He did not work, she did and took care of the household. He did not want to take any responsibility and even said it himself that his fear was having to pay child support. Wow imagine being held responsible for your kids. Instead of getting a job or leaving he killed his pregnant girlfriend in front of his own children. Ladies be careful out there. Many of these “men” amongst us.
Weirdos cant keep a job. They learn acceptable behavior by watching others but unable to hold a real thoughtful conversation, he had no friends & a dead soul.
And that’s what is scary bc we wouldn’t even know for sure the kind of person he is .. just makes me want to stay single forever bc of things like this ..
There have been cases of men who took the kids out too. So they wouldn’t have to pay. Be careful ladies. Happened to my pregnant cousin. He committed after evading the police.
@@GMSDedication No she isn't. There are Demonic Energies that possess broken Souls. He not only fell prey to his own demon, he embraced it. This is the act of a Full Blown Narcissist.
@@necoleyarde4880 and the love she had in her heart and he was an empty shell, he wanted her light and couldn’t possess her but was also mad because HE needed HER, what a loser…I pray her children have peace and love in their life.
They didn't see any red flags but if a man don't work, that is a red flag. How can he let a woman take care of you and those babies. She deserved so much more, so sorry for your loss, she was beautiful!!🙏💔
Idk know what part of me it broke, my friend. I'm just praying 🙏she doesn't die from a broken heart... she's out to alllllll. Her heart ❤and soul rip apart.. Eloi eloi llama sabachtani.
I lost my children's father in 2008, after he died in his sleep. It was the worst phone call I've ever received. I jumped in a cab (NYC) and almost jumped out 3 times because it seemed we were hitting every red light. The cab driver drove with one hand, with the other he held my arm tight. He kept saying, you won't get there any faster by running. All I kept thinking was, he died alone and I wasn't there. When I got to the house, police was everywhere and paramedics outside an ambulance. I kept yelling, why aren't you helping him, please go help him. In my frantic state I bypassed the elevator and ran up 7 flights. 2 Policeman were guarding the front door, 4 more inside. I ran passed all of them trying to get to the bedroom. The last cop grabbed me and said, you don't want to see him this way. I said, he's alone I've got to go in there, I don't care what he looks like. I begged them, but they wouldn't let me pass. I dropped to my knees... it was the worst day of my life! Today the pain is still the same.. as if it happened yesterday !
That split second when you first wake up and then "remember" that your child is gone is the absolute most agonizing heart wrenching pain that cant even be imagined until you experience it .
Cautionary tale to young ladies: please don’t have children with a dude that does not actively participate in the workforce; does not want to financial support his family-only wants you to pay for everything; has no social skills; etc. Now, this young lady was 24 y.o., so she probably was finally starting to awaken to the situation she was in. Dudes like this don’t deserve children in the first place--don’t give these types anything close to a potential legacy-starve them out. Condolences to her mother, brothers and extended family. Rest easy baby girl!!!!
I’m not actively in the work force but have 2 steady legal stream of incomes bringing in over 60k a year + investments and take care of my home and me and mine are happier than ever 😇 so that first point is obsolete. Everyone isn’t a slave to the workforce!
I had to get my daughter away from her husband because I found out what he was doing to her and he was suicidal. My daughter is safe now & thriving. I thank God everyday. I will continue to pray for this family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Why would an unemployed young man with obvious mental issues have a gun? That’s the biggest sign in my opinion. Can’t buy a box of cereal but he can buy a gun? This country is INSANE.
Talking bout he was afraid of break ins bullshit from the looks of the apartment it looks like they were struggling no disrespect i intended either he was hustle’n or in the streets
I'm a gun owner and I could not agree with you more. That's a huge red flag. Can't pay rent but owns a gun? Worried about break-ins? When you ain't got a job? what would they steal? Suuuuree 🤡
That's what I don't understand. Her own Mom said he didn't work, didn't do anything but yet her daughter kept having babies with him. Why are our young women okay with having multiple babies with men who don't work and won't make them a wife. She's going to work every day and okay with her man being the baby sitter.
The warning signs were there!! He didn’t show any interest in doing anything with his life. He was jealous of her. Also, they said he would seclude himself from family gatherings and stay quiet. That’s another sign. It’s important to deal with men who can match you on your level because if not they will always resent you. I pray for her children and her family.
@Shellz312 Just wanted to point out that hanging back and secluding themselves is not always a sign they are the abuser. I secluded myself for many years whenever I was with my husband's family and friends. I was the one being abused and they made it known I did not belong. Just thought I would put that out there. Self-isolation it common in those being abused, whether that is emotional or physical abuse.
He didn’t care about her, he was just a freeloader and stuck around because he didn’t want to do anything for himself. Any man who cares about his gf/wife and his kids would do anything they can to help support them.
Taking care of the home and children IS support. We have no problem recognizing that when it's a woman doing it. I don't know how much actual work he was putting in, but both are demanding jobs if done correctly.
Some women really need to start loving themselves and stop seeking it from other sources. A 24 year old with not only 3 kids already, but having them with a hobo who provided nothing other than his sperm and affection that she apparently needed. On top of that she had a demanding career, he didn't. That's just a combustible situation and you can feel the pressure build up.
Remember ladies, there are men out there who literally just want a warm bed to sleep in and hot meal. They don’t care about the person providing it for them. I saw a tiktok earlier from a man saying he didn’t even LIKE the women he got in relationships with, he just liked having his ego stroked. Some men will live with you, sleep with you, make children with you BUT DO NOT LIKE YOU. The moment there is turmoil in the “relationship” or they realize they are losing control of the situation, they’ll act like rabid animals and attack. Please be careful!! Especially around winter time when it gets cold! If you meet a man and he starts love bombing you or wants to move in super quickly that is a red flag. Do not ignore your gut feeling. Stay safe. Rest In Peace to this beautiful mother, I hope she is watching over her babies.
Lol, yall is funny, and why Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuel's get points. What about the women who looks at a man for what he has, to value him like a dam trophy? Just saying.
@@gogetterselite3629 because women who make sure a man is financially stable, has his OWN car and can take care of himself are the type of men women WANT to be in relationships with, there is nothing wrong with that. I was very clear in my original comment: some (broke) men will intentionally seek out relationships for the sole purpose of having a free place to live, eat, sleep and f*ck. They don’t care about the women except for what she can provide for them and that can lead to dangerous outcomes like it did for that poor woman.
I once read that if a woman takes care of a man, he will resent you for making him feel less than a man. Prayers and condolences for the family and children 💐🕊💐
Not only that, it's not sustainable. The woman at one point will get tired and ask him to be better. At that point he'd start to see her as a problem and a threat to the life he's become comfortable living. He'd direct his anger at her for messing things up for him.
Sometimes it’s better to not just say anything to the person you want to leave, when the time is right just leave and never look back… R.I.P to that beautiful young lady
@@abusednomoresilence, yes ma'am you are correct. Leave with no warning ⚠️. Go to the police station let them no what's going on and tell them you're goin to disappear that way when they receive a missing persons out on you they know you left and why you left. He won't get any answers from them. Sometimes you don't tell friends or family that you're disappearing. Rip to the victim
SEEING THE MOTHER BREAK DOWN WAS A NIGHTMARE. I FEEL SO SO BAD FOR THIS WOMAN. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IN THIS WORLD THAT ANYONE CAN DO TO PUT THAT LADY BACK TOGETHER. SHE DESERVES JUSTICE FOR HER DAUGHTER NOTHING LESS
They’re delusional losers. Always want to call someone a gold digger, when black women work MORE than them and support entire households. Pathetic and pitiful men
Unemployed men should never argue with the women who are taking care of them never its rude and disrespectful and he should have been put out the house a long time ago the moment he opened his mouth the first time he was a child in that home and should have behaved as one
I agree about him being put out a long time ago, but imho he did behave as a child…throwing a tantrum with a now lifetime timeout…yet he’s still alive. He should get the death penalty.
I'm crying so much for this mother. I was tormented at times with thoughts of something terrible like this happening to my family. I'm very sorry, and I thank GOD Marissa's mom has her grandbabies to keep her going. Please GOD bless and comfort this family as only YOU can🙏
This poor woman breaks my heart. The kids are angels. My niece was murdered by her estranged husband. He then committed suicide. The boys were raised by their grandparents. None of us knew he was a dangerous person. Know the warning signs. When you leave your abuser, change your routine. My niece didn't, which left her vulnerable. He knew when/where to get her.
