New technology, including AI, is being used in romance scams

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  • @jujubees711
    @jujubees711 8 місяців тому +61

    Ladies. Stop giving money to men you are dating. You are worth more than a man who wants money from you.

    • @MeaHeaR
      @MeaHeaR 8 місяців тому

      OMG Thé Ironý
      😂😂😃😃😂😂😁😁😄😄

    • @Inna-di-red
      @Inna-di-red 2 місяці тому +1

      There's more men getting scammed believe it or not

  • @swiftkarma4436
    @swiftkarma4436 8 місяців тому +88

    Folks in real life/person can scam you too. Stay vigilant folks

  • @yinghuynh2280
    @yinghuynh2280 8 місяців тому +35

    It doesn't matter AI, online or real person romance, if someone ask you for money, that's a red flag especially if he/she askes a large amount.

  • @Mike-v4c5l
    @Mike-v4c5l 8 місяців тому +60

    Even before AI, you never know who you are communicating with on line.

  • @Centurion305
    @Centurion305 8 місяців тому +53

    The lack of self awareness that plagues these scams are astonishing... If you know you're of average or below average attractiveness and someone comes along looking like a celebrity, red flags should pop up in your head. Then when they ask for money, that should be the nail in the coffin. It's like going to the strip club and the hottest stripper starts talking to you. We all know what that person wants. If you're willing to give up your money to them after all those red flags then it's hard to even sympathize at that point.

    • @jadecom6
      @jadecom6 8 місяців тому

      Then why are even attractive people being scammed? The women who went public with the Tinder swindler were attractive.

    • @FutureCommentary1
      @FutureCommentary1 8 місяців тому +1

      They don't ask you for money. They offer you an investment opportunity.

    • @tlmas1914
      @tlmas1914 8 місяців тому +1

      DO U think we should use our tax dollars to try and find the scammer? i dont

    • @rebeccaabel4589
      @rebeccaabel4589 8 місяців тому +4

      I think it's both the scammers and victims. The victim because FB warns you not to send money to anyone. Victims whether it's a romance, investment, do your diligence to image search. If you are not computer savvy don't use social media

    • @Me97202
      @Me97202 8 місяців тому +4

      @@tlmas1914. Until they scam someone YOU care about, right?

  • @teddmented
    @teddmented 8 місяців тому +21

    Fraud needs to be punished as a serious felony

    • @DwightStJohn-w1l
      @DwightStJohn-w1l 7 місяців тому

      Felonies don't exist in Commonwealth countries like Nigeria. Nor Poland. Nor ...... and how are you going to enforce it: they don't EXIST.

    • @cemdursun
      @cemdursun 6 місяців тому

      Good luck catching the scammers in China......

  • @angelamwatts
    @angelamwatts 8 місяців тому +10

    If any man asks me for money, my answer is always...NO! I don't loan or give money to anyone online or in real life.

  • @haildrreaper
    @haildrreaper 8 місяців тому +17

    Nigerian princes came before AI… 😂

  • @Iamthenextmultimillionaire4400
    @Iamthenextmultimillionaire4400 8 місяців тому +13

    No to online dating unless you meet that person in person.

  • @cheetabis
    @cheetabis 8 місяців тому +17

    the moment someone asks money from you for any reason is a total scam!

  • @roadracer1584
    @roadracer1584 8 місяців тому +3

    The internet is the worst place to try to meet someone. You have to meet people in person.

  • @h-e-acc
    @h-e-acc 8 місяців тому +5

    Rule 3: you only get scammed if you allow yourself to get scammed. And, again… these scams are not “sophisticated”

  • @elineman7
    @elineman7 8 місяців тому +10

    Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t have any extra pennies to send to a stranger 😂

    • @DokisKalin1
      @DokisKalin1 8 місяців тому +3

      I know right! How do these people have all this money to give away???

  • @ThoughtsonThoughtsandFeelings
    @ThoughtsonThoughtsandFeelings 8 місяців тому +15

    Tell your loved ones: if this ever happens to you, I want to know, and I won't judge you. Please don't be embarrassed - tell me.

  • @nateh3441
    @nateh3441 8 місяців тому +9

    It's OK to be single people.

