I dated someone like that for a couple months, I finally had to get the cops involved just to get rid of him. The police officer told me he was a narcissistic sociopath.
The damage has already been done to the kids. They will suffer massive emotional and attachment consequences as a result of this abuse. Incredibly sad.
@lil auzy yet he doesn’t behave like this in a work setting or he would be out of a job and if she fears what he will do, then she knows he’s able to plan and act on those plans
Situations like this make me glad I'm single sometimes when you're marrying someone or you're dating them you truly don't know their true intentions for you until they're ready to hurt you live your life alone don't trust people🤔
The signs are always there. People ignore them and put their prospective life partner on a pedestal, ignoring red flags and buying their excuses for behaviours. Some people are much worse at ignoring red flags than others, due to their expectation that things will work out if you want it enough. You may be single because you're very good at seeing red flags, see them early and don't even bother starting relationships. Most people just aren't like that. We ignore things that later on, after finally leaving an abusive relationship, make us feel stupid for not walking away then and there.
Take control of you and your children's lives. He won't change and walking on eggshells daily should never be an option. Leave, divorce and start the next day of your life.
Another thing not good for anybody is to keep bringing those babies in when she knows he's hostile! Kids are disappearing every day and domestic abuse in USA is out of control!
Information on this fellow, he's certainly not acting civil in the clips. BUT it is confirmed in a later Dr Phil episode the way he acts is actually because of some sort of brain defect causing him to become irrationally angry. This is not me defending how he acts in this video, you are allowed to come to your own conclusions. For those that are angry at this man, you have every right to be mad but know that he is not acting like this because he wants to unlike those that you may have heard about or know that act similarly. Thank you for listening to my rant :)
Absolute bollocks which is why tv shows shouldn't discuss brain damage. I am brain damaged and Bipolar (which cause rage) and I would kill myself if I behaved like this!!! I'm also a senior academic so I can follow all the medical research
@@amybarn9251 what brain damage does to you can be very different based on where it happens. Some brain damage effects memory, brain damage effects your motor control, other brain damage can make you blind. It’s not all the same
You can't live with someone so volatile. This cannot end well. Even Angelina Jolie left Brad Pitt over his anger outbursts. Please get out before he injures or kills you or the kids. He had his demons that rule him. You are not safe.
No he doesn't.. You didn't watch the whole show, he has a brain problem, sort of like bipolar.. Something happened to him as a child and that's why the wife said "I'm happy" because she now knows the problem 👍 there's no demons.
I feel your pain lady. Stay strong (even though she won’t see this message). Anybody seeing this video and who also struggles with domestic violence - you matter and you will prevail.
People need to have more brains that when somebody treats you badly like that You stay away from him or that person whether it’s your wife Husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend People should know that when you attempt to leave the person then you just don’t go back to them
just had to leave a relationship like this. best decision i've ever made. whether my ex gets helps for his anger issues or not is now his problem, not mine
And yet she keeps TAKING HIM BACK....In life you are going to run across a lot of women who live for DRAMA, DYSFUNCTION, ARGUING, FUSSING and FIGHTING. That's one of the reasons so many females hate flying SOLO...who would they have to argue etc...with? If she didn't like his behavior there is NOTHING stopping her from moving on. Like I said previously, when women put up with rotten behavior that is the same as giving them PERMISSION to continue doing what they're doing. The reason you can't hardly find decent man anymore has to do with these women out here. They put up with things no human being should put up with....I can see he needs help, but he needs to get that help OUTSIDE of living in her home. She can be there to support him through phone calls, video chat, and meeting in public places as long as he controls his temper.....End of story.
Brenden, you need to stay away from any relationship. You cannot control yourself. Be mature and know you have a brain injury. Be responsible and keep your loved ones safe.
All Dr Phil did was victim blame and minimize this guys abuse. Now every time this guy starts with his abuse he’s gonna say “Oh its my BRAIN! Waah!” “You’re OVERSHADOWING ME!” This show makes me want to be sick
Idk why she doesnt get a restraining order and get away from him rather than going on Dr. Phil. But that's just my opinion. There is nothing to save in this relationship. End it.
