Everything this guy says, can be summed up by remembering 1) ignore women, and they'll pursue you and 2) Make sure they love you more than you love them
If you love yourself and truly feel it so, others , woman, children, animals will also feel that and will love you, not knowing why! Love radiates, people in joy it, you can’t hide it. I experienced it today and believe me, three woman over 10 minutes showed their interest: smile smirk acknowledgement, even one that Looked like Whitney Houston. I challenge all men, silence speaks
These are great tactics for men but your strategy is: 1. Keep your friends 2. Follow your hobbies and passions 3. Lift weights 4. Keep busy, try new things & places 5. Dress smart 6. Don't be needy or prevaricate, be independently minded and goal driven 7. Thats it, live a life worth living for you and if a woman comes along for the ride thats cool but its not the be all. She will slip anchor eventually and you will still have your life, friends, interests and passions. Too many men surrender all the above after placing her on a pedestal - the very thing that leads her to despise you. You build the monster she becomes.
He is actually right, give her time and see what direction she goes you can even give it a few months if still nothing they get back in her life but be very tactical about it , don't give off any needy energy and make it as casual as possible example 'yo saw someone with your exact nerdy laugh I could swear it was you' she will respond very fast be slow to reply and don't arrange a meet up just yet let it be random and seemingly unplanned
Truth. I'm trying to glean from this video if not to say these questions (makes sense), what do you say? To find the middle ground between talking shit looking adamant and being silly for them We're supposed to contact girls based on our attraction to them without talking about it. Everything is implied
I had a date with a total smoke show once, my ideal woman, at least physically. I was already thinking that I should lock her down etc. and when the date came, she didn't even show up. I was so gobsmacked. Why would you promise to do something and then not do that? It is something I would never do, just out of a sense of personal honor, to be a man of my word. Also it's just respectful to the other person. The next time I saw her at her place of work, I asked her what happened. She said "I was tired and didn't feel like it." Again gobsmacked. "You were tired?, O.K., why didn't you call me then? cause I waited and waited and it was really maddening" or words to that effect. She just looked at me with this incredulous look, like "how dare you speak to me like that? I'm a hot girl, I do whatever I want." Needless to say things didn't work out. But point is, I was so naive as to how women actually are, because I assumed they were like myself. I now know better. They live in a parallel universe. They live in "girl world" where the whole world revolves around them and men are just there to serve them. It's so ironic because at University I learned that we live in a Patriarchy and women are oppressed and men are just violent pigs. Reality is so the opposite.
I can understand and reality is nobody talk about it while growing up. It’s the guys like @caseyzander who learn from the experience and then share it too without thinking twice.
@@HerveMendelldoesn’t surprise me at all, sadly. She knows there’s a line of Simps who don’t care that she treats people this way and will still date her without a second thought. The same Simps who leave FB comments on her thirst-quencher pics like “You’re a Goddess” and “So Hot…”
Had a similar thing where I told a girl I don’t online date and don’t really like being friends with women either thinking it’d put her off but it didn’t
I’m not disagreeing with any of this. But I will say this, if a woman desires you, truly desires you. She won’t read into a lot of the texts. As long as you not coming off as over needy. Don’t be a stalker. But if she truly wants to be with you, she will appreciate hearing from you even though a crappy text. If she pulls back over simple text messages, fellas you dodged a bullet. Be yourself, don’t be afraid to reach out and make plans, don’t be needy and controlling.
There’s a healthy balance. You have to be strong enough to shoot your shot and go for it for women you like. But at the same time be willing to walk away and drop like a bad habit if they don’t match energy. It’s cool, plenty of other fish. But hey at least you know and you don’t have to obsess or fantasize
Well she will read into it to some extent if you make her feel insecure in her position with you. But yeah, When you really like someone you see them through rose colored glasses, things they wouldn’t put up with from others become invisible. BUT you need to position yourself for her to have desire in the first place. The higher value she perceives you the more SMV you have to burn through for her to lose attraction.
This is absolutely true, but yet I still would never send a “how are you doing” message, etc. 1) I almost never message a girl first. 2) 99% of the time girls ask me out. I rarely ever ask a girl out and when I do it’s usually justfor the first 1 or two 2 dates. And usually I ask for the first date when I meet a girl for the first time. If the interaction is good I get her number and tell her I’m really busy, but I have one day free to get a drink. Sometimes I’ll hook up that night, which is also common if we met out at a club. If the interaction is good I’ll set up a date, on my terms, and then I’ll say, ‘great, see you on X day, I’m busy I gotta go.” And walk away. 3) in the meantime I don’t message her. She can message me if she wants, but I’ll delay my responses and message her back when I’m ready. And I keep the interaction short, light, funny, sarcastic, teasing, etc. Girls love this. And if she doesn’t then she’s not my type anyway. 4) And fuck no to “good morning” or “good night” texts, unless she messages me first, then sometimes I’ll respond. But sometimes I don’t, if I’m busy and out with another girl, especially. Although, the other night I slept with a girl and while I was at her place I took a call from another girl. 😂 fucking savage. That only made her want me more. 5) texting is for setting up dates, not for banter. If you’re always available she’s going to think you have nothing going on. If your texts are too “friendly” you’re going to kill the sexual tension. 6) Mystery and secrecy are key. I’m still dating girls who don’t know what I do for a living and who always tell me “you’re such a mystery.” “You’re so secretive.” But they love it. Ever once in a while I’ll tell them a story about me, keeping it fun, and that’s like a gift to them. They feel privileged to know a little more about my life. They will literally sit like a child full of anticipation to hear something about me, because it’s a rare occurrence. Keep the mystery alive. 7) While ignoring text message I will post a pic of me out having fun on social media. Often with a girl, or girls, in the picture. Next thing I know another girl I’m dating will start blowing up my phone with messages. Women love to chase. 8) just remember that if you don’t give them anything they will eventually get pissed of and “lose your number.” So, keep in mind that you have to reward their chasing and good behavior with some attention and validation at some point. Just not too much, and pull it back to allow them to chase some more. 9) If you decide to deeper with a girl you’re dating, and maybe get into a relationship, then things change a bit, and you have to invest a little bit more time. But you still let them feel that they have to chase you and enter YOUR life, not the other way around.
