YOLO Psychopaths vs. WOLF Narcissists

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  • YOLO=You Only Live Once, WOLF=We Only Live Forever.
    No Ego, No Superego, Only Id.
    No horizon: no future consequences to present actions (malignant mindfulness), sense of impunity and immunity (will always get away with it).
    Opportunities perceives as malfunctions of reality and the resulting disequilibrium must be seized regardless of costs or consequences (carpe diem).
    Lack of impulse control, disinhibition, attentional narrowing.
    Rise of narcissism in modern civilization renders other people a burden or even dangerous.
    Narcissists and psychopaths are over-represented in mission critical professions.
    Narcissists and psychopaths in the family and among friends, on dating and in the workplace makes self-sufficient atomization and solitude the only survival strategy if one abjures narcissism.
    Schizoid men saw the business opportunity in such social trends and developed technologies that are asocial, mislabeling them as social.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 71

  • @nancylevin-pr2ci
    @nancylevin-pr2ci 20 днів тому +42

    I prefer alone at home, with cat dogs and deliveries.

  • @shannonluck5066
    @shannonluck5066 20 днів тому +97

    I choose the schizoid Life! 🙂 Narc parents, then spouse... I'm quite content on my own. I'm committed to constant learning and no one hurts me 🎉

    • @bobsanderz3005
      @bobsanderz3005 20 днів тому +33

      Funny how narc parents send you right into a narc spouse. More tragic then funny, but yeah

    • @user-o6ue45hz8nr2ap
      @user-o6ue45hz8nr2ap 20 днів тому +2

      ​@@bobsanderz3005No. My husband was no narc!

    • @shannonluck5066
      @shannonluck5066 20 днів тому +15

      @@bobsanderz3005 Not very funny actually, lol But I do try to find the humour in it! Now I have grown kids like that... Be Well 🙂

    • @shannonluck5066
      @shannonluck5066 20 днів тому

      @@user-o6ue45hz8nr2ap Pardon?

    • @letmedohumble
      @letmedohumble 19 днів тому +4

      Only strength will save you. Challenge your body. People are animals who don't f**k with strong animals

  • @neodeadlyrave3627
    @neodeadlyrave3627 20 днів тому +38

    “You can either become a narcissist or a schizoid” - this sounds terrible…. I don’t want to be either of these things!

    • @daltonwilliamlawrence8269
      @daltonwilliamlawrence8269 19 днів тому

      Remember Dr. Vaknin is a Clinically diagnosed sociopath himself ...he sees in black & white. There is an in-between. It is ALL a Spectrum that depends on where you are in life, in other words it fluctuates.

    • @LeahDyson-kq4bd
      @LeahDyson-kq4bd 15 днів тому

      Same

  • @nancylevin-pr2ci
    @nancylevin-pr2ci 20 днів тому +57

    Professor Sam,
    As a ph.d in psychology, with a specialty in developmental disorders as well as learning disabilities (neurological impairment,) as well as well as intimate experience with narcissists and psychopaths, and reactive attachment disorders, I value your lectures: continuing/ education. Thank you.

  • @Wildflower-sm8ow
    @Wildflower-sm8ow 20 днів тому +32

    I love your giggle professor!!!!

  • @thestriker269
    @thestriker269 19 днів тому +11

    I am a medical doctor (MD) from India.Sometimes i find it extremely difficult to hold back my emotions when i see something very corrupt to the core happening in the medical field and people just ignoring basic patient care.
    Many a times i am and was very vocal about malpractices and lack of ethics which people in the practice should follow as being a caregiver and not even properly communicating with the ailing ones ,i find it so disturbing that it actually sometimes torments me from within.
    I had tried the stoic way of dealing things but again i can't stand when a genuine fault and utter ignorance to someones health is there.
    I dont know man whether this aggression of mine is good or i am just over exaggerating my emotions sometimes when something bad is happening.

