Why A Woman’s Past Never Matters (MUST WATCH!)

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  • @StephIsColdG
    @StephIsColdG  2 роки тому +76

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    • @lne9070
      @lne9070 2 роки тому +1

      Bro, who’s your barber? Kinda hard to find good cuts in the ATX for brothas.

    • @kirerunte1046
      @kirerunte1046 2 роки тому

      What's the best indication of future behavior? Your past behavior, behaviorist have known this forever and they are crwsting pre crime nonsense based on this idea, dudes are dumb and women take advantage, that's life, guys wana chase used come dumpsters and they are shocked when it doesn't work out or she has been lying lol

    • @snapcentrel
      @snapcentrel 2 роки тому +1

      I got my lil effeciency and Im saving money for a car!

    • @globalismoblackman
      @globalismoblackman 2 роки тому

      I hear you Bro but too many baby mamas in this story lol 😂😅🤣.

  • @smallbusinessdreams
    @smallbusinessdreams 2 роки тому +818

    19 years old married in the military, worshipped my wife. She got pregnant, we broke up, got a DNA test wasn't mine! Instant divorce. It hurt like hell too. All this under a year. Took the next nine years finding myself, getting all that beta out my system. Found my wife at 28. Now my ex wife is single, and overweight. I dodged a bullet.

    • @waddupbamm
      @waddupbamm 2 роки тому +72

      🤣 it’ll get greater later- Rod Wave

    • @heyitsshay6058
      @heyitsshay6058 2 роки тому +31

      I'm sorry you had to go through that. Woman like that give us a bad name. Glad your happier now

    • @tracer073
      @tracer073 2 роки тому +14

      What made you decide to get a dna test?

    • @havilavi472
      @havilavi472 2 роки тому

      @@waddupbamm facts 💯

    • @havilavi472
      @havilavi472 2 роки тому

      Ayyye🙏🙏🔥💯

  • @kidzeus2433
    @kidzeus2433 2 роки тому +774

    “Men are the gatekeepers of the relationship and women are the gatekeepers of sex” - Kevin Samuels RIP

    • @kevinethan5751
      @kevinethan5751 2 роки тому +10

      Amen

    • @Daveiscold
      @Daveiscold 2 роки тому +6

      🙏

    • @TheoOJamaloO1
      @TheoOJamaloO1 2 роки тому

      Women are the gatekeepers of both because when the average man sees a beautiful woman he wants to be with her. All the simps would do anything for it. The men that are red pilled and not simps are only a few

    • @xanwo8785
      @xanwo8785 2 роки тому +1

      *Marriage

    • @wc3362
      @wc3362 2 роки тому +7

      The man was wise beyond his years.

  • @deanogordon2819
    @deanogordon2819 2 роки тому +1609

    We should always cared about their past. The same way a company should care about a person's criminal record before considering hiring them for the job

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 2 роки тому +192

      Facts bro a woman's past should always matter regardless what they say🗣

    • @darnellwilliams8783
      @darnellwilliams8783 2 роки тому +21

      Dea Gordon I'm sure Burger King didn't question your past as a McDonalds worker

    • @rongooden6545
      @rongooden6545 2 роки тому +185

      @@darnellwilliams8783 cap, if they found out you were giving out free burgers to the homies thru drive-thru, they not hiring you. Try again

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 2 роки тому +49

      @@rongooden6545 exactly 💯

    • @deanogordon2819
      @deanogordon2819 2 роки тому +47

      @@darnellwilliams8783 and I'm sure you're the one who got mistreated by the customers and you're taking out your frustrations on us men. Go and mop those floors or you're fired pretty boy. You can't even spell my name right

  • @Ray-bx8rk
    @Ray-bx8rk 2 роки тому +736

    "Judge women like your life depends on it BECAUSE IT LITERALLY DOES!!!"
    -Rollo Tomassi

    • @BG-mn6di
      @BG-mn6di 2 роки тому +36

      fuckin facts. I don't see how dudes marry or date women for a long period of time who are of low character (narcissist, liar, cheater, ally). Like as short as life is, this who you gone choose to rock out with for years and years? lmao.

    • @BLACKMASKSOUL491
      @BLACKMASKSOUL491 2 роки тому +7

      @@BG-mn6di facts

    • @danjones3402
      @danjones3402 2 роки тому +6

      @@BG-mn6di Truth!

  • @LethargicVibez
    @LethargicVibez 2 роки тому +535

    The women in my family told me that women are attracted to us men on the come up but won’t go for us cause if they see we on our purpose and staying in shape that means to them they gone have to step they game up and they don’t want to.. best truth I realized!

    • @gregpettis1113
      @gregpettis1113 2 роки тому +35

      They all wants to be big Shirley's

    • @vincentalexander9941
      @vincentalexander9941 2 роки тому +25

      Honestly, did u tell them that that’s kinda sad...?

