The first part of your presentation was valuable. New Muslims need a lot of support. I didn't get it in 1994, and eventually I drifted away from Islam. Several times from Muslim(!) sources I have read and heard that here in North American, a majority of converts to Islam sooner or later fall away and do not continue in Islam. Lack of support is probably a major factor in that.
Alhamdulillah we're glad you found it valuable. And those are really sad statistics honestly, but I can totally see it happening. Reverting is such a big life changing decision, and after that bubble bursts you realize you're alone.. ofc you always got Allah swt, but feeling alone, outcast, a stranger in your own town or country, will affect even the strongest of Muslims. Without anyone to help and support us, before we know it, we slip back to old habits that eventually take us further from Allah swt 💔 May Allah swt guide us all and keep us on the straight path 🤲
I think a big help would be to get married to an intelligent educated and knowledgeable on Islamic matters. Hopefully then not only your spouse will offer you constant guidance, their family will also become a part of your support system. In such environment not only your journey becomes easier, bit also you never feel alone and left out. God bless
I wish that u can add arabic translation cuz i have diffcult to understand some words cuz of my english.(my english=🙃). But im very enjoying by watching ur videos especially memes videos .....and thank u for defending on our beautiful religion arigato❤❤❤❤
Indeed, we tend to overlook these things with new reverts. Thank you for bringing up an uncomfortable subject so comfortably. Thinking of getting that portable bidet now, wonder where u can get tt. By the way, soft chewy cookie is the way to go! 🥰🥰 Good job guys! May you recover soon! Ameen.
As salamu alaikum. I love you guys! This video is so helpful! As a new Muslim, I want to do everything the right way that is most pleasing to Allah subhanah wa ta'ala. I also really appreciate what you said about new reverts being dropped after the dust settles because it's absolutely true, unfortunately. My "baby sitter" has been UA-cam, and I appreciate sisters and brothers like you who take the time to provide this information (along with awesome editing!) to newbies like me. Jazak Allah khair.
Walaikum salam sis, and wa iyyaki ❤️ alhamdulillah I'm glad it was of benefit! I totally understand you, I'd look up every possible thing, and watch every islamic lecture to make sure I got things down right. It can be quite overwhelming, so after a while I focused more so on my fardh's and getting used to ie. praying in the middle of the night and so on. May Allah swt make it easy for us 🤲❤️ Feel free to message me on instagram (@frjulianne) if you wanna chat! - Julianne
Islam is teaching more about cleaning your butt and stuff like that. But Christianity is teaching more about salvation. Read the bible till you understand it. Or go through YOU tube of Christian Prince. Very interesting. You will know the bitter truth.
@@cynthialobo1500 hi cynthia! islam does teach similarly. remember that islam is not only a religion, but a way of life - things like cleanliness must also be taught:) not everyone knows how to stay (properly) clean, so islam (with the help of the qur'an and sunnah) has been able to teach us the basics as such. thanks for your concern though!!
1. We need to stay in touch with reverts after their shahada. Keep them close and make them family 👪. 2. We must be patient in how we teach them about Islam. Some Muslims are always harsh when correcting reverts. This needs to stop. 3. We Muslims can do better to accommodate new reverts. Excellent video. May Allah bless you both. Aameen.
well, I think using soap is a bit too much and water is enough and does the process! muslims would like to take a shower like at least 2 times a week like others and even recommended on Fridays (jumah) besides the mandatory ones that should be done at specefic circumstances...
If you feel comfortable with that and you achieve wudu friendly cleanliness then no need to change it because of this video :) soap can speed up the process as it breaks down the germs and may make it easier to wash off - especially if someone only has a water bottle
After number 1 I use dry toilet paper first then the moist toilet papers then water.( if no water option).I can wipe my body and check with the wet paper the particular area is clean or it needs more wiping yet. particularly upper and lower end of the but.