    • @liliaaaaaaaa
      @liliaaaaaaaa 19 днів тому +3

      Your anger is based on a natural instinct due to a perception of injustice. As a professional you are concerned about malpractice. At the same time you need to be professional & objective & follow the proper procedures. If patient care is inadequate the staff need proper training. If they don't follow protocol then they will need to be sanctioned or removed from their post.

  • @gwinwebb1009
    @gwinwebb1009 20 днів тому +25

    Thank you for your insightful analysis of the reason behind the societal downfall and systemic failure we are witnessing.

  • @jamessorrel
    @jamessorrel 20 днів тому +19

    Werewolves and vampires, oh my!

  • @MelyssaMonroy
    @MelyssaMonroy 20 днів тому +18

    And people spying on a person they consider stupid would be worse?

  • @KamalAzzouzi
    @KamalAzzouzi 20 днів тому +21

    Doctor we love you, thank you for everything

  • @ottocubed9520
    @ottocubed9520 20 днів тому +29

    Tremendous analysis professor

  • @MarkVrem
    @MarkVrem 20 днів тому +95

    Took me 5minutes to realize it is not.. The Seagull, The Eagle, and The Super Eagle.. but Ego, and Super Ego.. Whoops.

  • @jasusoppo498
    @jasusoppo498 18 днів тому +3

    I thank God for you. If I didn't came across your work, too many questions would still be unanswered. These topics are so complex and I probably would have gone utterly insane without this knowledge.

  • @agesflow6815
    @agesflow6815 20 днів тому +9

    Thank you, Professor Vaknin.

  • @polamatuszewska663
    @polamatuszewska663 19 днів тому +4

    Could you please comment on Baby Raindeer real life stalker interview case in the context of a mentally unwell person being exploited?

  • @777Honeypie
    @777Honeypie 20 днів тому +6

    This is great insight! Spot on.

  • @bernicegoldham1509
    @bernicegoldham1509 20 днів тому +11

    I'm listening as I'm filling in my eyebrows of a morning and the next few points are exceptionally relevant to this particular activity 12:24 😂

  • @StargazingAxolotl-fz4lg
    @StargazingAxolotl-fz4lg 20 днів тому +6

    Are there any strategies to rejoin society and retake the reins in a healthy and proactive way for someone who entered the state of self isolation as a coping mechanism? Or is therapy the only option left? If the schizoid state inhibits growth and the pursuit of independence, then the „cure” is worse than the disease.

  • @AremAsha
    @AremAsha 19 днів тому +2

    The one I had experience with called these fantasy portals - potential opportunities and forks in the road. He called one “same old shit road” and the other one “crazy new shit road” Would veer off down the fork in the road, then when things got hot, return to the boring main pedestrian road. He also used the word pedestrian to describe it. Always restlessly bored when not forking off the road.

  • @wandafrazier5206
    @wandafrazier5206 15 днів тому +1

    I've been affected by both types. My initial response was to isolate. However, I seem to have some live and kindness left to give. Hopefully I can keep my eyes and ears open before I become entrapped by more.

  • @Margottaful
    @Margottaful 13 днів тому +1

    i enjoy you humor !

  • @LastTrumpRevelation
    @LastTrumpRevelation 20 днів тому +27

    lol, that laugh 😂 😂

  • @FelicMore24
    @FelicMore24 20 днів тому +3

    🍺📝👍 I'm saving this videos. Can I get a transcript please?

  • @bintjesvideokanaal
    @bintjesvideokanaal 20 днів тому +15

    What is the percentage of people in society being narcissist or psychopath?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  20 днів тому +53

      around 1-3% are diagnosed with NPD and 1% are diagnosed with AsPD. But many more are narcissistic or psychopathic (have a subclinical narcissistic or psychopathic style and/or dark personality).

    • @Memenative
      @Memenative 17 днів тому +2

      @samvaknin: how high would you think the numbers really are for these two diagnoses in society? Just a guess

  • @hafrunmariazsoldos7151
    @hafrunmariazsoldos7151 20 днів тому +3

    Kokein and Conserta for adhd do very similar things to the brain

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  20 днів тому +4

      Search the channel for "cocaine".

