WORST Of TikTok Fake Disorder Cringe Videos 😬
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- WORST Of TikTok Fake Disorder Videos
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Love you Ablaze!!
Every sixty seconds, a minute passes in Africa!
@@utbdoug same as in Alaska.
SMASH THAT LIKE BUTTON TO BELITTLE ALL DISABLED PEOPLE OUT THERE!!!!!!!!!
Multiple trains of thought = BPD?? When other people said ‘no thoughts, just vibes’ , that gal really thought they were being literal 🤦♀️
Hey, chef scout ! How are you doing ?
True Retro how have you been and how is Ablaze?
omg hiiii it's my favorite ableist who doesn't know what she's talking about hiii
@@nightskykitty what
@@Kwepsi retro phantom, and ablaze are both ableists who rarely know what they're talking about
I’ve been diagnosed with many disorders and seeing people think it’s cute is awful. It’s not trendy. It’s not an aesthetic. It’s not fun. Thank you ablaze and Retro Phantom for making light of this and bring an entertaining twist to it. ❤️
I'm going to make a little assumption... if you're diagnosed with several things you're having a tough time. I'm old. It can get better. Everything can get better
@@MSANTHR0P3 Thanks I appreciate it. I’m getting help for them and learning to take care of myself.
@@Creativelife1031 good. You're important enough to get help. Please remember that disorders will tell you things that are not true. There can be brightness at the end of the tunnel of mental health. I've been happily married for 11 years and have tons of happy kids (almost all adopted from foster care). This is what I wanted for my life, and I never thought I'd have it. I'm proof that with hard work, you can overcome anything. You've got this. ❤️
Feels, I have a few things as well ADHD being one of them. I've been diagnosed since 3rd grade and I remember wanting to feel normal and resentful that I wasn't. I'm slowly accepting that part of me but it takes time. If it because of tough times, stay strong. They will eventually pass and sometimes they will comeback but you'll be strong then you where before.
Agre...my brother was a schizophrenic and lived through hxxx with it. Never once did he act like it was something cool. He learned how to try to handle it the best he could with meds. He passed away 9/18/21 and I miss him dearly
That second girl is just describing EVERYONE's inner monologue. Didn't think we had to explain to that generation that you can "talk" to yourself and it doesn't mean you're insane! Sheesh!!
I keep finding tiktoks that say if you have that thing it means you have ADHD.
It's just a bunch of bullcrap, unless your toughs are suicidal or anxiety driven ones then I would be concerned and seak for professional help.
I've read that some people don't have an inner monologue, so maybe those are the people who are confused lol
@@sweetheart_cosplays my sister doesnt and it hurts to think about it too much because im so curious how does she think????
@@sweetheart_cosplays i think its more you can have one or you just dont, i have it but i've had friends who dont, these are also the same friends who remember things more "data" like than me who remembers things more "visually" like. so while they are great at test taking cause they remember info easily, i have the problem of remembering where the info was located on the the slide or page but then not the info its self.
I have diagnosed BPD which is what she said she has and I do understand what's she's trying to describe but she's describing it badly. Like everybody has multiple trains of thought at one time, that's a basic human thing, but with BPD it's more that those trains of thought don't feel like they're actually coming from you. Definately doesn't make you insane at all, it isn't like other people talking to you it's more like your brain is trying to harass you into shutting down, which is a thing people with BPD do a lot. I don't think I even described it right but it is slightly different 😊
I’m just wondering how many years it will take to undo the damage done by these fakers. It’s honestly just dismal.
Bro I feel bad for anyone who ACTUALLY has DID after this shit. It's a rare disorder.
we'll probably have multiple adult people with untreated/undiagnosed mental disorders because they thought they had DID or BPD diagnosed by TikTok
They made me lose 50 brain cells
Asking someone where they got their system is literally like asking them to tell you about the traumatic events that formed it…. not something most people are comfortable publicizing on social media
@@Raya-ir4tm " I got Juno at Target, he was on sale!"
@@landonkam6727 "I went amazon shopping. Got free shipping since my order was over $25."
@@valentinewilson3600 "How haven't I thought of that, it's genius! I'll be sooooooo quirky with a ficticious catboy Jeff Besos alter!"
It’s a good way to weed out those faking. Those who are faking happily create stories about it and post them.
@@bexica5676 honestly kinda feels like they’re using it as a creative outlet more than anything. and i’m all for young people expressing their creativity but they’re doing it in a way that is harmful to both them (by surrounding themselves with people who contribute to a confirmation bias) and to others by a) making it much harder for people who actually have this disorder to be taken seriously and b) portraying a stereotypical and false representation of how the disorder manifests itself. and rather than just making a normal oc they choose to pretend that oc is an actual alter, often because it makes them feel like they’re being unique rather than just creating ocs in the normal way, they want to try to stand out
The woman describing trains of thought is 100% having a manic episode.
it's almost like she has a mental disorder 🤔
oh absolutely. her body language and speech made it really clear
how is that a manic episode.. she’s just seems like a bubbly/hyper/happy person is that not normal? /gen
@@shiruki8974 ?????
I was diagnosed 17 years ago with bipolar disorder. I know it when I see it.
I am a type 2 bipolar with massive rage fits and occasional ticking due to medication. I will be firm and say it is a tick NOT Tourette’s. And it pisses me off when people misrepresent what bipolar or BPD is.
It makes me feel so sick people talking shit out there ass about a disorder I have! Ugh... isn't it bad enough with the stigma our disorders get? And now these people making it worse.
