Rise and Build: Marriage Shouldn't Shrink Your Life [FULL SERMON] - Lisa Bevere | Colour Conference

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  • @GerardoRamirez6131
    @GerardoRamirez6131 Рік тому +15

    Lisa, I watched this message. Yes, I know. Why would a man watch this? I did and I was blessed by your message. Keep empowering the body of Christ to fight for and build their marriages. I've been painfully separated from my wife for 2 years now and constantly grieve the impending threat of divorce because I love her. We had a strong vision for our marriage, family and ministry assignment. I'm trusting God to restore and reconcile us. May God's richest blessings continue to keep both you and John. 🙏🏽

    • @luanainspired
      @luanainspired 3 місяці тому +1

      May God bless you and bring your marriage into full restoration in Jesus's name. Amen.

  • @777965
    @777965 10 місяців тому +4

    Lisa this is simply beautiful we need it in this hour my marriage is in trouble i have a wife but no love for me i love her as we have been married for 25 years the last 9 years has been not good but ive hung in there there has to a way through this as it is not right and just i need prayer but i praise god anyway for our god is outstanding always GRAHAM O'NEILL

  • @Awakenministries
    @Awakenministries Рік тому +32

    This is such a beautifully, powerful message. I will be the 1st of a 1000 generations to honor God! I claim it I declare it :)

  • @realchristian__podcast
    @realchristian__podcast Рік тому +20

    I’m only a couple of minutes in this video pastor Lisa. And I’m so desperate for restoring my marriage. I wish I can talk to you and John. I’ve been on fire with god praying for my wife and seeking revival in our church. But her heart is still hard Lisa. I don’t wanna give up Lisa but it’s so hard.
    I pray that I get through this

    • @suzannahschulthies1260
      @suzannahschulthies1260 Рік тому +4

      I just prayed for you, Malachi. My husband has behavioral problems that are genetic. They are not learned, as he was adopted before he was even born, and we didn't meet his biological family until we were in our early 30s. I found out from my husband's biological mother that these problems are the reason she didn't stay with his father and the reason she gave my husband up for adoption. My husband and I have been together for over 30 years. We have two sons whose childhoods we're wrecked because of their dad. Our family life has been decades of compulsive lying, theft, homelessness, multiple acts of adultery that led to a venereal infection for me, and physical violence. Now, even our 12-year-old grandson wants nothing to do with him. I finally became so worn out, feeling I had gone ridiculously above and beyond and given all that I could, that I cried my heart out to my Daddy in heaven, asking if it was finally time to leave. I was pacing as I was crying and praying, when the Lord suddenly gave me a vision of my husband as a new creation. It's been nearly a year since that happened. The Father has removed the last two women having sex with my husband and arranged for me to temporarily live with my younger son, 20 minutes away from my husband, who is currently sleeping in his truck. Every day, I speak life into my marriage and thank the Lord for what He is working in my husband. I keep in daily contact with him and try to spend some face-to-face time with him once or twice a week, sometimes overnight in a hotel room. Though progress seems slow, it doesn't really matter what it looks like; Christians walk by faith, not by sight. The Lord lit the start of my path with tea lights that made it impossible for me to doubt my direction. I remember them on days that are difficult, days when the enemy starts asking me did God really say? I don't know how long this process is going to take, but God never lies, and He never fails. Hold the line, Malachi. Even if no one else supports you in your decision to fight for your marriage, do not give up. Do not ring that bell. DO NOT tap out. May our Father in heaven bless you with clarity of direction, encouragement, and the strength to hold on while He's bringing you and your wife through this valley of darkness. Amen.

    • @Cookie2rosie
      @Cookie2rosie Рік тому +5

      Stewart keep praying and believing. I was separated from my husband for 3 years. He told me I’m never coming back . I don’t love you. It’s been 1 year since he is back and God continues to amaze me. It’s been 1 month he is going to church with me. I saw him worship God and I’m amazed. He says I love you every chance he gets. This is God. Don’t believe the lies of the enemy. There is nothing that our God can’t do!!!

    • @realchristian__podcast
      @realchristian__podcast Рік тому

      @@Cookie2rosie thank you so much . I pray that it’s all true one day

    • @ruthlandis7911
      @ruthlandis7911 Рік тому

      You dear precious soul, you are a saint keep fighting the good fight of faith​@@suzannahschulthies1260

  • @tenille_soblessed
    @tenille_soblessed 8 місяців тому +6

    I want to restore my marriage. I’ve been separated for 6 months. I have hope that God will do it

  • @jesslca79
    @jesslca79 Рік тому +13

    Love Lisa Bevere!! She is so real.

