I want to be emotionless and cold because I am too empathetic towards others that I have been neglecting myself this whole time. I want to give back self-love to myself that I have never been done before. I'm also the kind of person that always do good for others but for myself nothing, and I can't decline invitations. I usually can't say no and if I do I really feel bad and I just become emotional. This is why thank you for this video. Update (05/10/22) How's everyone doing? I happened to pass on this video again for the same reason. I'm still lost, but I've noticed some changes in me. I can control my emotions than before that it just overflows out of nowhere. I realized some things, being emotionless, cold is different from being expressionless. Now I'm torn between the two. Being expressionless is just that you still feel emotions inside but you it just doesn't show on the surface, it still means good but has its cons too. I believe being expressionless is harder, because you still feel strong emotions but you just can't show it/stopping yourself. You don't lose the good part of you. But on the other side, you're gonna be way hurt. The way of your venting out option was removed on your system. It's like you feel bad towards others and you care for them so bad, but you can't express it or make look like you sympathize with them as expression, voice and actions are what people look at if they know that you actually care. I know this and have felt it because one of my friend say that they care but they don't show it any forms, neither on their expression, body language or even words. Without that, I just can't believe that they actually care. So that's that.. Meanwhile being cold and emotionless is like the hardest thing that a person managed to do or at least had been through to became like it. It just means you don't feel any emotions, feeling sad towards others, caring, joy. It will be gone, but it's gonna help in a way that you feel like no one's gonna stop you from achieving things, it's just you who matters to yourself. You lost the care for others and I think you become logical as well so you can keep going. There's a lot of difference between these two.
Please listen, being emotionaless is not the answer it's a desperate attempt to feel happier, i was always an emotionalless person, i didn't and i still not care about people too much, when i give advice i give to lecture, trust me it's not an easy life, for me i hated people so much because of all my memories, bullies, fighting, surviving, humiliation, ect her in africa is no joke, i got heartbroken when i was 9 months because my mother stop breast feeding me, i never thought I have emotions i just suppress them automatically i don't care at all, because of that I lost meaning in life i became nilist , but now I'm recovering, pls don't be an emotionalless person, be balanced
@@senmonkashonen5875 I know and am aware of that, but it still pushes me to do so as if like I'm being forced and I have to do something like coping up with a desperate feeling. I've been the opposite of you and it has been hurting me. I just want to give in to what myself has been needing to. I already mention that I never give love to myself, I'm so lost. I couldn't think of anything better than being cold and less emphatic. As of I am now, I'm too far from being cold because like I said my personality has been the opposite of it, but lately I could feel that I'm changing slowly, and thanks to this video. Don't worry that hurting others will never be my intention. I'll just have to put myself first until I gain what I need and then, I'll find my old self again. You said that you were naturally one, so maybe you hadn't cared too much and didn't always put the others first. Even with this, it doesn't mean yourself comes last, for me I just totally forget about giving some to myself or worse I just couldn't.
@@kagura9859 bro what you need is self confidence and healthy boundaries, a slap of reality not to be emotionaless , you gotta understand being emotionaless is just escaping emotions, not having no emotions. Pls understand that
@@senmonkashonen5875 I'm tired of being that good person who always cares about other people,here,nobody cares about anyone,those are the rules,i want to become emotionless and cold hearted towards some kinda of people,but deep inside,i still feel emotions,which is kinda sucks to be honest,i know being emotionless is not always the solution for some people,but for me,i think this is the only way to achieve my goals in my life,also life is sometimes hard,so i hope you're doing okay,also stay safe.
*Reason why I need this:* I cry when I'm really happy, sad, excited and grateful. I cry when I witness something amazing, listen to a really beautiful song/voice, watched a thing that amazes me. I cry in almost everything.
I sometimes wish I was more like that. I've been to a handful of funerals and didn't cry. Once had to have a procedure done where they took a biopsy of my shin bone that involved drilling into the bone with a small hole saw, I'm functionally immune to novacaine so I had to have it done without anesthetic, aside from gritting my teeth I didn't react. People think if you're not crying or showing emotion you don't feel pain or you lack empathy.
