It’s so simple. Stop thinking she’s out of your league. It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, SHE ISNT OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE, you just have to switch your mindset
Great one Jess. I reckon no one is out of your league it just depends on you and your ability to think and ascertain how to react to situations and events. 👏🏻🤫
I don't understand why anyone would say something negative to these videos.. They take it so personally. Everything has a bit of truth for different scenarios.
She mentions excellent points and there are always exceptions to each scenario...the unrealistic expectations bit was when she took it home...the standards are set at a ridiculous bar....I'm not a Marvel avenger undercover eating cheerios in my aunt's 1 bedroom apartment 🤨
Because the idea that building your confidence, charisma, physique etc. and approaching in the right way will get her interested in you might sound true, but it's not. Some guys can do all that, yet get nothing but rejection. Meanwhile other guys can do none of that and be a stereotypical needy, clingy, weak, pathetic beta male, yet she decides to sleep with him anyway. If you're the first guy who's seen the second guys scenario play out more than once, hearing people say that all you have to do is improve yourself and be confident and girls will like you will piss you off, because you know it isn't true.
Improving yourself actually goes for both genders....put in efforts to look/be presentable; it's attractive 😉. Point 2 is also good 👌;cos it allows the woman to know you,and be comfortable around you....and also spark up a great bonding 🤩. Great video Jessica 👏❤️
Jessica you're simply the best. And I say that, because what you're doing (in your videos) for us males, is priceless especially from the standpoint of a female. I reckon that you care about the emotional, mental, physical and social development of your male counterpart, and I'm just loving you for that. You are definitely super special. Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Madam! Greetings from Murang'a county-country Kenya , all what you're saying is all truth. Your inner you is very wise and prudential. Thanks alot and my your fire keep burning. Thanks alot once again.
Woow on the ice cream issue and the number 6 mmm woow hey thanks Jess l didn't know am doing the right think for my lady .And guess what it works hey. Thank you jess
Hi Miss Jessica, I am Randolph and I live in Port of Spain, I just cross 60 . I greatly look forward to watching your video just to here you speak. Your intelligence move me a lot, this is something I was longing to find.... peace be with you
Thanks Jessica. Yours is not just public speaking and YouTubing, it reflects your beautiful soul. Thanks for the Insights you continue to give us men. You're blessed. Love from Kenya.
@@JessicaOS ,, This is essential for all men with low self-esteem and lacking in confidence. I am particularly impressed by your innate passion in communicating this. Thanks 👍👍 and I will be guided accordingly. I am from Jamaica
As always, ever on point. Good teachings. Your lessons go a long way in making men better and be the man the want to be. You help us improve in a number of ways besides relationships. Thank you and well done my Great teacher.
I love me the friend zone. It gives me the leeway to do whate'er I want, no strings attached and then I can walk away whene'er I want. Most times I do the friend zoning, there is so much freedom in that zone. You then decide whether to move things forward or to walk away.
She's right. You might not have an oppurtunity to hang out with her, but you will definitely have her or someone that might possibly be better then her start paying attention to you.
Hi Jessica. I have been living in London and I would like to know your parents. The reason I am saying this is because your are educated, speak great English. I am sorry I don't like make comparisons between people but I was listening Melli who is a woman which talks about the same subject as you, and I found out that your English is completely different than her. The way you express some subjects, the vocabulary you use, my goodness, so real and perfect. I would like to know your parents and say to them thank you to bring this amazing creature in the world. jessica I like you because when you talk it seems so real and confident when you speak. I am saying this because I am studying English. As you said you are out my league. Keep doing your job and God bless you. Please tell your parents Thank you for me.
Great one Jess. Now there is this Somali lady we are working with and given their culture and religion, how am i gonna reach her out. She is pretty indeed
Nice video. But Jessy, please you have no idea the number of years it will take me as an NSS personnel to match the level of my crush (Serwaa Amihere).. By the time I get to her level to begin with a 'hi', she would be old lady... Be realistic with point 1 pleeeeease....lol.. We never get the chance to get close to those women beyond our league bro...
Hey Jessica I hope you're well, I need your advice I'm currently in a relationship with someone who is so insecure who questions, monitors my actions every single time, I do pass on communication every time and when I'm going to be busy but she always wants to question me always thinking and accusing me of cheating everytime and it's really draining me, What do I do - How do I deal with her?