and yes, i get it that if you're focused on your business then you dont have to play the games because it becomes automatic, BUT, the desire and focus towards the woman comes UNDERNEATH the desire and focus of a business, it's a base level emotion and desire, google spiral dynamics etc --.. its a lower one. So, without that present, you won't be able to get up to the business building part. In short, it's like saying you should go for a run without legs. the base part is missing.
Older women are just as emotionally charged. They are still operating on their feelings. I had an older woman - i am 25, she is 49 - get frustrated because i didnt call or message her back
Big dawg… this shit works. Holy fucking shit. Completely saved my marriage. Wife had separated and moved out. Got her back and we’re stronger than ever before thanks to this content. Thanks, Casey!
There’s a difference though between ignoring on purpose in a playing games way or just ignoring because your to busy working on yourself and staying busy. Your purpose if your highest priority, women should always be second and your women will understand this subconsciously and respect you more… love you more.. treat you better.
I have a childhood best friend that kills it with women. He has this attitude of indifference. Women get on planes to travel to see this dude. Women from out of the country invite him out to their homes in foreign countries. He is indifferent because he has SOOO many options and avenues to keep himself entertained. They will see this man at 4am 6 am doesn't matter the time. It's crazy. You wouldn't believe it unless you witnessed it first-hand.
Lol i have a friend like that too, he doesnt give a s, but even for these guys its becoming harder, he had to lower his standards and knok some blue haired monsters from time to time
You can't follow a "programme"...nobody can solve your own problems 'cause you are unique....Just get out there and live ! Do you really think somebody else has the answers for your own issues??? NO ! You do, you have to go through stuff and find out what works for you !
Sadly, the internet is full of these people, and the weak gullible one's that fall for their scams. Couldn't agree more still, just live your life, and don't give your money away to scum-bags like Casey!!!!!
Yeah Ive lost girls that have started off as being obsessed to over communication... they kind of bait you on text and you start talking... and then when you try to see them they make excuses but keep on texting... until they just stop. Ive started deleting numbers so after I reply... its impossible to double text. It seems to get some mileage but... even after a great make out/date... almost always goes the same way. they text, I take the bait, overcomminicate, get nervous and clingy... try to pin em down for a plan... and they smell feelings. The less I care the better they treat me.
There is only 2 major problems with this: 1, Girls who are hot will meet another guy very quickly and forget about you immediately regardless of you not texting her. 2, more of a question! How are we supposed to attract the ones that are on demand without a massive instagram following with only fee posts a week.
If you can't attract, then you are simply not attractive. Therefore, the simple solution is.. be attractive. Get ripped, be well groomed, and dress well. And work on your confidence, don't be weak and simpy. I personally don't bother with instagram, but it's all about perception, so you can create the best perception you can. DMs are really just numbers game. You might catch her interest, but she might still miss it simply because she gets tons of DMs from random dudes.
#1 who cares. After s3x you should realize they dont offer anything much else besides some good vibes bro and other than that they are all ticking time bombs dont you got other things you care about ?
Yes if you are a Chad and women pursue you in the first place, literally something that doesn't happen to the bottom 80% of men in their entire lifetime even once.
Truth is, sometimes it has nothing to do with you at all, you don’t even know this person, who knows what they got going on Learn to shake off shit and don’t attribute what you don’t know to personal fault I’ll say that much
If she's interested, she's interested and will co-operate, if she isn't, she isn't, and if she's playing games, she'll play games. And that's all you need to know!!!!! You don't need these tactics, they're stupid anyway, they will only co-operate if they're interested. I learnt the games the hard way, and you never really had a shot to begin with anyway, all this dating coach garbage will barely make a difference - they're all scammers.
this is so laughably wrong...i work as photographer in the fashion industry and i interact with many beautiful and above average looking women. they have plenty of guys hitting them up constantly so even if they are interested in you they are overwhelmed with attention from men. if you really want her you need to ping her couple time without coming off as needy. think about it in terms of a closing a sale as a salesman. you are essentially pitching yourself to her. also beautiful girls arent going to chase most guys, it just not in their nature. my advice....be upfront tell her you're interested, be friendly, masculine and be yourself. girls can sniff out inauthenticity real quick
You're saying the same thing. When you said "dont come across as needy", this video is how to achieve that. The type of guy who benefits from this advice is the one who is already blowing up her phone with cheese.