@@Intoxicatingaxe EXACTLY
I dont wish BPD on anyone. Shit is agonizing
I have both Bipolar 2 and BPD. It's the worst shit ever. The bipolar is like a climate that changes between a gloomy world to bright and wonderful back and forth, and the BPD is like the weather, the storms that come through, and you never know if it's gonna be thunder, or a tornado, or rain, you name it. The bipolar is horrible because, type 2 tends to have the worse depression out of the Bipolar types. Like, really horrible. I spent two months breaking down every single day. Likewise, BPD is horrible because the emotional dysregulation can be so bad that it's literally gotten me into a lot of trouble at my jobs and has ruined many otherwise wonderful relationships that I have had. Bipolar is not cool. BPD is not cool.
@@argentodawg that last part about jobs hit a little too close. Im a line cook and get very easily enraged (and we know what BPD rage is like) i come out of it feeling so embarrassed and guilty. Im so fortunate the place doesnt take anything seriously , otherwise they would lose a lot of employees. Im stressed right now, so the mood swings are more rapid.
Those racing thoughts she's describing at the beginning sound more like bipolar than anything else. They tend to happen during the "high" (manic) phase
@Leah Bordeaux I was just thinking that. People with ADD/ADHD tend to have overwhelming, overlapping thoughts. Someone else in this comment section also mentioned that BPD is comorbid with ADD, so there might be something there.
@Leah Bordeaux I really need to be tested bc I have a lot of things going on that could be bpd, adhd/add, or autism :(
They sound like normal thoughts anyone has.
As someone with bpd we also go through that, we have mania, only because there’s no other word for it right now, and it’s similar but different if that makes sense and that’s exactly how I am. Like her in the video.
@@Meowowmeow I was gonna say the same thing. A lot of people with bpd may seem like they’re faking, but it really is like that.
This is what happens when you don’t tell your kids that they aren’t as special as they wish they were
No, this isn't a result of not emotionally abusing your child. This is actually more likely a result of these children's parents NOT giving them enough attention, and validation as a parent. So they seek it out on the internet.
You're not actually supposed to just sit your child down one day, and say "You're not special, Timmy. Fuck off." You're suppose to raise them to be people with a healthy self esteem. Which means realistic, healthy levels of confidence. That's something that is achieved through active, and attentive parenting. Not telling your kids they suck.
@@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother this.
@@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother 👍
What pisses me off about the whole "singlet" thing is that before the TikTok attention whores got their hands on it, it was honestly just a neutral term used in DID non-medical literature (self help, experience diaries, etc etc) that meant..."someone who doesn't have DID". That was literally it. It got shortened from "singleton", and it was never used as a slur or an insult, just as a word to differentiate people (ie, "your singleton friends may have questions, so be patient with them", so on). The word that was used for a non-DID person who was being an ass was "sniglet", at least online for a tiny bit, but "singlet/on"? TOTALLY. NEUTRAL. There are multiple books published containing the term. You'd think these assholes would get the vernacular down before they decide to ape someone else's disorder, ffs.
did u just say singlet is a slur 😭😭
@@heartclouds ...no? Just that the fakers use it like a slur? 🤔
Singleton is a term for when someone gives birth to one child rather than twins, triplets, etc.
@@FrenkTheJoy it's that, too. :)
Hi, someone with BPD here 👋 girl it’s called mood liability, impulsive thoughts, and rapid changes in self values and identities…like did she not get the handout or???? Embarassing us smfh
true that. clearly dosent have it. ud be told exactly what is it, some even get handouts from their doctor of what it is alonbe with their treatment plans. i have diganosed bpd and that girl was anoying to me. u right embarassing us
@@connorrousseau9972 I have diagnosed BPD and my doctor told me absolutely nothing about it. All I knew is that I have it 🤣 Everything I've learned was self researched.
Yes! That's what I've been trying to describe but I have trouble finding my words sometimes lol, I think she just didn't describe it very well and that confused everybody else!
@@connorrousseau9972 I have diagnosed BPD and unfortunately my doctor gave me no information on it. He offered me the different types of therapy, which I haven't had the chance to try yet but I didn't get given any info 😅 all my info is from researching myself and talking to other people with BPD ❤️
@@missbubblybee4086 v
Girl: DID is voices in your head telling u how crap u r, or bringing up bad situations.
ME: Its called depression, & bipolar. OR U R A HUMAN BEING!
Thank you. I was just thinking that.
You know they be faking when they say its the same voice 👀 a huge thing that separates DID from just a inner voice is that the voices are clearly not your own
I thought she said bpd
she didn’t say it was DID but yeah
She said BPD but BPD and bipolar do actually have some overlapping symptoms and BPD can be comorbid with anxiety, depression or bipolar. IF this person actually has BPD, it could mean that she is also comorbid with some of these other mental illnesses and just doesn't know how to differentiate between the symptoms.
"Let's confuse the normies."
I've got lots of issues, but I'm just as confused by this as everyone else. Also I wish I was a normie. I can't say I'd be insulted if someone called me that.
No one wants to be mentally ill. And they shouldn't either.
When u want to be mentally ill, that's when u know something is greatly WRONG with you. And it's NOT a disorder
I'm diagnosed with quite a few mental health disorders due to a very traumatic upbringing (abandonment, various forms of abuse, medical trauma, etc) and I used to get genuinely furious over these kinds of videos of people faking disorders, or claiming on social media as an excuse/justification for abusive behavior. At this point I'm so used to it I don't get mad, it's just so hilariously stupid to me. It's sad that we're in 2022 and we've devolved this far in society.
what's worse... ablaze and retro phantom have no clue what they're talking about, people faking and then people who ride the clout...
