Laterras R. Whitfield Host of the Viral Dear Future Wifey Podcast Shares His Journey | Ep. 201

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  • @nikamoff5835
    @nikamoff5835 Рік тому +74

    Great answer Laterras “you’ll know how passionate he is sexually by how he treats you “ Straight facts 💯🙌🏽

    • @atlantasfaithsmom
      @atlantasfaithsmom Рік тому +3

      I know this personally!!! 😒

    • @nikamoff5835
      @nikamoff5835 Рік тому +5

      @@atlantasfaithsmom yesss me too sis for sure !!! I’ve always paid attention to that. Men who are passionate sexually don’t have to make it known to others or try to impress with it. He answered that question perfectly 💯because really if you think about it…that’s between him and whoever he chooses to be with.

  • @staceygrimes2325
    @staceygrimes2325 Рік тому +33

    The only way I can unlock my wife's heart is to get the key from God. Stumbled upon this podcast and so glad I did. So many gems. Thank you

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +76

    Honesty is telling the truth when asked , and transparency is informing me even when l haven't asked , when l don't need to know❤

  • @Solovelym3
    @Solovelym3 Рік тому +38

    A good gem out of the many that he said in this episode “What you practice in your single life is what will spill over into your marriage”. Listen do the work!!!

  • @NovletSimmonette
    @NovletSimmonette 10 місяців тому +1

    I have been watching this podcast for some months now. I have got my husband to be watching it too. May God bless you and your podcast Laterras

  • @cherylmoore4954
    @cherylmoore4954 Рік тому +27

    This was a very good interview. Laterras took control of the interview and kept my attention. He’s very authentic and it shows why he’s so good at his podcast. It’s great to see a man that so transparent and I love how he knows the wife he wants. This is hopeful.

  • @kishacarney4467
    @kishacarney4467 11 місяців тому +3

    His podcast is so successful bc he is so transparent and real. I watch his podcast religiously.

  • @dominiqueabundance7445
    @dominiqueabundance7445 Рік тому +6

    I’m halfway through this but the interviewer seems disingenuous no disrespect to her. I love how Laterras navigated this interview and provided some great gems as well.

  • @susanakaan810
    @susanakaan810 Рік тому +6

    Beautiful conversation; "you are either the problem or you are choosing the problem."
    "if you talk with a person over time you will definitely know their heart"

  • @trinawilliams3459
    @trinawilliams3459 Рік тому +17

    This why I have been tuned into Latteras podcast since 2020 he is awesome 💯

  • @chosenbyheart1
    @chosenbyheart1 Рік тому +21

    Great show! I had an opportunity to attend the live taping at New Birth for Dear Future Wifey last month. Mr. Whitfield's podcast is a way for me to reflect on who I am in a relationship. His podcast has me journaling weekly. I appreciate this collaboration. This is my first time listening to this channel.

  • @nonapplicable9590
    @nonapplicable9590 Рік тому +40

    This was hard to get through and had some very cringe moments but I tried to stay for Laterras , some questions and comments were inappropriate or just kind of odd, it’s okay to be transparent but how Laterras performs in the bedroom is not something all the ladies need to know

    • @bodyofchristapartof6784
      @bodyofchristapartof6784 Рік тому +13

      It was the cooing low voice trying to be flirty. She could have gotten so much more from this interview. It was weird to me.

    • @candacedawn357
      @candacedawn357 Рік тому +4

      Amen! Hallelujah! Someone else gets it!! 😄

    • @dl2310
      @dl2310 Рік тому +10

      Thank you for saying this! I was put off from the intro. Laterras was hip from the jump, he didn't flirt back, he drank that juice mad quick and wasn't trying to mack. I want to believe she's doing her best but her motives seem impure. Her communication has not caught up to her focus on image and being cute. Thank you Lord for giving Laterras wisdom and self-control even when women do their best to trip him up and make him fall. God, continue to cover him and help this sister put you first and love who you created her to be and live a LIT life.