2:39 is heartbreaking. Girl, just because someone isn't to blame for their mental health issues (caused by physical trauma, emotional trauma, or genetics), that doesn't mean they aren't to blame for the actions they take. If someone hurts you physically or emotionally, regardless of whether or not they are hurting, they STILL hurt you. This is coming from someone WITH anger issues and mental illness. They hurt your children, your mother, your friends, whomever. Savor your peace. Reason behind the rage or not, he is still taking it out on y'all. His actions have consequences and the consequences of you neglecting your own health by staying with him could be your children's livelihood. Get out, please. ❤
Because they make so many threats, you get scared what more the might do after you leave them. Rightfully so, I almost was murdered after leaving a similar guy I only dated for a couple months.
So, someone like this can get a girl, separates, and get another girlfriend within a week... Man, women really know how to choose their guys. And you can't deny that because not only 1 woman chose him, but 2 within that short period of time... lol
Horrible situation to be in. Theres clearly some stuff he got to work through. But why have a child with someone like that not one but two? She's young she can go on with her life and have a family with someone who doesnt have all these issues he is a ticking time bomb if he doesnt go through with life long mental professional help.
@@TheSweetForever Never said he wasn't. But when 1 person is jeopardizing your kids, you get them tf out. Full stop. No excuses and spreading the blame boo boo.
How can you keep subjecting your children to this. Hes a good father? So is the idiot down the road but the idiot down the road doesnt get to emotionally traumatise your kids. No man would ever behave this way around my children. No way. My love ends the day your behaviour traumatizes my children.
My son also had some trauma to his brain caused by an accident and few years after the accident goes from time to time into a destructive mode and anger that's comes out of nowhere.unfortunately he also suffers from seizures due to the brain trauma..so l do understand somewhat of this young man's anger and the hopelessness his wife feels.its very exhausting and fearful at times .
@@j.j.8741 1. This video didn’t mention that he has brain damage. It is only mentioned in later videos, which I watched only after making this comment. 2. Brain damage isn’t an excuse. It may be an explanation of SOME of his behavior (like the angry outbursts- NOT getting a new girlfriend in a week), but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be held accountable for his words and actions. 3. The fact that you took this so personally that you think I’m a “man-hater” is hilarious and I’m guessing you’re so angry because you have the same hairstyle as he does 😂
I pray he is getting the best possible care & his family life is improving. My daughter is similar if not worse. She suffered through a life threatening car accident, has family history of manic-depression, possible drug influence and minor concussions. She is a beautiful, talented, caring mother/person, but also uncontrollable, disrespectful, violent, abusive and a very real threat to herself and others at times. My grandchildren suffer unnecessarily, but the law does not protect children. I do all I can to get my daughter help & protect the kids but it’s next to nothing. I believe with all that I am that help/ a cure is available and I’m desperate for it NOW.
I am friends with his current girlfriend right now and it's so much more scarier than this..... he's onto physical abuse now but she is also in the wrong and posting all their drama on Facebook but she could also be screaming for help by posting about their toxic relationship. He NEEDS to go back to Dr Phil asap
Training to control rage, recognizing onset of rage and doing something else. Perhaps medication. The former show expert head of neural plasticity that dared to disagree with Dr Phil has entire institute was about TBI work.
This is why I don't believe in marriage. I'm single and I can't comprehend how people actually *choose* to marry someone and be in these situations. Seeing stuff like this just confirms my theory that I was raised in a bubble and everyone else is nuts.
As HSP I’m easy irritable!!! Sinds I use “supplement Magnesium tauraat “ I’m calm now😊😊😊.After a month.!This supplement work on my nervous system.I don’t respond to stimuli like I used to!!!👏👏👏
Unfortunately I have the same issue with my baby brother his is due to a head injury 5 years ago he break things curses stomps yells you name it me and my mom already called the police on him twice from 2015 to this year and sometimes I get mad at my mother for keeping Jordan because he puts everyone including me in imminent danger he needs to go just like my brother I don't want to lose a family member if Jordan was smart and hung out with the right people he would be educated
Is it scary that I have another identity named Damian who is a psycho that hates women. And I watch this video, Damian makes me hate her and women too?
Dr Phil is such a drama shill! The young man clearly has had something happen in his life that is causing this. He needs help and therapy and maybe he'll be able to control it if he understands it. I hate the way this is portrayed 😔
5/14/23: This is a 0.001 percent incident, where most are trained and raised to be CRUEL to others, most likely molested and head all messed up... Patty Sue, MARYLAND
“I’m happy to be here” as she’s bawling her eyes out.
