Why is the Narcissist So Mean to You?

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 47

  • @timmy3012
    @timmy3012 7 років тому +74

    Made me homeless 5 times. Stole my entire life of 21 years. Stole my childhood. My youth. One time I slept on the street in a large city with cockroaches everywhere. I had no where to sleep. I immediately got up and slept elsewhere. They also threw me in jail.These people are severely deranged and evil. Let them die off. Ignore them until they die.Physically and In ones mind.

    • @bluhummingbird2179
      @bluhummingbird2179 7 років тому +15

      Hey There That's terrible. I love how you stayed sane after all of that. You're brave and wise person. Its good that they made you better not bitter and not filled with toxins. I hope you're well. You're in my prayers.

    • @OneHope4Heaven
      @OneHope4Heaven 7 років тому +13

      Hey There
      I've taken it for 52 years from these "family" members of mine ... (blood relatives by definition only cuz they don't know the TRUE meaning of family) & their demise can't come soon enough! it's RIPE & OVERDUE! How long does the "leash of free choice" have to BE for these wastes of space ANYway??!! It's like being forced to stay in a room with no windows after someone just FARTED out DEVIL'D eggs! (YES .... Pun Intended!!!)

    • @maryrichardson6029
      @maryrichardson6029 7 років тому +4

      Hey There I love choice of words and explanation. I totally understand what you are talking about. my narc is the last of the old ones. I am no contact. I couldn't be happier. my nick name was "little Fart Smeller". This narc family was big on darting.. Some how we have to be relate. my narc mother is doing her best (key word Best) to love bomb me. No contact and when she passes...it will be " Jimmy crack corn.....".

    • @movadoband
      @movadoband 7 років тому +3

      that's an old joke, instead of calling someone a smart fella, they say fart smeller :) maybe you are the smartest one in the group and that's why they call you that, it could become a compliment with the proper perspective.

    • @angelb7578
      @angelb7578 7 років тому +5

      Hey There If you were like them you would bother them so much. Focus on God and yourself.

  • @k.a.wippel7949
    @k.a.wippel7949 6 років тому +27

    I've been called mean when I fight back.Yep. Everything is my fault. God forbid I should want privacy and will not give up control of my own life.

  • @lastjob2011
    @lastjob2011 7 років тому +30

    its easy to recogize physical abuse - you can usually see bruises. its easy to recognize verbal abuse - you can often hear it.
    But narcissistic abuse is mental and usually over a long period of time. Plus the abuser is a master manipulator and gas-lighter. She/he can use all kind of tricks to make you question and second-guess yourself.
    I played the role of a double agent for over 4 months while I got my affairs in order. No arguing, no letting on that I was finally onto his game. When the last piece of business was done (light bill taken out of my name) I let my ex-husband have it (right in the parking lot) and walked away. That was July 2016.
    I's free now!!

  • @israelcrucifiedinchrist797
    @israelcrucifiedinchrist797 7 років тому +17

    amen we all must learn

  • @Arcticmj87
    @Arcticmj87 7 років тому +27

    I was told I was the narcissist even though my crime was telling them how much I cared and it was in my empathic nature to try and help fix them, in the end I was discarded they found new supply and pretend I never existed and it hurts

    • @bluhummingbird2179
      @bluhummingbird2179 7 років тому +4

      Onion Face Amen.

    • @Arcticmj87
      @Arcticmj87 7 років тому +3

      That is very true its all about projection, they will feed off you till there's nothing left. Despite them saying they never want to talk again I guess you never know and its a wise idea to put your defenses in place.

    • @Arcticmj87
      @Arcticmj87 7 років тому +5

      I was labeled a toxic codependent, but the difference is I decided to talk to someone to try and get better, all they did was find new supply and I assume its only a matter of time before they run through that supply.

    • @bumberClart1000
      @bumberClart1000 7 років тому +11

      Michael Boyle never give up Micheal.. never! Don't argue or fight back, go no contact.Give yourself some time to heal. We do heal if we put the self help work in. It takes a little time but is achievable with solid belief and daily practice. You deserve better and are SO worthy as a decent, caring, loving human being. It hurts for sure but that hurt will diminish with understanding of the narc condition. Knowledge is power. I wish you the best in your recovery 🤔💚✌️

    • @mr.t382
      @mr.t382 6 років тому +4

      This is probably the best thing I have seen. Looking for the first time and coming to some realizations. Everything is Not “my fault!” And she never will take responsibility for her words/actions just try to destroy me.
      Thank you sooooo much - I will watch the rest!

  • @bluhummingbird2179
    @bluhummingbird2179 7 років тому +22

    I agree. They're big assholes and they have no self respect for others let alone themselves. Narcissism is spreading so easily around the world that its crazy. I have faith in myself to know that I'm being treated like shit and I deserve way better than this bull. Every dog has it's way of tricks. Karma will come sooner or later for them trust and believe.

    • @bluhummingbird2179
      @bluhummingbird2179 7 років тому +3

      ActiveEnergy Of course you'd have to take full responsibility of your own faith. The narc hasn't, so what makes the situation better by just putting your life in their hands? Foolish thinking I'll tell you that. By Karma I mean their consequences at a later time.😁😁

    • @lostfound6819
      @lostfound6819 7 років тому +1

      Julian Washington Keep spreading the word about these freaks. That's what I do :)

  • @chrisgreen6454
    @chrisgreen6454 7 років тому +14

    It's hard to escape when you have children with her

    • @daniellee1722
      @daniellee1722 7 років тому +4

      Chris Green Do whatever it takes to show your kids how normal people behave. As far as your ex-wife or whatever, I wish you well. I also can't go no contact. These narcs in my life, their kids are my niece and nephews, who I will always love.

  • @jackielendel1530
    @jackielendel1530 6 років тому +7

    I'm only 15 and the narcissist in my life is 16. But your videos help me :)

  • @vernitaporter7864
    @vernitaporter7864 7 років тому +6

    thanks

  • @kerripotkonen4300
    @kerripotkonen4300 7 років тому +6

    Great video

  • @Mrbuzz12
    @Mrbuzz12 7 років тому +16

    Can narcissists hire strangers to abuse you? I think I am a targeted individual because of my narcissist parents.

    • @anm9059
      @anm9059 7 років тому +4

      God Society yes, they can and do.

    • @emmnauelmercedes9228
      @emmnauelmercedes9228 6 років тому +8

      They will call police on you and make false claims.
      My NPD Mom says she will hired somebody to kick my ass but she never did.
      She used my fat ass brother to rage and fight with me for stupid things.
      They will use your siblings and relatives and friends to go against use.
      My NPD Mom tried to disconnect me from my Best friend. They spread lies to your friends.
      They know how to manipulate your feelings. They try hard to get you mad on purpose so you can fight them and so they can call police.

  • @lbhjvv6974
    @lbhjvv6974 6 років тому +7

    God help them

  • @israelcrucifiedinchrist797
    @israelcrucifiedinchrist797 7 років тому +6

    amen they are the victim blessings

  • @kevinturner3400
    @kevinturner3400 7 років тому +6

    Like

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 7 років тому +3

    Ill donate how?