Why I'm practicing Celibacy Forever ..

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  • @tiffanywhitman9372
    @tiffanywhitman9372 3 роки тому +1937

    Celibate for three years here. Casual sex brings about confused energy because you pick up other people’s energy in a way that is meant to be intimate.

    • @missalmond
      @missalmond 3 роки тому +28

      That part!

    • @Machelle3200
      @Machelle3200 3 роки тому +100

      Exactly! I have NO interest in having relations again unless it's with my Soulmate.

    • @msboricua4ever
      @msboricua4ever 3 роки тому +17

      Senait Ashenafi well you can have many soulmates and they don’t even have to be a human, it can be a animal lmao. It can also be a friend, not necessarily a lover either.

    • @muhammadkhawarizminazimudd7283
      @muhammadkhawarizminazimudd7283 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah, I support you.

    • @jessykahayaana5575
      @jessykahayaana5575 3 роки тому +19

      I agree. I cut off my casual relationship(s).

  • @Machelle3200
    @Machelle3200 3 роки тому +681

    You literally LOOK Celibate. You have that energy about yourself. You look peaceful and connected to Source! Celibacy is POWER.

  • @farfetched9296
    @farfetched9296 3 роки тому +1888

    Not having sex is GOLDEN. We're honestly not missing out on nothing besides drama, soul ties, and stds....another fact is you'll be more careful in choosing ppl, places, and things that's better aligned to you🙂

    • @CosmicEremite
      @CosmicEremite 3 роки тому +81

      I totally agree! Engaginin sex disturbs my balance and peace. It's draining. There's more worries. I can't with it and I prefer celibacy...it feels so much healthier for me.

    • @farfetched9296
      @farfetched9296 3 роки тому +41

      @@CosmicEremite nice name....I agree. Without sex the energy is redirected to more important things

    • @MsIAmAnAmazingBeing
      @MsIAmAnAmazingBeing 3 роки тому +6

      Right!

    • @meliking1780
      @meliking1780 3 роки тому +5

      YESS 🙏🏿🙌🏿

    • @ilmys1925
      @ilmys1925 3 роки тому +13

      I agree with everything you said except STDs. Contagious disease is a myth; you get “STDs” from sacral chakra issues and stress, mainly

  • @MikelGCinema
    @MikelGCinema 3 роки тому +281

    Celibacy for 5 years, zero contact with women, concentrated on my career as an artist and enjoying ALL the energy.

    • @mattb1568
      @mattb1568 3 роки тому +6

      Same here brotha! Much love

    • @MikelGCinema
      @MikelGCinema 3 роки тому +2

      @@mattb1568 Back to you mate!

    • @real_life2021
      @real_life2021 3 роки тому +1

      bro what the fuck

    • @KShipsAnalysis
      @KShipsAnalysis 3 роки тому +8

      Yes. Find a woman on the same page. And get married

    • @spiritualak5147
      @spiritualak5147 2 роки тому +26

      @@real_life2021 it’s not for the weak

  • @Underhills
    @Underhills 3 місяці тому +22

    13 years of celibacy has made me understand I'm better off without intimate physical relationships. Feeling better than ever. Strong and free. It's for life.

  • @Ichbinrafa
    @Ichbinrafa 3 роки тому +1689

    In a hyper sexual time like this we need more people like you

    • @IamRocque
      @IamRocque 3 роки тому +66

      Hypersexuality has already been present for centuries now you just see it in plain sight.

    • @morgenthau5986
      @morgenthau5986 3 роки тому +8

      We need you also my friend.

    • @katice3
      @katice3 3 роки тому +32

      hyper sexual? people are having less sex than ever

    • @poopbutt6241
      @poopbutt6241 3 роки тому +17

      Must be only the United States because people in japan aren’t having sex or babies like that. It’s actually bad

    • @gotcha9983
      @gotcha9983 3 роки тому

      We all need a break.

  • @razaakeniola
    @razaakeniola 3 роки тому +1489

    This resonates. Earlier this year I made the decision to stop watching porn and practice healing sexual shame/trauma. I am seeing changes in how I feel and how I focus and I’m grateful to have let it go. 🙏🏾 bless

    • @woe6994
      @woe6994 3 роки тому +14

      How do you heal sexual trauma

    • @retaingang7858
      @retaingang7858 3 роки тому +47

      @@woe6994 Semen Retention is one way.The sexual energy that builds up will bring up traumas stick in the body and nervous system to acknowledge,feel and let go.

    • @thesongstylingsoflaradiane5869
      @thesongstylingsoflaradiane5869 3 роки тому +4

      Blessings to you!

    • @ChellyTheGreat
      @ChellyTheGreat 3 роки тому +8

      Amen! God got you 💯

    • @professionalcheekclapper7608
      @professionalcheekclapper7608 3 роки тому +9

      We gotta upgrade bro its part of the journey!

  • @art.bae.hannah8196
    @art.bae.hannah8196 3 роки тому +679

    I say go for it!!! I am a 28 year old female virgin and I am happy loving my singleness.I look forward to health relationships and can't wait to explore my religion as well.

  • @EZENS.
    @EZENS. 3 роки тому +710

    Though I am a woman and maybe it’s considered a whole different thing
    I can say that - I have Been celibate for 6years (consecutively)
    No sexual interactions , no masturbation..
    And even though I am certainly a very sensual being.. (even inhaling is a sensual act)
    Celibacy has felt so wonderful
    And in no way restrictive .
    As a woman I’ve experienced just how very much I’ve been objected to the lust of men
    And as flattering as it may seem to some women..
    As beautiful and deep sexuality can be as well
    intimacy starts with our transparency to spirit
    And truly honoring each other - beyond compulsive notions.. that is romantic .
    And not only that
    It allows us to cultivate friendships
    Where depth and sincerity are at the core
    .
    Thank you
    Beautiful you
    this is one very special sharing
    and also quite a surprising video... . . .
    may your voice inspire the men of today’s world
    Thank you thank you thank you

    • @SarahEvansCunningham23
      @SarahEvansCunningham23 3 роки тому +17

      So beautifully spoken

    • @kaywinter5821
      @kaywinter5821 3 роки тому +10

      Beautiful!!!!💜💜💜💜💜

    • @AsapTwig
      @AsapTwig 3 роки тому +5

      🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Frija_the_goddess
      @Frija_the_goddess 3 роки тому +5

      Love this❤❤

    • @mocti8737
      @mocti8737 3 роки тому +44

      In the 7th year you are fully cleansed of all past partners energies. Can cut karmic ties as well. Every 7 years you are a new being. So no foreign energies in your system but self are there to copy. A return to innocence of self.