@@nightskykitty Yeah it's always struck me as hypocritical that they're criticising the fakers for trying to profit off of mental health trends when they do the same thing, in the same medium. Like...pot calling the kettle black? Time for a little self awareness, maybe. It's not wrong to criticise the fakers, but talking as if you come from a place of real understanding with these disorders/medical degrees you ALSO do not have isnt really any safer or more credible.
@@nightskykitty That's not to say I don't want them to succeed on UA-cam or anything, I still support the videos I'm interested in, they're well done imo.
@@spookiis thank you! yes. I agree that them speaking about this with a hounding lack of ANY sort of apparent creditability is extremely dangerous and will bite them in the ass soon. Ablaze, retro phantom, good job misinformationing the next generation and pinning them against disabled people again! we really needed it =)
@@spookiis To each their own, i suppose. I respect it. I do hope though that the damage they've done catches up fast enough with them so that no one person can be blamed on their lack of success in the future and no further damage gets done. Maybe Ablaze and Retro phantom will find a more dignified way to release content then.
So as someone with Borderline, I can say that the girl in that orange hat did more or less describe something that I do go through as well as other people (all medically recognized and not through TikTok) with BPD go through. Her phrasing wasn't great, but it is hard to explain. I'm not sure if she's faking it or not, and it's definitely not a certain diagnosis if you go through something like that, but it is a symptom/trait.
Omg my toddler seems to have multiple thoughts at once a lot. She must have different personalities.
We can start her DID account early now that I know. You'll see the switches when apple juice comes out, it's a trigger.
🤣
My niece (4) and nephew (3) speak to each other in tongues. I think you’re onto something here. Should I whip out my DSM-5 and diagnose them myself?
She was saying she has BPD not did 😊 borderline personality disorder is a different thing. It's a lot more common actually, I have an official diagnosis for it but the thing she described isn't just a BPD thing. She also described it really badly which is why it sounds like she's describing an inner monologue. I hope this helps 😊
Fun fact: peoples who's suffering of a disability, disorder or a specific illness will try the best they can to be like "the normies" or be "normal" because they feel different. Its a sad but natural behavior.
When peoples who need attention or looking for their personnality, will try to be "different", or stay away of anything that is "normal" for them. Because they want to be special and unique.
What I think is funny is that did is so exceedingly rare that some professionals don't even think it really exists
The only time you’ll see another person outta me is if you text me past 10pm
I appreciate this underrated, relatable, and funny comment!
Lol I actually do have borderline personality disorder and it's NOTHING like what she said lol. It makes me upset when they say things like this and trivialize what it is because I've been dealing with this for over 20 years and its been such a hard thing to deal with because I've lost friends, boyfriends and even family members over it. It's not a cool quirky thing to have and if I could get rid of it I would in a heartbeat because of all the pain it's caused me and others in my life. Fortunately, I have an amazing husband who understands why I do the things I do and has been the only person to not give up on me. :)
Same here for maybe 15 years, hang in there! 😄 I also dont experience what video bpd person seems to be talking about, but who knows maybe some people do, I never bothered to search much about bpd
@@andreramos8194 lol unfortunately all the women in my family have it so i kinda knew a lot about it before i even knew i had it lol
I have BPD and I do experience what she’s talking about but it’s pretty common with a lot of disorders, including ADHD
I have BPD too, I do think she had good intent but she did a very bad job of describing it 😅 I have a similar symptom but I think it's comes more from my anxiety and BPD interacting with each other than anything else. I understand your frustration tho!
The woman talking about BPD wasn't saying having thoughts means you have BPD. She was describing racing thoughts, which is a symptom of a lot of mental illnesses. I understand people faking disorders IS a problem, but not every time someone talks about mental illness are they faking or trying to diagnose people.
Yes I could relate to her ( I have cptsd)
Racing thoughts and multiple trains of thought is something most people have and is not tied to any disorder or even being neurodivergent.
@@kjstormy3682 Many symptoms of mental illnesses are experienced by neurotypical people in their lives. It's when these symptoms add up and are persistently causing the person distress that it becomes a mental illness.
I think the way she explained the thought process wasn’t really in line with BPD. Racing thoughts are very common for many disorders such as anxiety. BPD has not just racing thoughts but INTRUSIVE and IMPULSIVE thoughts as well as irrational thoughts. She didn’t really explain it correctly.
I think the way she explained the thought process wasn’t really in line with BPD. Racing thoughts are very common for many disorders such as anxiety. BPD has not just racing thoughts but INTRUSIVE and IMPULSIVE thoughts as well as irrational thoughts. She didn’t really explain it correctly.
As someone suffering from shitty brain shit, these kinds of people make it even harder for me to come forward to a Dr for fear they will think I'm someone like this. Thinking thoughts and having emotions isn't a disorder, being a hyper young adult is not a disorder and these people make me feel like what's going wrong for me is just a joke.
As someone who suffered for literally the first two decades of my life with berating myself with, "I'm just being lazy; I just need to try harder; if I can focus on video games and TV shows I can focus on homework/chores; there's nothing wrong with me but being a loser," I *MUST* implore you to seek help anyway, despite your fears. When I was finally diagnosed with ADHD, it was such a relief and I regretted wasting so much time fighting with myself, not allowing myself to believe there was anything wrong with me.
I guarantee you that a reputable doctor _will_ be able to tell you are genuinely struggling and be able to diagnose you accurately as long as you're honest and forthcoming with everything you're going through. Pro Tip: Something most people don't know is that you should never stick with any healthcare professional if you just don't vibe with them, especially mental health. If the first doc you see doesn't quite connect with you, see another. So many people won't do that because they think it's rude and will insult the doctor. It won't. On the off-chance it does, it means that doctor isn't a good one.
