When You Just Ain't Got No Game
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#badboy
#game
#lfa
The world had me thinking I’m in the wrong for only wanting one woman in my life just like my father.
Having one women is to close to having no women. Once you´re dumped (oh yeah its gonna happen) you´ll have problems
@@redconsciousness2090lol I know of multiple couples who have had a life long monogamous relationship.
Become the best version of yourself and the right woman will stay. Listen to “ The way of the superior man “ it’ll help
I think this is a fresh approach to red pill talk. Most of it's gotten watered down and lacks substance, but this is authentic 👌
LFA has the ultimate Chad facial expression.
No joke
It's overdone, screams insecurity
LFA’s neighbors are blessed to have such a chad looking cool guy walking around 😂 he literally spreads positive vibe by his chillax attitude
@@indobalkanizer6557 Not just that..he also pushes up the real estate prices on a higher level...😁❤
@@calyanmarsh8285he's been doing this for ages, and has broke character occasionally, it's part of the persona
The big brother we all wish we had...
I love how realistic your content is
Your woman should be fighting off other women who are flirting with you. You’re the big G. Attract many, but pick 1. Be integral. 💯 brother
Thank you LFA. This is the most liberating talk I have heard in a long time and I've been in the manosphere for many years. This just clears up so many frustrations and doubts and just being left jaded by many things I've learnt over the years in the manosphere. My takeaway here for me is. "A man must march to the beat of his own drum set" being authentic and living your truth and your values is so understated. This is the redpill we all need to hear more of. Thank You brother
I like the direction this channel is going in. Salute to you sir.
Even tho it's so simple, hearing this from someone else is powerful. Thanks for the insight brother, it's truly appreciated. Motivates me to keep going.
Best regards, an engineering student
This is profound. Men will come back to this video over and over and realize how profound and fresh of a take it is on approaching women and dating them. Not all men need “game.”
This video resonate with me man. I’m a 25 year old black man. I really want a black wife and family in the future but most of our women only want a certain archetype. I’m not a thug but I’m not a square either. I’m a smooth dude and I refuse to change for some extra pussy
good for you my man. Sadly, a lot of women promote the "bad boy" type of men, and pressure us into becoming @holes in order to get laid. It is sad that society works against good men in terms of the reward system.
The good ones are usually jesus lovers. Just get your money up and find one at the gym
@@redken5988sure
Hey LFA, I really appreciate your videos. I never was taught much growing about how to really get with girls. I've been through a lot over the years with medical conditions. After a major surgery a couple years ago that changed my life for the better, it really felt like I'm relearning things. Fresh set of eyes. Like a virgin, if you will. Been working damn hard while watching your content and It's been helpful. Bulked on 70 lbs over two years, dramatically improved my position at work. Life is good brother, thank you.
I simply loved this video, men just need to be who they are , and let the women come and go , because believe me they will, don’t try to change for the woman
And a lot of times, they really want to stay but you want to move on… that’s life!
"Don´t devalue your value system"👌
Fun Fact: The Manosphere is turning into a Clown Show.
Redpill is anyway. Blackpill the only way. Boys just won’t do it. Sad.
Turns out it’s got a ton of guys that are there because they can’t figure things out. Or they aren’t as lovable as they think they are.
FR. Sneako, Destiny, all these fools man..
it has always been a clown show
@@MMA-CLIPS2How did you miss Rollo Tomassi? The biggest clown of all.
Great video LFA. Love from Namibia Africa.🇳🇦
It's like you said in a past video, "game is the imitation of acting like men that are good with women by men who are not". Eventually you have to stop acting and be yourself. The truth will eventually come out and its best to be yourself. May end up with the wrong womam trying too hard for too long
I'm 24 love your content LFA only thing I'm chasing is my career, college work saving and investing.
Thank you for the video 🔥😎
Exactly. What’s more beta than chasing cheap tail for self-validation? The PUA mindset of bag all women at all costs is inherently beta. Value yourself and game comes naturally, better still you’ll attract quality women. Maybe not numbers, but quality. Thanks for the mature content, we need it.
You pull no punches...tell it like it is. Your honesty is refreshing.
This is high quality content.
Better said “healthy “ content
That beat at the end was funny & 🔥
What made you choose that song? Lol
I heard it once and was sold!
@@LFA Funny 😆 that was classic
Wow! Great talk / Finally This Man puts things in Perspective ( So Good to hear…..
Chuck Norris approves
Your channel has helped me a lot man , especially nofap videos. Thx G
Best content thanks LFA
The funny thing about game is it’s important to have a life going on for yourself.
Best outro music ever!
Brilliant video. Sums up what I've been trying to tell myself in recent years. I chastise myself often because I have no game, but the reality is, I do attract women. Good quality women too. Thank you.
