My heart is saying YES, but my mind is NOT. Should I lose that lover? - RealTalk with Tamima

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  5 років тому +4

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  • @kochomohamud4441
    @kochomohamud4441 5 років тому +8

    when someone feels like he is disturbed so much with the calls and yet am here wondering when will i find someone like her who will always want to call me...lol funny world

  • @thepresidentofkenya7105
    @thepresidentofkenya7105 5 років тому +10

    "..I LOVE YOU BUT IF ANYTHING CHANGES, I SHALL LET YOU KNOW.."..best part of the video.

    • @chefabby3800
      @chefabby3800 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @steffimacharia4776
    @steffimacharia4776 5 років тому +81

    I can listen to Burale the whole day😍😍

    • @yudelleanlisatajirikenyana4519
      @yudelleanlisatajirikenyana4519 5 років тому +1

      Steffi Macharia for real - man of insight.

    • @jennydoureen5642
      @jennydoureen5642 5 років тому +1

      Me too aki.He has information

    • @Lady_Meg
      @Lady_Meg 5 років тому +2

      I always try to wonder how he is still single or rather how he is divorced...I mean, he is such a sweet soul with adorable traits... I then concur with marriage not being a bed of roses...

    • @sueonyoni3243
      @sueonyoni3243 5 років тому +1

      Follow him on Facebook, he talks on different topic's everyday.

    • @daveondiekaaron2204
      @daveondiekaaron2204 3 роки тому

      ME NEITHER...

  • @RoseMary-fe2pu
    @RoseMary-fe2pu 5 років тому +40

    Burale you're always on the point.👌👌.Good work Tamima I love you beautiful grl😘😘

  • @euniceevans7780
    @euniceevans7780 5 років тому +12

    Mapenzi ilinikataa kabisa my fellow singles haswa team Gulf hoiyee,!! burale tell them the truth 😍😍

    • @kbm241
      @kbm241 5 років тому +1

      Mbona ikakukataa

  • @RaymondKIMATHI
    @RaymondKIMATHI 5 років тому +6

    Marriage is important. Something needs to be done to salvage these shaky relationships. ... Tamima is a great talk show host !

  • @jojo47322
    @jojo47322 5 років тому +9

    I can listen to Burale 24/7 he is gifted with wisdom on how to handle somethings especially when it comes to relationships!

  • @vyoneawuor7616
    @vyoneawuor7616 5 років тому +8

    Can we have Burale on all the shows he is a real expert.. Love the show ♥️

  • @runnert6012
    @runnert6012 5 років тому +12

    Thank you Tamima for listening to our requests to add subtitles when guests speak in Swahili. Enjoy this show hvg subtitles for the Swahili part but the show still need to improve with subtitling everything including when Tamima' & Experts switch from English to Swahili 👍Great show 👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @adahbinti7103
    @adahbinti7103 4 роки тому +2

    I like Robert Burale. If he is abusive run! I agree 100 %

  • @billionaire2543
    @billionaire2543 5 років тому +13

    Gal!! Caribbean's are players big time,I can assure you that u will regret, trust me better our Kenyan men

  • @kamorembuthia1376
    @kamorembuthia1376 5 років тому +13

    I love the show.Burale is a great speaker.Always on point

  • @doreenfavour622
    @doreenfavour622 5 років тому +8

    I.love how Robert burale clarify the questions

  • @luvarybenson2243
    @luvarybenson2243 4 роки тому +3

    This woman Tamima she respect herself..
    1.dressing code

  • @Beckytrends
    @Beckytrends 3 роки тому +1

    The truth is we’re all human being we crave for love but once it comes we feel it’s challenging we all get bored it’s normal

  • @sueonyoni3243
    @sueonyoni3243 5 років тому +3

    Happy for you Cathy!!Your confidence is outstanding!
    Saving the best for last!

  • @millicentkerubo1439
    @millicentkerubo1439 5 років тому +4

    Robert, I really love how you are responding to questions, keep it up

  • @cirukarago7251
    @cirukarago7251 5 років тому +4

    I love his sentiments the consulting psychologist Mr. Dedan Ondiege 👍.

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 5 років тому +2

    About passwords i don't think it's necessary. I have been married for 7 years and together with my husband for 10 years and we have never shared passwords. It's important for couples to acknowledge that the other person out of the relationship is also an individual and a little privacy is good for you if you have nothing to hide. If they need it for any reason then you can give it to them so it's not some hidden secret but hey boundaries.

