God said no sex before marriage because it is fornication. Gods Will should be all we want to please Him! That is not the Word. We should want to please Him. I don't understand! God does not operate on vibrations. We will be accountable for misleading people. I am not judging you but God will.
...that part about vibration!...God knows we are sinners, and NO One, executes perfectly our walk sinlessly. we are children in this walk and maturing. As long as we can be honest, and not make excuses for our sin God will help us be better. you are right though, abstaining is a blessing more than we can ever imagine!
I love when he said: “Men should pursue and not persuade A women should present and not pursue Presenting: being you! Understanding who you are, being confident in who you are! Men are attracted to confidence “
@@4WallsDesigns And the masculine side only comes when he feels secure. Respectfully, do you see how dumb that sounds to us men? Imagine a dude wears heels and dresses, doesn’t work and won’t protect you until he feels “secure” in the relationship. Insanity. You’re either feminine or you’re not. That’s how most of us men see it.
@@aaronmiles2802 I think most men look for much more than femininity. I think if that’s all they’re looking for then yes that’s dumb. Women bring so much more to the table. Besides both men & women each possess a masculine & feminine side. To what degree it’s displayed depends on the level of confidence that they can each be vulnerable with the other! So no he doesn’t need to wear a dress/heals and she doesn’t have to be Uber-feminine. Serve one another and neither has to take on the other’s natural tendencies!
It’s saying you a God fearing woman in the Word then talk about “vibrations.” Then said it’s biblical. That tells me everything I need to know about a person. I’ll exit not. We don’t serve the same God. Please show me scripture about vibrations in the Bible…
You know, it's a serious sinful error to say it's ok to have sex before marriage just because you found your marriage mate. That is unbiblical and seriously wrong. It's never ok to have sex before marriage. The LORD said it is sin to do so and for good reason. Brothers and Sisters in Christ we need to repent!
Let me tell you something...I'm a subscriber of the My Future Wifey podcast, but this was my 1st time watching an episode of the Its Negotiable podcast and I became a subscriber after watching it in its entirety. There was so much amazing information shared between everyone and it truly touched my soul. I even watched it a 2nd time and took notes and one of the nuggets that stood out the most to me was to fix all of my broken pieces to truly become comfortable with ME then I'll start to attract those same vibrations. I'm single, never been married, no children, and I desire to be a wife one day. Thank you all for being so transparent and sharing your stories.
I’m watching this at 5a.m. and I cried and felt convicted at the tithing conversation. God has literally been tugging on me hard to be consistent with my tithing. I’ve been listening but I haven’t wanted to. I also haven’t had any lack. This morning I felt convicted because God has been so good to me and I act like I’m afraid to trust Him 🥹 The tithe message was for me and I receive it and I’m just so sorry to God because I know better. 💯
Laterras, yes!!! God does give us God winks. When I got married almost 5 years ago I didn't realize that I would have encountered all that I had. I didn't realize that I would be hit with so many punches to the gut! Yet God knew the whole thing and He allowed my husband and I to connect. God knew that I would need one of his finest creations (he's handsome), but that's not what I am speaking of. If anyone knows the story of the eagle. My husband was able to carry my weight and I bless the Lord!!! God knows every intimate detail of our lives. None of us knows what will befall us. God is omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent. He sees the BIG picture of our lives!!! He links us with His desires!!! Psalm 37:4 says; Delight ourselves in the Lord and that He shall give us the desires of our hearts. It is pertinent that we meditate upon God's word and that we spend time bathing in the presence of the Almighty, so that the Lord can present us to the one that He knows we need to connect. The Good Sheherd knows what we have need of. If there is a struggle in one's flesh it may mean that we need to seek spiritual counseling. I pray that everyone that desires a mate would bask in God's Holy presence until God says it is time!!!
This podcast was shared to me by my future friend. I immediately text him after watching it, no half way. I texted him that he is a God send. Thank you guys keep up the good work. I have been positively encouraged. I'm back!!!
In my journey of self knowing I don't get approached at all, though I am smiling more, loving God more, more creative than ever... however when I was mean and broken, I was approached nonstop...but I have concluded that God has a hedge of protection around me for the moment ❤
Cooking and cleaning should be an ability or a desire of both the husband and wife. I think that's a viewpoint of someone who sees husband and wife in traditional roles but it's definitely not a qualification of who can be one.
This is indeed more traditional thinking. I always say I’m a traditional woman with a modern twist because I actually enjoy doing those “traditional” things. But my thoughts about marriage is anything but traditional. Everyone has to choose what works for them. At the end of the day marriage is an agreement between the two people in it, period
I used to say I would never do a long distance relationship. I wanted easier access to spend time with the person. Now I realized that the people in my state was not a good fit. And that wouldn't be right to put God in a box to help connect me with my future husband. Now I'm in a long distance relationship and Im happy. Im trusting God with this process. The distance is giving me more time to heal and work on me. We have already discussed that when engagement happens, we will move to the same state to do premarital counseling and prepare for marriage.