  • @thricegreat9988
    @thricegreat9988 3 роки тому +365

    Hmm... This is perplexing for me to digest. Growing up in the hood and being in the streets lust arrogance and pride are practiced religiously. From the music tv social media and even just seeing a billboard lust is being promoted. I'm seeing comments of people going 10 YEARS celibate. We get bombarded by lust so much you almost feel lame and inferior for not having sex. Great topic very self reflective and inspiring I'm feeling the peaceful vibes ✌

    • @Breaktimewithbree
      @Breaktimewithbree 3 роки тому +16

      That’s really insightful, I think people should talk about this more.

    • @embrassersonombre
      @embrassersonombre 3 роки тому +20

      We have to be counterintuitive in todays world... I mean follow our intuition but not follow the nonsense that’s around us. Quite a challenge! And I think a few of us are actually chosen for that

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 3 роки тому +9

      Doing the opposite to what we see out in the world: it’s hard to do with outside stimuli via peer pressure from “friends” and family but it’s worth it.

    • @its_pouring_reign5422
      @its_pouring_reign5422 3 роки тому +8

      We weren't made to fit in. We are made to stand out!

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for being open minded and sharing your perspective

  • @SarahEvansCunningham23
    @SarahEvansCunningham23 3 роки тому +388

    Love seeing a brotha speak about understanding of HIS SACRED SEXUALITY. Coming from a man makes it so much more powerful. Youre truly the divine masculine

    • @graceandgratitude9256
      @graceandgratitude9256 3 роки тому +7

      Yesssss!!!💛💛💛 It's so sacred to SEE!!!🙏🏽

    • @deveraux1
      @deveraux1 3 роки тому +10

      Where are the other men like him? We need more of this in the world!

    • @KShipsAnalysis
      @KShipsAnalysis 3 роки тому

      Yess

    • @anonymous-cx7ng
      @anonymous-cx7ng 2 роки тому

      Why it’s more powerful because it’s a man? You sound sexist 😑

  • @sii9423
    @sii9423 3 роки тому +278

    I like how people who practice Celibacy literally look like their own species of human. A different breed. I need to discipline myself in all aspects of my life but that would definitely ground me even more to start practicing celibacy.

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 3 роки тому +11

      Interesting... What do you mean, "look like their own species of human"?

    • @kunle9
      @kunle9 3 роки тому +25

      @@AO-qg4dk I'm very choosy with who I want to engage with. It's so easy to disqualify people cause you can sense what they will bring to your life before it goes too far. Most people are negative, needy, and not fulfilled and want to pass that energy to you. Celibacy does make this process easier but it all comes down to discipline in my opinion.

    • @gotcha9983
      @gotcha9983 3 роки тому +4

      Yes

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 3 роки тому +12

      @@AO-qg4dk Aaaah..... So what I've been think and feeling is right☺️ Speaking of my own experiences, since I've started doing the work of self-awareness, I've started attracting individuals to me without any effort on my part, and they all tell me the same thing: "🤔 You're different....in a good way" and I thought it had something to do with my energy shift and you just confirmed it😉

    • @urfavweapon719
      @urfavweapon719 3 роки тому +4

      @@danyelleorr-mcneil4711 They just glow.

  • @antiherojourney6344
    @antiherojourney6344 3 роки тому +441

    COVID made my last year of celibacy soo much easy. Almost a cheat code. Now I’m hooked, and overprotective of the energy atm.

    • @nassimmounir4637
      @nassimmounir4637 3 роки тому +17

      Bless up brother ! There is no such thing as negative experience... in that way, covid was a blessing for you. More life brother !

    • @thesongstylingsoflaradiane5869
      @thesongstylingsoflaradiane5869 3 роки тому +2

      Yes!!!

    • @AkiyahJibade
      @AkiyahJibade 3 роки тому +5

      I like that you used the word protective

    • @annabarnat8016
      @annabarnat8016 3 роки тому +9

      "overprotective of the energy" i feeel that

  • @Tinkerbell91280
    @Tinkerbell91280 3 роки тому +188

    Ive been celibate for about 6 years straight now. My reason is because I’m walking my journey with GOD and following his word. So I’ll remain that way until marriage. Self discipline is a blessing .

  • @LanaiahTaylor
    @LanaiahTaylor 3 роки тому +629

    I’ve been celibate for a year now, waiting for my husband.❤️

    • @Zlist1994
      @Zlist1994 3 роки тому +21

      On my way 😁

    • @KatieAJ
      @KatieAJ 3 роки тому +71

      @@BearerofWisdom What if she does?

    • @blessedfavor3299
      @blessedfavor3299 3 роки тому +53

      Ladies protect your heart and do it for you and GOD. I was celibate got married and was completely broken his used GOD and prayed mimic what I wanted. We had two children and was told I was used for a Green Card. It shattered me. Don’t let anyone take your peace.

    • @Truthbeing888
      @Truthbeing888 3 роки тому +6

      You still have to do the inner work.

    • @kbrenaetv
      @kbrenaetv 3 роки тому +1

      yes, 💕

  • @jamisedenari2449
    @jamisedenari2449 3 роки тому +43

    Celibacy is great. Been going on five years. Lust is a trap.

  • @Jayy717
    @Jayy717 3 роки тому +183

    i’m 22 and i’m starting my journey today.

