Trans Guy Problems: Binders and Binding

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  • @scarletfeather5969
    @scarletfeather5969 6 років тому +2687

    DOES THIS SHIRT MAKE ME LOOK FLAT

    • @zombiekiddo8548
      @zombiekiddo8548 6 років тому +44

      The Fiadochi Aardvark #justtransthings

    • @thatguy-nk6gh
      @thatguy-nk6gh 6 років тому +16

      The Fiadochi Aardvark freakin every shirt I question

    • @VurzemWolf
      @VurzemWolf 5 років тому +20

      Boldt stripy shirts make you look flat :)

    • @dweeblekeneeble6332
      @dweeblekeneeble6332 5 років тому +3

      The Fiadochi Aardvark HAHAHA I CANT EVEN

    • @Ghoopem
      @Ghoopem 5 років тому

      Yessssss!

  • @annierebeccaa
    @annierebeccaa 8 років тому +2554

    The amount of times I've gotten trapped in my binder is unreal 😂

    • @Mxtthlg
      @Mxtthlg 8 років тому +23

      oh my god same 😂

    • @deletedsorry4920
      @deletedsorry4920 8 років тому +103

      I've dislocated my arm
      Getting my binder off and broke my wrist trying to push out of it and put it on

    • @SageWarrenSageywageypoo
      @SageWarrenSageywageypoo 8 років тому +25

      I usually get stuck when I just finished doing something that made me sweat. DX

    • @annierebeccaa
      @annierebeccaa 8 років тому +7

      Chance Finley holy shit

    • @annierebeccaa
      @annierebeccaa 8 років тому +77

      Chance Finley I've never been injured but I know that almost every time I go to take off my binder I end up trapped, and I kinda just stand there with my breasts exposed and my arms up in the air like "this is it. this is how it ends"

  • @aknarxus
    @aknarxus 8 років тому +481

    I'm just over 4 weeks post op and i constantly look in the mirror at my chest, because it's just too awesome. And sometimes i have a small panic thinking i forgot to bind and then remember that I've had surgery so that's silly. haha

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  8 років тому +148

      Congrats on having surgery! I hope healing and everything is going well. I used to have the panic about thinking I forgot to bind too haha.

    • @namelesswolf2625
      @namelesswolf2625 6 років тому +14

      A worry i hope to have someday ha

    • @teddyjlockwood
      @teddyjlockwood Рік тому

      I know it's been six years, but I just got top a little over a week ago and it's been amazing! I keep thinking that like, oh I need to grab a sports bra or binder, and then remembering, wait no I don't!! Though I guess since I still have the bandages on, it still feels like there's something there, so it's a bit less of a panic, and more of an after thought haha
      Tbh, I don't even know why I'm watching this. I already had top, so I don't need to know about binders anymore. But god, the readjusting and checking in shop windows is real. Unfortunately, I never managed to be flat, even when binding. Not that that matters anymore!

  • @eyeles8887
    @eyeles8887 8 років тому +870

    I'm not out yet. I've tried coming out but my parents just ignored my identity and called me a girl and all that shit. This year i met a dude who was also trans and was getting rid of binders that were too big. I'm already very flat chested without a binder so my dysphoria wasn't terrible, but a binder helped me a lot. He gave me his old one and it looks brand new, i've been wearing it for just over a month and i feel great!

    • @BigKicksMix
      @BigKicksMix 7 років тому +36

      Gerard Lesterell I did the same thing. I tried coming out and they just ignored me so I'm just dressing how I want and wearing my binder (all which I bought out of my own money which I had been saving up but I couldn't have gone any longer without it) and I feel so much happier with myself but they won't listen so I just feel shit whenever they talk to me

    • @panictreasure5278
      @panictreasure5278 7 років тому +24

      Welp I'm still called a girl by all my family but my cousin and I'm not allowed to wear boyish clothes or get a binder so I'm just like ;-;

    • @boowidge1374
      @boowidge1374 6 років тому +11

      +Jay Preis GENDER AND SEX ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS!!!! You are making gender dysphoria so much worse and for that you are so so wrong. Going to videos like these and picking on people in the comments like this is so wrong

    • @wants2die609
      @wants2die609 6 років тому +7

      FailOutBoy My Dysphoria is absolutely horrible and I'm planning on coming out on the first day of June in 2018.

    • @Ariel_is_a_dreamer
      @Ariel_is_a_dreamer 6 років тому +3

      My mom acts like that too >.>

  • @riverlily5983
    @riverlily5983 7 років тому +885

    My best friend is going through his transition (ftm) and I'm literally binging on every video possible about the transition so I can help and understand as much as possible and this helps heaps thank you 💕

    • @coffeebase9657
      @coffeebase9657 5 років тому +33

      You're such a great friend! 💖

    • @coffeebase9657
      @coffeebase9657 5 років тому +9

      I'm proud of you!

