Modest and Elegant | Headscarf & Underscarf Tutorial for My Everyday Style
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- Опубліковано 3 січ 2023
- Tichel/How to Tie a Tichel/Jewish Haircovering/Headscarf Style Inspiration/Modesty/Judaism/Jewish Convert/Orthodox Jewish Life/Sephardic/Edot Hamizrach
Hi! In this video, I am showing you how I tie my headscarf in my everyday, signature style!
Jewish Orthodox women cover their hair upon marriage, and there is many different ways this is done, some women primarily wear wigs, others (like myself) use scarves, and still others use hats, beanies, pre-tied scarves, or some combination, etc.
When I got married after my conversion to Judaism, I felt a little lost when it came to head covering. I didn't know the best way to go about this, I didn't know what my options were or how to achieve any specific look.
This video will hopefully help you if you are feeling the same, it represents my years of trying different things/experimentation, and finally finding a look and scarf style that I really love.
If you have any questions or feedback, please feel free to post in the comments under the video. :)
Hope you enjoy!
LINKS
Volumizing Underscarf (Boubou);
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-Tichel Volumizer Boubou Bun, Non Slip, Adjustable Hair Accessory for Under Headscarf
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-Tichel Volumizer Boubou Mouss Shaper, Mid-Height Non Slip, Adjustable, for Under Headscarf
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-saraattali.com/collections/no...
Scarves/Tichels
-Pale Lavender scarf I’m wearing
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-Fenteer Camel Scarf;
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-Fenteer Light khaki;
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-Fenteer Dusty pink;
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-Voile chic Dusty Rose;
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-Voile chic Pink taupe/beige;
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-Neutral-colored, lightweight, crinkly texture woven scarves
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Pinks and Florals I love;
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Best Etsy Shops for Headcoverings/Scarves/Accessories
-KosherstyleKS on Etsy
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-SaraAttaliDesign on Etsy;
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You have a beautiful family. Wishing all of you health and happiness.
In the Eastern Orthodox church its a popular tradition for women to cover there head in church, and some (like myself) do it in daily life too. The ideas behind it are a little different but I love this style! Ill give it a try sometime. Modest and chic ❤
Very classy! Tamara was the perfect model for sure!
Thank you Heather, I'll pass on the compliment to her! 😊💗
Thank you sweet Tamara! You made a wonderful hair model for the video. 😊😊😊
Thank you! 😊
Thank you for a beautiful video! You live a strict way of life. Most people do not have your discipline. Baruch HaShem!
😊. I'm still working on it.
It was so nice of your daughter to be the model ❤
That was fast and quick! Thanks for the video, it was very informative. And thanks Tamara for helping mom!
You are so welcome! 😊
GOD BLESS married woman who practices head covering
And you as well.
Nothing more lovely than being tznua.🙂
I agree. 🥰
Thanks for sharing and toda Tamara!
Our pleasure! 🥰
Thank you for clarifying the reason for not wearing a wig. That was informative. I love your collection of head coverings.
You are so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it! 😊
Great mitzvah Tamara helping your Ima !!
Haha, thank you, she will be pleased to hear this! 😊
What a great video! I have been struggling to find a headcovering style that I like since I got married about 6 weeks ago. I will try this one out tomorrow! And I agree that pale pink and purple are neutrals 💖
Wow, mazal tov on your wedding! I'm glad you like the style, and hope it works out for you! 🤗🌸
@@jayellealafi5797 Thank you 😊 💖 so far it's very promising! I've been wearing my scarf for about 5 hours in your style and it is so much more comfortable.
I’m so impressed with that pre-tied you sewed yourself! All your scarves are beautiful. I am still finding my style. 😐
Thank you, Shannon! 😊 Finding our style is something that takes time, it took me a long time, and is still evolving.💗
I'm not the best seamstress, but let me know if I should do a tutorial on how I did it, if that's something that would be helpful to you. 🤗
Looks very lovely on you! I have to agree, the headscarf you made yourself looks wonderful. I especially like the lace. Thank you for this informative video, and thank you Tamara for being a hair model!
Thank you so much, Crystal, you're very welcome! We had fun doing it together. 😄💗
Blessed family 👏👏👏👏
I love your colour aesthetic! It's georgeous!
Thank you so much! 😊
Love your video! Wow....I didn't know people would ask such a thing! Even if you only wear one, you look stunning and being Jew we know we keep our tichel clean! Shalom ♡♡♡
You are a jewel dear you really are...❤ god bless.
Thank you so much for sharing!
You are so welcome! 😊
Your face coloring is very delicate so these lighter pinks, mauve colors are flattering. I do have a slinky pretied that I use to bicycle or at beach since if it gets wet , it dries quickly. I do wear a fall often because if we are out, it is cooler and if it rains,..nothing is really disturbed since it is a straight fall. My daughter 32, married a sephardi from Paris and I understand the scarf vs sheitel (wig) issue. I also am strongly aware of the kabbalistic benefits & reasons for hair covering...which a lot of Torah women are not aware of ...