You are either hurt(ing) or you were born a high sensitive person. That would make you awesome. Even though it is not always easy - learn how to handle your outstanding gift and channel your energy and love the right way so it will not only bless others, but you as well❤
Brother 2020 ... I was way too available and way too emotional towards a certain person who I thought would be the same for me .. but just ended up destroying me ... Your words in this video have helped me so so much ... thank you my brother for releasing this and helping me and so many others facing this problem
guys: *becoming emotionless is NOT bottling or ignoring them, its letting them flow without drowning you* that took me YEARS of therapy to understand and i just don’t want anyone else to go through this, i know that its extremely counterintuitive concidering the video im commenting this on, but seriously, don’t let the joy of the present take away your future, don’t let the moment influence your decisions
that’s only a half truth. if you are emotionless, dry, matter of fact to begin with and you withdraw from these certain things you are already in a negative emotional space for everyone else and therefore yourself. If you are over emotional then this will make sense if these emotions are having a negative effect on your life. If you are slightly emotional and take it away, who are. you really helping? Nobody. Having emotions is one of the best things to have and show on earth, just control them as best you can. Nobody wants a robot, or a complete emotional wreck. Just be yourself and adjust when things become too much. Once they become too much you communicate with them and just not fall off the face of the earth like you never knew that person.
@@nooch5lover yes I completely agree. Having overwhelming emotions is exhausting and stressful but feeling nothing for anything just takes the joy from life it’s better if we find a balance:)
I don't want to "look like emotionless to other people" i just wanna be emotionless inside. I don't wanna feel like angry, sad, happy or being obssesed about things i hear from other peoples about me. So i can work more careful and more efficient. When there is no place for emotions there would be more time for useful things. At least i think that way.
You wouldn't be human then. The only perfect thing is imperfection because it stays always the same, imperfect. Humans are perfect for being imperfect, emotions make us take the right choices and the wrong ones too, but these last ones are there to teach us which would be the right choice next time. Don't suppress your emotions, just listen to them and learn how to work altogether like one individual. You''re doing just fine and you'll be great, keep moving, you got this! :)
i have a very vivid and creative imagination. I can almost live in my imagination because of how real i can make it seem. so when i want to become emotionless or depressed like, i imagine being bullied my whole life and not being loved by anyone. i dont know why but my brain just automatically believes any lies or fantasies i make up. so yeah dont do drugs kids 😃
Same. I don’t even know when I do it sometimes , it’s just after a little while I realize what I did. I don’t even need to think about it ,just see it or read it somewhere I feel like am the person and the situation. And ppl around me find me annoying say am just a crybaby don’t want to deal with me... but it hurt
I'm the type of person that is cold and doesn't show my real emotions. I'm loud and cheerful kid before, but when I grew up and faced the reality and many problems...it disappeared. My family barely see me smile. I got hurt easily but I don't cry cause I'm used to it.
so listening to someone tell you to be even more emotionless than what you already are now would be a terrible idea. Things like emotions is not a cookie cutter fixer upper idea yall. We as humans have every single kind of emotional combination there could be, meaning from 100/100 of emotions to 0/100 emotions and everywhere in between and certain things for certain reasons these emotions are at different levels. Nothing is cookie cutter when humans are involved
that's me but I still show emotion maybe not my real one but still I show them it's mainly anger and sadness so I wanna be able to control those so no one can read me
why do people think being emotionless is cool or helps when u have depression, I had depression but I've ignored it for years and now I don't feel anything and I genuinely don't understand emotions, it's not fun, sure I don't feel sad anymore but happiness also isn't there, it feels like there's just a black hole with nothing going into it and it just stays there
i don't really think it's cool, it just helps me not drown in my feelings but instead flow with them, being nonchalant isn't cool or badass but caring less about some things helps you flow better with your feelings
I completely agree feeing nothing all the time takes away the fun in mundane everyday life. Without emotions everyday is just a grey repeating cycle. I think it’d be better if we find a balance and what we feel for instead of completely killing off everything
I'm too emotional, I cry at everything,get angry easy,and overthinks everything, just like now , I'm crying at how hurt my father's words insult me and scold me, and just get betrayed by my grandmother , I feel like everytime I get emotional I feel useless
it nevr made sense to me why crazy making individuals and the main stream media consistently inflict me to feel constant emotions other than the ones I already felt, as if it were their life source to frustrate, sadden, offend, or threaten. There litterally nothing in it for them, but through time I realized those entities and the feelings from me get recycled somewhere else into content for entertainment, and its manipulative decption at the toll of my mental health, I council them,p show patience, and over apoligize for their own rush to incite panic and it never changes thats how I know no one admits everything is faked to manipulate my emotion because that is priceless and now I have had enough of them using me like a utility with pretend issues. Thanks for this, my sanity is sacred and other false lives I know don't seem to care.