    • @HollyJames-
      @HollyJames- Рік тому +1

      Hunny Please, Laterras knows the cameras are rolling 😂 you have to know it’s a def story off site. Belinda is not checking for Laterras hunny 😂

    • @francenesmith9782
      @francenesmith9782 10 місяців тому

      It was lovely to see him in another light! He is poised and a man of integrity while being transparent. I love LW

  • @Auntie_Rei
    @Auntie_Rei Рік тому +23

    I appreciate you respecting the boundaries he set when it came to certain questions! Speaks volumes about your character as well ❤️ protecting his peace and safety in his journey to securing eternal love. My first time watching, great episode 🎉

  • @nnekajeffers9975
    @nnekajeffers9975 Рік тому +18

    34:32 I’m only about half way through this podcast and I’m enjoying it immensely. Having annual, quarterly or periodic reviews is one of the most powerful and intelligent things, in my opinion, that a couple can do in their marriage. I love that this was spoken about and elaborated upon.

    • @seedofabraham0149
      @seedofabraham0149 Рік тому

      You haven't figured out that he's playing y'all good Christian sista's? Wow

  • @STLlove
    @STLlove Рік тому +17

    His comfort is effortless... You can tell he is 'true' to this and OKAY sharing his story.

  • @carlabowie6940
    @carlabowie6940 Рік тому +5

    I love Leteras for his honesty and transparency! He is so REAL!

  • @imogenepoole2115
    @imogenepoole2115 Рік тому +2

    Father thank you for Laterras R. Whitfield he is the REAL DEAL!!! Continue to use him for your glory honor and praise his transparency is an open door for help and assistance for the body of Christ. Thank you for such an amazing man.

  • @gholmes100
    @gholmes100 Рік тому +1

    Man of God, I absolutely loved your raw and uncut transparency. I love hearing you express to your Purpose Partner who you are, what you want, and how you will submit your overwhelming love. My heart smiles for you as you await. 🙏🏽

  • @goldenlady1108
    @goldenlady1108 Рік тому +4

    Exactly 💯 Complete transparency is the definition and honest establishment of friendship and oneness in marriage to me, Yesss❣️

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +7

    "lve never been loved like you love me , no one has never showed up for me like you do , and l can't really accept this ",you deserve someone who will love you like you love her "
    We need women like this , respect to her ❤

  • @SHAWANABOYER
    @SHAWANABOYER Рік тому +5

    Love this for both of you. Continue to share because you are helping to heal so many people 🙌🏾🙏🏾 Bless you sissy !

  • @angelangel4476
    @angelangel4476 Рік тому +1

    Great interview! Mr.Latarras....love love love your transparency and passion for God. Blessings on Blessings to you and your family.

  • @africainvesther2.0
    @africainvesther2.0 Рік тому +3

    I love his Podcast, and he did an amazing job navigating this podcast interview!

  • @lexysada6437
    @lexysada6437 Рік тому +4

    One of my concerns is for God to present my husband and I’m not ready - seasons and preparation matters. Amen!

  • @audreyfacey8347
    @audreyfacey8347 Рік тому +4

    WOW!!!!! Laterras that was beyond imaginable Keep up the GOD work bro. The only thing that separates you from your future wife is GOD'S fullness of TIME. I SALUTE you KING!!!!! AMAZING.

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 Рік тому +13

    Laterras is such a great speaker lol so great at answering questions - while considering every aspect of the answer , in such a short amount of time lol he’s made to do a podcast

  • @nkenge2011
    @nkenge2011 Рік тому +2

    This was a great episode. It was refreshing to hear the authenticity of Laterras and the visionary of Dear future husband.

  • @joyousvivaciousjoyce
    @joyousvivaciousjoyce Рік тому +2

    The statements we make like “ I never will be like or want to be like” is called inner vows and become self fulfilling prophecies. We change renounce our confession to align with the truth and walk in it.

  • @theinstructionalarchitect
    @theinstructionalarchitect Рік тому +6

    I enjoyed the conversation and Laterras sounds like a man with a plan but if it's one thing I know about our Lord is that He doesn't respect those🤣When we feel like we have it have it all together we rarely leave God to do His part and it says that we are still self protecting. I find it sweet that he wants to show up as his best self; but know that if God is in the lead then you will always be your best self - it's a natural outflowing of a serious, committed relationship with the Father and that's why He tells us to first "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind..." So if it's God and Holy Spirit; we don't need to know for ourselves, using our own methods to determine if the sex gone be good because it too will come as an outflowing of already understanding how to truly serve and how to submit to someone else🙂 May we all sincerely take our hands off the wheel and allow God to do what He do🙏 All the best!