Poor woman 😶
It has to be a great emotional relief to her to finally get intervention.
I dated someone like that for a couple months, I finally had to get the cops involved just to get rid of him. The police officer told me he was a narcissistic sociopath.
Hr got his brain scanned. And he had lesions on it.
You deserve better
The cop probably knew cause he is too
Still, that's on him, not you...
Having scar tissue on your brain is a you problem, nothing she can fix
Lmao that’s prob projection. He’s a cop not a doctor.
The damage has already been done to the kids. They will suffer massive emotional and attachment consequences as a result of this abuse. Incredibly sad.
My ex was like this and I’m still healing from it. Hearing his violent rage outbursts stick in my head and brings back horrible memories.
Trauma bonded to this man she needs therapy and a redirection and taught true love
@lil auzy yet he doesn’t behave like this in a work setting or he would be out of a job and if she fears what he will do, then she knows he’s able to plan and act on those plans
He was in the military.
I assure you if she were MIKE TYSON he'd be able to CONTROL his temper, so it's not that he CAN'T stop it.
WHY would she even WANT to find a way to stay with him!!??
Situations like this make me glad I'm single sometimes when you're marrying someone or you're dating them you truly don't know their true intentions for you until they're ready to hurt you live your life alone don't trust people🤔
The signs are always there. People ignore them and put their prospective life partner on a pedestal, ignoring red flags and buying their excuses for behaviours. Some people are much worse at ignoring red flags than others, due to their expectation that things will work out if you want it enough.
You may be single because you're very good at seeing red flags, see them early and don't even bother starting relationships. Most people just aren't like that. We ignore things that later on, after finally leaving an abusive relationship, make us feel stupid for not walking away then and there.
@@ejroughley you're absolutely right I see red flags were very quickly but you've enlightened me in so many ways I didn't see it like that before🤔
Narcissistic abuse
I feel bad for the Children and the Mother, nobody should have to live in fear.
She allows it.
And no one has to, we teach people how to treat us.
Not his fault. Something happened to his brain
@@saucinichigo no its still his fault. His brain injury is a reason but not an excuse 🙄
@@k.m512 yeah i agree. I apologize
Take control of you and your children's lives. He won't change and walking on eggshells daily should never be an option. Leave, divorce and start the next day of your life.
Yes leave a violent rageaholic. What could possibly go wrong. 🙄
Smoking pot is really not good for anybody especially if there already got some mental issues going on !
Another thing not good for anybody is to keep bringing those babies in when she knows he's hostile! Kids are disappearing every day and domestic abuse in USA is out of control!
He's a really good father, but when he gets anxious he yells at them. No, that doesn't sound like a good father
She’s still with him and now has 3 kids with him
Information on this fellow, he's certainly not acting civil in the clips. BUT it is confirmed in a later Dr Phil episode the way he acts is actually because of some sort of brain defect causing him to become irrationally angry. This is not me defending how he acts in this video, you are allowed to come to your own conclusions. For those that are angry at this man, you have every right to be mad but know that he is not acting like this because he wants to unlike those that you may have heard about or know that act similarly. Thank you for listening to my rant :)
Absolute bollocks which is why tv shows shouldn't discuss brain damage. I am brain damaged and Bipolar (which cause rage) and I would kill myself if I behaved like this!!! I'm also a senior academic so I can follow all the medical research
@@amybarn9251 believe it or not everyone is different especially when it comes to brain damage lol
Then he needs to get help that doesn’t justify his actions towards his wife and children
That’s lazy and harmful, if he can control himself around people he wants to impress, if he can control himself at work then he can control himself
@@amybarn9251 what brain damage does to you can be very different based on where it happens. Some brain damage effects memory, brain damage effects your motor control, other brain damage can make you blind. It’s not all the same
You can't live with someone so volatile. This cannot end well. Even Angelina Jolie left Brad Pitt over his anger outbursts. Please get out before he injures or kills you or the kids. He had his demons that rule him. You are not safe.
No he doesn't.. You didn't watch the whole show, he has a brain problem, sort of like bipolar..
Something happened to him as a child and that's why the wife said "I'm happy" because she now knows the problem 👍 there's no demons.
