Why we’re really moving out // single mom of 3

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  • @Corinthians1614
    @Corinthians1614 11 місяців тому +217

    I am so glad Logan is still so present and available for the small things like back to school shopping. Whatever happened between you two, the fact that you guys worked it out for your kids is so awesome, I know many adults way older than y’all that couldn’t do it!

    • @sophie-mv8ee
      @sophie-mv8ee 11 місяців тому +3

      That's what matters most :)

  • @natalielawrence8809
    @natalielawrence8809 11 місяців тому +61

    This is such a perfect decision. I did this (as a single Mum) with my beautiful Daughter.. and she's now 23 and has the most extraordinary relationship with her awesome Grandparents. It was also so good for them. Family is everything. And this is such a great decision. I'm so proud of you. Great to see you and Logan shopping for Laela's school supplies. It was so nice to see his sweet face. And to see you both so comfortable with one another for the sake of your children. I sense that you will actually be very close friends with time 🥰

  • @lieschenmariechen
    @lieschenmariechen 11 місяців тому +51

    Yes sis! Women supporting women is what we actually need! Get and and give all the support! My daughter, my mum and me share a house, a garden and all our responsibilities. This is great!

  • @gnarlish
    @gnarlish 11 місяців тому +38

    The way life always finds a way to keep you close to your sisters ❤

  • @jaishapearson3225
    @jaishapearson3225 11 місяців тому +34

    The memories your girls will make with your sisters will be priceless plus its great having more help

  • @MelCarter000
    @MelCarter000 11 місяців тому +99

    As someone who has absolutely no family, take the family support if you have it ❤️

    • @ShockResistor
      @ShockResistor 11 місяців тому +7

      Her grandmother is elderly. They should be supporting HER, not the other way around.

    • @amyrivers4093
      @amyrivers4093 11 місяців тому

      ​@@ShockResistorshe does support her grandmother and she already helps with her younger sisters who are in the grandmother's custody so it's a win for all of them.

    • @amyrivers4093
      @amyrivers4093 11 місяців тому

      MelCarter I lost both of my parents in the last few years so like yourself I have no family. I am lucky that my best friend of 30 years (we met when we were 10 at school) family has adopted me.

  • @TheCatholicGirl
    @TheCatholicGirl 11 місяців тому +292

    Don’t rent rooms to friends unless you want to lose the friends

  • @chrissymancini4299
    @chrissymancini4299 11 місяців тому +30

    Someone gave me such good advice at one point in my life: never mix finances with friends or family. Totally understand why you would want to rent to friends, just be sure the friends are completely trustworthy. Lots of change for you but it sounds like you have your head wrapped around things pretty well and I'm so happy that you'll have more support and will be able to spend more time with your grandmother and your sisters. Support is what is most important as you build a new life for yourself and your girls. Go get 'em!

  • @jennabook9187
    @jennabook9187 11 місяців тому +23

    I would say pay the extra to have your yard cleaned up by a landscaping company. Nothing is worse then taking such a responsibility and giving that too a few friends… you would still be liable to pay when that aren’t able too and you would need to pay to fix things and I’m sure they wouldn’t want to keep up with the yard either so you’ll be more lenient when it comes to honestly everything because they are your friends. I would definitely recommend renting to a family someone who really would need and cherish your lovely home and table care of all the things that would be their responsibility, let alone the money difference you will forsure be making more money renting the whole house and you won’t be responsible for paying the rent if they fall short .

  • @amys5669
    @amys5669 11 місяців тому +17

    You pay more with a property manager but they handle all the issues. Plumbers etc. Friends can be unreliable, too.

  • @karenwrigley4674
    @karenwrigley4674 11 місяців тому +13

    Do you live near a hospital? If so maybe look into renting to traveling nurses. My aunt and uncle rent out their furnished rental that way and it’s awesome! They’ve never had any problems with tenants. It’s basically like air bnb but people say 3-6+ months at a time.