Latarras you’re truly a man of wisdom. I believe God has healed your heart. I pray God locate your purpose partner in his perfect timing so that you too can do extraordinary things in this world for Jesus name to be glorified. Great topic ❤
He said "quote on quote the right way" concerning sex before marriage... Listen here... There are no quotes needed when it's God's way, because His way is always the right way... The way of the world needs quotes to loosen God's commandments ❤ God bless 2 King 17:33
@dearfuturewifey (Laterras) and Amber, you both spoke about wanting to practice abstinence until you marry your respective future spouses. However, it sounds like you feel you might not make it. It can definitely be done. Making a vow to God & not keeping it is dangerous. As a Believer, I practiced abstinence for 10 yrs before I married my husband. God kept me because I truly wanted to be kept. It was non negotiable for me. I'm not perfect, but I strive to follow God's word fully. Praying for both of your strength & a made up mind. And Amber, you are stunning btw. God bless you both! ❤
@Lavidaesbella117 For me being abstinent it's been 16 years and I don't plan on ever being married, I never had kids , i do have a male companion ,no sex involved. I'm in my late 50s, and I am prepared to just focus on the kingdom of GOD, if GOD says otherwise ,let his will be done 😊🙏🏾🙌🏾
I became a Believer @ 24, in the year 1973 (was not a virgin) as a young man God kept me for 7 years until I went on my honeymoon. That gave both my wife and me something to look forward to.
Wowwww!!! Although I’ve enjoyed this entire interview…The very thing I was barreling and going back and forth with God on (tithing), God spoke to me through this episode. And now it’s settled. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Great job ladies.
I am so thankful for this episode. I’m so close to tears right now. I too struggle sometimes with giving my tithes. When I’m obedient to the spirit, blessings on blessings just flow. Thank you.
I LOVED this episode. I actually thought I was going to be watching a Dear future Wifey episode when I clicked on it. And this episode just gave me sooo much to think about. Thank You!
Fantastic episode! Engaging conversation and heartfelt stories - I've subscribed. Appreciate your commitment to giving back to the community. Blessings and gratitude to God for the inspiration in your narratives.
Deep, calls unto deep. This is beautiful. God asked me to give a certain amount a week ago, I was trying to negotiate but I gave the money and few days later God opened a door that I had been praying for.
I swear i love yall podcast these videos open my mind up to so much considering i got out an unfortunate engagement these conversations make me see things from a different perspective
One of the key things about refraining from sex before marriage is that you will have something to look forward to. It’s a whole experience. When you have sex before hand, you eventually say I do at the alter then you meet in the bedroom at some point with nothing new to explore because you’ve done it already. It is the point of you exploring each other sexually. Example if you play with your gift before the day your suppose to unwrap it, when your gift is wrapped and ready to be open it’s less excitement. The wait is everything. As well as knowing you can because God has given you his blessing to and you don’t have guilt hanging over your head because of sin. This doesn’t only apply to those who are virgins either. Wait and watch (wink)
I'm sorry but this thinking has always been wack to me. It is your responsibility no matter how long you've been together to keep the sex fresh. It doesn't matter if you start 4 years before the wedding or 15. The point is that you're gonna have to stay committed to maintaining attraction no matter when you start or how long you stay together. You're gonna have to stay committed to spicing up the same old positions and finding ways to implement new ones. Find new styles of sex, grow your intimacy. You will never get married and then say, "Dang we had too much sex before the marriage and now we have nothing to explore." Those are the words of someone lazy and inexperienced, who hasn't lived life. Sex isn't something worth waiting for and using it as a leverage tool. It's too much weird justification needed to make people want to wait. There are no magic benefits to waiting. The only thing waiting does is force you to emotionally invest more in your partner because you're too horny to think straight so you need things to work out with them. Like. . . You spend all this time thinking and fantasizing, that's a lot of emotional and thought energy being pent up. Why wouldn't you want to get married and do anything it took to make sure you got a return on your investment? Basic psychology. Anyway, the only honest justification to wait is because you believe God told you to. Anything else is a cope that anyone with moderate life experience can knock down.
Was awesome Podcast 💞💞🤗 I learn and respect. Enjoyed Laterass Truth. I really did learn a lot from your show I was coming in my bedroom and you guys were on I was I'm to get scriptures for entertainment for on our prayer team and so I was getting some watching some positive entertainment and I really thank you ladies and Laterras or doing this show I do love., D dear
Great Show Ladies. 👏🤗🙌 . Glory to God 🙏😇. I Will be Watching Your Special Show 😊. God Bless You All❤ All. I Love for Real People and Not So Real/ [My Grandmother ``Always said never judge another man to you walk in his shoes‼️ )so I really do appreciate your responsibility and teaching and Hope,... Others get it, but I'm glad your show is on ; I will be watching it and the Dear wifey podcast thank you guys God Bless You 🙏 😇👏👏🤲 All‼️❣️❣️❣️
Ernestine & her husband only waiting 90 days was their plan, not God's plan. God's plan is that we wait until THE day to consummate. Best to follow His way opposed to man's way. Everyone is not on the same spiritual level. God deals with us differently according to knowledge. When you know better and you disobey, God responds more severely. Perhaps Ernestine & her husband would do things differently if they were dating today due to their spiritual growth.