Sorry to hear about your loss may she rest in peace but I always say that when someone ends up dead when they're being abused you have to move and relocate and change some things up
There's always signs. As you can see, it's always men who are willing to actually be with broken women. You know you're broken so any man willing to be with you all is likely unhinged. Of course you all don't want to accept this so it's always that yall didn't know.
Her poor mother hasn’t gotten any peace .. I can literally see the pain & suffering on her face every single time they show her. I pray her family, her mother especially, finds healing from the Lord. Amen.
This is what happens when you get into a relationship with a none ambitious narcissist. He did nothing, no income ever? She worked , paid all the bills , ha the whole family on health insurance , did all the things he was suppose to be doing as a man. She was a go getter, an achiever and he was lazy and jealous of her drive. This is very real. Those closest to you are sometimes the most jealous of every little progress you make in life. Even your ability to be happy in tough times. SMH. Honestly speaking, I don't think he loved her. His heart was somewhere else. DL energy written all over that 911 call. Pay attention.
So true this is heartbreaking. Why can’t these ppl just walk away from each other. It is so so disheartening. I worry & pray for my three daughters every day & side eye each guy their with.
Being single is not that bad! People fear being lonely and tether themselves to people and relationships they don’t want to be in or can’t maintain. I feel for this family… 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Agreed, I understand your point BUT we can not judge everyone’s relationship in that way, not everyone is afraid to be lonely or alone. This Young Woman can’t tell her story. What we do know is mental illness is real, demonic oppression is real, and we all need following our instincts if something is off communicate with family and friends, her working while pregnant but he doesn’t do anything, that’s the greatest red flag. Unfortunately this baby at 24 years old will never have another chance.
I've been single and by myself 9 years these stories reaffirm my decision! These men just ain't worth it at all!Oh and before i became single my ex bf attacked me in front of my child and it traumatized him i was in the hospital he could've easily killed me during that attack. I could never bring another man around my son after that he was so scared and although at times i wanted to date I could never let my son feel fear like that again so i haven't. You have to sacrifice for your children. My son wouldn't have been okay with a man in our house .
Nah why would you feel the need to voice your opinion in this matter, YOU DONT HAVE A CLUE, what was going on in that house, and it's a lil disrespectful is what it is THE LADY HAS DIED, and here you come on ya high horse , SHAME ON YOU
Tbh, once she had his first kid, it sealed her fate. She would do what women typically do, work her behind off and excel academically and professionally. He probably would be out of the workforce and grow more jealous of her and take her life at some point out of share evilness.
Second degree murder! This is sickening! It was absolutely first degree murder! He shot her 9 times! Are you kidding me?! No justice for this poor mother! He will be able to get out at some point, and he will do it again.
In order to convict on 1st degree murder, the prosecution must show prior intent. This case doesn't demonstrate that, it sounds like the heat of the moment actions in the midst of an argument. That's 2nd degree. Also, the number of times she was shot is irrelevant in determining what level of homicide is charged.
“He said she was never satisfied with anything he ever did?” Sir! You did nothing! What are you talking about? You didn’t even provide for your seed! Disgusting.
I know exactly how it feels to lose a child and it is nothing I wish on anybody 😢I lost my adult firstborn to an unsolved homicide and although it’s been 9 yrs I still miss him like it has just happened. Nobody wants this to happen and it still does from soulless people… my prayers are with this mother and her children 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼
The fact that she was taking care of HIM & the family on a medical assistant salary WAS INDEED a red flag. So at some point ladies, you have to ask yourself, what about yourself do you feel is undeserving of BETTER? Find your self-esteem and LIVE YOUR WORTH. Heartbreaking all around.
What a sorry excuse for a man. He started a family but couldn't hack it and didnt want to take on any responsibility. I have no sympathy for him whatsoever.
I will NEVER NEVER understand how anyone could harm, abuse and kill the person that birthed, nurture and support their children. May God bless, protect and shower Marissa's children and family with an abundance of love.
That was my exhusband biggest fear too. I got out of that marriage. He has yet to pay a dime of the court ordered child support and has opted out of his child’s life. Was in the same situation as that poor young lady with the exception of the pregnancies every time I’d get pregnant I’d miscarry with the exception of one. When you leave ladies stay gone. What draws women back is the soul tie but those can be broken. Stay gone and get help to be safe and heal yourself and your children (if there are any involved).
She was working full time and he stayed home.. WAS THE FIRST SIGN.. I’m serious and in that court room he shows lack of empathy. He used that young lady and held deep rooted anger and hid it well. The devil is busy 🙏🏽 Prayers for her family and God rest her soul🙇🏽♀️🌷
My neighbor was the same way. He had a luxury car, wife had a regular car. She even had a young child. Meanwhile, he stayed home while she worked full-time in the medical field. He wore all of the latest clothes and new shoes to match each outfit. Ive noticed the women always work in the medical field for some reason. These men definitely have demons attached.
There is no telling how much torture he was putting her through in secret. She may have told him she was leaving for good. He wasn't quiet, he was calculating. He was abusing her in many ways, but kept those babies close to his side to manipulate Marissa. Yeah, he had a demon in him and he embraced his!!! He was about to lose his Narcissist Supply, so if he couldn't have her and control her he was absolutely going to destroy her. He was NEVER a parent he was their Overseer. He imprisoned her, and pimped her out to support him economically. He is NOT sorry! He is NOT remorseful! He wanted to kill her and he wanted the last memory of those children to be of Terror! He is a NARCISSISTIC TERRORIST!!! Stop pacifying insanity and abuse.
“You’re sure she’s dead?” I’m positive he made sure she was dead because that’s what he wanted! 🤦🏽♀️ What an evil, hateful spirit. May that beautiful lady rest well and may those babies never remember that horrible day.
Grandma is a good woman. You can tell she doesn’t want to even say anything bad about the kids’s dad. The question is why would he do this.. smh. I’m heartbroken for her, may peace & love always surround this family
I suspect he was a quiet ticking time bomb that she did not see. Either he was not built to be a stay at home Dad or.his role was not respected (which I suspect is the case). So he was likely not feeling like a man or meeting his goals. He felt that power for a brief moment at the expense of her life.
@@tanyagivens4338 his role? As a father or? A little confused as he didn't even appear to have done that well enough. What kind of good father keeps a gun out in the open especially with his children and others about?? This is not really directed at you, but I'm just upset that this coward thought a great idea was to kill his children's mother. Smh
I dont think he wanted anymore children,sad to say. What man with his family is thinking about child support,unless he is planning on leaving or getting put out.
@@okeydokey9693 indeed. Good question and angle. Definitely worth a good thought. However there are reasonable solutions to that. Not one of them includes this senseless act of violence. Now those children that he may have decided to keep to himself have to suffer this heartbreak twice. Such a coward
Single and child-free ain't bad people!! I feel terrible for the family of the victim. Now, both children have lost two parents. He didn't want to provide and when she told him to dip, he flipped. RIP angel.
@@DarknessFalls29 MALES! What was hard to understand! MALES!!! So glad women are choosing to remain free from male entrapment from marriage and children.
My heart goes out to this mother and her grandchildren. I can only imagine the grief they’re going through. May God bless them and help them through this tragedy.
Ladies please please be careful. There are warning signs. Never ignore the warning signs. After everything you do for these type of men means absolutely nothing. They will take your life and even the life of the children you share with him without even a thought or remorse.
@@sonofakebulan747 Yup. Many people just want to keep their families intact-sometimes, at the cost of their lives. When a relationship is on and off again, it is usually volatile.
Perhaps he can "black out" for the term of his prison sentence. I find it offensive when evil people use that to excuse what they have done. I am so sorry for the pain that he has caused, for the two beautiful young lives that ended violently, and that those other two beautiful babies are without their mother. It is, however, a great blessing that they are not growing up in the care of someone who is so volatile and cruel!!! May the God of Heaven bless all who are hurting as a result of this tragedy.
@@meddeck .Because it's the Truth! - Satan comes to Steal, Kill & Destroy - And is a master of Sedation of the mind - Pray you never get a personal education on that for yourself
@@acgillespie I know I wouldn't because I believe in personal accountability and not making excuses trying to blame some mythical creatures for my wrong doing.
Exactly, I believe they remember each and every second...the mind has a way of categorizing every second of traumatic events so I definitely believe they remember.
*If* there were red flags???? Jobless and living off his girlfriend’s (modest) salary🚩Antisocial behavior around the family🚩Has nobody else in his life except his mother🚩Having 2 break ups but also 3 children in 4 years🚩 The signs were there, the problem is that people often don’t take them seriously until it’s too late.