I am very emphatetic, because of it i always appear weak to other people which makes it easy for them to bully me. Whatever i do to control my emotions, i still end up crying and getting bullied again.
Normally when I'm insulted I have been laughing at the person for being so foolish...... I think I'll start being quiet and just look the person up and down, there's something powerful when a person's eyes travel head to toe when they are looking at someone who is annoying.
So I came here to learn how to be emotionless and find out I already am. Wow how weared is this, so now I'm changing my goal, now I want to a little more cold
The most effective way to become emotionless is to lose everything and everyone you love horribly and then get revenge by torture and then you'll be emotionless 😐
It’s societal topics like this that make me want to set the world on fire. It’s things like this that make me wish we could all be engulfed in nuclear hellfire. Everyone is human and emotions are a human being. Being emotionless is completely inhuman and most of you don’t understand that. The most important thing is to control those emotions. Unfortunately, modern society wants us men to be completely emotionless and I cannot mentally take that fact. I don’t know if I even want to exist anymore, as I don’t want to be an emotionless husk. It’s it really Beta thinking to desire someone who loves you back for the genuine person you are, not for being a distant man or just because of looks? Someone who you can actually share things with once in a while? Someone who genuinely values your existence and you don’t have to worry about constantly trying to replace you just because you decide to share a simple thing that has at least some feeling to it or for displaying genuine, meaningful love? If this is life, than I curse god and want out of it asap. Apparently a majority of men agree with me. Why else would the male suicide rate make up 2/3 of those in the entire country? I am not weak, but I *AM* human. Once again, feelings and emotions are 100% natural and come with the fact that you are a human being. Suppressing them has only been scientifically proven to worsen mental health, increase the chances of suicide and physical abuse, and make you die much younger than you otherwise would’ve.
same now i understand, my only 2 friends, maybe they dont even actually care abt me they only want me for their benefits coz im a "softie" that always gives in and cares too much, ending up going all the way out for them and prob taken for granted rn. i wanna be emotionless and learn how to forget them and be alone
Also: Know your emotions. Our emotions is like a map, guiding us through life, giving insight to what is good for us, and what is bad for us. If we numb our emotions, or ignore them as if they don't exist, we lose our map and directions. But knowing our emotions does not mean reacting to them, simply observing them. Some people use meditation for this, others physical exercise - for me, acceptance and surrender has been great tools to simply be with my emotions.
Wow thank you for this video. I care so much it drains me and I put myself last. I thought it was just my personality but it’s because of actions and decisions I’ve made. Going to care more about myself at this point.
Im watching this cause soo i cuold stay calm everytime cause when im angry i feel sad at the same time and if i show those emotions to my parents they will ask questions that i dont want to answer
ok, listen bud, i have an idea, instead of killing your emotons, why not control them? let them flow in a safe environment, dont kill them, let them be, but CONTROL them :)
Non of this is my problem I've just given up on humanity altogether but I'm not crazy I just don't want to feel anything at all I'm only halfway there but I can still feel my emotions trying to get out and I want to put that to a stop
this is hard for me because I associate being emotionless with not talking and it’s pretty hard in the university where u have to make contacts for the future
i dont want to show emotion anymore because im done with caring about it bc my mom hates me and my brother does to so to show them im done with their shit i wanna become completely emotionless (around them)
I'm currently having to live with an narcissistic parent and they know I'm a people pleaser so if I'm nice or slightly open up more they want to walk all over me and expect me to supply them with their narcissistic supply with me emotional response... So if I'm emotionless they might not try to play so many mind games...