Please be careful listening to people like this. They weave in scriptures and say the Lord's name but give carnal advice. "Quote unquote the right way" when referring to having children outside of a marriage is false. Your husband going to Magic City to lust before his wedding day = false Encouraging backsliding and ignoring the Lord's commands for sex before marriage = false. This man has a sex problem and if he can't keep it together outside of marriage, he won't be able to keep it together in a marriage. Y'all stay woke.
A necessary episode. Healing for many, I am sure of it. I like that you both (Amber and Ernestine) allowed Laterras to talk and expand on points that the community needed to hear. Great Episode! Thank you for sharing.
I have recently started saying God even though I desire marriage and sex ( I am sustaining from it right now) I would rather you send me my purpose and then my partner UNLESS it’s in your will to do otherwise! Let your will be done in my life! My life is in your hands! I love this episode! I desire a husband whom puts God first and me second! Blessings.
Our thoughts are not God thoughts. We should always be open to what God have for us and it may just be the thing you said you didn’t want. ❤ the conversation.
Larerras, please stop laughing at sin. Sin B R E A K S God’s heart. CRUSHES IT. This is why JESUS came, suffered, bled and díed.... FOR US, FOR THIS. When you minimize this and make jokes about how many times you’ve backslidden into sexúal sin, even though your intention to abstain is righteous, you litteally diminish everything aboit what sin is..., about what our Father thinks of sín, what JESUS did to atone for it, the effects it has on you and the person you choose to sin with, the effects it has on your witness, how it blocks the moves Our Father has for your life, the spiritual bondage you are creating, the generational curses you are perpetuating, the loss of Heavenly rewards you could receive, your loss of spiritual authority and power, the effects on your current fellowship with JESUS, on and on and on.. Stop laughing about it. None of it is a joke. I pray we take this seriously in The Body of Christ. May The LORD be glorified by our obedience. Blessings
I’m not telling anyone. The Bible tells us. David, in Psalm 51, told us after his sexuál sins with Bathsheba. He called it for what it was. and showed us how we can confess sín. We are to be humble and contrite. Repentance and brokenness are what God loves. We are prone to sïn. We will never be perfect but we are to take sin seriously all the days of our lives. Thank GOD for JESUS
I tried to explain to my fiancé mother that there are married things that must be done prior to get married. Steward singles correctly. I just need help to reinforce some of things being talked about on this podcast.
This is a great discussion. And the ladies that are in their 30’s and 40’s seem like your options are still brighter. Some of us are mid-fifties and it seems that our potential of finding someone is very slim. Even Laterras is talking about looking at 27 and older and he is 45. This can seem hopeless for the 50 plus woman.
God is not limited by your age. I Promise you God can do it one million ways! Speak the word of his promises concerning you! They are real and they are yours!
Ma'am, I don't really think you have anything to worry about. Younger women don't really like older men. Go out into the real world and you will see. I don't know of any woman my age who are with older men. Most people marry around their age.
I’m broken but now that I heard her say, how she never felt that feeling of just knowing her. I’m going to do what she said.. I’m going to stop talking on the phone and do some cleaning…😂😂 I’m celibate so I’m not worried in that order. God knows I need to get somethings in order… ❤
I absolutely love the vulnerability in this podcast. As usual, Mr. Whitfield's transparency opened up layers of contamination and replaced them with healing balm. Thank you
My late husband was 9 years older than me. I definitely would not date or consider a man younger than me at this stage in my life that is probably non negotiable..
35:36 if your not given all your troubles to God as a single person your first response will not be to take it to God as a wife. Troubles will come that’s for sure.
Well...I kinda would have modified Laterras's long distance negotiable. unless the person is legit open to moving because I did the move before. Then again, you never know! LOL! I am saying this because, GOD blessed me - and my Blessed bride was less than an hour away. Hallelujah! regarding age - My cutoff was any age younger than my wife. I did have my daughter early with my first wife (at the age of 23).
You attract them, but how long can you keep them ...attracted to you. Few years you are single again after they know all your corners. Don't be too confident because people will fail you.
My negotiable that was indeed a non negotiable for me was not dating older men due to past hurt but one day in a moment of silence God said don’t put him in a box when it comes to that and so that’s now a negotiable.