  • @ptl3564
    @ptl3564 Рік тому +11

    Powerful! ❤
    I will be the beginning of a thousand generations, in the Name of Jesus.

  • @heatheryeureka
    @heatheryeureka 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow Lisa! Serendipitous is the Holy Spirit & your “Yes!”🙏✨

  • @100HOLYGHOST
    @100HOLYGHOST 6 днів тому

    This is life changing.

  • @anniastewart6902
    @anniastewart6902 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Lisa for this word....we need to be INTENTIONAL!!! Amen God will remember those who remain faithful to Him, and who love, fear, honour the Word of God and respect Him. Love the emjoi analogy ❤

  • @joannelucille
    @joannelucille Рік тому +1

    I am the beginning of a thousand generations 🙋 I'm blessed and highly favored, in Jesus Christ, my Lord and my Savior! All glory to Him Who is faithful and true forever ❤ Amen!

  • @phechristchild
    @phechristchild Рік тому +1

    Very very beautiful, informative, spiritual, and timely. I like that you said "...write what you want for your marriage and family at the end..." I pray that we will all fight for our marriages, family, city and children whether or not we have a family as yet just start fighting now! May the Blessings of God Almighty rest and remain with you always in Jesus Christ's Mighty loving Name, AMEN, AMEN, AMEN!!!!!

  • @margueritehall2536
    @margueritehall2536 3 місяці тому

    Amazing Lisa what God has done in your life. I cried at the beginning and again cried at the ending because this is my heart as well. I am still waiting on the Lord with so much of his help. He blesses me daily, for his mercies are new every morning. Thank you for sharing such a dynamic word. Love you Lisa. Marguerite

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Рік тому

    I've haven't been married over 25 - 30 yrs...I'm happy device.... Prayers God..... Jesus has heal me and I'm not waiting on king Jesus to send me my Boaz..... Im not at a peaceful place without drama today and I'm covered by my father God and his son Jesus and I'm covered the blood and anointed by the holy oil...... Jesus has blessed me coming in and going out in the hills and on the the mountain ....I am blessed.... Not stressed!!!;;;; ..... Jesus is a keep and he is mmm ....
    The holy spirit is mmm good

  • @christiek470
    @christiek470 Рік тому +3

    Mightily blessed by this sermon, Ms Lisa!! Jesus bless you and use you much more for the expansion of His kingdom.

  • @hueyjoseph4526
    @hueyjoseph4526 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful Word Sis. Lisa Awesome Testimony of God Love for the Family.❤❤❤

  • @amyk9126
    @amyk9126 Рік тому +3

    You are hysterical.

  • @aw5308
    @aw5308 Рік тому +5

    This is gold 🙏💗🙌

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Рік тому +1

    Love Lisa ❤ So Real as A Woman and Then Great Faith Leader❤❤❤❤❤

  • @CalynnA
    @CalynnA Рік тому +1

    Lisa Bevere I love you ❤️ where have you been all my life 💕 you spoke some powerful words of life into me, thank you

  • @leahsplattstoesser6763
    @leahsplattstoesser6763 Рік тому +1

    I want to be a better wife. I go lots of days feeling like I am a bad wife. My husband was raised Mormon, but got saved at Celebration Church in Fresno when we lived there. Since moving back home it has been so hard. I want to have a good godly marriage. Please pray for my family.

    • @leahsplattstoesser6763
      @leahsplattstoesser6763 Рік тому

      What do you do when you feel like you have to lead because your husband won’t? It makes it so stressful and hard 😢

    • @leahsplattstoesser6763
      @leahsplattstoesser6763 Рік тому

      I don’t even know what it means to love my husband well. What he needs…

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Рік тому

    Marriage Can Enlarge Your Life🎉❤😊

  • @Guidance777
    @Guidance777 10 місяців тому

    Beautiful prayer❤ God bless you all!

  • @ksnow4105
    @ksnow4105 2 місяці тому

    Sooo good ❤

  • @rosanavila1917
    @rosanavila1917 Рік тому

    ❤🎉love Lisa your menssagem God bless you and your family members.

  • @jdee1891
    @jdee1891 6 місяців тому

    Thank you!!

