Yes, please do an episode about the theological differences between Lisa and John! I think that would be so helpful to know who the two handle those things.
I would really love to hear John and Lisa talk about how they deal with their theological differences and what they are. This is an issue in my home and I don't know how to navigate it!
Thank you for talking in your previous video about allowing other people in your home and getting to know them. As a child I grew up in a divorced family and in the church I often felt my mother and my sister and I were alienated to a point by other Christians. Yet after being a mother I learned the hard way later some things I should have done to protect my children and how maybe I could have helped them discern. Well I have many should haves and pray God brings everyone to Him even though I learned too late after some damage had been done. Finding that way of not alienating other kids but yet teaching and opening my children to understand why to maybe not play at their house but yet still love people with healthy boundaries. Wow there is so much to it and I am so grateful you are talking about it. These are real issues that shouldn’t be swept under the rug or only kept to certain people. May we all learn God’s ways to be healthy, make wise decisions, not compromise, and love others. It is hard. And I have learned so much the hard way. If only I would have sought God’s counsel earlier on instead of figuring it out on my own. Thank you again. Also I am glad I am not the only mom who felt like many things were such a blur. I felt so guilty about that.
Sometimes the confrontation is because of a wound/hurt and many times we fail to do the repair work. Yes, an apology does wonders but taking a step further of asking the person we wounded/hurt what I can do to repair the and actually doing it will be more impactful and long lasting.
Powerful insights. Thanks for your genuineness and authenticity in sharing your struggles but also your triumphs. God bless you and your family and ministry. Halton from Jamaica
Seek external godly counsel (the more the better) and a mix of those who know you and your family (friends) and those who don’t (counselors). Just know that your feelings are totally justified too!
I appreciate this because we don't have a proper marriage counselor around where we live and this is so vital for what we are going through. I honestly appreciate the reality..
This discussion was so useful even for a single person! Great insight and knowledge 👌. Maybe do a similar discussion on how to navigate conflict with parents and slightly older children? I believe that is another beneficial discussion for a lot of folks. Thank you for consistent/Godly/useful content once again 🙏.
My husband always makes me feel like I am a problem to fix. He says I am disobedient because I have too many opinions. Everytime I bring something to the table about our family he says I need to ask him and not make suggestions. Everytime I do that he says he feels disrespected. I am to the place where I don't want to share things with him in the fear that I am not speaking correctly. We have argues in front of our kids and I am shameful. He tries to correct me in front of our kids with scripture usually pointing to scriptures about how the man is the head of the house and the woman is to submit in all things. When I don't agree with my husband my 10 year old will say now mom dad has the final say. He is in charge of you. I feel unheard, manipulated, and controlled. And my worry is that my children are going to do to their wives what is happening to me. I feel trapped and don't know how to handle this biblically.
Tha k you for these contents. Nowadays thing like these are underestimated. I appreciate and like how you talk about these and that they are important, especially at home.
Can you ask Lisa how she dealt with gender disappointment? I'm a mom of 6,5 and 3 year old boys. We got pregnant with our 4th son, it was a surprise. And we find out it's another boy. I can't seem to get over the disappointment in having a fourth boy. How did Lisa move past that if she ever was or how do I get myself to move past that. I totally love my 3 boys though. Thank you so much for this insightful podcasts
I was very surprised by my 4th pregnancy. And it took a while to get use to the idea. I look at my child now at 11 years old and cant imagine life any different. I pray you have much joy in this pregnancy ❤
@@SJD36 thank you so much. My good friend tells me the same, that I'll fall so in love with the baby once he's here that I'll forget all I'm feeling now. I keep praying for God's help. Thank you so much
This is so good.. I have a question: if the behaviour of the spouse is not changing despite of the measures, reminders you already did, what else can one do? Or when is the time to stop reminding? When is the time to let go of one's standard and just live with it?
New here. What are y'all's views regarding conflict and confrontation amongst spouse's that kids hear or see? Like how do you handle arguments conflicts with spouses when your kids are around.???😑🫣 Great podcast❤❤❤
I'm 33 with 3 kids and have been married with my husband for almost 10 years. He was hyper controlling in the beginning but God as been truly sanctifying him and there is less toxic controlling. But he still really controls how I dress and where i go and I just don't what to do anymore. I feel is just who he is. Idk
Can someone find the part where she says something like: when your husband does something you dont like, start saying you like it and then you will like that part. Something like that??
These two women are SO beautiful. Completely stunning.
Yes, please do an episode about the theological differences between Lisa and John! I think that would be so helpful to know who the two handle those things.
I would really love to hear John and Lisa talk about how they deal with their theological differences and what they are. This is an issue in my home and I don't know how to navigate it!
Wow, "seek to understand more than being understood".
Asking others to help you understand rather than merely proving a point...
Great advice.