  • @grandivadynamics5812
    @grandivadynamics5812 Рік тому +1

    This was so enlightening. Continued blessings!

  • @nkenge2011
    @nkenge2011 Рік тому +3

    This is my first time watching this channel. It was a great episode. I have been doing the work in teams of healing and waiting on God to send me my purpose partner.

  • @rhondawade9229
    @rhondawade9229 Рік тому +5

    There's a couple that has a whole series called serving love. I went through the whole series trying to save my marriage! It didn't work but I absolutely learned so much!❤❤💜💜

    • @DeeniceDee
      @DeeniceDee Рік тому

      Thanks for sharing.... The main point is that you learned

    • @msbelindasanders9952
      @msbelindasanders9952 Рік тому +1

      Oh wow! Never heard of them will definitely look them up.

    • @rhondawade9229
      @rhondawade9229 Рік тому +1

      @@msbelindasanders9952 They are Gary and Barbara Rosberg. Divorce proof America

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri Рік тому +1

      Oh wow, sounds interesting. I definitely want to check that out.

    • @faithsrealtalk2292
      @faithsrealtalk2292 Рік тому +1

      My Pastor told me "out serve one another too".

  • @wandasams6458
    @wandasams6458 Рік тому

    Yes, Beautiful speech

  • @nikamoff5835
    @nikamoff5835 Рік тому +1

    Love him!!!! I have to say I’ve been writing to my future husband before this really became a thing, I love to journal❤️🥰 Still waiting on him Lord🙏🏽🖐🏽 Great interview!

  • @cleaningcrew6657
    @cleaningcrew6657 Рік тому +2

    Laterras always gives! Great show.

  • @OnlinewithMathuto
    @OnlinewithMathuto Рік тому +6

    I ALSO THOUGHT HE AND FALON LOOK GOOD TOGETHER!!!!!! 😁😁😁 That woman is a powerhouse for God, I just came from attending her align challenge for the past five days and I'm all the way in South Africa.

  • @nkenge2011
    @nkenge2011 Рік тому +5

    Transparency is vital in getting to know someone. Trust is the glue that holds a purpose filled relationship together🙏❤️

  • @beechannel27
    @beechannel27 Рік тому

    Great episode! Interesting to see Laterras getting interviewed!😊❤

  • @catrinadavis
    @catrinadavis Рік тому +1

    Radical acceptance, I love how I showed up... Wow

  • @attorneyyaidaford
    @attorneyyaidaford Рік тому +5

    He said re: celibacy "I ain't got no tricks. Each day I say "I did it." 😆 Like a 12 step program!!!

  • @mememarcia329
    @mememarcia329 Рік тому

    Such an amazing episode- so many gems, and the transparency….thank you!!!

  • @trifree
    @trifree Рік тому +2

    Great show will watch other episodes!

  • @dnaturyles
    @dnaturyles Рік тому +1

    How many times did she mispronounce his name?... He is a real one. Great episode.

  • @sylviacollier7623
    @sylviacollier7623 Рік тому +3

    That’s what I’m talking about. Toys aren’t people. PERIODT

  • @iamlovesessence
    @iamlovesessence Рік тому +1

    This was AMAZING ‼️ if only more men knew themselves through Jehovah as this man does a lot more of us virtuous women wouldn’t be unmarried. I absolutely adore the God in him

  • @chosenbyheart1
    @chosenbyheart1 Рік тому +4

    I fell out laughing. He said do you want some reviews.😂😂😂

  • @Psalm5110
    @Psalm5110 Рік тому

    Thank you for this healthy, insightful conversation 🙏🏻❤️❤️🙏🏻

  • @travelmyty
    @travelmyty Рік тому +4

    I like the idea of periodic reviews of ur partner...constructive feedback is paramount to growth.