Yeah, improve on any aspect of your life that needs improving. (excellent point) but, don’t try to get in the friend zone, lol, if she’s doesn’t want you romantically, move on brah, don’t waste your time. As long as you’ keep improving, you’d meet better options. KEEP IMPROVING.
What you say is very true and it has worked for me. The other thing that I do when she knows me and is comfortable with me is ask her if she can do me a favour. If she asks me what the favour is, I tell her that I would like her to give someone a small present for me. When she says yes, I buy a bottle of good champagne, a box of good chocolates and flowers. I wrap them up beautifully and include a card addressed to her mother, thanking her for the beautiful and elegant creature that her daughter is. I also mention that, if giving birth was considered as art, her daughter would be a masterpiece. When she gives the present to her mother, and knows what was in the parcel I begin to avoid her so that she will be eager to thank me for the present and beautiful.message.Usually the mother invites me to thank me herself and would encourage her daughter to date me. I grew up with seven sisters and I am confident with approaching and speaking to any woman no matter her social standing and beauty.
Stop thinking negative no woman is out of your league. Be confident and bold then you will win her over to you.. by taking good care of yourself and building yourself it will make you more attractive build your mindset looking good and smell good and go to the gym be physical fits and have a good relationship with yourself it will bring her to you 💯
Jessica, usually my comments to your video are sarcastic but this one touch home for me. I’m a 50 year old bachelor that also want to date women out of my league. And by that I mean, Alicia Keys, Serena Williams, Lucy Alexis Lou, Cameron Diaz & Jada Pinkett. Based on the ladies Wikipedia search results, I don’t have to tell how my future has turned out. In hindsight, I have to now settle at half a century. Where does a delusional player go from here? Signed “I wanna be a stay at home dad”😜😜😜😜🇯🇲
In some countries people fall in love with who they are attracted to regardless of all the points you mentioned. For instance, top level professionals falling in love or attracted to people before finding out what they do or what they have. This is not say that some of them don't try to improve themselves. However, the sort of thing that happens in Africa where people fall in love with someone because of their material possessions or educational accomplishments is not as popular here as it is there.
Hello,Jessica I hope you are good .Thank you a lot for taking your precious time to give us these advises.Talking about boosting confidence, speech is one of the most important factors I believe, could you give us advises on how to improve diction and voice tone..That'll be very helpful thanks
Got this lady , we so fond of each other, but she's got all , cash good business, but she got attitude n it's killing me ,I love her so much even when am pretending not to. , She's alot bigger than me ,but am older in age.but younger
Jessica Jambo. Lovely videos continue the good work. Soft note: kindly keep your natural looks.....too much make up makes you not look like the real you. Little make up like the one above is Ok....cheers
Jessica, great vid. Before I comment I want you to know that I always listen to you and take your advice . God knows that I really try to be the best man I can be. My mother always told me" Bryan you love too deep" . But I don't think so. It has always made me feel good to help people. I love to take care of the woman I'm with I can't help it that's me. So, Jess I guess what I'm saying is I will always be there for the woman in my life and at the end of the day throw the chips up and let them fall where they may. Much love to you and your family.....Bryan
Best advice is to stay in your league. For a men who are already successful they have no problem dating any girl because the league zone is not limited to them. But for a common man who is still struggling financially. It is nearly impossible to keep up with the demands of the expensive girl. You can have date with the rich girl but accept the truth at the end that relationship won't last because she will leave you for wealthy guy.
I don't lack confidence but I think 🤔 I care about how a lady might react if you approach her or try to even talk to her. I sometimes say it's either too much of integrity check, or EI or some hidden pride somewhere on my part because I can address a crowd but to approach a lady I know from nowhere? That's not me.
*Level up your confidence by focusing on self-improvement - whether it’s fitness, career, or hobbies. Women are naturally drawn to men who are driven and passionate about their own growth.*
It’s so simple. Stop thinking she’s out of your league. It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, SHE ISNT OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE, you just have to switch your mindset
Great one Jess. I reckon no one is out of your league it just depends on you and your ability to think and ascertain how to react to situations and events. 👏🏻🤫
Wow that was kinda profound! solid advice right there
Great tips as usual but i have always preferred staying and playing in my league without doubts.