Thank you for the compliment! I do love those colours. 😊
You're correct, a wig is not generally permitted according to the Halacha, which is a pretty major misconception that many people have.
For anyone else who see this comment and wonders about the Scarf vs. Wig issue, here's a great playlist to check out. ua-cam.com/play/PLfeqUDL5aojb62wRko79TIJLC7U4NAOEY.html
It’s beautiful! Thank you for sharing tips and family ❤
You are very welcome, Raquel! 😊
Beautiful
Such a lovely video Jayelle.
Thank you so much! 💗
dear jayelle, waiting for more of your videos. B"H you have so much to share. love valerie
Hi Valerie, more to come soon, bezH! I do have so much I want share, more ideas than time, unfortunately. 😂 Thanks for your support! 💗
Love it! You're the only other jew I know besides myself who wears chiffon scarves like Muslims 😬 Not sure why more Jews haven't discovered this elegance lol
Thank you! I do love chiffon, and I find the modest style of Muslim women beautiful and inspirational.
It's also very comfortable and not bulky! 🤗💗
I wear a simple israeli tieback scarf the back left out instead of tucked in. I prefer the neutral shades that are often found on the hijab websites.
The neutrals work well in North America, you blend in the crowd better and they look great with your everyday clothes.
Unless it's a wedding, you won't see the bright colored hijabs. The idea behind islamic color sensibility is to not attract attention. The neutrals get the job done, and chiffon is the most breathable.
It’s the original Christian and Jewish women’s headscarf style. Islam is 600 years younger than Christianity. Muslims look like us now they dress,,not otherwise.
I do use chiffon scarves too. They are smooth on the hair, reducing hair-breaking.
Lol I was about to write about how ugly those scarfs Look for real. Totally ugly
Boker Tov! My hair is so pathetic, nothing stays in or on it. So i keep it very short. For my scarf it is 70-80inch long, i use it and wear it all the time. I tie it with one side being slightly longer. The longer side curles up and is popped underneath the scarf to form a bun. Yank it! Then the other end wraps around the bun on the outside of the scarf to keep it secured. Lasts and stays all day!
I have also made under scarves from medical scrubs hats. Just made out of jersey and tighter to the head.
Thanks for sharing!😃
My veil is way shorter than yours, basically bandana length, BUT I MADE IT WORK! Somehow, even without the flaps, it looks so cute!! Thank you for this tutorial. I'm getting a way longer veil soon (I don't know when it will arrive but we're ordering it today), and I'll try it with that!! 🥰🥰🥰
Hope it works for you!
Hi. This is the first time I have seen your channel. Might you have an episode that addresses your conversion? thank you from Wyoming.
Hi and welcome! 😊
Conversion Story; ua-cam.com/video/yydVW-o7t84/v-deo.html
Conversion Q and A; ua-cam.com/video/n-vjsyLLMq0/v-deo.html
❤
I keep sabbath with my family,i too wear a headscarf while i read scriptures to them.😊
My future wife is very excited to use scarves and Tichels to cover her hair the day after our chuppah.
Im a chemo patient. Talk about a bad hair day!!! Well, at my age, 67, its been going downhill for a few years. So, thanks to videos like yours, and over on the arab side, hijab techniques, ive been under a scarf for 3 years now. You have the same soft neutral colors that work with my street clothes! Thanks!😊❤
The only reason I like the askhenazi version more is that you can see the ears, but it looks great for you. Btw. how is the spehardic tradition for widows? In some parts of the middle east I heard that they still would wear a scarf, but it should be black as to show morning for the loss.
Hi Liviu, I'm not sure about the halacha or custom for widows.
I am struggling with covering my hair. As a schoolteacher, I hate having to fuss with my apparel during the day, and I’m frequenting having to fuss with my tichel. Also, I’m quite intolerant of heat, and living in Texas, it’s super uncomfortable having anything on my head in the summer. I’ve tried using bands to hold the scarf in place but they give me a headache. Really hoping you have some suggestions, because at this point, I’ve stopped covering my hair because of the above difficulties.
Hi Sarah, thanks for your comment. I feel you, it is a struggle sometimes to find a style that works.
Have you tried any pre-tied tichels? Those are typically very lightweight and comfortable. Mine are from Israel (other than the one I sewed) but Sarah Attali Designs does some really nice ones that are available online.
Also for me, I like to go for very lightweight and thin material, chiffon or airy viscose weave.
I find that a good underscarf is really helpful to keep the scarf in place, so it might be something you could try instead. You might find it more comfortable and less tight than bands. 💗
Dear I don't see the links below.
Hi Mary, if you click on "Show more" in the greyish box area below the video, it will drop down the full description box for you. 🤗
I really like the color of the pre tied scarves you showed, I was wondering where you got them?