    • @dire_wolf8746
      @dire_wolf8746 4 роки тому +24

      People like you are the best kind of people, people who care about they friends and do anything to help their friends. Keep on being a good person

    • @theradiatorisonfire7768
      @theradiatorisonfire7768 4 роки тому +4

      River Lily awe more people like you should be in the world :>

    • @riverlily5983
      @riverlily5983 4 роки тому +17

      @Kiara welllll, we are no longer friends as he dropped out of school and pretty much removed himself from everyone from school but from what I have heard from his sister he's moved out and is doing great :)

  • @andirogynous5406
    @andirogynous5406 8 років тому +2459

    when I got my first binder I was like "hey. hey mom. hug me. " she was so confused xD

    • @andirogynous5406
      @andirogynous5406 8 років тому +229

      I had a binder that clasped in the front, but my sister put it in the dryer and all the clasps broke ;-; three of them are even completely missing now. so yeah, I need a new one lol

    • @bugz3193
      @bugz3193 7 років тому +88

      Andi Rogynous i just got mine today and holy hell its comfy but it took my like 3 mins to put on

    • @diosdehuecomundo
      @diosdehuecomundo 6 років тому +22

      Omg that's adorable ^^

    • @fasai365
      @fasai365 5 років тому +34

      @It's Sammy when I first got my binder I did the same. Couldn’t stop patting my chest. Like wow 😮 I’m flat. Am I dreaming? Please don’t be a dream. Lol , couldn’t stop.

    • @TheYoutubaki
      @TheYoutubaki 5 років тому +1

      @It's Sammy what brand?

  • @alphabeticalorder168
    @alphabeticalorder168 7 років тому +650

    I had to remove my friend from his new binder because he got stuck in it and it was a really hot day and we'd had a home celebration with movies, pizza and he drank too much and couldn't get out of it. So I had to remove my tipsy and slightly sweaty friend from a new, slightly moist binder. it was hilarious and he still gets embarrassed-happy when we talk about it. We like to bring it up as a joke whenever he gets a new binder.

    • @noonh120
      @noonh120 7 років тому +19

      Alphabetical Order that's cute

    • @ennenkuolemaa
      @ennenkuolemaa 4 роки тому +4

      LMAO

    • @sophiathefurbst
      @sophiathefurbst 3 роки тому +3

      @@hazelshaw4838 I know this is a year old scam but I can’t help but laugh at the irony here, this is a video about _binding_ , as in, trying to make your chest look *flat* .

  • @mazthemoose8529
    @mazthemoose8529 7 років тому +1791

    I dislocated my shoulder putting my binder on for the first time 😂👍

  • @bryntendo
    @bryntendo 7 років тому +262

    Hot tip for new binders: If it's a half tank, put it on over your head and keep your arms up, pull the bottom of it down straight as much as possible - especially around your armpits, shoulderblades/lats, and back - so that it's not rolled up on itself. When it's as unrolled, straight, and pulled down as much as possible, bring your arms down and then just keep pulling the bottom down until it's on, then arrange yourself however you like =) If it's a full tank, just step into it and pull it up.
    Taking it off again: Pull the bottom up as far as you can - again, without letting it roll up on itself - then grab the back at the top of the neckline with both hands, and pull it up over the back of your head. You can alternate the pulling if you're sweaty, left, right, left, right, so it kinda shimmies up your back. Once you start pulling it over the back of your head it should just easily come free over your chest and arms and just slip off. If it's a really tight full tank, you can slip your arms out of the shoulder straps then use them to roll it down over your body until you can step out of it inside out.
    BOOM! Done! Hahaha.

  • @corylusbluefox9482
    @corylusbluefox9482 7 років тому +615

    I got my first binder yesterday!

    • @feralpossum2089
      @feralpossum2089 7 років тому +11

      Corylus Bluefox I will get it next week! I am so exited! ^^

    • @corylusbluefox9482
      @corylusbluefox9482 7 років тому +10

      GewitterinderNacht Congrats! I'm really happy for you!

    • @isabellaoliveira9180
      @isabellaoliveira9180 7 років тому +6

      Corylus Bluefox yay, congrats I'm so happy for you

    • @n.c.435
      @n.c.435 6 років тому +14

      hey @Jay Preis maybe u could shut the fuck up and mind ur own business like I try not to start shit but he ws just happy about getting a binder and you came to shit on him three months later. that's just shitty.

    • @calebkelly7813
      @calebkelly7813 6 років тому +1

      Corylus Bluefox I know its a bit late but CONGRATS!

  • @Firefly2183
    @Firefly2183 8 років тому +595

    Omg, lol, I feel frustrated and stressed just watching him try to put it on/take it off.

  • @kaitlinski493
    @kaitlinski493 8 років тому +427

    I don't know why I keep watching these videos. this has nothing to do with my lifestyle....but you're so funny, and charming lol

    • @Cowoman
      @Cowoman 8 років тому +1

      Kaitlin Ski Same here x)

    • @TheOrigionalTurtle
      @TheOrigionalTurtle 8 років тому +26

      Kaitlin Ski I watch because I like having as much information as possible :)

    • @jsunshine5761
      @jsunshine5761 7 років тому

      Kaitlin Ski same

    • @sijoule965
      @sijoule965 6 років тому +5

      Same I'm a cis girl who's nosy asf

  • @Grodman5
    @Grodman5 7 років тому +238

    Your eyebrows are goals

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  7 років тому +101

      Haha feeling pretty proud of my eyebrows right now, thanks :P

  • @WolfFangite
    @WolfFangite 7 років тому +485

    So, I guess you could say you were in quite a bind for a while there
    I'll see my way out

  • @blitz.en._
    @blitz.en._ 7 років тому +155

    My first binder is coming in February and I just purchased testosterone tablets today. Slowly but surely, I'm on my way

    • @MUSICBLASTROCKS
      @MUSICBLASTROCKS 7 років тому +2

      how's your transition going?