🔴 har vært i diskusjon en gang med mine kolleger om at de tørker seg mens de renser badet !! 😅 de passer på higena av selve badet via rensing mens de tørker seg med papir !!😂
Alhamdulilah! I hope reverts every have ways to find these types of valuable resources wherever they may be. Jazakallah Khair for the information - Ezi
Water should be sufficient, especially if you have a hose or bidet, but soap is a bonus and a good rule of thumb as soap will break down the bacteria so that it's easier to wash off/remove :)
@@halalsnackpack well...nice...thank you Sis. Btw, would like to ask, what scandinavian women expect from men especially Asians.....to be precise Muslims....I wish I would get one as my other half. Lol....just a question? 😁
Beste " plumbing " system jeg har sett og prøvd var i Tyrkia. Det finnes over hele landet. Enkelt å kontrollere og justere vannet. Om dere reiser en gang til Istanbul, Antalya, Alanya, Trabzon..prøver dere det selv
Kan dessverre ikke huske å ha sett den da vi var i Alanya for mange år siden, men vi reiste ikke så mye ut fra hotellet/stranda heller 😅 men alhamdulillah I Singapore er det overalt👊
@@halalsnackpack når man sitter ser man kran (nede til høyre) som kan skru på og av. Her man justerer strømning av vannet. Man kan justere det mens han sitter
The hand held bidet that attaches under the cistern is good
The first part of your presentation was valuable. New Muslims need a lot of support. I didn't get it in 1994, and eventually I drifted away from Islam. Several times from Muslim(!) sources I have read and heard that here in North American, a majority of converts to Islam sooner or later fall away and do not continue in Islam. Lack of support is probably a major factor in that.
Alhamdulillah we're glad you found it valuable. And those are really sad statistics honestly, but I can totally see it happening. Reverting is such a big life changing decision, and after that bubble bursts you realize you're alone.. ofc you always got Allah swt, but feeling alone, outcast, a stranger in your own town or country, will affect even the strongest of Muslims. Without anyone to help and support us, before we know it, we slip back to old habits that eventually take us further from Allah swt 💔
May Allah swt guide us all and keep us on the straight path 🤲
I think a big help would be to get married to an intelligent educated and knowledgeable on Islamic matters. Hopefully then not only your spouse will offer you constant guidance, their family will also become a part of your support system. In such environment not only your journey becomes easier, bit also you never feel alone and left out. God bless
I wish that u can add arabic translation cuz i have diffcult to understand some words cuz of my english.(my english=🙃).
But im very enjoying by watching ur videos especially memes videos .....and thank u for defending on our beautiful religion arigato❤❤❤❤
In sha Allah one day we can have different captions!
May Allah reward you
Amin Ya'raab! May Allah reward you with the same
Indeed, we tend to overlook these things with new reverts. Thank you for bringing up an uncomfortable subject so comfortably. Thinking of getting that portable bidet now, wonder where u can get tt.
By the way, soft chewy cookie is the way to go! 🥰🥰
Good job guys! May you recover soon! Ameen.
Ameen! I definitely wanna look into that portable one as well 😂
May ALLAH bless & protect you Brother & Sister. And may ALLAH guide non-Muslims to the truth.
Amin Ya'Raab. And for you the same brother!
- Ezi
As salamu alaikum. I love you guys! This video is so helpful! As a new Muslim, I want to do everything the right way that is most pleasing to Allah subhanah wa ta'ala. I also really appreciate what you said about new reverts being dropped after the dust settles because it's absolutely true, unfortunately. My "baby sitter" has been UA-cam, and I appreciate sisters and brothers like you who take the time to provide this information (along with awesome editing!) to newbies like me. Jazak Allah khair.
Walaikum salam sis, and wa iyyaki ❤️ alhamdulillah I'm glad it was of benefit! I totally understand you, I'd look up every possible thing, and watch every islamic lecture to make sure I got things down right. It can be quite overwhelming, so after a while I focused more so on my fardh's and getting used to ie. praying in the middle of the night and so on. May Allah swt make it easy for us 🤲❤️
Feel free to message me on instagram (@frjulianne) if you wanna chat!
- Julianne
Islam is teaching more about cleaning your butt and stuff like that. But Christianity is teaching more about salvation. Read the bible till you understand it. Or go through YOU tube of Christian Prince. Very interesting. You will know the bitter truth.
@@cynthialobo1500 hi cynthia! islam does teach similarly. remember that islam is not only a religion, but a way of life - things like cleanliness must also be taught:) not everyone knows how to stay (properly) clean, so islam (with the help of the qur'an and sunnah) has been able to teach us the basics as such. thanks for your concern though!!
1. We need to stay in touch with reverts after their shahada. Keep them close and make them family 👪.
2. We must be patient in how we teach them about Islam. Some Muslims are always harsh when correcting reverts. This needs to stop.