Oh, and I call BS on girls being able to sniff out inauthenticity. If that were the case, you wouldn't have so many broken hearted and divorced women. The best action I've ever gotten was when I was pretending to not have flaws. If I even hint that I'm not perfect or that I have self doubts, they're gone. You basically have to approach it like a narcissist, but that says the right things. Women are all about words. If you say the right things, they'll eat you up.
Truth is..... By operating this way with women..... You are essentially consistently considering her feelings..... While appearing to not necessarily be considering her feelings.
@jakeurdangen8932 You are generally always considering how they are going to feel or emotionally perceive your actions and behavior...... While appearing to be completely oblivious, as if you are just naturally doing everything right to maintain her interest and desire..... When in essence you are manipulating her emotional psychology because you understand true feminine nature.... Basically.
Yea thats why you need to actually not care not think ur big brain tryna manipulate her by trying to act like u dont care. Keep banging girls eventually you will get screwed over so bad you realize how they really are. Until that happens and you feel the pain you wont ever stop caring. This is why the more women you get the more women you get and the people stuck at the bottom get nothing... cuz its all they care about. Nothing women despise more than a man that hasnt played the field and been hurt gives incel energy whats this ur first gf bro
I used to be the one who would trip about if the girl I have been talking to isn’t texting me back within a couple of hours then I realized why does it matter so much about over the phone communication when in person we vibe and it’s great times together so overall you guys need to stop worrying about texting so much and if you and a chick are having a connection in real life that’s all that matters and that is what ultimately leaves your imprint in her mind 😊
ngl this kinda of contradictory cause u keep saying “the player doesn’t care” so why should i care about texting her “wyd today” and why should i care how this makes her view me? i’m a player in real life with triple digit body count.. maybe it’s because im a different race than u, i get different results but texting wyd today or “wyo” is definitely not a bad thing in my universe. especially with the girls that’s only there to smash. but on the other hand, you are right.. texting “wyd” before u smashed is not the move. it depends on if u already in or not
I was a doubter Casey….but now I believe 😂 I get u have to make money but that’s what scared me away at first. I can tell tho this guy is definitely above 90% of other “dating coaches” this dudes just understands women lol
I disagree with the planning part. If anything it shows you are in control. Also message length is true to a degree as long as it’s almost as long as she’s texting you back. For example if she messaged you 8 lines, it’s ok if you message here back with about 8 lines.
its also good to ghost a women first. always. do it towards the befining. make her get ready and then tell her your sorry lol. she will get mad. she might not even block you. i
Ngl casey i never had a problem with women before. Every first date I went on I was able to make it a relationship or something fun. I started watching your videos and doing the shit you say to do and it’s all fell apart. I’ve been on 5 first dates over the past 2 months and nothing has worked out in my favor. I’d have girls telling me “I can’t wait to see you again” then ghost me and not reply. I try to focus on myself yet I’m constantly wondering “wtf is happening?” It legitimately feels like something outside of my power is stopping these potential relationships from working out. I’m completely fuckin lost and honestly about to just give up and stay with my main girl cus I can’t manage to get anyone else. Pisses me off but ig it’s my own doing.
Your problem is that you’ve been conditioned to see these interactions as transactional from these “battle strategies” versus actually vibing and connecting with your subject. This is the whole problem with this PUA bullshit which is only designed to give terrible advice in order to make money and you’ll get the “secret sauce.” But as a real Chad let me impart the real sauce: “No vibe=No survive.” Think about before you were making mental checklists in your head to lead to a transaction, you were lucky hmmm? There is not some malefic force all of sudden cockblocking you that’s this dumbass programming from these Internet lifestyle salesman purposely wrecking your dating life for views, clout , and entering into subscription based and unaccountable money grubbing.
I’d love never to text again, casey. i don’t even want to do it, and after the first date i generally don’t. the struggle i see with this is how are we supposed to set the first date if we don’t? that’s always the hardest part for me, setting the first date. if i get the girl on a call, that’s when i constantly set dates, but often times they just want to text how do i get around this?
You’re right but not totally…… I have had experience with way more pretty ladies and made first moves and it got me success but the game is I’m okay not hearing from them and never get attached . Sometime you gotta show up …. Just like ads 😂 but don’t be comfortable and don’t do too much less is more
My last lil hottie actually called me a player while acting/feeling mad but I still dated her almost a whole year before the accusations got unbearable enough for me to be at peace when she wasn't there. Also to any dude's that think money helps it doesn't. My 2 last exes made fun of a budget I stay on but never asked once how much I might have saved. I do like to have fun though and planned a future date when she was upset which by the way I know is a mistake because it's rewarding bad behavior but at that point I didn't care because I couldn't see her changing. So yeah 2 weeks before she got mad that I opened up a Snapchat without telling her 4 hours before she found out and we hadn't even talked yet. Only cheaters use Snapchat she said. I asked don't you have one? She said yeah but because of my daughter. I asked "so it's kid friendly also?" She did not like that. Now I'm allowed to date again and she said she wouldn't even stalk me on social media. Anyway just sharing how nuts they is
It's tough...have a much younger one I will avoid for a couple days...then she texts for me to drop what I'm doing and come see her. She misses me....I gave in and during our chat...she said twice she loved me....I didnt reply and just smiled.....I cant say it back if I dont mean it.....think she is just trying to see if this fish is still on the line....
