The NoFap Mistake 98% Of Men Make... (This Is Making YOU Relapse)

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  • @ledon789
    @ledon789 Рік тому +358

    We must stay focused brothers! We must stay focused! If you feel bad, remember we feel bad as well. Remember your not alone brother and we must resist:)

  • @insertnamehere7090
    @insertnamehere7090 Рік тому +195

    Can we just respect how this man is still uploading even WITH the events in his life, God bless you brother.

    • @Luxurywon
      @Luxurywon Рік тому +6

      Just know if you are reading this you can do 10x what your ancestors did.😊

  • @dodelodo
    @dodelodo Рік тому +116

    It's incredible how you keep on going with your purpose, even after what happened... I'm so proud of you.

    • @Dr_CJ_
      @Dr_CJ_ Рік тому +8

      Yeah, Dude lost his dad

  • @TheDuelingRaven
    @TheDuelingRaven 11 місяців тому +30

    I’m on day 5 right now, and I don’t watch tv a lot, and I’m gonna start making my own routine, thank you for the motivation you give me.

    • @Yeahimryangosling
      @Yeahimryangosling 7 місяців тому

      Brother It’s been 3 months how you feel now??

    • @Abinav_08
      @Abinav_08 7 місяців тому

      bro its 4 month how you doing

    • @lifeoflenny3755
      @lifeoflenny3755 6 місяців тому

      What are the rules of nofap

    • @Dant5rr7b
      @Dant5rr7b 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@lifeoflenny3755 Find distractions that keep you away from corn. Remember it's a lifestyle not a challenge find something you love and distract yourself with it

    • @oldzorg7582
      @oldzorg7582 Місяць тому

      Man how the thing is going?

  • @BUDDYBOYO-r9d
    @BUDDYBOYO-r9d Рік тому +36

    Despite the recent loss you've faced, you continue to create valuable content and help others ,Keep moving forward, Jak, you're making a positive impact that extends far beyond your UA-cam channel. 👏💪

  • @bossywossy111
    @bossywossy111 Рік тому +17

    This guy is saying something really crucial for no fap. When he says "im not the guy that watches porn anymore" this is super important.
    A bunch of studies show that one of the number ways to quite something or make something a habit is to change your identity around the thing.
    So for instance you smoke cigs, you have to start seeing yourself as a guy who isnt a smoker, if that makes sense.
    They say the strongest changes we make are on the level of identity. So in your mind how do you see yourself. Again see yourself as someone who Doesnt, watch porn. Its like a mental exercise, like athletes imagining themselfs scoring a winning touchdown.
    So to recap, the power of visualizing yourself having resolved the issue already, and not only that but someone who no longer identifies as being a participant of said activity.

  • @habbyemmy
    @habbyemmy Рік тому +11

    Dude's changing lives, you have earned yourself a new follower

  • @RisinAJ
    @RisinAJ Рік тому +31

    14 times in 2 days is crazy

    • @davemorris6480
      @davemorris6480 7 місяців тому +2

      Yeah

    • @GITAisBASED
      @GITAisBASED 4 місяці тому +5

      Only when in the depths of hell can you aspire to reach the peaks of heaven.

    • @TOP_G-WagonR
      @TOP_G-WagonR 2 місяці тому

      ​@@GITAisBASEDSheesh!

  • @Messi10949
    @Messi10949 9 місяців тому +5

    Im on day 5 or 6, and I will say, If Irelapse, the streak will be over. Im just proud that I am going 5, almost 6 days without it. I have done it before, but then, I watch one corn video and i'll be sucked in again. In my opinion, I am doing a great job so far.

  • @MrKW420
    @MrKW420 Рік тому +24

    day 14 for me, semen retention on monk mode, no wet dreams allowed. This is my 4th attempt, last one was at day 6, but since I managed to pass two weeks I will keep my mind clear, and stay calm. Cold showers every day to remind me why I am doing this. All the godlike powers to harness, all that mental power just waiting to be taken. Can't give up again, relapsing feels so bad, like something dying inside me, I wont let that happen anymore.