  • @shanayapacheco4273
    @shanayapacheco4273 10 місяців тому +6

    Definitely don’t rent to family or friends on your own….. will definitely be more stressful and not fun at all. Speaking from experience 😅

  • @BeccaBrubaker
    @BeccaBrubaker 11 місяців тому +121

    These comments do not pass the vibe check. I never leave comments on videos but I feel like it has to be said. I did not live with my grandparents growing up but they stayed with us a lot and it had such a positive impact on me. It sounds like this move is also super helpful for your grandma as you will be helping out with your sisters. Regardless of your reasons, don’t let random people on the internet shame you about decisions you’re making for your family. Your girls will remember the time they got to have a long sleepover with your grandma and sisters fondly when they’re older ❤

    • @jennabook9187
      @jennabook9187 11 місяців тому +4

      100% agree, even for her mental it’ll be a great idea nothing is better then being around family at a time like this her sisters would love having her move in ♥️

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 11 місяців тому +2

      It’s a positive thing!! Idk why some commenters feel a need to be rude. Some of us have to live with family to save money even after we start a family and that’s okay. Better than wasting money on rent.

    • @jjr1728
      @jjr1728 11 місяців тому

      I'll only support her if she's not into disgusting ethnic music and twerking.

  • @Hyperchick10hg
    @Hyperchick10hg 11 місяців тому +6

    Be very wary about renting to friends unless you have them sign a real lease, you can even have a property manager create one for your friends. That way if anything happens you have clearly designated that they are a tenant and don’t have rights to the property past a certain point of time. Even the best of friends can have misunderstandings so be sure to protect yourself and your property

  • @river8760
    @river8760 11 місяців тому +58

    I would definitely use a professional company for renting your house.

    • @jennabook9187
      @jennabook9187 11 місяців тому +5

      Thank you! I don’t see enough of these comments lol

  • @Virginia-1216
    @Virginia-1216 11 місяців тому +9

    I hope everything works out wonderfully for you and your girls. Taking care of yourself, your girls,a house and a big yard is a lot of work. Best of luck.❤

  • @TheONLYgoinnutz
    @TheONLYgoinnutz 11 місяців тому +11

    She was an infant but not newborn when I started following you. I remember watching you graduate. Hard to believe!

  • @katedaborowski2130
    @katedaborowski2130 11 місяців тому +18

    Do not rent to friends! It almost always ends horribly

    • @DreamaCorbyn1
      @DreamaCorbyn1 11 місяців тому

      How do you know? That friend or friends could end up keeping it clean.

  • @marymacdonald2379
    @marymacdonald2379 10 місяців тому +3

    Yasmyn, the people saying don't rent to friends are probably right. Easier to rent to a family with good credit. You could have a solid storage shed on your property to have free storage for all your stuff without bothering your tenants. Property managers just absorb rent money. Put details on keeping the outdoor areas into the rental contract.

  • @laceondiyne943
    @laceondiyne943 11 місяців тому +4

    You got this !!! Living and having family support is such a blessing
    ❤ you know what’s best for your family x trust your instincts

  • @hannahmize8679
    @hannahmize8679 11 місяців тому +16

    Don’t be surprised if that house ends up destroyed.

  • @1houseofhoney
    @1houseofhoney 11 місяців тому +45

    My car looks just like yours except I have only one child 😬 Just watched the rest but… was that Logan??? If so then I’m so happy that he went to go shopping with you both! That’s so refreshing to see. Also, I’d advise against renting rooms to friends. You should always keep your friends/family out of business situations when it comes to renting. Think about the potential cons and what could go wrong. I’m sure your friends are great people but… trust me. I’ve seen some crazy things happen. I think you guys should fix up the land and then potentially profit more off of renting it out through companies.

    • @lifebymel
      @lifebymel 11 місяців тому

      They went back to school shopping together

    • @1houseofhoney
      @1houseofhoney 11 місяців тому +1

      @@lifebymel I know!

    • @ilymiyah
      @ilymiyah 11 місяців тому

      Why’d yo have yo include you only have one child no one cares

    • @1houseofhoney
      @1houseofhoney 11 місяців тому +8

      @@ilymiyah are you ok?