  • @feliciagreen4905
    @feliciagreen4905 Рік тому

    Thank you for this message God bless you

  • @karenjones1918
    @karenjones1918 Рік тому +1

    Lisa is very powerful as a speaker I know she’s been through a lot but I believe it truly made her stronger God bless your soul..I love her husband too they are a beautiful fit together it’s like they were just made for one another😊

    • @AstronautRaymond
      @AstronautRaymond 11 місяців тому

      Hi I really like you can I get to know you , my name is Raymond I'm an astronaut from Europe

  • @georginaguzman8901
    @georginaguzman8901 Рік тому

    I need to hear this! Praise God

  • @daniP4728
    @daniP4728 4 місяці тому

    So inspirational ❤

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Рік тому

    WOW!!! Powerful Lisa.....Message needed and received.....😊❤

  • @carlinndube9999
    @carlinndube9999 Рік тому

    Thank you for this message - powerful!!

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Рік тому

    I Love You Lisa ❤ Thank You😊

  • @morepreciousthanjewels3585
    @morepreciousthanjewels3585 Рік тому +4

    This women is so beautiful from the inside out

  • @gingerlee4116
    @gingerlee4116 Рік тому +1

    She is funny!!😂
    She ministers..

  • @jhaslett03
    @jhaslett03 Рік тому

    ❤ Thank you for the message ❤

  • @corneliabugelnig5654
    @corneliabugelnig5654 Рік тому

    Thanks a LOT
    You changed my life❤

  • @donna62016
    @donna62016 Рік тому

    I appreciate your honesty

  • @AntoniettaDelizia
    @AntoniettaDelizia Рік тому

    Wonderful message

  • @marissawalters3785
    @marissawalters3785 Рік тому

    This was amazing! Thank you so much Lisa!

  • @jenniferdiane
    @jenniferdiane Рік тому

    Needed this ❤

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Рік тому

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 1st Date Story❤

  • @twoforone_
    @twoforone_ Рік тому

    "Very good" ❤ multiply

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Рік тому

    I will be the beginning

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Рік тому

    I am so fine single right now I'm not rushing into anything with anyone there's no present in the blessing so I'm going to go ahead and not stress while I'm getting blessed!!!!!!.
    Say what you will the Bible says touch not my anointing and do my prophet no harm everything you have done to me has been done to you it has been returned back to send it tenfolds and to your generation.... I'm not threatening no one that's in the Bible that's in the word of God!!!!!

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 9 місяців тому

    your my sister in the Family of God

  • @K777angel
    @K777angel Рік тому +1

    Wow

  • @pauldebroaharrington9955
    @pauldebroaharrington9955 Рік тому +3

    What about being all in but husband is never in at all? What about exhaustion? Neglect? Years n Decades of submission and no response? That's hard. To be in a marriage and for years you already accepted that ur hubs doesn't love OR like you. That's horrible. I live it daily. EVERYTHING is a priority to ny husband BUT me. He's not even approachable. It's horrible. I feel like God doesn't have me here to feel ugly everyday , unwanted, invisible, not important, neglected. DAILY. It never ceases. Idk. I feel like my husband takes my faith as his tool to have a woman that plays the position he wants ... idk.

    • @angelaaguilar5424
      @angelaaguilar5424 Рік тому +3

      Yea I am curious too. Seems like her husband was interested in working on the marriage and prioritized it. Kinda hard to apply this when it’s only one spouse putting effort

    • @suzannahschulthies1260
      @suzannahschulthies1260 Рік тому +7

      My husband has been very much that way with me for over 30 years. I FINALLY wised up and truly handed it all over to the Lord and got out of His way. It's been one heck of an ugly, rough ride, but as soon as I completely surrendered and quit trying to fix him on my own (unsuccessfully for three decades), our marriage is turning around; my husband is SLOWLY on his way to becoming a new creation. Also, the Lord is showing me things about myself that needed to be corrected and cleaned up so that I will be worthy of the husband he's going to give me. Waiting for my husband to surrender to Jesus and become that new creation is a long and difficult exercise in patience and faith, but watching the changes in both of us unfold is incredible!

    • @Jolly.Joy_Rose
      @Jolly.Joy_Rose Рік тому +2

      The Bible says for a woman to be submissive to her husband and some men thrive on that information forgetting that THEY were told to love their wife like Christ loves the church. Sadly women take the submissive part and take unnecessary abuse from men who push the “Im the head of the household, I am man, I am the leader…” etc. Ladies please don’t give up on yourselves, God made each and every one of you for a purpose. Not to be someone’s emotional or physical punching bags, and yes just because he doesn’t “hit” doesn’t mean words don’t hurt. Lean on Christ, listen to what God says about you! Don’t rely on your husband to fulfill your needs because I guarantee you’ll be disappointed. I can’t tell you what to do, I can only say ask God and the Holy Spirit in the name of Jesus to guide you. Prayers for you all my sisters ❤️ You are beautifully and wonderfully made!