    • @420jerm
      @420jerm 6 років тому +6

      Testosterone pills hurt your liver

    • @eternaldissident857
      @eternaldissident857 6 років тому +23

      For hormones you need to see a doctor. Gels and injections are typically how they give testerone.

    • @monsterenergyfiendd
      @monsterenergyfiendd 4 роки тому +3

      How did the transition go? 🖤🖤

    • @SirShyBoi
      @SirShyBoi 2 роки тому

      Hope it's going good!! :D

  • @Anderson-wu3ll
    @Anderson-wu3ll 7 років тому +106

    I'm getting my first binder tomorrow! I'm so happy.

    • @bugz3193
      @bugz3193 7 років тому

      Anderson so do you like it? I just got mine today and I like mine

    • @Anderson-wu3ll
      @Anderson-wu3ll 7 років тому +5

      Alex Has A Camera yes I love it! It really does flatten me and it helps so much better with dysphoria (sorry for bad english)

    • @bugz3193
      @bugz3193 7 років тому +3

      Anderson z That's awesome, and your English was fine, don't worry ^-^

    • @EvanMMD3939
      @EvanMMD3939 3 роки тому

      im getting mine tomorrow

  • @TheConfuzzledCat
    @TheConfuzzledCat 8 років тому +119

    As a fellow trans guy, I can confirm that your struggle is accurate. 💪🏻👕

    • @hries05
      @hries05 3 роки тому +4

      I’m four years late but hello fellow transman

    • @reigenthefemboi6218
      @reigenthefemboi6218 2 роки тому

      @@hries05 I'm 11 months late but hello to you too fellow trans man

  • @LesAnderson
    @LesAnderson 8 років тому +12

    Hey Jamie, just wanted you to know that I'm a 15 year old transguy and you have really helped me feel normal and not so alone because people in my life aren't very accepting and I know "it gets better" but it's hard.

    • @str_anger505
      @str_anger505 Рік тому

      hi bro how's it going now? i'm 15 right now and i'm a trans guy too, but you wrote your comment 6 years ago

  • @iron_daddy3357
    @iron_daddy3357 6 років тому +57

    I just found out after 6 years of waiting IM GETTING T !!!

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  6 років тому +20

      Ah Congrats, that's amazing!!

  • @Jay-mq3zp
    @Jay-mq3zp 8 років тому +58

    also a tip for people who aren't out or can't get a binder if you can get sports bras that are one or two sizes too small (remember that you still need to be confortable) can give a similar effect to a binder you. Can wear 1 or 2 sports bras but stay safe!

    • @itsmr.stealyogirl27
      @itsmr.stealyogirl27 2 роки тому +3

      I have 2 sports bras that I wear together that fit tight, but one of them is starting to rip at the seams and my mom won't let me get new ones, so I have to deal with my stupid padded sports bras that fit normally and make my chest look bigger.

    • @TheGreatElisaMousy
      @TheGreatElisaMousy Рік тому

      How are you able to wear sports bras that are too small and have them actually function as a psuedo-binder? If a sports bra is too small for me, it just starts to ride up and reveal the underboob. No binding effect even remotely achieved

  • @masonjellison4319
    @masonjellison4319 8 років тому +185

    I've been wanting a binder for the longest time now because I'm Genderfluid and my chest is too big for my own liking. I've attempted to bind in many different ways, some worked, others didn't. i think I would prefer the already made ones that people trust compared to the homemade ones, just so I know that I'll be safe

    • @mystictalkingunicorn9030
      @mystictalkingunicorn9030 8 років тому +16

      Mackenzie Jellison I don't suggest binding with anything homemade. It can break your ribs and cause many skin problems. It's important to be safe 💜

    • @masonjellison4319
      @masonjellison4319 8 років тому +5

      Mystic Talking Unicorn
      i know. this is why I want to get a professionally made binder so I don't hurt myself

    • @masonjellison4319
      @masonjellison4319 8 років тому +6

      Mystic Talking Unicorn
      I'm really happy, one of my friends agreed to buy a binder for me! I'm so excited!

    • @mystictalkingunicorn9030
      @mystictalkingunicorn9030 8 років тому +2

      Mackenzie Jellison That's great! I'm really happy for you :D

    • @masonjellison4319
      @masonjellison4319 8 років тому +1

      Mystic Talking Unicorn
      thanks

  • @scorpiusmalf0y
    @scorpiusmalf0y 8 років тому +183

    I really need a binder buy i can't buy one since I'm not out and i don't want to come out to my parents as something they don't know exists

    • @justonebitch1862
      @justonebitch1862 8 років тому +21

      maybe you can tell them it's like a bra, but a sports bra, one with more compression. i got one from a trans friend of mine and i was able to convince my mom that it was a bra, especially since it has adjustments and all that.

    • @scorpiusmalf0y
      @scorpiusmalf0y 8 років тому +11

      Alfred McCormick i can later but I'm still at an age where I have to buy bras with my mom cuz she pays.. 😕

    • @ThyGeep
      @ThyGeep 8 років тому +12

      I told my mom it was for cosplay!