    • @Scrumptious_93
      @Scrumptious_93 11 місяців тому +5

      @@ilymiyahshe was talking to the creator of the video not you. Clearly shes sharing with her NOT YOU how her 1 child has her car looking exactly the same as hers.

  • @iluvephramy
    @iluvephramy 10 місяців тому +1

    It was good to see Logan and see that you guys still have a good rapport! Good luck with your new chapter.

  • @bring_in_the_dancing_lobsters
    @bring_in_the_dancing_lobsters 11 місяців тому +3

    My son just started 1st grade AND lost his first tooth 😭 so not ready for my baby growing up ♥️ I’ve been here since the beginning. To see how far you’ve come is amazing. I am so incredibly proud of you. So proud.

  • @mruggier0
    @mruggier0 11 місяців тому +5

    Did I miss why you are moving in with the grandmother? That’s a lot for an elderly person to have four additional people moving in. Hope the girls are doing ok with so many changes in a short timeframe .take care

  • @oliver_theoil223
    @oliver_theoil223 11 місяців тому +4

    Good luck with all the changes!!!

  • @karagreen6191
    @karagreen6191 11 місяців тому +2

    I think it’s a great choice. Everything happens for a reason. You were mean to move in with your family. It might not feel like it right now but it will get better. ❤

  • @babibrii
    @babibrii 10 місяців тому

    Laela is so beautiful omg 😍 my son started kindergarten this year as well but he did prek last year. I’m also 22. It’s so exciting seeing our kids start school !

  • @mpill2001
    @mpill2001 11 місяців тому +1

    its a new chapter baby! youre doing great girly!

  • @sadeebianchi8865
    @sadeebianchi8865 11 місяців тому +5

    I love you and your videos always makes me happy seeing your videos pop up ❤️ even when your sad your happy or you try to be I love that 😊 your girls are so cute and I love watching them in your videos . Your such a good mom wish I knew you for real I think you would be so fun to hang out with such good vibes and i need that in my life . I hope everything else is good and keep your happy videos coming mama

  • @tiffanysobrevilla4051
    @tiffanysobrevilla4051 11 місяців тому +2

    U got this queen❤ I mean, look how far along u have come. U have been doing great🥹

  • @oliviapinter9478
    @oliviapinter9478 11 місяців тому +2

    This is a great plan I agree, also it's way better for safety reasons for you and the girls to live with your grandma and sisters for a while either that or get a big guard dog I would say lol ,❤I hope this adjustment of moving is easy on you guys! Also I feel like renting to friends is better also because you would have access to your shed and attic

  • @autumnhardin7330
    @autumnhardin7330 11 місяців тому +4

    You should try to post more i know u have a lot going on but we would love to see more vids cuz i will sit here and rewatch all ur videos while i clean and finish school work 🩵🤍🩵🤍🩵🤍🩵

  • @juliagillis96
    @juliagillis96 11 місяців тому +24

    If Logan is moving away will that effect how much he sees the girls? Will he come back eventually?

    • @adelinakrassy7630
      @adelinakrassy7630 11 місяців тому +1

      He’s moving away??

    • @amieambrose1861
      @amieambrose1861 11 місяців тому +8

      @@adelinakrassy7630did you watch the video? She talked about it in the car toward the end of the video.

    • @lillianmazhura5816
      @lillianmazhura5816 11 місяців тому +1

      @@adelinakrassy7630yah he’s moving for work I think . I’m sure she said that in a previous vlog but I’m sure he’ll be able to see the kids as much as possible

  • @haileymarie225
    @haileymarie225 11 місяців тому

    Change is so hard even when it’s a change you want and are excited about, it’s okay to have mixed feelings!

  • @Thelifeofmegan9621
    @Thelifeofmegan9621 11 місяців тому

    ik how you feel about feeling really good and lime your on top of the world and then another time being really low and struggling

  • @Angela-yo8pn
    @Angela-yo8pn 11 місяців тому +19

    Renting to friends😬

  • @olivia2358
    @olivia2358 11 місяців тому

    im so happy you are releasing more music!!