I don't understand why anyone would say something negative to these videos.. They take it so personally. Everything has a bit of truth for different scenarios.
She mentions excellent points and there are always exceptions to each scenario...the unrealistic expectations bit was when she took it home...the standards are set at a ridiculous bar....I'm not a Marvel avenger undercover eating cheerios in my aunt's 1 bedroom apartment 🤨
Because the idea that building your confidence, charisma, physique etc. and approaching in the right way will get her interested in you might sound true, but it's not. Some guys can do all that, yet get nothing but rejection. Meanwhile other guys can do none of that and be a stereotypical needy, clingy, weak, pathetic beta male, yet she decides to sleep with him anyway.
If you're the first guy who's seen the second guys scenario play out more than once, hearing people say that all you have to do is improve yourself and be confident and girls will like you will piss you off, because you know it isn't true.
Number 6!!!!!!!! .....so true 🤩
The women who are thought by others as sophisticated, actually are the easy going ones😍
Are you easy going?
Reàlly l that also from other people kkk.
So l don't know really if it's a fact
@@teddylumidi friendly 😇
@@simbarashetakundaben6421 it is pls🤩
JESSICA AM FROM KENYA I HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING YOUR TALKINGS ALL WAT YOU SAY IS TRUE ,ACTUALLY IT HELPS ME TO MOVE OUT OF A FAKE RELATIONSHIP
Gotta love that friend zone!! Been there many times and it's great! NO pressure while I work on my on moves like Warren!
This content is directed straight to me and it came at the right time.. Big ups Jessy ❤️
Improving yourself actually goes for both genders....put in efforts to look/be presentable; it's attractive 😉. Point 2 is also good 👌;cos it allows the woman to know you,and be comfortable around you....and also spark up a great bonding 🤩. Great video Jessica 👏❤️
Thank You Jessica. I'm listening and hearing. 💯
Thanks for sharing this with us, I am a person who finds it difficult to approach a girl. At least I've comprehended something from you.
Jessica you're simply the best.
And I say that, because what you're doing (in your videos) for us males, is priceless especially from the standpoint of a female. I reckon that you care about the emotional, mental, physical and social development of your male counterpart, and I'm just loving you for that. You are definitely super special.
Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Many happy returns 😊
Madam! Greetings from Murang'a county-country Kenya , all what you're saying is all truth. Your inner you is very wise and prudential. Thanks alot and my your fire keep burning. Thanks alot once again.
This matta eerh… Jessica I think mtn is telling you about my phone conversations. I needed this video.
Thanks Jessica 😘
This masterclass is consistent..the syllabus is 100%
Thank you Jessica for the wisdom and information LOL 🙏👏😘
Woow on the ice cream issue and the number 6 mmm woow hey thanks Jess l didn't know am doing the right think for my lady .And guess what it works hey.
Thank you jess
Hi Miss Jessica, I am Randolph and I live in Port of Spain, I just cross 60 . I greatly look forward to watching your video just to here you speak. Your intelligence move me a lot, this is something I was longing to find.... peace be with you
Much love for you Jess 💗💗 from Kenya 🇰🇪...I learn alot from u
I’m so proud of you Jessica. Go girl. 👏🏻
Thanks Jessica. Yours is not just public speaking and YouTubing, it reflects your beautiful soul.
Thanks for the Insights you continue to give us men.
You're blessed. Love from Kenya.
You are so welcome!
@@JessicaOS ,, This is essential for all men with low self-esteem and lacking in confidence. I am particularly impressed by your innate passion in communicating this. Thanks 👍👍 and I will be guided accordingly. I am from Jamaica
As always, ever on point. Good teachings. Your lessons go a long way in making men better and be the man the want to be. You help us improve in a number of ways besides relationships. Thank you and well done my Great teacher.
It definitely deserves a double like. I wish UA-cam has this feature. Well done Jessica👍🏾
I am the king because Jess says so. ❤️❤️❤️
I love me the friend zone. It gives me the leeway to do whate'er I want, no strings attached and then I can walk away whene'er I want. Most times I do the friend zoning, there is so much freedom in that zone. You then decide whether to move things forward or to walk away.
this was super super educating.... thanks a lot
Your so straightforward, much appreciated keep up the great work 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you! Will do!