    • @justonebitch1862
      @justonebitch1862 8 років тому +7

      twentyonefallouthoizonsatthedisco hm... then maybe you can buy one online, and tell her it's a very good quality? and if you can't do that, maybe you can find a supportive friend who can buy one for you online, and then they can give it to you in person? tbh I'm just spewing out ideas for you, but I hope they're logical! 😅

    • @raymondfine7491
      @raymondfine7491 8 років тому +8

      i got a vise gift card from a store, ordered it online with that, and had it delivered to a friends house. maybe you could try something like that

  • @kaitdean7188
    @kaitdean7188 8 років тому +96

    I feel like the binder will roll up when you sit down or bend down

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  8 років тому +60

      Some of the full length ones do roll, but the trip top doesn't tend to - which is why it was always my first choice when I used to bind :)

    • @theelementfour1252
      @theelementfour1252 8 років тому +9

      kali dean I have a full length one AND IT ROLLS ALL THE TIME IF YOU RUN OR SIT. but hey, it's worth it for a flat chest (and slightly stomach cx)

    • @gaysatan5064
      @gaysatan5064 8 років тому +9

      I have to sit upright and can't laugh as much

    • @vishherath3500
      @vishherath3500 8 років тому +4

      haha same! and not a good thought to wear a binder if your going to sit whole day. right?. (I have experience with this)

    • @BigKicksMix
      @BigKicksMix 7 років тому +3

      Vish Herath Yeah I don't wear mine for long car journeys. Luckily for me I can wear baggy clothes/ lots of layers and kinda be alright as long as no one really sees me.

  • @niall5478
    @niall5478 8 років тому +27

    The first time I put on a binder it looked exactly like how you represented it 😂

  • @godbutbased6863
    @godbutbased6863 3 роки тому +4

    It’s genuinely amazing when you can see how many people you have helped out

  • @beanvillus
    @beanvillus 2 роки тому +6

    Binder Tip:
    In summer, or generally, it's nice to wear a undershirt under the binder.
    It probably does get a little hot, but it's a really big help with the sweating and (to me) it's just much more comfortable.
    Also, I read somewhere that you should cough when you took off your binder, to loosen your chest.
    That usually helps me with my breathing.
    Anyhow, this is all just from my point of view, so please feel free to add stuff that helped you or other things (as long as they're not mean).
    Have a good day and please remember that one day, and remember that it gets better. 🧡

  • @Muphn
    @Muphn 6 років тому +10

    If you want to buy a binder, I HIGHLY recommend gc2b, they’re comfortable and relatively easy to put on and take off. I have one and it’s really nice

    • @sophisticated_poog7284
      @sophisticated_poog7284 2 роки тому

      I just ordered from them for me and my friend and im glad to hear that

  • @marchhoney6329
    @marchhoney6329 7 років тому +41

    I'm genderfluid and I just ordered my first binder, I'm so excited!!! I get dysphoria sometimes and I can't wait to see myself with a flat(ish) chest

    • @instantentertainment2800
      @instantentertainment2800 4 роки тому +1

      How are you doing now? I'm non binary but not out yet and want a binder

    • @marchhoney6329
      @marchhoney6329 4 роки тому +1

      Instant Entertainment I’m doing well! I don’t really bind these days bc I personally can’t stand the uncomfortable feeling- I wear bralettes and sports bras which don’t minimize much but also don’t emphasize. I also identify more as nonbinary now- I still have too dysphoria but I wear a lot of oversized tops and layers due to my style so it works out ok. I’d still recommend a binder if you want one! I got mine from underworks and it was a good deal and works great, I just couldn’t get used to the feeling lol. The one thing is I wish I could find a good strapless binder bc I don’t like the look of the binder showing with different necklines, though that’s a style preference.

  • @lex5680
    @lex5680 8 років тому +11

    Planning on ordering my first binder this month, so excited :)

  • @Xae_in_a_Coat
    @Xae_in_a_Coat 4 роки тому +17

    Don’t even have a binder yet and this is already the most relatable thing...

    • @sternentigerkatze
      @sternentigerkatze 2 роки тому

      I'm gonna buy my first binder soon and this video so reminds me of too tight and weirdly tailored tops...

  • @noiz1762
    @noiz1762 8 років тому +95

    ahh, what happens when people *notice* that suddenly your chest is flat? i dont think id be able to explain ._.

    • @AnneMetcalfe101
      @AnneMetcalfe101 8 років тому +42

      when I first started, I used sports bras which make your chest flatter, but not such an obvious difference, so it's not so noticeable when you wear a proper binder

    • @j.d.thedragking2872
      @j.d.thedragking2872 7 років тому +14

      I personally wear loose clothing to begin with, but I switch back and forth at work all the time between a binder, sports, and push-up bras and have never had it commented on. However, if you're very concerned about it, I would start with the subtler sports bra approach as mentioned by LittleBlue Tiger.

    • @fasai365
      @fasai365 5 років тому +9

      I’m not out to my family and occasionally I’d wear my binder in the house and they didn’t notice. But then again I usually wear it when I’m alone in my room and if I have to go outside it’s only for like 5 minutes.

    • @cyisnotokay469
      @cyisnotokay469 5 років тому +11

      What I did was I told people I was starting work out and loosing weight in that area

    • @Dariraine
      @Dariraine 5 років тому +9

      Say that your a ghost and can change your form

  • @idkanymore3387
    @idkanymore3387 6 років тому +42

    "You're too young for a binder" -my mom 2018. Yay...