I am so positive I attract these physcho paths really ruthless people. I like a medium. Love my carefree attitude. I don't give a fuck about anyone or anything. No contact is better. Find people want to latch on to me try and copy me.
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The key is to control your emotions not be emotionless.
This is pretty easy to do when you feel dead inside
You are everywhere, is that your job?
you are everywhere wth HOW
This is the most unexpected video to see you on
How in the fuck did you end up here?! Lmao
How the hell did u got here
I want to be emotionless and cold because I am too empathetic towards others that I have been neglecting myself this whole time. I want to give back self-love to myself that I have never been done before. I'm also the kind of person that always do good for others but for myself nothing, and I can't decline invitations. I usually can't say no and if I do I really feel bad and I just become emotional. This is why thank you for this video.
Update (05/10/22) How's everyone doing? I happened to pass on this video again for the same reason. I'm still lost, but I've noticed some changes in me. I can control my emotions than before that it just overflows out of nowhere.
I realized some things, being emotionless, cold is different from being expressionless.
Now I'm torn between the two. Being expressionless is just that you still feel emotions inside but you it just doesn't show on the surface, it still means good but has its cons too.
I believe being expressionless is harder, because you still feel strong emotions but you just can't show it/stopping yourself. You don't lose the good part of you. But on the other side, you're gonna be way hurt. The way of your venting out option was removed on your system. It's like you feel bad towards others and you care for them so bad, but you can't express it or make look like you sympathize with them as expression, voice and actions are what people look at if they know that you actually care.
I know this and have felt it because one of my friend say that they care but they don't show it any forms, neither on their expression, body language or even words. Without that, I just can't believe that they actually care. So that's that..
Meanwhile being cold and emotionless is like the hardest thing that a person managed to do or at least had been through to became like it. It just means you don't feel any emotions, feeling sad towards others, caring, joy. It will be gone, but it's gonna help in a way that you feel like no one's gonna stop you from achieving things, it's just you who matters to yourself. You lost the care for others and I think you become logical as well so you can keep going.
There's a lot of difference between these two.
Please listen, being emotionaless is not the answer it's a desperate attempt to feel happier, i was always an emotionalless person, i didn't and i still not care about people too much, when i give advice i give to lecture, trust me it's not an easy life, for me i hated people so much because of all my memories, bullies, fighting, surviving, humiliation, ect her in africa is no joke, i got heartbroken when i was 9 months because my mother stop breast feeding me, i never thought I have emotions i just suppress them automatically i don't care at all, because of that I lost meaning in life i became nilist , but now I'm recovering, pls don't be an emotionalless person, be balanced
@@senmonkashonen5875 I know and am aware of that, but it still pushes me to do so as if like I'm being forced and I have to do something like coping up with a desperate feeling.
I've been the opposite of you and it has been hurting me. I just want to give in to what myself has been needing to. I already mention that I never give love to myself, I'm so lost. I couldn't think of anything better than being cold and less emphatic. As of I am now, I'm too far from being cold because like I said my personality has been the opposite of it, but lately I could feel that I'm changing slowly, and thanks to this video.
Don't worry that hurting others will never be my intention. I'll just have to put myself first until I gain what I need and then, I'll find my old self again.
You said that you were naturally one, so maybe you hadn't cared too much and didn't always put the others first. Even with this, it doesn't mean yourself comes last, for me I just totally forget about giving some to myself or worse I just couldn't.
@@kagura9859 bro what you need is self confidence and healthy boundaries, a slap of reality not to be emotionaless , you gotta understand being emotionaless is just escaping emotions, not having no emotions. Pls understand that
@@senmonkashonen5875 I'm tired of being that good person who always cares about other people,here,nobody cares about anyone,those are the rules,i want to become emotionless and cold hearted towards some kinda of people,but deep inside,i still feel emotions,which is kinda sucks to be honest,i know being emotionless is not always the solution for some people,but for me,i think this is the only way to achieve my goals in my life,also life is sometimes hard,so i hope you're doing okay,also stay safe.