  • @erinfroehlich
    @erinfroehlich 14 днів тому +1

    I resonate with a lot of what I’ve heard you say about narcissists, but most of the time I’m extremely inhibited by social anxiety. I was definitely destructively impulsive as a teenager, but as I’ve gotten older, I’m more cautious. Can narcissists become better at controlling impulses? Can morality become part of a false self? If I decide I don't want to be the sort of person that behaves in a way that it's a threat to my idea of myself, can that be a way to become less harmful for narcissists?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  13 днів тому +1

      Search the channel for "prosocial" and for "communal".

  • @Abhisheksengupta923
    @Abhisheksengupta923 20 днів тому +6

    prof, was it cocaine or DMT trip?

  • @kaylaoegema7746
    @kaylaoegema7746 17 днів тому

    Could this be a brain development during the early stages of life, I forget the drs name but he’s a theorist who came up with the theory of the first 1000 days of life and it’s connection to attachment disorder

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  17 днів тому +1

      Watch the From Child to Narcissist playlist. Everything has to do with the brain. It is a meaningless "theory".

  • @johancarlosmedina8604
    @johancarlosmedina8604 20 днів тому +5

    consider my narcissism as a form of post-traumatic stress disorder, if you feel that people did things to you maliciously, heartlessly, you consider them evil or irredeemable. Need for control against a world that you perceived as essentially hateful and unfair and therefore you would prefer fear and that is why you are not abused or taken advantage of.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  20 днів тому +4

      Watch the From Child to Narcissist playlist.

    • @liliaaaaaaaa
      @liliaaaaaaaa 19 днів тому

      What you're describing isn't really narcissism though, it's a defensive mindset to perceived hostility that may or may not be there.

    • @earthrooster1969
      @earthrooster1969 17 днів тому

      Narcissim IS from feeling not enough from within...it's not just evil...​@@liliaaaaaaaa

    • @liliaaaaaaaa
      @liliaaaaaaaa 17 днів тому

      @@earthrooster1969 I don't really understand what you are saying.. the narcissist personality has a sense of elevated entitlement due to a grandiose sense of self, the person he (they) victimise due to sadistic tendencies they abuse due to a lack of ego in their victim & a desire to erode the victim's sense of self worth.

  • @vivianfernandes5672
    @vivianfernandes5672 18 днів тому +3

    How about a discussion between Jordan Peterson and Sam Vaknin

  • @hafrunmariazsoldos7151
    @hafrunmariazsoldos7151 20 днів тому +1

    Super Eagle is an ANIMAL

  • @marthapond7070
    @marthapond7070 20 днів тому +1

    Lol!!

  • @K-A5
    @K-A5 19 днів тому +1

    And by contrast, autistics (and even people with schizophrenia, maybe) are too inhibited?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  18 днів тому +1

      Search the comorbidities playlist.

  • @user-me5eb8pk5v
    @user-me5eb8pk5v 19 днів тому

    Whats someone else supposed to say? "I didn't know that, ha ha ha, your very very impressive, im flattered, does it show?" Any contect too close to rationalism is closed to all consideration. "My your awfully black today, however, such luck, i am not also quite dark, we can spoon." In the absence of menacingly bothersome 'girl' laws, nobody should have adheared to xenophobia as strictly as possible. Its just worms, maggots, whatever to doctors gave to you on purpose. If you go to face painting class at cal state, its easy to spot Abraham Lincoln, he just bolly haggles Wally for 20 minutes. He wants inside the gravity vortex. The other brats, they don't belong on my team.

  • @yosivin1
    @yosivin1 9 днів тому

    אתה אומר שיש עוד ערוץ שבו מפורסמים סרטונים עם מידע שלך, אשמח לדעת מהו הערוץ הקודם, וגם האם אפשר לצור איתך קשר, לדבר במייל או להיפגש שאתה בישראל. תודה יוסי.