It's sad to say, but it takes balls to say this nowadays
This is the perspective that i needed today. Thank you for saving my life
This was realistic AF 🔥
LFA has that Alpha character
Build your life based on good values and never back down from It. ⭐️
This video is different to what I expected. Thanks man
Excellent advice
One of your best
Realest video about game from LFA 🔥
Although I think there must be some nuances to this.
Like, I've known guys whose true selves is just uncanny. Guys might accept them as friends, but I'd say 90% of good women prolly won't see them as romantic partners, so these kinds of guys might need to learn some game (i.e. how to communicate and make it man to woman relationship instead of buddy buddy relationship)
Also, these men can come across sometimes as socially uncalibrated around women, so learning a bit of game (improve how they interact with women by changing parts of themselves) can be useful.
Game is helpful not only necessary but helpful❤
Really appreciate this video. Changed my perspective about things especially ring from the hood sometimes you have to put on a front to get the girls even though you know they’re low quality thots. But like you said I’m in a whole other lane just gotta be myself. Peace and blessings brother
wise words
Youn hear no gunshots, no helicopters no crackheads no chicken heads -DayDay
It was a good day!
A Voice in the wilderness , mis Respetos to LFA
Orale! Arriba!
Real true fantastic advice
Thanks for sharing, I learned about value system today
Nice song at the end
Thanks man!
one of the best videos you have (i'm not impressionable)
Great perspective and thanks for breaking down the value that a man has. I can relate that to my current lifestyle.
Hey LFA, what's up brother?! This video hit me really hard (so much so that I immediately watched it twice - no other video ever did I just watch back to back like that just so I could absorb the message - you really are doing God's work, please keep sharing the knowledge and your perspective. Each of us guys gets a different experience with women (b/c our SMV's are all different, and as you mentioned in another GEM of a video, women each want different things, and you should not try to Raise a women's interest...) Anyways...back to this video, I can confirm what you said is true. I "AM" that nerdy guy who got dropped from the Basketball team, with a lower SMV than you and your friend you talked about of course... but I also had some "alpha" qualities that made me attractive to women as well. I went to school dances and stuff, had some minimal encounters with girls, but mostly just killed the academics and did play sports (like ice hockey and cross country...I didn't start lifting weights until after high school...). I had that nerdy side though and played chess, and watched "Star Trek" on TV more than I did sports...but I could fight as well and was in shape...I always had that "warrior" or samurai mentality and honestly was ready to fight to the death anytime anywhere and wasn't afraid to die or to throw down with other men (even though most guys were bigger than me...). Being a shorter guy if you wanted anything you had to fight for it b/c noone was going to back down to me based on my appearance...and in that sense guys who are 5'7" to 5'9" are tougher on average b/c they have to fight more. A bigger guy who is 6' plus wins without even having to fight a lot of the time ...(and I'm talking like hockey fights or just "play fighting" in high school where you are fighting with friends who are testing you and you are going at 50-75% power, not trying to kill the other guy lol). But anyways, I can confirm that I have had multiple girls who were 10+ over the top hottest girl in the place (at work recently a few times even...) throw choosing signals big time at me, and I was like "huh?" /confused, b/c me being an "average" guy I was like "no way this girl who is a 10 would go out with me," and I didn't even talk to her b/c she was too hot...but looking back maybe it was this situation where the girl "wanted" something different. She didn't want the bad boy Chad who was 6'5" who banged every girl in the school already. She wanted a man to make a Family with who wouldn't cheat on her and would be a good father (aka "ME!"). But I didn't know this hard RED PILL you dropped in this video and like an idiot didn't even bother to talk to her... When I could have had the hottest girl ever and been a Dad right now in a happy 2 parent Family...But it will be single and monk mode for me until I can learn enough of these hard lessons! Keep the Red Pills coming, LFA, b/c "average" guys like me need to hear them!
No money no honey. That’s what I tell myself
then she's shallow.
I just stumbled across your content today and I think it's an awesome breath of fresh air. I have listened to many dating coaches over the years and don't entirely agree with what you say about them. I have received a lot of great information and learned a lot about female psychology andthe way things are. I definitely wouldn't say they are about only getting laid from some bar skank.
You can always spot out the difference between men that women love, and men that use techniques to try to get women to love them.
@@LFA Yeah I totally get where your coming from but that doesn't mean ALL dating coaches have no good content at all to learn from. I have learned a lot about what I was doing wrong in my relationships from Matt @ 33 secrets.
BTW day 9 of retention...Thanks for the inspiration!!!!
Corey Wayne and locario are good too.