    • @jjay6432
      @jjay6432 3 роки тому +13

      Wow what a big step at a young age much respect 🙏 I started when I turned 30 I'm now 36 and trust it really shifts your perspective and deepens everything.☯️

    • @savant9482
      @savant9482 3 роки тому +1

      Congrats brother 🙏🏽

    • @RelMexLive
      @RelMexLive 3 роки тому +2

      I’m 17

    • @bfree4830
      @bfree4830 3 роки тому +7

      I started at 22! You got this, wishing you a happy and fulfilled journey :)

    • @sister2mysoul
      @sister2mysoul 3 роки тому

      You got this! 💯❤

  • @ExpressivelyYannaMarie
    @ExpressivelyYannaMarie 3 роки тому +127

    I've been celibate since December 2019 and its been the most clarifying change I've ever implicated - its really awoken me to myself

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 3 роки тому +2

      Congrats sis 💕🌸☺️

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      Celibacy starts at birth and continues till death

  • @avrillouis110
    @avrillouis110 3 роки тому +69

    9 months celibate and it has saved my life and you just look at sex totally different. I love the freedom. I love and respect myself so much more!

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      9 months is too less. It should be whole life.

    • @abduwalimuse7482
      @abduwalimuse7482 3 місяці тому

      I agree. I’ve been pure my entire life at 18 yrs old and plan to stay that way for the rest of my life! Celibacy for life

  • @tammya5403
    @tammya5403 3 роки тому +172

    I’m so glad you mentioned being careful with using celibacy as protection against others. For someone that is healing from sexual trauma, it’s such an easy trap to fall into. Thank you 💕

    • @tqt252
      @tqt252 3 роки тому +9

      Same, I don't know how to.not be protective and let others in

    • @snoozyq9576
      @snoozyq9576 3 роки тому +2

      Yea I feel like I'm doing that to be honest it's hard to tell the difference sometimes

  • @GrimFemme
    @GrimFemme 3 роки тому +173

    I think at some point in my early 20's (I'm 27 now), I convinced myself that I needed to be sexually desirable to men to have true worth. And I just spiraled into this horrible pattern that attached ALL of my self worth to it. It was miserable. I was miserable. Until I forced myself to admit that despite becoming the object I thought I needed to be, the fulfillment I thought it would give me never appeared. It was a lie. And it hurt to know I'd been living the lie. So I stopped. The men I involved myself with, I basically said "I'm sorry, but I'm moving on to a different part of my life, and I wish you luck with yours". And that was it. And I haven't sought that sexual approval since 2019. I turned inward and had to ask myself, "okay, so now that you're done asking others how they feel about you, how do YOU feel about you? What do YOU enjoy? Who are you, really?" Now, it's up and down, and that's just life. But I can tell you, I don't miss what I was doing before. Celibacy has been something of a gift to me, and when the time comes and I know it's truly right, it will change. But right now I know it's what I need to do to help me.

    • @honeysucklelanes
      @honeysucklelanes 3 роки тому

      Thank YOU

    • @jamesbra4410
      @jamesbra4410 3 роки тому +1

      Yes you need to feel in control of yourself. It takes a lot of willpower but if you perfect it then you can reject sex and intimacy. I love the feeling it gives me to reject a woman and my sexual urges. I feel in control and the rejection and hatred directed towards me only strengthens my resolve.

    • @laurenalyssa1793
      @laurenalyssa1793 3 роки тому +4

      I completely agree !! so much of my self worth was contingent on how i was viewed as a sexual object. im so ready to be over that 😭

    • @Jackie1111
      @Jackie1111 3 роки тому +1

      Yess

    • @justin9489
      @justin9489 3 роки тому +1

      Glad you woke up. Welcome to earth.

  • @deidrafrazier278
    @deidrafrazier278 3 роки тому +203

    What a relief you are. The dirty energy I caught from a sex addict took my vitality to a new low. I aged years in 5 months; smh. I met someone new recently; we haven't even talked about sex. We just enjoy each other's company. I feel blessed. It's very replenishing and leaves us both energized in our own goals.

    • @nyat5413
      @nyat5413 3 роки тому +25

      Good for you! I was with someone who had no control over his sexual energy even when I told him I didn’t want to have sex he would still try and it literally made me sick and turned me off to him.

    • @deidrafrazier278
      @deidrafrazier278 3 роки тому +33

      @@nyat5413 You know, the sex addict and I weren't in his addiction; it's all the spirits that he must have caught before we dated. When we were intimate, afterwords - I just felt like I had all these unexplainable and dark emotions. It wasn't something I'd ever experienced. I felt drained and empty. It was so strange. As I got more details about his past, I understood the 'sickening' nausea that I used to get afterwards. It was a mess. Never again. Dirty spirit 'd ain't for me.

    • @baddiezone
      @baddiezone 3 роки тому +31

      @@nyat5413 same a man who can’t control his sex drive is a turn off , low vibration.

    • @KaliKali-hv9bt
      @KaliKali-hv9bt 3 роки тому +14

      @@baddiezone exactly. GROSS. Especially the ones who think sleeping with a bunch of women is something to be proud of.

    • @baddiezone
      @baddiezone 3 роки тому +12

      @Kali Kali yes so FREAKING GROSS , why are you so proud to be ran through??? I feel bad for people who are not trying to self-heal or elevate themselves spiritually. because in all honesty half of the world is starting to realize how “ valuable “ we are mentally, physically and spiritually ... I wish I can meet the other half in my city because I’m always coming around guys that are “ sex” Feins they can’t sit around me without trying to be inside me 🙄. I’m sorry but whenever I meet someone who can’t control their sexual appetite I feel like they need therapy and to look inside themselves internally in a spiritual way 🤷🏾‍♀️🗣

  • @FaceOfTheCity.StPete
    @FaceOfTheCity.StPete 3 роки тому +90

    After being sexually active since I was 17, I began practicing celibacy in my early 30's. The first run was about 1 year, the second was 3. It gave me so much insight into my motivations and tendencies in relationships as well as how to read the intentions of others. A lot of healing takes place when you give your body, mind, and spirit the space to discover what true alignment means for you. It gives you a stronger and clearer sense of where your energetic field ends and another begins.