    • @miklivestro4170
      @miklivestro4170 Рік тому +2

      Hey just to be curious and for myself how do i prevent wet dreams if i cant than still thank you

    • @miklivestro4170
      @miklivestro4170 Рік тому

      The furthest i got was like day 41

    • @Dr_CJ_
      @Dr_CJ_ Рік тому

      @@miklivestro4170 Switch from Semen retention to Nofap

    • @MrKW420
      @MrKW420 Рік тому

      @@miklivestro4170 my personal strategy is to set an alarm every 2 hours just to make sure I get forced to quit a dumb dream incase it happens, also DO NOT sleep on your belly, always sleep on your side or back, if you do this you will not unconsciously start to make love to your bedsheet (which btw is the most expected reason to wet dreams) and as a bonus, avoid all social triggers, especially facebook, tiktok or instagram and so on, stop scrolling them or you will get into some very hard situations, you might avoid it while awake, but they will get you in your sleep like a nightmare.

    • @MrKW420
      @MrKW420 Рік тому

      @@miklivestro4170 here, way over day 40 now, still going strong. Just gotta get discusted by doing that, its all it takes.

  • @horizen4461
    @horizen4461 Рік тому +32

    turn to Jesus Christ he loves all of us more than anything and he literally died for us. He took in the punishmrent for our sins thru on the cross. It wasn’t cuz we deserved it, but cuz he loved us. 1 John 4:10 “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins” it was thru his love that he died for us and we can be forgiven

  • @LifeIsPeachy1
    @LifeIsPeachy1 11 місяців тому +3

    1:01 LOVE TO SEE THAT YOU'RE A LINKIN PARK FAN LIKE ME!

  • @ViktorMen
    @ViktorMen Рік тому +8

    How you dont have 1 000 000 subs? You deserved atleast that much

    • @georgezazueta61
      @georgezazueta61 Рік тому +1

      Bc most people don’t care about these topics, most people they want to belong to the matrix bc they think that is so cool but they don’t realize that is ruining their lives

  • @potatostarch-h6e
    @potatostarch-h6e 10 місяців тому +2

    Man i love watching ur vids, u really changed me bro

  • @markgaumee
    @markgaumee 11 місяців тому +5

    In my opinion, the biggest way to test your self control during NoFap or NNN is to purposefully look at explicit photos of women. The reason being that my goal in NoFap isn't just avoiding masturbation, it's also about learning to control my lust. So now and then I will intentionally look at photos of not naked women but explicit photos that leave plenty to the imagination as a way to test my lust and be able to control it. It may not be for everyone but doing this has actually helped me out a lot this year.

    • @pikkonama8858
      @pikkonama8858 2 місяці тому

      For you but your idea is terrible tbh, it will cause any Man to relapse by looking at those photos.

    • @himegsweg
      @himegsweg Місяць тому

      moron

    • @adame1871
      @adame1871 28 днів тому

      I agree this is terrible

  • @cmd4593
    @cmd4593 2 місяці тому +1

    Only on day three it's so easy to right now but when those urges hit they hit like a freight train last time I relapsed I was literally in the middle of meditating clearing my mind then I remembered one of my favorite videos I stopped everything to watch it...

    • @stackswopomannn
      @stackswopomannn 2 місяці тому

      how it going? i just relapse a while ago after going for 7 days😪

  • @josuedebolas
    @josuedebolas Рік тому +2

    i really love your videos jak! when i catch myself scrolling for too long on the internet, or simply wasting my time, your advice pops into mind. you are seriously changing my life! much love to you from sa brother

  • @yosefpovolotski6489
    @yosefpovolotski6489 28 днів тому

    אילון היקר תבורך מפי עליון! מה שאתה עושה זה עבודת קודש

  • @bigscar4326
    @bigscar4326 11 місяців тому +6

    8 times is crazy ‼️💀

  • @achhami8980
    @achhami8980 Рік тому +6

    The fact that someone is wanting to improve is very vauge to start off but resistance is the best way to grow in every aspect be it exercise or be it no fap :)

  • @litheha_prog
    @litheha_prog 11 місяців тому +2

    how many people this man helped? like milions and me too and i apreciate it, thank you!