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 2 роки тому +79

      @@vincentalexander9941 They're women, you can't tell them anything unless you're another woman. No point

    • @enigma9971
      @enigma9971 2 роки тому +14

      From the horse's mouths! Hahaha! Women want to have their cake and pig out on it too

    • @Fo-dilla444
      @Fo-dilla444 2 роки тому +10

      I respect her honesty

  • @NoxDeadly
    @NoxDeadly 2 роки тому +608

    I’ve always lived by this, once a woman starts having casual sex, she’s no longer wifey material, and casual sex is basically anytime she lays with a man without being in a relationship

    • @thotslayer9922
      @thotslayer9922 2 роки тому +53

      @Noxdeadly fax. She gets all loose after all those bodies and she forms emotional attachments through sex. To bad I like bad girls. Ain’t gonna have any luck 😅

    • @yaboyshawn
      @yaboyshawn 2 роки тому +162

      So no woman is wifey material bro. Every last woman on earth is having casual sex bro. Most of the time woman have sex their not in a relationship. Actually they probably have the most sex when their single.

    • @kingbucketz182
      @kingbucketz182 2 роки тому +86

      Yeah times have changed. All women have had casual sex. Weather they tell you the truth or not is a whole other thing.

    • @yourunclesimp1
      @yourunclesimp1 2 роки тому +58

      @@yaboyshawn that’s not true. That’s why there’s virgins out here. Not many but there are some. I think the term you’re looking for is “most” instead of “every”.

    • @jeffcunningham5699
      @jeffcunningham5699 2 роки тому +23

      Damn this makes me sick to my stomach

  • @samach739
    @samach739 2 роки тому +310

    A man wants a woman who has a clean past. A woman wants a man who has a bright future and also has resources. 🎯💯.

  • @vatoalfred5721
    @vatoalfred5721 2 роки тому +500

    My best advice is monetize your purpose, and choose women who choose you because they’ll be most submissive. Nothing more nothing less G

    • @vexationstorm9998
      @vexationstorm9998 2 роки тому

      Funny story
      A married man liquefied all his assets paid and moved in with nature boy with his wife. The wife said she wanted to support her husband. Nature boy separated them in the house so he can try to have sex with her. She is submissive to her husband & he lead her to nature boy
      Will you also tell your daughter to be submissive to such a gullible husband that clearly put his wife & child in danger. At what point does submission turn into stupidity

    • @theone4499
      @theone4499 2 роки тому +9

      This is true I just saw a man on tiktok say the exact same thing!

    • @jeffcunningham5699
      @jeffcunningham5699 2 роки тому +14

      I agree bro however ..Fukk tiktcc

    • @mrt2734
      @mrt2734 2 роки тому +5

      100%

    • @00black88
      @00black88 2 роки тому +8

      @@jeffcunningham5699 wrd I'm a teen n I agree.i hate that thirst trap waste of time nonsense

  • @Brani
    @Brani 2 роки тому +373

    We gotta get colder

    • @hmieklix6375
      @hmieklix6375 2 роки тому +16

      Colder than a women lying to you about their past🫡🥶

    • @rik9833
      @rik9833 2 роки тому +6

      always

    • @yangdolo6220
      @yangdolo6220 2 роки тому +7

      It’s the only way

    • @maxwellsherman3673
      @maxwellsherman3673 2 роки тому +3

      imagine having 431k subs and gettings 2k view on a modern video

    • @johnnyhandsome3424
      @johnnyhandsome3424 2 роки тому +9

      It’s not working for you bro your channel is dead

  • @aarona4759
    @aarona4759 2 роки тому +34

    It's all about the triple C's:
    1. Crib
    2. Car
    3. Cash
    I'll add a 4th...learn to COOK so you can feed yourself healthy meals. A healthy body, is a healthy mind. A healthy mind makes progressive decisions.

    • @AD-tx4gh
      @AD-tx4gh 2 роки тому +1

      Yes sir essential eat right gym sleep right.

    • @jimdaniel4412
      @jimdaniel4412 2 місяці тому

      Thats 4 c's..fuck yeah thats how we get em naked in the kitchen

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 2 роки тому +700

    “The day you find out who you are is when you look back and realize that it was never the words, rather your actions that defined you.”
    -Shannon L. Alder

  • @TUBESTEAKNIG
    @TUBESTEAKNIG 2 роки тому +157

    Women want a man with a future. Men want a woman without a past.

  • @spicysausage2853
    @spicysausage2853 2 роки тому +249

    Women can tell other women what kind of men to avoid, but when it's the other way around then it's misogyny or toxic

    • @egosilence6197
      @egosilence6197 2 роки тому

      It only becomes misogyny when you speak as if all women are the scandalous whores you focus on.

    • @DTownNash
      @DTownNash 2 роки тому +40

      They only like double standards when it benefits them. Smh

    • @kacpermoney2820
      @kacpermoney2820 2 роки тому +26

      Fk what they say

    • @spicysausage2853
      @spicysausage2853 2 роки тому +8

      @@kacpermoney2820 agreed

    • @thetruthtings1672
      @thetruthtings1672 2 роки тому +10

      I look at every woman as having herpes simplex 2 HIV hepatitis until we get a all-around STD test I'm not doing much at all. I know things could happen after but I need to know off the rip people don't use condoms forever

  • @jujuinator
    @jujuinator 2 роки тому +77

    Her past doesn't matter if you aren't committing to her, just have your fun while you can with her.
    If you are committing to a woman, turn your a** into Sherlock Holmes.