Thank you for talking in your previous video about allowing other people in your home and getting to know them. As a child I grew up in a divorced family and in the church I often felt my mother and my sister and I were alienated to a point by other Christians. Yet after being a mother I learned the hard way later some things I should have done to protect my children and how maybe I could have helped them discern. Well I have many should haves and pray God brings everyone to Him even though I learned too late after some damage had been done. Finding that way of not alienating other kids but yet teaching and opening my children to understand why to maybe not play at their house but yet still love people with healthy boundaries. Wow there is so much to it and I am so grateful you are talking about it. These are real issues that shouldn’t be swept under the rug or only kept to certain people. May we all learn God’s ways to be healthy, make wise decisions, not compromise, and love others. It is hard. And I have learned so much the hard way. If only I would have sought God’s counsel earlier on instead of figuring it out on my own. Thank you again. Also I am glad I am not the only mom who felt like many things were such a blur. I felt so guilty about that.
"We need tools if we're going to build"🎯🙌🏾
Sometimes the confrontation is because of a wound/hurt and many times we fail to do the repair work. Yes, an apology does wonders but taking a step further of asking the person we wounded/hurt what I can do to repair the and actually doing it will be more impactful and long lasting.
Powerful insights. Thanks for your genuineness and authenticity in sharing your struggles but also your triumphs. God bless you and your family and ministry. Halton from Jamaica
Thank you for watching and your support! ❤️
Only by moving through confrontation you get to truth. Truth is necessary for intimacy
Seek external godly counsel (the more the better) and a mix of those who know you and your family (friends) and those who don’t (counselors). Just know that your feelings are totally justified too!
I appreciate this because we don't have a proper marriage counselor around where we live and this is so vital for what we are going through.
I honestly appreciate the reality..
Thank you so much for this conversations! ❤ Learn so much from it
This discussion was so useful even for a single person! Great insight and knowledge 👌. Maybe do a similar discussion on how to navigate conflict with parents and slightly older children? I believe that is another beneficial discussion for a lot of folks.
Thank you for consistent/Godly/useful content once again 🙏.
Wow some powerful tips, im giving my conflicts to Jesus so we can really grow! Family’s in Christ 🙏🌟🌈 Thank you
Thank you for watching! Grateful that God used this conversation to speak to you.
Really helped!!! Thanks for the convo.
So thankful for y'all!!!!
This blessed me so much !! ❤
My husband always makes me feel like I am a problem to fix. He says I am disobedient because I have too many opinions. Everytime I bring something to the table about our family he says I need to ask him and not make suggestions. Everytime I do that he says he feels disrespected. I am to the place where I don't want to share things with him in the fear that I am not speaking correctly. We have argues in front of our kids and I am shameful. He tries to correct me in front of our kids with scripture usually pointing to scriptures about how the man is the head of the house and the woman is to submit in all things. When I don't agree with my husband my 10 year old will say now mom dad has the final say. He is in charge of you. I feel unheard, manipulated, and controlled. And my worry is that my children are going to do to their wives what is happening to me. I feel trapped and don't know how to handle this biblically.
This conversation is so valuable and encouraging to me as a married woman. Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for watching and your support! ❤️
Tha k you for these contents. Nowadays thing like these are underestimated. I appreciate and like how you talk about these and that they are important, especially at home.
Can you ask Lisa how she dealt with gender disappointment? I'm a mom of 6,5 and 3 year old boys. We got pregnant with our 4th son, it was a surprise. And we find out it's another boy. I can't seem to get over the disappointment in having a fourth boy. How did Lisa move past that if she ever was or how do I get myself to move past that. I totally love my 3 boys though. Thank you so much for this insightful podcasts
I was very surprised by my 4th pregnancy. And it took a while to get use to the idea. I look at my child now at 11 years old and cant imagine life any different. I pray you have much joy in this pregnancy ❤
@@SJD36 thank you so much. My good friend tells me the same, that I'll fall so in love with the baby once he's here that I'll forget all I'm feeling now. I keep praying for God's help. Thank you so much
@@Hanrich146 no problem🙂God bless!
This opening theme jingle is fire 🔥.
Anyone else? 🤭
Love this family.incredible content.
Love this
This is so good.. I have a question: if the behaviour of the spouse is not changing despite of the measures, reminders you already did, what else can one do? Or when is the time to stop reminding? When is the time to let go of one's standard and just live with it?
Thank youu!
New here. What are y'all's views regarding conflict and confrontation amongst spouse's that kids hear or see? Like how do you handle arguments conflicts with spouses when your kids are around.???😑🫣
Great podcast❤❤❤
Patient, kind, loving and with respect
Can we talk about conflicts with children
@14:15 there are conversations about it.
Hi!! I’m trying to find the episodes, “How to talk to your kid about sex”. Please help 🙏🏼. TIA
I'm 33 with 3 kids and have been married with my husband for almost 10 years. He was hyper controlling in the beginning but God as been truly sanctifying him and there is less toxic controlling. But he still really controls how I dress and where i go and I just don't what to do anymore. I feel is just who he is. Idk
Can someone find the part where she says something like: when your husband does something you dont like, start saying you like it and then you will like that part. Something like that??
I think that’s part one.
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