*A truly masculine man takes responsibility, leads with integrity, and stands firm in his values while still showing kindness and emotional intelligence.*
I hope you reply me as I find myself in a loop. I've been dating this girl, things turned serious, I met her family and friends, she met mine, we been planning a trip together and stuff. Hanging together a lot (by her reaching out and initiating and setting dates and ideas... etc) Thing is, this weekend her female cousin and her cousin female best friend came to visit her, and they both seem to be young women, single, looking for fun, bars and parties you know. This girl Im dating, has like, completely shifted energy, and I seemed to be a priority now all of a sudden I feel like a second choice, like, she is planning to go bars and parties 'for her gfs to meet country'. Im mad about the fact she will go to bars with her single friends, and as well, she 'planned' a meeting for us to go spend an afternoon at some place tuesday, and I know it's just for her to have friday night again and use tuesday as an 'excuse'. Im planning on leave her after her gfs leave, so I don't ruin her mood while they are here. What do you think about my situation?
Her going out with her friends may not be something you like but it's well within her own choice as an adult. If you dont trust her then thats just where you're at
She's the one initiating your dates? How long are her family/friend staying? If you're not taking the lead in anything, you're probably making her feel like the second choice. There are consequences to that. If her friends will be there for a short time, she obviously wants to maximize her time with them. I would be concerned that you're being left out of that experience. Without knowing either of you, I cannot say if you're the reason you're being left out of the loop or she is or some combination of both.
@@Meditations2024 Most time she is the one initiating texts and dates. (I mean, she set dates when we are together, like hey tomorrow lets go to x) I do also set dates, and yes, I do take lead always. She happily follows it as well. Yes indeed, they will be here for 2 weeks yet, I feel like she does plans for daylight to see me as an 'excuse' so they have nights free for girls night. Im mad about the fact she will go to bars and clubs with her two single female young girlfriends. Im thinking about telling her all this, and that our visions seem not to match. I want something real, and she seems focused on bars, clubs and single girlfriends. Most likely this chat will be the end of our relationship. What do you think about all this?
Dating coach here as well. It would be helpful to know how long you've been dating. But either way, it's not a good idea to meet family/friends until she's your gf. Now they're entangled with your dating life with her.. this is what happens. You moved too fast. Not sure how much is "seeing each other a lot" but hanging out a lot while dating lowers her attraction. Dates should be once a week (unless it's her idea to see you more often). There's many other details we don't know, like the way you talk to her, whether you're being needy or clingy, whether you're actually planning the dates, etc. You getting mad isn't going to help. Just don't express it to her. You're dating, not bf gf. Do what you feel is best (leave her or not) by being calm yet firm without being mad at her.
Your partner saying I love you and comes in for a cuddle...you block her advances...instead offering her a nice firm but fair hand shake 😂 When she has issues instead of listening to her emotions... help her create a flowchart 😅
*A truly masculine man takes responsibility, leads with integrity, and stands firm in his values while still showing kindness and emotional intelligence.*
You sound like a simp in rehab answering the final answer of your pick up artist online course.
Well said Christine!
This came to me at the perfect time. Thanks for making this😊
Being happy all the time is unattainable. That is an unrealistic expectation. Family plans ruined
Youre awesome
I hope you reply me as I find myself in a loop.
I've been dating this girl, things turned serious, I met her family and friends, she met mine, we been planning a trip together and stuff. Hanging together a lot (by her reaching out and initiating and setting dates and ideas... etc)
Thing is, this weekend her female cousin and her cousin female best friend came to visit her, and they both seem to be young women, single, looking for fun, bars and parties you know.
This girl Im dating, has like, completely shifted energy, and I seemed to be a priority now all of a sudden I feel like a second choice, like, she is planning to go bars and parties 'for her gfs to meet country'.
Im mad about the fact she will go to bars with her single friends, and as well, she 'planned' a meeting for us to go spend an afternoon at some place tuesday, and I know it's just for her to have friday night again and use tuesday as an 'excuse'.
Im planning on leave her after her gfs leave, so I don't ruin her mood while they are here. What do you think about my situation?
Her going out with her friends may not be something you like but it's well within her own choice as an adult. If you dont trust her then thats just where you're at
She's the one initiating your dates? How long are her family/friend staying?
If you're not taking the lead in anything, you're probably making her feel like the second choice. There are consequences to that.
If her friends will be there for a short time, she obviously wants to maximize her time with them. I would be concerned that you're being left out of that experience.
Without knowing either of you, I cannot say if you're the reason you're being left out of the loop or she is or some combination of both.
@@Meditations2024 Most time she is the one initiating texts and dates. (I mean, she set dates when we are together, like hey tomorrow lets go to x)
I do also set dates, and yes, I do take lead always. She happily follows it as well.
Yes indeed, they will be here for 2 weeks yet, I feel like she does plans for daylight to see me as an 'excuse' so they have nights free for girls night.
Im mad about the fact she will go to bars and clubs with her two single female young girlfriends.
Im thinking about telling her all this, and that our visions seem not to match. I want something real, and she seems focused on bars, clubs and single girlfriends.
Most likely this chat will be the end of our relationship. What do you think about all this?
@@lurkwavewell said
Dating coach here as well. It would be helpful to know how long you've been dating. But either way, it's not a good idea to meet family/friends until she's your gf. Now they're entangled with your dating life with her.. this is what happens. You moved too fast. Not sure how much is "seeing each other a lot" but hanging out a lot while dating lowers her attraction. Dates should be once a week (unless it's her idea to see you more often). There's many other details we don't know, like the way you talk to her, whether you're being needy or clingy, whether you're actually planning the dates, etc. You getting mad isn't going to help. Just don't express it to her. You're dating, not bf gf. Do what you feel is best (leave her or not) by being calm yet firm without being mad at her.
why do u post daily coach❗️?
Your partner saying I love you and comes in for a cuddle...you block her advances...instead offering her a nice firm but fair hand shake 😂
When she has issues instead of listening to her emotions... help her create a flowchart 😅
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who cares what they want
You took the time out of your day just to click on the video and comment on it all because you don't care?
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