@@carmenrosec you're right about that to a degree, but she is right completely. Those are warning signs and you are never obligated to give a potential partner a chance when you notice something is off. Check your self worth because that should never be questioned.
Me too, the sad thing l never filed any complaints against my husband. I was ashamed of the abuse and told no one. . Thank God l moved out when he went to work. As l tell my daughters, when a man hit you once leave, it will happen agsin.
Not even just jealousy. She was the reason he had clothes, food, a roof over his head, everything. She wanted to leave and he murdered her b/c all that was going to be gone and he'd have to do for himself for once. The entire 4 years together he never worked. SMH.
I feel so sad for that grieving mom and her beautiful grandchildren. I think he meant to kill her. Because he said she reached for the gun they said it’s no evidence that she reached for the gun. We have to pray for our generation of children. The Bible tells us that these days will be coming
You can look at him & tell he's off mentally & spiritually. Sometimes there are never signs but there is always a GUT FEELING about a person. Never ignore your gut.
Domestic violence is a terrible thing no one likes to admit they're going through it, if something is going on say something do something. Because there's no way that this man shot her nine times but can only remember one. That's a narcissist a psychopath a person with no empathy no compassion and a liar. Praying for her family keep her memory alive 🙏🏾🙏🏾
My mom says this all of the time. She says this generation doesn't know how to take rejection...they just flip and it is very true. This is an extremely sick individual. O don't believe it to be a sudden occurance. I think he was thinking about killing her for quite some time.
I literally cried while watching the mother, my heart weeps for you and your family..thank you for bringing awareness to this situation.. Your daughter is resting peacefully because of your love of her!!
I am a mother, my heart ACHES for the mother! The whole family, the kids too but especially the mother because I can NOT image that pain! So sad and sorry this happened!
Yes...this is how a grieving mother looks...and has difficulty speaking...her words are chopped, and broken like her heart 💔. She does not look and sound as if she or her family has been rehearsing for 15 minutes of poised, calm, aloof press conference fame with a team of attorneys and someone taking notes for the book and it's movie rights! I pray that the angels hold this "mommy" inside of soft, comforting wings and Heaven's Promise of Eternal Life.
@@day1light167 I’m sure neither one of y’all have experienced losing a child guess what I have! And my moods weren’t always like this! My trauma response was actually to “freeze” for almost a year where I didn’t talk or engage with people at all..yes she’s grieving but to say this is what grieving mothers look like is a wrong blanket statement
@@Lisa-xu3cl That's my opinion and I am sticking to both grieving mother and the detached, removed contrast in the same or similar proximity to the time and manner of the death. Accidental vs.Heinous Murder. 2 days or 2 years since that death. I do not have to have personally lost a child to know empathy, compassion, heartache, heartbreak, and the precious value of life. I find it alarming when a child has been brutally murdered and the news reporter is sad, the police is angry, and the DA is crying.. BUT the mother is not "feeling it" And giving MLK speeches in front of media cameras. As for your own tragic loss...its pain... prayers for you...always...God Bless.
You read too much media and newspaper that was 60 years ago small town stuff you can't get away with that nowadays there are no closed doors nowadays with cell phones then walls and people everywhere,, the facts you mentioned are the fake backs that the media and the government will tell you so that they can act as their innocent with their hands tied,, all relationships are abusive one way or another,, we didn't have this problem when you could not divorce in this nation,, but the Fig eaters with the little caps have drove this nation's laws down the drain for their financial benefit and profit,, you see people save money when they are married but if the people with a little caps can convince them otherwise they will make money in that divorce in the court proceedings and with you having to live alone in a single apartment filing as a single person on your taxes is what they want we want to be
“2nd degree murder” “25 to 50 years”. I just don’t understand the system. He will probably be out in 10 years. I don’t think it’s fair or right. He gets to at some point walk and live, and this beautiful young lady can’t. Not the mention the unborn baby. This young thug of a man should not see life EVER!!!!! I’m praying for the mother and the entire families. RIP
I’m so scared to date again. My last boyfriend was extremely verbally abusive. It never got physical but once he tried to hit me I left. I don’t understand how you can be so evil to someone you claim to love and lay next to everyday. RIP💓 may the Might Comforter Jesus be with her family
I'm glad you never stayed with someone that was damaged " keep moving forward you are loved by the one who created you. Know you are special and pray for him to send you the right person/people who will up lift you . Continue to be strong and safe 🙏 ❤️🌹🙏
This is beyond sad. You can tell by the conditions of the home that it wasn’t a very healthy environment…instead of being a man, father, supporter and having a job instead he takes his frustrations out on a pregnant woman who can’t hardly defend herself. We all know there are red flags and signs we get, that’s what woman’s intuition is truly about. Either way, I’m saddened by the fact the grandmother is left to raise her daughters children & the babies won’t ever get to know their mother. It’s a vicious cycle we seem to not be able to break in ALL communities across the US. God bless the family & I hope the children are shielded by loved ones in some form from all of this for now…
It’s heartbreaking to hear this mother say she didn’t want her daughter to be alone! When my father died in January that’s all my mom thought too was she didn’t want to leave my dad alone so she stayed at the hospital until my dad’s body was taken out of the room and she stayed at the mortuary with him on the day of his viewing from the time he was brought out until it was time for us to leave already. It’s so hard to let go of your loved ones ❤
Oh this brought a tear to my eye. My worst fear is losing a family member and to leave them, cold and alone for the last time. I guess we’ve just gotta remember, they’re not in there anymore ♥️😢 it’s going to happen. I’m the youngest. But I also had a severe drug problem so this has been a fear of my family’s as well, we all have to face that pain at some point but jeez this is unimaginable isn’t it 💔
Woww, that was soo sad and heartbreaking my condolences to you and family your mom really loved her husband,i pray she's finds peace and happiness..🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
The sad thing is that no matter how much awareness is out there, and the signs are taken lightly some women believe they won’t be the one that it happens to. “It happens to other women” I pray that this story does help
He wasn't crying cos his girlfriend was dead, he was crying cos he knew he was in trouble.....but his crying sounded forced and fake. I am so heartbroken for her family. Seeing her mom cry like that made me bawl my eyes out more. I can't believe he would commit such a horrid act. Especially with it being his own girlfriend. I could see a person trying to defend their family and going a little overboard but, this???? Nah huh. He deserves EVERYTHING that he gets and people in prison don't take kindly to people that hurt children, or pregnant women. He's definitely going to be someone's bi+ch, and/or victim.
If her story makes one person think twice abt they're own situation and leave in time, it's already saved life. ♥️ Peace and strength to her family, she's obviously so very missed.
All this pain for a little boy who wanted to ‘play house’ but didn’t want to support said house. Shameful. RIP young mommy. Life taken way too soon. There is virtue in waiting for the proper time and circumstances before starting a family a little later instead of this.
I just went and had a talk with my daughter. I told her any time you’re in a situation where the conversation is getting heated to do what you need to do to get out of that situation. That heat of the moment situation can be real and overwhelming for people when they don’t have a high level of emotional intelligence. I hate to say it though: the signs were there - he was comfortable with his woman working to support him and their children; He was comfortable with her being the man of the house until she started to resent that position and showed it in her demeanor towards him; The fact that he was standoffish at the family events was also a sign. And then him saying that he only had two people in his life shows he didn’t have many friends that would check his behavior if it was off. It was almost like all of this was a recipe for disaster. The fact that he called his mother before he even called her gives me a little bit more indication that he is used to women taking care of the tough situations. I feel so bad for her mom and I can only imagine if my daughter ever chooses someone like this to take up with. I know as a mom you can only say so much so even if she did see the signs, it likely would’ve been impossible for her to get her away from him until she was ready. Praying for her family
The 1st mistake was dating, sleeping and having children, with a do nothing with his life man. Women no matter the race have to choose better men, if you see the signs move on. Stop thinking to have children going to solve, laziness and you're doing all the work. Stop wasting your life on these jail/prison/criminal/angry men, you're his lifeline and his mother. This story like others is sad once you see the signs in his behavior, let him or her go because some women have the same behavior. Only deletion comes while he or she take the coward way to prison to live.
True. What made her even date or involve her self with him. Loser . You can not heal a lazy man. Now he pumped her up with 9 bullets. The thought of being shot over and over until you die by the joker you cared for for years
These young women will never learn I’m single 24 no kids 2yr degree In applied science make 79k a year live alone and yet the girl will still take a dude with 4 kids over me! Iv seen it!
