙏🏿

    • @vuyooglebethunana
      @vuyooglebethunana 11 місяців тому +3

      Consistency is everything. You cant be a love doctor and do this painful thing to someone. So where was the persona you sold us while scamming and gaslighting this lady for 2 years

    • @ntombikayisemthembu7711
      @ntombikayisemthembu7711 11 місяців тому +1

      SHEZ BITTER

    • @Andtherewaslight427
      @Andtherewaslight427 10 місяців тому

      ​@@ntombikayisemthembu7711Aaai Ntombikayise,what a beautiful name. Kodwa shem nisezo tyelwa imali ngabafana. If you do not understand that actions go hand in hand with what you preach. Then nisezo dlelwa imali

    • @nozukojoseph2214
      @nozukojoseph2214 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ntombikayisemthembu7711Can you be sweet when someone blocks you without paying back your money??

  • @_hangwi
    @_hangwi 11 місяців тому +1

    No body is perfect indeed 😅, he is a gentle lover and affectionate but an arrogant swindler 😮

  • @A-_B956
    @A-_B956 11 місяців тому +5

    You guys should stop saying she is lying .. I watched that gentle giant interview and what he said felt fake.. He said things but you can tell his heart was not in it.. He is the type of guy who knows what to say , it's crazy how naive a lot of women are.. He was right when he said women love men , le rata banna and ba sa tlo le nyisa 😂😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +3

      Mmawe why you calling us out like that 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @A-_B956
      @A-_B956 11 місяців тому +4

      .He is a gentle tsotsi that one 😅Smooth talker , he made this one give him ten tao using nice words.. He probably told her to be a jelly baby ..

    • @ndzalamafelicia4438
      @ndzalamafelicia4438 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@A-_B956maybe yogurt😂😂😂😂

  • @sazi7128
    @sazi7128 11 місяців тому

    Madam, please bring those woman forward. We want to hear more from these woman.

  • @patrikhumalo6737
    @patrikhumalo6737 11 місяців тому +3

    Shoooo abantu kodwa hayi man where is the truth mara emhlabeni gentle giant Nkosi yami why Mara but it was clear on the interview yakhe ukuthi this is the movie it is not real but we sleep peacefully on that day atleast 😂

  • @ditalamokwele9078
    @ditalamokwele9078 11 місяців тому +1

    Madam speaker you look amazing that outfit wow beautiful ...you guys want to tell us gore marshmallow is a scarmmallow ?😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому

      Bhod ke sana but ya we move 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @relebohilepolilane3931
    @relebohilepolilane3931 9 місяців тому +1

    Looking at the lady, I have seen pictures of her on his phone after we broke up. We stayed friends since we were friends before dating, and he showed me her gf at the time, it was this lady.

  • @mamodibedikotlolo6204
    @mamodibedikotlolo6204 11 місяців тому +22

    Madam speaker sit on your seat you are confusing us, for a moment I didn't know who is who

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +5

      Bathong ndithe sorry 😩😩🙏🏿❤️

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +4

      Ke ghubha Umswarelo 😢

    • @SagwieRabs
      @SagwieRabs 11 місяців тому +2

      @@madams___speaker 🤣🤣🤣back to your chair ma'am

    • @thebigdeal6671
      @thebigdeal6671 11 місяців тому

      How many languages do u speak ? ndithe Sorry, ghubha umswarero …sounds like isizulu

    • @SagwieRabs
      @SagwieRabs 11 місяців тому

      @@thebigdeal6671 she is like me multilingual queen

  • @PodcastingSA
    @PodcastingSA 11 місяців тому +4

    Yhoooooo I’m here

  • @Amara833
    @Amara833 11 місяців тому +2

    Okay, so why didn't I receive this notification hee 😭😭 and why are you not occupying your seat? It took several minutes for my eyes to adjust 😩 😫 🙃

  • @sazi7128
    @sazi7128 11 місяців тому

    Madam speaker, I need a hug 🫂 from you. I would love to spend a day with you when I come back to South Africa.