  • @dianasthings729
    @dianasthings729 8 місяців тому +6

    If people weren't so lazy to go out and meet others in person, the low life scammers wouldn't be preying on them. The chances are a lot less of getting scammed in person, though it can happen. Your mother was right when she said don't talk to strangers.

    • @DokisKalin1
      @DokisKalin1 8 місяців тому +4

      well said. always insist on actually meeting people.

  • @rpliegos
    @rpliegos 8 місяців тому +6

    Be very careful of dating sites and apps, and especially those targeted towards elder people, they will fool you into believing someone is interested. And to be realistic, if the other person is unbelieably handful or beautiful, chances are its 100% a scam...

    • @DwightStJohn-w1l
      @DwightStJohn-w1l 7 місяців тому +1

      My new phone now has a "scam" suggestion; FB and other sites need to have this as well. The software is getting smarter than people.

  • @julesmum9781
    @julesmum9781 8 місяців тому +15

    The scammers will get better over time . Beware meeting anyone online

  • @tazclnsts7093
    @tazclnsts7093 8 місяців тому +5

    I've known this for years, which is why I'm not on dating websites anymore. Here's a thought, go to the store or a restaurant & say hi to somebody. And for Pete's sake, why on Earth would you give money to anybody? 🤔

    • @SarahRenz59
      @SarahRenz59 8 місяців тому +3

      Join a club! Go to church! You may not meet the love of your life, but at least you can meet some friends to stave off the loneliness. As for the physical aspect, there are weighted blankets, body pillows, and, er, "toys" to help with that. 😉

  • @MaxItUpwithMarta
    @MaxItUpwithMarta 8 місяців тому +4

    Until society starts to heal there will be lonely hearts out there to be broken.

  • @Wightman-bi4sb
    @Wightman-bi4sb Місяць тому +300

    Great work Adriannotch- so glad you are out there fighting these lowlifes. We need to do all we can to spare the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers! Kudos to YOU!! You deserve the Nobel prize for keeping us safe big up brother!!!

  • @yellowbird5411
    @yellowbird5411 8 місяців тому +3

    Talking to someone online and swapping love murmurs with photos does NOT equate to "dating." The concept that you are dating someone means you go out together in person to dinner or wherever. Sitting for hours a day sending texts is just that, and to tell people you are "dating" someone is completely wrong, no matter how it feels to you. Loving someone, real or not, that you've never met, still doesn't mean you are dating them. You may care about them, but you have no idea who they are, even though they have sworn to be completely honest and open to you. Believe NOTHING they say until you meet them in person, and if that keeps getting postponed, you are being played, plain and simple. It's better to be single and alone than to be without your life's savings and possibly even your home and car because you gave all your money away to some scammer in Africa who has some basic computer knowledge and knows how to cut and paste poetry, fake pictures and tells you he cannot live without you, every day. Many of them are teenagers who have been trained how to do this stuff. How embarrassing is that? Save yourself for someone real.

  • @MaryNation-rt5em
    @MaryNation-rt5em Місяць тому +272

    As an American I must say, you guys are doing God's work. If only our government paid some fking attention to these problems. *Adriannotch* I am sure you've heard this enough times already but we, the honest people of America, wholeheartedly support your venture and pray that this comes to an end soon.

  • @LanaMyslyvetsPlanners
    @LanaMyslyvetsPlanners 5 місяців тому +2

    Don’t do it, ladies!! … online is the dumbest place for anyone to meet someone nowadays.

  • @susan-7865
    @susan-7865 8 місяців тому +2

    The scammers shouldn't play with peoples' emotions! Then when someone comes along and is interested in the person for real! Real intentions! The person won't believe it because they have been scammed!😤

  • @Me97202
    @Me97202 8 місяців тому +3

    We haven’t even seen any good things result from AI yet, and the criminals are already using it for no good.

    • @thequake180
      @thequake180 8 місяців тому

      AI is a bunch of high tech BS just a tool used by scammers and crooks.

  • @FutureCommentary1
    @FutureCommentary1 8 місяців тому +4

    Those scams are VERY sophisticated.

  • @dagostino5213
    @dagostino5213 8 місяців тому +11

    A situation that costs Americans 2 billion dollars because of their stupidity!