In my opinion, I feel like women have been socially conditioned since childhood to be “the sanctuary” for men, despite their class, character and social standing in life. From the elders in families to pop culture. Women have been told to look past the “shallow stuff” and judge men based off of their character. Sometimes, looking and judging off of the “shallow stuff” can save women from experiencing heartache.
Young women please listen, any time a man is not working, that is a red flag! It means he is lazy and a narcissist! Leave!! It can become abusive, when you are doing everything by yourself, get out of the relationship, he is using you
Jesus, this hurts. I feel your pain. Losing a child this young, so viciously, is beyond heartbreaking... May God comfort you and the family...the children.
Exactly...... Come on Now, She broke up with him Twice he Wasn't working I wonder why??? Always arguing,ENOUGH FLAGS RIGHT THERE and you have a gun theae ladies need to WAIT on the LORD everyday they are getting killed by these DEMONIC INDIVIDUALS!!!!!!!!
@@bryandurgan8913 Right!!! people don't realized how serious this is.. No one can be in a relationship leave GOD out of it. demons go for the mind, they need a body to kill and destroy. John 10:10
And not only while they were in the house, but while they were in the same ROOM. That makes it even more gut wrenching. I haven’t been able to calm my heart when they said that sentence.
GLAD I left my situation 🙏🏽 So sorry this happened. She didn’t deserve to die especially NOT like that ❤️🩹. Prayers and my deepest condolences to the families ❤️❤️🩹🙏🏽
I cried wen the mother said “y would u shoot somebody that many times in front of their kids” I’m rly feeling it and that is a question that nobody can’t answer or have an explanation for😢😭
This is my biggest fear. To lose someone I love to domestic violence. This is so sad . Praying for this family , for the mom who is crying missing her beloved child. For the kids who lost their mom.
The fact that they lived together for 4 years and he didn't work or even try to support his family was indeed a warning sign.
Most chick's that are doing well in life tend to go for looks and wind up moving some dude in with them
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Well who let him put a child in her ??
Abuse is a warning sign not being lazy they usually get kicked out and find somewhere else to stay
@@49ersfoldem Okay, and I'm talking about her popping out babies for a man who isn't providing anything.
He did not work, she did and took care of the household. He did not want to take any responsibility and even said it himself that his fear was having to pay child support. Wow imagine being held responsible for your kids. Instead of getting a job or leaving he killed his pregnant girlfriend in front of his own children. Ladies be careful out there. Many of these “men” amongst us.
Weirdos cant keep a job. They learn acceptable behavior by watching others but unable to hold a real thoughtful conversation, he had no friends & a dead soul.
And that’s what is scary bc we wouldn’t even know for sure the kind of person he is .. just makes me want to stay single forever bc of things like this ..
Crazy he was scared of paying child support when he didn’t have a job
The rise of pregnant women homicide. These men are the most involved in their children's lives.
There have been cases of men who took the kids out too. So they wouldn’t have to pay. Be careful ladies. Happened to my pregnant cousin. He committed after evading the police.
The very fact that he called his mommy BEFORE dialing 911 speaks volumes about the kind of man he is.
The males are coddled in that culture, that's why they avoid accountability.
Absolutely Agree SMDH
Happened in a town near me.He killed his son and called his mom She came to his house and SHE ( his mom ) called 911.He got a plea of 6 years 😡😡😡😡
First clue is she supported a grown man. Senseless.
They all sleeping in one bedroom on the floor
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@@thuggoe They would have made 4 or 5 more babies if this wouldn't have happened .... (with each other, or with other people)
I was about to type the same thing and being distant towards her family.
He was jealous of her, the devil sends the wrong people into your life to steal, kill and destroy. This is tragic. 💔
You’re misinterpreting that scripture ma’am..
@@GMSDedication No she isn't. There are Demonic Energies that possess broken Souls. He not only fell prey to his own demon, he embraced it. This is the act of a Full Blown Narcissist.
Yes he was jealous of the love she had in her life. So sad, have to be so careful these days.
@@dr.100purrscent5 come on somebody… ⛪️
@@necoleyarde4880 and the love she had in her heart and he was an empty shell, he wanted her light and couldn’t possess her but was also mad because HE needed HER, what a loser…I pray her children have peace and love in their life.
The grandmother breaks my heart. Hope she's doing ok.
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They didn't see any red flags but if a man don't work, that is a red flag. How can he let a woman take care of you and those babies. She deserved so much more, so sorry for your loss, she was beautiful!!🙏💔
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Exactly 💯
It also says that he was pretty much a loner. Might be another red flag. Such a sad story.
“If a man don’t work that is a red flag?” So, how many lazy women are ‘red flags?”
Then turn around and kill her ? Example of taking people's kindness for weakness...my heart goes out to her mom kids and family
When her mother said she has to go in there she don’t want her daughter to be alone… broke my soul
*33 - Thank you for letting us know our programming of your mind is working - 33*
Idk know what part of me it broke, my friend. I'm just praying 🙏she doesn't die from a broken heart... she's out to alllllll. Her heart ❤and soul rip apart..
Eloi eloi llama sabachtani.
Absolutely
I lost my children's father in 2008, after he died in his sleep. It was the worst phone call I've ever received. I jumped in a cab (NYC) and almost jumped out 3 times because it seemed we were hitting every red light. The cab driver drove with one hand, with the other he held my arm tight. He kept saying, you won't get there any faster by running. All I kept thinking was, he died alone and I wasn't there. When I got to the house, police was everywhere and paramedics outside an ambulance. I kept yelling, why aren't you helping him, please go help him. In my frantic state I bypassed the elevator and ran up 7 flights. 2 Policeman were guarding the front door, 4 more inside. I ran passed all of them trying to get to the bedroom. The last cop grabbed me and said, you don't want to see him this way. I said, he's alone I've got to go in there, I don't care what he looks like. I begged them, but they wouldn't let me pass. I dropped to my knees... it was the worst day of my life! Today the pain is still the same.. as if it happened yesterday !
@@Unfiltered_from_The_Bronx .Drama much? Such Drama queens
25 to 50 years in prison??? Come on. That guy should be in prison forever.
That's what happens when u plead guilty
That split second when you first wake up and then "remember" that your child is gone is the absolute most agonizing heart wrenching pain that cant even be imagined until you experience it .
I agree ☝️ absolutely agonizing
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God bless your soul
Yes. You wish you were still asleep so the horrible nightmare can go away. When you are awake the nightmare is living.
Cautionary tale to young ladies: please don’t have children with a dude that does not actively participate in the workforce; does not want to financial support his family-only wants you to pay for everything; has no social skills; etc. Now, this young lady was 24 y.o., so she probably was finally starting to awaken to the situation she was in. Dudes like this don’t deserve children in the first place--don’t give these types anything close to a potential legacy-starve them out. Condolences to her mother, brothers and extended family. Rest easy baby girl!!!!
U said it all facts!!
Yep. All of this.
This! All of THIS.
I’m not actively in the work force but have 2 steady legal stream of incomes bringing in over 60k a year + investments and take care of my home and me and mine are happier than ever 😇 so that first point is obsolete. Everyone isn’t a slave to the workforce!
@@101elelky that's work. 🙄 you have a source income. You have resources. You are producing
That is the difference. Smh
I had to get my daughter away from her husband because I found out what he was doing to her and he was suicidal. My daughter is safe now & thriving. I thank God everyday. I will continue to pray for this family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@tumble07able im so ur daughter is ok and u were able to get her away 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Why would an unemployed young man with obvious mental issues have a gun? That’s the biggest sign in my opinion. Can’t buy a box of cereal but he can buy a gun? This country is INSANE.
I think he would have killed her anyways without a gun unfortunately 😥
Talking bout he was afraid of break ins bullshit from the looks of the apartment it looks like they were struggling no disrespect i intended either he was hustle’n or in the streets
True! These ill males (ALL) should not be permitted to have guns! Only real men should!
PREACH!!!A GUN???? NO JOB ????
I'm a gun owner and I could not agree with you more. That's a huge red flag. Can't pay rent but owns a gun? Worried about break-ins? When you ain't got a job? what would they steal? Suuuuree 🤡
The red flags were there. He didn’t even work….or try to do for his family.😕😫
Right!
Jealousy IS WHAT HE WAS..SO SAD 😞 😥
The red flags were there when she got pregnant with 1st child.
@@SouthSideLadyWright Yes. So true.