#2 is cringe. I know because I used to be that guy. I have a work friend who asks me this everytime I see him and its become boring, predictable and cringe. Stop asking me how my day was, stop asking me how I am. It's none of your business lol
so Christmas is coming up i’ve been talking to this girl for about 3 months now been playing my cards right basically everything casey has said in his videos. do i get her a gift? or what? is that too simpy too early? idk bro im not a simp whatsoever but im just tryna figure out if a small gift is fine
What is she giving ?...if you have to do all work your working against yourself....communication affection shouldn't be all on you...dont chase or pursue if she's not doing it...better be a balance
😂 I can’t help but laugh with ts. I’m trying to move up the corporate ladder (yeah give memy sh*t) so I’m learning how to be a better communicator, etc. It feels like with dating though it’s the complete opposite, the better you are the more unattractive you come across.
Im 34 she's 50...she wrote to me today:- I like brand shoes, high heels, sneakers, handbags.. that’s my passion (In the context of me buying them for her, of course) 😅😂😂
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Bro make a video on what things to talk about like specific convos g
Everything this guy says, can be summed up by remembering 1) ignore women, and they'll pursue you and 2) Make sure they love you more than you love them
Typicall incell coping
If you love yourself and truly feel it so, others , woman, children, animals will also feel that and will love you, not knowing why! Love radiates, people in joy it, you can’t hide it. I experienced it today and believe me, three woman over 10 minutes showed their interest: smile smirk acknowledgement, even one that Looked like Whitney Houston. I challenge all men, silence speaks
These are great tactics for men but your strategy is:
1. Keep your friends
2. Follow your hobbies and passions
3. Lift weights
4. Keep busy, try new things & places
5. Dress smart
6. Don't be needy or prevaricate, be independently minded and goal driven
7. Thats it, live a life worth living for you and if a woman comes along for the ride thats cool but its not the be all. She will slip anchor eventually and you will still have your life, friends, interests and passions.
Too many men surrender all the above after placing her on a pedestal - the very thing that leads her to despise you. You build the monster she becomes.
I think this does work for initial attraction, however girls lose interest overtime if you never ever care. It's push and pull friend.
Most underrated comment on this video
He is actually right, give her time and see what direction she goes you can even give it a few months if still nothing they get back in her life but be very tactical about it , don't give off any needy energy and make it as casual as possible example 'yo saw someone with your exact nerdy laugh I could swear it was you' she will respond very fast be slow to reply and don't arrange a meet up just yet let it be random and seemingly unplanned
@@evenruderanger7617 Agreed. There has to be an occasional pull to make it exciting for her, as she'll then anticipate this occasional switch up.
Truth. I'm trying to glean from this video if not to say these questions (makes sense), what do you say? To find the middle ground between talking shit looking adamant and being silly for them
We're supposed to contact girls based on our attraction to them without talking about it. Everything is implied
the main idea is not caring. everything solved no whiteboards needed
Not that simple
So basically, if she is NOT texting you, then just move on. She's not interested.
Yeah basically
Actually try to not text them as much as possible
Depends. If she doesn’t respond to you yeah. If she won’t reach out she could really like you but her anxiety too high to initiate
@@MustaliS550 the toxic ones that love playing these childish games will chase 🤣😂 W Chad on to the next one
@MustaliS550 that's the point. Her responding is NOT a win. The more you display interest, the less she will like you.
We should save this man at all cost
I had a date with a total smoke show once, my ideal woman, at least physically. I was already thinking that I should lock her down etc. and when the date came, she didn't even show up. I was so gobsmacked. Why would you promise to do something and then not do that? It is something I would never do, just out of a sense of personal honor, to be a man of my word. Also it's just respectful to the other person. The next time I saw her at her place of work, I asked her what happened. She said "I was tired and didn't feel like it." Again gobsmacked. "You were tired?, O.K., why didn't you call me then? cause I waited and waited and it was really maddening" or words to that effect. She just looked at me with this incredulous look, like "how dare you speak to me like that? I'm a hot girl, I do whatever I want." Needless to say things didn't work out. But point is, I was so naive as to how women actually are, because I assumed they were like myself. I now know better. They live in a parallel universe. They live in "girl world" where the whole world revolves around them and men are just there to serve them. It's so ironic because at University I learned that we live in a Patriarchy and women are oppressed and men are just violent pigs. Reality is so the opposite.
I can understand and reality is nobody talk about it while growing up. It’s the guys like @caseyzander who learn from the experience and then share it too without thinking twice.
