That's my friend ❣️ yesterday night we were just chilling outside my house, laughing and comforting each other. Thula she's a very strong woman. I hope she finds help through the podcast. I love you my friend ❣️
I love the fact that the man stood by his faith. He didn't give in to this thing. Do not be equally yoked with the unbelievers. That man set an example that you can leave a woman that you love for God, and he proved that he loves her by taking her back after she left him for another man. I respect him
Does the man even know God let's not confuse being a Christian with knowing God.Coz if he did I doubt he would have done what he did to the poor girl and his not even honest .
I feel like she is battling so much childhood traumas, identity crisis, and seeking sense of belonging, she has gone through a lot and I deeply sympathize, may the Almighty God heal you.. much love sisi ❤
Knowing what I know now, and listening to the story, U girl has many openings for spiritual attacks, mainly from her childhood. She longs for a sense of belonging, she has a temper etc.. I commend the husband for sticking to his faith.. 🙏
@@lindao6409 It means we both come from a Christian family and believe in Christ our saviour. We came together with that foundation of God. If the Foundation of God collapses then there is no point of being together.
Could listen to her all day, there is just something about her, wise woman indeed. Please call her back, even if just for atchar only😂😂. Loving her and may she gets what's due to her. Thank you madam
Exactly the same story with me and my journey with my husband it hurts it's 😢like I'm listening to myself voice out about my life but I prayed I pahla and he came back i eventually had to compromise again when my husband came back
Eish she has been through the most 😢.God help us to bring kids thst we can manage to raise them .Nothing disturbs like longing for your real parents' love
Looking at how confident my sister seems to be when talking abt seeing creepy things at night, unable to walk dat there was no Ada way but to go 'thwasa' mr bother was not gonna win her over shem. Just lyk the pastors wife who accommodated my sister, her instruction was 'do not burn anything' bcos wow how was that gonna work? Any way all the best sister wan, everyone to themselves
I dont know if il b able to easily accept a partner that become a sangoma along the relationship .i think its better to b sangoma n b with sm1 while already know what they r getting themselves in to .its hard dt u also ddn know bt i understand his firm believe.mayb he believed u wont rich that bridge instead ul use yo gift at church .thou i love your braveness. U also went through alot i wish u joy n happiness. U also speak so well i enjoyed lsning to u❤
These days ppl don't tell their stories ....when they get to the podcasts they start preaching and motivating us....all over the place and not answering questions 😂😂😂😂
I think Sisi also knew that her marriage was over, it just happened when she was not ready if ever there is such as being emotionally ready for a divorce
And also it's Hippocratical of her to expect her husband to address his how when and why he's moving on... But when she did it with the bus guy no one questioned the manner in which it was done... I believe that she thought that man loved her too much and he'll stand through everything and the fact that he life proven her wrong she flipped 🙃 I stand to be corrected ❤
I think the day she told her husband to get a second wife is exactly when they broke up. But she remained in denial. The guy even told her they wont sleep together anymore. The guy made it clear where he stood with his beliefs of not accepting her calling. The fact that this person prospered when she was gone is a huge red flag. I dont think people should be forced to stay in a relationship when they dont have the same beliefs as you. She needs serious therapy and to let go. Life is too short . For holding each other back just because your own life is stuck . She can just get her half let this rest in peace.
But the lady she's in pain.but she forget telling this guy that he is leaving him because she met another man. How did the man feel that time. What if the husband is paying revenge.woman at times
Man don't want projects that they can't deal with that's y he left her but if it was him she would have stayed aaa basadi weee take yourself serious am out of here
LORD...phew!... There is a lot going on here...how many moms does she have? And the husband's mom eventually decided to go for the lobola negotiations with the arranged "people"?🤔 At least she can still tell her story that a step to the right direction but she needs to get more healing. Hopefully she will get the help she needs.
Hi Thula,I want to confirm that feeling of knowing that you will go somewhere or something big has to change, it's real and I know it's weird to explain.
I'm so confused with her story I feel like the husband is innocent here , I myt be wrong....@ some point she left her husband for another man as soon as she decided to go back he welcomed her , she left again for ukuthwasa for months the husband cheated...I really can't connect with the lady's story
Problem about ending a serious relationship or divorcing is that we have to adress attachments, fears, entitlements and bruised ego. Otherwise there is nothing to cry for of feel sad about.