The solid pre-tieds I purchased at a boutique in Israel a few years ago. The patterned one I sewed myself. 😊
@@jayellealafi5797 Thank you for answering! If the Lord ever allows the opportunity to go I know I will be looking for some! 😅 You did a very fine job on your homemade covering! Did you happen to make a video on how you did it? I'm not a skilled seamstress at all but a head covering would be a fine way to practice ☺️
I haven't done a video on that yet, but it's a great idea to add to my list! 🤗
What material do you recommend for head scarves in summer when its very hot?
I like chiffon, it's very lightweight. There's also good options for thin cotton or viscose pretied's.
I'd avoid heavier pashmina or jersey. 😊
Hellow.im kenyan n i need to change n start a journey of modesty..im struggling to get clothe matching headcoverings
Where is the Pretie from that is taupe with layers of lace on it? (It’s the far on right one at 2:35 in your video)
That one I sewed myself. 😊
i get headaches and my head gets HOT do u have any of these issues
I want a reasonable explanation why head coverings are important.
Here is a playlist from Rabbi Yaron Reuven on the topic of modesty and head covering.
ua-cam.com/play/PLfeqUDL5aojb62wRko79TIJLC7U4NAOEY.html&si=_k70oc8t1uVTgOnN
If a Jewish woman is divorced should she wear a head covering?
Ask an orthodox rabbi...but with that being said. If it is going to deter finding another partner, then one can uncover. But most divorced/widowed women cover their hair..(they often have children so continuity and the brachot that come with covering our respective hair are still in effect)...if a divorced or widowed woman is looking for a partner, a shadcham or people in the community will know she is seeking a new partner so there usually is no need to uncover. There are very strong kabbalistic reasons to cover woman's hair.
Do you ever wigs or just tichels?
I talk about that in the video, I don't wear wigs as a head covering, only rarely as a costume. 😊
@@jayellealafi5797 sorry, i missed that part
I am an Indian Christian. I have a small doubt. Did kayun kill habel according to Hebrew Bible?
Yes. According to Genesis which is in the Torah as well as Genesis in the Christian Bible, Cain did kill Abel. Both religious traditions use the first five books of the Bible.
Yes, that's correct.
Thankyou for information madam
@@danielabraham2772 you’re very welcome 😊
Iam indan. Small doubt madam jews God Yahweh and islam God Allah there is one, are not
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Love from israel🇮🇱💙
Thank you! 😍
what if a single woman wants to wear one?
Please help
Dear Jayelle, very informative and interesting video, toda raba! I'm rather on the Messianic site ( except that I' m Anti-Zionist) and was "Christian" as you before. But......I struggle with the Messianiks' modesty, as they have none ( and do not necessarily wear skirts etc.) and so I tend to you, the ultraorthodox community...why is everything only so complicated??? Well, back to the scarf: I'm really interested why you ultrao. women out there are not shaving your heads at all? Wouldn' t it be a lot easier than this? I mean not totally bold like skin heads, because of course, this forbids us the Torah, but if you wear a scarf or some a wig anyway every day , why do you have still long hair, resp. when can your husband really see you with your natural hair? Shalom from Frankfurt, Germany🔯💯!
Hi Anita, the Torah says that women should have long hair, as it is her beauty. But it is beauty that is reserved for her husband only. He sees it when we are alone together.
Btw, messianic is still christian, and the worst kind because they misrepresent the Torah and the truth. See this video by Rabbi Reuven. ua-cam.com/video/35Ql-qA5uXA/v-deo.htmlsi=EGhQg-ARc2_QQPHw
Hello Jayelle, watched your video less than 5 minutes, because this man is cursing himself in blaspheming God's Word, sorry, that's it. I think we have to go separate ways, as there's no further agreement with both of us. Just one last thing I'd like you to think about is, that before you converted, you believed in the living God (Yeshua, not meaning any denomination, just biblical) , the New Covenant, and now as orthodox you're believing in a dead God, the Old Covenant, which is religion, because God Himself renewed this Covenant by sending Yeshua as faith of the Jews was only man-made tradition. Deep in your heart, you know that, as you by your conversion, have both covenants right before your eyes and you know the Torah & the Tanakh maybe better than me, you have the best prerequisites of a believer...it' s up to you. Blessings, A.
You look like Bella Hadid❤
Aww, thanks, that's sweet!💗☺️
Hi again, the head scarf, as you probably know, is worn by Sephardic Jewish women. Ashkenazi women wear wigs instead. Isn't the scarf hot, or make your head sweat? It looks so uncomfortable, two lairs of fabric, and folded...
It’s actually not the material is light the longer you have the more you get use to it
Are you Muslim ?
But respect all people
I really encourage you veiling but i hope you support Palestine, because there's no way for the double standards. We all believe in the same God. May God bless you and your family
Beautiful
Thank you! Cheers! 😊