I just want to be confident. You right I will never be the badboy but i atleast want to be able to be confident like one.
They pick, “bad boys” because they know this liberal “being nice guy” thing is really just creepy. It’s more off putting to be a simp, because most guys are only being nice to sleep with her. She wants a man that isn’t afraid to state what he actually wants. That’s makes her feel protected, as opposed to be a, “nice guy”, which she sees straight through. She’ll feel more comfortable and protected by a guy who’s actually able to tell her no/ tell her as it is.
This was so good, thanks LFA. I am trying to accept that I am wired differently and don’t want to engage in this hookup nonsense. I am trying to build a legacy with generational wealth, and that can’t be done by sleeping with low quality women. Need to hold out for one with her head screwed on right.
I've been saying for a while now that authenticity is a superpower. I had 2 narcissistic women back to back and it got me nowhere. I had a lot of sex but I knew they were liars and cheaters so ultimately I didn't want to be used anymore. The first one I was with for 3 years and I am not going to lie the sex was spectacular and plentiful which is why I stuck around as long as I did. Even though the ending was mutual it still broke my heart and almost took me out. The second woman I was very cautious with and I knew she was a liar from the jump so I had better boundaries and didn't really commit to her. The sex was good but not as good as the prior ex so it was easier to do away from her after just 4 and 1/2 months. I'm not sure how strong my game is but I am definitely leaving more quickly from a user and a time waster.
You and Apex Mindset would be a phenomenal interview
It's GAME OVER for the PLAYER once he catches a BEATDOWN or LEAD POISONING from one of her Ex-BOYFRIENDS!
Im a man and i approve this message.
Bottom line i dont allow people to effect my dome ive learned.
When I was younger I was definitely brainwashed by hookup culture. There’s a ton of pressure on guys to hook up a lot. It took me awhile to realize I’m a relationship guy.
It's okay to change and work on some things that you failed at in the past
Much better than other red pill channels
Liked before watching again
Brothers
Game on your mouth
Gain on your mind
The things is, women will realize when guys are running game on them they're not robots.
Great to see bits of 'real' America like that street, we dont get to see this in the UK really.
That boy was not a nuclear physicist … he was just a 19 year old who
lost a bet and came on the show because of it… there’s a video where he exposes himself … unapologetically…
Great video also good picture quality what camera is this?
Very good video LFA. One question though, I'm sure those seniors who had their girls stolen from them by the player were also marching to the beat of their own drum. Is there ever a complete solution to not have your lady stolen (becoming a player ect), or could it be that completely marching by the beat of your drum could in turn unleash all the skills you'll need to attract the ladies?
Outstanding!Yep,I've never been about the numbers with women.I'm a good looking man.If I wanted to,I could have lots,but I'm very picky.I'd rather have a few that were great,than lots that were ho's.
Impressionable? Don't think so. I'm here for the perspective.
Recently found this channel this is gem lol
How does one call into your show mate?
coming straight out of college getting married and having kids isn't for everyone
Like attracts like.
agree🔥
What's weird for me is that I have game online, and can end up having relationships with em outside of online dating after we meet - that's no issue.
It's when it comes to talking to or picking up girls in public I have trouble with.
Any ideas how to fix this?
I'm the opposite! Im average online but im slayer irl
@@LFAquite the conundrum 😂 we gotta take advice from one another at this point lmao
Gets exhausting though tbh having a full house stack - trying to break that too, it's a bad habit to be honest cause I never feel like I can fully commit to one of em
I honestly don't know where that personality type of me came from
Same situation lol. I wanna change it
Is the type of women online different from real life types?
@@2DarkHorizon online low quality
I followed you back when you had 22k subs but what made me unfollow you was when you made a video saying, “you need to respect your father no matter what he did to you”. I wrote a comment saying how can you respect a deadbeat father who was never involved in his kids life by choice, because a real man takes care of his responsibilities no matter how much he doesn’t want to. I also said respect is earned not given. Your reply was, “it doesn’t matter what your father did you need to respect him”. That was a pathetic response and this was when the manosphere was still in its baby stage and you were one of the only creators out there people were watching. This was back in 2019. I’ve thought about that comment ever since then and with the quality of creators coming out providing different and better perspectives such as Andrew Tate it confirmed how wrong I knew you were. I decided to come back to your video to see if you changed your view on your old stance.
If you don’t learn to respect your father, you will become him. If you want to establish a true sense of self, you have to respect your father so you don’t repeat his mistakes. This will allow you to grow into your own.
As I said back in 2018, and Tate said in 2021, the only man you should view as a super hero is your father.