❤🎉
@@HerveMendelldoesn’t surprise me at all, sadly. She knows there’s a line of Simps who don’t care that she treats people this way and will still date her without a second thought. The same Simps who leave FB comments on her thirst-quencher pics like “You’re a Goddess” and “So Hot…”
@@HerveMendellu literally answered your own question without realizing it while u was typing that crud
"Just quit ALL of the texting." So good! 😂👏😂👏
I told a woman she’d never be good enough for me, thinking it would help her move on. That just made her try harder…
Had a similar thing where I told a girl I don’t online date and don’t really like being friends with women either thinking it’d put her off but it didn’t
🤣😂 The desperation to get picked W Chad
You ever walk thru the mall n see a couple walk by, feel the urge to look at the woman? Like she wants more than her man's approval
1. Don’t text her or ask her what she’s doing today
2. Don’t ask how’s your day
3. Don’t ask what are your plans on this weekend
The reason for this is because females focus on the now
The moment right now
How they feel *NOW*
I’m not disagreeing with any of this. But I will say this, if a woman desires you, truly desires you. She won’t read into a lot of the texts. As long as you not coming off as over needy. Don’t be a stalker. But if she truly wants to be with you, she will appreciate hearing from you even though a crappy text. If she pulls back over simple text messages, fellas you dodged a bullet. Be yourself, don’t be afraid to reach out and make plans, don’t be needy and controlling.
There’s a healthy balance. You have to be strong enough to shoot your shot and go for it for women you like. But at the same time be willing to walk away and drop like a bad habit if they don’t match energy. It’s cool, plenty of other fish. But hey at least you know and you don’t have to obsess or fantasize
Well she will read into it to some extent if you make her feel insecure in her position with you.
But yeah, When you really like someone you see them through rose colored glasses, things they wouldn’t put up with from others become invisible.
BUT you need to position yourself for her to have desire in the first place. The higher value she perceives you the more SMV you have to burn through for her to lose attraction.
This is absolutely true, but yet I still would never send a “how are you doing” message, etc.
1) I almost never message a girl first.
2) 99% of the time girls ask me out. I rarely ever ask a girl out and when I do it’s usually justfor the first 1 or two 2 dates. And usually I ask for the first date when I meet a girl for the first time. If the interaction is good I get her number and tell her I’m really busy, but I have one day free to get a drink. Sometimes I’ll hook up that night, which is also common if we met out at a club. If the interaction is good I’ll set up a date, on my terms, and then I’ll say, ‘great, see you on X day, I’m busy I gotta go.” And walk away.
3) in the meantime I don’t message her. She can message me if she wants, but I’ll delay my responses and message her back when I’m ready. And I keep the interaction short, light, funny, sarcastic, teasing, etc. Girls love this. And if she doesn’t then she’s not my type anyway.
4) And fuck no to “good morning” or “good night” texts, unless she messages me first, then sometimes I’ll respond. But sometimes I don’t, if I’m busy and out with another girl, especially. Although, the other night I slept with a girl and while I was at her place I took a call from another girl. 😂 fucking savage. That only made her want me more.
5) texting is for setting up dates, not for banter. If you’re always available she’s going to think you have nothing going on. If your texts are too “friendly” you’re going to kill the sexual tension.
6) Mystery and secrecy are key. I’m still dating girls who don’t know what I do for a living and who always tell me “you’re such a mystery.” “You’re so secretive.” But they love it. Ever once in a while I’ll tell them a story about me, keeping it fun, and that’s like a gift to them. They feel privileged to know a little more about my life. They will literally sit like a child full of anticipation to hear something about me, because it’s a rare occurrence. Keep the mystery alive.
7) While ignoring text message I will post a pic of me out having fun on social media. Often with a girl, or girls, in the picture. Next thing I know another girl I’m dating will start blowing up my phone with messages. Women love to chase.
8) just remember that if you don’t give them anything they will eventually get pissed of and “lose your number.” So, keep in mind that you have to reward their chasing and good behavior with some attention and validation at some point. Just not too much, and pull it back to allow them to chase some more.
9) If you decide to deeper with a girl you’re dating, and maybe get into a relationship, then things change a bit, and you have to invest a little bit more time. But you still let them feel that they have to chase you and enter YOUR life, not the other way around.
how the f are we suppose to build businesses when we're constantly playing these Fing games? So tired of this
U don’t gotta play any
@@WakeupwithYacob naturally we want a cozy cave to fill, and thats it. Not a dating life etc that he talks about.
Give them ONE chance to be with you - a no or maybe, just move on to the next one who is actually turned on and says yes. It will cut most bs.
and yes, i get it that if you're focused on your business then you dont have to play the games because it becomes automatic, BUT, the desire and focus towards the woman comes UNDERNEATH the desire and focus of a business, it's a base level emotion and desire, google spiral dynamics etc --.. its a lower one. So, without that present, you won't be able to get up to the business building part.
In short, it's like saying you should go for a run without legs. the base part is missing.
I hear you
Older women are just as emotionally charged. They are still operating on their feelings. I had an older woman - i am 25, she is 49 - get frustrated because i didnt call or message her back
Was she still hot at 49?
What are you doing? Stop
Run
Wait until you're 30 and the dynamic flips much easier
I'm 28 and was dating a 45 yo
i found they actually get pissed when you don’t reply
Dude I'm 42 and there's no way in hell I'm fucking around with a 49yo
Big dawg… this shit works. Holy fucking shit. Completely saved my marriage. Wife had separated and moved out. Got her back and we’re stronger than ever before thanks to this content. Thanks, Casey!
what did you do?