  • @shadzyalex
    @shadzyalex 11 місяців тому +4

    Day 197 gotta stay focused

  • @Mana__
    @Mana__ Рік тому +3

    I thought I was doing horrible by busting 10 nuts this month and this man busted 8 in a day. I feel on top of the world

  • @knightwolf900
    @knightwolf900 Рік тому +2

    Man, this video just hits me.. woah Thank you brother for such an amazing lesson. I will now go and delete Instagram.

  • @NOVAFF20000
    @NOVAFF20000 Рік тому

    It's absolutely true and so hard. But we have to keep up warriors. Make a illusion of a protector for you that'll work.

  • @stefaniesonrisa
    @stefaniesonrisa 6 місяців тому

    Thanks Jak ❤ you are so authentic and honest so nice

  • @RedDeadSpree
    @RedDeadSpree Рік тому +6

    Day 4 is a death sentence man I swear

    • @lowqualityvideos1492
      @lowqualityvideos1492 10 місяців тому

      Same here, that's like the first proper test to your mentality to see if you can resist the temptation

    • @Danilos_Gallery
      @Danilos_Gallery 7 місяців тому +1

      what about day 3 ⚰️

  • @hudsonmcknight4221
    @hudsonmcknight4221 Рік тому +2

    Proud of you bro. Bible says bring your sins into the light for others to see darkness does not like the light and will flee.

  • @GIGACHAD-ty9hz
    @GIGACHAD-ty9hz Рік тому +4

    As a Gigachad, I'm dissapointed in that thumbnail

  • @ernestkhalimov9872
    @ernestkhalimov9872 Рік тому +1

    This was the mistake I made back then. We all wait for that special "tomorrow" and the days after that to work harder that anyone else, but it won't come. Start today instead. Gon do my 200 pushups now.

  • @unick6969
    @unick6969 Рік тому +3

    Great content man keep going:) you're really helping me out.

  • @DailyMasculinequotes351
    @DailyMasculinequotes351 8 місяців тому

    jak, haft of us are on the urge phase. Haveing that stuff triggers us bro you can have that

  • @boogafilms0001
    @boogafilms0001 11 місяців тому +5

    2:26 Blud, I physically struggle even doing it only TWICE in the same day, how u got 6?!!

    • @Jeekoppi
      @Jeekoppi 11 місяців тому

      Ok. Blud absolutely malicious

    • @felixhelix6580
      @felixhelix6580 Місяць тому

      my old friend busted 10 a day, this guy is nothing to him😂

    • @Z_ORVUIL
      @Z_ORVUIL 13 днів тому

      @@felixhelix6580someone did it so many times i think he started bleeding

    • @blitzressurected47
      @blitzressurected47 11 днів тому

      I did it as well, back when I was 14. Now, I'm 17 and have significantly reduced. However, I still get those urges. Despite having a girlfriend.

  • @TTCISGOAT
    @TTCISGOAT Рік тому

    I was just about to download twitter again then I got a notification of this video

  • @Titanbeatbox
    @Titanbeatbox Рік тому +2

    A tip for those struggling this addiction is stop eating junk food, that what makes you want to do the sin

    • @ayaantoqir5451
      @ayaantoqir5451 11 місяців тому

      It's true but how if junkfood.is meant to decrease testosterone

  • @RisinAJ
    @RisinAJ Рік тому +1

    I just relapsed I won't do it again

  • @Ilya_Yatsko
    @Ilya_Yatsko Рік тому +1

    This "no fap November" (or whatever it called) is a joke, I haven't done it for almost 6 month already and it's ridiculously easy (absolutely honestly, no jokes). And I'm not bragging guys, I just want to let you know that you can do ANYTHING and the ONLY THING stopping you is your mind🧠 Stay strong💪

  • @JohnPeter1940
    @JohnPeter1940 Рік тому

    we must stay focused brazzers !!!💪💪

  • @artistcarter7657
    @artistcarter7657 26 днів тому

    Awesome I have been free around 3.5 years!!!