Please don't wait to seek help. Untreated mental health issues only get worse, and it'll be the biggest most damaging regret of your life. I wish you the best of luck!
@@Grumblesnort thank you so much for the support and encouragement! It's the little things like this that really do help me get over the fear that I'm just going to be ignored or laughed at ^W^
My mind fucks with me all the time to the point I dont feel like myself and I am just starting to open up more to my therapist, friends, and even asking for help. These fakers are making things worse especially since they literally have no idea how terrifying it can be or questioning if I am over exaggerating or if any of what I experience is genuine with constantly asking people if this or that is "normal".
I will say I completely understand the fear of being told I’m just, lying. Or being lazy.
When the doctor turned around and told me she didn’t think I was faking at all I remember breaking down and crying. It was the most relieving part of my life, so even if you aren’t sure there’s a problem, but you think there might be. There’s no harm in at least getting checked by a licensed professional. If it’s not a mental disorder it could be something else, and if it is a mental disorder- you can get the help you need. I wish you the best with it!
Honestly i came away from that first clip thinking they'd straight up abducted a kid... Anyone else?
Also "my Alter has Autism" *immediately does the "spaz hands"* i just can't with these kids rn.
What a beautiful day to be a singlet.
As someone who disassociates (I do not have DID I just experience disassociation due to trauma), these people glamorize it SO MUCH. First off you cannot control it in any way shape or form, it hits you when you experience something triggering. And it’s not fun, it’s not just spacing out either. For me it feels as if I’m watching myself as a shell of myself. I don’t feel emotions, I’m vaguely aware of touch. I cant move when it’s really bad. And then I can mainly remember the feeling of disassociating and not what actually happened while I was disassociated.
Early to see chaotic stuff. Mum knew I chose violence today.
2:40 WOW she explained THINKING WTF
I’ve been told multiple times that I don’t look like I have my illness because they assume that we look like these absolute nitwits. People who don’t even have the disorders are becoming the stereotypes and honestly, I just hope that this trend dies out.
Me too. I've got Asperger's and everybody thinks I'm supposed to have level 50 autistic behavior.
But it's more like level 2 of those 50
amen to that
Actually she is talking about BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER. Adding in you should study about disorders before assuming ALL are fake videos. as someone is actually diagnosed and has been following her forever, shes trying to explain the millions of emotions going on in our head. Due to trauma, she isnt saying she has different people in her head and the "extra" energy you complain about is a big part of bpd disorder, its called being main. As someone who follows you and usually enjoys what you bring to the table i am disgusted that you dragged a genuine disorder and clam it in with people faking DID.. lisa grover is someone who is very open about her bpd disorder and if you looked at her page instead of assuming shes another tiktoker just faking it you would of seen.
Litterily what shes describing is just a person who's just dealing multiple emotions and thoughts spurred on by them as sum one with schizophrenia and have dealt with being tossed around from group home to group home for most of my adult life this is honestly just insulting to see sumthing that has caused my problems for most of my adult life glorified and its genuinely frustrating because half of these people faking disorders want to claim sumthing that isn't true but wish for none of the baggage that comes with it.
I have diagnosed BPD and she is actually attempting to describe a symptom of BPD, she just did a bad job 😅 but obviously having this thing doesn't mean you have BPD and not having it doesn't mean you don't have BPD it's just a common symptom. I'm so sorry to hear you've been struggling. I hope you're as well as you can be ❤️
2:18 onwards - yeah, that's called thinking. Let's not pathologise normal human behaviour just because we want to feel 'special'. 👍
Also the voice they hear in their head is just their own thoughts
As a 15 year practicing Buddhist.... Overthinking is where the problem is. Thought can be a powerful tool but should be put down when you're done.
@@Raya-ir4tm yes I would never say otherwise. I would say that they all do not recommend overthinking and are filled with techniques to calm the mind.
Any suggestions, I can’t really turn them down.
I’m ADHD with anxiety. If I could just “put the thoughts down” I would. My mind is never silent, even when I’m trying to sleep or focus.
It must be nice to be able to just choose to stop overthinking though.
@@ninjaartist1235 yes. For most people nowadays I end up suggesting mantra. It is like a shield for your mind you can put up that temporarily shifts your thought pattern and speed. The effects last even after chanting. I suggest 5 minutes after you wake up and 5 before you go to sleep to start and maybe throw in a few 2 minute sessions throughout the day. The point is to start to form a habit of shifting your brain into a positive thought pattern.
My main mantra is om mani padme hum but you can choose any that please you. People say there are sacred sounds and you can choose any of those as well. If your mind races and you can't focus on the mantra then go faster until it matches the rate of your new thoughts forming. Set a timer. I can promise the world won't burn if you focus on calming your mind for 5 minutes :) actually if it does burn I can tell you for a fact you will be more effective if you have honed your focus like this.
Or just do mindfulness meditation on the breath or spine give it 10 years you'll be almost enlightened 😂😂😂 the point of all of these things are making a practice of peacefulness that eventually doesn't end when you get up from meditation and your whole like becomes your meditation.
Good luck!
Um, as someone with ADHD, mulitple trains of thought is me on a bad day and not being able to concentrate on one thing to be productive.
A bad day for me is like a browser with 40+ tabs open and all them have notifications going off. What am I doing? Spacing out as I scroll on Twitter.
I've watched Pixielocks for years now and I can assure that she never was like that until suddenly, like in her old vlogs there were no signs of the person seeming any different than usual and suddenly she acts different in all of her new vlogs depending on who is fronting and like the alters that she has all act and talk different from anything in her old vlogs which is definitely weird. I'm not saying that they're faking it entirely though but I definitely think that she is making it seem more apparent in their new videos.