Not Rocket-Science.
Text Less.
Care Less.
Equals More Success
I ignore women all the time and trust me, there's no success that comes out of it.
There’s a difference though between ignoring on purpose in a playing games way or just ignoring because your to busy working on yourself and staying busy. Your purpose if your highest priority, women should always be second and your women will understand this subconsciously and respect you more… love you more.. treat you better.
HE SPITTIN FELLAS HE SPITTN 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@parnpichatenah you gotta have a balance with it
Bonus: if you have a reason then thats even better keep yo ass busy
@@parnpichate step 1. Be attractive
I have a childhood best friend that kills it with women. He has this attitude of indifference.
Women get on planes to travel to see this dude. Women from out of the country invite him out to their homes in foreign countries. He is indifferent because he has SOOO many options and avenues to keep himself entertained. They will see this man at 4am 6 am doesn't matter the time. It's crazy. You wouldn't believe it unless you witnessed it first-hand.
Lol i have a friend like that too, he doesnt give a s, but even for these guys its becoming harder, he had to lower his standards and knok some blue haired monsters from time to time
Yeah because he is a Chad if he was a 5'7ft average guy he would be Incel and never get a call or message back by any woman ever.
This guy is one step away from telling all his followers to start dating men
Now THAT'S Funny! 🤣
AI robot! 🤣
I don't usually comment on UA-cam videos. But let me tell you, this is ABSOLUTE GOLD
Such good advice
Trust me fellas
All 3 points are SPOT ON
Your words are golden my young Brother Casey.
I have women get depressed if i dont call them or reach out at all, but yea most men do it too much. There has to be some kinda balance.
what a clown show this world is
Brainrot
You can't follow a "programme"...nobody can solve your own problems 'cause you are unique....Just get out there and live ! Do you really think somebody else has the answers for your own issues??? NO ! You do, you have to go through stuff and find out what works for you !
Sadly, the internet is full of these people, and the weak gullible one's that fall for their scams. Couldn't agree more still, just live your life, and don't give your money away to scum-bags like Casey!!!!!
Yeah Ive lost girls that have started off as being obsessed to over communication... they kind of bait you on text and you start talking... and then when you try to see them they make excuses but keep on texting... until they just stop. Ive started deleting numbers so after I reply... its impossible to double text. It seems to get some mileage but... even after a great make out/date... almost always goes the same way. they text, I take the bait, overcomminicate, get nervous and clingy... try to pin em down for a plan... and they smell feelings. The less I care the better they treat me.
There is only 2 major problems with this:
1, Girls who are hot will meet another guy very quickly and forget about you immediately regardless of you not texting her.
2, more of a question! How are we supposed to attract the ones that are on demand without a massive instagram following with only fee posts a week.
Your #1 worry stems from a scarcity mindset. There are hot women everywhere.
@@MRindependentTHINKbut you need to go to the right places to find them. That's the hard part
What woman gives a shit about how many Instagram followers you have? I don't even have Instagram. I have better things to do
If you can't attract, then you are simply not attractive. Therefore, the simple solution is.. be attractive. Get ripped, be well groomed, and dress well. And work on your confidence, don't be weak and simpy. I personally don't bother with instagram, but it's all about perception, so you can create the best perception you can. DMs are really just numbers game. You might catch her interest, but she might still miss it simply because she gets tons of DMs from random dudes.
#1 who cares. After s3x you should realize they dont offer anything much else besides some good vibes bro and other than that they are all ticking time bombs dont you got other things you care about ?
"Get her to pursue you instead of pursuing her." perfect idea
Yes if you are a Chad and women pursue you in the first place, literally something that doesn't happen to the bottom 80% of men in their entire lifetime even once.
With SOME women……the more you care,the less she will desire you! Less is more!
That's ALL women, that have options.
Trying dating a baddie and showing her you care lol. disastrous
@@JTLDNyeah that's all. Not some.
Truth is, sometimes it has nothing to do with you at all, you don’t even know this person, who knows what they got going on
Learn to shake off shit and don’t attribute what you don’t know to personal fault
I’ll say that much
If she's interested, she's interested and will co-operate, if she isn't, she isn't, and if she's playing games, she'll play games. And that's all you need to know!!!!!
You don't need these tactics, they're stupid anyway, they will only co-operate if they're interested. I learnt the games the hard way, and you never really had a shot to begin with anyway, all this dating coach garbage will barely make a difference - they're all scammers.
this is so laughably wrong...i work as photographer in the fashion industry and i interact with many beautiful and above average looking women. they have plenty of guys hitting them up constantly so even if they are interested in you they are overwhelmed with attention from men. if you really want her you need to ping her couple time without coming off as needy. think about it in terms of a closing a sale as a salesman. you are essentially pitching yourself to her. also beautiful girls arent going to chase most guys, it just not in their nature. my advice....be upfront tell her you're interested, be friendly, masculine and be yourself. girls can sniff out inauthenticity real quick
You're saying the same thing. When you said "dont come across as needy", this video is how to achieve that. The type of guy who benefits from this advice is the one who is already blowing up her phone with cheese.