I absolutely love ❤your videos!!! I have been watching non stop ❤!!! Your amazing
Much love from Kenya ❤️
The viewers here greetings to you all.
Content creator, thank you for uploading always.
Here to support, comment, and like.
Big thanks
@@JessicaOS you are welcome
Thanks for your education
Jessica you are AMAZING!!!!!! It's as if you've been reading my mind you almost scare me!!!!!!!
... but i have! .... lol!
Am the best version of myself why because I listen to Jessica OS👌
Jess, u are a dependable reliable lady. Ur advice is generally 💯. So on point.
I mean it
Love the 6th part..it's what actually dampens my spirit every damn time
Your presentation is classic
Perfect... you just made my night Jessica.. 🥰😍😍😘
Whoever I had an emotional connection or lack thereof was always a blessing in disguise
Jessica, you are GOLD 👍🏽
She's right. You might not have an oppurtunity to hang out with her, but you will definitely have her or someone that might possibly be better then her start paying attention to you.
I absolutely LOVE your articulation!!! I really enjoy your videos.
Wow very interesting jess
Jessica, these are great insights... 👍
Ya.... Toughest, beautiful or social class. Shuuu.. Do what ever that can attract her. On spot and you just kill it. 💞Thanks Jessica 😎😁😁💞
Thanks for the advice
Just on point 😆😆
Another great video from Jessica
Thanks for these great tips
Bless up Jessy❤🙏
Thanks
Great points mentioned 🥰
Thank you.
I was about to sleep then boom kkk Jess uploaded a video
Very educative and well presented. Kudos!!!!
Always on point. Thank you.
U made my day Jess WOW
Being friends first is tricky and makes it tougher finding love..
Hi Jessica. I have been living in London and I would like to know your parents. The reason I am saying this is because your are educated, speak great English. I am sorry I don't like make comparisons between people but I was listening Melli who is a woman which talks about the same subject as you, and I found out that your English is completely different than her. The way you express some subjects, the vocabulary you use, my goodness, so real and perfect. I would like to know your parents and say to them thank you to bring this amazing creature in the world. jessica I like you because when you talk it seems so real and confident when you speak. I am saying this because I am studying English. As you said you are out my league. Keep doing your job and God bless you. Please tell your parents Thank you for me.
@Lauren clay That’s amazing 🤩.
I just love your videos so so much 🙏❤️👏💯🎯
great but you don`t know when you are not doing enough or doing too much that is the line one has to guide through
I’m at an event. I’ll come listen later. Thanks though.
Damn, some people just deserve the sport , unique by nature ❤...mad luove from Kenya
I told my little brother that no woman is out of your league it's all a mindset and a confidence factor.
Very good tips as always.
Thank you Jess
my time to shine😂😂😂😂
Great one Jess. Now there is this Somali lady we are working with and given their culture and religion, how am i gonna reach her out. She is pretty indeed
Nice video. But Jessy, please you have no idea the number of years it will take me as an NSS personnel to match the level of my crush (Serwaa Amihere).. By the time I get to her level to begin with a 'hi', she would be old lady... Be realistic with point 1 pleeeeease....lol.. We never get the chance to get close to those women beyond our league bro...
You always make my day darling ❤️ much love from Kenya ❤️❤️
I really needed this
Good to go🤩🤩🤩
I'm your number one fun from Kenya Jessica OS👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Hey Jessica I hope you're well, I need your advice I'm currently in a relationship with someone who is so insecure who questions, monitors my actions every single time, I do pass on communication every time and when I'm going to be busy but she always wants to question me always thinking and accusing me of cheating everytime and it's really draining me, What do I do - How do I deal with her?
I agree with you Jessica your in Africa & not out my league...
My Favorite channel💞🔥👌✌👊
Yeah, improve on any aspect of your life that needs improving. (excellent point) but, don’t try to get in the friend zone, lol, if she’s doesn’t want you romantically, move on brah, don’t waste your time. As long as you’ keep improving, you’d meet better options.
KEEP IMPROVING.