  • @wandasams6458
    @wandasams6458 Рік тому

    Wow this is POWERFUL

  • @ladydiamondt891
    @ladydiamondt891 Рік тому

    REAL talk, 🎯THIS PART!🎯

  • @cxnnevia
    @cxnnevia Рік тому +1

    This was such a great episode! I’m glad I found this channel/podcast I’m going to definitely be binging episodes. I love the honesty and transparency and wisdom that was shared.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +18

    Intimacy begins way before the bedroom , if he is a giver before the bed he can't be narcisistic on it ❤

  • @marrelldorsey8599
    @marrelldorsey8599 Рік тому +2

    Great interview! 😊

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +3

    Work begins with you 🎉

  • @laurajones1211
    @laurajones1211 Рік тому +1

    AMEN!! We are the common denominator and need to work on ourselves to heal❤❤❤

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 Рік тому +1

    I really like when you spoke on the 5 star service.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +4

    You need someone who will help you protect your self 🎉

  • @honeyovermythoughts
    @honeyovermythoughts Рік тому +1

    I throughly enjoyed this episode!! May you both continue walking in purpose and marry well and beautifully!!❤️❤️

  • @shawanaboyer7072
    @shawanaboyer7072 Рік тому

    My second time watching it, and this time I made it all the way to the end. You better claim it Laterras! lol LOVE, LOVE this!

  • @makelmo70
    @makelmo70 Місяць тому

    Really touches me

  • @KhalilahActs
    @KhalilahActs Рік тому +1

    I love the Dear future wifey podcast. I love your show too. I just subscribed. I am married. I watch these shows because I love LOVE! I also catch gems of wisdom from watching too. My husband & I are even MORE transparent wt one another… to the CORE lol. #Lovelanguageknowledge is AMAZING. Keep up the good work y’all. I thought I was waiting for mad long..but I am glad I got married “Late” 🤷‍♀️ #Godstime.

  • @patc.1272
    @patc.1272 Рік тому +4

    Absolutely Love the God in him, I'm a huge fan of his podcast. This is my first time watching this podcast, Love it, subscribing now to follow you also💯❤

  • @dl2310
    @dl2310 Рік тому +1

    I love how he continues to bring up the Lord. Christ is the center of his life. He hasn't met his wife yet.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +3

    Don't only serve outserve 😍

  • @CoachKarenOliver
    @CoachKarenOliver Рік тому +3

    Amen 🙏🏾 I need my husband to be affectionate as well ❤

  • @zoeyloves4ever
    @zoeyloves4ever Рік тому +1

    I love this thank you both for sharing ❤

  • @HollyJames-
    @HollyJames- Рік тому

    LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS EPISODE🔥

  • @thequeenofresources
    @thequeenofresources Рік тому

    The greatest among you is the SERVANT!

  • @jovetajohnson53
    @jovetajohnson53 Рік тому +1

    Awesome Show ❤

  • @rendajohnson2978
    @rendajohnson2978 Рік тому +1

    Enjoyed this podcast

  • @leilag1076
    @leilag1076 Рік тому +1

    ❤I love this interview...and the authentic flow between the two of you. I'm gonna buy the journal and the juice. 💕 💃

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +1

    Eyy let's have quarteer annual reviews and see how our company is doing , w we are lackiing and how we can improve as we go forward 😮

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Рік тому +1

    This was really good. GOD is going to bless you both with your hearts desires.Thank JESUS in advance. Praise GOD now.🔥🙏🏽❤️

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue Рік тому +1

    TWO YEARS ONLY BLOW UP!!!! DEAR FUTURE WIFEY!

  • @naphisa340
    @naphisa340 Рік тому +5

    Why would she ask him if he's a giver or taker In bed????
    I think you could've asked, "how you can tell if a man is a giver or taker?" NOT directly to Laterras Whitfield himself how he is. Innapropriate. Keep bedroom talk OUT of a proper interview. Glad he answered it the way he did.

    • @dl2310
      @dl2310 Рік тому +1

      She wants him.

  • @meeshascuisine8278
    @meeshascuisine8278 Рік тому +1

    Awesome show.