I personally think that this brother changed his mind on his what he wants and doesn't want once he start making money it's not like he's the Denzel the brother started making money and now he's getting more action more women checking him out more options
🤎🤎 💙 both Podcasts and professional work that all 3 of you are doing. Fan of both Dear Future Wifey & Kountry Wayne skits. The 💯 real life issues and biblical info really needed for all of us to grow, heal and be our best. That church testimony I had a similar experience the message the woman and the 2 mites. God was dealing with me about trust / being obedient the Holy Spirit do you trust me and I was like Jesus this is all that I have. I gave it and a friend of the family put some 💵 in my hand secretly after service that was sitting in front of me in church service and I said thanks is this for one of my kids and she said no Holy Spirit said that's for you. My eyes 😭😭😭 when only God knows what you are going thru at that time. He speaks to you 🤣🤣 and you are having a whole conversation back and forth. You surrender and say Lord I trust you and He show out and keep His word/ promise. Thank you Jesus. This podcast a 🎗️ to continue to strive to live for God to do his will and help others it just boomerang back to you in your time of need. Tithe time, 💵 and talents. Continued blessings on all of you beautiful people 🤎🤎🤎
Purpose Partner??? What's that? Where in the Scriptures do we find a , "Purpose Partner?" Amazing how so many try to get sooooooo deep about finding a "wife" when it's not that difficult, especially for a black man ♂️. Game recognizes game‼️
Great job ladies and Laterras. The transparency is refreshing. I watch every Kountry Wayne episode and stumbled upon this. I def will repost to get this amazing podcast out
The work doesn’t start until after the honeymoon. Trust me!!! I agree with the young Lady that said that. I’m no longer a husband because God took my wife to be with him in November but my late wife and I worked hard on our marriage and we had a good one because we put on the WORK
Very good podcast. Also, want to give a word of constructive criticism. Whether it be male or female Christians should always be mindful of their attire and wear the appropriate attire for the appropriate occasions, which would be great spiritual growth. Food for thought!
Girls you’re putting toooo much attention on being a wife!! It’s really no big deal! It’s a lot of work and the only thing you get is his life insurance policy!😂😂
Lol, no longer brainwash! Marriage was mainly created back in the day for women so if they got pregnant the man would have to pay up and take care of her! But times are different! What do women really get out of it? They lose themselves to men who don’t appreciate them as their wife or mother of their children. Please don’t mention having children, it’s overrated! Young ladies ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun from marriage, Unless you find a good prospect, and you know you will benefit wether it last or end! Remember you are the prize and everybody or thing is an extension of you! You are not the sacrifice, you are the prize! Get your Education so your fall back will be your come back!! I didn’t do it, and I’m F$Ck!
I’m attracted to men who plot their life course using scriptures and allow me a safe landing place to follow this scripture James 5:16 ► Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. With out weaponzing my confession and desire for prayer and submission
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God said no sex before marriage because it is fornication. Gods Will should be all we want to please Him! That is not the Word. We should want to please Him. I don't understand! God does not operate on vibrations. We will be accountable for misleading people. I am not judging you but God will.
...that part about vibration!...God knows we are sinners, and NO One, executes perfectly our walk sinlessly. we are children in this walk and maturing. As long as we can be honest, and not make excuses for our sin God will help us be better. you are right though, abstaining is a blessing more than we can ever imagine!
I need an episode for a single person who does not go out or isn't on social media, oh and works from home🤦🏾♀️
My days 😮 at least you are on UA-cam 😂
There are more people working from home who have social media but don’t engage I’m sure❤
@@Ba.c right! This is my social life 🤣
We do need one!
I agree
I love when he said: “Men should pursue and not persuade
A women should present and not pursue
Presenting: being you! Understanding who you are, being confident in who you are! Men are attracted to confidence “
No we are not lol😂 At least not specifically. Women are the ones who are more so attracted confidence, men are attracted to femininity.
Yes I thought that too. Until I met a narcissist! They only like confidence as a goal to break her!
@@aaronmiles2802the feminine side comes when she feels safe! Confidence is a powerful shield against ppl who come to play!
@@4WallsDesigns And the masculine side only comes when he feels secure. Respectfully, do you see how dumb that sounds to us men? Imagine a dude wears heels and dresses, doesn’t work and won’t protect you until he feels “secure” in the relationship. Insanity. You’re either feminine or you’re not. That’s how most of us men see it.
@@aaronmiles2802 I think most men look for much more than femininity. I think if that’s all they’re looking for then yes that’s dumb. Women bring so much more to the table. Besides both men & women each possess a masculine & feminine side. To what degree it’s displayed depends on the level of confidence that they can each be vulnerable with the other! So no he doesn’t need to wear a dress/heals and she doesn’t have to be Uber-feminine. Serve one another and neither has to take on the other’s natural tendencies!
It’s saying you a God fearing woman in the Word then talk about “vibrations.” Then said it’s biblical. That tells me everything I need to know about a person. I’ll exit not. We don’t serve the same God. Please show me scripture about vibrations in the Bible…
You know, it's a serious sinful error to say it's ok to have sex before marriage just because you found your marriage mate. That is unbiblical and seriously wrong. It's never ok to have sex before marriage. The LORD said it is sin to do so and for good reason. Brothers and Sisters in Christ we need to repent!
When God said ~ No sex and sexual immoralities before marriage~ HE meant it✝️
People don't Date anymore with Healthy Intentions.. Where are the Seasoned People that Think like this???