What you say is very true and it has worked for me. The other thing that I do when she knows me and is comfortable with me is ask her if she can do me a favour. If she asks me what the favour is, I tell her that I would like her to give someone a small present for me. When she says yes, I buy a bottle of good champagne, a box of good chocolates and flowers. I wrap them up beautifully and include a card addressed to her mother, thanking her for the beautiful and elegant creature that her daughter is. I also mention that, if giving birth was considered as art, her daughter would be a masterpiece. When she gives the present to her mother, and knows what was in the parcel I begin to avoid her so that she will be eager to thank me for the present and beautiful.message.Usually the mother invites me to thank me herself and would encourage her daughter to date me. I grew up with seven sisters and I am confident with approaching and speaking to any woman no matter her social standing and beauty.
Stop thinking negative no woman is out of your league. Be confident and bold then you will win her over to you.. by taking good care of yourself and building yourself it will make you more attractive build your mindset looking good and smell good and go to the gym be physical fits and have a good relationship with yourself it will bring her to you 💯
Great stuff as always. keep soaring
I love it here ❤️‼️
Precisely told
Gracias!
Jessica, usually my comments to your video are sarcastic but this one touch home for me. I’m a 50 year old bachelor that also want to date women out of my league. And by that I mean, Alicia Keys, Serena Williams, Lucy Alexis Lou, Cameron Diaz & Jada Pinkett. Based on the ladies Wikipedia search results, I don’t have to tell how my future has turned out. In hindsight, I have to now settle at half a century. Where does a delusional player go from here? Signed “I wanna be a stay at home dad”😜😜😜😜🇯🇲
In some countries people fall in love with who they are attracted to regardless of all the points you mentioned. For instance, top level professionals falling in love or attracted to people before finding out what they do or what they have. This is not say that some of them don't try to improve themselves. However, the sort of thing that happens in Africa where people fall in love with someone because of their material possessions or educational accomplishments is not as popular here as it is there.
Hello,Jessica
I hope you are good .Thank you a lot for taking your precious time to give us these advises.Talking about boosting confidence, speech is one of the most important factors I believe, could you give us advises on how to improve diction and voice tone..That'll be very helpful thanks
It is all about ones confidence, thoughts, energy, etc.
Nice one Jessica...have followed all what you said.
Now my task is to get you.
Following from 🇰🇪 +254
Got this lady , we so fond of each other, but she's got all , cash good business, but she got attitude n it's killing me ,I love her so much even when am pretending not to. , She's alot bigger than me ,but am older in age.but younger
Nice
Jessica Jambo. Lovely videos continue the good work. Soft note: kindly keep your natural looks.....too much make up makes you not look like the real you. Little make up like the one above is Ok....cheers
Jessica, great vid.
Before I comment I want you to know that I always listen to you and take your advice . God knows that I really try to be the best man I can be. My mother always told me" Bryan you love too deep" . But I don't think so. It has always made me feel good to help people. I love to take care of the woman I'm with I can't help it that's me. So, Jess I guess what I'm saying is I will always be there for the woman in my life and at the end of the day throw the chips up and let them fall where they may. Much love to you and your family.....Bryan
Hey mate put God aside and be realistic mate, you’ll get the best out of your life.
That is my queen 👸 ❤️❤️
I’ll use this on you
May God bless you okay. We will meet in paradise inshaallah
Best advice is to stay in your league.
For a men who are already successful they have no problem dating any girl because the league zone is not limited to them. But for a common man who is still struggling financially. It is nearly impossible to keep up with the demands of the expensive girl. You can have date with the rich girl but accept the truth at the end that relationship won't last because she will leave you for wealthy guy.
This reality called relationship is STRESSFUL. Anyway thank you for another educative content.
Omo na to rest first ooo
Thank you baby 😘
I don't lack confidence but I think 🤔 I care about how a lady might react if you approach her or try to even talk to her.
I sometimes say it's either too much of integrity check, or EI or some hidden pride somewhere on my part because I can address a crowd but to approach a lady I know from nowhere? That's not me.
Not sure about this Friend-zone thing.
*Level up your confidence by focusing on self-improvement - whether it’s fitness, career, or hobbies. Women are naturally drawn to men who are driven and passionate about their own growth.*
You're a Life Coach Jessie
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Just found me a good you Tube channel... 🙏🙏👍👍
Welcome to the family
Dope true though
Jessie Jessie, Jessie... U re too much of goodness!!