@@Someone-wx7pb same
*Reason why I need this:*
I cry when I'm really happy, sad, excited and grateful.
I cry when I witness something amazing, listen to a really beautiful song/voice, watched a thing that amazes me.
I cry in almost everything.
Same
Same
But not exact
I sometimes wish I was more like that. I've been to a handful of funerals and didn't cry. Once had to have a procedure done where they took a biopsy of my shin bone that involved drilling into the bone with a small hole saw, I'm functionally immune to novacaine so I had to have it done without anesthetic, aside from gritting my teeth I didn't react. People think if you're not crying or showing emotion you don't feel pain or you lack empathy.
You are either hurt(ing) or you were born a high sensitive person. That would make you awesome. Even though it is not always easy - learn how to handle your outstanding gift and channel your energy and love the right way so it will not only bless others, but you as well❤
*dealing with toxic parents,to show no emotions and stuff please make it bro😓* 💜
I am planning a video on how to be more heartless... I will include examples such as toxic parents 💪🏻
@@Meninfluencer *🥺I am eagerly waiting,love you bro💜✨*
i feel u bro🤧
@@fw.a1 hello🧸
same
having a routine for cleanliness, education, religion, and working on yourself will help you achieve greatness
Definitely 💪🏻
Needed this
Idk about religion
Being religious is stupid. I don't not believe in God.
@@vaideswarana3223 Haha same, i am a nihilist/rational egoism, and that is the real confidence and not religion ☯️
This is my opinion so no offense
In a word, caring too much is a threat to ur future self...
Keep urself first always, care less, and fck everything else
That’s not a word it’s 20 🤣
Brother 2020 ... I was way too available and way too emotional towards a certain person who I thought would be the same for me .. but just ended up destroying me ...
Your words in this video have helped me so so much ... thank you my brother for releasing this and helping me and so many others facing this problem
guys: *becoming emotionless is NOT bottling or ignoring them, its letting them flow without drowning you*
that took me YEARS of therapy to understand and i just don’t want anyone else to go through this, i know that its extremely counterintuitive concidering the video im commenting this on, but seriously, don’t let the joy of the present take away your future, don’t let the moment influence your decisions
You are really amazing thank you I will try
that’s only a half truth. if you are emotionless, dry, matter of fact to begin with and you withdraw from these certain things you are already in a negative emotional space for everyone else and therefore yourself. If you are over emotional then this will make sense if these emotions are having a negative effect on your life. If you are slightly emotional and take it away, who are. you really helping? Nobody. Having emotions is one of the best things to have and show on earth, just control them as best you can. Nobody wants a robot, or a complete emotional wreck. Just be yourself and adjust when things become too much. Once they become too much you communicate with them and just not fall off the face of the earth like you never knew that person.
@@nooch5lover It's really a painful pill, but it's a fact that I ignored. Thank you anyway
@@nooch5lover yes I completely agree. Having overwhelming emotions is exhausting and stressful but feeling nothing for anything just takes the joy from life it’s better if we find a balance:)
Great comment, thanks.
I just wanna stop laughing when children fall/ get injured
😂🤣😂
That’s the hardest part tho
Underrated comment 🤣
😂😂😂
Same here
I don't want to "look like emotionless to other people" i just wanna be emotionless inside. I don't wanna feel like angry, sad, happy or being obssesed about things i hear from other peoples about me. So i can work more careful and more efficient. When there is no place for emotions there would be more time for useful things. At least i think that way.
@I-A-Leen Maybe you are right. I didn't think this through. I just kinda wanted to be kinda like a working machine.
You wouldn't be human then. The only perfect thing is imperfection because it stays always the same, imperfect. Humans are perfect for being imperfect, emotions make us take the right choices and the wrong ones too, but these last ones are there to teach us which would be the right choice next time. Don't suppress your emotions, just listen to them and learn how to work altogether like one individual. You''re doing just fine and you'll be great, keep moving, you got this! :)
I wish I would be emotionless because I really don't care what others are thinking
I understand
Tbh I’m doing this so that nobody misses me when I die.