Let me tell you something...I'm a subscriber of the My Future Wifey podcast, but this was my 1st time watching an episode of the Its Negotiable podcast and I became a subscriber after watching it in its entirety. There was so much amazing information shared between everyone and it truly touched my soul. I even watched it a 2nd time and took notes and one of the nuggets that stood out the most to me was to fix all of my broken pieces to truly become comfortable with ME then I'll start to attract those same vibrations. I'm single, never been married, no children, and I desire to be a wife one day. Thank you all for being so transparent and sharing your stories.
I have great respect for this servant of God Mr. Whitfield.
I would’ve liked to hear more about Ernestine’s journey before her marriage and what lead her to work on herself and what her process was
I’m watching this at 5a.m. and I cried and felt convicted at the tithing conversation.
God has literally been tugging on me hard to be consistent with my tithing. I’ve been listening but I haven’t wanted to. I also haven’t had any lack.
This morning I felt convicted because God has been so good to me and I act like I’m afraid to trust Him 🥹
The tithe message was for me and I receive it and I’m just so sorry to God because I know better. 💯
Laterras, yes!!! God does give us God winks. When I got married almost 5 years ago I didn't realize that I would have encountered all that I had. I didn't realize that I would be hit with so many punches to the gut! Yet God knew the whole thing and He allowed my husband and I to connect. God knew that I would need one of his finest creations (he's handsome), but that's not what I am speaking of. If anyone knows the story of the eagle. My husband was able to carry my weight and I bless the Lord!!! God knows every intimate detail of our lives. None of us knows what will befall us. God is omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent. He sees the BIG picture of our lives!!! He links us with His desires!!! Psalm 37:4 says; Delight ourselves in the Lord and that He shall give us the desires of our hearts. It is pertinent that we meditate upon God's word and that we spend time bathing in the presence of the Almighty, so that the Lord can present us to the one that He knows we need to connect. The Good Sheherd knows what we have need of. If there is a struggle in one's flesh it may mean that we need to seek spiritual counseling. I pray that everyone that desires a mate would bask in God's Holy presence until God says it is time!!!
This podcast was shared to me by my future friend. I immediately text him after watching it, no half way. I texted him that he is a God send. Thank you guys keep up the good work. I have been positively encouraged. I'm back!!!
In my journey of self knowing I don't get approached at all, though I am smiling more, loving God more, more creative than ever... however when I was mean and broken, I was approached nonstop...but I have concluded that God has a hedge of protection around me for the moment ❤
Cooking and cleaning should be an ability or a desire of both the husband and wife. I think that's a viewpoint of someone who sees husband and wife in traditional roles but it's definitely not a qualification of who can be one.
This is indeed more traditional thinking. I always say I’m a traditional woman with a modern twist because I actually enjoy doing those “traditional” things. But my thoughts about marriage is anything but traditional. Everyone has to choose what works for them. At the end of the day marriage is an agreement between the two people in it, period
I was enjoying this podcast until the part referring to vibrations. Sorry you've lost me, as this sounds very new age to me!
Wedding is beautiful but marriage is work. It's renting vs owning your own. Now when things break YOU have to fix it.
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I used to say I would never do a long distance relationship. I wanted easier access to spend time with the person. Now I realized that the people in my state was not a good fit. And that wouldn't be right to put God in a box to help connect me with my future husband. Now I'm in a long distance relationship and Im happy. Im trusting God with this process. The distance is giving me more time to heal and work on me. We have already discussed that when engagement happens, we will move to the same state to do premarital counseling and prepare for marriage.
Latarras you’re truly a man of wisdom. I believe God has healed your heart.
I pray God locate your purpose partner in his perfect timing so that you too can do extraordinary things in this world for Jesus name to be glorified.
Great topic ❤
He said "quote on quote the right way" concerning sex before marriage...
Listen here... There are no quotes needed when it's God's way, because His way is always the right way... The way of the world needs quotes to loosen God's commandments ❤ God bless
2 King 17:33
@dearfuturewifey (Laterras) and Amber, you both spoke about wanting to practice abstinence until you marry your respective future spouses. However, it sounds like you feel you might not make it. It can definitely be done. Making a vow to God & not keeping it is dangerous. As a Believer, I practiced abstinence for 10 yrs before I married my husband. God kept me because I truly wanted to be kept. It was non negotiable for me. I'm not perfect, but I strive to follow God's word fully. Praying for both of your strength & a made up mind. And Amber, you are stunning btw. God bless you both! ❤
@Lavidaesbella117 For me being abstinent it's been 16 years and I don't plan on ever being married, I never had kids , i do have a male companion ,no sex involved. I'm in my late 50s, and I am prepared to just focus on the kingdom of GOD, if GOD says otherwise ,let his will be done 😊🙏🏾🙌🏾
I became a Believer @ 24, in the year 1973 (was not a virgin) as a young man God kept me for 7 years until I went on my honeymoon. That gave both my wife and me something to look forward to.
@@hiphil8559 That's a beautiful testimony! Share it often, my brother in Christ!
Thank you ladies for creating and cultivating the conversation that allowed Mr. Laterras to keep it L.I.T.
Keep growing people!