He's not saying don't ever text them. He's saying text in a way that doesn't make you look desperate.
Oh, and I call BS on girls being able to sniff out inauthenticity. If that were the case, you wouldn't have so many broken hearted and divorced women.
The best action I've ever gotten was when I was pretending to not have flaws. If I even hint that I'm not perfect or that I have self doubts, they're gone. You basically have to approach it like a narcissist, but that says the right things. Women are all about words. If you say the right things, they'll eat you up.
Literally ever bad thing that has ever been sad about a woman or just a person is rolled up into one person, my wife lolz.
Then divorce her and move on
Wisdom!! Everytime I listen I learn something new
If a girl want to be with you if you text or not ,she will be and if she doesnt want you if you text or not she will not.
Truth is..... By operating this way with women..... You are essentially consistently considering her feelings..... While appearing to not necessarily be considering her feelings.
can u elaborate? I like this
@jakeurdangen8932 You are generally always considering how they are going to feel or emotionally perceive your actions and behavior...... While appearing to be completely oblivious, as if you are just naturally doing everything right to maintain her interest and desire..... When in essence you are manipulating her emotional psychology because you understand true feminine nature.... Basically.
Yea thats why you need to actually not care not think ur big brain tryna manipulate her by trying to act like u dont care. Keep banging girls eventually you will get screwed over so bad you realize how they really are. Until that happens and you feel the pain you wont ever stop caring. This is why the more women you get the more women you get and the people stuck at the bottom get nothing... cuz its all they care about. Nothing women despise more than a man that hasnt played the field and been hurt gives incel energy whats this ur first gf bro
Wallah wallah wallah this guy is genius every words he said he small note or detail he mentioned is absolutely correct.
He sleeps with women outside of marriage as a “Christian” and you say wallah? You’re a donkey and he’s the rider
Donkey
The least you give a damn, the more she will.
Thanks Again Casey, Im In Total Agreeance With You.
Dude your the man point one is off the charts correct! I didn’t even get to your second point yet. To know how much you know.
Play this at 1.25x speed, you're welcome 😂
This latest string of videos is fire !!!!
Love these videos
I used to be the one who would trip about if the girl I have been talking to isn’t texting me back within a couple of hours then I realized why does it matter so much about over the phone communication when in person we vibe and it’s great times together so overall you guys need to stop worrying about texting so much and if you and a chick are having a connection in real life that’s all that matters and that is what ultimately leaves your imprint in her mind 😊
Please make a video about cold approach. That's what's left for men with no friends
ngl this kinda of contradictory cause u keep saying “the player doesn’t care” so why should i care about texting her “wyd today” and why should i care how this makes her view me? i’m a player in real life with triple digit body count.. maybe it’s because im a different race than u, i get different results but texting wyd today or “wyo” is definitely not a bad thing in my universe. especially with the girls that’s only there to smash. but on the other hand, you are right.. texting “wyd” before u smashed is not the move. it depends on if u already in or not
I was a doubter Casey….but now I believe 😂 I get u have to make money but that’s what scared me away at first. I can tell tho this guy is definitely above 90% of other “dating coaches” this dudes just understands women lol
Unfortunately he’s 100% correct lol
I’m loving this. Once again we have to address this once again 😂😂😂
When he essentially says making plans is feminine..🤯🤯
basically just be depressed and disinterested in women and then you get all the women.
I disagree with the planning part. If anything it shows you are in control. Also message length is true to a degree as long as it’s almost as long as she’s texting you back. For example if she messaged you 8 lines, it’s ok if you message here back with about 8 lines.
Casey is really a genius oms
Once the Infrastructure collapses & there’s no smartphones & 9-1-1 to call, all these games are out the window😂
This shit is brainrot
Ive had success planning dates for the next day. Lots of women dont like to be hit up last minute
100% all true.
Casey's facial expressions in this video are fire. Shows how puny those texts are
i hella don't care if they lost interest cuz i texted a sentence or 2 too long 💀. can be sitting her overthinking bout dumb shit
its also good to ghost a women first. always. do it towards the befining. make her get ready and then tell her your sorry lol. she will get mad. she might not even block you. i
Texting is relationship DEATH.
The udea that " a player win't do this or that....
Not all women want a player...
Keep that in mind.
Ngl casey i never had a problem with women before. Every first date I went on I was able to make it a relationship or something fun. I started watching your videos and doing the shit you say to do and it’s all fell apart. I’ve been on 5 first dates over the past 2 months and nothing has worked out in my favor. I’d have girls telling me “I can’t wait to see you again” then ghost me and not reply. I try to focus on myself yet I’m constantly wondering “wtf is happening?” It legitimately feels like something outside of my power is stopping these potential relationships from working out. I’m completely fuckin lost and honestly about to just give up and stay with my main girl cus I can’t manage to get anyone else. Pisses me off but ig it’s my own doing.