  • @evanmaniac2549
    @evanmaniac2549 4 роки тому +2

    I really love this show am getting wiser, thank you guy's for positive talks, if this show continues in this direction changes are on the way coming. Congratulations madam bwoss.

  • @vivianfavoured2614
    @vivianfavoured2614 5 років тому +4

    Love does not conquer everything, commitment does. When your committed to someone you can go far.

  • @nancy3070
    @nancy3070 5 років тому +5

    I missed Mr ,Masinde in the show,but thanks have enjoyed the show

  • @faithokedi5729
    @faithokedi5729 5 років тому +4

    Guys who has noticed Lina? I love her 😘😘

    • @faithokedi5729
      @faithokedi5729 5 років тому

      Lina! Lina!!!! Gal I love you 😘😘😘

  • @alettaphiliso7615
    @alettaphiliso7615 4 роки тому +2

    I love this show REAL talk because they are open with their story's thes why is realtalk 💓💔💔💔

  • @mirriamnyamwana4846
    @mirriamnyamwana4846 5 років тому +13

    This lady in blue should slow down before she lands herself in problems with this muzungu.

  • @rizzymay450
    @rizzymay450 5 років тому +6

    I love mr Burale...he is talking sense #realtalk

  • @UduduComedy
    @UduduComedy 5 років тому +9

    Yenyewe mapenzi yanarun dunia

  • @missroxanne8591
    @missroxanne8591 5 років тому +7

    American-Caribbean in the bronx? Hunni! First red flag! Ny sounds like a dream but the winters are brutal and it's very expensive. I don't mean to be a party pooper but gurrlll!!!!!

  • @lookup.9621
    @lookup.9621 5 років тому +41

    The first couples,my view is,that 30yr old man is not yet committed. He's taking that young lady in as long as he hasn't found a sponser.
    When a man wants you,he will do everything possible to fit into your system.
    Ladies,so long as there's no ring in your fingers,you're single. Time is short. Keep your cookies for someone worthy.

    • @carolinekusimba8154
      @carolinekusimba8154 5 років тому

      Lina is so real with the youth.

    • @khamiskea861
      @khamiskea861 5 років тому +1

      I think they should lose their relationship because the man seemed not to be committed..the lady is jealous and seems too open to him though the guy is not really into the relationship... He is just blinded by the fact the lady is pretty but he doesn't yet know what she needs.They should take a break and see if they really need each other..

    • @luvarybenson2243
      @luvarybenson2243 4 роки тому

      I have a boyfriend and I love him so much but is really understand me more than him

    • @damarismulwa7340
      @damarismulwa7340 3 роки тому +1

      @look.up ....you are very correct keep it cookie for someone wothier

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 5 років тому +2

    What i see as a commin factor here is insecurity and until couples deal with that, all other issues will keep surfacing.

  • @millicentkahia3824
    @millicentkahia3824 5 років тому +10

    What's up with guys face when Cathy is speaking.... Haki they took offence...... 😂😂😂😂 wamejam

  • @Lady_Meg
    @Lady_Meg 5 років тому +6

    Robert Burale made me keep listening to the show.. he is too sweet. However, thank you Tamima for the platform, those are knowledgeable counselors you had.. I kept clapping every time each of them talked. I feel very enlightened after listening to the show. I loved Cathy (the last woman to be interviewed). I loved her confidence even how she expressed herself all through. She was adorable and I truly wish her all the best with the Caribbean guy.

  • @dorothywanja4087
    @dorothywanja4087 4 роки тому +1

    Robert you really really inspire me ,gosh !!I love this,,thanks tamima for your show its good

  • @sherryshazala7123
    @sherryshazala7123 5 років тому +11

    Wisdom from Robert nice show.

  • @nikkil.n7687
    @nikkil.n7687 5 років тому +1

    Whats up with the sound ... Who else hears an echo?

  • @raelk66
    @raelk66 5 років тому +17

    The camera 🎥 was looking so hard to the guy looking for this woman talking if he could ask a question he can ask her how sure are u 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @benardmwashi6289
    @benardmwashi6289 5 років тому +2

    It's called a password to avoid interference so why should it be a family thing.
    My password not your password, your password is your password.

