Why cheaters repeat, and why affair relationships fail

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  • @laura-2
    @laura-2 2 місяці тому +27

    It took 5 years for my marriage to end. 5 long years. Why were the years so long? Something started to happen that I never saw coming. He was controlling, verbally abusive and then…physically abusive. I came home one day and he was messing with the cat. I tried to stop him and he grabbed me by the throat and threw me across the room. He then threw the cat against the wall and broke her leg. She went to live with my parents after that. I could've told my parents but I didn't. I don't know why. After that it continued. I was punched, clawed, was constantly being yelled at about how I was fat, stupid, I didn't have a real job (I was a teacher) and so on. He told me that if it were legal he'd kill me. That was it. I kept saying that I wanted to get a divorce. He said he'd take our son if I did. But one day he said “fine, if you want a divorce then get a divorce.” I did, he tried to get back with me but I showed him the door after one night together.
    That's the reason I got a divorce. Thankfully it “only” lasted 5 years. No spouse should EVER have to go through that!!
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  • @truthsmiles
    @truthsmiles Місяць тому +2

    I cheated on my wife in my 20s - many times, and was divorced by 30. I’m nearly 50 now, have had two long term (7+ year) relationships and haven’t cheated since.
    What I believe made the difference for me wasn’t a fundamental change in ME, but instead learning to select partners who didn’t have hangups about intimacy. I didn’t cheat because I didn’t want my wife. I did, very much... she didn’t want me. I’m sure she had her reasons, but I will never make that mistake again.

  • @basiaramona68
    @basiaramona68 Рік тому +1

    I would be grateful for resources.
    Thank you that you are on UA-cam.

  • @Nonfiction.Reader
    @Nonfiction.Reader 3 місяці тому

    Good information.

  • @IsmynameDotcom
    @IsmynameDotcom 5 місяців тому +3

    She cheated on me, i caught her red handed her text messages those pictures, but she was mad because i checked her phone... She is mad and she blocked me. No remorse, no empathy

  • @amykatEMS1
    @amykatEMS1 5 днів тому

    Admits to it one day, denies it the next.

  • @MsAmira1988
    @MsAmira1988 6 місяців тому

    Great video, thank you

  • @joannabanana3372
    @joannabanana3372 5 місяців тому +2

    my ex. to a T. he cheated on me for four years. when I finally discovered he was cheating on me after 16 years of our relationship, he broke up with me and went back to his affair partner. I'm hoping this statistic is true.

    • @miaj5118
      @miaj5118 2 місяці тому

      Oh God I'm so sorry

  • @SEOshogun
    @SEOshogun 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this

  • @arthurbalcita4851
    @arthurbalcita4851 15 днів тому +1

    To the mistress, if a husband cheated on their wife,why do you think they will not cheat on you also? By Amelia

  • @juliaforest7039
    @juliaforest7039 2 місяці тому +2

    Do you have a video when the cheater is a narcissist?

  • @aludtke86
    @aludtke86 Місяць тому

    Especially if they have cheated in two marriages and are now with the second affair partner.

  • @joannabanana3372
    @joannabanana3372 5 місяців тому +1

    he never took ownership and blamed me and NEVER tried to earn my trust back. He just put me through hell for a month and a half after I discovered his affair. then we broke up because that's all he could take- a month and a half. He's living a lie still. have fun with your nurses while it lasts Johnny.

  • @cg1232
    @cg1232 2 місяці тому

    can you do the narcissist cheating video

  • @kcchong-s2i
    @kcchong-s2i 5 місяців тому

    Hi Coach can you talk about Hypergamy and good sex from lover ....not associated with Avoidant..

  • @joannabanana3372
    @joannabanana3372 5 місяців тому

    oh he's a coward.