  • @thepraterfam5895
    @thepraterfam5895 11 місяців тому +7

    Also, this is random, but whatever happened to the white Jeep that you had??

  • @leisahammonds4479
    @leisahammonds4479 11 місяців тому +2

    As a land lord i will tell you to never rent to family or friends. And to definstely use a rental company. It afforda you many more orotections than doing it on your own.

  • @thepraterfam5895
    @thepraterfam5895 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m happy for you girl whatever you need to do that is best for you and the girls

  • @India-eb6wl
    @India-eb6wl 11 місяців тому

    Girl this was my motivation to clean my car today, toddler cars are ROUGH. ALSO, I also (as a single mom) live with my daughter and my grandfather after my grandma passed away. It takes a village to raise little ones. I hope this time is healing for all of you

  • @izzies758
    @izzies758 11 місяців тому +10

    Use a professional company for renting.

  • @amyrivers4093
    @amyrivers4093 11 місяців тому +1

    It sounds like you have made a wise decision for all of you including your grandmother and sisters. Be very careful if you rent to friends.

  • @i_dontreallycare
    @i_dontreallycare 11 місяців тому +37

    At some point you gotta stop bouncing these girls around. I love you guys but the moving around has gotta settle down, the girls need a home.

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 11 місяців тому +5

      They aren’t bouncing around? Nothing wrong with moving in with your grandparents/family. Saves money and you get a livelier house.

    • @Crystal_1992
      @Crystal_1992 11 місяців тому +2

      She literally has lived in that house for a couple of years. Theyll be fine

    • @hihola4444
      @hihola4444 11 місяців тому +13

      @@potato1084over the span of Laela’s life they’ve moved at least 8 different times. I like Yasmyn a lot but that’s definitely bouncing around.

    • @cloudedcolour5329
      @cloudedcolour5329 11 місяців тому +4

      @@hihola4444 in the span of my eldests school career (7 in primary, 5 currently in post primary) shes moved 17 times, the location movings not what makes it stable, its the people in it staying consistant

  • @jennie3353
    @jennie3353 11 місяців тому +3

    off topic but you’re soooo pretty❤️ you still look like a teenager to me😂

  • @christinahaythorne3633
    @christinahaythorne3633 11 місяців тому

    I stayed with my grandma after i saw my dad every summer. If i could move back in with her i definitely would

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 11 місяців тому +1

    Good morning Yasmin happy Tuesday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

  • @aprilcoxxx96
    @aprilcoxxx96 11 місяців тому

    Don't forget to pack up y'all's pictures and kitchen stuff, outside furniture and your flowers

  • @barbaradillard8013
    @barbaradillard8013 11 місяців тому

    You need. Tob so proud of yourself Raising 3 fields & doing it all is definitely a job the best n the world❤

  • @kl_auth
    @kl_auth 11 місяців тому

    I’ve been here since e your first video! I can’t believe Laela is going into kindergarten!!

  • @Karen_Dasso
    @Karen_Dasso 11 місяців тому

    I love Logan’s peek a boo ! lol

  • @casseysymanski6873
    @casseysymanski6873 11 місяців тому +7

    Girl I’ll rent your house!!!

  • @LifewithLanLan255
    @LifewithLanLan255 11 місяців тому +2

    Hey Yasmine ik this question seems random, but what song did you use for the intro you had at the beginning of your channel? I liked the song and all the time later I went back to find it but yt took the sound away. I'm guessing for copyright issues. Also have a great night!

  • @4funLaura
    @4funLaura 11 місяців тому +1

    Karla is absolutely beautiful! So are you and the other girls.

  • @amyv4026
    @amyv4026 11 місяців тому +1

    You could rent it out yourself to anyone and be the landlord

  • @siennakay3922
    @siennakay3922 11 місяців тому

    yay love the vlogs

  • @kassidypaige8638
    @kassidypaige8638 11 місяців тому

    So crazy how much Venice resembles you lol random but it’s just my observation yall are all beautiful girls 💜

  • @ryleaparker6339
    @ryleaparker6339 11 місяців тому

    you have got this

  • @user-hd1gk6gq6d
    @user-hd1gk6gq6d 11 місяців тому +4

    How are you and Logan both doing separately if you don’t mind me asking?