That's what I don't understand. Her own Mom said he didn't work, didn't do anything but yet her daughter kept having babies with him. Why are our young women okay with having multiple babies with men who don't work and won't make them a wife. She's going to work every day and okay with her man being the baby sitter.
Her brother's statement strong, " you scarred her children for life"!!! Jesus please heal this family 🙏🙏🙏
The warning signs were there!! He didn’t show any interest in doing anything with his life. He was jealous of her. Also, they said he would seclude himself from family gatherings and stay quiet. That’s another sign. It’s important to deal with men who can match you on your level because if not they will always resent you. I pray for her children and her family.
Yep, they missed it cause they were so family oriented..& love kids. So sad. Her brothers want a piece of him tho.
I can see one of them going to jail just to kill him.
Yup. My ex had that sign as well. He turned out to be a sociopath, clinically diagnosed
Praying for the Family 💕💕💕💕
@Shellz312 Just wanted to point out that hanging back and secluding themselves is not always a sign they are the abuser. I secluded myself for many years whenever I was with my husband's family and friends. I was the one being abused and they made it known I did not belong. Just thought I would put that out there. Self-isolation it common in those being abused, whether that is emotional or physical abuse.
He didn’t care about her, he was just a freeloader and stuck around because he didn’t want to do anything for himself. Any man who cares about his gf/wife and his kids would do anything they can to help support them.
Hard to hear but true.
Taking care of the home and children IS support. We have no problem recognizing that when it's a woman doing it.
I don't know how much actual work he was putting in, but both are demanding jobs if done correctly.
He didn't care about anyone a monster
@@lynnsjourney8198 why is that hard to hear?
Some women really need to start loving themselves and stop seeking it from other sources. A 24 year old with not only 3 kids already, but having them with a hobo who provided nothing other than his sperm and affection that she apparently needed. On top of that she had a demanding career, he didn't. That's just a combustible situation and you can feel the pressure build up.
My entire heart goes to grandma!!! She's broken-hearted and trying to hold it together.
Remember ladies, there are men out there who literally just want a warm bed to sleep in and hot meal. They don’t care about the person providing it for them. I saw a tiktok earlier from a man saying he didn’t even LIKE the women he got in relationships with, he just liked having his ego stroked. Some men will live with you, sleep with you, make children with you BUT DO NOT LIKE YOU. The moment there is turmoil in the “relationship” or they realize they are losing control of the situation, they’ll act like rabid animals and attack. Please be careful!! Especially around winter time when it gets cold! If you meet a man and he starts love bombing you or wants to move in super quickly that is a red flag. Do not ignore your gut feeling. Stay safe. Rest In Peace to this beautiful mother, I hope she is watching over her babies.
I have warned them and I am 80. They do not respect my wisdom. I married and marriage does not work. Insurance payable to him?
Why would a female deal with a broke dude in the first place? If he doesn't have his own house , car and a real job.Dont give him the time of day.
Lol, yall is funny, and why Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuel's get points. What about the women who looks at a man for what he has, to value him like a dam trophy? Just saying.
@@gogetterselite3629 because women who make sure a man is financially stable, has his OWN car and can take care of himself are the type of men women WANT to be in relationships with, there is nothing wrong with that. I was very clear in my original comment: some (broke) men will intentionally seek out relationships for the sole purpose of having a free place to live, eat, sleep and f*ck. They don’t care about the women except for what she can provide for them and that can lead to dangerous outcomes like it did for that poor woman.
My mom told me about this
I once read that if a woman takes care of a man, he will resent you for making him feel less than a man. Prayers and condolences for the family and children 💐🕊💐
Not only that, it's not sustainable. The woman at one point will get tired and ask him to be better. At that point he'd start to see her as a problem and a threat to the life he's become comfortable living. He'd direct his anger at her for messing things up for him.
If he felt that way he would have gotten a job . He was a useless freeloader
So true
Yap. Support him with hugs and kisses and updating his cv.
@@misselle1430 😅😂
People like that truly disgust me. He had no concept of responsibility. He was literally her fourth child.
Sometimes it’s better to not just say anything to the person you want to leave, when the time is right just leave and never look back… R.I.P to that beautiful young lady
I agree..
Yes it might be necessary to move out of the City. Quit your job and disappear.Hooe this killer never gets out ! .
@@abusednomoresilence, yes ma'am you are correct. Leave with no warning ⚠️. Go to the police station let them no what's going on and tell them you're goin to disappear that way when they receive a missing persons out on you they know you left and why you left. He won't get any answers from them. Sometimes you don't tell friends or family that you're disappearing. Rip to the victim
Yes
Yup! I learned that from my ex hubs FATHER!!! 💜💜
SEEING THE MOTHER BREAK DOWN WAS A NIGHTMARE.
I FEEL SO SO BAD FOR THIS WOMAN.
THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IN THIS WORLD THAT ANYONE CAN DO TO PUT THAT LADY BACK TOGETHER.
SHE DESERVES JUSTICE FOR HER DAUGHTER NOTHING LESS
Truth
They've always been jealous of us, no matter what you do for em.
So, so true ❤
He only killed her because he doesn’t want to pay Child Support, smh 🤦🏾♂️
The fact that he admitted that paying child support being one of his biggest fears shows that he wasn’t the brightest 🤦🏽♀️
What child support. You weren't even working.
He was living off her. Those 2.5 kids were eating into his $.
I agree. I was thinking the same thing 🤔
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I know, he was going to have to work.
They’re delusional losers. Always want to call someone a gold digger, when black women work MORE than them and support entire households. Pathetic and pitiful men
Unemployed men should never argue with the women who are taking care of them never
its rude and disrespectful and he should have been put out the house a long time ago the moment he opened his mouth the first time
he was a child in that home and should have behaved as one
I agree about him being put out a long time ago, but imho he did behave as a child…throwing a tantrum with a now lifetime timeout…yet he’s still alive. He should get the death penalty.
Exactly
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Majority of them are losers and are not real men. I will never ‘help a brotha out’
Preach
I'm crying so much for this mother. I was tormented at times with thoughts of something terrible like this happening to my family. I'm very sorry, and I thank GOD Marissa's mom has her grandbabies to keep her going. Please GOD bless and comfort this family as only YOU can🙏
Me too
This poor woman breaks my heart. The kids are angels. My niece was murdered by her estranged husband. He then committed suicide. The boys were raised by their grandparents. None of us knew he was a dangerous person. Know the warning signs. When you leave your abuser, change your routine. My niece didn't, which left her vulnerable. He knew when/where to get her.
Sorry to hear about your loss may she rest in peace but I always say that when someone ends up dead when they're being abused you have to move and relocate and change some things up
There's always signs. As you can see, it's always men who are willing to actually be with broken women. You know you're broken so any man willing to be with you all is likely unhinged. Of course you all don't want to accept this so it's always that yall didn't know.
@@myamia1772 ????? U think only unhinged men want this women. Blame yourself for being with an abuser and stop blaming MEN for your misfortunes.
Exactly 💯,u never know to many signs
@@trashbun2 you're the unhinged man I'm referring to...
Her poor mother hasn’t gotten any peace .. I can literally see the pain & suffering on her face every single time they show her. I pray her family, her mother especially, finds healing from the Lord. Amen.
The fact that he called his mother first says a lot.
This is what happens when you get into a relationship with a none ambitious narcissist. He did nothing, no income ever? She worked , paid all the bills , ha the whole family on health insurance , did all the things he was suppose to be doing as a man. She was a go getter, an achiever and he was lazy and jealous of her drive. This is very real. Those closest to you are sometimes the most jealous of every little progress you make in life. Even your ability to be happy in tough times. SMH. Honestly speaking, I don't think he loved her. His heart was somewhere else. DL energy written all over that 911 call. Pay attention.
🎯 DL and hiding behind this woman whom he resented and destroyed. It's almost a guarantee that these types turn out to be DL. Shameful brutes!
Agreed!!!! Another red flag.
@@astridl1848 you don’t know this to be true, so stop assuming. When you assume we’ll you know the rest
@Dennis Plum thank you
As SOON AS I heard his voice, I saw rainbows 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈👀
He doesn’t care. He destroyed an entire family and gets to live off the taxpayers smh
Exactly, he lived off of her first and he was concerned about paying child support.
It'll all be Ok.. Dude will be eating better then us this winter
So true this is heartbreaking. Why can’t these ppl just walk away from each other. It is so so disheartening. I worry & pray for my three daughters every day & side eye each guy their with.