    • @kzariuscook1275
      @kzariuscook1275 2 роки тому +2

      nah her past matters if you yourself dont have a past

    • @manmule5989
      @manmule5989 2 роки тому +1

      Needed to hear this!

  • @problemsolverjay3021
    @problemsolverjay3021 2 роки тому +99

    As I start to gain more understanding I realize why would I trip over a woman that does nothing for me. Having sex is not that deep.

    • @Random63R400
      @Random63R400 2 роки тому +13

      Finally an american brother Who opened his eyes, God bless you bro for getting your eyes and mindset opened 🙏🏿

    • @darrinredusjr.1048
      @darrinredusjr.1048 2 роки тому +11

      Why would I switch out a dime for a penny

    • @BG-mn6di
      @BG-mn6di 2 роки тому +6

      on me. Ever since I got off social media (insta & twitter), locked in on my purpose, and start reading books on manhood (no dad) I realized it's so much more to life than chasing kitty cat. Feels good to put me and my mental health first, the other option is pretty stressful in todays age.

    • @j.u.d.o6220
      @j.u.d.o6220 11 місяців тому +1

      Fr I was getting soft mid stroke and I’m only 24. I don’t miss it like that tbh. It was fun but like you said …. Not that deep.

  • @SheedTheArtist
    @SheedTheArtist 2 роки тому +77

    I got heartbroken at 17, I’m 21 now and I thank god for that 😂

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder 2 роки тому +3

      There are women of quality out there. Build yourself into a man of character and strength, a man of his word who puts his skills in the service of others and you will be fulfilled in life. Expect these traits in the woman that you care about and you will have a chance for a life-lasting relationship. Keep your standards high for yourself and for the woman in your life and you will have a great outcome.
      If you are on a journey of becoming a man, feel free to use the resources on the Mastery Order to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood and challenge back.
      We can only become better men if we engage in debates over challenging topics. Looking forward to hearing your points of view.
      All the best to you!

    • @user-zs2rh9fw5m
      @user-zs2rh9fw5m 5 місяців тому

      what is the @@MasteryOrder

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder 5 місяців тому

      @@user-zs2rh9fw5m A channel focused on sharing top-quality ideas with the purpose of pushing the viewer towards mastery and excellence.
      Feel free to challenge yourself with some of the ideas shared.
      All the best to you!

  • @MrCabooseb17
    @MrCabooseb17 2 роки тому +50

    don’t save her. she don’t wanna be saved

  • @mciscold
    @mciscold 2 роки тому +220

    Just bought my first Car yesterday 🙏🏽. Driving rn listening to this video. Steph videos help me get on my Grind

    • @maliklofton5748
      @maliklofton5748 2 роки тому +18

      This motivation in exactly one month from today I will get my first car

    • @MrHDProd
      @MrHDProd 2 роки тому +7

      Congratulations 🎊

    • @gregpettis1113
      @gregpettis1113 2 роки тому +9

      Don't forget to get oil changes

    • @vincentalexander9941
      @vincentalexander9941 2 роки тому +4

      Congrats ik that shit feel good 💯

    • @zoerpm6493
      @zoerpm6493 2 роки тому +6

      Just like one guy state. Always get your oil and filter change.

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra 2 роки тому +64

    Men care about a womens past just like how Women care about a mans future.

    • @radarinfinite1032
      @radarinfinite1032 2 роки тому

      They don't care about his future. They are there to sabotage and use the resources in a way that's unsustainable. Actually kind of parasitic. But it's not all.

  • @JBeBoxin
    @JBeBoxin 2 роки тому +177

    FACTS. I got my car , and after high school moved out , lost hella weight and started working on myself . HELLA OPTIONS CAME MY WAY . And I’m not even worried about em lol . Stay on your purpose and get colder.🥶🥶🥶🥶 Steph is the goat fr

    • @tracyclements1467
      @tracyclements1467 2 роки тому +8

      Same wit me, just graduated last year. I got my spot a few weeks before graduation, then months later my car.

    • @Dreweybaby
      @Dreweybaby 2 роки тому

      How many options came ya way.. give us a estimate on how many vvomen u bag a month

    • @tracyclements1467
      @tracyclements1467 2 роки тому +4

      @@Dreweybaby none because I'm no thug, scammer, criminal, rich white guy, or rich arabic.

    • @tracyclements1467
      @tracyclements1467 2 роки тому +1

      @@Dreweybaby they only want the men who are taken. While you're shooting your shot, they will all reject u for the men who are already in marriages or relationships and you have to constantly see that forever.
      I'm done with women and I'm done with dating.

    • @JBeBoxin
      @JBeBoxin 2 роки тому +3

      @@Dreweybaby trust I’m not at all the best looking bro , but I’m not the ugliest . Regardless confidence is the most attractive thing fr , most of the gals in high school that was like , “I just wanna be friends” have got dug out by me bro . Now the ball is in my court because I focused on myself ya feel me? The girl who broke my heart in high school is now the one in her feelings about me .