A generation raised on vampire love stories and not going outside, what could possibly go wrong?
What vampire love stories?.... do you mean that shitty series' of twilight, the vampire diaries, the originals,... people actually watched them?
@@lucifers.morningstar3805 That's what I was referring to. And I didn't watch two seconds of them either but they were wildly successful in the number of people that did. And I can't help but see how that plays into this fantasy of being "special" to the point of faking mental illnesses like we so predominantly see these days.
@@camerachris my faith in humanity lessens everyday from people like them.
@@lucifers.morningstar3805 the silver lining, if there is one to be found, is that you aren't alone
@@camerachris I tried to read twilight and couldn’t do it, I made it through just the first book. Weird whiny garbage with a ton of racist and pedo vibes plus a mountain of stalkerish stuff disguised as romance. Complete garbage
I'll tell you what mental illness feels like. I was diagnosed with a severe depressive disorder at 13 (runs in the family) and severe OCD (runs in the family). There's more to it, but I'll keep it short.
My depression; managed, fine, I struggle sometimes, but overall good! Now my OCD is a nightmare. It's not tapping, it's not patterns, or any of those commonly mentioned symptoms. For me it's the obsessing. My home is never clean despite cleaning it almost every day. Is everything's placement perfect, Feng Shui, that type of deal. I obsess over everything; finances, my pets, cleanliness, it keeps me awake at night, you name it. For example, if something bad happens that day, it'll trigger a downward spiral. I'll notice every little thing that happens that day and I'll just mentally snap. I have to be in control. No one ever really is allowed to drive me places because I HAVE to be the one driving. I am easily overwhelmed and then I lose my ability to concentrate. Everything becomes this jumbled mess in my head and I can't function the way I want to.
Due to the compulsory aspect, I sometimes develop tics (not tourettes) where I make a sound in the back of my throat, or sniff a lot, or I'll move my jaw/head and neck a certain way....I've injured myself because of that. Tics aren't fun and cute. They're annoying
There is rarely a quiet moment in my head, and it's awful.
It's truly a nightmare.
The fact that these kids are out here making MH out to be some quirky, funny, personality trait makes me so angry.
Sorry, needed to rant
I feel you dude.
My OCD is more counting based though, not cleaning. However, if someone touches anything of mine without telling me I will know.
Anyways, I obsess over certain numbers. Some are good, some are okay, and some are very bad.
I’ve had to “cope” with this by making the “bad numbers” into divisions, subtractions, additions, and/or multiplications of the “good numbers”.
For example: food needs to be cooked for 10 minutes in the oven, K, 10 is just 2x5 and 5 is just 2+3, or 10 is 7+3. 15 is (6x2)+3. 26 is just the number 2 and the number 6, or 26 is (7x3)+5 (and the 5 is then 2+3 in my mind).
The things I count are things people wouldn’t notice unless I told them. So, I’m not that stereotype of flicking light switches on and off, or closing doors multiple times. What I do is things like counting in my head every single time I gulp water, the amount of times the water made that little bump when it was flowing into my cup (idk how to explain that better, but hopefully you know what I mean), or how many scoops of food I used when feeding my animals.
It’s still a struggle, obviously, but at least now I’m not absolutely refusing to do things in order to avoid those numbers.
However, if I get too much anxiety about things not adding up correctly I will have “tics”. I definitely have damaged a nerve in my neck a few times from doing it.
I would absolutely love to get rid of my MH issues, yet there are people out here glorifying it, and even trying to manifest it. I would do anything to just feel a smidge of “normalcy”.
@@cmm3699 Exactly. It's so overwhelming and I'm a nervous wreck most days; and it sucks! There isn't any rhyme or reason to it and it affects my loved ones. I know I'm a pain to deal with 😂
This whole glorification, delegitimization (if that's a word) of MH is nonsensical bs. My sister has MH issues, but she bases her entire personality off of them (and overplays some things), especially for TikTok. I think legitimate, managed MH conditions and overall healthy people are so hot nowadays.
I'm engaged, but teasingly when I was dating, I'd always "jokingly" ask, "so, you mentally sound?" 😂
@@BeyondEcho95 The thought of “over exaggerating” my MH issues is insane to me. If anything I underplay them, especially with mental health professionals. I’m scared that one day I’d be deemed as too mentally unstable, and be unable to live outside of mental health facility.
Yet, people are posting videos of themselves daily that would be able to be used as proof to have them be 51/50d.
I actually once got 51/50d many years ago because I was posting weird shit on fb, and my friend in another state was able to get a hold of my family, and call the police to get a wellness check on me. I’m beyond glad she did because I probably would’ve died that day without her help.
I think it's getting more popular is because the majority of kids arnt the popular cool standard, and when your hormones are all crazy and social media is so big and the attention that is craved. Pretending to have these disorders is fairly easy to Do. Especially since whatever they learn about it is just social media and i think tho they probably don't have a condition they probably really think they do because of social media and hormones having your brain all sorts of jacked
Me... Diagnosed with actual BPD is triggered by this woman who tries to explain BPD... Help😂
I have BPD and ADHD. This is ADHD. (My bpd is under control and has been for years with a couple of different meds..)