@@acgillespie and never has to pay bills again smh
💯 agreed...what an absolute waste of space 😒. The destruction he caused and created is unimaginable. I hope he rots..
One shot is a "mistake"! 9 shots is MURDER plain and simple! Condolences to the young lady's family.
Being single is not that bad! People fear being lonely and tether themselves to people and relationships they don’t want to be in or can’t maintain. I feel for this family… 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Agreed, I understand your point BUT we can not judge everyone’s relationship in that way, not everyone is afraid to be lonely or alone. This Young Woman can’t tell her story. What we do know is mental illness is real, demonic oppression is real, and we all need following our instincts if something is off communicate with family and friends, her working while pregnant but he doesn’t do anything, that’s the greatest red flag. Unfortunately this baby at 24 years old will never have another chance.
I've been single and by myself 9 years these stories reaffirm my decision! These men just ain't worth it at all!Oh and before i became single my ex bf attacked me in front of my child and it traumatized him i was in the hospital he could've easily killed me during that attack. I could never bring another man around my son after that he was so scared and although at times i wanted to date I could never let my son feel fear like that again so i haven't. You have to sacrifice for your children. My son wouldn't have been okay with a man in our house .
Nah why would you feel the need to voice your opinion in this matter, YOU DONT HAVE A CLUE, what was going on in that house, and it's a lil disrespectful is what it is THE LADY HAS DIED, and here you come on ya high horse , SHAME ON YOU
Tbh, once she had his first kid, it sealed her fate. She would do what women typically do, work her behind off and excel academically and professionally. He probably would be out of the workforce and grow more jealous of her and take her life at some point out of share evilness.
@@gekamill YOU RE READ THIS!!!!!!
Second degree murder! This is sickening! It was absolutely first degree murder! He shot her 9 times! Are you kidding me?! No justice for this poor mother! He will be able to get out at some point, and he will do it again.
In order to convict on 1st degree murder, the prosecution must show prior intent. This case doesn't demonstrate that, it sounds like the heat of the moment actions in the midst of an argument. That's 2nd degree. Also, the number of times she was shot is irrelevant in determining what level of homicide is charged.
@@danielhartin7680 sounds like it is time to change these terms.
Tones of skin have ALOT to do about justice & injustice
@@sonofakebulan747 Shouldn't that mean that he gets more time??
@Tonette Lewis right
“He said she was never satisfied with anything he ever did?”
Sir! You did nothing! What are you talking about? You didn’t even provide for your seed! Disgusting.
I'm so sorry for her mother, and her kids.
So heartbreaking
I know exactly how it feels to lose a child and it is nothing I wish on anybody 😢I lost my adult firstborn to an unsolved homicide and although it’s been 9 yrs I still miss him like it has just happened. Nobody wants this to happen and it still does from soulless people… my prayers are with this mother and her children 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼
@@hildaibonillanazario1074 please accept my condolences,i am so sorry to hear that happened.
@@prettyangelm9086 thank you for your kindness, it is very much appreciated 🥰
The fact that she was taking care of HIM & the family on a medical assistant salary WAS INDEED a red flag. So at some point ladies, you have to ask yourself, what about yourself do you feel is undeserving of BETTER? Find your self-esteem and LIVE YOUR WORTH. Heartbreaking all around.
Yes, they were surviving because of her. Seems like this is going on too much in our communities. Get away from this ladies.
She was a preference that had a Trash Bag Struggle Dusty!! 🙄🤡
And men too if she doesn't have a job don't waste your time.
What a sorry excuse for a man. He started a family but couldn't hack it and didnt want to take on any responsibility. I have no sympathy for him whatsoever.
I will NEVER NEVER understand how anyone could harm, abuse and kill the person that birthed, nurture and support their children. May God bless, protect and shower Marissa's children and family with an abundance of love.
His biggest fear was to pay child support. What a shame!
@10 million Then he should've just get rid of himself.
That was my exhusband biggest fear too. I got out of that marriage. He has yet to pay a dime of the court ordered child support and has opted out of his child’s life. Was in the same situation as that poor young lady with the exception of the pregnancies every time I’d get pregnant I’d miscarry with the exception of one. When you leave ladies stay gone. What draws women back is the soul tie but those can be broken. Stay gone and get help to be safe and heal yourself and your children (if there are any involved).
He would have had to get a job . He was making babies with no plans to take care of of them.
He didn't plan on working noway that's a poor excuse for him to use he was Jealous more than anything
No that wasn't his fear. His fear happened when she told him. "I'm tired of you." "Grow Up."
He need the death penalty for killing this woman
My deepest sympathy goes out to this family, especially the children who are now left with no parents 😢
She chose to date the 13%, she got what she got.
@@nikkapubess3349 you're sick and evil
@@mrsjrenae4738 yeah I am, the 13% needs to be stopped
She was working full time and he stayed home.. WAS THE FIRST SIGN.. I’m serious and in that court room he shows lack of empathy. He used that young lady and held deep rooted anger and hid it well. The devil is busy 🙏🏽 Prayers for her family and God rest her soul🙇🏽♀️🌷
Keep dating 13%, this is what happens
@@nikkapubess3349 Yeah because there are NO stay at home dads in the world.
@@queenroyalty7550 The 13% is known to be violent and doesn't like to work.
@@nikkapubess3349 uh…
My neighbor was the same way. He had a luxury car, wife had a regular car. She even had a young child. Meanwhile, he stayed home while she worked full-time in the medical field. He wore all of the latest clothes and new shoes to match each outfit.
Ive noticed the women always work in the medical field for some reason.
These men definitely have demons attached.
Yall got me crying this morning. My heart goes out to this mama
There is no telling how much torture he was putting her through in secret. She may have told him she was leaving for good. He wasn't quiet, he was calculating. He was abusing her in many ways, but kept those babies close to his side to manipulate Marissa. Yeah, he had a demon in him and he embraced his!!! He was about to lose his Narcissist Supply, so if he couldn't have her and control her he was absolutely going to destroy her. He was NEVER a parent he was their Overseer. He imprisoned her, and pimped her out to support him economically. He is NOT sorry! He is NOT remorseful! He wanted to kill her and he wanted the last memory of those children to be of Terror! He is a NARCISSISTIC TERRORIST!!! Stop pacifying insanity and abuse.
That's exactly 💯 spot on what this is.
You are absolutely correct 👍 💯
Wow
Amen, Sis.
I agree I am sooooooooooo tired of hearing mental issues ain’t nothing wrong with him but evilness and demonic activity
She was so beautiful and look just liked her mom. 🙏🙏🙏. So sorry for your loss 😔
There’s many relationships like this. Jealous men and women who take care of them instead of RUNNING. Be careful ladies.
“You’re sure she’s dead?” I’m positive he made sure she was dead because that’s what he wanted! 🤦🏽♀️ What an evil, hateful spirit. May that beautiful lady rest well and may those babies never remember that horrible day.
Amen
Now he can tell his man 👨🏾 that he keeps going back to prison to be with, that it is just the two of them now, for life together…In prison.
Grandma is a good woman. You can tell she doesn’t want to even say anything bad about the kids’s dad. The question is why would he do this.. smh. I’m heartbroken for her, may peace & love always surround this family
I suspect he was a quiet ticking time bomb that she did not see.
Either he was not built to be a stay at home Dad or.his role was not respected (which I suspect is the case). So he was likely not feeling like a man or meeting his goals.
He felt that power for a brief moment at the expense of her life.
@@tanyagivens4338 his role? As a father or?
A little confused as he didn't even appear to have done that well enough.
What kind of good father keeps a gun out in the open especially with his children and others about??
This is not really directed at you, but I'm just upset that this coward thought a great idea was to kill his children's mother.
Smh
I dont think he wanted anymore children,sad to say. What man with his family is thinking about child support,unless he is planning on leaving or getting put out.
@@okeydokey9693 indeed. Good question and angle. Definitely worth a good thought.
However there are reasonable solutions to that. Not one of them includes this senseless act of violence.
Now those children that he may have decided to keep to himself have to suffer this heartbreak twice.
Such a coward
Yes she is.
That’s what the problem is hooking up with a man who does nothing
Single and child-free ain't bad people!! I feel terrible for the family of the victim. Now, both children have lost two parents. He didn't want to provide and when she told him to dip, he flipped. RIP angel.
Will NEVER marry any of them or have their babies
@Mother Ship, "THEM" Please elaborate. PLEASE speak clearly so we can all understnd what you truly mean.