  • @MTG2.
    @MTG2. 2 роки тому +69

    Never ignore her past if she got a baby daddy it's a reason he ain't stay. Even if he was a dead beat if she didn't press the issue or put him on child support she will put your hard working ass on it 💯

    • @jordanbunch6300
      @jordanbunch6300 2 роки тому

      Stop the 🧢 bro my mom was a single mother my dad has 50 plus kids literally so who was hoeing in that situation. I never got any assistance from another man unless they knew my situation and just felt bad.

    • @MTG2.
      @MTG2. 2 роки тому +3

      @@jordanbunch6300 my guy I only speak facts

    • @jordanbunch6300
      @jordanbunch6300 2 роки тому

      @@MTG2. when something is fact you can put it in every situation and it be true. Like 2+2=4 and oil and water not mixing. Saying it’s something wrong with a single mother off the fact that she is single without looking at both sides is bullshit. What if her baby daddy and that kids father died at his job I guess she is jus toxic and something is wrong with her too. That’s an opinion that’s what’s wrong with this generation when did we get the definitions of opinion and fact get misconstrued so frivolously. You speak straight CAP. I’m not even a women but it’s no different then how police profile black men for being black men and say everyone is a criminal. Your way of thinking should expand beyond that

  • @darkmodeinternational6542
    @darkmodeinternational6542 2 роки тому +29

    My Muslim and African brothers mothers and fathers vet a potential wife’s whole family before allowing their sons to choose a bride! And we wonder why they have over a 99% life long marriage rate! It’s that serious! MOST Western women don’t stand a chance because African and Muslim families highly value a virtuous woman, their families name, purity, submissiveness and her relationship with her family. Their family line is highly valued and a future submissive and virtuous wife is of the highest value by BOTH families looking to unite their sons and daughters as a family. No CAP!!!

    • @ammarb7978
      @ammarb7978 2 роки тому

      Well said.

    • @NigerianBaller
      @NigerianBaller 2 роки тому +3

      You're 100% right. When you marry, you don't just marry the person, you marry their entire family as well. I'm gonna involve my parents heavily in the marriage process. I want my kids to be brought up in the US, so I don't want a wife that's gonna become Americanized and embarrass me by doing stupid shit, cause let's be real, most women in the West have no sense of self awareness, and they don't have to because they're getting hit up by dudes every single day, so they don't feel the need to self improve

    • @iphykelvin8698
      @iphykelvin8698 2 роки тому +2

      Haha very true. Bro, like we hv a different setting n mindset.

  • @sibusiso2841
    @sibusiso2841 2 роки тому +47

    This chick was tryna convince me platonic friendships can be a thing and that making her man wait 7 months for box was okay....only to find out she giving it up for straight up bums. I knew she was all cap but even i was thrown off. It don't take much to stand out guys

  • @300_spartansoldier5
    @300_spartansoldier5 2 роки тому +21

    Her past always matters!!

  • @landismithCOJ
    @landismithCOJ 2 роки тому +49

    Best believe that she has judged you and still will judge you.

    • @TurtleTrader
      @TurtleTrader 2 роки тому +1

      100 ... pretty wild, ain't it!?!!

    • @kacpermoney2820
      @kacpermoney2820 2 роки тому

      Best believe a used up nasty woman will still be picky and judgmental when its time for her to settle down

  • @tcggggg
    @tcggggg 2 роки тому +171

    There’s a bridge between vetting her past and being retroactively jealous about it. Do not be jealous. That shit fucked up my first relationship

    • @johnnyhandsome3424
      @johnnyhandsome3424 2 роки тому +99

      If you’re jealous about it’s because you simply don’t like her past. You stuck around because you were desperate. Have higher standards and don’t get into a relationship with her if you’re at feeling that way.

    • @team3gaming749
      @team3gaming749 2 роки тому +14

      What were you jealous about?

    • @tootrill4711
      @tootrill4711 2 роки тому +7

      @@team3gaming749 probably her body count and crazy sexual experiences

    • @egosilence6197
      @egosilence6197 2 роки тому +16

      No one can control thier jealousy. Stop spewing these unrealistic ideals that give you a false sense of control.

    • @zaydenreactss
      @zaydenreactss 2 роки тому +5

      Nah fuck that

  • @alexanderwalters8221
    @alexanderwalters8221 2 роки тому +43

    1. Take risk
    2. Embrace adversity
    3. Get better everyday

  • @crow2swann5
    @crow2swann5 2 роки тому +113

    "Red Pill" is the father figure that many guys who don't have active fathers need. I wish I had this available to me when I was a kid. Yall spitting knowledge over here. I rock with you. 👍

  • @Henrico_Pretorius
    @Henrico_Pretorius 2 роки тому +40

    be careful gents, these 30+ year olds, they play victom, and state that “many guys have used them”, so then thats what usually causes a guy to “want to save her” don’t fall for it.

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 Рік тому +2

      Hell bro nowadays girls in their early 20s are saying that shit too.