ADHD wise, though.. I totally get what she means with the several different trains of thoughts running constantly at top volume. I have at least 4 things happening at once, ALL of the time. Im 35 and have been dealing with this since I was a child. It's nigh on impossible for me to focus for more than 5 minutes at a time, which is super embarrassing. Even if I'm focusing, I don't necessarily actually absorb what's happening or being said. 😵💫
Was she trying to explain schizophrenia bc one time I convinced myself I had it after not sleeping for 4 days because I was seeing floating heads and eyes and hearing my name being whispered. Obviously it was because I was extremely sleep deprived and was hallucinating but like she is describing thinking lmao
They be picking up disorders like a bunch of puppies or free puppies in Walmart parking a lot
the person at 12:08 looks they were trying to get the eyeliner even on both side built just ended up making it thick as he’ll
that girl describing BPD so incorrectly is infuriating, that is NOT BPD. All these people know nothing of what they're talking about. Just people seeking attention, either intentionally or deluding themselves.
Fake disorder cringe
Theres a reason why they are called "disorders".
Having “noise” in your head is a very real thing and it can be completely debilitating….
Commenting on your Minecraft gameplay: I am mesmerized lol if that's you playing, I envy your True and Honest skills 😆🔥
I understand the girl with “multiple trains of thoughts” seems ridiculous, but that’s part of bpd. Symptoms of bpd look ridiculous and things that everyone goes through, but it’s more intense and constant compared to people without it. I usually agree with your videos, but every time bpd is mentioned as looking fake, I rethink my whole diagnosis.
Racing thoughts is a symptom of pretty much every mood disorder, ADHD, Autism, and a whole bunch of other things. It is not one of the main characteristics of BPD though many of us do experience it. And honestly anyone who is burnt out, including neurotypical people can experience severe racing thoughts.
i get what the second girl was trying to explain about “multiple thoughts”, yes, everyone has that, but people with BPD go through that literally constantly, like 24/7, every second of every moment. the tiniest littlest things trigger that and we can’t get out of this, it’s like our minds are prisons, and at the same time we feel guilty for feeling like this and thinking those things, but at the same time all of these thoughts seem like reality and make complete sense, but what if it’s just my paranoia? it’s just an endless vicious cycle we can’t get the fuck out of. it breaks u down and crushes u. all of that makes us have full on breakdowns with deep sadness, then anger, then we’re okay again, super excited and active and extroverted but then a little thing happens that triggers us once more and we’re back to sadness, angst, anger, crying, isolation etc. all in one day. multiple times a week
I’m losing my mind because in any light military training there’s this thing they TEACH YOU TO DO where you unfocus your eyes and look ahead, even if being yelled in the face (it’s about respecting a superior, you also cannot talk unless spoken to, and you cannot move a certain way unless directed).
So basically, I can on purpose unfocus my eyes and I look as though I’m “zoning out”. It’s literally the EASIEST thing to learn and incredibly easy to do.
These people very much look like they found “acting tips” and psychological tricks, then decided to make TikTok into some kind of demented Hollywood.
As a sidebar!
I have a mental illness so bad my medication makes it dangerous for me to drive, so I cannot and I do not.
People who choose to drive or to act foolish like that make me irrationally irritated.
Sorry for the rant, UA-cam.
I can also do this very easily used to do this to pretend I was paying attention in class while in actually I was thinking about my lunch
I used to do it all the time until my friend got creeped out by my lazy eye crossing. Didn’t know I could cross one eye
Hey guys I’m currently undergoing investigation for an autism diagnosis and I’m really struggling with these specific symptoms: ✅✅✅
Guys I just *know* I have autism so I don’t need any tests and anyone who says otherwise is ableist and racist: ❌❌❌
THIS ^^
Lmao that “he doesn’t have diabetes, loser” killed me.
I have been diagnosed with PTSD, trauma, depression... and these people on tik tok are absolutely disappointing and disrespectful. This is why no one takes some of people's health conditions seriously because someone like this are making a mockery of disorders. Like WTF
BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER should not be clumped in with this. As it is already being trashed on enough as is and as someone who is trying to stop the stigma I find things like this are some of the main cause of half the assumptions on bpd. Do better Ablaze, you have a huge following and you are spreading false information because you seen 1 video on reddit ?
This must be confusing for the mental health workers that are trying to understand and treat the genuine diagnosis. I think a lot of fakers (not all though...) actually think that they are right, which isn't weird I guess.. They don't know what all of these diagnoses are actually like, and even being an ordinary human person with thoughts and a life is super complex. How do you seperate a voice in your head from a "loud thought" if you've never experienced actually hearing voices? I guess people are struggling to seperate their role-playing hobbies, that may very well be helpful for them, from actual DID. Or maybe I'm naive hoping it's not "on purpose".
Diagnoses aren't supposed to be given unless the issue is actually causing problems in the persons life. They're not given for self-exploration alone, meaning you could have a degree of autism for example, like "technically" without actually _having autism_.
DISSOCIATION IS NOT VOLUNTARY AND THAT COUNTDOWN CRAP IS THE DUMBEST SHIT I'VE SEEN. That was just a normal "finally I'm alone" face. That's literally social intelligence, everyone puts on a facade to some degree.
It sucks when people act like they have a condition that people truly struggle with. I have a heart condition where I even have to have a cardiac arrest dog (service dog) and I’ve had to give up a lot of my old lifestyle to live like this and it sucks! Taking meds and regular check ups also suck people wouldn’t want this life and they sure don’t want to deal with anything like that. TikTok keeps showing me more and more people faking these conditions and it makes me feel so sorry for these people. Also love your videos! Keep up the great work!!