    • @mooniekitty5912
      @mooniekitty5912 3 роки тому +9

      How you doing now? if you don't mind me asking

  • @shorttbish9565
    @shorttbish9565 4 роки тому +29

    Me when I put my binder
    Me- struggle,
    Me- 2 minutes later hhelp mme
    Sister-what do u need help with
    Me- binder getting on
    Sister-fine I will help
    Me-what hell no
    Sister- you said help
    Me-nvm I good
    Sister- ok
    Me- still struggle to get it on

  • @aollie
    @aollie 2 роки тому +6

    alright this is a binding safety check: whoever reads this and is binding PLEASE do not over bind!! even though it can be really really hard to not bind because of dysphoria remember to take break days and to only bind for 8 hours max. i remember binding for a little over 24 hours once and it was absolutely terrible and i had an asthma attack because of it (i was ok after and didn’t have to go to the hospital though so that’s good). don’t follow my example and be safe everyone!! :)

  • @DestinedOblivion
    @DestinedOblivion 8 років тому +16

    I wish I could buy a binder, but I'm afraid I'll get too many questions about it, being non-binary with major chest dysphoria.

    • @soumiu.8264
      @soumiu.8264 3 роки тому +1

      most cis people i know (and i am cis too!) don’t really comment on that, and the first thought that comes to my mind is, “That person must have been working out, they’re getting less soft. Kudos to them.”

  • @Lotto15719
    @Lotto15719 4 роки тому +7

    I remember when I got my binder and legit sprinted upstairs to try it on, I was so excited

  • @peterparker2330
    @peterparker2330 8 років тому +11

    It's not just me! This is so fucking relatable and makes me excited to get top surgery when I have the money

  • @craveliving681
    @craveliving681 8 років тому +2

    I just got my first binder today! It was easier to put on and take off than I was expecting... And I didn't have ANY trouble breathing. Unfortunately I'm big chested so it isn't as flat as I would like... But it's better than nothing

  • @somerscott8315
    @somerscott8315 8 років тому +29

    As a born girl and I'm happy to be a girl but my BFF is not so ok enter for him not me ❤️

  • @kristofertamme7973
    @kristofertamme7973 6 років тому +2

    I got my first ever REAL binder about 10 weeks ago. It has been amazing.

  • @smithben2078
    @smithben2078 8 років тому +26

    hi Jamie you are my hero and i have a question I don't know how to come out to my family as a trans ftm I have a mom who hates anything not Straight so I am scared to come out to her should I come 8th to my aunt first who has been there for me my whole life .

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  8 років тому +27

      Hey, you should come out to whoever you feel most comfortable and able to, if that's your aunt and you think she will be supportive, then that might be better. But only come out when you feel ready to, and if think someone who you will tell will not respond well, then prepare for this. Do you have any friends or anyone else you can tell who you know will be supportive?

    • @ivyedan7183
      @ivyedan7183 7 років тому +5

      Smith Ben I'm sorry sweetheart..I wish the whole world understood..you can only be happy for you...if they love you they should rejoice with you

  • @finnthephrog
    @finnthephrog 2 роки тому +1

    My mom just bought me a binder, I'm now binging a bunch of binding videos, just to be prepared. Since fabrics are usually super stuff when you first buy them, I'm also gonna wash it first so that the fabric relaxes a bit, so I don't hurt myself trying to put it on! 😅

  • @notjamin
    @notjamin 4 роки тому +16

    "you don't put it on like a vest"
    well maybe YOU don't
    there is no way I could get that thing over my hips

  • @DaWeirdoKoala
    @DaWeirdoKoala Рік тому +1

    I got my first binder two days ago and I'm so happy! I love it!

  • @snorlacroix2237
    @snorlacroix2237 8 років тому +24

    Id like to enter the givaway, my family doesn't know I'm trans yet and I'm afraid to tell them and ask for one since my dad is really judgemental of everyone who doesn't fit his standard (from fat people to lesbians, he's a general prick to everyone behind their back)

    • @wonkythebones9843
      @wonkythebones9843 8 років тому +2

      it is I a simple doughnut I'm sorry mate. I wish you the best of luck as I am in the same boat and know it sucks.

    • @vizx6032
      @vizx6032 8 років тому +1

      It's the same with me, but for my mom. I'm scared to come out. D:

  • @mtangy6188
    @mtangy6188 2 роки тому +2

    I remember watching this about a year and a half ago before I started questioning my gender and thinking “oh that’s cool I didn’t know about this” but now I’m rewatching it while trying to learn more about binding so I can get one myself.

  • @SHplaysMinecraft
    @SHplaysMinecraft 7 років тому +7

    I find him putting it on HILARIOUS because mine fastens in the front

  • @uwu_factor5305
    @uwu_factor5305 4 роки тому +1

    This is so funny and relatable! I just got my first binder and I got stuck in it the first time I put it on! It really is helpful and makes me feel as if I look good and how I’m supposed to.

  • @hunterjohnson6640
    @hunterjohnson6640 3 роки тому +5

    Remember if your chest is not completely flat that's okay. There's are a lot of cisgender males that do not have a flat chest, probably from working out. So it's okay not to be completely flat

  • @littleowl22778
    @littleowl22778 8 років тому

    first binder decent one from gcb2. I tried to put on I got so stuck I had to get my mum to help me get it over my shoulders
    after that I started finding it easier. now I practically wear it non stop apart from going to for a shower. I even went swimming in it at my visit to Switzerland to spend time with my friend. I wear it without a top in the streets towards the end of trip and used the males bathroom the whole time I stayed there
    about 6 weeks. it felt so liberating and nice that no know one knew me I felt so safe.