@@DarknessFalls29 we understand
@@DarknessFalls29 MALES! What was hard to understand! MALES!!! So glad women are choosing to remain free from male entrapment from marriage and children.
@@Uke2405 Mmm. Ok
What a monster. He wasn't regretful at all fr fr.
They never are regretful. Some even seem to have a satisfying look after they do their evil deeds.
Not at all didnt show one ounce of remorse
@@Lovelylady47 true
You women love these monsters....choose wisely
@@jimbrown4404 eww 🤢🤮 yeaaaa no.
My heart goes out to this mother and her grandchildren. I can only imagine the grief they’re going through. May God bless them and help them through this tragedy.
Ladies please please be careful. There are warning signs. Never ignore the warning signs. After everything you do for these type of men means absolutely nothing. They will take your life and even the life of the children you share with him without even a thought or remorse.
This joker didn’t want to pay child support. Why was she letting him live in the house an not working? Sad
Exactly
Because we all were once young that’s why she let him live there rent free
@@sonofakebulan747 Yup. Many people just want to keep their families intact-sometimes, at the cost of their lives. When a relationship is on and off again, it is usually volatile.
I wouldn’t had no kids from him so pretty much all the responsibility was on her to take care of the kids without any help from him smh
Sadly it happens often.
How could he a gun but don't have a job. Wow Rest In Peace Young Angel.
I'm just sorry for the kids. The adults who make awful decisions with their lives and need to drag innocent children into this demonic mess.
Best comment!
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Be in your kids lives y’all are the reason these boys are this way
@@tyriexs5 How you know his dad wasnt around?
@@chronic8660 Because he is black
Perhaps he can "black out" for the term of his prison sentence. I find it offensive when evil people use that to excuse what they have done. I am so sorry for the pain that he has caused, for the two beautiful young lives that ended violently, and that those other two beautiful babies are without their mother. It is, however, a great blessing that they are not growing up in the care of someone who is so volatile and cruel!!! May the God of Heaven bless all who are hurting as a result of this tragedy.
And they always say that. "I blacked out."
@@meddeck .Because it's the Truth! - Satan comes to Steal, Kill & Destroy - And is a master of Sedation of the mind - Pray you never get a personal education on that for yourself
He's a narcissistic sociopath - no doubt about it!
@@acgillespie I know I wouldn't because I believe in personal accountability and not making excuses trying to blame some mythical creatures for my wrong doing.
Exactly, I believe they remember each and every second...the mind has a way of categorizing every second of traumatic events so I definitely believe they remember.
Man didn’t want any more children. Relationship on the rocks and that child support was going to be monster.
What child support? He didn't work in the whole 4 years they were together. You can't get blood from a stone.
*If* there were red flags????
Jobless and living off his girlfriend’s (modest) salary🚩Antisocial behavior around the family🚩Has nobody else in his life except his mother🚩Having 2 break ups but also 3 children in 4 years🚩
The signs were there, the problem is that people often don’t take them seriously until it’s too late.
That's not true. I have no family and I wouldn't kill anyone. Plus ppl give other chances. She had kids with him.
I mean there were definitely signs he was no good but none of what you listed would make you think he was a violent murderer
@@MsHottiz Yes, it would… That’s the point.
@@carmenrosec And look what those chances got her. What’s your point?
@@carmenrosec you're right about that to a degree, but she is right completely. Those are warning signs and you are never obligated to give a potential partner a chance when you notice something is off. Check your self worth because that should never be questioned.
This would have been my story if I didn't get myself and my baby out! Thank God for her Mom, those kids will be taken care of by family. RIP 😍
Mines too😔
Yes!!! Me too or prison. Thank you Jesus!!!
Same.
So glad you did get out safely. God bless you!
Me too, the sad thing l never filed any complaints against my husband. I was ashamed of the abuse and told no one. . Thank God l moved out when he went to work. As l tell my daughters, when a man hit you once leave, it will happen agsin.
Jealousy is the key of this story and also inner demons he probably been dealing with for along time
Not even just jealousy. She was the reason he had clothes, food, a roof over his head, everything. She wanted to leave and he murdered her b/c all that was going to be gone and he'd have to do for himself for once. The entire 4 years together he never worked. SMH.
I feel so sad for that grieving mom and her beautiful grandchildren. I think he meant to kill her. Because he said she reached for the gun they said it’s no evidence that she reached for the gun. We have to pray for our generation of children. The Bible tells us that these days will be coming
He probably threatened her and she tried to get it before he did
no job, but had a gun, wonder WHO? paid for that?!
@@looknbakatu probably her who knows
Sick Demonic Monster Death Penalty
Tiffany these days are already here. Whats sad is that its gonna get worse. Blessings to you & your family.
Never get a broke, broken young fool.
MAY SHE REST IN ETERNAL PEACE. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER CHILDREN AND HER FAMILY.
That is a lot of hate and angry! Nine bullets !
Right. I betcha they was arguing over money. She took care him and babies for 4 years. SMDH
Probably because the victim destroyed his ego and manhood. Calling him for what he is.
@@SouthSideLadyWright The victim didn't destroy him. He destroyed himself.
You can look at him & tell he's off mentally & spiritually. Sometimes there are never signs but there is always a GUT FEELING about a person. Never ignore your gut.
Period!!!!
Absolutely. Sometimes its a build up inside and you never know.
Domestic violence is a terrible thing no one likes to admit they're going through it, if something is going on say something do something. Because there's no way that this man shot her nine times but can only remember one. That's a narcissist a psychopath a person with no empathy no compassion and a liar. Praying for her family keep her memory alive 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Teach the boys/girls that Rejection is part of life. Disheartening and heartbroken 💔 😞 😔 😢 😪
My mom says this all of the time. She says this generation doesn't know how to take rejection...they just flip and it is very true. This is an extremely sick individual. O don't believe it to be a sudden occurance. I think he was thinking about killing her for quite some time.
I literally cried while watching the mother, my heart weeps for you and your family..thank you for bringing awareness to this situation.. Your daughter is resting peacefully because of your love of her!!
I am a mother, my heart ACHES for the mother! The whole family, the kids too but especially the mother because I can NOT image that pain! So sad and sorry this happened!
This is how a loving, caring, grieving mother that truly loves her daughter acts. RIP BABY GIRL & RIP KIELY RODNI
This makes no sense but condolences to the mom
Yes...this is how a grieving mother looks...and has difficulty speaking...her words are chopped, and broken like her heart 💔. She does not look and sound as if she or her family has been rehearsing for 15 minutes of poised, calm, aloof press conference fame with a team of attorneys and someone taking notes for the book and it's movie rights! I pray that the angels hold this "mommy" inside of soft, comforting wings and Heaven's Promise of Eternal Life.
@@day1light167 I’m sure neither one of y’all have experienced losing a child guess what I have! And my moods weren’t always like this! My trauma response was actually to “freeze” for almost a year where I didn’t talk or engage with people at all..yes she’s grieving but to say this is what grieving mothers look like is a wrong blanket statement
@@Lisa-xu3cl That's my opinion and I am sticking to both grieving mother and the detached, removed contrast in the same or similar proximity to the time and manner of the death. Accidental vs.Heinous Murder. 2 days or 2 years since that death. I do not have to have personally lost a child to know empathy, compassion, heartache, heartbreak, and the precious value of life. I find it alarming when a child has been brutally murdered and the news reporter is sad, the police is angry, and the DA is crying.. BUT the mother is not "feeling it" And giving MLK speeches in front of media cameras. As for your own tragic loss...its pain... prayers for you...always...God Bless.
Kiely rodni?
A lot of people in abusive relationships never call the police or tell other people. But I guarantee he was a uaive to her.
You read too much media and newspaper that was 60 years ago small town stuff you can't get away with that nowadays there are no closed doors nowadays with cell phones then walls and people everywhere,, the facts you mentioned are the fake backs that the media and the government will tell you so that they can act as their innocent with their hands tied,, all relationships are abusive one way or another,, we didn't have this problem when you could not divorce in this nation,, but the Fig eaters with the little caps have drove this nation's laws down the drain for their financial benefit and profit,, you see people save money when they are married but if the people with a little caps can convince them otherwise they will make money in that divorce in the court proceedings and with you having to live alone in a single apartment filing as a single person on your taxes is what they want we want to be
He definitely beat her.