  • @sebongilehlahatse1820
    @sebongilehlahatse1820 11 місяців тому +3

    Banna ke ma devil shame😂😂😂

  • @palesasebeela7608
    @palesasebeela7608 11 місяців тому +2

    Ketso's story is not make sure, there was something romantic going on here, still dont understand why she gave him this money?

  • @mapitsigranny9440
    @mapitsigranny9440 11 місяців тому +8

    Did u guys say he lied about his profession??how?? Is he another Dr Matthew??😂😂

    • @kgothatsobrie9054
      @kgothatsobrie9054 8 місяців тому

      He is a Doctor Shem yena but eish something is off kayena 😂

  • @suigeneris5193
    @suigeneris5193 11 місяців тому +9

    Madam speaker swap chairs hle, I was a little confused when the video started playing and you weren’t on your side of the studio😭😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +3

      I’m sorry I’ll swap 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @SharonNcubuka
    @SharonNcubuka 11 місяців тому +3

    Sibadala maan, , Nina benijola

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +3

      Jolling or no jolling Bottom line , give Caesar what belongs to Caesar .

  • @phindilemaseko7357
    @phindilemaseko7357 6 місяців тому

    Lets forgive Gentle Giant he is weak in money but in love is strong so let us not cancel him totally.but thanks cc Ketso to hear his weakness

  • @mahlohonololebuso741
    @mahlohonololebuso741 10 місяців тому +1

    Unpopular opinion: gentle giant scammed Ketso. What he did was wrong. But he also understands women shem. Mina I took what he said to heart, be a marshmallow 😌 I don't condone his actions but I take his advice on being a soft woman.

  • @isabelwilson227
    @isabelwilson227 8 місяців тому

    She is not telling us everything. Mjolo 😂😂😂

  • @sinazomakileni3938
    @sinazomakileni3938 10 місяців тому

    Ay this lady she makes me laugh,very funny😂

  • @nomsangema8162
    @nomsangema8162 8 місяців тому

    Bring both of them back please 😮

  • @sazi7128
    @sazi7128 11 місяців тому +1

    Gentle giant is prove that an empty tin makes the loudest noise.

  • @mimimdaki3793
    @mimimdaki3793 11 місяців тому +4

    But he paid you my sister... Why are you here... Why do you care so muchhhhh? He didn't force you to give him your money... Guys can we talk about pressing matters... Hai ama10k that were paid off

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +4

      There are more people who came forward saying they have a similar story on how he made money out of them. He targets live sessions and gets women who seem to have money from those lives. This is a serious awareness that I feel
      It was necessary for those who are still going to have an encounter with the man.

    • @nonhlanhlamaphumulo980
      @nonhlanhlamaphumulo980 11 місяців тому

      True

  • @thatorasutho9161
    @thatorasutho9161 11 місяців тому +4

    Eeeh .Madam diyabowa .I love u Boss lady .thnx for tracking out the truth for us .Love u to bits.

  • @phutiphooko7555
    @phutiphooko7555 11 місяців тому +10

    😂😂😂whooo guys amadoda kodwa

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂yoooh

    • @minemaake1372
      @minemaake1372 11 місяців тому +1

      2 think I even post him on my Status 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @phutiphooko7555
      @phutiphooko7555 11 місяців тому

      @@minemaake1372I watched that episode twice and started following him on TT

    • @FancyMaite
      @FancyMaite 11 місяців тому +1

      He told us things we want to hear😂😂😂

  • @matshidisohopephaswana3167
    @matshidisohopephaswana3167 11 місяців тому +3

    yooooo i give up😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +1

      Can I give up here with you? 🤣🤣🤣😩😩😩

  • @khensanebaloyi6835
    @khensanebaloyi6835 11 місяців тому +2

    I don't understand, they met online, she knows his family and his personally knows his wife? 🙄