Wowwww!!! Although I’ve enjoyed this entire interview…The very thing I was barreling and going back and forth with God on (tithing), God spoke to me through this episode. And now it’s settled. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Great job ladies.
I am so thankful for this episode. I’m so close to tears right now. I too struggle sometimes with giving my tithes. When I’m obedient to the spirit, blessings on blessings just flow.
Thank you.
I LOVED this episode. I actually thought I was going to be watching a Dear future Wifey episode when I clicked on it. And this episode just gave me sooo much to think about. Thank You!
Great episode! Laterras is always giving good godly advice and he is a great example of God's favor and restoration power.
Fantastic episode! Engaging conversation and heartfelt stories - I've subscribed. Appreciate your commitment to giving back to the community. Blessings and gratitude to God for the inspiration in your narratives.
Great content . Marriage is a call to serve and responsibility’s for both parties. Heavy is the crown…
Lt, do you think women find you attractive or because of your position? You are a good host.
Deep, calls unto deep.
This is beautiful.
God asked me to give a certain amount a week ago, I was trying to negotiate but I gave the money and few days later God opened a door that I had been praying for.
This confirms why I appreciate Laterras and his ministry podcast. Great interview!!!! Keep them coming.
Love this beautiful podcast!. Laterras is amazing 👏 ❤. Great episode 👏
I swear i love yall podcast these videos open my mind up to so much considering i got out an unfortunate engagement these conversations make me see things from a different perspective
One of the key things about refraining from sex before marriage is that you will have something to look forward to. It’s a whole experience. When you have sex before hand, you eventually say I do at the alter then you meet in the bedroom at some point with nothing new to explore because you’ve done it already. It is the point of you exploring each other sexually. Example if you play with your gift before the day your suppose to unwrap it, when your gift is wrapped and ready to be open it’s less excitement. The wait is everything. As well as knowing you can because God has given you his blessing to and you don’t have guilt hanging over your head because of sin. This doesn’t only apply to those who are virgins either. Wait and watch (wink)
I'm sorry but this thinking has always been wack to me. It is your responsibility no matter how long you've been together to keep the sex fresh. It doesn't matter if you start 4 years before the wedding or 15.
The point is that you're gonna have to stay committed to maintaining attraction no matter when you start or how long you stay together. You're gonna have to stay committed to spicing up the same old positions and finding ways to implement new ones.
Find new styles of sex, grow your intimacy. You will never get married and then say, "Dang we had too much sex before the marriage and now we have nothing to explore." Those are the words of someone lazy and inexperienced, who hasn't lived life. Sex isn't something worth waiting for and using it as a leverage tool.
It's too much weird justification needed to make people want to wait. There are no magic benefits to waiting. The only thing waiting does is force you to emotionally invest more in your partner because you're too horny to think straight so you need things to work out with them. Like. . . You spend all this time thinking and fantasizing, that's a lot of emotional and thought energy being pent up.
Why wouldn't you want to get married and do anything it took to make sure you got a return on your investment? Basic psychology. Anyway, the only honest justification to wait is because you believe God told you to. Anything else is a cope that anyone with moderate life experience can knock down.
Was awesome Podcast 💞💞🤗 I learn and respect. Enjoyed Laterass Truth. I really did learn a lot from your show I was coming in my bedroom and you guys were on I was I'm to get scriptures for entertainment for on our prayer team and so I was getting some watching some positive entertainment and I really thank you ladies and Laterras or doing this show I do love., D dear
Great Show Ladies. 👏🤗🙌 . Glory to God 🙏😇. I Will be Watching Your Special Show 😊. God Bless You All❤ All. I Love for Real People and Not So Real/ [My Grandmother ``Always said never judge another man to you walk in his shoes‼️ )so I really do appreciate your responsibility and teaching and Hope,... Others get it, but I'm glad your show is on ; I will be watching it and the Dear wifey podcast thank you guys God Bless You 🙏 😇👏👏🤲 All‼️❣️❣️❣️
Ernestine & her husband only waiting 90 days was their plan, not God's plan. God's plan is that we wait until THE day to consummate. Best to follow His way opposed to man's way. Everyone is not on the same spiritual level. God deals with us differently according to knowledge. When you know better and you disobey, God responds more severely. Perhaps Ernestine & her husband would do things differently if they were dating today due to their spiritual growth.
💯. We have to be careful not to change what God’s word says. His word doesn’t change to make it easy for, we are expected to be disciplined!
Amazing podcast 👏👏👏
Thank you for the blessings from this podcast 🙌🙌🙌🙌
The end of this video about tithes! God youre such an intentional God 🙏🏽🙌🏾
Please be careful listening to people like this. They weave in scriptures and say the Lord's name but give carnal advice.
"Quote unquote the right way" when referring to having children outside of a marriage is false.
Your husband going to Magic City to lust before his wedding day = false
Encouraging backsliding and ignoring the Lord's commands for sex before marriage = false. This man has a sex problem and if he can't keep it together outside of marriage, he won't be able to keep it together in a marriage.
Y'all stay woke.