  • @Goku_Kiyosaki
    @Goku_Kiyosaki 2 роки тому +167

    This one hit different because i ignored my ex's past and the bros and her would tell me about her past, fellas dont do it to ya selves, still low key finding myself from that situation, i can't let go of the fact i fooled myself and wasted years of my life with that ex, its like i can't forgive myself

    • @qthequick
      @qthequick 2 роки тому +41

      If you didn’t have a child(ren) with that woman, you need to push on bro. Learn and keep it pushing

    • @TSCK412
      @TSCK412 2 роки тому +9

      Gotta get colder

    • @Unitydreamswillbetrue
      @Unitydreamswillbetrue 2 роки тому +2

      What if you have a kid tho?😂😂

    • @visualizeme-tz3ng
      @visualizeme-tz3ng 2 роки тому +6

      @@qthequick big facts. Bro needs to let that go. Lesson learned

    • @Mikey90210
      @Mikey90210 2 роки тому +17

      Man this was me. And I had a kid wit the girl…. I ain’t goin lie she ran back to all them bums she was saying she dnt fuck wit… embarrassing asf but I’m raise my lil boy to not ignore no red flags

  • @kidzeus2433
    @kidzeus2433 2 роки тому +69

    I gotta agree 100% because I realized that once I got my shit together, the chicks that tend to get with the bums found me a bit intimidating because they thought of themselves as low value while I was attracting high value chicks.

  • @nicholasirving3781
    @nicholasirving3781 2 роки тому +27

    I’m lying to women for the rest of my life cuz she prob lying to me o well 🤣

    • @ApalachBodeine
      @ApalachBodeine 2 роки тому +9

      Nah don’t do that cuz you usually lie when you scared to tell the truth and you can’t be never scared to tell a female the truth.

    • @alaskanwhiskey
      @alaskanwhiskey Рік тому +1

      ​​@@ApalachBodeineoes lie get over it. Even my gf lies in my face when i can see shes lying and will say she isnt "lying" has to be reprogrammed in them that its wrong. I keep a rotation.

    • @jimdaniel4412
      @jimdaniel4412 2 місяці тому

      ​@@alaskanwhiskeythey want us to lie..or they have to step it up

  • @dontebennett6098
    @dontebennett6098 2 роки тому +22

    The past is a determinant of the present which is a determinant of the future.
    Any woman who says that men shouldn't judge a woman for their past is a ran-thru, even if she won't say it.

  • @mikeysmoooth5322
    @mikeysmoooth5322 2 роки тому +47

    They always judge guys on shit, man. So we have to be skeptical, her history matters man. Literally. these women are self sabatoging themselves by the way they beahve and they still want a dude to settle down with knowing she's done some shit and been ran through. If that dude knows, he know how to treat her. they always try to lie and cover up on shit man. They are not low, they always tell on themsleves like fools.

  • @TheTruthContestt
    @TheTruthContestt 2 роки тому +58

    “They already know the question to the answer”
    -Stephiscold 2022

    • @Daveiscold
      @Daveiscold 2 роки тому +2

      Equation most won’t understand 🤞

  • @carnage9480
    @carnage9480 2 роки тому +18

    Unc always said” make sure every female you talk to has the 3 C’s
    Car
    Crib
    Cable.

    • @dootscoot1444
      @dootscoot1444 2 роки тому +2

      😂 I mean the government provide most those things to any single mom out here. What project pat say don’t be late on that child support

  • @thotslayer9922
    @thotslayer9922 2 роки тому +114

    “ you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife”
    - A wise man on doctor phill

    • @larrylaw5052
      @larrylaw5052 2 роки тому

      “Can’t turn a housewife to a hoe” StephisStoned

    • @sonnylistenimaliwithnofigh2451
      @sonnylistenimaliwithnofigh2451 2 роки тому +1

      "oh there you go, can't make a wife out of a 304"
      ~ Justin Bieber

    • @loveyourtime4143
      @loveyourtime4143 Рік тому

      Man thats from the rapper Ludacris😅😅😅 " can't turn a hoe into a housewife, hoes to act right."

    • @loveyourtime4143
      @loveyourtime4143 Рік тому

      Don't *

    • @MikezGreat90
      @MikezGreat90 5 місяців тому

      The original line “but you can’t make a hoe a house wife” is the dogg pound wit snoop daz and kurupt

  • @ambitiousd615
    @ambitiousd615 2 роки тому +43

    💯 FACTS! A chick is who she keeps company with. 304's hangs with 304's😌🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @baccarty
    @baccarty 2 роки тому +28

    Had me in the first half with that title 😹

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 2 роки тому +49

    You should always care about their past and pay attention to their actions and not their words and success is the best revenge towards these chicks 💯