I will 🥺
@@Meninfluencer is that an emotion I see
@@existentialcrisis6236 maybe
Thanks man, i was tired of my emotions that makes me cry everytime now i dont have any pain
♥️♥️
i have a very vivid and creative imagination. I can almost live in my imagination because of how real i can make it seem. so when i want to become emotionless or depressed like, i imagine being bullied my whole life and not being loved by anyone. i dont know why but my brain just automatically believes any lies or fantasies i make up. so yeah dont do drugs kids 😃
That’s what you call emotional memory... very cool trick to “manipulate” your feelings :)
Same. I don’t even know when I do it sometimes , it’s just after a little while I realize what I did. I don’t even need to think about it ,just see it or read it somewhere I feel like am the person and the situation. And ppl around me find me annoying say am just a crybaby don’t want to deal with me... but it hurt
Im already emotionless but for some reason i am watching this
you don't feel any emotions..?
i want to be emotionless because my dad just told me he doesn't like me..
and i care about everyone more then myself!..
I'm the type of person that is cold and doesn't show my real emotions. I'm loud and cheerful kid before, but when I grew up and faced the reality and many problems...it disappeared. My family barely see me smile. I got hurt easily but I don't cry cause I'm used to it.
so listening to someone tell you to be even more emotionless than what you already are now would be a terrible idea. Things like emotions is not a cookie cutter fixer upper idea yall. We as humans have every single kind of emotional combination there could be, meaning from 100/100 of emotions to 0/100 emotions and everywhere in between and certain things for certain reasons these emotions are at different levels. Nothing is cookie cutter when humans are involved
that's me but I still show emotion maybe not my real one but still I show them it's mainly anger and sadness so I wanna be able to control those so no one can read me
You're really working hard . Thank you soo much keep it up 😊
Thank you for noticing :)
I wnt to be completely emotionless
And cold hearted thanks for this advice ut helped me so much while im dead inside
trust me it isn't fun to become cold hearted. Deep inside i want to care but then i can't.
i am doing this emo is weeknes
Same
I’m just done with life so when tiny bit of emotions slip thru it annoys me
Thanks bro i need this because when im very angry i cry and i wanna change that
Bless you ✨
I want to be this way because i want to be not scared of deaths of important people in my life
why do people think being emotionless is cool or helps when u have depression, I had depression but I've ignored it for years and now I don't feel anything and I genuinely don't understand emotions, it's not fun, sure I don't feel sad anymore but happiness also isn't there, it feels like there's just a black hole with nothing going into it and it just stays there
I already dont have happynes so i want to remove the saddnes too
You have alexithymia?
i don't really think it's cool, it just helps me not drown in my feelings but instead flow with them, being nonchalant isn't cool or badass but caring less about some things helps you flow better with your feelings
It's not cool but it's not something that you can rid of if you been through some shit
I completely agree feeing nothing all the time takes away the fun in mundane everyday life. Without emotions everyday is just a grey repeating cycle. I think it’d be better if we find a balance and what we feel for instead of completely killing off everything
I'm too emotional,
I cry at everything,get angry easy,and overthinks everything, just like now ,
I'm crying at how hurt my father's words
insult me and scold me, and just get betrayed by my grandmother ,
I feel like everytime I get emotional
I feel useless
Being HeartLess makes me happy 😌 if no one ever respect me why should I respect others and life 😂
When you want to be dead inside, but not dead is the oddest thing I've ever felt. But here we are
it nevr made sense to me why crazy making individuals and the main stream media consistently inflict me to feel constant emotions other than the ones I already felt, as if it were their life source to frustrate, sadden, offend, or threaten. There litterally nothing in it for them, but through time I realized those entities and the feelings from me get recycled somewhere else into content for entertainment, and its manipulative decption at the toll of my mental health, I council them,p show patience, and over apoligize for their own rush to incite panic and it never changes thats how I know no one admits everything is faked to manipulate my emotion because that is priceless and now I have had enough of them using me like a utility with pretend issues. Thanks for this, my sanity is sacred and other false lives I know don't seem to care.