  • @corkscrewfork
    @corkscrewfork 7 років тому +4

    Can't stress enough about binding safely; I wound up wearing mine for 72 hours straight when travelling to go see my best friend and had no idea how restricted my breathing had become until I took it off at her place to shower. Felt like my lung capacity had doubled after getting that stupid binder off, which took forever to do for whatever reason.

  • @wulpeswulpes9574
    @wulpeswulpes9574 8 років тому +2

    I know the struggles 😭 I have been binding for a year now, and the first 4 months I kinda did it in secret, because I hadn't come out to my parents. I had to wash the binder by hand when I showered... So it wasn't properly cleaned for soooooo long... Glad my parents are cool with me binding now :)

  • @lukeg2674
    @lukeg2674 8 років тому +20

    I've been wanting a binder for awhile now (not trans, more non-binary) but I know my parents won't buy me one and I have no way of getting money. I don't know what size I would fit into though, anyone have a good guide?

    • @thattranswarboy7160
      @thattranswarboy7160 8 років тому +2

      Most websites for actual decent binders have their own sizing charts. This is the link for the gc2b one (my top recommendation for sure) gc2b.co/pages/sizing-chart
      and this is the link to their measuring instructions so you know how to get the correct measurements : gc2b.co/pages/how-to-measure
      I know it can be tempting to just grab a cheap one off amazon from some chinese company, but these are almost invariably not safe, not made from the correct materials, and the wrong size for your body to wear safely, and can really cause a lot of harm if you're not very careful.
      Best of luck!

    • @saramauney8803
      @saramauney8803 8 років тому

      I got mine from Love Boat Shop (in Taiwan), and if you check out their site they have a sizing chart, although you may need a measuring tape

  • @averysidaway8498
    @averysidaway8498 8 років тому

    Binders both give and take life from me. I'm so sore from binding lately it's ridiculous xD GC2B is amazing and so is Underworks. Seriously Jamie, I adore you and you've inspired me a lot.

  • @amirayoung1706
    @amirayoung1706 7 років тому +42

    Did you get top surgery?

  • @strawblairyfields
    @strawblairyfields 3 роки тому

    I just bought my first binder ( I’m a Demi girl with chest dysphoria ) and I’m so happy ! Love ya Jamie

  • @laurenc2284
    @laurenc2284 4 роки тому +4

    I find the easiest way to get out of one is by pulling up the front, then the back, then pulling the back off over the head, but lean forward with your head down. I’ve never really had a problem doing it like this

    • @gingerslife4856
      @gingerslife4856 2 роки тому

      I take a binder off the same way I've only had an issue once when my 8 year old neighbor sprayed me with the hose and got me soaked

  • @finn1666
    @finn1666 5 років тому

    That's why I bought a binder that opens on the side! It has multiple hooks, so you can decide how tight you want it to be. Really, it was a life saver. My very first binder didn't have those hooks and I got so stuck putting it on, I had to ask my mom to help getting it off.

  • @_lpsrusty_867
    @_lpsrusty_867 4 роки тому +9

    I'm not aloud to get a binder, i asked my parents and they laughed. They also dont except me

    • @rodentia1474
      @rodentia1474 4 роки тому +4

      I’m sorry :( we all accept you here

    • @hries05
      @hries05 3 роки тому

      Aw im sorry you’re not accepted, I’m not either. But you should Google ways to make diy ones, that’s what I’m doing currently. Hope everything works out for you dude ❤️

  • @Jacky-jf7wn
    @Jacky-jf7wn 7 років тому

    congratulations 😉 on your journey! I've never realized how much certain details can really go into changing of this nature. it's a learning experience all around!

  • @hyperinsomniaparacondrioid
    @hyperinsomniaparacondrioid 3 роки тому +4

    I got my first binder recently :) I'm so happy

    • @Newnenwne
      @Newnenwne 3 роки тому +2

      Congrats! ^^
      im getting mine by the end of August on my birthday from my sister

  • @Aceisinhellfire
    @Aceisinhellfire 2 роки тому +1

    I stopped using Ace bandages for about 2 months now and I now have enough money to buy myself a real binder and I kid u not, makes me really happy even though I have to hide it from my parents because I tried coming out but they won't see me as their son but only as their daughter so this video really helps me alot so thanks.

  • @dutchik5107
    @dutchik5107 8 років тому +22

    why don't they make binders with a tiny zipper or the same hooks bras use?
    I mean it's basically a tighter sports bra...

    • @SachaRommane
      @SachaRommane 8 років тому +1

      Dutchik t Kingdom make one with a zipper and apparently it's really good!!