@acidicsoul4978 but it can open the door for demons if he doesn't get help.
I feel your pain lady. Stay strong (even though she won’t see this message). Anybody seeing this video and who also struggles with domestic violence - you matter and you will prevail.
he has a bain injury
brain injury
@@xxguccixbandzxx5621 brain injury and domestic violence, it doesn't just cancel out his behavior
@@xxguccixbandzxx5621 brain injury and domestic violence, it doesn't just cancel out his behavior
@lil auzy so can chronic daily drug use
People need to have more brains that when somebody treats you badly like that
You stay away from him or that person whether it’s your wife Husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend
People should know that when you attempt to leave the person then you just don’t go back to them
just had to leave a relationship like this. best decision i've ever made. whether my ex gets helps for his anger issues or not is now his problem, not mine
2:09 I’m sitting here dyinggg by myself because I thought I was trippin. 😩😭😭🤣 Something happened with the editing but I just died
I thought I was the only one 🤣
What?? I don’t see anything?
@@Ihatewater9000 Look at her eye lol
🤣 👁 👁
Face swap
Anyone threatened to punch my Mum id never see them again 😮
Absolutely!
I would never sacrifice my own health for ANYBODY else. You only have one life.
He has control just chooses not to use it.
Dear Lord, she and the kids will need therapy. I pray for them all🙏🏽 the worst is loving someone who hurts you
That haircut looks really ridiculous on him. He just needs to cut it off ….
I see symptoms of Bipolar disorder. I live with someone who has it. It’s very challenging!
And yet she keeps TAKING HIM BACK....In life you are going to run across a lot of women who live for DRAMA, DYSFUNCTION, ARGUING, FUSSING and FIGHTING. That's one of the reasons so many females hate flying SOLO...who would they have to argue etc...with? If she didn't like his behavior there is NOTHING stopping her from moving on. Like I said previously, when women put up with rotten behavior that is the same as giving them PERMISSION to continue doing what they're doing. The reason you can't hardly find decent man anymore has to do with these women out here. They put up with things no human being should put up with....I can see he needs help, but he needs to get that help OUTSIDE of living in her home. She can be there to support him through phone calls, video chat, and meeting in public places as long as he controls his temper.....End of story.
Brenden, you need to stay away from any relationship. You cannot control yourself. Be mature and know you have a brain injury. Be responsible and keep your loved ones safe.
All Dr Phil did was victim blame and minimize this guys abuse. Now every time this guy starts with his abuse he’s gonna say “Oh its my BRAIN! Waah!” “You’re OVERSHADOWING ME!” This show makes me want to be sick
@@billusher2265 maybe watch it again you missed some key parts
Idk why she doesnt get a restraining order and get away from him rather than going on Dr. Phil. But that's just my opinion. There is nothing to save in this relationship. End it.
Exactly - she also has a problem
Stop judging him. He clearly needs help. He is broken insise.
2:39 is heartbreaking. Girl, just because someone isn't to blame for their mental health issues (caused by physical trauma, emotional trauma, or genetics), that doesn't mean they aren't to blame for the actions they take. If someone hurts you physically or emotionally, regardless of whether or not they are hurting, they STILL hurt you. This is coming from someone WITH anger issues and mental illness. They hurt your children, your mother, your friends, whomever. Savor your peace. Reason behind the rage or not, he is still taking it out on y'all. His actions have consequences and the consequences of you neglecting your own health by staying with him could be your children's livelihood. Get out, please. ❤
typical to go back or stay. ya cannot fix a person. move on. there’s life. he’s not the right one, he’s showing you who he is
Because they make so many threats, you get scared what more the might do after you leave them. Rightfully so, I almost was murdered after leaving a similar guy I only dated for a couple months.
@@livalittleasmr So she should be seeking support to leave him then. Staying in a dangerous and toxic relationship isn’t helping anyone.
So, someone like this can get a girl, separates, and get another girlfriend within a week... Man, women really know how to choose their guys. And you can't deny that because not only 1 woman chose him, but 2 within that short period of time... lol
This is domestic violence by a narcissist abuser.....
With a damaged brain
Horrible situation to be in. Theres clearly some stuff he got to work through. But why have a child with someone like that not one but two? She's young she can go on with her life and have a family with someone who doesnt have all these issues he is a ticking time bomb if he doesnt go through with life long mental professional help.