  • @wilikistaalekhwa6428
    @wilikistaalekhwa6428 5 років тому +2

    I love this session on real talk and teaches me alot...Burale you are doing a great job

  • @judithmoshi9979
    @judithmoshi9979 5 років тому +2

    I always like Burale, his point is a glass of wine🙏🏾

  • @peternjuguna8160
    @peternjuguna8160 5 років тому +4

    I like burale's advice... But I don't understand why could he not keep his marriage...is it that he I more of talking than reality or is his wife who had a problem..

    • @sandranafula5198
      @sandranafula5198 5 років тому +2

      He admitted he was the one who led to the failure of his marriage but he is now a changed man

  • @sharonpitters6023
    @sharonpitters6023 4 роки тому +1

    Problems don't date co-worker.

  • @ronniendarera4507
    @ronniendarera4507 5 років тому +2

    Thanks so much Robert burale

  • @jackyerockelle3387
    @jackyerockelle3387 5 років тому +2

    An jacky,,I think we should share password ,,,if only you trust each others

  • @angelamonicacarter7317
    @angelamonicacarter7317 5 років тому +1

    I stayed in a abusive marriage base on my pastors advise at the end he almost kill me

  • @remymartins7903
    @remymartins7903 5 років тому +7

    Follow your head,your heart is Crazy

  • @Architivist_
    @Architivist_ 4 роки тому +1

    Burale is the real deal. God Bless u

  • @cathrinewanjiru5648
    @cathrinewanjiru5648 3 роки тому

    I just loved this one.....May that man be the bone of your bones...Burale...i love your advice.

  • @blessdmum.7380
    @blessdmum.7380 5 років тому +1

    Great show and also great councillors there.I wish kathy good luck with his American lover

  • @divinahkemunto1429
    @divinahkemunto1429 5 років тому +18

    Men men men😂😂😂why are you looking in a scornful manner to that women explaining abt her Mr. Right🤔🤔🤔khai yaani sura zitaweza change hivyo😂😂😂🙆🙆🙆

  • @michaelmboizi5012
    @michaelmboizi5012 5 років тому +6

    Burale love u man ur very wisdomed 'Oh dat wz dip'

  • @sallyflavian3368
    @sallyflavian3368 5 років тому +19

    I can't stop laughing the audience's facial expression as the woman speaks

    • @babradomenic7564
      @babradomenic7564 5 років тому +1

      Sally Flavian I understand their expressions 😂 she is lost, I thought she has met him in person 😳she is out for a big shock..

    • @mirembejoanna8224
      @mirembejoanna8224 5 років тому

      😃😃😃he was like see this woman praising online date😃😃😃

    • @emilykyania
      @emilykyania 5 років тому

      🤣🤣🤣I thought I was alone

    • @mariefavour9042
      @mariefavour9042 5 років тому

      I also noticed hehehe

    • @EnglishPad
      @EnglishPad 5 років тому

      IKR?!!

  • @niitekakaabbas6141
    @niitekakaabbas6141 5 років тому +2

    Password sharing is not bad, but the question is even if it's not an emergency will you still be all over my phone? Do you or even me want your password for policing?

  • @mkeziah7842
    @mkeziah7842 5 років тому +7

    The 2nd couple huyo Jamaa anafaa ajipange that girl doesn't appreciate

  • @maureenwambui2992
    @maureenwambui2992 5 років тому +6

    Dan and Ivy 😳 so vulnerable on national tv

  • @megkarugi9665
    @megkarugi9665 5 років тому +3

    Wow, the topic is so hot today, am tempted to come there, what's the way forward?

  • @damariszuckschwert9489
    @damariszuckschwert9489 5 років тому +9

    Dan kimbia na usiwahi angalia nyuma.,you are very handsome to be in this mess. Kunguru haifugiki. Ukiona vyenye anakushukushuku ujue anajua venye yeye hufanya. Kutokushika simu ukiwa na chali yako it's very wrong. If I doubt a number calling me I late my husband to answer it. We share the same passwords.

  • @jamesmuchiri8016
    @jamesmuchiri8016 5 років тому +1

    Being online relationship might be good or worse decision. Since she had met the english man,that is very good. Question is Did your children like him.2nd have Have you spoken to your children the truth about this man. Tamima one thing the lady should understand the children one day they will get married,will they would to have blessing from you too. One thing i know once i man love the children ,wife will always be happy.