YES AND AMEN 🙏🏾👀🙌🏾
Interesting comments.... *especially the part about going to MAGIC CITY the night before the Wedding.*😢
Very good comments and transparency, thank you for sharing. I’ve shared with others. VALUE!!! I value my worth. Thank you for what you do!
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Amazing talk show. Well done Sweet ladies!
Great podcast episode ❤
Naw. Ur good with that 10yr age gap. Stay out of the 20s when ur mid 40s.
I have subscribed to this podcast because of Mr. Laterras. Much love from Uganda.
I subscribed! I really enjoyed this podcast! Keep up the great work ladies! Great job Laterras!🎊🎊
A necessary episode. Healing for many, I am sure of it. I like that you both (Amber and Ernestine) allowed Laterras to talk and expand on points that the community needed to hear. Great Episode! Thank you for sharing.
This was sooo Good. I loved every minute of it 👏🏾🔥💛 God's Blessings to you all 🙏🏾
It really was!! It’s funny because I’m on tht same journey as a man of valor
It has taken me seven years to build and feel worthy.
I have recently started saying God even though I desire marriage and sex ( I am sustaining from it right now) I would rather you send me my purpose and then my partner UNLESS it’s in your will to do otherwise! Let your will be done in my life! My life is in your hands! I love this episode! I desire a husband whom puts God first and me second! Blessings.
Our thoughts are not God thoughts. We should always be open to what God have for us and it may just be the thing you said you didn’t want. ❤ the conversation.
Wheww this Episode blessed my life come on Holy Ghost yessss so much Wisdom love it 🙌🏽🙌🏽💃🏽💃🏽😭
I love this ladies, thanks for your sacrifice❤❤❤❤
Awesome episode. True
Larerras, please stop laughing at sin. Sin B R E A K S God’s heart. CRUSHES IT. This is why JESUS came, suffered, bled and díed.... FOR US, FOR THIS.
When you minimize this and make jokes about how many times you’ve backslidden into sexúal sin, even though your intention to abstain is righteous, you litteally diminish everything aboit what sin is..., about what our Father thinks of sín, what JESUS did to atone for it, the effects it has on you and the person you choose to sin with, the effects it has on your witness, how it blocks the moves Our Father has for your life, the spiritual bondage you are creating, the generational curses you are perpetuating, the loss of Heavenly rewards you could receive, your loss of spiritual authority and power, the effects on your current fellowship with JESUS, on and on and on.. Stop laughing about it. None of it is a joke. I pray we take this seriously in The Body of Christ. May The LORD be glorified by our obedience. Blessings
You can’t tell a person how to deal with their situation. Out of everything he shared, that’s what you got🙄
I’m not telling anyone. The Bible tells us. David, in Psalm 51, told us after his sexuál sins with Bathsheba. He called it for what it was. and showed us how we can confess sín. We are to be humble and contrite. Repentance and brokenness are what God loves. We are prone to sïn. We will never be perfect but we are to take sin seriously all the days of our lives. Thank GOD for JESUS
AMEN 🙏🏾🙌🏾😊
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I tried to explain to my fiancé mother that there are married things that must be done prior to get married. Steward singles correctly. I just need help to reinforce some of things being talked about on this podcast.
Thank you for always being vulnerable and up point with your answers
This is a great discussion. And the ladies that are in their 30’s and 40’s seem like your options are still brighter. Some of us are mid-fifties and it seems that our potential of finding someone is very slim. Even Laterras is talking about looking at 27 and older and he is 45. This can seem hopeless for the 50 plus woman.
Never date or marry someone your children age....I do agree there is an expiration date on the word " boyfriend or girlfriend"
God is not limited by your age. I Promise you God can do it one million ways! Speak the word of his promises concerning you! They are real and they are yours!
Ma'am, I don't really think you have anything to worry about. Younger women don't really like older men. Go out into the real world and you will see. I don't know of any woman my age who are with older men. Most people marry around their age.
David repented his faults everytimehedidwrong. That is why he was a man after God's own heart.
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My non-negotiable is you MUST be submissive to God, fully surrender to his will and plans
I’m broken but now that I heard her say, how she never felt that feeling of just knowing her. I’m going to do what she said.. I’m going to stop talking on the phone and do some cleaning…😂😂 I’m celibate so I’m not worried in that order. God knows I need to get somethings in order… ❤
Yes be discipline❤
I absolutely love the vulnerability in this podcast. As usual, Mr. Whitfield's transparency opened up layers of contamination and replaced them with healing balm. Thank you
Obedience is better than sacrifice...amen
This is good stuff!!!!
Love podcasts positive topics My future wifey ,Hardly intiated ❤❤❤❤
I don't know what wife is about to work and have ALL those household responsibilities...NO MA'AM! Ain't nobody a work mule!
You all ripped my edges all the way off.
“The ring and the marriage is cute but are you ready for the role”
Very good lesson.
Edges gone 😂😂😂
I enjoyed the sharing of your truth and experiences.
Thanks ❤
My late husband was 9 years older than me. I definitely would not date or consider a man younger than me at this stage in my life that is probably non negotiable..