Your problem is that you’ve been conditioned to see these interactions as transactional from these “battle strategies” versus actually vibing and connecting with your subject. This is the whole problem with this PUA bullshit which is only designed to give terrible advice in order to make money and you’ll get the “secret sauce.” But as a real Chad let me impart the real sauce: “No vibe=No survive.” Think about before you were making mental checklists in your head to lead to a transaction, you were lucky hmmm? There is not some malefic force all of sudden cockblocking you that’s this dumbass programming from these Internet lifestyle salesman purposely wrecking your dating life for views, clout , and entering into subscription based and unaccountable money grubbing.
Even if you know all these things and dont try to do the mistakes its still so hard
This is crazy
Where am I going to put all of this solid gold...?
Bingo
Glad I’m a way I’m still single
I’d love never to text again, casey. i don’t even want to do it, and after the first date i generally don’t. the struggle i see with this is how are we supposed to set the first date if we don’t? that’s always the hardest part for me, setting the first date.
if i get the girl on a call, that’s when i constantly set dates, but often times they just want to text
how do i get around this?
Who else here watches every video and still fucks up but a lot less
You’re right but not totally…… I have had experience with way more pretty ladies and made first moves and it got me success but the game is I’m okay not hearing from them and never get attached . Sometime you gotta show up …. Just like ads 😂 but don’t be comfortable and don’t do too much less is more
Remember girls wanna have fun don’t be boring
We are dating a program
My last lil hottie actually called me a player while acting/feeling mad but I still dated her almost a whole year before the accusations got unbearable enough for me to be at peace when she wasn't there. Also to any dude's that think money helps it doesn't. My 2 last exes made fun of a budget I stay on but never asked once how much I might have saved. I do like to have fun though and planned a future date when she was upset which by the way I know is a mistake because it's rewarding bad behavior but at that point I didn't care because I couldn't see her changing. So yeah 2 weeks before she got mad that I opened up a Snapchat without telling her 4 hours before she found out and we hadn't even talked yet. Only cheaters use Snapchat she said. I asked don't you have one? She said yeah but because of my daughter. I asked "so it's kid friendly also?" She did not like that. Now I'm allowed to date again and she said she wouldn't even stalk me on social media. Anyway just sharing how nuts they is
Yes sir coach uncle bro bra. Too good😂
I did this exact method for 20 years and then she divorced me😂
All makes sense other than that we’re suppose to be “players”
It's tough...have a much younger one I will avoid for a couple days...then she texts for me to drop what I'm doing and come see her. She misses me....I gave in and during our chat...she said twice she loved me....I didnt reply and just smiled.....I cant say it back if I dont mean it.....think she is just trying to see if this fish is still on the line....
#2 is cringe. I know because I used to be that guy. I have a work friend who asks me this everytime I see him and its become boring, predictable and cringe. Stop asking me how my day was, stop asking me how I am. It's none of your business lol
Casey with his serial killer dry erase board. Join his troop!!
And Casey's bots,
Why womans doesn't have their own female version of Casey Zander so they must learn Language of Man😭
Language of Man is simple and straightforward, doesn't need explaining. If she's hot and acts nice, you'll like her lol.
Bro I been watching every videos of yours I’m actually pulling dimes, but still making mistakes.
Been listening to a few videos bag secured I understand now 😈
Casey really knows what he’s talking about. But the scripted community members messages at the beginning need to stop.
So what should we ask? 😂
Damn I've been making this mistake badly ok I GOTCHA
so Christmas is coming up i’ve been talking to this girl for about 3 months now been playing my cards right basically everything casey has said in his videos. do i get her a gift? or what? is that too simpy too early? idk bro im not a simp whatsoever but im just tryna figure out if a small gift is fine
No not yet. Valentine's day is a couple months away. Wait until then
Lol this makes me so angry about all the stupid mistakes I made in the past smh
Facts CZ
What is she giving ?...if you have to do all work your working against yourself....communication affection shouldn't be all on you...dont chase or pursue if she's not doing it...better be a balance
😂 I can’t help but laugh with ts.
I’m trying to move up the corporate ladder (yeah give memy sh*t) so I’m learning how to be a better communicator, etc. It feels like with dating though it’s the complete opposite, the better you are the more unattractive you come across.
Today women texted me i found u cute we never talked to each other how should I keep engaged the intrest level in my clg
"Thanks, but those kinds of compliments will get you nowhere with me"
Love coca cola classic.
Nah. Text them to get lost. 😂
What does hypergamy even mean
The whole video is an ad. Might have to unfollow you at this point bro
Quit it all the emojis the texts quit!!!
Dude if it's this hard to get a woman why bother. Guys are going to bare the cost for everything.
Some of this content is basically teaching you how to be a narcissist
Heavy thing boy like window
Bro makes the same vídeo every other day
Because some of these dumb mfers don't listen and need it repeated over and over again
Because some of these dumbasses need it repeated over and over again
Never ago
yes
This guy makes it sound like you shouldn't talk to women at all lol.
Let the woman chase you
Im 34 she's 50...she wrote to me today:-
I like brand shoes, high heels, sneakers, handbags.. that’s my passion (In the context of me buying them for her, of course)
😅😂😂
Wtf ?
Well if she follows your rules then maybe you will buy her some of those things for special occasions. Don't reward them without having them earn it.
@@andrewstratton7095 That's actually balanced advice, thanks!
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18s ago
He sounds bored of his channel