    • @DeathlyHallow108
      @DeathlyHallow108 8 років тому +1

      Dutchik The only bad thing about it is if it doesnt let you ribs expand. I'm claustrophobic so I prefer sports bras

    • @DeathlyHallow108
      @DeathlyHallow108 7 років тому +2

      Seclysion .m my mom had a corset type thing that was supposed to make her look thinner so I cut it down and made a binder with it. That wad probably my best binder I ever had

    • @SteampunkFridgeRider
      @SteampunkFridgeRider 7 років тому +1

      they do but binders that don't have openings are more comfortable because the seams are constantly pressing into your skin. also, if you put a binder on properly it's actually a lot quicker and easier than having to fiddle with clips

    • @beethreefour
      @beethreefour 7 років тому +3

      Binders with hooks don't bind properly! they would just crush you instead of properly compress

  • @mitexanderr
    @mitexanderr 2 роки тому +1

    I .. love that I've found this acount so relatable I nearly have Noone to talk to about these things for several reasons like my transphobic Islamic country and parents and friends ... hearing that these problems are normal just makes me so happy and calm

  • @socialanxiety9153
    @socialanxiety9153 3 роки тому +5

    I thought my glasses would be fine while putting on my first binder.
    One of my lenses fell out

  • @gummyf4ngs
    @gummyf4ngs 3 роки тому +2

    the pros of only wearing black and hot topic band tees:
    -no one can see my binder too clearly as long as i’m not wearing a too oversized shirts
    -still hides my figure pretty well if i feel like my chest isn’t flat enough
    cons:
    -texas is hot, black makes it worse
    -sweaty = binder gets stuck a lot

  • @Cr33p1tr34l
    @Cr33p1tr34l 6 років тому +4

    Glad I'm not the only one who has that issue

  • @EpicWafflePie101
    @EpicWafflePie101 6 років тому

    Before I got a binder I never understood these problems but now that I just got my first binder I relate to these so much!

  • @leoleon2375
    @leoleon2375 8 років тому +39

    Is it really that tight?

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  8 років тому +46

      Yes

    • @venusondrugs
      @venusondrugs 8 років тому +11

      O HELL yes.

    • @victorvicky7980
      @victorvicky7980 7 років тому

      leo leon yeah ;~;

    • @spenceresque
      @spenceresque 7 років тому

      yes

    • @j.d.thedragking2872
      @j.d.thedragking2872 7 років тому +1

      It comes highly suggested that you get a binder that fits your size according to the manufacturer's specifications, because too-small binders can cause permanent damage. However, yes, in general they are tight (more so than what one might be used to, such as a sports bra, for example).

  • @digi_gabrielic
    @digi_gabrielic 4 роки тому

    Going through and watching a bunch of binder videos since I’m getting my first binder soon!

  • @christynagg5923
    @christynagg5923 8 років тому +23

    I can't bring myself to ask for a binder from my perants

    • @theelementfour1252
      @theelementfour1252 8 років тому +1

      Christina Fouras if they know you're trans (or anything else) just ask!

    • @sexyman1537
      @sexyman1537 8 років тому +3

      Christina Fouras you could say it's just a sports bra

    • @untitled3666
      @untitled3666 6 років тому

      69 savage yes

    • @untitled3666
      @untitled3666 6 років тому

      since my breasts are too big i could say normal sport bras don't help for when I'm playing soccer (they actually don't)

    • @laylac
      @laylac 5 років тому

      Just order it online with other clothes, they’ll probably never know

  • @mikahkilgore4972
    @mikahkilgore4972 4 роки тому

    I got my first binder a few days ago, and figuring out how to put it on and take it off has been an adventure lol.

  • @raintran2446
    @raintran2446 4 роки тому +4

    I got my binder today!!!!!🤩🤩🤩

  • @amandasims5133
    @amandasims5133 8 років тому

    my best friend came out as a transgender guy about a year ago to his friends, and a about 5 months ago to his family. his family isn't accepting but isn't denying either which is devastating. anyway he finally convinced his dad to buy him his first binder and he loves it. but he talks all the time about how it's hard to breath or its uncomfortable. this video helps me understand what he is going through. thank you!

  • @reillyadams298
    @reillyadams298 4 роки тому +3

    When I first got a binder, it was too small, and I had to cut it off.

  • @MoonShadowWolfe
    @MoonShadowWolfe 7 років тому

    This makes me hugely grateful that my chest is naturally fairly small; my binder doesn't really hurt. I know you're not supposed to wear it for this long, but honestly, I've fallen asleep with it on and not noticed. I know there've been a few times when I said to myself "I think it's been ... two days? I should probably take it off." It does have something to flatten, but not much.

  • @evanlikesbooks3252
    @evanlikesbooks3252 8 років тому +5

    I'm worried about wearing a binder at college because I get dressed at 7 but sometimes don't get home until half 5. I really don't want to damage my ribs but I really want my chest to be flat.

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  8 років тому +9

      Hey, I used to have to bind for long days at college but would wear a binder with velcro sewn in on these days, then during breaks and lunch I would go to an empty classroom or the toilet and just sit with it undone for a as long as I could and take some deep breaths. But if this isn't something you would be able to do, I would recommend not binding whilst you have days longer than 8 hours.

    • @evanlikesbooks3252
      @evanlikesbooks3252 8 років тому +1

      I have access to toilets throughout the day so it's possible, sounds simple enough. I'll probably be lifting my shirt and binder in a very awkward manner haha!! Thanks for the reply man it was very helpful :)

    • @ashton8289
      @ashton8289 6 років тому

      Don’t worry. Before I got top surgery I used to bind all day and all night for months, and I never had any real issues

  • @lukealger4160
    @lukealger4160 5 років тому

    Got my first binder today and it's actually suprisingly easy to get on.

  • @samrakita4279
    @samrakita4279 7 років тому +7

    I must have a super power, I've only gotten stuck in mine once!