R u the lady who was naked in her husband apartment?? Rest........u don't know what this lady went through......or get a hobby tlhe than hurt other people.....
That's my friend ❣️ yesterday night we were just chilling outside my house, laughing and comforting each other. Thula she's a very strong woman. I hope she finds help through the podcast. I love you my friend ❣️
I love the fact that the man stood by his faith. He didn't give in to this thing.
Do not be equally yoked with the unbelievers.
That man set an example that you can leave a woman that you love for God, and he proved that he loves her by taking her back after she left him for another man.
I respect him
"unequally yoked"
Does the man even know God let's not confuse being a Christian with knowing God.Coz if he did I doubt he would have done what he did to the poor girl and his not even honest .
YAZINI ATLEAST THULA WAS HONEST ABOUT HER CALLING AND THIS PRETENDING TO BE CHRISTIANS BT ON THE SIDE HO$$ING AROUND@@AneleDlamini-nw4lx
I'm not gonna lie to you, I enjoyed this sana,she is a breathe of fresh air.
I feel like she is battling so much childhood traumas, identity crisis, and seeking sense of belonging, she has gone through a lot and I deeply sympathize, may the Almighty God heal you.. much love sisi ❤
Wow..please bring this woman back.,there is just something about her ❤wow!!!I could listen to her all day!!!
This is my favorite episode so far, even though I am still busy watching it💛
OMG.....I enjoyed this conversation. I am barely half way but I have gone back so many times just to re-listen. Her story is so relatable for me.
Enlightened soul💛💛💛I love you Sis. This is one episode that I am going to watch again💛
I am not a psychologist or something but when i am listening to her story, I see childhood trauma. I am praying for her to get Healing❤❤
I see my self in her for sure childhood trauma.
I see a evangelist, motivational speaker, councilor and a free spirit. Thank I really enjoyed listening to her
I enjoyed this episode, and Thula is such a strong person and an inspiration . May God and her ancestors bless and protect her.
Your man did a good job . He married wrong poor man he went through a lot
Knowing what I know now, and listening to the story, U girl has many openings for spiritual attacks, mainly from her childhood. She longs for a sense of belonging, she has a temper etc.. I commend the husband for sticking to his faith.. 🙏
Funny how me and my hubby spoke about this.
We both agree if one of us went to go Thwasa, the marriage is over.
Is good to speak about it before it happens. Atleast you all know where you all stand.
What does that mean?
@@lindao6409
It means we both come from a Christian family and believe in Christ our saviour.
We came together with that foundation of God.
If the Foundation of God collapses then there is no point of being together.
But guys who told you that Dlozi children don't believe in God. Haye
But guys who told you that Dlozi children don't believe in God. Haye
Could listen to her all day, there is just something about her, wise woman indeed. Please call her back, even if just for atchar only😂😂. Loving her and may she gets what's due to her. Thank you madam
Exactly the same story with me and my journey with my husband it hurts it's 😢like I'm listening to myself voice out about my life but I prayed I pahla and he came back i eventually had to compromise again when my husband came back
Thokoza ntomdala uNkulunkulu abenawe💜 your such a beautiful soul
In this comment section, y'all are so bitter this lady told her story her story. If you don’t relate okay someone else will🤦🏿♂️.
Eish she has been through the most 😢.God help us to bring kids thst we can manage to raise them .Nothing disturbs like longing for your real parents' love
The part were she talked about receiving apology brought me to tears ,I'm still or hoping for one by the looks of things I'm not going to get it 😢😢
I hate how I am relating to her story. I see myself in her.
Looking at how confident my sister seems to be when talking abt seeing creepy things at night, unable to walk dat there was no Ada way but to go 'thwasa' mr bother was not gonna win her over shem. Just lyk the pastors wife who accommodated my sister, her instruction was 'do not burn anything' bcos wow how was that gonna work? Any way all the best sister wan, everyone to themselves
"Everything is a gift". ❤
I dont know if il b able to easily accept a partner that become a sangoma along the relationship .i think its better to b sangoma n b with sm1 while already know what they r getting themselves in to .its hard dt u also ddn know bt i understand his firm believe.mayb he believed u wont rich that bridge instead ul use yo gift at church .thou i love your braveness. U also went through alot i wish u joy n happiness. U also speak so well i enjoyed lsning to u❤
May you get complete and total healing Thula.