I am sorry to hear about this. Stay strong! 🙏🏻
I am very emphatetic, because of it i always appear weak to other people which makes it easy for them to bully me. Whatever i do to control my emotions, i still end up crying and getting bullied again.
If you have future video suggestions, please let me know.. I wanna help you :)
How to be happy
100% true bro
InstaBlaster.
Yo god bless you man for real.🙏🙏🙏🙏
Normally when I'm insulted I have been laughing at the person for being so foolish...... I think I'll start being quiet and just look the person up and down, there's something powerful when a person's eyes travel head to toe when they are looking at someone who is annoying.
Me watching this because of my family. They always get angry when I started crying whenever they're telling me harsh words and hitting me.
everyone has this dark deep reason to become emotionless and here i am just to stare at them blankly when they tell a joke
So I came here to learn how to be emotionless and find out I already am. Wow how weared is this, so now I'm changing my goal, now I want to a little more cold
I kinda act no emotion but i kinda laugh when i hear a funny joke
The most effective way to become emotionless is to lose everything and everyone you love horribly and then get revenge by torture and then you'll be emotionless 😐
True
Family *TROLLED*
It’s societal topics like this that make me want to set the world on fire. It’s things like this that make me wish we could all be engulfed in nuclear hellfire. Everyone is human and emotions are a human being. Being emotionless is completely inhuman and most of you don’t understand that. The most important thing is to control those emotions. Unfortunately, modern society wants us men to be completely emotionless and I cannot mentally take that fact. I don’t know if I even want to exist anymore, as I don’t want to be an emotionless husk. It’s it really Beta thinking to desire someone who loves you back for the genuine person you are, not for being a distant man or just because of looks? Someone who you can actually share things with once in a while? Someone who genuinely values your existence and you don’t have to worry about constantly trying to replace you just because you decide to share a simple thing that has at least some feeling to it or for displaying genuine, meaningful love? If this is life, than I curse god and want out of it asap. Apparently a majority of men agree with me. Why else would the male suicide rate make up 2/3 of those in the entire country? I am not weak, but I *AM* human. Once again, feelings and emotions are 100% natural and come with the fact that you are a human being. Suppressing them has only been scientifically proven to worsen mental health, increase the chances of suicide and physical abuse, and make you die much younger than you otherwise would’ve.
I am not surprised by some heartless people sometimes thats why the world we living in is not peace
Tbh I’m done with emotions because people just take advantage and destroy me emotionally and I’m done taking their bs
same now i understand, my only 2 friends, maybe they dont even actually care abt me they only want me for their benefits coz im a "softie" that always gives in and cares too much, ending up going all the way out for them and prob taken for granted rn. i wanna be emotionless and learn how to forget them and be alone
i have been emotionless forever, and i wanted to show emotions, so i searched "how to show emotions" and this is what i come to.
“I’m not say saying”
Yes. That’s exactly what I want tho
I have left my cavity untreated so I want to be emotionless till that day comes
I just want to be emotionless
Also: Know your emotions.
Our emotions is like a map, guiding us through life, giving insight to what is good for us, and what is bad for us.
If we numb our emotions, or ignore them as if they don't exist, we lose our map and directions.
But knowing our emotions does not mean reacting to them, simply observing them. Some people use meditation for this, others physical exercise - for me, acceptance and surrender has been great tools to simply be with my emotions.
Everytime I get a new friend, I end up trailing behind them on everything, and feeling left out a LOT. I’m cold because every one was cold to me.
sometimes you just don't wanna care about anything
mood
Wow thank you for this video. I care so much it drains me and I put myself last. I thought it was just my personality but it’s because of actions and decisions I’ve made. Going to care more about myself at this point.
Good self-reflection! I am sure moving forward you will drain yourself less :)
Omg you're actually right, I so wanna try this... Mentally hard but ill try my best...
Thanks for the tips. I need to clear out a lot.
And here I am trying to be more emotional
I just hate being to nice to everyone lol
I understand..
@Danjotir Najatar easier said then done
Thanks for the tips. Honesty just trying to make myself numb.
I was emotionless at first but slowly I became emotional I want to be emotionless type again.