    • @otiliamanuelajurj
      @otiliamanuelajurj 11 днів тому

      How do you hand your problems over to God? ​@@suzannahschulthies1260

    • @suzannahschulthies1260
      @suzannahschulthies1260 11 днів тому +1

      @otiliamanuelajurj I stopped trying to fix my husband and told the Lord, "he's all Yours". I stay out of the way and follow the rules God gave me: "If your husband hurts you, if he makes you angry or makes you cry, don't fight with him; bring it to Me." I am to be an Ephesians 5 (22-24) wife regardless of whether my husband is being an Ephesians 5 (25-29) husband. My husband's rebellion against God has nothing to do with my obedience to God. I am to be loving and respectful regardless of whether my husband is being a colossal jerk to me. The Lord will handle it even if it doesn't look like it on the surface. People think I'm letting my husband trample me, and at times it feels like it and certainly goes against my natural reaction/response, but I find that when I obey God and leave the consequences to Him, there is relative peace and progress with my husband. When I lose my temper, I wind up in tears and stressed out because I made things worse. I have to the Father to forgive me and ask Him to fix the damage I caused. He is SO merciful and good! I am much stronger and far more disciplined than when I started standing in the gap for my marriage in October of 2020. My faith in the Lord was great then, but far greater now.

  • @Mu_the_Maori
    @Mu_the_Maori Рік тому +1

    Who is this kewl looking woman ♀️ can Lisa cook?

  • @vanettamason1605
    @vanettamason1605 Рік тому

    Love my husband well

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 11 місяців тому

    😊

  • @danicadegooijer2219
    @danicadegooijer2219 Рік тому

    Only 7?❤🙏🙋‍♀️

  • @realchristian__podcast
    @realchristian__podcast Рік тому +2

    Do you believe our marriage can be restored even though she left and took our child 3 months ago?

    • @suzannahschulthies1260
      @suzannahschulthies1260 Рік тому

      ABSOLUTELY!! The Lord loves to work with what seems impossible. He quite enjoys showing off, and oh, the glory it brings Him!

    • @realchristian__podcast
      @realchristian__podcast Рік тому +1

      @@suzannahschulthies1260 your faith is amazing and encouraging. I hope you’re right truly

    • @CalynnA
      @CalynnA Рік тому +2

      Check out Marriage Revealed Ministries UA-cam channel, it's all videos about standing for your spouse, many in similar situation as you. Bless you, our mighty God can absolutely turn things around and restore ❤️

  • @sandragil4520
    @sandragil4520 5 місяців тому

    Lisa what if you got saved and your husband hasn’t?
    5 years later he still hasn’t been saved.

    • @margueritehall2536
      @margueritehall2536 3 місяці тому

      I have walked with the Lord 43 years. And my husband is the best. God told me to follow Him, that he would take care of my husband. God has been faithful to what he spoke to me. Stand and trust God...

    • @otiliamanuelajurj
      @otiliamanuelajurj 11 днів тому

      ​@@margueritehall2536How do you walk with God? What are you doing? What are the steps?

  • @kimg5142
    @kimg5142 Рік тому

    ❤️🔥❤️🔥🇨🇦

  • @natalinacampisi4606
    @natalinacampisi4606 Рік тому

    HI LISA, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO A HUSBAND THAT REFUSES TO LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE WITH HIS WIFE AND CHIDREN BECAUSE SHE HAS CATS.

    • @kadi9682
      @kadi9682 9 місяців тому +1

      Give your cats up for adoption. Show him you love him more than any pets.

    • @kadi9682
      @kadi9682 9 місяців тому

      Peacemaker

    • @SeanLawn71
      @SeanLawn71 9 місяців тому +1

      Well, if you want your husband home I’d give the cats away.

    • @kadi9682
      @kadi9682 9 місяців тому +2

      @@SeanLawn71 yes I’d give away any pet to keep my family together.

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 9 місяців тому

    foosball table

  • @danicadegooijer2219
    @danicadegooijer2219 Рік тому

    Exact..kids of divors

  • @emmapeel299
    @emmapeel299 Рік тому

    😂😂😂

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 9 місяців тому

    ping pong table

  • @angelashuttleworth6527
    @angelashuttleworth6527 Рік тому

    So funny! Love it! Thank you for sharing the "realness"! ❤️🫶🏻

  • @marissachristensen4993
    @marissachristensen4993 Місяць тому

    Thank you!!