  • @Melisamonet
    @Melisamonet 3 роки тому +44

    I have been Celibate for 2 years now, all my energy is going into self healing and sharing that healing with the world 🌎 ✨ 💖

    • @kym888
      @kym888 3 роки тому +1

      That’s beautiful ✨👏🏾

    • @blackpillfitness9136
      @blackpillfitness9136 3 роки тому

      Nice to hear you’re sharing that energy.

  • @cyber6sapien
    @cyber6sapien 3 роки тому +590

    Not surprising since you look exactly how I would imagine Jesus looked like in real life.

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 3 роки тому +34

      Lol I'm thinking the same thing 😅

    • @TH-cq7bj
      @TH-cq7bj 3 роки тому +12

      Amen brother. Although, Jesus' physical description is in the Bible

    • @babiegirl444
      @babiegirl444 3 роки тому +4

      😂😂

    • @DivineTQ
      @DivineTQ 3 роки тому +54

      @@TH-cq7bj ok it's more similar to this look than a white man they try to portray..

    • @LedePat
      @LedePat 3 роки тому +11

      Crazy I looked at him and thought that

  • @imgroovytarot
    @imgroovytarot 3 роки тому +142

    As a 24 year old young woman, I am starting today. My last “relationship” had me horrrrible in my head. Negative thoughts. Asking “why.” Thinking, the sex is great and I’m a great woman. What’s wrong with me? Why doesn’t he want me? ..... I had to stop that. Honestly.. I know I’m wonderful when it comes to sex, and that’s exactly why I’ll be starting today. I can’t give out my energy anymore. I have to make sure I’m wanted for ME and NOT what I can do.

    • @KenwayDACR
      @KenwayDACR 3 роки тому +7

      Celibacy also means no masturbation

    • @imgroovytarot
      @imgroovytarot 3 роки тому +8

      @@KenwayDACR I think I’m good with just the no sex.

    • @KenwayDACR
      @KenwayDACR 3 роки тому +10

      @@imgroovytarot you have no idea how bad masturbation is for the male as well as the female body.
      You are free to do what you want but i really advice you to learn more about (true monk-mode)-pmo-celibacy.
      The moment you realise the benefits and the importance of this practise you will be among the greatest women that are alive at this moment.
      The ancient indian scriptures have talked about this true form of celibacy (called brahmacharya) for many thousands of years.
      Semen (veerya) in the male body.
      Femine fluids ( raj) in the female body.
      And the sapta dhatu process.
      Learn about this sister, for your own sake.
      Just google the following:
      "How to practise brahmacharya as a woman/female"
      And enjoy your journey towards the best version of yourself!!!
      May god bless your soul with wisdom and shakti!
      Jay shree Ram, Hari Ohm!

    • @imgroovytarot
      @imgroovytarot 3 роки тому +4

      @@KenwayDACR thanks but I’m good with not just having sex

    • @KenwayDACR
      @KenwayDACR 3 роки тому +3

      @@imgroovytarot so be it

  • @shroomgoblin2639
    @shroomgoblin2639 3 роки тому +41

    I tried this with a girl and she wouldn’t listen to how I was feeling. We’re broken up now but I’ve been a lot better in both mental in body. Honestly your words are so true keep up the positivity :)

    • @DanSung2021
      @DanSung2021 3 роки тому +2

      She doesn’t deserve you. Poor girl

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      Don't have girls. Be alone and free

  • @missiemaya
    @missiemaya 3 роки тому +57

    I was like, hold up "FOREVER!?" hahah. I was celibate for 5 years but I think the reasons were more religious and less personal. Now, I am not consciously celibate, I am just choosing to Not to have sex until I meet someone that I feel brings amazing energy and feel of safety to my life. Now, it's from a place of valuing myself and valuing my energy space and not wanting just any old body to enter into it.

  • @firebellybella
    @firebellybella 3 роки тому +40

    Transmuting and channeling that powerful sexual energy into creativity / remembering we are powerful creators ✨

  • @sassebaybe7603
    @sassebaybe7603 3 роки тому +31

    I've been celibate 7 years now. I had a (ex)friend make fun of me for it but I just tell those who know I am celibate that the clarity that comes from it is worth more than the short lived pleasure otherwise. 💖

    • @turismoconmaria6833
      @turismoconmaria6833 8 місяців тому +1

      Yo también. La última vez que tuve relaciones sexuales fue cuando tenía 35 años. Ahora tengo 43

  • @staydiligent7325
    @staydiligent7325 3 роки тому +52

    Celibacy been so hard for me but life’s been easier I’ll run through task like it’s nothing.

  • @reubenbulko
    @reubenbulko 3 роки тому +41

    My longest streak is 104 days, I can’t imagine how much more grounded and present and clear my energy would have been had I gone longer. Currently on day 6.

  • @spottheoddity
    @spottheoddity 3 роки тому +40

    Celibacy brings prosperity. However, theres a difference between prosperity and abundance much love family

  • @thebibafrequency1
    @thebibafrequency1 3 роки тому +15

    It's fundamental to my essence to go in. Being single and staying single for years was the most powerful force in my life.. I found all the answers i was looking for.. 0 distraction 0 disturbances 0 noise
    Just pure bliss
    Many people hide in relationships due to fear of being alone or abandonment issues.
    When you have spent along periods alone you know that your next relationship with be because you desire. The person and not a projected fix or distortion

  • @KenyaMicheall
    @KenyaMicheall 3 роки тому +37

    Can we be friends?? Man, I swear I need more beautiful people like you in my life. Thank you for this amazing video. ❣️

  • @SpiderBRidin
    @SpiderBRidin 3 роки тому +13

    In my spiritual journey, it was never a plan to let go of as much as I have; giving up alcohol and cannabis, giving up meat and focusing on a more plant-based diet, and practicing celibacy. Once opening up my heart and spirit to the positivity of abstinence from temptation, my chakras aligned, my pineal gland was expanded, and my kundalini was awakened... ALL which I had NEVER knew as much about until going through it! I practiced celibacy for over 9 months, ended it once, and now it has been over 6 months since I have felt the urge to break it. The quality of my life has improved so much, I almost forget I’m currently going through a divorce! Sending blessings of love, light, and support to ALL who need it in their growth! ❤️

  • @maiaautumne2167
    @maiaautumne2167 3 роки тому +22

    I’ve been practising celibacy for 3 years now and i feel more connected to myself than ever, energised and have been healing from trauma. I’ve gotten rid of toxic friends, family and behaviours - it’s been wonderful. . I intend to continue for the foreseeable future. I will know when the time is right to stop.