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These days ppl don't tell their stories ....when they get to the podcasts they start preaching and motivating us....all over the place and not answering questions 😂😂😂😂
This lady is carrying so much trauma🥺…sometimes we go ephehlweni with the hope tht things will get better😢..
Let him go my sister allow your spiritual guides to fight for you they'll never let you down. He's not the one they chose for you
Bophelo ka hara Lenyalo ke ntwa yoo I'm a married woman ke 20yrs now but yaa nee😢
I think Sisi also knew that her marriage was over, it just happened when she was not ready if ever there is such as being emotionally ready for a divorce
In all honesty.... I don't understand her story 😊 im not sure if its only me 😞
And also it's Hippocratical of her to expect her husband to address his how when and why he's moving on... But when she did it with the bus guy no one questioned the manner in which it was done...
I believe that she thought that man loved her too much and he'll stand through everything and the fact that he life proven her wrong she flipped 🙃
I stand to be corrected ❤
I think the day she told her husband to get a second wife is exactly when they broke up. But she remained in denial. The guy even told her they wont sleep together anymore. The guy made it clear where he stood with his beliefs of not accepting her calling. The fact that this person prospered when she was gone is a huge red flag. I dont think people should be forced to stay in a relationship when they dont have the same beliefs as you. She needs serious therapy and to let go. Life is too short . For holding each other back just because your own life is stuck . She can just get her half let this rest in peace.
' you matter' M taking that ... thank you Cc 👊
I really think she doesn’t wanna lie🤭 ngyadlala don’t come for me . Thanks for sharing your story sis❤❤
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Not all lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
But the lady she's in pain.but she forget telling this guy that he is leaving him because she met another man. How did the man feel that time. What if the husband is paying revenge.woman at times
😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤i love u my sister
Nice exchange. Is Dlozi ancient pagan african initiation?
Thought it was just me.... I'm halfway listening but, I'm still struggling to connect with story🤗
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All I know is that she really doesn't wanna lie!!!!
Maybe the speak out needs time, unfortunately time is curtailed. She needs a Thula series
Me too.. it’s all over the place
Only joinong in nw cos my algorhythm betrayed me.😢
Man don't want projects that they can't deal with that's y he left her but if it was him she would have stayed aaa basadi weee take yourself serious am out of here
Other men are weak spiritually
Yoooooo a lot is going on here so many moms mmmm
Love is painfull sometimes struu
Yooh this woman has a lot going on too much….so many stories mixed up eeeeh
GO BUIWA KA ENG MARA MO?
LORD...phew!... There is a lot going on here...how many moms does she have? And the husband's mom eventually decided to go for the lobola negotiations with the arranged "people"?🤔 At least she can still tell her story that a step to the right direction but she needs to get more healing. Hopefully she will get the help she needs.
I love you Thula, God has great things in store for you, I like your lively spirit , keep pushing ❤❤❤
Hi Thula,I want to confirm that feeling of knowing that you will go somewhere or something big has to change, it's real and I know it's weird to explain.
Yoh I can’t follow, her story is all over the place 🤦🏻♀️ what is she talking about 😫
I'm confused too 😢
Sisi.. you’re not alone.
I'm so confused with her story I feel like the husband is innocent here , I myt be wrong....@ some point she left her husband for another man as soon as she decided to go back he welcomed her , she left again for ukuthwasa for months the husband cheated...I really can't connect with the lady's story
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she needs legal help
Problem about ending a serious relationship or divorcing is that we have to adress attachments, fears, entitlements and bruised ego.
Otherwise there is nothing to cry for of feel sad about.
I love your husband he did the right thing Fr ending the stupid relationship
R u the lady who was naked in her husband apartment?? Rest........u don't know what this lady went through......or get a hobby tlhe than hurt other people.....
@@matlhatsi3486say it lauder
UNENKINGA ENKULU KE WENA
This lady neh ah o nale mala guut!