@@LFA Tate said that a man who abandons his children is not a real man. Tates father was involved in his life. You saying that you need to respect your father so you don’t repeat his mistakes doesn’t even make sense. I won’t and haven’t repeated his mistakes because of how hard my life was without one, I know better than to put a kid in that same situation. I have grown into my own man by learning from other mistakes and taking good advice. Not all advice is good advice, but you live and learn what is beneficial and what isn’t. Tate always says and this is common knowledge that respect is earned not given. What you are saying is give respect to someone who hasn’t earned it. That was back in 2018 like you said I was 24 at the time and now I’m 29. I have not repeated his mistakes and I’ve become my own man. I’ve had very strong morals and standards since I was 16. I think you should watch more Tate videos about what a real man is, because a deadbeat father isn’t one and Tate doesn’t respect a man like that.
The prettiest sock can still be stiff with man-spunk.
Jesus Christ bro are you spying on my life?
A woman is suppose to like you for you.
I'd box but I don't want to hurt you
Im a black man 41 years old i have no game and i cant get women.i have to pay for sex.
The American Chad.... What a life... What a wife... Pity about that knife
Stop the cap 🧢 jk 💯 dork?? But that is true. Doing you is soooo important 🚀.
no cap just facts
@@LFA 💯
Melli Monaco 🇲🇨 is French. Just F.Y.I bruh bruh. The pineapple show is kinda B.S..
the modern day women can be pumped and dumped by the bad boys and live with their cats forever.
I can be a bad boy forever.
That's a bit blackpilly, lol.
How?
@@LFA By saying that certain guys would kind of never get certain women.
But I'm not saying you're incorrect. You're right.
I have to respectable disagree, this is why. Game is the program that show them why they should be with you. I saw a show called first date USA and this woman wanted a mature man. She got that, in all account he seem decent, but he failed when he said he does not think he deserved. Women wants a man that know his worth. SHe like him but she said she can't be with someone that don't think they live up to her.
She was lying. She just made an excuse bc she didn't like him
Can we clear the air on single moms? Not all single moms need a new dude to “take care of someone else’s kids.” There is a father of the child/children who takes care of them. The only thing any “new man” would be doing in regards to the kids would merely be a “bonus dad” (which is really just all the fun easy stuff). A new dude is not financially responsible for them or their care in any way. Certainly there are those exceptions of single mothers in which the father is not involved; but I believe the majority of your average “hit the wall,” mid thirties, divorcee, single moms are going to have an ex husband who likely gets 50/50 time, pays child support, carries health insurance for the kids, and is involved in their children’s lives.
***Being a “single” mom just refers to her relationship status, not her children’s relationship status with their father.***
I fully understand. I considered what single moms would think (if you notice I paused and thought about my words) but my majority single male audience tends to lean a certain way in that topic.
@@LFA They likely lean that way because they haven’t heard otherwise. Enlightening and giving a new perception may very well correct that. They’ve been conditioned to believe single moms are worthless and carry baggage. Are they not?
I searched UA-cam once under the terms “dating single moms” and out of all the videos (~50 I watched), there was only one video speaking of the benefits of dating a single mom. Of all the negative videos, every single one noted the idea of “taking care of another man’s kids.” The audience is conditioned to believe that is a rule. Yeah, maybe back in 1989 it was…
Now I’m certainly not saying that dating a single mother is the best option for everyone. But calling children baggage or pretending you’d have to “take care of another man’s kids” is not only inaccurate but speaks of the individual and his insecurities (maybe they know the girl would hold them to higher standards *because* she has kids). Quite honestly, men with that belief weed themselves out of the dating pool because it automatically means he wouldn’t accept the woman for who she is, her family, her history, etc. She wouldn’t be who she is today had she not had children or been married prior. Maybe those men are simply intimidated by her life experiences. 🤷🏼♀️
It’s been pretty contradictory watching men tell women that we should “need men” and be domesticated little housewives, barefoot and pregnant; and then turn around and tell us that we aren’t worthy of dating after we did exactly what we were told. Then of course they blame us again by telling us we picked a crappy man. Inevitably it’s all our fault, right? Crazy.
Do men really believe we willingly sign up to be single moms? Do they believe we say “oh yeah.. that sounds fun.”
I want off this ride, bro.
Thats even worse; a kid AND some other dude you have to put up with
@@jimmydamsko6055 you’re proving my point for me.
cool sales pitch. fortunately young men are smart enough to boycott single moms for any serious relationship, the movement is here to stay.
Nice guy. Good message. But. Erm. Redpill?? A lot of bollocks.
Blackpill all the way sadly.
Dude RP and BP were like 2018 talking points. It’s 2023 we’ve all moved on.
@@LFA the women certainly have moved on anyway
@@LFA BP never moves on, it's pure biology
How do I email you
How does one call into your show mate?