As someone who has been clinically diagnosed with BPD, I don’t necessarily disagree with the second girl. BPD is difficult to diagnose because it’s not very well understood my medical professionals, all we have to go on is a list of symptoms that the patient may or may not experience that happen to align with those required to accurately diagnose it. That being said, this girl very well could have BPD, there’s really no way of telling unless you have been around people with this same disorder. I don’t think she’s lying about her experiences, I just think the method in which she went about explaining them makes them look disingenuous.
Dude why are people with undiagnosed w bpd not valid. I NEED to get diagnosed with jt
I love how these people think that you can just “pick” a alter just like that, very realistic, also off topic but what’s the name of the shaders? I want it
The second one with the weird Naruto hat was actually talking about Borderline Personality Disorder type dissociation.
Dissociation is actually one of the lesser talked about symptoms of BPD.
It's pretty much dissociation by being overwhelmed witzh trails of thought.
And tbh it maps perfectly to what she is sayin, she's just not very articulate about it.
i enjoy your vids, we need more people to call these idiots out ontheir shit, so keep it up my friend, btw, what game are you playing? is that mindcraft ? ive never understood this game, it just never appealed to me, but it is mesmerizing watching someone play it at times haha
Again, as someone in the professional field of mental health and cognitive disorders, specifically regarding children and youth, it is mind boggling to see the lengths these people go to to fake having a diagnosis. There are specific criteria that a person has to meet in order to receive a diagnosis. In regard to Borderline Personality Disorder, having multiple thoughts is NOT a diagnostic criteria. In fact, everyone is capable of having multiple thoughts at once. When they’re racing and intrusive, usually those can be associated with Adverse Anxiety and attention deficit disorders. As for DID, this is a RARE disorder that can be developed after LONG and SEVERE periods of traumatic experience. It is also NOT a factor of DID to overtly display their change in identity (alters) for long periods of time. More often than not, a change in identity is triggered by stress or being exposed to a traumatic situation. Therefore, it cannot happen when a person wants and the person also has no control of the switch. So all these people claiming to have DID are literally openly displaying how fake their claim is.
BPD (as mentioned by the girl talking rapidly) is not like everyday normal voices. You do get overstimulated, I describe it as having lots of movies running in my head at the same time. I have to take meds to bring the inner monologue down to a more functional level. Before I was having trouble focusing externally. I dissociate also (and you CAN’T force disassociation), I go into myself like in a protective bubble and am unaware of the outside things to the point I can lose chunks of time. People with BPD (borderline personality disorder) also suffer attachment disorder where they will do things like put up with anything to stay with someone because they are so afraid of what would happen without them or push people away so they can’t hurt them. We may confuse what was said with what was meant and have irrational responses in relation to the comment such as immediately flying into anger. Another symptom I have is always thinking people are talking about me to the point where if I walk away from a group conversation I will fixate on what they might be saying about me. I know that girl looked like she was on speed but I do speak fast, loud, and for a long time when my anxiety is really high and rely on others to help me calm down…….so perhaps she wasn’t faking BPD at all?
Distinction in BPD (borderline personality disorder) you will have a lot of internal chatter but it is all your monologue…..in DID (dissociative identity disorder) you have multiple personas that you become at any given time. BPD is not DID!
“But where do you think we get our disorders from we just buy them in the store right?” Talking to someone about it and this is what they legit said ISTG
I have BPD. And yes, I am having 'voices' but it's not like that in this video. It's more like someone telling me that I am not enough, that I'm somehow 'broken', that I should function. The meanest one is the "you know that all your friends are talking behind your back" thought. But I know that many people have these thoughts and they are suffering as well, it's not necessarily a sign of BPD.
"What's up boys and girls, Hope you've all been doing well.....I am about to ruin that for you" BEST LINE EVER :)
Okay homie, I know you say things are good for mental health, but do know we just went through a traumatizing pandemic, and a lot of kids parents are ridiculously awful and don't even respect their most basic rights. I know not every kid is like that, but I've met enough and seen enough during my journey through improving my own mental health to know that there is still an epidemic. Some of the things they were listing were just symptoms of trauma, which they tried to explain with other disorders (which definitely isn't right, but there is an underlying issue in the first place) just please be a little less harsh on individuals. Definitely continue to discourage the spread of false information and advocate for seeking help from trained therapists and other practicing mental health workers
i have bpd and i have no idea what that girl is talking about lmao
(i know everyone’s experience can be different)
EDIT: okay she’s talking about racing thoughts which can happen & has happened to me but not in the way she explained lmao
If someone you know posts a video showing them passing out in the driver’s seat of their vehicle, it doesn’t actually matter whether you believe them, you forward that video to the DVLA with their name and contact details. They could kill themselves, they could kill their passengers, they could kill total strangers. We’ve all heard some horrific story about a family and their kids getting wiped out by someone who blacked out at the wheel, or fell unconscious, or had a seizure. It’s not okay to promote the idea that knowingly getting behind the wheel of a vehicle with a disorder that could cause you to lose awareness is funny or cool or in any way okay. You shouldn’t have your licence in that situation, nor should you be eligible for one in the future if the situation is not able to be medically resolved.
Who is the older greying dude that is like my age unmasking and disassociating (aka just changing facial expressions) with these young girls? Would anyone be surprised if we found out this guy was sending inappropriate messages to minors? Yeah, me either.
My comorbidities ruined my life and I actually cry thinking of how my life could’ve turned out if I was “normal” so if this is really the life these people want I’d donate it to them in a heartbeat. No take backsies
Isn’t the point of DID that it’s the brains way of making it like the trauma didn’t happen hence the identities…..? Because the brain can’t handle what trauma they went through
This is giving off "not like other girls" vibes but in the end they're all exactly the same. They even have the same alters, same stims... Like how are we supposed to believe them at this point
Are any these people seeking treatment?