  • @exploringauthenticity5350
    @exploringauthenticity5350 3 роки тому +18

    YESSSSSS! I thought I was the only human who noticed how powerful and interesting celibacy is. It created so much healing, confidence, and manifestation for me. I love this idea of implementing it as a practice! 🙏🏽✨

  • @annstewart4542
    @annstewart4542 3 роки тому +17

    The act of intimacy is an exchange of energies. Don't give it away people. Some folk more cautious as to who they will allow to drive their car than who try will lay next to.

  • @CosmicEremite
    @CosmicEremite 3 роки тому +93

    I love this video! I'm 36 and have practiced celibacy on and off since my early 20's. I LOVE being celibate and I feel so much more inner peace when I practice it. My longest stretch was 3 years. I'm currently in a relationship and was celibate for 2 years prior, and I absolutely want to go back to being celibate. Idk how my partner will feel, but I don't want sex anymore. I crave the peace and freedom I get from celibacy. Sex is not a need for me, and I find it draining and anxiety inducing and I would honestly rather not have it.

    • @meditation4632
      @meditation4632 3 роки тому +16

      Exactly, celibacy is for people who don't need or want sex. period. Thank you for being honest because a lot of people are on here being very naive.

    • @cvg1999
      @cvg1999 3 роки тому +11

      Talk to them. If they’re right for you, they’ll understand. If they’re not, the Universe still has your perfect match out there. Please never feel afraid or ashamed of speaking your truth and of being who you are.
      Trust yourself. Trust your intuition. It’ll lead you to your right path.
      Much love 🌎🌈💗

    • @angelacrowe5575
      @angelacrowe5575 Рік тому +4

      I feel the exact same. So much peace when you're not trying to be sexual with people you don't love. It doesn't seem natural .

    • @Rolandesperspective
      @Rolandesperspective Рік тому +2

      i wonder why you find it draining and anxiety inducing..there might be something there?

    • @JaredLaswell
      @JaredLaswell Рік тому +2

      Do not fear losing a relationship. Sexuality is a pretty big one when it comes to finding a match. If you value the relationship that much, and they do, maybe you can practice an on off again sexual relationship. But be up front, open, and honest. That means everything.

  • @savonlento7544
    @savonlento7544 3 роки тому +42

    Bro this video couldn’t have came at a better time. Been trying to be celibate within my relationship lately but unsuccessful. This gave me confirmation to go right back into mastering my energy and conquer my demons! Appreciate you Hindz!

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  3 роки тому +6

      love bro , good 2 hear🙏🏾🤍

  • @JesusFreakVII
    @JesusFreakVII Рік тому +23

    I am celibate like Jesus Christ. I have one son and that's all I want. Thank you for this video. Physical sex is good for nothing except for having children. Spiritual love is where it's at! Thanks!

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Рік тому

      How did you have a son if you're a celibate?? LIAR!!

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      If you have a child then you are not celibate. Unless the child was adopted.

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      Liar

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      Celibacy should be for whole life

    • @MikeV8652
      @MikeV8652 3 місяці тому +1

      @@plutoneptune He didn't claim to have always been celibate, but rather that he is now, and he can be going forward.

  • @HealThyLivingQueen
    @HealThyLivingQueen 3 роки тому +21

    This last year I was just LED to start taking my celibacy practice very seriously. Others don’t understand it, but it’s not for them to understand. We all have a purpose of course, but personally, I know my purpose in this world has been and still is out of this world. Blessings to you all ❤️

  • @EasyBreezie
    @EasyBreezie 3 роки тому +296

    This is inspiring

  • @TheSolitary1
    @TheSolitary1 3 роки тому +13

    I'm going thru a Spiritual Awakening and it's interesting how clean eating, zero digital/noise pollution and Celibacy all fell in line with it.

  • @fungh0u1
    @fungh0u1 3 роки тому +17

    i never even gave any thought to the idea of celibacy before this, but framing it as a mindful, intentional practice of reclaiming your sexual and creative energy makes it sound so empowering, especially as a woman who can feel crushed under male gaze. thank u

  • @ItsDanielMendez
    @ItsDanielMendez 2 роки тому +17

    I remember when I went celibate for about a month earlier this year and I finally hooked up with this amazing girl but the moment I released, I went into shock and started tearing up. Luckily it was dark and she didn’t notice but I felt like my soul left my body and I was left empty. It was a horrible feeling, was out of it for the next week or so. It was so weird.

  • @idream_spawns_7068
    @idream_spawns_7068 3 роки тому +8

    My UA-cam feed is pretty much all motivational, chakra frequencies sounds and instrumental beats at this point and the UA-cam algorithm connected me with your content. Winning

  • @kenyavictory2498
    @kenyavictory2498 3 роки тому +9

    Yes I totally believe in celibacy, I'm in that process over a year now and I have grown leaps and bounds!!! I'm gonna keep it up.

  • @symphonyonsax5553
    @symphonyonsax5553 3 роки тому +25

    It's crazy I'm seeing this now just as I decided 2 weeks ago to go celibate for a while. This video was definitely confirmation for me. Since I've made the decision, I've been so creative. Working on my music, practicing everyday 🎷, writing etc. I was really depressed and my house was a mess, I wasn't cooking any meals, and for the last few days I've been trying to clean and I've been cooking for me and my children, and i'm learning to love myself.