  • @timmmothhhyyyy
    @timmmothhhyyyy Рік тому +3

    to the people who rly belive that fapping while watching corn has the benefits of increased sexual satisfaction more relaxed and less stress i want you to take these so called "benefits" and ask yourself what are its opposites
    for those who argue that you do get increased sexual satisfaction its only when you do it but after it drains your enerygy

    • @eddieagui1554
      @eddieagui1554 Рік тому

      I dont watch corn.BUT I bust once a week.does NOT drain me. No guilt.shame.or regrets. All in moderation bro.use it or loose it.

    • @timmmothhhyyyy
      @timmmothhhyyyy Рік тому +2

      @@eddieagui1554 i mean i have heard that doing that without corn is healthier

    • @eddieagui1554
      @eddieagui1554 Рік тому

      @@timmmothhhyyyy very true man. Works for me.

    • @TheGamingWraith
      @TheGamingWraith Рік тому +1

      ​@@timmmothhhyyyydoing it without corn is 10x healthier then doing it with corn

  • @timmmothhhyyyy
    @timmmothhhyyyy Рік тому

    im pretty sure mental battles are hella no cap relateble

  • @TylerDurden-o8c
    @TylerDurden-o8c 4 місяці тому

    3:00 bro you made record i though i have the worst experience with p 😂😂 Anyway you made significant progress since then didn't you

  • @sarangfreestyle6912
    @sarangfreestyle6912 10 місяців тому +1

    I accidentally did it my mind controlled me😢after 2weeks l am so fucked up😢😢

  • @Junaid1493
    @Junaid1493 Рік тому

    Big Jak💪

  • @Strange-TV
    @Strange-TV Рік тому +1

    Bro, the thing that used to kill me is that little voice in the back of my head: "One last time.", and one last time, you are 4 to 5 times bustin'a nut in a day. Shame, regrets: "I am a fool, I am a loser; I am a champion of fools in a man's shoes!" I remember doing three months, and then go online to view camgirls, I was able to watch a full video without bustin'a nut but in few weeks. Something had gone wrong and I went back to it, less than a minute. Boom. Shame and regrets but your story kind of inspires me. I was on a route again of No FAP and in eleven days, Instagram always triggers things. Those models, 😂 and I always go on and day 4 I relapse. I deleted all explicit movies in my computer, got rid of any triggering thing in my house but for the fact that I am always alone and have no family. Unemployed at the moment. It is always easy to go back. So here I am not starting over. It was simpler when I was younger cause I had so much to do. I hope I will win this battle at the end. Respect to you my bro. Keep making that fire inspirational content.

  • @Joseph.lagamba
    @Joseph.lagamba Рік тому +2

    Thank you

  • @H-H-R
    @H-H-R Рік тому +3

    You mention staying away and eliminating triggers but then put then into your thumbnail?

    • @smash910
      @smash910 Рік тому

      Does it even matter though? If you're here and you click the video your horniness should be gone anyways. I mean if not what are you doing

  • @daganamaral4676
    @daganamaral4676 10 місяців тому

    Its always the excuse of doing it another day or another week or another month that gets you

  • @aniruddhmishra1112
    @aniruddhmishra1112 Рік тому +1

    Its always the 4th or the 5th day for me.. Please someone guide me.