3. We Muslims can do better to accommodate new reverts.
Excellent video. May Allah bless you both. Aameen.
Ameen Ya Rabb. JazakAllahu kheyr!
ما شاء الله...
وفقكم الله و جزاكم الله خيرا.. 💯🤲
Soft and chewy ❤❤
Allha bless you both
Ameen
Ezi was smooth as sandpaper when he put his arm over your shoulder.🤕
Lmao he really was right 😂
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How do we dry after being all wet from cleaning after one and two ??? I have been using a small hand cloth
If you're at home you can just have a designated small towel for that :)
soft cookies
Julianne totally agrees
well, I think using soap is a bit too much and water is enough and does the process!
muslims would like to take a shower like at least 2 times a week like others and even recommended on Fridays (jumah) besides the mandatory ones that should be done at specefic circumstances...
If you feel comfortable with that and you achieve wudu friendly cleanliness then no need to change it because of this video :) soap can speed up the process as it breaks down the germs and may make it easier to wash off - especially if someone only has a water bottle
Bless you and your family ❤🕋❤
Amin Ya'raab! And for you the same!
After number 1 I use dry toilet paper first then the moist toilet papers then water.( if no water option).I can wipe my body and check with the wet paper the particular area is clean or it needs more wiping yet. particularly upper and lower end of the but.
🔴 har vært i diskusjon en gang med mine kolleger om at de tørker seg mens de renser badet !! 😅 de passer på higena av selve badet via rensing mens de tørker seg med papir !!😂
I saw you channel morning time and I love it💓💓💓🌹 keep going well. I subscribed
Alhamdulillah, JazakAllahu kheyr!
soft cookies for sure!!
Yesss team soft cookies!
Excellent video! Love the approach! It is totally true about the new muslims and also about giving advice
Alhamdulillah, Im glad you agree! JazakAllahu kheyran 💕
- J
IERA conduct a week long workshops in UK for reverts.
Alhamdulilah! I hope reverts every have ways to find these types of valuable resources wherever they may be. Jazakallah Khair for the information
- Ezi
Thanks a Million, May Allah Bless you The video is very helpful for new Muslims.
Jazakallah Khair! Thank you for your comment, we hope it can benefit new muslims Insha'allah. May Allah bless as well!
MashaAllah
I would prefer crunchy ones
Crunchy cookies with milk are 👌
Wash after number 2 with soap and water? First time I heard.. water should be sufficient?
Water should be sufficient, especially if you have a hose or bidet, but soap is a bonus and a good rule of thumb as soap will break down the bacteria so that it's easier to wash off/remove :)
Some people do use soap after number 2 and it does make it easier to clean the area and protects the skin from bacterial infections.
Betul.bnda kecil.perlu dititik beratkan.
Masha Allah. Allah reward u.
Jazakallah Khair. May Allah bless you with the same! Thanks for watching
Sis, is ur hubby Malay? He sounds Malay to me...the accent when he speaks English
Yes he's Malay Singaporean :)
@@halalsnackpack well...nice...thank you Sis. Btw, would like to ask, what scandinavian women expect from men especially Asians.....to be precise Muslims....I wish I would get one as my other half. Lol....just a question? 😁
Beautiful cupal
Jazakallah Khair!
Beste " plumbing " system jeg har sett og prøvd var i Tyrkia. Det finnes over hele landet. Enkelt å kontrollere og justere vannet. Om dere reiser en gang til Istanbul, Antalya, Alanya, Trabzon..prøver dere det selv
Kan dessverre ikke huske å ha sett den da vi var i Alanya for mange år siden, men vi reiste ikke så mye ut fra hotellet/stranda heller 😅 men alhamdulillah I Singapore er det overalt👊
@@halalsnackpack når man sitter ser man kran (nede til høyre) som kan skru på og av. Her man justerer strømning av vannet. Man kan justere det mens han sitter
Well done 👏 ... great video
Jazakallah Khayr for your comment! We hope you enjoyed it!
@@halalsnackpack Amiine, I definitely did 😊
12:04 waw, I want that
Search "Brondell GS-70 GoSpa Travel Bidet". It should show up!
Some muslim revert didn't know we should bath qhusul after sex too, after period , after giving birth as well
That's true and definitely an important topic