Treatment doesnt bring followers so, no.
The multiple trains of thought/racing thoughts video sounds more like a description of a manic episode to me especially if it involves being hyperactive and unable to focus on what people are saying to you... Although to be sure, this is something to talk to a professional about, not some random on the internet even more so than other disorders people like to self diagnose with since issues involving mania would primarily be treated with medication.
@2:13 I have diagnosed BPD and.... That's not how it works...... At all
Having many thoughts especially for woman is normal. Studies have shown, biology wise, woman typically can trail into many different thoughts at a time. Not saying this doesn't happen to men but it's more prominent in woman. Our brains are constructed a bit differently gender wise and woman just have extended compound thoughts. I wish I could only think of why glue doesn't stick to the inside of the bottle haha. But I gotta think of 20 other different things. My husband and I joke about it all the time cause I'm a mess 🤣
You know what sucks I have adhd and autism and now no one believes me anymore ;_; faking this shi is fr harmfull
I’ve got bpd and I used to be terrible, I was a MESS. I was hospitalized multiple times and finally was put on some heavy meds just to function normally. It’s not cute or quirky to be unstable lol
Currently in my 4th week of in patient psychiatric care due to my BPD and OCD and agree 100%. This isn’t an aesthetic and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Glad to hear you’re doing better and I hope it continues to get better for you 💕
Did she just try to explain….thinking….as a personality disorder?
The first person essentially is admitting to kidnapping of a minor
Yea, you can't flip your own switch and dissociate on cue. Lord how cringe.
Yeah there's a reason people with certain medical conditions can't have the driver's license. I don't think these kids realized that was even a thing lol
DID today is like depression was in 2014
(everyone pretends to have it and romanticize it)
I have diagnosed pseudo seizures caused by ptsd and I can not drive. People who just pass out, if they were honest with everyone involved, would not be allowed to drive.
As someone diagnosed with Narcolepsy. I 100% can not drive anymore. I had to turn over my license because it’s unsafe for me and others on the road
She's Narutarded! Ninja of the village hidden in the asylum!
shouldn't use a variation of a slur , it ain't right
@@Raya-ir4tm not once did I say the fakers are okay :) I think it's fucked . but it's not a pass for someone in the comments to say a slur . thanks
does the girl that's 2 mins in have 1 leg that's thicker than the other? 🤔
Ablaze you said 'did' not 'bpd'.
There's a difference.
I mean alters can have Disorders or illnesses innerworld depending how complex the innerworld is for that system but like they wouldn't effect the body when they front if the system doesn't have that illness. Some alters experience illnesses different to others aswell . For example if a system was also autistic, one alter may experience more or different symptoms to another , it's all dependent on what role that alter plays systems wise tbh
Question: How did you get your system
Answer: Just watched a lot of UA-cam and Tic Tok videos and decided that was what I had without getting diagnosed by a professional.
gotta say, i love the wii fit music, very nostalgic, kinda takes the yuck feeling away 😭
dont forget about cyber monday i heard alters are like 75% off lmfaooo
Thanks for the video Papa Ablaze! Hope you're having a great weekend!❤️
People like that make it hard to go to someone to talk about genuine problems.
I wouldn't wanna deal with me after seeing people like _that,_ either.
And I thought I was gonna be a bad client >_
I'm Sure other's have mentioned this, but the 2nd chick, the hyper one, specified she was talking about BPD. And yeah, I have days like that. And it's pretty freakin draining that I can't escape my Me's. It is not fun at all. It's like being trapped in a room with all the worst people from your upbringing, and they can't physically touch you(until one does and self harm happens) and they just won't shut up and all you can do is shrink into a corner and try soothe rocking yourself and sob. Except there is No one else there and those screaming thoughts in your head are your own...
So basically she's saying people with Anxiety and shit actually have DID, the super rare disorder that was so rare they made a movie about it? The only mental disorder they have is that one where people want to be disabled in some form. I feel like they think DID is easier for them to pretend than blinding yourself or something.
If you listen back she says BPD, which is more common than did. A lot of anxiety symptoms do overlap with BPD which is why what she described definately could be a symptom of BPD she just did a bad job describing it 😊 I only know this because I have diagnosed BPD and I just thought I'd help people in the comments who thought she said DID. Hope this helps ☺️
People watched moon knight and thought that is actually what DID and stuff was and decided that's what they wanted to be.
or Unbreakable
"People with BPD have the hardest time explaining this" You shouldn't, you shouldn't be explain anything a trained & qualified mental health professional should. You have no more knowledge on any disorder then any average person who did a bit of google research, actually probably less so because of the obvious bias and false associations they make. In the same way being overweight doesn't make you a diet expert or being a trust fund kid doesn't make you a money making guru. Ignoring theses people obviously clout chasing/attention seeking would be the best option and minimize the damage they are doing, but hey lets just keep making videos on them every single week. your complicit in this, knowingly so.
Thank you, yeah this Ablaze guy fucking sucks
not to mention that not only is he making money off the clout, but vapidly misinforming the masses cause this guy doesn't know shit of what he's talking about
Yeah. More often than not I'm confused about my own illnesses and how they work because my head's a mess.
As you said: a therapist is the person who should be explaining those kinds of things, not the patients.
I can repeat what my therapist said to me but I'm not going to try and do it all by myself, then I wouldn't even need a professional in the first place.
And I agree. I used to enjoy their videos quite a bit but 1. now those people in them just enrage me for no reason and make me question myself and my illnesses.
2. It's giving them the attention they so desperately crave and don't deserve.
Anyone got 7.49 I can Borrow?