  • @OpalAuras
    @OpalAuras 3 роки тому +7

    have been celibate three times now, first time for a year and a half, second for a year and now a few months in on my third time now and i can truly say i grow so much in every way when i do this each time but especially spiritually. i hope everyone tries it at least once in their life. this is such a great thing to talk about thank you for making this and sharing it 🧡

  • @LakeishaSantasha
    @LakeishaSantasha 3 роки тому +13

    it's crazy that I found your channel at this point in my life, I'm right there. I've tried 3 times to be celibate for a year, this is my first successful attempt, really enjoying it

  • @ladyhaze7016
    @ladyhaze7016 2 роки тому +6

    Starting this journey! Sex work has made me realize how much I need to take this step….it has also made me realize that I’m asexual! I’m using sex to meet financial needs/desires and it has certainly caused me to pivot. This line of work is destroying me spiritually! There’s just so much to unpack. Thanks for this.

  • @lisarose7531
    @lisarose7531 3 роки тому +18

    Im at 6 years of celibacy next month, I'm almost positive I'll be forever ever as well. 🙂

    • @lisarose7531
      @lisarose7531 3 роки тому

      @Shadarra Lockett 🥂

    • @Sydebern
      @Sydebern 3 роки тому +2

      Without masturbation, porn?

    • @anaaguiar6425
      @anaaguiar6425 3 роки тому

      @@Sydebern 😅

    • @DanSung2021
      @DanSung2021 3 роки тому

      @@anaaguiar6425 what’s so funny

    • @anaaguiar6425
      @anaaguiar6425 3 роки тому

      @@DanSung2021 I'm a 10 years celibater woman, and the funny is that some times I need some colors I my life........ So what is your fucki😍😍😍ng problem with my smile?

  • @ronminor3029
    @ronminor3029 3 роки тому +21

    Yoooo! So grateful to have found you. Been Celibate twice. First time was 8 months and now I’m on 3 years. This time, I’m learning to not be fearful of meeting new women and also just being honest with the gents in my life about not pursuing sex with other women as I have been so protective of my energy and also enjoy the aloneness of the journey. All the best with your journey. One love 👌🏽❤️

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  3 роки тому +1

      one love 🙏🏾 blessings to the journey

  • @kirstythompson9271
    @kirstythompson9271 Рік тому +7

    I've always known I was asexual as I've never really lusted over anyone or wanted relationships. I'm definitely going to continue celibacy. Thanks for this video ! :)

    • @hamilton9651
      @hamilton9651 Рік тому

      I may be there as well. I just no longer desire sex of any kind and want to be celibate always.

  • @felixdelgado1893
    @felixdelgado1893 3 роки тому +4

    I’m so happy you are shedding light on this. As an Orthodox Christian and a former Benedictine monk, I can attest that celibacy is the vehicle to the virtue of chastity. Chastity helps us to remain pure of heart and connected with God. Thank you for talking about this especially in the midst of a hyper sexual generation. God bless 🙏🏽
    Lord have mercy on us and keep us by Thy grace!

  • @deegray87
    @deegray87 3 роки тому +8

    Since I've been celibate for 3 years I haven't been thinking of been with anyone on sexual level im not bothered.i wanna tune into myself and im on a healing journey. I'm focusing on spirituality and hopefully one day I will connect with someone on that level .I dont drink alcohol like I use to. My body rejects it.

  • @JordanDavisJones77
    @JordanDavisJones77 3 роки тому +19

    Bro this is going to change my life, I know celibacy is the truth but I was weak to temptations and I give in. But I know this will make me a stronger man. Congratulations to you 💪🏽 👑

    • @emmanuelimumolen8660
      @emmanuelimumolen8660 3 роки тому

      Jesus Christ needs you. Surrender to him.

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      Celibacy should be for whole life. It's the only way.

    • @JordanDavisJones77
      @JordanDavisJones77 6 місяців тому

      @@plutoneptune False , Celibacy shouldn't be for the rest of my life only for a few years until I'm where I desire to be in my life. To each his or her own.

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune 6 місяців тому

      @@JordanDavisJones77 False. It should be for whole life. Even a second of loss is dangerous.

    • @JordanDavisJones77
      @JordanDavisJones77 6 місяців тому

      @@plutoneptune "To Each his or her own"
      What you eat don't make me shit , What I drink don't make you piss. Keep your feelings to yourself mate I'm going to do what I'm destined to do, I'm not letting what no man or woman say dictate my life and my actions.

  • @StephanieV5
    @StephanieV5 3 роки тому +11

    UA-cam recommended this, being celibate is a great thing, good to hear your point of view

  • @JadeAshly
    @JadeAshly 2 роки тому +19

    I’ve always valued celibacy, but it seems so hard to meet someone who’s not expecting intimacy after a couple dates. It’s become quite annoying actually 😅 seems like kindness isn’t true because it isn’t coming without that expectation

    • @mirabai1977
      @mirabai1977 Рік тому +1

      I´m searching the same type of person like you,and i consider it difficult just like you.Just keep searching and believe and you will find someone.If i find someone celibate for life i will walue her very much..

  • @souluvlai
    @souluvlai 3 роки тому +6

    Sex is healing AND celibacy is healing!!!!
    I’m so glad you shared this wisdom!

  • @alisad.811
    @alisad.811 3 роки тому +5

    I don't know which I love more... Being Single or Being Celibate. Practicing the two, until I meet my match, gives me so much peace of mind. I keep preaching about how I love being single, but I think you made me realize that it's actually the celibacy that I am so in tune with. THANKS!!!

  • @TheMiinouk
    @TheMiinouk 3 роки тому +3

    Celibacy helped me get my power back and literally clean my energy. ✨🙏

  • @halycon4923
    @halycon4923 2 роки тому +8

    I'll be completely honest, I was introduced to things like porn early on (through peers)
    It really had a negative impact on my mindset, I seeked out toxic objectifying relationships,
    I won't say porn is necessarily like this for everyone but in my experience it really messed up my life.
    I am so happy I've decided to go celibate (Not necessarily indefinitely, more like I'd make love with someone who I have a deep connection with in future,
    and if that never happens that's okay too, I am happy and that's what matters to me). I used to be so lustful and addicted to thinking about sex, from a mix of hormones
    and unhealthy sex exposure (An unrealistic, toxic look at the world of sex through porn).
    In the end I started as a curiosity to test out a new lifestyle, now I really want to dedicate to it and I'm currently succeeding.