  • @wanjiruwalucy8116
    @wanjiruwalucy8116 5 років тому +4

    Burale never disappoint always on point

  • @lucyndege7679
    @lucyndege7679 5 років тому +5

    Cathy
    Listen to Robert

  • @rosenganga7601
    @rosenganga7601 5 років тому +7

    At long last... Niimeingoja sana...

  • @deenyaga
    @deenyaga 5 років тому +12

    too many adverts..kills the flow of the story...

    • @makenanyakio6
      @makenanyakio6 5 років тому +1

      I agree with you plus replays. I feel like the quality of the show has down graded like the previous setting was much more fun etc. this one they’re wasting time waiting for the guest to walk to the seat, the stage is too dark. I personally don’t like it the new set up. Just a feedback not hating on the show coz I love it and love Tamima and her choice of stories.

    • @deenyaga
      @deenyaga 5 років тому

      @@makenanyakio6 i did not even watch the video to the end..haha..nili choka

  • @annahkate2215
    @annahkate2215 5 років тому +2

    Too many adverts, killing the show, I can’t

  • @luvarybenson2243
    @luvarybenson2243 4 роки тому +1

    Rusungu sio yetu tafadhali hata kiswahili unaweza tumia

  • @ellylnternational8032
    @ellylnternational8032 5 років тому +1

    Tamima, l like the way you talk wiz much humbleness

  • @mamaafrica4080
    @mamaafrica4080 5 років тому +1

    Wow I love this show is a mind opening thanks guys good job keep it up 😍😍👍👍

  • @missrk6623
    @missrk6623 5 років тому +6

    I just love Robert.....

  • @Such-a-lady
    @Such-a-lady 5 років тому +6

    🤣🤣🤣 the facial expressions from the audience tu! Lol!

  • @shakurnerea3543
    @shakurnerea3543 5 років тому +2

    Iam a Nigerian man dating a Kenya lady since 2015 & to date we had not met and to be sincere I never had any sex since 2011 to date. Am a honest man on my own side.

    • @blossomlarrysakura929
      @blossomlarrysakura929 5 років тому +1

      That's impressive

    • @blossomlarrysakura929
      @blossomlarrysakura929 5 років тому +1

      But is he faithful?

    • @rizzymay450
      @rizzymay450 5 років тому

      Really

    • @BEING_FIONA_SPACE
      @BEING_FIONA_SPACE 5 років тому +1

      I believe honest men still exist from my own experience, it's just that many ladies don't believe a guy can stay too long without having sex

    • @estherkanini8933
      @estherkanini8933 5 років тому

      Kudos. Wish you all the best and may many others see your light and choose to light up their worlds too

  • @zaidazainab2407
    @zaidazainab2407 5 років тому +1

    How can someone remark towards our kenyan men being swallow just because she is dating an online guy....i feel tormented by that lady opinion.
    Burale i love your wisdom.
    Great show Tamima ....kudos
    Audience facial expressions say it all....😉😉😉😉

  • @maggykk
    @maggykk 5 років тому +5

    thank you tamima

  • @sharonpitters6023
    @sharonpitters6023 4 роки тому +1

    I would change my appearance so he would want me more.

  • @bryanm.o4827
    @bryanm.o4827 5 років тому +2

    Dan akanyage kubwa kubwa akienda...huyo ako naye hapo kando ni coach wa football team,hauko pekee yako brother,ukona team_mates mahali.😂😂😂
    Ile psychology kidogo najua body language ya Ivy imesema ukweli...she's "exploring".

  • @blessings9889
    @blessings9889 3 роки тому +1

    who else is watching this video on 2021😌😌😂😂🤣

  • @evalenewanjiru7093
    @evalenewanjiru7093 5 років тому +3

    Dan u better run for your life ivy hajielewi

  • @floridaalega768
    @floridaalega768 5 років тому +5

    Good work Burale 👏👏🤝

  • @anitasillo9599
    @anitasillo9599 2 роки тому

    For the first couple that is a red flag for the lady. But pressure like that to the lady will lead to making bad choice.

  • @wambuiwainaina5235
    @wambuiwainaina5235 5 років тому +16

    Si this dude is struggling to tweng!!!!

  • @annrose4574
    @annrose4574 5 років тому +3

    Wherever mr. Burale is im in.