  • @wmenofdestiny
    @wmenofdestiny Рік тому +1

    Wonderful episode and I need to get your book. Can you put the juice companies info in the description or reply to me here?

  • @feliciabranch4424
    @feliciabranch4424 Рік тому

    Great episode!

  • @christiesmith5109
    @christiesmith5109 Рік тому

    This was good 👍🏽. I'm divorced. Not good but good. Lol. I hate divorce. My ex husband married a woman after me, actually two, but the next one. She used to tell my daughter that she needs to go to her ma! She met my daughter living with him. My children are grown and on their own at the present. I've been single and not rushing into having a man or getting married again. My ex husband was abusive to me. He belittled me. He was a good father but horrible husband. Yes, you would know how intimate a man is by how he treats you. I'm glad I realized I need healing and restoration. I'm on my road to recovery. God is good! God bless you 🙌🏽🙏🏽. Love from Freeport, The Bahamas ❤️🇧🇸💯

  • @wandasams6458
    @wandasams6458 Рік тому

    Leterras you are the Bomb

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 Рік тому

    Great show!

  • @towandagardner
    @towandagardner Рік тому +2

    Excellent Interview You Both are Super People

  • @alesiawashington7814
    @alesiawashington7814 Рік тому +12

    Good interview. I had to laugh, because we can trust God to bring us a husband, but don't believe that he can provide a husband, who would be a fit sexually. WoW!

    • @msbelindasanders9952
      @msbelindasanders9952 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂 That Part!!!

    • @afrodity7676
      @afrodity7676 Рік тому

      That’s correct, God knows our level of sexual desire, so He wouldn’t pair us with a tv couch potato 🙂

    • @seedofabraham0149
      @seedofabraham0149 Рік тому

      God doesn't bring you a husband. That is not bible. MEN always chooses his wife, God does not choose for you. Only thing that Scripture clearly says is for you to choose another believer only, to not be unevenly yoked with an unbeliever.

  • @shannonjohnson7657
    @shannonjohnson7657 Рік тому +4

    I love them together!!! 💞💞💞

  • @necholes9423
    @necholes9423 Рік тому

    Great show he seems cool. I see him a little different then I do when I look at his show. In a good way.

  • @teresaharris4585
    @teresaharris4585 Рік тому

    Awesome. 💜🙏🏽

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +4

    Pre -pre marital counseling 🎉

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Рік тому +3

    The other reason why God hasnr presented to you a spouse is because there is a single purpose you must fulfill , an Adam assignment of naming the Animals ❤

  • @lidmontgomery8837
    @lidmontgomery8837 Рік тому

    This is good!! ❤

  • @samanthatette843
    @samanthatette843 Рік тому +1

    🤣🤣 “that’s not going to be MY testimony!!”

  • @catrinadavis
    @catrinadavis Рік тому

    I love a review. I used to do that in the past.

  • @wandasams6458
    @wandasams6458 Рік тому

    I feel you

  • @Sunshine-ht8uu
    @Sunshine-ht8uu Рік тому +1

    Honestly I thought the same thing about Falon. The story about what happened with her husband and his ex and then your fresh situation. I thought God himself was setting you two up, but I kept it to myself. Time will tell

  • @karenmaloney4085
    @karenmaloney4085 Рік тому +2

    That's right sir tell her

  • @48marthakal51
    @48marthakal51 Рік тому

    I loved it!!!!

  • @LadySHAMM
    @LadySHAMM Рік тому

    Let God be God ❣️🙏🏾 For this man
    (HE that finds a wife) 🙏🏾❣️🙏🏾 The pressure is on for him 🙏🏾

  • @daniellemcfadden2357
    @daniellemcfadden2357 Рік тому

    Happy Good Friday and weekend 😊😊🌞❣️❤️❣️ Happ y Easter Day

  • @gckreplayzjr.1871
    @gckreplayzjr.1871 Рік тому

    So good!!! Love this❤

  • @JustStephtv
    @JustStephtv Рік тому +4

    The sexual questions were unnecessary. If a woman was asked that it would be so uncomfortable. Only his wife needs to know what he’s like sexually 🙄

  • @wandasams6458
    @wandasams6458 Рік тому

    Yes baby