    • @myopinion6092
      @myopinion6092 8 місяців тому

      there are no victims, only willing participants.. Giving the money freely

    • @terryvictor1
      @terryvictor1 8 місяців тому +2

      These are the vulnerable being preyed upon. Some extremely intelligent. So sad.

  • @twentyonetwentysix
    @twentyonetwentysix 8 місяців тому +2

    Better being alone than broke

  • @pearlperlitavenegas2023
    @pearlperlitavenegas2023 8 місяців тому +6

    If a very handsome fit man shows interest in me thats a RED FLAG 😂 C'mon people take a good look in the mirror. Do you really think you can attract 🤔 such a beautiful woman handsome man with that face & body? Don't kid yourself

  • @user-hx7mi7ml8u
    @user-hx7mi7ml8u 8 місяців тому +13

    “Davis the model” doesn’t look like he has any teeth.

    • @VB-lc4xz
      @VB-lc4xz 8 місяців тому +1

      AI is not good with teeth and fingers.

  • @CA-tk8yn
    @CA-tk8yn 8 місяців тому +16

    If you look in the mirror and you're a 5, then seek out a 5, maybe a 6, and be alright with a 4. If some 8 comes along then be very wary. Once they don't meet and ask for money, understand your being scammed. It's like some dude going to the strip club and giving all his money to a dancer he thinks likes him because she smiles and gives him attention. He bought a fantasy. It wasn't ever real. Most of these people who get scammed know something is off and it's too good to be true, but they wont accept who they are, and would reject a person who is in their scale of looks. Sorry people, but stop crying after the fantasy is over. You did this to yourself and didn't want to accept that you can no longer get younger, hotter love interests. You're missing out on great real folks that you could have good times with because you need the hottie.

    • @ADHDpancakesurprise
      @ADHDpancakesurprise 8 місяців тому +2

      This is honestly what baffles me about these scams. The photos the scammers use are of handsome, well off people. First, someone like that has to resort to internet dating? Right. Second, someone like that is interested in your working-class, middle-aged self? Sure. People would rather believe what they want to be true over what actually is true.

    • @DakotaFord592
      @DakotaFord592 8 місяців тому

      Everybody goes on the internet to date nowadays. ​@@ADHDpancakesurprise

    • @user-hx7mi7ml8u
      @user-hx7mi7ml8u 8 місяців тому +8

      The problem is, some people who are a “five” actually think they’re a “10” because of their narcissistic, arrogant ego. I’m a hairstylist and I had a couple of older male clients (60’s) who were realistically not handsome men who actually thought that “NO women their age looked good enough for them,” (their actual words.) So, thought they deserved an attractive woman 20 years younger. 😖
      They had that “Mirror, mirror on the wall, I’m the fairest of them all,” type of mindset, but they couldn’t see that their mirror was really CRACKED!
      I was on a dating site a few times and a lot of the 45+ aged men would put an age range for women to be (25-40.) One guy who was 50 actually wrote “No women over 40 need to contact me.” Again, these guys were just average-looking men, or less, thinking they were really something special and no women close to their age, or their own age, were good-looking enough for them.
      Arrogant, pathetic losers!!

    • @joletty1793
      @joletty1793 8 місяців тому

      ​@@user-hx7mi7ml8u True!!! And if it wasn't so pathetic, it would be so hilariously funny!!! 😂😂🤣😂🤪😁

  • @jujubees711
    @jujubees711 8 місяців тому +3

    What's sad and scary on a Facebook page on New York City a few of us were trying to warn others of fake AI photos.
    So many images on the page were not real photos of New York City, but AI generated.
    And a man challenged me, asking me how I knew the photos were fake? He couldn't tell and so many others couldn't tell either.
    While it was so obvious to others.

  • @carolbrownleehalbert3593
    @carolbrownleehalbert3593 8 місяців тому +2

    It will only get worse if the victums don't delete the scammers

  • @le4864.
    @le4864. 8 місяців тому +2

    I totally understand falling for someone, but why give money? That's a red flag. And let's say you give money once or twice, why continue to give? I don't get it. When does your comon sense kick it?

