Worst and longest relationship I've ever been in. No validation or appreciation for all of my self sacrifice. Any attempt on my part to plan or organize a future for us was viewed as controlling. Never wanted to REALLY know who I was. Sex was great though.... So great we lasted 13 years.
Why prop up your own “self sacrifice” as if it is so virtuous? That’s self indulgent. Genuine self sacrifice isn’t done for props and appreciation. It sounds like you have a martyr complex, and sex is purely an act of physical pleasure, devoid of meaning. If I’m misunderstanding your intentions, or character, I apologize, as I am only basing this on a single comment.
I’m an ENFJ n my gf is a Infj we been together for 4 years she is my best friend all though we have had our rough parts we are happy together
So happy to hear that! 😊
The ENTPs are giving you the side-eye. Hahaha
Don’t try to control her. You will be fine, if you listen more, and understand this.
@@violet18and we are giving estp a brutal eye roll….
Excellent.
Hi how are you hope you’re doing great 👍🏼
Hi, I am great, hope you are too ;)
When you say use your Fe does that mean expressing clear boundaries and saying 'no'?
Are you from Balkan?
Bosnia ;)
Worst and longest relationship I've ever been in. No validation or appreciation for all of my self sacrifice. Any attempt on my part to plan or organize a future for us was viewed as controlling. Never wanted to REALLY know who I was. Sex was great though.... So great we lasted 13 years.
Sorry to hear this :( . Were you the INFJ or ENFJ?
Why prop up your own “self sacrifice” as if it is so virtuous? That’s self indulgent. Genuine self sacrifice isn’t done for props and appreciation. It sounds like you have a martyr complex, and sex is purely an act of physical pleasure, devoid of meaning. If I’m misunderstanding your intentions, or character, I apologize, as I am only basing this on a single comment.
@@imi_xoENFJ
@@imi_xodon’t be too sorry. I think they have enough self pity for all three of us, combined.
@@imi_xonot even sure there was an actual INFJ involved in this entire relationship. Probably two ENFJs.