  • @derjer
    @derjer 3 роки тому +7

    Wow, dearest brother Hindz. Every expression here is so grounded, balanced, centered. Beginning this journey with current lover starting today. Going to sit down with him and view this together and check in on a schematic to deepen Our Love Levels beyond just the lustful and physical. You are gift to so many blossoming lives. May you experience a rich abundance in reciprocation.

  • @THEWRITERSTELEVISION
    @THEWRITERSTELEVISION 2 роки тому +6

    Celibate for four years now and love every bit of it. Just explained to someone who was trying to date me for sex and I had to break it down why I choose not too and in a flash he was gone. My energy is clean and pure and I intend on only sharing it with someone who gets it. My body is my temple and it is made to cherish with a special someone not just anybody. One day I will end it when the right man comes.

  • @TeeVee93
    @TeeVee93 3 роки тому +3

    I wish more men talked about this. Much love to you. 👑💕

  • @JikWob
    @JikWob 3 роки тому +23

    Just wanna say thanks for being there for me man, restored my vibes 😌🤜

    • @SamuelAbongMusong
      @SamuelAbongMusong 3 роки тому +1

      No seriously dropped this video at the perfect time 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 one year celibate 🍾 and more coming until God lets me know Ive met the one.

  • @wandadrees6384
    @wandadrees6384 3 роки тому +4

    With my journey of celibacy ; my other relationships( my adult children , friends, extended family) have become deeper, stronger . I appreciate the ease and find joy in them

  • @TeddyBearFarmer
    @TeddyBearFarmer 3 роки тому +4

    I love this video! I have practiced celibacy on and off throughout my lifetime it’s good to know I’m not the only one. 🥰

  • @dystanysam9896
    @dystanysam9896 3 роки тому +7

    I’ve been ,Celibate forever since I can remember . it’s was a promise I’ve made to my mother & God .who’s went through it as a young mother at sixteen so I didn’t wanted her to feel the same hurt again. It’s been blessing I’m now 28 still I’m ppl still make fun of me , some would try to tasted me . I don’t break promise. I know I’m an emotional person if I did give it up especially so young.

    • @dystanysam9896
      @dystanysam9896 3 роки тому

      @@BearerofWisdom Sometimes , its do be hard I had to talked to God by listing to him made me stop .

  • @ChiefIcyBlack
    @ChiefIcyBlack 3 роки тому +8

    I decided upon Brahmacharya a couple days ago for the goal of Yoga. I watched your Pt1 and 2 just yesterday and now you drop this. I only need to see the signs once. I appreciate you 🤲🏾🙏🏾

  • @Jenajenna7778
    @Jenajenna7778 2 роки тому +3

    Celibete for 4 years. I have been in a very toxic relationship and I needed to heal.
    In the past 2 years of celibacy gave me a strong spiritual and enlightening awakening .

  • @tumelolethule9542
    @tumelolethule9542 3 роки тому +3

    I'm so happy you touched on fear because for the past 2years I think I have been very hesitant of allowing myself to form relationships with other people. After my last relationship had ended in 2017, I started a self love, discovery journey that basically peaked in 2020 but in those years as I came to learn more things about myself and unlearn them I noticed a wall going up more than before I started this journey. I've recently felt the urge to explore and step out of that zone and listening to you made me realize that I used my journey to protect myself from the world. You're amazing 🙏🙏🌻

  • @ilsedavids1735
    @ilsedavids1735 3 роки тому +10

    I watched your previous videos on celibacy. This encouraged me to give the tool a try and I am seeing the benefit thereof. This is from an emotional aspect. Thank you for affirming the benefits and chatting about when to end the journey.
    Really enjoy your videos

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  3 роки тому +1

      thank you for tuning in !

    • @ao1920
      @ao1920 3 роки тому

      @@HINDZSIGHT is edging a relapse or not?!

  • @ms.example9342
    @ms.example9342 3 роки тому +22

    I think in a weird way mother earth is wanting real stories like this from men

  • @sophi-2049
    @sophi-2049 3 роки тому +2

    I am 26 years old and a virgin. Never had a relationship or even a want for one. Thought I was a homosexual for a while because of my lack of attractions but I never had a real desire for anyones company other than myself to this day.
    I know that there is a potential that I will find a pure and true love in my life, but I know for a fact that if that is not my life path to have a relationship then I will be more than happy with that path also. I was born very weary of the world and so I’ve shut myself away from the beauty of it sometimes but Gods love is my ultimate relationship and goal for my life so I will do whatever he wants me to do so that I can serve him and his highest purpose for me

    • @susuperstar
      @susuperstar 3 роки тому +1

      same!! i’m also 26 and a virgin and i found celibacy and how people react to it very interesting because i don’t experience sexual attraction so it’s not really important to me...
      until this day some people in my family think i’m lesbian because they think i’m not interested in men... when in fact i’m not interested in having sex with anybody lol
      have you ever heard about asexual spectrum? or aromantic people? maybe u could identify with it :)

    • @sophi-2049
      @sophi-2049 3 роки тому +2

      @@susuperstar thank you so much for your comment Suelen :)

  • @indiahackle6123
    @indiahackle6123 3 роки тому +2

    I've never heard of celibacy as an energy practice- this is so freeing. Thank you!

  • @rabingautam7776
    @rabingautam7776 3 роки тому +19

    After going celebate I realise I was missing out on so many things,,,

  • @roehennix7839
    @roehennix7839 3 роки тому +3

    the timing of finding this video is so unreal.thank u. counting today as day one.. wish me luck

  • @beckalee7942
    @beckalee7942 3 роки тому +2

    Yessss i totally love this omg... ive done 4 years now, now going on a year onwards again!!! It helps so much to bring all your focus and energy back in n help you be humble... and enrichen your relationship with yourself...