  • @troysparks3772
    @troysparks3772 2 роки тому +103

    One thing I wish I would have known before I got married is you are who you hang with. That’s not just for her,but for me as well. I took my circle of friends and got rid of those that were not on my level. Now all I have is a line. It was a circle,then a square,then a triangle,then a line,and now it’s almost a dot. I guess that’s as close as I’ll ever get to a circle of friends ever again. At least I’m not my own worst enemy any longer,and I’m my best friend now. Men if all your friends are better than you,it’s time to level up. You are who you hang with,and knowing this makes it easier to give her back to dem skreets. If your buddies are low hanging fruit, I guarantee you are too. Not spitting hate,but rather telling you facts. You can only give the equivalent of love to someone,as the same level of love you show yourself. Learn to love yourself again,and it starts with forgiveness. Forgiving myself for all the stupid stuff I did that hurt my life or impacted it negatively was literally the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. No cap. Peace ✌️

    • @radarinfinite1032
      @radarinfinite1032 2 роки тому +11

      That's a flawed way of thinking. Learn to appreciate people for who they are. Levels are superficial and only based on one metric. Life is a lot more complex and each person needs different things to reach each level. I'm willing to bet some of those guys are more advanced than you in other aspects of life . Don't be surprised one day if one of your old boys bail you out one day in a way you can never repay. I get your point and there's no malace, just remember life is so simple and yet so complex.

    • @troysparks3772
      @troysparks3772 2 роки тому +1

      @@radarinfinite1032 I think you’re take on what I said is a valid point of discussion. Let’s discuss. I just started this way of life within the last few years, and it’s peaceful and works for me. Everyone is gonna have their own way to handle what life throws at them,and if mine brings peace and a much better standard of living then that’s the way I choose 24/7/365. I finally figured out that most of them were never my friend to start with. As far as levels in friends, I need someone that is on the same life path as me, has common sense, thinks before they speak,speaks only truth,and has my best interest in their heart at all times. This works both ways. If that’s too much to ask for then excuse me,but I’ve got friends like that. Not many,but I have them. Why in the world would I desire less then that? I’m just saying what I’ve experienced, and it’s sad. I wish I had a huge circle of friends with those qualities,but do you know how hard it is to find friends like that today? It’s damn near impossible. I’ve lived like your talking about,where I accept my friends faults because they accept mine. Screw that. That’s not living my best life,and if you’re ok with living that way then you’re making a bad decision. The same guys that will bail you out of a situation,or the same guys that will stab you in the back. Right now you’re still your own worst enemy, and if you truly loved yourself then you wouldn’t accept any less then you’re willing to give. I hope you consider loving yourself one day, and it starts with forgiveness. Not my opinion,but facts. Enjoy your life and have an awesome day. ✌️

    • @Paul-km7bu
      @Paul-km7bu 2 роки тому +4

      @@troysparks3772 If you treat friends like that no wonder they all gone. Who says they need to be on the same Level? You are your best friend? Biggest cap and cope ever. You never had real friends.

    • @blakesmith7922
      @blakesmith7922 2 роки тому

      Yessir facts brotha

  • @tehoov3954
    @tehoov3954 2 роки тому +25

    Changed my life G in Military now. took that step and I be in gym nonstop on my purpose tHnx G.

  • @Liqo315
    @Liqo315 2 роки тому +21

    Chase a check never chase a bih don't chase no bih. Future🔝💫

  • @dailyselfimprovementredpil4671
    @dailyselfimprovementredpil4671 2 роки тому +12

    Ignoring her past is ignoring who she really is

  • @thedadgeek4793
    @thedadgeek4793 2 роки тому +40

    The more I bettered myself and increased my income, mindset, value and moral…the more issues I had with this chick. Find out they’re bums. The more my bench and deadlift increased it seemed like the more she tried to discourage the gym(which let me perform better at work and in the bedroom) the more she tried to control me.

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 2 роки тому +30

    “Study the past if you would define the future.”
    -Confucius

  • @darkphoenixaresryu
    @darkphoenixaresryu 2 роки тому +24

    Every man has a breaking point. We have to properly vet women. If she isn't following your lead and being a help mate to you she is for the streets. The older men get the harder we take it. I got crushed in my 30s. In my 40s now. It was hard to transition, but I'm glad that I'm RP aware now.

  • @renzo2118
    @renzo2118 2 роки тому +95

    “You have to get yo shit crushed at a young age to really know what It feel like” 18:46-end was ONE of the realist shit this man has ever talked about! Omfg I felt that shit so hard and it’s FUCKIN FACTS! This shit is definitely discipline! Helped me out with my dating life forsure! I feel bad for the military guys and other homies that didn’t get heartbroken in high school! The amount of emotions they’d have to go through…. :(

    • @DB-hz2os
      @DB-hz2os 2 роки тому +10

      Got it in my 30's the worst. that type of heart break drives the most secure men to insanity real quick. Steph is spot on.

    • @Dreweybaby
      @Dreweybaby 2 роки тому +8

      We all been crushed.. only ones that havent been crushed is if they not playing the field

    • @thebucketmanj8525
      @thebucketmanj8525 2 роки тому +2

      I got mine out the way early in elementary. So I already knew what to expect. The blow wasnt so devastating when I got older.😂😂😂

    • @jameshall6558
      @jameshall6558 2 роки тому +4

      🧢 BRO IM IN THE NAVY I GOT MY SHII CRUSHED IN 10th grade but i chased my purpose and everything fell in line all love tho 🤙🏿

    • @havilavi472
      @havilavi472 2 роки тому +1

      Facts dude 💯 just straight facts man

  • @JP-ld6nx
    @JP-ld6nx 2 роки тому +17

    Yo getting your heart crushed early is straight facts! It hurts but it's necessary to open your eyes to the way the world really is. It ain't Disney!