Love this channel... learning many things 👊👊
Appreciate it... wait until 2021 ;)
@@Meninfluencer hey bro nice video what's the name of the instrumental at the end
Better days by lakey inspired
when someone dies i just want be there not crying or have no emotions about the matter.
I'm not going through much... except being screamed at 24/7. I want to not care as much, so thank you.
Eren Yeager and Ayanokoji: *am I a joke to you?*
I wanna be like captain Levi 😒
I wanna be like light yagami 🤍🖤from death note
Ayanokoji is just on another level
Im watching this cause soo i cuold stay calm everytime cause when im angry i feel sad at the same time and if i show those emotions to my parents they will ask questions that i dont want to answer
Do what exactly the mission requires , with no regards to anyone or anything else
exactly!
Like not helping the woman and child in metro last light in that one tunnel
Ty I can’t afford to cry anymore
On point 🎯
I’ve already mastered not showing emotions now I just want to kill my emotions I am already dead inside
And I mean in this in the least suicidal way possible😂😂 I just don’t wanna feel anything anymore and I feel like I’m getting close to it
@@lauronava4341 being a extrovert is worse fate then death
ok, listen bud, i have an idea, instead of killing your emotons, why not control them? let them flow in a safe environment, dont kill them, let them be, but CONTROL them :)
I care to much apparently and I don’t wanna help, I have no motivation and just nobody cares, only need me when they wanna talk.
I would say that
U r telling the truth
Thank you :)
I have respect for this man. You've earned a subscriber.
thank you
Non of this is my problem I've just given up on humanity altogether but I'm not crazy I just don't want to feel anything at all I'm only halfway there but I can still feel my emotions trying to get out and I want to put that to a stop
Same
Him :- stay away from toxic people
Me :- wtf I live with them
this is hard for me because I associate being emotionless with not talking and it’s pretty hard in the university where u have to make contacts for the future
Very good suggestions
The thing is i have no emotion..
All i feel is jelosy and anger,, dont think i have ever been happy in my life
..I mean y'all have those reasons.. I just want to feel bad ass tho.
i dont want to show emotion anymore because im done with caring about it bc my mom hates me and my brother does to so to show them im done with their shit i wanna become completely emotionless (around them)
great video! 😊 I enjoy it and it’s useful
i can't live without being emotionless
Very enlightening
I’m too mean to people so I just want to stop. I mean just stop it with my emotions I can’t take it anymore.
I wanted to be emotionless cause my emotion hurt me everyday but my dream is to learn acting where showing emotion is everything so i am in trouble
I don’t want to feel anything at all.
1:08 eeeemmoootinooo damage
I want to be emotionless because anytime I feel sad, people judge me or shame me for it.
I'm currently having to live with an narcissistic parent and they know I'm a people pleaser so if I'm nice or slightly open up more they want to walk all over me and expect me to supply them with their narcissistic supply with me emotional response... So if I'm emotionless they might not try to play so many mind games...
I am so positive I attract these physcho paths really ruthless people. I like a medium. Love my carefree attitude. I don't give a fuck about anyone or anything. No contact is better. Find people want to latch on to me try and copy me.
I get attached to easily i don't want to feel emotions anymore
How to be distant from others
noted as video request :)
What a amazing video 👏
Great video, keep up bro! 🙌🏻
Everything I want be is emotional, then I found this!
I see myself in your words
🙏🏻🙏🏻
The energy 🙌🏻✨
still working on it Ty for this❤️
Thx u helped me through a very diff time man.
My husband is cold to me. I’m way too empathic. I’m drained from this relationship. I want to learn how to be like him, less emotional and cold.
@Taylor Grey why not call the police and break up away from that individual
@@treylovely1418 he does not hit me, he is just cold
I just don't want to be able to cry.
I wanna look as unaprochable as possible
Very useful thanks so much keep up the content
I am becoming expressionless (facial) please make a vedio
I just don’t want to feel anything anymore
Thank u ur videos r really useful for me and help me be happy and strong
I just make myself look dead inside and my face with no emotion and i also listen to sad music
How it feels to be betrayed by your own best friend..whom you've trusted for years?