  • @sandieyahner7627
    @sandieyahner7627 8 місяців тому +1

    I know they say anyone could be scammed🤔I would never give money to anyone I couldn’t see face to face, and not even then😵‍💫

  • @DwightStJohn-w1l
    @DwightStJohn-w1l 7 місяців тому

    Just turned 73. People start to slip (non-linear dementia,alz.all kinds of mental struggles). If you had told me DAD and "HIS MONEY" (he never mentiioned mom and his marriage of over 70 years) would be almost separated by a Theatre of the Absurd story, I'd never have believed you. But it almost happened.

  • @mopes2713
    @mopes2713 8 місяців тому +1

    Total suckers out in the world! This is just sad. I would never in a million years fall for something like this.

  • @truegrit7697
    @truegrit7697 8 місяців тому +4

    These old people feel like James Bond when they are talked into using bitcoin. It's ego and vanity - an escape from their pedestrian life.

  • @GodwinGrant-sg9qd
    @GodwinGrant-sg9qd Місяць тому +118

    The way you guys just remain humble & move behind the recommendation is how more people should move. You Adrian notch deserve it all! This
    Helps people see how much of an angel Adrian Notch is. I'm proud of you man. The Main reason you inspire me to help people.

  • @kogiereddy2938
    @kogiereddy2938 8 місяців тому +3

    They must shut down dating online app

  • @derpycow3916
    @derpycow3916 8 місяців тому +9

    How do you fall in love with someone online? I just started talking to this girl online and nobody’s saying I love you right now. It’s best for these boomers to stay away from things they clearly do t understand.

    • @Cwgrlup
      @Cwgrlup 8 місяців тому

      Ok Zoomer. Not all boomers are so lame they need to date online like your pathetic generation does.

    • @videorocketzmillar007milla5
      @videorocketzmillar007milla5 8 місяців тому

      The Nigerian guy is baiting you. Queen. If u r a woman. Fake pic of stolen person. When they ask for your money block em

  • @ladyfuschia4729
    @ladyfuschia4729 8 місяців тому +1

    How easily we are fooled, beginning in school

  • @trailhiker8063
    @trailhiker8063 8 місяців тому +1

    Emotions blind logic.

  • @beccalove8791
    @beccalove8791 8 місяців тому +2

    Meet people in your own town

  • @AttorneyWalter
    @AttorneyWalter 8 місяців тому +1

    A bit of research should give you all the warning you need. There is agency h£lping a lot of p£ople having these issues to g£t their ass£ts b@ck. Apex chargeback are clearly underrated.

    • @CraymerAirline
      @CraymerAirline 8 місяців тому

      Apexchargeback are doing very well

  • @tlmas1914
    @tlmas1914 8 місяців тому +6

    GROWN PPL JUST BELIVING STRANGERS AND SENDING ALL THEIR MONEY-NOT A POLICE MATTER. TAKE THEM TO COURT. we need police for real crimes not ppl making stupid moves with strangers they never met, did facetime with or even spoke to on the phone! with all the ways we can communicate in real time, if u dont and yet u send money, that is your problem only!

    • @SarahRenz59
      @SarahRenz59 8 місяців тому

      @tlmas1914 A lot of these scammers are based overseas; it's nearly impossible to find them, much less prosecute them. I think banks should be more proactive. They already have software that monitors their customers' deposit and withdrawal patterns. They should institute a voluntary program where you can designate a fraud alert contact (ie, a trusted triend or family member), and if the bank notices your account balance dropping precipitously, they can send an alert to you and your designated contact.

  • @DwightStJohn-w1l
    @DwightStJohn-w1l 7 місяців тому

    Canada's favourite advice handed out by it's RCMP is "it's a Civil matter" inotherwords, it's up to you to chase the guy/gal or gang in Turkey, Asian, Nigeria, Poland. Not our job.

  • @MagaliMorris
    @MagaliMorris 12 днів тому

    Even if you talk with someone online everyday. Online you never met they still strangers! Don't send money gif card or your personal information with a stranger!!!! It is not love it not even a friendship it is fake emotions 💀

  • @hardlessons9732
    @hardlessons9732 8 місяців тому +2

    Good luck. Money is my 1st and only love 😂

  • @gumby7919
    @gumby7919 8 місяців тому +5

    It’s soooooo easy to get free money from these people. The government does nothing to stop it.