35:36 if your not given all your troubles to God as a single person your first response will not be to take it to God as a wife. Troubles will come that’s for sure.
Great Episode!!!
Wow! Good stuff Bro Laterras and Ladies!
Sis defined household chores as evidence of being marri
I would love to come on your show and talk about the repercussions of cheating. We, as women, are many times the initiator...
Love it when I see all my favorite people in one place 😊
First time watching this channel. I enjoyed this episode
This was great! I appreciate the transparency!!
Ernestine is fine as heaven !! 😍
Well...I kinda would have modified Laterras's long distance negotiable. unless the person is legit open to moving because I did the move before. Then again, you never know! LOL! I am saying this because, GOD blessed me - and my Blessed bride was less than an hour away. Hallelujah! regarding age - My cutoff was any age younger than my wife. I did have my daughter early with my first wife (at the age of 23).
I am attracted to confident, kind, spiritual, and very feminine (not Bossy) woman! which my Dear wifey is! GOD is Good
You attract them, but how long can you keep them ...attracted to you. Few years you are single again after they know all your corners. Don't be too confident because people will fail you.
My negotiable that was indeed a non negotiable for me was not dating older men due to past hurt but one day in a moment of silence God said don’t put him in a box when it comes to that and so that’s now a negotiable.
At least the haters have a purpose: THEY ARE WATCHING😂
This conversation was much needed
The word says set your affections on things above for practical, mental, and spiritual reasons
I personally think that this brother changed his mind on his what he wants and doesn't want once he start making money it's not like he's the Denzel the brother started making money and now he's getting more action more women checking him out more options
🤎🤎 💙 both Podcasts and professional work that all 3 of you are doing. Fan of both Dear Future Wifey & Kountry Wayne skits. The 💯 real life issues and biblical info really needed for all of us to grow, heal and be our best. That church testimony I had a similar experience the message the woman and the 2 mites. God was dealing with me about trust / being obedient the Holy Spirit do you trust me and I was like Jesus this is all that I have. I gave it and a friend of the family put some 💵 in my hand secretly after service that was sitting in front of me in church service and I said thanks is this for one of my kids and she said no Holy Spirit said that's for you. My eyes 😭😭😭 when only God knows what you are going thru at that time. He speaks to you 🤣🤣 and you are having a whole conversation back and forth. You surrender and say Lord I trust you and He show out and keep His word/ promise. Thank you Jesus. This podcast a 🎗️ to continue to strive to live for God to do his will and help others it just boomerang back to you in your time of need. Tithe time, 💵 and talents. Continued blessings on all of you beautiful people 🤎🤎🤎
Purpose Partner??? What's that? Where in the Scriptures do we find a , "Purpose Partner?"
Amazing how so many try to get sooooooo deep about finding a "wife" when it's not that difficult, especially for a black man ♂️. Game recognizes game‼️
Great job ladies and Laterras. The transparency is refreshing. I watch every Kountry Wayne episode and stumbled upon this. I def will repost to get this amazing podcast out
The work doesn’t start until after the honeymoon. Trust me!!! I agree with the young Lady that said that. I’m no longer a husband because God took my wife to be with him in November but my late wife and I worked hard on our marriage and we had a good one because we put on the WORK
Amber and Ernestine🎉 Hey Ladies. Love y'all on the KW skits. And this interview with Mr. Future Wifey did not disappoint. Congrats
1st time watching! Great personalities! I saw Ernestine in Love and Murder movie featuring Tate Diggs she’s funny and was great in the movie.
Very good podcast. Also, want to give a word of constructive criticism. Whether it be male or female Christians should always be mindful of their attire and wear the appropriate attire for the appropriate occasions, which would be great spiritual growth. Food for thought!
Very funny & unterhaltsam 😅😬🧐😎😜😘
I loved this podcast!!! It is on point!!!
The weight snd responsibilty of it all. It requires self less ness !!! Some dont clean now what about marrage ! You better preach young lady!!!!!
This was SO good and relatable! ❤ Such Wisdom… And thanks for your transparency it’s helpful. God bless each of you❤️
Totally loved this episode!!!!!!!♥️🔥🔥🔥💯
Girls you’re putting toooo much attention on being a wife!! It’s really no big deal! It’s a lot of work and the only thing you get is his life insurance policy!😂😂
Not the life insurance policy🤔😂😂😂
Lol, no longer brainwash! Marriage was mainly created back in the day for women so if they got pregnant the man would have to pay up and take care of her! But times are different! What do women really get out of it? They lose themselves to men who don’t appreciate them as their wife or mother of their children. Please don’t mention having children, it’s overrated! Young ladies ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun from marriage, Unless you find a good prospect, and you know you will benefit wether it last or end! Remember you are the prize and everybody or thing is an extension of you! You are not the sacrifice, you are the prize! Get your Education so your fall back will be your come back!! I didn’t do it, and I’m F$Ck!
I’m attracted to men who plot their life course using scriptures and allow me a safe landing place to follow this scripture James 5:16 ►
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
With out weaponzing my confession and desire for prayer and submission