Can't believe their are ppl that don't believe we need the death penalty in every state. This is one case here
Shot 9 times all a mistake struggled to reach for the gun? Don't buy it , was intentional please ask that hypocrite why he shot her
“2nd degree murder” “25 to 50 years”. I just don’t understand the system. He will probably be out in 10 years. I don’t think it’s fair or right. He gets to at some point walk and live, and this beautiful young lady can’t. Not the mention the unborn baby. This young thug of a man should not see life EVER!!!!! I’m praying for the mother and the entire families. RIP
I hope not.
The Justice System is a JOKE,,,! He should never see the light of day.
@@tawnyt26 Neither should pedos.
Not if the family shows up to every parole hearing.
Usually when they say 25 to 50 years or 25 to life, 25 years will be the minimum no matter what.
I hope this guy got life in prison with no possibility of parole
I’m so scared to date again. My last boyfriend was extremely verbally abusive. It never got physical but once he tried to hit me I left. I don’t understand how you can be so evil to someone you claim to love and lay next to everyday. RIP💓 may the Might Comforter Jesus be with her family
@paradigm shifting I am so happy you left and never stuck around to suffer in the name of love.
I'm glad you never stayed with someone that was damaged " keep moving forward you are loved by the one who created you. Know you are special and pray for him to send you the right person/people who will up lift you . Continue to be strong and safe 🙏 ❤️🌹🙏
Take your time and think hard about who you date ask questions look up his record
@@Voidconfig555 look up her record too
This is beyond sad. You can tell by the conditions of the home that it wasn’t a very healthy environment…instead of being a man, father, supporter and having a job instead he takes his frustrations out on a pregnant woman who can’t hardly defend herself. We all know there are red flags and signs we get, that’s what woman’s intuition is truly about. Either way, I’m saddened by the fact the grandmother is left to raise her daughters children & the babies won’t ever get to know their mother. It’s a vicious cycle we seem to not be able to break in ALL communities across the US. God bless the family & I hope the children are shielded by loved ones in some form from all of this for now…
Exactly!(did he harm the unborn baby ?)this is sad
You want to tell me he couldn’t get a job in Target there are paying 18 dollars per hour.
This is such a tragedy. Lord hold her children and family in your loving arms.
It’s heartbreaking to hear this mother say she didn’t want her daughter to be alone! When my father died in January that’s all my mom thought too was she didn’t want to leave my dad alone so she stayed at the hospital until my dad’s body was taken out of the room and she stayed at the mortuary with him on the day of his viewing from the time he was brought out until it was time for us to leave already. It’s so hard to let go of your loved ones ❤
Oh this brought a tear to my eye. My worst fear is losing a family member and to leave them, cold and alone for the last time. I guess we’ve just gotta remember, they’re not in there anymore ♥️😢 it’s going to happen. I’m the youngest. But I also had a severe drug problem so this has been a fear of my family’s as well, we all have to face that pain at some point but jeez this is unimaginable isn’t it 💔
Woww, that was soo sad and heartbreaking my condolences to you and family your mom really loved her husband,i pray she's finds peace and happiness..🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
Sorry for your lost and I did the same thing at my daughter wake. I didn’t want to even leave.
The sad thing is that no matter how much awareness is out there, and the signs are taken lightly some women believe they won’t be the one that it happens to. “It happens to other women” I pray that this story does help
Moma can’t help you
Men that don’t abuse women are in the minority and women refuse to face the facts
Exactly. Everyone thinks that something like this could not possibly happen in their family or in their relationship, but it does!
He wasn't crying cos his girlfriend was dead, he was crying cos he knew he was in trouble.....but his crying sounded forced and fake. I am so heartbroken for her family. Seeing her mom cry like that made me bawl my eyes out more. I can't believe he would commit such a horrid act. Especially with it being his own girlfriend. I could see a person trying to defend their family and going a little overboard but, this???? Nah huh. He deserves EVERYTHING that he gets and people in prison don't take kindly to people that hurt children, or pregnant women. He's definitely going to be someone's bi+ch, and/or victim.
If her story makes one person think twice abt they're own situation and leave in time, it's already saved life. ♥️ Peace and strength to her family, she's obviously so very missed.
All this pain for a little boy who wanted to ‘play house’ but didn’t want to support said house. Shameful. RIP young mommy. Life taken way too soon.
There is virtue in waiting for the proper time and circumstances before starting a family a little later instead of this.
Amen to that mama!
he didnt want the house that why he killed her. Killed her to be free
I just went and had a talk with my daughter. I told her any time you’re in a situation where the conversation is getting heated to do what you need to do to get out of that situation. That heat of the moment situation can be real and overwhelming for people when they don’t have a high level of emotional intelligence. I hate to say it though: the signs were there - he was comfortable with his woman working to support him and their children; He was comfortable with her being the man of the house until she started to resent that position and showed it in her demeanor towards him; The fact that he was standoffish at the family events was also a sign. And then him saying that he only had two people in his life shows he didn’t have many friends that would check his behavior if it was off. It was almost like all of this was a recipe for disaster. The fact that he called his mother before he even called her gives me a little bit more indication that he is used to women taking care of the tough situations. I feel so bad for her mom and I can only imagine if my daughter ever chooses someone like this to take up with. I know as a mom you can only say so much so even if she did see the signs, it likely would’ve been impossible for her to get her away from
him until she was ready. Praying for her family
Good analysis
So interesting the narrator claims there were no signs of this couple being in trouble. The pictures alone speak volumes...
The 1st mistake was dating, sleeping and having children, with a do nothing with his life man. Women no matter the race have to choose better men, if you see the signs move on. Stop thinking to have children going to solve, laziness and you're doing all the work. Stop wasting your life on these jail/prison/criminal/angry men, you're his lifeline and his mother. This story like others is sad once you see the signs in his behavior, let him or her go because some women have the same behavior. Only deletion comes while he or she take the coward way to prison to live.
True. What made her even date or involve her self with him. Loser . You can not heal a lazy man. Now he pumped her up with 9 bullets. The thought of being shot over and over until you die by the joker you cared for for years
Men with good jobs be killing and beating their wives too. It ain't about the job or money he has, it's deeper than tht.
These young women will never learn I’m single 24 no kids 2yr degree In applied science make 79k a year live alone and yet the girl will still take a dude with 4 kids over me! Iv seen it!
This should be the highlighted comment - right on you said exactly!
In my opinion, I feel like women have been socially conditioned since childhood to be “the sanctuary” for men, despite their class, character and social standing in life. From the elders in families to pop culture. Women have been told to look past the “shallow stuff” and judge men based off of their character.
Sometimes, looking and judging off of the “shallow stuff” can save women from experiencing heartache.
How do you accidentally shoot someone 3x he meant to kill her. No bonds please!!!
Young women please listen, any time a man is not working, that is a red flag! It means he is lazy and a narcissist! Leave!! It can become abusive, when you are doing everything by yourself, get out of the relationship, he is using you
Two children now have no parents,how do you feel?
This guy is a coward and heartless. He took her life for nonsense over an argument as a man just leave the house.
Jesus, this hurts. I feel your pain. Losing a child this young, so viciously, is beyond heartbreaking...
May God comfort you and the family...the children.
He MURDERED His Kids Mama Why They Where In The House, Just CRAZY, He Knew What He Was Doing 😡😠🤬HEARTBREAKING 💔
....not when "DEMONS" are involved
Exactly......
Come on Now, She broke up with him Twice he Wasn't working I wonder why??? Always arguing,ENOUGH FLAGS RIGHT THERE and you have a gun theae ladies need to WAIT on the LORD everyday they are getting killed by these DEMONIC INDIVIDUALS!!!!!!!!
@@bryandurgan8913 Right!!! people don't realized how serious this is.. No one can be in a relationship leave GOD out of it. demons go for the mind, they need a body to kill and destroy. John 10:10
And not only while they were in the house, but while they were in the same ROOM. That makes it even more gut wrenching. I haven’t been able to calm my heart when they said that sentence.
@@bryandurgan8913 Y’all love to blame everything but these men
GLAD I left my situation 🙏🏽
So sorry this happened. She didn’t deserve to die especially NOT like that ❤️🩹. Prayers and my deepest condolences to the families ❤️❤️🩹🙏🏽
This was a tragic situation my heart goes out to the family
Women and men need to learn how to love themselves enough to want better..walk away it will be ok.
I cried wen the mother said “y would u shoot somebody that many times in front of their kids” I’m rly feeling it and that is a question that nobody can’t answer or have an explanation for😢😭
This is my biggest fear. To lose someone I love to domestic violence. This is so sad . Praying for this family , for the mom who is crying missing her beloved child. For the kids who lost their mom.