  • @mildredfranklin830
    @mildredfranklin830 Рік тому +1

    If you give your body to any and everything and everybody you don't care are love yourself

  • @mamamia663
    @mamamia663 3 роки тому +3

    I've been celibate for 5 years it's so amazing and I love the self cleansing period of it all

  • @colleanslife
    @colleanslife 3 роки тому +6

    This is amazing! I feel everyone should try celibacy at some point.

  • @empowerlovegrow
    @empowerlovegrow 3 роки тому +2

    I’m celibate and the practice can teach you soooo much about yourself! Trying loving and honoring all of you! Thanks for the share! 💓✨

  • @danpartridge8584
    @danpartridge8584 Рік тому +1

    I haven't been intimate since college. A little over 10 years at this point -- not even because I was actively trying anything out. Life just happened. I aligned myself with work, caring for my Mom (who passed in 2018 after a long illness), and not making a big deal out of dating. I love talking to those people who advise me that love will find me when I least expect it. I tell them that I haven't been expecting it for over a decade and then I watch the color drain from their faces 🤣 be well. Have fun 🤘 Life is what you make of it.

  • @AwkMind
    @AwkMind 3 роки тому +4

    I was directed to this channel somehow, everything you talk about resonates.. Thank you. Celibate 5 months in. Committed to stay that way all year long.

  • @SeanDiego
    @SeanDiego 3 роки тому +11

    Much respect brother. For me personally, not an option. I love interacting with women on a spiritual and physical level. My top 3 passions in life, feminine energy, self love, and spiritual growth.

  • @alexusparsley6996
    @alexusparsley6996 3 роки тому +1

    “Let’s build, let’s focus, create”.... “it’s all about intention” my sentiments exactly! You are sharing amazing energy. Grateful I aligned ✨💕🙌🏾

  • @Holspiritjournalsnthings
    @Holspiritjournalsnthings 3 роки тому +2

    I love this! I practiced celibacy for 7 years and now 2 1/2 years by choice. Making a conscious decision to be celibate is more about inner intimacy, growth, refinement, healing and etc. It’s grounding and empowering. It reconnects one to higher self and surrounding. I love it! ❤️🙏🏿❤️We become whole when we pull ourselves into ourselves. This is what celibacy is teaching me.

  • @queenra3571
    @queenra3571 3 роки тому +10

    This video was very inspirational, I’m 43 with a 14 year old and a 1 year old. Single mother tired of making bad decision, have been celibate for a year and plan on many more years of it, goal is to focus on myself and become the light of the world. Learning my name Ra and learning my purpose and just getting my energy right and getting my children right and being a better example for them, and getting my eating life together. Wanting to start vegetarian then going to vegan. Raising my daughter as a vegetarian currently and just wanting to teach her how to keep her energy positive and learn her self.

  • @lossodon8989
    @lossodon8989 3 роки тому +8

    Les Brown taught me O.Q.P only quality people. Gotta surround yourself with the right people

  • @joannacardoso1115
    @joannacardoso1115 3 роки тому +1

    Dealing with mental health issues. Most of us are. Your videos stop me in my tracks. When my mind can’t stop spinning and I can’t sit myself down, the atmosphere you create in your videos takes me straight out of that chaotic state and it brings about a new sense of urgency for my soul; one of peace and a need for tea. Lol. I was spiraling already this morning but now here I am making myself a soothing cup of tea, feeling soul-fed... your voice forces me out of that dreadful, stressed-out state. Thank you. Thank you for your creations here on UA-cam and wherever else you are blessing others with your presence and positive messages!

  • @lovepeacetrust22
    @lovepeacetrust22 3 роки тому +1

    This is a lovely message. For me, celibacy is not challenging. My truest desire is to reconnect with my highest power and to elevate my essence as a creator. I’m pulling this energy within myself. Self mastery is key. And listening to our intuition and wisdom.

  • @THEBATCAVE.
    @THEBATCAVE. 3 роки тому +3

    I’ve been sexually celibate for 2 years and some change now. I don’t know when I’ll end it but it’s taught me how to be more disciplined and knowing what or when something will serve me. It's taught me how to think things through for my betterment.

  • @Crossfoxcoon
    @Crossfoxcoon 3 роки тому +2

    You've got such a smooth vibe! You're like a modern-day chill-hop brahmachari. Respects! 👊🕉🧡

  • @cocoalampkins8838
    @cocoalampkins8838 3 роки тому +1

    I can relate. I have been celibate for 4.5 years. I became aware of my Spiritual Journey on 12.31.18. This has been the most rewarding experience. I have healed so much and expanded so much. Like you said the focus is totally on connecting with my higher self and evolving. I am totally open to a balanced connection and I just flow and allow the experiences to arrive by remaining balanced and grounded. Your channel is so refreshing. I am so glad I found it and subscribed. You keep us engaged. TY. Namaste Beautiful Soul. 💜

  • @theegoldenlotusreflections
    @theegoldenlotusreflections 3 роки тому +2

    You’ve visited me a few times in my dreams, since I came I across your channel a few weeks ago. The context of the dreams were quite interesting, but I feel it was my subconscious way of getting me to pay attention to you. The words and experiences you have shared with us through your videos has surely helped me along my journey. I’ll admit at first, I wasn’t sold when watching whatever video it was I saw of yours first😂 But as I continued, things began to resonate more and more. But now listening to your inspiring celibacy journey solidifies for me the divine lead me here. I know for a fact UA-cams algorithm isn’t all that great! Much blessing and love to you Hindz, thank you💛💛

  • @kinzetta123
    @kinzetta123 3 роки тому +2

    Not having sex literally shifts my focus and energy to create and do more in the world. I notice myself performing better at work, having clearer thoughts, I take my time during certain tasks and so much more. It's so refreshing 😌

    • @jamesbra4410
      @jamesbra4410 3 роки тому +2

      Yes, it helped me get promoted at my job now everyone wants to be my friend and come on to me since I'm the boss. They think that I'm weird because I reject their emotional manipulations, so misguided the sex-crazed sheep are.