  • @Underrated-d2s
    @Underrated-d2s Рік тому +1

    the intro made me-

  • @tntgamer7587
    @tntgamer7587 Рік тому

    I’m at the part where you said you done it eight times in one day how man that’s bad

  • @ak1_663
    @ak1_663 3 місяці тому

    Same here I can't get past day 3

  • @Simon-we1mm
    @Simon-we1mm Рік тому +1

    6 times is crazy you wanted to stop on the next day
    Edit: and the eight?

  • @corbinblake-ep2dt
    @corbinblake-ep2dt Рік тому

    w video as always, hope your doing alright bro

  • @ABHamSselv
    @ABHamSselv Рік тому +1

    bro i started talking to a chick and i holded for 10 days and im still going

  • @RedDeadSpree
    @RedDeadSpree Рік тому +1

    Had a one month streak once but atm I cant go further than a week man whats so different

  • @Lokeshwar2585
    @Lokeshwar2585 Рік тому

    My journey is more or less the same😌... though it's not over yet

  • @Vintagewatches1
    @Vintagewatches1 4 місяці тому

    Sometimes I watch this just to know I’m not the only one…

  • @carmenwinstead5152
    @carmenwinstead5152 Рік тому

    Bro is a professional at mental gymnastics with how flexible he has to be to bust 8 times in a row

  • @Default_-ij5oc
    @Default_-ij5oc Рік тому

    Kinda enjoy the urges now and the pain bcz i know i will not type porn on pc no matter what my brain may control the urges but I control my hands so i just feel it with pride . at some point I feel the a energy spreaing through my body it gives some sort of power Man i am loving this on Day 12 of semen retention going strong and hard

  • @stackswopomannn
    @stackswopomannn 2 місяці тому

    i relapse on day 7😪

  • @sirababalwe2240
    @sirababalwe2240 Рік тому +1

    I can relate.

    • @GIGACHAD-ty9hz
      @GIGACHAD-ty9hz Рік тому

      Same. But 6 times bruh💀My max is like 2 lol

  • @dabeastspida
    @dabeastspida Рік тому

    Bro said “it’s 6pm on a Saturday” brain went ah shit relapse time

  • @Fade_FN587
    @Fade_FN587 10 місяців тому

    I quit porn years ago but have a girlfriend so I relapse sometimes but I don’t consider it one because I learned from my mistake

  • @syzzz5043
    @syzzz5043 11 місяців тому

    ok but whts the vid nameon the tumbnail?

  • @12yearsa57
    @12yearsa57 Рік тому +4

    Why do you put triggering images in your thumbnails?

  • @tetfol3315
    @tetfol3315 Місяць тому

    dr Trish Leigh ♥

  • @BorisJohnson1
    @BorisJohnson1 Рік тому

    im the 1000th like on this video!

  • @KyaFilmsPro
    @KyaFilmsPro Рік тому +1

    You are a critical beater, how did you do that because I do it 1 time each week

  • @Omar.R
    @Omar.R Рік тому +1

    Research philosophy ❤

  • @IPurel
    @IPurel Рік тому

    posted this not too long after his pa passed away, how sick...

  • @wickbabytalk
    @wickbabytalk 4 місяці тому

    Who the girl on the right in the thumbnail

  • @leyito
    @leyito Рік тому

    Man I can't even do 2 in a day

  • @NoIdiotHere
    @NoIdiotHere 11 місяців тому

    I’m so mad i saw the thumbnail but then i watched the video and didnt see any baddies thouroughly enraged

  • @yqikk
    @yqikk Рік тому +3

    only thing thats makin me relapse is your goddamn thumbnail 💀💀💀💀
    bros preachin nofap and how to avoid relapse, yet uses such images for his thumbnail

  • @paulreichelt0987
    @paulreichelt0987 Рік тому

    How does he only have 20k

  • @maltewagner7622
    @maltewagner7622 5 місяців тому

    I watched Wolf of Wall Street with no real urge. The real ones will understand

  • @AquaticCat647
    @AquaticCat647 Рік тому

    I just watched American psycho with a pizza...