  • @tyandersen4158
    @tyandersen4158 2 роки тому +26

    The new Kevin Samuels in your own respective lane. I salute my g 🙏🏾

    • @maliklofton5748
      @maliklofton5748 2 роки тому +4

      Ams is the next kevin. Steph is almost there tho.

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 2 роки тому +1

      not even close

    • @ZoneE3
      @ZoneE3 2 роки тому

      Dude you tripping 😂🤣

  • @intellectualsavage431
    @intellectualsavage431 2 роки тому +35

    True, but a woman will like you and 10 other guys at the same time so it's still not something special.

  • @billz6849
    @billz6849 2 роки тому

    DISCOVERED THIS CHANNEL ONE WEEK AGO I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH THANKS MAN

  • @brooktayloronly4bbw
    @brooktayloronly4bbw 2 роки тому +4

    This video hands down was epic!!! All facts was spoken

  • @wwhitte1
    @wwhitte1 2 роки тому +3

    These tweets and commentary is the realest shit i ever heard. Bless up!!!

  • @QuintonMillow
    @QuintonMillow 2 роки тому

    Another good one! Keep helping these young men StepisCold!

  • @warrenrohr
    @warrenrohr 2 роки тому +19

    Amen ,another fantastic video thank you for spreading truth 🤙🏻

  • @Kdkyrie12
    @Kdkyrie12 2 роки тому +10

    I respect you Steph we share the same mindset , stay cold kings 🙏👑

  • @KenyonH
    @KenyonH 2 роки тому +4

    Man Steph this right here…. Was a F****** eye opener my guy💪🏾 had to watch this twice‼️ Every man needs to watch this one a few times and save it for later down the road. Appreciate it bruh 💪🏾

  • @beavebuffet5684
    @beavebuffet5684 2 роки тому

    I haven’t watched in awhile but this is exactly what I needed to hear. Stay cold G.

  • @themediareviewchannel
    @themediareviewchannel 2 роки тому +6

    Much respect to you brother. It always great to see you in particular putting such great work. Your age, with your willingness to let these brothers know the truth is going help millions upon millions of men. You are one of the reasons I still have hope for men in the future.

  • @Colt19
    @Colt19 2 роки тому +4

    A Real grown ass man gotta have his OWN EVERYTHING…..

  • @itslalohs
    @itslalohs 2 роки тому +6

    *they already know the question to the answer!!!!!!!!!!!!
    i love this dude on point and funny AF

  • @ctesniem070
    @ctesniem070 2 роки тому +1

    That red appel watch band cold black track suit and red vapormax 🥶💎

  • @MeechClark999
    @MeechClark999 2 роки тому +6

    We gotta get colder 🥶🥶🥶

  • @dansmith7078
    @dansmith7078 Рік тому +11

    Sad to say as a 40yr old man I’ve recently been figuring out how women work because no one taught me at a young age. I’ve been divorced before and my second marriage is not looking good either. Through both marriages I have 4 kids; 3 boys and 1 girl. All I can do is teach them do the opposite of what I did wrong in life and find their purpose and go hard and also teach them to interrogate anyone you want in their circle. But it’s not the end for me yet I’m still gonna make shit happen for myself, no matter happens. Advice from a 40 yr old late bloomer,
    Always look out for #1 =You.

    • @drewt8138
      @drewt8138 Рік тому +1

      Same boat. Started on this journey about 3 years ago and it's been insane the amount of growth I missed out on. Growing up, my Mom was the breadwinner (retired doctor) & my Dad was/ is a beta. He never gave me these jewels cuz he never had em. I made some dumbass mistakes and tryna fix myself now. Stay strong

  • @th1andonlyyy
    @th1andonlyyy 2 роки тому +16

    “It’s just like Bandman said in your last video...get the bag 1st”
    -Dope video Steph...we getting colder every day my G

  • @zubrickbullies3595
    @zubrickbullies3595 2 роки тому

    Steph !! Well Done young Sir….. this was FIRE 🔥

  • @blimbillybood6266
    @blimbillybood6266 2 роки тому +2

    This man saving lives out here

  • @obeylu2015
    @obeylu2015 2 роки тому +8

    Steph be speaking facts! I really want to know who he learned from. I can tell he gained a lot of knowledge in a short amount of time. It took me about 3 books and 3 mentors before I became fully independent.

  • @wiz369
    @wiz369 2 роки тому +4

    “We have to be blameless” 😤

  • @bigronthekrit4692
    @bigronthekrit4692 2 роки тому +2

    Stay up Steph🔥. Can’t lose you. We already lost Kevin.

  • @lionelmarti-k9198
    @lionelmarti-k9198 2 роки тому +1

    We love you Steph… You always yelling at me that’s how I know I need you, bro.