Both adults in this situation seem kind of dense. Poor kids
Agreed!
Yes definitely
100% she is dismissive avoidant and making him worse. Both need help. Both would be better off with someone else. Not just one.
Sending my prayers to the wife . It must be stressful to deal with his anger problem
Leave!
She's not a competent mother allowing her children to be in this situation.
Yes!
It takes two to tango boo boo. He is also responsible.
@@TheSweetForever Never said he wasn't. But when 1 person is jeopardizing your kids, you get them tf out. Full stop. No excuses and spreading the blame boo boo.
She shouldn't keep going back to him smh
2:09
her lizard eyes come out........ lizard people live among us
wow
Actually that was a bit weird. Not lizard people. Its the koalas.
what were those last two words that you said?
I'm stoned and I noticed it. I think someone messed around with the editing.
Is that mark Zuckerberg?
I fell when i was a kid on my head once, my life makes sense now
Well it’s kind of her fault for not leaving him
Why on earth would she ever marry, much less date this guy
People have issues man. Nobody is perfect
And bring children into this mess 🤬
@@Cait491 it's enough to make you want to pull your hair out. She can do so much better
You got to watch the whole thing. He has brain damage.
Sounds like someone I know all too well
2:10 anyone else notice her eyes got huge like a face filter?
How can you keep subjecting your children to this. Hes a good father? So is the idiot down the road but the idiot down the road doesnt get to emotionally traumatise your kids. No man would ever behave this way around my children. No way. My love ends the day your behaviour traumatizes my children.
She needs to get a restraining order against him and disappear. Changer her name, change the kids names, move to another country.
The anger issues had to be visible while they were dating. What would possess her to marry him?
We all do stupid stuff sometimes
Theyre usually not. They put on their best behavior at first and don't show theyre real selves until many months later
Solution is simple. He just need an old fashioned chin check
BINGO
Exactly
Yahtzee!
Chin check? What’s that?
@@adamleroux4279 its where someone inspects a chin with their fist
He has stuff on his 🧠.
My son also had some trauma to his brain caused by an accident and few years after the accident goes from time to time into a destructive mode and anger that's comes out of nowhere.unfortunately he also suffers from seizures due to the brain trauma..so l do understand somewhat of this young man's anger and the hopelessness his wife feels.its very exhausting and fearful at times .
The audacity of this man to act like he does with hair like that
@@j.j.8741 1. This video didn’t mention that he has brain damage. It is only mentioned in later videos, which I watched only after making this comment.
2. Brain damage isn’t an excuse. It may be an explanation of SOME of his behavior (like the angry outbursts- NOT getting a new girlfriend in a week), but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be held accountable for his words and actions.
3. The fact that you took this so personally that you think I’m a “man-hater” is hilarious and I’m guessing you’re so angry because you have the same hairstyle as he does 😂
if i looked like him, id be mad too
What’s going on with his hair?
Yes, get out of this marriage!! You are not safe. Your children are not safe. Neither you nor them are free!
The tabloid sensationalism in this preview is beyond crazy when you find out the results
I pray he is getting the best possible care & his family life is improving. My daughter is similar if not worse. She suffered through a life threatening car accident, has family history of manic-depression, possible drug influence and minor concussions. She is a beautiful, talented, caring mother/person, but also uncontrollable, disrespectful, violent, abusive and a very real threat to herself and others at times. My grandchildren suffer unnecessarily, but the law does not protect children. I do all I can to get my daughter help & protect the kids but it’s next to nothing. I believe with all that I am that help/ a cure is available and I’m desperate for it NOW.
I am friends with his current girlfriend right now and it's so much more scarier than this..... he's onto physical abuse now but she is also in the wrong and posting all their drama on Facebook but she could also be screaming for help by posting about their toxic relationship. He NEEDS to go back to Dr Phil asap
blessings and strength for your daughter and you
What is the solution? What kind of help is available for this guy with a TBI?
Training to control rage, recognizing onset of rage and doing something else. Perhaps medication. The former show expert head of neural plasticity that dared to disagree with Dr Phil has entire institute was about TBI work.
He needs individual therapy & counseling.
Needs parenting classes
Needs anger management classes.
They could also benefit from marriage counseling.