    • @muengenkwanyuo4358
      @muengenkwanyuo4358 4 місяці тому

      Ahh I'm sure you haven't dig and even stalk people to help retrieve a loan

  • @nonkululekoshozi1404
    @nonkululekoshozi1404 10 місяців тому

    O love the dress awusukume🎉🎉

  • @marietabingatati5914
    @marietabingatati5914 10 місяців тому +2

    Ppl let’s break the habit of using these platforms to destroy each other. I’m failing to see the connection btwn the topic from the man episode and this. Particularly if he ended up paying back; its like we don’t allow grace for redemption

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  10 місяців тому +5

      The same man is in many women’s DM’s who fell for him because of the way he speaks and asked them for money and never paid back . Many women came forward after that episode. Also me giving him a platform to speak without being aware that he goes around manipulating women means I’m putting my vulnerable followers at risk. That will not happen on my watch.

    • @Andtherewaslight427
      @Andtherewaslight427 10 місяців тому

      ​@@madams___speaker❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @proxlee
    @proxlee 11 місяців тому +6

    I don't appreciate what you ladies are doing. You are mixing relationship and financial life of gentle giant. He said he did so much working love life. If he lacks on financial why are we mixing the two? Am I lost?

    • @mrsspringbok
      @mrsspringbok 11 місяців тому

      😂 you’re right this ketso lady is not make sure.. she was swingled by an ex

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 11 місяців тому +5

    I don't know how many times I have warned ladies about the gents in Tik tok. They are just running game. They know all they have to do is post content that favors women, love and host positive lives and BOOM! The sisterhood starts flocking towards them😂😂😂

  • @umgosi816
    @umgosi816 11 місяців тому +1

    Haai taba tsa Sesi hadi kopane...iyooo 57 minutes ekana for ZeRo🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. Flirting went wrong

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому

      Atleast an awareness was raised for some people who thought the Gentle Giant is sent from heaven

  • @mashebanethosago889
    @mashebanethosago889 11 місяців тому

    It was from 36:12 that she admits...😢

  • @gifthschauke2275
    @gifthschauke2275 11 місяців тому +7

    I knew he was a scam lol it was too good to be true . GAAA 😅 GENTLE G.G my toe .😂
    But madam speaker you were also starting to loosen up and believe in love because of gentle puppy . 😅

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +6

      I was sold oohhh 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @gifthschauke2275
      @gifthschauke2275 11 місяців тому

      😂​@@madams___speaker

    • @phutiphooko7555
      @phutiphooko7555 11 місяців тому +3

      Madam speaker was ready to get married to him .That question of him available 🤣🤣

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +3

      @@phutiphooko7555 I was ready to risk it all my sister 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😲😲😲😲😲

    • @mundialishebo2981
      @mundialishebo2981 11 місяців тому +1

      I am also disappointed cos I really believed his story hey. 😅😅😅

  • @khalirendwerambuda
    @khalirendwerambuda 11 місяців тому +2

    I wish this comments shared screenshots

  • @refilwemotlhaga3748
    @refilwemotlhaga3748 10 місяців тому +3

    There's nothing wrong with believing in love there are good men out there, let's not allow the gentle giant ruin it for us. you can be a mash mellow sometimes love is beautiful

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 11 місяців тому +2

    😮

  • @mariasimon231
    @mariasimon231 11 місяців тому +10

    😂😂😂 ai men will humble us forever

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  11 місяців тому +1

      Forever and ever hallelujah amen 😂😂😂😂

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 11 місяців тому

      Nna I run for my life at their sight 😅😅😅

  • @ntombizodwasimakuhle
    @ntombizodwasimakuhle 11 місяців тому +1

    I like this topic. I wish someone could help me. I borrowed someone money 2022 R27000. She refused to pay me. I even went to her work place. They hide her because there are many people she is owing. Please help me guys.

  • @Hush_A
    @Hush_A 11 місяців тому +1

    The lady keeps saying "we've never met", yet you agree to borrow to someone you don't know? Can the lady tell us the true of their relation assemblief.

  • @thobekilemhlongo5884
    @thobekilemhlongo5884 3 місяці тому

    Yoooo uyamurabhela esekhulume kamnandi kangaka😂😂😂😂