    • @akenjah
      @akenjah 8 місяців тому

      How are they supposed to stop it? All these scammers are over seas! The government can't do anything about it. I'm sure if they can they will!

  • @KaruKumar-hf5hy
    @KaruKumar-hf5hy Місяць тому +278

    Thank you so much for taking these recovery’s matters into your own hands. Adriannotch. We need more people like this guy here. Love this! Love from Dude, you have my highest respect. Keep doing this noble work From the bottom of my heart, thank you!!!

  • @VB-lc4xz
    @VB-lc4xz 8 місяців тому +1

    Their own fault. Its wide kniwn now, first. Second, if Elon Musk asks you $150 to buy presents for his kids, or Keanu Reeves $50 to call his mom - you would think it's not true ...

  • @Angelina6518
    @Angelina6518 8 місяців тому

    They just want to star in their own romcom.

  • @donnalowery9039
    @donnalowery9039 8 місяців тому +2

    I've seen the man Kevin on fake Facebook and plenty of fish

  • @lilnike2
    @lilnike2 6 місяців тому

    I called it a long time ago

  • @chaneb8272
    @chaneb8272 4 місяці тому

    If you dont use your brain to think and ask why is this mt problem then yes , it will get worst , the scammers are not the problem here its those people that suffering from low self esteem that are

  • @plantgirl146
    @plantgirl146 8 місяців тому

    Joe Donlon...miss seeing you on the news in the PNW!! Looks like you're doing great 🥰. Such a sad story, preying on vulnerable people. Shameful & disgusting!

  • @crazydaisy1334
    @crazydaisy1334 8 місяців тому

    I agree that this is wrong, but is it really criminal to send to willingly send your money away to somebody else? If somebody’s dumb enough to send their money away, that’s their problem why is it a crime? It’s not like they were robbed they willingly sent their money to another human being. Nobody forced them to do it.

  • @cathleentoure7487
    @cathleentoure7487 8 місяців тому +2

    AI will take our identities 😢 so fast. Freezing your credit reports soon won't be effective thanks to AI. 😢

  • @deborahbaker4770
    @deborahbaker4770 8 місяців тому +1

    It seems to me that as technology evolves eventually technology will turn on us without the help of human’s‼️‼️

  • @hardlessons9732
    @hardlessons9732 8 місяців тому

    I am in the wrong business 🤦

  • @subashkantidas374
    @subashkantidas374 Місяць тому +170

    You guys and what you do is the work of avenging angels. *Adriannotch* Bless you so much for this work. you are young, honest and smart. And you have the energy to do the recovery!!!!

  • @leedebarros7434
    @leedebarros7434 8 місяців тому

    If you dont have my DNA
    You get not one single dime
    I am not judging
    All I am saying it that I would never fall for the any scam.
    Get a job.
    I work too hard for my money
    People please use the brain God gifted you with.

  • @AsRandomAsNumbers
    @AsRandomAsNumbers 8 місяців тому

    How do criminals turn the crypto into cash for themselves?

  • @michaelwells7348
    @michaelwells7348 8 місяців тому

    ~ Sorry Kevin .... Ur photos don’t look very Romantic to Me... U Kida look like my Grampa ...

  • @JennyWren333
    @JennyWren333 8 місяців тому

    Love stinks.

  • @Macsrus5
    @Macsrus5 8 місяців тому

    Stupid mistakes

  • @loreneaustin5304
    @loreneaustin5304 8 місяців тому

    Police shouldn't waste their time. These fools never get their money back.

  • @direstraitslondon6034
    @direstraitslondon6034 8 місяців тому +1

    Weel.....no feel bad for them...

  • @tlmas1914
    @tlmas1914 8 місяців тому

    if i lose this current job, i will become an online lover.

  • @tlmas1914
    @tlmas1914 8 місяців тому

    i cant cry when old ppl believe strangers and send them all their money i actually be laughing

  • @Western_ENT
    @Western_ENT 8 місяців тому

    I don't mind flirting with an AI at all (fine as long as it's not real human) 😌, however, they talk weird, like addicts.. 🙄

  • @Moellmoell
    @Moellmoell 8 місяців тому +7

    *A fool and their money shall soon part smh, you have to be really crazy to send someone money who you haven’t met in person so so sad, time for me to make a fake page and make a million bucks lol*