  • @sophiamarangu9212
    @sophiamarangu9212 5 років тому +12

    Does Robert ever face challenges in his relationship? smh

    • @peternjuguna8160
      @peternjuguna8160 5 років тому +4

      He is a divorce it mean his relationship didn't work he only know to talk lot's of PR...if he was perfect as he talks he would still be married

    • @innocentbwire2936
      @innocentbwire2936 5 років тому +9

      I guess, its just a profession or a calling. Remember even Doctors get sick.

    • @sophiamarangu9212
      @sophiamarangu9212 5 років тому +6

      @@peternjuguna8160 we clearly mature with experience not age......

    • @sophiamarangu9212
      @sophiamarangu9212 5 років тому +4

      @@innocentbwire2936 i just admire his positive energy.

    • @zaidazainab2407
      @zaidazainab2407 5 років тому +1

      I heard he is single father though he may be dating i don't know

  • @alicendichu3561
    @alicendichu3561 5 років тому +26

    38:05 guy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂,hiyo jicho aki. Guys faces r not happy with the 3rd woman story😁😁😁

  • @joycekibor4315
    @joycekibor4315 5 років тому +4

    Great show Tamima ....please reduce the adds

  • @Ellah-Wangeci
    @Ellah-Wangeci 5 років тому +12

    #when a woman feels insecure she will find security somewhere else. Let's avoid unnecessary insecurity by going through dms. it all starts with you having my password then what follows next is misunderstandings.

    • @janeraymond6571
      @janeraymond6571 5 років тому +2

      The only thing we cannot find in others God's creation is mind. A successful human being is the one who is able to take charge over his mind.if you want to change someone first start by changing your perception on how you see them act this way you succeed to change them

    • @ilovejesus9303
      @ilovejesus9303 5 років тому

      @@janeraymond6571 point taken. Coz I really want to change my fiance

    • @Ellah-Wangeci
      @Ellah-Wangeci 5 років тому +1

      @@janeraymond6571 So true. It has to start with you first.

  • @choseechamelionanuni8763
    @choseechamelionanuni8763 5 років тому +1

    Online dating is a go zone

  • @patriotkenyan157
    @patriotkenyan157 5 років тому +2

    From real pple to online dating, that a disaster in the making fr that lady..just an advice be cautions

  • @sharonpitters6023
    @sharonpitters6023 4 роки тому +1

    Problems early problems later,move on girl.

  • @aidaprincessofjannah2852
    @aidaprincessofjannah2852 5 років тому +2

    Oh my I'm currently in this situation

  • @Sunshine_Amy
    @Sunshine_Amy 5 років тому +1

    Burale keep giving us the right medication

  • @fridahotieno6655
    @fridahotieno6655 5 років тому +3

    I hate the ads

  • @rehemamercy9055
    @rehemamercy9055 5 років тому +2

    I just don't think the first couple will work out. I am not a hater though!

  • @mackoko9054
    @mackoko9054 5 років тому +3

    Burale.........man of many words few actions ...i love your speech though

  • @lucymburu6952
    @lucymburu6952 5 років тому +1

    I love the fact that burale talks about,

  • @ruthpaul1920
    @ruthpaul1920 5 років тому +1

    Dan and Samuel y'all smart guys and hardworking but u know wat, u need awife not agirlfriend.. this young 20's they r so, judgemental and with shallow , still need time to enjoy their lifes...

  • @lydiahnyambasora5015
    @lydiahnyambasora5015 5 років тому +2

    good advice from Burale

  • @xoxomacx2539
    @xoxomacx2539 4 роки тому +6

    What is with the broken English with these young people.

  • @estherwakere7915
    @estherwakere7915 5 років тому +4

    Audience looks when cathy talks😅😅😅😅

  • @caulidream
    @caulidream 5 років тому +1

    @realtalkwithtamima where are the new episodes?
    I love the show but I only catch up on it on UA-cam
    Tamima I looove your show

  • @evareturn6439
    @evareturn6439 5 років тому +9

    Tamimah let that mzungu come to Kenya,build you a house,get you a business,then you will be going in america to see him and satisfy him,,,,tagging along kids to a mzungu family you don't know is dangerous,we hujui hawa watu..😒

  • @thellchannel8151
    @thellchannel8151 4 роки тому +1

    "That was very deep"

  • @maryannmwauravlogs9970
    @maryannmwauravlogs9970 5 років тому +8

    Listening while iam working love this show