  • @Angela-xv6yf
    @Angela-xv6yf 11 місяців тому +2

    Are you high?

  • @amyv4026
    @amyv4026 11 місяців тому

    Where’s Logan going and why?

  • @syd9162
    @syd9162 11 місяців тому

    Hiii what sort of ukulele do you have?

  • @valeriag8205
    @valeriag8205 11 місяців тому

    school has already started? Or is this recorded a bit ago?

  • @anagrimm6300
    @anagrimm6300 11 місяців тому +1

    Are u and Logan friends

    • @cloudedcolour5329
      @cloudedcolour5329 11 місяців тому

      yep and thats the most responsible and mature approach to co-parenting

  • @Laurensilver2003
    @Laurensilver2003 11 місяців тому

    Would you ever begin to start dating women or mostly stick with men? Genuinely curious

  • @adrijanacernjajev
    @adrijanacernjajev 11 місяців тому

    Not mine but my mom's car yup....

  • @giamarianna
    @giamarianna 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @kateashley9269
    @kateashley9269 10 місяців тому

    I don’t have any kids and my car looks worse than that. So .. 😂

  • @Mr.tex12384
    @Mr.tex12384 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @ethanmenzel
    @ethanmenzel 11 місяців тому +10

    I'm literally watching a girl clean out her car. What am I doing with my life?

  • @bellesierina2073
    @bellesierina2073 11 місяців тому +4

    Are you moving because of your new bf? So your family can look after the girls?

  • @rachelmarie437
    @rachelmarie437 11 місяців тому +4

    Aww you guys are back together ❤

    • @lifebymel
      @lifebymel 11 місяців тому +2

      Wait who said that lol

    • @emmaguenther5652
      @emmaguenther5652 11 місяців тому +9

      i don’t think so. her last video she said she was sorta dating someone new.

    • @69kat69
      @69kat69 11 місяців тому +3

      Wtf why would u think that lol

    • @xwrtk
      @xwrtk 11 місяців тому +4

      He lives with parents when Yasymn last told us.

    • @rachelmarie437
      @rachelmarie437 11 місяців тому +2

      Because they’re back together hanging out in vlogs , didn’t mean their back in a relationship

  • @teamschroeder8396
    @teamschroeder8396 11 місяців тому +6

    Imagine thinking it is a lot of work enrolling your child in school. Honey that isn’t hard. Come back to earth.

  • @jannelmartinez5203
    @jannelmartinez5203 11 місяців тому

    First!! Keep going !

  • @julianabisacquino3084
    @julianabisacquino3084 11 місяців тому +4

    Logan ❤

  • @tortia928
    @tortia928 11 місяців тому

    Earlyyyy

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 11 місяців тому

    Great Video! What a Beautiful Family I Love This Sweet N Beautiful Family Yasmyn your Stunning Logan Is adorable Laela Is pretty!!! Analia Is just drop dead gorgeous Baby Millie Is precious!!!!! I Love You Guys With All My Heart!!!!!

  • @Kayyy-
    @Kayyy- 11 місяців тому +8

    Girl sell the house. Renting is going to be a nightmare

    • @bubbleblossom333
      @bubbleblossom333 11 місяців тому +1

      Do you own a house?

    • @Kayyy-
      @Kayyy- 11 місяців тому

      @@bubbleblossom333 sure do!

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 11 місяців тому +1

    Ya'll should reunite with Maddie Lambert again that would be fun!!!!!

  • @isabellegrace697
    @isabellegrace697 11 місяців тому

  • @thedrewbear4
    @thedrewbear4 11 місяців тому

    Oh man!! I miss Logan in the vlogs. :(

  • @green39257
    @green39257 11 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful lady, how many centimeters are you tall and how many kilograms do you weigh?
    I am one hundred and seventy two centimeters and sixty two kilograms

  • @user-yn7pl7fo2u
    @user-yn7pl7fo2u 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @DustinGriffith-wu8wg
    @DustinGriffith-wu8wg 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