  • @aaronjackson6610
    @aaronjackson6610 2 роки тому +8

    As an OG with wisdom and experience, I approve of this message.🎯💯

  • @Jamel352
    @Jamel352 2 роки тому +2

    @StephIsCold I almost lost myself, thank you for the wisdom G💪🏾

  • @lamasimon9421
    @lamasimon9421 2 роки тому

    Keep pumping this info, I wish I had a man or outlet to tell me this when I was young

  • @chadricrobertson8496
    @chadricrobertson8496 2 роки тому +1

    Steph really improving the GAME..ALL FACTS.....

  • @powerbad696
    @powerbad696 2 роки тому +8

    I remember talking to this little cutie-pie a couple years ago,we started talking,I started listening. LOL. She mentioned she was once in jail(flag no-1)she said she had ptsd(flag no-2)from an abusive ex-boyfriend.And some other things that are too graphic to write about.I didn't talk at all during her confession,glad I didn't,learned a lot about her past. Didn't want to date her after all that pertinent information,too much future drama/issues in her past that I'd have to deal with. This is a case where someone needs to stay single for a while and workout those issues. But,first you need to know you have issues that need fixing,some people thinks their %%%% doesn't stink.

  • @storiestotell
    @storiestotell 2 роки тому +10

    Ignore her past at your own peril..

  • @divinemasculineenergy9773
    @divinemasculineenergy9773 Рік тому +1

    He’s killin em with the facts and they mad!

  • @jhay_vine5083
    @jhay_vine5083 2 роки тому

    I needed this 1 year ago. No video described my situation so hard

  • @whereismymind2795
    @whereismymind2795 2 роки тому +9

    I will be passing this red pill to my son when he is ready.

  • @louisdanielson93
    @louisdanielson93 2 роки тому +2

    Facts fam facts💙💯💪I love your information 💯

  • @DIDDYTBABY
    @DIDDYTBABY 2 роки тому

    Yyyyyyoooooooooo. This was thorough as hell my G. This was very very very good

  • @mrstudlaos9639
    @mrstudlaos9639 Рік тому

    Steph speaking nothing but facts! Love the videos always gained more knowledge watching them everytime💯💯🙏🏻

  • @auged5946
    @auged5946 2 роки тому +8

    Got crushed at 17. That’s why I’m here a year later.
    Now I’m on the path to greatness, greatness which waits only for me (and you).

  • @whereismymind2795
    @whereismymind2795 2 роки тому +15

    You should judge everyone! The only thing you cannot pass judgement on is wether someone goes to hell or heaven.

  • @realbrizza
    @realbrizza 2 роки тому

    This is a Steph classic. Hella facts

  • @noquartergiven1332
    @noquartergiven1332 2 роки тому +13

    This is facts. Chicks hella willing to come thru when you got your own tilt

  • @ProphetXPPX
    @ProphetXPPX 2 роки тому +2

    This dude uploads always go harder than his last. PhirePhlame… 🔥🔥🔥

  • @pabloarellano6019
    @pabloarellano6019 2 роки тому +3

    “They Already Know The Question To The Answer”
    -Stephiscold

  • @NoahTyG
    @NoahTyG 2 роки тому

    No cap I’m glad I took the red pill before it was too late because mannnn no telling where I’ll be rn. 💯💯

  • @nino2real817
    @nino2real817 2 роки тому +1

    Y’all gotta understand, my guy Steph always dropping cold content 🔥🔥💎🥶

  • @keepitleaux
    @keepitleaux 2 роки тому +14

    never had or been in a relationship. it’s never gotten that far. all of em been situationships but i am glad to say that. i’m glad i’m learning the game and female nature right now.

    • @TeamProU
      @TeamProU Рік тому

      Make sure to stay open minded though because you gotta date to find who you like and also not be bitter

  • @BUILTDIFFERENT25
    @BUILTDIFFERENT25 2 роки тому +3

    u finna hit a milli subs by the end of the year g keep grinding!

  • @RozayMalikOG
    @RozayMalikOG 2 роки тому +2

    another cold one for the books!

  • @realspen5082
    @realspen5082 2 роки тому +2

    they already know the question to the answer forreal

  • @LethargicVibez
    @LethargicVibez 2 роки тому +18

    No cap I fw StephIsCold solo vids more than the guest. IMO STEPHISCOLD IS THE GURU!!

    • @ZoneE3
      @ZoneE3 2 роки тому

      The guru of what your father should told you this as a child growing up

  • @SacredPhysiques
    @SacredPhysiques 2 роки тому +8

    Just today this woman was walking with her man and eyed me like she wanted to devour me..... Her man should understand that's our girl now.... I got crushed over a year ago and its the best thing to have happened... Free bachelor.. I have 2 kids "Fatherhood is cool" ... but relationships .... Nah as soon as I invite a woman over.....I just ALEXA... Play Future's new album...

  • @ZoBeatz
    @ZoBeatz 2 роки тому +1

    Yep got my heart broke at 17 learned red pill been game on ever since