  • @W_Mindset
    @W_Mindset Рік тому +2

    Hey Jak, I appreciate your work. But please next time when it comes to nofap videos, I urge you to stop putting sexual thumbnails instead use depressing trigerring side effect of p0rn cause really bro it creates an urge in us guys healing from it.

  • @Solar245
    @Solar245 11 місяців тому +4

    Creator: "Guys stop fapping!" Also the creators thumb nail: 🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑

    • @77potato77
      @77potato77 9 місяців тому

      The point

    • @T-swizzle08
      @T-swizzle08 7 місяців тому

      The yanket left chat ☠️☠️☠️

  • @bunique650
    @bunique650 7 місяців тому

    I don’t believe you busted 14 times in 2 days. Just not possible

    • @peridot4600
      @peridot4600 6 місяців тому +1

      It's very possible

  • @kavinraveendran5108
    @kavinraveendran5108 Рік тому

    1:20 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Giga_King13
    @Giga_King13 Рік тому +1

    Bruh this dude thinks 8 is a lot, i did 11 in the same sitting

  • @anidd0_t699
    @anidd0_t699 Рік тому +3

    * puts big gyatted women in thumbnail *

    • @zacy-t2771
      @zacy-t2771 Рік тому

      There’s no way you just said “gyatted woman”

    • @anidd0_t699
      @anidd0_t699 Рік тому

      @@zacy-t2771 GYYYAAATT!!

    • @30regrets
      @30regrets Рік тому

      This man just said gyatted

  • @AIVideoMakerProject
    @AIVideoMakerProject Рік тому +1

    🕊️

  • @oxnamgaming08
    @oxnamgaming08 Рік тому

    NOPORN

  • @АлексейНиколаев-ч3р

    So like dude why tf make this your thumbnail? This could literally be relapsing for some people, I mean if you stare long enough you’ll get a dopamine rush that I feel like is the negative part of porn. You’re literally just as bad as the people posting them. You’re doing it for the same reason.

  • @endercreeperdan
    @endercreeperdan Рік тому

    Rip your dad man

  • @princevashishth9831
    @princevashishth9831 Рік тому

    8 😱

  • @GearsOfCake
    @GearsOfCake Рік тому +6

    unnecessary thumbnail brah

  • @GeoMaps-jf3qu
    @GeoMaps-jf3qu 2 місяці тому

    GUYS HELP IM AT NIGHT OF DAY 2 AND I WANNA 🤜🥩 pleasedde

    • @GeoMaps-jf3qu
      @GeoMaps-jf3qu 2 місяці тому

      I. Justtt lost it 😢😭😭😭😭😢

  • @spider13593
    @spider13593 8 місяців тому

    Gotta chill with these thumbnails man (even if it’s 5 months ago lol)

    • @peridot4600
      @peridot4600 6 місяців тому

      I was gonna comment this

  • @russellbusiness
    @russellbusiness Рік тому

    Hey man nice vids, can we make a valuable content?

  • @jacksoncalhoun3869
    @jacksoncalhoun3869 Рік тому

    Bro all you did was move your eye brows

  • @OppoOppo-lk5ox
    @OppoOppo-lk5ox Рік тому

    🦾🔥

  • @heisenbergvendetta
    @heisenbergvendetta 11 місяців тому +2

    people who busted while watching this video-------------------------------------------------------

  • @lindenclintmurray-fg5jy
    @lindenclintmurray-fg5jy Рік тому

    Seriously I can go months bro with nofap with out even trying LOL Lmao

  • @jacksonowens-xj9fq
    @jacksonowens-xj9fq 9 місяців тому +1

    8 nuts in 1 day😭💀

  • @zvonimir-antestipic775
    @zvonimir-antestipic775 11 місяців тому

    Well if you use instagram for basketball. Maybe you make another account just for basketball and other interesting things. And the primary account use sometimes, just to check if someone messaged to you.
    In that way I am less triggered for urges, and I am less comparing myself with other because there are just content account, not accounts from persons.