  • @BrutusDuffy
    @BrutusDuffy 8 років тому

    I just binge watched most of your videos from stat to finish. I feel like we've gone through so much together. :) Thank you so much for sharing your experiences.

  • @nori6036
    @nori6036 8 років тому +5

    I have a question. I am a female and I am cup C. I would like to dress as a male ( for cosplay and casual days too) I am not trans tho. I also don't want my chest permantly flat. Will that binder work? Is there any o ther thing you used?

    • @HorseyGirlRides
      @HorseyGirlRides 8 років тому +8

      A binder will work fine! Probably better than other things in reality! it won't make your chest permenantly flat at all😊😊

    • @adamdawson3339
      @adamdawson3339 8 років тому +3

      might be better if it did cause it would be a lot cheaper than surgery...

    • @nori6036
      @nori6036 8 років тому +1

      yeah. it must be awful to be a man and feel boobs. so sad

    • @adamdawson3339
      @adamdawson3339 8 років тому +2

      It really is

    • @automatontonic
      @automatontonic 8 років тому

      The Apocalypse Completely out of nowhere, but damn, that's an awesome Spine profile pic.

  • @asherbriley342
    @asherbriley342 7 років тому +1

    When Jammi ran to his room holding the binder like the holy grail, it made me laugh so hard because that's exactly what I looked like. I got trapped in my binder to the point where I had to ask my mom to help me get out of it. I actually can put my binder on like a vest (thankfully). To take it off I do that weird thing that dirls do to take off shirts where they put their arms on opposite sides and pull up like mad, but it works. For the pre (insert x y z here) It gets so much better. I am personally pre T and pre op, but my binder has helped me a lot with dysphoria. Best of luck to everyone!

  • @beachyzoots
    @beachyzoots 8 років тому +4

    Ive been wanting a packer , but I feel shipping will be incredibly awkward. especially if any of my family sees it 😅

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  8 років тому +6

      Hey, I'll be sending it in a plain postage bag so if anyone else picks it up it will just feel like a piece of clothing.

  • @taco1374
    @taco1374 4 роки тому

    I know the feeling of taking tight tops of because i have incredibly tight sports bras an taking these of is a sport in itself, but i cant imagine how this would work, if they were even tighter ... You all have my respect for managing that👍

  • @kitcat8716
    @kitcat8716 6 років тому +6

    I want a binder... badly

  • @squirrmine4843
    @squirrmine4843 6 років тому +2

    I came out to my mom a while ago and she's starting to call me by my preferred name and I'M SO HAPPY!!

  • @Remmy_Swag
    @Remmy_Swag 4 роки тому +4

    Hehe I want a binder. Thanks parents for not caring

  • @emberx1155
    @emberx1155 8 років тому

    My boyfriend is saving up for a binder, so I'm getting some research done and this was very insightful! Thank you!

  • @Leviathan707
    @Leviathan707 5 років тому +4

    0:48 caught me so off guard and I laughed so hard I hurt myself XD

  • @possum_is_a_bitxh6046
    @possum_is_a_bitxh6046 3 роки тому +2

    I KNOW THIS IS AN OLDER VIDEO BUT IM GETTING A BINDER VERY SOON IT SHOULD BE HERE I A FEW WEEKS IM SO EXCITED

  • @rodentia1474
    @rodentia1474 4 роки тому +3

    That moment when you want a binder...haha...ha
    Just learned that I probably won’t be able to bind for like...a while since my mom is against me using any type of minimizing material on my chest so...ehhhh

  • @quinxit5033
    @quinxit5033 2 роки тому +1

    Just got my binder today from a friend, first I cried because my chest was flat, then I cried because I was stuck. I ended up cutting my binder off, but my friend is able to stretch it out a bit and sew it back together for me. (He's tailored binders before, and even offered to adjust his old one if I wanted it)

  • @r_yo
    @r_yo 8 років тому +31

    I want to enter the giveaway.

  • @KarinaGonzalez-ch6ju
    @KarinaGonzalez-ch6ju 7 років тому

    I'm not trans or non-binary but I've been binge watching your videos all day.

  • @spongethom
    @spongethom 8 років тому +3

    Been wanting to get a binder fir a while :) I'd like to see if i can win it! Thank you!

  • @dragonshadow4145
    @dragonshadow4145 3 роки тому

    I've got a GC2B full tank, I just stick my arms through, then work it over my head. Stepping into it stretches it more. Worst thing has got to be doing choir in it, but it's much better than the homemade binding I had before... waited 16 months for it from Point of Pride giveaway

  • @R3DR4V3N
    @R3DR4V3N 7 років тому +9

    How can I explain to people why I bind. It makes me feel better about myself but they don't quite understand

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  7 років тому +17

      Hey, I'm not sure really, I never specifically told people I was binding, it was just something I started doing after I came out as trans. I guess you could explain that your chest causes your discomfort and that flattening it makes you feel more comfortable?

  • @liamgrant8578
    @liamgrant8578 5 років тому

    The longest I recall wearing my binder was 4 and a half days in a row while on a 2 week road trip with my family. We mostly survived on cloth baths and were looking very rough by the end.

  • @Misscakeshop
    @Misscakeshop 4 роки тому +6

    Me watching a Jamie with a manly chest trying to get on a binder....
    Ummmm wait, what?😂

  • @ItsBoneless
    @ItsBoneless 7 років тому

    This is so relatable, especially the one about not being able to wear your favorite shirts