2:09 WTF? Left eye.
Saw this last week on a upload- she NEEDS to get out!
That’s not safe
ik this is gonna be good
This is why I don't believe in marriage. I'm single and I can't comprehend how people actually *choose* to marry someone and be in these situations. Seeing stuff like this just confirms my theory that I was raised in a bubble and everyone else is nuts.
I completely see where you're coming from. Having said that, you can't judge a thing by the abuse of a thing.
DID YALL SEE HER EYES 👀 @4:55?!?! IS THAT CAUSED BECAUSE OF A FILTER?!
WTH lol 😂 ALIEN ALERT 🚨 👽
Am I the only one who feels bad for him and want to help him?
Check out the newest dr phil with him
If she doesn't leave him, she accept being abused.
So how was he helped?
that hairstyle alone is grounds for divorce. jesus.
Came from the video about his brain trauma, completley different comment section 👀
According to Doctors, brendens hair grows out of his brain and looks naturally like that.
😂😂😂
As HSP I’m easy irritable!!! Sinds I use “supplement Magnesium tauraat “ I’m calm now😊😊😊.After a month.!This supplement work on my nervous system.I don’t respond to stimuli like I used to!!!👏👏👏
He left her child in a field he needs to be in jail forever disgusting typical abusive prick he doesn’t deserve anyone only in jail
Why would you go back Jesus.......
Being in an abusive relationship is so difficult to get yourself out of. Only people who have experienced it can understand completely
Why stay with him. Leave.
Unfortunately I have the same issue with my baby brother his is due to a head injury 5 years ago he break things curses stomps yells you name it me and my mom already called the police on him twice from 2015 to this year and sometimes I get mad at my mother for keeping Jordan because he puts everyone including me in imminent danger he needs to go just like my brother I don't want to lose a family member if Jordan was smart and hung out with the right people he would be educated
After watching this I realized that my husband isn’t that angry after all lol jeez!
His name is Brenden. You should have known lol
LMAO
I actually expected a man with anger issues to be named Stephen or Kevin or Jason or something.
This guy is a terrible person
;(
Woah this is crazy
Women who stay or go back to their abuser are every bit as sick in the head as the guy hitting them.
He should start mma or extreme sport to Get out his anger. That really helps
this is having kids with a young man these days . why arent you dating older?
Is it scary that I have another identity named Damian who is a psycho that hates women. And I watch this video, Damian makes me hate her and women too?
What????
@@linloser I know. I'm crazy. But I'm getting help
@@HeyItsJDanni your first comment makes zero sense, but besides that help is always good 👍
@@Spearhead401 I'm also autistic. I can't understand my own self and have things make sense. I have cognitive impairment. But I do experience madness
I watched doctor feel for the first time and I am early in my first video
this is my partners aunt silly
Divorce
A Sunday upload?
Go and watch the brain scan section.....
Lol I don't understand why this is even a thing. Don't be with this person.... she keeps going back. So who cares
Dr Phil is such a drama shill! The young man clearly has had something happen in his life that is causing this. He needs help and therapy and maybe he'll be able to control it if he understands it. I hate the way this is portrayed 😔
This man needs to play some CSGO.
What’s going on at 2:11
﴿وَیَسۡـَٔلُونَكَ عَنِ ٱلۡمَحِیضِۖ قُلۡ هُوَ أَذࣰى فَٱعۡتَزِلُوا۟ ٱلنِّسَاۤءَ فِی ٱلۡمَحِیضِ وَلَا تَقۡرَبُوهُنَّ حَتَّىٰ یَطۡهُرۡنَۖ فَإِذَا تَطَهَّرۡنَ فَأۡتُوهُنَّ مِنۡ حَیۡثُ أَمَرَكُمُ ٱللَّهُۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ یُحِبُّ ٱلتَّوَّ ٰبِینَ وَیُحِبُّ ٱلۡمُتَطَهِّرِینَ﴾ [البقرة ٢٢٢]
صدق الله العظيم.
she seems to love building up the drama of this mediocre rage
5/14/23: This is a 0.001 percent incident, where most are trained and raised to be CRUEL to others, most likely molested and head all messed up...
Patty Sue, MARYLAND
reptilian ?
Jesus Crhist.....!? ........wtfs
I had an ex like this but more violent, much more violent